WEBVTT - THE FULL SHOW: The Red Flags 0:00:00.560 --> 0:00:02.000 From Hollywood to you. 0:00:02.279 --> 0:00:06.600 Thank you for listening to us on air with a 0:00:06.720 --> 0:00:07.600 Ryan Seacrest. 0:00:09.280 --> 0:00:13.160 I'll tell you, as a dog father, it is fantastic 0:00:13.200 --> 0:00:15.880 to have great weather to be taking the dogs out, 0:00:16.079 --> 0:00:18.279 because it's a disaster when it's. 0:00:19.760 --> 0:00:23.599 Speak muddy. I know it's muddy and wet. 0:00:23.600 --> 0:00:25.759 Oh, I don't even say it, because I like to. 0:00:25.800 --> 0:00:27.800 Let the dogs play in the bed and their little 0:00:27.840 --> 0:00:30.720 muddy paws get all over my sheets and then they 0:00:30.720 --> 0:00:32.280 touch my pillow and then I think to myself, Okay, 0:00:32.280 --> 0:00:33.800 now I'm gonna get its on my cheek when I 0:00:33.880 --> 0:00:34.400 fall asleep. 0:00:34.640 --> 0:00:40.120 Yeah, or worse pink eye, oh yeah, or the sty Yeah. 0:00:40.280 --> 0:00:40.880 I don't want. 0:00:42.479 --> 0:00:43.479 No one at the stye. 0:00:43.960 --> 0:00:46.159 But it's just been pleasurable to be like in the 0:00:46.240 --> 0:00:49.000 evening with the sun up a little bit later. Right, 0:00:49.159 --> 0:00:51.800 sun's up, almost my bedtime, taking the dogs out for 0:00:51.840 --> 0:00:52.720 that last party. 0:00:52.479 --> 0:00:57.120 Pe or pooh. It's nice. It's actually very nice ceremony. 0:00:57.120 --> 0:01:04.440 More people are well, good morning, good morning, good morning. 0:01:04.880 --> 0:01:06.759 It's gonna beautiful. As I was saying, sunny with highs 0:01:06.760 --> 0:01:11.720 around eighty nearly ninety Inland. Uh, how is your evening, Systey? 0:01:12.120 --> 0:01:13.640 It was pleasant? 0:01:13.959 --> 0:01:17.640 You know what Michael made my mom's recipe of albondigas 0:01:17.680 --> 0:01:20.200 soup for us last night and surprised the whole family 0:01:20.240 --> 0:01:20.480 with it. 0:01:22.160 --> 0:01:24.240 What what's your mom's recipe? Why is it different? I 0:01:24.240 --> 0:01:24.560 don't know. 0:01:24.600 --> 0:01:27.200 I mean it tastes like a albondiga soup, but it's 0:01:27.640 --> 0:01:31.160 it's different. I think it's like less oily and it's healthier, 0:01:31.360 --> 0:01:35.000 you know, but it just tastes exactly like how she 0:01:35.160 --> 0:01:37.959 cooked it when we were kids. So, and it's funny 0:01:38.000 --> 0:01:41.600 because whenever we do soup for dinner, it's a struggle 0:01:41.640 --> 0:01:44.160 to feed the kids, like a healthy soup, you know, 0:01:44.160 --> 0:01:47.039 because they want macaroni and cheese, So we have to 0:01:47.080 --> 0:01:49.200 really sit there and like spoon feed them. 0:01:49.240 --> 0:01:51.520 But they'll finish it and then we're done and then 0:01:51.520 --> 0:01:51.960 I can get. 0:01:51.880 --> 0:01:54.000 Well, you know, they'll go through faces because I remember 0:01:54.080 --> 0:01:55.720 when there were faces where I wouldn't eat soup, then 0:01:55.720 --> 0:01:57.440 I love soup. They faces I wouldn't eat meat, then 0:01:57.440 --> 0:01:59.560 I eat meat. They're just they're they're faceable. I actually 0:01:59.600 --> 0:02:00.960 did something I love to do that is go to 0:02:01.000 --> 0:02:04.240 the grocery store and buy package things for my dinner. 0:02:04.800 --> 0:02:07.120 So I went through, uh, you know, just like buy 0:02:07.160 --> 0:02:09.440 a handful of things that make no sense. I got 0:02:09.440 --> 0:02:12.639 almond butter, I bought berries, I bought nuts, I bought 0:02:12.680 --> 0:02:15.560 like kind of these healthy crackers. I bought some hummus, 0:02:15.760 --> 0:02:17.600 and I bought a green soup and that was my dinner. 0:02:17.760 --> 0:02:18.079 Nice. 0:02:18.200 --> 0:02:19.280 That's like snacks. 0:02:20.520 --> 0:02:22.400 I know, I like snacks for dinner. Sometimes I'm in 0:02:22.400 --> 0:02:23.400 the mood like I just want to stop at the 0:02:23.400 --> 0:02:24.480 store and get snacks for dinner. 0:02:24.480 --> 0:02:26.080 I thought you were going to say, like ingredients, Like 0:02:26.120 --> 0:02:28.400 I was like, I bought three shallots the other day 0:02:28.560 --> 0:02:30.320 and some pinchette that and I was like, I'm going 0:02:30.400 --> 0:02:32.799 to maybe make some sort of pasta dish with this eventually, 0:02:32.840 --> 0:02:33.320 and I did. 0:02:34.320 --> 0:02:36.120 And mushrooms. I threw mushrooms. 0:02:36.720 --> 0:02:38.720 You made pinchetta. You bought pinchetta Like. 0:02:38.720 --> 0:02:41.200 Hey, they was like already like chopped up in package 0:02:41.200 --> 0:02:41.919 at Trader Joe's. 0:02:42.080 --> 0:02:43.919 Hey, guys, take a look at the call screen. Brett 0:02:43.960 --> 0:02:46.040 is there in Los Angeles. Hey Brett, what's up? 0:02:46.040 --> 0:02:49.120 Brother? Thanks for reaching out. How are you hey? 0:02:49.200 --> 0:02:49.640 Doing okay? 0:02:49.720 --> 0:02:53.839 How are you doing well? Just you know, getting it done, 0:02:53.919 --> 0:02:54.440 rolling through it. 0:02:54.520 --> 0:02:56.480 So you are calling about your friend who keeps bringing 0:02:56.520 --> 0:02:59.560 his wife and baby with him every time you guys 0:02:59.600 --> 0:02:59.960 hang out. 0:03:01.360 --> 0:03:04.440 Yeah, yeah, yeah, so this is, uh mind you like 0:03:04.560 --> 0:03:06.560 a guy's night. Like we've been doing this for a 0:03:06.600 --> 0:03:10.960 long time now. And my my buddy, he and his 0:03:11.000 --> 0:03:14.720 wife who we all love, like all the guys and 0:03:14.760 --> 0:03:16.880 I get along with her really well. But they just 0:03:16.919 --> 0:03:19.400 had a baby like eight months ago or something like that. 0:03:19.280 --> 0:03:19.760 And. 0:03:21.080 --> 0:03:24.800 They bring the baby and his wife comes along as well, 0:03:25.160 --> 0:03:27.200 so it gets pretty rowdy and like I've got a 0:03:27.240 --> 0:03:30.600 young dog, and the baby cries and the puppy cries 0:03:31.680 --> 0:03:35.680 and it gets really really hairy. So yeah, I don't know. 0:03:35.720 --> 0:03:39.640 We love we love her, like I said, but it 0:03:39.640 --> 0:03:42.480 it gets kind of it gets kind of uh crazy, 0:03:42.680 --> 0:03:44.600 which made my dog bark, and like I said, it's 0:03:44.640 --> 0:03:48.200 just it's just like this like chaotic time when it 0:03:48.240 --> 0:03:50.520 was supposed to be like the guy's hanging out, you know. 0:03:52.160 --> 0:03:54.200 So yeah, I don't know what would you do in 0:03:54.200 --> 0:03:56.720 this situation because we don't want to like we do, 0:03:56.840 --> 0:03:58.520 we do love her, and like we do want like 0:03:58.880 --> 0:04:01.440 to be friends still and every thing, but like and 0:04:01.480 --> 0:04:04.360 we don't want to be rude, but like we don't 0:04:04.760 --> 0:04:07.880 want to like not have a guy's night. 0:04:08.000 --> 0:04:10.360 You know, I gotta go to sysany on this one. 0:04:11.240 --> 0:04:13.880 Well, you need to maybe just set some ground rules 0:04:14.200 --> 0:04:17.440 on the expectations of your evening. So if it's gonna 0:04:17.440 --> 0:04:19.080 be a guy's night, you have to call it that, 0:04:19.160 --> 0:04:20.960 and you have to tell your buddy, Hey, it's just 0:04:21.040 --> 0:04:22.080 the guys tonight. 0:04:22.560 --> 0:04:24.720 If it's a hang at your house. 0:04:25.640 --> 0:04:29.080 Then why are you gonna like not have him bring 0:04:29.080 --> 0:04:30.920 his wife or he wants to bring the whole family 0:04:30.960 --> 0:04:31.440 type of thing. 0:04:31.640 --> 0:04:33.000 That's like that's his crew. 0:04:33.120 --> 0:04:37.039 Now can you ask some of the other bros to 0:04:37.120 --> 0:04:39.760 bring their significant others? So then maybe like you guys. 0:04:39.640 --> 0:04:42.360 Can not what they want though, right, well. 0:04:42.040 --> 0:04:45.640 Maybe then your significant others can hang and play a 0:04:45.680 --> 0:04:47.280 game while you guys watch the game. 0:04:48.120 --> 0:04:51.279 It's interesting he doesn't read the cues on this, Like 0:04:51.360 --> 0:04:52.240 I've done that before. 0:04:52.520 --> 0:04:55.400 Like, uh, Robbie will be doing like a guy's thing, 0:04:55.680 --> 0:04:57.400 and he has a wife that I really like, and 0:04:57.440 --> 0:04:59.600 so sometimes when they go, they'll go do their thing 0:04:59.760 --> 0:05:02.600 and like she and I will play like remy Cubans. 0:05:02.720 --> 0:05:08.520 I think, I say, she and I will play. 0:05:07.400 --> 0:05:09.040 Big cakes but pretend cakes. 0:05:09.200 --> 0:05:15.200 Yeah, yeah, Brett, I mean, look, I think on this one, 0:05:15.560 --> 0:05:17.120 maybe there are some ways for you to nudge it 0:05:17.120 --> 0:05:19.680 in the direction you want to go without offending, right. 0:05:19.560 --> 0:05:21.400 Or you can be petty and bring your puppy to 0:05:21.440 --> 0:05:24.880 their house when they invite you over. 0:05:25.320 --> 0:05:25.960 Is that frown upon? 0:05:26.120 --> 0:05:26.320 Yeah? 0:05:26.320 --> 0:05:28.400 I think I think yeah, maybe just maybe just like 0:05:28.440 --> 0:05:30.760 not delineate, like this is guys night. 0:05:31.000 --> 0:05:32.919 I think, so I'll be clear, and then they go, oh, 0:05:33.040 --> 0:05:34.560 you know, IM sorry, bro, I was just not I 0:05:34.600 --> 0:05:37.120 wasn't thinking are Yeah, I got you. I think there's 0:05:37.120 --> 0:05:39.360 a way to handle this so that you don't, you know, 0:05:39.600 --> 0:05:42.799 ruffle the feathers of that family too. Thanks for listening 0:05:42.800 --> 0:05:44.760 to us, Thanks for calling about that. I feel like 0:05:44.760 --> 0:05:47.560 this move was just yesterday that you and Michael and 0:05:47.600 --> 0:05:49.600 the family moved into your new place. And now is 0:05:49.640 --> 0:05:52.320 this the first warm weather season that you experienced in 0:05:52.360 --> 0:05:52.800 the new place? 0:05:52.880 --> 0:05:54.280 Yeah, I feel you've lived there for a long time. 0:05:54.320 --> 0:05:56.599 Well, we closed escrow right towards the end of summer. 0:05:56.640 --> 0:05:59.520 It was like September fifteenth, and then it just went 0:05:59.520 --> 0:06:01.640 straight into the holidays. It was like Halloween and we 0:06:01.720 --> 0:06:05.760 got the big twelve foot skeleton and Christmas and so 0:06:05.880 --> 0:06:08.479 now here we are in spring, and I'm starting to 0:06:08.480 --> 0:06:10.120 realize that we have a fly problem. 0:06:11.560 --> 0:06:13.120 Zip it out, like major ill. 0:06:14.279 --> 0:06:14.760 Zip it up. 0:06:14.800 --> 0:06:16.480 What do you mean, like zip them up in the bags? 0:06:16.600 --> 0:06:19.160 Got it? Fly problem for me is intter of fact. 0:06:19.200 --> 0:06:21.080 Someone told me, yes, stay my fly. That was great. 0:06:21.440 --> 0:06:22.080 It happens. 0:06:22.560 --> 0:06:23.360 It happens anyway. 0:06:23.440 --> 0:06:25.280 So these are flies, these are the big flies. They 0:06:25.360 --> 0:06:26.520 just get in your face, they. 0:06:26.360 --> 0:06:27.080 Get that food. 0:06:27.320 --> 0:06:29.080 They're not good on my watermelon, They're not good on 0:06:29.120 --> 0:06:29.560 my fruits. 0:06:29.640 --> 0:06:32.600 And they're just like hovering in my outdoor patio area. 0:06:32.839 --> 0:06:34.920 And I we thought maybe it was because we had 0:06:34.960 --> 0:06:36.320 like we used to have, like it was a cover 0:06:36.400 --> 0:06:37.840 trash can. So we're like, okay, let's get that out 0:06:37.880 --> 0:06:40.960 of the way. That's not doing the trick. And when 0:06:41.000 --> 0:06:43.719 we moved in, you know, we have two avocado trees 0:06:44.560 --> 0:06:48.680 and one of them had a fly bag thing hanging 0:06:48.680 --> 0:06:50.360 from it when we first moved in, and I was like, 0:06:50.360 --> 0:06:53.400 oh my god, that thing stings. So I told Michael 0:06:53.400 --> 0:06:56.200 to get rid of it, and he did. But there 0:06:56.279 --> 0:06:59.600 was a reason why that was probably there. And so 0:06:59.600 --> 0:07:01.640 I'm doing all this research and this is almost like 0:07:01.680 --> 0:07:04.800 a help to anybody that can call me and help 0:07:04.880 --> 0:07:06.479 me with this, because I know that we've had callers 0:07:06.480 --> 0:07:09.360 call in like that have all the totto farms, yeah, 0:07:09.440 --> 0:07:12.240 or they like they have like horses and stuff in 0:07:12.280 --> 0:07:15.640 their back a caddie exactly, Like, how do you get 0:07:15.720 --> 0:07:18.120 rid of flies? Because I'm buying this stuff off to Amazon, 0:07:18.120 --> 0:07:19.160 and I don't know if it's gonna work. 0:07:19.360 --> 0:07:21.120 Well, a couple of things here, number one. At least 0:07:21.120 --> 0:07:23.600 it's not mosquitos. Those will come to number two. 0:07:23.840 --> 0:07:26.160 But I've bought these little like mosquito things and hopefully 0:07:26.240 --> 0:07:26.680 that works. 0:07:26.800 --> 0:07:28.240 Well, let's see, but those are worse. 0:07:28.320 --> 0:07:31.600 Those kids in my they get somehow mosquitos know what 0:07:31.720 --> 0:07:34.640 time I'm going to bed and they are waiting for me. 0:07:34.640 --> 0:07:35.440 To tuck me in. 0:07:35.600 --> 0:07:37.440 This there was one in my room last night. 0:07:37.760 --> 0:07:40.040 Number two, Wait till you get all the ants coming 0:07:40.040 --> 0:07:40.880 out of the counter. 0:07:40.680 --> 0:07:41.040 In the wall. 0:07:41.120 --> 0:07:42.840 Oh, we've dealt with that already. 0:07:42.920 --> 0:07:44.600 When it gets hot. I mean I live in an 0:07:44.600 --> 0:07:45.120 ant farm. 0:07:45.280 --> 0:07:47.960 Yeah, we've dealt with that. It's so crazy kind of 0:07:48.000 --> 0:07:50.360 just discovering. 0:07:48.600 --> 0:07:51.400 How well it's the heat heat brings out. I mean, 0:07:51.440 --> 0:07:54.600 there are so many ants marching coming out of walls, 0:07:54.720 --> 0:07:57.920 cracked everywhere when heat comes out. But if you are 0:07:58.760 --> 0:08:04.480 a solutions oriented person in the department of Fly, please 0:08:04.600 --> 0:08:07.320 call us because or reach out to somehow Sisney would 0:08:07.320 --> 0:08:10.400 love exactly to get a solution on that. Well, it's 0:08:10.400 --> 0:08:11.920 gonna be a hot one. It's gonna be a warm 0:08:11.920 --> 0:08:13.600 one today. It's gonna be a hot summer probably, so 0:08:13.800 --> 0:08:16.160 get ready for it. Let's see the morning hack. So 0:08:18.120 --> 0:08:21.160 I think, you know, these things are maybe random, but 0:08:21.320 --> 0:08:22.320 I think applicable. 0:08:23.120 --> 0:08:24.000 That's a hard one. 0:08:24.160 --> 0:08:25.000 Is it applicable? 0:08:25.480 --> 0:08:26.840 No, it's applica applicable. 0:08:27.520 --> 0:08:28.040 I don't know. 0:08:28.200 --> 0:08:31.120 Actually, whatever came out is what it is, because that's 0:08:31.120 --> 0:08:32.199 a hard one for me to get out. 0:08:32.840 --> 0:08:35.600 Applicable, applicable, applicable. 0:08:37.000 --> 0:08:39.640 Mark you and a wan. I believe both are acceptable. 0:08:39.960 --> 0:08:42.560 But the first one listed on Google is applicable. 0:08:43.360 --> 0:08:46.559 And what did I say? That's that's what you said? Yes, applicable. 0:08:46.840 --> 0:08:48.920 I can't remember. I can't barely say it. I'm so 0:08:49.000 --> 0:08:51.199 nervous when I say it. I can't hear myself say it. 0:08:51.200 --> 0:08:53.960 I say words like that, compartmentalize. 0:08:54.000 --> 0:08:54.120 Come. 0:08:54.160 --> 0:08:55.520 Do you ever have to give a speech or you 0:08:55.520 --> 0:08:57.480 have a presentation. You know there's a word in there 0:08:57.520 --> 0:08:59.719 that you you're definitely gonna fumble. And all you can 0:08:59.760 --> 0:09:04.440 do is see it coming. 0:09:01.440 --> 0:09:04.200 And I try and just change those words. 0:09:04.400 --> 0:09:08.240 Try once it's in the teleprompter, might be too late, 0:09:09.200 --> 0:09:09.520 all right. 0:09:09.679 --> 0:09:12.640 So anyway, there's a freezer expert on Instagram. This freezer 0:09:12.679 --> 0:09:14.680 experts very famous, got a lot of great tips on 0:09:14.679 --> 0:09:16.920 freezing food. The goal of wasting less, right, that's what 0:09:17.080 --> 0:09:19.040 that's a premise. So these are three foods you probably 0:09:19.080 --> 0:09:20.680 didn't know you could freeze, and three you should definitely 0:09:20.679 --> 0:09:26.520 not freeze eggs, freeze potato chips, and freeze cooked pasta. 0:09:26.720 --> 0:09:27.920 It's all good stuff to freeze. 0:09:29.720 --> 0:09:34.360 Do not freeze hard boiled eggs, Tanya all the time. 0:09:34.400 --> 0:09:37.200 Freeze the egg it's like already like whisking it and 0:09:37.240 --> 0:09:39.520 having egga ready, like so you can make little egg bites. 0:09:40.040 --> 0:09:44.400 Right, the exactly crack whist and frozen. Yes, hardboll don't salad. 0:09:44.440 --> 0:09:45.440 Don't freeze your salad. 0:09:46.559 --> 0:09:48.520 And you think you'd want to because it goes so 0:09:48.679 --> 0:09:50.880 bad so fast now, and I would. 0:09:51.160 --> 0:09:52.000 I could see that. 0:09:52.559 --> 0:09:55.120 A lot of freeze. This is a big headline, do 0:09:55.320 --> 0:10:00.800 not freeze take out food. I I can't tell you why, 0:10:00.840 --> 0:10:02.720 but there's something in there you dont want to freeze. 0:10:02.720 --> 0:10:05.400 Apparently, maybe like the plastic that they send it home. 0:10:05.559 --> 0:10:08.319 I think it's things that are inside the takeout food. 0:10:08.720 --> 0:10:13.040 Today's quote stop being okay, with everything you deserve to 0:10:13.040 --> 0:10:14.840 be treated right, So takes. 0:10:14.600 --> 0:10:15.880 Fine, I'll handle it. 0:10:15.880 --> 0:10:20.320 I'll yeah the headlines well, the La County Board of 0:10:20.360 --> 0:10:24.680 Supervisors unanimously approved a motion to speed up the rebuilding 0:10:24.760 --> 0:10:29.520 process in Altadena by creating one unified permitting authority within 0:10:29.559 --> 0:10:33.120 the Altadena Recovery Center. Santa Monica announced that it will 0:10:33.360 --> 0:10:37.120 not host beach volleyball for the twenty twenty eight Olympics 0:10:37.160 --> 0:10:41.000 after failing to reach an agreement with Olympic organizers. California 0:10:41.040 --> 0:10:44.960 Official sued the Food Bank of Southern California, alleging that 0:10:45.040 --> 0:10:49.000 its leaders misused state and federal funds for their own gain, 0:10:49.200 --> 0:10:52.240 including home renovations and a tesla. 0:10:53.040 --> 0:10:56.920 And the weekend one of Coachella is this weekend, just 0:10:57.080 --> 0:11:01.240 days away. Of course, the ten Freeway features I catching 0:11:01.320 --> 0:11:06.720 billboards from Charlie, XCX, post Alone, Jenny Tyler, and many more. 0:11:06.880 --> 0:11:10.760 All right, let's grab this call here online eleven. Good morning, 0:11:11.600 --> 0:11:15.520 Good morning. My name is Ryan. Who am I speaking with. 0:11:18.640 --> 0:11:20.280 A concerned listener? 0:11:21.200 --> 0:11:30.360 Oh so we're gonna call you, okay, anonymous anonymous. I 0:11:30.360 --> 0:11:31.760 did think that went through. I didn't think how to 0:11:31.800 --> 0:11:38.960 spell anonymous for the secondfore I called you. 0:11:44.360 --> 0:11:47.520 I just want to say one thing. I love you guys' show. 0:11:47.559 --> 0:11:51.560 I listened to it every morning and just you guys 0:11:51.600 --> 0:11:58.439 are great. But the other day on the hack about 0:11:58.600 --> 0:12:01.480 the sequence order of the birth and all that and 0:12:01.520 --> 0:12:03.800 how you know this is a perfect match and this 0:12:03.840 --> 0:12:06.160 isn't for your order effects? 0:12:06.280 --> 0:12:10.480 You should well they say science, not Ryan, science are 0:12:10.520 --> 0:12:14.040 your birth order effects? Who you should marry? And let 0:12:14.080 --> 0:12:16.040 me just recap. So if you're firstborn, you have to 0:12:16.040 --> 0:12:18.200 marry a last born. If you're a middle child, you 0:12:18.200 --> 0:12:20.040 have to marry a last born, And if you're a 0:12:20.120 --> 0:12:21.520 last born, you have to marry a firstborn. 0:12:21.559 --> 0:12:24.160 What do you disagree with everything? 0:12:24.920 --> 0:12:28.280 My first marriage, I am a firstborn. I marry the 0:12:28.360 --> 0:12:33.199 last born, divorced in five years. Oh my second marriage, 0:12:33.320 --> 0:12:36.880 I'm a firstborn, he's a firstborn and we are seventeen 0:12:36.960 --> 0:12:37.560 years strong. 0:12:39.840 --> 0:12:41.720 Let's look at the common denominator who was in both 0:12:41.760 --> 0:12:42.400 relationships here? 0:12:42.440 --> 0:12:43.080 You can't blame me? 0:12:46.040 --> 0:12:50.200 Are you sure that you're both the firstborn positive? 0:12:51.280 --> 0:12:55.240 And I know I'm not the problem because he chooses 0:12:55.320 --> 0:12:56.360 on me the first one. 0:12:58.240 --> 0:13:01.880 Well, look, I think any scientists would say there's always 0:13:01.880 --> 0:13:05.160 that variable. I mean, you look at the exit polls 0:13:05.200 --> 0:13:07.520 when it comes to the elections, and they always have 0:13:07.640 --> 0:13:08.920 that little margin of error. 0:13:09.000 --> 0:13:11.880 Right, you're inside the margin of error. Or I appreciate you. 0:13:11.920 --> 0:13:14.520 Maybe your husband now you're seventeen years strong, is he 0:13:14.600 --> 0:13:15.440 an only child? 0:13:16.559 --> 0:13:16.719 No? 0:13:17.120 --> 0:13:18.920 Oh, the first place. 0:13:20.880 --> 0:13:24.280 But that's great, that's great. You're challenging the science. I 0:13:24.320 --> 0:13:25.800 love that, And so everything is going on. 0:13:26.360 --> 0:13:31.199 Cold have said he was the youngest too, exactly. I know. 0:13:31.240 --> 0:13:34.160 I have a question for you, no question for you. 0:13:34.400 --> 0:13:37.720 How long how long between when you left or divorced 0:13:37.840 --> 0:13:41.400 or he you know, went away your first husband until 0:13:41.440 --> 0:13:44.679 you got married? Like, how much time in between twelve years? 0:13:46.040 --> 0:13:48.600 Twelve years between marriage? Did you ever think you get 0:13:48.600 --> 0:13:49.080 married again? 0:13:50.400 --> 0:13:50.679 No? 0:13:51.280 --> 0:13:57.040 I met my current husband and we became best friends, and. 0:13:56.679 --> 0:14:01.520 Then we started dating, and then two years after we dated, 0:14:01.720 --> 0:14:02.480 he got engaged. 0:14:02.520 --> 0:14:04.120 In two years after that we got married. 0:14:05.040 --> 0:14:07.240 Wow. Well, congratulations. I love it. 0:14:07.280 --> 0:14:10.000 And if you were to look back, I mean, now 0:14:10.040 --> 0:14:14.360 you sit with the luxury of having seen your past 0:14:14.400 --> 0:14:16.080 and knowing that it works out. But I'm sure along 0:14:16.080 --> 0:14:17.720 the way you thought, why did I even get married 0:14:17.760 --> 0:14:19.840 in the first place? This was a bad idea, And 0:14:19.880 --> 0:14:22.560 now you have the perfect, most beautiful marriage of seventeen 0:14:22.800 --> 0:14:24.080 years and that's. 0:14:23.880 --> 0:14:27.000 Just the beginning, right yeait? Correct? 0:14:28.200 --> 0:14:31.640 Okay, So in most cases, if you're a firstborn, marya last, 0:14:31.840 --> 0:14:33.840 if you're a middle child, married a last, if you're 0:14:33.840 --> 0:14:35.920 a last Maria first, but not in every. 0:14:35.720 --> 0:14:40.960 Case, Anonymous, that is correct. What's your husband's name? 0:14:43.400 --> 0:14:46.800 He is, mister Anonymous. 0:14:44.960 --> 0:14:49.800 Yeah, you're the best. Thank you for listening to us 0:14:49.800 --> 0:14:53.080 in Palmdale. Continued success in your marriage. Thank you. 0:14:53.680 --> 0:14:56.360 Bye. I thought I might get her with that one. 0:14:56.520 --> 0:14:57.160 Let's get to it. 0:14:57.200 --> 0:15:01.960 So the husband's eating challenge, boy friends eating challenges on TikTok, 0:15:02.120 --> 0:15:02.880 isn't he It's. 0:15:02.680 --> 0:15:04.920 All over TikTok, and so it's basically the fact that. 0:15:04.920 --> 0:15:09.280 Men eat way faster than women usually. So what you're 0:15:09.280 --> 0:15:12.160 supposed to do is get your plates. Let's say it's 0:15:12.160 --> 0:15:13.720 like this, do you probably be better if you have 0:15:13.760 --> 0:15:18.480 the same exact meals, maybe like burritos or a cheeseburger 0:15:18.600 --> 0:15:20.920 or something like that, and you sit down like I 0:15:20.960 --> 0:15:23.520 just know that in my household, Michael can take down 0:15:23.760 --> 0:15:27.920 his plate second's thirds all before I'm even barely even 0:15:28.000 --> 0:15:31.000 denting my plate. So you're supposed to go bite for 0:15:31.040 --> 0:15:32.920 bite as soon as they take a bite you take 0:15:32.960 --> 0:15:33.320 a bite. 0:15:33.360 --> 0:15:34.760 As soon as they take another bite, You take a 0:15:34.760 --> 0:15:36.000 bite and you keep going. 0:15:36.080 --> 0:15:38.080 But these videos are hysterical because you just see how 0:15:38.160 --> 0:15:41.920 much faster guys eat and then swallow, and then eat 0:15:41.960 --> 0:15:42.360 and swallow. 0:15:42.400 --> 0:15:45.800 It's just, yeah, we kind of don't look up at times. 0:15:45.800 --> 0:15:47.840 I'm the curve. I'm a very fast eater. 0:15:47.960 --> 0:15:49.840 I read things that say slow down, it's better for 0:15:49.840 --> 0:15:52.960 your digestion, you won't eat as much. My dad eats, 0:15:53.120 --> 0:15:56.680 So you have to understand something. Usually I just want 0:15:56.680 --> 0:16:00.480 to I want to enjoy it. But the sooner we finished, 0:16:00.480 --> 0:16:01.600 the more time in life there is. 0:16:01.800 --> 0:16:03.960 Oh my god, my gosh. 0:16:04.000 --> 0:16:08.240 And so when I with my family, my father, he's 0:16:08.320 --> 0:16:12.040 very slow. I mean, we are done, and we're yawning 0:16:12.240 --> 0:16:15.760 or nodding with our heads and he's still taking his 0:16:15.880 --> 0:16:16.960 fork through his scampy. 0:16:17.160 --> 0:16:19.640 But it's not about that. It's not about shoveling food 0:16:19.680 --> 0:16:21.920 down so you can leave. It's about enjoying your meal 0:16:22.000 --> 0:16:25.760 and sitting there and having conversation versations. 0:16:26.160 --> 0:16:27.640 Who's a happier foodie than I? 0:16:27.760 --> 0:16:31.680 No, no one here, no one enjoys food more than I. 0:16:31.840 --> 0:16:35.120 But it's not about the food. It's about the experience. 0:16:36.760 --> 0:16:40.000 This is the difference. This is the debate. Guys just 0:16:40.040 --> 0:16:41.320 like eat it super fast. 0:16:41.400 --> 0:16:44.320 Like Michael won't even clean his hands in the middle 0:16:44.320 --> 0:16:45.880 of like, you know, I will like take bye and 0:16:45.880 --> 0:16:47.680 if I get like my hands or Y'll clean them 0:16:47.720 --> 0:16:50.440 and then start again. 0:16:52.720 --> 0:16:53.400 What a process. 0:16:53.520 --> 0:16:58.160 See, he doesn't even use a napkins. 0:16:58.160 --> 0:17:00.520 Sometimes they stand up and he like very any days 0:17:00.600 --> 0:17:02.080 during the week where I get home and I just 0:17:02.120 --> 0:17:03.720 stand in the kitchen and I eat something out of 0:17:03.720 --> 0:17:06.320 the fridge and I'm done, and then I put together 0:17:06.359 --> 0:17:08.800 you know, my my treat, my bowl of berries and 0:17:09.040 --> 0:17:10.200 almond butter and milk. 0:17:10.520 --> 0:17:12.560 Yeah, those days are over family dinner. Every day. 0:17:12.760 --> 0:17:16.159 You're sort of red flags written down somewhere when it 0:17:16.160 --> 0:17:18.200 comes to meeting somebody. You're on Kiss FM this morning, 0:17:18.560 --> 0:17:21.680 it's Wednesday. Just curious, do you have like your most 0:17:21.680 --> 0:17:24.960 important things to think about that are red flags for yourself? 0:17:24.960 --> 0:17:27.080 Maybe there's two, three, four, but these are your your 0:17:27.160 --> 0:17:27.800 red flags? 0:17:28.960 --> 0:17:30.840 Sure, I mean they're just in my head. I'm written 0:17:30.880 --> 0:17:31.480 down anywhere. 0:17:31.800 --> 0:17:32.920 Well, Timothy's on the line. 0:17:32.920 --> 0:17:35.439 I bring that up because Timothy is telling us, and 0:17:35.440 --> 0:17:37.760 thank you for listening. Timothy in Hollywood, he's telling us 0:17:37.760 --> 0:17:40.240 and he met the perfect guy but there's a huge 0:17:40.280 --> 0:17:41.560 red flag. What is that red flag? 0:17:43.560 --> 0:17:47.679 So yeah, like I met this great guy on Hinge. 0:17:47.840 --> 0:17:51.919 You know, he's super hot, we have great charisma. You know, 0:17:52.000 --> 0:17:55.040 my friends loved him. It's all it's all the green flags. 0:17:55.200 --> 0:17:59.520 But last week, when I sat down and I was like, okay, 0:17:59.720 --> 0:18:02.320 you know, like I really like you, let's make this official, 0:18:03.040 --> 0:18:06.600