Speaker 1: From Hollywood to you.
Speaker 2: Thank you for listening to us on air with a
Speaker 2: Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 3: I'll tell you, as a dog father, it is fantastic
Speaker 3: to have great weather to be taking the dogs out,
Speaker 3: because it's a disaster when it's.
Speaker 2: Speak muddy. I know it's muddy and wet.
Speaker 1: Oh, I don't even say it, because I like to.
Speaker 3: Let the dogs play in the bed and their little
Speaker 3: muddy paws get all over my sheets and then they
Speaker 3: touch my pillow and then I think to myself, Okay,
Speaker 3: now I'm gonna get its on my cheek when I
Speaker 3: fall asleep.
Speaker 4: Yeah, or worse pink eye, oh yeah, or the sty Yeah.
Speaker 1: I don't want.
Speaker 2: No one at the stye.
Speaker 3: But it's just been pleasurable to be like in the
Speaker 3: evening with the sun up a little bit later. Right,
Speaker 3: sun's up, almost my bedtime, taking the dogs out for
Speaker 3: that last party.
Speaker 2: Pe or pooh. It's nice. It's actually very nice ceremony.
Speaker 1: More people are well, good morning, good morning, good morning.
Speaker 3: It's gonna beautiful. As I was saying, sunny with highs
Speaker 3: around eighty nearly ninety Inland. Uh, how is your evening, Systey?
Speaker 1: It was pleasant?
Speaker 4: You know what Michael made my mom's recipe of albondigas
Speaker 4: soup for us last night and surprised the whole family
Speaker 4: with it.
Speaker 2: What what's your mom's recipe? Why is it different? I
Speaker 2: don't know.
Speaker 4: I mean it tastes like a albondiga soup, but it's
Speaker 4: it's different. I think it's like less oily and it's healthier,
Speaker 4: you know, but it just tastes exactly like how she
Speaker 4: cooked it when we were kids. So, and it's funny
Speaker 4: because whenever we do soup for dinner, it's a struggle
Speaker 4: to feed the kids, like a healthy soup, you know,
Speaker 4: because they want macaroni and cheese, So we have to
Speaker 4: really sit there and like spoon feed them.
Speaker 1: But they'll finish it and then we're done and then
Speaker 1: I can get.
Speaker 3: Well, you know, they'll go through faces because I remember
Speaker 3: when there were faces where I wouldn't eat soup, then
Speaker 3: I love soup. They faces I wouldn't eat meat, then
Speaker 3: I eat meat. They're just they're they're faceable. I actually
Speaker 3: did something I love to do that is go to
Speaker 3: the grocery store and buy package things for my dinner.
Speaker 3: So I went through, uh, you know, just like buy
Speaker 3: a handful of things that make no sense. I got
Speaker 3: almond butter, I bought berries, I bought nuts, I bought
Speaker 3: like kind of these healthy crackers. I bought some hummus,
Speaker 3: and I bought a green soup and that was my dinner.
Speaker 5: Nice.
Speaker 1: That's like snacks.
Speaker 3: I know, I like snacks for dinner. Sometimes I'm in
Speaker 3: the mood like I just want to stop at the
Speaker 3: store and get snacks for dinner.
Speaker 4: I thought you were going to say, like ingredients, Like
Speaker 4: I was like, I bought three shallots the other day
Speaker 4: and some pinchette that and I was like, I'm going
Speaker 4: to maybe make some sort of pasta dish with this eventually,
Speaker 4: and I did.
Speaker 1: And mushrooms. I threw mushrooms.
Speaker 2: You made pinchetta. You bought pinchetta Like.
Speaker 4: Hey, they was like already like chopped up in package
Speaker 4: at Trader Joe's.
Speaker 3: Hey, guys, take a look at the call screen. Brett
Speaker 3: is there in Los Angeles. Hey Brett, what's up?
Speaker 2: Brother? Thanks for reaching out. How are you hey?
Speaker 6: Doing okay?
Speaker 2: How are you doing well? Just you know, getting it done,
Speaker 2: rolling through it.
Speaker 3: So you are calling about your friend who keeps bringing
Speaker 3: his wife and baby with him every time you guys
Speaker 3: hang out.
Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, yeah, so this is, uh mind you like
Speaker 6: a guy's night. Like we've been doing this for a
Speaker 6: long time now. And my my buddy, he and his
Speaker 6: wife who we all love, like all the guys and
Speaker 6: I get along with her really well. But they just
Speaker 6: had a baby like eight months ago or something like that.
Speaker 7: And.
Speaker 6: They bring the baby and his wife comes along as well,
Speaker 6: so it gets pretty rowdy and like I've got a
Speaker 6: young dog, and the baby cries and the puppy cries
Speaker 6: and it gets really really hairy. So yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 6: We love we love her, like I said, but it
Speaker 6: it gets kind of it gets kind of uh crazy,
Speaker 6: which made my dog bark, and like I said, it's
Speaker 6: just it's just like this like chaotic time when it
Speaker 6: was supposed to be like the guy's hanging out, you know.
Speaker 6: So yeah, I don't know what would you do in
Speaker 6: this situation because we don't want to like we do,
Speaker 6: we do love her, and like we do want like
Speaker 6: to be friends still and every thing, but like and
Speaker 6: we don't want to be rude, but like we don't
Speaker 6: want to like not have a guy's night.
Speaker 2: You know, I gotta go to sysany on this one.
Speaker 4: Well, you need to maybe just set some ground rules
Speaker 4: on the expectations of your evening. So if it's gonna
Speaker 4: be a guy's night, you have to call it that,
Speaker 4: and you have to tell your buddy, Hey, it's just
Speaker 4: the guys tonight.
Speaker 1: If it's a hang at your house.
Speaker 4: Then why are you gonna like not have him bring
Speaker 4: his wife or he wants to bring the whole family
Speaker 4: type of thing.
Speaker 1: That's like that's his crew.
Speaker 5: Now can you ask some of the other bros to
Speaker 5: bring their significant others? So then maybe like you guys.
Speaker 2: Can not what they want though, right, well.
Speaker 5: Maybe then your significant others can hang and play a
Speaker 5: game while you guys watch the game.
Speaker 2: It's interesting he doesn't read the cues on this, Like
Speaker 2: I've done that before.
Speaker 5: Like, uh, Robbie will be doing like a guy's thing,
Speaker 5: and he has a wife that I really like, and
Speaker 5: so sometimes when they go, they'll go do their thing
Speaker 5: and like she and I will play like remy Cubans.
Speaker 4: I think, I say, she and I will play.
Speaker 2: Big cakes but pretend cakes.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, Brett, I mean, look, I think on this one,
Speaker 3: maybe there are some ways for you to nudge it
Speaker 3: in the direction you want to go without offending, right.
Speaker 4: Or you can be petty and bring your puppy to
Speaker 4: their house when they invite you over.
Speaker 5: Is that frown upon?
Speaker 7: Yeah?
Speaker 6: I think I think yeah, maybe just maybe just like
Speaker 6: not delineate, like this is guys night.
Speaker 3: I think, so I'll be clear, and then they go, oh,
Speaker 3: you know, IM sorry, bro, I was just not I
Speaker 3: wasn't thinking are Yeah, I got you. I think there's
Speaker 3: a way to handle this so that you don't, you know,
Speaker 3: ruffle the feathers of that family too. Thanks for listening
Speaker 3: to us, Thanks for calling about that. I feel like
Speaker 3: this move was just yesterday that you and Michael and
Speaker 3: the family moved into your new place. And now is
Speaker 3: this the first warm weather season that you experienced in
Speaker 3: the new place?
Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel you've lived there for a long time.
Speaker 4: Well, we closed escrow right towards the end of summer.
Speaker 4: It was like September fifteenth, and then it just went
Speaker 4: straight into the holidays. It was like Halloween and we
Speaker 4: got the big twelve foot skeleton and Christmas and so
Speaker 4: now here we are in spring, and I'm starting to
Speaker 4: realize that we have a fly problem.
Speaker 1: Zip it out, like major ill.
Speaker 2: Zip it up.
Speaker 1: What do you mean, like zip them up in the bags?
Speaker 2: Got it? Fly problem for me is intter of fact.
Speaker 2: Someone told me, yes, stay my fly. That was great.
Speaker 1: It happens.
Speaker 2: It happens anyway.
Speaker 3: So these are flies, these are the big flies. They
Speaker 3: just get in your face, they.
Speaker 8: Get that food.
Speaker 2: They're not good on my watermelon, They're not good on
Speaker 2: my fruits.
Speaker 4: And they're just like hovering in my outdoor patio area.
Speaker 4: And I we thought maybe it was because we had
Speaker 4: like we used to have, like it was a cover
Speaker 4: trash can. So we're like, okay, let's get that out
Speaker 4: of the way. That's not doing the trick. And when
Speaker 4: we moved in, you know, we have two avocado trees
Speaker 4: and one of them had a fly bag thing hanging
Speaker 4: from it when we first moved in, and I was like,
Speaker 4: oh my god, that thing stings. So I told Michael
Speaker 4: to get rid of it, and he did. But there
Speaker 4: was a reason why that was probably there. And so
Speaker 4: I'm doing all this research and this is almost like
Speaker 4: a help to anybody that can call me and help
Speaker 4: me with this, because I know that we've had callers
Speaker 4: call in like that have all the totto farms, yeah,
Speaker 4: or they like they have like horses and stuff in
Speaker 4: their back a caddie exactly, Like, how do you get
Speaker 4: rid of flies? Because I'm buying this stuff off to Amazon,
Speaker 4: and I don't know if it's gonna work.
Speaker 3: Well, a couple of things here, number one. At least
Speaker 3: it's not mosquitos. Those will come to number two.
Speaker 4: But I've bought these little like mosquito things and hopefully
Speaker 4: that works.
Speaker 2: Well, let's see, but those are worse.
Speaker 3: Those kids in my they get somehow mosquitos know what
Speaker 3: time I'm going to bed and they are waiting for me.
Speaker 2: To tuck me in.
Speaker 1: This there was one in my room last night.
Speaker 3: Number two, Wait till you get all the ants coming
Speaker 3: out of the counter.
Speaker 2: In the wall.
Speaker 1: Oh, we've dealt with that already.
Speaker 2: When it gets hot. I mean I live in an
Speaker 2: ant farm.
Speaker 4: Yeah, we've dealt with that. It's so crazy kind of
Speaker 4: just discovering.
Speaker 3: How well it's the heat heat brings out. I mean,
Speaker 3: there are so many ants marching coming out of walls,
Speaker 3: cracked everywhere when heat comes out. But if you are
Speaker 3: a solutions oriented person in the department of Fly, please
Speaker 3: call us because or reach out to somehow Sisney would
Speaker 3: love exactly to get a solution on that. Well, it's
Speaker 3: gonna be a hot one. It's gonna be a warm
Speaker 3: one today. It's gonna be a hot summer probably, so
Speaker 3: get ready for it. Let's see the morning hack. So
Speaker 3: I think, you know, these things are maybe random, but
Speaker 3: I think applicable.
Speaker 2: That's a hard one.
Speaker 5: Is it applicable?
Speaker 1: No, it's applica applicable.
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 3: Actually, whatever came out is what it is, because that's
Speaker 3: a hard one for me to get out.
Speaker 1: Applicable, applicable, applicable.
Speaker 2: Mark you and a wan. I believe both are acceptable.
Speaker 1: But the first one listed on Google is applicable.
Speaker 2: And what did I say? That's that's what you said? Yes, applicable.
Speaker 3: I can't remember. I can't barely say it. I'm so
Speaker 3: nervous when I say it. I can't hear myself say it.
Speaker 1: I say words like that, compartmentalize.
Speaker 9: Come.
Speaker 3: Do you ever have to give a speech or you
Speaker 3: have a presentation. You know there's a word in there
Speaker 3: that you you're definitely gonna fumble. And all you can
Speaker 3: do is see it coming.
Speaker 5: And I try and just change those words.
Speaker 1: Try once it's in the teleprompter, might be too late,
Speaker 1: all right.
Speaker 3: So anyway, there's a freezer expert on Instagram. This freezer
Speaker 3: experts very famous, got a lot of great tips on
Speaker 3: freezing food. The goal of wasting less, right, that's what
Speaker 3: that's a premise. So these are three foods you probably
Speaker 3: didn't know you could freeze, and three you should definitely
Speaker 3: not freeze eggs, freeze potato chips, and freeze cooked pasta.
Speaker 2: It's all good stuff to freeze.
Speaker 3: Do not freeze hard boiled eggs, Tanya all the time.
Speaker 4: Freeze the egg it's like already like whisking it and
Speaker 4: having egga ready, like so you can make little egg bites.
Speaker 3: Right, the exactly crack whist and frozen. Yes, hardboll don't salad.
Speaker 3: Don't freeze your salad.
Speaker 4: And you think you'd want to because it goes so
Speaker 4: bad so fast now, and I would.
Speaker 5: I could see that.
Speaker 3: A lot of freeze. This is a big headline, do
Speaker 3: not freeze take out food. I I can't tell you why,
Speaker 3: but there's something in there you dont want to freeze.
Speaker 5: Apparently, maybe like the plastic that they send it home.
Speaker 2: I think it's things that are inside the takeout food.
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Speaker 2: All right, let's grab this call here online eleven. Good morning,
Speaker 2: Good morning. My name is Ryan. Who am I speaking with.
Speaker 7: A concerned listener?
Speaker 3: Oh so we're gonna call you, okay, anonymous anonymous. I
Speaker 3: did think that went through. I didn't think how to
Speaker 3: spell anonymous for the secondfore I called you.
Speaker 7: I just want to say one thing. I love you guys' show.
Speaker 7: I listened to it every morning and just you guys
Speaker 7: are great. But the other day on the hack about
Speaker 7: the sequence order of the birth and all that and
Speaker 7: how you know this is a perfect match and this
Speaker 7: isn't for your order effects?
Speaker 3: You should well they say science, not Ryan, science are
Speaker 3: your birth order effects? Who you should marry? And let
Speaker 3: me just recap. So if you're firstborn, you have to
Speaker 3: marry a last born. If you're a middle child, you
Speaker 3: have to marry a last born, And if you're a
Speaker 3: last born, you have to marry a firstborn.
Speaker 2: What do you disagree with everything?
Speaker 7: My first marriage, I am a firstborn. I marry the
Speaker 7: last born, divorced in five years. Oh my second marriage,
Speaker 7: I'm a firstborn, he's a firstborn and we are seventeen
Speaker 7: years strong.
Speaker 3: Let's look at the common denominator who was in both
Speaker 3: relationships here?
Speaker 2: You can't blame me?
Speaker 5: Are you sure that you're both the firstborn positive?
Speaker 11: And I know I'm not the problem because he chooses
Speaker 11: on me the first one.
Speaker 3: Well, look, I think any scientists would say there's always
Speaker 3: that variable. I mean, you look at the exit polls
Speaker 3: when it comes to the elections, and they always have
Speaker 3: that little margin of error.
Speaker 2: Right, you're inside the margin of error. Or I appreciate you.
Speaker 5: Maybe your husband now you're seventeen years strong, is he
Speaker 5: an only child?
Speaker 7: No?
Speaker 5: Oh, the first place.
Speaker 3: But that's great, that's great. You're challenging the science. I
Speaker 3: love that, And so everything is going on.
Speaker 7: Cold have said he was the youngest too, exactly. I know.
Speaker 2: I have a question for you, no question for you.
Speaker 3: How long how long between when you left or divorced
Speaker 3: or he you know, went away your first husband until
Speaker 3: you got married? Like, how much time in between twelve years?
Speaker 3: Twelve years between marriage? Did you ever think you get
Speaker 3: married again?
Speaker 2: No?
Speaker 7: I met my current husband and we became best friends, and.
Speaker 11: Then we started dating, and then two years after we dated,
Speaker 11: he got engaged.
Speaker 7: In two years after that we got married.
Speaker 2: Wow. Well, congratulations. I love it.
Speaker 3: And if you were to look back, I mean, now
Speaker 3: you sit with the luxury of having seen your past
Speaker 3: and knowing that it works out. But I'm sure along
Speaker 3: the way you thought, why did I even get married
Speaker 3: in the first place? This was a bad idea, And
Speaker 3: now you have the perfect, most beautiful marriage of seventeen
Speaker 3: years and that's.
Speaker 2: Just the beginning, right yeait? Correct?
Speaker 3: Okay, So in most cases, if you're a firstborn, marya last,
Speaker 3: if you're a middle child, married a last, if you're
Speaker 3: a last Maria first, but not in every.
Speaker 2: Case, Anonymous, that is correct. What's your husband's name?
Speaker 7: He is, mister Anonymous.
Speaker 3: Yeah, you're the best. Thank you for listening to us
Speaker 3: in Palmdale. Continued success in your marriage. Thank you.
Speaker 2: Bye. I thought I might get her with that one.
Speaker 2: Let's get to it.
Speaker 3: So the husband's eating challenge, boy friends eating challenges on TikTok,
Speaker 3: isn't he It's.
Speaker 1: All over TikTok, and so it's basically the fact that.
Speaker 4: Men eat way faster than women usually. So what you're
Speaker 4: supposed to do is get your plates. Let's say it's
Speaker 4: like this, do you probably be better if you have
Speaker 4: the same exact meals, maybe like burritos or a cheeseburger
Speaker 4: or something like that, and you sit down like I
Speaker 4: just know that in my household, Michael can take down
Speaker 4: his plate second's thirds all before I'm even barely even
Speaker 4: denting my plate. So you're supposed to go bite for
Speaker 4: bite as soon as they take a bite you take
Speaker 4: a bite.
Speaker 1: As soon as they take another bite, You take a
Speaker 1: bite and you keep going.
Speaker 4: But these videos are hysterical because you just see how
Speaker 4: much faster guys eat and then swallow, and then eat
Speaker 4: and swallow.
Speaker 3: It's just, yeah, we kind of don't look up at times.
Speaker 2: I'm the curve. I'm a very fast eater.
Speaker 3: I read things that say slow down, it's better for
Speaker 3: your digestion, you won't eat as much. My dad eats,
Speaker 3: So you have to understand something. Usually I just want
Speaker 3: to I want to enjoy it. But the sooner we finished,
Speaker 3: the more time in life there is.
Speaker 5: Oh my god, my gosh.
Speaker 3: And so when I with my family, my father, he's
Speaker 3: very slow. I mean, we are done, and we're yawning
Speaker 3: or nodding with our heads and he's still taking his
Speaker 3: fork through his scampy.
Speaker 5: But it's not about that. It's not about shoveling food
Speaker 5: down so you can leave. It's about enjoying your meal
Speaker 5: and sitting there and having conversation versations.
Speaker 2: Who's a happier foodie than I?
Speaker 3: No, no one here, no one enjoys food more than I.
Speaker 5: But it's not about the food. It's about the experience.
Speaker 1: This is the difference. This is the debate. Guys just
Speaker 1: like eat it super fast.
Speaker 4: Like Michael won't even clean his hands in the middle
Speaker 4: of like, you know, I will like take bye and
Speaker 4: if I get like my hands or Y'll clean them
Speaker 4: and then start again.
Speaker 2: What a process.
Speaker 4: See, he doesn't even use a napkins.
Speaker 3: Sometimes they stand up and he like very any days
Speaker 3: during the week where I get home and I just
Speaker 3: stand in the kitchen and I eat something out of
Speaker 3: the fridge and I'm done, and then I put together
Speaker 3: you know, my my treat, my bowl of berries and
Speaker 3: almond butter and milk.
Speaker 1: Yeah, those days are over family dinner. Every day.
Speaker 3: You're sort of red flags written down somewhere when it
Speaker 3: comes to meeting somebody. You're on Kiss FM this morning,
Speaker 3: it's Wednesday. Just curious, do you have like your most
Speaker 3: important things to think about that are red flags for yourself?
Speaker 3: Maybe there's two, three, four, but these are your your
Speaker 3: red flags?
Speaker 1: Sure, I mean they're just in my head. I'm written
Speaker 1: down anywhere.
Speaker 2: Well, Timothy's on the line.
Speaker 3: I bring that up because Timothy is telling us, and
Speaker 3: thank you for listening. Timothy in Hollywood, he's telling us
Speaker 3: and he met the perfect guy but there's a huge
Speaker 3: red flag. What is that red flag?
Speaker 8: So yeah, like I met this great guy on Hinge.
Speaker 8: You know, he's super hot, we have great charisma. You know,
Speaker 8: my friends loved him. It's all it's all the green flags.
Speaker 8: But last week, when I sat down and I was like, okay,
Speaker 8: you know, like I really like you, let's make this official,
Speaker 8: he came clean and basically told me he's in a
Speaker 8: terrible financial situation, like he's he's a hair away from
Speaker 8: filing for bankruptcy. His credit score is like four hundred,
Speaker 8: and he's getting called from the credit people all the time.
Speaker 8: And now I don't know.
Speaker 1: What to do.
Speaker 3: So Timothy, I appreciate your transparency and honesty in this one.
Speaker 2: Why does it bother you?
Speaker 8: I was hoping that I could expect more from the
Speaker 8: from my partner.
Speaker 1: Yea, because you're seeing a future.
Speaker 4: You're seeing like a future with this person, and then
Speaker 4: they have creditors calling them every day.
Speaker 1: That's kind of not the future someone would want.
Speaker 8: Yeah, right, what's your financial situation?
Speaker 2: Are you in good credit?
Speaker 8: I My credit's okay, Like I have a job at least,
Speaker 8: like I'm working, you know, I'm working towards something.
Speaker 2: So Can I just go ahead.
Speaker 5: I don't think it's necessarily a bad thing. If somebody's
Speaker 5: in debt, I think it's their their attitude about it.
Speaker 5: Like if he's chill and just kind of it is
Speaker 5: what it is, or if he has a game plan
Speaker 5: and an action plan, and I feel like it's his
Speaker 5: attitude about it.
Speaker 2: He's Timothy. Let me just tell you.
Speaker 3: Can I just be direct here and what I think? Yeah,
Speaker 3: you're contradicting yourself. You're creating your own turmoil here. You're
Speaker 3: saying he's the perfect guy, but he's not. So you're
Speaker 3: trying to trick yourself into this guy being the perfect guy.
Speaker 3: He's not the perfect guy. It's a red flag for you.
Speaker 3: It's a problem for you. You're not comfortable with it.
Speaker 3: He's not the perfect guy, So get off that Moniker.
Speaker 8: But it feels like everything's perfect except for this Timothy.
Speaker 3: Perfect is perfect. It's not perfect except everything else.
Speaker 5: Well, it's temporary. You can get out of debt.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't know, Timney. It seems if you tear
Speaker 4: a red flag at your red flag, like the fact
Speaker 4: that he has calling him, it's already gotten out of hand.
Speaker 3: I'm trying to simplify this for you, Timothy. Okay, good luck,
Speaker 3: Thank you.
Speaker 8: Ryan.
Speaker 2: I mean he's not.
Speaker 3: He's not the guy for him if he's got that
Speaker 3: much in his head about it. Yeah, I mean, and
Speaker 3: why try and work it out? Like, why try and
Speaker 3: change things in people you can't.
Speaker 5: It's not changed. When I got I had huge debt
Speaker 5: when I finished college. I had to pay off over time.
Speaker 3: But that's not the it's I'm not talking about change
Speaker 3: the other guy changing his dad. I'm talking about Timothy
Speaker 3: changing his way. He's not gonna change. This bothers him.
Speaker 3: If it doesn't get fixed, it's going to be an issue.
Speaker 3: The guy may change, the guy may not change, but
Speaker 3: Timothy's not changing. Tanya, I am on it with this guy.
Speaker 3: I fully focused on unofficial therapy here anybody else back room?
Speaker 1: I understand I like it.
Speaker 5: Yep, I love therapy. Official therapy.
Speaker 2: Yeah, well this is unofficial and it's free. What do
Speaker 2: you want?
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'll take the free uh and.
Speaker 3: Tell you we have a couple of things we wanted
Speaker 3: you to take the therapy for us and give us feedback.
Speaker 2: Okay, we'll just we'll.
Speaker 4: Draft up that's in every session. We have a question
Speaker 4: that we want you to ask.
Speaker 2: One more thing, on more thing before I go.
Speaker 3: This is for the group, all right, So mckaye in
Speaker 3: the back room, she's on hand, she gets a guy interested,
Speaker 3: he's he's like, you know, way into it, and uh
Speaker 3: he asks her out And now she's like, is this
Speaker 3: a red flag?
Speaker 2: He's asked me to do? This?
Speaker 3: Is is this something I should do? And is this
Speaker 3: worth my time? What do he ask you to do?
Speaker 12: So his profile in general just said he was only
Speaker 12: looking for a wedding date, and so when he matched
Speaker 12: with me, that's what he had said. But like, we
Speaker 12: kind of have some of the similar interests. He likes music,
Speaker 12: he likes to travel. I'm like, it could be kind
Speaker 12: of fun. But I'm like, isn't that a red flag?
Speaker 12: And maybe is it weird? Like daring to meet his family?
Speaker 9: All right?
Speaker 3: Hold on, let me go back to similar things in common.
Speaker 3: Everybody likes music, everybody likes to travel. We need more
Speaker 3: specific like, no one doesn't like music, no one doesn't
Speaker 3: like the travel. So what what else? Was there anything
Speaker 3: detail in that?
Speaker 1: He did not have a lot?
Speaker 5: He works in finance.
Speaker 1: You love?
Speaker 12: That was kind of really it?
Speaker 1: Where where would this be?
Speaker 4: Agan?
Speaker 1: At a wedding.
Speaker 4: He didn't say where, he didn't say weary, but he's like,
Speaker 4: I haven't responding ye his wedding dates.
Speaker 5: Maybe he has a lot of weddings this summer.
Speaker 1: I don't know.
Speaker 3: Weddings are personal and I'm not comfortable enough at a
Speaker 3: wedding with the stranger.
Speaker 2: I just think too.
Speaker 3: I mean, I think it's kind of clever that he
Speaker 3: asked you to do that, because it shows a little
Speaker 3: bit of courage. But if it were me with all
Speaker 3: these people he knows as a newbie with no context
Speaker 3: for him, I don't even.
Speaker 2: Know what kind of music he likes or where he
Speaker 2: likes to travel.
Speaker 4: Just know he likes the category right well, and Michaelukston
Speaker 4: have to do all the heavy lifting. You're the one
Speaker 4: gonna have to like talk to all the strangers and
Speaker 4: family that you don't know and or not you.
Speaker 5: Can just like have fun, drink at the bar and
Speaker 5: dance all night.
Speaker 3: No what, it's not fun by yourself. You don't know anyone. No,
Speaker 3: this is a this is a this is a scrub
Speaker 3: or wash or delete? What do you call me on
Speaker 3: his date before him? Okay, yeah, hey, I'd love to
Speaker 3: meet not at the wedding.
Speaker 1: Okay, but hey, get some traction on him. Huh yeah
Speaker 1: that reset.
Speaker 3: Yeah, resets the algorithm.
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, all.
Speaker 3: Right, well let us know how that goes. If you ask,
Speaker 3: you have to do something else. And please, I want
Speaker 3: to know what kind of music he likes him? Does
Speaker 3: he like to go to barstoo?
Speaker 2: Where does he go?
Speaker 1: Okay, I'll find this out.
Speaker 2: I just travel.
Speaker 4: What if you went out with him before the wedding
Speaker 4: a few times? Did that change things?
Speaker 1: Should I say that too?
Speaker 12: Or no?
Speaker 2: I'd love to get to know you before going to
Speaker 2: a wedding with you.
Speaker 5: I think it's just like a clever, cheeky thing that
Speaker 5: he's doing.
Speaker 3: So maybe you say that's cute, but let's like, I'd
Speaker 3: rather give.
Speaker 1: Him a test run.
Speaker 5: Okay, all right?
Speaker 2: Good? Why this is momentum and we like it.
Speaker 5: Motion creates motion and.
Speaker 3: If you have any news before Friday, we'd love to
Speaker 3: put it in the show. Mark's telling me.
Speaker 1: All right, I'll let you guys know.
Speaker 2: Okay, thank you?
Speaker 3: Back room, always full of reason, drama.
Speaker 2: That was ruby that was called that I know their
Speaker 2: last by heart?
Speaker 1: Exactly?
Speaker 3: Whose is this? Who's is this? Whose is this? Oh boy,
Speaker 3: that's fine that's me right, There is that Taylor. Now
Speaker 3: it's Ginger Chan. Jeremiah is on the line. Let me
Speaker 3: grab Jeremiah Long Jeremiah, good morning, you're on kiss.
Speaker 2: How you doing and how can we help you?
Speaker 3: I guess more importantly, I got a question for your problem.
Speaker 9: How soon is too soon to ask someone out after breakup?
Speaker 2: Well? How long you been breaking up?
Speaker 9: Well there's this girl I've had a thing for and
Speaker 9: we've just been friends, and she got out of her
Speaker 9: relationship and she was in one for three years, and
Speaker 9: she looks like she's having a time of it. I've
Speaker 9: always been interested in her. I don't want to be
Speaker 9: a rebound guy, but I also don't want to hold on.
Speaker 3: She's getting out of the relationship or you're getting out
Speaker 3: of relationship.
Speaker 2: Only her, only her? I got I mean you have
Speaker 2: no issues, Like maybe.
Speaker 4: She has to make sure that she's over her ex.
Speaker 4: You don't have to Yeah, is she over her ex?
Speaker 4: Do you know?
Speaker 9: I'm not really sure. I mean, she's going through it.
Speaker 9: She's having a tough time after the breakup.
Speaker 2: So why do you know her?
Speaker 3: Why don't you sort of play the role of friend
Speaker 3: here for a minute and get to know the situation.
Speaker 3: Maybe you'll learn something about, you know, how she's feeling,
Speaker 3: how she's on, how she might look at the fact
Speaker 3: that you guys would go out romantically.
Speaker 2: I think you can definitely get some intel here.
Speaker 4: You can say things like if you were my girlfriend,
Speaker 4: I would have never treated you this way.
Speaker 2: Okay, that's a little forward.
Speaker 5: It's a little forward.
Speaker 2: I would cringe.
Speaker 1: Put it in like slowly.
Speaker 5: I'd say give it a month after month, green light.
Speaker 2: To a better way of saying.
Speaker 3: What Sistney's saying is why would anyone treat you like that?
Speaker 3: Why would anyone know you said if you were you
Speaker 3: were to me?
Speaker 1: Is like, okay, maybe that's too for some.
Speaker 4: Like advertise yourself, like make paint yourself in a good
Speaker 4: light so that she sees you and then she starts
Speaker 4: thinking like wow, maybe I should date you.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah.
Speaker 5: Or you can be like the.
Speaker 13: Word out of her mouth now, or you could be
Speaker 13: like maybe ask her to help you update your dating
Speaker 13: app profile and just be like, I just want to
Speaker 13: meet a girl that's kind.
Speaker 1: Love getting charaded like I don't like this.
Speaker 2: So you could say, look, it's not fun dating out there.
Speaker 4: Boom, Yeah, what if we just tried what if you
Speaker 4: were my girlfriend.
Speaker 5: Girl friend feels much?
Speaker 2: I get it, Do you know what I mean?
Speaker 9: I thought I was just going to ask her out
Speaker 9: to do something before I I dropped the girlfriend.
Speaker 2: Yeah, well, Jeremy, you have better advice for yourselfing we.
Speaker 1: Do that, yeah, friends, and then it'll just evolve.
Speaker 2: And good luck to you.
Speaker 9: All right, thank you, good luck.
Speaker 3: Tony won't come down from that level for three hours. Now,
Speaker 3: well done?
Speaker 2: All right? Is it about? Thank you for holding during
Speaker 2: that song?
Speaker 6: Now?
Speaker 3: I want to get to you before I pay a bill.
Speaker 3: That's next thing I'm gonna do. Have you sent me
Speaker 3: a bill?
Speaker 8: By the way, No, I haven't sent you a belt?
Speaker 2: Which bill? When I say bill, which bill? Like makes
Speaker 2: you feel upset? Stomach?
Speaker 3: Uh?
Speaker 12: Oh?
Speaker 14: My car payments really high.
Speaker 2: Let's go.
Speaker 9: Let's go to say my lea, hey.
Speaker 3: My lease, give me give me the details after we
Speaker 3: hang up here. But right now you're calling about your boss.
Speaker 3: So this is a team building exercise. We team build here,
Speaker 3: don't wesist any We got to Disneyland and team build.
Speaker 2: We went on a tour to team build.
Speaker 1: I love company.
Speaker 2: What's your company making you do? Yeah?
Speaker 14: I was sorry to talk over you since neely. Yeah,
Speaker 14: that sounds way better than my company. My company is
Speaker 14: having these ridiculous team bonding exercises that sometimes go to
Speaker 14: like ten o'clock at nights, like silly things sometimes like
Speaker 14: passing the eggs and like these relay races. And then
Speaker 14: we did a ropes course, so I can kind of see,
Speaker 14: you know how that's team building, and like we did
Speaker 14: do aek weekend retreat. But the thing is, you guys,
Speaker 14: this is not happening all the time during business hours.
Speaker 14: Sometimes it's happening, like I said, late till like sometimes
Speaker 14: ten o'clock at night, sometimes on the weekends, and we're
Speaker 14: not getting compensated.
Speaker 8: It's extra for those hours.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm not so into it.
Speaker 3: Yeah, to be honest with you, anything until ten o'clock
Speaker 3: at night pass And if you're going to take up
Speaker 3: our weekends, like okay, maybe one thing at ten o'clock
Speaker 3: till noon, be done by noon so you can be
Speaker 3: with your family. But it's kind of not team building
Speaker 3: when you are making it like is it mandatory you
Speaker 3: go do it?
Speaker 14: So it's pretty much mandatory in the sense that I
Speaker 14: know some of the other employees feel the way I feel,
Speaker 14: But I think we all are afraid to say something
Speaker 14: and like stand up for ourselves because we feel like
Speaker 14: there are other people on the team who would immediately
Speaker 14: like hold that against us, use that against us, and
Speaker 14: try to like get ahead and get promotions over us,
Speaker 14: like if we complain the wait. It's one of those
Speaker 14: things where they say is optional, but it's also so competitive.
Speaker 3: No, that's like when I was playing football, Go ahead, react,
Speaker 3: I played football. Say when I was playing football growing up,
Speaker 3: it was optional to do the morning workout at five
Speaker 3: thirty am before class. Optional, but of course if you
Speaker 3: didn't show up, they they would not play you.
Speaker 1: You didn't want to be the one, Well, they.
Speaker 2: Just would bench you. It's optional because it can't make
Speaker 2: you do.
Speaker 1: It, right, right, right, they technically made you do.
Speaker 2: It, Isabelle.
Speaker 3: I think that it is just a little over the top.
Speaker 2: So what do we do about it?
Speaker 3: Can you get the group together and make a complaint, Yeah,
Speaker 3: you guys have do unite, make a complaint.
Speaker 8: Yeah it's ourselves.
Speaker 2: Well, just get.
Speaker 3: Together and say way we're into like's fine. We do
Speaker 3: this once every once in a while, but it's getting
Speaker 3: in the way of our life.
Speaker 8: Yeah, I've got kids.
Speaker 14: Most of the people on the teams have kids and
Speaker 14: other activities and things they do. It's like, how can
Speaker 14: we have a healthy work life balance at four team
Speaker 14: building all night long?
Speaker 3: I wish quick quick team building or she says, you
Speaker 3: can do cut down some time, forget the weekends and
Speaker 3: the late nights.
Speaker 2: Tony stand up. There we go, trust fall just fall.
Speaker 1: Back, okay, rights.
Speaker 2: Fault and there you go. I caught you right, so
Speaker 2: you trust me? There we go. Team building done is
Speaker 2: about That's all you got to do with the group.
Speaker 8: I love efficient team building and go. I love it
Speaker 8: and I literally love you so much. Thank you for listening.
Speaker 14: All right always?
Speaker 2: All right, Mark, come here, let's come here just for love. Okay.
Speaker 4: I think it also depends on your age, like you're saying,
Speaker 4: like we're all married, we have kids, this and that.
Speaker 4: Like when I first started a kiss, I was in
Speaker 4: my early twenties and we would pull late nights making
Speaker 4: videos and all this stuff, and I loved it just
Speaker 4: because I have anybody.
Speaker 3: To go home to, exactly. But she's got things to do,
Speaker 3: all right, Mark, fall back, Okay, here we go.
Speaker 2: We have to make a noise. That's weird. Well, it's rady.
Speaker 2: I was trying to you don't have just just let
Speaker 2: it happen. Just let it happen. Sure, uh see, trust
Speaker 2: right there?
Speaker 5: Yeah, there you go.
Speaker 3: I don't want to be caught by anybody, so I'll
Speaker 3: be the catcher. Want anybody else want to be caught?
Speaker 1: Can catch you?
Speaker 2: Yeah, we can catch you. I don't want to come
Speaker 2: over there. He doesn't trust those I do trust you.
Speaker 2: But we made the point.
Speaker 5: Wow, maybe we need some more team bonding.
Speaker 2: Yeah, what are you doing tomorrow night at ten pm?
Speaker 1: Let's go?
Speaker 2: So who hear dreams a lot? Do you? Sister? Do
Speaker 2: you remember your dreams? Do you think you dream often?
Speaker 4: We do all dream often. We all dream every single night.
Speaker 4: It's whether or not remember. I don't remember them as
Speaker 4: much as I would like.
Speaker 3: I think I definitely have more dreams of like being
Speaker 3: stuck or pulling myself out of a sleep, you know
Speaker 3: what I mean, like running and not moving. I have
Speaker 3: more of that one than I do beautiful dreams.
Speaker 2: I think. I think that's someone who stands out.
Speaker 4: I feel like the ones I remember are my beautiful ones,
Speaker 4: like I love. There's like there's like, oh, when I
Speaker 4: was pregnant, I dreamt way more pleasant than I do now.
Speaker 5: But that's so good because your dreams are your subconscious
Speaker 5: talking to you.
Speaker 4: I loved going to sleep when I was pregnant, Like
Speaker 4: my dreams were like a whole other world.
Speaker 3: That's so interesting because I never want to go to
Speaker 3: sleep because I know the next day is coming so fast,
Speaker 3: like so I do. But it's like you don't want
Speaker 3: to go to sleep because like, oh, as soon as
Speaker 3: you go to sleep, it's tomorrow.
Speaker 4: My god.
Speaker 2: It's like to have that decompression, Tony, what do you
Speaker 2: dream about most?
Speaker 5: It's interesting. I've been trying to. My therapist tells me
Speaker 5: every morning when I wake up, if I to like
Speaker 5: write my notes page what I dream about, because it's
Speaker 5: all related to your subconscious and like what you're thinking about.
Speaker 5: And a lot of times I feel my dreams, I
Speaker 5: feel lost, like oh, like I don't know, like I've
Speaker 5: either lost like a flipper, like they're weird, but like
Speaker 5: I lost a flippers, like yeah, like I was snorkeling,
Speaker 5: I was in the water restarved for conk no, I
Speaker 5: don't know. I don't know, but I remember like having
Speaker 5: one flipper and like I couldn't find the other foots
Speaker 5: flipper and like stuff like that, Like, I feel like
Speaker 5: lost is kind of the.
Speaker 3: I feel like I try and dial a phone numbers
Speaker 3: sometimes and it doesn't send, and it's like I need
Speaker 3: an emergency.
Speaker 2: So what's the story here?
Speaker 4: Okay, So the story is these are the most common
Speaker 4: recurring dreams for women. And let's just say it's not
Speaker 4: all rainbows and butterflies. Okay, They're kind of dark.
Speaker 2: So this is different for men and women.
Speaker 1: Yeah, so let's start with the women first.
Speaker 4: Number three, Women are likely to dream about small creatures
Speaker 4: like spiders and snakes. This was one of the top
Speaker 4: majority of dreams.
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 4: The second most common recurring dream is losing our teeth.
Speaker 5: How weird is that?
Speaker 3: I've never thought about losing my teeth. You've dreamt about that, Tanya?
Speaker 5: Yes, And you know what that means is it means
Speaker 5: you feel like you're letting go of you, Like you're
Speaker 5: you're not spending enough time on yourself.
Speaker 2: What do you do?
Speaker 1: You see your teeth like in your hand, are like
Speaker 1: are We're like they just.
Speaker 5: Fall out, like they're falling. You can't control it.
Speaker 4: So weird you never once dreamt of losing my teeth.
Speaker 4: I've dreamt of creatures and spiders and things like that,
Speaker 4: but not of my teeth.
Speaker 5: And that was happening a lot after I got my
Speaker 5: puppy because I wasn't sleeping much and I was like
Speaker 5: spending all my time on her. That I was like
Speaker 5: losing myself, Like I was like not taking care of myself.
Speaker 3: Okay, what's number one on the list of top three
Speaker 3: dreams that women have.
Speaker 4: The most common recurring dream for women is us being chased?
Speaker 2: That was what I have.
Speaker 1: You're just like us, y'all.
Speaker 2: I'll read the same recurring dream.
Speaker 1: We dream about being chased regularly. But I wonder if
Speaker 1: it's because you know, when you.
Speaker 4: Like survey men and women like women like true crime,
Speaker 4: and we liked thrillers and psychological TV like at least
Speaker 4: I do. I.
Speaker 1: I love watching all that stuff before I go to bed.
Speaker 2: I watch the husband that comes home that kills the wife.
Speaker 1: All that stuff, Dateline, all that stuff.
Speaker 4: So I wonder, I wonder if that adds to the
Speaker 4: dreaming of like being chased and my baby.
Speaker 3: But look, there's a massive fascination with that, and I
Speaker 3: cannot watch those things either alone in the middle of
Speaker 3: the day or at night before I go to sleep
Speaker 3: anytime of the day for me if I know, I cannot,
Speaker 3: But I do have the number one recurring dream that
Speaker 3: you said is on the list, So I don't know
Speaker 3: why you should celebrate that.
Speaker 2: That seems like it's.
Speaker 1: Well for normal guys or other guys.
Speaker 2: Normal guys. Who's a normal guy. No, one's a normal guy.
Speaker 1: You're other men.
Speaker 4: They dream about flying, like Bryan Gossling. Sure, they dream
Speaker 4: about flying.
Speaker 2: That's not a normal guy. You in fly? Okay, flying.
Speaker 1: They dream about meeting a stranger never, and they.
Speaker 4: Dream about finding money or coming into wealth boring so well,
Speaker 4: you know, they're off in La la land getting rich,
Speaker 4: chased by spiders.
Speaker 3: Chaste and we can't move and my cell phone doesn't
Speaker 3: want and our teeth falling out and our teeth out.
Speaker 5: What interesting, right, isn't it funny?
Speaker 4: The guy I look at Michael when he's asleep, I'm like,
Speaker 4: he's just so pleasant, Like I left this morning, he's
Speaker 4: like flying air place, he's way to red rocks.
Speaker 5: That is such as that's like such a depiction of
Speaker 5: the difference between men and women.
Speaker 2: You know, it's really fascinating. Thanks for listening to On
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