1 00:00:00,560 --> 00:00:02,000 Speaker 1: From Hollywood to you. 2 00:00:02,279 --> 00:00:06,600 Speaker 2: Thank you for listening to us on air with a 3 00:00:06,720 --> 00:00:07,600 Speaker 2: Ryan Seacrest. 4 00:00:09,280 --> 00:00:13,160 Speaker 3: I'll tell you, as a dog father, it is fantastic 5 00:00:13,200 --> 00:00:15,880 Speaker 3: to have great weather to be taking the dogs out, 6 00:00:16,079 --> 00:00:18,279 Speaker 3: because it's a disaster when it's. 7 00:00:19,760 --> 00:00:23,599 Speaker 2: Speak muddy. I know it's muddy and wet. 8 00:00:23,600 --> 00:00:25,759 Speaker 1: Oh, I don't even say it, because I like to. 9 00:00:25,800 --> 00:00:27,800 Speaker 3: Let the dogs play in the bed and their little 10 00:00:27,840 --> 00:00:30,720 Speaker 3: muddy paws get all over my sheets and then they 11 00:00:30,720 --> 00:00:32,280 Speaker 3: touch my pillow and then I think to myself, Okay, 12 00:00:32,280 --> 00:00:33,800 Speaker 3: now I'm gonna get its on my cheek when I 13 00:00:33,880 --> 00:00:34,400 Speaker 3: fall asleep. 14 00:00:34,640 --> 00:00:40,120 Speaker 4: Yeah, or worse pink eye, oh yeah, or the sty Yeah. 15 00:00:40,280 --> 00:00:40,880 Speaker 1: I don't want. 16 00:00:42,479 --> 00:00:43,479 Speaker 2: No one at the stye. 17 00:00:43,960 --> 00:00:46,159 Speaker 3: But it's just been pleasurable to be like in the 18 00:00:46,240 --> 00:00:49,000 Speaker 3: evening with the sun up a little bit later. Right, 19 00:00:49,159 --> 00:00:51,800 Speaker 3: sun's up, almost my bedtime, taking the dogs out for 20 00:00:51,840 --> 00:00:52,720 Speaker 3: that last party. 21 00:00:52,479 --> 00:00:57,120 Speaker 2: Pe or pooh. It's nice. It's actually very nice ceremony. 22 00:00:57,120 --> 00:01:04,440 Speaker 1: More people are well, good morning, good morning, good morning. 23 00:01:04,880 --> 00:01:06,759 Speaker 3: It's gonna beautiful. As I was saying, sunny with highs 24 00:01:06,760 --> 00:01:11,720 Speaker 3: around eighty nearly ninety Inland. Uh, how is your evening, Systey? 25 00:01:12,120 --> 00:01:13,640 Speaker 1: It was pleasant? 26 00:01:13,959 --> 00:01:17,640 Speaker 4: You know what Michael made my mom's recipe of albondigas 27 00:01:17,680 --> 00:01:20,200 Speaker 4: soup for us last night and surprised the whole family 28 00:01:20,240 --> 00:01:20,480 Speaker 4: with it. 29 00:01:22,160 --> 00:01:24,240 Speaker 2: What what's your mom's recipe? Why is it different? I 30 00:01:24,240 --> 00:01:24,560 Speaker 2: don't know. 31 00:01:24,600 --> 00:01:27,200 Speaker 4: I mean it tastes like a albondiga soup, but it's 32 00:01:27,640 --> 00:01:31,160 Speaker 4: it's different. I think it's like less oily and it's healthier, 33 00:01:31,360 --> 00:01:35,000 Speaker 4: you know, but it just tastes exactly like how she 34 00:01:35,160 --> 00:01:37,959 Speaker 4: cooked it when we were kids. So, and it's funny 35 00:01:38,000 --> 00:01:41,600 Speaker 4: because whenever we do soup for dinner, it's a struggle 36 00:01:41,640 --> 00:01:44,160 Speaker 4: to feed the kids, like a healthy soup, you know, 37 00:01:44,160 --> 00:01:47,039 Speaker 4: because they want macaroni and cheese, So we have to 38 00:01:47,080 --> 00:01:49,200 Speaker 4: really sit there and like spoon feed them. 39 00:01:49,240 --> 00:01:51,520 Speaker 1: But they'll finish it and then we're done and then 40 00:01:51,520 --> 00:01:51,960 Speaker 1: I can get. 41 00:01:51,880 --> 00:01:54,000 Speaker 3: Well, you know, they'll go through faces because I remember 42 00:01:54,080 --> 00:01:55,720 Speaker 3: when there were faces where I wouldn't eat soup, then 43 00:01:55,720 --> 00:01:57,440 Speaker 3: I love soup. They faces I wouldn't eat meat, then 44 00:01:57,440 --> 00:01:59,560 Speaker 3: I eat meat. They're just they're they're faceable. I actually 45 00:01:59,600 --> 00:02:00,960 Speaker 3: did something I love to do that is go to 46 00:02:01,000 --> 00:02:04,240 Speaker 3: the grocery store and buy package things for my dinner. 47 00:02:04,800 --> 00:02:07,120 Speaker 3: So I went through, uh, you know, just like buy 48 00:02:07,160 --> 00:02:09,440 Speaker 3: a handful of things that make no sense. I got 49 00:02:09,440 --> 00:02:12,639 Speaker 3: almond butter, I bought berries, I bought nuts, I bought 50 00:02:12,680 --> 00:02:15,560 Speaker 3: like kind of these healthy crackers. I bought some hummus, 51 00:02:15,760 --> 00:02:17,600 Speaker 3: and I bought a green soup and that was my dinner. 52 00:02:17,760 --> 00:02:18,079 Speaker 5: Nice. 53 00:02:18,200 --> 00:02:19,280 Speaker 1: That's like snacks. 54 00:02:20,520 --> 00:02:22,400 Speaker 3: I know, I like snacks for dinner. Sometimes I'm in 55 00:02:22,400 --> 00:02:23,400 Speaker 3: the mood like I just want to stop at the 56 00:02:23,400 --> 00:02:24,480 Speaker 3: store and get snacks for dinner. 57 00:02:24,480 --> 00:02:26,080 Speaker 4: I thought you were going to say, like ingredients, Like 58 00:02:26,120 --> 00:02:28,400 Speaker 4: I was like, I bought three shallots the other day 59 00:02:28,560 --> 00:02:30,320 Speaker 4: and some pinchette that and I was like, I'm going 60 00:02:30,400 --> 00:02:32,799 Speaker 4: to maybe make some sort of pasta dish with this eventually, 61 00:02:32,840 --> 00:02:33,320 Speaker 4: and I did. 62 00:02:34,320 --> 00:02:36,120 Speaker 1: And mushrooms. I threw mushrooms. 63 00:02:36,720 --> 00:02:38,720 Speaker 2: You made pinchetta. You bought pinchetta Like. 64 00:02:38,720 --> 00:02:41,200 Speaker 4: Hey, they was like already like chopped up in package 65 00:02:41,200 --> 00:02:41,919 Speaker 4: at Trader Joe's. 66 00:02:42,080 --> 00:02:43,919 Speaker 3: Hey, guys, take a look at the call screen. Brett 67 00:02:43,960 --> 00:02:46,040 Speaker 3: is there in Los Angeles. Hey Brett, what's up? 68 00:02:46,040 --> 00:02:49,120 Speaker 2: Brother? Thanks for reaching out. How are you hey? 69 00:02:49,200 --> 00:02:49,640 Speaker 6: Doing okay? 70 00:02:49,720 --> 00:02:53,839 Speaker 2: How are you doing well? Just you know, getting it done, 71 00:02:53,919 --> 00:02:54,440 Speaker 2: rolling through it. 72 00:02:54,520 --> 00:02:56,480 Speaker 3: So you are calling about your friend who keeps bringing 73 00:02:56,520 --> 00:02:59,560 Speaker 3: his wife and baby with him every time you guys 74 00:02:59,600 --> 00:02:59,960 Speaker 3: hang out. 75 00:03:01,360 --> 00:03:04,440 Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, yeah, so this is, uh mind you like 76 00:03:04,560 --> 00:03:06,560 Speaker 6: a guy's night. Like we've been doing this for a 77 00:03:06,600 --> 00:03:10,960 Speaker 6: long time now. And my my buddy, he and his 78 00:03:11,000 --> 00:03:14,720 Speaker 6: wife who we all love, like all the guys and 79 00:03:14,760 --> 00:03:16,880 Speaker 6: I get along with her really well. But they just 80 00:03:16,919 --> 00:03:19,400 Speaker 6: had a baby like eight months ago or something like that. 81 00:03:19,280 --> 00:03:19,760 Speaker 7: And. 82 00:03:21,080 --> 00:03:24,800 Speaker 6: They bring the baby and his wife comes along as well, 83 00:03:25,160 --> 00:03:27,200 Speaker 6: so it gets pretty rowdy and like I've got a 84 00:03:27,240 --> 00:03:30,600 Speaker 6: young dog, and the baby cries and the puppy cries 85 00:03:31,680 --> 00:03:35,680 Speaker 6: and it gets really really hairy. So yeah, I don't know. 86 00:03:35,720 --> 00:03:39,640 Speaker 6: We love we love her, like I said, but it 87 00:03:39,640 --> 00:03:42,480 Speaker 6: it gets kind of it gets kind of uh crazy, 88 00:03:42,680 --> 00:03:44,600 Speaker 6: which made my dog bark, and like I said, it's 89 00:03:44,640 --> 00:03:48,200 Speaker 6: just it's just like this like chaotic time when it 90 00:03:48,240 --> 00:03:50,520 Speaker 6: was supposed to be like the guy's hanging out, you know. 91 00:03:52,160 --> 00:03:54,200 Speaker 6: So yeah, I don't know what would you do in 92 00:03:54,200 --> 00:03:56,720 Speaker 6: this situation because we don't want to like we do, 93 00:03:56,840 --> 00:03:58,520 Speaker 6: we do love her, and like we do want like 94 00:03:58,880 --> 00:04:01,440 Speaker 6: to be friends still and every thing, but like and 95 00:04:01,480 --> 00:04:04,360 Speaker 6: we don't want to be rude, but like we don't 96 00:04:04,760 --> 00:04:07,880 Speaker 6: want to like not have a guy's night. 97 00:04:08,000 --> 00:04:10,360 Speaker 2: You know, I gotta go to sysany on this one. 98 00:04:11,240 --> 00:04:13,880 Speaker 4: Well, you need to maybe just set some ground rules 99 00:04:14,200 --> 00:04:17,440 Speaker 4: on the expectations of your evening. So if it's gonna 100 00:04:17,440 --> 00:04:19,080 Speaker 4: be a guy's night, you have to call it that, 101 00:04:19,160 --> 00:04:20,960 Speaker 4: and you have to tell your buddy, Hey, it's just 102 00:04:21,040 --> 00:04:22,080 Speaker 4: the guys tonight. 103 00:04:22,560 --> 00:04:24,720 Speaker 1: If it's a hang at your house. 104 00:04:25,640 --> 00:04:29,080 Speaker 4: Then why are you gonna like not have him bring 105 00:04:29,080 --> 00:04:30,920 Speaker 4: his wife or he wants to bring the whole family 106 00:04:30,960 --> 00:04:31,440 Speaker 4: type of thing. 107 00:04:31,640 --> 00:04:33,000 Speaker 1: That's like that's his crew. 108 00:04:33,120 --> 00:04:37,039 Speaker 5: Now can you ask some of the other bros to 109 00:04:37,120 --> 00:04:39,760 Speaker 5: bring their significant others? So then maybe like you guys. 110 00:04:39,640 --> 00:04:42,360 Speaker 2: Can not what they want though, right, well. 111 00:04:42,040 --> 00:04:45,640 Speaker 5: Maybe then your significant others can hang and play a 112 00:04:45,680 --> 00:04:47,280 Speaker 5: game while you guys watch the game. 113 00:04:48,120 --> 00:04:51,279 Speaker 2: It's interesting he doesn't read the cues on this, Like 114 00:04:51,360 --> 00:04:52,240 Speaker 2: I've done that before. 115 00:04:52,520 --> 00:04:55,400 Speaker 5: Like, uh, Robbie will be doing like a guy's thing, 116 00:04:55,680 --> 00:04:57,400 Speaker 5: and he has a wife that I really like, and 117 00:04:57,440 --> 00:04:59,600 Speaker 5: so sometimes when they go, they'll go do their thing 118 00:04:59,760 --> 00:05:02,600 Speaker 5: and like she and I will play like remy Cubans. 119 00:05:02,720 --> 00:05:08,520 Speaker 4: I think, I say, she and I will play. 120 00:05:07,400 --> 00:05:09,040 Speaker 2: Big cakes but pretend cakes. 121 00:05:09,200 --> 00:05:15,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, Brett, I mean, look, I think on this one, 122 00:05:15,560 --> 00:05:17,120 Speaker 3: maybe there are some ways for you to nudge it 123 00:05:17,120 --> 00:05:19,680 Speaker 3: in the direction you want to go without offending, right. 124 00:05:19,560 --> 00:05:21,400 Speaker 4: Or you can be petty and bring your puppy to 125 00:05:21,440 --> 00:05:24,880 Speaker 4: their house when they invite you over. 126 00:05:25,320 --> 00:05:25,960 Speaker 5: Is that frown upon? 127 00:05:26,120 --> 00:05:26,320 Speaker 7: Yeah? 128 00:05:26,320 --> 00:05:28,400 Speaker 6: I think I think yeah, maybe just maybe just like 129 00:05:28,440 --> 00:05:30,760 Speaker 6: not delineate, like this is guys night. 130 00:05:31,000 --> 00:05:32,919 Speaker 3: I think, so I'll be clear, and then they go, oh, 131 00:05:33,040 --> 00:05:34,560 Speaker 3: you know, IM sorry, bro, I was just not I 132 00:05:34,600 --> 00:05:37,120 Speaker 3: wasn't thinking are Yeah, I got you. I think there's 133 00:05:37,120 --> 00:05:39,360 Speaker 3: a way to handle this so that you don't, you know, 134 00:05:39,600 --> 00:05:42,799 Speaker 3: ruffle the feathers of that family too. Thanks for listening 135 00:05:42,800 --> 00:05:44,760 Speaker 3: to us, Thanks for calling about that. I feel like 136 00:05:44,760 --> 00:05:47,560 Speaker 3: this move was just yesterday that you and Michael and 137 00:05:47,600 --> 00:05:49,600 Speaker 3: the family moved into your new place. And now is 138 00:05:49,640 --> 00:05:52,320 Speaker 3: this the first warm weather season that you experienced in 139 00:05:52,360 --> 00:05:52,800 Speaker 3: the new place? 140 00:05:52,880 --> 00:05:54,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel you've lived there for a long time. 141 00:05:54,320 --> 00:05:56,599 Speaker 4: Well, we closed escrow right towards the end of summer. 142 00:05:56,640 --> 00:05:59,520 Speaker 4: It was like September fifteenth, and then it just went 143 00:05:59,520 --> 00:06:01,640 Speaker 4: straight into the holidays. It was like Halloween and we 144 00:06:01,720 --> 00:06:05,760 Speaker 4: got the big twelve foot skeleton and Christmas and so 145 00:06:05,880 --> 00:06:08,479 Speaker 4: now here we are in spring, and I'm starting to 146 00:06:08,480 --> 00:06:10,120 Speaker 4: realize that we have a fly problem. 147 00:06:11,560 --> 00:06:13,120 Speaker 1: Zip it out, like major ill. 148 00:06:14,279 --> 00:06:14,760 Speaker 2: Zip it up. 149 00:06:14,800 --> 00:06:16,480 Speaker 1: What do you mean, like zip them up in the bags? 150 00:06:16,600 --> 00:06:19,160 Speaker 2: Got it? Fly problem for me is intter of fact. 151 00:06:19,200 --> 00:06:21,080 Speaker 2: Someone told me, yes, stay my fly. That was great. 152 00:06:21,440 --> 00:06:22,080 Speaker 1: It happens. 153 00:06:22,560 --> 00:06:23,360 Speaker 2: It happens anyway. 154 00:06:23,440 --> 00:06:25,280 Speaker 3: So these are flies, these are the big flies. They 155 00:06:25,360 --> 00:06:26,520 Speaker 3: just get in your face, they. 156 00:06:26,360 --> 00:06:27,080 Speaker 8: Get that food. 157 00:06:27,320 --> 00:06:29,080 Speaker 2: They're not good on my watermelon, They're not good on 158 00:06:29,120 --> 00:06:29,560 Speaker 2: my fruits. 159 00:06:29,640 --> 00:06:32,600 Speaker 4: And they're just like hovering in my outdoor patio area. 160 00:06:32,839 --> 00:06:34,920 Speaker 4: And I we thought maybe it was because we had 161 00:06:34,960 --> 00:06:36,320 Speaker 4: like we used to have, like it was a cover 162 00:06:36,400 --> 00:06:37,840 Speaker 4: trash can. So we're like, okay, let's get that out 163 00:06:37,880 --> 00:06:40,960 Speaker 4: of the way. That's not doing the trick. And when 164 00:06:41,000 --> 00:06:43,719 Speaker 4: we moved in, you know, we have two avocado trees 165 00:06:44,560 --> 00:06:48,680 Speaker 4: and one of them had a fly bag thing hanging 166 00:06:48,680 --> 00:06:50,360 Speaker 4: from it when we first moved in, and I was like, 167 00:06:50,360 --> 00:06:53,400 Speaker 4: oh my god, that thing stings. So I told Michael 168 00:06:53,400 --> 00:06:56,200 Speaker 4: to get rid of it, and he did. But there 169 00:06:56,279 --> 00:06:59,600 Speaker 4: was a reason why that was probably there. And so 170 00:06:59,600 --> 00:07:01,640 Speaker 4: I'm doing all this research and this is almost like 171 00:07:01,680 --> 00:07:04,800 Speaker 4: a help to anybody that can call me and help 172 00:07:04,880 --> 00:07:06,479 Speaker 4: me with this, because I know that we've had callers 173 00:07:06,480 --> 00:07:09,360 Speaker 4: call in like that have all the totto farms, yeah, 174 00:07:09,440 --> 00:07:12,240 Speaker 4: or they like they have like horses and stuff in 175 00:07:12,280 --> 00:07:15,640 Speaker 4: their back a caddie exactly, Like, how do you get 176 00:07:15,720 --> 00:07:18,120 Speaker 4: rid of flies? Because I'm buying this stuff off to Amazon, 177 00:07:18,120 --> 00:07:19,160 Speaker 4: and I don't know if it's gonna work. 178 00:07:19,360 --> 00:07:21,120 Speaker 3: Well, a couple of things here, number one. At least 179 00:07:21,120 --> 00:07:23,600 Speaker 3: it's not mosquitos. Those will come to number two. 180 00:07:23,840 --> 00:07:26,160 Speaker 4: But I've bought these little like mosquito things and hopefully 181 00:07:26,240 --> 00:07:26,680 Speaker 4: that works. 182 00:07:26,800 --> 00:07:28,240 Speaker 2: Well, let's see, but those are worse. 183 00:07:28,320 --> 00:07:31,600 Speaker 3: Those kids in my they get somehow mosquitos know what 184 00:07:31,720 --> 00:07:34,640 Speaker 3: time I'm going to bed and they are waiting for me. 185 00:07:34,640 --> 00:07:35,440 Speaker 2: To tuck me in. 186 00:07:35,600 --> 00:07:37,440 Speaker 1: This there was one in my room last night. 187 00:07:37,760 --> 00:07:40,040 Speaker 3: Number two, Wait till you get all the ants coming 188 00:07:40,040 --> 00:07:40,880 Speaker 3: out of the counter. 189 00:07:40,680 --> 00:07:41,040 Speaker 2: In the wall. 190 00:07:41,120 --> 00:07:42,840 Speaker 1: Oh, we've dealt with that already. 191 00:07:42,920 --> 00:07:44,600 Speaker 2: When it gets hot. I mean I live in an 192 00:07:44,600 --> 00:07:45,120 Speaker 2: ant farm. 193 00:07:45,280 --> 00:07:47,960 Speaker 4: Yeah, we've dealt with that. It's so crazy kind of 194 00:07:48,000 --> 00:07:50,360 Speaker 4: just discovering. 195 00:07:48,600 --> 00:07:51,400 Speaker 3: How well it's the heat heat brings out. I mean, 196 00:07:51,440 --> 00:07:54,600 Speaker 3: there are so many ants marching coming out of walls, 197 00:07:54,720 --> 00:07:57,920 Speaker 3: cracked everywhere when heat comes out. But if you are 198 00:07:58,760 --> 00:08:04,480 Speaker 3: a solutions oriented person in the department of Fly, please 199 00:08:04,600 --> 00:08:07,320 Speaker 3: call us because or reach out to somehow Sisney would 200 00:08:07,320 --> 00:08:10,400 Speaker 3: love exactly to get a solution on that. Well, it's 201 00:08:10,400 --> 00:08:11,920 Speaker 3: gonna be a hot one. It's gonna be a warm 202 00:08:11,920 --> 00:08:13,600 Speaker 3: one today. It's gonna be a hot summer probably, so 203 00:08:13,800 --> 00:08:16,160 Speaker 3: get ready for it. Let's see the morning hack. So 204 00:08:18,120 --> 00:08:21,160 Speaker 3: I think, you know, these things are maybe random, but 205 00:08:21,320 --> 00:08:22,320 Speaker 3: I think applicable. 206 00:08:23,120 --> 00:08:24,000 Speaker 2: That's a hard one. 207 00:08:24,160 --> 00:08:25,000 Speaker 5: Is it applicable? 208 00:08:25,480 --> 00:08:26,840 Speaker 1: No, it's applica applicable. 209 00:08:27,520 --> 00:08:28,040 Speaker 2: I don't know. 210 00:08:28,200 --> 00:08:31,120 Speaker 3: Actually, whatever came out is what it is, because that's 211 00:08:31,120 --> 00:08:32,199 Speaker 3: a hard one for me to get out. 212 00:08:32,840 --> 00:08:35,600 Speaker 1: Applicable, applicable, applicable. 213 00:08:37,000 --> 00:08:39,640 Speaker 2: Mark you and a wan. I believe both are acceptable. 214 00:08:39,960 --> 00:08:42,560 Speaker 1: But the first one listed on Google is applicable. 215 00:08:43,360 --> 00:08:46,559 Speaker 2: And what did I say? That's that's what you said? Yes, applicable. 216 00:08:46,840 --> 00:08:48,920 Speaker 3: I can't remember. I can't barely say it. I'm so 217 00:08:49,000 --> 00:08:51,199 Speaker 3: nervous when I say it. I can't hear myself say it. 218 00:08:51,200 --> 00:08:53,960 Speaker 1: I say words like that, compartmentalize. 219 00:08:54,000 --> 00:08:54,120 Speaker 9: Come. 220 00:08:54,160 --> 00:08:55,520 Speaker 3: Do you ever have to give a speech or you 221 00:08:55,520 --> 00:08:57,480 Speaker 3: have a presentation. You know there's a word in there 222 00:08:57,520 --> 00:08:59,719 Speaker 3: that you you're definitely gonna fumble. And all you can 223 00:08:59,760 --> 00:09:04,440 Speaker 3: do is see it coming. 224 00:09:01,440 --> 00:09:04,200 Speaker 5: And I try and just change those words. 225 00:09:04,400 --> 00:09:08,240 Speaker 1: Try once it's in the teleprompter, might be too late, 226 00:09:09,200 --> 00:09:09,520 Speaker 1: all right. 227 00:09:09,679 --> 00:09:12,640 Speaker 3: So anyway, there's a freezer expert on Instagram. This freezer 228 00:09:12,679 --> 00:09:14,680 Speaker 3: experts very famous, got a lot of great tips on 229 00:09:14,679 --> 00:09:16,920 Speaker 3: freezing food. The goal of wasting less, right, that's what 230 00:09:17,080 --> 00:09:19,040 Speaker 3: that's a premise. So these are three foods you probably 231 00:09:19,080 --> 00:09:20,680 Speaker 3: didn't know you could freeze, and three you should definitely 232 00:09:20,679 --> 00:09:26,520 Speaker 3: not freeze eggs, freeze potato chips, and freeze cooked pasta. 233 00:09:26,720 --> 00:09:27,920 Speaker 2: It's all good stuff to freeze. 234 00:09:29,720 --> 00:09:34,360 Speaker 3: Do not freeze hard boiled eggs, Tanya all the time. 235 00:09:34,400 --> 00:09:37,200 Speaker 4: Freeze the egg it's like already like whisking it and 236 00:09:37,240 --> 00:09:39,520 Speaker 4: having egga ready, like so you can make little egg bites. 237 00:09:40,040 --> 00:09:44,400 Speaker 3: Right, the exactly crack whist and frozen. Yes, hardboll don't salad. 238 00:09:44,440 --> 00:09:45,440 Speaker 3: Don't freeze your salad. 239 00:09:46,559 --> 00:09:48,520 Speaker 4: And you think you'd want to because it goes so 240 00:09:48,679 --> 00:09:50,880 Speaker 4: bad so fast now, and I would. 241 00:09:51,160 --> 00:09:52,000 Speaker 5: I could see that. 242 00:09:52,559 --> 00:09:55,120 Speaker 3: A lot of freeze. This is a big headline, do 243 00:09:55,320 --> 00:10:00,800 Speaker 3: not freeze take out food. I I can't tell you why, 244 00:10:00,840 --> 00:10:02,720 Speaker 3: but there's something in there you dont want to freeze. 245 00:10:02,720 --> 00:10:05,400 Speaker 5: Apparently, maybe like the plastic that they send it home. 246 00:10:05,559 --> 00:10:08,319 Speaker 2: I think it's things that are inside the takeout food. 247 00:10:08,720 --> 00:10:13,040 Speaker 3: Today's quote stop being okay, with everything you deserve to 248 00:10:13,040 --> 00:10:14,840 Speaker 3: be treated right, So takes. 249 00:10:14,600 --> 00:10:15,880 Speaker 2: Fine, I'll handle it. 250 00:10:15,880 --> 00:10:20,320 Speaker 4: I'll yeah the headlines well, the La County Board of 251 00:10:20,360 --> 00:10:24,680 Speaker 4: Supervisors unanimously approved a motion to speed up the rebuilding 252 00:10:24,760 --> 00:10:29,520 Speaker 4: process in Altadena by creating one unified permitting authority within 253 00:10:29,559 --> 00:10:33,120 Speaker 4: the Altadena Recovery Center. Santa Monica announced that it will 254 00:10:33,360 --> 00:10:37,120 Speaker 4: not host beach volleyball for the twenty twenty eight Olympics 255 00:10:37,160 --> 00:10:41,000 Speaker 4: after failing to reach an agreement with Olympic organizers. California 256 00:10:41,040 --> 00:10:44,960 Speaker 4: Official sued the Food Bank of Southern California, alleging that 257 00:10:45,040 --> 00:10:49,000 Speaker 4: its leaders misused state and federal funds for their own gain, 258 00:10:49,200 --> 00:10:52,240 Speaker 4: including home renovations and a tesla. 259 00:10:53,040 --> 00:10:56,920 Speaker 10: And the weekend one of Coachella is this weekend, just 260 00:10:57,080 --> 00:11:01,240 Speaker 10: days away. Of course, the ten Freeway features I catching 261 00:11:01,320 --> 00:11:06,720 Speaker 10: billboards from Charlie, XCX, post Alone, Jenny Tyler, and many more. 262 00:11:06,880 --> 00:11:10,760 Speaker 2: All right, let's grab this call here online eleven. Good morning, 263 00:11:11,600 --> 00:11:15,520 Speaker 2: Good morning. My name is Ryan. Who am I speaking with. 264 00:11:18,640 --> 00:11:20,280 Speaker 7: A concerned listener? 265 00:11:21,200 --> 00:11:30,360 Speaker 3: Oh so we're gonna call you, okay, anonymous anonymous. I 266 00:11:30,360 --> 00:11:31,760 Speaker 3: did think that went through. I didn't think how to 267 00:11:31,800 --> 00:11:38,960 Speaker 3: spell anonymous for the secondfore I called you. 268 00:11:44,360 --> 00:11:47,520 Speaker 7: I just want to say one thing. I love you guys' show. 269 00:11:47,559 --> 00:11:51,560 Speaker 7: I listened to it every morning and just you guys 270 00:11:51,600 --> 00:11:58,439 Speaker 7: are great. But the other day on the hack about 271 00:11:58,600 --> 00:12:01,480 Speaker 7: the sequence order of the birth and all that and 272 00:12:01,520 --> 00:12:03,800 Speaker 7: how you know this is a perfect match and this 273 00:12:03,840 --> 00:12:06,160 Speaker 7: isn't for your order effects? 274 00:12:06,280 --> 00:12:10,480 Speaker 3: You should well they say science, not Ryan, science are 275 00:12:10,520 --> 00:12:14,040 Speaker 3: your birth order effects? Who you should marry? And let 276 00:12:14,080 --> 00:12:16,040 Speaker 3: me just recap. So if you're firstborn, you have to 277 00:12:16,040 --> 00:12:18,200 Speaker 3: marry a last born. If you're a middle child, you 278 00:12:18,200 --> 00:12:20,040 Speaker 3: have to marry a last born, And if you're a 279 00:12:20,120 --> 00:12:21,520 Speaker 3: last born, you have to marry a firstborn. 280 00:12:21,559 --> 00:12:24,160 Speaker 2: What do you disagree with everything? 281 00:12:24,920 --> 00:12:28,280 Speaker 7: My first marriage, I am a firstborn. I marry the 282 00:12:28,360 --> 00:12:33,199 Speaker 7: last born, divorced in five years. Oh my second marriage, 283 00:12:33,320 --> 00:12:36,880 Speaker 7: I'm a firstborn, he's a firstborn and we are seventeen 284 00:12:36,960 --> 00:12:37,560 Speaker 7: years strong. 285 00:12:39,840 --> 00:12:41,720 Speaker 3: Let's look at the common denominator who was in both 286 00:12:41,760 --> 00:12:42,400 Speaker 3: relationships here? 287 00:12:42,440 --> 00:12:43,080 Speaker 2: You can't blame me? 288 00:12:46,040 --> 00:12:50,200 Speaker 5: Are you sure that you're both the firstborn positive? 289 00:12:51,280 --> 00:12:55,240 Speaker 11: And I know I'm not the problem because he chooses 290 00:12:55,320 --> 00:12:56,360 Speaker 11: on me the first one. 291 00:12:58,240 --> 00:13:01,880 Speaker 3: Well, look, I think any scientists would say there's always 292 00:13:01,880 --> 00:13:05,160 Speaker 3: that variable. I mean, you look at the exit polls 293 00:13:05,200 --> 00:13:07,520 Speaker 3: when it comes to the elections, and they always have 294 00:13:07,640 --> 00:13:08,920 Speaker 3: that little margin of error. 295 00:13:09,000 --> 00:13:11,880 Speaker 2: Right, you're inside the margin of error. Or I appreciate you. 296 00:13:11,920 --> 00:13:14,520 Speaker 5: Maybe your husband now you're seventeen years strong, is he 297 00:13:14,600 --> 00:13:15,440 Speaker 5: an only child? 298 00:13:16,559 --> 00:13:16,719 Speaker 7: No? 299 00:13:17,120 --> 00:13:18,920 Speaker 5: Oh, the first place. 300 00:13:20,880 --> 00:13:24,280 Speaker 3: But that's great, that's great. You're challenging the science. I 301 00:13:24,320 --> 00:13:25,800 Speaker 3: love that, And so everything is going on. 302 00:13:26,360 --> 00:13:31,199 Speaker 7: Cold have said he was the youngest too, exactly. I know. 303 00:13:31,240 --> 00:13:34,160 Speaker 2: I have a question for you, no question for you. 304 00:13:34,400 --> 00:13:37,720 Speaker 3: How long how long between when you left or divorced 305 00:13:37,840 --> 00:13:41,400 Speaker 3: or he you know, went away your first husband until 306 00:13:41,440 --> 00:13:44,679 Speaker 3: you got married? Like, how much time in between twelve years? 307 00:13:46,040 --> 00:13:48,600 Speaker 3: Twelve years between marriage? Did you ever think you get 308 00:13:48,600 --> 00:13:49,080 Speaker 3: married again? 309 00:13:50,400 --> 00:13:50,679 Speaker 2: No? 310 00:13:51,280 --> 00:13:57,040 Speaker 7: I met my current husband and we became best friends, and. 311 00:13:56,679 --> 00:14:01,520 Speaker 11: Then we started dating, and then two years after we dated, 312 00:14:01,720 --> 00:14:02,480 Speaker 11: he got engaged. 313 00:14:02,520 --> 00:14:04,120 Speaker 7: In two years after that we got married. 314 00:14:05,040 --> 00:14:07,240 Speaker 2: Wow. Well, congratulations. I love it. 315 00:14:07,280 --> 00:14:10,000 Speaker 3: And if you were to look back, I mean, now 316 00:14:10,040 --> 00:14:14,360 Speaker 3: you sit with the luxury of having seen your past 317 00:14:14,400 --> 00:14:16,080 Speaker 3: and knowing that it works out. But I'm sure along 318 00:14:16,080 --> 00:14:17,720 Speaker 3: the way you thought, why did I even get married 319 00:14:17,760 --> 00:14:19,840 Speaker 3: in the first place? This was a bad idea, And 320 00:14:19,880 --> 00:14:22,560 Speaker 3: now you have the perfect, most beautiful marriage of seventeen 321 00:14:22,800 --> 00:14:24,080 Speaker 3: years and that's. 322 00:14:23,880 --> 00:14:27,000 Speaker 2: Just the beginning, right yeait? Correct? 323 00:14:28,200 --> 00:14:31,640 Speaker 3: Okay, So in most cases, if you're a firstborn, marya last, 324 00:14:31,840 --> 00:14:33,840 Speaker 3: if you're a middle child, married a last, if you're 325 00:14:33,840 --> 00:14:35,920 Speaker 3: a last Maria first, but not in every. 326 00:14:35,720 --> 00:14:40,960 Speaker 2: Case, Anonymous, that is correct. What's your husband's name? 327 00:14:43,400 --> 00:14:46,800 Speaker 7: He is, mister Anonymous. 328 00:14:44,960 --> 00:14:49,800 Speaker 3: Yeah, you're the best. Thank you for listening to us 329 00:14:49,800 --> 00:14:53,080 Speaker 3: in Palmdale. Continued success in your marriage. Thank you. 330 00:14:53,680 --> 00:14:56,360 Speaker 2: Bye. I thought I might get her with that one. 331 00:14:56,520 --> 00:14:57,160 Speaker 2: Let's get to it. 332 00:14:57,200 --> 00:15:01,960 Speaker 3: So the husband's eating challenge, boy friends eating challenges on TikTok, 333 00:15:02,120 --> 00:15:02,880 Speaker 3: isn't he It's. 334 00:15:02,680 --> 00:15:04,920 Speaker 1: All over TikTok, and so it's basically the fact that. 335 00:15:04,920 --> 00:15:09,280 Speaker 4: Men eat way faster than women usually. So what you're 336 00:15:09,280 --> 00:15:12,160 Speaker 4: supposed to do is get your plates. Let's say it's 337 00:15:12,160 --> 00:15:13,720 Speaker 4: like this, do you probably be better if you have 338 00:15:13,760 --> 00:15:18,480 Speaker 4: the same exact meals, maybe like burritos or a cheeseburger 339 00:15:18,600 --> 00:15:20,920 Speaker 4: or something like that, and you sit down like I 340 00:15:20,960 --> 00:15:23,520 Speaker 4: just know that in my household, Michael can take down 341 00:15:23,760 --> 00:15:27,920 Speaker 4: his plate second's thirds all before I'm even barely even 342 00:15:28,000 --> 00:15:31,000 Speaker 4: denting my plate. So you're supposed to go bite for 343 00:15:31,040 --> 00:15:32,920 Speaker 4: bite as soon as they take a bite you take 344 00:15:32,960 --> 00:15:33,320 Speaker 4: a bite. 345 00:15:33,360 --> 00:15:34,760 Speaker 1: As soon as they take another bite, You take a 346 00:15:34,760 --> 00:15:36,000 Speaker 1: bite and you keep going. 347 00:15:36,080 --> 00:15:38,080 Speaker 4: But these videos are hysterical because you just see how 348 00:15:38,160 --> 00:15:41,920 Speaker 4: much faster guys eat and then swallow, and then eat 349 00:15:41,960 --> 00:15:42,360 Speaker 4: and swallow. 350 00:15:42,400 --> 00:15:45,800 Speaker 3: It's just, yeah, we kind of don't look up at times. 351 00:15:45,800 --> 00:15:47,840 Speaker 2: I'm the curve. I'm a very fast eater. 352 00:15:47,960 --> 00:15:49,840 Speaker 3: I read things that say slow down, it's better for 353 00:15:49,840 --> 00:15:52,960 Speaker 3: your digestion, you won't eat as much. My dad eats, 354 00:15:53,120 --> 00:15:56,680 Speaker 3: So you have to understand something. Usually I just want 355 00:15:56,680 --> 00:16:00,480 Speaker 3: to I want to enjoy it. But the sooner we finished, 356 00:16:00,480 --> 00:16:01,600 Speaker 3: the more time in life there is. 357 00:16:01,800 --> 00:16:03,960 Speaker 5: Oh my god, my gosh. 358 00:16:04,000 --> 00:16:08,240 Speaker 3: And so when I with my family, my father, he's 359 00:16:08,320 --> 00:16:12,040 Speaker 3: very slow. I mean, we are done, and we're yawning 360 00:16:12,240 --> 00:16:15,760 Speaker 3: or nodding with our heads and he's still taking his 361 00:16:15,880 --> 00:16:16,960 Speaker 3: fork through his scampy. 362 00:16:17,160 --> 00:16:19,640 Speaker 5: But it's not about that. It's not about shoveling food 363 00:16:19,680 --> 00:16:21,920 Speaker 5: down so you can leave. It's about enjoying your meal 364 00:16:22,000 --> 00:16:25,760 Speaker 5: and sitting there and having conversation versations. 365 00:16:26,160 --> 00:16:27,640 Speaker 2: Who's a happier foodie than I? 366 00:16:27,760 --> 00:16:31,680 Speaker 3: No, no one here, no one enjoys food more than I. 367 00:16:31,840 --> 00:16:35,120 Speaker 5: But it's not about the food. It's about the experience. 368 00:16:36,760 --> 00:16:40,000 Speaker 1: This is the difference. This is the debate. Guys just 369 00:16:40,040 --> 00:16:41,320 Speaker 1: like eat it super fast. 370 00:16:41,400 --> 00:16:44,320 Speaker 4: Like Michael won't even clean his hands in the middle 371 00:16:44,320 --> 00:16:45,880 Speaker 4: of like, you know, I will like take bye and 372 00:16:45,880 --> 00:16:47,680 Speaker 4: if I get like my hands or Y'll clean them 373 00:16:47,720 --> 00:16:50,440 Speaker 4: and then start again. 374 00:16:52,720 --> 00:16:53,400 Speaker 2: What a process. 375 00:16:53,520 --> 00:16:58,160 Speaker 4: See, he doesn't even use a napkins. 376 00:16:58,160 --> 00:17:00,520 Speaker 3: Sometimes they stand up and he like very any days 377 00:17:00,600 --> 00:17:02,080 Speaker 3: during the week where I get home and I just 378 00:17:02,120 --> 00:17:03,720 Speaker 3: stand in the kitchen and I eat something out of 379 00:17:03,720 --> 00:17:06,320 Speaker 3: the fridge and I'm done, and then I put together 380 00:17:06,359 --> 00:17:08,800 Speaker 3: you know, my my treat, my bowl of berries and 381 00:17:09,040 --> 00:17:10,200 Speaker 3: almond butter and milk. 382 00:17:10,520 --> 00:17:12,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, those days are over family dinner. Every day. 383 00:17:12,760 --> 00:17:16,159 Speaker 3: You're sort of red flags written down somewhere when it 384 00:17:16,160 --> 00:17:18,200 Speaker 3: comes to meeting somebody. You're on Kiss FM this morning, 385 00:17:18,560 --> 00:17:21,680 Speaker 3: it's Wednesday. Just curious, do you have like your most 386 00:17:21,680 --> 00:17:24,960 Speaker 3: important things to think about that are red flags for yourself? 387 00:17:24,960 --> 00:17:27,080 Speaker 3: Maybe there's two, three, four, but these are your your 388 00:17:27,160 --> 00:17:27,800 Speaker 3: red flags? 389 00:17:28,960 --> 00:17:30,840 Speaker 1: Sure, I mean they're just in my head. I'm written 390 00:17:30,880 --> 00:17:31,480 Speaker 1: down anywhere. 391 00:17:31,800 --> 00:17:32,920 Speaker 2: Well, Timothy's on the line. 392 00:17:32,920 --> 00:17:35,439 Speaker 3: I bring that up because Timothy is telling us, and 393 00:17:35,440 --> 00:17:37,760 Speaker 3: thank you for listening. Timothy in Hollywood, he's telling us 394 00:17:37,760 --> 00:17:40,240 Speaker 3: and he met the perfect guy but there's a huge 395 00:17:40,280 --> 00:17:41,560 Speaker 3: red flag. What is that red flag? 396 00:17:43,560 --> 00:17:47,679 Speaker 8: So yeah, like I met this great guy on Hinge. 397 00:17:47,840 --> 00:17:51,919 Speaker 8: You know, he's super hot, we have great charisma. You know, 398 00:17:52,000 --> 00:17:55,040 Speaker 8: my friends loved him. It's all it's all the green flags. 399 00:17:55,200 --> 00:17:59,520 Speaker 8: But last week, when I sat down and I was like, okay, 400 00:17:59,720 --> 00:18:02,320 Speaker 8: you know, like I really like you, let's make this official, 401 00:18:03,040 --> 00:18:06,600 Speaker 8: he came clean and basically told me he's in a 402 00:18:06,720 --> 00:18:11,000 Speaker 8: terrible financial situation, like he's he's a hair away from 403 00:18:11,000 --> 00:18:14,760 Speaker 8: filing for bankruptcy. His credit score is like four hundred, 404 00:18:15,080 --> 00:18:17,760 Speaker 8: and he's getting called from the credit people all the time. 405 00:18:20,080 --> 00:18:20,800 Speaker 8: And now I don't know. 406 00:18:20,800 --> 00:18:21,159 Speaker 1: What to do. 407 00:18:22,359 --> 00:18:25,200 Speaker 3: So Timothy, I appreciate your transparency and honesty in this one. 408 00:18:25,280 --> 00:18:26,760 Speaker 2: Why does it bother you? 409 00:18:29,000 --> 00:18:32,720 Speaker 8: I was hoping that I could expect more from the 410 00:18:33,040 --> 00:18:33,840 Speaker 8: from my partner. 411 00:18:34,280 --> 00:18:35,600 Speaker 1: Yea, because you're seeing a future. 412 00:18:35,640 --> 00:18:37,760 Speaker 4: You're seeing like a future with this person, and then 413 00:18:38,359 --> 00:18:40,440 Speaker 4: they have creditors calling them every day. 414 00:18:40,560 --> 00:18:43,439 Speaker 1: That's kind of not the future someone would want. 415 00:18:44,000 --> 00:18:47,440 Speaker 8: Yeah, right, what's your financial situation? 416 00:18:49,000 --> 00:18:49,960 Speaker 2: Are you in good credit? 417 00:18:50,880 --> 00:18:54,680 Speaker 8: I My credit's okay, Like I have a job at least, 418 00:18:54,720 --> 00:18:57,240 Speaker 8: like I'm working, you know, I'm working towards something. 419 00:18:58,400 --> 00:19:00,000 Speaker 2: So Can I just go ahead. 420 00:19:00,440 --> 00:19:03,480 Speaker 5: I don't think it's necessarily a bad thing. If somebody's 421 00:19:03,560 --> 00:19:06,840 Speaker 5: in debt, I think it's their their attitude about it. 422 00:19:07,320 --> 00:19:10,239 Speaker 5: Like if he's chill and just kind of it is 423 00:19:10,280 --> 00:19:12,240 Speaker 5: what it is, or if he has a game plan 424 00:19:12,320 --> 00:19:15,840 Speaker 5: and an action plan, and I feel like it's his 425 00:19:15,960 --> 00:19:16,800 Speaker 5: attitude about it. 426 00:19:19,600 --> 00:19:21,360 Speaker 2: He's Timothy. Let me just tell you. 427 00:19:21,359 --> 00:19:24,400 Speaker 3: Can I just be direct here and what I think? Yeah, 428 00:19:24,480 --> 00:19:28,760 Speaker 3: you're contradicting yourself. You're creating your own turmoil here. You're 429 00:19:28,800 --> 00:19:31,760 Speaker 3: saying he's the perfect guy, but he's not. So you're 430 00:19:31,840 --> 00:19:34,320 Speaker 3: trying to trick yourself into this guy being the perfect guy. 431 00:19:34,400 --> 00:19:36,080 Speaker 3: He's not the perfect guy. It's a red flag for you. 432 00:19:36,080 --> 00:19:37,840 Speaker 3: It's a problem for you. You're not comfortable with it. 433 00:19:38,119 --> 00:19:40,160 Speaker 3: He's not the perfect guy, So get off that Moniker. 434 00:19:41,720 --> 00:19:45,040 Speaker 8: But it feels like everything's perfect except for this Timothy. 435 00:19:45,320 --> 00:19:48,440 Speaker 3: Perfect is perfect. It's not perfect except everything else. 436 00:19:49,480 --> 00:19:52,480 Speaker 5: Well, it's temporary. You can get out of debt. 437 00:19:54,119 --> 00:19:57,280 Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't know, Timney. It seems if you tear 438 00:19:57,280 --> 00:19:59,280 Speaker 4: a red flag at your red flag, like the fact 439 00:19:59,280 --> 00:20:02,120 Speaker 4: that he has calling him, it's already gotten out of hand. 440 00:20:02,600 --> 00:20:06,200 Speaker 3: I'm trying to simplify this for you, Timothy. Okay, good luck, 441 00:20:07,480 --> 00:20:07,840 Speaker 3: Thank you. 442 00:20:07,960 --> 00:20:08,200 Speaker 8: Ryan. 443 00:20:09,359 --> 00:20:10,240 Speaker 2: I mean he's not. 444 00:20:11,680 --> 00:20:13,520 Speaker 3: He's not the guy for him if he's got that 445 00:20:13,640 --> 00:20:18,800 Speaker 3: much in his head about it. Yeah, I mean, and 446 00:20:18,920 --> 00:20:20,720 Speaker 3: why try and work it out? Like, why try and 447 00:20:21,080 --> 00:20:23,159 Speaker 3: change things in people you can't. 448 00:20:23,280 --> 00:20:26,800 Speaker 5: It's not changed. When I got I had huge debt 449 00:20:26,840 --> 00:20:29,600 Speaker 5: when I finished college. I had to pay off over time. 450 00:20:29,960 --> 00:20:32,200 Speaker 3: But that's not the it's I'm not talking about change 451 00:20:32,240 --> 00:20:34,080 Speaker 3: the other guy changing his dad. I'm talking about Timothy 452 00:20:34,160 --> 00:20:36,200 Speaker 3: changing his way. He's not gonna change. This bothers him. 453 00:20:36,320 --> 00:20:38,280 Speaker 3: If it doesn't get fixed, it's going to be an issue. 454 00:20:38,320 --> 00:20:40,080 Speaker 3: The guy may change, the guy may not change, but 455 00:20:40,119 --> 00:20:43,160 Speaker 3: Timothy's not changing. Tanya, I am on it with this guy. 456 00:20:44,720 --> 00:20:51,560 Speaker 3: I fully focused on unofficial therapy here anybody else back room? 457 00:20:51,800 --> 00:20:53,000 Speaker 1: I understand I like it. 458 00:20:53,760 --> 00:20:56,920 Speaker 5: Yep, I love therapy. Official therapy. 459 00:20:57,160 --> 00:20:59,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, well this is unofficial and it's free. What do 460 00:20:59,320 --> 00:20:59,640 Speaker 2: you want? 461 00:20:59,720 --> 00:21:02,199 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'll take the free uh and. 462 00:21:02,280 --> 00:21:03,520 Speaker 3: Tell you we have a couple of things we wanted 463 00:21:03,560 --> 00:21:05,320 Speaker 3: you to take the therapy for us and give us feedback. 464 00:21:05,560 --> 00:21:07,679 Speaker 2: Okay, we'll just we'll. 465 00:21:07,600 --> 00:21:09,920 Speaker 4: Draft up that's in every session. We have a question 466 00:21:09,960 --> 00:21:10,920 Speaker 4: that we want you to ask. 467 00:21:11,000 --> 00:21:12,960 Speaker 2: One more thing, on more thing before I go. 468 00:21:13,119 --> 00:21:14,800 Speaker 3: This is for the group, all right, So mckaye in 469 00:21:14,840 --> 00:21:19,040 Speaker 3: the back room, she's on hand, she gets a guy interested, 470 00:21:19,119 --> 00:21:22,600 Speaker 3: he's he's like, you know, way into it, and uh 471 00:21:23,000 --> 00:21:25,439 Speaker 3: he asks her out And now she's like, is this 472 00:21:25,440 --> 00:21:26,000 Speaker 3: a red flag? 473 00:21:26,040 --> 00:21:27,200 Speaker 2: He's asked me to do? This? 474 00:21:27,280 --> 00:21:28,840 Speaker 3: Is is this something I should do? And is this 475 00:21:28,880 --> 00:21:30,240 Speaker 3: worth my time? What do he ask you to do? 476 00:21:30,880 --> 00:21:33,800 Speaker 12: So his profile in general just said he was only 477 00:21:33,800 --> 00:21:36,080 Speaker 12: looking for a wedding date, and so when he matched 478 00:21:36,080 --> 00:21:38,800 Speaker 12: with me, that's what he had said. But like, we 479 00:21:38,920 --> 00:21:41,560 Speaker 12: kind of have some of the similar interests. He likes music, 480 00:21:41,560 --> 00:21:43,600 Speaker 12: he likes to travel. I'm like, it could be kind 481 00:21:43,600 --> 00:21:45,240 Speaker 12: of fun. But I'm like, isn't that a red flag? 482 00:21:45,280 --> 00:21:48,000 Speaker 12: And maybe is it weird? Like daring to meet his family? 483 00:21:48,160 --> 00:21:48,479 Speaker 9: All right? 484 00:21:48,480 --> 00:21:51,159 Speaker 3: Hold on, let me go back to similar things in common. 485 00:21:51,560 --> 00:21:54,240 Speaker 3: Everybody likes music, everybody likes to travel. We need more 486 00:21:54,280 --> 00:21:58,280 Speaker 3: specific like, no one doesn't like music, no one doesn't 487 00:21:58,280 --> 00:22:00,680 Speaker 3: like the travel. So what what else? Was there anything 488 00:22:00,680 --> 00:22:01,280 Speaker 3: detail in that? 489 00:22:02,680 --> 00:22:03,520 Speaker 1: He did not have a lot? 490 00:22:03,600 --> 00:22:04,719 Speaker 5: He works in finance. 491 00:22:05,600 --> 00:22:06,560 Speaker 1: You love? 492 00:22:06,920 --> 00:22:08,520 Speaker 12: That was kind of really it? 493 00:22:10,480 --> 00:22:11,520 Speaker 1: Where where would this be? 494 00:22:11,560 --> 00:22:11,800 Speaker 4: Agan? 495 00:22:12,960 --> 00:22:13,600 Speaker 1: At a wedding. 496 00:22:13,760 --> 00:22:15,560 Speaker 4: He didn't say where, he didn't say weary, but he's like, 497 00:22:15,560 --> 00:22:18,240 Speaker 4: I haven't responding ye his wedding dates. 498 00:22:18,280 --> 00:22:19,800 Speaker 5: Maybe he has a lot of weddings this summer. 499 00:22:19,840 --> 00:22:20,199 Speaker 1: I don't know. 500 00:22:20,240 --> 00:22:23,919 Speaker 3: Weddings are personal and I'm not comfortable enough at a 501 00:22:23,920 --> 00:22:24,960 Speaker 3: wedding with the stranger. 502 00:22:25,320 --> 00:22:26,160 Speaker 2: I just think too. 503 00:22:26,400 --> 00:22:29,720 Speaker 3: I mean, I think it's kind of clever that he 504 00:22:29,840 --> 00:22:31,760 Speaker 3: asked you to do that, because it shows a little 505 00:22:31,800 --> 00:22:35,359 Speaker 3: bit of courage. But if it were me with all 506 00:22:35,400 --> 00:22:39,200 Speaker 3: these people he knows as a newbie with no context 507 00:22:39,240 --> 00:22:40,440 Speaker 3: for him, I don't even. 508 00:22:40,359 --> 00:22:41,600 Speaker 2: Know what kind of music he likes or where he 509 00:22:41,640 --> 00:22:42,080 Speaker 2: likes to travel. 510 00:22:42,160 --> 00:22:44,359 Speaker 4: Just know he likes the category right well, and Michaelukston 511 00:22:44,440 --> 00:22:45,840 Speaker 4: have to do all the heavy lifting. You're the one 512 00:22:45,960 --> 00:22:48,520 Speaker 4: gonna have to like talk to all the strangers and 513 00:22:48,600 --> 00:22:51,640 Speaker 4: family that you don't know and or not you. 514 00:22:51,520 --> 00:22:53,719 Speaker 5: Can just like have fun, drink at the bar and 515 00:22:53,840 --> 00:22:54,520 Speaker 5: dance all night. 516 00:22:55,000 --> 00:22:57,560 Speaker 3: No what, it's not fun by yourself. You don't know anyone. No, 517 00:22:58,160 --> 00:22:59,840 Speaker 3: this is a this is a this is a scrub 518 00:22:59,920 --> 00:23:01,679 Speaker 3: or wash or delete? What do you call me on 519 00:23:01,760 --> 00:23:06,720 Speaker 3: his date before him? Okay, yeah, hey, I'd love to 520 00:23:06,760 --> 00:23:07,720 Speaker 3: meet not at the wedding. 521 00:23:08,080 --> 00:23:11,000 Speaker 1: Okay, but hey, get some traction on him. Huh yeah 522 00:23:11,000 --> 00:23:12,000 Speaker 1: that reset. 523 00:23:11,840 --> 00:23:14,639 Speaker 3: Yeah, resets the algorithm. 524 00:23:15,200 --> 00:23:17,320 Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, all. 525 00:23:17,280 --> 00:23:18,760 Speaker 3: Right, well let us know how that goes. If you ask, 526 00:23:18,840 --> 00:23:20,360 Speaker 3: you have to do something else. And please, I want 527 00:23:20,359 --> 00:23:21,520 Speaker 3: to know what kind of music he likes him? Does 528 00:23:21,520 --> 00:23:22,320 Speaker 3: he like to go to barstoo? 529 00:23:22,320 --> 00:23:22,840 Speaker 2: Where does he go? 530 00:23:23,200 --> 00:23:24,200 Speaker 1: Okay, I'll find this out. 531 00:23:24,160 --> 00:23:24,760 Speaker 2: I just travel. 532 00:23:25,560 --> 00:23:26,880 Speaker 4: What if you went out with him before the wedding 533 00:23:26,920 --> 00:23:28,280 Speaker 4: a few times? Did that change things? 534 00:23:28,280 --> 00:23:29,360 Speaker 1: Should I say that too? 535 00:23:29,520 --> 00:23:29,720 Speaker 12: Or no? 536 00:23:29,960 --> 00:23:31,919 Speaker 2: I'd love to get to know you before going to 537 00:23:31,960 --> 00:23:32,560 Speaker 2: a wedding with you. 538 00:23:32,680 --> 00:23:35,040 Speaker 5: I think it's just like a clever, cheeky thing that 539 00:23:35,119 --> 00:23:35,800 Speaker 5: he's doing. 540 00:23:35,960 --> 00:23:38,840 Speaker 3: So maybe you say that's cute, but let's like, I'd 541 00:23:38,920 --> 00:23:40,280 Speaker 3: rather give. 542 00:23:40,240 --> 00:23:42,359 Speaker 1: Him a test run. 543 00:23:43,600 --> 00:23:45,280 Speaker 5: Okay, all right? 544 00:23:45,320 --> 00:23:48,400 Speaker 2: Good? Why this is momentum and we like it. 545 00:23:50,200 --> 00:23:52,159 Speaker 5: Motion creates motion and. 546 00:23:52,200 --> 00:23:53,680 Speaker 3: If you have any news before Friday, we'd love to 547 00:23:53,720 --> 00:23:54,960 Speaker 3: put it in the show. Mark's telling me. 548 00:23:55,280 --> 00:23:56,680 Speaker 1: All right, I'll let you guys know. 549 00:23:57,200 --> 00:23:58,359 Speaker 2: Okay, thank you? 550 00:23:58,840 --> 00:24:04,320 Speaker 3: Back room, always full of reason, drama. 551 00:24:07,000 --> 00:24:12,920 Speaker 2: That was ruby that was called that I know their 552 00:24:13,000 --> 00:24:13,640 Speaker 2: last by heart? 553 00:24:14,240 --> 00:24:14,800 Speaker 1: Exactly? 554 00:24:15,720 --> 00:24:34,160 Speaker 3: Whose is this? Who's is this? Whose is this? Oh boy, 555 00:24:34,200 --> 00:24:39,400 Speaker 3: that's fine that's me right, There is that Taylor. Now 556 00:24:39,400 --> 00:24:44,720 Speaker 3: it's Ginger Chan. Jeremiah is on the line. Let me 557 00:24:44,720 --> 00:24:47,679 Speaker 3: grab Jeremiah Long Jeremiah, good morning, you're on kiss. 558 00:24:49,080 --> 00:24:50,520 Speaker 2: How you doing and how can we help you? 559 00:24:50,560 --> 00:24:56,040 Speaker 3: I guess more importantly, I got a question for your problem. 560 00:24:56,359 --> 00:25:00,440 Speaker 9: How soon is too soon to ask someone out after breakup? 561 00:25:01,440 --> 00:25:02,800 Speaker 2: Well? How long you been breaking up? 562 00:25:04,840 --> 00:25:07,959 Speaker 9: Well there's this girl I've had a thing for and 563 00:25:08,000 --> 00:25:11,119 Speaker 9: we've just been friends, and she got out of her 564 00:25:11,200 --> 00:25:14,800 Speaker 9: relationship and she was in one for three years, and 565 00:25:16,480 --> 00:25:18,960 Speaker 9: she looks like she's having a time of it. I've 566 00:25:19,000 --> 00:25:21,960 Speaker 9: always been interested in her. I don't want to be 567 00:25:22,000 --> 00:25:25,199 Speaker 9: a rebound guy, but I also don't want to hold on. 568 00:25:26,600 --> 00:25:28,600 Speaker 3: She's getting out of the relationship or you're getting out 569 00:25:28,600 --> 00:25:29,160 Speaker 3: of relationship. 570 00:25:29,160 --> 00:25:32,719 Speaker 2: Only her, only her? I got I mean you have 571 00:25:32,720 --> 00:25:34,360 Speaker 2: no issues, Like maybe. 572 00:25:34,200 --> 00:25:36,960 Speaker 4: She has to make sure that she's over her ex. 573 00:25:37,280 --> 00:25:41,720 Speaker 4: You don't have to Yeah, is she over her ex? 574 00:25:41,760 --> 00:25:42,040 Speaker 4: Do you know? 575 00:25:44,080 --> 00:25:46,399 Speaker 9: I'm not really sure. I mean, she's going through it. 576 00:25:46,480 --> 00:25:48,360 Speaker 9: She's having a tough time after the breakup. 577 00:25:49,040 --> 00:25:49,919 Speaker 2: So why do you know her? 578 00:25:49,960 --> 00:25:52,200 Speaker 3: Why don't you sort of play the role of friend 579 00:25:52,200 --> 00:25:54,560 Speaker 3: here for a minute and get to know the situation. 580 00:25:55,760 --> 00:25:59,680 Speaker 3: Maybe you'll learn something about, you know, how she's feeling, 581 00:25:59,680 --> 00:26:01,080 Speaker 3: how she's on, how she might look at the fact 582 00:26:01,080 --> 00:26:02,520 Speaker 3: that you guys would go out romantically. 583 00:26:02,600 --> 00:26:04,840 Speaker 2: I think you can definitely get some intel here. 584 00:26:05,840 --> 00:26:07,560 Speaker 4: You can say things like if you were my girlfriend, 585 00:26:07,600 --> 00:26:09,600 Speaker 4: I would have never treated you this way. 586 00:26:10,760 --> 00:26:11,840 Speaker 2: Okay, that's a little forward. 587 00:26:11,840 --> 00:26:12,600 Speaker 5: It's a little forward. 588 00:26:13,160 --> 00:26:13,800 Speaker 2: I would cringe. 589 00:26:13,920 --> 00:26:15,160 Speaker 1: Put it in like slowly. 590 00:26:15,400 --> 00:26:18,040 Speaker 5: I'd say give it a month after month, green light. 591 00:26:18,280 --> 00:26:19,240 Speaker 2: To a better way of saying. 592 00:26:19,240 --> 00:26:22,040 Speaker 3: What Sistney's saying is why would anyone treat you like that? 593 00:26:22,080 --> 00:26:24,760 Speaker 3: Why would anyone know you said if you were you 594 00:26:24,760 --> 00:26:25,520 Speaker 3: were to me? 595 00:26:25,800 --> 00:26:27,920 Speaker 1: Is like, okay, maybe that's too for some. 596 00:26:30,480 --> 00:26:33,240 Speaker 4: Like advertise yourself, like make paint yourself in a good 597 00:26:33,280 --> 00:26:34,960 Speaker 4: light so that she sees you and then she starts 598 00:26:34,960 --> 00:26:37,880 Speaker 4: thinking like wow, maybe I should date you. 599 00:26:37,920 --> 00:26:38,560 Speaker 1: Oh yeah. 600 00:26:38,760 --> 00:26:44,000 Speaker 5: Or you can be like the. 601 00:26:45,520 --> 00:26:48,119 Speaker 13: Word out of her mouth now, or you could be 602 00:26:48,240 --> 00:26:51,000 Speaker 13: like maybe ask her to help you update your dating 603 00:26:51,040 --> 00:26:53,359 Speaker 13: app profile and just be like, I just want to 604 00:26:53,400 --> 00:26:56,120 Speaker 13: meet a girl that's kind. 605 00:26:56,200 --> 00:26:58,399 Speaker 1: Love getting charaded like I don't like this. 606 00:26:58,760 --> 00:27:00,920 Speaker 2: So you could say, look, it's not fun dating out there. 607 00:27:01,760 --> 00:27:06,879 Speaker 4: Boom, Yeah, what if we just tried what if you 608 00:27:06,920 --> 00:27:07,760 Speaker 4: were my girlfriend. 609 00:27:09,440 --> 00:27:11,040 Speaker 5: Girl friend feels much? 610 00:27:11,200 --> 00:27:13,360 Speaker 2: I get it, Do you know what I mean? 611 00:27:15,600 --> 00:27:17,160 Speaker 9: I thought I was just going to ask her out 612 00:27:17,200 --> 00:27:20,000 Speaker 9: to do something before I I dropped the girlfriend. 613 00:27:20,080 --> 00:27:22,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, well, Jeremy, you have better advice for yourselfing we. 614 00:27:22,160 --> 00:27:25,840 Speaker 1: Do that, yeah, friends, and then it'll just evolve. 615 00:27:25,960 --> 00:27:26,800 Speaker 2: And good luck to you. 616 00:27:28,040 --> 00:27:29,880 Speaker 9: All right, thank you, good luck. 617 00:27:30,000 --> 00:27:32,800 Speaker 3: Tony won't come down from that level for three hours. Now, 618 00:27:32,840 --> 00:27:33,640 Speaker 3: well done? 619 00:27:34,200 --> 00:27:36,360 Speaker 2: All right? Is it about? Thank you for holding during 620 00:27:36,359 --> 00:27:36,880 Speaker 2: that song? 621 00:27:36,960 --> 00:27:37,040 Speaker 6: Now? 622 00:27:37,080 --> 00:27:38,680 Speaker 3: I want to get to you before I pay a bill. 623 00:27:38,720 --> 00:27:40,280 Speaker 3: That's next thing I'm gonna do. Have you sent me 624 00:27:40,280 --> 00:27:40,560 Speaker 3: a bill? 625 00:27:40,600 --> 00:27:44,200 Speaker 8: By the way, No, I haven't sent you a belt? 626 00:27:44,359 --> 00:27:47,040 Speaker 2: Which bill? When I say bill, which bill? Like makes 627 00:27:47,040 --> 00:27:48,520 Speaker 2: you feel upset? Stomach? 628 00:27:50,200 --> 00:27:50,360 Speaker 3: Uh? 629 00:27:50,560 --> 00:27:50,760 Speaker 12: Oh? 630 00:27:51,119 --> 00:27:53,680 Speaker 14: My car payments really high. 631 00:27:54,160 --> 00:27:54,520 Speaker 2: Let's go. 632 00:27:54,680 --> 00:27:58,720 Speaker 9: Let's go to say my lea, hey. 633 00:27:58,560 --> 00:28:02,359 Speaker 3: My lease, give me give me the details after we 634 00:28:02,440 --> 00:28:05,199 Speaker 3: hang up here. But right now you're calling about your boss. 635 00:28:05,560 --> 00:28:09,720 Speaker 3: So this is a team building exercise. We team build here, 636 00:28:09,760 --> 00:28:12,040 Speaker 3: don't wesist any We got to Disneyland and team build. 637 00:28:12,040 --> 00:28:13,399 Speaker 2: We went on a tour to team build. 638 00:28:15,359 --> 00:28:17,159 Speaker 1: I love company. 639 00:28:18,240 --> 00:28:21,200 Speaker 2: What's your company making you do? Yeah? 640 00:28:21,400 --> 00:28:23,560 Speaker 14: I was sorry to talk over you since neely. Yeah, 641 00:28:23,640 --> 00:28:26,320 Speaker 14: that sounds way better than my company. My company is 642 00:28:26,440 --> 00:28:30,280 Speaker 14: having these ridiculous team bonding exercises that sometimes go to 643 00:28:30,440 --> 00:28:35,240 Speaker 14: like ten o'clock at nights, like silly things sometimes like 644 00:28:35,359 --> 00:28:38,960 Speaker 14: passing the eggs and like these relay races. And then 645 00:28:39,160 --> 00:28:41,719 Speaker 14: we did a ropes course, so I can kind of see, 646 00:28:42,120 --> 00:28:44,360 Speaker 14: you know how that's team building, and like we did 647 00:28:44,400 --> 00:28:48,760 Speaker 14: do aek weekend retreat. But the thing is, you guys, 648 00:28:48,840 --> 00:28:51,800 Speaker 14: this is not happening all the time during business hours. 649 00:28:52,280 --> 00:28:55,160 Speaker 14: Sometimes it's happening, like I said, late till like sometimes 650 00:28:55,240 --> 00:28:58,560 Speaker 14: ten o'clock at night, sometimes on the weekends, and we're 651 00:28:58,680 --> 00:28:59,959 Speaker 14: not getting compensated. 652 00:29:00,120 --> 00:29:02,280 Speaker 8: It's extra for those hours. 653 00:29:02,640 --> 00:29:04,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm not so into it. 654 00:29:04,520 --> 00:29:07,360 Speaker 3: Yeah, to be honest with you, anything until ten o'clock 655 00:29:07,400 --> 00:29:11,200 Speaker 3: at night pass And if you're going to take up 656 00:29:11,200 --> 00:29:14,600 Speaker 3: our weekends, like okay, maybe one thing at ten o'clock 657 00:29:14,800 --> 00:29:16,760 Speaker 3: till noon, be done by noon so you can be 658 00:29:16,800 --> 00:29:19,800 Speaker 3: with your family. But it's kind of not team building 659 00:29:20,000 --> 00:29:25,120 Speaker 3: when you are making it like is it mandatory you 660 00:29:25,160 --> 00:29:25,640 Speaker 3: go do it? 661 00:29:27,240 --> 00:29:31,640 Speaker 14: So it's pretty much mandatory in the sense that I 662 00:29:31,720 --> 00:29:34,320 Speaker 14: know some of the other employees feel the way I feel, 663 00:29:34,520 --> 00:29:37,280 Speaker 14: But I think we all are afraid to say something 664 00:29:37,320 --> 00:29:40,760 Speaker 14: and like stand up for ourselves because we feel like 665 00:29:40,880 --> 00:29:44,360 Speaker 14: there are other people on the team who would immediately 666 00:29:44,440 --> 00:29:47,080 Speaker 14: like hold that against us, use that against us, and 667 00:29:47,120 --> 00:29:50,200 Speaker 14: try to like get ahead and get promotions over us, 668 00:29:50,280 --> 00:29:53,960 Speaker 14: like if we complain the wait. It's one of those 669 00:29:54,000 --> 00:29:57,760 Speaker 14: things where they say is optional, but it's also so competitive. 670 00:29:58,560 --> 00:30:02,959 Speaker 3: No, that's like when I was playing football, Go ahead, react, 671 00:30:02,960 --> 00:30:07,280 Speaker 3: I played football. Say when I was playing football growing up, 672 00:30:07,320 --> 00:30:10,560 Speaker 3: it was optional to do the morning workout at five 673 00:30:10,720 --> 00:30:14,000 Speaker 3: thirty am before class. Optional, but of course if you 674 00:30:14,000 --> 00:30:16,920 Speaker 3: didn't show up, they they would not play you. 675 00:30:16,920 --> 00:30:19,200 Speaker 1: You didn't want to be the one, Well, they. 676 00:30:19,040 --> 00:30:22,000 Speaker 2: Just would bench you. It's optional because it can't make 677 00:30:22,040 --> 00:30:22,360 Speaker 2: you do. 678 00:30:22,360 --> 00:30:25,720 Speaker 1: It, right, right, right, they technically made you do. 679 00:30:25,680 --> 00:30:27,200 Speaker 2: It, Isabelle. 680 00:30:27,320 --> 00:30:30,920 Speaker 3: I think that it is just a little over the top. 681 00:30:31,240 --> 00:30:32,480 Speaker 2: So what do we do about it? 682 00:30:32,720 --> 00:30:36,800 Speaker 3: Can you get the group together and make a complaint, Yeah, 683 00:30:36,840 --> 00:30:39,080 Speaker 3: you guys have do unite, make a complaint. 684 00:30:39,320 --> 00:30:41,680 Speaker 8: Yeah it's ourselves. 685 00:30:42,160 --> 00:30:42,920 Speaker 2: Well, just get. 686 00:30:42,760 --> 00:30:45,080 Speaker 3: Together and say way we're into like's fine. We do 687 00:30:45,120 --> 00:30:47,640 Speaker 3: this once every once in a while, but it's getting 688 00:30:47,680 --> 00:30:49,280 Speaker 3: in the way of our life. 689 00:30:50,640 --> 00:30:51,760 Speaker 8: Yeah, I've got kids. 690 00:30:51,760 --> 00:30:53,840 Speaker 14: Most of the people on the teams have kids and 691 00:30:53,960 --> 00:30:56,560 Speaker 14: other activities and things they do. It's like, how can 692 00:30:56,600 --> 00:30:58,640 Speaker 14: we have a healthy work life balance at four team 693 00:30:58,680 --> 00:30:59,560 Speaker 14: building all night long? 694 00:30:59,680 --> 00:31:02,640 Speaker 3: I wish quick quick team building or she says, you 695 00:31:02,680 --> 00:31:04,920 Speaker 3: can do cut down some time, forget the weekends and 696 00:31:04,960 --> 00:31:05,520 Speaker 3: the late nights. 697 00:31:05,560 --> 00:31:08,840 Speaker 2: Tony stand up. There we go, trust fall just fall. 698 00:31:08,640 --> 00:31:13,000 Speaker 1: Back, okay, rights. 699 00:31:11,960 --> 00:31:13,640 Speaker 2: Fault and there you go. I caught you right, so 700 00:31:13,680 --> 00:31:15,720 Speaker 2: you trust me? There we go. Team building done is 701 00:31:15,760 --> 00:31:17,200 Speaker 2: about That's all you got to do with the group. 702 00:31:18,200 --> 00:31:21,160 Speaker 8: I love efficient team building and go. I love it 703 00:31:21,200 --> 00:31:25,120 Speaker 8: and I literally love you so much. Thank you for listening. 704 00:31:25,840 --> 00:31:27,760 Speaker 14: All right always? 705 00:31:27,840 --> 00:31:32,040 Speaker 2: All right, Mark, come here, let's come here just for love. Okay. 706 00:31:32,040 --> 00:31:33,880 Speaker 4: I think it also depends on your age, like you're saying, 707 00:31:33,880 --> 00:31:35,880 Speaker 4: like we're all married, we have kids, this and that. 708 00:31:36,000 --> 00:31:37,640 Speaker 4: Like when I first started a kiss, I was in 709 00:31:37,680 --> 00:31:40,520 Speaker 4: my early twenties and we would pull late nights making 710 00:31:40,680 --> 00:31:43,440 Speaker 4: videos and all this stuff, and I loved it just 711 00:31:43,440 --> 00:31:44,800 Speaker 4: because I have anybody. 712 00:31:44,480 --> 00:31:47,560 Speaker 3: To go home to, exactly. But she's got things to do, 713 00:31:47,560 --> 00:31:49,360 Speaker 3: all right, Mark, fall back, Okay, here we go. 714 00:31:51,280 --> 00:31:53,240 Speaker 2: We have to make a noise. That's weird. Well, it's rady. 715 00:31:53,280 --> 00:31:55,800 Speaker 2: I was trying to you don't have just just let 716 00:31:55,880 --> 00:31:59,719 Speaker 2: it happen. Just let it happen. Sure, uh see, trust 717 00:31:59,800 --> 00:32:00,280 Speaker 2: right there? 718 00:32:00,360 --> 00:32:00,959 Speaker 5: Yeah, there you go. 719 00:32:02,400 --> 00:32:04,080 Speaker 3: I don't want to be caught by anybody, so I'll 720 00:32:04,120 --> 00:32:07,120 Speaker 3: be the catcher. Want anybody else want to be caught? 721 00:32:07,480 --> 00:32:08,040 Speaker 1: Can catch you? 722 00:32:09,720 --> 00:32:11,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, we can catch you. I don't want to come 723 00:32:11,880 --> 00:32:15,360 Speaker 2: over there. He doesn't trust those I do trust you. 724 00:32:15,440 --> 00:32:16,560 Speaker 2: But we made the point. 725 00:32:16,680 --> 00:32:19,000 Speaker 5: Wow, maybe we need some more team bonding. 726 00:32:19,760 --> 00:32:21,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, what are you doing tomorrow night at ten pm? 727 00:32:21,760 --> 00:32:22,240 Speaker 1: Let's go? 728 00:32:22,880 --> 00:32:25,200 Speaker 2: So who hear dreams a lot? Do you? Sister? Do 729 00:32:25,240 --> 00:32:27,360 Speaker 2: you remember your dreams? Do you think you dream often? 730 00:32:27,920 --> 00:32:29,960 Speaker 4: We do all dream often. We all dream every single night. 731 00:32:30,040 --> 00:32:33,880 Speaker 4: It's whether or not remember. I don't remember them as 732 00:32:33,960 --> 00:32:34,720 Speaker 4: much as I would like. 733 00:32:34,760 --> 00:32:39,040 Speaker 3: I think I definitely have more dreams of like being 734 00:32:39,160 --> 00:32:42,440 Speaker 3: stuck or pulling myself out of a sleep, you know 735 00:32:42,440 --> 00:32:44,680 Speaker 3: what I mean, like running and not moving. I have 736 00:32:44,720 --> 00:32:48,000 Speaker 3: more of that one than I do beautiful dreams. 737 00:32:48,080 --> 00:32:50,280 Speaker 2: I think. I think that's someone who stands out. 738 00:32:50,280 --> 00:32:52,520 Speaker 4: I feel like the ones I remember are my beautiful ones, 739 00:32:52,560 --> 00:32:55,320 Speaker 4: like I love. There's like there's like, oh, when I 740 00:32:55,360 --> 00:32:58,880 Speaker 4: was pregnant, I dreamt way more pleasant than I do now. 741 00:32:58,920 --> 00:33:01,560 Speaker 5: But that's so good because your dreams are your subconscious 742 00:33:01,560 --> 00:33:02,120 Speaker 5: talking to you. 743 00:33:02,360 --> 00:33:04,080 Speaker 4: I loved going to sleep when I was pregnant, Like 744 00:33:04,080 --> 00:33:06,280 Speaker 4: my dreams were like a whole other world. 745 00:33:06,360 --> 00:33:07,720 Speaker 3: That's so interesting because I never want to go to 746 00:33:07,760 --> 00:33:09,760 Speaker 3: sleep because I know the next day is coming so fast, 747 00:33:10,600 --> 00:33:12,560 Speaker 3: like so I do. But it's like you don't want 748 00:33:12,560 --> 00:33:14,080 Speaker 3: to go to sleep because like, oh, as soon as 749 00:33:14,080 --> 00:33:15,320 Speaker 3: you go to sleep, it's tomorrow. 750 00:33:15,920 --> 00:33:16,240 Speaker 4: My god. 751 00:33:16,320 --> 00:33:18,280 Speaker 2: It's like to have that decompression, Tony, what do you 752 00:33:18,360 --> 00:33:19,040 Speaker 2: dream about most? 753 00:33:19,400 --> 00:33:22,160 Speaker 5: It's interesting. I've been trying to. My therapist tells me 754 00:33:22,240 --> 00:33:23,840 Speaker 5: every morning when I wake up, if I to like 755 00:33:23,840 --> 00:33:26,240 Speaker 5: write my notes page what I dream about, because it's 756 00:33:26,280 --> 00:33:28,760 Speaker 5: all related to your subconscious and like what you're thinking about. 757 00:33:29,360 --> 00:33:32,000 Speaker 5: And a lot of times I feel my dreams, I 758 00:33:32,040 --> 00:33:35,280 Speaker 5: feel lost, like oh, like I don't know, like I've 759 00:33:35,320 --> 00:33:37,920 Speaker 5: either lost like a flipper, like they're weird, but like 760 00:33:37,960 --> 00:33:41,880 Speaker 5: I lost a flippers, like yeah, like I was snorkeling, 761 00:33:41,960 --> 00:33:44,240 Speaker 5: I was in the water restarved for conk no, I 762 00:33:44,240 --> 00:33:46,240 Speaker 5: don't know. I don't know, but I remember like having 763 00:33:46,320 --> 00:33:49,719 Speaker 5: one flipper and like I couldn't find the other foots 764 00:33:49,760 --> 00:33:51,920 Speaker 5: flipper and like stuff like that, Like, I feel like 765 00:33:52,040 --> 00:33:52,960 Speaker 5: lost is kind of the. 766 00:33:53,120 --> 00:33:55,440 Speaker 3: I feel like I try and dial a phone numbers 767 00:33:55,440 --> 00:33:57,800 Speaker 3: sometimes and it doesn't send, and it's like I need 768 00:33:57,840 --> 00:33:58,560 Speaker 3: an emergency. 769 00:33:59,000 --> 00:34:01,400 Speaker 2: So what's the story here? 770 00:34:01,560 --> 00:34:03,880 Speaker 4: Okay, So the story is these are the most common 771 00:34:03,880 --> 00:34:06,440 Speaker 4: recurring dreams for women. And let's just say it's not 772 00:34:06,480 --> 00:34:10,960 Speaker 4: all rainbows and butterflies. Okay, They're kind of dark. 773 00:34:11,719 --> 00:34:13,440 Speaker 2: So this is different for men and women. 774 00:34:13,520 --> 00:34:15,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, so let's start with the women first. 775 00:34:15,360 --> 00:34:19,160 Speaker 4: Number three, Women are likely to dream about small creatures 776 00:34:19,200 --> 00:34:21,880 Speaker 4: like spiders and snakes. This was one of the top 777 00:34:22,000 --> 00:34:23,080 Speaker 4: majority of dreams. 778 00:34:23,120 --> 00:34:23,520 Speaker 1: Okay. 779 00:34:24,560 --> 00:34:28,360 Speaker 4: The second most common recurring dream is losing our teeth. 780 00:34:28,600 --> 00:34:29,360 Speaker 5: How weird is that? 781 00:34:29,719 --> 00:34:32,480 Speaker 3: I've never thought about losing my teeth. You've dreamt about that, Tanya? 782 00:34:32,680 --> 00:34:35,160 Speaker 5: Yes, And you know what that means is it means 783 00:34:35,600 --> 00:34:37,359 Speaker 5: you feel like you're letting go of you, Like you're 784 00:34:37,400 --> 00:34:39,880 Speaker 5: you're not spending enough time on yourself. 785 00:34:40,360 --> 00:34:40,840 Speaker 2: What do you do? 786 00:34:40,840 --> 00:34:42,920 Speaker 1: You see your teeth like in your hand, are like 787 00:34:42,920 --> 00:34:45,359 Speaker 1: are We're like they just. 788 00:34:45,280 --> 00:34:47,480 Speaker 5: Fall out, like they're falling. You can't control it. 789 00:34:48,680 --> 00:34:52,000 Speaker 4: So weird you never once dreamt of losing my teeth. 790 00:34:52,000 --> 00:34:53,960 Speaker 4: I've dreamt of creatures and spiders and things like that, 791 00:34:54,000 --> 00:34:55,080 Speaker 4: but not of my teeth. 792 00:34:55,120 --> 00:34:56,560 Speaker 5: And that was happening a lot after I got my 793 00:34:56,600 --> 00:34:59,040 Speaker 5: puppy because I wasn't sleeping much and I was like 794 00:34:59,080 --> 00:35:00,799 Speaker 5: spending all my time on her. That I was like 795 00:35:00,880 --> 00:35:04,240 Speaker 5: losing myself, Like I was like not taking care of myself. 796 00:35:04,400 --> 00:35:06,879 Speaker 3: Okay, what's number one on the list of top three 797 00:35:07,120 --> 00:35:07,920 Speaker 3: dreams that women have. 798 00:35:08,080 --> 00:35:12,320 Speaker 4: The most common recurring dream for women is us being chased? 799 00:35:12,680 --> 00:35:13,680 Speaker 2: That was what I have. 800 00:35:15,080 --> 00:35:16,680 Speaker 1: You're just like us, y'all. 801 00:35:17,239 --> 00:35:18,600 Speaker 2: I'll read the same recurring dream. 802 00:35:18,640 --> 00:35:21,440 Speaker 1: We dream about being chased regularly. But I wonder if 803 00:35:21,480 --> 00:35:23,000 Speaker 1: it's because you know, when you. 804 00:35:23,080 --> 00:35:25,880 Speaker 4: Like survey men and women like women like true crime, 805 00:35:25,920 --> 00:35:30,040 Speaker 4: and we liked thrillers and psychological TV like at least 806 00:35:30,120 --> 00:35:31,000 Speaker 4: I do. I. 807 00:35:32,520 --> 00:35:34,920 Speaker 1: I love watching all that stuff before I go to bed. 808 00:35:35,200 --> 00:35:37,040 Speaker 2: I watch the husband that comes home that kills the wife. 809 00:35:37,000 --> 00:35:38,680 Speaker 1: All that stuff, Dateline, all that stuff. 810 00:35:38,680 --> 00:35:41,320 Speaker 4: So I wonder, I wonder if that adds to the 811 00:35:41,440 --> 00:35:43,560 Speaker 4: dreaming of like being chased and my baby. 812 00:35:43,880 --> 00:35:47,839 Speaker 3: But look, there's a massive fascination with that, and I 813 00:35:47,880 --> 00:35:51,960 Speaker 3: cannot watch those things either alone in the middle of 814 00:35:51,960 --> 00:35:53,920 Speaker 3: the day or at night before I go to sleep 815 00:35:54,920 --> 00:35:58,239 Speaker 3: anytime of the day for me if I know, I cannot, 816 00:35:58,600 --> 00:36:02,600 Speaker 3: But I do have the number one recurring dream that 817 00:36:02,920 --> 00:36:04,279 Speaker 3: you said is on the list, So I don't know 818 00:36:04,320 --> 00:36:05,400 Speaker 3: why you should celebrate that. 819 00:36:05,440 --> 00:36:06,440 Speaker 2: That seems like it's. 820 00:36:06,480 --> 00:36:09,399 Speaker 1: Well for normal guys or other guys. 821 00:36:09,960 --> 00:36:13,359 Speaker 2: Normal guys. Who's a normal guy. No, one's a normal guy. 822 00:36:13,520 --> 00:36:14,120 Speaker 1: You're other men. 823 00:36:14,760 --> 00:36:19,040 Speaker 4: They dream about flying, like Bryan Gossling. Sure, they dream 824 00:36:19,080 --> 00:36:19,680 Speaker 4: about flying. 825 00:36:20,320 --> 00:36:24,280 Speaker 2: That's not a normal guy. You in fly? Okay, flying. 826 00:36:24,480 --> 00:36:27,839 Speaker 1: They dream about meeting a stranger never, and they. 827 00:36:27,800 --> 00:36:31,839 Speaker 4: Dream about finding money or coming into wealth boring so well, 828 00:36:32,040 --> 00:36:34,040 Speaker 4: you know, they're off in La la land getting rich, 829 00:36:35,520 --> 00:36:37,000 Speaker 4: chased by spiders. 830 00:36:36,920 --> 00:36:38,919 Speaker 3: Chaste and we can't move and my cell phone doesn't 831 00:36:38,920 --> 00:36:40,759 Speaker 3: want and our teeth falling out and our teeth out. 832 00:36:40,760 --> 00:36:43,640 Speaker 5: What interesting, right, isn't it funny? 833 00:36:44,120 --> 00:36:46,200 Speaker 4: The guy I look at Michael when he's asleep, I'm like, 834 00:36:46,520 --> 00:36:51,000 Speaker 4: he's just so pleasant, Like I left this morning, he's 835 00:36:51,080 --> 00:36:53,479 Speaker 4: like flying air place, he's way to red rocks. 836 00:36:54,000 --> 00:36:57,040 Speaker 5: That is such as that's like such a depiction of 837 00:36:57,120 --> 00:36:58,359 Speaker 5: the difference between men and women. 838 00:36:58,480 --> 00:37:01,640 Speaker 2: You know, it's really fascinating. Thanks for listening to On 839 00:37:01,760 --> 00:37:04,680 Speaker 2: Air with Ryan Seacrest. Make sure to subscribe, and we'll 840 00:37:04,680 --> 00:37:05,680 Speaker 2: talk to you again tomorrow.