1 00:00:00,320 --> 00:00:02,400 Speaker 1: So I basically know how your week is going because 2 00:00:02,400 --> 00:00:04,400 Speaker 1: you just told me you were snoozing a reminder from 3 00:00:04,480 --> 00:00:07,920 Speaker 1: July twenty one. Oh my god, it's so bad. I 4 00:00:08,000 --> 00:00:10,400 Speaker 1: do that all the time, Like the reminder pops up 5 00:00:10,400 --> 00:00:12,479 Speaker 1: on your phone and you're like, I'll push it off 6 00:00:12,520 --> 00:00:16,840 Speaker 1: an hour that I just learned on my not just learned, 7 00:00:16,840 --> 00:00:19,239 Speaker 1: probably a month ago. Like if you clicked a little 8 00:00:19,280 --> 00:00:21,400 Speaker 1: down button on my computer, it gives you options like 9 00:00:21,560 --> 00:00:26,280 Speaker 1: five minutes, fifteen minutes, our two hours, four hours, tomorrow morning, 10 00:00:26,600 --> 00:00:30,280 Speaker 1: one week. So how did you get from July now 11 00:00:30,400 --> 00:00:35,120 Speaker 1: like tomorrow morning? It's September? I know. I mean I 12 00:00:35,120 --> 00:00:38,320 Speaker 1: should just hit delete, like obviously not that important. It's 13 00:00:38,360 --> 00:00:40,199 Speaker 1: And the worst part is it's to listen to a 14 00:00:40,320 --> 00:00:42,320 Speaker 1: voicemail that I haven't even listened to. I guess I 15 00:00:42,360 --> 00:00:44,360 Speaker 1: could just read it. I mean, I wonder, I hope 16 00:00:44,360 --> 00:00:48,519 Speaker 1: it's not urgent, Like seriously, you know, my whoever it 17 00:00:48,600 --> 00:00:53,760 Speaker 1: is that my first boss, um, you know, taught me 18 00:00:53,880 --> 00:00:56,280 Speaker 1: very early in my career that like, if something's really important, 19 00:00:56,280 --> 00:00:58,600 Speaker 1: I'll call back. That's true. She used to come back 20 00:00:58,640 --> 00:01:02,520 Speaker 1: from vacation in and go select all delete. And I 21 00:01:02,600 --> 00:01:05,080 Speaker 1: was gonna say, why don't you just deleted at this point, 22 00:01:05,160 --> 00:01:08,680 Speaker 1: it's fucking September. Unless it's something that like I'll need 23 00:01:08,680 --> 00:01:10,840 Speaker 1: to like spin my response, you could end up being 24 00:01:10,840 --> 00:01:13,319 Speaker 1: a good thing that I waited. So okay, playing hard 25 00:01:13,360 --> 00:01:15,720 Speaker 1: to get. Let's see what's happening here. Well, the big 26 00:01:15,720 --> 00:01:17,520 Speaker 1: news of this week, I mean, last week we had 27 00:01:17,520 --> 00:01:21,560 Speaker 1: the Kardashians. This week Carty b An Offset and the 28 00:01:22,520 --> 00:01:27,880 Speaker 1: discourse is it though, I mean, yeah, it's not a surprise. 29 00:01:28,000 --> 00:01:30,160 Speaker 1: That's definitely not a surprise. I mean like I was 30 00:01:30,200 --> 00:01:32,760 Speaker 1: surprised and not surprised all at the same time. Do 31 00:01:32,840 --> 00:01:34,880 Speaker 1: you know what I mean? That feeling where you're like 32 00:01:35,680 --> 00:01:39,960 Speaker 1: but actually, like if that's when like your sadness is 33 00:01:40,000 --> 00:01:44,000 Speaker 1: wrapped up, is surprised, You're like that stays, you know, 34 00:01:44,319 --> 00:01:46,759 Speaker 1: like when an old person, like an old celebrity dies, 35 00:01:46,800 --> 00:01:48,800 Speaker 1: you're like you think you're surprised, but you're like, but 36 00:01:48,840 --> 00:01:51,440 Speaker 1: they were my god, when we just Philbin died this year, 37 00:01:51,480 --> 00:01:53,800 Speaker 1: I was so sad. I mean I was sad too, 38 00:01:53,840 --> 00:01:55,480 Speaker 1: but I was also kind of more surprised that he 39 00:01:55,520 --> 00:01:58,160 Speaker 1: was still like, wait, he's still alive. I mean that's 40 00:01:58,200 --> 00:02:00,560 Speaker 1: sort of how this is. It's like obviously, Offset has 41 00:02:00,640 --> 00:02:03,440 Speaker 1: cheated in the past, right where everyone knows that because 42 00:02:03,480 --> 00:02:06,960 Speaker 1: it was very public, they talked about it openly. She 43 00:02:07,080 --> 00:02:10,200 Speaker 1: like tried to divorce him, or maybe they weren't married yet, 44 00:02:10,200 --> 00:02:13,119 Speaker 1: but she tried to leave him. He would like show 45 00:02:13,200 --> 00:02:15,480 Speaker 1: up on a stage at her concerts trying to win 46 00:02:15,520 --> 00:02:18,880 Speaker 1: her back, and he did. It worked right, So this, Like, 47 00:02:18,919 --> 00:02:21,079 Speaker 1: when I read about this, I was like, a man, 48 00:02:21,120 --> 00:02:23,160 Speaker 1: what a bummer because it sounds like he cheated again. 49 00:02:23,919 --> 00:02:26,640 Speaker 1: Um do you buy into the phrase wants a cheater, 50 00:02:26,800 --> 00:02:32,040 Speaker 1: always a cheater? Um? Look, it's blanket statements have been 51 00:02:32,040 --> 00:02:36,160 Speaker 1: getting me into trouble. I'm so curious now that means. 52 00:02:37,440 --> 00:02:39,520 Speaker 1: But no, I look, I do think blanket statements can 53 00:02:39,600 --> 00:02:44,640 Speaker 1: be um, not good. But I think for the most part, yeah, 54 00:02:45,040 --> 00:02:49,000 Speaker 1: um really yeah, I think that there's something psychologically that like, 55 00:02:49,760 --> 00:02:52,760 Speaker 1: if you care so little little about your wife and 56 00:02:52,800 --> 00:02:56,639 Speaker 1: the mother of your child that you're willing to risk it, Yeah, 57 00:02:56,840 --> 00:03:00,560 Speaker 1: the steaks only get less after that. You would think 58 00:03:00,560 --> 00:03:03,120 Speaker 1: that it's literally the should be the most important thing 59 00:03:03,160 --> 00:03:06,520 Speaker 1: in your life. And if you're willing to funk that 60 00:03:06,639 --> 00:03:09,400 Speaker 1: up and you get a second chance and you fuck 61 00:03:09,480 --> 00:03:14,520 Speaker 1: it up again, chances are you're probably going to be like, well, 62 00:03:14,560 --> 00:03:17,680 Speaker 1: that's just what I do now. I've I've always like 63 00:03:18,160 --> 00:03:21,560 Speaker 1: I would never date somebody that got out of a 64 00:03:21,600 --> 00:03:24,280 Speaker 1: relationship because they were called cheating. I would never really 65 00:03:24,960 --> 00:03:29,320 Speaker 1: ever because I would never I would never be able 66 00:03:29,320 --> 00:03:34,000 Speaker 1: to trust them. Yeah, I've never cheated. They cheated. I 67 00:03:34,080 --> 00:03:36,480 Speaker 1: was about to say, Okay, so you wouldn't date you. 68 00:03:36,760 --> 00:03:42,560 Speaker 1: I was really really fucked up though, and um, to 69 00:03:42,800 --> 00:03:46,080 Speaker 1: my credit, and it doesn't make it right. I was done, 70 00:03:46,320 --> 00:03:48,840 Speaker 1: Like the only thing I hadn't done was broken up. 71 00:03:49,480 --> 00:03:52,000 Speaker 1: You know. Well that's kind of like an interesting topic, 72 00:03:52,040 --> 00:03:54,840 Speaker 1: I feel, because it's like why do people cheat? Right, 73 00:03:54,960 --> 00:03:57,800 Speaker 1: Like there's a million different reasons, and like when I 74 00:03:57,880 --> 00:04:01,840 Speaker 1: think about this situation, I think it's can seem easy 75 00:04:02,040 --> 00:04:04,720 Speaker 1: because he did cheat before they got married maybe, And 76 00:04:04,760 --> 00:04:07,240 Speaker 1: so you're like a course CARDI like, you knew what 77 00:04:07,280 --> 00:04:10,640 Speaker 1: you're signing up for. It's never her fault though, you know, 78 00:04:10,760 --> 00:04:13,520 Speaker 1: Like so, but I do sometimes I don't know how 79 00:04:13,560 --> 00:04:16,400 Speaker 1: she is in the relationship. Well, and she said, I know, 80 00:04:16,440 --> 00:04:20,039 Speaker 1: we don't. But I read an article that said she Um. 81 00:04:20,160 --> 00:04:23,200 Speaker 1: She said that she wasn't an angel either, and that's why, 82 00:04:23,480 --> 00:04:25,200 Speaker 1: you know, people were judging her for taking him back, 83 00:04:25,240 --> 00:04:27,280 Speaker 1: and she was like, you know, I'm not an angel either, 84 00:04:27,440 --> 00:04:29,640 Speaker 1: and like this is something we've decided to work through, 85 00:04:30,000 --> 00:04:32,160 Speaker 1: which is just interesting because it's like, I don't think 86 00:04:32,160 --> 00:04:34,360 Speaker 1: that you can, like you said, make a blanket statement 87 00:04:34,520 --> 00:04:38,240 Speaker 1: or make judgments about someone else's relationship necessarily because we 88 00:04:38,279 --> 00:04:42,640 Speaker 1: don't know the dynamics. And so there's these situations where, um, 89 00:04:42,680 --> 00:04:44,640 Speaker 1: maybe you've been in a long term situation or a 90 00:04:44,640 --> 00:04:49,040 Speaker 1: long term marriage and cheating happens, and the other partners 91 00:04:49,120 --> 00:04:51,120 Speaker 1: like not available or you know what I mean, Like, 92 00:04:51,400 --> 00:04:55,360 Speaker 1: there's all of these reasons that sometimes I think that 93 00:04:55,400 --> 00:04:57,760 Speaker 1: when you say things like once a cheat or always 94 00:04:57,760 --> 00:05:02,120 Speaker 1: a cheater, it isn't necessarily true because in a situation 95 00:05:02,160 --> 00:05:04,600 Speaker 1: like that, maybe the person was it was a cry 96 00:05:04,680 --> 00:05:06,560 Speaker 1: for help. It's never the right thing to do. It's 97 00:05:06,680 --> 00:05:10,440 Speaker 1: never the right thing. But I just sometimes go, Okay, 98 00:05:10,480 --> 00:05:12,640 Speaker 1: I could see where people do try to work things out. 99 00:05:13,080 --> 00:05:18,240 Speaker 1: I could see myself in a relationship if someone cheated 100 00:05:18,240 --> 00:05:21,080 Speaker 1: on me being willing to work through it. I just 101 00:05:21,120 --> 00:05:24,000 Speaker 1: don't think if they were start a relationship with someone 102 00:05:24,040 --> 00:05:29,680 Speaker 1: that I knew had had ended a relationship because of cheating. Okay, 103 00:05:29,760 --> 00:05:32,520 Speaker 1: well this, yeah, but you said you did, but I 104 00:05:32,520 --> 00:05:37,120 Speaker 1: would like, but that's my relationship didn't end because I cheated. 105 00:05:37,480 --> 00:05:40,000 Speaker 1: It was already going to end. It was over, I mean, 106 00:05:40,040 --> 00:05:44,680 Speaker 1: and I was just a count um. And I think 107 00:05:44,760 --> 00:05:47,920 Speaker 1: that like when I did that, it was I needed 108 00:05:47,960 --> 00:05:53,239 Speaker 1: to do it to prove to myself that I was done. Um. 109 00:05:53,480 --> 00:05:55,720 Speaker 1: Just so like I mean, I'm not proud of it, 110 00:05:56,200 --> 00:05:59,000 Speaker 1: you know, it's honestly like it actually like I hate 111 00:05:59,040 --> 00:06:01,560 Speaker 1: that I had to follow up my statement was like, 112 00:06:01,600 --> 00:06:04,400 Speaker 1: oh my god, yeah I have because I really prided 113 00:06:04,440 --> 00:06:07,400 Speaker 1: myself will not be I mean, I didn't even cheat 114 00:06:07,400 --> 00:06:09,000 Speaker 1: on my girlfriend in high school when I knew I 115 00:06:09,000 --> 00:06:11,520 Speaker 1: was sucking gay, you know what I mean. Like it 116 00:06:11,680 --> 00:06:13,960 Speaker 1: just was one of those things because it's trust is 117 00:06:14,360 --> 00:06:19,640 Speaker 1: so important because I'm also like I'll trust anybody like gullible. 118 00:06:19,720 --> 00:06:22,200 Speaker 1: I'll trust anybody because I want to believe that people 119 00:06:22,200 --> 00:06:25,360 Speaker 1: are good. So if I go into a relationship thinking 120 00:06:25,400 --> 00:06:28,200 Speaker 1: that you're a cheater, I won't, like I'll never trust 121 00:06:28,240 --> 00:06:30,799 Speaker 1: when you're away, you know, like I would date that person, 122 00:06:30,880 --> 00:06:33,520 Speaker 1: and that's probably more on me than them. Well, I 123 00:06:33,560 --> 00:06:35,520 Speaker 1: was going to say, because like I've cheated and I 124 00:06:35,560 --> 00:06:37,919 Speaker 1: was in my twenties, is not very first relationship and 125 00:06:38,160 --> 00:06:39,680 Speaker 1: we had dated for a long time, but we needed 126 00:06:39,680 --> 00:06:42,880 Speaker 1: to break up to its kind of ongoing like relationship 127 00:06:43,000 --> 00:06:45,480 Speaker 1: or did you it was a long term what do 128 00:06:45,560 --> 00:06:49,479 Speaker 1: you mean? No, no, no, no, no, it wasn't one thing. Yeah, 129 00:06:49,520 --> 00:06:53,479 Speaker 1: but like I will say to me, that was absolutely 130 00:06:53,520 --> 00:06:56,200 Speaker 1: the worst feeling I've ever had in my life. Like 131 00:06:56,279 --> 00:06:59,400 Speaker 1: it is not fun and if you have fun cheating, 132 00:06:59,560 --> 00:07:04,760 Speaker 1: you're fucked up, like something is very wrong deep inside 133 00:07:04,760 --> 00:07:07,080 Speaker 1: of you because it is not fun. It made it 134 00:07:07,120 --> 00:07:10,320 Speaker 1: made me feel like the worst human being ever had 135 00:07:10,400 --> 00:07:13,360 Speaker 1: so much regret. I remember feeling so sick at my stomach, 136 00:07:13,640 --> 00:07:16,880 Speaker 1: like and then to the lying after or whatever until 137 00:07:16,960 --> 00:07:20,400 Speaker 1: you come clean. Is literally the worst feeling I've ever had. 138 00:07:20,400 --> 00:07:24,360 Speaker 1: Imagine being one of those people that like has two 139 00:07:24,400 --> 00:07:31,239 Speaker 1: relationships and trying to keep straight and that's me. That's yeah, 140 00:07:31,320 --> 00:07:33,760 Speaker 1: to be something to be able to do that is 141 00:07:34,760 --> 00:07:37,440 Speaker 1: that's not cool. Yeah, well so that okay. So what 142 00:07:37,480 --> 00:07:39,640 Speaker 1: I would say to what you said, though, is I 143 00:07:39,680 --> 00:07:42,480 Speaker 1: did that once and I've never done it again because 144 00:07:42,480 --> 00:07:44,280 Speaker 1: I'm like, I never want to feel like that. So 145 00:07:44,320 --> 00:07:46,320 Speaker 1: if I need to get out of a relationship, I 146 00:07:46,320 --> 00:07:50,080 Speaker 1: will just get out versus like cheat, you know, what 147 00:07:50,160 --> 00:07:52,520 Speaker 1: I mean. So it's like lesson learns is sometimes I 148 00:07:52,520 --> 00:07:54,200 Speaker 1: don't think that's a fair thing to be like and 149 00:07:54,240 --> 00:07:56,400 Speaker 1: maybe I'm just trying to be like, but wait, I 150 00:07:56,480 --> 00:07:59,800 Speaker 1: did that, so but my lesson really was learned, and like, 151 00:08:00,040 --> 00:08:02,760 Speaker 1: I have not ever, ever, ever had the desire to 152 00:08:02,760 --> 00:08:06,720 Speaker 1: do that again. Since then, I've been cheated on royally 153 00:08:07,600 --> 00:08:12,280 Speaker 1: and um, I don't know, literally I felt that I thought, 154 00:08:12,280 --> 00:08:14,560 Speaker 1: oh my god, this is what I get, you know, 155 00:08:14,640 --> 00:08:16,560 Speaker 1: and all of that that kind of feeling. But I've 156 00:08:16,560 --> 00:08:18,600 Speaker 1: talked about this a lot on the podcast. I talked 157 00:08:18,600 --> 00:08:20,240 Speaker 1: about it when I was on Very Cavalry. But like, 158 00:08:20,640 --> 00:08:23,080 Speaker 1: I got cheated on and I found out three months 159 00:08:23,080 --> 00:08:26,720 Speaker 1: before our wedding, So it was terrible. The worst part 160 00:08:26,920 --> 00:08:29,400 Speaker 1: was is it had been going on the whole relationship 161 00:08:29,440 --> 00:08:31,120 Speaker 1: and when you talk about the double life thing, it 162 00:08:31,200 --> 00:08:33,080 Speaker 1: was that and it was multiple people. I mean, it 163 00:08:33,120 --> 00:08:37,319 Speaker 1: was a very It's a much deeper issue. He did apparently, 164 00:08:37,760 --> 00:08:39,920 Speaker 1: And literally, this is what I think about Cardi that 165 00:08:39,960 --> 00:08:43,640 Speaker 1: I was so fascinating to me is like, um, I 166 00:08:43,800 --> 00:08:45,480 Speaker 1: you know she has a song that we talked about 167 00:08:45,480 --> 00:08:50,800 Speaker 1: whop or whap or whatever. Then well, but like she 168 00:08:50,960 --> 00:08:53,400 Speaker 1: I think has become this woman who sort of prides 169 00:08:53,400 --> 00:08:58,199 Speaker 1: herself on her sexuality, and like offset seems very attracted 170 00:08:58,240 --> 00:09:02,880 Speaker 1: to that, and I wonder, I'm like feminine power to 171 00:09:04,440 --> 00:09:06,680 Speaker 1: scared of that if I were him? Well, I know, 172 00:09:06,960 --> 00:09:10,480 Speaker 1: but like, isn't it an interesting thought? Because this is 173 00:09:10,520 --> 00:09:13,080 Speaker 1: I know how I felt when I was in this relationship, 174 00:09:13,240 --> 00:09:16,760 Speaker 1: like there was something in my gut that knew something 175 00:09:16,840 --> 00:09:19,240 Speaker 1: was going on, and I asked him, I approach and 176 00:09:19,280 --> 00:09:24,280 Speaker 1: whatever just slide straight to my face. Um, but I thought, basically, 177 00:09:24,320 --> 00:09:27,120 Speaker 1: if I had sex with him enough, like this wasn't 178 00:09:27,160 --> 00:09:30,280 Speaker 1: like this was a subconscious thought. Wasn't a conscious thought? 179 00:09:30,320 --> 00:09:32,680 Speaker 1: But like we had so much sex. This is the 180 00:09:32,679 --> 00:09:34,920 Speaker 1: other thing. I'm just like, how the fund did he 181 00:09:35,040 --> 00:09:41,280 Speaker 1: still Wright's But like that's what's so fascinating is and 182 00:09:41,280 --> 00:09:43,760 Speaker 1: I think about that with her sometimes It's just like 183 00:09:44,720 --> 00:09:46,960 Speaker 1: does she put up this front a little bit of 184 00:09:47,000 --> 00:09:50,760 Speaker 1: this like what asked pussy deal to get a guy 185 00:09:50,840 --> 00:09:52,559 Speaker 1: like him to pay attention to her? Or you know 186 00:09:52,600 --> 00:09:54,600 Speaker 1: what I'm saying? Does that make sense? Yeah? I mean, 187 00:09:54,640 --> 00:09:59,280 Speaker 1: look I think that, Um, their situations obviously unique, Like 188 00:09:59,679 --> 00:10:03,559 Speaker 1: they're both like wildly popular entertainers that travel a lot, 189 00:10:03,679 --> 00:10:07,200 Speaker 1: and they're not together, which just opens the door for like, 190 00:10:07,640 --> 00:10:09,600 Speaker 1: I mean, I know when I travel for business, Like 191 00:10:09,720 --> 00:10:12,040 Speaker 1: that's when I've been in like hook up phases in 192 00:10:12,120 --> 00:10:13,800 Speaker 1: my life. And I'm not talking about like when I 193 00:10:13,840 --> 00:10:16,640 Speaker 1: was in a relationship, Like something about the anonymity of 194 00:10:16,640 --> 00:10:18,520 Speaker 1: like being in a new town and just like meeting 195 00:10:18,520 --> 00:10:21,280 Speaker 1: somebody in hooking up. And and then like as a 196 00:10:21,320 --> 00:10:23,559 Speaker 1: touring musician, where you're going through the same cities year 197 00:10:23,600 --> 00:10:26,120 Speaker 1: after year, month after month, like you get your little 198 00:10:26,120 --> 00:10:29,280 Speaker 1: side pieces in those cities, and it's like I think 199 00:10:29,400 --> 00:10:33,520 Speaker 1: there's something about like not being in the same space 200 00:10:33,559 --> 00:10:36,240 Speaker 1: that opens the door for that to happen a little 201 00:10:36,280 --> 00:10:42,080 Speaker 1: bit more commonly in their particular situations. Um. That doesn't 202 00:10:42,080 --> 00:10:45,440 Speaker 1: make it right or wrong in any way. Um, but 203 00:10:45,559 --> 00:10:47,439 Speaker 1: and and for her, I mean, yeah, I mean that's 204 00:10:47,440 --> 00:10:51,199 Speaker 1: a really interesting thought, Like maybe there is maybe she's 205 00:10:51,280 --> 00:10:55,800 Speaker 1: like not what she's selling, you know what I mean, Like, 206 00:10:56,280 --> 00:10:58,600 Speaker 1: or maybe she is, And it's just it just goes 207 00:10:58,640 --> 00:11:00,640 Speaker 1: to show that like if someone's going that she they're 208 00:11:00,679 --> 00:11:05,520 Speaker 1: gonna like and I respect her, Like I think I 209 00:11:05,559 --> 00:11:08,480 Speaker 1: read somewhere that the reason why she wanted to make 210 00:11:08,520 --> 00:11:12,600 Speaker 1: it work was because of their kid. Plus like clearly 211 00:11:12,640 --> 00:11:14,520 Speaker 1: there was love there too, So you don't just throw 212 00:11:14,559 --> 00:11:17,319 Speaker 1: that away because somebody makes a mistake. Like, I think 213 00:11:17,320 --> 00:11:19,440 Speaker 1: it's fair to give someone another shot, but I also 214 00:11:19,440 --> 00:11:22,840 Speaker 1: think it's really important to do what you think is 215 00:11:22,880 --> 00:11:26,520 Speaker 1: best for your children. And my guess is like at 216 00:11:26,559 --> 00:11:29,600 Speaker 1: a certain point she realized what is best for her 217 00:11:29,679 --> 00:11:32,200 Speaker 1: child is for her child to like see a really 218 00:11:32,240 --> 00:11:35,320 Speaker 1: strong mom that stands up in her daughter. Yeah, I 219 00:11:35,400 --> 00:11:39,640 Speaker 1: deserve more than this, because, you know, as much as 220 00:11:39,640 --> 00:11:42,680 Speaker 1: it sucks for any child to like be tossed between 221 00:11:42,679 --> 00:11:44,439 Speaker 1: parents and have to grow up or grow up with 222 00:11:44,520 --> 00:11:47,480 Speaker 1: just one or whatever, like, I think it's worse to 223 00:11:47,600 --> 00:11:49,880 Speaker 1: like grow up in an environment where like your mother 224 00:11:49,960 --> 00:11:53,480 Speaker 1: doesn't get respected by her husband to you know, like 225 00:11:54,080 --> 00:11:57,080 Speaker 1: it just teaches an even worse thing. So right, and 226 00:11:57,120 --> 00:11:59,360 Speaker 1: it's what it's what you end up carrying on into 227 00:11:59,400 --> 00:12:03,360 Speaker 1: your relationship hips. So, um, I googled because I'm curious, 228 00:12:03,400 --> 00:12:07,559 Speaker 1: like what does make people cheat from a psychological perspective, 229 00:12:07,600 --> 00:12:09,360 Speaker 1: And I've read this article on insider dot com that 230 00:12:09,400 --> 00:12:12,400 Speaker 1: I thought was interesting. Um, but they referenced the wants 231 00:12:12,440 --> 00:12:14,080 Speaker 1: a cheater, always a cheater things, So I'm gonna read 232 00:12:14,080 --> 00:12:16,440 Speaker 1: this little blurk it says. The phrase wants a cheater, 233 00:12:16,520 --> 00:12:18,720 Speaker 1: always a cheater has been used Tom and Tom again 234 00:12:18,840 --> 00:12:21,160 Speaker 1: to suggest that any person who has an affair is 235 00:12:21,160 --> 00:12:23,920 Speaker 1: sure to have another in the future. Although these types 236 00:12:23,960 --> 00:12:27,559 Speaker 1: of people exist, there are also cheaters whose actions really 237 00:12:27,600 --> 00:12:31,880 Speaker 1: are one time occurrence. According to Tammy Nelson, a psychotherapist 238 00:12:31,880 --> 00:12:38,160 Speaker 1: and independent consultant for Ashley Madison, Ashley Madison's that website 239 00:12:38,240 --> 00:12:43,560 Speaker 1: of yeah, people match dot com for cheaters, basically, it's 240 00:12:43,640 --> 00:12:45,600 Speaker 1: it's done. I think it got done when they like 241 00:12:46,320 --> 00:12:49,360 Speaker 1: their whole like client lists got revealed right right right, right, 242 00:12:49,400 --> 00:12:53,240 Speaker 1: right right right. Yeah, that's terrible, okay people back to 243 00:12:53,280 --> 00:12:56,199 Speaker 1: the quote. People have tried to put cheating in categories, 244 00:12:56,240 --> 00:12:58,400 Speaker 1: but I think there's different kinds in different needs and 245 00:12:58,400 --> 00:13:02,240 Speaker 1: reasons for cheating, Nelson told Insider factors like where a 246 00:13:02,280 --> 00:13:04,640 Speaker 1: person is in their life, how they feel in a 247 00:13:04,679 --> 00:13:08,920 Speaker 1: specific relationship, or how they feel about themselves at any 248 00:13:08,920 --> 00:13:12,559 Speaker 1: given moment can influence cheating motivations. I thought that last 249 00:13:12,559 --> 00:13:14,839 Speaker 1: part is so fascinating, and this is what I learned 250 00:13:14,920 --> 00:13:18,480 Speaker 1: from the relationship where I got cheated on, is I 251 00:13:18,480 --> 00:13:22,040 Speaker 1: tried everything to be the perfect girlfriend, Like I was 252 00:13:22,200 --> 00:13:24,840 Speaker 1: literally like a fucking Robot in that relationship, you know, 253 00:13:24,880 --> 00:13:27,960 Speaker 1: like it just wasn't a healthy relationship for me. Um, 254 00:13:28,000 --> 00:13:30,480 Speaker 1: but I did everything like that he could have asked, 255 00:13:30,600 --> 00:13:32,920 Speaker 1: you know, like I was the fun girlfriend. I was 256 00:13:32,960 --> 00:13:36,000 Speaker 1: like the cool girlfriend. I was always looked like I 257 00:13:36,040 --> 00:13:37,800 Speaker 1: had my hair makeup. You know. I was just like 258 00:13:37,840 --> 00:13:39,960 Speaker 1: two put together. I was like if anyone to watch 259 00:13:40,000 --> 00:13:41,720 Speaker 1: a sex in the City, there's like a moment where 260 00:13:41,760 --> 00:13:43,840 Speaker 1: Carrie says, She's just like I don't even know what 261 00:13:44,040 --> 00:13:47,360 Speaker 1: who I am. I'm like this like put together Carrie 262 00:13:47,360 --> 00:13:49,800 Speaker 1: when she first was dating Big, And that is how 263 00:13:49,840 --> 00:13:51,520 Speaker 1: I was in that relationship because I think I was 264 00:13:51,559 --> 00:13:54,120 Speaker 1: just I don't know. I was so just ready to 265 00:13:54,200 --> 00:13:56,720 Speaker 1: like get married and that to work and stuff. And 266 00:13:57,360 --> 00:13:59,760 Speaker 1: it just went to show that like it didn't matter 267 00:14:00,000 --> 00:14:04,160 Speaker 1: what I did to enough you have for the relationship 268 00:14:04,200 --> 00:14:06,600 Speaker 1: to work, Like you can't play a role in your relationship. 269 00:14:06,679 --> 00:14:08,680 Speaker 1: You just have to be able to be. Also, it 270 00:14:09,200 --> 00:14:11,320 Speaker 1: exactly right, you have to be able to be You 271 00:14:12,040 --> 00:14:14,760 Speaker 1: also realized it had nothing to do with me or 272 00:14:14,800 --> 00:14:16,840 Speaker 1: what I did or did not do. This was a 273 00:14:16,920 --> 00:14:21,440 Speaker 1: thing within him and like he wasn't happy inside of himself. 274 00:14:21,760 --> 00:14:24,080 Speaker 1: He had his own issues inside of himself that no 275 00:14:24,200 --> 00:14:27,320 Speaker 1: matter what I did, they wouldn't have resolved those things. Yeah, 276 00:14:27,320 --> 00:14:29,640 Speaker 1: he probably there was probably some sort of fear about 277 00:14:29,720 --> 00:14:33,040 Speaker 1: being married. Who knows that he was doing everything he 278 00:14:33,080 --> 00:14:36,680 Speaker 1: could to sabotage it maybe, you know, Yeah, that's between 279 00:14:36,760 --> 00:14:39,320 Speaker 1: him and his therapist whatever it is, but the big 280 00:14:39,360 --> 00:14:44,000 Speaker 1: man upstairs. But anyway, I just made me think because 281 00:14:44,040 --> 00:14:47,040 Speaker 1: I think that's an interesting thought, and especially if you're 282 00:14:47,040 --> 00:14:49,080 Speaker 1: a person who's been cheated on, it's so damaging to 283 00:14:49,120 --> 00:14:52,360 Speaker 1: your self esteem and really though it just might not 284 00:14:52,480 --> 00:14:55,440 Speaker 1: have anything to do with you. So God speed to 285 00:14:55,520 --> 00:14:57,480 Speaker 1: Cardi b. I hope they're happy, and I hope they 286 00:14:57,480 --> 00:15:00,840 Speaker 1: found peace in your life after divorce, and a public 287 00:15:00,840 --> 00:15:04,080 Speaker 1: divorce has to be terrible. So we'll speak just really quick, 288 00:15:04,240 --> 00:15:06,560 Speaker 1: Like I texted you this last night. Like I don't 289 00:15:06,600 --> 00:15:08,920 Speaker 1: know if anybody noticed this because I can't find anything 290 00:15:08,920 --> 00:15:13,160 Speaker 1: about it online, but last night, during the we're breaking 291 00:15:13,320 --> 00:15:18,160 Speaker 1: breaking news here on the Velvet's headelevant, I thought it 292 00:15:18,200 --> 00:15:20,840 Speaker 1: was hysterical that at the end of um I don't 293 00:15:20,840 --> 00:15:22,360 Speaker 1: even know which speech it was because he won more 294 00:15:22,360 --> 00:15:24,360 Speaker 1: than one award, but Luke Combs at the end of 295 00:15:24,360 --> 00:15:27,480 Speaker 1: his speech just goes wop Okay, So first of all, 296 00:15:27,560 --> 00:15:30,600 Speaker 1: let's give the people a little bit on the A C. M. Wards. 297 00:15:30,640 --> 00:15:32,480 Speaker 1: It's very much in Ship and O's world, the country 298 00:15:32,560 --> 00:15:35,000 Speaker 1: music world. But there was a big award show last night. 299 00:15:35,000 --> 00:15:37,760 Speaker 1: It was the first award show since the pandemic. It 300 00:15:37,840 --> 00:15:40,320 Speaker 1: was run very oddly, like I had to just send 301 00:15:40,400 --> 00:15:42,720 Speaker 1: my clients off to the show because no one was 302 00:15:42,760 --> 00:15:45,040 Speaker 1: even allowed to go, Like there was no teams, no 303 00:15:45,160 --> 00:15:49,480 Speaker 1: glam squads were there. Um. But we were watching everything 304 00:15:49,640 --> 00:15:52,720 Speaker 1: on television and Luke Combs won a bunch of stuff 305 00:15:52,800 --> 00:15:57,040 Speaker 1: well deserved. And then he gets through this speech and 306 00:15:57,080 --> 00:15:59,480 Speaker 1: he's like thanking these people. He's such a country guy too, 307 00:16:00,080 --> 00:16:02,400 Speaker 1: And I did not believe you. I had to rewind. 308 00:16:02,400 --> 00:16:05,480 Speaker 1: It was like we did too wet. At the end 309 00:16:05,480 --> 00:16:07,720 Speaker 1: of one of his speeches, he's like thank God and 310 00:16:07,960 --> 00:16:10,280 Speaker 1: blah blah blah, and then he goes wop and then 311 00:16:10,280 --> 00:16:13,720 Speaker 1: he goes and it walks away. And I texted his manager. 312 00:16:13,760 --> 00:16:15,440 Speaker 1: I was like, what is this? What does his manager say? 313 00:16:15,520 --> 00:16:18,000 Speaker 1: I said, I was like, I'm dead. Did he just 314 00:16:18,040 --> 00:16:20,640 Speaker 1: say whop? And he wrote back ha ha, And I 315 00:16:20,720 --> 00:16:22,680 Speaker 1: was like, was that a dare? And he said no, 316 00:16:22,760 --> 00:16:25,680 Speaker 1: it wasn't did his manager know anything about it? I 317 00:16:25,680 --> 00:16:29,280 Speaker 1: mean he seemed to so so what did he say though, 318 00:16:29,520 --> 00:16:32,960 Speaker 1: my guest I know he'd like I asked, he just 319 00:16:33,000 --> 00:16:36,240 Speaker 1: like more information that. Yeah. It was like, my guest 320 00:16:36,360 --> 00:16:38,680 Speaker 1: is like, it's an inside judge between him and his wife. 321 00:16:39,080 --> 00:16:41,120 Speaker 1: I said that to you. I said, I maybe his 322 00:16:41,160 --> 00:16:44,120 Speaker 1: wife dared him or something if he won. And she 323 00:16:44,280 --> 00:16:46,960 Speaker 1: was like, if you win an award, like I'm come, 324 00:16:47,000 --> 00:16:49,800 Speaker 1: you're coming home to a wif Yeah, he's like claiming 325 00:16:49,800 --> 00:16:52,480 Speaker 1: that prize. Yeah. But the funny thing is I was 326 00:16:52,560 --> 00:16:54,760 Speaker 1: just on the phone with my sister on the way here, okay, 327 00:16:55,000 --> 00:16:57,800 Speaker 1: and my sister's I'm forty four, she's forty six. She 328 00:16:57,840 --> 00:17:00,960 Speaker 1: has two kids, like she hasn't a twelve year old 329 00:17:01,040 --> 00:17:03,160 Speaker 1: and a three year old okay, And I said something 330 00:17:03,200 --> 00:17:05,000 Speaker 1: about it. I was like, did you hear Luke come 331 00:17:05,080 --> 00:17:06,840 Speaker 1: say whop? And she goes, what's that? And I go, 332 00:17:08,680 --> 00:17:11,320 Speaker 1: fucking rock? Are you living under? She goes, I go, 333 00:17:11,400 --> 00:17:14,920 Speaker 1: you've never heard the Cardi B song? Who? But she's like, no, oh, 334 00:17:15,359 --> 00:17:18,520 Speaker 1: how my sister? And she my sister is not like 335 00:17:18,960 --> 00:17:21,920 Speaker 1: a square. She's like mom, but you know she hasn't 336 00:17:21,920 --> 00:17:24,040 Speaker 1: been watching because I was like it's even on the news, 337 00:17:24,200 --> 00:17:25,600 Speaker 1: and she goes, oh, I haven't been watching the news. 338 00:17:25,600 --> 00:17:29,359 Speaker 1: I'm tired of politics. So I think she's just been 339 00:17:29,400 --> 00:17:30,960 Speaker 1: busy being a mom. But I'm like, how do you 340 00:17:31,000 --> 00:17:33,920 Speaker 1: miss that song? How do you not hear that song? 341 00:17:34,000 --> 00:17:36,879 Speaker 1: So I was like, put your headphones incause you got 342 00:17:36,920 --> 00:17:38,879 Speaker 1: little ears around you all the time and listen to it. 343 00:17:38,920 --> 00:17:41,080 Speaker 1: Does she die? She doesn't to it? You have to 344 00:17:41,080 --> 00:17:43,800 Speaker 1: report back next week because I'm very curious about her perspective. 345 00:17:44,680 --> 00:17:46,880 Speaker 1: Also asked her if she if she thinks it's pronounced 346 00:17:46,960 --> 00:17:49,800 Speaker 1: whop her wap again, it's said both ways in the song. 347 00:17:49,840 --> 00:17:55,960 Speaker 1: I'm still going with wop. Something else that happened this week, 348 00:17:56,200 --> 00:17:59,879 Speaker 1: and I was texting you about this, but this was 349 00:18:00,200 --> 00:18:03,320 Speaker 1: something we sort of discussed last week was like kinky, 350 00:18:03,400 --> 00:18:09,440 Speaker 1: like vibes, like fetishes, and I had a situation somebody 351 00:18:09,480 --> 00:18:12,399 Speaker 1: likes her feet. We discovered that I have a Wiki 352 00:18:12,480 --> 00:18:18,560 Speaker 1: feet page. Wait, we also discovered that wicky feet exists. Okay, 353 00:18:18,600 --> 00:18:21,440 Speaker 1: let's yeah, let's let's back track to that. So I 354 00:18:21,520 --> 00:18:26,760 Speaker 1: got the wicki fuck that's mine. I just coined that TM. 355 00:18:26,760 --> 00:18:30,280 Speaker 1: What the wick i? Um? I have so many things 356 00:18:30,320 --> 00:18:31,879 Speaker 1: to say that my brain can't function right now, so 357 00:18:32,040 --> 00:18:34,640 Speaker 1: I don't remember exactly how it happened, but I posted 358 00:18:34,680 --> 00:18:37,200 Speaker 1: something on my Instagram stories and this guy wrote back 359 00:18:37,200 --> 00:18:41,600 Speaker 1: to me and he said he's dead serious, dead fucking serious, says, 360 00:18:42,160 --> 00:18:44,800 Speaker 1: how do you feel that your Wiki feet rating dropped 361 00:18:44,920 --> 00:18:47,919 Speaker 1: to four point five from a five? And honestly, I 362 00:18:47,960 --> 00:18:50,480 Speaker 1: was like, hold up, what the fund is Wiki feet? 363 00:18:50,680 --> 00:18:53,679 Speaker 1: Second of all, who the funk dropped me to five? 364 00:18:54,119 --> 00:18:56,640 Speaker 1: And when who's this guy that is noticing that your 365 00:18:56,680 --> 00:19:02,439 Speaker 1: scores changing? Likes your feet mean? Like Wicky asked Wicky Tits, 366 00:19:02,760 --> 00:19:05,480 Speaker 1: I don't know how google it. Hey, I'm gonna buy 367 00:19:05,520 --> 00:19:09,200 Speaker 1: that you are all right now? Well you you deep 368 00:19:09,240 --> 00:19:12,000 Speaker 1: diving and found my Wicky feet page. I will I 369 00:19:12,040 --> 00:19:14,160 Speaker 1: will say there's some false information on there. They say 370 00:19:14,240 --> 00:19:17,960 Speaker 1: we're a size seven. Actually wear a size nine. I'm 371 00:19:18,000 --> 00:19:20,479 Speaker 1: five tin. If I were seven, that would be absurd 372 00:19:20,520 --> 00:19:22,719 Speaker 1: because the nine is actually pretty small for my going 373 00:19:22,800 --> 00:19:25,520 Speaker 1: And edited is it like where it's like I feel 374 00:19:25,520 --> 00:19:28,520 Speaker 1: like that'll drop my rating more if I have bigger feet. 375 00:19:29,400 --> 00:19:31,840 Speaker 1: The other thing is like I don't feel confident about 376 00:19:31,840 --> 00:19:34,320 Speaker 1: my feet. I will say, like, this is not an 377 00:19:34,359 --> 00:19:37,080 Speaker 1: area of my body that that I'm like feel great about. 378 00:19:37,200 --> 00:19:39,280 Speaker 1: I mean, it was really weird to feel like it 379 00:19:39,320 --> 00:19:41,320 Speaker 1: was on display, Like there's other parts of my body 380 00:19:41,359 --> 00:19:43,119 Speaker 1: that I'm like, yeah, I'm like into that, or I 381 00:19:43,320 --> 00:19:46,560 Speaker 1: feel confident about my feet, like they're kind of bony, 382 00:19:46,640 --> 00:19:51,800 Speaker 1: they're long and skinny, Like it's just somebody. Somebody likes long, skinny, bony. 383 00:19:52,320 --> 00:19:54,840 Speaker 1: I guess somebody's into the bone. Well, I couldn't find 384 00:19:54,840 --> 00:19:57,840 Speaker 1: any men on there. Yeah, it's just a girl thing. Okay, 385 00:19:58,240 --> 00:20:02,680 Speaker 1: so this brings women not get hot over men's feet. 386 00:20:02,720 --> 00:20:07,040 Speaker 1: I actually posted that question on my stories after this, 387 00:20:07,160 --> 00:20:09,720 Speaker 1: I posted about the wiki feet page. It's a full page. 388 00:20:09,720 --> 00:20:12,399 Speaker 1: It's got all these pictures of my feet, but it's 389 00:20:12,440 --> 00:20:14,520 Speaker 1: like it's like pictures from my Instagram, but it's just 390 00:20:14,720 --> 00:20:17,720 Speaker 1: you know whatever zoomed in on the feet. I guess, um, 391 00:20:17,760 --> 00:20:20,840 Speaker 1: but I'm like, this is so interesting because like, first 392 00:20:20,840 --> 00:20:22,959 Speaker 1: of all, I'm not in defeat, Like I don't like 393 00:20:23,160 --> 00:20:25,960 Speaker 1: hate feet, but it doesn't really like turn me on. 394 00:20:26,640 --> 00:20:29,440 Speaker 1: So I was like, does this is this a guy thing? 395 00:20:29,680 --> 00:20:33,760 Speaker 1: Or are there girls? I posted that question and literally 396 00:20:34,200 --> 00:20:38,679 Speaker 1: two of women said yes, they're in defeat and said no, 397 00:20:38,760 --> 00:20:42,320 Speaker 1: it's just a creepy guy. That is so funny. Have 398 00:20:42,440 --> 00:20:45,080 Speaker 1: you ever seen um, don't be a medicine cell central 399 00:20:45,119 --> 00:20:47,320 Speaker 1: a drinking your juice in the hood. No, that's the 400 00:20:47,440 --> 00:20:51,359 Speaker 1: longest movie title. There's a really funny scene where they're 401 00:20:51,359 --> 00:20:55,520 Speaker 1: like making love in the kitchen and um, he like 402 00:20:55,680 --> 00:20:57,800 Speaker 1: sucks on her toes, like there's like a you know, 403 00:20:58,320 --> 00:21:02,200 Speaker 1: it's a farcical movie. And he like he like opens 404 00:21:02,240 --> 00:21:05,600 Speaker 1: the he opens the revergerator door and like squirts ketchup 405 00:21:05,640 --> 00:21:10,320 Speaker 1: all over her feet before Like I mean, it's really 406 00:21:10,359 --> 00:21:13,080 Speaker 1: over the job. But it's like that's kind of what 407 00:21:13,240 --> 00:21:16,480 Speaker 1: my impression of like loving feet, you know what I mean? 408 00:21:16,680 --> 00:21:19,720 Speaker 1: Like I could maybe around on them, right, Like let's 409 00:21:19,920 --> 00:21:23,800 Speaker 1: let's let's paint a scenario where you just got out 410 00:21:23,800 --> 00:21:27,560 Speaker 1: of the shower. He just you just took a bath, 411 00:21:27,800 --> 00:21:31,960 Speaker 1: and your partner is like massaging you. Maybe I could 412 00:21:32,040 --> 00:21:34,359 Speaker 1: like get on board with like you know, they're rubbing 413 00:21:34,359 --> 00:21:38,200 Speaker 1: your feet, maybe they kiss around your feet a little bit. Yeah, 414 00:21:38,720 --> 00:21:41,440 Speaker 1: it's like that kind of thing, but like I don't 415 00:21:41,440 --> 00:21:43,000 Speaker 1: really even think it would hurt me. You want to 416 00:21:43,040 --> 00:21:45,760 Speaker 1: have my toe sucked? No, it would probably tickle. It 417 00:21:45,800 --> 00:21:50,119 Speaker 1: would tickle. So I had to like deep that like 418 00:21:50,800 --> 00:21:55,520 Speaker 1: landed five seconds after you said it, Like, what on 419 00:21:55,520 --> 00:21:57,960 Speaker 1: what planet does someone say, baby, I want to suck me, 420 00:21:59,760 --> 00:22:02,320 Speaker 1: I've something else you can suck that. It's so much 421 00:22:02,359 --> 00:22:07,640 Speaker 1: more pleasurable for me. This is how I feel about 422 00:22:07,680 --> 00:22:10,359 Speaker 1: getting sucked in the ass. Now you understand, I'm like, 423 00:22:10,400 --> 00:22:14,600 Speaker 1: I've got another hole. It feels way better to me. Um. So, 424 00:22:14,680 --> 00:22:16,840 Speaker 1: of course that deep jobs on the internet though, because 425 00:22:16,840 --> 00:22:19,920 Speaker 1: I was like, I'm so fascinated now, like are there's 426 00:22:19,920 --> 00:22:22,159 Speaker 1: so many people into this? And like is this weird 427 00:22:22,200 --> 00:22:24,080 Speaker 1: that they're into this? Or is this just like one 428 00:22:24,119 --> 00:22:26,960 Speaker 1: of those kinky things that some people like and some 429 00:22:27,000 --> 00:22:31,000 Speaker 1: people don't. And so Men's Health had a really good article. Uh. 430 00:22:31,240 --> 00:22:33,720 Speaker 1: One of the questions was what causes a foot fetish? 431 00:22:34,119 --> 00:22:36,600 Speaker 1: And it says people developed fetishes for different reasons, but 432 00:22:36,640 --> 00:22:41,360 Speaker 1: they're largely thought to be learned behaviors fascinating. For example, 433 00:22:41,480 --> 00:22:45,320 Speaker 1: let's say you have a partner who spontaneously similarly stimulates 434 00:22:45,440 --> 00:22:48,600 Speaker 1: your genitals with their feet, and this is something you've 435 00:22:48,640 --> 00:22:52,199 Speaker 1: never experienced before. Let's say let's also say that you 436 00:22:52,200 --> 00:22:55,160 Speaker 1: happen to find it very pleasurable and had an intense orgasm. 437 00:22:55,280 --> 00:22:57,960 Speaker 1: This could create positive reinforcement that would lead you to 438 00:22:58,000 --> 00:23:00,560 Speaker 1: want to repeat the experience in the future, there by 439 00:23:00,600 --> 00:23:03,359 Speaker 1: laying the groundwork for a foot fetish. What if someone 440 00:23:03,480 --> 00:23:06,760 Speaker 1: jacked you off with their feet? I mean I feel 441 00:23:06,760 --> 00:23:09,040 Speaker 1: like I've seen like that. There are like fetish saloms 442 00:23:09,040 --> 00:23:14,680 Speaker 1: where like, um, like they people use their feet to 443 00:23:14,760 --> 00:23:17,320 Speaker 1: like tickle your balls and things like that, like that 444 00:23:17,400 --> 00:23:20,320 Speaker 1: kind of stuff. We're like even kick you like weird 445 00:23:20,359 --> 00:23:23,600 Speaker 1: like pain fetishes. So I wonder if like the feet 446 00:23:23,640 --> 00:23:26,360 Speaker 1: being used in any of that could even actually, like 447 00:23:26,840 --> 00:23:30,560 Speaker 1: after being kicked in the balls, then make you attracted defeat. 448 00:23:30,840 --> 00:23:33,280 Speaker 1: I'm just sitting here as you were talking, thinking about 449 00:23:33,320 --> 00:23:37,320 Speaker 1: like jacking someone off with my feet I mean. But 450 00:23:37,600 --> 00:23:40,439 Speaker 1: also it's just as I was saying that, thinking, what 451 00:23:40,520 --> 00:23:42,960 Speaker 1: are these people that are looking at my wiki feet 452 00:23:42,960 --> 00:23:48,080 Speaker 1: page doing? Yeah? What what does anyone who's looking at 453 00:23:48,119 --> 00:23:50,320 Speaker 1: any Wiki feet page doing? I mean, we have a 454 00:23:50,359 --> 00:23:52,920 Speaker 1: friend whose name I will not say, an anonymous friend 455 00:23:52,960 --> 00:23:58,200 Speaker 1: who has like a foot like a foot Instagram. Really yeah, 456 00:23:59,160 --> 00:24:02,280 Speaker 1: people all for her money for pictures all the time. Well, 457 00:24:02,400 --> 00:24:06,080 Speaker 1: I actually got a lot of messages, he just whispered 458 00:24:06,119 --> 00:24:11,600 Speaker 1: to me. Of um, I got this message from this 459 00:24:11,680 --> 00:24:14,040 Speaker 1: lady who had started an only fans page for her 460 00:24:14,080 --> 00:24:17,679 Speaker 1: feet because she kept getting a message request and she 461 00:24:17,880 --> 00:24:20,960 Speaker 1: was like, fucking pandemics hard times. Man, Like, that's what 462 00:24:21,040 --> 00:24:25,360 Speaker 1: I'm like, Actually people would sign up for that shot. Yeah, 463 00:24:25,400 --> 00:24:27,320 Speaker 1: and I'm literally going to try to figure out a 464 00:24:27,320 --> 00:24:28,920 Speaker 1: way to message wiki feet and be like this should 465 00:24:28,960 --> 00:24:31,480 Speaker 1: ain't for free, okay Wiki feet. Yeah, but there's no 466 00:24:31,560 --> 00:24:33,480 Speaker 1: pictures of your feet up there. It's just your score. 467 00:24:34,000 --> 00:24:37,000 Speaker 1: So no, there's pictures of my feet on it? Are 468 00:24:37,040 --> 00:24:40,399 Speaker 1: you serious? Scrolled down down. I just looked at the 469 00:24:40,400 --> 00:24:42,639 Speaker 1: top of the base. Tons of pictures of me and 470 00:24:42,680 --> 00:24:45,399 Speaker 1: my feet. They've taken them from this. We do a 471 00:24:45,400 --> 00:24:48,359 Speaker 1: photo shoot of like sexy photos of your feet and 472 00:24:48,400 --> 00:24:50,560 Speaker 1: see we get all the fans. I guess we could. 473 00:24:50,800 --> 00:24:53,520 Speaker 1: I also am having a tattoo removed on my foot, 474 00:24:53,520 --> 00:24:55,800 Speaker 1: so I should do some before and after that shouldn't 475 00:24:55,800 --> 00:24:59,520 Speaker 1: really get people going. We could even do some video content. 476 00:25:00,080 --> 00:25:02,040 Speaker 1: Is another part that Men's Health said, what are some 477 00:25:02,119 --> 00:25:06,520 Speaker 1: of the biggest misconceptions about foot fetishes? People wrongly assume 478 00:25:06,600 --> 00:25:09,440 Speaker 1: that having a foot fetish means you have a mental disorder. 479 00:25:09,760 --> 00:25:13,080 Speaker 1: I mean, I sort of did. Fetishes can be a problem, 480 00:25:13,119 --> 00:25:15,679 Speaker 1: like if a person is distressed about their own fetish 481 00:25:15,800 --> 00:25:19,680 Speaker 1: or if they're committing crimes in order to fulfill their desires. 482 00:25:19,680 --> 00:25:21,840 Speaker 1: But for the most part, there's nothing wrong with having 483 00:25:21,840 --> 00:25:24,119 Speaker 1: a very specific turnal, and when it comes to sex, 484 00:25:24,720 --> 00:25:29,760 Speaker 1: generally speaking, there's nothing wrong with having a fetish. Fetishes 485 00:25:29,880 --> 00:25:32,080 Speaker 1: don't mean you have a mental problem or that you're 486 00:25:32,160 --> 00:25:36,000 Speaker 1: unable to establish healthy sexual or romantic relationships. It's just 487 00:25:36,119 --> 00:25:40,840 Speaker 1: what you're into. So if you started dating a person 488 00:25:41,320 --> 00:25:44,119 Speaker 1: and they said to you, I have cheated before in 489 00:25:44,200 --> 00:25:51,399 Speaker 1: my past and I like feet, I'd be like, speak English. 490 00:25:51,440 --> 00:25:54,399 Speaker 1: What if they hadn't cheated, but they had liked feet. 491 00:25:55,200 --> 00:25:58,480 Speaker 1: What if you've met a person on the road since 492 00:25:58,520 --> 00:26:00,760 Speaker 1: you just said that that is your big fun time 493 00:26:01,240 --> 00:26:04,280 Speaker 1: to go do hook ups, which you also said you've 494 00:26:04,359 --> 00:26:07,840 Speaker 1: never really been a slut, so I think that's really funny. Um, 495 00:26:07,880 --> 00:26:10,680 Speaker 1: But what if what if you met the hottest guy 496 00:26:11,000 --> 00:26:14,320 Speaker 1: you've ever seen and he was like, Okay, I want 497 00:26:14,320 --> 00:26:15,880 Speaker 1: to take you out back and I want to jack 498 00:26:15,920 --> 00:26:19,800 Speaker 1: you off with my feet. I mean, I'd probably let 499 00:26:19,880 --> 00:26:23,880 Speaker 1: him do it, but I would I mean, here's the thing, like, 500 00:26:24,280 --> 00:26:25,679 Speaker 1: I don't know that I wouldn't be able to just 501 00:26:26,040 --> 00:26:29,200 Speaker 1: like not laugh through that. Yeah, right, that's what I'm saying, 502 00:26:29,320 --> 00:26:32,719 Speaker 1: but then what if you were like it turns out 503 00:26:32,760 --> 00:26:36,679 Speaker 1: to the back. I'm like, I only want to be 504 00:26:36,760 --> 00:26:38,960 Speaker 1: jacked off. But it's like exactly what they're saying about 505 00:26:38,960 --> 00:26:41,080 Speaker 1: the learned behavior. It's like you have the best orgasm 506 00:26:41,080 --> 00:26:43,520 Speaker 1: in your life and you're like, yeah, now I'm the foot. 507 00:26:44,400 --> 00:26:47,600 Speaker 1: You're like, that's how you You don't even um have 508 00:26:47,680 --> 00:26:50,000 Speaker 1: a profile like that's normal anymore. You're just like just 509 00:26:50,000 --> 00:26:51,879 Speaker 1: shumming your feet, shum your feet. I don't even care 510 00:26:51,920 --> 00:26:55,520 Speaker 1: about that anything else. Wow. Well, anyway, if anyone wants 511 00:26:55,560 --> 00:26:57,120 Speaker 1: to go check out my feet there on wiki. There 512 00:26:57,280 --> 00:26:59,760 Speaker 1: are a lot of photos. I told you of these. 513 00:27:00,000 --> 00:27:03,280 Speaker 1: It was loaded the first time I looked us. I 514 00:27:03,359 --> 00:27:05,879 Speaker 1: think I had the screen small, and it's just like weird, 515 00:27:05,960 --> 00:27:08,879 Speaker 1: like from the web ads. You know, you have to 516 00:27:08,920 --> 00:27:12,280 Speaker 1: scroll down, scroll down there. Who the fuck gave me 517 00:27:12,359 --> 00:27:15,200 Speaker 1: a little writing? That's what I want to know. She's 518 00:27:15,240 --> 00:27:19,240 Speaker 1: I mean, she's got I'm a four point rude. It 519 00:27:19,240 --> 00:27:21,040 Speaker 1: looks like it might be four point three or something. 520 00:27:21,240 --> 00:27:27,439 Speaker 1: What wait, I can edit your size well the wiki, somebody. 521 00:27:27,480 --> 00:27:28,800 Speaker 1: If I don't do it, someone else is going to 522 00:27:28,880 --> 00:27:32,000 Speaker 1: do it. Excuse me, and just started colling Oh my god, 523 00:27:32,080 --> 00:27:35,960 Speaker 1: there's a setting on here. It says I can click 524 00:27:36,200 --> 00:27:39,399 Speaker 1: email me when a new photo goes up. Oh, as 525 00:27:39,480 --> 00:27:43,720 Speaker 1: anyone subscribed to my Wiki feet page. You have to 526 00:27:43,760 --> 00:27:45,400 Speaker 1: log in to do that. Okay, I just need We're 527 00:27:45,400 --> 00:27:47,680 Speaker 1: gonna have to investigate further, but please go give me 528 00:27:47,720 --> 00:27:49,800 Speaker 1: good ratings. We gotta get this rating up. Let's get 529 00:27:49,800 --> 00:27:52,000 Speaker 1: these ratings up on Wiki feet. I mean it's kind 530 00:27:52,000 --> 00:27:55,920 Speaker 1: of there's a chart feet of the year. I've got 531 00:27:55,920 --> 00:27:58,679 Speaker 1: a long way Togo. Yeah, yeah, you're not in the 532 00:27:58,680 --> 00:28:01,119 Speaker 1: top ten. Before you know it. I'm obsessed with taking 533 00:28:01,160 --> 00:28:03,719 Speaker 1: feet pictures. I mean, the thing is, I don't know 534 00:28:03,840 --> 00:28:06,520 Speaker 1: anybody in the top I've never heard of any people 535 00:28:06,560 --> 00:28:11,440 Speaker 1: in the top twenty, probably like porn stars. Probably. Well 536 00:28:11,800 --> 00:28:14,240 Speaker 1: that's gonna be my new goal for the month. Buy October. 537 00:28:14,240 --> 00:28:16,679 Speaker 1: I'm going to be back to a five. Seriously, I 538 00:28:16,680 --> 00:28:18,520 Speaker 1: think you should do it only fans for your feet, 539 00:28:18,600 --> 00:28:21,200 Speaker 1: just to see. Well, let's see what happens. How about 540 00:28:21,240 --> 00:28:23,280 Speaker 1: we just trying to focus on getting our cameo page 541 00:28:25,359 --> 00:28:27,640 Speaker 1: every week? Okay? Can we can we do a little 542 00:28:27,680 --> 00:28:32,440 Speaker 1: pole like how many people would pay for cameo for us? Okay? Okay, 543 00:28:33,040 --> 00:28:35,520 Speaker 1: slide into slide into your d M. What do you 544 00:28:35,520 --> 00:28:37,760 Speaker 1: want to see more? Say anything? Do you want to 545 00:28:37,800 --> 00:28:40,880 Speaker 1: only feet page, only only fans page from my feet 546 00:28:41,120 --> 00:28:46,600 Speaker 1: or just gonna win and no offense to my feet? 547 00:28:46,640 --> 00:28:49,320 Speaker 1: But um, okay, let's go to the question of the week. 548 00:28:49,560 --> 00:28:51,120 Speaker 1: This one is a really tough one for me, and 549 00:28:51,160 --> 00:28:54,000 Speaker 1: it really hits home. I gotta be honest. Um, this 550 00:28:54,120 --> 00:28:56,040 Speaker 1: comes from Jessica. She said, what would you do if 551 00:28:56,080 --> 00:28:58,920 Speaker 1: your current boyfriend didn't want any more kids? I have 552 00:28:58,960 --> 00:29:02,320 Speaker 1: none and want some day. My current boyfriend doesn't want 553 00:29:02,360 --> 00:29:03,960 Speaker 1: any more kids. He has a four year old son. 554 00:29:04,920 --> 00:29:07,160 Speaker 1: She also ended up, so she doesn't have any kids. 555 00:29:07,200 --> 00:29:09,720 Speaker 1: She doesn't he has one. Um. I think they ended 556 00:29:09,800 --> 00:29:12,000 Speaker 1: up breaking up over this issue, but she's really missing 557 00:29:12,040 --> 00:29:14,320 Speaker 1: him and wants to get back together. But she's like, 558 00:29:14,480 --> 00:29:18,440 Speaker 1: this is like a fundamental issue. I mean, I can't 559 00:29:18,480 --> 00:29:20,880 Speaker 1: really speak from personal experience. I will say that I 560 00:29:20,920 --> 00:29:23,560 Speaker 1: do have. One of my best friends is a guy 561 00:29:23,640 --> 00:29:24,960 Speaker 1: named Blaine, and he lives in l a And he 562 00:29:25,040 --> 00:29:27,880 Speaker 1: and his boyfriend broke up for like two years over 563 00:29:27,880 --> 00:29:30,360 Speaker 1: this issue because Blaine was like, this is a deal 564 00:29:30,400 --> 00:29:33,960 Speaker 1: breaker for me. I want a kid and I love you. 565 00:29:34,200 --> 00:29:36,960 Speaker 1: And they've been dating for years. But if you can't 566 00:29:37,040 --> 00:29:39,000 Speaker 1: do this with me, then I have to find somebody. 567 00:29:39,800 --> 00:29:43,360 Speaker 1: I mean, I'd rather do it by myself. And Craig 568 00:29:43,400 --> 00:29:45,520 Speaker 1: came around. It took a couple of years and they've 569 00:29:45,560 --> 00:29:49,040 Speaker 1: got a little baby boy, nos fat and chunky. Um 570 00:29:49,080 --> 00:29:52,320 Speaker 1: so it took a while for them to adopt. But um, 571 00:29:52,360 --> 00:29:54,920 Speaker 1: I do think that if you love the person enough 572 00:29:54,960 --> 00:29:58,760 Speaker 1: and they love you enough, they're gonna want you happy, 573 00:29:59,120 --> 00:30:01,560 Speaker 1: you know. So I do think that, like if you 574 00:30:01,600 --> 00:30:03,440 Speaker 1: think you can or maybe you just need to give 575 00:30:03,520 --> 00:30:05,880 Speaker 1: them the time to like that on their own. Like 576 00:30:05,960 --> 00:30:07,960 Speaker 1: I don't think it's an impossible but if it is 577 00:30:07,960 --> 00:30:09,360 Speaker 1: a deal breaker for you, I think you have to 578 00:30:09,360 --> 00:30:11,480 Speaker 1: dig your heels in. Well. I think it's otherwise there's 579 00:30:11,520 --> 00:30:14,760 Speaker 1: regret later in life. Hold it against them. Yep. And 580 00:30:14,760 --> 00:30:17,880 Speaker 1: this is the hard thing for uh, the women issue 581 00:30:17,960 --> 00:30:20,640 Speaker 1: of like the tom clock and whatever. I mean, honestly, 582 00:30:20,680 --> 00:30:22,720 Speaker 1: this is something I've faced with my boyfriend. And he 583 00:30:22,760 --> 00:30:26,760 Speaker 1: has two kids and like, um, yeah, I mean it 584 00:30:26,800 --> 00:30:29,520 Speaker 1: doesn't necessarily that was not in his plans to have 585 00:30:29,560 --> 00:30:32,200 Speaker 1: any more, and so it's been a big point of 586 00:30:32,200 --> 00:30:34,560 Speaker 1: conversation and like he's not ready for it right now 587 00:30:34,760 --> 00:30:37,880 Speaker 1: for sure, so, but the problem for me is like 588 00:30:37,920 --> 00:30:40,000 Speaker 1: I gotta really think about it, you know, and it 589 00:30:40,040 --> 00:30:42,080 Speaker 1: really does bring up an issue. So at one point 590 00:30:42,440 --> 00:30:44,280 Speaker 1: you're going to have to make a decision. And so 591 00:30:44,440 --> 00:30:46,080 Speaker 1: I don't know what will end up happening. But I 592 00:30:46,160 --> 00:30:49,000 Speaker 1: thought that for her because she said they just broke up. 593 00:30:49,120 --> 00:30:51,160 Speaker 1: She was really missing him wanting to get back together. 594 00:30:51,160 --> 00:30:52,720 Speaker 1: But it's kind of like what you said, like if 595 00:30:52,760 --> 00:30:56,440 Speaker 1: you want something in your life and like you really 596 00:30:56,560 --> 00:30:59,400 Speaker 1: want it, like you shouldn't really put your life on 597 00:30:59,480 --> 00:31:02,520 Speaker 1: hold or your dreams or your desires for this person. 598 00:31:02,600 --> 00:31:04,760 Speaker 1: I hate to say that, but I think that that's 599 00:31:04,920 --> 00:31:07,360 Speaker 1: the truth. Yeah, I mean I think that she needs 600 00:31:07,400 --> 00:31:10,320 Speaker 1: to ask if she misses him or if she misses 601 00:31:10,360 --> 00:31:13,240 Speaker 1: having a boyfriend. Because the thing is, there are plenty 602 00:31:13,280 --> 00:31:16,480 Speaker 1: of like great people out there that you can date 603 00:31:16,560 --> 00:31:19,120 Speaker 1: and be married to that will give you what you want. 604 00:31:19,920 --> 00:31:24,360 Speaker 1: Don't don't settle for somebody who's not giving you what 605 00:31:24,440 --> 00:31:29,120 Speaker 1: you want. Like and children is like if I can't, 606 00:31:29,120 --> 00:31:32,000 Speaker 1: I mean, I don't have that. I would love to 607 00:31:32,000 --> 00:31:34,160 Speaker 1: have a kid, but I don't have that internal thing 608 00:31:34,240 --> 00:31:38,200 Speaker 1: that women have that like my body wants to produce 609 00:31:38,240 --> 00:31:41,680 Speaker 1: a child. And so I can't really speak to that, 610 00:31:41,760 --> 00:31:46,400 Speaker 1: but like, I can't imagine how deafening that must be 611 00:31:46,840 --> 00:31:49,560 Speaker 1: when it's saying that. You know, like because I have 612 00:31:50,080 --> 00:31:51,600 Speaker 1: lots of female friends that are like, oh no, I 613 00:31:51,600 --> 00:31:54,880 Speaker 1: don't want kids, Like it's like there's no question that 614 00:31:54,920 --> 00:31:57,280 Speaker 1: she they just don't have that thing that's telling them 615 00:31:57,280 --> 00:31:59,360 Speaker 1: that they want kids. Then I have friends like you 616 00:31:59,440 --> 00:32:01,880 Speaker 1: that are like I would literally steal a baby out 617 00:32:01,920 --> 00:32:04,000 Speaker 1: of a shopping car. I'm surprised I have it yet. 618 00:32:04,320 --> 00:32:07,560 Speaker 1: It's like, but like there are people, there are women 619 00:32:07,600 --> 00:32:13,280 Speaker 1: that like their bodies are like shouldn't you should never 620 00:32:13,320 --> 00:32:17,200 Speaker 1: settle for a guy that's not on the same page. Yeah, so, Jessica, 621 00:32:17,320 --> 00:32:20,120 Speaker 1: I would say, be true to you, and I mean 622 00:32:20,240 --> 00:32:21,880 Speaker 1: maybe the guy will come around, like you said, but 623 00:32:21,960 --> 00:32:24,080 Speaker 1: you have to hold your own ground and be true 624 00:32:24,120 --> 00:32:26,080 Speaker 1: to yourself and what you want in your life or 625 00:32:26,120 --> 00:32:30,080 Speaker 1: else you're going to resent them later anyway, like you said, Um, anyway, 626 00:32:30,120 --> 00:32:31,640 Speaker 1: that was the question for the week. You guys, keep 627 00:32:31,640 --> 00:32:34,280 Speaker 1: the questions coming to at casual at velvet edge dot 628 00:32:34,320 --> 00:32:36,000 Speaker 1: com or you can always slide into my d M 629 00:32:36,040 --> 00:32:40,240 Speaker 1: s at Velvet's Edge on Instagram. Chip is at chip doorsh. 630 00:32:40,560 --> 00:32:42,600 Speaker 1: I personally feel like I'm gonna have a very busy 631 00:32:42,600 --> 00:32:45,560 Speaker 1: weekend focusing on my only fans page for my feet. 632 00:32:46,040 --> 00:32:51,600 Speaker 1: I'm gonna go content to the blog. It's only feet 633 00:32:51,680 --> 00:32:54,520 Speaker 1: from now on. I gotta get that rating up. Jesus, 634 00:32:55,160 --> 00:32:56,600 Speaker 1: I'm gonna have to go vote on your feet now. 635 00:32:56,640 --> 00:32:59,440 Speaker 1: I'm gonna to log in register for then I'm gonna 636 00:32:59,440 --> 00:33:02,160 Speaker 1: be down to all we can send and you ugly 637 00:33:02,200 --> 00:33:05,080 Speaker 1: feet pick. You're gonna be like, how does this girl 638 00:33:05,120 --> 00:33:07,480 Speaker 1: have a higher rating? The name? Don't even insult you 639 00:33:07,560 --> 00:33:09,680 Speaker 1: that way. I'm already insulted. I don't even know that girl, 640 00:33:09,720 --> 00:33:13,080 Speaker 1: but I'm insulted. Um. Yeah, So if you have the time, 641 00:33:13,120 --> 00:33:16,480 Speaker 1: just please go vote from go to my photo. My wipeet. 642 00:33:16,480 --> 00:33:18,719 Speaker 1: I can't even gonna get like a boost in traffic 643 00:33:18,960 --> 00:33:21,320 Speaker 1: on Friday. Then they're gonna be like, wait, we're breaking 644 00:33:21,360 --> 00:33:24,880 Speaker 1: the internet, guys. Where is this? Is Kelly Anderson all 645 00:33:24,880 --> 00:33:28,040 Speaker 1: of a sudden getting this like rise and her feet voting? 646 00:33:28,080 --> 00:33:30,080 Speaker 1: But the number five girl, her name is literally just 647 00:33:30,160 --> 00:33:34,080 Speaker 1: like Maggie and made Why why want to go check 648 00:33:34,080 --> 00:33:37,800 Speaker 1: out Maggie's see what she's doing this? I mean I 649 00:33:37,800 --> 00:33:41,040 Speaker 1: didn't know about it. Am I giving hand jobs with her, Well, 650 00:33:41,280 --> 00:33:43,720 Speaker 1: you know, you gotta do what you gotta do. Anything here, 651 00:33:43,720 --> 00:33:47,840 Speaker 1: I come here, you calm, You never know, Okay, I 652 00:33:47,880 --> 00:33:50,760 Speaker 1: gotta go. I gotta uh do you have big weekend 653 00:33:50,760 --> 00:33:52,880 Speaker 1: plants and we have a birthday party tomorrow. You're my 654 00:33:53,040 --> 00:33:56,920 Speaker 1: date hot dates. See, this is the kind of stuff 655 00:33:56,960 --> 00:34:01,240 Speaker 1: we could put on cameo, Like people have to request 656 00:34:01,240 --> 00:34:03,640 Speaker 1: our cameos. You don't just like put things up. I 657 00:34:03,680 --> 00:34:09,880 Speaker 1: don't know even you can break up. Like there's a 658 00:34:09,920 --> 00:34:13,759 Speaker 1: really famous cameo where Mark McGrath from Sugary got a 659 00:34:13,840 --> 00:34:18,080 Speaker 1: requested somebody for brutal But I would I don't think 660 00:34:18,080 --> 00:34:19,440 Speaker 1: I could do it. You would have to talk and 661 00:34:19,440 --> 00:34:23,520 Speaker 1: I would probably cry, n empathize with them. It would 662 00:34:23,560 --> 00:34:25,759 Speaker 1: be a full range of emotion. She was like, look, 663 00:34:25,800 --> 00:34:28,120 Speaker 1: there's no there's just no nice way to say this, 664 00:34:28,200 --> 00:34:32,359 Speaker 1: but she's dumping you. Also, who's that bitch that is 665 00:34:32,400 --> 00:34:36,560 Speaker 1: like kind of like her? I don't know if I do, 666 00:34:36,680 --> 00:34:40,400 Speaker 1: she'll break up with you vi a cameo. Um, all right, 667 00:34:40,480 --> 00:34:44,560 Speaker 1: well we are going to go. I'm gonna go focus 668 00:34:44,560 --> 00:34:46,480 Speaker 1: on my feet ship. What are you doing this weekend 669 00:34:46,520 --> 00:34:51,719 Speaker 1: besides our birthday party? Finally? Right then, I'm gonna have 670 00:34:51,719 --> 00:34:53,560 Speaker 1: a hot tub party. You can put your feet in 671 00:34:53,560 --> 00:34:58,920 Speaker 1: my hot Okay, well this is getting dirty, but legit, 672 00:34:59,040 --> 00:35:01,880 Speaker 1: I'm putting together club. Finally, you've got an above ground 673 00:35:01,880 --> 00:35:04,400 Speaker 1: hot tub or whatever it's called, or got an inflatable 674 00:35:05,280 --> 00:35:08,440 Speaker 1: actually literally the greatest gift ever, the best gift for you. 675 00:35:08,719 --> 00:35:11,200 Speaker 1: Hot tubs and jet skis and bwing your lawn. Yeah 676 00:35:11,239 --> 00:35:13,399 Speaker 1: that's where your find ships. Oh my god, that's Howard place. 677 00:35:13,680 --> 00:35:15,600 Speaker 1: I am going home to Momi law on Today's in 678 00:35:15,680 --> 00:35:19,480 Speaker 1: my calendar, of course. Please don't silence that little alert 679 00:35:19,640 --> 00:35:22,680 Speaker 1: over and over. Okay, now we're rambling. Um, you guys 680 00:35:22,719 --> 00:35:27,040 Speaker 1: have a great week Message us d M at Velvet 681 00:35:28,160 --> 00:35:33,640 Speaker 1: done talking obviously. Um, I know I drink last night though, whoops. 682 00:35:34,000 --> 00:35:36,520 Speaker 1: At casual at velvet edge dot com, you guys have 683 00:35:36,560 --> 00:35:42,840 Speaker 1: a great weekend and always remember act casual by