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Speaker 2: The Breakfast Club Morning everybody is d J N v

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Speaker 2: Ess hilarious, Charlamage the guy.

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Speaker 3: We all to Breakfast Club. We got some special guests.

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Speaker 1: In the building.

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Speaker 3: Indeed, we have Mandy be and Wheezy from Horrible Decisions.

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Speaker 3: But they chased a name.

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Speaker 4: Thank you.

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Speaker 3: It is Decision podcasts.

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Speaker 5: That no, yes, it is not.

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Speaker 6: Any It is absolutely possibles. You grow up, you can

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Speaker 6: move to a different city where no one knows you,

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Speaker 6: and then you can.

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Speaker 5: Change your work.

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Speaker 7: The grocery store, they said, heycome morning, ladies.

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Speaker 5: Good morning.

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Speaker 1: Why why did y'all change.

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Speaker 4: The name for the coins Charlotte.

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Speaker 6: Not only that when we started Horrible Decisions, we were

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Speaker 6: twenty six years old.

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Speaker 4: Uh, I was still in college. I was in my

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Speaker 4: last year of college. Weezy, we were both in corporate and.

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Speaker 6: We was kind of living life doing doing all the things,

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Speaker 6: and we just kind of we wasn't our whole face.

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Speaker 4: I think everyone has a whole phase.

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Speaker 6: And now we're out of it, okay, and we just

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Speaker 6: you know, are growing with our audience and growing with

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Speaker 6: the with the dollar.

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Speaker 7: To be fair doing this book though, you know, I

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Speaker 7: was telling people like I want to do Drew Barrymore,

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Speaker 7: I want to do this and that, and I just

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Speaker 7: can't see them saying.

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Speaker 4: Horror, especially not Drew Barrymore.

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Speaker 5: And now she might be like, why did you guys?

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Speaker 7: It's okay to be a whore, but now, I mean

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Speaker 7: with growth, and we also wanted to be respected as

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Speaker 7: an author. I feel like for the people that don't

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Speaker 7: know us, everybody that like is in the podcast world

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Speaker 7: understands our evolution, and I think that's when we started

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Speaker 7: to gain our respect, to know that, sure we talk

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Speaker 7: about sex, but it lasted so long. We've been able

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Speaker 7: to catapult into all these different ventures. But a new person,

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Speaker 7: I feel like they're gonna be like how you feel

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Speaker 7: about your fan, Like how you think the fans took it?

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Speaker 7: Like that y'all took the horror wall. I think the

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Speaker 7: fans love it. I think the core fans are happy.

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Speaker 7: I think the casual fans just found a way to get.

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Speaker 4: Angry at you.

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Speaker 7: Like people get very excited if they think something bad

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Speaker 7: is going on, you know what I mean? Like literally

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Speaker 7: the second they saw that Horrible would be going behind

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Speaker 7: a paywalls.

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Speaker 4: Like, oh they fighting Sharlotte.

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Speaker 7: One want day, I heard dealing with them like, you know,

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Speaker 7: it's they can't wait to feel that. And Mandy and

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Speaker 7: I being that we've been colleagues for so long, we've

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Speaker 7: had on air mess and things like that. I feel

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Speaker 7: like that was the sexiest part of the story when really,

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Speaker 7: now we're so much older, it's like.

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Speaker 6: Okay, Mandy's celibate, right, Oh yeah, I started the year off.

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Speaker 1: Just a couple of.

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Speaker 4: Like, I'm celipate, I'm starting over a couple of months ago.

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Speaker 1: That was It was.

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Speaker 4: A couple of weeks ago.

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Speaker 5: That was your magic city moment.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 6: I love how you said club. You can let them

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Speaker 6: know we were city. It was a magic city, you.

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Speaker 4: Know, that's the first thing she told me.

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Speaker 3: It wasn't like he has a family, what I'm celipate now?

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Speaker 1: I was like, what made you break the celibacy?

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Speaker 4: I saw somebody cute.

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Speaker 1: It wasn't even relationship. You already win.

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Speaker 4: Jesus it is. I mean, it was intimate, it was sensual.

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Speaker 4: We kissed and guddle.

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Speaker 1: Have you seen him.

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Speaker 4: Since he doesn't live in my states, so he's flying

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Speaker 4: to see me?

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Speaker 5: Yes?

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Speaker 1: Wow?

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Speaker 5: No, no, no, work to go.

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Speaker 4: To the second stand?

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Speaker 1: The second stand? What's the first thing.

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Speaker 4: The first stand was great. It was when I saw him.

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Speaker 1: Didn't date just okay.

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Speaker 4: Now I'm just not anymore, okay, And this is what the.

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Speaker 6: Book is about about liberation, growth as women getting what

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Speaker 3: Did you meet him majes City.

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Speaker 6: I met him on an island, so you know what.

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Speaker 4: Which was?

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Speaker 3: It was on vacation and you lit one of the

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Speaker 6: Yes, okay, don't do that, but now I do see

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Speaker 5: You see see that.

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Speaker 7: So there was a ballplayer that I knew, and I

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Speaker 7: crazy basketball player at all. But he was six five, dark,

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Speaker 7: her husband.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, before we in the bushes in a bush.

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Speaker 1: But that's what if you like, I went to heat

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Speaker 9: They used to do radio station trips to Hedonism. So

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Speaker 9: Hedonism is the newdest resort parts of it. And they

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Speaker 9: have like hammicks hanging from the trees. You can have

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Speaker 9: sex and hammicks. You can have sex all over the

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Speaker 9: whole facility if you want to. There's a lot of

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Speaker 9: mirrors on the ceiling.

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Speaker 3: No disrespect, but it's a lot of like overweight white women.

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Speaker 6: No no, we we went in a black Yeah, there's

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Speaker 6: different weekends that you could go, like I'm hosting heato

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Speaker 5: So when a group takes over, like we got lucky.

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Speaker 7: But then there was a few parts of the place

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Speaker 7: they were like we come every week, and I was like,

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Speaker 6: The white couples definitely go to get Jamaican Jamaican Pei

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Speaker 7: The funniest part of this I always tell this story

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Speaker 7: because so first of all, he's already having sex in

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Speaker 5: We just check in.

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Speaker 7: I'm like, I'm done with him already. So there's a

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Speaker 7: when you're at a resort, you know how to be

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Speaker 5: So I'm hungry. I go to get a pizza.

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Speaker 7: I'm already irritated with him because all he doing is

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Speaker 5: On the side. I'm like, I gotta get naked just

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Speaker 5: to eat. He's like, yeah, how long is your food

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Speaker 7: I had to literally take off my pajama to hold

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Speaker 5: And I was like, this is the worst ever. And

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Speaker 5: I say, I loved it.

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Speaker 4: So when is it?

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Speaker 1: I left it? What are you?

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Speaker 7: What?

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Speaker 4: Trafficking? I know, trafficking that is I booked.

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Speaker 7: For it, like you know, like we were out there

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Speaker 7: and just like we had a great time, but I'm

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Speaker 7: gone out there with friends.

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Speaker 5: When you're going out there, you.

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Speaker 1: Can't and they paying you, like these couples be paying.

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Speaker 9: Like you might be out there and you might highlight

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Speaker 9: at a woman and she might be like, hold on,

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Speaker 9: go get my husband.

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Speaker 1: They might come up to you and be y'all get fifey.

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Speaker 9: Hundred dolls if you let if you let my husband

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Speaker 4: We didn't get offered for those type of things were there.

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, so maybe it's the men. The men should

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Speaker 4: go out there and make some money.

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Speaker 3: Then, so let you careful to you and wanted to

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Speaker 3: see your special husband.

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Speaker 1: This concept.

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Speaker 9: This was like two thousand and six, two thousand and seven.

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Speaker 9: I was on the balcony.

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Speaker 1: And I was like, yeah, you know, girl like you.

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Speaker 9: Yeah, and she's like, hold on, let me go get

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Speaker 1: But my husband got to watch.

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Speaker 3: Oh wow, I have to knock it off.

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Speaker 1: No, I didn't knocke it off. I did not.

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Speaker 7: Now that's the thing that really kind of makes that

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Speaker 5: Like a lot of the things we talked about even

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Speaker 7: But this is normal for me. So when I'm in

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Speaker 7: hedonism and I'm watching cuck holding going on, which is

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Speaker 7: really what it is, this is normal for them, and

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Speaker 7: they like to be amongst the people I just did

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Speaker 5: Excuse me, Yeah, it's.

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Speaker 7: I'm trying to think mine, what besides this blazer, what's

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Speaker 7: the biggest rebrand thing of me? I will say this,

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Speaker 7: I think now I'm so over communicative. We're in the

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Speaker 7: beginning of horrible decisions. I wasn't talking about exactly what

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Speaker 7: I wanted to have, Like situationships.

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Speaker 5: I was falling into them all the time.

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Speaker 7: I think as you evolve and you get more comfortable

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Speaker 7: with yourself on who you are, that's when it hits.

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Speaker 5: I actually don't think that could happen before thirty. I'll

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Speaker 5: be honest.

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Speaker 7: I think you could try to get close to it.

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Speaker 7: But there's something that happens at thirty where it just clicks.

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Speaker 6: You're like, oh no, this is no thirty You you

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Speaker 6: look better, you feel better, you make more money, you

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Speaker 6: know a little bit more of what you want. You

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Speaker 6: didn't dealt with enough men in your teens and twenties

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Speaker 6: that now you can be like, Okay, I don't want.

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Speaker 3: That, but this is what I want you want to

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Speaker 3: give this relationship?

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Speaker 4: No, you don't marriage?

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Speaker 5: Anybody want marriage?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't.

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Speaker 3: You want to not give this relationship?

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Speaker 5: Not monogamous, but I mean, of course I want marriage.

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Speaker 5: I like, what if we're not gonna have sex with

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Speaker 5: a nanny? What's the boy?

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Speaker 7: No?

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Speaker 4: I mean yeah, go ahead.

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Speaker 1: I mean I don't know why?

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Speaker 5: Why not not monogampy both?

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Speaker 4: Yah?

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Speaker 1: Why?

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Speaker 5: You just doesn't fit in my lifestyle.

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Speaker 7: Like I I've been known for having a boyfriend and

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Speaker 5: Like, it's it.

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Speaker 1: It's doesn't matter what you're known for or what you want.

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Speaker 5: We had a conversation about this last night.

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Speaker 7: I did a podcast where I mentioned that I believe

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Speaker 5: I honestly have fun with it.

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Speaker 7: And I feel like when I'm dating someone that's more monogamous.

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Speaker 4: You know, never do that again.

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Speaker 6: Et themnomenogamy, I want to throw that word in there.

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Speaker 6: So that's where like it's consensual, there's like there are

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Speaker 6: There's all these different labels underneath ethical nominogamy. For me,

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Speaker 2: Off of that bisexual men and the reason I asked

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Speaker 4: Damn I heard it wouldn't bother me.

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Speaker 3: No, I don't want to see it.

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Speaker 5: For me, it's a cat.

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Speaker 7: So the thing that attracts me to women is their femininity.

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Speaker 7: Like I've never dated stood right and no disrespective studs.

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Speaker 5: I just because like Monkey got Funky came on Horrorball was.

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Speaker 6: Like, no, britty grind are the only stud we all

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Speaker 6: I love the masculinity in men.

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Speaker 7: And so if I was dating a bisexual man, maybe

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Speaker 7: like a homo thug. That's what I'm saying, Like, there's

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Speaker 3: So you wouldn't mind, but he just got to be

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Speaker 7: There's also levels to it, right, So I really truly

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Speaker 4: I think everybody look gay for real, for real.

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Speaker 5: Even a little watching a.

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Speaker 6: Little another like there's a there's a there's a spectrum,

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Speaker 4: Everyone is not all the way fully straight.

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Speaker 6: Or fully yes you like a little like you can

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Speaker 4: You can actually admit that another man is attractive or

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Speaker 5: Classified as gay?

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Speaker 4: Why I can't because it's it's the attraction.

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Speaker 1: Tras is different.

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Speaker 4: But but no man is handsome but attractive.

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Speaker 1: Man hand you did you did.

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Speaker 5: You have men that doesn't even do that?

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Speaker 7: Then? I think you know, there's so many men that

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Speaker 7: man that wouldn't get naked and trained, like there is levels.

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Speaker 5: I don't think that's gay.

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Speaker 2: By the way, if you don't stick your penis in

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Speaker 2: a male, that's not gay.

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Speaker 5: But why you and another man are enjoying got you.

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Speaker 2: Just say it's not gay if you stick your penis

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Speaker 2: and the man, I said, it's not you.

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Speaker 4: You're not sticking your penis in the mail?

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Speaker 1: What you want to hear something? It's not.

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Speaker 6: As long as it's oral, then no, it's okay, a

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Speaker 6: hand job.

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Speaker 4: No, okay, I just okay.

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Speaker 1: I'm looking at the Kensey scale.

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Speaker 4: It's a real thing.

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Speaker 1: He says.

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Speaker 9: X no social no socio sexual contacts or reactions. Zero

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Speaker 9: is exclusively heterosexual. One mostly heterosexual, only slightly homosexual. Two

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Speaker 9: mostly heterosexual but more than slightly homosexual, three equally heterosexual

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Speaker 9: five mostly homosexual only slightly heterosexual, and six is all homo.

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Speaker 4: Straight o gay.

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Speaker 5: That's a lot, a lot. By the way, I have

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Speaker 5: a friend of mine.

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Speaker 7: His dave is Christopher, and on New Year's five, six

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Speaker 7: years ago, I'll never forget.

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Speaker 5: I kissed him like he's gay.

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Speaker 4: Kiss him.

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Speaker 7: He looked at me and he was like, you, bitch,

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Speaker 7: I am gay, gay, and now you've ruined it.

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Speaker 1: He's a six six, he's a six.

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Speaker 5: When I tell you, he was really upset with me.

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Speaker 7: I was like, I'm so confused and you're having Funny's like, no, no, no, no, no,

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Speaker 7: I am not gold star. He's like, I didn't even

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Speaker 7: have I came from a C section.

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Speaker 1: I'm platinum.

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Speaker 5: He was like, are you kissed me?

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Speaker 4: You were with this? You messed him up?

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Speaker 1: Now?

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Speaker 4: A little straight.

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Speaker 5: That's who I defined as a sixth and.

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Speaker 9: The one thing Toronto might have to re six that

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Speaker 9: exclusively homosexual.

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Speaker 1: If you're a six, that's what all the way.

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Speaker 4: Gay, No.

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Speaker 5: Hot straight girl that got one lesbian Afraid that she'd

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Speaker 5: be doing this, she was like, no, bitch, yeah that's me.

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Speaker 4: But I ain't gonna lie back in the day. Yeah.

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Speaker 7: I had a couple of gay experiences, yeah, like kiss

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Speaker 7: a little bit more to kiss, but you know, h yeah,

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Speaker 7: I found out she was ma right, and she ended

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Speaker 9: Then mostly had a sexual but more than slightly homosexual,

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Speaker 7: She dated a stud. So that always tells me like,

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Speaker 7: you kind of are the straight girl. That's like where

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Speaker 7: you can dive, because I don't. I don't find like

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Speaker 7: the Felms to be like, yeah, you're beautiful to me,

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Speaker 7: but I'm not. I wouldn't be attracted to a feminine girl.

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Speaker 7: It's like I get it.

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Speaker 4: No for me like that.

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Speaker 3: But you'll have the same crush too many you're the same, Brittany.

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Speaker 4: I think a lot of you have a crush. Yeah.

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Speaker 7: Until I call Until I heard her call herself Pops,

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Speaker 7: I'm like, damn, I know there's certain things that you

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Speaker 7: can say that make me just instant like no, you

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Speaker 7: see what I mean.

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Speaker 4: I know what I'm saying, Like, well, she already got

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Speaker 4: the voice of God.

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Speaker 7: I mean that, but I mean, I just you know,

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Speaker 7: she she ain't like when she was doing an interview

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Speaker 7: in Shane, Like when somebody was like the girl was like, oh,

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Speaker 7: you're about to be a mom, you know, she was

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Speaker 7: like no, Pops, like serious. I was like, damn, but

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Speaker 7: I but I wouldn't just assume that if I never

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Speaker 7: heard her say that, Like I wouldn't start congratulations you

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Speaker 7: your mom. I wouldn't just be like your graduations, it's

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Speaker 7: like you Pops now, because I think that that would

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Speaker 7: offend her but she was offended at her being called

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Speaker 7: her mom. Yeah, bring the good I would let me

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Speaker 7: tell you when I when all that stuff was going on,

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Speaker 7: I was like, we gotta.

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Speaker 5: Get her out, we gotta get her out.

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Speaker 4: But I'm okay, what you still have the crash.

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Speaker 7: I'm okay with letting her go Mandy Cab because my

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Speaker 9: Just like.

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Speaker 3: That is crazy.

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Speaker 7: As someone that also has a pretty boyfriend, I know

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Speaker 7: how it feels. I went and took him to a

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Speaker 5: And she was like, oh, yeah, I saw.

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Speaker 4: You were there with your girlfriend.

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Speaker 5: I was like, that's a man.

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Speaker 4: He just got dressed and he's pretty. It sucks, but

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Speaker 9: Man get a slight shooter though, no, he does get shooter,

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Speaker 9: a slight shooter, right, he gets slight shooter too.

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Speaker 5: But he's a hotep. It's weird, like he looks like

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Speaker 5: he's what he's a hotel.

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Speaker 1: Hotel.

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Speaker 7: The hotel he makes we're fasting right now. I'm so

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Speaker 7: I'm about to die on this table.

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Speaker 4: He's we fast He was a whole tap.

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Speaker 1: The hotel.

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Speaker 5: That is not what it is the way this is.

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Speaker 5: There's no way that this hasn't crossed over to you.

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Speaker 3: The whole tap what the is the whole tap charm?

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Speaker 1: Like the hot I know the whole tap is. I

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Speaker 1: don't know what the whole tap is, but I know

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Speaker 1: what the hotel.

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Speaker 4: It's a hotel.

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Speaker 3: Okay, I'm being I'm being a hotel.

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Speaker 7: A hotel is like you know, one of them, like meditative,

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Speaker 7: like all pro black power to the people, like we

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Speaker 7: can't be doing.

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Speaker 1: X y Z, but like.

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Speaker 3: You're still on the whole part of it.

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Speaker 5: To be Do you know who nineteen keys is?

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Speaker 8: Whole tep I joke, Yes, she It's an Egyptian word

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Speaker 8: that means to be at peace, does mean at peace,

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Speaker 8: which was but y'all said, whole taps.

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Speaker 3: I'm just thinking something.

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Speaker 5: Of course you are, of course, So with decisions decisions,

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Speaker 5: is it less sex talk? Like, is it less?

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Speaker 9: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, we're leaning more into the conversations around relationships, so

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Speaker 6: non traditional relationships, non monogamy, all the ways that you

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Speaker 6: and pursuing love essentially because us growing up, what is it,

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Speaker 6: get married, have kids, live happily ever after, that's not

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Speaker 6: everyone's reality.

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Speaker 7: But it's cool because we're diving into history, which we

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Speaker 7: Like we're talking. We talk about the history of romance,

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Speaker 7: the first date, even the history of romance is dope.

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Speaker 7: I was when we were first date, Like how the

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Speaker 7: first date was different. There had to be a male

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Speaker 5: They were supervising you.

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Speaker 1: I'm an idiot. I thought you meant like y'all documented

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Speaker 1: the first date.

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Speaker 7: How it evolves over time. Even the history of romance,

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Speaker 7: how you know you married.

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Speaker 1: For I'm not a whole retired a long time ago.

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Speaker 7: Now, a history of the romance shit was crazy because

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Speaker 7: it basically romance was a sickness and they believed when

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Speaker 7: a war over love. And they were like, oh, yeah,

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Speaker 7: you can't fall in love, so that's why you would

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Speaker 5: And it's just fun to dive into this because we.

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Speaker 7: Already have been talking about sex and dating so long,

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Speaker 7: so now we just get to go back and people

455
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Speaker 7: enjoy learning about stuff with.

456
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Speaker 2: Us, and we're not scholars, so that's what makes it

457
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Speaker 2: fun to be not now also, so then you've got

458
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Speaker 2: a book coming out as well.

459
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Speaker 1: We do.

460
00:18:34,520 --> 00:18:38,920
Speaker 6: We do under Charlamagne's imprint, No Holes Barred. It's a duo,

461
00:18:40,080 --> 00:18:42,840
Speaker 6: no hose Bard, listen all of them. It's a dual

462
00:18:42,920 --> 00:18:46,840
Speaker 6: manifesto of sexual exploration and power. And so we each

463
00:18:47,160 --> 00:18:49,080
Speaker 6: dive into our journeys as women.

464
00:18:50,080 --> 00:18:51,760
Speaker 4: I did a lot of.

465
00:18:51,920 --> 00:18:54,440
Speaker 6: Diving in therapy, like going all the way back to

466
00:18:54,600 --> 00:18:56,920
Speaker 6: like my childhood as to maybe why I date the

467
00:18:57,000 --> 00:19:00,439
Speaker 6: type of men I date, my views, I mean everything

468
00:19:00,520 --> 00:19:08,359
Speaker 6: that's not my daddy, so non short Jamaicans. But I

469
00:19:08,760 --> 00:19:11,320
Speaker 6: go into that and even as as early as me

470
00:19:11,720 --> 00:19:14,680
Speaker 6: like talking about my journey of having anal sex and

471
00:19:14,800 --> 00:19:16,760
Speaker 6: how I used to think any man that wanted it

472
00:19:17,119 --> 00:19:20,080
Speaker 6: was was gay because I was like, well, why would

473
00:19:20,119 --> 00:19:22,120
Speaker 6: you want that back hole when there's another hole?

474
00:19:22,200 --> 00:19:25,600
Speaker 5: And so I five, Oh that was funny because.

475
00:19:27,240 --> 00:19:32,159
Speaker 6: Just me, No, it like it like goes through my

476
00:19:32,320 --> 00:19:36,200
Speaker 6: journey of even like having to relearn and unlearn the

477
00:19:36,320 --> 00:19:38,880
Speaker 6: things that aren't true. And then we even get deep

478
00:19:38,920 --> 00:19:41,199
Speaker 6: and we talk about like our sexual assaults. I talk

479
00:19:41,240 --> 00:19:41,919
Speaker 6: about my abortion.

480
00:19:42,440 --> 00:19:44,960
Speaker 7: Six. The book is broken down. It's cool because like

481
00:19:45,200 --> 00:19:48,840
Speaker 7: when we get into that stuff. So it's pleasure, pain, progression,

482
00:19:49,640 --> 00:19:52,840
Speaker 7: and power. So like in the pain section, that's when

483
00:19:52,840 --> 00:19:55,320
Speaker 7: abortion and sexual assault comes up. But there's also a

484
00:19:55,400 --> 00:19:59,480
Speaker 7: story of a dude bdsm bdsm like ying me up,

485
00:19:59,560 --> 00:20:02,919
Speaker 7: spanking me, choking me, like Mandy getting electrocuted.

486
00:20:03,000 --> 00:20:03,720
Speaker 5: That's my favorite.

487
00:20:03,840 --> 00:20:04,960
Speaker 4: I love yea.

488
00:20:07,720 --> 00:20:10,520
Speaker 6: I went to a dungeon with my ex and we

489
00:20:10,680 --> 00:20:12,520
Speaker 6: agreed to both do two things that we had never

490
00:20:12,600 --> 00:20:16,119
Speaker 6: done before. So he agreed to put allow me to

491
00:20:16,119 --> 00:20:18,760
Speaker 6: put him in a chastity voute, which took some time

492
00:20:18,800 --> 00:20:21,280
Speaker 6: because he kept growing and he couldn't grow in order

493
00:20:21,359 --> 00:20:24,000
Speaker 6: to lock him in. And then I allowed him to

494
00:20:24,880 --> 00:20:34,440
Speaker 6: uh do electro shock inside of me with a tool happens, yeah,

495
00:20:34,520 --> 00:20:37,399
Speaker 6: and so like it like spawned all of these electro

496
00:20:37,560 --> 00:20:40,320
Speaker 6: currents inside of me, and it was the best feeling.

497
00:20:40,440 --> 00:20:42,600
Speaker 6: It felt like almost like an alien. I was like,

498
00:20:42,640 --> 00:20:44,400
Speaker 6: I'm never gonna feel this again. It felt like eight

499
00:20:44,520 --> 00:20:46,880
Speaker 6: tongues inside of me giving me oral at once.

500
00:20:47,000 --> 00:20:48,920
Speaker 4: It was it was the best feeling. I was like,

501
00:20:49,119 --> 00:20:51,160
Speaker 4: I just say't a normal feeling you gotta get.

502
00:20:51,359 --> 00:20:54,720
Speaker 6: It was great though one person, one person can't just

503
00:20:55,400 --> 00:20:57,359
Speaker 6: to be honest, I don't ride I don't ride. So

504
00:20:57,560 --> 00:20:59,159
Speaker 6: I would love for my partner to be able to

505
00:20:59,200 --> 00:21:00,840
Speaker 6: experience everything he wants to experience that.

506
00:21:00,920 --> 00:21:04,000
Speaker 4: I'm not down. I don't get on top. Let me

507
00:21:04,040 --> 00:21:07,080
Speaker 4: go get you somebody acrobatic. You mean you can be

508
00:21:10,280 --> 00:21:12,120
Speaker 4: on time, but I ain't getting on top. Nope.

509
00:21:14,080 --> 00:21:14,400
Speaker 1: Oh yeah.

510
00:21:14,440 --> 00:21:16,360
Speaker 6: I just came back from Carnival and the way them

511
00:21:16,400 --> 00:21:18,760
Speaker 6: girls were winding their hips and doing all the splits.

512
00:21:19,400 --> 00:21:22,320
Speaker 6: I said, my man deserves to experience a woman that flexible.

513
00:21:22,440 --> 00:21:23,160
Speaker 5: It ain't me though.

514
00:21:23,280 --> 00:21:24,720
Speaker 1: Isn't that a position of powerful woman?

515
00:21:25,600 --> 00:21:28,359
Speaker 5: When again, and it's the strongest.

516
00:21:29,720 --> 00:21:32,800
Speaker 4: That's great that you receive it that way. No, no, no,

517
00:21:33,600 --> 00:21:34,240
Speaker 4: I'm half white.

518
00:21:34,320 --> 00:21:38,280
Speaker 5: No I know, so it goes, it goes, It goes,

519
00:21:38,600 --> 00:21:38,840
Speaker 5: it goes.

520
00:21:39,400 --> 00:21:41,520
Speaker 4: You know, I do a little bit of okay, all right, well,

521
00:21:41,800 --> 00:21:47,000
Speaker 4: what what makes you have an orgasm? Oh, penetration, which

522
00:21:47,040 --> 00:21:47,399
Speaker 4: is why.

523
00:21:47,280 --> 00:21:49,480
Speaker 6: I can't be fully gay like and I want I

524
00:21:49,600 --> 00:21:52,080
Speaker 6: want a member with a with a pose that is

525
00:21:52,160 --> 00:21:52,880
Speaker 6: literally gay.

526
00:21:53,440 --> 00:21:57,120
Speaker 4: No no, no, no no, I want I want right here,

527
00:21:58,560 --> 00:22:01,280
Speaker 4: not like that I want, but I like a man body.

528
00:22:01,320 --> 00:22:03,680
Speaker 3: There's just so many things A girl couldn't knock you

529
00:22:03,760 --> 00:22:05,000
Speaker 3: up with a strap on. All right, you know it

530
00:22:05,040 --> 00:22:05,760
Speaker 3: needs to have a pulse.

531
00:22:05,840 --> 00:22:06,800
Speaker 4: I like the finishing.

532
00:22:07,119 --> 00:22:12,760
Speaker 1: What comes girls, It's just like the finish, And I like.

533
00:22:12,800 --> 00:22:14,960
Speaker 5: The I like I like that either.

534
00:22:15,000 --> 00:22:16,960
Speaker 7: Like when I had a girlfriend we maybe want in

535
00:22:17,000 --> 00:22:18,640
Speaker 7: the blue, used them for fun, and after a while

536
00:22:18,640 --> 00:22:21,919
Speaker 7: we were saying, it's just something about it, maybe because

537
00:22:22,600 --> 00:22:23,440
Speaker 7: her and I both.

538
00:22:23,480 --> 00:22:25,960
Speaker 5: Slept with men before. It's just like, no, that's.

539
00:22:25,800 --> 00:22:27,600
Speaker 4: Not what we'd oh, you know. And I like the finish.

540
00:22:27,680 --> 00:22:28,440
Speaker 4: I feel I've.

541
00:22:28,359 --> 00:22:29,520
Speaker 5: Always felt that toys.

542
00:22:30,160 --> 00:22:32,119
Speaker 7: So something I talk about in the book even is

543
00:22:32,240 --> 00:22:36,240
Speaker 7: like I realized after having a girlfriend that gay sex,

544
00:22:36,400 --> 00:22:39,200
Speaker 7: as far as lesbian sex is that we see, it's

545
00:22:39,320 --> 00:22:41,919
Speaker 7: really for the may od gates. It's not that sexy,

546
00:22:41,960 --> 00:22:42,760
Speaker 7: it's not that pretty.

547
00:22:43,080 --> 00:22:45,840
Speaker 5: Sometimes you be rubbing, you be on the neck, arm,

548
00:22:45,920 --> 00:22:49,000
Speaker 5: it's like you start rubbing stuff everywhere. It's not exactly

549
00:22:49,320 --> 00:22:50,080
Speaker 5: what we think.

550
00:22:50,119 --> 00:22:51,000
Speaker 1: It is nothing crazy.

551
00:22:51,040 --> 00:22:53,000
Speaker 9: And then watching two lesbians with a scrap on and

552
00:22:53,040 --> 00:22:54,720
Speaker 9: one of them sucking the scrap on, and the person

553
00:22:54,760 --> 00:22:56,320
Speaker 9: that got the scrap on is money.

554
00:22:57,960 --> 00:23:05,440
Speaker 4: Because sex is a psychological okay, so no one moans

555
00:23:05,440 --> 00:23:09,440
Speaker 4: when they suck you. But but I'm feeling anything by

556
00:23:09,720 --> 00:23:12,680
Speaker 4: giving it to you, and I made I got.

557
00:23:12,640 --> 00:23:14,520
Speaker 1: To scrap on, tell you.

558
00:23:17,720 --> 00:23:19,679
Speaker 3: Nothing, you tell you right now.

559
00:23:19,800 --> 00:23:21,240
Speaker 1: But I'm just saying it just seems.

560
00:23:21,680 --> 00:23:25,040
Speaker 7: Because right after you finished second, I could take it

561
00:23:25,080 --> 00:23:25,919
Speaker 7: off and throw it in the car.

562
00:23:26,720 --> 00:23:28,160
Speaker 1: So I think that's what he's saying.

563
00:23:28,080 --> 00:23:31,240
Speaker 7: Like, how okay, it's like you giving phone sex and

564
00:23:31,280 --> 00:23:34,119
Speaker 7: you moan, and like she said, it's you. There's something

565
00:23:34,160 --> 00:23:36,600
Speaker 7: about the action and also keeping.

566
00:23:36,440 --> 00:23:36,879
Speaker 5: In mind.

567
00:23:38,880 --> 00:23:40,439
Speaker 4: Because it's sexy watching you.

568
00:23:40,760 --> 00:23:43,119
Speaker 7: Do this is all B D S M right, So

569
00:23:43,320 --> 00:23:47,240
Speaker 7: you're being in the dominant position. That's how people wearing

570
00:23:47,320 --> 00:23:49,879
Speaker 7: it get off. It's like they know that you're on

571
00:23:50,000 --> 00:23:53,480
Speaker 7: your knees, you're being submissive, humiliate or whatever the word is.

572
00:23:53,640 --> 00:23:55,400
Speaker 5: So that's where they're getting to turn off from.

573
00:23:55,880 --> 00:23:57,600
Speaker 3: It was your crazy sexual experience. If that was was

574
00:23:57,640 --> 00:23:58,960
Speaker 3: getting electrocuted. What's yours?

575
00:23:59,320 --> 00:24:00,000
Speaker 4: Hers nasty?

576
00:24:03,400 --> 00:24:05,760
Speaker 7: No, it actually can't go on radio, but I'll just

577
00:24:05,880 --> 00:24:07,760
Speaker 7: say we'll put it behind the Patreon ahead.

578
00:24:17,119 --> 00:24:18,119
Speaker 4: She got something about blood.

579
00:24:19,600 --> 00:24:22,680
Speaker 5: Yes, okay, here's what happened.

580
00:24:23,000 --> 00:24:23,200
Speaker 1: Boy.

581
00:24:24,119 --> 00:24:28,639
Speaker 7: My man was just like, uh, I think I was

582
00:24:28,640 --> 00:24:30,400
Speaker 7: having a bad day and I was like, oh my god,

583
00:24:30,760 --> 00:24:32,440
Speaker 7: you don't love me. I feel bad, you know, but

584
00:24:32,600 --> 00:24:35,760
Speaker 7: just be complaining. I dated them, so I know, and uh,

585
00:24:35,880 --> 00:24:37,080
Speaker 7: He was like, why are you feeling like that?

586
00:24:37,119 --> 00:24:37,760
Speaker 5: What do you feel like this?

587
00:24:37,760 --> 00:24:39,080
Speaker 7: Because you in your period. I don't love you, I'm

588
00:24:39,080 --> 00:24:40,159
Speaker 7: not attracted to you. And I was like, I just

589
00:24:40,240 --> 00:24:42,840
Speaker 7: feel that way. And we were in the car and

590
00:24:43,000 --> 00:24:46,760
Speaker 7: he put the car in park and he said, put

591
00:24:46,800 --> 00:24:47,879
Speaker 7: your fingers inside of yourself.

592
00:24:47,880 --> 00:24:51,159
Speaker 5: I'm like no, and then he did it. He ate

593
00:24:51,240 --> 00:24:52,520
Speaker 5: it and he said, you think I love you now?

594
00:24:52,680 --> 00:24:54,840
Speaker 5: And it was like, it was like saltur.

595
00:24:57,840 --> 00:24:58,040
Speaker 4: Broke.

596
00:24:59,160 --> 00:24:59,880
Speaker 5: What you mean, my man?

597
00:25:00,119 --> 00:25:04,440
Speaker 1: Know that?

598
00:25:08,840 --> 00:25:18,280
Speaker 10: But god, I will say from Brooklyn rightmire, from the Bronx,

599
00:25:18,359 --> 00:25:19,720
Speaker 10: then God, but you know what it.

600
00:25:19,800 --> 00:25:21,000
Speaker 5: Is that's really dope about it.

601
00:25:21,160 --> 00:25:23,360
Speaker 7: Yes, you're listening to this right now, watching this, you're

602
00:25:23,400 --> 00:25:26,480
Speaker 7: like this is disgusting. But I think it's just that

603
00:25:26,680 --> 00:25:28,879
Speaker 7: when you have no boundaries with someone, it's sexy.

604
00:25:29,000 --> 00:25:29,760
Speaker 1: You got to get married.

605
00:25:30,240 --> 00:25:34,080
Speaker 9: Oh of course you told everybody in the radio pod

606
00:25:34,160 --> 00:25:41,919
Speaker 9: we gotta get married. Blood was like a little bit.

607
00:25:43,359 --> 00:25:45,000
Speaker 7: I didn't put that in the book because I was like, yo,

608
00:25:45,280 --> 00:25:47,920
Speaker 7: every time we really you think you've reached a level

609
00:25:48,000 --> 00:25:51,400
Speaker 7: sexually something that so so many things on our list,

610
00:25:51,480 --> 00:25:54,360
Speaker 7: But listen, I'm not judging. We definitely live a wholesome life.

611
00:25:54,440 --> 00:25:54,879
Speaker 7: Like we.

612
00:25:58,280 --> 00:25:59,800
Speaker 5: Had this woman went on a.

613
00:25:59,800 --> 00:26:00,240
Speaker 4: Date with her.

614
00:26:00,320 --> 00:26:01,520
Speaker 5: Was a wild night, so wholesome.

615
00:26:01,640 --> 00:26:04,840
Speaker 7: And my father he's in a nursing home right now

616
00:26:04,920 --> 00:26:06,520
Speaker 7: and we had to make sure we were there in

617
00:26:06,560 --> 00:26:08,639
Speaker 7: the morning to go see him. We got up with

618
00:26:08,720 --> 00:26:10,560
Speaker 7: sitting there, he played checkers and stuff.

619
00:26:10,560 --> 00:26:14,400
Speaker 5: We looking at each other like we really just having

620
00:26:14,480 --> 00:26:16,719
Speaker 5: his family moment. It's like our sex life is our

621
00:26:16,760 --> 00:26:17,400
Speaker 5: sex life.

622
00:26:18,600 --> 00:26:19,000
Speaker 1: That's what he.

623
00:26:24,440 --> 00:26:26,879
Speaker 5: Okay, that's what's funny about it.

624
00:26:26,920 --> 00:26:29,159
Speaker 1: And your mama thank you, and she.

625
00:26:29,480 --> 00:26:31,000
Speaker 5: Would love to hear that. You know she loves you.

626
00:26:31,640 --> 00:26:33,159
Speaker 5: She went to go to Charlottage's book to her. She

627
00:26:33,280 --> 00:26:35,000
Speaker 5: was like, he was looking at me, and I was

628
00:26:35,040 --> 00:26:36,400
Speaker 5: like it because he knows who I am, or he's

629
00:26:36,400 --> 00:26:46,880
Speaker 5: looking at me girl. Okay, Happy birthday worth thirteenth, Sorry Sport, Okay,

630
00:26:46,960 --> 00:26:48,920
Speaker 5: whatever day is. I don't know, we're hose, we don't know.

631
00:26:49,240 --> 00:26:53,080
Speaker 4: Have y'all ever been sexually never? Okay never?

632
00:26:53,840 --> 00:26:55,359
Speaker 3: He said, that's so fast, Like I don't even look

633
00:26:55,400 --> 00:26:55,800
Speaker 3: at her like that.

634
00:26:56,560 --> 00:26:58,760
Speaker 4: Have y'all had sex and we've never?

635
00:26:59,560 --> 00:26:59,760
Speaker 1: Never?

636
00:27:00,320 --> 00:27:02,720
Speaker 5: Would you? Was you really about to ask me?

637
00:27:02,880 --> 00:27:04,280
Speaker 4: Why do people think that?

638
00:27:05,160 --> 00:27:06,280
Speaker 1: Are you? Are you serious?

639
00:27:07,440 --> 00:27:09,399
Speaker 5: I don't feel like Mandy and I give the energy

640
00:27:09,560 --> 00:27:10,120
Speaker 5: like we've.

641
00:27:10,400 --> 00:27:12,960
Speaker 1: Never be for a long time. It was a point

642
00:27:12,960 --> 00:27:16,480
Speaker 1: where they got to be some sexual definitely. I did

643
00:27:16,560 --> 00:27:17,000
Speaker 1: feel like that.

644
00:27:17,720 --> 00:27:20,400
Speaker 4: Now, Oh my god, it's just yeah.

645
00:27:20,440 --> 00:27:23,639
Speaker 7: I mean no, no, y'all don't seem like lovers at

646
00:27:23,640 --> 00:27:26,520
Speaker 7: all and nothing like that. But I mean with all this,

647
00:27:26,640 --> 00:27:29,199
Speaker 7: y'all got it in Calmon and how y'all just.

648
00:27:29,320 --> 00:27:32,280
Speaker 5: So watch have sex. And she reminded me.

649
00:27:32,760 --> 00:27:34,639
Speaker 4: So we're sitting with I didn't really watch. I was

650
00:27:34,720 --> 00:27:35,280
Speaker 4: just on the bed.

651
00:27:36,040 --> 00:27:36,359
Speaker 5: Okay.

652
00:27:37,720 --> 00:27:42,120
Speaker 4: Now she was scared because she met him at the club.

653
00:27:42,160 --> 00:27:45,159
Speaker 6: We was like sixteen, using fake Id's down in Miami

654
00:27:45,240 --> 00:27:47,800
Speaker 6: Memorial that weekend she found got she liked the club.

655
00:27:48,440 --> 00:27:53,400
Speaker 5: Yes, crazy about twenty years.

656
00:27:53,560 --> 00:27:55,879
Speaker 7: I forgot this story, right, So she forgot about our

657
00:27:55,920 --> 00:27:58,919
Speaker 7: co Arthur, and she's trying to dig stories out of us.

658
00:27:59,200 --> 00:28:00,800
Speaker 5: So I said, you know, crazy, I've never had a

659
00:28:00,800 --> 00:28:02,600
Speaker 5: one nice stand man. He's like, that's a lie. I'm like, no,

660
00:28:02,720 --> 00:28:05,920
Speaker 5: it's not. She I was right there on the bed, yeah, like,

661
00:28:06,080 --> 00:28:09,359
Speaker 5: oh not anything pre titties. I feel like, don't count.

662
00:28:09,520 --> 00:28:11,679
Speaker 6: See this is why, see the wholeness could be deleted.

663
00:28:11,720 --> 00:28:12,639
Speaker 6: She's talking about plantings.

664
00:28:12,720 --> 00:28:14,360
Speaker 4: Slice you can take miles off a car.

665
00:28:15,800 --> 00:28:19,119
Speaker 6: No, it was like yeah, literally, I mean that was

666
00:28:19,600 --> 00:28:21,280
Speaker 6: back in the day, you know, like selfon I think

667
00:28:21,320 --> 00:28:23,680
Speaker 6: we had pye kicks back then, Like it wasn't to

668
00:28:23,760 --> 00:28:26,119
Speaker 6: where you know, you had so much access.

669
00:28:26,440 --> 00:28:28,480
Speaker 4: So she wanted to him. I was like, okay, I'm.

670
00:28:28,359 --> 00:28:29,600
Speaker 3: Gonna sit at sixteen.

671
00:28:32,320 --> 00:28:34,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, in Miami.

672
00:28:34,760 --> 00:28:35,840
Speaker 4: We drove to Miami, we live.

673
00:28:36,440 --> 00:28:40,080
Speaker 5: We had no teen pregnancies we know were an abortion.

674
00:28:41,520 --> 00:28:43,160
Speaker 5: I said, we have a team pregnancy.

675
00:28:43,360 --> 00:28:43,560
Speaker 6: Yeah.

676
00:28:43,560 --> 00:28:46,480
Speaker 4: I got rid of it clearly.

677
00:28:46,960 --> 00:28:47,800
Speaker 5: I think they were eighteen.

678
00:28:47,960 --> 00:28:49,840
Speaker 4: It was like, I'm not trying to be in Miami

679
00:28:49,880 --> 00:28:54,560
Speaker 4: at least bro to be in a club in Miami.

680
00:28:54,600 --> 00:28:57,440
Speaker 6: It's twenty one, and forgot we have fake You think

681
00:28:57,480 --> 00:28:58,840
Speaker 6: they didn't got fakes many?

682
00:28:59,400 --> 00:29:01,800
Speaker 5: No, they some They were staying together because you didn't

683
00:29:01,800 --> 00:29:02,360
Speaker 5: even remember him.

684
00:29:02,400 --> 00:29:04,320
Speaker 2: Don't try to sit here and can Back then, everybody

685
00:29:04,400 --> 00:29:05,320
Speaker 2: was staying with each other's back then.

686
00:29:05,360 --> 00:29:06,040
Speaker 3: Nobody had no money.

687
00:29:06,080 --> 00:29:06,640
Speaker 4: It was like nine.

688
00:29:07,160 --> 00:29:08,600
Speaker 5: It was no shame, no shame.

689
00:29:09,360 --> 00:29:10,959
Speaker 4: He had money, so he wasn't nineteen because he had

690
00:29:11,000 --> 00:29:13,520
Speaker 4: his own room. He wasn't shared with nobody.

691
00:29:13,560 --> 00:29:14,480
Speaker 5: That was no courtyard.

692
00:29:15,000 --> 00:29:21,440
Speaker 6: And don't remember, yo, let me tell you when I

693
00:29:21,560 --> 00:29:24,840
Speaker 6: was really reflected. I thought this was gonna be way

694
00:29:24,880 --> 00:29:26,160
Speaker 6: more different. You came in with a blazer.

695
00:29:26,200 --> 00:29:29,240
Speaker 4: I have on plaid. I don't understand how we're taking

696
00:29:29,320 --> 00:29:29,520
Speaker 4: it here.

697
00:29:29,600 --> 00:29:32,720
Speaker 5: Y'all wanted us to spice up y'all morning, to see, let's.

698
00:29:32,520 --> 00:29:34,120
Speaker 4: Go back to being okay.

699
00:29:34,240 --> 00:29:35,400
Speaker 5: So what is trap house?

700
00:29:35,800 --> 00:29:36,640
Speaker 1: Oh girl?

701
00:29:37,400 --> 00:29:39,800
Speaker 7: So I've been going to workouts in New York for

702
00:29:40,040 --> 00:29:44,200
Speaker 7: almost a decade and I love Pilates inspired movement and

703
00:29:44,280 --> 00:29:46,640
Speaker 7: I love lifting, and so literally.

704
00:29:46,360 --> 00:29:47,400
Speaker 5: I went to a plate class.

705
00:29:47,400 --> 00:29:49,040
Speaker 7: I'm not even joking. It was February this year, and

706
00:29:49,080 --> 00:29:51,800
Speaker 7: I was saying to the instructor, like, oh my god, girl,

707
00:29:51,840 --> 00:29:53,760
Speaker 7: that was such an amazing workout, Thank you, Like I

708
00:29:53,920 --> 00:29:55,920
Speaker 7: needed some like some trap or something.

709
00:29:56,360 --> 00:29:58,000
Speaker 5: She's like, I'd never played that here.

710
00:29:58,480 --> 00:30:01,880
Speaker 7: And made me feel so small like and I was like,

711
00:30:03,000 --> 00:30:06,680
Speaker 7: I'll make that ship and so I And it's funny

712
00:30:06,680 --> 00:30:08,280
Speaker 7: because someone said to me when I made it, do

713
00:30:08,360 --> 00:30:10,320
Speaker 7: you know Envy wants to do hip hop plates?

714
00:30:10,440 --> 00:30:11,480
Speaker 1: Who told you that? It was?

715
00:30:11,760 --> 00:30:12,280
Speaker 5: Maybe it was just.

716
00:30:12,280 --> 00:30:15,239
Speaker 2: Someone I mentioned it about it because I don't tell

717
00:30:15,240 --> 00:30:17,440
Speaker 2: nobody es not him. But I go to Pilate's right,

718
00:30:18,320 --> 00:30:20,440
Speaker 2: Why do I care if you go to because I don't.

719
00:30:20,280 --> 00:30:21,320
Speaker 3: Want you to pull up on me. Look at my

720
00:30:21,320 --> 00:30:22,080
Speaker 3: ass when I'm out.

721
00:30:21,920 --> 00:30:30,120
Speaker 4: There, but anyway, I'm looking at his ass, and I said, looking.

722
00:30:30,360 --> 00:30:33,120
Speaker 1: What's on your mind? So you listen three or four years,

723
00:30:33,400 --> 00:30:33,840
Speaker 1: but when.

724
00:30:33,720 --> 00:30:35,640
Speaker 3: You go to pilates, there's never no music that you

725
00:30:35,760 --> 00:30:36,280
Speaker 3: There's no hip hop.

726
00:30:36,600 --> 00:30:38,360
Speaker 5: It hard, you're shaking, you know what I'm saying.

727
00:30:38,480 --> 00:30:41,800
Speaker 7: So literally my favorite genres of music of all time,

728
00:30:41,800 --> 00:30:43,800
Speaker 7: and I listened to everything. It's trapping house music. So

729
00:30:44,360 --> 00:30:46,479
Speaker 7: I was gonna buy an apartment in New York right

730
00:30:46,560 --> 00:30:48,440
Speaker 7: I had money. I was like one hundred fifty gamma

731
00:30:48,480 --> 00:30:50,720
Speaker 7: buy a million dollar house and I was like no,

732
00:30:50,840 --> 00:30:53,320
Speaker 7: it's either that to start a business. So because I'm

733
00:30:53,360 --> 00:30:55,520
Speaker 7: not a fitness and trainer, I had to you know,

734
00:30:55,680 --> 00:30:58,800
Speaker 7: partner with someone. And so I found my favorite instructor

735
00:30:58,800 --> 00:31:00,600
Speaker 7: in New York black dudes name Jeff Blue, and I

736
00:31:00,680 --> 00:31:02,840
Speaker 7: was like, yo, I want you to make this and

737
00:31:03,200 --> 00:31:07,000
Speaker 7: he literally was like trapped and pilates. I'm like, I'm

738
00:31:07,040 --> 00:31:10,440
Speaker 7: telling you, dog, and he did everything. We flew him

739
00:31:10,440 --> 00:31:12,960
Speaker 7: to La to learn lagree. That's the really hard kinds

740
00:31:13,080 --> 00:31:16,720
Speaker 7: and like training these instructors to do things that people

741
00:31:16,720 --> 00:31:17,280
Speaker 7: have never done.

742
00:31:17,360 --> 00:31:19,720
Speaker 5: So and it's funny because you'll see buff ass dudes

743
00:31:19,800 --> 00:31:20,320
Speaker 5: come in doing it.

744
00:31:20,840 --> 00:31:22,800
Speaker 7: They come in and they shake him like crazy, and

745
00:31:22,840 --> 00:31:24,120
Speaker 7: then they go on the other one and they're shaking.

746
00:31:24,160 --> 00:31:26,320
Speaker 7: And then the little girls that are super tiny can't

747
00:31:26,320 --> 00:31:29,640
Speaker 7: do the lifting. So everybody's doing something different. But even

748
00:31:30,280 --> 00:31:32,640
Speaker 7: as I've evolved, my partner Brionda, she's like, all right,

749
00:31:32,800 --> 00:31:35,120
Speaker 7: who's making the music. I'm like, me, I got good

750
00:31:35,160 --> 00:31:36,640
Speaker 7: music sation. She's like, that's not anough.

751
00:31:37,360 --> 00:31:39,720
Speaker 5: So I had to get a music director.

752
00:31:40,160 --> 00:31:42,680
Speaker 7: And every step of the way I've tried to make

753
00:31:42,720 --> 00:31:44,480
Speaker 7: this elevated, just so a bitch came. Now you know

754
00:31:44,560 --> 00:31:46,080
Speaker 7: it's a black owned business, they'd be like, you ain't

755
00:31:46,080 --> 00:31:48,800
Speaker 7: got this. Even the candles, I want to find all

756
00:31:48,840 --> 00:31:49,200
Speaker 7: the candles.

757
00:31:49,200 --> 00:31:51,120
Speaker 5: I'm like, gotta be a little livo. Every single thing

758
00:31:51,280 --> 00:31:51,920
Speaker 5: I made.

759
00:31:52,120 --> 00:31:55,200
Speaker 7: That I wanted to be luxury, especially because you're walking

760
00:31:55,240 --> 00:31:57,040
Speaker 7: in there and you hear Jesus talking about how Chitto

761
00:31:57,160 --> 00:31:58,400
Speaker 7: like it get real ghetto.

762
00:31:58,520 --> 00:32:00,280
Speaker 1: It looked like business woman though from what I see

763
00:32:00,320 --> 00:32:01,280
Speaker 1: on Instagram, I.

764
00:32:01,320 --> 00:32:04,000
Speaker 7: Haven't been able to take a class because it's been

765
00:32:04,040 --> 00:32:04,480
Speaker 7: so busy.

766
00:32:04,880 --> 00:32:08,640
Speaker 5: I wait, because that's what's said.

767
00:32:08,640 --> 00:32:11,040
Speaker 3: I want to do a group trip there, right, and

768
00:32:11,240 --> 00:32:15,080
Speaker 3: and you got to come to sho Well, he.

769
00:32:15,160 --> 00:32:16,880
Speaker 5: Want I want to.

770
00:32:17,040 --> 00:32:19,160
Speaker 1: I don't want to be sexually harassed, but.

771
00:32:19,200 --> 00:32:21,400
Speaker 2: I want to take a group trip there and put

772
00:32:21,440 --> 00:32:22,880
Speaker 2: everybody in pilates for fifty minutes.

773
00:32:23,280 --> 00:32:25,640
Speaker 4: Oh my god, it's hard, especially for the people that

774
00:32:25,800 --> 00:32:28,680
Speaker 4: haven't done it's it's not.

775
00:32:28,880 --> 00:32:30,680
Speaker 3: I used to go four times a week, five times

776
00:32:30,720 --> 00:32:32,160
Speaker 3: a week. My wife and my dough we go together.

777
00:32:32,240 --> 00:32:34,120
Speaker 5: Oh so you're gonna be good, it's megrant former.

778
00:32:35,800 --> 00:32:36,920
Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, that's that's fine.

779
00:32:36,960 --> 00:32:37,640
Speaker 1: We do it all.

780
00:32:37,720 --> 00:32:41,560
Speaker 3: But I enjoy it. People don't know how difficult it is,

781
00:32:42,080 --> 00:32:43,760
Speaker 3: but how it helps you as well as far as strength.

782
00:32:44,120 --> 00:32:48,080
Speaker 5: Why they don't either. The look of pilates is skinny

783
00:32:48,400 --> 00:32:49,160
Speaker 5: lawn white.

784
00:32:49,280 --> 00:32:51,600
Speaker 4: Yeah, honestly, I'm sitting here like I never had a

785
00:32:51,640 --> 00:32:52,240
Speaker 4: desire to do it.

786
00:32:52,440 --> 00:32:54,719
Speaker 7: I was making jokes like, Oh, we're gonna open how

787
00:32:54,800 --> 00:32:56,240
Speaker 7: these white girls they're gonna be like, oh, what is

788
00:32:56,320 --> 00:32:58,400
Speaker 7: Gucci man break? Like I really thought that was gonna

789
00:32:58,400 --> 00:33:01,880
Speaker 7: happen when I tell you all black women, and it's

790
00:33:02,360 --> 00:33:04,440
Speaker 7: mind blowing to me. I actually wasn't ready for that,

791
00:33:04,600 --> 00:33:06,840
Speaker 7: but just TikTok. We were literally working out when I

792
00:33:06,880 --> 00:33:09,360
Speaker 7: was in the other day and it was, but none

793
00:33:09,400 --> 00:33:10,080
Speaker 7: of my coochie.

794
00:33:10,080 --> 00:33:12,160
Speaker 4: I was like, this is crazy, none of my coochie.

795
00:33:13,520 --> 00:33:18,280
Speaker 1: Oh okay, how did you promote it? How did you

796
00:33:18,320 --> 00:33:19,320
Speaker 1: get the worried out so fast?

797
00:33:19,440 --> 00:33:19,680
Speaker 4: Okay?

798
00:33:19,760 --> 00:33:23,480
Speaker 7: So I truthfully was really worried about strategy because I

799
00:33:23,520 --> 00:33:26,520
Speaker 7: didn't know. So I posted myself making something cool. You know,

800
00:33:26,600 --> 00:33:28,880
Speaker 7: when you can have a taste maker vibe, like people

801
00:33:28,920 --> 00:33:30,240
Speaker 7: know I like the party, they know I like music.

802
00:33:30,280 --> 00:33:31,120
Speaker 5: I thought that would work.

803
00:33:31,560 --> 00:33:35,680
Speaker 7: It literally was just people tiktoking. We've never made one TikTok.

804
00:33:36,080 --> 00:33:37,960
Speaker 7: It's just genuine a girls like listen.

805
00:33:38,040 --> 00:33:40,360
Speaker 6: That's why I listen that that ain't going away on

806
00:33:40,440 --> 00:33:44,320
Speaker 6: the night. A whole lot of it's gonna fake the econdomy.

807
00:33:44,640 --> 00:33:46,520
Speaker 6: It's like there's a lot of people that make money off.

808
00:33:46,440 --> 00:33:48,880
Speaker 1: Of their Frank McCord project Liberty.

809
00:33:50,480 --> 00:33:51,160
Speaker 3: There's nothing like that.

810
00:33:51,360 --> 00:33:53,520
Speaker 2: And I always say that the biggest business is what

811
00:33:53,680 --> 00:33:56,440
Speaker 2: makes people riches is to have something that nobody else has, right,

812
00:33:56,880 --> 00:33:59,360
Speaker 2: And there's so many minorities that love Plata. I'm the

813
00:33:59,400 --> 00:34:00,959
Speaker 2: only black guy when I go. I'm usually the only

814
00:34:01,040 --> 00:34:03,960
Speaker 2: guy when I do I'm black. But when I do go,

815
00:34:04,200 --> 00:34:06,080
Speaker 2: I hate the music. So the fact that I was there.

816
00:34:06,080 --> 00:34:07,040
Speaker 2: The first thing I said, where is it?

817
00:34:07,080 --> 00:34:07,520
Speaker 1: I want to go?

818
00:34:07,560 --> 00:34:07,920
Speaker 3: You know what I mean?

819
00:34:07,960 --> 00:34:09,520
Speaker 2: Because I want to try it out, because I would

820
00:34:09,560 --> 00:34:11,680
Speaker 2: love to do it. Because it's already painful, right, you

821
00:34:11,800 --> 00:34:14,080
Speaker 2: already trying to focus. But if I had the music

822
00:34:14,120 --> 00:34:16,120
Speaker 2: that I enjoy, it makes it fun now when I

823
00:34:16,160 --> 00:34:16,920
Speaker 2: can really go through it.

824
00:34:16,960 --> 00:34:19,359
Speaker 3: So I'm I'm we're gonna do a family trip there.

825
00:34:19,880 --> 00:34:22,560
Speaker 7: I made a code for everybody breakfast. There's ten bucks off.

826
00:34:22,600 --> 00:34:24,400
Speaker 7: Even if you've already been you can still use it.

827
00:34:24,560 --> 00:34:25,919
Speaker 7: But with the house music.

828
00:34:26,000 --> 00:34:28,960
Speaker 5: By the way, my mom is a studio fifty four girl.

829
00:34:29,080 --> 00:34:30,560
Speaker 7: She's a black woman. I've been listening to the house

830
00:34:30,640 --> 00:34:32,479
Speaker 7: music my whole life. I've always thought it was black.

831
00:34:32,680 --> 00:34:34,520
Speaker 7: I feel like all we know is showed me love.

832
00:34:34,640 --> 00:34:38,040
Speaker 5: But house music is black. Yeah, I mean, I'm not

833
00:34:38,120 --> 00:34:39,279
Speaker 5: playing out rant.

834
00:34:39,480 --> 00:34:43,759
Speaker 7: I'm playing that shit followed me hus because I'm bougie.

835
00:34:43,600 --> 00:34:46,160
Speaker 1: OK, because I mean it can still read as traps,

836
00:34:46,960 --> 00:34:51,200
Speaker 1: oh sothing, Like why why did you spell.

837
00:34:51,040 --> 00:34:51,320
Speaker 5: It like that?

838
00:34:51,480 --> 00:34:53,560
Speaker 7: To be honest, it was because I feel like when

839
00:34:53,600 --> 00:34:55,640
Speaker 7: we see the year or like a different version of house,

840
00:34:55,640 --> 00:34:57,600
Speaker 7: we always say, oh, this is like kind of you know,

841
00:34:57,719 --> 00:34:58,760
Speaker 7: and then I go like a house.

842
00:34:59,000 --> 00:35:01,040
Speaker 5: If someone gooted it, it buy like a weed stores.

843
00:35:01,200 --> 00:35:04,319
Speaker 7: Yeah, trap house, by the way, I wanted to call

844
00:35:04,400 --> 00:35:06,400
Speaker 7: it Trapilates, but shout out. I don't know who they are,

845
00:35:06,520 --> 00:35:08,440
Speaker 7: but you know, the trademark was taken in Atlanta. So

846
00:35:08,640 --> 00:35:12,040
Speaker 7: but we already know Atlanta got trapp Lotto. But I

847
00:35:12,120 --> 00:35:13,880
Speaker 7: mean my goal, Like people be asking me the franchise.

848
00:35:13,920 --> 00:35:15,680
Speaker 7: We've been opened six days, People like, oh, can you

849
00:35:15,719 --> 00:35:16,239
Speaker 7: franchise it.

850
00:35:16,320 --> 00:35:17,279
Speaker 5: I'm like, oh, yeah, like.

851
00:35:17,400 --> 00:35:20,080
Speaker 3: I got to learn from every wed, so congratulations.

852
00:35:20,120 --> 00:35:24,080
Speaker 1: But yeah, money, we don't talk about your entrepreneur ventures enough.

853
00:35:24,120 --> 00:35:26,200
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. You got WTF media man,

854
00:35:26,360 --> 00:35:26,920
Speaker 1: You had the studio.

855
00:35:27,200 --> 00:35:29,319
Speaker 4: I still have it open. Yeah, it's just now need

856
00:35:29,400 --> 00:35:30,080
Speaker 4: to know studios.

857
00:35:30,560 --> 00:35:34,440
Speaker 6: Yeah, but I I relocated to Atlanta. I have other

858
00:35:34,520 --> 00:35:38,520
Speaker 6: opportunities professionally down there. But yeah, and right now I'm

859
00:35:38,560 --> 00:35:42,080
Speaker 6: working on scripts and pitching those. I just wrote another

860
00:35:42,160 --> 00:35:44,080
Speaker 6: proposal for a book after writing the book with you.

861
00:35:44,800 --> 00:35:47,080
Speaker 6: I definitely just love the process. I want to continue

862
00:35:47,120 --> 00:35:50,799
Speaker 6: doing that. And yeah, I think over the last eight years,

863
00:35:50,800 --> 00:35:52,560
Speaker 6: I think that's why we've been able to keep this going,

864
00:35:52,600 --> 00:35:54,759
Speaker 6: because we've both been able to just branch out individually

865
00:35:55,200 --> 00:35:56,400
Speaker 6: and do the things that we really.

866
00:35:56,640 --> 00:35:58,120
Speaker 5: Turning over your money that you make.

867
00:35:58,320 --> 00:36:00,960
Speaker 7: Like when we got our first Black Effect check, it

868
00:36:01,040 --> 00:36:04,800
Speaker 7: was so dope because to be on salary for a podcast,

869
00:36:04,880 --> 00:36:06,640
Speaker 7: it's just like unheard.

870
00:36:06,280 --> 00:36:08,560
Speaker 5: Of, and we were making We quit our jobs before,

871
00:36:08,840 --> 00:36:10,600
Speaker 5: you know, so like we were in this doing this.

872
00:36:10,800 --> 00:36:14,040
Speaker 7: But it's just mind blowing that we've been able to

873
00:36:14,080 --> 00:36:16,239
Speaker 7: take that business acumen and flip it because a lot

874
00:36:16,320 --> 00:36:19,359
Speaker 7: of people think when you're a podcaster, people really don't

875
00:36:19,400 --> 00:36:21,319
Speaker 7: know how I make money, Like I think so many

876
00:36:21,360 --> 00:36:23,600
Speaker 7: people think I have only fans when they meet me, which.

877
00:36:23,440 --> 00:36:23,840
Speaker 3: I get it.

878
00:36:24,760 --> 00:36:26,000
Speaker 7: I feel like I could have the look, but t

879
00:36:26,200 --> 00:36:29,160
Speaker 7: is already out like okay, but content creation is one

880
00:36:29,239 --> 00:36:32,080
Speaker 7: thing and then it's like businesses.

881
00:36:32,280 --> 00:36:34,520
Speaker 6: No, no, not only that, it's just diversifying as well

882
00:36:34,560 --> 00:36:37,239
Speaker 6: how you bring in money. So between Black Effect now

883
00:36:37,280 --> 00:36:40,160
Speaker 6: the book which Charlemagne as well, then we have Patreon,

884
00:36:40,560 --> 00:36:44,000
Speaker 6: then we tour, shout out to Justin and merchandise. We

885
00:36:44,080 --> 00:36:46,440
Speaker 6: have five different means of income just for the podcast.

886
00:36:46,520 --> 00:36:49,239
Speaker 6: So even though we're not in the write ups like

887
00:36:49,320 --> 00:36:52,400
Speaker 6: the other white podcasts talking about one hundred million dollar deals,

888
00:36:52,840 --> 00:36:56,000
Speaker 6: are our business and what horrible decisions does make.

889
00:36:55,880 --> 00:36:58,520
Speaker 4: Seven figures a year. We are a seven figure podcast.

890
00:36:58,800 --> 00:37:00,840
Speaker 3: We're not one hundred we.

891
00:37:00,920 --> 00:37:02,880
Speaker 4: Are, but we we have seven figures, like and we

892
00:37:03,000 --> 00:37:03,800
Speaker 4: make that yearly.

893
00:37:04,280 --> 00:37:05,120
Speaker 5: So I love it.

894
00:37:05,320 --> 00:37:08,160
Speaker 4: And then again, that's just one form of income. Again.

895
00:37:08,239 --> 00:37:10,160
Speaker 4: She has her studio, I have my studio. We have

896
00:37:10,360 --> 00:37:12,000
Speaker 4: other things that we do as well outside.

897
00:37:12,080 --> 00:37:14,680
Speaker 9: So the Decision is a business that generates money, and

898
00:37:14,719 --> 00:37:16,480
Speaker 9: I love how y'all use that money to build other

899
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Speaker 9: other businesses.

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Speaker 7: I honestly want every podcaster to start considering building another business.

901
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Speaker 5: Don't have to be brick and mortar, but like, literally, oh.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, shout out to you.

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Speaker 6: What is when you got into brick and mortar even

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Speaker 6: having the studio, like dealing with an actual location and

905
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Speaker 6: staff And I'm like, oh, yeah, that ain't me.

906
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Speaker 5: Do you know the owner of the building that you have?

907
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Speaker 5: A SOHO?

908
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Speaker 7: So we got three buildings, four different studios, right. The

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Speaker 7: SOHO dude hits me up about how someone filed an

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Speaker 7: insurance claim and I'm like what they were like, yeah,

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Speaker 7: they fold my the bathroom.

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Speaker 5: I was like, I'm so sorry to hear that. He

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Speaker 5: was like it's good, Like he has huge buildings. He's like,

914
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Speaker 5: I've already got this covered, but like that's what's building business.

915
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Speaker 5: I was trying to make sure it's spit in the studio.

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Speaker 3: Gott yeah house.

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Speaker 6: It's crazy to me all the businesses though, all the projects,

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Speaker 6: everything that we do creatively, those are my babies as

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Speaker 6: a woman that doesn't want kids. And when people talk

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Speaker 6: about what legacy looks like and things, the things that

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Speaker 6: I'm creating are going to outlive me and my kids

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Speaker 6: if I had any their kids. So to me, my

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Speaker 6: legacy and what I'm leaving are the things and businesses

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Speaker 6: that I'm creating. And I think Weezy and I talk

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Speaker 6: about it as well. I think it's wonderful that we're

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Speaker 6: able to like provide salaries and pay people, like even

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Speaker 6: our Horrible Decisions team is like ten people. And then

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Speaker 6: she has her studio team. I have my studio, and

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Speaker 6: it's just like it's great.

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Speaker 3: How do y'all take with you in Atlanta? And you

931
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Speaker 3: hear New York. How do y'all take the podcast?

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Speaker 6: We both record and she was just in Atlanta. I

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Speaker 6: go to la whenever we're in the same city, we

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Speaker 6: find a studio on record, gotcha.

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Speaker 5: It's honestly too like I mean, you wasn't even do

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Speaker 5: you live here? Now I do?

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Speaker 4: Now you do?

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Speaker 5: But yeah, like you make it word, you know what

939
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Speaker 5: I'm saying.

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Speaker 7: I remember when I first heard that, like just didn't

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Speaker 7: live here when she was first working. I was like, wow,

942
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Speaker 7: but like you got your home is at home? Like

943
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Speaker 7: what are you gonna do your job? I think she'd

944
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Speaker 7: be secondary.

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Speaker 4: So Mandy.

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Speaker 5: I felt that Atlanta coming and I was like, oh

947
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Speaker 5: my god, she's gonna do it. She's gonna do it.

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Speaker 6: I wanted to move to Atlanta years ago, but I

949
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Speaker 6: had another show that kept me here that thankfully I ended,

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Speaker 6: and it was amazing ending it, and so now that

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Speaker 6: I don't have to be here weekly to do a

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Speaker 6: current event pod. Yeah, as soon as I ended that,

953
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Speaker 6: I was like, yeah.

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00:39:24,440 --> 00:39:26,160
Speaker 5: Which, by the way, many and I have left it

955
00:39:26,280 --> 00:39:30,120
Speaker 5: so long. When that show ended, we already.

956
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Speaker 4: Got to say. See the thing is it was another

957
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Speaker 4: show that I had.

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Speaker 7: People We've been together so long, so if someone is

959
00:39:35,360 --> 00:39:37,160
Speaker 7: a casual listener, they're thinking it's Mandy and I.

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00:39:37,680 --> 00:39:39,600
Speaker 5: I woke up to all these texts. It was my birthday.

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Speaker 5: I think. When it happened, I was like, what am

962
00:39:41,440 --> 00:39:44,280
Speaker 5: I talking about? And then my mother called me because

963
00:39:44,320 --> 00:39:45,120
Speaker 5: Mandy made a video.

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Speaker 4: That's who made our rollout so good.

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Speaker 6: When everyone thought we broke up, they was like, oh,

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Speaker 6: of course I became I'm the villain whatever, and they

967
00:39:54,040 --> 00:39:55,799
Speaker 6: made it seem like, oh, she can't keep a partner,

968
00:39:55,880 --> 00:39:58,480
Speaker 6: she can't keep a podcast up. She can't And it

969
00:39:58,600 --> 00:40:01,239
Speaker 6: was like we played until that, especially with me ending

970
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Speaker 6: the pot last year.

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Speaker 5: My mom called me, like, Mandy is on the internet

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Speaker 5: comment off on you, and.

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Speaker 4: When did you do this?

974
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Speaker 1: I'm like, when did you do this?

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Speaker 5: It wasn't me.

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Speaker 7: I'm like, if another lights to get walk back, but yeah,

977
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Speaker 7: real celebrity drama.

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Speaker 1: It's you're running naked in the halls.

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Speaker 5: It's all the news like it is something.

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Speaker 4: You know, it is.

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Speaker 1: Serious. Well, I'm proud of y'all.

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Speaker 4: Man, thank you.

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Speaker 1: Thanks.

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Speaker 9: The book No Hols Bar, The Dual Manifesto of Sexual

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Speaker 9: Exploration and Power will be in stores June twenty fourth.

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Speaker 4: June twenty tonight. That's right, you got them nails them

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Speaker 4: two shop. Yeah, take a play with It's for men

988
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Speaker 4: and women. No, it's for I'm thoughtful about other people.

989
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Speaker 5: Okay, all right, because I was just one handed purposely okay.

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00:40:52,920 --> 00:40:55,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, when you go to the nails law, and you'll

991
00:40:55,520 --> 00:40:57,359
Speaker 3: be like, no, no, no, no, not these two open.

992
00:40:58,239 --> 00:40:59,520
Speaker 3: They have to ask why, and you tell.

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Speaker 5: Me, don't you know? It's either I braid here or

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Speaker 5: type a lot.

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Speaker 4: And I'm sure they do.

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Speaker 7: They do.

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00:41:07,600 --> 00:41:08,040
Speaker 4: They asked.

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Speaker 5: By the way, Jess, I cannot wait till your auntie

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Speaker 5: age you said, now, no you're not.

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Speaker 1: I'm not forty.

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Speaker 7: You have an undertone of auntie when you just said

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Speaker 7: to them, now, oh that's what you do, all right, age,

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Speaker 7: forty's not for.

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Speaker 5: Fun. Don't let you have a lesbian you and that girl.

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Speaker 7: Your sister, Yeah, my little sister, she just she too

1006
00:41:33,520 --> 00:41:35,080
Speaker 7: new though she ain't get out the trial period.

1007
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Speaker 5: My little sister she gay. She believe that it's a.

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Speaker 4: It's twenty one though, so you know, she she she

1009
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Speaker 4: still could be, you know, trying.

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Speaker 7: I'm not saying that she won't be gay forever, but

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Speaker 7: she's still when she said a little she got a

1012
00:41:49,280 --> 00:41:51,839
Speaker 7: little twickle on eye for these little guys out here,

1013
00:41:51,920 --> 00:41:53,319
Speaker 7: so she can't be fully gay.

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Speaker 1: She has three saying.

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Speaker 7: A pretty nigga and gonna be straight right right, because

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Speaker 7: she don't like to sexually engage with men, but she's

1017
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Speaker 7: still like to look at them, Missip.

1018
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Speaker 4: But she like having sex with girls, so that's I

1019
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Speaker 4: don't know, is that a seven?

1020
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Speaker 7: Like?

1021
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Speaker 4: Okay, that's gay.

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Speaker 1: Okay, she put you on new music, she put me on.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it's this new song. You have ever heard this song?

1024
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Speaker 7: I forgot his name, but it'd be like niggas can

1025
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Speaker 7: be gay to listen, niggas can be.

1026
00:42:37,600 --> 00:42:38,359
Speaker 4: Like you ain't never heard?

1027
00:42:40,680 --> 00:42:44,960
Speaker 5: You know, they're talking about black men like, yeah, we didn't.

1028
00:42:46,680 --> 00:42:49,200
Speaker 4: Already already?

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00:42:50,680 --> 00:42:53,399
Speaker 6: Oh he didn't. I like his new song, y'all gotta

1030
00:42:53,400 --> 00:42:54,879
Speaker 6: have little Na up here to talk about.

1031
00:42:55,960 --> 00:42:56,160
Speaker 9: You know.

1032
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Speaker 4: I'm sure he's still his sexuality, but his music is

1033
00:42:59,160 --> 00:42:59,719
Speaker 4: different now.

1034
00:43:00,080 --> 00:43:00,879
Speaker 5: And it's really good.

1035
00:43:01,000 --> 00:43:02,600
Speaker 4: I really like him, you know that.

1036
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Speaker 5: Steve Lacy, I love.

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Speaker 4: Tyler, my little sister playing right.

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Speaker 5: Listen to.

1039
00:43:23,719 --> 00:43:25,520
Speaker 4: Trump. Trump would be like if your train.

1040
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Speaker 3: We appreciate you joining us Decision Podcast.

1041
00:43:32,800 --> 00:43:35,160
Speaker 6: Go pre order the book and make sure you listen

1042
00:43:35,239 --> 00:43:37,920
Speaker 6: to us wherever you listen to your favorite podcast, but

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Speaker 6: also on the iHeart podcast app because we are there

1044
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Speaker 6: under the Black Effect Network.

1045
00:43:42,360 --> 00:43:46,000
Speaker 4: It's Decisions Decision and then if you do want.

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Speaker 6: The X rated things where we do talk more about

1047
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Speaker 6: horrible decisions. Did not leave we're just behind the pay well,

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Speaker 6: so join us on Patreon this patreon dot comeback slash

1049
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Speaker 6: horrible decisions.

1050
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Speaker 5: That story you got that was five dollars.

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Speaker 1: Maybe, And the whole hive is so active that when

1052
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Speaker 1: the book first was announced it was.

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Speaker 5: Hit number one.

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Speaker 6: They when it had and immediately work or pre ordering

1055
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Speaker 6: their books. So we're really excited. And of course we

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Speaker 6: will be touring. We'll announce that later, but you guys

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Speaker 6: will be able to see us do this live.

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Speaker 7: I know you got to go, but just to tell

1059
00:44:17,760 --> 00:44:20,640
Speaker 7: you about there was a girl that's a really big

1060
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Speaker 7: fan of yours at the live show we just had

1061
00:44:23,200 --> 00:44:23,839
Speaker 7: and she was taken.

1062
00:44:24,400 --> 00:44:25,920
Speaker 4: I know, she's taking a picture of me.

1063
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Speaker 5: And I'm like, oh, I know you will go to

1064
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Speaker 5: all his books? Did you see him? She's like, who hive?

1065
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Speaker 5: He always here?

1066
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Speaker 4: That almost made me hear.

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Speaker 1: But I know y'all said no king shaman? Yes, what

1068
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Speaker 1: if the king is animals?

1069
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Speaker 7: No?

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Speaker 4: So we have rules uh no kids, no animals, no

1071
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Speaker 4: dead bodies.

1072
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Speaker 5: Those are the three and consensual and of course.

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Speaker 4: Consensual like everything consensual.

1074
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Speaker 6: But we absolutely zero tolerance for PDFs, for bestiality and

1075
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Speaker 6: for uh necrophilia.

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Speaker 9: Got because there was a guy in Florida who I

1077
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Speaker 9: gave donkey the day two this morning, he put his

1078
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Speaker 9: penis in the is that is that.

1079
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Speaker 4: Is that's also animal abuse. But that's crazy, that's crazy.

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Speaker 5: And what color with tea.

1081
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Speaker 1: And white?

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Speaker 4: I mean, but Florida, Florida and Florida. I don't even

1083
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Speaker 4: go based on color.

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Speaker 5: It's just watching Florida.

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Speaker 4: I do on Florida is good.

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Speaker 1: Eating them, it's good. It ain't as good as the

1087
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Speaker 1: regular Florida stories we read in the news, though, but it's.

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Speaker 7: Good now that black man and a white dude with

1089
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Speaker 7: no teeth and he burned the house over it was

1090
00:45:29,400 --> 00:45:29,799
Speaker 7: still together.

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Speaker 5: It's good, but it's it's re enactment of Florida man stories.

1092
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Speaker 5: But I think what's so crazy about Florida were from there?

1093
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Speaker 4: So from Florida and we be it's embarrassed.

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Speaker 5: Do you think I was we were doing bampire hello,

1095
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Speaker 5: because you're.

1096
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Speaker 4: Not not we, not we, not we. Sometimes you have

1097
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Speaker 4: to speak for yourself first.

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Speaker 11: Anyway, all right, it's the Breakfast good Morning wake that

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Speaker 11: airs

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Speaker 1: Up early in the morning at Breakfast club