1 00:00:03,200 --> 00:00:05,640 Speaker 1: I want to talk about all kinds of subjects, things 2 00:00:05,680 --> 00:00:08,360 Speaker 1: that people don't want to talk about, especially in my culture. 3 00:00:08,480 --> 00:00:11,040 Speaker 1: You know, a lot of things are still taboo. My 4 00:00:11,119 --> 00:00:13,640 Speaker 1: transparency and my honesty can sometimes get me into trouble 5 00:00:13,720 --> 00:00:19,400 Speaker 1: with my team. I'm a very confident woman, and I 6 00:00:19,440 --> 00:00:22,280 Speaker 1: don't care how beautiful a woman is. I love. I'm 7 00:00:22,280 --> 00:00:23,959 Speaker 1: not a hater at all, So I can be standing 8 00:00:24,000 --> 00:00:26,680 Speaker 1: next to a body down woman beautiful and I just 9 00:00:26,680 --> 00:00:33,720 Speaker 1: feel just as sexy as hurt. What up? Everybody? Get that? 10 00:00:34,040 --> 00:00:38,000 Speaker 1: I hope you're all having a wonderful day. Finally, Fault 11 00:00:38,120 --> 00:00:39,559 Speaker 1: is here. And I don't know about you guys, but 12 00:00:39,640 --> 00:00:42,680 Speaker 1: I love fault and winter. It is sweater season, scarves, 13 00:00:42,680 --> 00:00:45,720 Speaker 1: beanie boots. I love it, or, as my assistant only 14 00:00:45,840 --> 00:00:50,720 Speaker 1: calls it, gray sweat season. So my name is cheek Ease, 15 00:00:50,840 --> 00:00:53,760 Speaker 1: and I want to welcome you to my brand new podcast, 16 00:00:53,880 --> 00:00:56,680 Speaker 1: cheek Ease and Chill. This podcast has been in the 17 00:00:56,720 --> 00:00:58,640 Speaker 1: works for years. It's been on my vision board for 18 00:00:58,680 --> 00:01:01,280 Speaker 1: like almost three years now, so I'm excited to finally 19 00:01:01,320 --> 00:01:05,200 Speaker 1: share it with you. And since it's our very first episode, 20 00:01:05,280 --> 00:01:07,480 Speaker 1: I thought it would be the perfect opportunity to do 21 00:01:07,520 --> 00:01:10,160 Speaker 1: a little Q and A, so you have a better 22 00:01:10,200 --> 00:01:12,760 Speaker 1: sense of who I am. So grab a drink, some 23 00:01:12,840 --> 00:01:18,200 Speaker 1: tequila wine, whatever you want, Um, popcorn, pizza, and let's 24 00:01:18,200 --> 00:01:25,759 Speaker 1: do it chickens and chill. Alright. So, as I mentioned, 25 00:01:25,760 --> 00:01:28,560 Speaker 1: today is our very first episode and it's all about me. 26 00:01:28,920 --> 00:01:31,000 Speaker 1: So we're going to pull back the curtain and we're 27 00:01:31,040 --> 00:01:34,160 Speaker 1: gonna get real comfortable. I have my producer to sell 28 00:01:34,240 --> 00:01:38,400 Speaker 1: and Brianna here with me. Hi, guys, cheek ease, thanks 29 00:01:38,480 --> 00:01:41,800 Speaker 1: for having us. You know we're usually behind the scenes here, 30 00:01:42,080 --> 00:01:45,360 Speaker 1: but today we're grilling you because we want to know 31 00:01:45,440 --> 00:01:49,800 Speaker 1: all the exciting and spicy stuff that's going on. First, 32 00:01:49,840 --> 00:01:55,640 Speaker 1: congrats on the podcast and joining my Heart Radios podcast network. 33 00:01:55,880 --> 00:01:59,240 Speaker 1: We're so excited to have you, and I know Brianna 34 00:01:59,440 --> 00:02:07,320 Speaker 1: is Here's why. Oh yes, Brianna Cheeks, how are you good? Good? Good? Um? 35 00:02:07,440 --> 00:02:10,560 Speaker 1: I'm good too, and I am so excited to be 36 00:02:10,720 --> 00:02:13,880 Speaker 1: here and to learn a little bit or maybe a 37 00:02:13,880 --> 00:02:17,400 Speaker 1: little bit more about you. Uh yeah, So I can't 38 00:02:17,400 --> 00:02:20,720 Speaker 1: wait to get started. Oh nice, anything you guys want 39 00:02:20,760 --> 00:02:23,399 Speaker 1: to ask me. I'm an open book, so I ain't 40 00:02:23,400 --> 00:02:25,839 Speaker 1: I ain't scared of nothing, and I want truths here, 41 00:02:26,160 --> 00:02:30,080 Speaker 1: nothing but my mom, I only want truths here, so 42 00:02:30,840 --> 00:02:34,000 Speaker 1: you know, don't don't be lying to us. We need 43 00:02:34,040 --> 00:02:38,639 Speaker 1: the dirt. I promise I won't lie. Scouts. Ready, here 44 00:02:38,639 --> 00:02:45,520 Speaker 1: we go, Get ready, buckle up? Yeah, exactly. Okay. Um, 45 00:02:45,639 --> 00:02:50,280 Speaker 1: so let's start with who is cheekies? Uh say in 46 00:02:50,440 --> 00:02:54,600 Speaker 1: three words? Who is cheeks? In three words? Okay? Three words? 47 00:02:54,800 --> 00:03:00,600 Speaker 1: Um damn. I'm I'm very passionate, very passionate person um 48 00:03:00,600 --> 00:03:08,160 Speaker 1: A woman of integrity. Uh just three okay? Uh? Faith 49 00:03:08,160 --> 00:03:12,239 Speaker 1: and hard working I put into And how much different 50 00:03:12,280 --> 00:03:15,200 Speaker 1: would you say you are in your private life versus 51 00:03:15,360 --> 00:03:18,160 Speaker 1: you know, your your public persona. Is there a difference there? 52 00:03:19,760 --> 00:03:22,320 Speaker 1: So that's a good question, Brianna. Okay, So there's cheeks, 53 00:03:22,320 --> 00:03:24,920 Speaker 1: and there's Janney and sometimes Valentina. So let's just focus 54 00:03:25,000 --> 00:03:27,639 Speaker 1: on cheeks and Jennet today. So cheeks is the glitz 55 00:03:27,639 --> 00:03:30,880 Speaker 1: and glam. I love makeup and all this stuff, you know, 56 00:03:30,960 --> 00:03:33,560 Speaker 1: and I love the lights and the wind and singing 57 00:03:33,600 --> 00:03:37,080 Speaker 1: on stage. And it's different, you know from Janet. My 58 00:03:37,160 --> 00:03:40,720 Speaker 1: everyday life is just more at it's you know, I'm 59 00:03:40,760 --> 00:03:43,960 Speaker 1: at home. I'm I prefer not to wear makeup. I 60 00:03:44,080 --> 00:03:45,760 Speaker 1: have my hair up in a bun. I'm wearing sweats. 61 00:03:45,760 --> 00:03:48,600 Speaker 1: I'm running around getting things done. I love doing things myself. 62 00:03:48,600 --> 00:03:52,640 Speaker 1: I love driving by myself. Um, I go eat by myself. 63 00:03:52,640 --> 00:03:55,840 Speaker 1: I've gone to the movies by myself. Um. So I'm 64 00:03:55,920 --> 00:03:59,000 Speaker 1: just I want to say that cheek Ease is extroverted. 65 00:03:59,040 --> 00:04:00,600 Speaker 1: Of course I have to be, that's my job. And 66 00:04:00,640 --> 00:04:04,880 Speaker 1: then Janet is very introverted, like I would rather stay 67 00:04:04,920 --> 00:04:07,200 Speaker 1: at home than go out, you know, and and I 68 00:04:07,280 --> 00:04:12,240 Speaker 1: liked to eat and watch movies. Okay, So cheekies Janet, 69 00:04:12,400 --> 00:04:15,200 Speaker 1: And I think you said, there's Valentina, So tell us 70 00:04:15,240 --> 00:04:18,920 Speaker 1: a little bit about her. What's she like? Okay? So 71 00:04:19,000 --> 00:04:22,400 Speaker 1: Valentina is the bitch? Okay, um Cheeckie is very sweet 72 00:04:22,800 --> 00:04:26,200 Speaker 1: and you know, I am just like all about helping, 73 00:04:26,200 --> 00:04:28,360 Speaker 1: and so is Jane. But you know, here comes Valentina. 74 00:04:28,400 --> 00:04:30,760 Speaker 1: Is like, I'm gonna defend both of you, because sometimes 75 00:04:30,760 --> 00:04:33,400 Speaker 1: we're kind of like pushovers, you know. And Valentina comes 76 00:04:33,400 --> 00:04:35,359 Speaker 1: and brings out the middle fingers and let it be 77 00:04:35,400 --> 00:04:37,320 Speaker 1: known you feel me. She don't come out that much. 78 00:04:37,520 --> 00:04:41,680 Speaker 1: I try to suppress her with meditation. Well, I haven't 79 00:04:41,680 --> 00:04:44,680 Speaker 1: met Valentina yet, and I'm a little bit scared, but 80 00:04:45,320 --> 00:04:48,800 Speaker 1: I can tell you cheekies has a heart of gold. 81 00:04:48,920 --> 00:04:52,800 Speaker 1: From what I've known so far, is genuine through and through. 82 00:04:53,440 --> 00:04:55,400 Speaker 1: And you know, we have a couple of things in common. 83 00:04:55,800 --> 00:04:59,920 Speaker 1: We are both La Natives. You grew up in Long Beach, 84 00:05:00,000 --> 00:05:04,600 Speaker 1: which it is, Michigana. You love your coultura. You're all 85 00:05:04,640 --> 00:05:11,000 Speaker 1: about culture. What's your favorite thing about NUESTRAA Wow, my 86 00:05:11,080 --> 00:05:16,240 Speaker 1: favorite thing about um Damn. That's a hard one too, 87 00:05:16,240 --> 00:05:18,080 Speaker 1: because it's just like, there's so many favorite things. I mean, 88 00:05:18,120 --> 00:05:20,120 Speaker 1: I love the food, I love, you know, I want 89 00:05:20,120 --> 00:05:22,239 Speaker 1: to say the music. I want to say the music. 90 00:05:22,240 --> 00:05:26,640 Speaker 1: There's so many different um sounds, so many different instruments, 91 00:05:26,680 --> 00:05:28,560 Speaker 1: and what you feel when you listen to our music, 92 00:05:28,600 --> 00:05:33,360 Speaker 1: it could go anywhere from BANDA to regeton to I 93 00:05:33,400 --> 00:05:36,760 Speaker 1: think that our music is so beautiful, you know what 94 00:05:36,760 --> 00:05:38,919 Speaker 1: I mean? Like, I just I want to say that 95 00:05:38,920 --> 00:05:41,479 Speaker 1: that's probably one of my favorite things about our culture, 96 00:05:41,520 --> 00:05:45,600 Speaker 1: amongst other things. But that's my favorite. Oh my gosh, yes, food, 97 00:05:46,200 --> 00:05:49,680 Speaker 1: music definitely some of my favorites too. What would you 98 00:05:49,760 --> 00:05:53,640 Speaker 1: say is the best advice you've ever been given by 99 00:05:53,839 --> 00:05:58,320 Speaker 1: your late mom? Music icon Jenny RIVERA shout out to 100 00:05:58,360 --> 00:06:01,440 Speaker 1: my mom up in the sky. Um these times are 101 00:06:01,480 --> 00:06:03,960 Speaker 1: so difficult, like fall in winter, because this is when 102 00:06:03,960 --> 00:06:06,320 Speaker 1: we lost her, you know, so you bring her up 103 00:06:06,320 --> 00:06:07,920 Speaker 1: and I'm like, oh, you know, but it's a good thing. 104 00:06:07,920 --> 00:06:10,200 Speaker 1: That's my mom, and I'm proud of who she is, 105 00:06:10,240 --> 00:06:13,200 Speaker 1: what she's accomplished, and what she's done in my life 106 00:06:13,200 --> 00:06:15,440 Speaker 1: and still is doing in my life and so many lives. 107 00:06:15,440 --> 00:06:19,040 Speaker 1: But um, anyway, she taught me so many things. Um, 108 00:06:19,080 --> 00:06:25,120 Speaker 1: the biggest lesson I want to say is not to 109 00:06:26,120 --> 00:06:29,080 Speaker 1: be a victim of my past. Of what I've gone through. Um, 110 00:06:29,120 --> 00:06:32,960 Speaker 1: I've been sexually molested, I was sexually messing by my dad. Um. 111 00:06:33,040 --> 00:06:35,960 Speaker 1: And then obviously her and I had some situations growing 112 00:06:36,000 --> 00:06:37,960 Speaker 1: up as well. It was difficult. She was we're fifteen 113 00:06:38,000 --> 00:06:41,760 Speaker 1: years apart, so we grew up like sisters. So she 114 00:06:41,760 --> 00:06:43,359 Speaker 1: would always say, oh my gosh, why are you so 115 00:06:43,440 --> 00:06:44,960 Speaker 1: like You're not like me? You know, I was like 116 00:06:45,000 --> 00:06:46,560 Speaker 1: a straight a student and this and that. So we 117 00:06:46,560 --> 00:06:49,760 Speaker 1: always had actually you didn't come with Emmanuel. But she 118 00:06:49,920 --> 00:06:53,080 Speaker 1: taught me that no matter what I've gone through, don't 119 00:06:53,080 --> 00:06:55,240 Speaker 1: feel don't be a victim of the past. That does 120 00:06:55,320 --> 00:06:58,080 Speaker 1: not define you. So I think one of those things 121 00:06:58,080 --> 00:06:59,800 Speaker 1: where I'm like, Okay, no matter what has happened in 122 00:06:59,800 --> 00:07:01,560 Speaker 1: my life, if I have to keep going, she'd be like, 123 00:07:01,720 --> 00:07:03,440 Speaker 1: if you fall, you get back up, you brush your 124 00:07:03,440 --> 00:07:06,560 Speaker 1: shoulders off. And that's what's helped me. I think that's 125 00:07:06,600 --> 00:07:08,440 Speaker 1: one of the reasons why I'm still where I'm at 126 00:07:08,640 --> 00:07:11,400 Speaker 1: despite the criticism and all that stuff, you know, the 127 00:07:11,400 --> 00:07:14,560 Speaker 1: adversities I've had to face. Yeah, and you know you're 128 00:07:14,600 --> 00:07:18,200 Speaker 1: so open about that and open about sharing so many things. 129 00:07:18,200 --> 00:07:20,480 Speaker 1: And that's what I believe it's going to make such 130 00:07:20,480 --> 00:07:23,200 Speaker 1: a great Cheekies and Chill podcast. Is you just being 131 00:07:23,280 --> 00:07:26,600 Speaker 1: real and honest? And you know you did mention that 132 00:07:27,160 --> 00:07:30,160 Speaker 1: this time of year is difficult because it's the anniversary 133 00:07:30,200 --> 00:07:33,320 Speaker 1: of your mom's death December nine. You know, how do 134 00:07:33,400 --> 00:07:37,760 Speaker 1: you all still honor her despite you know the fact 135 00:07:37,760 --> 00:07:41,160 Speaker 1: that we've lost her. Yeah? You know what, for me, 136 00:07:41,200 --> 00:07:45,240 Speaker 1: it starts in October. I lost her on October two, 137 00:07:46,320 --> 00:07:48,760 Speaker 1: and then she left in December. So all these months 138 00:07:48,760 --> 00:07:51,280 Speaker 1: they're always really emotionally heavy. And you think it's going 139 00:07:51,320 --> 00:07:55,400 Speaker 1: to get better because it's almost nine years, but I 140 00:07:55,480 --> 00:07:57,240 Speaker 1: it's that's my mom, you know what I mean? Like 141 00:07:57,280 --> 00:07:59,520 Speaker 1: I missed her all the time. It doesn't matter how 142 00:07:59,520 --> 00:08:01,760 Speaker 1: old I am. I still need her advice, you know, um, 143 00:08:01,920 --> 00:08:04,000 Speaker 1: and we do our best to honor her. For me 144 00:08:04,120 --> 00:08:08,119 Speaker 1: and personally, it's having my siblings together now they're older. 145 00:08:08,200 --> 00:08:09,960 Speaker 1: Now I can't necessarily tell them what to do. They 146 00:08:10,000 --> 00:08:11,720 Speaker 1: all have their lives or have their children, they have 147 00:08:11,800 --> 00:08:14,040 Speaker 1: their things or jobs. Before it was like we have 148 00:08:14,080 --> 00:08:16,000 Speaker 1: to be together. We have to like watch my mom's 149 00:08:16,000 --> 00:08:19,640 Speaker 1: favorite movies and you know, her favorite foods. And now 150 00:08:19,680 --> 00:08:23,280 Speaker 1: that they've gotten older, I've learned to respect their decisions. 151 00:08:23,480 --> 00:08:25,600 Speaker 1: You know, I can't force them anymore. And now with 152 00:08:25,720 --> 00:08:27,840 Speaker 1: issues that are going on in my family, we used 153 00:08:27,880 --> 00:08:31,640 Speaker 1: to get together and you know, Karanda drink some tequila 154 00:08:31,720 --> 00:08:33,880 Speaker 1: because as my mama, she loved a party. You feel me. 155 00:08:34,240 --> 00:08:37,400 Speaker 1: But now that things are a little different, Um, I 156 00:08:37,440 --> 00:08:39,560 Speaker 1: think this year, whoever wants to come over to my 157 00:08:39,600 --> 00:08:42,400 Speaker 1: house will be welcome. I always let go, like I 158 00:08:42,440 --> 00:08:45,480 Speaker 1: always let a balloon go into the sky and I 159 00:08:45,520 --> 00:08:47,280 Speaker 1: write her a message. You know. We we've had that 160 00:08:47,320 --> 00:08:50,800 Speaker 1: tradition for all these nine years. So we haven't really 161 00:08:50,800 --> 00:08:52,800 Speaker 1: talked about it, to be honest, for this year because 162 00:08:52,800 --> 00:08:55,240 Speaker 1: things are kind of weird. But I'm hoping I could 163 00:08:55,280 --> 00:08:57,120 Speaker 1: be with my siblings. That would make me really happy. 164 00:08:57,960 --> 00:09:01,200 Speaker 1: And speaking of siblings, you are the eldest in your 165 00:09:01,240 --> 00:09:06,199 Speaker 1: family and I'm actually the youngest, so very different experiences, 166 00:09:06,200 --> 00:09:08,559 Speaker 1: I'm sure, and I'm curious to learn from you about 167 00:09:08,559 --> 00:09:12,439 Speaker 1: some of the hardest parts, some of the easiest or 168 00:09:12,480 --> 00:09:16,160 Speaker 1: best parts about sort of existing in that role. Oh 169 00:09:16,200 --> 00:09:19,920 Speaker 1: that's a good question. Okay. So growing up as the 170 00:09:19,920 --> 00:09:23,200 Speaker 1: eldest was at first very difficult. I would ask my 171 00:09:23,200 --> 00:09:25,280 Speaker 1: mom why, but why am I the oldest. She's I 172 00:09:25,280 --> 00:09:27,600 Speaker 1: don't know, talk to God, because she's like, you're the example. 173 00:09:27,640 --> 00:09:29,400 Speaker 1: You have to be an example to your siblings, and 174 00:09:29,520 --> 00:09:31,520 Speaker 1: they're going to follow everything you do. And I was 175 00:09:31,640 --> 00:09:34,240 Speaker 1: always the second mom, and sometimes to my mom, I 176 00:09:34,280 --> 00:09:36,200 Speaker 1: was a mom, you know, because she was so young 177 00:09:36,280 --> 00:09:37,920 Speaker 1: and she had me sewing, she had all of us 178 00:09:37,960 --> 00:09:39,720 Speaker 1: so young, so she kind of want to wanted a 179 00:09:39,800 --> 00:09:41,760 Speaker 1: party and do her thing. And I'd be like, hello, 180 00:09:41,800 --> 00:09:44,000 Speaker 1: you have kids, and she's like, well, um, that's why 181 00:09:44,000 --> 00:09:46,960 Speaker 1: I have you. So I was like, what the heck? 182 00:09:47,000 --> 00:09:49,319 Speaker 1: Growing up it was difficult, but now I'm so grateful 183 00:09:49,360 --> 00:09:51,640 Speaker 1: that I'm the oldest because now instead of it looking 184 00:09:51,679 --> 00:09:54,120 Speaker 1: looking at it as a chore, I look at it 185 00:09:54,200 --> 00:09:59,720 Speaker 1: as a beautiful thing. It's it's a responsibility. But I 186 00:09:59,760 --> 00:10:02,360 Speaker 1: love to set the example for my siblings and show 187 00:10:02,400 --> 00:10:04,480 Speaker 1: them everything that I'm doing and how I don't give 188 00:10:04,559 --> 00:10:07,640 Speaker 1: up and my perseverance so that they can also follow 189 00:10:07,640 --> 00:10:14,240 Speaker 1: that hopefully, you know. I'm like, so, it's it is 190 00:10:14,280 --> 00:10:16,480 Speaker 1: a huge responsibility. There was a lot of pressure growing 191 00:10:16,559 --> 00:10:20,240 Speaker 1: up and still there is because my mom always told 192 00:10:20,280 --> 00:10:21,800 Speaker 1: me you are the oldest, you have to keep your 193 00:10:21,800 --> 00:10:24,120 Speaker 1: siblings together. I want you guys to be different from 194 00:10:24,120 --> 00:10:26,840 Speaker 1: my family, from my siblings. I want you guys to 195 00:10:26,880 --> 00:10:29,200 Speaker 1: be united. And if you guys fight, you sit down 196 00:10:29,200 --> 00:10:31,120 Speaker 1: and you talk that sh it out, you know. And 197 00:10:31,240 --> 00:10:33,800 Speaker 1: I feel that responsibility like right here. And now they're 198 00:10:33,840 --> 00:10:36,120 Speaker 1: all older and have a mind of their own. So 199 00:10:36,160 --> 00:10:38,760 Speaker 1: I'm like, dude, this is hard. I'm like, Mom, help me. Literally, 200 00:10:38,800 --> 00:10:40,800 Speaker 1: I pray. I'm like, help me with Johnny. What do 201 00:10:40,840 --> 00:10:43,080 Speaker 1: I do? Like, help me with the kids? And I 202 00:10:43,120 --> 00:10:45,080 Speaker 1: just I just pray for patients and I'm like, God, 203 00:10:45,080 --> 00:10:48,200 Speaker 1: help me. But I love it, honestly, would not change 204 00:10:48,200 --> 00:10:50,800 Speaker 1: it for the world. I love being the oldest sister 205 00:10:51,920 --> 00:10:53,920 Speaker 1: and being a friend. Now was always like a mom 206 00:10:53,960 --> 00:10:56,199 Speaker 1: to them. Now I'm that sister, you know, And and 207 00:10:56,600 --> 00:10:59,679 Speaker 1: I never really had that, so it's kind of cool. Um, 208 00:10:59,720 --> 00:11:01,559 Speaker 1: but times I do wish I had like an older sister, 209 00:11:01,720 --> 00:11:10,800 Speaker 1: just sometimes not all the time. All Right, we gotta 210 00:11:10,880 --> 00:11:13,280 Speaker 1: get into a little bit of dirt here, and I 211 00:11:13,520 --> 00:11:17,280 Speaker 1: need to know about your love life, So we're gonna 212 00:11:17,320 --> 00:11:22,560 Speaker 1: transition a little bit into um men women relationships. But 213 00:11:22,640 --> 00:11:25,880 Speaker 1: you know, as your manager, Mr Bull likes to say 214 00:11:25,960 --> 00:11:29,520 Speaker 1: you are every man's dream girl, and I think for 215 00:11:29,559 --> 00:11:31,600 Speaker 1: a lot of women as well. I think you know, 216 00:11:31,640 --> 00:11:34,559 Speaker 1: he says, Oh my god, he says that. He says 217 00:11:34,600 --> 00:11:37,760 Speaker 1: that nice, Mr Bull, thank you. He's right here with 218 00:11:37,800 --> 00:11:41,520 Speaker 1: me that you say I'm every man's dream girl, Mr Bull. 219 00:11:41,640 --> 00:11:45,520 Speaker 1: My dad a Jerky's such a dad. I love him. Yes, 220 00:11:46,200 --> 00:11:48,959 Speaker 1: So what do you think it is that men and 221 00:11:49,040 --> 00:11:57,199 Speaker 1: women physically love about you? You know what? Physically I 222 00:11:57,280 --> 00:11:59,480 Speaker 1: want to say. The first thing that attracts him is 223 00:11:59,480 --> 00:12:01,360 Speaker 1: my ass. You know. It's kind of like, oh, she 224 00:12:01,440 --> 00:12:05,040 Speaker 1: has a fat booty, you know. Um, I want to 225 00:12:05,040 --> 00:12:07,319 Speaker 1: think it's my personality, you know what I mean? But 226 00:12:08,600 --> 00:12:12,320 Speaker 1: you know what, I'm a very confident woman and I 227 00:12:12,360 --> 00:12:15,199 Speaker 1: don't care how beautiful a woman is. I love. I'm 228 00:12:15,240 --> 00:12:16,880 Speaker 1: not a hater at all, so I can be standing 229 00:12:16,920 --> 00:12:19,600 Speaker 1: next to a body down woman beautiful, and I just 230 00:12:19,640 --> 00:12:22,080 Speaker 1: feel just as sexy as her, like I'm I am 231 00:12:22,080 --> 00:12:24,880 Speaker 1: all thicker. But whatever I said, you know, I just 232 00:12:25,000 --> 00:12:28,240 Speaker 1: I think that when you walk with confidence and you 233 00:12:28,240 --> 00:12:31,280 Speaker 1: you have your head held high and you feel beautiful, 234 00:12:31,480 --> 00:12:34,240 Speaker 1: like people feel that and that attracts men. It doesn't 235 00:12:34,240 --> 00:12:36,480 Speaker 1: matter your size. And I learned that very early on 236 00:12:36,520 --> 00:12:39,240 Speaker 1: in my age because my mom always like that. So 237 00:12:39,679 --> 00:12:42,520 Speaker 1: I learned that from her, and now I've tried to 238 00:12:42,559 --> 00:12:44,800 Speaker 1: teach my sisters that and now it's like Jackie is 239 00:12:44,840 --> 00:12:48,199 Speaker 1: so confident, Jennica, she's blossoming right now. So I think 240 00:12:48,200 --> 00:12:50,079 Speaker 1: it's that it's probably my confidence be like, oh, look 241 00:12:50,080 --> 00:12:51,720 Speaker 1: at this girl. She thinks she's you know, she thinks 242 00:12:51,720 --> 00:12:55,320 Speaker 1: she the ship. Yeah, I'm a little bit. And where 243 00:12:55,320 --> 00:12:57,679 Speaker 1: does that confidence come from? You would say from your mom, 244 00:12:57,679 --> 00:13:01,440 Speaker 1: because you know, like all women and you know, latin 245 00:13:01,520 --> 00:13:06,000 Speaker 1: As we struggle with body issues. We don't always wake 246 00:13:06,120 --> 00:13:09,960 Speaker 1: up feeling the prettiest some days, right, But where do 247 00:13:10,000 --> 00:13:15,040 Speaker 1: you find that confidence to like shine? You know what? Initially, yes, 248 00:13:15,080 --> 00:13:17,320 Speaker 1: I learned it from my mama. I saw her. Um. 249 00:13:17,320 --> 00:13:20,439 Speaker 1: She was a thick woman herself, and she was confident 250 00:13:20,480 --> 00:13:23,600 Speaker 1: and never had a problem with gin men. You know. Um, 251 00:13:23,640 --> 00:13:27,720 Speaker 1: But as I've grown, I've learned that true confidence comes 252 00:13:27,800 --> 00:13:31,960 Speaker 1: from knowing who you are. Knowing who you are and 253 00:13:32,000 --> 00:13:37,679 Speaker 1: knowing where you're going, having goals, having knowing that makes 254 00:13:37,679 --> 00:13:43,199 Speaker 1: you so powerful. Yo, I don't go around trying to 255 00:13:43,280 --> 00:13:55,679 Speaker 1: hurt anybody or watch my back because so so I 256 00:13:55,679 --> 00:13:59,200 Speaker 1: think that all of that helps me just be confident. 257 00:13:59,400 --> 00:14:01,200 Speaker 1: You know, a woman that I am and the woman 258 00:14:01,240 --> 00:14:02,880 Speaker 1: that I strive to be every single day. I want 259 00:14:02,880 --> 00:14:04,640 Speaker 1: to be the better version of myself every day. And 260 00:14:04,640 --> 00:14:06,640 Speaker 1: I think that gives you a different type of globe too, 261 00:14:06,800 --> 00:14:12,400 Speaker 1: you know. Yeah, so we know what men like about you? 262 00:14:13,200 --> 00:14:16,920 Speaker 1: What do you love physically about men? I guess what 263 00:14:16,920 --> 00:14:21,920 Speaker 1: I'm trying to say is does size matter? Okay, look 264 00:14:22,320 --> 00:14:27,200 Speaker 1: we're going there now. Size to me, it doesn't it? Okay, 265 00:14:27,200 --> 00:14:30,160 Speaker 1: wait hold on, let me answer this correctly, because I've 266 00:14:30,160 --> 00:14:37,880 Speaker 1: had different penises sizes just okay, God, so I think 267 00:14:37,880 --> 00:14:40,280 Speaker 1: the right the right. Maybe a question is do you 268 00:14:40,320 --> 00:14:43,000 Speaker 1: like it longer, thicker like girth? Is it? Is it better? That? 269 00:14:43,120 --> 00:14:45,560 Speaker 1: You know what I mean? But to me, I've had 270 00:14:45,840 --> 00:14:50,440 Speaker 1: a partner that it wasn't that big ish you know, 271 00:14:50,640 --> 00:14:55,800 Speaker 1: but he handled you know, orally perfectly and he knew 272 00:14:55,800 --> 00:14:57,560 Speaker 1: how to work with what he got. So it kind 273 00:14:57,560 --> 00:14:59,320 Speaker 1: of like it really doesn't like, I don't feel like 274 00:14:59,360 --> 00:15:01,000 Speaker 1: you need to have a big penis in order for 275 00:15:01,040 --> 00:15:03,040 Speaker 1: me to be satisfied. It's like how you want to 276 00:15:03,040 --> 00:15:08,200 Speaker 1: satisfy me? You know what I mean? Okay, cool, perfect, 277 00:15:08,200 --> 00:15:13,760 Speaker 1: perfect sense. Yes, but I'd prefer girth anyways, go ahead, 278 00:15:15,640 --> 00:15:20,080 Speaker 1: girth to length two inches, friends, girth two inches. Yeah, 279 00:15:20,120 --> 00:15:28,040 Speaker 1: it's okay. So my next question, so you have basically 280 00:15:28,040 --> 00:15:31,560 Speaker 1: grown up in the spotlight, in the public eye, first 281 00:15:31,600 --> 00:15:33,840 Speaker 1: because of your mom and now because of yourself. I mean, 282 00:15:34,240 --> 00:15:36,840 Speaker 1: you're a singer, you are an author, you are a 283 00:15:36,920 --> 00:15:39,160 Speaker 1: business owner, you're all of these things, and I think 284 00:15:40,040 --> 00:15:44,720 Speaker 1: that with that comes very little privacy. So can you 285 00:15:44,800 --> 00:15:48,280 Speaker 1: tell us how you cope with that? You know, Um, 286 00:15:48,360 --> 00:15:53,200 Speaker 1: sometimes people tell me you have no right to ask 287 00:15:53,520 --> 00:15:59,360 Speaker 1: for privacy because you are exposing your life. And I 288 00:15:59,440 --> 00:16:03,640 Speaker 1: don't like that because obviously, yes, we had reality. I 289 00:16:03,640 --> 00:16:05,160 Speaker 1: was in reality. That's how I started my career in 290 00:16:05,200 --> 00:16:10,880 Speaker 1: reality ten years ago. But um, you grow from that, 291 00:16:11,320 --> 00:16:13,480 Speaker 1: and I learned a lot from that. I learned, like, wait, 292 00:16:13,520 --> 00:16:15,240 Speaker 1: there are certain things that I just don't have to 293 00:16:15,280 --> 00:16:17,520 Speaker 1: talk about. It's okay for me to keep this private, 294 00:16:18,040 --> 00:16:21,240 Speaker 1: my relationships maybe, or just a lot of things that 295 00:16:21,360 --> 00:16:23,920 Speaker 1: I was kind of like, if you ask me, I'll 296 00:16:23,920 --> 00:16:25,840 Speaker 1: be honest, you know what I mean. I'm very transparent, 297 00:16:26,000 --> 00:16:27,240 Speaker 1: but there are things that I'm like, you know what, 298 00:16:27,320 --> 00:16:29,400 Speaker 1: I just rather not talk about this. Now I have 299 00:16:29,600 --> 00:16:32,960 Speaker 1: that voice and that confidence to say wait a second no, 300 00:16:33,200 --> 00:16:36,400 Speaker 1: before I felt I had to. You know, Um, sometimes 301 00:16:36,440 --> 00:16:39,680 Speaker 1: it gets a little frustrating. Um, just because I want 302 00:16:39,680 --> 00:16:41,600 Speaker 1: to go to Disneyland or something, and I don't get 303 00:16:41,600 --> 00:16:44,120 Speaker 1: frustrated from the fans. I love taking pictures. I'll never 304 00:16:44,120 --> 00:16:46,600 Speaker 1: say no. But I feel bad for the people that 305 00:16:46,640 --> 00:16:48,920 Speaker 1: are with me because we get stopped and stuff like that, 306 00:16:49,000 --> 00:16:50,960 Speaker 1: and I think that can get a little frustrating for them. 307 00:16:50,960 --> 00:16:54,120 Speaker 1: And that frustrates me because I'm like, damn, I feel bad. 308 00:16:54,120 --> 00:16:55,440 Speaker 1: But I'm like, hey, if you're around with you know 309 00:16:55,440 --> 00:16:57,480 Speaker 1: what you're getting yourself into. And this is my job. 310 00:16:57,520 --> 00:16:59,680 Speaker 1: And I love these people and they pay for my bills. 311 00:17:00,160 --> 00:17:02,160 Speaker 1: They helped me, you know what I mean, they and 312 00:17:02,160 --> 00:17:06,120 Speaker 1: and and that's why that's how I see it. Um. 313 00:17:06,119 --> 00:17:09,879 Speaker 1: But yeah, I mean it's it's hard to get to 314 00:17:09,960 --> 00:17:12,160 Speaker 1: have privacy. And do you ever feel like you're being 315 00:17:12,200 --> 00:17:18,879 Speaker 1: too open? You know? Um, maybe to my management, I 316 00:17:18,960 --> 00:17:22,920 Speaker 1: share too much, um, But for my standards and who 317 00:17:23,000 --> 00:17:26,520 Speaker 1: I am and what I've created on my social social 318 00:17:26,520 --> 00:17:28,919 Speaker 1: media platforms and through my reality shows and through my music, 319 00:17:30,240 --> 00:17:32,760 Speaker 1: I feel like I share enough, you know what I mean. 320 00:17:32,760 --> 00:17:35,800 Speaker 1: There's other things that I couldn't share, but I my 321 00:17:35,880 --> 00:17:38,399 Speaker 1: transparency and my honesty can sometimes get me into trouble 322 00:17:38,480 --> 00:17:40,879 Speaker 1: with my team, you know, because you're like, oh, you 323 00:17:40,880 --> 00:17:42,520 Speaker 1: shouldn't be saying that, you know, But I'm like, wait, 324 00:17:42,560 --> 00:17:46,320 Speaker 1: I'm still human. I'm still a woman before a singer, 325 00:17:46,400 --> 00:17:48,680 Speaker 1: before X, Y and Z, you know what I mean? 326 00:17:48,800 --> 00:17:52,600 Speaker 1: And um, but no, I think that sometimes I can 327 00:17:52,640 --> 00:17:54,600 Speaker 1: even share a little bit more. To be honest, I've 328 00:17:54,680 --> 00:17:56,080 Speaker 1: kind of held back a little bit because it was 329 00:17:56,080 --> 00:17:58,439 Speaker 1: a rough year for me, so I've kind of held everything, 330 00:17:58,960 --> 00:18:01,080 Speaker 1: you know, to my self, a little bit of everything 331 00:18:01,119 --> 00:18:03,880 Speaker 1: but some things. But no, way, I think that that's 332 00:18:03,880 --> 00:18:05,960 Speaker 1: the place to do it. Have that that direct contact 333 00:18:06,040 --> 00:18:09,480 Speaker 1: with with your followers. Yeah. And you know, I'm interested 334 00:18:09,520 --> 00:18:13,760 Speaker 1: to know because you post these like incredible pictures and 335 00:18:13,840 --> 00:18:17,440 Speaker 1: sexy pictures and you know you're You're revealing a lot 336 00:18:17,520 --> 00:18:20,520 Speaker 1: of yourself, and it seems that all those pictures make news, right, 337 00:18:20,880 --> 00:18:24,000 Speaker 1: It's like, oh, is this too much? Like stad has 338 00:18:24,040 --> 00:18:26,720 Speaker 1: knew that or this? And that you know, like a 339 00:18:27,080 --> 00:18:31,040 Speaker 1: like the confidence to post that is already huge and 340 00:18:31,119 --> 00:18:34,800 Speaker 1: you've talked about that. But is there backlash? You know, 341 00:18:35,480 --> 00:18:38,320 Speaker 1: are the trolls coming for you and are like shaming 342 00:18:38,359 --> 00:18:40,760 Speaker 1: you in some way? And how do you deal with that? 343 00:18:41,560 --> 00:18:44,159 Speaker 1: You know what to se I think and I've learned that. 344 00:18:45,160 --> 00:18:46,879 Speaker 1: You know, this career is a learning process. Let me 345 00:18:46,880 --> 00:18:51,040 Speaker 1: tell you that it's crazy because I can. I can 346 00:18:51,080 --> 00:18:57,040 Speaker 1: post a picture that a girl that is way skinnier 347 00:18:57,040 --> 00:18:59,960 Speaker 1: than I am, a size two, assize four, the same 348 00:19:00,040 --> 00:19:05,040 Speaker 1: exact picture, and I look vulgar because I'm thicker. But 349 00:19:05,080 --> 00:19:07,440 Speaker 1: if a thinner girl does it, it's not that much 350 00:19:07,440 --> 00:19:09,280 Speaker 1: of a big deal. And that's what I'm not okay 351 00:19:09,320 --> 00:19:12,680 Speaker 1: with because why why? Because I have cellulite, because I 352 00:19:12,680 --> 00:19:14,679 Speaker 1: have thick thighs, because I have a fat ass, I 353 00:19:14,720 --> 00:19:17,000 Speaker 1: can't do that. I can't feel sexy in my own skin. 354 00:19:17,119 --> 00:19:19,600 Speaker 1: And that's those are the things that I want to 355 00:19:19,640 --> 00:19:22,439 Speaker 1: break because there are so many women like me and 356 00:19:22,480 --> 00:19:25,440 Speaker 1: I want to be and represent us. You know. Obviously 357 00:19:25,440 --> 00:19:27,760 Speaker 1: there's always room for improvement. I always want to look better, 358 00:19:27,800 --> 00:19:29,080 Speaker 1: I want to work out, I want to lose weight, 359 00:19:29,119 --> 00:19:30,879 Speaker 1: but in reality, this is the body God gave me. 360 00:19:30,920 --> 00:19:33,440 Speaker 1: And I've never really been skinny, you know what I mean. 361 00:19:33,520 --> 00:19:36,640 Speaker 1: So that's what bugs me and I do get backlash 362 00:19:36,680 --> 00:19:41,800 Speaker 1: because I, like Bogardo, is that I'm just like dude, Like, 363 00:19:42,040 --> 00:19:43,720 Speaker 1: I'm a thirty six year old woman. I know I 364 00:19:43,720 --> 00:19:45,960 Speaker 1: may not look it, you know, but I'm a thirty 365 00:19:45,960 --> 00:19:48,160 Speaker 1: six year old woman that feels good about her body. 366 00:19:48,280 --> 00:19:49,960 Speaker 1: And I don't have kids yet, and maybe when I 367 00:19:49,960 --> 00:19:52,240 Speaker 1: have kids, that's going to change. But that's part of evolution, 368 00:19:52,680 --> 00:19:56,400 Speaker 1: you know. But that's where we have the responsibility with 369 00:19:56,440 --> 00:19:59,680 Speaker 1: our children to say, wait a second, teach them certain things, 370 00:20:00,000 --> 00:20:01,840 Speaker 1: and I'd be a very open mother. So I don't know, 371 00:20:01,880 --> 00:20:04,760 Speaker 1: I don't agree with certain things that I'm criticized for. 372 00:20:05,080 --> 00:20:07,440 Speaker 1: But well, no, I think it really does come down 373 00:20:07,480 --> 00:20:10,080 Speaker 1: to size. I think there's my size bothers them sometimes. 374 00:20:10,640 --> 00:20:17,399 Speaker 1: Mm hmmm. So you're clearly very confident, comfortable in your 375 00:20:17,440 --> 00:20:22,119 Speaker 1: own skin. You embrace your curves, which is obviously fantastic, 376 00:20:22,440 --> 00:20:25,760 Speaker 1: and um, I guess my question is do you ever 377 00:20:25,840 --> 00:20:31,640 Speaker 1: feel the need to conform to Western beauty standards now 378 00:20:31,680 --> 00:20:34,160 Speaker 1: that I've gotten older. No, When I was younger, yes, 379 00:20:34,200 --> 00:20:37,080 Speaker 1: I wanted to look like the girls on the magazine. 380 00:20:37,119 --> 00:20:39,280 Speaker 1: Now that I'm in the business, I know that that's 381 00:20:39,320 --> 00:20:41,879 Speaker 1: all kind of a facade, you know. Now, I know 382 00:20:42,040 --> 00:20:45,879 Speaker 1: photoshop exists and all that stuff, And you know, I 383 00:20:46,359 --> 00:20:51,639 Speaker 1: don't feel like I have to conform or or or 384 00:20:52,640 --> 00:20:54,840 Speaker 1: be what I am who I am, and I'm beautiful 385 00:20:54,880 --> 00:20:58,160 Speaker 1: in my own unique way, you know. And I've i've 386 00:20:58,280 --> 00:21:01,040 Speaker 1: now that I'm older, and I just I'm more comfortable 387 00:21:01,080 --> 00:21:11,200 Speaker 1: with it. So we talked about size, yeah, right, and 388 00:21:12,000 --> 00:21:19,360 Speaker 1: men loving your um backside, right, I love. I love 389 00:21:19,359 --> 00:21:23,560 Speaker 1: my producers. They're just like you know, your backside, love it, 390 00:21:25,000 --> 00:21:27,840 Speaker 1: trying to keep it clean. So I'm sure a lot 391 00:21:27,840 --> 00:21:31,040 Speaker 1: of people want to know, especially the men and maybe 392 00:21:31,040 --> 00:21:33,360 Speaker 1: a lot of women out there. Are you single? Do 393 00:21:33,440 --> 00:21:36,480 Speaker 1: they have a chance? Can they slide into your d 394 00:21:36,720 --> 00:21:39,960 Speaker 1: M s? What is the relationship status? You know, even 395 00:21:40,000 --> 00:21:42,359 Speaker 1: if I if I'm married or I have a boyfriend 396 00:21:42,480 --> 00:21:44,760 Speaker 1: or single. Guys do not care. Let me tell you. 397 00:21:44,800 --> 00:21:47,360 Speaker 1: Let me start off with that. Guys are crazy. They 398 00:21:47,400 --> 00:21:49,399 Speaker 1: don't care. They always feel they have a chance like, 399 00:21:49,400 --> 00:21:51,040 Speaker 1: oh you can get divorced, Oh you don't have kids 400 00:21:51,119 --> 00:21:53,120 Speaker 1: yet or whatever. And I get it, and I've gotten 401 00:21:53,160 --> 00:21:55,399 Speaker 1: it for years. Even this one guy one time, he 402 00:21:55,520 --> 00:21:57,919 Speaker 1: told me that he wanted to suck a fart out 403 00:21:57,960 --> 00:22:00,760 Speaker 1: of my butth hole? Can you believe that way? Did 404 00:22:00,800 --> 00:22:04,720 Speaker 1: you say fart? I'm sorry, girl, that is just too much, 405 00:22:04,920 --> 00:22:10,200 Speaker 1: that's what he said. Anyways, But I am not single. 406 00:22:10,400 --> 00:22:15,280 Speaker 1: I am not single. I haven't been for for a minute. Um, yeah, 407 00:22:15,320 --> 00:22:19,359 Speaker 1: I'm not single. Guys, Okay, So where did you meet 408 00:22:19,480 --> 00:22:23,960 Speaker 1: this special someone that you are calling your boo ma 409 00:22:24,119 --> 00:22:28,040 Speaker 1: boot thang? Okay? So I met him for the very 410 00:22:28,080 --> 00:22:33,359 Speaker 1: first time last year in May. I've never talked about 411 00:22:33,400 --> 00:22:36,200 Speaker 1: this guy. So this is exclusive on my podcast Chickens 412 00:22:36,200 --> 00:22:39,040 Speaker 1: and Chill. So I met Emilio his name is Emilio 413 00:22:39,600 --> 00:22:42,680 Speaker 1: in May and I did a song called Joline with 414 00:22:42,800 --> 00:22:46,040 Speaker 1: Becky g and Becky was in the middle of the pandemic. 415 00:22:46,119 --> 00:22:48,919 Speaker 1: Quarantine was like really really strict and we had to 416 00:22:48,960 --> 00:22:51,080 Speaker 1: do the photo shoot and the video for it, and 417 00:22:51,119 --> 00:22:54,080 Speaker 1: she said, look, I only feel comfortable with my photographer 418 00:22:54,359 --> 00:22:57,800 Speaker 1: and you know, um, that's who we have to use 419 00:22:57,880 --> 00:23:00,320 Speaker 1: because he's already you know tested the whole thing. I 420 00:23:00,359 --> 00:23:03,440 Speaker 1: know he's he doesn't have COVID, so I said, okay, fine, 421 00:23:03,440 --> 00:23:04,800 Speaker 1: and I had my own photographer, but I was like, 422 00:23:04,800 --> 00:23:06,840 Speaker 1: that's fine, let's just do it. He came to my house, 423 00:23:06,840 --> 00:23:09,760 Speaker 1: he set everything up, and when I saw him, we 424 00:23:09,800 --> 00:23:11,359 Speaker 1: saw each other, it was just like whoa Like I 425 00:23:11,480 --> 00:23:14,680 Speaker 1: was like there was something there, but I was very heartbroken. 426 00:23:14,840 --> 00:23:17,280 Speaker 1: I was that that was the beginning of my separation, 427 00:23:17,600 --> 00:23:21,159 Speaker 1: um my ex husband uh in May, he had already 428 00:23:21,160 --> 00:23:24,560 Speaker 1: moved out of the house and everything, and um, I 429 00:23:24,640 --> 00:23:26,440 Speaker 1: was very heartbroken. So I was kind of like, oh, 430 00:23:26,480 --> 00:23:28,080 Speaker 1: he's cute, but I was like, I don't even want 431 00:23:28,080 --> 00:23:30,479 Speaker 1: anything to do with anybody right now. I had one 432 00:23:30,480 --> 00:23:32,520 Speaker 1: of my guys though, one of my my makeup artists, 433 00:23:32,560 --> 00:23:34,560 Speaker 1: actually asked him, hey, you know, I asked him if 434 00:23:34,600 --> 00:23:37,040 Speaker 1: he's married. He said no, he wasn't married, you know, 435 00:23:37,119 --> 00:23:38,480 Speaker 1: So that was it. We left it at that, and 436 00:23:38,480 --> 00:23:40,480 Speaker 1: he always tells me he's like that day, like I 437 00:23:40,520 --> 00:23:43,600 Speaker 1: thought there was something going on. And when I was leaving, 438 00:23:43,960 --> 00:23:47,040 Speaker 1: you were so cold and so like nonchalant, like okay bye, 439 00:23:47,400 --> 00:23:48,840 Speaker 1: and I really he's like, yeah, you gave me this 440 00:23:48,880 --> 00:23:52,560 Speaker 1: half half asked a hug and I don't remember because 441 00:23:52,600 --> 00:23:54,800 Speaker 1: I was like, my mind was everywhere. I was literally 442 00:23:54,880 --> 00:23:59,480 Speaker 1: like heartbroken. So that happened. That was me. Lorenzo and 443 00:23:59,520 --> 00:24:03,920 Speaker 1: I tried again, uh in July. It was in June 444 00:24:03,920 --> 00:24:06,719 Speaker 1: he was gone, so so July we tried again and 445 00:24:06,760 --> 00:24:09,000 Speaker 1: so we you know, we tried it all up until 446 00:24:09,280 --> 00:24:13,960 Speaker 1: oh September, I'm lying, Okay, is Lorenzo your X. Yes, 447 00:24:14,119 --> 00:24:17,600 Speaker 1: Lorenzo's my X. LaRenzo was my ex. Um. Yeah, we're 448 00:24:17,600 --> 00:24:19,679 Speaker 1: going through through a divorce right now, so we were, 449 00:24:19,720 --> 00:24:21,920 Speaker 1: we were it was really rocky since we had gotten married, 450 00:24:22,000 --> 00:24:24,480 Speaker 1: so we were going back and forth. Finally we called 451 00:24:24,520 --> 00:24:26,480 Speaker 1: it off in September. I was just like I'm done, 452 00:24:27,400 --> 00:24:30,200 Speaker 1: and you know, went through it was really bad. November, 453 00:24:30,280 --> 00:24:34,919 Speaker 1: December was horrible. Then comes January started feeling better, and 454 00:24:34,960 --> 00:24:39,679 Speaker 1: then in March. I remember March one, I had a 455 00:24:39,720 --> 00:24:42,760 Speaker 1: surprise party for Becky g. She was she's really good 456 00:24:42,800 --> 00:24:45,720 Speaker 1: friends with us. We see each other as family and 457 00:24:45,800 --> 00:24:47,359 Speaker 1: my sister and I had a surprise party for her 458 00:24:47,400 --> 00:24:50,480 Speaker 1: at my house, and I honestly had forgot kind of 459 00:24:50,520 --> 00:24:53,320 Speaker 1: about Emilio, you know, and he had actually told me 460 00:24:53,440 --> 00:24:55,560 Speaker 1: that he was following me. And then unfollowed me because 461 00:24:55,560 --> 00:24:58,359 Speaker 1: he saw that I didn't follow him back anyways. That's 462 00:24:58,400 --> 00:25:01,560 Speaker 1: a little side thing. Yeah, He's like, you didn't follow 463 00:25:01,600 --> 00:25:03,400 Speaker 1: me back. So I was just like, whatever, you didn't 464 00:25:03,400 --> 00:25:05,560 Speaker 1: even repost me, Like when he was posting Jolene and stuff. 465 00:25:05,600 --> 00:25:07,199 Speaker 1: I was like, dude, I don't know. Anyways, I was 466 00:25:07,200 --> 00:25:10,840 Speaker 1: in a relationship. So then in March, um she you know, 467 00:25:10,880 --> 00:25:13,720 Speaker 1: her mom invites her peeps and Emilio is one of them. 468 00:25:13,760 --> 00:25:17,399 Speaker 1: Again that same thing that happened the first time. I 469 00:25:17,440 --> 00:25:19,639 Speaker 1: was coming out of my glam room and he was 470 00:25:19,680 --> 00:25:21,560 Speaker 1: coming inside of the house and we looked at each 471 00:25:21,560 --> 00:25:24,960 Speaker 1: other and we're like again like that feeling of like 472 00:25:25,000 --> 00:25:29,400 Speaker 1: this connection. It was crazy and we were talking and everything. 473 00:25:29,520 --> 00:25:32,800 Speaker 1: And then later on during that night, I just told him, hey, 474 00:25:32,800 --> 00:25:34,800 Speaker 1: can I poke your dimples because he has really pretty dimples, 475 00:25:35,680 --> 00:25:37,680 Speaker 1: and he said, yeah, you could do whatever you want. 476 00:25:37,760 --> 00:25:44,240 Speaker 1: I said, all right, his own. So we kissed and 477 00:25:44,320 --> 00:25:47,199 Speaker 1: that's how it happened. So, Brianna, I don't know about you, 478 00:25:47,240 --> 00:25:50,600 Speaker 1: but my invitation to Becky Gee's party got lost in 479 00:25:50,640 --> 00:25:52,760 Speaker 1: the mail. I got lost. I didn't get one. I 480 00:25:52,800 --> 00:25:57,320 Speaker 1: don't know a lot. Talked to Mama ge Mama she was. 481 00:25:57,600 --> 00:26:02,080 Speaker 1: She was, Yeah, she was in charge of inviting. But also, 482 00:26:02,320 --> 00:26:04,760 Speaker 1: do you feel do you believe in this that like 483 00:26:04,840 --> 00:26:08,400 Speaker 1: the universe kept putting you guys together, like kept finding 484 00:26:08,400 --> 00:26:12,760 Speaker 1: ways for you all. To me, absolutely, I I believe 485 00:26:12,800 --> 00:26:15,520 Speaker 1: in everything. Everything happens for a reason. It might sound 486 00:26:15,600 --> 00:26:18,720 Speaker 1: a little cliche, but I truly believe that. And if 487 00:26:18,720 --> 00:26:21,399 Speaker 1: he came into my life, it is for something, for 488 00:26:21,440 --> 00:26:24,560 Speaker 1: a reason, whether we end up together forever or not. 489 00:26:25,200 --> 00:26:27,639 Speaker 1: I'm learning something from him and he's learning something for me. 490 00:26:28,680 --> 00:26:32,199 Speaker 1: I will be very honest. That day, March one, I 491 00:26:32,240 --> 00:26:36,280 Speaker 1: had decided that I was going to remove I. I 492 00:26:36,680 --> 00:26:38,440 Speaker 1: used the i U D the copper I U D 493 00:26:38,640 --> 00:26:41,560 Speaker 1: for as birth control for many years, and I took 494 00:26:41,560 --> 00:26:43,080 Speaker 1: it out that day. I took it out that day. 495 00:26:43,119 --> 00:26:45,400 Speaker 1: I had gone to the doctor and I told myself, 496 00:26:45,440 --> 00:26:47,600 Speaker 1: I'm just gonna date. I'm not gonna, you know, have 497 00:26:47,680 --> 00:26:50,040 Speaker 1: sex with anybody. I just want to go on dates. 498 00:26:50,080 --> 00:26:52,000 Speaker 1: I was going to go on like dating apps. And 499 00:26:52,040 --> 00:26:53,840 Speaker 1: then he came into my life, and I'm like, I 500 00:26:53,880 --> 00:26:57,439 Speaker 1: think it was God saying hold up, girl, and he 501 00:26:57,480 --> 00:26:59,040 Speaker 1: came into my life and it was just this instant 502 00:26:59,040 --> 00:27:01,639 Speaker 1: connection and and we we hit it off. You know 503 00:27:01,720 --> 00:27:04,320 Speaker 1: what I mean. So, yeah, absolutely, everyone comes into your 504 00:27:04,320 --> 00:27:07,840 Speaker 1: life and they're here to teach you something. I wanted 505 00:27:07,880 --> 00:27:10,320 Speaker 1: to know what was the first thing that you noticed 506 00:27:10,359 --> 00:27:12,800 Speaker 1: about in media that you were like, oh, I need 507 00:27:12,880 --> 00:27:15,560 Speaker 1: to like kiss him tonight. Like what was it that 508 00:27:15,600 --> 00:27:19,600 Speaker 1: like drew you to him so quickly? The first time 509 00:27:19,640 --> 00:27:22,400 Speaker 1: I met him at the photo shoot, it was his eyes. 510 00:27:22,520 --> 00:27:24,760 Speaker 1: I remember telling him, well, you have beautiful eyeballs. He'll 511 00:27:24,760 --> 00:27:28,119 Speaker 1: never forget I said, eyeballs. Um. The second time I 512 00:27:28,119 --> 00:27:31,880 Speaker 1: saw him in March, it was his smile. I love 513 00:27:31,920 --> 00:27:34,560 Speaker 1: his smile and his dimples. It just it's captivating, and 514 00:27:34,600 --> 00:27:37,639 Speaker 1: I'm like, WHOA like that? He just has wonderful just 515 00:27:37,760 --> 00:27:40,040 Speaker 1: teeth and just all this you know, mouth area is 516 00:27:40,080 --> 00:27:43,159 Speaker 1: just very nice. Alright, alright, so as I was like, 517 00:27:43,200 --> 00:27:46,159 Speaker 1: I want to kiss that boy. Good to know. You know, 518 00:27:46,200 --> 00:27:49,080 Speaker 1: I have a little confession to make on the hugging situation. 519 00:27:49,119 --> 00:27:51,800 Speaker 1: I've had guys told me that before too, Like if 520 00:27:51,840 --> 00:27:56,520 Speaker 1: the hug isn't like a tight, powerful hug, goodbye, they 521 00:27:56,520 --> 00:28:00,000 Speaker 1: get like sad and they don't like rejection. So yeah, 522 00:28:00,240 --> 00:28:05,960 Speaker 1: I think that's what he felt. All right. Well, that 523 00:28:06,160 --> 00:28:10,040 Speaker 1: was tons of fun, uh, lots of nuggets of information 524 00:28:10,480 --> 00:28:13,720 Speaker 1: in that previous segment. Now we're going to be moving 525 00:28:13,800 --> 00:28:17,240 Speaker 1: on to something similar but a little bit faster paced. 526 00:28:17,320 --> 00:28:21,560 Speaker 1: It's gonna be uh, something like a rapid fire Q 527 00:28:21,760 --> 00:28:25,280 Speaker 1: and A. Are you ready for this? I kind of. 528 00:28:25,720 --> 00:28:26,960 Speaker 1: I don't really like these, but I'm gonna do it 529 00:28:26,960 --> 00:28:30,440 Speaker 1: because I love you guys. So fine, let's go. All thanks, 530 00:28:30,560 --> 00:28:33,399 Speaker 1: you know we love you too. Okay, here we go. 531 00:28:33,520 --> 00:28:39,040 Speaker 1: First question, do you kiss on the first date? Yes? Okay, 532 00:28:40,280 --> 00:28:44,360 Speaker 1: as we know from the immedial story with Emilia, Yes, 533 00:28:45,040 --> 00:28:50,840 Speaker 1: do you more than kiss on the first date? I have? Okay, funk. 534 00:28:50,840 --> 00:28:53,280 Speaker 1: I gotta be honest, right, you have to be I have, 535 00:28:53,080 --> 00:28:57,640 Speaker 1: I have. I want to say I have, because again, 536 00:28:57,760 --> 00:29:00,400 Speaker 1: live your life, do whatever you want. No judgment here. Um, 537 00:29:00,440 --> 00:29:02,800 Speaker 1: I have though I have done more than a kiss 538 00:29:02,800 --> 00:29:04,440 Speaker 1: on a first date, but I didn't like how it 539 00:29:04,480 --> 00:29:06,920 Speaker 1: made me feel. So I'm just like I'd rather not 540 00:29:07,240 --> 00:29:09,160 Speaker 1: you know what I mean, But got that in. But 541 00:29:09,200 --> 00:29:11,200 Speaker 1: I do kiss. I need to know. If you can't kiss, 542 00:29:11,440 --> 00:29:13,360 Speaker 1: we can't go on. I mean, why even like try 543 00:29:13,400 --> 00:29:21,680 Speaker 1: a second day? I'm so sorry. No, what's more sex? Hum? Uh? Yeah? 544 00:29:21,680 --> 00:29:27,400 Speaker 1: Anything like you know, oral sex or like fingers and stuff, 545 00:29:27,520 --> 00:29:33,080 Speaker 1: you know for play. Yes, when it comes to oral sex, 546 00:29:33,240 --> 00:29:38,360 Speaker 1: do you prefer to give or to receive? I prefer 547 00:29:39,120 --> 00:29:43,120 Speaker 1: to give. She's a give guys. I like to give. 548 00:29:43,480 --> 00:29:46,320 Speaker 1: Really good at it too. In case you were wondering, 549 00:29:48,880 --> 00:29:51,640 Speaker 1: And what about anal, I've never done it. I'm down 550 00:29:51,680 --> 00:29:54,640 Speaker 1: to do it. I just I haven't done it, all right? 551 00:29:55,320 --> 00:29:58,160 Speaker 1: What what would you say? Has been the sort of 552 00:29:58,200 --> 00:30:02,920 Speaker 1: craziest place you you've had se x? Okay? So you 553 00:30:02,960 --> 00:30:05,880 Speaker 1: guys know those car washes that like those drive through 554 00:30:05,920 --> 00:30:09,440 Speaker 1: car washes. We were in a two seater okay, okay, 555 00:30:09,480 --> 00:30:11,520 Speaker 1: so we were in one of those. You were washing 556 00:30:11,520 --> 00:30:13,320 Speaker 1: the car and I just got on top of him 557 00:30:13,320 --> 00:30:15,320 Speaker 1: and we did our thing through like do that little splash. 558 00:30:15,320 --> 00:30:17,920 Speaker 1: E's in the sob and we just did our thing 559 00:30:17,920 --> 00:30:19,120 Speaker 1: and then I just hopped right off. I had a 560 00:30:19,240 --> 00:30:22,720 Speaker 1: dress on. We'll never look at a car wash the 561 00:30:22,760 --> 00:30:27,920 Speaker 1: same way again. All right, So shifting gears just a 562 00:30:28,000 --> 00:30:33,600 Speaker 1: little bit. Okay, Um, who was the last person you texted? 563 00:30:33,840 --> 00:30:36,040 Speaker 1: And what did it say? You have to pull it 564 00:30:36,120 --> 00:30:38,040 Speaker 1: up and you obviously have to read it to us. 565 00:30:39,000 --> 00:30:44,920 Speaker 1: The last person I text um emilio. Actually he said 566 00:30:45,000 --> 00:30:46,680 Speaker 1: my love and I said Hi, baby, he said, I 567 00:30:46,720 --> 00:30:50,400 Speaker 1: just got a hair cut, smiley face. That's it. Did 568 00:30:50,440 --> 00:30:52,880 Speaker 1: he send a picture? No, he did it? Let me 569 00:30:52,920 --> 00:30:55,479 Speaker 1: tell him. Hi, babe. Sorry, I'm doing the podcast right now. 570 00:30:55,480 --> 00:30:57,040 Speaker 1: I'm so sorry. I just saw this. But send me 571 00:30:57,080 --> 00:31:01,080 Speaker 1: a picture. I want to see your hair cut. Yeah, okay, 572 00:31:01,280 --> 00:31:05,080 Speaker 1: there we go. What about You know you're a lot 573 00:31:05,120 --> 00:31:08,880 Speaker 1: of people's celebrity crush, but who is your celebrity crush? 574 00:31:09,200 --> 00:31:16,680 Speaker 1: My celebrity crush. I love the Rock I really and 575 00:31:16,760 --> 00:31:19,239 Speaker 1: you know why. Yes, he's tall, he's buff and all 576 00:31:19,320 --> 00:31:21,720 Speaker 1: this stuff. But more than that, I love his mind. 577 00:31:21,920 --> 00:31:24,920 Speaker 1: He's such a smart man, and I could tell that 578 00:31:25,080 --> 00:31:27,640 Speaker 1: with just his interviews and his social media. So that's 579 00:31:27,640 --> 00:31:30,960 Speaker 1: why melo crush. I have a female too, though, you do. 580 00:31:32,000 --> 00:31:40,120 Speaker 1: I do Scarlett Johansson. She's so hot girl. Yeah, okay, 581 00:31:40,160 --> 00:31:43,280 Speaker 1: and what was the last photo? U tech? You have 582 00:31:43,320 --> 00:31:45,880 Speaker 1: to pull it up and show us the last photo 583 00:31:45,960 --> 00:31:52,440 Speaker 1: I took. Let's see. Hopefully it's PG. Hopefully it's not. 584 00:31:53,560 --> 00:31:58,400 Speaker 1: Oh oh no, it's not even dude. You're gonna laugh 585 00:31:58,560 --> 00:32:03,280 Speaker 1: because he's crazy. It's it's a it's dude, what I 586 00:32:03,360 --> 00:32:06,720 Speaker 1: took a screenshot of a green because I sai Antho 587 00:32:06,800 --> 00:32:08,680 Speaker 1: hone and I'm like, dude, it's fall. I want some 588 00:32:08,920 --> 00:32:10,720 Speaker 1: sol and I wanted green. And that's why I say so, 589 00:32:10,760 --> 00:32:12,120 Speaker 1: I don't freak it. I took a picture, not have 590 00:32:12,160 --> 00:32:16,840 Speaker 1: a picture of it from someone's Instagram. I know, y'all. 591 00:32:16,880 --> 00:32:19,000 Speaker 1: I think she's lying to us. She didn't want to 592 00:32:19,000 --> 00:32:21,640 Speaker 1: show us the real picture because she got kind of cringe. 593 00:32:21,680 --> 00:32:26,080 Speaker 1: E Um. Sure No. I actually last night though that 594 00:32:26,120 --> 00:32:27,880 Speaker 1: this was that was this morning. But last night I 595 00:32:27,880 --> 00:32:30,160 Speaker 1: did send Emilia a picture of me on the toilet, 596 00:32:31,000 --> 00:32:32,800 Speaker 1: just like a little selfie. I was like, Hi, I 597 00:32:32,880 --> 00:32:36,360 Speaker 1: stuck my tongue out and stuff. So that was the 598 00:32:36,360 --> 00:32:41,320 Speaker 1: real one that she didn't want to show. What's your 599 00:32:41,440 --> 00:32:45,800 Speaker 1: favorite food or dish? And what's your go to drink? 600 00:32:45,920 --> 00:32:47,680 Speaker 1: You know, because when we have girls night and we 601 00:32:47,760 --> 00:32:51,200 Speaker 1: got to get some cocktails flowing, what is what is 602 00:32:51,280 --> 00:32:55,520 Speaker 1: cheeks Janet and Valentina drink? How about that? Oh? Okay, 603 00:32:56,000 --> 00:33:00,959 Speaker 1: got you girl? Okay, so cheek ease. Most definitely straight 604 00:33:01,040 --> 00:33:04,840 Speaker 1: up tequila, just no lemon, no lime, just straight tequila. 605 00:33:05,080 --> 00:33:09,040 Speaker 1: I love it. Um. Janet is more of a tequila 606 00:33:09,240 --> 00:33:11,920 Speaker 1: on the rocks with mineral water and at the hayin 607 00:33:12,040 --> 00:33:17,000 Speaker 1: rim with some lime, a garnish lime. Valentina which crazy. 608 00:33:17,080 --> 00:33:21,320 Speaker 1: She likes Cosmos okay, and that vodka does not work 609 00:33:21,320 --> 00:33:25,280 Speaker 1: for us. Vodka like that will get me. I'll forget 610 00:33:25,280 --> 00:33:28,000 Speaker 1: my name, I'll forget where I'm at, I'll forget my life. 611 00:33:28,040 --> 00:33:32,040 Speaker 1: So Valentina, she's crazy. She likes Cosmos. And my favorite 612 00:33:32,080 --> 00:33:40,400 Speaker 1: food Mexican food any day, every day, Conuco. I love 613 00:33:40,440 --> 00:33:44,040 Speaker 1: corn tortillas. That's like something I can eat every single day. 614 00:33:44,080 --> 00:33:47,600 Speaker 1: I love and anything Asian. I love anything Asian. But 615 00:33:48,240 --> 00:33:51,920 Speaker 1: that's my plate. Sounds so good, for sounds so good. 616 00:33:52,520 --> 00:33:55,840 Speaker 1: I love talking about food. That is making me so hungry. 617 00:33:56,520 --> 00:33:59,520 Speaker 1: But one thing I really want to know is about 618 00:33:59,600 --> 00:34:03,160 Speaker 1: plastic surgery. Now you say you're an open book and 619 00:34:03,200 --> 00:34:06,600 Speaker 1: you talk about everything, So I want to know. Have 620 00:34:06,640 --> 00:34:10,279 Speaker 1: you had plastic surgery? What if you had done? And 621 00:34:10,760 --> 00:34:13,360 Speaker 1: are you a fan of plastic surgery. I am in 622 00:34:13,400 --> 00:34:15,960 Speaker 1: favor of plastic surgery. I love plastic surgery. I'm like, 623 00:34:16,080 --> 00:34:19,480 Speaker 1: do what you be healthy? You know you know, and 624 00:34:19,480 --> 00:34:21,480 Speaker 1: and get your studies done and all that stuff. But 625 00:34:21,520 --> 00:34:23,680 Speaker 1: I love plastic surgery. I've got lightbil suction. I got 626 00:34:23,760 --> 00:34:26,719 Speaker 1: lightbul suction when I was a lot younger. My mom 627 00:34:26,800 --> 00:34:29,120 Speaker 1: actually took me to do it at nineteen years old. 628 00:34:29,239 --> 00:34:31,879 Speaker 1: She was just so obsessed with like you know, so 629 00:34:32,040 --> 00:34:34,480 Speaker 1: she took me to get light bil suction. Um. And 630 00:34:34,520 --> 00:34:37,799 Speaker 1: then I've gotten breast augmentations and then reductions, and now 631 00:34:37,840 --> 00:34:41,359 Speaker 1: I got my breast done again. I got in plants again. Um. 632 00:34:41,400 --> 00:34:43,600 Speaker 1: But yeah, I mean, I'm all for it. I'm all 633 00:34:43,640 --> 00:34:47,319 Speaker 1: for it already. So we've reached the end. I have 634 00:34:47,520 --> 00:34:49,919 Speaker 1: one last question for you, just to kind of wrap 635 00:34:50,000 --> 00:34:54,000 Speaker 1: things up. Um, why did you want to start a podcast? 636 00:34:55,280 --> 00:34:58,600 Speaker 1: I have wanted to start a podcast for like I 637 00:34:58,600 --> 00:35:00,759 Speaker 1: said earlier, like three years. That's been on my vision 638 00:35:00,760 --> 00:35:03,239 Speaker 1: board because I feel like it's a space where you 639 00:35:03,280 --> 00:35:06,200 Speaker 1: can just be honest and completely be yourself. Sometimes when 640 00:35:06,200 --> 00:35:09,120 Speaker 1: there's cameras, you worry so much about how you look 641 00:35:09,640 --> 00:35:11,480 Speaker 1: that you don't focus on what you're saying. And I'm 642 00:35:11,480 --> 00:35:14,120 Speaker 1: all about what comes from the heart reaches a heart. 643 00:35:14,280 --> 00:35:19,360 Speaker 1: And this is my way of spreading everything that I 644 00:35:19,400 --> 00:35:21,040 Speaker 1: have in my mind and the feelings that I have 645 00:35:21,080 --> 00:35:22,680 Speaker 1: in my thoughts. And I'm a very I'm a person 646 00:35:22,719 --> 00:35:25,120 Speaker 1: that is very open and transparent. I want to share that. 647 00:35:25,160 --> 00:35:27,600 Speaker 1: I want to talk about all kinds of subjects, things 648 00:35:27,600 --> 00:35:30,280 Speaker 1: that people don't want to talk about, especially in my culture. 649 00:35:30,400 --> 00:35:32,200 Speaker 1: You know, a lot of things are still taboo, and 650 00:35:32,400 --> 00:35:35,520 Speaker 1: I want to kind of break that generational curse, you know. 651 00:35:36,120 --> 00:35:39,520 Speaker 1: So this is my way of just radiating love and 652 00:35:39,840 --> 00:35:43,600 Speaker 1: truth and yeah, getting so people get to know me 653 00:35:43,840 --> 00:35:47,200 Speaker 1: on in a different way. Thanks so much, chick Eas 654 00:35:47,320 --> 00:35:50,600 Speaker 1: for opening up and answering a lot of our questions. 655 00:35:51,200 --> 00:35:54,040 Speaker 1: It's been so fun to learn more about you, and 656 00:35:54,080 --> 00:35:57,080 Speaker 1: I'm really excited to continue to learn about you as 657 00:35:57,120 --> 00:36:02,160 Speaker 1: more episodes of Chickens and Chill come out. Thanks so much. Yeah, 658 00:36:02,160 --> 00:36:04,400 Speaker 1: thank you so much for having us. This was so 659 00:36:04,520 --> 00:36:06,840 Speaker 1: much fun. I learned so much about you and really 660 00:36:06,840 --> 00:36:12,239 Speaker 1: appreciate your openness, your rawness, your vulnerability. And I'm sure 661 00:36:12,280 --> 00:36:15,640 Speaker 1: there's a lot more to come. So hopefully everybody stays 662 00:36:15,640 --> 00:36:20,920 Speaker 1: tuned and listens to new episodes every Monday. Thank you 663 00:36:20,960 --> 00:36:24,000 Speaker 1: guys so much for listening in. I hope that you 664 00:36:24,160 --> 00:36:27,520 Speaker 1: learned about you know, Cheeks, Jenne, and Valentina a little 665 00:36:27,560 --> 00:36:30,120 Speaker 1: more on deeper level. So thank you so much. Make 666 00:36:30,160 --> 00:36:33,480 Speaker 1: sure that you listen in Cheeckens and Chill, and I 667 00:36:33,560 --> 00:36:38,560 Speaker 1: want to end this um episode with gratitude because That's 668 00:36:38,560 --> 00:36:41,359 Speaker 1: something that's very important to me. Attitude of gratitude. Having 669 00:36:41,400 --> 00:36:45,240 Speaker 1: an attitude of gratitude, you guys thinking about and focusing 670 00:36:45,320 --> 00:36:48,359 Speaker 1: on what we do have, not what we're lacking. And 671 00:36:48,480 --> 00:36:50,799 Speaker 1: the more grateful you are, the more blessings that you get, 672 00:36:51,480 --> 00:36:54,160 Speaker 1: and you are able to share those gifts and those blessings. 673 00:36:54,280 --> 00:36:57,040 Speaker 1: So I'm grateful. I like to say this. My sister 674 00:36:57,120 --> 00:37:00,759 Speaker 1: Jannet actually taught me this. Um say three things every 675 00:37:00,760 --> 00:37:03,359 Speaker 1: single day that you're grateful for. So I'm grateful for 676 00:37:03,520 --> 00:37:07,600 Speaker 1: simply waking up, for having the blessing of speaking to 677 00:37:07,640 --> 00:37:09,640 Speaker 1: you guys. I'm very grateful for that that I can 678 00:37:09,680 --> 00:37:11,400 Speaker 1: just speak my mind and you guys accept me for 679 00:37:11,480 --> 00:37:15,279 Speaker 1: who I am. And the third thing is love. I'm 680 00:37:15,320 --> 00:37:19,480 Speaker 1: grateful for love. Love is the moving force of the universe. 681 00:37:19,680 --> 00:37:23,279 Speaker 1: So without love, we don't exist. I suggest that you 682 00:37:23,320 --> 00:37:25,480 Speaker 1: guys do it as well. What are you grateful for today? 683 00:37:25,480 --> 00:37:28,200 Speaker 1: And do it every single day. Attitude of gratitude. Don't forget, 684 00:37:37,120 --> 00:37:39,480 Speaker 1: and don't forget to listen to Cheek, Ease and Chill 685 00:37:39,640 --> 00:37:42,920 Speaker 1: every Monday on the I Heart Radio app, Apple podcast 686 00:37:43,160 --> 00:37:46,520 Speaker 1: or wherever you listen to your favorite podcasts. This is 687 00:37:46,560 --> 00:37:50,560 Speaker 1: a production of My Heart Radio and mikel podcast Network. 688 00:37:51,880 --> 00:37:56,560 Speaker 1: Follow us on Instagram at Podcasts, and you can keep 689 00:37:56,680 --> 00:37:59,880 Speaker 1: up with me cheek Ease on Instagram at cheek Ease. 690 00:38:00,040 --> 00:38:02,759 Speaker 1: Then we have Twitter Cheeky's six to six and that's 691 00:38:02,760 --> 00:38:05,160 Speaker 1: with the Q. You guys, not a K C H 692 00:38:05,280 --> 00:38:08,319 Speaker 1: I q U I S And yeah, guys, we'll see 693 00:38:08,320 --> 00:38:19,480 Speaker 1: you next week. HM,