1 00:00:03,200 --> 00:00:05,720 Speaker 1: I want to talk about all kinds of subjects, things 2 00:00:05,720 --> 00:00:08,400 Speaker 1: that people don't want to talk about, especially in my culture. 3 00:00:08,520 --> 00:00:11,080 Speaker 1: You know, a lot of things are still taboo. My 4 00:00:11,160 --> 00:00:13,680 Speaker 1: transparency and my honesty can sometimes get me into trouble 5 00:00:13,720 --> 00:00:19,439 Speaker 1: with my team. I'm a very confident woman, and I 6 00:00:19,440 --> 00:00:22,280 Speaker 1: don't care how beautiful a woman is. I love. I'm 7 00:00:22,320 --> 00:00:24,000 Speaker 1: not a hater at all, so I can be standing 8 00:00:24,040 --> 00:00:26,720 Speaker 1: next to a bodied, down woman beautiful and I just 9 00:00:26,720 --> 00:00:33,240 Speaker 1: feel just as sexy as hurt. What up? Everybody? 10 00:00:33,360 --> 00:00:33,760 Speaker 2: Get that? 11 00:00:34,080 --> 00:00:38,080 Speaker 1: I hope you're all having a wonderful day. Finally, fault 12 00:00:38,120 --> 00:00:39,600 Speaker 1: is here. And I don't know about you guys, but 13 00:00:39,640 --> 00:00:42,680 Speaker 1: I love fall and winter. It is sweater seasoned scarves, 14 00:00:42,720 --> 00:00:45,760 Speaker 1: beanie boots. I love it. Or, as my assistant Omi 15 00:00:45,880 --> 00:00:50,080 Speaker 1: calls it, gray sweat season mm hmm. So my name 16 00:00:50,120 --> 00:00:52,479 Speaker 1: is Cheeky's and I want to welcome you to my 17 00:00:52,600 --> 00:00:56,560 Speaker 1: brand new podcast, Cheeky's and Chill. This podcast has been 18 00:00:56,600 --> 00:00:58,320 Speaker 1: in the works for years. It's been on my vision 19 00:00:58,360 --> 00:01:00,800 Speaker 1: board for like almost three years now, so I'm excited 20 00:01:00,840 --> 00:01:04,080 Speaker 1: to finally share it with you. And since it's our 21 00:01:04,200 --> 00:01:07,280 Speaker 1: very first episode, I thought it'd be the perfect opportunity 22 00:01:07,319 --> 00:01:09,399 Speaker 1: to do a little Q and A so you have 23 00:01:09,640 --> 00:01:12,639 Speaker 1: a better sense of who I am. So grab a drink, 24 00:01:12,720 --> 00:01:18,199 Speaker 1: some tequila wine, whatever you want, popcorn, pizza, and let's 25 00:01:18,240 --> 00:01:25,800 Speaker 1: do it Cheeky's and chill. All right. So, as I mentioned, 26 00:01:25,800 --> 00:01:28,480 Speaker 1: today is our very first episode and it's all about me. 27 00:01:28,959 --> 00:01:31,080 Speaker 1: So we're going to pull back the curtain and we're 28 00:01:31,080 --> 00:01:34,240 Speaker 1: gonna get real comfortable. I have my producers to sell 29 00:01:34,240 --> 00:01:35,840 Speaker 1: and Brianna here with me. 30 00:01:36,280 --> 00:01:39,840 Speaker 2: Hi, guys, Cheeky's thanks for having us. You know, we're 31 00:01:39,920 --> 00:01:44,400 Speaker 2: usually behind the scenes here, but today we are grilling 32 00:01:44,440 --> 00:01:47,720 Speaker 2: you because we want to know all the exciting and spicy. 33 00:01:47,880 --> 00:01:49,760 Speaker 1: So what's going on? First? 34 00:01:49,880 --> 00:01:55,680 Speaker 2: Congrats on the podcast and joining iHeartRadio's Makut podcast network. 35 00:01:55,880 --> 00:01:59,360 Speaker 2: We're so excited to have you, and I know Brianna 36 00:01:59,440 --> 00:02:00,000 Speaker 2: is here's why. 37 00:02:00,040 --> 00:02:05,960 Speaker 3: Oh yes, Brianna, he Cheeky's how are you good? 38 00:02:06,400 --> 00:02:06,680 Speaker 1: Good? 39 00:02:06,800 --> 00:02:10,480 Speaker 3: Good? I'm good too, And I am so excited to 40 00:02:10,520 --> 00:02:13,720 Speaker 3: be here and to learn a little bit or maybe 41 00:02:13,800 --> 00:02:16,480 Speaker 3: a lot a bit more about you. Uh yeah, So 42 00:02:16,639 --> 00:02:18,440 Speaker 3: I can't wait to get started. 43 00:02:19,280 --> 00:02:21,359 Speaker 1: Oh nice, anything you guys want to ask me. I'm 44 00:02:21,360 --> 00:02:24,280 Speaker 1: an open book, so I ain't I ain't scared of nothing. 45 00:02:24,560 --> 00:02:27,280 Speaker 2: I only want truths here. Nothing but my mom only 46 00:02:27,320 --> 00:02:32,720 Speaker 2: want truths here. So you know, don't don't be lying 47 00:02:32,760 --> 00:02:34,480 Speaker 2: to us. We need the dirt. 48 00:02:35,000 --> 00:02:38,160 Speaker 1: I promise I won't lie. Scout. 49 00:02:38,240 --> 00:02:40,600 Speaker 2: Ready here we go, Get ready, Buckle. 50 00:02:40,320 --> 00:02:44,320 Speaker 1: Up, guys, mamma, Yes, yes, exactly. 51 00:02:44,440 --> 00:02:50,120 Speaker 3: Okay. So let's start with who is Cheeky's. Uh say 52 00:02:50,240 --> 00:02:51,320 Speaker 3: in three words? 53 00:02:51,880 --> 00:02:52,079 Speaker 2: Oh? 54 00:02:52,320 --> 00:02:56,440 Speaker 1: Who is Cheeky's in three words? Okay? Three words? Damn. 55 00:02:57,200 --> 00:03:01,680 Speaker 1: I'm I'm very passionate, very passionate person a woman of integrity. 56 00:03:02,680 --> 00:03:06,000 Speaker 1: Uh just three okay? 57 00:03:06,400 --> 00:03:06,560 Speaker 2: Uh? 58 00:03:07,919 --> 00:03:09,560 Speaker 1: Faith and hardworking I put it into. 59 00:03:11,400 --> 00:03:13,840 Speaker 3: And how much different would you say you are in 60 00:03:13,880 --> 00:03:17,119 Speaker 3: your private life versus you know, your your public persona? 61 00:03:17,200 --> 00:03:18,200 Speaker 3: Is there a difference there? 62 00:03:19,800 --> 00:03:22,320 Speaker 1: So that's a good question, Brianna. Okay, So there's Cheeky's, 63 00:03:22,360 --> 00:03:24,960 Speaker 1: and there's Janney and sometimes Valentina. So let's just focus 64 00:03:25,000 --> 00:03:27,680 Speaker 1: on Cheeks and Jenny today. So Cheeky's is the glitz 65 00:03:27,720 --> 00:03:30,840 Speaker 1: and glam. I love makeup and all this stuff, you know, 66 00:03:31,000 --> 00:03:33,560 Speaker 1: and I love the lights and the wind and singing 67 00:03:33,639 --> 00:03:37,080 Speaker 1: on stage. And it's different, you know from Janey. My 68 00:03:37,160 --> 00:03:41,160 Speaker 1: everyday life is just more at you know, I'm at home. 69 00:03:41,480 --> 00:03:44,360 Speaker 1: I'm I'd prefer not to wear makeup. I have my 70 00:03:44,360 --> 00:03:46,480 Speaker 1: hair up in a bun. I'm wearing sweats. I'm running 71 00:03:46,480 --> 00:03:48,720 Speaker 1: around getting things done. I love doing things myself. I 72 00:03:48,720 --> 00:03:52,800 Speaker 1: love driving by myself. I go eat by myself. I've 73 00:03:52,800 --> 00:03:56,400 Speaker 1: gone to the movies by myself. So I'm just I 74 00:03:56,600 --> 00:03:59,560 Speaker 1: want to say that Cheeky's is extroverted. Of course I 75 00:03:59,600 --> 00:04:01,240 Speaker 1: have to be, that's my job. And then Jeanne is 76 00:04:01,360 --> 00:04:05,480 Speaker 1: very introverted, like I would rather stay at home than 77 00:04:05,560 --> 00:04:08,160 Speaker 1: go out, you know, and I liked to eat and 78 00:04:08,200 --> 00:04:08,880 Speaker 1: watch movies. 79 00:04:10,640 --> 00:04:14,360 Speaker 3: Okay, So Cheeky's Jane. And I think you said there's Valentina, 80 00:04:14,600 --> 00:04:16,839 Speaker 3: So tell us a little bit about her. What's she like? 81 00:04:17,680 --> 00:04:22,400 Speaker 1: Okay, So Valentina is the bitch. Okay, cheeks is very sweet, 82 00:04:22,800 --> 00:04:26,320 Speaker 1: and you know, I'm just like all about helping, and 83 00:04:26,320 --> 00:04:28,320 Speaker 1: so it is Jennae. But you know, here comes Valentina. 84 00:04:28,360 --> 00:04:30,760 Speaker 1: I's like, I'm gonna defend both of you because sometimes 85 00:04:30,800 --> 00:04:33,400 Speaker 1: we're kind of like pushovers, you know. And Valentina comes 86 00:04:33,440 --> 00:04:35,680 Speaker 1: and brings out the middle fingers and let it be known, 87 00:04:35,839 --> 00:04:37,599 Speaker 1: you feel me. She don't come out that much. I 88 00:04:37,640 --> 00:04:38,920 Speaker 1: try to suppress her with meditation. 89 00:04:40,920 --> 00:04:43,679 Speaker 2: Well, I haven't met Valentina yet, and I'm a little 90 00:04:43,720 --> 00:04:48,000 Speaker 2: bit scared. But I can tell you that Cheeky's has 91 00:04:48,000 --> 00:04:50,479 Speaker 2: a heart of gold from what I've known so far, 92 00:04:50,800 --> 00:04:54,200 Speaker 2: is genuine through and through. And you know, we have 93 00:04:54,240 --> 00:04:57,560 Speaker 2: a couple of things in common. We are both La natives. 94 00:04:58,080 --> 00:05:02,359 Speaker 2: You grew up in Long Bea. It is Higana. You 95 00:05:02,640 --> 00:05:06,920 Speaker 2: love your kultura. You're all about culture. What's your favorite 96 00:05:06,960 --> 00:05:08,960 Speaker 2: thing about nuestra kultura? 97 00:05:10,279 --> 00:05:16,240 Speaker 1: Wow, my favorite thing about Damn. That's a hard one too, 98 00:05:16,279 --> 00:05:18,120 Speaker 1: because it's just that there's so many favorite things. I mean, 99 00:05:18,160 --> 00:05:20,200 Speaker 1: I love the food, I love you know, I want 100 00:05:20,200 --> 00:05:22,279 Speaker 1: to say the music. I want to say the music. 101 00:05:22,279 --> 00:05:26,760 Speaker 1: There's so many different sounds, so many different instruments, and 102 00:05:26,880 --> 00:05:28,680 Speaker 1: what you feel when you listen to our music, they 103 00:05:28,680 --> 00:05:33,160 Speaker 1: could go anywhere from banda to reggaeton to merengue tu salsa. 104 00:05:33,279 --> 00:05:36,680 Speaker 1: I think that our music is so beautiful, you know 105 00:05:36,680 --> 00:05:38,840 Speaker 1: what I mean? Like, I just I want to say 106 00:05:38,839 --> 00:05:41,520 Speaker 1: that that's probably one of my favorite things about our culture, 107 00:05:41,520 --> 00:05:44,039 Speaker 1: amongst other things, but that that's my favorite. 108 00:05:44,240 --> 00:05:47,760 Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, yes, food, music definitely some of my 109 00:05:47,760 --> 00:05:52,120 Speaker 3: favorites too. What would you say is the best advice 110 00:05:52,240 --> 00:05:55,920 Speaker 3: you've ever been given by your late mom. Music icon 111 00:05:56,080 --> 00:05:57,240 Speaker 3: Jenny Rivera. 112 00:05:57,640 --> 00:06:00,080 Speaker 1: Oh, shout out to my mama up in the sky. 113 00:06:00,880 --> 00:06:03,440 Speaker 1: These times are so difficult, like fall and winter, because 114 00:06:03,520 --> 00:06:05,800 Speaker 1: this is when we lost her, you know, so you 115 00:06:05,880 --> 00:06:07,359 Speaker 1: bring her up and I'm like, oh, you know, but 116 00:06:07,400 --> 00:06:09,080 Speaker 1: it's a good thing. That's my mom, and I'm proud 117 00:06:09,320 --> 00:06:11,719 Speaker 1: of who she is, what she's accomplished, and what she's 118 00:06:12,520 --> 00:06:14,240 Speaker 1: done in my life and still is doing in my 119 00:06:14,279 --> 00:06:16,480 Speaker 1: life in so many other lives. But anyway, she taught 120 00:06:16,480 --> 00:06:20,359 Speaker 1: me so many things. The biggest lesson I want to 121 00:06:20,400 --> 00:06:27,680 Speaker 1: say is not to be a victim of my past. 122 00:06:27,760 --> 00:06:30,440 Speaker 1: Of what I've gone through. I've been sexually molested, I 123 00:06:30,440 --> 00:06:33,920 Speaker 1: was actually messed by my dad, and then obviously her 124 00:06:33,920 --> 00:06:36,560 Speaker 1: and I had some situations growing up as well. It 125 00:06:36,640 --> 00:06:40,400 Speaker 1: was difficult. She was we're fifteen years apart, so we 126 00:06:40,440 --> 00:06:42,600 Speaker 1: grew up like sisters. So she would always say, oh 127 00:06:42,600 --> 00:06:44,279 Speaker 1: my gosh, why are you so like You're not like me? 128 00:06:44,400 --> 00:06:45,960 Speaker 1: You know, I was like a straight a student and 129 00:06:46,000 --> 00:06:47,599 Speaker 1: this and that, so we always had that you didn't 130 00:06:47,600 --> 00:06:51,440 Speaker 1: come with the manual. But she taught me that no 131 00:06:51,480 --> 00:06:54,320 Speaker 1: matter what I've gone through, feel don't be a victim 132 00:06:54,320 --> 00:06:57,240 Speaker 1: of the past that does not define you. So I 133 00:06:57,240 --> 00:06:58,919 Speaker 1: think one of those things where I'm like, Okay, no 134 00:06:58,960 --> 00:07:00,480 Speaker 1: matter what has happened in my life, I have to 135 00:07:00,560 --> 00:07:02,560 Speaker 1: keep going. She'd be like, if you fall, you get 136 00:07:02,600 --> 00:07:05,800 Speaker 1: back up, you brush your shoulders off. And that's what's 137 00:07:05,800 --> 00:07:07,479 Speaker 1: helped me. I think that's one of the reasons why 138 00:07:07,560 --> 00:07:10,600 Speaker 1: I'm still where I'm at despite the criticism and all 139 00:07:10,600 --> 00:07:12,679 Speaker 1: that stuff. You know, the adversities I've had to face. 140 00:07:13,520 --> 00:07:16,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, and you know, you're so open about that and 141 00:07:16,680 --> 00:07:17,840 Speaker 2: open about sharing. 142 00:07:17,600 --> 00:07:18,240 Speaker 3: So many things. 143 00:07:18,240 --> 00:07:20,520 Speaker 2: And that's what I believe is going to make such 144 00:07:20,520 --> 00:07:23,240 Speaker 2: a great Cheeky's and Chill podcast. Is you just being 145 00:07:23,320 --> 00:07:26,600 Speaker 2: real and honest? And you know you did mention that 146 00:07:27,200 --> 00:07:30,240 Speaker 2: this time of year is difficult because it's the anniversary 147 00:07:30,240 --> 00:07:33,360 Speaker 2: of your mom's death December ninth. You know, how do 148 00:07:33,440 --> 00:07:37,760 Speaker 2: you all still honor her despite you know the fact 149 00:07:37,760 --> 00:07:38,880 Speaker 2: that we've lost her. 150 00:07:39,600 --> 00:07:42,320 Speaker 1: Yeah. You know what, For me, it starts in October. 151 00:07:42,440 --> 00:07:46,440 Speaker 1: I lost her on October tewod of twenty twelve, and 152 00:07:46,480 --> 00:07:48,960 Speaker 1: then she left in December. So all these months are 153 00:07:49,000 --> 00:07:51,440 Speaker 1: always really emotionally heavy. And you think it's going to 154 00:07:51,480 --> 00:07:56,040 Speaker 1: get better because it's almost nine years. But it's that's 155 00:07:56,040 --> 00:07:57,640 Speaker 1: my mom, you know what I mean, Like I missed 156 00:07:57,680 --> 00:07:59,720 Speaker 1: her all the time. It knowes, no matter how old 157 00:07:59,720 --> 00:08:02,200 Speaker 1: I am, I still need her advice, you know, and 158 00:08:02,280 --> 00:08:05,040 Speaker 1: we do our best to honor her. For me personally, 159 00:08:05,960 --> 00:08:08,440 Speaker 1: it's having my siblings together now they're older. Now I 160 00:08:08,480 --> 00:08:10,240 Speaker 1: can't necessarily tell them what to do. They all have 161 00:08:10,280 --> 00:08:12,160 Speaker 1: their lives or have their children, they have their things 162 00:08:12,240 --> 00:08:14,640 Speaker 1: or jobs. Before it was like we have to be together. 163 00:08:14,680 --> 00:08:17,080 Speaker 1: We have to like watch my mom's favorite movies and 164 00:08:17,720 --> 00:08:20,000 Speaker 1: you know, eat her favorite foods. And now that they've 165 00:08:20,000 --> 00:08:23,720 Speaker 1: gotten older, I've learned to respect their decisions. You know, 166 00:08:23,840 --> 00:08:26,160 Speaker 1: I can't force them anymore. And now with issues that 167 00:08:26,200 --> 00:08:28,160 Speaker 1: are going on in my family, we used to get 168 00:08:28,200 --> 00:08:32,600 Speaker 1: together and you know, drink some tequila because as my mama, 169 00:08:32,679 --> 00:08:34,920 Speaker 1: she loved to party, you feel me. But now that 170 00:08:35,000 --> 00:08:38,720 Speaker 1: things are a little different, I think this year, whoever 171 00:08:38,760 --> 00:08:40,640 Speaker 1: wants to come over to my house will be welcome. 172 00:08:40,920 --> 00:08:44,480 Speaker 1: I always let go, like I always let a balloon 173 00:08:44,559 --> 00:08:46,360 Speaker 1: go into the sky and I write her a message. 174 00:08:46,400 --> 00:08:48,840 Speaker 1: You know. We've had that tradition for all these nine years, 175 00:08:49,360 --> 00:08:51,880 Speaker 1: so we haven't really talked about it, to be honest. 176 00:08:51,880 --> 00:08:54,640 Speaker 1: For this year, because things are kind of weird. But 177 00:08:54,640 --> 00:08:56,240 Speaker 1: I'm hoping I could be with my siblings. That would 178 00:08:56,320 --> 00:08:57,200 Speaker 1: make me really happy. 179 00:08:58,000 --> 00:09:01,240 Speaker 3: And speaking of siblings, you are the eldest in your 180 00:09:01,280 --> 00:09:06,200 Speaker 3: family and I'm actually the youngest, so very different experiences, 181 00:09:06,240 --> 00:09:08,560 Speaker 3: I'm sure, and I'm curious to learn from you about 182 00:09:08,600 --> 00:09:12,480 Speaker 3: some of the hardest parts, some of the easiest or 183 00:09:12,520 --> 00:09:15,440 Speaker 3: best parts about sort of existing in that role. 184 00:09:16,000 --> 00:09:19,840 Speaker 1: Ooh, that's a good question. Okay. So growing up as 185 00:09:19,880 --> 00:09:23,080 Speaker 1: the eldest was at first very difficult. I would ask 186 00:09:23,120 --> 00:09:25,240 Speaker 1: my mom why, but why am I the oldest. She's like, 187 00:09:25,240 --> 00:09:27,040 Speaker 1: I don't know, talk to God, because she's like, you're 188 00:09:27,080 --> 00:09:28,840 Speaker 1: the example. You have to be an example of your 189 00:09:28,840 --> 00:09:31,200 Speaker 1: siblings and they're going to follow everything you do. And 190 00:09:31,280 --> 00:09:34,079 Speaker 1: I was always the second mom, and sometimes to my mom, 191 00:09:34,160 --> 00:09:35,880 Speaker 1: I was a mom, you know, because she was so 192 00:09:36,000 --> 00:09:37,800 Speaker 1: young and she had me sewing, she had all of 193 00:09:37,840 --> 00:09:40,160 Speaker 1: us so young, so she kind of wanted a party 194 00:09:40,240 --> 00:09:41,920 Speaker 1: and do her thing, and I'd be like, hello, you 195 00:09:41,960 --> 00:09:44,360 Speaker 1: have kids, and she's like, well, that's why I have you. 196 00:09:45,559 --> 00:09:47,600 Speaker 1: So I was like, what the heck? Growing up it 197 00:09:47,679 --> 00:09:49,679 Speaker 1: was difficult, but now I'm so grateful that I'm the 198 00:09:49,720 --> 00:09:52,520 Speaker 1: oldest because now instead of it looking at it as 199 00:09:52,559 --> 00:09:56,480 Speaker 1: a chore, I look at it as a beautiful thing. 200 00:09:56,880 --> 00:10:01,160 Speaker 1: It's a responsibility, but I love to set the example 201 00:10:01,200 --> 00:10:03,600 Speaker 1: for my siblings and show them everything that I'm doing 202 00:10:03,679 --> 00:10:06,480 Speaker 1: and how I don't give up and my perseverance so 203 00:10:06,520 --> 00:10:09,199 Speaker 1: that they can also follow that hopefully. You know. I'm 204 00:10:09,240 --> 00:10:11,719 Speaker 1: like Bonga, Tiana, let's go says way, not let's so, 205 00:10:11,760 --> 00:10:15,280 Speaker 1: says my last So it's it is a huge responsibility. 206 00:10:15,280 --> 00:10:17,440 Speaker 1: There was a lot of pressure growing up and still 207 00:10:17,440 --> 00:10:20,760 Speaker 1: there is because my mom always told me you are 208 00:10:20,760 --> 00:10:22,720 Speaker 1: the oldest, you have to keep your siblings together. I 209 00:10:22,760 --> 00:10:24,839 Speaker 1: want you guys to be different from my family, from 210 00:10:24,840 --> 00:10:27,880 Speaker 1: my siblings. I want you guys to be united. And 211 00:10:27,920 --> 00:10:29,640 Speaker 1: if you guys fight, you sit down and you talk 212 00:10:29,679 --> 00:10:32,680 Speaker 1: that shit out, you know. And I feel that responsibility 213 00:10:32,720 --> 00:10:34,679 Speaker 1: like right here and now they're all older and have 214 00:10:34,720 --> 00:10:36,960 Speaker 1: a mind of their own. So I'm like, dude, this 215 00:10:37,000 --> 00:10:39,120 Speaker 1: is hard. I'm like, Mom, help me. Literally, I pray. 216 00:10:39,160 --> 00:10:41,400 Speaker 1: I'm like, help me with Johnny. What do I do? Like, 217 00:10:41,760 --> 00:10:43,640 Speaker 1: help me with the kids, And I just I just 218 00:10:43,640 --> 00:10:46,240 Speaker 1: pray for patience and I'm like, God, help me. But 219 00:10:46,559 --> 00:10:48,760 Speaker 1: I love it. Honestly, would not change it for the world. 220 00:10:48,920 --> 00:10:52,840 Speaker 1: I love being the oldest sister and being a friend. 221 00:10:52,880 --> 00:10:54,600 Speaker 1: Now was always like a mom to them. Now I'm 222 00:10:54,600 --> 00:10:57,719 Speaker 1: that sister, you know, and and I never really had that, 223 00:10:57,760 --> 00:11:00,600 Speaker 1: so it's kind of cool. But sometimes I do wish 224 00:11:00,640 --> 00:11:02,679 Speaker 1: I had like an older sister, just sometimes not all 225 00:11:02,720 --> 00:11:03,000 Speaker 1: the time. 226 00:11:09,760 --> 00:11:12,000 Speaker 2: All Right, we gotta get into a little bit of 227 00:11:12,080 --> 00:11:16,760 Speaker 2: dirt here, and I need to know about your love life. 228 00:11:16,800 --> 00:11:22,200 Speaker 2: So we're gonna transition a little bit into men women relationships. 229 00:11:22,360 --> 00:11:25,640 Speaker 2: But you know, as your manager, mister Bull likes to 230 00:11:25,640 --> 00:11:29,440 Speaker 2: say you are every man's dream girl, and I think 231 00:11:29,440 --> 00:11:31,640 Speaker 2: for a lot of women as well. I think, you know, 232 00:11:31,679 --> 00:11:34,800 Speaker 2: he says, oh my god, he says that. He says that. 233 00:11:35,520 --> 00:11:37,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, nice, mister Bull, thank you. He's right here with 234 00:11:37,840 --> 00:11:41,560 Speaker 1: me that you say I'm every man's dream girl, mister Bull. 235 00:11:41,679 --> 00:11:42,360 Speaker 1: My dad is Jr. 236 00:11:42,440 --> 00:11:43,200 Speaker 3: He's such a dad. 237 00:11:43,240 --> 00:11:47,000 Speaker 2: I love him, Yes, yes, yes, So what do you 238 00:11:47,200 --> 00:11:54,280 Speaker 2: think it is that men and women physically love about you? 239 00:11:54,280 --> 00:11:58,560 Speaker 1: You know what physically? I want to say, the first 240 00:11:58,559 --> 00:12:00,720 Speaker 1: thing that attracts him is my ass. You know, it's 241 00:12:00,800 --> 00:12:02,640 Speaker 1: kind of like, oh, she has a fat booty. You know. 242 00:12:04,679 --> 00:12:06,679 Speaker 1: I want to think it's my personality. You know what 243 00:12:06,760 --> 00:12:10,760 Speaker 1: I mean. But you know what, I'm a very confident woman, 244 00:12:11,679 --> 00:12:15,000 Speaker 1: and I don't care how beautiful a woman is. I love. 245 00:12:15,080 --> 00:12:16,520 Speaker 1: I'm not a hater at all. So I can be 246 00:12:16,559 --> 00:12:19,520 Speaker 1: standing next to a bodied, down woman beautiful and I 247 00:12:19,600 --> 00:12:21,719 Speaker 1: just feel just as sexy as her, Like I'm like, 248 00:12:21,880 --> 00:12:24,920 Speaker 1: I'm all thicker, but whatever. So you know, I just 249 00:12:25,040 --> 00:12:28,040 Speaker 1: I think that when you walk with confidence and you 250 00:12:28,760 --> 00:12:31,640 Speaker 1: have your head held high and you feel beautiful, like 251 00:12:32,280 --> 00:12:34,480 Speaker 1: people feel that and that attracts men. It doesn't matter 252 00:12:34,520 --> 00:12:36,679 Speaker 1: your size. And I learned that very early on in 253 00:12:36,679 --> 00:12:39,800 Speaker 1: my age because my mama was like that. So I 254 00:12:39,880 --> 00:12:42,800 Speaker 1: learned that from her, and now I try to teach 255 00:12:42,840 --> 00:12:44,840 Speaker 1: my sisters that and they now it's like Jackie is 256 00:12:44,840 --> 00:12:48,199 Speaker 1: so confident, Jenica, she's blossoming right now. So I think 257 00:12:48,200 --> 00:12:50,080 Speaker 1: it's that it's probably my confidence. You're like, oh, look 258 00:12:50,080 --> 00:12:51,760 Speaker 1: at this girl. She thinks she's you know, she thinks 259 00:12:51,760 --> 00:12:53,719 Speaker 1: she the shit. Yeah I am a little bit now. 260 00:12:55,000 --> 00:12:57,160 Speaker 2: And where does that confidence come from? You would say 261 00:12:57,160 --> 00:12:59,760 Speaker 2: from your mom, because you know, like all women and 262 00:13:00,080 --> 00:13:04,720 Speaker 2: you know, Latinas we struggle with body issues. 263 00:13:04,920 --> 00:13:07,880 Speaker 1: We don't always wake up feeling the. 264 00:13:07,679 --> 00:13:10,920 Speaker 2: Prettiest some days, right, But Where do you find that 265 00:13:11,320 --> 00:13:13,199 Speaker 2: confidence to like shine? 266 00:13:13,840 --> 00:13:14,160 Speaker 3: You know what? 267 00:13:14,320 --> 00:13:16,800 Speaker 1: Initially, yes, I learned it from my mama. I saw her. 268 00:13:17,360 --> 00:13:20,440 Speaker 1: She was a thick woman herself, and she was confident 269 00:13:20,520 --> 00:13:22,480 Speaker 1: and never had a problem with getting men, you know. 270 00:13:23,640 --> 00:13:27,760 Speaker 1: But as I've grown, I've learned that true confidence comes 271 00:13:27,800 --> 00:13:31,960 Speaker 1: from knowing who you are. Knowing who you are and 272 00:13:32,040 --> 00:13:37,680 Speaker 1: knowing where you're going, having goals, having knowing that makes 273 00:13:37,720 --> 00:13:43,520 Speaker 1: you so powerful. I don't go around trying to hurt 274 00:13:43,520 --> 00:13:55,920 Speaker 1: anybody or watch my back because so so I think 275 00:13:56,040 --> 00:13:59,640 Speaker 1: that all of that helps me just be confident, you know, 276 00:13:59,679 --> 00:14:01,319 Speaker 1: and a woman that I am, and the woman that 277 00:14:01,360 --> 00:14:03,000 Speaker 1: I strive to be every single day. I want to 278 00:14:03,000 --> 00:14:04,719 Speaker 1: be the better version of myself every day. And I 279 00:14:04,760 --> 00:14:06,720 Speaker 1: think that gives you a different type of glow too, 280 00:14:06,800 --> 00:14:07,000 Speaker 1: you know. 281 00:14:08,240 --> 00:14:13,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, so we know what men like about you? What 282 00:14:13,559 --> 00:14:17,120 Speaker 2: do you love physically about men? I guess what I'm 283 00:14:17,120 --> 00:14:22,520 Speaker 2: trying to say is does size matter? Okay, look we're 284 00:14:22,560 --> 00:14:23,560 Speaker 2: going there now, we're. 285 00:14:23,440 --> 00:14:27,760 Speaker 1: Going size to me? It doesn't. Okay, wait, hold on, 286 00:14:27,840 --> 00:14:31,200 Speaker 1: let me answer this correctly, because I've had different penises 287 00:14:31,960 --> 00:14:39,040 Speaker 1: sizes just okay, God, So I think the right the right. 288 00:14:39,280 --> 00:14:41,080 Speaker 1: Maybe a question is do you like it longer or 289 00:14:41,120 --> 00:14:43,240 Speaker 1: thicker like girth? Is it? Is it better? You know 290 00:14:43,280 --> 00:14:46,480 Speaker 1: what I mean? But to me, I've had a partner 291 00:14:46,520 --> 00:14:51,880 Speaker 1: that it wasn't that big ish, you know, but he 292 00:14:51,960 --> 00:14:56,040 Speaker 1: handled you know, orally perfectly and he knew how to 293 00:14:56,040 --> 00:14:57,840 Speaker 1: work with what he got. So it kind of like 294 00:14:57,880 --> 00:14:59,560 Speaker 1: it really doesn't like, I don't feel like you need 295 00:14:59,600 --> 00:15:01,240 Speaker 1: to have a big penis in order for me to 296 00:15:01,280 --> 00:15:04,120 Speaker 1: be satisfied. It's like how you want to satisfy. 297 00:15:03,640 --> 00:15:04,360 Speaker 3: Me, you know what I mean? 298 00:15:05,360 --> 00:15:06,960 Speaker 1: Does that make absolutely okay cool? 299 00:15:07,040 --> 00:15:08,560 Speaker 2: Yes, that makes sorry perfect perfect? 300 00:15:09,400 --> 00:15:14,080 Speaker 1: Yes, yes, but I'd prefer girth anyways, go ahead. 301 00:15:15,680 --> 00:15:19,680 Speaker 2: Girth tolength to inches friends, girth to inches. 302 00:15:19,920 --> 00:15:20,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's great. 303 00:15:20,640 --> 00:15:27,440 Speaker 3: Note. Okay, So my next question, Uh, so you have 304 00:15:27,560 --> 00:15:30,920 Speaker 3: basically grown up in the spotlight, in the public eye, 305 00:15:31,320 --> 00:15:33,560 Speaker 3: first because of your mom and now because of yourself. 306 00:15:33,600 --> 00:15:36,600 Speaker 3: I mean, you're a singer, you are an author, you 307 00:15:36,640 --> 00:15:38,800 Speaker 3: are a business owner, you're all of these things, and 308 00:15:38,840 --> 00:15:44,400 Speaker 3: I think that with that comes very little privacy. So, uh, 309 00:15:44,480 --> 00:15:46,280 Speaker 3: can you tell us how you cope with that? 310 00:15:47,080 --> 00:15:52,400 Speaker 1: You know, sometimes people tell me you have no right 311 00:15:52,640 --> 00:15:57,640 Speaker 1: to ask for privacy because you are exposing your life. 312 00:15:57,880 --> 00:16:03,560 Speaker 1: And I don't like that because obviously, yes, we had reality. 313 00:16:03,560 --> 00:16:05,080 Speaker 1: I was in reality. That's how I started my career 314 00:16:05,120 --> 00:16:10,800 Speaker 1: in reality ten years ago. But you grow from that, 315 00:16:11,360 --> 00:16:13,480 Speaker 1: and I learned a lot from that. I learned like, wait, 316 00:16:13,560 --> 00:16:15,320 Speaker 1: there are certain things that I just don't have to 317 00:16:15,320 --> 00:16:17,520 Speaker 1: talk about. It's okay for me to keep this private. 318 00:16:18,080 --> 00:16:21,480 Speaker 1: My relationships maybe, or just a lot of things. I 319 00:16:21,520 --> 00:16:24,400 Speaker 1: was kind of like, if you ask me, I'll be honest, 320 00:16:24,440 --> 00:16:26,280 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. I'm very transparent, but there 321 00:16:26,280 --> 00:16:27,600 Speaker 1: are things that I'm like, you know what, I just 322 00:16:27,720 --> 00:16:30,240 Speaker 1: rather not talk about this. Now I have that voice 323 00:16:30,240 --> 00:16:33,480 Speaker 1: and that confidence to say wait a second no, before 324 00:16:33,520 --> 00:16:36,720 Speaker 1: I felt I had to. You know, sometimes it gets 325 00:16:36,720 --> 00:16:39,960 Speaker 1: a little frustrating just because I want to go to 326 00:16:40,000 --> 00:16:42,760 Speaker 1: Disneyland or something. And I don't get frustrated from the fans. 327 00:16:42,800 --> 00:16:45,320 Speaker 1: I love taking pictures. I'll never say no, But I 328 00:16:45,360 --> 00:16:47,680 Speaker 1: feel bad for the people that are with me because 329 00:16:47,680 --> 00:16:49,400 Speaker 1: we get stopped and stuff like that, and I think 330 00:16:49,400 --> 00:16:51,280 Speaker 1: that can get a little frustrating for them. And that 331 00:16:51,640 --> 00:16:54,240 Speaker 1: frustrates me because I'm like, damn, I feel bad. But 332 00:16:54,280 --> 00:16:55,560 Speaker 1: I'm like, hey, if you're around me, you know what 333 00:16:55,560 --> 00:16:57,640 Speaker 1: you're getting yourself into. And this is my job. And 334 00:16:57,680 --> 00:16:59,720 Speaker 1: I love these people, and they pay for my bills. 335 00:17:00,160 --> 00:17:02,200 Speaker 1: They help me, you know what I mean, They and 336 00:17:02,200 --> 00:17:07,440 Speaker 1: and and that's why that's how I see it. But yeah, 337 00:17:07,520 --> 00:17:10,600 Speaker 1: I mean, it's it's hard to get to have privacy. 338 00:17:10,960 --> 00:17:12,840 Speaker 3: And do you ever feel like you're being too open? 339 00:17:15,359 --> 00:17:19,760 Speaker 1: You know? Maybe to my management, I share too much. 340 00:17:20,920 --> 00:17:24,280 Speaker 1: But for my standards and who I am and what 341 00:17:24,560 --> 00:17:27,520 Speaker 1: I've created on my social media platforms and through my 342 00:17:27,600 --> 00:17:31,359 Speaker 1: reality shows and through my music, I feel like I 343 00:17:31,400 --> 00:17:33,360 Speaker 1: share enough, you know what I mean. There's other things 344 00:17:33,359 --> 00:17:37,120 Speaker 1: I can't share, but I my transparency and my honesty 345 00:17:37,119 --> 00:17:40,359 Speaker 1: can sometimes get me into trouble with my team, you know, 346 00:17:40,359 --> 00:17:41,960 Speaker 1: because you're like, oh, you shouldn't be saying that, you know, 347 00:17:42,000 --> 00:17:44,280 Speaker 1: But I'm like, wait, I'm still human. I'm still a 348 00:17:44,320 --> 00:17:48,159 Speaker 1: woman before a singer, before X Y and Z, you 349 00:17:48,160 --> 00:17:51,800 Speaker 1: know what I mean. And but no, I think that 350 00:17:52,040 --> 00:17:53,840 Speaker 1: sometimes I can even share a little bit more. To 351 00:17:53,880 --> 00:17:55,720 Speaker 1: be honest, I've kind of held back a little bit 352 00:17:55,760 --> 00:17:57,200 Speaker 1: because it was a rough year for me, So I've 353 00:17:57,240 --> 00:18:00,639 Speaker 1: kind of held everything, you know, to myself a little bit, 354 00:18:00,680 --> 00:18:03,680 Speaker 1: not everything, but some things. But no, I think that 355 00:18:03,680 --> 00:18:06,000 Speaker 1: that's the place to do it. Have that direct contact 356 00:18:06,040 --> 00:18:07,320 Speaker 1: with your followers. 357 00:18:08,200 --> 00:18:10,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, and you know, I'm interested to know because you 358 00:18:11,080 --> 00:18:15,679 Speaker 2: post these like incredible pictures and sexy pictures and you 359 00:18:15,680 --> 00:18:18,320 Speaker 2: know you're you're revealing a lot of yourself and it 360 00:18:18,320 --> 00:18:21,560 Speaker 2: seems that all those pictures make news, right, It's like, oh, 361 00:18:21,680 --> 00:18:25,240 Speaker 2: is this too much like stat isna or this? And 362 00:18:25,280 --> 00:18:29,639 Speaker 2: that you know, like a like the confidence to post 363 00:18:29,680 --> 00:18:32,719 Speaker 2: that is already huge and you've talked about that, but 364 00:18:33,400 --> 00:18:36,679 Speaker 2: is there backlash? You know, do are the trolls coming 365 00:18:36,720 --> 00:18:39,080 Speaker 2: for you and are like shaming you in some way? 366 00:18:39,160 --> 00:18:40,800 Speaker 2: And how do you deal with that? 367 00:18:41,560 --> 00:18:44,000 Speaker 1: You know what to So I think and I've learned that, 368 00:18:45,160 --> 00:18:46,879 Speaker 1: you know, this career is a learning process. Let me 369 00:18:46,920 --> 00:18:51,840 Speaker 1: tell you that it's crazy because I can post a 370 00:18:51,880 --> 00:18:57,720 Speaker 1: picture that a girl that is way skinnier than I am, 371 00:18:57,840 --> 00:19:00,679 Speaker 1: a size two, a size four, the same exact picture, 372 00:19:01,720 --> 00:19:05,560 Speaker 1: and I look vulgar because I'm thicker. But if a 373 00:19:05,600 --> 00:19:07,639 Speaker 1: thinner girl does it, it's not that much of a 374 00:19:07,640 --> 00:19:10,040 Speaker 1: big deal. And That's what I'm not okay with because 375 00:19:10,680 --> 00:19:13,280 Speaker 1: why why Because I have cellulite, because I have thick thighs, 376 00:19:13,280 --> 00:19:15,280 Speaker 1: because I have a fat ass, I can't do that. 377 00:19:15,320 --> 00:19:17,560 Speaker 1: I can't feel sexy in my own skin, and that's 378 00:19:17,720 --> 00:19:20,800 Speaker 1: those are the things that I want to break because 379 00:19:20,840 --> 00:19:22,880 Speaker 1: there are so many women like me and I want 380 00:19:22,880 --> 00:19:25,920 Speaker 1: to be and represent us. You know. Obviously there's always 381 00:19:25,960 --> 00:19:27,879 Speaker 1: room for improvement. I always want to look better, I 382 00:19:27,880 --> 00:19:29,199 Speaker 1: want to work out, I want to lose weight, but 383 00:19:29,240 --> 00:19:31,000 Speaker 1: in reality, this is the body God gave me, and 384 00:19:31,080 --> 00:19:33,480 Speaker 1: I've never really been skinny, you know what I mean. 385 00:19:33,560 --> 00:19:36,680 Speaker 1: So that's what bugs me and I do get backlash 386 00:19:36,720 --> 00:19:40,560 Speaker 1: because I like ge vulgar look at miss Istanbiendo. It's 387 00:19:40,560 --> 00:19:42,760 Speaker 1: that I'm just like dude, like I'm a thirty six 388 00:19:42,880 --> 00:19:44,359 Speaker 1: year old woman. I know, I mean not look it, 389 00:19:44,480 --> 00:19:46,760 Speaker 1: you know, But I'm a thirty six year old woman 390 00:19:46,800 --> 00:19:48,879 Speaker 1: that feels good about her body. And I don't have 391 00:19:48,960 --> 00:19:51,080 Speaker 1: kids yet, and maybe when I have kids, that's gonna change. 392 00:19:51,080 --> 00:19:54,000 Speaker 1: But that's part of evolution, you know. But that's where 393 00:19:54,040 --> 00:19:57,680 Speaker 1: we have the responsibility with our children to say, wait 394 00:19:57,720 --> 00:20:00,600 Speaker 1: a second, teach them certain things, and I'd be a 395 00:20:00,720 --> 00:20:02,560 Speaker 1: very open mother. So I don't know, I don't agree 396 00:20:02,600 --> 00:20:06,080 Speaker 1: with certain things that I'm criticized for, but well, no, 397 00:20:06,160 --> 00:20:08,080 Speaker 1: I think it really does come down to size. I 398 00:20:08,119 --> 00:20:10,840 Speaker 1: think there's my size bothers them sometimes mm. 399 00:20:13,960 --> 00:20:18,040 Speaker 3: So you're clearly very confident, comfortable in your own skin. 400 00:20:18,680 --> 00:20:23,960 Speaker 3: You embrace your curves, which is obviously fantastic. And I 401 00:20:24,000 --> 00:20:26,639 Speaker 3: guess my question is, do you ever feel the need 402 00:20:26,680 --> 00:20:30,960 Speaker 3: to conform to Western beauty standards. 403 00:20:31,520 --> 00:20:34,160 Speaker 1: Now that I've gotten older. No. When I was younger, yes, 404 00:20:34,200 --> 00:20:37,119 Speaker 1: I wanted to look like the girls on the magazine. 405 00:20:37,160 --> 00:20:39,280 Speaker 1: Now that I'm in the business, I know that that's 406 00:20:39,320 --> 00:20:41,919 Speaker 1: all kind of a facade, you know. Now, I know 407 00:20:42,080 --> 00:20:45,920 Speaker 1: photoshop exists in all that stuff, and you know, I 408 00:20:46,359 --> 00:20:51,720 Speaker 1: don't feel like I have to conform or or or 409 00:20:52,680 --> 00:20:54,880 Speaker 1: be what I am who I am, and I'm beautiful 410 00:20:54,880 --> 00:20:58,560 Speaker 1: in my own unique way, you know. And now that 411 00:20:58,600 --> 00:21:01,400 Speaker 1: I'm older, I just I'm more comfortable with it. 412 00:21:05,600 --> 00:21:12,920 Speaker 2: So we talked about size, yes, right, and men loving 413 00:21:13,080 --> 00:21:17,960 Speaker 2: your backside my right. 414 00:21:18,720 --> 00:21:21,760 Speaker 1: I love my producers. They're just like you know, your backside, 415 00:21:21,880 --> 00:21:23,640 Speaker 1: I love. 416 00:21:23,440 --> 00:21:27,679 Speaker 2: It, trying to keep it clean. So I'm sure a 417 00:21:27,720 --> 00:21:30,560 Speaker 2: lot of people want to know, especially the men and 418 00:21:30,840 --> 00:21:33,040 Speaker 2: maybe a lot of women out there. Are you single? 419 00:21:33,240 --> 00:21:36,960 Speaker 2: Do they have a chance, can they slide into your dms? 420 00:21:37,119 --> 00:21:39,280 Speaker 2: What is the relationship status? 421 00:21:39,359 --> 00:21:41,879 Speaker 1: You know, even if if I'm married or I have 422 00:21:41,920 --> 00:21:44,520 Speaker 1: a boyfriend, or single. Guys do not care. Let me 423 00:21:44,520 --> 00:21:46,760 Speaker 1: tell you. Let me start off with that. Guys are crazy. 424 00:21:47,240 --> 00:21:49,600 Speaker 1: They don't care. They always feel they have a chance, like, oh, 425 00:21:49,640 --> 00:21:51,040 Speaker 1: well you can get divorced, oh you don't have kids 426 00:21:51,119 --> 00:21:53,160 Speaker 1: yet or whatever. And I get it, and I've gotten 427 00:21:53,200 --> 00:21:55,480 Speaker 1: it for years. Even this one guy one time, he 428 00:21:55,520 --> 00:21:57,880 Speaker 1: told me that he wanted to suck a fart out 429 00:21:58,000 --> 00:21:59,679 Speaker 1: of my butthole? Can you believe that? 430 00:21:59,760 --> 00:22:01,639 Speaker 3: Wait, did you say fart? 431 00:22:02,080 --> 00:22:04,960 Speaker 2: I'm sorry, girl, that is just too much. 432 00:22:04,960 --> 00:22:10,160 Speaker 1: That's what he said. Anyways, But I am not single. 433 00:22:10,440 --> 00:22:15,320 Speaker 1: I am not single. I haven't been for a minute. Yeah, 434 00:22:15,359 --> 00:22:16,040 Speaker 1: I'm not single. 435 00:22:16,119 --> 00:22:20,840 Speaker 2: Guys, Okay, So where did you meet this special someone 436 00:22:20,960 --> 00:22:22,960 Speaker 2: that you are calling your boo? 437 00:22:23,960 --> 00:22:27,679 Speaker 1: My boo thang uh? Okay? So I met him for 438 00:22:27,760 --> 00:22:31,359 Speaker 1: the very first time last year twenty twenty in May. 439 00:22:32,520 --> 00:22:34,959 Speaker 1: I've never talked about this guy. So this is exclusive 440 00:22:35,000 --> 00:22:37,959 Speaker 1: on my podcast Cheese and Chill. Uh. So I met 441 00:22:37,960 --> 00:22:41,160 Speaker 1: Emilio his name is Emilio in May and I did 442 00:22:41,160 --> 00:22:44,679 Speaker 1: a song called Jolene with Becky g and Becky was 443 00:22:44,760 --> 00:22:47,720 Speaker 1: in the middle of the pandemic. Quarantine was like really 444 00:22:47,760 --> 00:22:49,640 Speaker 1: really strict, and we had to do the photo shoot 445 00:22:49,640 --> 00:22:51,879 Speaker 1: and the video for it, and she said, look, I 446 00:22:51,920 --> 00:22:57,000 Speaker 1: only feel comfortable with my photographer, and you know that's 447 00:22:57,040 --> 00:22:59,119 Speaker 1: who we have to use because he's already you know, 448 00:22:59,400 --> 00:23:01,800 Speaker 1: tested the whole thing. I know he doesn't have COVID. 449 00:23:02,480 --> 00:23:04,480 Speaker 1: So I said, okay, fine, and I had my own photographer. 450 00:23:04,480 --> 00:23:05,919 Speaker 1: But I was like, that's fine, let's just do it. 451 00:23:06,000 --> 00:23:08,040 Speaker 1: He came to my house, he set everything up, and 452 00:23:08,200 --> 00:23:10,560 Speaker 1: when I saw him, we saw each other, it was 453 00:23:10,600 --> 00:23:12,920 Speaker 1: just like whoa Like. I was like there was something there, 454 00:23:13,520 --> 00:23:15,840 Speaker 1: but I was very heartbroken. I was that was the 455 00:23:15,880 --> 00:23:20,720 Speaker 1: beginning of my separation my ex husband in May. He 456 00:23:20,760 --> 00:23:23,440 Speaker 1: had already moved out of the house and everything, and 457 00:23:24,520 --> 00:23:26,480 Speaker 1: I was very heartbroken. So I was kind of like, oh, 458 00:23:26,480 --> 00:23:27,920 Speaker 1: he's cute, but I was like, oh, I don't even 459 00:23:27,960 --> 00:23:30,280 Speaker 1: want anything to do with anybody right now. I had 460 00:23:30,359 --> 00:23:32,560 Speaker 1: one of my guys, though, one of my my makeup artists, 461 00:23:32,560 --> 00:23:35,080 Speaker 1: actually asked him, hey, you know, ask him if he's married. 462 00:23:35,600 --> 00:23:37,439 Speaker 1: He said no, he wasn't married, you know, So that 463 00:23:37,520 --> 00:23:38,960 Speaker 1: was it. We left it at that, and he always 464 00:23:38,960 --> 00:23:41,720 Speaker 1: tells me he's like that day, like, I thought there 465 00:23:41,800 --> 00:23:44,040 Speaker 1: was something going on. And when I was leaving, you 466 00:23:44,119 --> 00:23:47,040 Speaker 1: were so cold and so like nonchalant, like, oh okay, bye, 467 00:23:47,400 --> 00:23:48,760 Speaker 1: and am I really He's like, yeah, you gave me 468 00:23:48,800 --> 00:23:52,600 Speaker 1: this half asked a hug, and I don't remember because 469 00:23:52,640 --> 00:23:54,880 Speaker 1: I was like my mind was everywhere. I was literally 470 00:23:54,920 --> 00:23:59,520 Speaker 1: like heartbroken. So that happened. That was me. Lorenzo and 471 00:23:59,520 --> 00:24:04,000 Speaker 1: I tried again in July. It was in June he 472 00:24:04,119 --> 00:24:07,400 Speaker 1: was gone. So July we tried again, and so we 473 00:24:07,480 --> 00:24:10,080 Speaker 1: you know, we tried it all up until oh, September, 474 00:24:10,119 --> 00:24:11,000 Speaker 1: I'm lying, Okay. 475 00:24:11,200 --> 00:24:13,600 Speaker 2: Is Lorenzo your ex? Is Lorenzo your. 476 00:24:13,800 --> 00:24:17,840 Speaker 1: Yes, Lorenzo's my ex. Lorenzo's my ex. Yeah, we're going 477 00:24:17,840 --> 00:24:20,520 Speaker 1: through through a divorce right now. So it was really 478 00:24:20,640 --> 00:24:22,920 Speaker 1: rocky since we had gotten married, so we were going 479 00:24:22,960 --> 00:24:25,400 Speaker 1: back and forth. Finally we called it off in September. 480 00:24:25,440 --> 00:24:28,480 Speaker 1: I was just like I'm done, and you know, went 481 00:24:28,520 --> 00:24:31,520 Speaker 1: through it. It was really bad. November, December was horrible. 482 00:24:31,960 --> 00:24:34,560 Speaker 1: Then comes January. I started feeling better twenty twenty one, 483 00:24:34,760 --> 00:24:39,600 Speaker 1: and then in March, I remember March first, I had 484 00:24:39,600 --> 00:24:43,200 Speaker 1: a surprise party for Becky g she's really good friends 485 00:24:43,320 --> 00:24:45,879 Speaker 1: with us. We see each other as family, and my 486 00:24:45,920 --> 00:24:47,480 Speaker 1: sister and I had a surprise party for her at 487 00:24:47,520 --> 00:24:51,320 Speaker 1: my house. And I honestly had forgot kind of about Emilio, 488 00:24:51,600 --> 00:24:53,840 Speaker 1: you know, and he had actually told me that he 489 00:24:54,000 --> 00:24:55,800 Speaker 1: was following me and then unfollowed me because he saw 490 00:24:55,840 --> 00:24:58,680 Speaker 1: that I didn't follow him back. Anyways, that's a little 491 00:24:58,720 --> 00:25:01,800 Speaker 1: side thing. Yeah, He's like, you didn't follow me back. 492 00:25:01,840 --> 00:25:04,119 Speaker 1: So I was just like, whatever, you didn't even repost me, 493 00:25:04,160 --> 00:25:06,120 Speaker 1: like when he was posting Jolene and stuff. I was like, dude, 494 00:25:06,320 --> 00:25:08,719 Speaker 1: I don't know. Anyways, I was in a relationship. So 495 00:25:08,760 --> 00:25:11,760 Speaker 1: then in March, she you know, her mom invites all 496 00:25:11,760 --> 00:25:14,359 Speaker 1: her peeps and Emilio is one of them. Again that 497 00:25:14,600 --> 00:25:17,879 Speaker 1: same thing that happened the first time. I was coming 498 00:25:17,960 --> 00:25:20,200 Speaker 1: out of my glamor room and he was coming inside 499 00:25:20,200 --> 00:25:21,960 Speaker 1: of the house and we looked at each other and 500 00:25:22,000 --> 00:25:25,879 Speaker 1: we're like again like that feeling of like this connection. 501 00:25:26,080 --> 00:25:29,680 Speaker 1: It was crazy and we were talking and everything. And 502 00:25:29,720 --> 00:25:32,800 Speaker 1: then later on during that night, I just told him, hey, 503 00:25:32,800 --> 00:25:35,000 Speaker 1: can I poke your dimples? Because he has really pretty dimples, 504 00:25:35,720 --> 00:25:37,720 Speaker 1: and he said, yeah, you could do whatever you want. 505 00:25:37,800 --> 00:25:43,080 Speaker 1: I said, all right, his own, So we kissed, okay, 506 00:25:44,200 --> 00:25:45,200 Speaker 1: and that's how it happened. 507 00:25:45,680 --> 00:25:48,240 Speaker 2: So, Brianna, I don't know about you, but my invitation 508 00:25:48,480 --> 00:25:51,760 Speaker 2: to Beckejee's party got lost in the mail and got lost. 509 00:25:51,800 --> 00:25:52,480 Speaker 2: I diden't get one. 510 00:25:52,720 --> 00:25:56,560 Speaker 1: I don't know a lot. Talk to Mama g Mamachi. 511 00:25:57,080 --> 00:25:59,200 Speaker 1: She was she was, Yeah, she was in charge of 512 00:25:59,440 --> 00:26:00,000 Speaker 1: inviting people. 513 00:26:01,359 --> 00:26:04,320 Speaker 2: But also, do you feel do you believe in this 514 00:26:04,480 --> 00:26:07,159 Speaker 2: that like the universe kept putting you guys together, like 515 00:26:07,240 --> 00:26:09,200 Speaker 2: kept finding ways. 516 00:26:08,880 --> 00:26:13,520 Speaker 1: For you all. To me, absolutely, I believe in everything. 517 00:26:13,600 --> 00:26:16,719 Speaker 1: Everything happens for a reason. It might sound a little cliche, 518 00:26:16,760 --> 00:26:19,280 Speaker 1: but I truly believe that. And if he came into 519 00:26:19,280 --> 00:26:22,320 Speaker 1: my life, it is for something, for a reason, whether 520 00:26:22,880 --> 00:26:26,080 Speaker 1: we end up together forever or not. I'm learning something 521 00:26:26,080 --> 00:26:29,040 Speaker 1: from him, and he's learning something from me. I will 522 00:26:29,040 --> 00:26:32,000 Speaker 1: be very honest. That day, March first, twenty twenty one, 523 00:26:32,119 --> 00:26:36,960 Speaker 1: I had decided that I was gonna remove I used 524 00:26:37,160 --> 00:26:40,040 Speaker 1: the IUD, the copper IUD for as birth control for 525 00:26:40,080 --> 00:26:42,359 Speaker 1: many years, and I took it out that day. I 526 00:26:42,400 --> 00:26:43,639 Speaker 1: took it out that day. I had gone to the 527 00:26:44,280 --> 00:26:46,359 Speaker 1: doctor and I told myself, I'm just gonna date. I'm 528 00:26:46,400 --> 00:26:49,159 Speaker 1: not gonna, you know, have sex with anybody. I just 529 00:26:49,200 --> 00:26:50,800 Speaker 1: want to go on dates. I was gonna go on 530 00:26:50,840 --> 00:26:53,240 Speaker 1: like dating apps. And then he came into my life. 531 00:26:53,320 --> 00:26:54,840 Speaker 1: And I'm like, I think it was God saying, oh 532 00:26:54,920 --> 00:26:58,200 Speaker 1: hold up girl, and he came into my life and 533 00:26:58,240 --> 00:27:01,119 Speaker 1: it was just this instant connection and and we hit 534 00:27:01,160 --> 00:27:03,200 Speaker 1: it off, you know what I mean. So yeah, absolutely, 535 00:27:03,359 --> 00:27:05,360 Speaker 1: everyone comes into your life and they're here to teach 536 00:27:05,400 --> 00:27:05,879 Speaker 1: you something. 537 00:27:07,400 --> 00:27:09,720 Speaker 2: I wanted to know what was the first thing that 538 00:27:09,800 --> 00:27:12,240 Speaker 2: you noticed about in media that you were like, oh, 539 00:27:12,400 --> 00:27:15,240 Speaker 2: I need to like kiss him tonight. Like what was 540 00:27:15,280 --> 00:27:17,560 Speaker 2: it that like drew you to him so quickly. 541 00:27:19,080 --> 00:27:21,800 Speaker 1: The first time I met him at the photo shoot, 542 00:27:21,840 --> 00:27:23,520 Speaker 1: it was his eyes. I remember telling him, well, you 543 00:27:23,560 --> 00:27:26,000 Speaker 1: have beautiful eyeballs and he'll never forgetz I said, eyeballs. 544 00:27:27,320 --> 00:27:30,400 Speaker 1: The second time I saw him in March, it was 545 00:27:30,520 --> 00:27:33,200 Speaker 1: his smile. I love his smile and his dimples. It 546 00:27:33,320 --> 00:27:36,159 Speaker 1: just it's captivating. And I'm like, WHOA like that? He 547 00:27:36,320 --> 00:27:39,280 Speaker 1: just has wonderful just teeth and just all this you know, 548 00:27:39,400 --> 00:27:42,560 Speaker 1: mouth area is just very nice. All right, all right, 549 00:27:42,600 --> 00:27:43,760 Speaker 1: So that's what I was, like, I want to kiss 550 00:27:43,800 --> 00:27:44,160 Speaker 1: that boy. 551 00:27:45,280 --> 00:27:45,760 Speaker 2: Good to know. 552 00:27:46,000 --> 00:27:46,199 Speaker 1: You know. 553 00:27:46,240 --> 00:27:49,080 Speaker 2: I have a little confession to make on the hugging situation. 554 00:27:49,160 --> 00:27:51,840 Speaker 2: I've had guys told me that before too, Like if 555 00:27:51,880 --> 00:27:56,520 Speaker 2: the hug isn't like a tight, powerful hug goodbye. They 556 00:27:56,560 --> 00:27:58,159 Speaker 2: get like sad. 557 00:27:58,560 --> 00:28:00,680 Speaker 1: And they don't like rejections. So yeah, I think that's 558 00:28:00,680 --> 00:28:01,240 Speaker 1: what he felt. 559 00:28:05,000 --> 00:28:08,720 Speaker 3: All right. Well, that was tons of fun, lots of 560 00:28:08,800 --> 00:28:13,320 Speaker 3: nuggets of information in that previous segment. Now we're gonna 561 00:28:13,320 --> 00:28:16,320 Speaker 3: be moving on to something similar, but a little bit 562 00:28:16,359 --> 00:28:21,240 Speaker 3: faster paced. It's gonna be something like a rapid fire 563 00:28:21,560 --> 00:28:23,800 Speaker 3: Q and A. Are you ready for this? 564 00:28:24,720 --> 00:28:26,680 Speaker 1: I kind of. I don't really like these, but I'm 565 00:28:26,680 --> 00:28:28,840 Speaker 1: gonna do it because I love you guys, So fine, let's. 566 00:28:28,600 --> 00:28:32,879 Speaker 3: Go all things. You know we love you too. Okay, 567 00:28:32,920 --> 00:28:35,080 Speaker 3: here we go. First question, do you kiss on the 568 00:28:35,119 --> 00:28:35,600 Speaker 3: first date? 569 00:28:36,080 --> 00:28:36,320 Speaker 1: Yes? 570 00:28:38,480 --> 00:28:44,479 Speaker 2: Okay, as we know from the Amelia story with Emilio, yes, 571 00:28:45,080 --> 00:28:47,360 Speaker 2: do you more than kiss on the first date? 572 00:28:48,360 --> 00:28:52,280 Speaker 1: I have? Okay, fuck, I gotta be honest, right, you have? 573 00:28:52,680 --> 00:28:53,200 Speaker 1: I have? 574 00:28:53,080 --> 00:28:54,440 Speaker 3: I have, I have. 575 00:28:55,040 --> 00:28:58,280 Speaker 1: I want to say I have, because again, live your life, 576 00:28:58,320 --> 00:29:01,120 Speaker 1: do whatever you want. No judgment here. I have though 577 00:29:01,160 --> 00:29:03,560 Speaker 1: I have done more than a kiss on a first date, 578 00:29:03,680 --> 00:29:05,240 Speaker 1: but I didn't like how it made me feel. So 579 00:29:05,320 --> 00:29:07,840 Speaker 1: I'm just like, I'd rather not you know what I mean? 580 00:29:08,280 --> 00:29:10,000 Speaker 1: But God, thatck in, But I do kiss. I need 581 00:29:10,000 --> 00:29:12,040 Speaker 1: to know if you can't kiss. We can't go on, 582 00:29:12,160 --> 00:29:14,080 Speaker 1: I mean, why even like try a second day? I'm 583 00:29:14,120 --> 00:29:14,520 Speaker 1: so sorry. 584 00:29:14,640 --> 00:29:17,640 Speaker 2: No, what's more sex? 585 00:29:19,280 --> 00:29:25,400 Speaker 1: H Yeah? Anything like you know, oral sex or like 586 00:29:25,960 --> 00:29:28,800 Speaker 1: fingers and stuff, you know for play. 587 00:29:30,520 --> 00:29:34,400 Speaker 2: Yes, when it comes to oral sex. Do you prefer 588 00:29:34,480 --> 00:29:36,280 Speaker 2: to give or to receive? 589 00:29:37,880 --> 00:29:39,640 Speaker 1: I prefer to give. 590 00:29:40,520 --> 00:29:41,560 Speaker 2: She's a giver, guys. 591 00:29:42,440 --> 00:29:44,400 Speaker 1: I like to give. I'm really good at it too. 592 00:29:45,000 --> 00:29:46,840 Speaker 2: In case you were wondering. 593 00:29:48,920 --> 00:29:51,680 Speaker 1: And what about anal, I've never done it. I'm down 594 00:29:51,720 --> 00:29:53,360 Speaker 1: to do it. I just I haven't done it. 595 00:29:54,280 --> 00:29:58,080 Speaker 2: All right, what would you say has been the sort 596 00:29:58,080 --> 00:30:00,240 Speaker 2: of craziest place you you've had sex? 597 00:30:02,360 --> 00:30:04,800 Speaker 1: Okay? So you guys know those car washes that like 598 00:30:04,840 --> 00:30:08,000 Speaker 1: those drive through car washes. We were in a two 599 00:30:08,000 --> 00:30:11,040 Speaker 1: seater okay, okay, So we were in one of those. 600 00:30:11,080 --> 00:30:12,840 Speaker 1: You were washing the car and I just got on 601 00:30:12,880 --> 00:30:14,280 Speaker 1: top of him and we did our thing through like 602 00:30:14,320 --> 00:30:17,280 Speaker 1: you let little splashies in the soap it and we 603 00:30:17,360 --> 00:30:18,880 Speaker 1: just did our thing and then I just hopped right off. 604 00:30:18,920 --> 00:30:19,600 Speaker 1: I had his dress on. 605 00:30:21,400 --> 00:30:23,440 Speaker 2: We'll never look at a car wash the same way again. 606 00:30:25,560 --> 00:30:29,080 Speaker 3: All right. So shifting gears just a little bit, okay, 607 00:30:30,360 --> 00:30:34,400 Speaker 3: And who was the last person you texted? And what 608 00:30:34,440 --> 00:30:36,480 Speaker 3: did it say? You have to pull it up and 609 00:30:36,520 --> 00:30:38,360 Speaker 3: you obviously have to read it to us. 610 00:30:39,040 --> 00:30:45,080 Speaker 1: The last person I text Emilio Actually, he said my 611 00:30:45,160 --> 00:30:46,880 Speaker 1: love and I said hi baby. He said I just 612 00:30:46,880 --> 00:30:49,000 Speaker 1: got a haircut, smiley face. 613 00:30:49,320 --> 00:30:49,760 Speaker 3: That's it. 614 00:30:50,240 --> 00:30:51,240 Speaker 2: Did he send a picture? 615 00:30:51,640 --> 00:30:54,400 Speaker 1: No, he did it. Let me tell him, Hi, babe. Sorry, 616 00:30:54,400 --> 00:30:56,040 Speaker 1: I'm doing the podcast right now. I'm so sorry. I 617 00:30:56,120 --> 00:30:57,640 Speaker 1: just saw this, But send me a picture. I want 618 00:30:57,640 --> 00:30:58,440 Speaker 1: to see your haircut. 619 00:31:00,040 --> 00:31:01,840 Speaker 3: Okay, there we go. 620 00:31:02,760 --> 00:31:03,959 Speaker 1: What about Uh? 621 00:31:04,240 --> 00:31:06,959 Speaker 2: You know you're a lot of people's celebrity crush, but 622 00:31:07,040 --> 00:31:09,200 Speaker 2: who is your celebrity crush? 623 00:31:09,240 --> 00:31:10,840 Speaker 1: My celebrity crush? 624 00:31:11,000 --> 00:31:13,000 Speaker 3: Ah. 625 00:31:13,240 --> 00:31:17,840 Speaker 1: I love the rock I really and you know why. Yes, 626 00:31:17,960 --> 00:31:20,200 Speaker 1: he's tall, he's buff and all this stuff. But more 627 00:31:20,240 --> 00:31:23,880 Speaker 1: than that, I love his mind. He's such a smart 628 00:31:23,920 --> 00:31:26,040 Speaker 1: man and I could tell that with just his interviews 629 00:31:26,080 --> 00:31:29,360 Speaker 1: and his social media. So that's why male crush. I 630 00:31:29,360 --> 00:31:33,440 Speaker 1: have a female too, though, you do. I do, Scarlett Johanson. 631 00:31:33,480 --> 00:31:36,240 Speaker 1: She's so hot girl. 632 00:31:37,120 --> 00:31:42,880 Speaker 3: Yes, okay, and what was the last photo you took? 633 00:31:43,080 --> 00:31:45,200 Speaker 3: You have to pull it up and show us the 634 00:31:45,280 --> 00:31:46,320 Speaker 3: last photo I took. 635 00:31:46,400 --> 00:31:54,720 Speaker 1: Let's see. Hopefully it's PG. Hopefully it's not. Oh oh 636 00:31:54,720 --> 00:31:58,840 Speaker 1: oh no, it's not even dude, you're gonna laugh because 637 00:31:58,880 --> 00:32:02,920 Speaker 1: he's crazy. It's it's a it's Al's food, dude. What 638 00:32:03,240 --> 00:32:06,240 Speaker 1: I took a screenshot of a green posole because a 639 00:32:06,280 --> 00:32:08,600 Speaker 1: samantho ho And I'm like, dude, it's fall I want 640 00:32:08,680 --> 00:32:10,480 Speaker 1: some posoli and I want it green. And that's all 641 00:32:10,480 --> 00:32:11,840 Speaker 1: I say. So I don't forget I took a picture. 642 00:32:11,840 --> 00:32:13,920 Speaker 1: I snapped a picture of it from someone's Instagram. 643 00:32:15,320 --> 00:32:16,840 Speaker 3: I know, y'all. 644 00:32:16,920 --> 00:32:19,040 Speaker 2: I think she's lying to us. She didn't want to 645 00:32:19,080 --> 00:32:21,800 Speaker 2: show us the real picture because she got kind of cringey. 646 00:32:23,080 --> 00:32:26,440 Speaker 1: Sure no, I actually last night though that this was 647 00:32:26,520 --> 00:32:28,360 Speaker 1: that was this morning. But last night I did send 648 00:32:28,480 --> 00:32:31,360 Speaker 1: Emilio a picture of me on the toilet, just like 649 00:32:31,440 --> 00:32:33,280 Speaker 1: a little selfie. I was like, hung, I stuck my 650 00:32:33,320 --> 00:32:34,240 Speaker 1: tongue out and stuff. 651 00:32:35,560 --> 00:32:37,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, so that was the real one that she didn't 652 00:32:37,160 --> 00:32:43,880 Speaker 2: want to show. Uh, what's your favorite food or dish? 653 00:32:44,040 --> 00:32:46,560 Speaker 2: And what's your go to drink? You know, because when 654 00:32:46,560 --> 00:32:48,400 Speaker 2: we have girls' night and we got to get some 655 00:32:48,440 --> 00:32:53,360 Speaker 2: cocktails flowing? What is what is Cheeky's Janet and Valentina drink? 656 00:32:53,360 --> 00:32:54,760 Speaker 2: How about that? Ooh? 657 00:32:54,960 --> 00:33:01,000 Speaker 1: Okay, got you girl? Okay, So Cheeky's most definitely straight 658 00:33:01,080 --> 00:33:04,880 Speaker 1: up tequila. Just no lemon, no lime, just straight tequila. 659 00:33:05,080 --> 00:33:09,360 Speaker 1: I love it. Janey is more of a tequila on 660 00:33:09,400 --> 00:33:12,240 Speaker 1: the rocks with mineral water, and at that hein rim 661 00:33:12,280 --> 00:33:17,040 Speaker 1: with some lime, a garnish lime. Valentina that bit crazy. 662 00:33:17,080 --> 00:33:21,320 Speaker 1: She likes Cosmos okay, and that vodka does not work 663 00:33:21,360 --> 00:33:25,320 Speaker 1: for us. Vodka like that will get me. I'll forget 664 00:33:25,320 --> 00:33:28,040 Speaker 1: my name, I'll forget where I'm at, I'll forget my life. 665 00:33:28,080 --> 00:33:32,040 Speaker 1: So Valentina, she's crazy. She likes Cosmos. And my favorite 666 00:33:32,120 --> 00:33:40,120 Speaker 1: food Mexican food any day every day, Chile than mais. 667 00:33:40,200 --> 00:33:43,280 Speaker 1: I love corn tortillas. That's like something I can eat 668 00:33:43,280 --> 00:33:47,360 Speaker 1: every single day. And anything Asian. I love anything Asian. 669 00:33:47,480 --> 00:33:48,880 Speaker 3: But that's my plate. 670 00:33:50,000 --> 00:33:51,920 Speaker 1: Sounds so good, sounds so good. 671 00:33:52,520 --> 00:33:55,560 Speaker 2: I love talking about food. That is making me so hungry. 672 00:33:56,520 --> 00:33:59,600 Speaker 2: But one thing I really want to know is about 673 00:33:59,600 --> 00:34:03,200 Speaker 2: plasta surgery. Now, you say you're an open book and 674 00:34:03,240 --> 00:34:06,600 Speaker 2: you talk about everything, So I want to know have 675 00:34:06,720 --> 00:34:10,239 Speaker 2: you had plastic surgery? What if you had done? And 676 00:34:10,800 --> 00:34:12,400 Speaker 2: are you a fan of plastic surgery. 677 00:34:13,040 --> 00:34:15,600 Speaker 1: I am in favor of plastic surgery. I love plastic surgery. 678 00:34:15,680 --> 00:34:19,160 Speaker 1: I'm like do what you be healthy, you know, you know, 679 00:34:19,239 --> 00:34:21,480 Speaker 1: and get your studies done and all that stuff. But 680 00:34:21,560 --> 00:34:23,719 Speaker 1: I love plastic surgery. I've got LiPo suction. I got 681 00:34:23,760 --> 00:34:26,760 Speaker 1: lipol section when I was a lot younger. My mom 682 00:34:26,840 --> 00:34:29,120 Speaker 1: actually took me to do it at nineteen years old. 683 00:34:29,239 --> 00:34:31,839 Speaker 1: She was just so obsessed with like, you know, so 684 00:34:32,080 --> 00:34:35,280 Speaker 1: she took me to get liposuction. And then I've gotten 685 00:34:35,360 --> 00:34:38,200 Speaker 1: breast augmentations and then reductions, and now I got my 686 00:34:38,239 --> 00:34:42,399 Speaker 1: breast done again. I got implants again. But yeah, I mean, 687 00:34:42,440 --> 00:34:44,000 Speaker 1: I'm all for it. I'm all for it. 688 00:34:44,719 --> 00:34:48,040 Speaker 3: Alrighty, So we've reached the end. I have one last 689 00:34:48,120 --> 00:34:50,520 Speaker 3: question for you, just to kind of wrap things up. 690 00:34:52,000 --> 00:34:54,600 Speaker 3: Why did you want to start a podcast. 691 00:34:55,280 --> 00:34:58,600 Speaker 1: I have wanted to start a podcast for like I 692 00:34:58,640 --> 00:35:00,800 Speaker 1: said earlier, like three years. That's been on my vision 693 00:35:00,800 --> 00:35:03,239 Speaker 1: board because I feel like it's a space where you 694 00:35:03,280 --> 00:35:06,200 Speaker 1: can just be honest and completely be yourself. Sometimes when 695 00:35:06,239 --> 00:35:09,160 Speaker 1: there's cameras, you worry so much about how you look 696 00:35:09,680 --> 00:35:11,520 Speaker 1: that you don't focus on what you're saying. And I'm 697 00:35:11,520 --> 00:35:14,160 Speaker 1: all about what comes from the heart reaches a heart, 698 00:35:14,280 --> 00:35:19,360 Speaker 1: and this is my way of spreading everything that I 699 00:35:19,400 --> 00:35:21,040 Speaker 1: have in my mind. And the feelings that I have 700 00:35:21,120 --> 00:35:23,319 Speaker 1: in my thoughts, and I'm a person that is very 701 00:35:23,360 --> 00:35:25,399 Speaker 1: open and transparent. I want to share that. I want 702 00:35:25,440 --> 00:35:28,000 Speaker 1: to talk about all kinds of subjects, things that people 703 00:35:28,000 --> 00:35:30,600 Speaker 1: don't want to talk about, especially in my culture. You know, 704 00:35:30,640 --> 00:35:32,839 Speaker 1: a lot of things are still taboo, and I want 705 00:35:32,880 --> 00:35:36,239 Speaker 1: to kind of break that generational curse, you know. So 706 00:35:36,680 --> 00:35:40,280 Speaker 1: this is my way of just radiating love and truth 707 00:35:40,960 --> 00:35:43,960 Speaker 1: and yeah, getting so people get to know me on 708 00:35:44,120 --> 00:35:44,879 Speaker 1: in a different way. 709 00:35:45,800 --> 00:35:49,560 Speaker 2: Thanks so much, Cheeky's for opening up and answering a 710 00:35:49,560 --> 00:35:52,960 Speaker 2: lot of our questions. It's been so fun to learn 711 00:35:53,000 --> 00:35:55,880 Speaker 2: more about you, and I'm really excited to continue to 712 00:35:55,960 --> 00:35:58,959 Speaker 2: learn about you as more episodes of Cheeky's and Chill 713 00:35:59,040 --> 00:36:00,840 Speaker 2: come out. Thanks so much. 714 00:36:01,760 --> 00:36:04,239 Speaker 3: Yeah, thank you so much for having us. This was 715 00:36:04,360 --> 00:36:06,520 Speaker 3: so much fun. I learned so much about you and 716 00:36:06,640 --> 00:36:12,000 Speaker 3: really appreciate your openness, your rawness, your vulnerability. And I'm 717 00:36:12,040 --> 00:36:15,240 Speaker 3: sure there's a lot more to come. So hopefully everybody 718 00:36:15,280 --> 00:36:19,880 Speaker 3: stays tuned and listens to new episodes every Monday. 719 00:36:20,600 --> 00:36:23,799 Speaker 1: Thank you guys so much for listening in. I hope 720 00:36:23,800 --> 00:36:27,120 Speaker 1: that you learned about you know, Cheegy's, Jenney and Valentina 721 00:36:27,200 --> 00:36:29,560 Speaker 1: a little more and on a deeper level, So thank you 722 00:36:29,600 --> 00:36:32,520 Speaker 1: so much. Make sure that you listen in Cheeky's and 723 00:36:32,600 --> 00:36:37,359 Speaker 1: chill and I want to end this episode with gratitude 724 00:36:37,360 --> 00:36:41,160 Speaker 1: because that's something that's very important to me. Attitude of gratitude. 725 00:36:41,200 --> 00:36:44,719 Speaker 1: Having an attitude of gratitude, you guys thinking about and 726 00:36:44,760 --> 00:36:47,840 Speaker 1: focusing on what we do have, not what we're lacking. 727 00:36:48,200 --> 00:36:50,400 Speaker 1: And the more grateful you are, the more blessings that 728 00:36:50,440 --> 00:36:53,320 Speaker 1: you get, and you are able to share those gifts 729 00:36:53,360 --> 00:36:56,719 Speaker 1: and those blessings. So I'm grateful. I like to say this. 730 00:36:56,760 --> 00:37:00,759 Speaker 1: My sister Jenak actually taught me this. Three things every 731 00:37:00,800 --> 00:37:03,439 Speaker 1: single day that you're grateful for. So I'm grateful for 732 00:37:03,520 --> 00:37:07,600 Speaker 1: simply waking up, for having the blessing of speaking to 733 00:37:07,680 --> 00:37:09,640 Speaker 1: you guys. I'm very grateful for that that I can 734 00:37:09,719 --> 00:37:11,440 Speaker 1: just speak my mind and you guys accept me for 735 00:37:11,520 --> 00:37:15,319 Speaker 1: who I am. And the third thing is love. I'm 736 00:37:15,360 --> 00:37:19,520 Speaker 1: grateful for love. Love is the moving force of the universe, 737 00:37:19,719 --> 00:37:23,279 Speaker 1: So without love, we don't exist. I suggest that you 738 00:37:23,320 --> 00:37:25,480 Speaker 1: guys do it as well. What are you grateful for today? 739 00:37:25,520 --> 00:37:27,919 Speaker 1: And do it every single day. Attitude of gratitude, don't 740 00:37:27,920 --> 00:37:39,560 Speaker 1: forget and don't forget to listen to Cheeky's and Chill 741 00:37:39,680 --> 00:37:43,800 Speaker 1: every Monday on the iHeartRadio app, Apple podcast, or wherever 742 00:37:43,920 --> 00:37:47,160 Speaker 1: you listen to your favorite podcasts. This is a production 743 00:37:47,320 --> 00:37:52,520 Speaker 1: of iHeartRadio and Mike kuturap podcast Network. Follow us on 744 00:37:52,560 --> 00:37:56,879 Speaker 1: Instagram at Mike Utura Podcasts and you can keep up 745 00:37:56,920 --> 00:38:00,440 Speaker 1: with me Cheeky's on Instagram at Cheeky's. Then we have 746 00:38:00,600 --> 00:38:03,560 Speaker 1: Twitter Cheeky's six to six and that's what the qu guys, 747 00:38:03,640 --> 00:38:06,480 Speaker 1: not a K C H I q U I S 748 00:38:07,000 --> 00:38:09,319 Speaker 1: And yeah, guys, we'll see you next week.