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Speaker 1: Hey, welcome to your weekend. A little extra treat on

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Speaker 1: a Sunday. It's brooking Jeffrey the Second.

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Speaker 2: Date Up Day podcast. I know you too, I know

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Speaker 2: you do. And before we get to a say yes

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Speaker 2: to the ex which I think you're gonna just find amazing.

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Speaker 2: Maybe it's a good way to memorable memory.

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Speaker 1: I'd love to read this comment from Skyler Anderson. It says,

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Speaker 1: been listening to these for three years and had nobody

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Speaker 1: to talk to about it, but now you're all over TikTok,

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Speaker 1: so I could finally not be ashamed to be a fan.

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Speaker 3: That was like, look, I knew you guys before you

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Speaker 3: were cool and viral, okay, and these people all stayed

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Speaker 3: quiet them they're my god, this is such garbage ring

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Speaker 3: And now you can even buy our.

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Speaker 2: Merch that hey it's Sunday, spend some of that money

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Speaker 2: for a good cause. The proceeds do go to charity.

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Speaker 1: Uh And again the link is in the show notes,

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Speaker 1: only available for a couple more weeks, So make it

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Speaker 1: happen now if you want that Second Date update merch

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Speaker 1: and we'll get your say yes, the X started right now.

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Speaker 3: It can be frustrating when your significant other doesn't clearly

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Speaker 3: tell you what it is they want.

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Speaker 4: Or need from you.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I know. Brooke never understands her husband's needs.

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Speaker 5: Now.

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Speaker 3: To be fair, it could because of the gag in

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Speaker 3: so everything kind of comes out as a mumble. Speak up, Michael,

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Speaker 3: Come on, Ann, it's not that hard anyway. You get

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Speaker 3: the point and dream twice for you. One of our

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Speaker 3: listeners is facing a similar communication issue with her relationship.

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Speaker 3: All she's asking for is some clarity and in her words, quote,

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Speaker 3: man up and just say it. Oh, you'll hear exactly

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Speaker 3: what she wants in a brand news Say Yes to

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Speaker 3: the X it's coming up right after this. It's one

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Speaker 3: of the stranger emails that we received lately.

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Speaker 2: I like the start of this already, Jeff you guys.

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Speaker 3: And when I first read it, I thought, oh, this

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Speaker 3: is a second date update. But then I realized, no, actually,

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Speaker 3: maybe it's more of a closure call, but not really,

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Speaker 3: so I landed on say Yes to the X. Okay,

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Speaker 3: And when our producer reached out to the listener and said, hey,

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Speaker 3: your story would be great for Say Yes to the X,

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Speaker 3: she replied, well, technically he's not my ex. So at

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Speaker 3: this point this is say yes to the E because

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Speaker 3: we're not really sure how to label this relationship exactly.

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Speaker 3: Hopefully Vicky can help clear things up for us. Vicky,

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Speaker 3: welcome to say yes to the end. How you doing?

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Speaker 5: Thank you? I'm good? How are you?

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Speaker 2: Okay?

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Speaker 3: I could squeeze you into the show somehow. Yeah, Okay.

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Speaker 1: Here's my question. When you're talking to your girlfriends about

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Speaker 1: whoever this is, how do you refer to.

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Speaker 5: Him his name?

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Speaker 2: Oh?

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Speaker 3: Okay, that's hot, and what's his name?

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Speaker 5: His name is James?

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Speaker 3: Okay, and tell us about yours and James's relationship. Is

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Speaker 3: it fair to call it a relationship or is that

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Speaker 2: Good work even friendships relationship?

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Speaker 5: He yes, there is a relationship. So we went on

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Speaker 5: about five maybe six dates and really seemed to hit

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Speaker 2: And how long ago was this?

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Speaker 5: I'm sorry, this was about about eight months ago?

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Speaker 2: Okay, about long agoo?

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Speaker 5: Okay, So after one of our dates, he asked me

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Speaker 2: Ok we are so in the relationship territory, so yeah, totally.

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Speaker 3: It sounds like you guys are official.

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Speaker 5: Right. So about seven months ago we had a date

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Speaker 5: and he was supposed to come, you know, home with me,

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Speaker 5: like it was time we were an official relations.

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Speaker 2: The family say, how to your parents? Is that what

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Speaker 3: I think back to her like her apartment.

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Speaker 1: Oh, I'm sorry, I get had ton way before relationships, daddy.

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Speaker 1: That's the first seven seconds for most Okay, okay, so

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Speaker 5: Okay, that's right, and all times were appointing there. So

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Speaker 5: I was really shocked when James just said never mind,

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Speaker 2: He didn't come in at all.

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Speaker 5: No, he just said he changed his mind, he can't

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Speaker 2: Like, how do you say? What are you feeling in

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Speaker 5: Really confused and hurt because I haven't heard anything from him. Yeah,

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Speaker 5: so since he initiated a com about like we're in

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Speaker 3: Are you not? Are you not considering an ex? Because

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Speaker 3: the total time you guys spent officially as boyfriend and

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Speaker 1: No, did you just hear she's not considering it an

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Speaker 2: Yeah, he hasn't.

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Speaker 5: That's right.

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Speaker 3: I'm not sure if it really works.

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Speaker 2: It doesn't, but that's to me.

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Speaker 3: That means theoretically it makes sense. But seven months of

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Speaker 2: What do you think happened?

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Speaker 5: I have no idea what happened. And that's why I'm

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Speaker 5: reaching out to you, because I feel like he needs

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Speaker 5: to tell me, like, are we still in a relationship?

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Speaker 3: Have you gone to his house or anything? Like did

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Speaker 2: Option? Yeah, I would track him down too, Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Your boyfriend, right, so it's not weird.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, after like a day, yeah, not missing person.

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Speaker 5: I went by his place a couple of times. It

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Speaker 5: didn't look like he was there, but I didn't do

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Speaker 3: That's good self restraint.

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Speaker 5: I feel like me an explation or closure was closure.

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Speaker 3: So people are new to this segment, say yes to

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Speaker 3: the ex. Basically, we get an email from someone. In

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Speaker 3: this case it's Vicky. They want us to reach out

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Speaker 3: to their quote X in this case James, who's not

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Speaker 3: really the ex. And the thing is we've already done that.

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Speaker 3: James has agreed to come on our show knowing that

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Speaker 3: someone from his past is looking for him. He just

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Speaker 3: doesn't know who it is.

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Speaker 2: He's smart enough to put it together.

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Speaker 3: Well, we don't tell him any details ahead of time.

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Speaker 3: We just say there's someone from your past.

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Speaker 2: Or the title of the segment.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, do you still want to be in a relationship

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Speaker 5: I am in a relationship with him, right, he hasn't broken.

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Speaker 4: Up with you.

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I wonder how he's gonna feel about it when we

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Speaker 3: bring him on and I want my girlfriend, Yeah, I

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Speaker 3: lost her like seven months ago.

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Speaker 1: I wonder if he's acting like he's a relationship for

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Speaker 1: the past seven months.

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Speaker 2: I don't think so.

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Speaker 3: I mean, what connection have you had with him in

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Speaker 5: Last week I posted a Photoston, like.

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Speaker 2: A picture of you two looking like a couple.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, you're in a relationship you want?

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Speaker 1: All?

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Speaker 5: Right?

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Speaker 2: This is starting to feel not quite as healthy as

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Speaker 5: Really, Okay, I don't see the problem. What's the problem?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Brook, It's just you know, some people are let's say,

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Speaker 1: not strong enough to actually break up a relationship.

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Speaker 3: Face to face the Brooks in the world.

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Speaker 2: I think it's no more like.

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Speaker 5: Me in the world.

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Speaker 1: Him him ghosting you, I think is his way of

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Speaker 1: saying that he's not in the relationship anymore.

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Speaker 5: Well, that's that's why I contacted you, guys. He needs

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Speaker 5: to like say what he wants and be with me

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Speaker 5: or be a man and say what though.

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Speaker 3: Says I don't want to be with you and I

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Speaker 3: didn't know how to say it, and that's it. That's okay.

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Speaker 3: That would be saying no to the act. Remember this

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Speaker 3: is saying yes for a segment.

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Speaker 5: Yea.

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Speaker 3: So depending on how this goes, we'll find out we're

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Speaker 3: gonna talk to your ex but not really exce your

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Speaker 3: current significant other James possibly and see what he says

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Speaker 3: when we continue Say Yes to the Right after this,

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Speaker 3: we're in the middle of a segment called say Yes

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Speaker 3: to the X, or at least for today, it's say Yes.

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Speaker 2: To the.

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Speaker 3: Because our listener Vicky went out with a guy half

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Speaker 3: a dozen times, at which point he asked her to

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Speaker 3: idea said yes. The next date he left her stay

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Speaker 2: Wow, you're making up.

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Speaker 3: It was some nineties indie song happening in real life,

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Speaker 3: But they were romantic. That was seven months ago and

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Still, that's why Vicky still considers them to technically be together. Brook,

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Speaker 2: Well, I mean, I can understand her need for closure.

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Speaker 3: That's hard, but she doesn't want to close it. She

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know that that's going to happen.

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Speaker 1: I think that the picture she posted on Instagram of

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Speaker 2: Honestly, Vicky, I'm hoping he didn't see that. What do

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Speaker 5: What do you mean?

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Speaker 2: Well, it could come off as maybe maybe what Brooke

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Speaker 5: It is ling like romantic.

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Speaker 3: Yes, oh yeah, you know. I'm never I'm never shocked

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Speaker 3: by Brook's unrelenting optimism in these situations. That's why we

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Speaker 3: love having you on this show.

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Speaker 2: Brooks so hard right now, shows James so hard.

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Speaker 3: It is coming through. So remember, Vicky, We've already reached

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Speaker 3: out to James. He has agreed to be on with us,

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Speaker 3: but he does not know exactly who it is. He

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Speaker 3: only knows it's somebody from his past.

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Speaker 5: Present.

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Speaker 3: Well, yeah, present, but also passed seven months ago.

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Speaker 2: You haven't talked to him in a long time.

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Speaker 5: I have driven my house, so I told you that, right.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Well, these are some of the details I might

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Speaker 3: not include when I talked to him. We'll just see

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Speaker 3: how the conversation goes. I'll call you in when we

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Speaker 3: feel like we're ready. Okay, okay, all right, here we go.

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Speaker 3: Let's punch up. James here, James, Hello, are you there? Yeah,

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Speaker 3: I'm here, Hey, James, we're brooking Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 3: Thanks for being on with us.

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Speaker 4: Good morning, James, Hey, James, Yeah, thanks for having me.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I bet you were excited when you got.

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Speaker 4: I'm definitely curious, that's for sure.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. So I know it's kind of unusual, but we

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Speaker 3: do this segment here. It's called Say Yes to the X,

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Speaker 3: and basically the idea is somebody from your romantic past

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Speaker 3: wanted us to reach out and reconnect you. Okay, okay,

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Speaker 3: so you get the concept. This is a woman named Vicky.

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Speaker 3: Do you remember Vicky?

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Speaker 4: Uh a Vicky?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, No, that's.

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Speaker 4: That doesn't sound familiar.

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Speaker 2: Guys, do we have the right person? Did you email

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Speaker 2: the wrong person?

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Speaker 3: The number is right, you're James.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, this is James, But I don't know who Vicky is.

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Speaker 2: Okay, maybe it's Victoria, Like did we get her name wrong?

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Speaker 3: So the last time you saw her you were over

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Speaker 4: Uh, I don't know what you're talking.

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Speaker 2: Wait, hold on any.

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Speaker 3: Memory loss issues? Have you hit your head?

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Speaker 2: Do you date a lot?

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Speaker 5: Is that it?

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Speaker 2: Are you like going on tons of dates?

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Speaker 4: I've been on a couple of dates, but I wouldn't

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Speaker 4: say so many. I would forget someone.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Look, so wait, your name James is correct, your

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Speaker 3: phone number is right. It's weird that you have no

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Speaker 3: is your quote ex Vicky.

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Speaker 2: Vicky still thinks she's in a relationship with you and

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Speaker 2: you don't even know.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, why don't you talk to her? Because

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Speaker 3: she is on the phone right now waiting to speak

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Speaker 3: with you.

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Speaker 2: Maybe you can figure out who she is.

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Speaker 5: I am, hey James, Vicky.

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Speaker 4: Uh, Hi, you're saying we dated?

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Speaker 5: Yes? On the SIMS our characters went out? Waity, did

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Speaker 5: sims the video game? Yeah? You just disappeared. I haven't

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Speaker 5: seen you anywhere, and I you know, are we still together? Dames?

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, I can't Why did you respond to

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Speaker 1: this email?

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Speaker 2: Did you do no research into any of this?

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Speaker 3: Jeff, don't pen this on me?

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Speaker 2: Are you kidding me?

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Speaker 3: You're the home one that would say yes to the

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Speaker 3: I don't know. She could have done some back since

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Speaker 3: she went out with the guys six times and that

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Speaker 3: they had an official talk.

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Speaker 2: Did you ask about in person?

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Speaker 3: You never asked those questions either, broke that? Wait, James,

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Speaker 3: you're still there right.

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Speaker 4: I'm yeah, I'm here. So you're talking about our characters

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Speaker 5: Yeah, after our sims became offic So we went on

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Speaker 5: one date and then you've left, and I'm just do

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Speaker 5: you plan on taking me out or you just ghosting.

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Speaker 2: Me in the video game? Is that what you want

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Speaker 2: him to do?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: VICKI, I have to ask a question after in the

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Speaker 3: last seven months, when you went by his house, what

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Speaker 3: is was it driving by his virtual house or his

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Speaker 5: His virtual health?

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Speaker 3: Okay, so you don't.

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Speaker 2: Know where he lives in real life?

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Speaker 5: No, James, and in a little bit of defense.

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Speaker 3: And I'm not kidding when I say this. Sometimes when

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Speaker 3: you play video games with somebody every day, your form relationships.

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Speaker 3: So I can see why she could feel some serious

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Speaker 3: is your business. We're talking about Vicky and James here. James,

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Speaker 3: do you recall who this is?

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Speaker 5: Did you?

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Speaker 4: Did you have pink hair?

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Speaker 5: Yes? That's me, he remembers.

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Speaker 4: Okay, look, I didn't know your name was Vicky first

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Speaker 4: of all, but I I didn't want to tell you

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Speaker 4: someone else in the game.

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Speaker 2: Whoa wait, your character met another character.

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Speaker 4: I did, and and we are still together.

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Speaker 3: But you were you were official with this me.

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Speaker 5: What is her name?

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Speaker 2: What's her name?

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Speaker 3: Isn't really?

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Speaker 2: What was the instagram? A pick of your sim's holding?

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Speaker 5: Oh my god, we looked so perfect together.

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Speaker 2: What is your name?

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Speaker 3: James? You want to give the name of your new

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Speaker 4: Uh, I'm I'm nervous to you now.

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Speaker 2: Don't don't do that. Definitely, don't, James. I can't believe

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Speaker 2: you like it's it's interesting.

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Speaker 1: It's interesting that you're also entertaining the new relationship as

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Speaker 3: It's just in a different world.

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Speaker 1: This is the virtual game, Jeff. Is called a game

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Speaker 1: because it's to be played. It's not to be taken seriously.

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Speaker 5: It's real to me.

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, well it's not that is a problem.

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Speaker 3: That is a problem. I think it's sweet that Vicky

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Speaker 3: to keep it going already. Vicky, Well, yeah, I don't

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Speaker 2: You could probably have as many partners as you want.

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Speaker 1: If you're a Sims characterous.

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Speaker 3: Brook, don't bring your real life situation into the virtual world.

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Speaker 5: Broke.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, I don't sleep around there. I'm sorry, I can't.

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Speaker 3: Good. It's nice to meet an upstanding person once on

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Speaker 3: this show, so James. Normally, normally I would ask in

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Speaker 2: With anything anyone, you will do, Jeff.

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Speaker 3: I'm saying, Sims bucks or something. It sounds like you

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Speaker 3: the sim world. Nobody's discussed the real world relationship though, Like,

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Speaker 3: are you open to meeting Vicky out in the real

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Speaker 4: What I'm sorry. I I don't date in the real world.

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Speaker 3: Wait, what do you mean.

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Speaker 4: Listen, I'm busy enough with my SIMS girlfriend. I don't

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Speaker 2: And these people could have been perfect for each other.

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Speaker 3: It's just bad timing in the in the SIMS world.

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Speaker 3: So man, I'm sorry he's married.

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Speaker 5: James, I miss you.

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Speaker 3: Oh okay, Well, there's always hope that maybe James and

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Speaker 3: his virtual girlfriend won't work out.

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Speaker 1: And if you see some pink hair hiding out of

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Speaker 3: Virtual cops, Yeah

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Speaker 5: Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.