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Speaker 1: It's awkward.

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Speaker 2: It's Tuesday.

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Speaker 1: It's awkward Tuesday. Phone call, ladies. If you're ever curious

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Speaker 1: about what your husband or boyfriend is doing when he's

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Speaker 1: not with you, Yeah, just slash his tires and offer

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Speaker 1: to give him a ride. Oh, tire slashing is one

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Speaker 1: of the pillars of a strong, healthy relationship, as long

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Speaker 1: as he doesn't find out you're the one doing it.

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Speaker 2: If you have a shared bank account, that's really not wise.

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Speaker 3: Brook.

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Speaker 1: Your husband's cars are constantly in trouble and you're saying

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Speaker 1: you're not the one behind it. That's if you could

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Speaker 1: spend more time with him.

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Speaker 2: That's just because I like to run the tires right

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Speaker 2: up against the curves.

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Speaker 1: That's right. Our listener, Julia didn't go that far as

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Speaker 1: to slash her husband's tires, so you're disappointed. But she

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Speaker 1: did give him a ride recently and apparently found out

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Speaker 1: something very interesting, so interesting, she needs our help, So Julia,

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Speaker 1: welcome to the show.

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Speaker 4: Hi, Thanks guys.

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Speaker 2: How long are you even married? Julia?

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Speaker 4: Three years?

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Speaker 2: Okay?

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Speaker 1: Tell us what's going on? Why'd you email us? Well?

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Speaker 4: I'm not real sure what's going on. I witnessed something,

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Speaker 4: but I don't know fully what I saw or if

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Speaker 4: I'm gempt conclusion it.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I totally love this.

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Speaker 5: You sound so sweet. It sounds like you're not upset,

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Speaker 5: like I can't tell.

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Speaker 4: Well, I'm worried, but I'm also just trying to be rational.

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Speaker 4: I'm trying to not be like super reactionary, but I'm

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Speaker 4: I'm freaking out a little.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, it is that was the voice that I didn't.

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Speaker 1: And you're freaking out with something involving your husband. What's

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Speaker 1: his name?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, so his name is Harry, and a couple

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Speaker 4: of weeks ago, I took him to his hair appointment.

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Speaker 4: We normally have we have supperate cars, so normally I

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Speaker 4: wouldn't do that sort of thing, but his is in

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Speaker 4: the shop.

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Speaker 3: Okay.

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Speaker 4: I offered to drive him because I saw it was

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Speaker 4: on our calendar, and he was like, nah, I'll just

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Speaker 5: I mean that would throw up a little bit of

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Speaker 5: a red flag for me, But did you agree.

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Speaker 1: To let you drive him?

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Speaker 4: Did? And when we got there, he was like we

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Speaker 4: had in a big hurry to get out of the car,

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Speaker 4: and I was like, no, I'm gonna go in with you.

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Speaker 4: I'm going to check and see if they have the

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Speaker 4: hairspray that I used. Okay, He's like, no, no, no,

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Speaker 4: you're playing you just let's take me up an hour.

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Speaker 5: Because he like it's like an embarrassed junior high, you know,

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Speaker 5: not wanting his mom.

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Speaker 1: To He says, that is what it was like, Okay,

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Speaker 1: objectively a little strange.

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Speaker 4: So I'm going with him and I'm looking and then

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Speaker 4: call his name and then the stylist comes out, and

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Speaker 4: of course she is a gorgeous girl. I mean she's

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Speaker 5: I mean, isn't it a requirement to become a one

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Speaker 1: That's what she wanted. Would feel good to have somebody

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Speaker 1: who's really really beautiful styling you. You don't want like

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Speaker 1: rumpel stillskin coming in.

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Speaker 5: Bigger than mine.

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Speaker 1: She's like, I don't do my own like a tree

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Speaker 1: a point.

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Speaker 4: I would think.

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Speaker 1: It's it's okay.

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Speaker 2: I mean, it's it's normal, it's common.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: Does that make you feel like a certain way?

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Speaker 4: Well, it was just very obvious that this was not

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Speaker 2: Well, I mean it's a hairstylens.

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Speaker 3: They're friendly.

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Speaker 4: There's more So as soon as she showed up, he

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Speaker 4: was like, all right, you probably gotta get go in.

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Speaker 4: She's soon like literal really chewing me out of the door.

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah. And so then there's this petition, you know,

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Speaker 4: like you could come into the place and there's a

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Speaker 4: reception desk and then a petition, and then on the

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Speaker 4: other side is where all the chairs and all that drives.

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Speaker 4: I walk around the petition and I opened the door

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Speaker 4: and I didn't go out. I just closed the door

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Speaker 4: like made it sound like I left out there for

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Speaker 2: What'd you hear?

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Speaker 4: And they were just laughing and giggling and flirting, and

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Speaker 4: he was laughing. I got moron everything she was saying.

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Speaker 4: And then she was going with him, and then she

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Speaker 4: starts complimenting and like, oh, your hair feels so good.

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Speaker 4: You've been doing so good and taking care of it.

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Speaker 1: Not to defend what they're doing at all, but sometimes

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Speaker 1: stylists will be extra friendly and extra nice in order

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Speaker 5: That still doesn't like dismiss her husband's flirting back Yeah,

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Speaker 5: that doesn't.

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Speaker 4: It's weird behavior. I don't know, Like I understand maybe

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Speaker 4: you have a little bit of a crush and there's

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Speaker 4: nothing wrong with that, but she has been trying to

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Speaker 4: I just feel like that behavior is kind of fun.

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Speaker 1: It would have been nicer if he had been like, hey,

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Speaker 1: don't say nice things about me. I'm married, okays, cut

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Speaker 1: my hair and shut up.

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Speaker 2: No, but no, Like normally, like a stylist.

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Speaker 5: Relationship, that's the first thing you talk about is your

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Speaker 2: It's a saying that comes out. So that's not a

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Speaker 1: About to me.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I just I've been thinking about it's been a

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Speaker 4: bring it up to him because I don't want to

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Speaker 4: come across as super jealous or defensive. But it's really

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Speaker 5: You obviously haven't told him that you heard stuff or

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, that she was sneaking around the partician and listening.

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Speaker 1: Is know before we help.

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Speaker 2: It's a good point.

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Speaker 4: No, I did not. I did not tell him that

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Speaker 4: I stayed and heard them flirting.

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Speaker 1: So this is what we're doing. Have you booked an

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Speaker 1: appointment with that styleist? Just see if she's equally flirty

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Speaker 2: Just talk about your husband the whole appliant.

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Speaker 4: I could just book with her and then tell her

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Speaker 4: like some really bad hygiene.

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Speaker 1: Habit that you have, But that's going to be step

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Speaker 1: two in this process. Step one is getting our advice

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Speaker 1: in a few minutes here before we let you make

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Speaker 1: an awkward Tuesday phone call to your husband to ask

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Speaker 1: what is going on between him and the hairstylist.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, is he just gonna tell you? It

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Speaker 2: just seems crazy. I mean, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I mean book that all depends on your advice and

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Speaker 1: if it's actually good for once.

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Speaker 5: I just hope it's some innocent flirting that we're blowing

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Speaker 5: out of proportion. I mean, honestly, that's best case scenario.

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Speaker 1: We'll find out when we call him and do your

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Speaker 1: awkward Tuesday phone call right after this. It's awkward. It's Tuesday.

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Speaker 1: It's awkward Tuesday phone call. After you get married, is

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Speaker 1: there anybody that you are still allowed to flirt with.

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Speaker 1: Brooke wanted me to ask that question.

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Speaker 3: I'm not, Oh my god.

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Speaker 5: I mean there's a difference so between innocent flirting like

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Speaker 1: When you get mad. If you caught your husband flirting

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, he has called her pretty twice.

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Speaker 6: H'm saying the realization set some people may be okay,

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Speaker 6: definitely not with your hairstylist though, that needs to be

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Speaker 6: off limits, and especially.

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Speaker 2: When he's shoeing her out the door. As soon as

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Speaker 1: There exactly, so you see your hairstylist a lot. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: and that's why our listener Julia has reached out because

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Speaker 1: woman cutting his hair. Sent up some red flags first,

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Speaker 1: so she wants to confront him about it, but doesn't

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Speaker 1: want to get too weird and defensive. So before we

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Speaker 1: call Harry Jose, what's your advice for her? I feel

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Speaker 1: like the way to disarm him is to give the

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Speaker 6: First, you guys are talking and you're like, by the

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Speaker 6: way your barber is super cute, Honey.

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Speaker 1: I mean if I was you, I wouldn't have even

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Speaker 4: I'm just trying to figure out, like how I would

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Speaker 2: Do you think, see that's the way? Okay? Because the

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Speaker 5: I think you say, oh my god, it's been bugging

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Speaker 5: me for two weeks. Your hairstylist looks so familiar and

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Speaker 5: I couldn't place it, And I remember I know her?

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Speaker 1: Whoa Where do you know her from?

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Speaker 2: Could be anywhere? We're in a book club, we do

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Speaker 5: Yet, like you could name anything honestly, because if he

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Speaker 1: Brook does have the best lies to her significant anybody

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Speaker 1: that I know. She knows how to twist the truth.

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Speaker 1: Is that helpful to you? Julia? Are you comfortable lying

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Speaker 4: But what if it's perfectly normal. And then he's like

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Speaker 5: But it's good if it's perfectly normal. I mean, sure,

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Speaker 5: you look like kind of a controlling jealousy is huge.

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Speaker 2: You were confused, you you knew her. All you have

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Speaker 2: to do is tell him, Man, you're just so hot

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Speaker 2: it's hard for me to imagine.

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Speaker 1: Well, Julie, that's our best advice for you. Take whatever

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Speaker 1: you want from it. But I'm dialing your husband, Harry

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Speaker 1: right now. I'm gonna let you make your awkward Tuesday

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Speaker 3: Okay, Hello, hey babe, bang, how are you doing?

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Speaker 7: I didn't recoon have the number.

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Speaker 4: What are you calling? Yeah? Sorry, No, I'm just at

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Speaker 4: work and I just had a question for you. I've

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Speaker 4: So I wanted to write it by what was in

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Speaker 7: Oh good, go ahead.

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Speaker 4: Yeah. So, a couple of weeks ago, when I took

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Speaker 7: Okay, why don't you already have a silos?

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Speaker 7: she mentioned she's like totally booked up, Like I barely

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Speaker 4: Cool Okay, Well that brings up another point that I

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Speaker 4: guess I need to get to. When I dropped you off,

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Speaker 4: I didn't actually leave the salon. I just kind of

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Speaker 7: And you say, I thought you said you were going

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Speaker 1: I did, I did, You're going to get the mecan see.

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Speaker 4: I did, but you were acting with her like you

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Speaker 7: Well, I just know you're busy. I just know you're

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Speaker 4: That's not what it felt like. It really felt like

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Speaker 4: I mean, is there's something going on? Is there something

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Speaker 7: No?

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Speaker 4: I mean what you hear I could hear you laughing.

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Speaker 4: I mean she would say something and you were like, oh,

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Speaker 4: you're so funny. I mean it was like it was weird.

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Speaker 7: But I got a consession. I didn't I wanted to

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Speaker 7: keep it for you, but I'm trying to get this

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Speaker 7: temperature discount from her, and the only way is that

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Speaker 7: if she thinks like I'm into her, so, but it's

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Speaker 7: really for you, It's.

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Speaker 5: Really for us.

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Speaker 4: Wait what how how does that work?

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Speaker 7: Well, you know, I just tell her I'm single, because

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Speaker 7: so she thinks that she has a reason to give

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Speaker 7: me the discount. That's it, nobody.

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Speaker 4: So she just gives discounts the single guys that she likes.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Wait, so how did she even believe that you're single though?

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Speaker 4: Because I walked in with you.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I mean she asked about you and everything, but

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Speaker 7: I just told her you and my aunt. What God,

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Speaker 7: who are those people? What's going on?

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Speaker 2: Oh my god?

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Speaker 4: Am I being punk?

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Speaker 5: You're with an idiot?

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Speaker 1: Well yeah, hey, Harry Man, tell me. I need to

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Speaker 1: let you know that you're on the radio right now

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Speaker 1: with a show called Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 1: This is called awkward Tuesday phone call. Oh my god,

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Speaker 1: Julia listens to us and asks for help today because

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Speaker 1: she saw that interaction between you and your hairstylist, which.

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Speaker 2: She obviously read right, you were flirting with.

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Speaker 1: Her, but not it's not genuine flirting.

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Speaker 5: No discounts for single hot guys that doesn't exist.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I could get behind that. What's this

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Speaker 1: hairstylist place that you go to, Harry, because I could

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Speaker 1: lay that on.

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Speaker 7: I'll tell you later. We'll get off the phone.

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Speaker 6: Okay, you believe him, Jeff.

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Speaker 1: It doesn't really matter what I believe. It's what Julia.

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Speaker 1: This is her marriage.

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Speaker 2: Do you believe him a ten hot guy discount?

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Speaker 4: I do believe him. He's not not a liar. He

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Speaker 4: doesn't lie to me. I mean, I think I think

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Speaker 4: he's very truthful. I just I think it's stupid and

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Speaker 4: I I think it's really incessive.

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Speaker 2: Wait, stupid on his part or stupid on the hairstylist part. Well,

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Speaker 2: it is about business choice for her.

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Speaker 7: Like I said before, this is a discount that I'm

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Speaker 7: getting for you or I. Look, I admit I probably

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Speaker 7: should have told you about it. That's my fault. Okay,

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Speaker 7: I promise I'm not up to anything fullish or adulterery

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Speaker 7: ish or anything like that.

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Speaker 1: Okah, you will be no romantic interest in actually getting

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Speaker 1: together with the style.

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Speaker 7: No, no, you would rather just.

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Speaker 2: Pay the ten percent stopper?

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Speaker 7: No?

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Speaker 1: No, absolutely not.

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Speaker 7: The economy is.

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Speaker 1: Harry, your wife is clearly uncomfortable with this interaction, no

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Speaker 1: matter how much money it saves, she doesn't like it. So, Julia,

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Speaker 1: what would you like to see Harry do going forward?

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Speaker 2: I mean that was that was almost marriage counselor is.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's kind of like, what do you want from

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Speaker 4: Well, I would say at the very least, it should

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Speaker 4: be honest with her.

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Speaker 1: You don't want him to switch stylists. You're cool with

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Speaker 1: him still going to I'm.

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Speaker 4: Just dishonesty and like where that leads. I mean, how

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Speaker 4: would you feel if I wore a miniskirt to the

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Speaker 4: dentist to try to get a discount.

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Speaker 2: I actually believe it, Dennis giving discounts those guys are.

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Speaker 1: I don't need anymore laughing gay anyway, Harry, carry are

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Speaker 1: you comfortable? Are you able to change ever so slightly

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Speaker 1: to make your wife happy?

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Speaker 7: Yes?

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Speaker 1: I will.

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Speaker 7: I will definitely accommodate, Harry.

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Speaker 1: Wow, women can change a man. I didn't realize that.

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Speaker 5: Look at us at he's changing?

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Speaker 3: Juli.

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Speaker 2: All right, by the way, was so exultant you're talking

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Speaker 7: All right?

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Speaker 1: Well, you know what, I think we're in a better

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Speaker 1: place now than when we started this phone call. Good

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Speaker 1: luck to you to your marriage sounds perfec.

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Speaker 4: Thank you all

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Speaker 1: Looking Jeffrey in the morning.