1 00:00:18,880 --> 00:00:22,320 Speaker 1: Hello, everyone, it's your big sister Cheeky's and you've reached 2 00:00:22,320 --> 00:00:26,320 Speaker 1: my personal voicemailbox for the Dear Cheeky's podcast. I'm here 3 00:00:26,360 --> 00:00:28,880 Speaker 1: to give you advice on anything and everything you need 4 00:00:28,960 --> 00:00:31,480 Speaker 1: help with. Whether you're going through a breakup or having 5 00:00:31,560 --> 00:00:33,920 Speaker 1: issues with your family, or maybe you have a question 6 00:00:34,000 --> 00:00:36,600 Speaker 1: about my personal life. Whatever the case is, I want 7 00:00:36,600 --> 00:00:39,400 Speaker 1: to hear from you. Remember these are my thoughts in 8 00:00:39,440 --> 00:00:42,040 Speaker 1: my opinions, and if you're suffering from a serious issue 9 00:00:42,159 --> 00:00:45,560 Speaker 1: or hardship, you should seek help from a qualified professional. 10 00:00:45,960 --> 00:00:48,800 Speaker 1: All right, now, go ahead and leave your message at 11 00:00:48,800 --> 00:00:49,239 Speaker 1: the sound of. 12 00:00:49,240 --> 00:00:53,400 Speaker 2: The beeB, Hi Cheeky's, I hope all is well, girl. 13 00:00:53,920 --> 00:00:56,040 Speaker 2: I love your podcast. I love everything that you do 14 00:00:56,160 --> 00:01:01,080 Speaker 2: for us. Your answers to our questions are concerns everybody's 15 00:01:01,120 --> 00:01:03,440 Speaker 2: brave questions on here. I just I love it. God 16 00:01:03,480 --> 00:01:06,080 Speaker 2: bless everybody, and God bless you and your family. So 17 00:01:06,120 --> 00:01:09,920 Speaker 2: I wanted to tell you just recently, my mother in law, 18 00:01:10,640 --> 00:01:13,920 Speaker 2: she's a little something something else, So we were talking 19 00:01:13,920 --> 00:01:16,440 Speaker 2: about how her experiences when she was growing up and 20 00:01:16,480 --> 00:01:19,480 Speaker 2: how her you know, husband back in the day was 21 00:01:19,480 --> 00:01:22,520 Speaker 2: Amuheitiago and you know, a cheater and all that stuff, 22 00:01:23,000 --> 00:01:25,360 Speaker 2: and she started saying, so prepare herself because in a 23 00:01:25,360 --> 00:01:28,600 Speaker 2: few years, your husband, which is her son, is probably 24 00:01:28,600 --> 00:01:30,760 Speaker 2: going to do the same thing to you. And I said, no, no, 25 00:01:30,959 --> 00:01:33,319 Speaker 2: I'm going to stop you right there. Please do not 26 00:01:33,480 --> 00:01:36,200 Speaker 2: speak those negative words to me, because we have a 27 00:01:36,240 --> 00:01:40,160 Speaker 2: great relationship, great communication. Even when it's something uncomfortable, we'll 28 00:01:40,160 --> 00:01:42,920 Speaker 2: talk about it, and I will not let you speak 29 00:01:42,959 --> 00:01:45,600 Speaker 2: those ill words to me right now. I'm like, that's crazy, 30 00:01:46,160 --> 00:01:48,080 Speaker 2: and she's like, no, I'm just saying, be prepared. If 31 00:01:48,120 --> 00:01:50,440 Speaker 2: his father was like that, then you know he's probably 32 00:01:50,480 --> 00:01:52,520 Speaker 2: going to be the same. And she kept repeating it. 33 00:01:52,600 --> 00:01:55,280 Speaker 2: So I literally looked at her in the eyes and 34 00:01:55,320 --> 00:01:57,120 Speaker 2: I pointed up to God to this guy, and I 35 00:01:57,160 --> 00:01:59,720 Speaker 2: was like, I rebuke the negative words that are coming 36 00:01:59,760 --> 00:02:03,080 Speaker 2: out of your mouth towards your son, towards your relationship. 37 00:02:03,120 --> 00:02:06,680 Speaker 2: I rebuke it in the name of Jesus. And the 38 00:02:06,880 --> 00:02:09,440 Speaker 2: look she gave me, it's like she was so appalled 39 00:02:09,560 --> 00:02:11,720 Speaker 2: by I said that to her, but I meant it 40 00:02:11,919 --> 00:02:15,280 Speaker 2: because you know, that's crazy. What do you think? 41 00:02:17,040 --> 00:02:19,760 Speaker 1: Okay, Well, first of all, you are so sweet, Thank 42 00:02:19,800 --> 00:02:23,200 Speaker 1: you so much for saying God bless you to everyone 43 00:02:23,240 --> 00:02:26,600 Speaker 1: all the listeners, we truly appreciate all those positive vibes. 44 00:02:27,080 --> 00:02:31,600 Speaker 1: Talking about positive vibes, girl, I'm one hundred percent with you. 45 00:02:31,960 --> 00:02:37,720 Speaker 1: Absolutely not a mother, a mother in law should be 46 00:02:37,760 --> 00:02:41,120 Speaker 1: speaking words of life to you and about her son. 47 00:02:41,800 --> 00:02:45,160 Speaker 1: And yeah, I completely agree with you. I would have 48 00:02:45,160 --> 00:02:48,360 Speaker 1: done the exact thing, same exact thing. I would have 49 00:02:48,360 --> 00:02:52,600 Speaker 1: done that. So I am with you, and I hope 50 00:02:52,639 --> 00:02:56,000 Speaker 1: that she took you seriously and really thinks about the 51 00:02:56,040 --> 00:02:59,799 Speaker 1: next time she decides to open her mouth in that way, 52 00:03:00,040 --> 00:03:05,160 Speaker 1: because not just because her husband was like that your 53 00:03:05,240 --> 00:03:10,280 Speaker 1: husband's dad, but like it's just not okay, it's just 54 00:03:10,760 --> 00:03:13,080 Speaker 1: I'm honestly like kind of lost for words because I'm like, 55 00:03:13,200 --> 00:03:15,600 Speaker 1: why would a mother speak like that about her own son? 56 00:03:16,280 --> 00:03:18,720 Speaker 1: So I think she just has some things that she 57 00:03:18,880 --> 00:03:23,520 Speaker 1: needs to heal, as we all do. So let's try 58 00:03:23,560 --> 00:03:29,040 Speaker 1: not to be so judgmental maybe and more compassionate because 59 00:03:29,120 --> 00:03:33,000 Speaker 1: her situation was probably very heavy. But yeah, I'm glad 60 00:03:33,040 --> 00:03:35,119 Speaker 1: that you stopped her in her tracks because you have 61 00:03:35,200 --> 00:03:38,240 Speaker 1: to set that from the very beginning, like set the 62 00:03:38,280 --> 00:03:40,360 Speaker 1: tone and be like you know what, no, I'm not 63 00:03:40,800 --> 00:03:43,880 Speaker 1: doing that, and yes we're rebuking that girl. So thank you. 64 00:03:44,040 --> 00:03:46,920 Speaker 1: Thank you for sharing that, and yes, I validate your feelings, 65 00:03:47,000 --> 00:03:49,320 Speaker 1: and I validate what you did because I, like I said, 66 00:03:49,360 --> 00:03:51,480 Speaker 1: I would have done the same thing. And one thing 67 00:03:51,520 --> 00:03:54,200 Speaker 1: I will say, not just because his dad was a cheater, 68 00:03:54,320 --> 00:03:56,360 Speaker 1: does that mean he's going to be a cheater. What 69 00:03:56,400 --> 00:03:58,640 Speaker 1: if he saw that and said, I definitely don't want 70 00:03:58,640 --> 00:04:00,400 Speaker 1: to be like my father. He put my mom through 71 00:04:00,440 --> 00:04:03,160 Speaker 1: so much and it hurts me that my mother went 72 00:04:03,200 --> 00:04:04,960 Speaker 1: through that, and I want to be different. I want 73 00:04:05,000 --> 00:04:07,240 Speaker 1: to be better than my dad. And as children, that 74 00:04:07,400 --> 00:04:11,600 Speaker 1: is what we're supposed to do. I mean, we tend 75 00:04:11,640 --> 00:04:15,000 Speaker 1: to follow in our parents' footsteps to a certain extent, 76 00:04:15,120 --> 00:04:19,039 Speaker 1: but especially now in this era, in this our generation, 77 00:04:19,800 --> 00:04:22,240 Speaker 1: we know a lot about therapy and about self awareness, 78 00:04:22,320 --> 00:04:24,919 Speaker 1: and I think that helps a lot for us to 79 00:04:25,920 --> 00:04:28,840 Speaker 1: be better than our parents and not make the same mistakes. 80 00:04:29,560 --> 00:04:33,760 Speaker 1: So yeah, I mean I have seen cases where that happens, 81 00:04:34,320 --> 00:04:36,919 Speaker 1: but again, I don't know. I have a feeling that 82 00:04:36,920 --> 00:04:39,000 Speaker 1: your husband's different, and I want to believe that he's different. 83 00:04:39,160 --> 00:04:42,400 Speaker 1: So yeah, I'm sending you all the positive vibes for sure, 84 00:04:42,880 --> 00:04:45,359 Speaker 1: And thank you for listening. I'm so grateful and you 85 00:04:45,400 --> 00:04:48,440 Speaker 1: are just so sweet. Thank you I'm glad. I'm glad 86 00:04:48,440 --> 00:04:51,160 Speaker 1: of that, Dear Cheeky's helps not only the questions that 87 00:04:51,200 --> 00:04:52,960 Speaker 1: I'm answering, but all of you. So thank you for 88 00:04:53,000 --> 00:04:58,800 Speaker 1: taking the time to listen. Okay, so now we're moving 89 00:04:58,839 --> 00:05:00,280 Speaker 1: on to Marco Hi. 90 00:05:00,360 --> 00:05:02,680 Speaker 3: Cheeky's first and foremost. I just want to start off 91 00:05:02,720 --> 00:05:05,200 Speaker 3: by saying how much I admire your strength. After everything 92 00:05:05,240 --> 00:05:07,440 Speaker 3: you've been through, You've come out with your head held high, 93 00:05:07,440 --> 00:05:10,440 Speaker 3: and that's truly inspiring. You really are such a strong 94 00:05:10,480 --> 00:05:12,960 Speaker 3: and resilient woman. I've had the pleasure of seeing you 95 00:05:13,000 --> 00:05:15,800 Speaker 3: perform twice, once in Fresno and again in Sacramento at 96 00:05:15,800 --> 00:05:18,200 Speaker 3: the hard Rock and both shows were amazing. I'm so 97 00:05:18,279 --> 00:05:20,920 Speaker 3: proud of you and all that you've accomplished. By the way, girl, 98 00:05:20,920 --> 00:05:22,440 Speaker 3: when I go to the gym, I be listening to 99 00:05:22,480 --> 00:05:24,440 Speaker 3: your concert from Lasia de Mexico. I don't know what 100 00:05:24,440 --> 00:05:26,400 Speaker 3: it is about that performance. I think it's because it's 101 00:05:26,400 --> 00:05:28,440 Speaker 3: a live show, but it gives me hyped and it 102 00:05:28,440 --> 00:05:31,480 Speaker 3: gets me going through my cardio. Okay, so I actually 103 00:05:31,520 --> 00:05:34,400 Speaker 3: have two questions for you. I was actually recently watching 104 00:05:34,440 --> 00:05:36,599 Speaker 3: I Love Jenny, and it made me wonder whatever happened 105 00:05:36,640 --> 00:05:39,960 Speaker 3: to your car Lolo the Corolla. My second question is 106 00:05:40,120 --> 00:05:42,440 Speaker 3: when you guys sold your mom's house and encino, what 107 00:05:42,520 --> 00:05:44,160 Speaker 3: did you guys do with all her stuff? Did you 108 00:05:44,200 --> 00:05:47,360 Speaker 3: put it in the storage unit or Yeah? Just made 109 00:05:47,400 --> 00:05:49,560 Speaker 3: me wonder, like what happened to all her things? I 110 00:05:49,600 --> 00:05:51,240 Speaker 3: feel like I wouldn't ever want to get rid of 111 00:05:51,240 --> 00:05:53,680 Speaker 3: any of that. I love you so much, have a 112 00:05:53,680 --> 00:05:55,440 Speaker 3: great day. May God continue blessing you. 113 00:05:56,839 --> 00:05:59,360 Speaker 1: Marco. Well, thank you so much for going to my shows. 114 00:05:59,400 --> 00:06:02,400 Speaker 1: And I'm so glad that you enjoyed them. And you 115 00:06:02,480 --> 00:06:05,440 Speaker 1: know what, that's crazy that you say that about the 116 00:06:05,480 --> 00:06:08,800 Speaker 1: live concert. It's like, I think my only live concert 117 00:06:08,839 --> 00:06:11,200 Speaker 1: that I recorded, I need to do more of that. 118 00:06:11,600 --> 00:06:13,760 Speaker 1: It's one of my favorites. I had so much fun 119 00:06:13,800 --> 00:06:17,280 Speaker 1: at that show in Illunario. So thank you for listening. Okay, 120 00:06:17,320 --> 00:06:19,800 Speaker 1: keep the streams up for me, boy, but thank you 121 00:06:19,839 --> 00:06:25,360 Speaker 1: so much. And now pertaining to your questions. Okay, So 122 00:06:25,440 --> 00:06:29,120 Speaker 1: Lola the Corolla, I'll be real honest. Toyota gave me 123 00:06:29,160 --> 00:06:31,240 Speaker 1: and let me borrow. Actually they didn't give it to me. 124 00:06:31,240 --> 00:06:33,800 Speaker 1: They let me borrow Lola the Corolla. I named her 125 00:06:33,800 --> 00:06:38,040 Speaker 1: Lola Corolla, but they how it works is a brand 126 00:06:38,120 --> 00:06:40,080 Speaker 1: comes and says, hey, I just want you to drive 127 00:06:40,120 --> 00:06:43,359 Speaker 1: this car, and you know, will help you with the 128 00:06:43,360 --> 00:06:45,119 Speaker 1: show sort of thing. So that's kind of what happened, 129 00:06:45,200 --> 00:06:48,400 Speaker 1: especially because I was starting off then. So Toyota just 130 00:06:48,480 --> 00:06:51,200 Speaker 1: let me borrow the car for like six months and 131 00:06:51,360 --> 00:06:53,400 Speaker 1: everything was taken care of, which is really really cool. 132 00:06:53,400 --> 00:06:55,800 Speaker 1: But I had to give her back after six months. 133 00:06:56,200 --> 00:06:58,440 Speaker 1: But honestly, I had a lot of fun in that car. 134 00:06:58,640 --> 00:07:01,280 Speaker 1: It was so nice to like drive. I think I 135 00:07:01,360 --> 00:07:04,560 Speaker 1: want to get myself one, either that or a Maxima. Anyway, 136 00:07:04,920 --> 00:07:07,080 Speaker 1: So that's what happened with Lola the Corolla, and then 137 00:07:07,160 --> 00:07:10,960 Speaker 1: with my mom's stuff. Okay, so I have some of it. 138 00:07:11,960 --> 00:07:14,360 Speaker 1: My sister Jackie has a lot of it in her house. 139 00:07:16,040 --> 00:07:18,320 Speaker 1: We all kind of just kept a few things, and 140 00:07:18,560 --> 00:07:20,720 Speaker 1: a lot of it is still in storage. We are 141 00:07:20,880 --> 00:07:22,600 Speaker 1: really trying to figure out what we're going to do 142 00:07:22,640 --> 00:07:25,160 Speaker 1: with it, because we don't want it just to stay 143 00:07:25,160 --> 00:07:27,640 Speaker 1: there and collect us. We are thinking of donating it. 144 00:07:27,680 --> 00:07:30,440 Speaker 1: I don't feel right selling it, so we just had 145 00:07:30,680 --> 00:07:33,240 Speaker 1: a conversation about that a few months ago. So I 146 00:07:33,280 --> 00:07:35,920 Speaker 1: think what we're going to do is probably see if 147 00:07:35,920 --> 00:07:38,040 Speaker 1: my grandma wants some of it. Some of the family 148 00:07:38,080 --> 00:07:41,120 Speaker 1: first and then just probably donate the rest. And I 149 00:07:41,160 --> 00:07:44,320 Speaker 1: know that sounds weird, but my mom never wanted us 150 00:07:44,400 --> 00:07:48,880 Speaker 1: to hold on to materialistic things, so it took us 151 00:07:48,880 --> 00:07:50,280 Speaker 1: a long time to get rid of her stuff, the 152 00:07:50,320 --> 00:07:52,720 Speaker 1: stuff that, like we know she loves, like her desk 153 00:07:52,960 --> 00:07:56,200 Speaker 1: that is actually in my sister's bedroom. But she also 154 00:07:56,480 --> 00:07:58,600 Speaker 1: is going to move and she wants new stuff, and 155 00:07:58,680 --> 00:08:01,800 Speaker 1: I think that she should shouldn't hold on to everything 156 00:08:01,960 --> 00:08:05,360 Speaker 1: just because it was mom's, you know. So yeah, that's 157 00:08:05,520 --> 00:08:08,160 Speaker 1: that's been tough. We held onto it for a long 158 00:08:08,280 --> 00:08:12,720 Speaker 1: time because obviously we had sentimental connection to it, like 159 00:08:12,800 --> 00:08:16,520 Speaker 1: you know, it has a lot of sentimental value. But yeah, 160 00:08:16,600 --> 00:08:19,400 Speaker 1: that's kind of where we're at. And thank you for asking, 161 00:08:19,640 --> 00:08:22,400 Speaker 1: because there are things that I'm like, I wish we 162 00:08:22,440 --> 00:08:24,600 Speaker 1: would have kept, but we are keeping some stuff from 163 00:08:24,600 --> 00:08:26,760 Speaker 1: my mom's museum, so be excited for that, like some 164 00:08:26,880 --> 00:08:28,960 Speaker 1: really cool stuff. So you guys will be able to 165 00:08:28,960 --> 00:08:31,040 Speaker 1: see that soon. But thank you, Marko. I'm sending you 166 00:08:31,040 --> 00:08:33,080 Speaker 1: a big hiss. I can't wait to be on stage 167 00:08:33,120 --> 00:08:35,440 Speaker 1: and hopefully see you again. Thank you so much for 168 00:08:35,480 --> 00:08:46,360 Speaker 1: your question. Okay, guys, last question comes from Samantha. 169 00:08:45,800 --> 00:08:48,640 Speaker 4: Heija Geez I don't know how to put it. I 170 00:08:48,800 --> 00:08:55,520 Speaker 4: lost my mom's tipper first. I miscarried March twelfth. My 171 00:08:55,720 --> 00:09:01,400 Speaker 4: birthday is on November nineteen, my mom's days December twelve. 172 00:09:02,400 --> 00:09:07,440 Speaker 4: Holidays are couging up, and I feel very disconnected with 173 00:09:07,640 --> 00:09:13,200 Speaker 4: life itself. I feel disconnected from blood. My relationship with 174 00:09:13,240 --> 00:09:16,040 Speaker 4: my mom was very great. It was very close to 175 00:09:16,080 --> 00:09:20,280 Speaker 4: my mom. I'm the oldest out of it's just being 176 00:09:20,400 --> 00:09:24,480 Speaker 4: my brother. Can I just get some advice how to 177 00:09:24,559 --> 00:09:28,200 Speaker 4: do it? But how to with having two losses in 178 00:09:28,240 --> 00:09:28,600 Speaker 4: a year. 179 00:09:30,120 --> 00:09:34,679 Speaker 1: Oh my goodness, Samantha, this year has been tough. So 180 00:09:34,920 --> 00:09:39,520 Speaker 1: I get it, and I can't even imagine like experiencing 181 00:09:39,640 --> 00:09:42,600 Speaker 1: everything you experienced this year. And I'm so sorry. I'm 182 00:09:42,640 --> 00:09:46,200 Speaker 1: sorry that you're feeling this way and that you're going 183 00:09:46,200 --> 00:09:49,560 Speaker 1: through this. I'm sending you, honestly, like the biggest virtual 184 00:09:49,640 --> 00:09:52,840 Speaker 1: hug from the bottom of my heart hearing you. I 185 00:09:52,880 --> 00:09:56,480 Speaker 1: can feel the pain that you're in and all I 186 00:09:56,480 --> 00:09:58,319 Speaker 1: can really tell you, mam is you have to take 187 00:09:58,360 --> 00:10:02,320 Speaker 1: deep breaths and you have to just understand that this 188 00:10:02,520 --> 00:10:06,560 Speaker 1: pain is temporary or although it feels right now that 189 00:10:06,600 --> 00:10:10,360 Speaker 1: it's never going to end. I know that I've been there, 190 00:10:10,679 --> 00:10:13,080 Speaker 1: and I was like that for two years after my 191 00:10:13,120 --> 00:10:16,240 Speaker 1: mom passed. I was angry, I was upset. My relationship 192 00:10:16,280 --> 00:10:19,840 Speaker 1: with God was in and out, you know. So I 193 00:10:19,880 --> 00:10:24,640 Speaker 1: get it, and I think God understands, and you just 194 00:10:24,679 --> 00:10:28,800 Speaker 1: have to make sure not to go the other way completely, 195 00:10:29,520 --> 00:10:32,800 Speaker 1: and I mean to the dark side, because it's a 196 00:10:32,880 --> 00:10:35,079 Speaker 1: choice every single day of waking up, and I think 197 00:10:35,080 --> 00:10:37,080 Speaker 1: you just have to take it day by day. Just 198 00:10:37,120 --> 00:10:39,319 Speaker 1: wake up and just say, Okay, I'm not feeling good today. 199 00:10:39,920 --> 00:10:43,200 Speaker 1: I would literally do this every morning. Put your hand 200 00:10:43,280 --> 00:10:46,480 Speaker 1: over your heart and just say, God, I have no words, 201 00:10:46,520 --> 00:10:48,880 Speaker 1: I'm upset, I'm sad. Whatever it is that you're feeling, 202 00:10:48,960 --> 00:10:51,520 Speaker 1: be like, please, but I just want to feel better. 203 00:10:51,640 --> 00:10:53,719 Speaker 1: Let me have a better day today and take it 204 00:10:53,800 --> 00:10:57,840 Speaker 1: day by day. Don't worry about tomorrow. Like just day 205 00:10:57,920 --> 00:11:01,320 Speaker 1: by day. Take deep breaths, yell if you need to yell, 206 00:11:01,520 --> 00:11:04,280 Speaker 1: cry if you need to cry, and if you want 207 00:11:04,320 --> 00:11:07,240 Speaker 1: to smile, do it. Put on a song that reminds 208 00:11:07,280 --> 00:11:09,959 Speaker 1: you of your mom, that makes you dance, that makes 209 00:11:09,960 --> 00:11:13,600 Speaker 1: you feel good and alive because you're still here for 210 00:11:13,640 --> 00:11:16,280 Speaker 1: a reason. And I know your baby is in heaven, 211 00:11:16,400 --> 00:11:19,280 Speaker 1: and I know what that feels. Like because I had 212 00:11:19,280 --> 00:11:25,640 Speaker 1: my miscarriage last year, and that feeling is it's hard 213 00:11:25,679 --> 00:11:28,400 Speaker 1: to explain when you've had something in your body or 214 00:11:28,440 --> 00:11:30,880 Speaker 1: almost had something your body in my case because it 215 00:11:30,960 --> 00:11:33,800 Speaker 1: was very early on, but all the excitement and the 216 00:11:33,960 --> 00:11:36,640 Speaker 1: enthusiasm and then just for it to be gone, you're like, 217 00:11:36,760 --> 00:11:38,880 Speaker 1: what is going on? And why is this happening? You 218 00:11:39,000 --> 00:11:42,200 Speaker 1: question it and that's normal, But just know that you 219 00:11:42,240 --> 00:11:44,920 Speaker 1: have a little angel, and that little angels with your mommy, 220 00:11:45,160 --> 00:11:48,960 Speaker 1: and they're together and they're watching over you. They're in 221 00:11:49,000 --> 00:11:52,480 Speaker 1: a very very happy, peaceful place. And that's what makes 222 00:11:52,520 --> 00:11:56,280 Speaker 1: me feel so much better is knowing that they're there 223 00:11:56,320 --> 00:11:58,400 Speaker 1: and they're watching over me and they're helping me my 224 00:11:58,480 --> 00:12:02,760 Speaker 1: mom you know, and my baby. So I feel you 225 00:12:03,960 --> 00:12:07,000 Speaker 1: just take it day by day and be patient with yourself. 226 00:12:07,920 --> 00:12:13,200 Speaker 1: Don't rush into anything. Don't get you know, discouraged with yourself, 227 00:12:13,200 --> 00:12:14,640 Speaker 1: because there are days when you're like, why can I 228 00:12:14,679 --> 00:12:16,360 Speaker 1: get out of this funk? Like I get it? Like, 229 00:12:16,400 --> 00:12:19,280 Speaker 1: you just have to just know that it will get easier. 230 00:12:19,360 --> 00:12:21,320 Speaker 1: It will never get easy, but it will get easier. 231 00:12:21,360 --> 00:12:24,640 Speaker 1: Little by little. You'll learn to live with this. But 232 00:12:24,720 --> 00:12:27,319 Speaker 1: you also have a lot to celebrate and I think 233 00:12:27,360 --> 00:12:31,560 Speaker 1: your mom would want that. And I don't know why 234 00:12:31,600 --> 00:12:35,920 Speaker 1: God does things sometimes, but I know that there's always 235 00:12:36,679 --> 00:12:39,080 Speaker 1: a better tomorrow for it, if that makes sense. And 236 00:12:39,120 --> 00:12:41,200 Speaker 1: it takes time to get there, but you have to 237 00:12:41,320 --> 00:12:44,880 Speaker 1: lead by faith, and you cannot lose your faith. Go 238 00:12:44,960 --> 00:12:48,880 Speaker 1: to church, go somewhere or where you feel like the 239 00:12:48,920 --> 00:12:51,120 Speaker 1: presence of God. And even if you're just gonna sit 240 00:12:51,160 --> 00:12:54,000 Speaker 1: there and not do anything in you're upset, as long 241 00:12:54,040 --> 00:12:56,880 Speaker 1: as you're there, little by little will get easier and better. 242 00:12:57,280 --> 00:12:59,000 Speaker 1: I know I said a lot, but it's just there's 243 00:12:59,000 --> 00:13:01,040 Speaker 1: so many different things that are going through my mind 244 00:13:01,120 --> 00:13:03,600 Speaker 1: right now in regards to this because I feel you 245 00:13:04,440 --> 00:13:06,600 Speaker 1: and I'm sending you a big hug and a lot 246 00:13:06,720 --> 00:13:10,679 Speaker 1: of positive vibes and healing vibes, and I promise you 247 00:13:11,600 --> 00:13:17,280 Speaker 1: it will get better. Just be patient and trust the process. Okay, healing, 248 00:13:18,720 --> 00:13:22,360 Speaker 1: it's a lifetime thing and it's not linear, and it's 249 00:13:22,440 --> 00:13:25,040 Speaker 1: just every day it's different, So just take it seriously, 250 00:13:25,080 --> 00:13:27,200 Speaker 1: take it day by day. I'm sending you a big hug, 251 00:13:27,240 --> 00:13:31,199 Speaker 1: Samantha Pharial like I'm sending you a big hug. It's 252 00:13:31,200 --> 00:13:33,760 Speaker 1: gonna be okay. I promise you it will get better. 253 00:13:34,840 --> 00:13:38,360 Speaker 1: Thank you guys so much again for taking the time 254 00:13:38,400 --> 00:13:41,400 Speaker 1: to leave your questions, for trusting me to give you 255 00:13:41,400 --> 00:13:45,880 Speaker 1: guys advice. 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