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Speaker 1: what we're doing today? Yeah? Okay. So the word of
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Speaker 1: gonna give him his appreciation. Give later in the back.
Speaker 1: Uh yeah. Um. The word of the day is idolatry.
Speaker 1: And idolatry is extreme admiration, love, or reverence for something
Speaker 1: or someone, and reverence is a deep respect for something
Speaker 1: or someone. And a possible example is worshiping an idol
Speaker 1: or a person other than God. So you said idolatry
Speaker 1: is or somebody, Well, you have no idolize somebody because
Speaker 1: you know, technically, to most people, God is supposed to
Speaker 1: be the highest almighty. So when you put somebody on
Speaker 1: a pedestal and idolize them as much as you would
Speaker 1: idolize this said God person, then technically that is idolatry. Okay,
Speaker 1: So what's some examples of I guess some people that
Speaker 1: people idolize. John Lennon has beets really idolatrized, Cardi B
Speaker 1: got him. All these big pop stars, rap stars, they
Speaker 1: all have fans out are just crazily they dedicate their
Speaker 1: hold life to them. Sometimes people just your own life too,
Speaker 1: should your parents. So speaking of that parents and idolizing
Speaker 1: that brings me to my sub word of this discussion,
Speaker 1: which is the Oedipus complex. And who don't know? Okay,
Speaker 1: So for those of you guys who don't know, the
Speaker 1: Oedipus complex is the textbook definition is the obsessive attachment
Speaker 1: of a child to the parents of an opposite sex
Speaker 1: while showing envious and aggressive behavior towards the parent of
Speaker 1: the same sex. So, just to break it down even
Speaker 1: further in Layman's terms, UM, I know y'all have probably
Speaker 1: seen this, maybe in person or like in like a
Speaker 1: movie or some ship where like the daughter matter of
Speaker 1: fact eaves by you. Has everybody seen he's by you?
Speaker 1: You remember how the oldest girl was like this with
Speaker 1: um Martin fish not Martin Fishburn, but yeah, her dad. Yeah,
Speaker 1: And it was like it was it was so they
Speaker 1: were so close until it was weird, like not trying
Speaker 1: to be on a d ship, but it was like damn,
Speaker 1: you would think like they were fucking like they had
Speaker 1: some ship going on with them, Like, but she was
Speaker 1: so angry with her mother. It was almost kind of
Speaker 1: like she hated her mother because she wanted her father
Speaker 1: type ship. And that's like what happens like with the
Speaker 1: Oedipus complex or whatever, And it happens a lot with
Speaker 1: like the male child too, because the male child is
Speaker 1: so close and involved with the mother. Just like shout
Speaker 1: out the spiritual word. They had to post the other
Speaker 1: day where they were showing like text message threads, and
Speaker 1: in the threads, the guy was going back and forth
Speaker 1: with this girl that he had just started dating, and
Speaker 1: he asked her something and she taught him like he
Speaker 1: was being ridiculous or some ship, and he was like,
Speaker 1: fuck you bitch. I don't need any of you hos
Speaker 1: as long as I got my mama, Like like, yeah,
Speaker 1: it's like some crazy ship. So like, I don't know
Speaker 1: if y'all have ever personally experienced or seeing it, but
Speaker 1: that's like my prime example of idolatry, like when the
Speaker 1: adepants complex sets in. So I guess in the conversation
Speaker 1: is like when when is idolatry okay? But when is
Speaker 1: it not okay? Like what do you mean safe safely?
Speaker 1: It's just like you look up to athlete, a rapper
Speaker 1: or whatever the case is. It can be cool, but
Speaker 1: if you're trying to model yourself after them, and let's
Speaker 1: say they going to the path or do some bullshit,
Speaker 1: like people be saying they're not role models, right, so
Speaker 1: they don't make me a role model. Ain't perfect, but
Speaker 1: this person idolizes this person, So whether they're doing good,
Speaker 1: they're trying to do good like them, or whether they're
Speaker 1: doing some messed up stuff, they're trying to do some
Speaker 1: missed up stuff like that. That's when idolatry can go bad.
Speaker 1: Right when you're idolizing and trying to model yourself after
Speaker 1: somebody that's leaning you down a bad path, then the
Speaker 1: idolatry is bad. But I feel like in order for
Speaker 1: and this is just my personal opinion, in order for
Speaker 1: somebody to idolatry somebody, they have to have some sort
Speaker 1: of either insecurity or social disconnect that will allow them
Speaker 1: to not want to be themselves and to model their
Speaker 1: entire life after another person other than kids kissable. That's
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Yeah, that's what I'm saying. But get
Speaker 1: the pass people that try to permanently emulate another person.
Speaker 1: That's like a problem for me. There have been some
Speaker 1: people that go as far as getting plastic surgery to
Speaker 1: look like some of these people, like Kim Kardashian is
Speaker 1: one of the people that are like, they getting surgery
Speaker 1: to look like her. So it goes beyond trying to
Speaker 1: be a fan of somebody, you want to be actually
Speaker 1: be this person. Yeah, and that's something is not clicking upstairs.
Speaker 1: So so far far audience or for the audience, how
Speaker 1: close is then there might be a thin line. How
Speaker 1: close is idolatry to just Dick riding right there? There's
Speaker 1: right there, right there all the time, right there, all
Speaker 1: the time. I feel like idolatry and did writing two
Speaker 1: different things, because when you're Dick writing, you're just like,
Speaker 1: you're just trying to get close to this person and
Speaker 1: you want to get this parts some props. Idolatry means
Speaker 1: you want to assume this person's identity. If somebody was trying,
Speaker 1: if somebody cut their hair, like Bank got go to
Speaker 1: you dressed like like Bank legal, that's idolatry. But it
Speaker 1: broke it up. I thought I was just just it's
Speaker 1: celebrity work. That's what we're gonna put it there. That's
Speaker 1: what we're gonna put it. That's what I'm saying. I
Speaker 1: was just gonna say. Idolatry is just like the admiration
Speaker 1: for somebody you don't necessarily want to have to be
Speaker 1: somebody talking. Idolatry is extreme though, yeah, but a dream admiration,
Speaker 1: Like for example, it's a lot of people that like
Speaker 1: have extreme admimiration for Obama. People are not trying to
Speaker 1: be Obama. But if they do, they love this man exactly. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's different though. That's why I was being quiet because
Speaker 1: it's like, yeah, it's two different things. A dollar try
Speaker 1: could immulate deep right, exactly true, But I could idolize
Speaker 1: a person in a way that makes me a better
Speaker 1: person to respect. That's what I'm saying, in a respectable
Speaker 1: way where it's like I'm gonna get on my ship
Speaker 1: like so and so, I'm gonna get on my ship.
Speaker 1: They'b doing this, They'll be doing that to get on
Speaker 1: my show. Admiration. Yeah, it's still it's the same family again,
Speaker 1: but that's not extreme though. If you if you're just
Speaker 1: saying this person is inspiring me to want to do
Speaker 1: more for myself, what's admiration? What what is the admiration?
Speaker 1: It's kind of like, did just look like whatever she
Speaker 1: did two weeks? It's like being very fond of somebody admiration,
Speaker 1: But idolizing is like you look up to It's kind
Speaker 1: of like what people do that. For example, if you
Speaker 1: have like a celebrity that comes from your neighborhood and
Speaker 1: you want to do the same ship that they're doing,
Speaker 1: and then this person then put a blueprint out there,
Speaker 1: like I didn't want to this school. I didn't did this.
Speaker 1: I don't want to beat you, but I want to
Speaker 1: beat where you are. Yeah. Yeah, this didn't say you
Speaker 1: have to beat somebody. I don't don't say I want
Speaker 1: to be this person. I just have averations. I feel
Speaker 1: like y'all just added it's an extreme admiration, love or
Speaker 1: reverence of someone or something that's deep respect, deep respect
Speaker 1: for someone or what or what. Worshiping an idol or
Speaker 1: person other than God. The just say worshiping, and they
Speaker 1: don't mean I want to be that person if you worship.
Speaker 1: But I'm just saying you'll kill yourself about that. Worship
Speaker 1: people worshiper sit there and go bout worshiping Beyonce because
Speaker 1: I ain't trying to kill himself over Beyonce. I think
Speaker 1: it's some people that stuff about you did kill themselves.
Speaker 1: You don't think people to worship no other person? No,
Speaker 1: I don't know people. Do people worship their parents? I
Speaker 1: want people worship their parents. Okay. Worship is like on
Speaker 1: your knees, worship your God. You know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: like praying to the person all you believe. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: that ain't going on, but is it probably is going on.
Speaker 1: That's an extreme worship. I have extreme admiration. What's admiration?
Speaker 1: Version have extreme admiration for my wife's healthy. So but
Speaker 1: I don't worship her. No, No, extreme admiration and marriage
Speaker 1: is a key component of longevity. So but I'm saying
Speaker 1: I don't want to beat her neither. We never said
Speaker 1: you wanted to be herd. But that what y'all said,
Speaker 1: dollars is that's what y'all just dollar you know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying. Oh God, I don't know if y'all got
Speaker 1: the word right. Man, I feel like I can't be teaching.
Speaker 1: Y'all don't know you send the definition. I said the word,
Speaker 1: so you're double check it, right. I ain't think I
Speaker 1: ain't seen that worshiping God. But if you were doing
Speaker 1: the words, because the worst is your job, if you
Speaker 1: were doing the words, you will never have to say
Speaker 1: that again. I'm just saying. But at the end of
Speaker 1: the day, we won't get what. We'll talk about this
Speaker 1: because I said the word lading life. So if you
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna do this, is it okay to have okay?
Speaker 1: Him in the grapes? We gotta cut out breaking it down.
Speaker 1: Is it okay to have an idol like a young
Speaker 1: kid might idolize Lebron. Yes, I think that that's positive.
Speaker 1: Like when does that? Was my next question? When does
Speaker 1: it become not healthy? And when did you when you
Speaker 1: become when you start stalking this person, when you try
Speaker 1: to like figure out where this person is, every goddamn dead,
Speaker 1: that's eminem and stand just to say that that's exactly
Speaker 1: what about weirdo? That ship went too far? Words? That's
Speaker 1: the word. What's the word word? The word word is
Speaker 1: some ship that Dick riding. Y'all making up ship. But
Speaker 1: this is what I'm saying. He wasn't that. I feel like,
Speaker 1: I feel like you actually be with that. But he
Speaker 1: was that one. I don't think that's dick right man.
Speaker 1: That man was obsessed. That's what he was gonna ride
Speaker 1: all coundar gonna riding. Dick riding is a low fat
Speaker 1: version of idolizing. Nah the fat I think dick riding
Speaker 1: it's like, yeah, you don't check, you get exactly if
Speaker 1: I he on this person. Yes, Dick Rogers can ride
Speaker 1: innthing where he's dedicated to idolizing person. It's stuck on
Speaker 1: there just one nigger? What is faith drake, fake countdar
Speaker 1: fake dirt right phones, you're not let make a trolleying
Speaker 1: and get bad you that movies all the time. I
Speaker 1: don't even want to be my gay. That's the fat
Speaker 1: party till the shoes. Everything you get pay for that.
Speaker 1: Kim Kardashian got a couple of clones out here that
Speaker 1: they pay it. She probably like, get on my No,
Speaker 1: they pay people for that in movies. You have different,
Speaker 1: that's movie. That's I'm just saying it's frolent. I don't
Speaker 1: think that that's big riding. You choosing to life? No,
Speaker 1: you not. They still can't choose to live that life.
Speaker 1: If somebody get pay for time each and every time,
Speaker 1: if each and every time we came to say Kodak
Speaker 1: started to be a little more like you will, Dick
Speaker 1: did because he know me, my man, my man, that didn't.
Speaker 1: But if Kode was somewhere did different. Somebody that you
Speaker 1: don't know, you've been wronging full times. I've been counted
Speaker 1: a chat a dick rider. Niggas get called dick riders
Speaker 1: because other people that are around them feel like you
Speaker 1: dick riding Nick, and you don't even know him. Am
Speaker 1: I right and wrong? But giving the nigga d day
Speaker 1: they call it anything did right? Getting the props to run? Yeah,
Speaker 1: they called me a right all the time. That's what
Speaker 1: I'm saying, So you can't say what. What I'm saying
Speaker 1: is that idolize, idol, idolatry, and dick Ride to me
Speaker 1: is not the same, not in the same family that
Speaker 1: I feel like it to me because I feel like
Speaker 1: a dick Rider is a person that just like she said,
Speaker 1: she changed, he changing the fat. But somebody that idolatry
Speaker 1: and of dick ring, please please, I feel like somebody
Speaker 1: idolize the person. You just idolizing that person. Yeah, you're
Speaker 1: stuck on this now. If you see a nigga trying
Speaker 1: to be full five different niggas, he's a Dick Rider
Speaker 1: person though, but idolize it doesn't have time to focus
Speaker 1: on anything else. I don't know. That's what I'm kind
Speaker 1: of quout on this subject because I don't know, but
Speaker 1: I feel like, I mean, personally, if if a person
Speaker 1: is idolizing the person, they want to be that person.
Speaker 1: If a nigga is Dick Ryan, he want to be whatever. Papa. Yes,
Speaker 1: I feel like He may be a dedicated Nick Rowder.
Speaker 1: He just may have this one person that he wanted.
Speaker 1: Dick right, really really so much, are really so much
Speaker 1: of a fan of this person? This is who I
Speaker 1: want to model my life half You got that three? Yeah?
Speaker 1: What is it? Person to get noticed approval? Approval from
Speaker 1: that person, approval that different person idolizes somebody necessarily meet
Speaker 1: that person rights stuck on you, like for the rest
Speaker 1: of my life. Dick Riders don't even like you, just
Speaker 1: want to be around you to get your cloud off
Speaker 1: of you. And you know what I'm saying, just to
Speaker 1: be a want of use your idolizes you. Was probably
Speaker 1: too nervous to even be in your presence. But they
Speaker 1: just wanna They just wanna be every aspect of your life.
Speaker 1: I look, I look at like you think talking about
Speaker 1: idolatry like safe athletes for example, right it's probably doing
Speaker 1: it in hospital tattoo. So it's somebody in high school
Speaker 1: right now. I probably look up to Lebron James that
Speaker 1: probably with that nigga number. He probably studied all this
Speaker 1: nigga moves. That's not Dick. Yeah, I don't think that's
Speaker 1: Dick Rush, that's he. That's that's what they're gonna say.
Speaker 1: In the so so so y'all with Dick Ryan Joy, No,
Speaker 1: that's what That's what Gibody somebody was in the hood is.
Speaker 1: You can say that your joy he was talking like joy,
Speaker 1: walking like joy like he was doing the whole joy. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but join embraced him though, right, proper thing is he idolized.
Speaker 1: Still that's the proper right. But in the hood, you
Speaker 1: know that's true. Y'all know that's the truth. I'm not
Speaker 1: saying this right, y'all, just know that certain ship. Don't
Speaker 1: you your body look good? You on the dick like anything.
Speaker 1: I'm saying that they're not playing what they're not playing
Speaker 1: in the hood. If you give anybody any type of endearment,
Speaker 1: natural haters, Yeah, yeah, so we just hating on each other.
Speaker 1: That's what it is. You got some new shoes, Dick, right,
Speaker 1: like bro I like him just about his shoes because
Speaker 1: I just said, it's you nice a studio with brod
Speaker 1: doing even though this nigger can take you up out there.
Speaker 1: You're on the studio of brot Ryan is dicking ship
Speaker 1: and we're over here, man, Wait what you're doing. That's
Speaker 1: how they think I'm not saying, come on and be
Speaker 1: broking up with us. Yeah, yeah, don't get no money food,
Speaker 1: but you want to be somebody the nerve. I feel
Speaker 1: like you know when the nigga color, Yeah you definitely
Speaker 1: you know the nigga pulling that yankee, that mother pulling
Speaker 1: im prominence to the well I got big. So that's
Speaker 1: a clear example of Michael Jordan and um kovid idolatree right,
Speaker 1: like not no funny jokes and ship. That's that's what
Speaker 1: that is. Whoever, I don't know Beyonce and Chloe. I
Speaker 1: guess you could say that that's a good one. My
Speaker 1: idol and I got to do my idol did business
Speaker 1: with her and idolize. Yeah, because Kanye spoke, he really
Speaker 1: really talking about but yeah, he he pulling out too
Speaker 1: much of his own ship. Yeah, he pulling out he said,
Speaker 1: too many trends to be a deck, right, like when
Speaker 1: he went around jay Z. Even though idolize you, I'm
Speaker 1: still hipping you. I'm still breaking down barriers with my
Speaker 1: ideals with you, like you don't see, Like we've seen
Speaker 1: different documentaries and with with j were like man Snicker
Speaker 1: is a genius. Like yeah, so Kanye, he brings something
Speaker 1: to the table that I can't be on your deck
Speaker 1: when I know what to do. Yeah, if the nigga
Speaker 1: gives you props, it's impossible for you to be on
Speaker 1: his dick if he if he, if he not knowledges
Speaker 1: and respect your point of view and whatever it is
Speaker 1: that you are bringing to the table. That's not that's
Speaker 1: not reverence for jay Z. But he came in with
Speaker 1: his own ship day Lane. It's the wrong words. Pause
Speaker 1: a dollar tree. So what I want to talk more
Speaker 1: about this Oedipus complex though, because this is like a uh,
Speaker 1: this is like a big thing, especially like recently, like
Speaker 1: on Instagram and Twitter. So what do you like? How
Speaker 1: do y'all feel about that? And do y'all know anybody
Speaker 1: that acts like that? Because I know I do. I
Speaker 1: think it naturally happens, though I think naturally. Oh, you know,
Speaker 1: a woman, a girl gravitation towards their father. It's a
Speaker 1: certain love they can get from their father that you
Speaker 1: can't get from the same. Yeah, I'm I love my
Speaker 1: daddy too, but I'm not like with like. But who
Speaker 1: are we to say? Well, no, I mean everybody everybody
Speaker 1: is first as they love different. Then what is it
Speaker 1: when um they say, like for a little girl, her
Speaker 1: first love should be her man, I mean should be
Speaker 1: her dad. The first love from a man should be
Speaker 1: her dad and her dash a teacher, like you know
Speaker 1: how a man is supposed to love you. Such the woman,
Speaker 1: the little girl first person she's in love with is
Speaker 1: normally her dad because the dad normally is the person
Speaker 1: that shows her and how to mode the type of
Speaker 1: man she should have. So what is that mm hmm,
Speaker 1: is that I've never really grasped the whole concept of
Speaker 1: love versus and love, so Y'll have to talk. I
Speaker 1: don't know love. So when you when you love somebody,
Speaker 1: that means that you care for them. Okay, So here's
Speaker 1: the thing with with love and being in love. So
Speaker 1: when you love somebody, it's like that means that you
Speaker 1: care for them, That means that you want to see
Speaker 1: the best for them. That means that you know, like
Speaker 1: nine times i'd attend, you're probably not going to do
Speaker 1: anything to cross them, my harm them. But when you're
Speaker 1: in love with somebody, that's when those intense emotions come in.
Speaker 1: And when you're in love with somebody, that's when it
Speaker 1: opens the door for those in love feelings to turn
Speaker 1: to envy and hate depending on which direction the relationship goes. Okay,
Speaker 1: you explain, but that so you can't so you can
Speaker 1: be in love with a family member or I thought
Speaker 1: in love was relationships, it loves, That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: Most primarily in love has to do with relationships and
Speaker 1: people that you're romantically involved in. And that's why. But
Speaker 1: love can't be with your parents. It should it shouldn't be.
Speaker 1: That's why I say I never understood love. Love to me,
Speaker 1: I don't. It's a different I'm gonna just say like,
Speaker 1: I don't know if it's proper or not, but for me,
Speaker 1: I am in the highest love I could ever be
Speaker 1: with my mom and my daughter. So however you want
Speaker 1: to put that wherever, I'm in love with my daughter,
Speaker 1: anything that goes on, I'm completely tired of. I don't
Speaker 1: feel I feel like we're just using the word and
Speaker 1: I feel like in love become with intimacy. I feel
Speaker 1: like unconditional love is what you're saying. However, the highest
Speaker 1: love whatever, the highest love for your parents and your
Speaker 1: for your mother and your daughter, and I feel like
Speaker 1: to be in love you have to be intimate. We
Speaker 1: just said that, like five minutes. That's what they just said.
Speaker 1: And I just can't understand what. I don't really I
Speaker 1: just be blocking Jay now. It sounded like, but that's
Speaker 1: exactly what she it is. You gotta be you gotta
Speaker 1: be into me to be in love to me, That's
Speaker 1: what and that's why it's so easy for what you
Speaker 1: think love ship to go the Okay, there will be
Speaker 1: nothing what you mean what you mean by that? What
Speaker 1: am my kid? You know? I like that and say
Speaker 1: it again. I feel like you're gonna have to be
Speaker 1: there will be no cheating If that was the case.
Speaker 1: People cheat too much. Is everybody in love every time
Speaker 1: they cheat? You got to think about that. No, no, no,
Speaker 1: no no. I get what you're saying. I get what
Speaker 1: you're saying. You're saying, but just because you being intimate, nothing,
Speaker 1: no mean you're gonna be in love with a person.
Speaker 1: I feel like to be in love, you have to
Speaker 1: be intimate. But every time you was intimate, was you
Speaker 1: in love? No? But you no, no, no, but but
Speaker 1: I ain't never been in love with the motherfucker. I
Speaker 1: wasn't intimate with either. I feel you because I would
Speaker 1: have to give a funk about you in order to
Speaker 1: be intimate with you. Yeah, we're saying, we're saying the
Speaker 1: samething to but she said just a fun yeah exactly,
Speaker 1: but that's still intimate. Yeah. But I'm saying, but I
Speaker 1: ain't in low there but the fun, that's what she's saying.
Speaker 1: But in order to be in love you, you're gonna
Speaker 1: have to know whether or not. Yeah, And that's that's
Speaker 1: where That's where. That's what I was saying. Makes it
Speaker 1: so easy for the in love ship to go left.
Speaker 1: Because when you're intimated, when you're involved, and when you're
Speaker 1: romantically doing stuff with a person and they do something
Speaker 1: that you feel like violates you, that love can turn
Speaker 1: to hate like that. But when you love somebody and
Speaker 1: it's generally not intimate or whatever, then you are able
Speaker 1: to work through your disagreements without it turning into some
Speaker 1: negative ship that would make you want to harm them.
Speaker 1: That's why I just people say in love with the
Speaker 1: puppies and ship. I don't get it. That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: I never love you know the difference between just leaving
Speaker 1: it out of that. I'm just saying, I have somebody, people,
Speaker 1: you're so in love with my puppy, like I would
Speaker 1: think they're not being incident with them. That's true. But okay,
Speaker 1: do you feel like the truth I'm so in love
Speaker 1: I'm saying, I'm that's true. Person can't love you too much? Yeah? Yeah,
Speaker 1: so is that when they love you too much? Is
Speaker 1: that them being in love with you? I think that's
Speaker 1: the man obsessively in love with you, sessive belief. Obsessively
Speaker 1: you know that wouldn't be obsessed with you? Right? Yeah? Now,
Speaker 1: I agree. I just think with somebody too much in
Speaker 1: love with somebody else or something else, it's unhealthy. It's
Speaker 1: not a love of love for theirself. You gotta have
Speaker 1: a balance, Like they say that is cool, But don't
Speaker 1: love somebody else to the point where you ain't, where
Speaker 1: you neglect yourself. You feel like when a person is
Speaker 1: it in love with you, that they love you more
Speaker 1: than they love themselves. I don't understand that a love.
Speaker 1: I can't answer that. Do you feel like when a
Speaker 1: person is in love with you, that they love you
Speaker 1: more than they love themselves? Yes? Is that ever a
Speaker 1: good scenario? Though? So love somebody more than you love yourself? Like,
Speaker 1: what if they hold if they hold you to the
Speaker 1: highest regard. I'm something like would have like between the
Speaker 1: parent and the child. They can't say a parent and
Speaker 1: the child because a parent creative the child. So it's
Speaker 1: like there's no limitation to the love there because like
Speaker 1: I actually I made you, and you know what I'm saying, Like,
Speaker 1: but when you come to like relationships and all that
Speaker 1: other ship, it's like it's a it's a thin line
Speaker 1: that person hold you at though you know this aproach
Speaker 1: and hold you to the high regard. How do they
Speaker 1: higher than you even hold yourself? It's like, shit, you
Speaker 1: help me love me through through You know what I'm
Speaker 1: saying is that's give you're the other person. But if
Speaker 1: I love you, if I love you more than you
Speaker 1: love yourself, then that's a positive thing because like beautiful
Speaker 1: things can come from that because I'm gonna help you learn.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna try to help you learn how to love
Speaker 1: as best as I can. But if I love you
Speaker 1: more than I love me, then that is not okay.
Speaker 1: But wouldn't that be with that same example, wouldn't that
Speaker 1: be the other person? What you like? You just said
Speaker 1: that when the person that says, um, I love you, right,
Speaker 1: I love you more than you love yourself, right, that's
Speaker 1: a good thing because I love you more than you
Speaker 1: love yourself. But for the other person on the other
Speaker 1: on the flip end, they're like, you love me more
Speaker 1: than I love myself. That makes me love myself more. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's what. Me loving you more than you love yourself
Speaker 1: is a beautiful thing because I'm gonna nothing. Only positive
Speaker 1: shape can come from that if it doesn't go too far.
Speaker 1: But me loving you more than I love me, Like,
Speaker 1: that's that's like I'm taking away from me to love
Speaker 1: you more, and that's not that's not a positive thing.
Speaker 1: How does that relate to somebody saying I'll die for you.
Speaker 1: I'm just curious. See that's the same thing, because it's
Speaker 1: like I love more than I love myself. Because you
Speaker 1: if you, if you, if there's nobody in the world
Speaker 1: that you love that you sacrifice your life for, it's
Speaker 1: like you're not like you really love. Like I ain't
Speaker 1: know when the fun up in the seat. Something happened
Speaker 1: to a few people in my life before. I not
Speaker 1: let it happen to me first. Like we've about the wreck,
Speaker 1: we've spend around Spressway. I'm taking my seat that off
Speaker 1: to grab her to get in front of she hit
Speaker 1: her head on the win. She looks ship, I rather
Speaker 1: hit mines, not saying that I love you more than
Speaker 1: but I can't I can't see it happen to you
Speaker 1: when I can't avoid it, and something that I can do.
Speaker 1: But in that same instant, you do love that person
Speaker 1: more than yourself at that time because protector that he'll
Speaker 1: be able to take it, take it better. That's what
Speaker 1: comes with that. Like, So in order to be really
Speaker 1: in love with somebody you and be a real protector,
Speaker 1: you have to love them more than you love yourself.
Speaker 1: Is that is that generally something that only a man
Speaker 1: can do? No? Women? No, But I'm saying since men
Speaker 1: are the natural protectors and are technically supposed to be
Speaker 1: the protectors and all of that, and that scenario probably,
Speaker 1: but a different scenario, the woman might be better equipped
Speaker 1: to handle whatever the situation is that come with it.
Speaker 1: But that's just like giving a car, like if you
Speaker 1: had like a little sister or something. It's just put
Speaker 1: it in the same way, like you have a little
Speaker 1: sister and you jump, I mean, you do exactly what
Speaker 1: he said for your little sister. So it's the same, yeah,
Speaker 1: for sure, Um, but women do it all the time
Speaker 1: for me, And though when they specially is like saying,
Speaker 1: we was talking about a few episodes ago, they if
Speaker 1: you make her look bad and she and she make
Speaker 1: an excuse for you or she takes up for you,
Speaker 1: it ain't that she loving you more. It's it's like
Speaker 1: she loved your image more then she give a funk
Speaker 1: about how she's Yeah, you get what I'm saying. So
Speaker 1: that's the same thing, basically, right and exactly Motherucker's telling
Speaker 1: the undergo true, this niggle is a piece of ship.
Speaker 1: You'd be like not reading it, and you know, hell,
Speaker 1: piece of ship. What are you saying? He may be
Speaker 1: a piece of ship, but not appiece ship to me?
Speaker 1: Nah nah, But I feel like to even being the
Speaker 1: type of relationship that that that that that you have
Speaker 1: to love a person more than you love yourself. Does
Speaker 1: that come to a certain extent you really helped to you?
Speaker 1: Does that come with like marriage? So when you decide
Speaker 1: to marry somebody, it's like both of y'all telling each
Speaker 1: other like, if the time comes, I love you more
Speaker 1: than I love myself because I'm gonna protect you. He said,
Speaker 1: But that was that's in the vows though right to
Speaker 1: death of a well through sitness in the hills. If
Speaker 1: you're gonna part of that, damn y'all give a pouty
Speaker 1: what just now? It wasn't joke. He said in the vow.
Speaker 1: It's so that door's part is in the vows. And
Speaker 1: I was like, if you're all gonna part at death,
Speaker 1: then just come on, we're going. I feel like you
Speaker 1: have to love certain people. I'm sorry. What was saying,
Speaker 1: um about can you get to that point of love
Speaker 1: before marriage? I feel as I think so, Do you
Speaker 1: feel like you already at that love once you decide
Speaker 1: to marry somebody. Well, some people aren't. A lot of
Speaker 1: people ain't. That's a good point. I still love them
Speaker 1: more than what she was saying. You can marry somebody
Speaker 1: and still not be at that level of love that
Speaker 1: you that you there's a lot of people out here
Speaker 1: that are married that I don't really feel. Yeah, it's
Speaker 1: a bucket list thing for some people. That's a whole
Speaker 1: another episode. Love. It is on the bucket list. No marriage, marriage,
Speaker 1: there's just one of those things. Just got to have
Speaker 1: a wedding, you know what I'm saying that though I'm
Speaker 1: saying it's on their bucket list. It ain't. That's why
Speaker 1: sometimes not blaming it on the girls, but sometimes it
Speaker 1: don't work out because it's not because it's forced, right,
Speaker 1: it's a thing they want to experience rather than the
Speaker 1: thing they want to commit to. M interesting perspective. Another
Speaker 1: episode idolatry. That's a good run though, so being uh,
Speaker 1: being transparent to our audience. Is there who who do?
Speaker 1: It's people you're idolized. Yeah, not dick ry, but idolize.
Speaker 1: I have people that I like. I have a few
Speaker 1: people that like I love to death and that you know,
Speaker 1: like when we're talking about the love ship, that I
Speaker 1: feel super strongly about and that I want to protect
Speaker 1: in all of that ship. But as far like idolizing
Speaker 1: the nigga didn't look at I don't know who the
Speaker 1: person was. You didn't look at it. You might not
Speaker 1: a quickly like a Janet Jackson or open. I don't
Speaker 1: know anybody. Like there's nobody that you ever idolized, like
Speaker 1: I thought they were cool, right, but you didn't think word?
Speaker 1: But I did. I didn't, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: I didn't feel like I didn't I felt like I
Speaker 1: appreciated what they were doing and I appreciated like what
Speaker 1: she did. Like take Opra for instance, Like I appreciated
Speaker 1: like what she did and how hard she worked to
Speaker 1: earn the money that she made to be able to
Speaker 1: make the moves that she was making to take care
Speaker 1: of her family, and but it wasn't a situation where
Speaker 1: like I was trying to emulate Oprah. Like, yeah, I
Speaker 1: can say that I've been inspired by men, but I
Speaker 1: ain't never idolized nothing. Not even know my parents. But
Speaker 1: I've had extreme admiration for a lot of people. But
Speaker 1: idol just seemed like a heavy word. Yeah, Like if
Speaker 1: I just want to be you, I ain't never want
Speaker 1: to be Jordan was a superhero. I don't know what
Speaker 1: that mean, but I did think that Nigga was like
Speaker 1: superhuman to like, he's my favorite. He's my favorite, but
Speaker 1: I ain't. I don't want to play right. He's my
Speaker 1: favorite basketball nigga. But I don't want to be you.
Speaker 1: I don't want to talk like you. I don't want
Speaker 1: to be I ain't nether nigga. I wanted to be Yeah,
Speaker 1: I did when I was a kid. I ain't gonna
Speaker 1: lie to y'all. I want to I idolized Lauren Hill
Speaker 1: and Erica, but I do. I swore by them being
Speaker 1: my lesbian parents. I am Lauren Hill's egg and ericabot
Speaker 1: to his body, Like I swear to you, like I
Speaker 1: really really really like everything that they did. When I
Speaker 1: was a kid, I was so into like even how
Speaker 1: I dressed a lot of that, Like I really idolized Erica.
Speaker 1: But I do, like I ain't gonna lie as a kid,
Speaker 1: you know, grown that later trying to be now. I
Speaker 1: mean once I met them, like once I've seen them
Speaker 1: out just like, okay, they dope, Like that's a dope.
Speaker 1: But I ain't still down my phone looking for him now.
Speaker 1: But middle school, high school, yes, I was doing that
Speaker 1: might be healthy at that age, beah, honest, I don't know.
Speaker 1: I can't journey. Whose journey I did in mind is
Speaker 1: definitely after seeing a documentary, and it really opened up
Speaker 1: to that ship for sure, like going from where he
Speaker 1: was back then were growing up in Chicago, chasing that
Speaker 1: ship to who we is now. That ship was inspirational,
Speaker 1: that's the key word. I think it's an inspiration and
Speaker 1: the idol is different. But I think you have to
Speaker 1: have parallel but they're different. Yeah, because sometimes people don't
Speaker 1: have an idolis they they have the idolatry for somebody
Speaker 1: just off the aesthetic. Not there's nothing. It's really surface level,
Speaker 1: like you just want to beat them and beat them,
Speaker 1: just beat them, you feel me. But like when when
Speaker 1: somebody inspires you, that can also be a dollar free.
Speaker 1: But you're right by the journey because you may have
Speaker 1: came from the same spot. You may see some of
Speaker 1: the same traits you you have within them and you say, damn,
Speaker 1: that's me, Like I really I see their journey. So
Speaker 1: if they can do that ship, I can do that
Speaker 1: ship too. That could be a part of it. I
Speaker 1: think that's healthy. But if you just want to be
Speaker 1: somebody to get plast surgey, look like them, walk like
Speaker 1: I'm talking like them, you're damn there like a clone. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: I agree. So what would y'all say to somebody that,
Speaker 1: because this could be a reality, idolizees y'all, Well, everybody
Speaker 1: here might have somebody to idolize it. That would it
Speaker 1: be a family member, a fan, or whatever the cases.
Speaker 1: What would y'all say to them? I would say that, um,
Speaker 1: I really appreciate the level of respect that you have
Speaker 1: to have for somebody to want to idolize them, but
Speaker 1: I would encourage them to just not like my my
Speaker 1: m hm dick, but I would like, I would encourage
Speaker 1: them to take whatever bits and pieces of me that
Speaker 1: led them to that inspiration and incorporate that into themselves
Speaker 1: so that they could be their own person with my
Speaker 1: little bits and pieces, the best version of themselves. Yeah. Me,
Speaker 1: I feel like if a nigga gets any type of
Speaker 1: have any type of admiration, or get any type of
Speaker 1: what you call it inspiration for me, they already know like,
Speaker 1: I ain't a neig to idolize. I'm just a nigga.
Speaker 1: I can learn from a pick up ship from and
Speaker 1: then nigga and got it out. He ain't gotta figure
Speaker 1: it out either, you know what I'm saying. So if
Speaker 1: you if you're watching me, watching my journey, follow me,
Speaker 1: you know like I can't. I can't mimic that a
Speaker 1: nigga can try to change. Nigga can't try to be
Speaker 1: something different, So you can't idolize somebody. It ain't even
Speaker 1: fully all the way in. You get what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: So you've been damn food. I lied me because I'm
Speaker 1: still trying to figure this you that, but we appreciate.
Speaker 1: I hope that that me wanted to figure it out.
Speaker 1: Me showing y'all that I can't do certain things or
Speaker 1: sit here and beyond TV or lose weight or whatever. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: I hope you get inspired by that. But just know,
Speaker 1: it's just that's just the first level of Yeah, I'm
Speaker 1: still trying to slice through all that ship, mental ship
Speaker 1: all that. You know what I'm saying, basically telling them
Speaker 1: you're human, but sure you might see me like this,
Speaker 1: but sho, I'm human too, and yeah, get online. I
Speaker 1: got the same problems as y'all, still have the capacity
Speaker 1: to funk up, But it's just I'm at a point
Speaker 1: in the place now in my life to where I'm
Speaker 1: able to manage those funk ups a little bit better. Yeah,
Speaker 1: for sure. But if you have a lot of the
Speaker 1: coda he had problems shot for me, I just I
Speaker 1: don't know. I think I'll just tell everybody I'm flawed
Speaker 1: as fun and I put my pants one leg at
Speaker 1: a time like everybody else do. And I'm I ain't
Speaker 1: the one that really just look up to. If you
Speaker 1: have anything you want to ask, I'm pretty easy as hell,
Speaker 1: So like you could talk to me. I'll tell you
Speaker 1: how I got to me where I'm am. You know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, I help you walk you to all
Speaker 1: that ship. I'm just flawed like everybody else. When I
Speaker 1: get big, yeah, that's another thing, like go ahead, And
Speaker 1: I got to say. I feel like when when people
Speaker 1: look at our dollars, try they try to think, Okay,
Speaker 1: I gotta copy these stuffs, like I gotta go to school,
Speaker 1: I gotta work here, I gotta work there. But I
Speaker 1: feel like with me, it's like, if you wanna do
Speaker 1: do ship that I did, I can't give. I can't.
Speaker 1: You can't follow what I did exactly because we all
Speaker 1: have different resources. You may not have the same resources
Speaker 1: that I have, and so you do the same, the
Speaker 1: exact same thing that I did. It might not work
Speaker 1: out for you. But I feel like the thing, if
Speaker 1: you are somebody who's been watching what I've been doing
Speaker 1: from day one, ship, just don't stop. That's like, whatever
Speaker 1: you don't, whatever you're gonna do, just don't quit because
Speaker 1: people get discouraged. I had a bunch of failures, but
Speaker 1: the things that made me fail got me here, and
Speaker 1: I couldn't I would I probably wouldn't be the same
Speaker 1: person if I didn't get kicked off the football team,
Speaker 1: if I didn't get fired from my first radio job,
Speaker 1: if I didn't get fired from tim Z. All that
Speaker 1: ship was important to get me here. Yeah it No, listen,
Speaker 1: no let me tell let me tell you what. No,
Speaker 1: let me tell you I did. But it's it's kind
Speaker 1: of like if you if you stopped working, you stopped working,
Speaker 1: you know what's gonna happen. If you stopped working, you
Speaker 1: know what's gonna happen. So that's really what where it
Speaker 1: happened in that situation like that don't asked me to
Speaker 1: do a bunch of it I didn't agree with, So
Speaker 1: I just stopped going. So eventually I got a car,
Speaker 1: you know. But but all that ship, all that ship
Speaker 1: really led me to get here. So if you are
Speaker 1: watching this ship that I do, like, you're gonna have
Speaker 1: some fun up days, maybe a funked up week, maybe
Speaker 1: it sucked up month. But you can't stop. You can't
Speaker 1: live the bad ship that in life happens. The bad
Speaker 1: ship in life that happens to you discourage you because
Speaker 1: so did that? Did that background experience traumatize you? Boom?
Speaker 1: You can't talk about it, and I don't care. You know,
Speaker 1: you got something that can't The position that we in,
Speaker 1: we have to give out certain information even if we
Speaker 1: don't follow it all the way. You get what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: So you might hear me say some ship, it sounds good,
Speaker 1: like I gotta figure it out. No, somebody else told
Speaker 1: me that, But I ain't some of that ship. I
Speaker 1: won't be tapped in on it yet. Eiven. I just
Speaker 1: no better. But sometimes I don't do better. You get
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. So I don't want to sound you know,
Speaker 1: I feel like um contradicting myself when I say certain ship.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, Like I can say all day,
Speaker 1: you're supposed to do this, so you're supposed to do that.
Speaker 1: Then turn around you see me online doing this ship
Speaker 1: like yeah, and then they just said I'm being fat. Man,
Speaker 1: you don't do that, but ship, Hey, that's that's let
Speaker 1: you know. I ain't need to be exactly. I'm just
Speaker 1: giving a message like yeah, that's what we're supposed to
Speaker 1: be doing. But hey man, I'm I'm gonna suck up.
Speaker 1: I'm not saying that I'm doing it. I'm saying I
Speaker 1: want to do it. Yeah, I'm trying, but I'm just like,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, I could start smuggling. We've
Speaker 1: forgotten them too or three months and then I want
Speaker 1: to smoke it. You get what I'm saying. So I
Speaker 1: ain't even get on here me like weird is wrong.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. I'm gonna saying, Hey, yeah,
Speaker 1: that are you thinking about. I'm gonna give you the
Speaker 1: pros and the on counse of ship, right, you know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. But that don't mean that I'm always
Speaker 1: gonna follow the prosau you're con artists. But for really
Speaker 1: or now, you have to put that out there because
Speaker 1: people look at you because you say certain ship and
Speaker 1: be like even the preachers in the church, even the
Speaker 1: preachers in the church is like, man, how this nigga
Speaker 1: saying this and he doing this? He just giving you
Speaker 1: the message that God's giving him to give you. That
Speaker 1: don't mean he ain't a whole fuck me when he
Speaker 1: takes that role bout just because he know the way
Speaker 1: on me, he going that way. So that's why you
Speaker 1: don't supposed to worship people, right, because you can learn
Speaker 1: ship from anybody. You can learn it from three year
Speaker 1: old like phoo, my grand babymy timmy granddad. I don't
Speaker 1: say that, and we're being public. I'm just CUsing say
Speaker 1: a cusiner, she said, Dad, I don't say that, but
Speaker 1: I'm taking it is like, damn that is. You get
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. But I just learned something from a
Speaker 1: four year old. I'm looking at it. There's nothing saying
Speaker 1: it like I'm saying that low but she heard me like,
Speaker 1: don't say that and it but that's a message coming
Speaker 1: from a little girl that probably came from God exactly.
Speaker 1: You get what I'm saying. So you can't just look
Speaker 1: at the person to feel like I can't learn from
Speaker 1: this person because of their mistakes, certain circumstances or whatever.
Speaker 1: Like yeah, that's why I take everything in and use
Speaker 1: it and see if it matches with my soul. You
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. I take in everything. Give a
Speaker 1: funk who said I don't dismiss nobody's conversation. They say
Speaker 1: something to me, I've taken in and see if it
Speaker 1: aligns with my soul. If it, don't throw that ship out.
Speaker 1: If you do, I keep it right. You see what
Speaker 1: I'm saying. Yeah, like you donna know like when when
Speaker 1: the reject and whatnot, Like you'll be a damned fool
Speaker 1: to try to reject something that you felt. That's who
Speaker 1: we go wrong. Yet, somebody can say something to you
Speaker 1: and you know you feel it, but due to the
Speaker 1: to the person it is, you'd be like, I don't
Speaker 1: know what the fun you're talking about, But bro, you
Speaker 1: just felt that. So you're gonna dismiss how you feel
Speaker 1: because of who's saying No, you crazy people do that
Speaker 1: because they ain't even ready you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: It's easier to do stuff or to be a certain
Speaker 1: way where you don't know. But if somebody tell you
Speaker 1: something and now you gotta hold yourself accountable, people don't
Speaker 1: be wanting to do no. It all take It all
Speaker 1: appears on the level of respect you here for the
Speaker 1: person or how you're taking in. Because Kodak can say
Speaker 1: something to J and j B like I mean, I
Speaker 1: can say something j J be like man because she
Speaker 1: know I'm some bullshit, but Kodak said she's taking in this. Okay,
Speaker 1: I go with that because code that really don't tell
Speaker 1: me ship you get what I'm saying? Black, I always
Speaker 1: saying something, You get what I'm saying. So it's like
Speaker 1: I take it in different fromhen Screen said, because I
Speaker 1: must be fucking up. But bank On te him I'm
Speaker 1: sucking up, twining foe because he want to be perfect.
Speaker 1: But Screen pulled into the side and tell me this.
Speaker 1: It's like, Jay, check yourself. You get what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: People gonna receive ship different from whoever they come from,
Speaker 1: because you I might be telling her Jay, don't drink
Speaker 1: before you got damn, come on on the show, but
Speaker 1: then I'm drunk on the show. M you get what
Speaker 1: I'm saying. So like, but Screen and tell that because
Speaker 1: he don't drink. Damn. I think that come back though,
Speaker 1: to that love for somebody else, not more than yourself,
Speaker 1: but wanting wanting more for them to use something to
Speaker 1: come back to that. Yes, the same ship with raising kids.
Speaker 1: It's like you can tell them something because you don't
Speaker 1: want to see them do what you already done did,
Speaker 1: but they're looking at like you it was okay for you.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, But it was it wasn't okay.
Speaker 1: But did it already? You know what I'm saying. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't know. I guess what I'm saying. Y'all get
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. What I'm because I'm counting to the
Speaker 1: uber and Joe Bird nah, But you know, I guess
Speaker 1: it's the same thing, like if if I'm a drink,
Speaker 1: I'd rather look like a food in her Yeah, you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. I'd rather be in the comment
Speaker 1: like I'd rather be coming mother to come in like
Speaker 1: think a bank stupid and me reading it it hurt
Speaker 1: me more reading it. They saying, Jade stupid. You get
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, But then that goes back to the
Speaker 1: screen saying, is that like loving somebody more than you
Speaker 1: love yourself, like you rather you rather you look crazy
Speaker 1: versus Jay looking crazy? Because you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: I just know, I just yeah, I can take it.
Speaker 1: It ain't me loving her more than I love myself.
Speaker 1: It's this I don't know how she's gonna take I
Speaker 1: get on thentrol with them nigga like suck my dick.
Speaker 1: I couldn't come in and troll with them. She's gonna
Speaker 1: take it personal and not saying that her personally gonna
Speaker 1: take She may take it. I may feel like she's
Speaker 1: gonna take it personal right, or it may do something
Speaker 1: to her or traumatize or something. So I don't want
Speaker 1: to see that for her. But me, it's not gonna
Speaker 1: do ship for me because I know what my choice is.
Speaker 1: I know I might be over here stuttering with words
Speaker 1: or all the goddesses would to say the wrong ship.
Speaker 1: I don't give it just sain't well I didn't. I didn't.
Speaker 1: I didn't have dreams of being a podcaster, So I
Speaker 1: can I can grow in these folks face in their eyes. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't get with them. They see me growing right
Speaker 1: before the eyes because it's something that I never thought
Speaker 1: i'd do. This, something going on me so blessing, So
Speaker 1: I can't come to motherfucking be God them Joe Rogan
Speaker 1: the first couple of years of this ship. No, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna allow myself to grow into the person that I
Speaker 1: need to be in this ship. If y'all don't like it,
Speaker 1: fuck what it is? My tripping right now? So how
Speaker 1: do they go? But some people feel like they're supposed
Speaker 1: to get it immediately, you know what I'm saying, I'm
Speaker 1: a podcast to them this and they started to take
Speaker 1: things personal, especially women, you know what I'm saying. They're
Speaker 1: emotional creatures. So if I'm saying, Jay, don't have gone
Speaker 1: me your mom, like, you know what I'm saying, because
Speaker 1: I know people reading it come in and they can't
Speaker 1: wait to bash women and bash people and bash us,
Speaker 1: bash that black socks with his white shoe. You know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. They gotta do that. People gonna do that,
Speaker 1: But he don't do it before doing next episode. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but I'm saying he don't give a funk, But y'all
Speaker 1: make yeah, and I gotta do to me, I gotta
Speaker 1: deal with that, seeing that you feel a way about
Speaker 1: ship that you shouldn't feel a way about. Yeah, it's
Speaker 1: like protection. I don't know a word. It's a better
Speaker 1: word for it. It's not like loving protection over protection,
Speaker 1: over protection because she may not give a funk for real,
Speaker 1: but I just may see some ship that I may
Speaker 1: feel like she should give a funk about and give
Speaker 1: a funk about it. Yeah, over protection, I like it.
Speaker 1: That's true. So the word is idolatry and complex is complex. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I can't speak on that. I ain't never seen them.
Speaker 1: That is kind of weird, Like when needs to be
Speaker 1: kissing their grown kids in their mouth and ship own't
Speaker 1: and like mama and they. But but a lot of
Speaker 1: do you okay, so you can't see how people household
Speaker 1: is raised like a dolt, like a man grown. A
Speaker 1: man keeps in the old don in the mouth. I
Speaker 1: don't kiss my daddy the mom. I'm in my daddy
Speaker 1: in the fucking mouth. I kiss my mom. Ain't the
Speaker 1: lips that's different. That's that's ain't my lips on them,
Speaker 1: but my bush. I remember trying to get in their hood,
Speaker 1: my kids dropping off and school. Don't do that ship,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Like you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: I know they want me to, but they don't want
Speaker 1: me to at the same time, you get what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: I mean that's where like a lot of like I
Speaker 1: think the guys catch it worse than the women when
Speaker 1: it comes to like the edific ship, because that's where
Speaker 1: like the whole mama's boy like ship comes in, because
Speaker 1: it's like we're still on your You're still on your
Speaker 1: titty ore titty, like get off her tittyig like you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, Because it's like, but then that
Speaker 1: also causes a conflict within relationships. But I don't care
Speaker 1: my grandmother, you you gotta get you, you God wrestl.
Speaker 1: So you had to get the pass from her, Like
Speaker 1: I wouldn't be with this girl dish along if my
Speaker 1: grandma didn't love her the way she did, like because
Speaker 1: you know it's like if I get sick, I gotta
Speaker 1: go there my grandma. Bid. I don't give how far
Speaker 1: we stayed, take me down to her house like this
Speaker 1: my medicine. I go leve her bid six hours. I'm
Speaker 1: back Dad. If I got the pneumon you that should
Speaker 1: go away. Like so, I guess I had some type
Speaker 1: of complex when it came out to my grandma. But
Speaker 1: but it's some situations where like the mother is intertwined
Speaker 1: into every aspect of the son's relationship and he feels
Speaker 1: like yeah, and she feels like she knows what's best
Speaker 1: for him, but what if that's all she should do?
Speaker 1: So you got some mama haters though, Mama you do
Speaker 1: with the say you got some, but that's the mama
Speaker 1: feels like she knows what's best, and so she'll be
Speaker 1: trying to look for the woman that she wants him
Speaker 1: to be with. Some mama's some mama's be feeling like
Speaker 1: be hating it. And see that this girl actually do
Speaker 1: love you like I doing the hates exactly, but let's
Speaker 1: hate though. Of course I ain't saying that as a majority,
Speaker 1: but that happens you and they do, and they do
Speaker 1: little spiteful ship. You know what I'm saying? Yes, no, No,
Speaker 1: I already had said that, my sister's my mama. Everybody like,
Speaker 1: I'm not getting in the middle of y'all ship. If
Speaker 1: you don't like Shanta Chantey, don't like you, y'all figure
Speaker 1: that out, because I ain't gonna be the peek no
Speaker 1: side because I'm on both sides. So y'all figuring that out,
Speaker 1: ain't no call me. And because I know you're doing
Speaker 1: the ship, she doing the ship. I know what he is.
Speaker 1: I know my wife's bullshit. I know my sister bullshit.
Speaker 1: I know my mama's a bullshit. I'm not getting in
Speaker 1: the middle of that. Then I gotta pick yeah and
Speaker 1: she my mama might be right this time, or my
Speaker 1: sister may be right this or my wife maybe right
Speaker 1: this time. But then when I say who right, I
Speaker 1: gotta go home and be wrong. So I ain't even
Speaker 1: getting in none of this because she will wrong land time.
Speaker 1: But I ain't say she's wrong, but I said she right. Man,
Speaker 1: y'all figure that out today. Don't figure that out. They ain't.
Speaker 1: Don't call him hearing in it. I can't be in that. Yeah,
Speaker 1: my my my daughter and my wife, they held disagreement.
Speaker 1: I would I tell I love both of y'all. Ain't
Speaker 1: in that though. Y'all figuring that out as women, Because
Speaker 1: soon as I pick a side, I gotta stay there.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. One argument, You pick a side, boy,
Speaker 1: you boy, you your side. I'm not doing that because
Speaker 1: I learned from experience doing that when you are not
Speaker 1: possessive as Yes, that's just what it is. The mama possessive,
Speaker 1: the child, all possessive aunties everything. We are possessive, especially
Speaker 1: about the man we love. If it's a man we love,
Speaker 1: it's like no bit's stay away, the mama stay away.
Speaker 1: Anybody could take could stay away if they're gonna take
Speaker 1: a little bit of the love away from me. That's
Speaker 1: just what it is. So women are gonna always bump heads,
Speaker 1: and if it's your mama, your daughter, everybody's gonna bump heads.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you why I do straight in the
Speaker 1: divide and conquered ship. I straightened that, like, let let
Speaker 1: each know, you're not gonna make me love her less.
Speaker 1: You're not gonna make me love her less. You're not
Speaker 1: gonna that's not gonna happen. So if you're trying to
Speaker 1: be spite for the timmy something, that's not gonna work. Right,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna let you know when you're wrong in that,
Speaker 1: because that's that's what is it implement me. So whatever
Speaker 1: y'all got going on, y'all can do that a once,
Speaker 1: y'all when y'all put me in and I'm gonna let
Speaker 1: you know if you're right a wrong. That's the only
Speaker 1: time I feel that makes sense. Yeah, But the moral
Speaker 1: of the story is moral story is Yeah, I can't
Speaker 1: analyze people, man, No, you can't. You can't. You can
Speaker 1: have an idol, you can't people. You can't worship people,
Speaker 1: not a person because because you don't see I Like,
Speaker 1: I've had rappers in the past that I'll be like,
Speaker 1: it's my favorite rapper, like fun with this knee, I
Speaker 1: learned somethingm this nigger, and then but when you meet them,
Speaker 1: you're like, you ain't need them raps. So that's why
Speaker 1: you gotta just take the message. You can't take the person. Yea.
Speaker 1: That's the same way with with with with pastors and
Speaker 1: podcasts or whatever. Take the message or take whatever it
Speaker 1: is that you gain. Need people, whatever you learn, need people.
Speaker 1: Don't try to take the person because the accountable to
Speaker 1: the message. Yes, because then once you do that, and
Speaker 1: you start to grow resentment and hatred towards that person
Speaker 1: because you they let you. Yeah, you feel like they
Speaker 1: let you down. How I let you down? I just
Speaker 1: told you what I said. I ain't saying yeah, but
Speaker 1: real though, because people hold you to that like, yeah,
Speaker 1: I hold you took some ship. You just because you
Speaker 1: read the whole Bible. You know what the whole Bible
Speaker 1: saying means and you could teach it, don't mean you
Speaker 1: live it. That's what people gotta start understood. Yeah, It's
Speaker 1: just like um, people that teach you how to get rich,
Speaker 1: most of them don't be rich, but teaching you how
Speaker 1: to get rich, it's how they're about to get rich.
Speaker 1: You get what I'm saying. I may know how to
Speaker 1: do this ship, never made no money off of doing it.
Speaker 1: I just made money. Offer telling you how to do it,
Speaker 1: and you may go get rich off doing it, but
Speaker 1: I ain't never made no money off that ship. I
Speaker 1: told you to do that deep, but that ship happened.
Speaker 1: Like the pastors, they could tell you adulterous wrong, this
Speaker 1: is wrong, wrong, wrong, wrong, and be right but living wrong,
Speaker 1: but living wrong? How is he wrong? When you called?
Speaker 1: But he didn't know him? He he man that ship
Speaker 1: living back your hard But you know, this is what
Speaker 1: I'm telling you gotta do. It's kind of like people
Speaker 1: like with doll seminars and ship and like, yeah, the
Speaker 1: panels and you know what I'm saying, all that ship
Speaker 1: like that they get that's how they get their money. Also,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna show you how of your needs to want
Speaker 1: to know. I'm gonna sure you have to make a
Speaker 1: million dollars. You sell this ten thousand dollars ship a
Speaker 1: hundred times. Yeah, there's ten thousand dollar promo package. That's
Speaker 1: how they'll be making their money. Yeah, and never made
Speaker 1: it before they sold you that ship. And then back
Speaker 1: to the church. It's like, yeah, he knows that ship wrong,
Speaker 1: but he trying to get right to Yes, he and
Speaker 1: he because it just got robbed up. The nigga New
Speaker 1: York that you got robbed, you know, he had, Yeah,
Speaker 1: he had the jewelry. Um, the niggas ran in the
Speaker 1: congregation and like robbed him and the congregation or whatever.
Speaker 1: He like, you know, he had all this jewelry, he
Speaker 1: had all these cars, He had this billion dollar house
Speaker 1: and all these properties and ship. But his congregation was
Speaker 1: in a bodega in New York that wasn't even as
Speaker 1: big as this. But he was having you know, like
Speaker 1: his um constituents, you know, donate all of their money
Speaker 1: and this and that too, uphold the word the luxury lifestyle,
Speaker 1: which also included his luxury lifestyle. And now they're trying
Speaker 1: to say, like, um, they're they're trying to figure out
Speaker 1: whether or not he set up the robbery and like
Speaker 1: all this ship whatever whatever. Ye like, he's playing big time.
Speaker 1: But it's just like, you know, he's not a mention
Speaker 1: that he's a scam. Yeah, but it's just like until
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