1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:05,560 Speaker 1: Big Bag screen. You donna be on nothing. I'll be okay, 2 00:00:05,559 --> 00:00:08,240 Speaker 1: So let me ask this bring you big Big Facts. 3 00:00:10,280 --> 00:00:13,399 Speaker 1: Visit the new website today, Big Facts, Paul dot Com, 4 00:00:13,520 --> 00:00:16,079 Speaker 1: dot Com, a lot from Revolt Studios, and the A 5 00:00:16,239 --> 00:00:19,440 Speaker 1: t l Is DJ Scream, Big Big Baby, Jay, Shot 6 00:00:19,480 --> 00:00:21,840 Speaker 1: Jones and Big on Me. Kodak in his time for 7 00:00:21,960 --> 00:00:26,079 Speaker 1: the one and only Big Facts Friday. What's up everybody? Yeah? 8 00:00:27,320 --> 00:00:30,400 Speaker 1: Want to do it? An do it? That's what you 9 00:00:30,440 --> 00:00:35,360 Speaker 1: gonna do. I got it? I got it. Same. What's 10 00:00:35,400 --> 00:00:38,720 Speaker 1: up everybody? What's had? Everybody good? That's good? Everybody smiling. 11 00:00:38,760 --> 00:00:41,280 Speaker 1: Kodak already drunk, so y'all excuse him in advance for 12 00:00:41,400 --> 00:00:43,680 Speaker 1: his I'm going to get drunk because I'm somebody got 13 00:00:43,720 --> 00:00:52,280 Speaker 1: a baby bottom. I'm yeah, good baby. You always fresh, 14 00:00:52,280 --> 00:00:55,200 Speaker 1: but you're a fresh shirt today man fresh? Oh? This 15 00:00:55,200 --> 00:00:58,120 Speaker 1: this this straight out of Detroit. Okay, how you pronounced? 16 00:00:58,960 --> 00:01:11,040 Speaker 1: I think it's like harryggerio ut. Yeah, what's up j 17 00:01:11,240 --> 00:01:17,679 Speaker 1: what we're doing today? Yeah? Okay. So the word of 18 00:01:17,680 --> 00:01:20,600 Speaker 1: the day brought to our good brother Bank and I'm 19 00:01:20,600 --> 00:01:23,040 Speaker 1: gonna give him his appreciation. Give later in the back. 20 00:01:23,720 --> 00:01:38,440 Speaker 1: Uh yeah. Um. The word of the day is idolatry. 21 00:01:39,080 --> 00:01:45,200 Speaker 1: And idolatry is extreme admiration, love, or reverence for something 22 00:01:45,400 --> 00:01:49,400 Speaker 1: or someone, and reverence is a deep respect for something 23 00:01:49,480 --> 00:01:54,800 Speaker 1: or someone. And a possible example is worshiping an idol 24 00:01:54,960 --> 00:01:59,960 Speaker 1: or a person other than God. So you said idolatry 25 00:02:00,080 --> 00:02:07,680 Speaker 1: is or somebody, Well, you have no idolize somebody because 26 00:02:07,720 --> 00:02:10,520 Speaker 1: you know, technically, to most people, God is supposed to 27 00:02:10,520 --> 00:02:14,280 Speaker 1: be the highest almighty. So when you put somebody on 28 00:02:14,280 --> 00:02:17,640 Speaker 1: a pedestal and idolize them as much as you would 29 00:02:17,680 --> 00:02:25,040 Speaker 1: idolize this said God person, then technically that is idolatry. Okay, 30 00:02:25,600 --> 00:02:29,280 Speaker 1: So what's some examples of I guess some people that 31 00:02:29,360 --> 00:02:40,959 Speaker 1: people idolize. John Lennon has beets really idolatrized, Cardi B 32 00:02:41,160 --> 00:02:44,160 Speaker 1: got him. All these big pop stars, rap stars, they 33 00:02:44,200 --> 00:02:46,640 Speaker 1: all have fans out are just crazily they dedicate their 34 00:02:46,680 --> 00:02:50,600 Speaker 1: hold life to them. Sometimes people just your own life too, 35 00:02:51,320 --> 00:02:57,559 Speaker 1: should your parents. So speaking of that parents and idolizing 36 00:02:57,600 --> 00:03:01,480 Speaker 1: that brings me to my sub word of this discussion, 37 00:03:01,880 --> 00:03:07,640 Speaker 1: which is the Oedipus complex. And who don't know? Okay, 38 00:03:07,680 --> 00:03:10,320 Speaker 1: So for those of you guys who don't know, the 39 00:03:10,320 --> 00:03:15,480 Speaker 1: Oedipus complex is the textbook definition is the obsessive attachment 40 00:03:15,960 --> 00:03:18,600 Speaker 1: of a child to the parents of an opposite sex 41 00:03:19,240 --> 00:03:23,600 Speaker 1: while showing envious and aggressive behavior towards the parent of 42 00:03:23,600 --> 00:03:26,600 Speaker 1: the same sex. So, just to break it down even 43 00:03:26,639 --> 00:03:31,040 Speaker 1: further in Layman's terms, UM, I know y'all have probably 44 00:03:31,040 --> 00:03:34,120 Speaker 1: seen this, maybe in person or like in like a 45 00:03:34,120 --> 00:03:38,560 Speaker 1: movie or some ship where like the daughter matter of 46 00:03:38,600 --> 00:03:41,120 Speaker 1: fact eaves by you. Has everybody seen he's by you? 47 00:03:41,120 --> 00:03:44,880 Speaker 1: You remember how the oldest girl was like this with 48 00:03:45,160 --> 00:03:51,360 Speaker 1: um Martin fish not Martin Fishburn, but yeah, her dad. Yeah, 49 00:03:51,400 --> 00:03:54,320 Speaker 1: And it was like it was it was so they 50 00:03:54,360 --> 00:03:59,400 Speaker 1: were so close until it was weird, like not trying 51 00:03:59,400 --> 00:04:01,480 Speaker 1: to be on a d ship, but it was like damn, 52 00:04:01,480 --> 00:04:04,640 Speaker 1: you would think like they were fucking like they had 53 00:04:04,680 --> 00:04:07,440 Speaker 1: some ship going on with them, Like, but she was 54 00:04:07,480 --> 00:04:11,000 Speaker 1: so angry with her mother. It was almost kind of 55 00:04:11,040 --> 00:04:13,920 Speaker 1: like she hated her mother because she wanted her father 56 00:04:14,080 --> 00:04:18,359 Speaker 1: type ship. And that's like what happens like with the 57 00:04:18,400 --> 00:04:20,520 Speaker 1: Oedipus complex or whatever, And it happens a lot with 58 00:04:20,640 --> 00:04:23,440 Speaker 1: like the male child too, because the male child is 59 00:04:23,520 --> 00:04:27,039 Speaker 1: so close and involved with the mother. Just like shout 60 00:04:27,040 --> 00:04:29,880 Speaker 1: out the spiritual word. They had to post the other 61 00:04:30,000 --> 00:04:33,680 Speaker 1: day where they were showing like text message threads, and 62 00:04:34,160 --> 00:04:36,400 Speaker 1: in the threads, the guy was going back and forth 63 00:04:36,480 --> 00:04:39,360 Speaker 1: with this girl that he had just started dating, and 64 00:04:39,400 --> 00:04:41,760 Speaker 1: he asked her something and she taught him like he 65 00:04:41,800 --> 00:04:43,960 Speaker 1: was being ridiculous or some ship, and he was like, 66 00:04:43,960 --> 00:04:45,680 Speaker 1: fuck you bitch. I don't need any of you hos 67 00:04:45,760 --> 00:04:49,480 Speaker 1: as long as I got my mama, Like like, yeah, 68 00:04:49,480 --> 00:04:51,560 Speaker 1: it's like some crazy ship. So like, I don't know 69 00:04:51,560 --> 00:04:54,080 Speaker 1: if y'all have ever personally experienced or seeing it, but 70 00:04:54,680 --> 00:05:00,680 Speaker 1: that's like my prime example of idolatry, like when the 71 00:05:00,680 --> 00:05:05,600 Speaker 1: adepants complex sets in. So I guess in the conversation 72 00:05:05,760 --> 00:05:09,440 Speaker 1: is like when when is idolatry okay? But when is 73 00:05:09,480 --> 00:05:14,560 Speaker 1: it not okay? Like what do you mean safe safely? 74 00:05:14,560 --> 00:05:18,760 Speaker 1: It's just like you look up to athlete, a rapper 75 00:05:18,839 --> 00:05:22,400 Speaker 1: or whatever the case is. It can be cool, but 76 00:05:22,440 --> 00:05:24,520 Speaker 1: if you're trying to model yourself after them, and let's 77 00:05:24,560 --> 00:05:27,279 Speaker 1: say they going to the path or do some bullshit, 78 00:05:27,360 --> 00:05:29,880 Speaker 1: like people be saying they're not role models, right, so 79 00:05:29,920 --> 00:05:31,800 Speaker 1: they don't make me a role model. Ain't perfect, but 80 00:05:31,800 --> 00:05:35,160 Speaker 1: this person idolizes this person, So whether they're doing good, 81 00:05:35,200 --> 00:05:37,000 Speaker 1: they're trying to do good like them, or whether they're 82 00:05:37,000 --> 00:05:38,599 Speaker 1: doing some messed up stuff, they're trying to do some 83 00:05:38,600 --> 00:05:41,000 Speaker 1: missed up stuff like that. That's when idolatry can go bad. 84 00:05:41,120 --> 00:05:43,719 Speaker 1: Right when you're idolizing and trying to model yourself after 85 00:05:43,800 --> 00:05:46,960 Speaker 1: somebody that's leaning you down a bad path, then the 86 00:05:47,000 --> 00:05:50,680 Speaker 1: idolatry is bad. But I feel like in order for 87 00:05:51,120 --> 00:05:53,680 Speaker 1: and this is just my personal opinion, in order for 88 00:05:53,760 --> 00:05:59,839 Speaker 1: somebody to idolatry somebody, they have to have some sort 89 00:05:59,880 --> 00:06:04,880 Speaker 1: of either insecurity or social disconnect that will allow them 90 00:06:04,960 --> 00:06:07,680 Speaker 1: to not want to be themselves and to model their 91 00:06:07,800 --> 00:06:15,560 Speaker 1: entire life after another person other than kids kissable. That's 92 00:06:15,560 --> 00:06:19,680 Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Yeah, that's what I'm saying. But get 93 00:06:19,839 --> 00:06:27,440 Speaker 1: the pass people that try to permanently emulate another person. 94 00:06:28,279 --> 00:06:30,479 Speaker 1: That's like a problem for me. There have been some 95 00:06:30,520 --> 00:06:32,680 Speaker 1: people that go as far as getting plastic surgery to 96 00:06:32,720 --> 00:06:35,120 Speaker 1: look like some of these people, like Kim Kardashian is 97 00:06:35,120 --> 00:06:37,719 Speaker 1: one of the people that are like, they getting surgery 98 00:06:37,720 --> 00:06:40,320 Speaker 1: to look like her. So it goes beyond trying to 99 00:06:40,360 --> 00:06:42,200 Speaker 1: be a fan of somebody, you want to be actually 100 00:06:42,279 --> 00:06:46,520 Speaker 1: be this person. Yeah, and that's something is not clicking upstairs. 101 00:06:47,080 --> 00:06:51,600 Speaker 1: So so far far audience or for the audience, how 102 00:06:51,640 --> 00:06:54,880 Speaker 1: close is then there might be a thin line. How 103 00:06:54,880 --> 00:06:59,960 Speaker 1: close is idolatry to just Dick riding right there? There's 104 00:07:00,120 --> 00:07:05,320 Speaker 1: right there, right there all the time, right there, all 105 00:07:05,360 --> 00:07:07,640 Speaker 1: the time. I feel like idolatry and did writing two 106 00:07:07,680 --> 00:07:10,960 Speaker 1: different things, because when you're Dick writing, you're just like, 107 00:07:11,760 --> 00:07:13,360 Speaker 1: you're just trying to get close to this person and 108 00:07:13,400 --> 00:07:15,920 Speaker 1: you want to get this parts some props. Idolatry means 109 00:07:15,920 --> 00:07:19,480 Speaker 1: you want to assume this person's identity. If somebody was trying, 110 00:07:19,560 --> 00:07:22,440 Speaker 1: if somebody cut their hair, like Bank got go to 111 00:07:22,560 --> 00:07:28,560 Speaker 1: you dressed like like Bank legal, that's idolatry. But it 112 00:07:30,120 --> 00:07:35,560 Speaker 1: broke it up. I thought I was just just it's 113 00:07:35,600 --> 00:07:40,200 Speaker 1: celebrity work. That's what we're gonna put it there. That's 114 00:07:40,200 --> 00:07:50,680 Speaker 1: what we're gonna put it. That's what I'm saying. I 115 00:07:50,760 --> 00:07:53,320 Speaker 1: was just gonna say. Idolatry is just like the admiration 116 00:07:53,400 --> 00:07:55,480 Speaker 1: for somebody you don't necessarily want to have to be 117 00:07:55,600 --> 00:08:01,120 Speaker 1: somebody talking. Idolatry is extreme though, yeah, but a dream admiration, 118 00:08:01,160 --> 00:08:03,440 Speaker 1: Like for example, it's a lot of people that like 119 00:08:03,720 --> 00:08:07,640 Speaker 1: have extreme admimiration for Obama. People are not trying to 120 00:08:07,640 --> 00:08:12,360 Speaker 1: be Obama. But if they do, they love this man exactly. Yeah, 121 00:08:12,360 --> 00:08:15,000 Speaker 1: that's different though. That's why I was being quiet because 122 00:08:15,360 --> 00:08:20,200 Speaker 1: it's like, yeah, it's two different things. A dollar try 123 00:08:20,280 --> 00:08:26,520 Speaker 1: could immulate deep right, exactly true, But I could idolize 124 00:08:26,520 --> 00:08:30,000 Speaker 1: a person in a way that makes me a better 125 00:08:30,040 --> 00:08:32,439 Speaker 1: person to respect. That's what I'm saying, in a respectable 126 00:08:32,480 --> 00:08:34,880 Speaker 1: way where it's like I'm gonna get on my ship 127 00:08:35,040 --> 00:08:37,520 Speaker 1: like so and so, I'm gonna get on my ship. 128 00:08:37,800 --> 00:08:39,600 Speaker 1: They'b doing this, They'll be doing that to get on 129 00:08:39,600 --> 00:08:45,240 Speaker 1: my show. Admiration. Yeah, it's still it's the same family again, 130 00:08:45,280 --> 00:08:47,440 Speaker 1: but that's not extreme though. If you if you're just 131 00:08:47,480 --> 00:08:50,400 Speaker 1: saying this person is inspiring me to want to do 132 00:08:50,440 --> 00:08:54,719 Speaker 1: more for myself, what's admiration? What what is the admiration? 133 00:08:59,280 --> 00:09:04,040 Speaker 1: It's kind of like, did just look like whatever she 134 00:09:04,360 --> 00:09:10,720 Speaker 1: did two weeks? It's like being very fond of somebody admiration, 135 00:09:10,840 --> 00:09:14,280 Speaker 1: But idolizing is like you look up to It's kind 136 00:09:14,280 --> 00:09:16,760 Speaker 1: of like what people do that. For example, if you 137 00:09:16,800 --> 00:09:19,640 Speaker 1: have like a celebrity that comes from your neighborhood and 138 00:09:19,679 --> 00:09:21,280 Speaker 1: you want to do the same ship that they're doing, 139 00:09:21,400 --> 00:09:23,280 Speaker 1: and then this person then put a blueprint out there, 140 00:09:23,320 --> 00:09:24,880 Speaker 1: like I didn't want to this school. I didn't did this. 141 00:09:24,960 --> 00:09:27,360 Speaker 1: I don't want to beat you, but I want to 142 00:09:27,360 --> 00:09:30,240 Speaker 1: beat where you are. Yeah. Yeah, this didn't say you 143 00:09:30,280 --> 00:09:32,600 Speaker 1: have to beat somebody. I don't don't say I want 144 00:09:32,600 --> 00:09:34,840 Speaker 1: to be this person. I just have averations. I feel 145 00:09:34,920 --> 00:09:41,319 Speaker 1: like y'all just added it's an extreme admiration, love or 146 00:09:41,440 --> 00:09:46,360 Speaker 1: reverence of someone or something that's deep respect, deep respect 147 00:09:46,440 --> 00:09:49,880 Speaker 1: for someone or what or what. Worshiping an idol or 148 00:09:50,040 --> 00:09:56,240 Speaker 1: person other than God. The just say worshiping, and they 149 00:09:56,240 --> 00:09:58,720 Speaker 1: don't mean I want to be that person if you worship. 150 00:09:59,200 --> 00:10:06,400 Speaker 1: But I'm just saying you'll kill yourself about that. Worship 151 00:10:07,160 --> 00:10:11,360 Speaker 1: people worshiper sit there and go bout worshiping Beyonce because 152 00:10:11,400 --> 00:10:14,400 Speaker 1: I ain't trying to kill himself over Beyonce. I think 153 00:10:14,440 --> 00:10:18,640 Speaker 1: it's some people that stuff about you did kill themselves. 154 00:10:19,000 --> 00:10:21,199 Speaker 1: You don't think people to worship no other person? No, 155 00:10:22,520 --> 00:10:25,800 Speaker 1: I don't know people. Do people worship their parents? I 156 00:10:25,960 --> 00:10:33,600 Speaker 1: want people worship their parents. Okay. Worship is like on 157 00:10:33,640 --> 00:10:37,200 Speaker 1: your knees, worship your God. You know what I'm saying, 158 00:10:37,240 --> 00:10:42,040 Speaker 1: like praying to the person all you believe. Yeah, yeah, 159 00:10:42,160 --> 00:10:45,560 Speaker 1: that ain't going on, but is it probably is going on. 160 00:10:47,000 --> 00:10:51,800 Speaker 1: That's an extreme worship. I have extreme admiration. What's admiration? 161 00:10:51,920 --> 00:10:59,560 Speaker 1: Version have extreme admiration for my wife's healthy. So but 162 00:10:59,640 --> 00:11:04,360 Speaker 1: I don't worship her. No, No, extreme admiration and marriage 163 00:11:04,640 --> 00:11:08,200 Speaker 1: is a key component of longevity. So but I'm saying 164 00:11:08,240 --> 00:11:10,480 Speaker 1: I don't want to beat her neither. We never said 165 00:11:10,520 --> 00:11:12,080 Speaker 1: you wanted to be herd. But that what y'all said, 166 00:11:12,640 --> 00:11:21,760 Speaker 1: dollars is that's what y'all just dollar you know what 167 00:11:21,800 --> 00:11:25,360 Speaker 1: I'm saying. Oh God, I don't know if y'all got 168 00:11:25,360 --> 00:11:28,440 Speaker 1: the word right. Man, I feel like I can't be teaching. 169 00:11:29,040 --> 00:11:31,840 Speaker 1: Y'all don't know you send the definition. I said the word, 170 00:11:32,320 --> 00:11:35,760 Speaker 1: so you're double check it, right. I ain't think I 171 00:11:35,760 --> 00:11:40,040 Speaker 1: ain't seen that worshiping God. But if you were doing 172 00:11:40,080 --> 00:11:41,800 Speaker 1: the words, because the worst is your job, if you 173 00:11:41,840 --> 00:11:44,199 Speaker 1: were doing the words, you will never have to say 174 00:11:44,240 --> 00:11:45,839 Speaker 1: that again. I'm just saying. But at the end of 175 00:11:45,880 --> 00:11:47,520 Speaker 1: the day, we won't get what. We'll talk about this 176 00:11:49,040 --> 00:11:58,000 Speaker 1: because I said the word lading life. So if you 177 00:11:58,720 --> 00:12:01,840 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna do this, is it okay to have okay? 178 00:12:02,640 --> 00:12:06,240 Speaker 1: Him in the grapes? We gotta cut out breaking it down. 179 00:12:06,360 --> 00:12:09,360 Speaker 1: Is it okay to have an idol like a young 180 00:12:09,480 --> 00:12:16,079 Speaker 1: kid might idolize Lebron. Yes, I think that that's positive. 181 00:12:17,200 --> 00:12:19,360 Speaker 1: Like when does that? Was my next question? When does 182 00:12:19,400 --> 00:12:21,600 Speaker 1: it become not healthy? And when did you when you 183 00:12:21,600 --> 00:12:23,839 Speaker 1: become when you start stalking this person, when you try 184 00:12:23,880 --> 00:12:26,640 Speaker 1: to like figure out where this person is, every goddamn dead, 185 00:12:27,000 --> 00:12:31,520 Speaker 1: that's eminem and stand just to say that that's exactly 186 00:12:31,520 --> 00:12:38,079 Speaker 1: what about weirdo? That ship went too far? Words? That's 187 00:12:38,120 --> 00:12:41,640 Speaker 1: the word. What's the word word? The word word is 188 00:12:41,720 --> 00:12:53,480 Speaker 1: some ship that Dick riding. Y'all making up ship. But 189 00:12:55,480 --> 00:12:57,680 Speaker 1: this is what I'm saying. He wasn't that. I feel like, 190 00:12:58,160 --> 00:13:02,920 Speaker 1: I feel like you actually be with that. But he 191 00:13:03,040 --> 00:13:07,560 Speaker 1: was that one. I don't think that's dick right man. 192 00:13:08,280 --> 00:13:13,120 Speaker 1: That man was obsessed. That's what he was gonna ride 193 00:13:13,160 --> 00:13:16,439 Speaker 1: all coundar gonna riding. Dick riding is a low fat 194 00:13:16,559 --> 00:13:24,160 Speaker 1: version of idolizing. Nah the fat I think dick riding 195 00:13:24,200 --> 00:13:27,800 Speaker 1: it's like, yeah, you don't check, you get exactly if 196 00:13:27,880 --> 00:13:32,760 Speaker 1: I he on this person. Yes, Dick Rogers can ride 197 00:13:32,760 --> 00:13:40,480 Speaker 1: innthing where he's dedicated to idolizing person. It's stuck on 198 00:13:40,480 --> 00:13:44,800 Speaker 1: there just one nigger? What is faith drake, fake countdar 199 00:13:44,960 --> 00:13:53,760 Speaker 1: fake dirt right phones, you're not let make a trolleying 200 00:13:53,800 --> 00:14:04,360 Speaker 1: and get bad you that movies all the time. I 201 00:14:04,360 --> 00:14:12,160 Speaker 1: don't even want to be my gay. That's the fat 202 00:14:12,400 --> 00:14:16,360 Speaker 1: party till the shoes. Everything you get pay for that. 203 00:14:16,440 --> 00:14:18,320 Speaker 1: Kim Kardashian got a couple of clones out here that 204 00:14:18,360 --> 00:14:20,520 Speaker 1: they pay it. She probably like, get on my No, 205 00:14:20,720 --> 00:14:24,000 Speaker 1: they pay people for that in movies. You have different, 206 00:14:24,000 --> 00:14:27,360 Speaker 1: that's movie. That's I'm just saying it's frolent. I don't 207 00:14:27,360 --> 00:14:31,600 Speaker 1: think that that's big riding. You choosing to life? No, 208 00:14:31,840 --> 00:14:33,920 Speaker 1: you not. They still can't choose to live that life. 209 00:14:33,920 --> 00:14:39,680 Speaker 1: If somebody get pay for time each and every time, 210 00:14:40,240 --> 00:14:42,280 Speaker 1: if each and every time we came to say Kodak 211 00:14:42,400 --> 00:14:45,360 Speaker 1: started to be a little more like you will, Dick 212 00:14:45,440 --> 00:14:51,080 Speaker 1: did because he know me, my man, my man, that didn't. 213 00:14:52,280 --> 00:14:54,840 Speaker 1: But if Kode was somewhere did different. Somebody that you 214 00:14:54,960 --> 00:15:01,960 Speaker 1: don't know, you've been wronging full times. I've been counted 215 00:15:03,520 --> 00:15:08,760 Speaker 1: a chat a dick rider. Niggas get called dick riders 216 00:15:08,800 --> 00:15:11,960 Speaker 1: because other people that are around them feel like you 217 00:15:12,080 --> 00:15:13,920 Speaker 1: dick riding Nick, and you don't even know him. Am 218 00:15:13,920 --> 00:15:16,400 Speaker 1: I right and wrong? But giving the nigga d day 219 00:15:16,400 --> 00:15:19,040 Speaker 1: they call it anything did right? Getting the props to run? Yeah, 220 00:15:19,080 --> 00:15:20,480 Speaker 1: they called me a right all the time. That's what 221 00:15:20,520 --> 00:15:23,280 Speaker 1: I'm saying, So you can't say what. What I'm saying 222 00:15:23,320 --> 00:15:28,160 Speaker 1: is that idolize, idol, idolatry, and dick Ride to me 223 00:15:28,280 --> 00:15:31,960 Speaker 1: is not the same, not in the same family that 224 00:15:32,200 --> 00:15:34,480 Speaker 1: I feel like it to me because I feel like 225 00:15:34,640 --> 00:15:38,160 Speaker 1: a dick Rider is a person that just like she said, 226 00:15:38,240 --> 00:15:43,400 Speaker 1: she changed, he changing the fat. But somebody that idolatry 227 00:15:43,640 --> 00:15:48,280 Speaker 1: and of dick ring, please please, I feel like somebody 228 00:15:48,640 --> 00:15:52,520 Speaker 1: idolize the person. You just idolizing that person. Yeah, you're 229 00:15:52,560 --> 00:15:54,320 Speaker 1: stuck on this now. If you see a nigga trying 230 00:15:54,320 --> 00:15:56,600 Speaker 1: to be full five different niggas, he's a Dick Rider 231 00:15:57,760 --> 00:16:02,920 Speaker 1: person though, but idolize it doesn't have time to focus 232 00:16:02,920 --> 00:16:05,720 Speaker 1: on anything else. I don't know. That's what I'm kind 233 00:16:05,720 --> 00:16:07,320 Speaker 1: of quout on this subject because I don't know, but 234 00:16:08,600 --> 00:16:12,400 Speaker 1: I feel like, I mean, personally, if if a person 235 00:16:12,480 --> 00:16:15,120 Speaker 1: is idolizing the person, they want to be that person. 236 00:16:15,880 --> 00:16:20,240 Speaker 1: If a nigga is Dick Ryan, he want to be whatever. Papa. Yes, 237 00:16:20,440 --> 00:16:23,240 Speaker 1: I feel like He may be a dedicated Nick Rowder. 238 00:16:23,240 --> 00:16:25,040 Speaker 1: He just may have this one person that he wanted. 239 00:16:25,080 --> 00:16:31,000 Speaker 1: Dick right, really really so much, are really so much 240 00:16:31,000 --> 00:16:32,840 Speaker 1: of a fan of this person? This is who I 241 00:16:32,840 --> 00:16:35,320 Speaker 1: want to model my life half You got that three? Yeah? 242 00:16:35,520 --> 00:16:48,160 Speaker 1: What is it? Person to get noticed approval? Approval from 243 00:16:48,200 --> 00:16:56,680 Speaker 1: that person, approval that different person idolizes somebody necessarily meet 244 00:16:56,720 --> 00:16:58,760 Speaker 1: that person rights stuck on you, like for the rest 245 00:16:58,800 --> 00:17:01,400 Speaker 1: of my life. Dick Riders don't even like you, just 246 00:17:01,440 --> 00:17:03,240 Speaker 1: want to be around you to get your cloud off 247 00:17:03,240 --> 00:17:05,000 Speaker 1: of you. And you know what I'm saying, just to 248 00:17:05,080 --> 00:17:10,440 Speaker 1: be a want of use your idolizes you. Was probably 249 00:17:10,480 --> 00:17:12,880 Speaker 1: too nervous to even be in your presence. But they 250 00:17:12,960 --> 00:17:16,680 Speaker 1: just wanna They just wanna be every aspect of your life. 251 00:17:16,960 --> 00:17:18,720 Speaker 1: I look, I look at like you think talking about 252 00:17:18,840 --> 00:17:22,240 Speaker 1: idolatry like safe athletes for example, right it's probably doing 253 00:17:22,240 --> 00:17:27,320 Speaker 1: it in hospital tattoo. So it's somebody in high school 254 00:17:27,359 --> 00:17:28,919 Speaker 1: right now. I probably look up to Lebron James that 255 00:17:28,960 --> 00:17:31,359 Speaker 1: probably with that nigga number. He probably studied all this 256 00:17:31,440 --> 00:17:33,760 Speaker 1: nigga moves. That's not Dick. Yeah, I don't think that's 257 00:17:33,760 --> 00:17:36,080 Speaker 1: Dick Rush, that's he. That's that's what they're gonna say. 258 00:17:36,080 --> 00:17:41,560 Speaker 1: In the so so so y'all with Dick Ryan Joy, No, 259 00:17:42,160 --> 00:17:52,600 Speaker 1: that's what That's what Gibody somebody was in the hood is. 260 00:17:53,000 --> 00:17:57,560 Speaker 1: You can say that your joy he was talking like joy, 261 00:17:57,800 --> 00:18:00,480 Speaker 1: walking like joy like he was doing the whole joy. Yeah, 262 00:18:00,680 --> 00:18:03,800 Speaker 1: but join embraced him though, right, proper thing is he idolized. 263 00:18:03,800 --> 00:18:08,720 Speaker 1: Still that's the proper right. But in the hood, you 264 00:18:08,800 --> 00:18:11,919 Speaker 1: know that's true. Y'all know that's the truth. I'm not 265 00:18:11,960 --> 00:18:15,960 Speaker 1: saying this right, y'all, just know that certain ship. Don't 266 00:18:19,600 --> 00:18:22,359 Speaker 1: you your body look good? You on the dick like anything. 267 00:18:22,440 --> 00:18:25,720 Speaker 1: I'm saying that they're not playing what they're not playing 268 00:18:26,920 --> 00:18:29,480 Speaker 1: in the hood. If you give anybody any type of endearment, 269 00:18:32,000 --> 00:18:40,320 Speaker 1: natural haters, Yeah, yeah, so we just hating on each other. 270 00:18:44,400 --> 00:18:47,920 Speaker 1: That's what it is. You got some new shoes, Dick, right, 271 00:18:49,320 --> 00:18:53,600 Speaker 1: like bro I like him just about his shoes because 272 00:18:53,600 --> 00:18:57,960 Speaker 1: I just said, it's you nice a studio with brod 273 00:18:58,080 --> 00:19:00,280 Speaker 1: doing even though this nigger can take you up out there. 274 00:19:00,320 --> 00:19:02,240 Speaker 1: You're on the studio of brot Ryan is dicking ship 275 00:19:02,320 --> 00:19:04,800 Speaker 1: and we're over here, man, Wait what you're doing. That's 276 00:19:04,800 --> 00:19:07,320 Speaker 1: how they think I'm not saying, come on and be 277 00:19:07,400 --> 00:19:14,280 Speaker 1: broking up with us. Yeah, yeah, don't get no money food, 278 00:19:14,119 --> 00:19:19,200 Speaker 1: but you want to be somebody the nerve. I feel 279 00:19:19,240 --> 00:19:22,480 Speaker 1: like you know when the nigga color, Yeah you definitely 280 00:19:23,080 --> 00:19:25,720 Speaker 1: you know the nigga pulling that yankee, that mother pulling 281 00:19:25,720 --> 00:19:38,160 Speaker 1: im prominence to the well I got big. So that's 282 00:19:38,160 --> 00:19:43,920 Speaker 1: a clear example of Michael Jordan and um kovid idolatree right, 283 00:19:45,680 --> 00:19:49,080 Speaker 1: like not no funny jokes and ship. That's that's what 284 00:19:49,200 --> 00:19:56,760 Speaker 1: that is. Whoever, I don't know Beyonce and Chloe. I 285 00:19:56,800 --> 00:19:58,760 Speaker 1: guess you could say that that's a good one. My 286 00:19:58,800 --> 00:20:01,320 Speaker 1: idol and I got to do my idol did business 287 00:20:01,400 --> 00:20:09,840 Speaker 1: with her and idolize. Yeah, because Kanye spoke, he really 288 00:20:09,880 --> 00:20:22,600 Speaker 1: really talking about but yeah, he he pulling out too 289 00:20:22,680 --> 00:20:26,680 Speaker 1: much of his own ship. Yeah, he pulling out he said, 290 00:20:26,760 --> 00:20:29,360 Speaker 1: too many trends to be a deck, right, like when 291 00:20:29,359 --> 00:20:32,920 Speaker 1: he went around jay Z. Even though idolize you, I'm 292 00:20:32,960 --> 00:20:36,399 Speaker 1: still hipping you. I'm still breaking down barriers with my 293 00:20:36,440 --> 00:20:40,760 Speaker 1: ideals with you, like you don't see, Like we've seen 294 00:20:41,080 --> 00:20:44,679 Speaker 1: different documentaries and with with j were like man Snicker 295 00:20:44,720 --> 00:20:47,919 Speaker 1: is a genius. Like yeah, so Kanye, he brings something 296 00:20:47,960 --> 00:20:49,800 Speaker 1: to the table that I can't be on your deck 297 00:20:49,880 --> 00:20:52,800 Speaker 1: when I know what to do. Yeah, if the nigga 298 00:20:52,880 --> 00:20:55,199 Speaker 1: gives you props, it's impossible for you to be on 299 00:20:55,280 --> 00:20:59,000 Speaker 1: his dick if he if he, if he not knowledges 300 00:20:59,280 --> 00:21:02,520 Speaker 1: and respect your point of view and whatever it is 301 00:21:02,720 --> 00:21:05,160 Speaker 1: that you are bringing to the table. That's not that's 302 00:21:05,200 --> 00:21:08,920 Speaker 1: not reverence for jay Z. But he came in with 303 00:21:08,960 --> 00:21:16,000 Speaker 1: his own ship day Lane. It's the wrong words. Pause 304 00:21:16,600 --> 00:21:19,199 Speaker 1: a dollar tree. So what I want to talk more 305 00:21:19,200 --> 00:21:22,760 Speaker 1: about this Oedipus complex though, because this is like a uh, 306 00:21:22,800 --> 00:21:25,679 Speaker 1: this is like a big thing, especially like recently, like 307 00:21:25,840 --> 00:21:28,520 Speaker 1: on Instagram and Twitter. So what do you like? How 308 00:21:28,560 --> 00:21:30,680 Speaker 1: do y'all feel about that? And do y'all know anybody 309 00:21:30,760 --> 00:21:35,960 Speaker 1: that acts like that? Because I know I do. I 310 00:21:36,000 --> 00:21:41,720 Speaker 1: think it naturally happens, though I think naturally. Oh, you know, 311 00:21:41,760 --> 00:21:45,840 Speaker 1: a woman, a girl gravitation towards their father. It's a 312 00:21:45,840 --> 00:21:47,679 Speaker 1: certain love they can get from their father that you 313 00:21:47,720 --> 00:21:50,199 Speaker 1: can't get from the same. Yeah, I'm I love my 314 00:21:50,320 --> 00:21:58,240 Speaker 1: daddy too, but I'm not like with like. But who 315 00:21:58,240 --> 00:22:01,840 Speaker 1: are we to say? Well, no, I mean everybody everybody 316 00:22:01,920 --> 00:22:04,719 Speaker 1: is first as they love different. Then what is it 317 00:22:04,760 --> 00:22:09,640 Speaker 1: when um they say, like for a little girl, her 318 00:22:09,680 --> 00:22:12,600 Speaker 1: first love should be her man, I mean should be 319 00:22:12,640 --> 00:22:14,560 Speaker 1: her dad. The first love from a man should be 320 00:22:14,600 --> 00:22:18,600 Speaker 1: her dad and her dash a teacher, like you know 321 00:22:18,640 --> 00:22:20,359 Speaker 1: how a man is supposed to love you. Such the woman, 322 00:22:20,440 --> 00:22:22,800 Speaker 1: the little girl first person she's in love with is 323 00:22:22,840 --> 00:22:25,520 Speaker 1: normally her dad because the dad normally is the person 324 00:22:25,560 --> 00:22:28,199 Speaker 1: that shows her and how to mode the type of 325 00:22:28,240 --> 00:22:30,760 Speaker 1: man she should have. So what is that mm hmm, 326 00:22:31,720 --> 00:22:36,359 Speaker 1: is that I've never really grasped the whole concept of 327 00:22:36,440 --> 00:22:38,280 Speaker 1: love versus and love, so Y'll have to talk. I 328 00:22:38,280 --> 00:22:42,720 Speaker 1: don't know love. So when you when you love somebody, 329 00:22:43,440 --> 00:22:48,400 Speaker 1: that means that you care for them. Okay, So here's 330 00:22:48,400 --> 00:22:50,480 Speaker 1: the thing with with love and being in love. So 331 00:22:50,600 --> 00:22:52,960 Speaker 1: when you love somebody, it's like that means that you 332 00:22:53,040 --> 00:22:54,560 Speaker 1: care for them, That means that you want to see 333 00:22:54,560 --> 00:22:57,439 Speaker 1: the best for them. That means that you know, like 334 00:22:57,600 --> 00:23:00,199 Speaker 1: nine times i'd attend, you're probably not going to do 335 00:23:00,240 --> 00:23:03,360 Speaker 1: anything to cross them, my harm them. But when you're 336 00:23:03,480 --> 00:23:08,560 Speaker 1: in love with somebody, that's when those intense emotions come in. 337 00:23:09,040 --> 00:23:12,040 Speaker 1: And when you're in love with somebody, that's when it 338 00:23:12,119 --> 00:23:16,639 Speaker 1: opens the door for those in love feelings to turn 339 00:23:17,160 --> 00:23:30,600 Speaker 1: to envy and hate depending on which direction the relationship goes. Okay, 340 00:23:31,240 --> 00:23:35,639 Speaker 1: you explain, but that so you can't so you can 341 00:23:35,720 --> 00:23:39,080 Speaker 1: be in love with a family member or I thought 342 00:23:39,080 --> 00:23:41,920 Speaker 1: in love was relationships, it loves, That's what I'm saying. 343 00:23:41,960 --> 00:23:45,679 Speaker 1: Most primarily in love has to do with relationships and 344 00:23:45,720 --> 00:23:50,000 Speaker 1: people that you're romantically involved in. And that's why. But 345 00:23:50,240 --> 00:23:52,960 Speaker 1: love can't be with your parents. It should it shouldn't be. 346 00:23:54,240 --> 00:23:59,280 Speaker 1: That's why I say I never understood love. Love to me, 347 00:23:59,359 --> 00:24:04,720 Speaker 1: I don't. It's a different I'm gonna just say like, 348 00:24:05,000 --> 00:24:07,720 Speaker 1: I don't know if it's proper or not, but for me, 349 00:24:07,960 --> 00:24:10,159 Speaker 1: I am in the highest love I could ever be 350 00:24:10,240 --> 00:24:12,480 Speaker 1: with my mom and my daughter. So however you want 351 00:24:12,480 --> 00:24:16,960 Speaker 1: to put that wherever, I'm in love with my daughter, 352 00:24:17,000 --> 00:24:20,040 Speaker 1: anything that goes on, I'm completely tired of. I don't 353 00:24:20,080 --> 00:24:22,320 Speaker 1: feel I feel like we're just using the word and 354 00:24:22,560 --> 00:24:26,480 Speaker 1: I feel like in love become with intimacy. I feel 355 00:24:26,520 --> 00:24:30,560 Speaker 1: like unconditional love is what you're saying. However, the highest 356 00:24:30,600 --> 00:24:33,360 Speaker 1: love whatever, the highest love for your parents and your 357 00:24:34,000 --> 00:24:37,280 Speaker 1: for your mother and your daughter, and I feel like 358 00:24:37,320 --> 00:24:40,159 Speaker 1: to be in love you have to be intimate. We 359 00:24:40,320 --> 00:24:42,080 Speaker 1: just said that, like five minutes. That's what they just said. 360 00:24:42,119 --> 00:24:47,200 Speaker 1: And I just can't understand what. I don't really I 361 00:24:47,280 --> 00:24:50,960 Speaker 1: just be blocking Jay now. It sounded like, but that's 362 00:24:51,000 --> 00:24:59,000 Speaker 1: exactly what she it is. You gotta be you gotta 363 00:24:59,000 --> 00:25:00,680 Speaker 1: be into me to be in love to me, That's 364 00:25:00,680 --> 00:25:03,800 Speaker 1: what and that's why it's so easy for what you 365 00:25:04,040 --> 00:25:11,639 Speaker 1: think love ship to go the Okay, there will be 366 00:25:11,680 --> 00:25:14,840 Speaker 1: nothing what you mean what you mean by that? What 367 00:25:14,960 --> 00:25:16,920 Speaker 1: am my kid? You know? I like that and say 368 00:25:16,920 --> 00:25:22,000 Speaker 1: it again. I feel like you're gonna have to be 369 00:25:22,359 --> 00:25:24,200 Speaker 1: there will be no cheating If that was the case. 370 00:25:24,520 --> 00:25:27,280 Speaker 1: People cheat too much. Is everybody in love every time 371 00:25:27,320 --> 00:25:31,080 Speaker 1: they cheat? You got to think about that. No, no, no, 372 00:25:31,080 --> 00:25:32,680 Speaker 1: no no. I get what you're saying. I get what 373 00:25:32,720 --> 00:25:36,359 Speaker 1: you're saying. You're saying, but just because you being intimate, nothing, 374 00:25:36,359 --> 00:25:38,040 Speaker 1: no mean you're gonna be in love with a person. 375 00:25:38,440 --> 00:25:40,440 Speaker 1: I feel like to be in love, you have to 376 00:25:40,480 --> 00:25:43,119 Speaker 1: be intimate. But every time you was intimate, was you 377 00:25:43,160 --> 00:25:46,840 Speaker 1: in love? No? But you no, no, no, but but 378 00:25:46,960 --> 00:25:48,439 Speaker 1: I ain't never been in love with the motherfucker. I 379 00:25:48,480 --> 00:25:51,480 Speaker 1: wasn't intimate with either. I feel you because I would 380 00:25:51,520 --> 00:25:52,680 Speaker 1: have to give a funk about you in order to 381 00:25:52,720 --> 00:25:56,280 Speaker 1: be intimate with you. Yeah, we're saying, we're saying the 382 00:25:56,359 --> 00:26:03,320 Speaker 1: samething to but she said just a fun yeah exactly, 383 00:26:03,400 --> 00:26:05,440 Speaker 1: but that's still intimate. Yeah. But I'm saying, but I 384 00:26:05,480 --> 00:26:07,840 Speaker 1: ain't in low there but the fun, that's what she's saying. 385 00:26:09,520 --> 00:26:13,240 Speaker 1: But in order to be in love you, you're gonna 386 00:26:13,240 --> 00:26:18,880 Speaker 1: have to know whether or not. Yeah, And that's that's 387 00:26:18,920 --> 00:26:23,280 Speaker 1: where That's where. That's what I was saying. Makes it 388 00:26:23,480 --> 00:26:26,080 Speaker 1: so easy for the in love ship to go left. 389 00:26:26,640 --> 00:26:30,760 Speaker 1: Because when you're intimated, when you're involved, and when you're 390 00:26:30,840 --> 00:26:34,120 Speaker 1: romantically doing stuff with a person and they do something 391 00:26:34,600 --> 00:26:37,520 Speaker 1: that you feel like violates you, that love can turn 392 00:26:37,560 --> 00:26:42,480 Speaker 1: to hate like that. But when you love somebody and 393 00:26:42,680 --> 00:26:48,359 Speaker 1: it's generally not intimate or whatever, then you are able 394 00:26:48,440 --> 00:26:53,880 Speaker 1: to work through your disagreements without it turning into some 395 00:26:54,000 --> 00:26:56,320 Speaker 1: negative ship that would make you want to harm them. 396 00:26:57,000 --> 00:26:59,920 Speaker 1: That's why I just people say in love with the 397 00:27:00,119 --> 00:27:03,200 Speaker 1: puppies and ship. I don't get it. That's what I'm saying. 398 00:27:03,240 --> 00:27:09,120 Speaker 1: I never love you know the difference between just leaving 399 00:27:09,160 --> 00:27:11,600 Speaker 1: it out of that. I'm just saying, I have somebody, people, 400 00:27:11,720 --> 00:27:13,960 Speaker 1: you're so in love with my puppy, like I would 401 00:27:13,960 --> 00:27:21,679 Speaker 1: think they're not being incident with them. That's true. But okay, 402 00:27:21,680 --> 00:27:26,120 Speaker 1: do you feel like the truth I'm so in love 403 00:27:26,640 --> 00:27:34,240 Speaker 1: I'm saying, I'm that's true. Person can't love you too much? Yeah? Yeah, 404 00:27:35,640 --> 00:27:37,359 Speaker 1: so is that when they love you too much? Is 405 00:27:37,400 --> 00:27:40,120 Speaker 1: that them being in love with you? I think that's 406 00:27:40,119 --> 00:27:48,000 Speaker 1: the man obsessively in love with you, sessive belief. Obsessively 407 00:27:49,240 --> 00:27:56,959 Speaker 1: you know that wouldn't be obsessed with you? Right? Yeah? Now, 408 00:27:57,000 --> 00:27:59,359 Speaker 1: I agree. I just think with somebody too much in 409 00:27:59,400 --> 00:28:02,800 Speaker 1: love with somebody else or something else, it's unhealthy. It's 410 00:28:02,880 --> 00:28:06,040 Speaker 1: not a love of love for theirself. You gotta have 411 00:28:06,040 --> 00:28:11,720 Speaker 1: a balance, Like they say that is cool, But don't 412 00:28:11,760 --> 00:28:14,320 Speaker 1: love somebody else to the point where you ain't, where 413 00:28:14,320 --> 00:28:17,840 Speaker 1: you neglect yourself. You feel like when a person is 414 00:28:17,880 --> 00:28:20,200 Speaker 1: it in love with you, that they love you more 415 00:28:20,200 --> 00:28:23,480 Speaker 1: than they love themselves. I don't understand that a love. 416 00:28:23,760 --> 00:28:26,639 Speaker 1: I can't answer that. Do you feel like when a 417 00:28:26,680 --> 00:28:29,400 Speaker 1: person is in love with you, that they love you 418 00:28:29,440 --> 00:28:34,919 Speaker 1: more than they love themselves? Yes? Is that ever a 419 00:28:34,960 --> 00:28:39,080 Speaker 1: good scenario? Though? So love somebody more than you love yourself? Like, 420 00:28:39,120 --> 00:28:42,320 Speaker 1: what if they hold if they hold you to the 421 00:28:42,360 --> 00:28:45,360 Speaker 1: highest regard. I'm something like would have like between the 422 00:28:45,520 --> 00:28:48,520 Speaker 1: parent and the child. They can't say a parent and 423 00:28:48,520 --> 00:28:52,800 Speaker 1: the child because a parent creative the child. So it's 424 00:28:52,840 --> 00:28:56,520 Speaker 1: like there's no limitation to the love there because like 425 00:28:56,680 --> 00:28:59,719 Speaker 1: I actually I made you, and you know what I'm saying, Like, 426 00:29:00,120 --> 00:29:03,120 Speaker 1: but when you come to like relationships and all that 427 00:29:03,200 --> 00:29:05,840 Speaker 1: other ship, it's like it's a it's a thin line 428 00:29:06,800 --> 00:29:08,560 Speaker 1: that person hold you at though you know this aproach 429 00:29:08,600 --> 00:29:10,520 Speaker 1: and hold you to the high regard. How do they 430 00:29:10,680 --> 00:29:15,560 Speaker 1: higher than you even hold yourself? It's like, shit, you 431 00:29:15,600 --> 00:29:18,160 Speaker 1: help me love me through through You know what I'm 432 00:29:18,160 --> 00:29:22,800 Speaker 1: saying is that's give you're the other person. But if 433 00:29:23,320 --> 00:29:26,920 Speaker 1: I love you, if I love you more than you 434 00:29:26,960 --> 00:29:31,560 Speaker 1: love yourself, then that's a positive thing because like beautiful 435 00:29:31,600 --> 00:29:33,800 Speaker 1: things can come from that because I'm gonna help you learn. 436 00:29:33,960 --> 00:29:35,560 Speaker 1: I'm gonna try to help you learn how to love 437 00:29:35,600 --> 00:29:38,560 Speaker 1: as best as I can. But if I love you 438 00:29:38,840 --> 00:29:42,560 Speaker 1: more than I love me, then that is not okay. 439 00:29:42,600 --> 00:29:45,000 Speaker 1: But wouldn't that be with that same example, wouldn't that 440 00:29:45,040 --> 00:29:47,840 Speaker 1: be the other person? What you like? You just said 441 00:29:47,920 --> 00:29:52,320 Speaker 1: that when the person that says, um, I love you, right, 442 00:29:52,480 --> 00:29:55,640 Speaker 1: I love you more than you love yourself, right, that's 443 00:29:55,640 --> 00:29:57,560 Speaker 1: a good thing because I love you more than you 444 00:29:57,600 --> 00:30:00,560 Speaker 1: love yourself. But for the other person on the other 445 00:30:00,600 --> 00:30:04,000 Speaker 1: on the flip end, they're like, you love me more 446 00:30:04,040 --> 00:30:09,040 Speaker 1: than I love myself. That makes me love myself more. Yeah, 447 00:30:07,840 --> 00:30:12,520 Speaker 1: that's what. Me loving you more than you love yourself 448 00:30:13,280 --> 00:30:18,240 Speaker 1: is a beautiful thing because I'm gonna nothing. Only positive 449 00:30:18,280 --> 00:30:20,760 Speaker 1: shape can come from that if it doesn't go too far. 450 00:30:21,200 --> 00:30:25,000 Speaker 1: But me loving you more than I love me, Like, 451 00:30:26,160 --> 00:30:30,280 Speaker 1: that's that's like I'm taking away from me to love 452 00:30:30,360 --> 00:30:33,280 Speaker 1: you more, and that's not that's not a positive thing. 453 00:30:33,440 --> 00:30:35,880 Speaker 1: How does that relate to somebody saying I'll die for you. 454 00:30:36,480 --> 00:30:42,520 Speaker 1: I'm just curious. See that's the same thing, because it's 455 00:30:42,560 --> 00:30:48,800 Speaker 1: like I love more than I love myself. Because you 456 00:30:49,080 --> 00:30:51,600 Speaker 1: if you, if you, if there's nobody in the world 457 00:30:51,600 --> 00:30:54,520 Speaker 1: that you love that you sacrifice your life for, it's 458 00:30:54,600 --> 00:31:01,160 Speaker 1: like you're not like you really love. Like I ain't 459 00:31:01,200 --> 00:31:03,760 Speaker 1: know when the fun up in the seat. Something happened 460 00:31:03,800 --> 00:31:07,120 Speaker 1: to a few people in my life before. I not 461 00:31:07,200 --> 00:31:11,000 Speaker 1: let it happen to me first. Like we've about the wreck, 462 00:31:11,120 --> 00:31:13,720 Speaker 1: we've spend around Spressway. I'm taking my seat that off 463 00:31:13,720 --> 00:31:16,719 Speaker 1: to grab her to get in front of she hit 464 00:31:16,720 --> 00:31:18,520 Speaker 1: her head on the win. She looks ship, I rather 465 00:31:18,600 --> 00:31:21,040 Speaker 1: hit mines, not saying that I love you more than 466 00:31:21,080 --> 00:31:23,040 Speaker 1: but I can't I can't see it happen to you 467 00:31:23,080 --> 00:31:26,200 Speaker 1: when I can't avoid it, and something that I can do. 468 00:31:26,280 --> 00:31:30,080 Speaker 1: But in that same instant, you do love that person 469 00:31:30,400 --> 00:31:35,960 Speaker 1: more than yourself at that time because protector that he'll 470 00:31:36,000 --> 00:31:38,760 Speaker 1: be able to take it, take it better. That's what 471 00:31:39,640 --> 00:31:42,760 Speaker 1: comes with that. Like, So in order to be really 472 00:31:42,800 --> 00:31:45,360 Speaker 1: in love with somebody you and be a real protector, 473 00:31:45,720 --> 00:31:47,520 Speaker 1: you have to love them more than you love yourself. 474 00:31:50,840 --> 00:31:54,840 Speaker 1: Is that is that generally something that only a man 475 00:31:54,960 --> 00:32:00,600 Speaker 1: can do? No? Women? No, But I'm saying since men 476 00:32:00,640 --> 00:32:04,240 Speaker 1: are the natural protectors and are technically supposed to be 477 00:32:04,320 --> 00:32:06,880 Speaker 1: the protectors and all of that, and that scenario probably, 478 00:32:06,880 --> 00:32:09,440 Speaker 1: but a different scenario, the woman might be better equipped 479 00:32:09,440 --> 00:32:12,800 Speaker 1: to handle whatever the situation is that come with it. 480 00:32:12,880 --> 00:32:14,440 Speaker 1: But that's just like giving a car, like if you 481 00:32:14,440 --> 00:32:16,120 Speaker 1: had like a little sister or something. It's just put 482 00:32:16,160 --> 00:32:17,840 Speaker 1: it in the same way, like you have a little 483 00:32:17,840 --> 00:32:19,720 Speaker 1: sister and you jump, I mean, you do exactly what 484 00:32:19,800 --> 00:32:22,320 Speaker 1: he said for your little sister. So it's the same, yeah, 485 00:32:22,360 --> 00:32:26,480 Speaker 1: for sure, Um, but women do it all the time 486 00:32:26,560 --> 00:32:30,240 Speaker 1: for me, And though when they specially is like saying, 487 00:32:30,240 --> 00:32:35,000 Speaker 1: we was talking about a few episodes ago, they if 488 00:32:35,080 --> 00:32:36,920 Speaker 1: you make her look bad and she and she make 489 00:32:36,960 --> 00:32:38,760 Speaker 1: an excuse for you or she takes up for you, 490 00:32:39,360 --> 00:32:41,160 Speaker 1: it ain't that she loving you more. It's it's like 491 00:32:41,200 --> 00:32:44,320 Speaker 1: she loved your image more then she give a funk 492 00:32:44,320 --> 00:32:47,200 Speaker 1: about how she's Yeah, you get what I'm saying. So 493 00:32:47,240 --> 00:32:53,480 Speaker 1: that's the same thing, basically, right and exactly Motherucker's telling 494 00:32:53,480 --> 00:32:55,320 Speaker 1: the undergo true, this niggle is a piece of ship. 495 00:32:55,320 --> 00:32:57,800 Speaker 1: You'd be like not reading it, and you know, hell, 496 00:32:57,840 --> 00:33:01,560 Speaker 1: piece of ship. What are you saying? He may be 497 00:33:01,600 --> 00:33:03,080 Speaker 1: a piece of ship, but not appiece ship to me? 498 00:33:04,400 --> 00:33:17,720 Speaker 1: Nah nah, But I feel like to even being the 499 00:33:17,760 --> 00:33:24,920 Speaker 1: type of relationship that that that that that you have 500 00:33:25,040 --> 00:33:27,720 Speaker 1: to love a person more than you love yourself. Does 501 00:33:27,760 --> 00:33:29,760 Speaker 1: that come to a certain extent you really helped to you? 502 00:33:30,240 --> 00:33:32,160 Speaker 1: Does that come with like marriage? So when you decide 503 00:33:32,200 --> 00:33:34,240 Speaker 1: to marry somebody, it's like both of y'all telling each 504 00:33:34,280 --> 00:33:37,280 Speaker 1: other like, if the time comes, I love you more 505 00:33:37,320 --> 00:33:41,720 Speaker 1: than I love myself because I'm gonna protect you. He said, 506 00:33:42,120 --> 00:33:44,720 Speaker 1: But that was that's in the vows though right to 507 00:33:44,880 --> 00:33:47,800 Speaker 1: death of a well through sitness in the hills. If 508 00:33:47,800 --> 00:33:50,680 Speaker 1: you're gonna part of that, damn y'all give a pouty 509 00:33:51,480 --> 00:33:57,120 Speaker 1: what just now? It wasn't joke. He said in the vow. 510 00:33:57,320 --> 00:34:00,280 Speaker 1: It's so that door's part is in the vows. And 511 00:34:00,280 --> 00:34:02,120 Speaker 1: I was like, if you're all gonna part at death, 512 00:34:02,320 --> 00:34:14,520 Speaker 1: then just come on, we're going. I feel like you 513 00:34:14,520 --> 00:34:18,919 Speaker 1: have to love certain people. I'm sorry. What was saying, 514 00:34:19,200 --> 00:34:22,000 Speaker 1: um about can you get to that point of love 515 00:34:22,120 --> 00:34:29,719 Speaker 1: before marriage? I feel as I think so, Do you 516 00:34:29,760 --> 00:34:32,880 Speaker 1: feel like you already at that love once you decide 517 00:34:32,920 --> 00:34:37,480 Speaker 1: to marry somebody. Well, some people aren't. A lot of 518 00:34:37,520 --> 00:34:43,399 Speaker 1: people ain't. That's a good point. I still love them 519 00:34:43,880 --> 00:34:47,240 Speaker 1: more than what she was saying. You can marry somebody 520 00:34:47,239 --> 00:34:49,120 Speaker 1: and still not be at that level of love that 521 00:34:49,200 --> 00:34:52,600 Speaker 1: you that you there's a lot of people out here 522 00:34:52,640 --> 00:34:56,279 Speaker 1: that are married that I don't really feel. Yeah, it's 523 00:34:56,280 --> 00:34:58,960 Speaker 1: a bucket list thing for some people. That's a whole 524 00:34:58,960 --> 00:35:02,440 Speaker 1: another episode. Love. It is on the bucket list. No marriage, marriage, 525 00:35:03,200 --> 00:35:05,200 Speaker 1: there's just one of those things. Just got to have 526 00:35:05,239 --> 00:35:08,160 Speaker 1: a wedding, you know what I'm saying that though I'm 527 00:35:08,200 --> 00:35:10,160 Speaker 1: saying it's on their bucket list. It ain't. That's why 528 00:35:10,280 --> 00:35:12,520 Speaker 1: sometimes not blaming it on the girls, but sometimes it 529 00:35:12,560 --> 00:35:15,440 Speaker 1: don't work out because it's not because it's forced, right, 530 00:35:15,440 --> 00:35:17,360 Speaker 1: it's a thing they want to experience rather than the 531 00:35:17,400 --> 00:35:22,040 Speaker 1: thing they want to commit to. M interesting perspective. Another 532 00:35:22,040 --> 00:35:29,759 Speaker 1: episode idolatry. That's a good run though, so being uh, 533 00:35:30,480 --> 00:35:34,600 Speaker 1: being transparent to our audience. Is there who who do? 534 00:35:34,640 --> 00:35:45,200 Speaker 1: It's people you're idolized. Yeah, not dick ry, but idolize. 535 00:35:46,320 --> 00:35:49,560 Speaker 1: I have people that I like. I have a few 536 00:35:49,560 --> 00:35:52,839 Speaker 1: people that like I love to death and that you know, 537 00:35:52,960 --> 00:35:55,200 Speaker 1: like when we're talking about the love ship, that I 538 00:35:55,239 --> 00:35:58,040 Speaker 1: feel super strongly about and that I want to protect 539 00:35:58,080 --> 00:36:00,880 Speaker 1: in all of that ship. But as far like idolizing 540 00:36:00,880 --> 00:36:05,520 Speaker 1: the nigga didn't look at I don't know who the 541 00:36:05,560 --> 00:36:08,080 Speaker 1: person was. You didn't look at it. You might not 542 00:36:08,719 --> 00:36:11,279 Speaker 1: a quickly like a Janet Jackson or open. I don't 543 00:36:11,280 --> 00:36:13,799 Speaker 1: know anybody. Like there's nobody that you ever idolized, like 544 00:36:14,920 --> 00:36:19,479 Speaker 1: I thought they were cool, right, but you didn't think word? 545 00:36:19,640 --> 00:36:21,480 Speaker 1: But I did. I didn't, you know what I'm saying. 546 00:36:21,520 --> 00:36:23,920 Speaker 1: I didn't feel like I didn't I felt like I 547 00:36:24,440 --> 00:36:28,840 Speaker 1: appreciated what they were doing and I appreciated like what 548 00:36:29,120 --> 00:36:32,879 Speaker 1: she did. Like take Opra for instance, Like I appreciated 549 00:36:32,920 --> 00:36:35,400 Speaker 1: like what she did and how hard she worked to 550 00:36:35,480 --> 00:36:37,759 Speaker 1: earn the money that she made to be able to 551 00:36:37,800 --> 00:36:39,319 Speaker 1: make the moves that she was making to take care 552 00:36:39,320 --> 00:36:42,239 Speaker 1: of her family, and but it wasn't a situation where 553 00:36:42,400 --> 00:36:49,120 Speaker 1: like I was trying to emulate Oprah. Like, yeah, I 554 00:36:49,160 --> 00:36:53,480 Speaker 1: can say that I've been inspired by men, but I 555 00:36:53,480 --> 00:36:57,040 Speaker 1: ain't never idolized nothing. Not even know my parents. But 556 00:36:57,480 --> 00:37:01,640 Speaker 1: I've had extreme admiration for a lot of people. But 557 00:37:01,920 --> 00:37:04,279 Speaker 1: idol just seemed like a heavy word. Yeah, Like if 558 00:37:04,320 --> 00:37:06,480 Speaker 1: I just want to be you, I ain't never want 559 00:37:06,520 --> 00:37:08,920 Speaker 1: to be Jordan was a superhero. I don't know what 560 00:37:08,960 --> 00:37:10,719 Speaker 1: that mean, but I did think that Nigga was like 561 00:37:10,920 --> 00:37:13,920 Speaker 1: superhuman to like, he's my favorite. He's my favorite, but 562 00:37:14,000 --> 00:37:18,160 Speaker 1: I ain't. I don't want to play right. He's my 563 00:37:18,200 --> 00:37:23,200 Speaker 1: favorite basketball nigga. But I don't want to be you. 564 00:37:23,280 --> 00:37:25,160 Speaker 1: I don't want to talk like you. I don't want 565 00:37:25,160 --> 00:37:28,520 Speaker 1: to be I ain't nether nigga. I wanted to be Yeah, 566 00:37:30,640 --> 00:37:33,160 Speaker 1: I did when I was a kid. I ain't gonna 567 00:37:33,160 --> 00:37:36,480 Speaker 1: lie to y'all. I want to I idolized Lauren Hill 568 00:37:36,520 --> 00:37:38,680 Speaker 1: and Erica, but I do. I swore by them being 569 00:37:38,680 --> 00:37:42,880 Speaker 1: my lesbian parents. I am Lauren Hill's egg and ericabot 570 00:37:42,880 --> 00:37:45,400 Speaker 1: to his body, Like I swear to you, like I 571 00:37:46,160 --> 00:37:49,480 Speaker 1: really really really like everything that they did. When I 572 00:37:49,480 --> 00:37:51,799 Speaker 1: was a kid, I was so into like even how 573 00:37:51,840 --> 00:37:56,560 Speaker 1: I dressed a lot of that, Like I really idolized Erica. 574 00:37:56,600 --> 00:37:58,480 Speaker 1: But I do, like I ain't gonna lie as a kid, 575 00:37:58,480 --> 00:38:00,799 Speaker 1: you know, grown that later trying to be now. I 576 00:38:00,840 --> 00:38:03,000 Speaker 1: mean once I met them, like once I've seen them 577 00:38:03,000 --> 00:38:05,000 Speaker 1: out just like, okay, they dope, Like that's a dope. 578 00:38:05,719 --> 00:38:08,560 Speaker 1: But I ain't still down my phone looking for him now. 579 00:38:08,640 --> 00:38:13,680 Speaker 1: But middle school, high school, yes, I was doing that 580 00:38:13,800 --> 00:38:18,080 Speaker 1: might be healthy at that age, beah, honest, I don't know. 581 00:38:19,160 --> 00:38:22,640 Speaker 1: I can't journey. Whose journey I did in mind is 582 00:38:22,680 --> 00:38:25,000 Speaker 1: definitely after seeing a documentary, and it really opened up 583 00:38:25,000 --> 00:38:29,000 Speaker 1: to that ship for sure, like going from where he 584 00:38:29,200 --> 00:38:31,600 Speaker 1: was back then were growing up in Chicago, chasing that 585 00:38:31,600 --> 00:38:35,040 Speaker 1: ship to who we is now. That ship was inspirational, 586 00:38:35,440 --> 00:38:37,920 Speaker 1: that's the key word. I think it's an inspiration and 587 00:38:37,960 --> 00:38:41,040 Speaker 1: the idol is different. But I think you have to 588 00:38:41,080 --> 00:38:44,839 Speaker 1: have parallel but they're different. Yeah, because sometimes people don't 589 00:38:44,880 --> 00:38:48,040 Speaker 1: have an idolis they they have the idolatry for somebody 590 00:38:48,440 --> 00:38:51,719 Speaker 1: just off the aesthetic. Not there's nothing. It's really surface level, 591 00:38:52,000 --> 00:38:54,080 Speaker 1: like you just want to beat them and beat them, 592 00:38:54,480 --> 00:38:56,799 Speaker 1: just beat them, you feel me. But like when when 593 00:38:56,800 --> 00:38:59,120 Speaker 1: somebody inspires you, that can also be a dollar free. 594 00:38:59,280 --> 00:39:01,440 Speaker 1: But you're right by the journey because you may have 595 00:39:01,480 --> 00:39:03,239 Speaker 1: came from the same spot. You may see some of 596 00:39:03,280 --> 00:39:07,160 Speaker 1: the same traits you you have within them and you say, damn, 597 00:39:08,640 --> 00:39:11,799 Speaker 1: that's me, Like I really I see their journey. So 598 00:39:11,880 --> 00:39:13,279 Speaker 1: if they can do that ship, I can do that 599 00:39:13,280 --> 00:39:15,080 Speaker 1: ship too. That could be a part of it. I 600 00:39:15,080 --> 00:39:16,800 Speaker 1: think that's healthy. But if you just want to be 601 00:39:16,920 --> 00:39:18,800 Speaker 1: somebody to get plast surgey, look like them, walk like 602 00:39:18,840 --> 00:39:22,000 Speaker 1: I'm talking like them, you're damn there like a clone. Yeah, yeah, 603 00:39:22,040 --> 00:39:25,080 Speaker 1: I agree. So what would y'all say to somebody that, 604 00:39:25,520 --> 00:39:29,800 Speaker 1: because this could be a reality, idolizees y'all, Well, everybody 605 00:39:29,880 --> 00:39:32,000 Speaker 1: here might have somebody to idolize it. That would it 606 00:39:32,040 --> 00:39:33,960 Speaker 1: be a family member, a fan, or whatever the cases. 607 00:39:33,960 --> 00:39:38,400 Speaker 1: What would y'all say to them? I would say that, um, 608 00:39:38,480 --> 00:39:43,319 Speaker 1: I really appreciate the level of respect that you have 609 00:39:43,400 --> 00:39:47,440 Speaker 1: to have for somebody to want to idolize them, but 610 00:39:47,600 --> 00:39:59,480 Speaker 1: I would encourage them to just not like my my 611 00:40:00,040 --> 00:40:05,520 Speaker 1: m hm dick, but I would like, I would encourage 612 00:40:05,560 --> 00:40:09,920 Speaker 1: them to take whatever bits and pieces of me that 613 00:40:10,200 --> 00:40:14,160 Speaker 1: led them to that inspiration and incorporate that into themselves 614 00:40:14,520 --> 00:40:17,759 Speaker 1: so that they could be their own person with my 615 00:40:17,880 --> 00:40:23,440 Speaker 1: little bits and pieces, the best version of themselves. Yeah. Me, 616 00:40:23,600 --> 00:40:27,960 Speaker 1: I feel like if a nigga gets any type of 617 00:40:29,200 --> 00:40:32,360 Speaker 1: have any type of admiration, or get any type of 618 00:40:32,760 --> 00:40:36,920 Speaker 1: what you call it inspiration for me, they already know like, 619 00:40:37,000 --> 00:40:39,080 Speaker 1: I ain't a neig to idolize. I'm just a nigga. 620 00:40:39,320 --> 00:40:41,960 Speaker 1: I can learn from a pick up ship from and 621 00:40:41,960 --> 00:40:43,879 Speaker 1: then nigga and got it out. He ain't gotta figure 622 00:40:43,880 --> 00:40:46,200 Speaker 1: it out either, you know what I'm saying. So if 623 00:40:46,239 --> 00:40:48,640 Speaker 1: you if you're watching me, watching my journey, follow me, 624 00:40:48,680 --> 00:40:52,880 Speaker 1: you know like I can't. I can't mimic that a 625 00:40:52,960 --> 00:40:57,040 Speaker 1: nigga can try to change. Nigga can't try to be 626 00:40:57,160 --> 00:41:00,560 Speaker 1: something different, So you can't idolize somebody. It ain't even 627 00:41:01,800 --> 00:41:04,960 Speaker 1: fully all the way in. You get what I'm saying. 628 00:41:06,360 --> 00:41:09,120 Speaker 1: So you've been damn food. I lied me because I'm 629 00:41:09,120 --> 00:41:13,520 Speaker 1: still trying to figure this you that, but we appreciate. 630 00:41:15,160 --> 00:41:17,759 Speaker 1: I hope that that me wanted to figure it out. 631 00:41:17,840 --> 00:41:20,640 Speaker 1: Me showing y'all that I can't do certain things or 632 00:41:21,680 --> 00:41:25,480 Speaker 1: sit here and beyond TV or lose weight or whatever. Yeah, yeah, 633 00:41:25,480 --> 00:41:27,279 Speaker 1: I hope you get inspired by that. But just know, 634 00:41:27,719 --> 00:41:31,319 Speaker 1: it's just that's just the first level of Yeah, I'm 635 00:41:31,320 --> 00:41:33,600 Speaker 1: still trying to slice through all that ship, mental ship 636 00:41:33,680 --> 00:41:36,719 Speaker 1: all that. You know what I'm saying, basically telling them 637 00:41:36,719 --> 00:41:39,120 Speaker 1: you're human, but sure you might see me like this, 638 00:41:39,239 --> 00:41:42,160 Speaker 1: but sho, I'm human too, and yeah, get online. I 639 00:41:42,200 --> 00:41:46,640 Speaker 1: got the same problems as y'all, still have the capacity 640 00:41:46,680 --> 00:41:49,800 Speaker 1: to funk up, But it's just I'm at a point 641 00:41:49,880 --> 00:41:52,520 Speaker 1: in the place now in my life to where I'm 642 00:41:52,560 --> 00:41:56,000 Speaker 1: able to manage those funk ups a little bit better. Yeah, 643 00:41:57,239 --> 00:41:58,960 Speaker 1: for sure. But if you have a lot of the 644 00:41:59,000 --> 00:42:05,080 Speaker 1: coda he had problems shot for me, I just I 645 00:42:05,120 --> 00:42:07,240 Speaker 1: don't know. I think I'll just tell everybody I'm flawed 646 00:42:07,280 --> 00:42:09,560 Speaker 1: as fun and I put my pants one leg at 647 00:42:09,600 --> 00:42:14,520 Speaker 1: a time like everybody else do. And I'm I ain't 648 00:42:14,560 --> 00:42:16,239 Speaker 1: the one that really just look up to. If you 649 00:42:16,360 --> 00:42:18,960 Speaker 1: have anything you want to ask, I'm pretty easy as hell, 650 00:42:19,560 --> 00:42:21,160 Speaker 1: So like you could talk to me. I'll tell you 651 00:42:21,239 --> 00:42:22,800 Speaker 1: how I got to me where I'm am. You know 652 00:42:22,840 --> 00:42:25,120 Speaker 1: what I'm saying, I help you walk you to all 653 00:42:25,160 --> 00:42:31,600 Speaker 1: that ship. I'm just flawed like everybody else. When I 654 00:42:31,640 --> 00:42:37,520 Speaker 1: get big, yeah, that's another thing, like go ahead, And 655 00:42:37,600 --> 00:42:40,880 Speaker 1: I got to say. I feel like when when people 656 00:42:40,960 --> 00:42:42,719 Speaker 1: look at our dollars, try they try to think, Okay, 657 00:42:42,760 --> 00:42:45,280 Speaker 1: I gotta copy these stuffs, like I gotta go to school, 658 00:42:45,320 --> 00:42:47,440 Speaker 1: I gotta work here, I gotta work there. But I 659 00:42:47,520 --> 00:42:50,400 Speaker 1: feel like with me, it's like, if you wanna do 660 00:42:50,760 --> 00:42:53,479 Speaker 1: do ship that I did, I can't give. I can't. 661 00:42:53,520 --> 00:42:55,719 Speaker 1: You can't follow what I did exactly because we all 662 00:42:55,840 --> 00:42:58,760 Speaker 1: have different resources. You may not have the same resources 663 00:42:58,840 --> 00:43:00,680 Speaker 1: that I have, and so you do the same, the 664 00:43:00,719 --> 00:43:02,440 Speaker 1: exact same thing that I did. It might not work 665 00:43:02,480 --> 00:43:05,239 Speaker 1: out for you. But I feel like the thing, if 666 00:43:05,280 --> 00:43:07,640 Speaker 1: you are somebody who's been watching what I've been doing 667 00:43:07,680 --> 00:43:10,839 Speaker 1: from day one, ship, just don't stop. That's like, whatever 668 00:43:10,880 --> 00:43:13,480 Speaker 1: you don't, whatever you're gonna do, just don't quit because 669 00:43:13,560 --> 00:43:17,120 Speaker 1: people get discouraged. I had a bunch of failures, but 670 00:43:17,640 --> 00:43:21,040 Speaker 1: the things that made me fail got me here, and 671 00:43:21,120 --> 00:43:23,040 Speaker 1: I couldn't I would I probably wouldn't be the same 672 00:43:23,080 --> 00:43:25,399 Speaker 1: person if I didn't get kicked off the football team, 673 00:43:25,680 --> 00:43:27,799 Speaker 1: if I didn't get fired from my first radio job, 674 00:43:28,280 --> 00:43:30,640 Speaker 1: if I didn't get fired from tim Z. All that 675 00:43:30,760 --> 00:43:43,160 Speaker 1: ship was important to get me here. Yeah it No, listen, 676 00:43:44,800 --> 00:43:48,640 Speaker 1: no let me tell let me tell you what. No, 677 00:43:48,800 --> 00:43:50,600 Speaker 1: let me tell you I did. But it's it's kind 678 00:43:50,640 --> 00:43:54,279 Speaker 1: of like if you if you stopped working, you stopped working, 679 00:43:54,320 --> 00:43:57,520 Speaker 1: you know what's gonna happen. If you stopped working, you 680 00:43:57,600 --> 00:44:00,400 Speaker 1: know what's gonna happen. So that's really what where it 681 00:44:00,440 --> 00:44:02,960 Speaker 1: happened in that situation like that don't asked me to 682 00:44:03,040 --> 00:44:04,680 Speaker 1: do a bunch of it I didn't agree with, So 683 00:44:04,760 --> 00:44:06,680 Speaker 1: I just stopped going. So eventually I got a car, 684 00:44:09,960 --> 00:44:19,520 Speaker 1: you know. But but all that ship, all that ship 685 00:44:19,640 --> 00:44:22,120 Speaker 1: really led me to get here. So if you are 686 00:44:22,200 --> 00:44:24,320 Speaker 1: watching this ship that I do, like, you're gonna have 687 00:44:24,480 --> 00:44:26,359 Speaker 1: some fun up days, maybe a funked up week, maybe 688 00:44:26,400 --> 00:44:29,120 Speaker 1: it sucked up month. But you can't stop. You can't 689 00:44:29,160 --> 00:44:31,719 Speaker 1: live the bad ship that in life happens. The bad 690 00:44:31,760 --> 00:44:34,480 Speaker 1: ship in life that happens to you discourage you because 691 00:44:35,960 --> 00:44:40,600 Speaker 1: so did that? Did that background experience traumatize you? Boom? 692 00:44:43,160 --> 00:44:50,920 Speaker 1: You can't talk about it, and I don't care. You know, 693 00:44:51,040 --> 00:44:54,600 Speaker 1: you got something that can't The position that we in, 694 00:44:54,719 --> 00:44:57,680 Speaker 1: we have to give out certain information even if we 695 00:44:57,719 --> 00:44:59,919 Speaker 1: don't follow it all the way. You get what I'm saying. 696 00:45:00,080 --> 00:45:02,759 Speaker 1: So you might hear me say some ship, it sounds good, 697 00:45:02,920 --> 00:45:05,439 Speaker 1: like I gotta figure it out. No, somebody else told 698 00:45:05,480 --> 00:45:07,480 Speaker 1: me that, But I ain't some of that ship. I 699 00:45:07,520 --> 00:45:10,080 Speaker 1: won't be tapped in on it yet. Eiven. I just 700 00:45:10,280 --> 00:45:13,359 Speaker 1: no better. But sometimes I don't do better. You get 701 00:45:13,400 --> 00:45:15,320 Speaker 1: what I'm saying. So I don't want to sound you know, 702 00:45:15,680 --> 00:45:19,600 Speaker 1: I feel like um contradicting myself when I say certain ship. 703 00:45:19,680 --> 00:45:21,480 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, Like I can say all day, 704 00:45:21,560 --> 00:45:23,279 Speaker 1: you're supposed to do this, so you're supposed to do that. 705 00:45:23,480 --> 00:45:25,440 Speaker 1: Then turn around you see me online doing this ship 706 00:45:25,600 --> 00:45:27,719 Speaker 1: like yeah, and then they just said I'm being fat. Man, 707 00:45:27,719 --> 00:45:31,040 Speaker 1: you don't do that, but ship, Hey, that's that's let 708 00:45:31,120 --> 00:45:34,200 Speaker 1: you know. I ain't need to be exactly. I'm just 709 00:45:34,280 --> 00:45:36,640 Speaker 1: giving a message like yeah, that's what we're supposed to 710 00:45:36,680 --> 00:45:39,000 Speaker 1: be doing. But hey man, I'm I'm gonna suck up. 711 00:45:39,200 --> 00:45:41,320 Speaker 1: I'm not saying that I'm doing it. I'm saying I 712 00:45:41,440 --> 00:45:45,800 Speaker 1: want to do it. Yeah, I'm trying, but I'm just like, 713 00:45:46,040 --> 00:45:48,200 Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, I could start smuggling. We've 714 00:45:48,280 --> 00:45:49,879 Speaker 1: forgotten them too or three months and then I want 715 00:45:49,880 --> 00:45:52,400 Speaker 1: to smoke it. You get what I'm saying. So I 716 00:45:52,440 --> 00:45:54,720 Speaker 1: ain't even get on here me like weird is wrong. 717 00:45:56,440 --> 00:45:57,759 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. I'm gonna saying, Hey, yeah, 718 00:45:57,760 --> 00:45:59,440 Speaker 1: that are you thinking about. I'm gonna give you the 719 00:45:59,520 --> 00:46:02,440 Speaker 1: pros and the on counse of ship, right, you know 720 00:46:02,440 --> 00:46:04,080 Speaker 1: what I'm saying. But that don't mean that I'm always 721 00:46:04,120 --> 00:46:15,680 Speaker 1: gonna follow the prosau you're con artists. But for really 722 00:46:15,800 --> 00:46:17,319 Speaker 1: or now, you have to put that out there because 723 00:46:17,360 --> 00:46:19,759 Speaker 1: people look at you because you say certain ship and 724 00:46:19,840 --> 00:46:23,080 Speaker 1: be like even the preachers in the church, even the 725 00:46:23,160 --> 00:46:25,280 Speaker 1: preachers in the church is like, man, how this nigga 726 00:46:25,400 --> 00:46:28,440 Speaker 1: saying this and he doing this? He just giving you 727 00:46:28,520 --> 00:46:31,239 Speaker 1: the message that God's giving him to give you. That 728 00:46:31,400 --> 00:46:33,920 Speaker 1: don't mean he ain't a whole fuck me when he 729 00:46:34,040 --> 00:46:37,200 Speaker 1: takes that role bout just because he know the way 730 00:46:37,280 --> 00:46:41,640 Speaker 1: on me, he going that way. So that's why you 731 00:46:41,719 --> 00:46:45,480 Speaker 1: don't supposed to worship people, right, because you can learn 732 00:46:45,520 --> 00:46:47,160 Speaker 1: ship from anybody. You can learn it from three year 733 00:46:47,160 --> 00:46:50,279 Speaker 1: old like phoo, my grand babymy timmy granddad. I don't 734 00:46:50,320 --> 00:46:54,279 Speaker 1: say that, and we're being public. I'm just CUsing say 735 00:46:54,320 --> 00:46:56,480 Speaker 1: a cusiner, she said, Dad, I don't say that, but 736 00:46:56,600 --> 00:47:01,279 Speaker 1: I'm taking it is like, damn that is. You get 737 00:47:01,320 --> 00:47:02,840 Speaker 1: what I'm saying. But I just learned something from a 738 00:47:02,880 --> 00:47:07,040 Speaker 1: four year old. I'm looking at it. There's nothing saying 739 00:47:07,080 --> 00:47:08,719 Speaker 1: it like I'm saying that low but she heard me like, 740 00:47:08,800 --> 00:47:11,920 Speaker 1: don't say that and it but that's a message coming 741 00:47:11,960 --> 00:47:14,480 Speaker 1: from a little girl that probably came from God exactly. 742 00:47:14,520 --> 00:47:16,600 Speaker 1: You get what I'm saying. So you can't just look 743 00:47:16,640 --> 00:47:18,920 Speaker 1: at the person to feel like I can't learn from 744 00:47:18,960 --> 00:47:22,480 Speaker 1: this person because of their mistakes, certain circumstances or whatever. 745 00:47:22,640 --> 00:47:25,319 Speaker 1: Like yeah, that's why I take everything in and use 746 00:47:25,400 --> 00:47:28,480 Speaker 1: it and see if it matches with my soul. You 747 00:47:28,520 --> 00:47:30,239 Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. I take in everything. Give a 748 00:47:30,280 --> 00:47:33,520 Speaker 1: funk who said I don't dismiss nobody's conversation. They say 749 00:47:33,600 --> 00:47:35,440 Speaker 1: something to me, I've taken in and see if it 750 00:47:35,520 --> 00:47:39,000 Speaker 1: aligns with my soul. If it, don't throw that ship out. 751 00:47:39,040 --> 00:47:41,520 Speaker 1: If you do, I keep it right. You see what 752 00:47:41,520 --> 00:47:45,520 Speaker 1: I'm saying. Yeah, like you donna know like when when 753 00:47:45,600 --> 00:47:48,359 Speaker 1: the reject and whatnot, Like you'll be a damned fool 754 00:47:48,400 --> 00:47:51,239 Speaker 1: to try to reject something that you felt. That's who 755 00:47:51,280 --> 00:47:53,120 Speaker 1: we go wrong. Yet, somebody can say something to you 756 00:47:53,239 --> 00:47:55,200 Speaker 1: and you know you feel it, but due to the 757 00:47:55,360 --> 00:47:57,680 Speaker 1: to the person it is, you'd be like, I don't 758 00:47:57,680 --> 00:47:59,120 Speaker 1: know what the fun you're talking about, But bro, you 759 00:47:59,200 --> 00:48:03,560 Speaker 1: just felt that. So you're gonna dismiss how you feel 760 00:48:03,640 --> 00:48:07,560 Speaker 1: because of who's saying No, you crazy people do that 761 00:48:07,600 --> 00:48:09,719 Speaker 1: because they ain't even ready you know what I'm saying. 762 00:48:09,719 --> 00:48:11,959 Speaker 1: It's easier to do stuff or to be a certain 763 00:48:11,960 --> 00:48:13,960 Speaker 1: way where you don't know. But if somebody tell you 764 00:48:14,120 --> 00:48:16,359 Speaker 1: something and now you gotta hold yourself accountable, people don't 765 00:48:16,360 --> 00:48:18,520 Speaker 1: be wanting to do no. It all take It all 766 00:48:18,560 --> 00:48:20,600 Speaker 1: appears on the level of respect you here for the 767 00:48:20,640 --> 00:48:23,040 Speaker 1: person or how you're taking in. Because Kodak can say 768 00:48:23,080 --> 00:48:25,080 Speaker 1: something to J and j B like I mean, I 769 00:48:25,120 --> 00:48:27,160 Speaker 1: can say something j J be like man because she 770 00:48:27,239 --> 00:48:30,320 Speaker 1: know I'm some bullshit, but Kodak said she's taking in this. Okay, 771 00:48:30,360 --> 00:48:32,879 Speaker 1: I go with that because code that really don't tell 772 00:48:32,960 --> 00:48:35,480 Speaker 1: me ship you get what I'm saying? Black, I always 773 00:48:35,480 --> 00:48:37,960 Speaker 1: saying something, You get what I'm saying. So it's like 774 00:48:38,400 --> 00:48:40,920 Speaker 1: I take it in different fromhen Screen said, because I 775 00:48:41,080 --> 00:48:43,680 Speaker 1: must be fucking up. But bank On te him I'm 776 00:48:43,680 --> 00:48:45,640 Speaker 1: sucking up, twining foe because he want to be perfect. 777 00:48:46,640 --> 00:48:48,360 Speaker 1: But Screen pulled into the side and tell me this. 778 00:48:48,480 --> 00:48:51,680 Speaker 1: It's like, Jay, check yourself. You get what I'm saying. 779 00:48:52,239 --> 00:48:55,080 Speaker 1: People gonna receive ship different from whoever they come from, 780 00:48:56,160 --> 00:48:58,480 Speaker 1: because you I might be telling her Jay, don't drink 781 00:48:58,480 --> 00:49:00,400 Speaker 1: before you got damn, come on on the show, but 782 00:49:00,480 --> 00:49:03,680 Speaker 1: then I'm drunk on the show. M you get what 783 00:49:03,760 --> 00:49:06,319 Speaker 1: I'm saying. So like, but Screen and tell that because 784 00:49:06,360 --> 00:49:08,520 Speaker 1: he don't drink. Damn. I think that come back though, 785 00:49:08,600 --> 00:49:12,760 Speaker 1: to that love for somebody else, not more than yourself, 786 00:49:12,800 --> 00:49:15,320 Speaker 1: but wanting wanting more for them to use something to 787 00:49:15,440 --> 00:49:17,880 Speaker 1: come back to that. Yes, the same ship with raising kids. 788 00:49:17,920 --> 00:49:20,480 Speaker 1: It's like you can tell them something because you don't 789 00:49:20,480 --> 00:49:22,600 Speaker 1: want to see them do what you already done did, 790 00:49:22,760 --> 00:49:24,600 Speaker 1: but they're looking at like you it was okay for you. 791 00:49:25,440 --> 00:49:29,000 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, But it was it wasn't okay. 792 00:49:30,880 --> 00:49:36,319 Speaker 1: But did it already? You know what I'm saying. Yeah, 793 00:49:37,680 --> 00:49:40,279 Speaker 1: I don't know. I guess what I'm saying. Y'all get 794 00:49:40,280 --> 00:49:42,680 Speaker 1: what I'm saying. What I'm because I'm counting to the 795 00:49:43,000 --> 00:49:50,080 Speaker 1: uber and Joe Bird nah, But you know, I guess 796 00:49:50,120 --> 00:49:52,239 Speaker 1: it's the same thing, like if if I'm a drink, 797 00:49:52,680 --> 00:49:55,640 Speaker 1: I'd rather look like a food in her Yeah, you 798 00:49:55,680 --> 00:49:57,080 Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. I'd rather be in the comment 799 00:49:57,160 --> 00:49:59,759 Speaker 1: like I'd rather be coming mother to come in like 800 00:50:00,000 --> 00:50:01,640 Speaker 1: think a bank stupid and me reading it it hurt 801 00:50:01,680 --> 00:50:04,279 Speaker 1: me more reading it. They saying, Jade stupid. You get 802 00:50:04,320 --> 00:50:07,719 Speaker 1: what I'm saying, But then that goes back to the 803 00:50:07,760 --> 00:50:10,279 Speaker 1: screen saying, is that like loving somebody more than you 804 00:50:10,400 --> 00:50:13,760 Speaker 1: love yourself, like you rather you rather you look crazy 805 00:50:14,400 --> 00:50:16,680 Speaker 1: versus Jay looking crazy? Because you know what I'm saying. 806 00:50:17,440 --> 00:50:19,040 Speaker 1: I just know, I just yeah, I can take it. 807 00:50:19,080 --> 00:50:20,960 Speaker 1: It ain't me loving her more than I love myself. 808 00:50:20,960 --> 00:50:23,080 Speaker 1: It's this I don't know how she's gonna take I 809 00:50:23,200 --> 00:50:26,279 Speaker 1: get on thentrol with them nigga like suck my dick. 810 00:50:27,760 --> 00:50:30,040 Speaker 1: I couldn't come in and troll with them. She's gonna 811 00:50:30,080 --> 00:50:34,279 Speaker 1: take it personal and not saying that her personally gonna 812 00:50:34,320 --> 00:50:36,680 Speaker 1: take She may take it. I may feel like she's 813 00:50:36,680 --> 00:50:38,800 Speaker 1: gonna take it personal right, or it may do something 814 00:50:38,880 --> 00:50:41,279 Speaker 1: to her or traumatize or something. So I don't want 815 00:50:41,320 --> 00:50:43,239 Speaker 1: to see that for her. But me, it's not gonna 816 00:50:43,280 --> 00:50:45,960 Speaker 1: do ship for me because I know what my choice is. 817 00:50:46,040 --> 00:50:48,680 Speaker 1: I know I might be over here stuttering with words 818 00:50:48,920 --> 00:50:51,640 Speaker 1: or all the goddesses would to say the wrong ship. 819 00:50:51,680 --> 00:50:55,439 Speaker 1: I don't give it just sain't well I didn't. I didn't. 820 00:50:55,440 --> 00:50:58,680 Speaker 1: I didn't have dreams of being a podcaster, So I 821 00:50:58,760 --> 00:51:01,640 Speaker 1: can I can grow in these folks face in their eyes. Yeah, 822 00:51:02,120 --> 00:51:04,120 Speaker 1: I don't get with them. They see me growing right 823 00:51:04,160 --> 00:51:06,080 Speaker 1: before the eyes because it's something that I never thought 824 00:51:06,120 --> 00:51:08,520 Speaker 1: i'd do. This, something going on me so blessing, So 825 00:51:09,200 --> 00:51:13,280 Speaker 1: I can't come to motherfucking be God them Joe Rogan 826 00:51:13,520 --> 00:51:16,200 Speaker 1: the first couple of years of this ship. No, I'm 827 00:51:16,239 --> 00:51:18,239 Speaker 1: gonna allow myself to grow into the person that I 828 00:51:18,360 --> 00:51:20,200 Speaker 1: need to be in this ship. If y'all don't like it, 829 00:51:20,480 --> 00:51:27,640 Speaker 1: fuck what it is? My tripping right now? So how 830 00:51:27,719 --> 00:51:29,720 Speaker 1: do they go? But some people feel like they're supposed 831 00:51:29,719 --> 00:51:32,359 Speaker 1: to get it immediately, you know what I'm saying, I'm 832 00:51:32,400 --> 00:51:34,440 Speaker 1: a podcast to them this and they started to take 833 00:51:34,520 --> 00:51:39,160 Speaker 1: things personal, especially women, you know what I'm saying. They're 834 00:51:39,239 --> 00:51:42,520 Speaker 1: emotional creatures. So if I'm saying, Jay, don't have gone 835 00:51:42,560 --> 00:51:44,040 Speaker 1: me your mom, like, you know what I'm saying, because 836 00:51:44,080 --> 00:51:45,600 Speaker 1: I know people reading it come in and they can't 837 00:51:45,640 --> 00:51:48,600 Speaker 1: wait to bash women and bash people and bash us, 838 00:51:48,719 --> 00:51:51,880 Speaker 1: bash that black socks with his white shoe. You know 839 00:51:51,880 --> 00:51:54,560 Speaker 1: what I'm saying. They gotta do that. People gonna do that, 840 00:51:54,760 --> 00:51:57,600 Speaker 1: But he don't do it before doing next episode. Yeah, 841 00:51:57,640 --> 00:51:59,239 Speaker 1: but I'm saying he don't give a funk, But y'all 842 00:51:59,320 --> 00:52:02,319 Speaker 1: make yeah, and I gotta do to me, I gotta 843 00:52:02,360 --> 00:52:04,439 Speaker 1: deal with that, seeing that you feel a way about 844 00:52:04,840 --> 00:52:07,879 Speaker 1: ship that you shouldn't feel a way about. Yeah, it's 845 00:52:07,960 --> 00:52:10,839 Speaker 1: like protection. I don't know a word. It's a better 846 00:52:10,880 --> 00:52:14,600 Speaker 1: word for it. It's not like loving protection over protection, 847 00:52:14,760 --> 00:52:18,640 Speaker 1: over protection because she may not give a funk for real, 848 00:52:19,080 --> 00:52:20,759 Speaker 1: but I just may see some ship that I may 849 00:52:20,840 --> 00:52:22,920 Speaker 1: feel like she should give a funk about and give 850 00:52:22,960 --> 00:52:27,560 Speaker 1: a funk about it. Yeah, over protection, I like it. 851 00:52:28,360 --> 00:52:37,399 Speaker 1: That's true. So the word is idolatry and complex is complex. Yeah, 852 00:52:37,440 --> 00:52:40,080 Speaker 1: I can't speak on that. I ain't never seen them. 853 00:52:40,440 --> 00:52:42,320 Speaker 1: That is kind of weird, Like when needs to be 854 00:52:42,440 --> 00:52:44,839 Speaker 1: kissing their grown kids in their mouth and ship own't 855 00:52:45,800 --> 00:52:48,600 Speaker 1: and like mama and they. But but a lot of 856 00:52:49,480 --> 00:52:52,160 Speaker 1: do you okay, so you can't see how people household 857 00:52:52,239 --> 00:52:59,320 Speaker 1: is raised like a dolt, like a man grown. A 858 00:52:59,480 --> 00:53:02,000 Speaker 1: man keeps in the old don in the mouth. I 859 00:53:02,000 --> 00:53:05,560 Speaker 1: don't kiss my daddy the mom. I'm in my daddy 860 00:53:05,600 --> 00:53:13,480 Speaker 1: in the fucking mouth. I kiss my mom. Ain't the 861 00:53:13,680 --> 00:53:16,759 Speaker 1: lips that's different. That's that's ain't my lips on them, 862 00:53:16,800 --> 00:53:24,040 Speaker 1: but my bush. I remember trying to get in their hood, 863 00:53:24,120 --> 00:53:26,520 Speaker 1: my kids dropping off and school. Don't do that ship, 864 00:53:27,560 --> 00:53:30,839 Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Like you know what I'm saying. 865 00:53:30,960 --> 00:53:32,520 Speaker 1: I know they want me to, but they don't want 866 00:53:32,560 --> 00:53:34,200 Speaker 1: me to at the same time, you get what I'm saying. 867 00:53:34,600 --> 00:53:38,320 Speaker 1: I mean that's where like a lot of like I 868 00:53:38,440 --> 00:53:41,319 Speaker 1: think the guys catch it worse than the women when 869 00:53:41,360 --> 00:53:43,960 Speaker 1: it comes to like the edific ship, because that's where 870 00:53:44,080 --> 00:53:47,800 Speaker 1: like the whole mama's boy like ship comes in, because 871 00:53:47,840 --> 00:53:50,239 Speaker 1: it's like we're still on your You're still on your 872 00:53:50,280 --> 00:53:53,960 Speaker 1: titty ore titty, like get off her tittyig like you 873 00:53:54,000 --> 00:53:56,800 Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, Because it's like, but then that 874 00:53:56,920 --> 00:54:00,640 Speaker 1: also causes a conflict within relationships. But I don't care 875 00:54:00,920 --> 00:54:04,760 Speaker 1: my grandmother, you you gotta get you, you God wrestl. 876 00:54:04,920 --> 00:54:06,759 Speaker 1: So you had to get the pass from her, Like 877 00:54:07,360 --> 00:54:09,360 Speaker 1: I wouldn't be with this girl dish along if my 878 00:54:09,400 --> 00:54:11,960 Speaker 1: grandma didn't love her the way she did, like because 879 00:54:11,960 --> 00:54:13,959 Speaker 1: you know it's like if I get sick, I gotta 880 00:54:13,960 --> 00:54:16,239 Speaker 1: go there my grandma. Bid. I don't give how far 881 00:54:16,360 --> 00:54:18,719 Speaker 1: we stayed, take me down to her house like this 882 00:54:18,960 --> 00:54:22,640 Speaker 1: my medicine. I go leve her bid six hours. I'm 883 00:54:22,680 --> 00:54:26,800 Speaker 1: back Dad. If I got the pneumon you that should 884 00:54:26,800 --> 00:54:29,919 Speaker 1: go away. Like so, I guess I had some type 885 00:54:29,960 --> 00:54:31,600 Speaker 1: of complex when it came out to my grandma. But 886 00:54:33,040 --> 00:54:40,200 Speaker 1: but it's some situations where like the mother is intertwined 887 00:54:40,239 --> 00:54:48,160 Speaker 1: into every aspect of the son's relationship and he feels 888 00:54:48,200 --> 00:54:51,600 Speaker 1: like yeah, and she feels like she knows what's best 889 00:54:51,640 --> 00:54:54,320 Speaker 1: for him, but what if that's all she should do? 890 00:54:55,000 --> 00:54:59,080 Speaker 1: So you got some mama haters though, Mama you do 891 00:54:59,360 --> 00:55:02,280 Speaker 1: with the say you got some, but that's the mama 892 00:55:02,320 --> 00:55:04,160 Speaker 1: feels like she knows what's best, and so she'll be 893 00:55:04,200 --> 00:55:06,000 Speaker 1: trying to look for the woman that she wants him 894 00:55:06,000 --> 00:55:10,040 Speaker 1: to be with. Some mama's some mama's be feeling like 895 00:55:10,520 --> 00:55:13,160 Speaker 1: be hating it. And see that this girl actually do 896 00:55:13,320 --> 00:55:18,359 Speaker 1: love you like I doing the hates exactly, but let's 897 00:55:18,400 --> 00:55:21,240 Speaker 1: hate though. Of course I ain't saying that as a majority, 898 00:55:21,280 --> 00:55:24,400 Speaker 1: but that happens you and they do, and they do 899 00:55:24,520 --> 00:55:29,840 Speaker 1: little spiteful ship. You know what I'm saying? Yes, no, No, 900 00:55:29,840 --> 00:55:34,560 Speaker 1: I already had said that, my sister's my mama. Everybody like, 901 00:55:34,880 --> 00:55:37,319 Speaker 1: I'm not getting in the middle of y'all ship. If 902 00:55:37,360 --> 00:55:39,840 Speaker 1: you don't like Shanta Chantey, don't like you, y'all figure 903 00:55:39,880 --> 00:55:41,640 Speaker 1: that out, because I ain't gonna be the peek no 904 00:55:41,680 --> 00:55:45,080 Speaker 1: side because I'm on both sides. So y'all figuring that out, 905 00:55:45,080 --> 00:55:47,480 Speaker 1: ain't no call me. And because I know you're doing 906 00:55:47,560 --> 00:55:49,719 Speaker 1: the ship, she doing the ship. I know what he is. 907 00:55:49,800 --> 00:55:52,240 Speaker 1: I know my wife's bullshit. I know my sister bullshit. 908 00:55:52,360 --> 00:55:54,279 Speaker 1: I know my mama's a bullshit. I'm not getting in 909 00:55:54,280 --> 00:55:56,880 Speaker 1: the middle of that. Then I gotta pick yeah and 910 00:55:57,320 --> 00:55:59,440 Speaker 1: she my mama might be right this time, or my 911 00:55:59,480 --> 00:56:01,400 Speaker 1: sister may be right this or my wife maybe right 912 00:56:01,480 --> 00:56:03,719 Speaker 1: this time. But then when I say who right, I 913 00:56:03,800 --> 00:56:07,319 Speaker 1: gotta go home and be wrong. So I ain't even 914 00:56:07,400 --> 00:56:12,520 Speaker 1: getting in none of this because she will wrong land time. 915 00:56:12,560 --> 00:56:15,160 Speaker 1: But I ain't say she's wrong, but I said she right. Man, 916 00:56:15,440 --> 00:56:18,359 Speaker 1: y'all figure that out today. Don't figure that out. They ain't. 917 00:56:18,560 --> 00:56:23,759 Speaker 1: Don't call him hearing in it. I can't be in that. Yeah, 918 00:56:24,239 --> 00:56:26,960 Speaker 1: my my my daughter and my wife, they held disagreement. 919 00:56:27,000 --> 00:56:28,960 Speaker 1: I would I tell I love both of y'all. Ain't 920 00:56:29,040 --> 00:56:31,799 Speaker 1: in that though. Y'all figuring that out as women, Because 921 00:56:31,840 --> 00:56:33,839 Speaker 1: soon as I pick a side, I gotta stay there. 922 00:56:35,080 --> 00:56:39,399 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. One argument, You pick a side, boy, 923 00:56:39,480 --> 00:56:50,800 Speaker 1: you boy, you your side. I'm not doing that because 924 00:56:50,880 --> 00:56:54,920 Speaker 1: I learned from experience doing that when you are not 925 00:56:55,040 --> 00:56:59,560 Speaker 1: possessive as Yes, that's just what it is. The mama possessive, 926 00:56:59,640 --> 00:57:02,760 Speaker 1: the child, all possessive aunties everything. We are possessive, especially 927 00:57:02,800 --> 00:57:05,520 Speaker 1: about the man we love. If it's a man we love, 928 00:57:05,680 --> 00:57:08,240 Speaker 1: it's like no bit's stay away, the mama stay away. 929 00:57:08,320 --> 00:57:10,600 Speaker 1: Anybody could take could stay away if they're gonna take 930 00:57:10,600 --> 00:57:12,560 Speaker 1: a little bit of the love away from me. That's 931 00:57:12,600 --> 00:57:14,799 Speaker 1: just what it is. So women are gonna always bump heads, 932 00:57:14,800 --> 00:57:16,760 Speaker 1: and if it's your mama, your daughter, everybody's gonna bump heads. 933 00:57:16,760 --> 00:57:18,000 Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you why I do straight in the 934 00:57:18,080 --> 00:57:21,800 Speaker 1: divide and conquered ship. I straightened that, like, let let 935 00:57:21,920 --> 00:57:23,760 Speaker 1: each know, you're not gonna make me love her less. 936 00:57:23,800 --> 00:57:25,240 Speaker 1: You're not gonna make me love her less. You're not 937 00:57:25,280 --> 00:57:28,000 Speaker 1: gonna that's not gonna happen. So if you're trying to 938 00:57:28,040 --> 00:57:31,560 Speaker 1: be spite for the timmy something, that's not gonna work. Right, 939 00:57:32,200 --> 00:57:33,600 Speaker 1: I'm gonna let you know when you're wrong in that, 940 00:57:33,720 --> 00:57:39,880 Speaker 1: because that's that's what is it implement me. So whatever 941 00:57:40,000 --> 00:57:41,880 Speaker 1: y'all got going on, y'all can do that a once, 942 00:57:41,920 --> 00:57:43,320 Speaker 1: y'all when y'all put me in and I'm gonna let 943 00:57:43,320 --> 00:57:45,400 Speaker 1: you know if you're right a wrong. That's the only 944 00:57:45,480 --> 00:57:50,760 Speaker 1: time I feel that makes sense. Yeah, But the moral 945 00:57:50,840 --> 00:58:05,280 Speaker 1: of the story is moral story is Yeah, I can't 946 00:58:05,320 --> 00:58:08,480 Speaker 1: analyze people, man, No, you can't. You can't. You can 947 00:58:08,560 --> 00:58:12,680 Speaker 1: have an idol, you can't people. You can't worship people, 948 00:58:13,760 --> 00:58:19,320 Speaker 1: not a person because because you don't see I Like, 949 00:58:19,720 --> 00:58:22,560 Speaker 1: I've had rappers in the past that I'll be like, 950 00:58:23,480 --> 00:58:26,880 Speaker 1: it's my favorite rapper, like fun with this knee, I 951 00:58:27,040 --> 00:58:29,120 Speaker 1: learned somethingm this nigger, and then but when you meet them, 952 00:58:30,040 --> 00:58:35,200 Speaker 1: you're like, you ain't need them raps. So that's why 953 00:58:35,280 --> 00:58:39,960 Speaker 1: you gotta just take the message. You can't take the person. Yea. 954 00:58:40,920 --> 00:58:43,320 Speaker 1: That's the same way with with with with pastors and 955 00:58:43,840 --> 00:58:47,480 Speaker 1: podcasts or whatever. Take the message or take whatever it 956 00:58:47,640 --> 00:58:49,720 Speaker 1: is that you gain. Need people, whatever you learn, need people. 957 00:58:49,840 --> 00:58:52,480 Speaker 1: Don't try to take the person because the accountable to 958 00:58:52,600 --> 00:58:54,640 Speaker 1: the message. Yes, because then once you do that, and 959 00:58:54,720 --> 00:58:58,080 Speaker 1: you start to grow resentment and hatred towards that person 960 00:58:58,120 --> 00:59:00,800 Speaker 1: because you they let you. Yeah, you feel like they 961 00:59:00,920 --> 00:59:03,160 Speaker 1: let you down. How I let you down? I just 962 00:59:03,240 --> 00:59:12,040 Speaker 1: told you what I said. I ain't saying yeah, but 963 00:59:12,280 --> 00:59:16,640 Speaker 1: real though, because people hold you to that like, yeah, 964 00:59:16,640 --> 00:59:19,240 Speaker 1: I hold you took some ship. You just because you 965 00:59:19,320 --> 00:59:21,080 Speaker 1: read the whole Bible. You know what the whole Bible 966 00:59:21,200 --> 00:59:23,640 Speaker 1: saying means and you could teach it, don't mean you 967 00:59:23,760 --> 00:59:29,040 Speaker 1: live it. That's what people gotta start understood. Yeah, It's 968 00:59:29,040 --> 00:59:32,200 Speaker 1: just like um, people that teach you how to get rich, 969 00:59:32,720 --> 00:59:35,760 Speaker 1: most of them don't be rich, but teaching you how 970 00:59:35,800 --> 00:59:37,240 Speaker 1: to get rich, it's how they're about to get rich. 971 00:59:38,640 --> 00:59:41,240 Speaker 1: You get what I'm saying. I may know how to 972 00:59:41,360 --> 00:59:43,800 Speaker 1: do this ship, never made no money off of doing it. 973 00:59:44,120 --> 00:59:46,240 Speaker 1: I just made money. Offer telling you how to do it, 974 00:59:46,480 --> 00:59:49,840 Speaker 1: and you may go get rich off doing it, but 975 00:59:49,960 --> 00:59:51,760 Speaker 1: I ain't never made no money off that ship. I 976 00:59:51,880 --> 00:59:57,480 Speaker 1: told you to do that deep, but that ship happened. 977 00:59:57,560 --> 01:00:01,600 Speaker 1: Like the pastors, they could tell you adulterous wrong, this 978 01:00:01,880 --> 01:00:08,479 Speaker 1: is wrong, wrong, wrong, wrong, and be right but living wrong, 979 01:00:08,840 --> 01:00:13,360 Speaker 1: but living wrong? How is he wrong? When you called? 980 01:00:14,000 --> 01:00:17,480 Speaker 1: But he didn't know him? He he man that ship 981 01:00:17,880 --> 01:00:19,680 Speaker 1: living back your hard But you know, this is what 982 01:00:19,760 --> 01:00:23,280 Speaker 1: I'm telling you gotta do. It's kind of like people 983 01:00:23,440 --> 01:00:27,600 Speaker 1: like with doll seminars and ship and like, yeah, the 984 01:00:27,680 --> 01:00:29,439 Speaker 1: panels and you know what I'm saying, all that ship 985 01:00:29,600 --> 01:00:34,480 Speaker 1: like that they get that's how they get their money. Also, 986 01:00:35,800 --> 01:00:37,919 Speaker 1: I'm gonna show you how of your needs to want 987 01:00:37,960 --> 01:00:39,360 Speaker 1: to know. I'm gonna sure you have to make a 988 01:00:39,400 --> 01:00:42,400 Speaker 1: million dollars. You sell this ten thousand dollars ship a 989 01:00:42,560 --> 01:00:47,360 Speaker 1: hundred times. Yeah, there's ten thousand dollar promo package. That's 990 01:00:47,360 --> 01:00:50,520 Speaker 1: how they'll be making their money. Yeah, and never made 991 01:00:50,560 --> 01:00:53,160 Speaker 1: it before they sold you that ship. And then back 992 01:00:53,160 --> 01:00:55,600 Speaker 1: to the church. It's like, yeah, he knows that ship wrong, 993 01:00:55,680 --> 01:00:58,640 Speaker 1: but he trying to get right to Yes, he and 994 01:00:58,800 --> 01:01:04,560 Speaker 1: he because it just got robbed up. The nigga New 995 01:01:04,640 --> 01:01:08,800 Speaker 1: York that you got robbed, you know, he had, Yeah, 996 01:01:08,880 --> 01:01:12,240 Speaker 1: he had the jewelry. Um, the niggas ran in the 997 01:01:12,280 --> 01:01:15,959 Speaker 1: congregation and like robbed him and the congregation or whatever. 998 01:01:17,560 --> 01:01:19,720 Speaker 1: He like, you know, he had all this jewelry, he 999 01:01:19,800 --> 01:01:23,200 Speaker 1: had all these cars, He had this billion dollar house 1000 01:01:23,240 --> 01:01:27,800 Speaker 1: and all these properties and ship. But his congregation was 1001 01:01:27,880 --> 01:01:30,840 Speaker 1: in a bodega in New York that wasn't even as 1002 01:01:30,920 --> 01:01:33,680 Speaker 1: big as this. But he was having you know, like 1003 01:01:34,640 --> 01:01:38,760 Speaker 1: his um constituents, you know, donate all of their money 1004 01:01:38,800 --> 01:01:45,160 Speaker 1: and this and that too, uphold the word the luxury lifestyle, 1005 01:01:45,240 --> 01:01:50,080 Speaker 1: which also included his luxury lifestyle. And now they're trying 1006 01:01:50,120 --> 01:01:54,480 Speaker 1: to say, like, um, they're they're trying to figure out 1007 01:01:54,520 --> 01:01:56,240 Speaker 1: whether or not he set up the robbery and like 1008 01:01:56,320 --> 01:02:01,600 Speaker 1: all this ship whatever whatever. Ye like, he's playing big time. 1009 01:02:01,960 --> 01:02:05,800 Speaker 1: But it's just like, you know, he's not a mention 1010 01:02:05,920 --> 01:02:09,320 Speaker 1: that he's a scam. Yeah, but it's just like until 1011 01:02:11,000 --> 01:02:16,920 Speaker 1: the Big Heist, it was working. 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