WEBVTT - Episode 59: Ft Lee Mazin 0:00:03.800 --> 0:00:06.760 What is up? It's lip service. I'm Angela, Ye, I'm 0:00:06.760 --> 0:00:10.000 Stephanie Santiago, I'm g G McGuire and we got Philly's 0:00:10.080 --> 0:00:13.880 Only Amazing here. What's up ladies? Hey Kevin, if you 0:00:13.880 --> 0:00:20.720 don't turn your snapchat off? Sorry? Yeah, alright, So we 0:00:20.720 --> 0:00:23.080 were talking and by the way, congratulations on sister hoo 0:00:23.079 --> 0:00:27.320 to hip hop as we're all watching. Come on, ladies, sorry, 0:00:27.600 --> 0:00:29.920 y'all act like this is not your sixty seventh episode 0:00:30.040 --> 0:00:33.440 right now. We were talking about this. Can you be 0:00:33.479 --> 0:00:35.479 in love with two people at the same time? So 0:00:35.520 --> 0:00:37.680 I want to get everybody's opinion on that, and then 0:00:37.720 --> 0:00:40.559 we're gonna get to our tip of the day. All right, 0:00:41.080 --> 0:00:44.800 don't you go? Firstly, I think it's possible. It has 0:00:44.840 --> 0:00:47.080 happened to me. He was in love with two people 0:00:49.000 --> 0:00:52.040 that got a little messy to what happened? Did they 0:00:52.080 --> 0:00:54.279 know about each other and didn't found out about each other? 0:00:54.400 --> 0:00:57.040 And it was like, you'll love me like you love 0:00:57.120 --> 0:01:00.520 this one just too mussy? Did and make them want 0:01:00.520 --> 0:01:01.840 to break up with you? Or did it turn into 0:01:01.880 --> 0:01:04.520 like a competition. It was more like a competition, so 0:01:04.560 --> 0:01:06.560 it kind of worked in your favor. Yeah, but it 0:01:06.640 --> 0:01:09.960 was like the extra side of it was kind of like, 0:01:10.480 --> 0:01:13.880 maybe I should just get away from boofale situations, but 0:01:13.959 --> 0:01:17.080 it is possible that how did they find out? Social media? 0:01:19.080 --> 0:01:21.679 So they the giveaway now these so they was leaving 0:01:21.720 --> 0:01:24.520 comments and yep, and then one or the other and 0:01:24.560 --> 0:01:28.280 it was just went from there. They contacted each other. Okay, 0:01:28.319 --> 0:01:30.640 they confronted you, but they never spoke to each other 0:01:30.760 --> 0:01:33.360 through friends and you know, did they say you have 0:01:33.440 --> 0:01:36.640 to make a choice. Yeah, But then it got I couldn't. 0:01:36.800 --> 0:01:40.920 That's why I feel like you so wait us tell 0:01:40.959 --> 0:01:44.000 us the great qualities that if you because I'm assume 0:01:44.040 --> 0:01:46.440 you made a list of pros and cons. Yeah, and 0:01:46.480 --> 0:01:48.720 then it was like this one had this and this 0:01:48.720 --> 0:01:50.600 one didn't, and then this one had that and this 0:01:50.640 --> 0:01:52.600 one then so you'd be kind of like I kind 0:01:52.600 --> 0:01:54.080 of got like the bust of both worlds. What am 0:01:54.080 --> 0:01:56.680 I supposed to do? Right? You're both incomplete, but together 0:01:56.680 --> 0:01:59.880 you're a complete. So then then I thought yep, and 0:02:00.000 --> 0:02:02.080 then I thought maybe I should have to read myself 0:02:02.480 --> 0:02:05.080 from both situations right and started over And then I 0:02:05.440 --> 0:02:06.880 did and it just was like, now I'm at the 0:02:06.920 --> 0:02:09.000 point where it's like how she said I got them 0:02:09.040 --> 0:02:13.640 all bring them all. Yeah, so they both still lurking around. Yeah, wow, 0:02:14.280 --> 0:02:20.040 play it good for you. We're gonna get back to 0:02:20.080 --> 0:02:21.560 that with the tip of the day. But Stephanitiely you 0:02:21.600 --> 0:02:24.480 said yes, also, you could be in love with two people. Yeah, 0:02:24.520 --> 0:02:27.280 I think, um, I think that, Um. Love is a 0:02:27.280 --> 0:02:30.240 crazy emotion. It's a crazy feeling, and I don't think 0:02:30.280 --> 0:02:32.359 you can control it. I don't think you could turn 0:02:32.360 --> 0:02:35.160 it on and off. When you really love somebody, you can, 0:02:35.560 --> 0:02:38.280 you know, move on from one situation to another and 0:02:38.320 --> 0:02:41.680 fall in love and you know, still love the other persons. 0:02:42.919 --> 0:02:44.560 But what if you know you're you love somebody but 0:02:44.600 --> 0:02:49.000 you're hurting them because you're with somebody else. Oh well, 0:02:49.160 --> 0:02:55.360 I mean in that case, well yeah, you can't. Really 0:02:56.080 --> 0:02:57.959 It sucks. You don't want to hurt anybody, but you 0:02:58.880 --> 0:03:01.799 can control you know what it is. I think, um, 0:03:01.880 --> 0:03:04.480 I think even though you're in love with two people, 0:03:04.480 --> 0:03:08.520 I think you should choose, you know what I'm saying, Like, 0:03:08.560 --> 0:03:13.120 I think especially um, I don't want to say for 0:03:13.160 --> 0:03:15.160 a man or a woman. I just think that you 0:03:15.160 --> 0:03:18.200 should choose if you know, you don't unless that cool 0:03:18.200 --> 0:03:21.640 with it, unless everybody could just be happy together, you know, 0:03:21.760 --> 0:03:25.840 somebody has to go. Somebody's gotta go. Somebody's always gotta somebody. 0:03:26.919 --> 0:03:30.919 So I think I choose. But I mean if you're 0:03:30.960 --> 0:03:35.000 single and dating, you know, so that's that you don't 0:03:35.040 --> 0:03:40.240 You don't have to choose, you can right Um and 0:03:40.760 --> 0:03:44.960 Alex our friend, Um, she does the lip service passport cutty, 0:03:45.280 --> 0:03:49.000 she was saying today on on Instagram. You know, people 0:03:49.640 --> 0:03:53.920 nowadays move so fast, they like we go on one day, 0:03:54.120 --> 0:03:58.440 we sleep together, and then a relationship. Although I would 0:03:58.440 --> 0:04:00.840 say y'all said last week that if we sleep together, 0:04:00.920 --> 0:04:05.520 you're my boyfriend. But that's a serious thing, that a 0:04:05.600 --> 0:04:09.120 serious relationship. Like you you sleep with somebody and then 0:04:09.120 --> 0:04:10.560 you're like, oh I don't want I don't want you 0:04:10.640 --> 0:04:13.360 sucking nobody else, Like you just skipped over a whole 0:04:13.360 --> 0:04:18.760 process of getting other maybe right away, yeah, or maybe 0:04:18.839 --> 0:04:26.440 sleep with each other right away but forbody else or yeah, 0:04:27.720 --> 0:04:29.800 but you can't put too many boundaries on it so soon. 0:04:30.120 --> 0:04:32.480 I just feel like when you're single, um, you know, 0:04:32.680 --> 0:04:35.560 like you should enjoy that, you know, date as many 0:04:35.600 --> 0:04:37.640 people as you want, maybe not funk as many people 0:04:37.680 --> 0:04:39.039 as you want, but hey, if you want to funk 0:04:39.120 --> 0:04:41.560 as many people as you want, as many people as 0:04:41.600 --> 0:04:44.200 you want, I mean, and if you're keeping it, if 0:04:44.200 --> 0:04:46.400 you're being honest with somebody, like, hey, I love this person, 0:04:46.440 --> 0:04:49.159 but I love you too. I'm single, you know, I 0:04:49.279 --> 0:04:53.640 see I hang out with you some side hang out, right, jeez, 0:04:53.760 --> 0:04:55.120 what do you think can you being loved to people 0:04:55.160 --> 0:04:57.760 at the same time? Personally, I don't think that I 0:04:57.760 --> 0:05:00.640 can love be in love with two people at the 0:05:00.640 --> 0:05:03.120 same time. And there's a difference between loving someone and 0:05:03.200 --> 0:05:07.000 being in love with someone. And from my personal experience, 0:05:07.240 --> 0:05:10.039 I was dealing with two people at the same time, 0:05:10.480 --> 0:05:13.960 and I was in love with one and I loved 0:05:14.080 --> 0:05:17.440 the other. I loved the other for different reasons, you know, 0:05:17.680 --> 0:05:21.040 not the same reasons why I was in love. Now, yeah, 0:05:21.040 --> 0:05:23.560 I need you other even more specific about these reasons. 0:05:23.760 --> 0:05:27.080 I mean, when you're in love with someone is just 0:05:27.200 --> 0:05:30.160 on a different level than just having love for someone. 0:05:30.400 --> 0:05:32.840 And and me and this person that the other person 0:05:33.320 --> 0:05:37.400 we were friends and our friendship, you know, was a 0:05:37.480 --> 0:05:41.719 very strong friendship, and we were friends with benefits. But yeah, 0:05:41.880 --> 0:05:44.720 I just loved him for who he was, not, you know, 0:05:44.800 --> 0:05:47.159 to be my lover even though he was having sex. 0:05:47.240 --> 0:05:49.560 I wasn't in love with him, but sexually. It wasn't 0:05:49.640 --> 0:05:54.440 as it wasn't there wasn't There wasn't that that passionate connection. 0:05:54.640 --> 0:05:57.240 We had chemistry, We had a great friendship, we had 0:05:57.279 --> 0:05:59.440 a great bond. We talked about a lot. But he 0:05:59.520 --> 0:06:06.400 squared but no, I've never I'm just asking. But um, 0:06:06.400 --> 0:06:08.560 I wasn't in love with him, all right. So for 0:06:08.640 --> 0:06:10.960 the tip of the day today, what how do you 0:06:11.040 --> 0:06:14.240 choose when you have two people that you're dating, right, 0:06:14.720 --> 0:06:16.160 What are some of the things that you look at 0:06:16.160 --> 0:06:18.120 so that you can choose one over the other? Well? 0:06:18.120 --> 0:06:19.960 I think, first you I felt like I was being 0:06:20.040 --> 0:06:23.040 selfish in the situation, and I feel like it was 0:06:23.080 --> 0:06:25.480 a part of like growing because I wanted both of 0:06:25.560 --> 0:06:27.920 them and I wanted I didn't want either one of 0:06:27.960 --> 0:06:34.360 them to hit. I think it was being selfish, But um, 0:06:34.400 --> 0:06:36.640 I don't know. It's kind of like you do gotta wait, 0:06:36.960 --> 0:06:39.080 I guess longevity. Who can you see and so with 0:06:40.080 --> 0:06:43.200 for a long like is that you look for if 0:06:43.240 --> 0:06:45.599 you say, okay, he has this, this is that This 0:06:45.640 --> 0:06:47.400 is why I could see myself with him in the 0:06:47.440 --> 0:06:53.120 long term. Stability, um, ambition. I like people that that's 0:06:53.120 --> 0:06:55.240 aiming for something that has schools they want more out 0:06:55.279 --> 0:07:01.720 of life. Um against ability. He likes stability, the one, 0:07:02.000 --> 0:07:04.880 I think, honestly is a good treat of course for me. 0:07:05.000 --> 0:07:07.840 The person who sticks When I'm dating a couple of 0:07:07.880 --> 0:07:10.200 different people, the person who sticks is the person who 0:07:10.240 --> 0:07:13.600 was the most consistent, the one who gave you the 0:07:13.600 --> 0:07:20.480 biggest I mean that has the biggest really sucks me 0:07:20.560 --> 0:07:23.560 with that biggest. Now, I feel like the one that's 0:07:23.560 --> 0:07:26.640 around the most always ends up sticking, just out of 0:07:27.080 --> 0:07:33.320 because he's the last man. But he probably need to 0:07:33.480 --> 0:07:38.120 take me the supermarket on milk shade. But sometimes girls 0:07:38.160 --> 0:07:40.520 tend to like that guy that they have to chase 0:07:40.600 --> 0:07:43.560 down too. I feel like that's more of a challenge. 0:07:43.600 --> 0:07:46.160 Sometimes we put ourselves in that situation when the one 0:07:46.200 --> 0:07:49.040 person that's always good and available, but that's take advantage 0:07:49.080 --> 0:07:51.680 of him, and then you won day. The guy who 0:07:51.680 --> 0:07:54.440 don't really answer all the time call you back hours later, 0:07:54.800 --> 0:07:57.040 right where the funk was you at the thrill of 0:07:57.080 --> 0:07:58.880 the chase, Because when you feel like you might be 0:07:58.920 --> 0:08:01.200 slightly being incurred by nickold, you try extra hard because 0:08:01.200 --> 0:08:03.800 you're like, oh fun, ame about the curve, me make 0:08:03.840 --> 0:08:06.280 sure they're doing so you kind of go a little 0:08:06.280 --> 0:08:09.480 harder because sometimes guys that don't treat you that good, 0:08:09.520 --> 0:08:12.880 that treats you really good, you'd be like, you make 0:08:12.960 --> 0:08:21.440 up stuff about them, like I like them, but it's 0:08:21.520 --> 0:08:26.640 right here, two point like that right here. So what 0:08:26.680 --> 0:08:28.920 would you say, like, if you have to choose for 0:08:28.960 --> 0:08:31.840 the tip of the day between two guys, what are 0:08:31.840 --> 0:08:34.400 the things that you look for when you do the elimination? 0:08:35.200 --> 0:08:39.640 Who gets the rose? Who gets the rose? Um? I 0:08:39.760 --> 0:08:41.760 agree with Lee that you have to go for the 0:08:41.880 --> 0:08:44.600 long term situation. You know, which one of these guys. 0:08:44.640 --> 0:08:47.920 Cannot really see myself being with. What represents long term though, 0:08:48.040 --> 0:08:52.200 Like besides stability you said honesty, Like what else is 0:08:52.320 --> 0:08:55.160 long term for me? My advice because I always go 0:08:55.240 --> 0:08:59.839 with the one that's easier to keep with the you 0:09:00.240 --> 0:09:03.360 go against what I'm doing. Learn from my experience, and 0:09:03.760 --> 0:09:05.800 I feel like you should try to stay with the 0:09:05.800 --> 0:09:09.520 person who presents a better challenge better, not not the 0:09:09.559 --> 0:09:11.719 one you want, the one that you have to fight 0:09:11.760 --> 0:09:14.120 three six of his baby Mama's No, that's not a 0:09:14.160 --> 0:09:21.360 good challenge either, you know what I mean. It's like sparted, Yeah, 0:09:19.400 --> 0:09:23.960 that's try to go for the one who's who gets 0:09:24.000 --> 0:09:25.760 along with his baby mama. Go for the one that's 0:09:25.760 --> 0:09:28.680 not married. It's not the one that's not married, I 0:09:28.800 --> 0:09:30.960 probably isn't gonna be too long term. For the one 0:09:31.000 --> 0:09:32.760 that's not married, go for the one that don't have 0:09:32.800 --> 0:09:36.840 a baby mama who separated. You know, wait, wait till 0:09:36.880 --> 0:09:39.920 they get a divorce. Okay, that's a good idea. Getting 0:09:39.960 --> 0:09:42.520 really serious, How can you earn somebody's trust back if 0:09:42.559 --> 0:09:45.080 you've lied to them? Now, let's say you don't had 0:09:45.280 --> 0:09:47.640 they found out you were lying seeing other people? Is 0:09:47.840 --> 0:09:50.480 how can you make somebody trust you again? Actions change. 0:09:50.520 --> 0:09:51.959 You have to have to change, and you have to 0:09:51.960 --> 0:09:54.080 show it. I don't think it's a set formula to it. 0:09:54.080 --> 0:09:56.320 I think it's no. I just got it actually speaking. 0:09:57.480 --> 0:09:59.560 If they're willing to work the word with you, though, 0:10:00.000 --> 0:10:01.839 because trust is like a hard thing to get and 0:10:01.920 --> 0:10:04.240 keep and then to try to get it back. It's 0:10:04.240 --> 0:10:06.520 even harder because they're gonna teach you real shitty at first, 0:10:08.400 --> 0:10:12.360 and the insecurity level of insecurity is like any everything 0:10:12.400 --> 0:10:14.600 you do is like you're lying, right, and you gotta 0:10:14.640 --> 0:10:16.600 really and then you gotta humble yourself and not get 0:10:16.640 --> 0:10:20.200 mad about it and hav them long ass late night talks. 0:10:20.920 --> 0:10:23.640 I could want. Truce is broken, it's over. You cannot 0:10:23.760 --> 0:10:27.560 get that back. Never. Never, I think you can. I 0:10:27.600 --> 0:10:30.360 don't think it's hard. I think it's very hard. I 0:10:30.440 --> 0:10:32.600 just feel like both people have to, you know, look 0:10:32.640 --> 0:10:35.720 at things different and change and do things differently. The 0:10:35.720 --> 0:10:38.160 biggest problem is that once you break somebody's trust, now 0:10:38.160 --> 0:10:42.640 you don't trust them. Yeah, and then you automatically think, well, 0:10:42.679 --> 0:10:45.040 I did this, he's gonna do If he's gonna take 0:10:45.080 --> 0:10:47.520 me back, you've got to be doing some ship after 0:10:47.559 --> 0:10:51.480 everything I did. Taking me back you can't tell me. Now, 0:10:51.800 --> 0:10:54.440 let's say you're dating somebody alive. We'll start with you 0:10:54.480 --> 0:10:56.880 with this one. Right, somebody else is in the business 0:10:56.920 --> 0:10:58.840 and they could do things that could help your career, 0:10:58.880 --> 0:11:01.439 like as a producer or another artist or something like that. 0:11:01.720 --> 0:11:07.600 Would you ask for help? Um me personally, no, just 0:11:07.679 --> 0:11:10.840 because I will always be like your independent type of shape. 0:11:11.080 --> 0:11:13.920 But you know, being independent is great, but sometimes you 0:11:13.960 --> 0:11:17.320 do need to say I know, and I'm I'm learning that, 0:11:17.520 --> 0:11:20.240 but it's just like installed in me and it's I'm 0:11:20.320 --> 0:11:23.760 not come too comfortable with eggs and almost like any 0:11:23.800 --> 0:11:26.319 man for anything, because he even asking for heim, like, oh, 0:11:26.360 --> 0:11:28.120 could you you know I'm going to get a chat 0:11:28.120 --> 0:11:30.240 from you. I think you dope something like this that 0:11:30.240 --> 0:11:32.480 could help them too, if you really you know, I'm 0:11:32.480 --> 0:11:34.640 believe in yourself and if it makes sense and I'm 0:11:34.640 --> 0:11:37.360 like comfortable in the situation, then of course. But I 0:11:37.360 --> 0:11:40.760 wouldn't just walk into a situation like, oh, he's a producer, 0:11:40.880 --> 0:11:42.440 he do this. Let me make sure I get his number, 0:11:42.520 --> 0:11:44.280 let me he got that song and that sound check? 0:11:44.360 --> 0:11:48.120 Why he ain't put me on the song? What about you? 0:11:48.600 --> 0:11:51.440 I because somebody that you're dating, if they could do 0:11:51.520 --> 0:11:55.360 something to help you, would you ever ask? Yes? You that, 0:11:55.400 --> 0:11:56.640 But I mean you've been with your boyfriend for a 0:11:56.679 --> 0:11:58.640 long time, so you should be able to ask him 0:11:58.679 --> 0:12:01.440 for anything. Yes, a close mouth, don't get fat at 0:12:01.440 --> 0:12:03.360 the end of the day. And the only answer you're 0:12:03.360 --> 0:12:05.360 going to get without asking is no. When you do 0:12:05.440 --> 0:12:08.160 actually have the opportunity to get to us. And if 0:12:08.200 --> 0:12:10.360 you're with somebody and they want the best for you, 0:12:10.440 --> 0:12:12.480 then they're going to do what they can to help you. Actually, 0:12:12.480 --> 0:12:15.600 you shouldn't have to ask if they can help you. 0:12:15.720 --> 0:12:19.040 But sometimes we assume that people know that. Sometimes you 0:12:19.040 --> 0:12:21.640 do and they're not thinking about it and didn't tell 0:12:21.679 --> 0:12:24.120 me you needed help. Maybe maybe you get maybe I 0:12:24.160 --> 0:12:30.319 can't hint that sometimes that words let me drop these 0:12:30.320 --> 0:12:32.160 braad crowds to see if this is gonna kick it up. 0:12:33.040 --> 0:12:35.000 But sometimes I feel like that's the worst because they're like, oh, 0:12:35.080 --> 0:12:36.480 she want to hand around, and why don't she just 0:12:36.520 --> 0:12:39.240 ask me? True? Yeah, like I said, a close mouth, 0:12:39.240 --> 0:12:42.760 don't get fat. And if you're with somebody, comfortable with somebody, 0:12:42.800 --> 0:12:44.719 if you're with somebody and they feel this though, and 0:12:45.280 --> 0:12:47.640 they know that they can help you, and if they 0:12:47.679 --> 0:12:49.960 see that you need the help and don't offer, then 0:12:50.160 --> 0:12:52.240 and I don't I'm not even saying in business in general, 0:12:52.320 --> 0:12:54.640 I'm saying in life, like nigga, you see my nails 0:12:54.640 --> 0:12:57.439 as busted, didn't send me to the semar anybody and 0:12:57.520 --> 0:12:59.400 let me get my ship fix? Or you know what 0:12:59.440 --> 0:13:03.000 if he just said you need to get a manicure? 0:13:03.880 --> 0:13:09.120 Running little some girls, I gotta like that. You know 0:13:09.640 --> 0:13:11.120 what are you thinking? That's a small thing. But I 0:13:11.160 --> 0:13:15.079 was just using that as an example. Well, you know, um, 0:13:15.120 --> 0:13:17.880 I've had my foot in this business for a couple 0:13:17.880 --> 0:13:22.280 of years and I've never asked anybody that I'm involved 0:13:22.320 --> 0:13:28.000 with for any help. But you never needed it? Yeah, 0:13:28.640 --> 0:13:31.920 I feel like, um, I feel like with this entertainment 0:13:31.920 --> 0:13:34.720 business in particular, I feel like when people that are 0:13:34.720 --> 0:13:37.480 already in this business, when they see that there is 0:13:37.559 --> 0:13:40.040 potential for you to do well or you know, a 0:13:40.040 --> 0:13:44.240 wait for them to make money too, they're gonna They're gonna. Yeah. 0:13:44.840 --> 0:13:46.760 So I think you know when you when you do 0:13:46.800 --> 0:13:48.720 a good job, you're gonna you know, people are gonna 0:13:48.880 --> 0:13:50.560 try to put you on. But if somebody asked you 0:13:50.559 --> 0:13:54.199 for help access dating that I'm dating, it depends like, 0:13:54.320 --> 0:13:58.600 I'm not gonna fly. See now, what if you're dating 0:13:58.640 --> 0:14:00.880 an athlete and he want to host some parties or 0:14:00.920 --> 0:14:03.080 something like that, and he's like, your steph, why you 0:14:03.120 --> 0:14:06.480 help me? If if it's an athlete and and he's 0:14:06.720 --> 0:14:10.160 that situation and no problem. I come up for the promoters, 0:14:10.320 --> 0:14:14.520 no problem. But like if it's like a rapper and 0:14:14.559 --> 0:14:19.280 he's like, could you give you wouldn't say you could 0:14:19.280 --> 0:14:22.080 give me somebody's track, but you better listen to it 0:14:22.120 --> 0:14:26.600 first and see it it's worth. No, make sure you 0:14:26.600 --> 0:14:29.720 don't get me nothing wet, because really he should be 0:14:29.720 --> 0:14:31.920 asked to I'm easy to get to give it to 0:14:31.960 --> 0:14:36.840 her boyfriend. I'm not gonna I'm beating, like even having 0:14:37.200 --> 0:14:40.160 just the following that I have, like I've had God's 0:14:40.240 --> 0:14:42.200 try to get to know me, so that way I 0:14:42.240 --> 0:14:44.760 could like plug them with things, right, And I think 0:14:44.760 --> 0:14:47.640 it's kind of corny. It's transparent. Yeah, you know, so 0:14:47.760 --> 0:14:50.800 that's I mean, I'm not, like she said, I'm I 0:14:50.840 --> 0:14:53.440 can't ask for things because I'm I don't take I'm 0:14:53.440 --> 0:14:56.600 not good with rejection. I'm really bad. I don't like 0:14:56.640 --> 0:14:58.280 when people tell me no. But what if it's something 0:14:58.320 --> 0:15:01.080 that you think is such a great idea and you 0:15:01.080 --> 0:15:03.040 can add you know what I'm saying, like, hey, can 0:15:03.080 --> 0:15:05.120 you do this for me? I had a great idea, 0:15:05.160 --> 0:15:06.760 I know you do this? Is that? And I was 0:15:06.800 --> 0:15:10.479 thinking And that's another. It just depends on the relationship 0:15:10.520 --> 0:15:13.520 I have first time, Like if I feel like we're 0:15:13.520 --> 0:15:16.920 we're um, we're you know, cool with each other enough 0:15:17.040 --> 0:15:21.080 like that. Well, I mean, if we're sleeping together, yeah, probably, 0:15:21.160 --> 0:15:23.280 I probably. I mean, if I see you opening, I 0:15:23.320 --> 0:15:26.640 would ask, but it's gonna be the right time. Yeah, 0:15:26.720 --> 0:15:33.120 it has to be the right time right before it comes. Yeah, 0:15:33.200 --> 0:15:37.160 what about you if a guy is asking you for something, 0:15:37.880 --> 0:15:40.000 like she said, it depends with like, Okay, let's say 0:15:40.080 --> 0:15:42.840 you used to be signed the Dream Chasers. Right, Let's 0:15:42.840 --> 0:15:44.960 say he was like, Yo, could you plug me with Meek? 0:15:45.000 --> 0:15:48.480 You know, I want to do this show and New York. 0:15:48.520 --> 0:15:49.760 I want to see if I could get him to 0:15:49.800 --> 0:15:55.560 come through and perform for the family price because I 0:15:55.760 --> 0:15:59.800 got that before. And it's just like it depends how 0:15:59.800 --> 0:16:02.880 it's presented. Like if it's just like Yo, you're thinking 0:16:02.880 --> 0:16:04.520 me just come through. But once you start saying like 0:16:04.560 --> 0:16:07.000 you think he's gonna come through for this price or 0:16:07.080 --> 0:16:08.480 you think it's just like it's kind of like a 0:16:08.520 --> 0:16:10.480 turn though, because it's like why do you want me? 0:16:10.560 --> 0:16:13.040 You should go with? You know what he should do. 0:16:13.120 --> 0:16:14.760 If a guy is he'll be he should just the 0:16:14.800 --> 0:16:16.440 most he should do. It's be like, hey, can you 0:16:16.520 --> 0:16:18.640 hook me up who ever books his right? Or can 0:16:18.720 --> 0:16:20.240 I can you get can you get a contact on 0:16:20.280 --> 0:16:23.200 me for me? Right? And don't get you know, and 0:16:23.200 --> 0:16:25.440 he just hooked me up with that person. But when 0:16:25.440 --> 0:16:27.080 you want me to go to him and say yeah, 0:16:27.120 --> 0:16:31.520 like you know you can't have my people wanted for 0:16:31.600 --> 0:16:37.040 the low. No, it depends with like what the favorite 0:16:37.040 --> 0:16:38.840 would be. But if it's a guy who is another 0:16:38.920 --> 0:16:40.400 artist and he's like, yeah, I want you to hop 0:16:40.400 --> 0:16:42.680 on this track. You know, I know you're putting out 0:16:42.720 --> 0:16:44.840 the mixtape and the show is coming out. This would 0:16:44.840 --> 0:16:46.240 be a good time. It would be a good look 0:16:46.280 --> 0:16:50.560 for me. You know, I'm gonna blessed. You sound just 0:16:50.640 --> 0:16:55.760 like I'm not. I don't know. I feel like if 0:16:55.760 --> 0:16:58.840 I'm saying up artist, I feel like we should just 0:16:58.880 --> 0:17:01.400 click the musically are If not, we probably got a problem. 0:17:01.480 --> 0:17:03.040 Like if I if I'm not a fan of music, 0:17:03.080 --> 0:17:05.320 I'm nine times probably not even gonna deal with Yeah. 0:17:05.400 --> 0:17:07.520 Can you imagine if you're dating a guy he's he's 0:17:07.560 --> 0:17:11.679 just like awful. I would have to tell him, like, baby, 0:17:11.720 --> 0:17:14.440 maybe you should try to think about or something you 0:17:14.520 --> 0:17:17.560 ever think you should try to think about doing something 0:17:17.560 --> 0:17:19.639 else instead of would you write something for him, like 0:17:20.040 --> 0:17:21.439 I write this for you and see if it how 0:17:21.480 --> 0:17:25.240 to say no? Like, babe, you should just I don't think, 0:17:25.320 --> 0:17:28.119 like you know, probably not for you, right for you? 0:17:28.359 --> 0:17:31.000 But what if he's determined you never know? Like you 0:17:31.040 --> 0:17:34.240 love him, everything is great, but his music is trash. 0:17:36.040 --> 0:17:37.359 I don't think I would get to the point that 0:17:37.400 --> 0:17:39.080 I if I knew the music with trash, I don't 0:17:39.080 --> 0:17:43.000 think I could get to like what is he talking 0:17:43.000 --> 0:17:47.840 about all right, that's interesting. What if he told you 0:17:47.880 --> 0:17:53.959 that he didn't like your music? What if you try 0:17:54.040 --> 0:17:57.439 to critique it like, you know, it's cool, but it 0:17:57.560 --> 0:17:59.639 kind of sounds like I feel like you should say this, 0:17:59.800 --> 0:18:01.960 and I kind of don't like how you did that. 0:18:02.600 --> 0:18:04.280 Would that be weird to you? With your money for 0:18:04.320 --> 0:18:07.840 a studio time and fix it, Jock, you're gonna bring 0:18:07.840 --> 0:18:11.280 a producer through. Now. If he was into the entertainment 0:18:11.280 --> 0:18:13.359 industry and some type of form, then maybe I might 0:18:13.440 --> 0:18:16.560 take it as constructive criticism. If it's just a fan 0:18:16.680 --> 0:18:18.959 and he didn't he's not even in the music business, 0:18:18.960 --> 0:18:20.960 just as a consumer, I might take a personal that 0:18:21.520 --> 0:18:23.920 my hand issues that he might be trying to play 0:18:24.080 --> 0:18:26.680 because he's like, what're you thinking about all this? You've 0:18:26.680 --> 0:18:29.240 been thought this? How can you tell somebody's using you 0:18:29.280 --> 0:18:35.680 for your connections? Though? Um, because I'm sure there's a 0:18:35.720 --> 0:18:37.760 lot of do you like guys from Philly like? Do 0:18:37.800 --> 0:18:41.000 you mostly date? Are you like? Nah? I'm kind of 0:18:41.119 --> 0:18:51.560 I'm trying to get away from them. I'm trying to like. 0:18:52.119 --> 0:18:54.760 But it's good. It's good to connect with somebody who's 0:18:54.800 --> 0:18:56.879 not from where you're from because you can learn so 0:18:56.960 --> 0:19:00.639 much about them, and you learn something you about yourself 0:19:00.680 --> 0:19:03.320 as well, because when you're with somebody that's that you 0:19:03.359 --> 0:19:04.760 grew up in the same area, y'all know all the 0:19:04.800 --> 0:19:06.520 same place as you're eight, all the same same you know, 0:19:06.520 --> 0:19:08.880 all the same people, y'all been to the same clubs, 0:19:08.920 --> 0:19:10.720 you know, and so on and so forth. It's kind 0:19:10.720 --> 0:19:12.840 of like it gets kind of boring and repetitious. But 0:19:13.040 --> 0:19:14.720 like for me, for instance, when I was living in 0:19:14.800 --> 0:19:16.600 Atlanta and I met my guy, he lived here in 0:19:16.640 --> 0:19:20.600 New York, and we had that much different about us 0:19:20.640 --> 0:19:22.719 that it connected us on a different level because he 0:19:22.800 --> 0:19:24.520 was able to learn about me and where I was from, 0:19:24.520 --> 0:19:26.080 and I was able to learn about him and where 0:19:26.240 --> 0:19:28.400 he was from. And we got to travel and experience 0:19:28.440 --> 0:19:31.040 each other's you know, upbringings and you know, all that 0:19:31.080 --> 0:19:32.560 type of stuff. So I think that that's just a 0:19:32.600 --> 0:19:35.400 good interesting quality that to try to meet people that 0:19:35.560 --> 0:19:39.119 aren't from where you are, just branch out learn some 0:19:39.160 --> 0:19:41.800 different ships. You know, you feel like that's definitely sometimes 0:19:41.800 --> 0:19:45.480 people are using you for connections. I certainly I don't 0:19:45.480 --> 0:19:48.879 really like I've had in the past, Like God's try 0:19:49.040 --> 0:19:51.600 to you know what I mean, But I don't really 0:19:52.080 --> 0:19:54.160 I don't really like, I don't really want to deal 0:19:54.200 --> 0:19:56.600 with somebody like I like to feed off of people, 0:19:56.760 --> 0:19:58.240 you know what I mean. I wanted to be able 0:19:58.280 --> 0:19:59.760 to help you as much as you can help me, 0:19:59.840 --> 0:20:02.159 and you can't really do anything for me. I'm not 0:20:02.240 --> 0:20:04.760 really around you. You know, Like, what if he wants 0:20:04.840 --> 0:20:07.320 to go to the Easy Fashion Show and he's like, yeah, 0:20:07.359 --> 0:20:13.000 I know you could get it easy. I think it 0:20:13.080 --> 0:20:17.360 was season one or season two, season two and embarrassing. 0:20:17.480 --> 0:20:19.240 I was gonna say, how did he act? Because that's 0:20:19.280 --> 0:20:22.560 a lot, that's a lot of pressure. He couldn't take it. Yeah, No, 0:20:22.720 --> 0:20:26.480 he was embarrassed. He started arguing with me in the 0:20:26.520 --> 0:20:28.600 middle of the room. No he didn't because you know, 0:20:28.680 --> 0:20:33.359 I'm okay, easy. This this is a perfect example to 0:20:33.400 --> 0:20:36.639 pick up, So bring up all right easy. You know 0:20:36.680 --> 0:20:39.000 they they have the show, a lot of people are 0:20:39.040 --> 0:20:41.320