Speaker 1: What is up? It's lip service. I'm Angela, Ye, I'm
Speaker 1: Stephanie Santiago, I'm g G McGuire and we got Philly's
Speaker 1: Only Amazing here. What's up ladies? Hey Kevin, if you
Speaker 1: don't turn your snapchat off? Sorry? Yeah, alright, So we
Speaker 1: were talking and by the way, congratulations on sister hoo
Speaker 1: to hip hop as we're all watching. Come on, ladies, sorry,
Speaker 1: y'all act like this is not your sixty seventh episode
Speaker 1: right now. We were talking about this. Can you be
Speaker 1: in love with two people at the same time? So
Speaker 1: I want to get everybody's opinion on that, and then
Speaker 1: we're gonna get to our tip of the day. All right,
Speaker 1: don't you go? Firstly, I think it's possible. It has
Speaker 1: happened to me. He was in love with two people
Speaker 1: that got a little messy to what happened? Did they
Speaker 1: know about each other and didn't found out about each other?
Speaker 1: And it was like, you'll love me like you love
Speaker 1: this one just too mussy? Did and make them want
Speaker 1: to break up with you? Or did it turn into
Speaker 1: like a competition. It was more like a competition, so
Speaker 1: it kind of worked in your favor. Yeah, but it
Speaker 1: was like the extra side of it was kind of like,
Speaker 1: maybe I should just get away from boofale situations, but
Speaker 1: it is possible that how did they find out? Social media?
Speaker 1: So they the giveaway now these so they was leaving
Speaker 1: comments and yep, and then one or the other and
Speaker 1: it was just went from there. They contacted each other. Okay,
Speaker 1: they confronted you, but they never spoke to each other
Speaker 1: through friends and you know, did they say you have
Speaker 1: to make a choice. Yeah, But then it got I couldn't.
Speaker 1: That's why I feel like you so wait us tell
Speaker 1: us the great qualities that if you because I'm assume
Speaker 1: you made a list of pros and cons. Yeah, and
Speaker 1: then it was like this one had this and this
Speaker 1: one didn't, and then this one had that and this
Speaker 1: one then so you'd be kind of like I kind
Speaker 1: of got like the bust of both worlds. What am
Speaker 1: I supposed to do? Right? You're both incomplete, but together
Speaker 1: you're a complete. So then then I thought yep, and
Speaker 1: then I thought maybe I should have to read myself
Speaker 1: from both situations right and started over And then I
Speaker 1: did and it just was like, now I'm at the
Speaker 1: point where it's like how she said I got them
Speaker 1: all bring them all. Yeah, so they both still lurking around. Yeah, wow,
Speaker 1: play it good for you. We're gonna get back to
Speaker 1: that with the tip of the day. But Stephanitiely you
Speaker 1: said yes, also, you could be in love with two people. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I think, um, I think that, Um. Love is a
Speaker 1: crazy emotion. It's a crazy feeling, and I don't think
Speaker 1: you can control it. I don't think you could turn
Speaker 1: it on and off. When you really love somebody, you can,
Speaker 1: you know, move on from one situation to another and
Speaker 1: fall in love and you know, still love the other persons.
Speaker 1: But what if you know you're you love somebody but
Speaker 1: you're hurting them because you're with somebody else. Oh well,
Speaker 1: I mean in that case, well yeah, you can't. Really
Speaker 1: It sucks. You don't want to hurt anybody, but you
Speaker 1: can control you know what it is. I think, um,
Speaker 1: I think even though you're in love with two people,
Speaker 1: I think you should choose, you know what I'm saying, Like,
Speaker 1: I think especially um, I don't want to say for
Speaker 1: a man or a woman. I just think that you
Speaker 1: should choose if you know, you don't unless that cool
Speaker 1: with it, unless everybody could just be happy together, you know,
Speaker 1: somebody has to go. Somebody's gotta go. Somebody's always gotta somebody.
Speaker 1: So I think I choose. But I mean if you're
Speaker 1: single and dating, you know, so that's that you don't
Speaker 1: You don't have to choose, you can right Um and
Speaker 1: Alex our friend, Um, she does the lip service passport cutty,
Speaker 1: she was saying today on on Instagram. You know, people
Speaker 1: nowadays move so fast, they like we go on one day,
Speaker 1: we sleep together, and then a relationship. Although I would
Speaker 1: say y'all said last week that if we sleep together,
Speaker 1: you're my boyfriend. But that's a serious thing, that a
Speaker 1: serious relationship. Like you you sleep with somebody and then
Speaker 1: you're like, oh I don't want I don't want you
Speaker 1: sucking nobody else, Like you just skipped over a whole
Speaker 1: process of getting other maybe right away, yeah, or maybe
Speaker 1: sleep with each other right away but forbody else or yeah,
Speaker 1: but you can't put too many boundaries on it so soon.
Speaker 1: I just feel like when you're single, um, you know,
Speaker 1: like you should enjoy that, you know, date as many
Speaker 1: people as you want, maybe not funk as many people
Speaker 1: as you want, but hey, if you want to funk
Speaker 1: as many people as you want, as many people as
Speaker 1: you want, I mean, and if you're keeping it, if
Speaker 1: you're being honest with somebody, like, hey, I love this person,
Speaker 1: but I love you too. I'm single, you know, I
Speaker 1: see I hang out with you some side hang out, right, jeez,
Speaker 1: what do you think can you being loved to people
Speaker 1: at the same time? Personally, I don't think that I
Speaker 1: can love be in love with two people at the
Speaker 1: same time. And there's a difference between loving someone and
Speaker 1: being in love with someone. And from my personal experience,
Speaker 1: I was dealing with two people at the same time,
Speaker 1: and I was in love with one and I loved
Speaker 1: the other. I loved the other for different reasons, you know,
Speaker 1: not the same reasons why I was in love. Now, yeah,
Speaker 1: I need you other even more specific about these reasons.
Speaker 1: I mean, when you're in love with someone is just
Speaker 1: on a different level than just having love for someone.
Speaker 1: And and me and this person that the other person
Speaker 1: we were friends and our friendship, you know, was a
Speaker 1: very strong friendship, and we were friends with benefits. But yeah,
Speaker 1: I just loved him for who he was, not, you know,
Speaker 1: to be my lover even though he was having sex.
Speaker 1: I wasn't in love with him, but sexually. It wasn't
Speaker 1: as it wasn't there wasn't There wasn't that that passionate connection.
Speaker 1: We had chemistry, We had a great friendship, we had
Speaker 1: a great bond. We talked about a lot. But he
Speaker 1: squared but no, I've never I'm just asking. But um,
Speaker 1: I wasn't in love with him, all right. So for
Speaker 1: the tip of the day today, what how do you
Speaker 1: choose when you have two people that you're dating, right,
Speaker 1: What are some of the things that you look at
Speaker 1: so that you can choose one over the other? Well?
Speaker 1: I think, first you I felt like I was being
Speaker 1: selfish in the situation, and I feel like it was
Speaker 1: a part of like growing because I wanted both of
Speaker 1: them and I wanted I didn't want either one of
Speaker 1: them to hit. I think it was being selfish, But um,
Speaker 1: I don't know. It's kind of like you do gotta wait,
Speaker 1: I guess longevity. Who can you see and so with
Speaker 1: for a long like is that you look for if
Speaker 1: you say, okay, he has this, this is that This
Speaker 1: is why I could see myself with him in the
Speaker 1: long term. Stability, um, ambition. I like people that that's
Speaker 1: aiming for something that has schools they want more out
Speaker 1: of life. Um against ability. He likes stability, the one,
Speaker 1: I think, honestly is a good treat of course for me.
Speaker 1: The person who sticks When I'm dating a couple of
Speaker 1: different people, the person who sticks is the person who
Speaker 1: was the most consistent, the one who gave you the
Speaker 1: biggest I mean that has the biggest really sucks me
Speaker 1: with that biggest. Now, I feel like the one that's
Speaker 1: around the most always ends up sticking, just out of
Speaker 1: because he's the last man. But he probably need to
Speaker 1: take me the supermarket on milk shade. But sometimes girls
Speaker 1: tend to like that guy that they have to chase
Speaker 1: down too. I feel like that's more of a challenge.
Speaker 1: Sometimes we put ourselves in that situation when the one
Speaker 1: person that's always good and available, but that's take advantage
Speaker 1: of him, and then you won day. The guy who
Speaker 1: don't really answer all the time call you back hours later,
Speaker 1: right where the funk was you at the thrill of
Speaker 1: the chase, Because when you feel like you might be
Speaker 1: slightly being incurred by nickold, you try extra hard because
Speaker 1: you're like, oh fun, ame about the curve, me make
Speaker 1: sure they're doing so you kind of go a little
Speaker 1: harder because sometimes guys that don't treat you that good,
Speaker 1: that treats you really good, you'd be like, you make
Speaker 1: up stuff about them, like I like them, but it's
Speaker 1: right here, two point like that right here. So what
Speaker 1: would you say, like, if you have to choose for
Speaker 1: the tip of the day between two guys, what are
Speaker 1: the things that you look for when you do the elimination?
Speaker 1: Who gets the rose? Who gets the rose? Um? I
Speaker 1: agree with Lee that you have to go for the
Speaker 1: long term situation. You know, which one of these guys.
Speaker 1: Cannot really see myself being with. What represents long term though,
Speaker 1: Like besides stability you said honesty, Like what else is
Speaker 1: long term for me? My advice because I always go
Speaker 1: with the one that's easier to keep with the you
Speaker 1: go against what I'm doing. Learn from my experience, and
Speaker 1: I feel like you should try to stay with the
Speaker 1: person who presents a better challenge better, not not the
Speaker 1: one you want, the one that you have to fight
Speaker 1: three six of his baby Mama's No, that's not a
Speaker 1: good challenge either, you know what I mean. It's like sparted, Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's try to go for the one who's who gets
Speaker 1: along with his baby mama. Go for the one that's
Speaker 1: not married. It's not the one that's not married, I
Speaker 1: probably isn't gonna be too long term. For the one
Speaker 1: that's not married, go for the one that don't have
Speaker 1: a baby mama who separated. You know, wait, wait till
Speaker 1: they get a divorce. Okay, that's a good idea. Getting
Speaker 1: really serious, How can you earn somebody's trust back if
Speaker 1: you've lied to them? Now, let's say you don't had
Speaker 1: they found out you were lying seeing other people? Is
Speaker 1: how can you make somebody trust you again? Actions change.
Speaker 1: You have to have to change, and you have to
Speaker 1: show it. I don't think it's a set formula to it.
Speaker 1: I think it's no. I just got it actually speaking.
Speaker 1: If they're willing to work the word with you, though,
Speaker 1: because trust is like a hard thing to get and
Speaker 1: keep and then to try to get it back. It's
Speaker 1: even harder because they're gonna teach you real shitty at first,
Speaker 1: and the insecurity level of insecurity is like any everything
Speaker 1: you do is like you're lying, right, and you gotta
Speaker 1: really and then you gotta humble yourself and not get
Speaker 1: mad about it and hav them long ass late night talks.
Speaker 1: I could want. Truce is broken, it's over. You cannot
Speaker 1: get that back. Never. Never, I think you can. I
Speaker 1: don't think it's hard. I think it's very hard. I
Speaker 1: just feel like both people have to, you know, look
Speaker 1: at things different and change and do things differently. The
Speaker 1: biggest problem is that once you break somebody's trust, now
Speaker 1: you don't trust them. Yeah, and then you automatically think, well,
Speaker 1: I did this, he's gonna do If he's gonna take
Speaker 1: me back, you've got to be doing some ship after
Speaker 1: everything I did. Taking me back you can't tell me. Now,
Speaker 1: let's say you're dating somebody alive. We'll start with you
Speaker 1: with this one. Right, somebody else is in the business
Speaker 1: and they could do things that could help your career,
Speaker 1: like as a producer or another artist or something like that.
Speaker 1: Would you ask for help? Um me personally, no, just
Speaker 1: because I will always be like your independent type of shape.
Speaker 1: But you know, being independent is great, but sometimes you
Speaker 1: do need to say I know, and I'm I'm learning that,
Speaker 1: but it's just like installed in me and it's I'm
Speaker 1: not come too comfortable with eggs and almost like any
Speaker 1: man for anything, because he even asking for heim, like, oh,
Speaker 1: could you you know I'm going to get a chat
Speaker 1: from you. I think you dope something like this that
Speaker 1: could help them too, if you really you know, I'm
Speaker 1: believe in yourself and if it makes sense and I'm
Speaker 1: like comfortable in the situation, then of course. But I
Speaker 1: wouldn't just walk into a situation like, oh, he's a producer,
Speaker 1: he do this. Let me make sure I get his number,
Speaker 1: let me he got that song and that sound check?
Speaker 1: Why he ain't put me on the song? What about you?
Speaker 1: I because somebody that you're dating, if they could do
Speaker 1: something to help you, would you ever ask? Yes? You that,
Speaker 1: But I mean you've been with your boyfriend for a
Speaker 1: long time, so you should be able to ask him
Speaker 1: for anything. Yes, a close mouth, don't get fat at
Speaker 1: the end of the day. And the only answer you're
Speaker 1: going to get without asking is no. When you do
Speaker 1: actually have the opportunity to get to us. And if
Speaker 1: you're with somebody and they want the best for you,
Speaker 1: then they're going to do what they can to help you. Actually,
Speaker 1: you shouldn't have to ask if they can help you.
Speaker 1: But sometimes we assume that people know that. Sometimes you
Speaker 1: do and they're not thinking about it and didn't tell
Speaker 1: me you needed help. Maybe maybe you get maybe I
Speaker 1: can't hint that sometimes that words let me drop these
Speaker 1: braad crowds to see if this is gonna kick it up.
Speaker 1: But sometimes I feel like that's the worst because they're like, oh,
Speaker 1: she want to hand around, and why don't she just
Speaker 1: ask me? True? Yeah, like I said, a close mouth,
Speaker 1: don't get fat. And if you're with somebody, comfortable with somebody,
Speaker 1: if you're with somebody and they feel this though, and
Speaker 1: they know that they can help you, and if they
Speaker 1: see that you need the help and don't offer, then
Speaker 1: and I don't I'm not even saying in business in general,
Speaker 1: I'm saying in life, like nigga, you see my nails
Speaker 1: as busted, didn't send me to the semar anybody and
Speaker 1: let me get my ship fix? Or you know what
Speaker 1: if he just said you need to get a manicure?
Speaker 1: Running little some girls, I gotta like that. You know
Speaker 1: what are you thinking? That's a small thing. But I
Speaker 1: was just using that as an example. Well, you know, um,
Speaker 1: I've had my foot in this business for a couple
Speaker 1: of years and I've never asked anybody that I'm involved
Speaker 1: with for any help. But you never needed it? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I feel like, um, I feel like with this entertainment
Speaker 1: business in particular, I feel like when people that are
Speaker 1: already in this business, when they see that there is
Speaker 1: potential for you to do well or you know, a
Speaker 1: wait for them to make money too, they're gonna They're gonna. Yeah.
Speaker 1: So I think you know when you when you do
Speaker 1: a good job, you're gonna you know, people are gonna
Speaker 1: try to put you on. But if somebody asked you
Speaker 1: for help access dating that I'm dating, it depends like,
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna fly. See now, what if you're dating
Speaker 1: an athlete and he want to host some parties or
Speaker 1: something like that, and he's like, your steph, why you
Speaker 1: help me? If if it's an athlete and and he's
Speaker 1: that situation and no problem. I come up for the promoters,
Speaker 1: no problem. But like if it's like a rapper and
Speaker 1: he's like, could you give you wouldn't say you could
Speaker 1: give me somebody's track, but you better listen to it
Speaker 1: first and see it it's worth. No, make sure you
Speaker 1: don't get me nothing wet, because really he should be
Speaker 1: asked to I'm easy to get to give it to
Speaker 1: her boyfriend. I'm not gonna I'm beating, like even having
Speaker 1: just the following that I have, like I've had God's
Speaker 1: try to get to know me, so that way I
Speaker 1: could like plug them with things, right, And I think
Speaker 1: it's kind of corny. It's transparent. Yeah, you know, so
Speaker 1: that's I mean, I'm not, like she said, I'm I
Speaker 1: can't ask for things because I'm I don't take I'm
Speaker 1: not good with rejection. I'm really bad. I don't like
Speaker 1: when people tell me no. But what if it's something
Speaker 1: that you think is such a great idea and you
Speaker 1: can add you know what I'm saying, like, hey, can
Speaker 1: you do this for me? I had a great idea,
Speaker 1: I know you do this? Is that? And I was
Speaker 1: thinking And that's another. It just depends on the relationship
Speaker 1: I have first time, Like if I feel like we're
Speaker 1: we're um, we're you know, cool with each other enough
Speaker 1: like that. Well, I mean, if we're sleeping together, yeah, probably,
Speaker 1: I probably. I mean, if I see you opening, I
Speaker 1: would ask, but it's gonna be the right time. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it has to be the right time right before it comes. Yeah,
Speaker 1: what about you if a guy is asking you for something,
Speaker 1: like she said, it depends with like, Okay, let's say
Speaker 1: you used to be signed the Dream Chasers. Right, Let's
Speaker 1: say he was like, Yo, could you plug me with Meek?
Speaker 1: You know, I want to do this show and New York.
Speaker 1: I want to see if I could get him to
Speaker 1: come through and perform for the family price because I
Speaker 1: got that before. And it's just like it depends how
Speaker 1: it's presented. Like if it's just like Yo, you're thinking
Speaker 1: me just come through. But once you start saying like
Speaker 1: you think he's gonna come through for this price or
Speaker 1: you think it's just like it's kind of like a
Speaker 1: turn though, because it's like why do you want me?
Speaker 1: You should go with? You know what he should do.
Speaker 1: If a guy is he'll be he should just the
Speaker 1: most he should do. It's be like, hey, can you
Speaker 1: hook me up who ever books his right? Or can
Speaker 1: I can you get can you get a contact on
Speaker 1: me for me? Right? And don't get you know, and
Speaker 1: he just hooked me up with that person. But when
Speaker 1: you want me to go to him and say yeah,
Speaker 1: like you know you can't have my people wanted for
Speaker 1: the low. No, it depends with like what the favorite
Speaker 1: would be. But if it's a guy who is another
Speaker 1: artist and he's like, yeah, I want you to hop
Speaker 1: on this track. You know, I know you're putting out
Speaker 1: the mixtape and the show is coming out. This would
Speaker 1: be a good time. It would be a good look
Speaker 1: for me. You know, I'm gonna blessed. You sound just
Speaker 1: like I'm not. I don't know. I feel like if
Speaker 1: I'm saying up artist, I feel like we should just
Speaker 1: click the musically are If not, we probably got a problem.
Speaker 1: Like if I if I'm not a fan of music,
Speaker 1: I'm nine times probably not even gonna deal with Yeah.
Speaker 1: Can you imagine if you're dating a guy he's he's
Speaker 1: just like awful. I would have to tell him, like, baby,
Speaker 1: maybe you should try to think about or something you
Speaker 1: ever think you should try to think about doing something
Speaker 1: else instead of would you write something for him, like
Speaker 1: I write this for you and see if it how
Speaker 1: to say no? Like, babe, you should just I don't think,
Speaker 1: like you know, probably not for you, right for you?
Speaker 1: But what if he's determined you never know? Like you
Speaker 1: love him, everything is great, but his music is trash.
Speaker 1: I don't think I would get to the point that
Speaker 1: I if I knew the music with trash, I don't
Speaker 1: think I could get to like what is he talking
Speaker 1: about all right, that's interesting. What if he told you
Speaker 1: that he didn't like your music? What if you try
Speaker 1: to critique it like, you know, it's cool, but it
Speaker 1: kind of sounds like I feel like you should say this,
Speaker 1: and I kind of don't like how you did that.
Speaker 1: Would that be weird to you? With your money for
Speaker 1: a studio time and fix it, Jock, you're gonna bring
Speaker 1: a producer through. Now. If he was into the entertainment
Speaker 1: industry and some type of form, then maybe I might
Speaker 1: take it as constructive criticism. If it's just a fan
Speaker 1: and he didn't he's not even in the music business,
Speaker 1: just as a consumer, I might take a personal that
Speaker 1: my hand issues that he might be trying to play
Speaker 1: because he's like, what're you thinking about all this? You've
Speaker 1: been thought this? How can you tell somebody's using you
Speaker 1: for your connections? Though? Um, because I'm sure there's a
Speaker 1: lot of do you like guys from Philly like? Do
Speaker 1: you mostly date? Are you like? Nah? I'm kind of
Speaker 1: I'm trying to get away from them. I'm trying to like.
Speaker 1: But it's good. It's good to connect with somebody who's
Speaker 1: not from where you're from because you can learn so
Speaker 1: much about them, and you learn something you about yourself
Speaker 1: as well, because when you're with somebody that's that you
Speaker 1: grew up in the same area, y'all know all the
Speaker 1: same place as you're eight, all the same same you know,
Speaker 1: all the same people, y'all been to the same clubs,
Speaker 1: you know, and so on and so forth. It's kind
Speaker 1: of like it gets kind of boring and repetitious. But
Speaker 1: like for me, for instance, when I was living in
Speaker 1: Atlanta and I met my guy, he lived here in
Speaker 1: New York, and we had that much different about us
Speaker 1: that it connected us on a different level because he
Speaker 1: was able to learn about me and where I was from,
Speaker 1: and I was able to learn about him and where
Speaker 1: he was from. And we got to travel and experience
Speaker 1: each other's you know, upbringings and you know, all that
Speaker 1: type of stuff. So I think that that's just a
Speaker 1: good interesting quality that to try to meet people that
Speaker 1: aren't from where you are, just branch out learn some
Speaker 1: different ships. You know, you feel like that's definitely sometimes
Speaker 1: people are using you for connections. I certainly I don't
Speaker 1: really like I've had in the past, Like God's try
Speaker 1: to you know what I mean, But I don't really
Speaker 1: I don't really like, I don't really want to deal
Speaker 1: with somebody like I like to feed off of people,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. I wanted to be able
Speaker 1: to help you as much as you can help me,
Speaker 1: and you can't really do anything for me. I'm not
Speaker 1: really around you. You know, Like, what if he wants
Speaker 1: to go to the Easy Fashion Show and he's like, yeah,
Speaker 1: I know you could get it easy. I think it
Speaker 1: was season one or season two, season two and embarrassing.
Speaker 1: I was gonna say, how did he act? Because that's
Speaker 1: a lot, that's a lot of pressure. He couldn't take it. Yeah, No,
Speaker 1: he was embarrassed. He started arguing with me in the
Speaker 1: middle of the room. No he didn't because you know,
Speaker 1: I'm okay, easy. This this is a perfect example to
Speaker 1: pick up, So bring up all right easy. You know
Speaker 1: they they have the show, a lot of people are
Speaker 1: in the room when the show was going on, and
Speaker 1: then they have the green room. You know that's where
Speaker 1: everybody you know, close people, friends, you know, all the
Speaker 1: celebrity hospitalities exactly. You know, you go drink champagne and
Speaker 1: there's a little bit of press fact there, you know,
Speaker 1: the green room. So I took him to the green room.
Speaker 1: You know, we were fine watching the show. Everything was great,
Speaker 1: but whatever, I bumped into somebody that I knew who's
Speaker 1: a rapper, and we exchanged numbers. But this is a
Speaker 1: friend of mine, like I know his wife, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean, Like, we hadn't seen each other in
Speaker 1: a while. I had changed my number because I was
Speaker 1: with a psycho, so I gave him my number. How yeah,
Speaker 1: I changed both my numbers because I was with a psycho,
Speaker 1: and so hepped out in front of everybody. He started
Speaker 1: arguing with me in front of everybody, and I swear
Speaker 1: the whole room stopped and everybody was just like, get
Speaker 1: that nigga out of here, like what are you doing?
Speaker 1: And then in the next one and the next but
Speaker 1: again no season, and the next one, we go to
Speaker 1: the green room, same thing, season three, you know, everybody,
Speaker 1: same crowd. I was pulled by. I was pulled to
Speaker 1: the side by someone who said, hey, you got rid
Speaker 1: of that problem you had last song. So that's how
Speaker 1: much of an effect I had on the room, you
Speaker 1: know what I mean that, Like everybody noticed, and I'm
Speaker 1: talking about like a person who I really think highly of,
Speaker 1: and I'm very grateful to have in my life pulled
Speaker 1: me to the side. I was so I was mortified.
Speaker 1: You should have seen the way that the person, this
Speaker 1: person looked at me across the room. How did you
Speaker 1: come like, how did you come happening? Like? Uh, how
Speaker 1: did you calm him down? If we had to leave?
Speaker 1: He was like he walked on first, and then I
Speaker 1: was like, all right by everybody? All right? So he worked.
Speaker 1: We walked on first. He made a big, big show
Speaker 1: because and he wasn't even allowed argument. We weren't screaming
Speaker 1: at each other, but you could just it's obvious. That's
Speaker 1: the intimate saying already. That's maybe a little big room,
Speaker 1: and there's people are talking. It's not a club, it's
Speaker 1: it's it's bright as daylight, you know what I mean?
Speaker 1: Everybody sees it. Now. Here's something interesting. When you date somebody,
Speaker 1: when you have a boyfriend, do you tell him everything?
Speaker 1: Because I have this one friend and she tells her
Speaker 1: boyfriend every stupid little thing, a lot of things I
Speaker 1: think she shouldn't tell him, like if a guy had
Speaker 1: to talk to her, or if somebody hit it up
Speaker 1: in her d M. She tells him all of that stuff.
Speaker 1: And I kind of think sometimes it's unnecessary because it's
Speaker 1: a situation. It brings up situations that can be avoided.
Speaker 1: You know, but you think you don't tell your boyfriend
Speaker 1: everything though, because I know he don't tell me everything either, Right,
Speaker 1: So it's like a tip for tat, not really not
Speaker 1: even just tick for tap, but it's like some things
Speaker 1: are just pointless. A million guys are going to come
Speaker 1: in just about every girl. So are you going to
Speaker 1: tell him? You know, I was in burger king and
Speaker 1: the cash the cash register cash here. It's like okay,
Speaker 1: because then if a guy does that to you and
Speaker 1: tells you every girl that tries to talk to him,
Speaker 1: You're like, oh, he's trying to make me mad or something.
Speaker 1: I don't really care. It's such a big mistake to
Speaker 1: tell guys when other guys are trying to talk to you,
Speaker 1: especially a person like me, Like I all right, I'm
Speaker 1: just perfect example. Another perfect example. I'm in the bed
Speaker 1: with my boyfriend at the time, and I get a
Speaker 1: d M from somebody who's famous, Right, is somebody popping? Yes,
Speaker 1: that is somebody popping, like just like like whatever, I've
Speaker 1: been curving this one for years. Blah blah blah. You know,
Speaker 1: just general conversation because we were together and it happened
Speaker 1: right there right next argument, Oh why you don't go right?
Speaker 1: Like really and that's exactly why you don't tell him,
Speaker 1: said and when he said that you should have after
Speaker 1: all them, if you're in the same place and he
Speaker 1: that particular person coming, then it's like, let's just say
Speaker 1: you did want to talk to him later on down right.
Speaker 1: Then he started thinking like I knew she was no,
Speaker 1: but it's got to be here. And so if somebody
Speaker 1: comes in the room, say, y'all out, g if you're
Speaker 1: out and somebody used to date is there, do you
Speaker 1: tell him no? No, hell no if you didn't know.
Speaker 1: But what if you want to know if a girl
Speaker 1: he used to date is somewhere that y'all that no, no, no, yeah,
Speaker 1: because then you're gonna be looking at every little eye
Speaker 1: contact they're making. It soon as something go wrong, something
Speaker 1: are just like if you don't know, it, don't hurt you.
Speaker 1: And there's a lot of things that fall into that category.
Speaker 1: And I feel like that's the prime example, like he
Speaker 1: knows who he should know about if it's somebody that
Speaker 1: he doesn't know about. Six years into our relationships, then
Speaker 1: I didn't tell him for a reason. So that person
Speaker 1: is in the room, he still I would never tell him.
Speaker 1: What if it comes up and he finds out later,
Speaker 1: then it's like, that wasn't it. It wasn't that. It
Speaker 1: was like what I was, you know, he wasn't that significant.
Speaker 1: And then I felt like I need to tell you.
Speaker 1: Everybody I love or respect their lives. They're like gets
Speaker 1: you don't feel no weird attention, like oh this girl
Speaker 1: across the room attention. What if this guy keeps looking
Speaker 1: He's like why this this dude keep looking at me?
Speaker 1: Then you think you might say something like, oh, you
Speaker 1: know I used to I don't know. I don't know that.
Speaker 1: What if he asks you details? How long did y'all date?
Speaker 1: It's not even worth talking about because it's hard man,
Speaker 1: once you bring setting up. You know, people you want
Speaker 1: to know everything. I think females we want to know more.
Speaker 1: I think guys were doing that same thing. You guys, Yeah,
Speaker 1: they do. They want to know everything, and they act
Speaker 1: like they don't want to know anything. And then every
Speaker 1: now and then something that has a more question you
Speaker 1: know what I mean, the information just holding it. Stephanie,
Speaker 1: I know you are on the I don't tell ever.
Speaker 1: So I'm sure if he were somewhere with you and
Speaker 1: there was a guy you used to date there, you
Speaker 1: wouldn't say nothing. Never what if what if the guy
Speaker 1: came up to you instead of talking to you, If
Speaker 1: the guy came up to me had started talking. It
Speaker 1: depends on what happens. If the guy came up to me, Oh, hey,
Speaker 1: what's up. We're gonna hug each other. Okay, bye, that's fine.
Speaker 1: I'm still not gonna say anything. Now. If the guy
Speaker 1: does something to me as to where I gotta spas
Speaker 1: on him, then I'm gonna be like, yeah, I used
Speaker 1: to funk with this cornball and that's how otherwise with
Speaker 1: you that I like that? Yeah, but no, and another
Speaker 1: thing I feel like, um, you know you call attention
Speaker 1: in situations when you tell a guy too much, you
Speaker 1: know what I mean? Like like, let's say you were
Speaker 1: one of those people like oh yeah, fuck hey, b
Speaker 1: I fuck Z. You know what I mean? I sucked
Speaker 1: everybody right if you But when when this part, when
Speaker 1: these people come around, it's gonna make your your man
Speaker 1: a little tense, you know what I mean? When you
Speaker 1: can have a relationship with somebody and you know, be
Speaker 1: cool with them and see them and be like, hey,
Speaker 1: what's up, and know that it's nobody's gonna have a
Speaker 1: disrespect to your man, you know what I mean. Like
Speaker 1: if you're sucked with somebody who's disrespectful, than yeah, you should.
Speaker 1: Like if you're a girl who is dating um, a
Speaker 1: rapper and they have be for a fifty cent tew
Speaker 1: fifty cent that you slept with this because you know
Speaker 1: he's gonna embarrassing you know what he is. So that's
Speaker 1: that's I mean, like you you could just like I
Speaker 1: see this all the time. You just gotta pick your
Speaker 1: battles case by case scenario. You just gotta treat everything
Speaker 1: becomes exactly. She that was a lot right there, preach stuff.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, what's the craziest thing that you've ever forgiven
Speaker 1: somebody for sleeping one of my friends? Absolutely? Because I
Speaker 1: think that's crazy. I think that's out of just I
Speaker 1: don't think. But we was making as broken up, But
Speaker 1: that's your friend. She was who I thought she was.
Speaker 1: So did you beat her up? You're both you were here,
Speaker 1: I for um for the girl, but she he slept
Speaker 1: with her when I was um, when I was with
Speaker 1: somebody else. We broke up. I was cheating on him
Speaker 1: with somebody and I ended up staying with the ended
Speaker 1: up going and living with the other guy practically. And
Speaker 1: then while I was with the other guy, he was
Speaker 1: sleeping with my home girl. He started sucking one of
Speaker 1: my friends. But you forgave him and you stopped being
Speaker 1: friends with her. Yeah, exactly. But I ended up fighting her.
Speaker 1: I definitely. We ended up fighting, for sure, And I
Speaker 1: didn't even know why we were fighting because I didn't
Speaker 1: know until after we fought. So after Yeah, because I
Speaker 1: got back on him and she was tight, so she's
Speaker 1: seen me. Club This was back in those days when
Speaker 1: the clubs are really good, like Club Home and um,
Speaker 1: the after hour, remember the after hour. This was not
Speaker 1: it was like maybe six years ago. Club Home. Remember
Speaker 1: club Home? Yeah, I remember Club Home and and and
Speaker 1: guest House and those times. Bed Remember there was an
Speaker 1: after hour in Spy in clubs five whatever. Yeah, we were,
Speaker 1: and we were in the after hour and I was
Speaker 1: just chilling. I was drunk. I was five up in
Speaker 1: the morning drunk, you know what I mean. And she
Speaker 1: came up to me and we started fighting. We was
Speaker 1: in the bathroom fighting, and you just they didn't really
Speaker 1: let us fight, but we fought. We definitely before, and
Speaker 1: we weren't friends. We're friends now. I'm cool with her
Speaker 1: now damn you both don't work with him. So yeah,
Speaker 1: but we're not besties, but we're you know, we're cool.
Speaker 1: She's still my sucking man. You never know, do you
Speaker 1: have friends that you feel like we're man? Yeah? Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: we're friends with people that you can't put your finger
Speaker 1: on it, and you don't want to get that, and
Speaker 1: then you'll be like, we make sure I don't leave
Speaker 1: them in a table situation. Where is that really your friend?
Speaker 1: If that's somebody that you think would potentially sucking man,
Speaker 1: some bushes are just holes, you know what I'm saying. Yes,
Speaker 1: Like I have not ever in my life slept with
Speaker 1: someone like I find it funny to even sleep with
Speaker 1: somebody down my home girl slept with unless it's a
Speaker 1: pass around like we speak about the time. Yeah, that's
Speaker 1: just like, girl, you gotta get that, you know what
Speaker 1: I mean? Like, even that's a guy who one of
Speaker 1: my friends just casually slept, because what if we get
Speaker 1: married and then she's my, she's in the woman, she's
Speaker 1: my and you it's like you don't have you got
Speaker 1: a plot up to pussy's on your way, Like that's bad,
Speaker 1: you know, But you know some girls are just they
Speaker 1: want to funk everything right. And I have friends that
Speaker 1: but I don't know if I could be friends. I
Speaker 1: don't know if I would want to be friends with
Speaker 1: somebody that I think would just suck anybody. But you
Speaker 1: know what, you're right, I do have I do have friends,
Speaker 1: Like I don't feel like you find out at first.
Speaker 1: I feel like you find out the friendship and then
Speaker 1: it's like already anything. And that's that's where like, um,
Speaker 1: I used to be a personal assistant guy I used
Speaker 1: to work for. He used to say, I don't trust
Speaker 1: anybody unless I'm known on for ten years. But even
Speaker 1: people you know him for ten years, because I here,
Speaker 1: we're saying, I know somebody that stuff the biggest for
Speaker 1: the ten years. You see, you see if you can
Speaker 1: trust something like you know whether you're not you can
Speaker 1: because in person changes so much and in a decade,
Speaker 1: you know, you right change, you grow, you change, whether
Speaker 1: it's for the better or for the words. It happens.
Speaker 1: So j you have friends, you think we're sucking men.
Speaker 1: I have a friend and I know for a fact
Speaker 1: with my man, Damn, doesn't that make you want to
Speaker 1: not be around her and cut her off? It's a
Speaker 1: it's a it's a sticky situation because she's been in
Speaker 1: our bedroom before, but we haven't had a three cents.
Speaker 1: She was there as an assistant, Okay, so she would
Speaker 1: her yeah, yeah, the buffer so and it's you know,
Speaker 1: it's never gotten to the point where they actually had sex.
Speaker 1: But I feel like if I wasn't around it, he
Speaker 1: tried her, she would definitely be for it, right, But
Speaker 1: then you kind of opened the door for that in
Speaker 1: a way. That's why I can't be mad, right, prime example,
Speaker 1: I had a friend that years ago, back when I
Speaker 1: lived in Philly, I had a friend that um I
Speaker 1: brought her into the bedroom with me and my boyfriend.
Speaker 1: We had threesomes and then they started working behind my back,
Speaker 1: And of course I was mad, But I mean, how
Speaker 1: mad can I really be? Because I opened the door
Speaker 1: for that, Like I started to I just felt like,
Speaker 1: I just felt like he should have been more one
Speaker 1: hunted with me because we could have just kept on
Speaker 1: having threesomes if that was a game. But she was like,
Speaker 1: you gotta around my bad he shouldn't even had her number.
Speaker 1: I stopped working with both of them. M so, and
Speaker 1: then I'm not friends. We neither one of them damn.
Speaker 1: At the time, still I have a friend. I showed
Speaker 1: her one of the my favorite boyfriends sent me a
Speaker 1: picture like in his boxers, you know, like his primp,
Speaker 1: and I showed it to her. Why did you do that? Exactly?
Speaker 1: How you gotta learn exactly because he sent up to
Speaker 1: me while I was with her, and I was just
Speaker 1: like so excited because he's like, I don't really like
Speaker 1: dick fix and I don't really feel like you should ask.
Speaker 1: I don't ask for them, but you know some guys
Speaker 1: you wanted from you know what I mean, send me
Speaker 1: the dick pic, like I like, I tried to hint
Speaker 1: that I wanted so many times, and you just won't
Speaker 1: send this to me. So this time I was excited
Speaker 1: because you sent me this. Yeah, it was nice, so
Speaker 1: that I showed her and whatever. Moving forward, my other
Speaker 1: friend was like, girl, I was just talking to this
Speaker 1: bitch and she told me that you showed her a
Speaker 1: picture of this and this and that, and that she
Speaker 1: don't give a funk. She if she got a chance,
Speaker 1: she would I was like, tarnis like, and I know
Speaker 1: she's a whole and she's like, nah, but you know
Speaker 1: I know that, I know she really likes him, and
Speaker 1: you know I would never tell and I will only
Speaker 1: do it once. Whoa that? And that? Friends? I mean,
Speaker 1: I've been like kind of moving around in a different
Speaker 1: direction away from her. No, she doesn't, she but the
Speaker 1: thing is, my thing is like girls, got it? You
Speaker 1: gotta be careful when you talk about your girlfriends to
Speaker 1: other girls, you know what I mean, especially a girl
Speaker 1: who is in the position that I'm in. You know, girls,
Speaker 1: right now, everybody wants to be my friend, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean. So you're talking bad about me to
Speaker 1: this girl and she wants to be on my side
Speaker 1: so bad. She came back and told me, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean. So it made me It didn't make
Speaker 1: me feel like I want this one closer to me
Speaker 1: and I'm gonna get this one. Both of you're coming
Speaker 1: and that yeah, you know, so I just always with you.
Speaker 1: And then you have to wonder why would she be
Speaker 1: comfortable enough to tell her that exactly talking? But I
Speaker 1: think that I think she only gave you one side
Speaker 1: of this note. But I think I'm yeah, because he's
Speaker 1: the thing like I'm a street bit and then the
Speaker 1: beginning of the day, I'm you know, So when you
Speaker 1: tell a regular girl something like that, she's gonna think,
Speaker 1: whow this girl is my friend, she's looking out for me.
Speaker 1: When you tell a real ass bitch something like that,
Speaker 1: it's like you already played. That's exactly what I said.
Speaker 1: So I was like, what were y'all smoking about? Has
Speaker 1: she started like? Uh? Like you know, so, like that's
Speaker 1: something you have to you have to learn, like as
Speaker 1: a woman in life when you're dinner to be able
Speaker 1: to be like I checked that bit on the spot
Speaker 1: and I'm telling you so you know, and you can
Speaker 1: say it to her. I don't care right right like
Speaker 1: Naya me and Naya you know, she's she's one of
Speaker 1: my best friends. And she shows with a bunch of
Speaker 1: girls that I don't like, Like she stayed showing with
Speaker 1: some bird as bitch that I don't funk with, you
Speaker 1: know what I mean? But I know for a fact
Speaker 1: that any time somebody ever said something about me, when
Speaker 1: she checks them, and I've I've heard it from other
Speaker 1: people and I've seen her do it, you know what
Speaker 1: I mean? So like, that's that's a real that's a friend,
Speaker 1: that's my friend, you know what I mean, A person
Speaker 1: who's gonna come back, Like the oldest girl says something,
Speaker 1: but don't say nothing, like don't say like all right now,
Speaker 1: I don't know that, don't say her. And now I
Speaker 1: know that she's home and she comparing herself to me, like,
Speaker 1: but you can't ever bag the type of dick that
Speaker 1: I got, you like the organic dick. Friends you had
Speaker 1: to go day, I got a whole food dick. That
Speaker 1: was my reaction. And I was sitting with her and
Speaker 1: a mom reaction. I looked at I was like, what
Speaker 1: was it I was talking about? And she's like, oh no,
Speaker 1: it just came up in conversation. You said you also
Speaker 1: have friends you weren't testing on your man. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: got it. I have a few, but a few, a
Speaker 1: couple of let me say a couple, um to if
Speaker 1: I just get those vibes and then you hear like
Speaker 1: you hear a little stuff like I actually heard one
Speaker 1: of my friends slept with my ex. I don't know
Speaker 1: how true this. I never even come front of her.
Speaker 1: I just like fell back, like we speak. She don't
Speaker 1: even know that I even heard this or even think
Speaker 1: that you can say something, because it just was like
Speaker 1: I already kind of expected it because if it wasn't him,
Speaker 1: I felt like it was gonna be somebody else. So
Speaker 1: what I did was just distance because I should gonna
Speaker 1: do is lie anyway. I know the type of person
Speaker 1: she is, like I would never do that and heat
Speaker 1: us and he that, and then I don't give two
Speaker 1: funks about him. So it's like for for y'all can
Speaker 1: have each other and y'all could go that way, and
Speaker 1: I could just go this way. But it's like why
Speaker 1: even EXX, like I don't even think it would it
Speaker 1: would bother me from her her point, like her standpoint,
Speaker 1: like I probably would be bothered, But then I think
Speaker 1: about it, like I already expected it, So why would
Speaker 1: I really be bothered by Yeah, So it's like I'm
Speaker 1: gonna just cut her off like fall back, we speak
Speaker 1: and you know, no love loss, but I just can't
Speaker 1: funk with you and I'm not gonna ever bring your
Speaker 1: round nobody else that I'm working with, because I do
Speaker 1: have a friend that I feel like would do that,
Speaker 1: and it's only because I know her for a long time,
Speaker 1: like we grew up together. And the only reason that
Speaker 1: I don't really cut her off completely is because I
Speaker 1: have known her for a long time, you know, and
Speaker 1: she has done this twice to you. Yeah, but it
Speaker 1: was both guys that like we were a lot younger.
Speaker 1: It's when we were younger and you weren't serious with
Speaker 1: two guys. No, I wasn't really serious, like, and the
Speaker 1: guys are the ones that told me what I feel like.
Speaker 1: Guys are always gonna tell you. They're always gonna tell you.
Speaker 1: That's another thing. That's another thing. Girls, the same thing
Speaker 1: when you're talking to guys like you don't know that,
Speaker 1: Like if you're working with somebody and you know he's
Speaker 1: working with another person, don't don't talk about her. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but because you think you're making yourself look good, but
Speaker 1: you you're kind of making him think about the other person, right,
Speaker 1: you know. But I feel like if you really mind
Speaker 1: friend and you feel like, oh, I know you were
Speaker 1: dealing with this guy, but it wasn't a serious like
Speaker 1: ask me, like you'd be mad if I if I
Speaker 1: sunk with him or you know, like then I'm gonna
Speaker 1: tell you how I really feel, like, oh, no, this
Speaker 1: one off guards or go I'm cool because you don't
Speaker 1: feel like the one guy that told me right, he
Speaker 1: was somebody that I introduced her to him. I was
Speaker 1: talking to him, but he was like my boyfriend or anything,
Speaker 1: and he actually told me that he sucked it. But
Speaker 1: he was like, yeah, I told her I was going
Speaker 1: to tell you, and she didn't believe me. He was like, yeah,
Speaker 1: you know, I'm gonna tell you that, and she was like, no,
Speaker 1: you're not. And he sure did come back and tell
Speaker 1: me she's awful, and I stopped off. I stopped dealing
Speaker 1: with him after that. But you know, like I feel
Speaker 1: like with her, I don't really rock with her like that,
Speaker 1: but I've known her a long time and it was
Speaker 1: a long time ago, so I just be on something
Speaker 1: like I just feel like, give you good your friend
Speaker 1: man that I never was really friends because it's it's
Speaker 1: so it's so much dick out here. It's like you
Speaker 1: had to have that listen. It don't even be everywhere
Speaker 1: like Pokemon got him. What he does for you said
Speaker 1: that the love that they see that he gives you,
Speaker 1: the things he see that that that he does for you,
Speaker 1: the gifts, the way he moved you around, the way
Speaker 1: y'all living they feel as though my pussy is so
Speaker 1: good that if I give him something, he's gonna cut
Speaker 1: that bit off and do the same things for me.
Speaker 1: And that's why they go and that's our Like, I hate,
Speaker 1: he ain't going to how good my pussy is on
Speaker 1: this show anymore because I know people are tired tell
Speaker 1: us about it. But I know, like every time a
Speaker 1: girl tells somebody that I'm sucking up, every time he
Speaker 1: talks about me, the God runs and tells me because
Speaker 1: he always gonna tell me, because he's always gonna come back,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. He still wants to taste us.
Speaker 1: He still wants it, you know what I mean, Like
Speaker 1: you hating all me, He's just gonna it's just push
Speaker 1: your hands to call me extra time he's hungry. And
Speaker 1: I'm still gonna feel like even recently, I had a
Speaker 1: guy that I'm dating, God, I'm sucking with he he
Speaker 1: had a girl tell me tell him that I said
Speaker 1: I was saying that he was paying my bills or
Speaker 1: something like that. Please everybody know how proud I am
Speaker 1: that not paying my own bills. This is an accomplishment
Speaker 1: for me, you know. But I'm paying you know what
Speaker 1: I mean? So you know, he ran back and told
Speaker 1: me because he knows the person that I am. He
Speaker 1: and I have a relationship, you know, like we're not
Speaker 1: in a surbious relationship, so we don't just funk each
Speaker 1: other and then keep it moving, you know, Like, so
Speaker 1: he knows the type of person I am. And anybody
Speaker 1: who knows he knows get you crazy when you tell
Speaker 1: crazy about another text, because it do make it seem
Speaker 1: like you feel a little insecure. She doing is making
Speaker 1: because he's gonna tell the girl. So you're showing that
Speaker 1: you care about this girl. You're thinking about her, you're
Speaker 1: talking about you, You're she's relevant to the way she's
Speaker 1: My girls be like, oh, you know everything on her
Speaker 1: is fake, you know she but that you know she
Speaker 1: like really make it seem like you're hating you know,
Speaker 1: naturally blue. No, but that's why I went like, um,
Speaker 1: you know, I'm I'm working with somebody who's popular, who's
Speaker 1: a popular person, and I know he'd be sleeping with
Speaker 1: other girls. He tries to act like he doesn't, but
Speaker 1: I'll be knowing, yeah, you know what I mean. And
Speaker 1: I hear about things him and there, but I will
Speaker 1: not ever mention it to him one song because you
Speaker 1: ain't my man? How about what you ask me nothing.
Speaker 1: I shouldn't think that I'm hating on any of those
Speaker 1: bites because no matter who it is, whether she's extremely rich,
Speaker 1: has the fattest ass, the hope he ain't gonna how
Speaker 1: about how about just that like bring you everything, like
Speaker 1: oh yeah, I've seen him. That's the worst. I just
Speaker 1: so happen to be on Instagram. And one thing with things,
Speaker 1: for sure, do not check for my nigga, especially if
Speaker 1: I'm not checking for my nigga right and then like
Speaker 1: you but they bring you something like they got this
Speaker 1: saying and you'll see side. Yeah there's I say two
Speaker 1: things about that. Number One, yes, I had to tell
Speaker 1: somebody one time stopped telling me stuff about my ex
Speaker 1: because I don't want to hear it anymore. But the
Speaker 1: other thing is sometimes people feel like, well, you might
Speaker 1: be mad if they know something and didn't tell you,
Speaker 1: but it's how you do it, Like it's when you
Speaker 1: I got like Afford who all the time like oh
Speaker 1: well I was just on my Instagram scrolling and that's
Speaker 1: all such a such a comment on such such a picture,
Speaker 1: and it's like why do you follow him? For one,
Speaker 1: and how did you see this? He was going through
Speaker 1: the comments. It's just too much now if you see
Speaker 1: you out and you see him with another yeah, and
Speaker 1: then you supposed it called me, but the whole Instagram
Speaker 1: social media stuff emojis under his And then when this
Speaker 1: frequentness like why do you know all this information about
Speaker 1: why do you know stuff that I don't know? I'm
Speaker 1: supposed to do the snooping. So it seemed like so
Speaker 1: it seemed like they're just really trying to hate on
Speaker 1: your situation or they or I feel like they more
Speaker 1: than you are. Yeah, I feel like they want the situation. Okay,
Speaker 1: I feel like my friends are there so um, they're
Speaker 1: so like careful with me, like they don't even do
Speaker 1: it no more like like my home girls. She used
Speaker 1: to be like oh screen shining things and like and
Speaker 1: every time like, b I don't sell me that because
Speaker 1: I'm I'm spad, like I go from my girl what
Speaker 1: you know what I mean? You know, I feel like
Speaker 1: my friends are so like only like a handful of
Speaker 1: people know my personal business, you know what I mean?
Speaker 1: Because you gotta be careful these bishes to be bored
Speaker 1: you working, you're busy, you know what I mean, you're
Speaker 1: doing with everything you have to do, and these bishes
Speaker 1: is bored. They changed life. It's a little boring, so
Speaker 1: now they start checking on your life. All right? Well,
Speaker 1: I know Leemasing is here because she has a lot
Speaker 1: of press to do for Stan, so we do gotta
Speaker 1: let you go. I appreciate you for him, But how
Speaker 1: was the experience being on the show? Just so? Um?
Speaker 1: It was dope. I had to get us to it
Speaker 1: at first, but at the while you forget, like the
Speaker 1: cameras is even there. He used to being around guys
Speaker 1: all the time too. Yeah, my whole team is I
Speaker 1: don't deal with too many girls because of what we
Speaker 1: were talking about, So my whole time team is almost
Speaker 1: all guys, like guys, and you and Meek are still cool,
Speaker 1: right Yeah? Is he gonna like post and supported the show?
Speaker 1: I know he's big on posting the support. I mean
Speaker 1: that's I don't know. We had to win. Did you
Speaker 1: ask him like hey, could you post it? Yeah? You
Speaker 1: start stepping up and asking the stuff. That's somebody that
Speaker 1: you used to be signed to his label. He wanted
Speaker 1: kind of feel like it's one of those situations, like
Speaker 1: you said, like that's that's something I feel like, now
Speaker 1: you should ask because these droppers they asked everybody to right,
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie because people like Bigger Caliber asked
Speaker 1: calib would be like yo posted like sometimes you gotta
Speaker 1: do that, you gotta put you know. I guess it's
Speaker 1: a pride thing. I guess probably is a broad thing.
Speaker 1: But I feel like all the people that I got
Speaker 1: relationships with in the industry, like I didn't have to
Speaker 1: ask them, not one person. I can't even one person
Speaker 1: that I feel like I gotta dope bind with it.
Speaker 1: I had, but sometimes people don't even be paying attention
Speaker 1: and what's going on. I don't know if you're gonna
Speaker 1: be like what I'm doing? What I do. I may
Speaker 1: do something like a mass text, you know, and then
Speaker 1: when he don't post it, then you know, or I
Speaker 1: do something like a mass text like sense to everybody
Speaker 1: and not not a group message, but like one by one,
Speaker 1: like you know, this show coming on the night with
Speaker 1: the picture and then see what follow up from there.
Speaker 1: Because I get those same type of messages like you
Speaker 1: we don't see everything, and if somebody hit me up
Speaker 1: like oh I just dropped this, then I'll be like, oh,
Speaker 1: I know what, she dropped this, or just let me
Speaker 1: throw it up, and you know what, it helps if
Speaker 1: you give them just what to write so they could
Speaker 1: just come and paste it, so you don't got to
Speaker 1: come to the whole thing, find the hashtag, find the ad,
Speaker 1: just be like, hey, if you could just copy and
Speaker 1: paste this, you know, I'd appreciate it. If not cool,
Speaker 1: you know, still love, but it would be nice. I'm
Speaker 1: just trying to say, sometimes we gotta stop acting like
Speaker 1: we don't want to, you know, ask the thing absolutely right,
Speaker 1: She's gonna be hit me like girls. So yeah, I
Speaker 1: needed to come up now. Boy listen, I have no
Speaker 1: problem with it. So myself in there. So I saw it.
Speaker 1: I was so confused because I saw it like a
Speaker 1: couple of people doing it the first time, Like, how
Speaker 1: are they getting in this? All right? Well, we appreciate
Speaker 1: you so much for stopping. Dude. We will be watching,
Speaker 1: you know, I like Sister the Hip Hop. We actually
Speaker 1: been on that show on the Breakfast Club. We're actually
Speaker 1: watching it all together. Maybe we can get maybe we
Speaker 1: can get lip service on there at one time, you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. We could. They loved it, come
Speaker 1: up here, and talk about y'all poicy. Yeah, so I'll
Speaker 1: see you later. Don't have a little watch party at
Speaker 1: post tonight. You