1 00:00:03,800 --> 00:00:06,760 Speaker 1: What is up? It's lip service. I'm Angela, Ye, I'm 2 00:00:06,760 --> 00:00:10,000 Speaker 1: Stephanie Santiago, I'm g G McGuire and we got Philly's 3 00:00:10,080 --> 00:00:13,880 Speaker 1: Only Amazing here. What's up ladies? Hey Kevin, if you 4 00:00:13,880 --> 00:00:20,720 Speaker 1: don't turn your snapchat off? Sorry? Yeah, alright, So we 5 00:00:20,720 --> 00:00:23,080 Speaker 1: were talking and by the way, congratulations on sister hoo 6 00:00:23,079 --> 00:00:27,320 Speaker 1: to hip hop as we're all watching. Come on, ladies, sorry, 7 00:00:27,600 --> 00:00:29,920 Speaker 1: y'all act like this is not your sixty seventh episode 8 00:00:30,040 --> 00:00:33,440 Speaker 1: right now. We were talking about this. Can you be 9 00:00:33,479 --> 00:00:35,479 Speaker 1: in love with two people at the same time? So 10 00:00:35,520 --> 00:00:37,680 Speaker 1: I want to get everybody's opinion on that, and then 11 00:00:37,720 --> 00:00:40,559 Speaker 1: we're gonna get to our tip of the day. All right, 12 00:00:41,080 --> 00:00:44,800 Speaker 1: don't you go? Firstly, I think it's possible. It has 13 00:00:44,840 --> 00:00:47,080 Speaker 1: happened to me. He was in love with two people 14 00:00:49,000 --> 00:00:52,040 Speaker 1: that got a little messy to what happened? Did they 15 00:00:52,080 --> 00:00:54,279 Speaker 1: know about each other and didn't found out about each other? 16 00:00:54,400 --> 00:00:57,040 Speaker 1: And it was like, you'll love me like you love 17 00:00:57,120 --> 00:01:00,520 Speaker 1: this one just too mussy? Did and make them want 18 00:01:00,520 --> 00:01:01,840 Speaker 1: to break up with you? Or did it turn into 19 00:01:01,880 --> 00:01:04,520 Speaker 1: like a competition. It was more like a competition, so 20 00:01:04,560 --> 00:01:06,560 Speaker 1: it kind of worked in your favor. Yeah, but it 21 00:01:06,640 --> 00:01:09,960 Speaker 1: was like the extra side of it was kind of like, 22 00:01:10,480 --> 00:01:13,880 Speaker 1: maybe I should just get away from boofale situations, but 23 00:01:13,959 --> 00:01:17,080 Speaker 1: it is possible that how did they find out? Social media? 24 00:01:19,080 --> 00:01:21,679 Speaker 1: So they the giveaway now these so they was leaving 25 00:01:21,720 --> 00:01:24,520 Speaker 1: comments and yep, and then one or the other and 26 00:01:24,560 --> 00:01:28,280 Speaker 1: it was just went from there. They contacted each other. Okay, 27 00:01:28,319 --> 00:01:30,640 Speaker 1: they confronted you, but they never spoke to each other 28 00:01:30,760 --> 00:01:33,360 Speaker 1: through friends and you know, did they say you have 29 00:01:33,440 --> 00:01:36,640 Speaker 1: to make a choice. Yeah, But then it got I couldn't. 30 00:01:36,800 --> 00:01:40,920 Speaker 1: That's why I feel like you so wait us tell 31 00:01:40,959 --> 00:01:44,000 Speaker 1: us the great qualities that if you because I'm assume 32 00:01:44,040 --> 00:01:46,440 Speaker 1: you made a list of pros and cons. Yeah, and 33 00:01:46,480 --> 00:01:48,720 Speaker 1: then it was like this one had this and this 34 00:01:48,720 --> 00:01:50,600 Speaker 1: one didn't, and then this one had that and this 35 00:01:50,640 --> 00:01:52,600 Speaker 1: one then so you'd be kind of like I kind 36 00:01:52,600 --> 00:01:54,080 Speaker 1: of got like the bust of both worlds. What am 37 00:01:54,080 --> 00:01:56,680 Speaker 1: I supposed to do? Right? You're both incomplete, but together 38 00:01:56,680 --> 00:01:59,880 Speaker 1: you're a complete. So then then I thought yep, and 39 00:02:00,000 --> 00:02:02,080 Speaker 1: then I thought maybe I should have to read myself 40 00:02:02,480 --> 00:02:05,080 Speaker 1: from both situations right and started over And then I 41 00:02:05,440 --> 00:02:06,880 Speaker 1: did and it just was like, now I'm at the 42 00:02:06,920 --> 00:02:09,000 Speaker 1: point where it's like how she said I got them 43 00:02:09,040 --> 00:02:13,640 Speaker 1: all bring them all. Yeah, so they both still lurking around. Yeah, wow, 44 00:02:14,280 --> 00:02:20,040 Speaker 1: play it good for you. We're gonna get back to 45 00:02:20,080 --> 00:02:21,560 Speaker 1: that with the tip of the day. But Stephanitiely you 46 00:02:21,600 --> 00:02:24,480 Speaker 1: said yes, also, you could be in love with two people. Yeah, 47 00:02:24,520 --> 00:02:27,280 Speaker 1: I think, um, I think that, Um. Love is a 48 00:02:27,280 --> 00:02:30,240 Speaker 1: crazy emotion. It's a crazy feeling, and I don't think 49 00:02:30,280 --> 00:02:32,359 Speaker 1: you can control it. I don't think you could turn 50 00:02:32,360 --> 00:02:35,160 Speaker 1: it on and off. When you really love somebody, you can, 51 00:02:35,560 --> 00:02:38,280 Speaker 1: you know, move on from one situation to another and 52 00:02:38,320 --> 00:02:41,680 Speaker 1: fall in love and you know, still love the other persons. 53 00:02:42,919 --> 00:02:44,560 Speaker 1: But what if you know you're you love somebody but 54 00:02:44,600 --> 00:02:49,000 Speaker 1: you're hurting them because you're with somebody else. Oh well, 55 00:02:49,160 --> 00:02:55,360 Speaker 1: I mean in that case, well yeah, you can't. Really 56 00:02:56,080 --> 00:02:57,959 Speaker 1: It sucks. You don't want to hurt anybody, but you 57 00:02:58,880 --> 00:03:01,799 Speaker 1: can control you know what it is. I think, um, 58 00:03:01,880 --> 00:03:04,480 Speaker 1: I think even though you're in love with two people, 59 00:03:04,480 --> 00:03:08,520 Speaker 1: I think you should choose, you know what I'm saying, Like, 60 00:03:08,560 --> 00:03:13,120 Speaker 1: I think especially um, I don't want to say for 61 00:03:13,160 --> 00:03:15,160 Speaker 1: a man or a woman. I just think that you 62 00:03:15,160 --> 00:03:18,200 Speaker 1: should choose if you know, you don't unless that cool 63 00:03:18,200 --> 00:03:21,640 Speaker 1: with it, unless everybody could just be happy together, you know, 64 00:03:21,760 --> 00:03:25,840 Speaker 1: somebody has to go. Somebody's gotta go. Somebody's always gotta somebody. 65 00:03:26,919 --> 00:03:30,919 Speaker 1: So I think I choose. But I mean if you're 66 00:03:30,960 --> 00:03:35,000 Speaker 1: single and dating, you know, so that's that you don't 67 00:03:35,040 --> 00:03:40,240 Speaker 1: You don't have to choose, you can right Um and 68 00:03:40,760 --> 00:03:44,960 Speaker 1: Alex our friend, Um, she does the lip service passport cutty, 69 00:03:45,280 --> 00:03:49,000 Speaker 1: she was saying today on on Instagram. You know, people 70 00:03:49,640 --> 00:03:53,920 Speaker 1: nowadays move so fast, they like we go on one day, 71 00:03:54,120 --> 00:03:58,440 Speaker 1: we sleep together, and then a relationship. Although I would 72 00:03:58,440 --> 00:04:00,840 Speaker 1: say y'all said last week that if we sleep together, 73 00:04:00,920 --> 00:04:05,520 Speaker 1: you're my boyfriend. But that's a serious thing, that a 74 00:04:05,600 --> 00:04:09,120 Speaker 1: serious relationship. Like you you sleep with somebody and then 75 00:04:09,120 --> 00:04:10,560 Speaker 1: you're like, oh I don't want I don't want you 76 00:04:10,640 --> 00:04:13,360 Speaker 1: sucking nobody else, Like you just skipped over a whole 77 00:04:13,360 --> 00:04:18,760 Speaker 1: process of getting other maybe right away, yeah, or maybe 78 00:04:18,839 --> 00:04:26,440 Speaker 1: sleep with each other right away but forbody else or yeah, 79 00:04:27,720 --> 00:04:29,800 Speaker 1: but you can't put too many boundaries on it so soon. 80 00:04:30,120 --> 00:04:32,480 Speaker 1: I just feel like when you're single, um, you know, 81 00:04:32,680 --> 00:04:35,560 Speaker 1: like you should enjoy that, you know, date as many 82 00:04:35,600 --> 00:04:37,640 Speaker 1: people as you want, maybe not funk as many people 83 00:04:37,680 --> 00:04:39,039 Speaker 1: as you want, but hey, if you want to funk 84 00:04:39,120 --> 00:04:41,560 Speaker 1: as many people as you want, as many people as 85 00:04:41,600 --> 00:04:44,200 Speaker 1: you want, I mean, and if you're keeping it, if 86 00:04:44,200 --> 00:04:46,400 Speaker 1: you're being honest with somebody, like, hey, I love this person, 87 00:04:46,440 --> 00:04:49,159 Speaker 1: but I love you too. I'm single, you know, I 88 00:04:49,279 --> 00:04:53,640 Speaker 1: see I hang out with you some side hang out, right, jeez, 89 00:04:53,760 --> 00:04:55,120 Speaker 1: what do you think can you being loved to people 90 00:04:55,160 --> 00:04:57,760 Speaker 1: at the same time? Personally, I don't think that I 91 00:04:57,760 --> 00:05:00,640 Speaker 1: can love be in love with two people at the 92 00:05:00,640 --> 00:05:03,120 Speaker 1: same time. And there's a difference between loving someone and 93 00:05:03,200 --> 00:05:07,000 Speaker 1: being in love with someone. And from my personal experience, 94 00:05:07,240 --> 00:05:10,039 Speaker 1: I was dealing with two people at the same time, 95 00:05:10,480 --> 00:05:13,960 Speaker 1: and I was in love with one and I loved 96 00:05:14,080 --> 00:05:17,440 Speaker 1: the other. I loved the other for different reasons, you know, 97 00:05:17,680 --> 00:05:21,040 Speaker 1: not the same reasons why I was in love. Now, yeah, 98 00:05:21,040 --> 00:05:23,560 Speaker 1: I need you other even more specific about these reasons. 99 00:05:23,760 --> 00:05:27,080 Speaker 1: I mean, when you're in love with someone is just 100 00:05:27,200 --> 00:05:30,160 Speaker 1: on a different level than just having love for someone. 101 00:05:30,400 --> 00:05:32,840 Speaker 1: And and me and this person that the other person 102 00:05:33,320 --> 00:05:37,400 Speaker 1: we were friends and our friendship, you know, was a 103 00:05:37,480 --> 00:05:41,719 Speaker 1: very strong friendship, and we were friends with benefits. But yeah, 104 00:05:41,880 --> 00:05:44,720 Speaker 1: I just loved him for who he was, not, you know, 105 00:05:44,800 --> 00:05:47,159 Speaker 1: to be my lover even though he was having sex. 106 00:05:47,240 --> 00:05:49,560 Speaker 1: I wasn't in love with him, but sexually. It wasn't 107 00:05:49,640 --> 00:05:54,440 Speaker 1: as it wasn't there wasn't There wasn't that that passionate connection. 108 00:05:54,640 --> 00:05:57,240 Speaker 1: We had chemistry, We had a great friendship, we had 109 00:05:57,279 --> 00:05:59,440 Speaker 1: a great bond. We talked about a lot. But he 110 00:05:59,520 --> 00:06:06,400 Speaker 1: squared but no, I've never I'm just asking. But um, 111 00:06:06,400 --> 00:06:08,560 Speaker 1: I wasn't in love with him, all right. So for 112 00:06:08,640 --> 00:06:10,960 Speaker 1: the tip of the day today, what how do you 113 00:06:11,040 --> 00:06:14,240 Speaker 1: choose when you have two people that you're dating, right, 114 00:06:14,720 --> 00:06:16,160 Speaker 1: What are some of the things that you look at 115 00:06:16,160 --> 00:06:18,120 Speaker 1: so that you can choose one over the other? Well? 116 00:06:18,120 --> 00:06:19,960 Speaker 1: I think, first you I felt like I was being 117 00:06:20,040 --> 00:06:23,040 Speaker 1: selfish in the situation, and I feel like it was 118 00:06:23,080 --> 00:06:25,480 Speaker 1: a part of like growing because I wanted both of 119 00:06:25,560 --> 00:06:27,920 Speaker 1: them and I wanted I didn't want either one of 120 00:06:27,960 --> 00:06:34,360 Speaker 1: them to hit. I think it was being selfish, But um, 121 00:06:34,400 --> 00:06:36,640 Speaker 1: I don't know. It's kind of like you do gotta wait, 122 00:06:36,960 --> 00:06:39,080 Speaker 1: I guess longevity. Who can you see and so with 123 00:06:40,080 --> 00:06:43,200 Speaker 1: for a long like is that you look for if 124 00:06:43,240 --> 00:06:45,599 Speaker 1: you say, okay, he has this, this is that This 125 00:06:45,640 --> 00:06:47,400 Speaker 1: is why I could see myself with him in the 126 00:06:47,440 --> 00:06:53,120 Speaker 1: long term. Stability, um, ambition. I like people that that's 127 00:06:53,120 --> 00:06:55,240 Speaker 1: aiming for something that has schools they want more out 128 00:06:55,279 --> 00:07:01,720 Speaker 1: of life. Um against ability. He likes stability, the one, 129 00:07:02,000 --> 00:07:04,880 Speaker 1: I think, honestly is a good treat of course for me. 130 00:07:05,000 --> 00:07:07,840 Speaker 1: The person who sticks When I'm dating a couple of 131 00:07:07,880 --> 00:07:10,200 Speaker 1: different people, the person who sticks is the person who 132 00:07:10,240 --> 00:07:13,600 Speaker 1: was the most consistent, the one who gave you the 133 00:07:13,600 --> 00:07:20,480 Speaker 1: biggest I mean that has the biggest really sucks me 134 00:07:20,560 --> 00:07:23,560 Speaker 1: with that biggest. Now, I feel like the one that's 135 00:07:23,560 --> 00:07:26,640 Speaker 1: around the most always ends up sticking, just out of 136 00:07:27,080 --> 00:07:33,320 Speaker 1: because he's the last man. But he probably need to 137 00:07:33,480 --> 00:07:38,120 Speaker 1: take me the supermarket on milk shade. But sometimes girls 138 00:07:38,160 --> 00:07:40,520 Speaker 1: tend to like that guy that they have to chase 139 00:07:40,600 --> 00:07:43,560 Speaker 1: down too. I feel like that's more of a challenge. 140 00:07:43,600 --> 00:07:46,160 Speaker 1: Sometimes we put ourselves in that situation when the one 141 00:07:46,200 --> 00:07:49,040 Speaker 1: person that's always good and available, but that's take advantage 142 00:07:49,080 --> 00:07:51,680 Speaker 1: of him, and then you won day. The guy who 143 00:07:51,680 --> 00:07:54,440 Speaker 1: don't really answer all the time call you back hours later, 144 00:07:54,800 --> 00:07:57,040 Speaker 1: right where the funk was you at the thrill of 145 00:07:57,080 --> 00:07:58,880 Speaker 1: the chase, Because when you feel like you might be 146 00:07:58,920 --> 00:08:01,200 Speaker 1: slightly being incurred by nickold, you try extra hard because 147 00:08:01,200 --> 00:08:03,800 Speaker 1: you're like, oh fun, ame about the curve, me make 148 00:08:03,840 --> 00:08:06,280 Speaker 1: sure they're doing so you kind of go a little 149 00:08:06,280 --> 00:08:09,480 Speaker 1: harder because sometimes guys that don't treat you that good, 150 00:08:09,520 --> 00:08:12,880 Speaker 1: that treats you really good, you'd be like, you make 151 00:08:12,960 --> 00:08:21,440 Speaker 1: up stuff about them, like I like them, but it's 152 00:08:21,520 --> 00:08:26,640 Speaker 1: right here, two point like that right here. So what 153 00:08:26,680 --> 00:08:28,920 Speaker 1: would you say, like, if you have to choose for 154 00:08:28,960 --> 00:08:31,840 Speaker 1: the tip of the day between two guys, what are 155 00:08:31,840 --> 00:08:34,400 Speaker 1: the things that you look for when you do the elimination? 156 00:08:35,200 --> 00:08:39,640 Speaker 1: Who gets the rose? Who gets the rose? Um? I 157 00:08:39,760 --> 00:08:41,760 Speaker 1: agree with Lee that you have to go for the 158 00:08:41,880 --> 00:08:44,600 Speaker 1: long term situation. You know, which one of these guys. 159 00:08:44,640 --> 00:08:47,920 Speaker 1: Cannot really see myself being with. What represents long term though, 160 00:08:48,040 --> 00:08:52,200 Speaker 1: Like besides stability you said honesty, Like what else is 161 00:08:52,320 --> 00:08:55,160 Speaker 1: long term for me? My advice because I always go 162 00:08:55,240 --> 00:08:59,839 Speaker 1: with the one that's easier to keep with the you 163 00:09:00,240 --> 00:09:03,360 Speaker 1: go against what I'm doing. Learn from my experience, and 164 00:09:03,760 --> 00:09:05,800 Speaker 1: I feel like you should try to stay with the 165 00:09:05,800 --> 00:09:09,520 Speaker 1: person who presents a better challenge better, not not the 166 00:09:09,559 --> 00:09:11,719 Speaker 1: one you want, the one that you have to fight 167 00:09:11,760 --> 00:09:14,120 Speaker 1: three six of his baby Mama's No, that's not a 168 00:09:14,160 --> 00:09:21,360 Speaker 1: good challenge either, you know what I mean. It's like sparted, Yeah, 169 00:09:19,400 --> 00:09:23,960 Speaker 1: that's try to go for the one who's who gets 170 00:09:24,000 --> 00:09:25,760 Speaker 1: along with his baby mama. Go for the one that's 171 00:09:25,760 --> 00:09:28,680 Speaker 1: not married. It's not the one that's not married, I 172 00:09:28,800 --> 00:09:30,960 Speaker 1: probably isn't gonna be too long term. For the one 173 00:09:31,000 --> 00:09:32,760 Speaker 1: that's not married, go for the one that don't have 174 00:09:32,800 --> 00:09:36,840 Speaker 1: a baby mama who separated. You know, wait, wait till 175 00:09:36,880 --> 00:09:39,920 Speaker 1: they get a divorce. Okay, that's a good idea. Getting 176 00:09:39,960 --> 00:09:42,520 Speaker 1: really serious, How can you earn somebody's trust back if 177 00:09:42,559 --> 00:09:45,080 Speaker 1: you've lied to them? Now, let's say you don't had 178 00:09:45,280 --> 00:09:47,640 Speaker 1: they found out you were lying seeing other people? Is 179 00:09:47,840 --> 00:09:50,480 Speaker 1: how can you make somebody trust you again? Actions change. 180 00:09:50,520 --> 00:09:51,959 Speaker 1: You have to have to change, and you have to 181 00:09:51,960 --> 00:09:54,080 Speaker 1: show it. I don't think it's a set formula to it. 182 00:09:54,080 --> 00:09:56,320 Speaker 1: I think it's no. I just got it actually speaking. 183 00:09:57,480 --> 00:09:59,560 Speaker 1: If they're willing to work the word with you, though, 184 00:10:00,000 --> 00:10:01,839 Speaker 1: because trust is like a hard thing to get and 185 00:10:01,920 --> 00:10:04,240 Speaker 1: keep and then to try to get it back. It's 186 00:10:04,240 --> 00:10:06,520 Speaker 1: even harder because they're gonna teach you real shitty at first, 187 00:10:08,400 --> 00:10:12,360 Speaker 1: and the insecurity level of insecurity is like any everything 188 00:10:12,400 --> 00:10:14,600 Speaker 1: you do is like you're lying, right, and you gotta 189 00:10:14,640 --> 00:10:16,600 Speaker 1: really and then you gotta humble yourself and not get 190 00:10:16,640 --> 00:10:20,200 Speaker 1: mad about it and hav them long ass late night talks. 191 00:10:20,920 --> 00:10:23,640 Speaker 1: I could want. Truce is broken, it's over. You cannot 192 00:10:23,760 --> 00:10:27,560 Speaker 1: get that back. Never. Never, I think you can. I 193 00:10:27,600 --> 00:10:30,360 Speaker 1: don't think it's hard. I think it's very hard. I 194 00:10:30,440 --> 00:10:32,600 Speaker 1: just feel like both people have to, you know, look 195 00:10:32,640 --> 00:10:35,720 Speaker 1: at things different and change and do things differently. The 196 00:10:35,720 --> 00:10:38,160 Speaker 1: biggest problem is that once you break somebody's trust, now 197 00:10:38,160 --> 00:10:42,640 Speaker 1: you don't trust them. Yeah, and then you automatically think, well, 198 00:10:42,679 --> 00:10:45,040 Speaker 1: I did this, he's gonna do If he's gonna take 199 00:10:45,080 --> 00:10:47,520 Speaker 1: me back, you've got to be doing some ship after 200 00:10:47,559 --> 00:10:51,480 Speaker 1: everything I did. Taking me back you can't tell me. Now, 201 00:10:51,800 --> 00:10:54,440 Speaker 1: let's say you're dating somebody alive. We'll start with you 202 00:10:54,480 --> 00:10:56,880 Speaker 1: with this one. Right, somebody else is in the business 203 00:10:56,920 --> 00:10:58,840 Speaker 1: and they could do things that could help your career, 204 00:10:58,880 --> 00:11:01,439 Speaker 1: like as a producer or another artist or something like that. 205 00:11:01,720 --> 00:11:07,600 Speaker 1: Would you ask for help? Um me personally, no, just 206 00:11:07,679 --> 00:11:10,840 Speaker 1: because I will always be like your independent type of shape. 207 00:11:11,080 --> 00:11:13,920 Speaker 1: But you know, being independent is great, but sometimes you 208 00:11:13,960 --> 00:11:17,320 Speaker 1: do need to say I know, and I'm I'm learning that, 209 00:11:17,520 --> 00:11:20,240 Speaker 1: but it's just like installed in me and it's I'm 210 00:11:20,320 --> 00:11:23,760 Speaker 1: not come too comfortable with eggs and almost like any 211 00:11:23,800 --> 00:11:26,319 Speaker 1: man for anything, because he even asking for heim, like, oh, 212 00:11:26,360 --> 00:11:28,120 Speaker 1: could you you know I'm going to get a chat 213 00:11:28,120 --> 00:11:30,240 Speaker 1: from you. I think you dope something like this that 214 00:11:30,240 --> 00:11:32,480 Speaker 1: could help them too, if you really you know, I'm 215 00:11:32,480 --> 00:11:34,640 Speaker 1: believe in yourself and if it makes sense and I'm 216 00:11:34,640 --> 00:11:37,360 Speaker 1: like comfortable in the situation, then of course. But I 217 00:11:37,360 --> 00:11:40,760 Speaker 1: wouldn't just walk into a situation like, oh, he's a producer, 218 00:11:40,880 --> 00:11:42,440 Speaker 1: he do this. Let me make sure I get his number, 219 00:11:42,520 --> 00:11:44,280 Speaker 1: let me he got that song and that sound check? 220 00:11:44,360 --> 00:11:48,120 Speaker 1: Why he ain't put me on the song? What about you? 221 00:11:48,600 --> 00:11:51,440 Speaker 1: I because somebody that you're dating, if they could do 222 00:11:51,520 --> 00:11:55,360 Speaker 1: something to help you, would you ever ask? Yes? You that, 223 00:11:55,400 --> 00:11:56,640 Speaker 1: But I mean you've been with your boyfriend for a 224 00:11:56,679 --> 00:11:58,640 Speaker 1: long time, so you should be able to ask him 225 00:11:58,679 --> 00:12:01,440 Speaker 1: for anything. Yes, a close mouth, don't get fat at 226 00:12:01,440 --> 00:12:03,360 Speaker 1: the end of the day. And the only answer you're 227 00:12:03,360 --> 00:12:05,360 Speaker 1: going to get without asking is no. When you do 228 00:12:05,440 --> 00:12:08,160 Speaker 1: actually have the opportunity to get to us. And if 229 00:12:08,200 --> 00:12:10,360 Speaker 1: you're with somebody and they want the best for you, 230 00:12:10,440 --> 00:12:12,480 Speaker 1: then they're going to do what they can to help you. Actually, 231 00:12:12,480 --> 00:12:15,600 Speaker 1: you shouldn't have to ask if they can help you. 232 00:12:15,720 --> 00:12:19,040 Speaker 1: But sometimes we assume that people know that. Sometimes you 233 00:12:19,040 --> 00:12:21,640 Speaker 1: do and they're not thinking about it and didn't tell 234 00:12:21,679 --> 00:12:24,120 Speaker 1: me you needed help. Maybe maybe you get maybe I 235 00:12:24,160 --> 00:12:30,319 Speaker 1: can't hint that sometimes that words let me drop these 236 00:12:30,320 --> 00:12:32,160 Speaker 1: braad crowds to see if this is gonna kick it up. 237 00:12:33,040 --> 00:12:35,000 Speaker 1: But sometimes I feel like that's the worst because they're like, oh, 238 00:12:35,080 --> 00:12:36,480 Speaker 1: she want to hand around, and why don't she just 239 00:12:36,520 --> 00:12:39,240 Speaker 1: ask me? True? Yeah, like I said, a close mouth, 240 00:12:39,240 --> 00:12:42,760 Speaker 1: don't get fat. And if you're with somebody, comfortable with somebody, 241 00:12:42,800 --> 00:12:44,719 Speaker 1: if you're with somebody and they feel this though, and 242 00:12:45,280 --> 00:12:47,640 Speaker 1: they know that they can help you, and if they 243 00:12:47,679 --> 00:12:49,960 Speaker 1: see that you need the help and don't offer, then 244 00:12:50,160 --> 00:12:52,240 Speaker 1: and I don't I'm not even saying in business in general, 245 00:12:52,320 --> 00:12:54,640 Speaker 1: I'm saying in life, like nigga, you see my nails 246 00:12:54,640 --> 00:12:57,439 Speaker 1: as busted, didn't send me to the semar anybody and 247 00:12:57,520 --> 00:12:59,400 Speaker 1: let me get my ship fix? Or you know what 248 00:12:59,440 --> 00:13:03,000 Speaker 1: if he just said you need to get a manicure? 249 00:13:03,880 --> 00:13:09,120 Speaker 1: Running little some girls, I gotta like that. You know 250 00:13:09,640 --> 00:13:11,120 Speaker 1: what are you thinking? That's a small thing. But I 251 00:13:11,160 --> 00:13:15,079 Speaker 1: was just using that as an example. Well, you know, um, 252 00:13:15,120 --> 00:13:17,880 Speaker 1: I've had my foot in this business for a couple 253 00:13:17,880 --> 00:13:22,280 Speaker 1: of years and I've never asked anybody that I'm involved 254 00:13:22,320 --> 00:13:28,000 Speaker 1: with for any help. But you never needed it? Yeah, 255 00:13:28,640 --> 00:13:31,920 Speaker 1: I feel like, um, I feel like with this entertainment 256 00:13:31,920 --> 00:13:34,720 Speaker 1: business in particular, I feel like when people that are 257 00:13:34,720 --> 00:13:37,480 Speaker 1: already in this business, when they see that there is 258 00:13:37,559 --> 00:13:40,040 Speaker 1: potential for you to do well or you know, a 259 00:13:40,040 --> 00:13:44,240 Speaker 1: wait for them to make money too, they're gonna They're gonna. Yeah. 260 00:13:44,840 --> 00:13:46,760 Speaker 1: So I think you know when you when you do 261 00:13:46,800 --> 00:13:48,720 Speaker 1: a good job, you're gonna you know, people are gonna 262 00:13:48,880 --> 00:13:50,560 Speaker 1: try to put you on. But if somebody asked you 263 00:13:50,559 --> 00:13:54,199 Speaker 1: for help access dating that I'm dating, it depends like, 264 00:13:54,320 --> 00:13:58,600 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna fly. See now, what if you're dating 265 00:13:58,640 --> 00:14:00,880 Speaker 1: an athlete and he want to host some parties or 266 00:14:00,920 --> 00:14:03,080 Speaker 1: something like that, and he's like, your steph, why you 267 00:14:03,120 --> 00:14:06,480 Speaker 1: help me? If if it's an athlete and and he's 268 00:14:06,720 --> 00:14:10,160 Speaker 1: that situation and no problem. I come up for the promoters, 269 00:14:10,320 --> 00:14:14,520 Speaker 1: no problem. But like if it's like a rapper and 270 00:14:14,559 --> 00:14:19,280 Speaker 1: he's like, could you give you wouldn't say you could 271 00:14:19,280 --> 00:14:22,080 Speaker 1: give me somebody's track, but you better listen to it 272 00:14:22,120 --> 00:14:26,600 Speaker 1: first and see it it's worth. No, make sure you 273 00:14:26,600 --> 00:14:29,720 Speaker 1: don't get me nothing wet, because really he should be 274 00:14:29,720 --> 00:14:31,920 Speaker 1: asked to I'm easy to get to give it to 275 00:14:31,960 --> 00:14:36,840 Speaker 1: her boyfriend. I'm not gonna I'm beating, like even having 276 00:14:37,200 --> 00:14:40,160 Speaker 1: just the following that I have, like I've had God's 277 00:14:40,240 --> 00:14:42,200 Speaker 1: try to get to know me, so that way I 278 00:14:42,240 --> 00:14:44,760 Speaker 1: could like plug them with things, right, And I think 279 00:14:44,760 --> 00:14:47,640 Speaker 1: it's kind of corny. It's transparent. Yeah, you know, so 280 00:14:47,760 --> 00:14:50,800 Speaker 1: that's I mean, I'm not, like she said, I'm I 281 00:14:50,840 --> 00:14:53,440 Speaker 1: can't ask for things because I'm I don't take I'm 282 00:14:53,440 --> 00:14:56,600 Speaker 1: not good with rejection. I'm really bad. I don't like 283 00:14:56,640 --> 00:14:58,280 Speaker 1: when people tell me no. But what if it's something 284 00:14:58,320 --> 00:15:01,080 Speaker 1: that you think is such a great idea and you 285 00:15:01,080 --> 00:15:03,040 Speaker 1: can add you know what I'm saying, like, hey, can 286 00:15:03,080 --> 00:15:05,120 Speaker 1: you do this for me? I had a great idea, 287 00:15:05,160 --> 00:15:06,760 Speaker 1: I know you do this? Is that? And I was 288 00:15:06,800 --> 00:15:10,479 Speaker 1: thinking And that's another. It just depends on the relationship 289 00:15:10,520 --> 00:15:13,520 Speaker 1: I have first time, Like if I feel like we're 290 00:15:13,520 --> 00:15:16,920 Speaker 1: we're um, we're you know, cool with each other enough 291 00:15:17,040 --> 00:15:21,080 Speaker 1: like that. Well, I mean, if we're sleeping together, yeah, probably, 292 00:15:21,160 --> 00:15:23,280 Speaker 1: I probably. I mean, if I see you opening, I 293 00:15:23,320 --> 00:15:26,640 Speaker 1: would ask, but it's gonna be the right time. Yeah, 294 00:15:26,720 --> 00:15:33,120 Speaker 1: it has to be the right time right before it comes. Yeah, 295 00:15:33,200 --> 00:15:37,160 Speaker 1: what about you if a guy is asking you for something, 296 00:15:37,880 --> 00:15:40,000 Speaker 1: like she said, it depends with like, Okay, let's say 297 00:15:40,080 --> 00:15:42,840 Speaker 1: you used to be signed the Dream Chasers. Right, Let's 298 00:15:42,840 --> 00:15:44,960 Speaker 1: say he was like, Yo, could you plug me with Meek? 299 00:15:45,000 --> 00:15:48,480 Speaker 1: You know, I want to do this show and New York. 300 00:15:48,520 --> 00:15:49,760 Speaker 1: I want to see if I could get him to 301 00:15:49,800 --> 00:15:55,560 Speaker 1: come through and perform for the family price because I 302 00:15:55,760 --> 00:15:59,800 Speaker 1: got that before. And it's just like it depends how 303 00:15:59,800 --> 00:16:02,880 Speaker 1: it's presented. Like if it's just like Yo, you're thinking 304 00:16:02,880 --> 00:16:04,520 Speaker 1: me just come through. But once you start saying like 305 00:16:04,560 --> 00:16:07,000 Speaker 1: you think he's gonna come through for this price or 306 00:16:07,080 --> 00:16:08,480 Speaker 1: you think it's just like it's kind of like a 307 00:16:08,520 --> 00:16:10,480 Speaker 1: turn though, because it's like why do you want me? 308 00:16:10,560 --> 00:16:13,040 Speaker 1: You should go with? You know what he should do. 309 00:16:13,120 --> 00:16:14,760 Speaker 1: If a guy is he'll be he should just the 310 00:16:14,800 --> 00:16:16,440 Speaker 1: most he should do. It's be like, hey, can you 311 00:16:16,520 --> 00:16:18,640 Speaker 1: hook me up who ever books his right? Or can 312 00:16:18,720 --> 00:16:20,240 Speaker 1: I can you get can you get a contact on 313 00:16:20,280 --> 00:16:23,200 Speaker 1: me for me? Right? And don't get you know, and 314 00:16:23,200 --> 00:16:25,440 Speaker 1: he just hooked me up with that person. But when 315 00:16:25,440 --> 00:16:27,080 Speaker 1: you want me to go to him and say yeah, 316 00:16:27,120 --> 00:16:31,520 Speaker 1: like you know you can't have my people wanted for 317 00:16:31,600 --> 00:16:37,040 Speaker 1: the low. No, it depends with like what the favorite 318 00:16:37,040 --> 00:16:38,840 Speaker 1: would be. But if it's a guy who is another 319 00:16:38,920 --> 00:16:40,400 Speaker 1: artist and he's like, yeah, I want you to hop 320 00:16:40,400 --> 00:16:42,680 Speaker 1: on this track. You know, I know you're putting out 321 00:16:42,720 --> 00:16:44,840 Speaker 1: the mixtape and the show is coming out. This would 322 00:16:44,840 --> 00:16:46,240 Speaker 1: be a good time. It would be a good look 323 00:16:46,280 --> 00:16:50,560 Speaker 1: for me. You know, I'm gonna blessed. You sound just 324 00:16:50,640 --> 00:16:55,760 Speaker 1: like I'm not. I don't know. I feel like if 325 00:16:55,760 --> 00:16:58,840 Speaker 1: I'm saying up artist, I feel like we should just 326 00:16:58,880 --> 00:17:01,400 Speaker 1: click the musically are If not, we probably got a problem. 327 00:17:01,480 --> 00:17:03,040 Speaker 1: Like if I if I'm not a fan of music, 328 00:17:03,080 --> 00:17:05,320 Speaker 1: I'm nine times probably not even gonna deal with Yeah. 329 00:17:05,400 --> 00:17:07,520 Speaker 1: Can you imagine if you're dating a guy he's he's 330 00:17:07,560 --> 00:17:11,679 Speaker 1: just like awful. I would have to tell him, like, baby, 331 00:17:11,720 --> 00:17:14,440 Speaker 1: maybe you should try to think about or something you 332 00:17:14,520 --> 00:17:17,560 Speaker 1: ever think you should try to think about doing something 333 00:17:17,560 --> 00:17:19,639 Speaker 1: else instead of would you write something for him, like 334 00:17:20,040 --> 00:17:21,439 Speaker 1: I write this for you and see if it how 335 00:17:21,480 --> 00:17:25,240 Speaker 1: to say no? Like, babe, you should just I don't think, 336 00:17:25,320 --> 00:17:28,119 Speaker 1: like you know, probably not for you, right for you? 337 00:17:28,359 --> 00:17:31,000 Speaker 1: But what if he's determined you never know? Like you 338 00:17:31,040 --> 00:17:34,240 Speaker 1: love him, everything is great, but his music is trash. 339 00:17:36,040 --> 00:17:37,359 Speaker 1: I don't think I would get to the point that 340 00:17:37,400 --> 00:17:39,080 Speaker 1: I if I knew the music with trash, I don't 341 00:17:39,080 --> 00:17:43,000 Speaker 1: think I could get to like what is he talking 342 00:17:43,000 --> 00:17:47,840 Speaker 1: about all right, that's interesting. What if he told you 343 00:17:47,880 --> 00:17:53,959 Speaker 1: that he didn't like your music? What if you try 344 00:17:54,040 --> 00:17:57,439 Speaker 1: to critique it like, you know, it's cool, but it 345 00:17:57,560 --> 00:17:59,639 Speaker 1: kind of sounds like I feel like you should say this, 346 00:17:59,800 --> 00:18:01,960 Speaker 1: and I kind of don't like how you did that. 347 00:18:02,600 --> 00:18:04,280 Speaker 1: Would that be weird to you? With your money for 348 00:18:04,320 --> 00:18:07,840 Speaker 1: a studio time and fix it, Jock, you're gonna bring 349 00:18:07,840 --> 00:18:11,280 Speaker 1: a producer through. Now. If he was into the entertainment 350 00:18:11,280 --> 00:18:13,359 Speaker 1: industry and some type of form, then maybe I might 351 00:18:13,440 --> 00:18:16,560 Speaker 1: take it as constructive criticism. If it's just a fan 352 00:18:16,680 --> 00:18:18,959 Speaker 1: and he didn't he's not even in the music business, 353 00:18:18,960 --> 00:18:20,960 Speaker 1: just as a consumer, I might take a personal that 354 00:18:21,520 --> 00:18:23,920 Speaker 1: my hand issues that he might be trying to play 355 00:18:24,080 --> 00:18:26,680 Speaker 1: because he's like, what're you thinking about all this? You've 356 00:18:26,680 --> 00:18:29,240 Speaker 1: been thought this? How can you tell somebody's using you 357 00:18:29,280 --> 00:18:35,680 Speaker 1: for your connections? Though? Um, because I'm sure there's a 358 00:18:35,720 --> 00:18:37,760 Speaker 1: lot of do you like guys from Philly like? Do 359 00:18:37,800 --> 00:18:41,000 Speaker 1: you mostly date? Are you like? Nah? I'm kind of 360 00:18:41,119 --> 00:18:51,560 Speaker 1: I'm trying to get away from them. I'm trying to like. 361 00:18:52,119 --> 00:18:54,760 Speaker 1: But it's good. It's good to connect with somebody who's 362 00:18:54,800 --> 00:18:56,879 Speaker 1: not from where you're from because you can learn so 363 00:18:56,960 --> 00:19:00,639 Speaker 1: much about them, and you learn something you about yourself 364 00:19:00,680 --> 00:19:03,320 Speaker 1: as well, because when you're with somebody that's that you 365 00:19:03,359 --> 00:19:04,760 Speaker 1: grew up in the same area, y'all know all the 366 00:19:04,800 --> 00:19:06,520 Speaker 1: same place as you're eight, all the same same you know, 367 00:19:06,520 --> 00:19:08,880 Speaker 1: all the same people, y'all been to the same clubs, 368 00:19:08,920 --> 00:19:10,720 Speaker 1: you know, and so on and so forth. It's kind 369 00:19:10,720 --> 00:19:12,840 Speaker 1: of like it gets kind of boring and repetitious. But 370 00:19:13,040 --> 00:19:14,720 Speaker 1: like for me, for instance, when I was living in 371 00:19:14,800 --> 00:19:16,600 Speaker 1: Atlanta and I met my guy, he lived here in 372 00:19:16,640 --> 00:19:20,600 Speaker 1: New York, and we had that much different about us 373 00:19:20,640 --> 00:19:22,719 Speaker 1: that it connected us on a different level because he 374 00:19:22,800 --> 00:19:24,520 Speaker 1: was able to learn about me and where I was from, 375 00:19:24,520 --> 00:19:26,080 Speaker 1: and I was able to learn about him and where 376 00:19:26,240 --> 00:19:28,400 Speaker 1: he was from. And we got to travel and experience 377 00:19:28,440 --> 00:19:31,040 Speaker 1: each other's you know, upbringings and you know, all that 378 00:19:31,080 --> 00:19:32,560 Speaker 1: type of stuff. So I think that that's just a 379 00:19:32,600 --> 00:19:35,400 Speaker 1: good interesting quality that to try to meet people that 380 00:19:35,560 --> 00:19:39,119 Speaker 1: aren't from where you are, just branch out learn some 381 00:19:39,160 --> 00:19:41,800 Speaker 1: different ships. You know, you feel like that's definitely sometimes 382 00:19:41,800 --> 00:19:45,480 Speaker 1: people are using you for connections. I certainly I don't 383 00:19:45,480 --> 00:19:48,879 Speaker 1: really like I've had in the past, Like God's try 384 00:19:49,040 --> 00:19:51,600 Speaker 1: to you know what I mean, But I don't really 385 00:19:52,080 --> 00:19:54,160 Speaker 1: I don't really like, I don't really want to deal 386 00:19:54,200 --> 00:19:56,600 Speaker 1: with somebody like I like to feed off of people, 387 00:19:56,760 --> 00:19:58,240 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. I wanted to be able 388 00:19:58,280 --> 00:19:59,760 Speaker 1: to help you as much as you can help me, 389 00:19:59,840 --> 00:20:02,159 Speaker 1: and you can't really do anything for me. I'm not 390 00:20:02,240 --> 00:20:04,760 Speaker 1: really around you. You know, Like, what if he wants 391 00:20:04,840 --> 00:20:07,320 Speaker 1: to go to the Easy Fashion Show and he's like, yeah, 392 00:20:07,359 --> 00:20:13,000 Speaker 1: I know you could get it easy. I think it 393 00:20:13,080 --> 00:20:17,360 Speaker 1: was season one or season two, season two and embarrassing. 394 00:20:17,480 --> 00:20:19,240 Speaker 1: I was gonna say, how did he act? Because that's 395 00:20:19,280 --> 00:20:22,560 Speaker 1: a lot, that's a lot of pressure. He couldn't take it. Yeah, No, 396 00:20:22,720 --> 00:20:26,480 Speaker 1: he was embarrassed. He started arguing with me in the 397 00:20:26,520 --> 00:20:28,600 Speaker 1: middle of the room. No he didn't because you know, 398 00:20:28,680 --> 00:20:33,359 Speaker 1: I'm okay, easy. This this is a perfect example to 399 00:20:33,400 --> 00:20:36,639 Speaker 1: pick up, So bring up all right easy. You know 400 00:20:36,680 --> 00:20:39,000 Speaker 1: they they have the show, a lot of people are 401 00:20:39,040 --> 00:20:41,320 Speaker 1: in the room when the show was going on, and 402 00:20:41,359 --> 00:20:43,880 Speaker 1: then they have the green room. You know that's where 403 00:20:43,880 --> 00:20:48,119 Speaker 1: everybody you know, close people, friends, you know, all the 404 00:20:48,119 --> 00:20:51,800 Speaker 1: celebrity hospitalities exactly. You know, you go drink champagne and 405 00:20:52,000 --> 00:20:53,720 Speaker 1: there's a little bit of press fact there, you know, 406 00:20:53,800 --> 00:20:56,480 Speaker 1: the green room. So I took him to the green room. 407 00:20:56,480 --> 00:20:58,720 Speaker 1: You know, we were fine watching the show. Everything was great, 408 00:20:59,240 --> 00:21:02,399 Speaker 1: but whatever, I bumped into somebody that I knew who's 409 00:21:02,440 --> 00:21:05,760 Speaker 1: a rapper, and we exchanged numbers. But this is a 410 00:21:05,800 --> 00:21:07,800 Speaker 1: friend of mine, like I know his wife, you know 411 00:21:07,800 --> 00:21:10,080 Speaker 1: what I mean, Like, we hadn't seen each other in 412 00:21:10,080 --> 00:21:12,119 Speaker 1: a while. I had changed my number because I was 413 00:21:12,160 --> 00:21:19,240 Speaker 1: with a psycho, so I gave him my number. How yeah, 414 00:21:19,280 --> 00:21:21,520 Speaker 1: I changed both my numbers because I was with a psycho, 415 00:21:21,680 --> 00:21:24,000 Speaker 1: and so hepped out in front of everybody. He started 416 00:21:24,040 --> 00:21:26,359 Speaker 1: arguing with me in front of everybody, and I swear 417 00:21:26,440 --> 00:21:29,200 Speaker 1: the whole room stopped and everybody was just like, get 418 00:21:29,200 --> 00:21:31,639 Speaker 1: that nigga out of here, like what are you doing? 419 00:21:32,119 --> 00:21:34,240 Speaker 1: And then in the next one and the next but 420 00:21:34,520 --> 00:21:37,159 Speaker 1: again no season, and the next one, we go to 421 00:21:37,200 --> 00:21:40,200 Speaker 1: the green room, same thing, season three, you know, everybody, 422 00:21:40,600 --> 00:21:43,520 Speaker 1: same crowd. I was pulled by. I was pulled to 423 00:21:43,640 --> 00:21:46,119 Speaker 1: the side by someone who said, hey, you got rid 424 00:21:46,160 --> 00:21:49,520 Speaker 1: of that problem you had last song. So that's how 425 00:21:49,600 --> 00:21:52,320 Speaker 1: much of an effect I had on the room, you 426 00:21:52,320 --> 00:21:54,920 Speaker 1: know what I mean that, Like everybody noticed, and I'm 427 00:21:54,920 --> 00:21:58,240 Speaker 1: talking about like a person who I really think highly of, 428 00:21:58,280 --> 00:22:00,800 Speaker 1: and I'm very grateful to have in my life pulled 429 00:22:00,800 --> 00:22:02,919 Speaker 1: me to the side. I was so I was mortified. 430 00:22:04,200 --> 00:22:06,160 Speaker 1: You should have seen the way that the person, this 431 00:22:06,200 --> 00:22:08,240 Speaker 1: person looked at me across the room. How did you 432 00:22:08,320 --> 00:22:11,400 Speaker 1: come like, how did you come happening? Like? Uh, how 433 00:22:11,440 --> 00:22:15,480 Speaker 1: did you calm him down? If we had to leave? 434 00:22:16,160 --> 00:22:18,040 Speaker 1: He was like he walked on first, and then I 435 00:22:18,119 --> 00:22:23,359 Speaker 1: was like, all right by everybody? All right? So he worked. 436 00:22:23,440 --> 00:22:26,680 Speaker 1: We walked on first. He made a big, big show 437 00:22:27,119 --> 00:22:30,520 Speaker 1: because and he wasn't even allowed argument. We weren't screaming 438 00:22:30,520 --> 00:22:32,520 Speaker 1: at each other, but you could just it's obvious. That's 439 00:22:32,560 --> 00:22:39,320 Speaker 1: the intimate saying already. That's maybe a little big room, 440 00:22:39,520 --> 00:22:43,560 Speaker 1: and there's people are talking. It's not a club, it's 441 00:22:43,680 --> 00:22:46,040 Speaker 1: it's it's bright as daylight, you know what I mean? 442 00:22:46,160 --> 00:22:50,479 Speaker 1: Everybody sees it. Now. Here's something interesting. When you date somebody, 443 00:22:50,520 --> 00:22:52,560 Speaker 1: when you have a boyfriend, do you tell him everything? 444 00:22:53,040 --> 00:22:55,119 Speaker 1: Because I have this one friend and she tells her 445 00:22:55,160 --> 00:22:57,280 Speaker 1: boyfriend every stupid little thing, a lot of things I 446 00:22:57,280 --> 00:23:00,160 Speaker 1: think she shouldn't tell him, like if a guy had 447 00:23:00,160 --> 00:23:02,120 Speaker 1: to talk to her, or if somebody hit it up 448 00:23:02,119 --> 00:23:04,560 Speaker 1: in her d M. She tells him all of that stuff. 449 00:23:04,720 --> 00:23:07,360 Speaker 1: And I kind of think sometimes it's unnecessary because it's 450 00:23:07,359 --> 00:23:10,879 Speaker 1: a situation. It brings up situations that can be avoided. 451 00:23:11,760 --> 00:23:15,040 Speaker 1: You know, but you think you don't tell your boyfriend 452 00:23:15,040 --> 00:23:18,639 Speaker 1: everything though, because I know he don't tell me everything either, Right, 453 00:23:19,040 --> 00:23:21,000 Speaker 1: So it's like a tip for tat, not really not 454 00:23:21,080 --> 00:23:22,920 Speaker 1: even just tick for tap, but it's like some things 455 00:23:22,960 --> 00:23:25,120 Speaker 1: are just pointless. A million guys are going to come 456 00:23:25,119 --> 00:23:27,840 Speaker 1: in just about every girl. So are you going to 457 00:23:27,920 --> 00:23:31,480 Speaker 1: tell him? You know, I was in burger king and 458 00:23:32,119 --> 00:23:38,000 Speaker 1: the cash the cash register cash here. It's like okay, 459 00:23:38,200 --> 00:23:39,639 Speaker 1: because then if a guy does that to you and 460 00:23:39,680 --> 00:23:41,199 Speaker 1: tells you every girl that tries to talk to him, 461 00:23:41,200 --> 00:23:42,960 Speaker 1: You're like, oh, he's trying to make me mad or something. 462 00:23:43,680 --> 00:23:46,879 Speaker 1: I don't really care. It's such a big mistake to 463 00:23:46,920 --> 00:23:49,959 Speaker 1: tell guys when other guys are trying to talk to you, 464 00:23:50,480 --> 00:23:53,560 Speaker 1: especially a person like me, Like I all right, I'm 465 00:23:53,640 --> 00:23:57,240 Speaker 1: just perfect example. Another perfect example. I'm in the bed 466 00:23:57,359 --> 00:24:00,280 Speaker 1: with my boyfriend at the time, and I get a 467 00:24:00,359 --> 00:24:04,800 Speaker 1: d M from somebody who's famous, Right, is somebody popping? Yes, 468 00:24:05,200 --> 00:24:09,840 Speaker 1: that is somebody popping, like just like like whatever, I've 469 00:24:09,840 --> 00:24:11,960 Speaker 1: been curving this one for years. Blah blah blah. You know, 470 00:24:12,040 --> 00:24:14,600 Speaker 1: just general conversation because we were together and it happened 471 00:24:14,680 --> 00:24:19,680 Speaker 1: right there right next argument, Oh why you don't go right? 472 00:24:20,200 --> 00:24:24,280 Speaker 1: Like really and that's exactly why you don't tell him, 473 00:24:24,280 --> 00:24:29,160 Speaker 1: said and when he said that you should have after 474 00:24:29,200 --> 00:24:32,679 Speaker 1: all them, if you're in the same place and he 475 00:24:32,920 --> 00:24:41,040 Speaker 1: that particular person coming, then it's like, let's just say 476 00:24:41,160 --> 00:24:43,320 Speaker 1: you did want to talk to him later on down right. 477 00:24:45,040 --> 00:24:49,560 Speaker 1: Then he started thinking like I knew she was no, 478 00:24:49,720 --> 00:24:51,800 Speaker 1: but it's got to be here. And so if somebody 479 00:24:51,840 --> 00:24:53,800 Speaker 1: comes in the room, say, y'all out, g if you're 480 00:24:53,840 --> 00:24:56,240 Speaker 1: out and somebody used to date is there, do you 481 00:24:56,280 --> 00:25:00,520 Speaker 1: tell him no? No, hell no if you didn't know. 482 00:25:00,680 --> 00:25:02,800 Speaker 1: But what if you want to know if a girl 483 00:25:02,840 --> 00:25:07,240 Speaker 1: he used to date is somewhere that y'all that no, no, no, yeah, 484 00:25:07,280 --> 00:25:09,120 Speaker 1: because then you're gonna be looking at every little eye 485 00:25:09,160 --> 00:25:11,560 Speaker 1: contact they're making. It soon as something go wrong, something 486 00:25:11,680 --> 00:25:13,719 Speaker 1: are just like if you don't know, it, don't hurt you. 487 00:25:13,800 --> 00:25:15,720 Speaker 1: And there's a lot of things that fall into that category. 488 00:25:15,800 --> 00:25:18,360 Speaker 1: And I feel like that's the prime example, like he 489 00:25:18,400 --> 00:25:21,040 Speaker 1: knows who he should know about if it's somebody that 490 00:25:21,080 --> 00:25:23,679 Speaker 1: he doesn't know about. Six years into our relationships, then 491 00:25:23,720 --> 00:25:25,560 Speaker 1: I didn't tell him for a reason. So that person 492 00:25:25,640 --> 00:25:27,560 Speaker 1: is in the room, he still I would never tell him. 493 00:25:27,720 --> 00:25:29,520 Speaker 1: What if it comes up and he finds out later, 494 00:25:30,960 --> 00:25:32,840 Speaker 1: then it's like, that wasn't it. It wasn't that. It 495 00:25:32,960 --> 00:25:37,720 Speaker 1: was like what I was, you know, he wasn't that significant. 496 00:25:37,760 --> 00:25:39,000 Speaker 1: And then I felt like I need to tell you. 497 00:25:39,520 --> 00:25:42,480 Speaker 1: Everybody I love or respect their lives. They're like gets 498 00:25:42,840 --> 00:25:44,960 Speaker 1: you don't feel no weird attention, like oh this girl 499 00:25:45,000 --> 00:25:50,240 Speaker 1: across the room attention. What if this guy keeps looking 500 00:25:50,280 --> 00:25:52,240 Speaker 1: He's like why this this dude keep looking at me? 501 00:25:52,920 --> 00:25:55,080 Speaker 1: Then you think you might say something like, oh, you 502 00:25:55,119 --> 00:25:59,600 Speaker 1: know I used to I don't know. I don't know that. 503 00:26:02,920 --> 00:26:06,320 Speaker 1: What if he asks you details? How long did y'all date? 504 00:26:07,400 --> 00:26:09,520 Speaker 1: It's not even worth talking about because it's hard man, 505 00:26:09,560 --> 00:26:11,480 Speaker 1: once you bring setting up. You know, people you want 506 00:26:11,480 --> 00:26:14,840 Speaker 1: to know everything. I think females we want to know more. 507 00:26:14,920 --> 00:26:18,960 Speaker 1: I think guys were doing that same thing. You guys, Yeah, 508 00:26:19,000 --> 00:26:23,359 Speaker 1: they do. They want to know everything, and they act 509 00:26:23,400 --> 00:26:25,000 Speaker 1: like they don't want to know anything. And then every 510 00:26:25,000 --> 00:26:29,520 Speaker 1: now and then something that has a more question you 511 00:26:29,560 --> 00:26:34,560 Speaker 1: know what I mean, the information just holding it. Stephanie, 512 00:26:34,600 --> 00:26:37,320 Speaker 1: I know you are on the I don't tell ever. 513 00:26:37,880 --> 00:26:40,960 Speaker 1: So I'm sure if he were somewhere with you and 514 00:26:41,040 --> 00:26:42,359 Speaker 1: there was a guy you used to date there, you 515 00:26:42,359 --> 00:26:48,160 Speaker 1: wouldn't say nothing. Never what if what if the guy 516 00:26:48,200 --> 00:26:49,959 Speaker 1: came up to you instead of talking to you, If 517 00:26:50,000 --> 00:26:52,000 Speaker 1: the guy came up to me had started talking. It 518 00:26:52,040 --> 00:26:54,640 Speaker 1: depends on what happens. If the guy came up to me, Oh, hey, 519 00:26:54,760 --> 00:26:58,760 Speaker 1: what's up. We're gonna hug each other. Okay, bye, that's fine. 520 00:26:58,800 --> 00:27:01,080 Speaker 1: I'm still not gonna say anything. Now. If the guy 521 00:27:01,160 --> 00:27:04,120 Speaker 1: does something to me as to where I gotta spas 522 00:27:04,200 --> 00:27:05,959 Speaker 1: on him, then I'm gonna be like, yeah, I used 523 00:27:06,000 --> 00:27:17,080 Speaker 1: to funk with this cornball and that's how otherwise with 524 00:27:17,200 --> 00:27:20,639 Speaker 1: you that I like that? Yeah, but no, and another 525 00:27:20,720 --> 00:27:23,600 Speaker 1: thing I feel like, um, you know you call attention 526 00:27:23,720 --> 00:27:26,639 Speaker 1: in situations when you tell a guy too much, you 527 00:27:26,680 --> 00:27:30,520 Speaker 1: know what I mean? Like like, let's say you were 528 00:27:30,600 --> 00:27:33,119 Speaker 1: one of those people like oh yeah, fuck hey, b 529 00:27:33,359 --> 00:27:35,399 Speaker 1: I fuck Z. You know what I mean? I sucked 530 00:27:35,440 --> 00:27:39,119 Speaker 1: everybody right if you But when when this part, when 531 00:27:39,160 --> 00:27:41,880 Speaker 1: these people come around, it's gonna make your your man 532 00:27:41,920 --> 00:27:44,239 Speaker 1: a little tense, you know what I mean? When you 533 00:27:44,280 --> 00:27:47,119 Speaker 1: can have a relationship with somebody and you know, be 534 00:27:47,280 --> 00:27:49,160 Speaker 1: cool with them and see them and be like, hey, 535 00:27:49,160 --> 00:27:52,000 Speaker 1: what's up, and know that it's nobody's gonna have a 536 00:27:52,040 --> 00:27:54,240 Speaker 1: disrespect to your man, you know what I mean. Like 537 00:27:54,280 --> 00:27:57,240 Speaker 1: if you're sucked with somebody who's disrespectful, than yeah, you should. 538 00:27:57,440 --> 00:28:01,439 Speaker 1: Like if you're a girl who is dating um, a 539 00:28:01,560 --> 00:28:03,920 Speaker 1: rapper and they have be for a fifty cent tew 540 00:28:04,359 --> 00:28:06,560 Speaker 1: fifty cent that you slept with this because you know 541 00:28:06,840 --> 00:28:10,400 Speaker 1: he's gonna embarrassing you know what he is. So that's 542 00:28:10,520 --> 00:28:12,800 Speaker 1: that's I mean, like you you could just like I 543 00:28:12,840 --> 00:28:14,560 Speaker 1: see this all the time. You just gotta pick your 544 00:28:14,560 --> 00:28:18,160 Speaker 1: battles case by case scenario. You just gotta treat everything 545 00:28:19,080 --> 00:28:27,240 Speaker 1: becomes exactly. She that was a lot right there, preach stuff. 546 00:28:28,119 --> 00:28:32,280 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, what's the craziest thing that you've ever forgiven 547 00:28:32,320 --> 00:28:37,600 Speaker 1: somebody for sleeping one of my friends? Absolutely? Because I 548 00:28:37,600 --> 00:28:40,280 Speaker 1: think that's crazy. I think that's out of just I 549 00:28:42,520 --> 00:28:46,479 Speaker 1: don't think. But we was making as broken up, But 550 00:28:46,560 --> 00:28:49,440 Speaker 1: that's your friend. She was who I thought she was. 551 00:28:49,640 --> 00:28:52,800 Speaker 1: So did you beat her up? You're both you were here, 552 00:28:53,440 --> 00:28:57,000 Speaker 1: I for um for the girl, but she he slept 553 00:28:57,000 --> 00:28:59,440 Speaker 1: with her when I was um, when I was with 554 00:28:59,520 --> 00:29:01,840 Speaker 1: somebody else. We broke up. I was cheating on him 555 00:29:01,880 --> 00:29:04,600 Speaker 1: with somebody and I ended up staying with the ended 556 00:29:04,680 --> 00:29:09,160 Speaker 1: up going and living with the other guy practically. And 557 00:29:09,160 --> 00:29:10,880 Speaker 1: then while I was with the other guy, he was 558 00:29:10,880 --> 00:29:13,160 Speaker 1: sleeping with my home girl. He started sucking one of 559 00:29:13,240 --> 00:29:15,719 Speaker 1: my friends. But you forgave him and you stopped being 560 00:29:15,720 --> 00:29:18,800 Speaker 1: friends with her. Yeah, exactly. But I ended up fighting her. 561 00:29:18,840 --> 00:29:21,480 Speaker 1: I definitely. We ended up fighting, for sure, And I 562 00:29:21,520 --> 00:29:23,400 Speaker 1: didn't even know why we were fighting because I didn't 563 00:29:23,480 --> 00:29:28,840 Speaker 1: know until after we fought. So after Yeah, because I 564 00:29:28,840 --> 00:29:30,640 Speaker 1: got back on him and she was tight, so she's 565 00:29:30,640 --> 00:29:33,719 Speaker 1: seen me. Club This was back in those days when 566 00:29:33,720 --> 00:29:37,200 Speaker 1: the clubs are really good, like Club Home and um, 567 00:29:37,760 --> 00:29:39,920 Speaker 1: the after hour, remember the after hour. This was not 568 00:29:40,080 --> 00:29:43,120 Speaker 1: it was like maybe six years ago. Club Home. Remember 569 00:29:43,160 --> 00:29:45,720 Speaker 1: club Home? Yeah, I remember Club Home and and and 570 00:29:46,040 --> 00:29:49,760 Speaker 1: guest House and those times. Bed Remember there was an 571 00:29:49,760 --> 00:29:55,040 Speaker 1: after hour in Spy in clubs five whatever. Yeah, we were, 572 00:29:55,080 --> 00:29:57,920 Speaker 1: and we were in the after hour and I was 573 00:29:57,960 --> 00:30:00,160 Speaker 1: just chilling. I was drunk. I was five up in 574 00:30:00,200 --> 00:30:02,960 Speaker 1: the morning drunk, you know what I mean. And she 575 00:30:03,040 --> 00:30:04,760 Speaker 1: came up to me and we started fighting. We was 576 00:30:04,760 --> 00:30:09,360 Speaker 1: in the bathroom fighting, and you just they didn't really 577 00:30:09,400 --> 00:30:12,680 Speaker 1: let us fight, but we fought. We definitely before, and 578 00:30:12,720 --> 00:30:14,640 Speaker 1: we weren't friends. We're friends now. I'm cool with her 579 00:30:14,640 --> 00:30:18,000 Speaker 1: now damn you both don't work with him. So yeah, 580 00:30:18,080 --> 00:30:20,880 Speaker 1: but we're not besties, but we're you know, we're cool. 581 00:30:21,000 --> 00:30:24,760 Speaker 1: She's still my sucking man. You never know, do you 582 00:30:24,760 --> 00:30:28,080 Speaker 1: have friends that you feel like we're man? Yeah? Yeah, yeah, 583 00:30:28,280 --> 00:30:33,040 Speaker 1: we're friends with people that you can't put your finger 584 00:30:33,120 --> 00:30:36,720 Speaker 1: on it, and you don't want to get that, and 585 00:30:36,720 --> 00:30:39,640 Speaker 1: then you'll be like, we make sure I don't leave 586 00:30:39,720 --> 00:30:44,080 Speaker 1: them in a table situation. Where is that really your friend? 587 00:30:44,120 --> 00:30:46,920 Speaker 1: If that's somebody that you think would potentially sucking man, 588 00:30:47,160 --> 00:30:50,200 Speaker 1: some bushes are just holes, you know what I'm saying. Yes, 589 00:30:50,400 --> 00:30:53,200 Speaker 1: Like I have not ever in my life slept with 590 00:30:53,240 --> 00:30:55,880 Speaker 1: someone like I find it funny to even sleep with 591 00:30:55,920 --> 00:30:57,840 Speaker 1: somebody down my home girl slept with unless it's a 592 00:30:57,880 --> 00:31:01,960 Speaker 1: pass around like we speak about the time. Yeah, that's 593 00:31:01,960 --> 00:31:03,840 Speaker 1: just like, girl, you gotta get that, you know what 594 00:31:03,880 --> 00:31:06,560 Speaker 1: I mean? Like, even that's a guy who one of 595 00:31:06,560 --> 00:31:09,240 Speaker 1: my friends just casually slept, because what if we get 596 00:31:09,280 --> 00:31:13,200 Speaker 1: married and then she's my, she's in the woman, she's 597 00:31:13,280 --> 00:31:16,640 Speaker 1: my and you it's like you don't have you got 598 00:31:16,720 --> 00:31:21,160 Speaker 1: a plot up to pussy's on your way, Like that's bad, 599 00:31:21,800 --> 00:31:25,120 Speaker 1: you know, But you know some girls are just they 600 00:31:25,320 --> 00:31:29,040 Speaker 1: want to funk everything right. And I have friends that 601 00:31:29,200 --> 00:31:30,480 Speaker 1: but I don't know if I could be friends. I 602 00:31:30,480 --> 00:31:31,880 Speaker 1: don't know if I would want to be friends with 603 00:31:31,960 --> 00:31:35,320 Speaker 1: somebody that I think would just suck anybody. But you 604 00:31:35,360 --> 00:31:37,480 Speaker 1: know what, you're right, I do have I do have friends, 605 00:31:37,480 --> 00:31:39,600 Speaker 1: Like I don't feel like you find out at first. 606 00:31:39,680 --> 00:31:43,240 Speaker 1: I feel like you find out the friendship and then 607 00:31:43,240 --> 00:31:50,400 Speaker 1: it's like already anything. And that's that's where like, um, 608 00:31:50,440 --> 00:31:52,600 Speaker 1: I used to be a personal assistant guy I used 609 00:31:52,600 --> 00:31:54,080 Speaker 1: to work for. He used to say, I don't trust 610 00:31:54,080 --> 00:31:57,360 Speaker 1: anybody unless I'm known on for ten years. But even 611 00:31:57,400 --> 00:32:00,120 Speaker 1: people you know him for ten years, because I here, 612 00:32:00,160 --> 00:32:04,240 Speaker 1: we're saying, I know somebody that stuff the biggest for 613 00:32:04,280 --> 00:32:06,520 Speaker 1: the ten years. You see, you see if you can 614 00:32:06,560 --> 00:32:08,719 Speaker 1: trust something like you know whether you're not you can 615 00:32:08,840 --> 00:32:12,000 Speaker 1: because in person changes so much and in a decade, 616 00:32:12,040 --> 00:32:15,800 Speaker 1: you know, you right change, you grow, you change, whether 617 00:32:15,800 --> 00:32:17,680 Speaker 1: it's for the better or for the words. It happens. 618 00:32:18,640 --> 00:32:20,520 Speaker 1: So j you have friends, you think we're sucking men. 619 00:32:21,440 --> 00:32:24,800 Speaker 1: I have a friend and I know for a fact 620 00:32:24,880 --> 00:32:27,920 Speaker 1: with my man, Damn, doesn't that make you want to 621 00:32:27,960 --> 00:32:31,320 Speaker 1: not be around her and cut her off? It's a 622 00:32:31,760 --> 00:32:37,000 Speaker 1: it's a it's a sticky situation because she's been in 623 00:32:37,040 --> 00:32:39,760 Speaker 1: our bedroom before, but we haven't had a three cents. 624 00:32:40,400 --> 00:32:43,320 Speaker 1: She was there as an assistant, Okay, so she would 625 00:32:43,600 --> 00:32:47,719 Speaker 1: her yeah, yeah, the buffer so and it's you know, 626 00:32:47,840 --> 00:32:50,720 Speaker 1: it's never gotten to the point where they actually had sex. 627 00:32:50,840 --> 00:32:52,640 Speaker 1: But I feel like if I wasn't around it, he 628 00:32:52,680 --> 00:32:55,040 Speaker 1: tried her, she would definitely be for it, right, But 629 00:32:55,080 --> 00:32:56,440 Speaker 1: then you kind of opened the door for that in 630 00:32:56,520 --> 00:32:59,680 Speaker 1: a way. That's why I can't be mad, right, prime example, 631 00:33:00,360 --> 00:33:03,640 Speaker 1: I had a friend that years ago, back when I 632 00:33:03,720 --> 00:33:06,280 Speaker 1: lived in Philly, I had a friend that um I 633 00:33:06,360 --> 00:33:08,040 Speaker 1: brought her into the bedroom with me and my boyfriend. 634 00:33:08,200 --> 00:33:11,200 Speaker 1: We had threesomes and then they started working behind my back, 635 00:33:12,080 --> 00:33:14,400 Speaker 1: And of course I was mad, But I mean, how 636 00:33:14,480 --> 00:33:18,120 Speaker 1: mad can I really be? Because I opened the door 637 00:33:18,160 --> 00:33:20,959 Speaker 1: for that, Like I started to I just felt like, 638 00:33:21,120 --> 00:33:22,960 Speaker 1: I just felt like he should have been more one 639 00:33:23,000 --> 00:33:25,040 Speaker 1: hunted with me because we could have just kept on 640 00:33:25,080 --> 00:33:27,720 Speaker 1: having threesomes if that was a game. But she was like, 641 00:33:27,720 --> 00:33:30,480 Speaker 1: you gotta around my bad he shouldn't even had her number. 642 00:33:30,520 --> 00:33:33,560 Speaker 1: I stopped working with both of them. M so, and 643 00:33:33,600 --> 00:33:35,680 Speaker 1: then I'm not friends. We neither one of them damn. 644 00:33:35,960 --> 00:33:39,200 Speaker 1: At the time, still I have a friend. I showed 645 00:33:39,200 --> 00:33:41,920 Speaker 1: her one of the my favorite boyfriends sent me a 646 00:33:41,960 --> 00:33:45,440 Speaker 1: picture like in his boxers, you know, like his primp, 647 00:33:46,280 --> 00:33:49,960 Speaker 1: and I showed it to her. Why did you do that? Exactly? 648 00:33:50,480 --> 00:33:52,880 Speaker 1: How you gotta learn exactly because he sent up to 649 00:33:52,880 --> 00:33:54,480 Speaker 1: me while I was with her, and I was just 650 00:33:54,520 --> 00:33:59,760 Speaker 1: like so excited because he's like, I don't really like 651 00:34:00,000 --> 00:34:02,120 Speaker 1: dick fix and I don't really feel like you should ask. 652 00:34:02,200 --> 00:34:06,240 Speaker 1: I don't ask for them, but you know some guys 653 00:34:06,360 --> 00:34:09,719 Speaker 1: you wanted from you know what I mean, send me 654 00:34:09,800 --> 00:34:13,640 Speaker 1: the dick pic, like I like, I tried to hint 655 00:34:13,640 --> 00:34:16,960 Speaker 1: that I wanted so many times, and you just won't 656 00:34:17,000 --> 00:34:19,080 Speaker 1: send this to me. So this time I was excited 657 00:34:19,080 --> 00:34:25,920 Speaker 1: because you sent me this. Yeah, it was nice, so 658 00:34:27,000 --> 00:34:33,200 Speaker 1: that I showed her and whatever. Moving forward, my other 659 00:34:33,239 --> 00:34:35,640 Speaker 1: friend was like, girl, I was just talking to this 660 00:34:35,640 --> 00:34:39,400 Speaker 1: bitch and she told me that you showed her a 661 00:34:39,440 --> 00:34:41,960 Speaker 1: picture of this and this and that, and that she 662 00:34:42,080 --> 00:34:44,040 Speaker 1: don't give a funk. She if she got a chance, 663 00:34:44,080 --> 00:34:48,920 Speaker 1: she would I was like, tarnis like, and I know 664 00:34:49,000 --> 00:34:50,880 Speaker 1: she's a whole and she's like, nah, but you know 665 00:34:50,960 --> 00:34:53,359 Speaker 1: I know that, I know she really likes him, and 666 00:34:53,600 --> 00:34:55,120 Speaker 1: you know I would never tell and I will only 667 00:34:55,160 --> 00:35:03,000 Speaker 1: do it once. Whoa that? And that? Friends? I mean, 668 00:35:03,360 --> 00:35:06,600 Speaker 1: I've been like kind of moving around in a different 669 00:35:06,640 --> 00:35:11,960 Speaker 1: direction away from her. No, she doesn't, she but the 670 00:35:12,040 --> 00:35:14,239 Speaker 1: thing is, my thing is like girls, got it? You 671 00:35:14,280 --> 00:35:16,400 Speaker 1: gotta be careful when you talk about your girlfriends to 672 00:35:16,480 --> 00:35:19,280 Speaker 1: other girls, you know what I mean, especially a girl 673 00:35:19,480 --> 00:35:22,000 Speaker 1: who is in the position that I'm in. You know, girls, 674 00:35:22,160 --> 00:35:24,799 Speaker 1: right now, everybody wants to be my friend, you know 675 00:35:24,840 --> 00:35:27,360 Speaker 1: what I mean. So you're talking bad about me to 676 00:35:27,440 --> 00:35:29,720 Speaker 1: this girl and she wants to be on my side 677 00:35:29,760 --> 00:35:33,120 Speaker 1: so bad. She came back and told me, you know 678 00:35:33,160 --> 00:35:35,000 Speaker 1: what I mean. So it made me It didn't make 679 00:35:35,040 --> 00:35:36,759 Speaker 1: me feel like I want this one closer to me 680 00:35:36,800 --> 00:35:42,000 Speaker 1: and I'm gonna get this one. Both of you're coming 681 00:35:42,040 --> 00:35:46,480 Speaker 1: and that yeah, you know, so I just always with you. 682 00:35:47,040 --> 00:35:48,560 Speaker 1: And then you have to wonder why would she be 683 00:35:48,560 --> 00:35:54,080 Speaker 1: comfortable enough to tell her that exactly talking? But I 684 00:35:54,120 --> 00:35:55,799 Speaker 1: think that I think she only gave you one side 685 00:35:55,800 --> 00:35:59,560 Speaker 1: of this note. But I think I'm yeah, because he's 686 00:35:59,600 --> 00:36:03,680 Speaker 1: the thing like I'm a street bit and then the 687 00:36:03,680 --> 00:36:10,200 Speaker 1: beginning of the day, I'm you know, So when you 688 00:36:10,280 --> 00:36:12,560 Speaker 1: tell a regular girl something like that, she's gonna think, 689 00:36:12,560 --> 00:36:14,880 Speaker 1: whow this girl is my friend, she's looking out for me. 690 00:36:15,120 --> 00:36:18,080 Speaker 1: When you tell a real ass bitch something like that, 691 00:36:18,320 --> 00:36:22,160 Speaker 1: it's like you already played. That's exactly what I said. 692 00:36:22,160 --> 00:36:26,799 Speaker 1: So I was like, what were y'all smoking about? Has 693 00:36:26,840 --> 00:36:30,799 Speaker 1: she started like? Uh? Like you know, so, like that's 694 00:36:30,840 --> 00:36:33,319 Speaker 1: something you have to you have to learn, like as 695 00:36:33,360 --> 00:36:35,399 Speaker 1: a woman in life when you're dinner to be able 696 00:36:35,440 --> 00:36:37,239 Speaker 1: to be like I checked that bit on the spot 697 00:36:37,840 --> 00:36:40,000 Speaker 1: and I'm telling you so you know, and you can 698 00:36:40,040 --> 00:36:42,879 Speaker 1: say it to her. I don't care right right like 699 00:36:43,160 --> 00:36:45,719 Speaker 1: Naya me and Naya you know, she's she's one of 700 00:36:45,719 --> 00:36:47,960 Speaker 1: my best friends. And she shows with a bunch of 701 00:36:48,000 --> 00:36:50,520 Speaker 1: girls that I don't like, Like she stayed showing with 702 00:36:50,600 --> 00:36:52,799 Speaker 1: some bird as bitch that I don't funk with, you 703 00:36:52,800 --> 00:36:55,640 Speaker 1: know what I mean? But I know for a fact 704 00:36:55,719 --> 00:36:59,080 Speaker 1: that any time somebody ever said something about me, when 705 00:36:59,120 --> 00:37:01,640 Speaker 1: she checks them, and I've I've heard it from other 706 00:37:01,680 --> 00:37:03,680 Speaker 1: people and I've seen her do it, you know what 707 00:37:03,719 --> 00:37:07,000 Speaker 1: I mean? So like, that's that's a real that's a friend, 708 00:37:07,040 --> 00:37:09,280 Speaker 1: that's my friend, you know what I mean, A person 709 00:37:09,320 --> 00:37:12,160 Speaker 1: who's gonna come back, Like the oldest girl says something, 710 00:37:12,239 --> 00:37:15,400 Speaker 1: but don't say nothing, like don't say like all right now, 711 00:37:15,400 --> 00:37:18,560 Speaker 1: I don't know that, don't say her. And now I 712 00:37:18,600 --> 00:37:21,000 Speaker 1: know that she's home and she comparing herself to me, like, 713 00:37:21,040 --> 00:37:23,960 Speaker 1: but you can't ever bag the type of dick that 714 00:37:24,040 --> 00:37:37,120 Speaker 1: I got, you like the organic dick. Friends you had 715 00:37:37,120 --> 00:37:39,360 Speaker 1: to go day, I got a whole food dick. That 716 00:37:39,520 --> 00:37:42,400 Speaker 1: was my reaction. And I was sitting with her and 717 00:37:42,440 --> 00:37:43,920 Speaker 1: a mom reaction. I looked at I was like, what 718 00:37:44,200 --> 00:37:46,239 Speaker 1: was it I was talking about? And she's like, oh no, 719 00:37:46,920 --> 00:37:49,759 Speaker 1: it just came up in conversation. You said you also 720 00:37:49,840 --> 00:37:51,880 Speaker 1: have friends you weren't testing on your man. Yeah, I 721 00:37:51,920 --> 00:37:54,520 Speaker 1: got it. I have a few, but a few, a 722 00:37:54,600 --> 00:38:00,200 Speaker 1: couple of let me say a couple, um to if 723 00:38:00,200 --> 00:38:02,440 Speaker 1: I just get those vibes and then you hear like 724 00:38:02,480 --> 00:38:04,879 Speaker 1: you hear a little stuff like I actually heard one 725 00:38:04,920 --> 00:38:07,600 Speaker 1: of my friends slept with my ex. I don't know 726 00:38:07,600 --> 00:38:09,239 Speaker 1: how true this. I never even come front of her. 727 00:38:09,280 --> 00:38:12,839 Speaker 1: I just like fell back, like we speak. She don't 728 00:38:12,840 --> 00:38:14,879 Speaker 1: even know that I even heard this or even think 729 00:38:14,880 --> 00:38:17,759 Speaker 1: that you can say something, because it just was like 730 00:38:17,880 --> 00:38:21,279 Speaker 1: I already kind of expected it because if it wasn't him, 731 00:38:21,320 --> 00:38:22,840 Speaker 1: I felt like it was gonna be somebody else. So 732 00:38:22,880 --> 00:38:24,759 Speaker 1: what I did was just distance because I should gonna 733 00:38:24,760 --> 00:38:26,200 Speaker 1: do is lie anyway. I know the type of person 734 00:38:26,239 --> 00:38:29,120 Speaker 1: she is, like I would never do that and heat 735 00:38:29,200 --> 00:38:30,759 Speaker 1: us and he that, and then I don't give two 736 00:38:30,760 --> 00:38:32,520 Speaker 1: funks about him. So it's like for for y'all can 737 00:38:32,600 --> 00:38:34,880 Speaker 1: have each other and y'all could go that way, and 738 00:38:34,920 --> 00:38:36,520 Speaker 1: I could just go this way. But it's like why 739 00:38:36,640 --> 00:38:38,560 Speaker 1: even EXX, like I don't even think it would it 740 00:38:38,600 --> 00:38:41,400 Speaker 1: would bother me from her her point, like her standpoint, 741 00:38:41,440 --> 00:38:43,359 Speaker 1: like I probably would be bothered, But then I think 742 00:38:43,400 --> 00:38:45,319 Speaker 1: about it, like I already expected it, So why would 743 00:38:45,320 --> 00:38:47,359 Speaker 1: I really be bothered by Yeah, So it's like I'm 744 00:38:47,360 --> 00:38:49,280 Speaker 1: gonna just cut her off like fall back, we speak 745 00:38:49,320 --> 00:38:51,600 Speaker 1: and you know, no love loss, but I just can't 746 00:38:51,640 --> 00:38:53,080 Speaker 1: funk with you and I'm not gonna ever bring your 747 00:38:53,120 --> 00:38:56,120 Speaker 1: round nobody else that I'm working with, because I do 748 00:38:56,239 --> 00:38:57,960 Speaker 1: have a friend that I feel like would do that, 749 00:38:58,000 --> 00:39:00,279 Speaker 1: and it's only because I know her for a long time, 750 00:39:00,320 --> 00:39:03,040 Speaker 1: like we grew up together. And the only reason that 751 00:39:03,120 --> 00:39:06,080 Speaker 1: I don't really cut her off completely is because I 752 00:39:06,120 --> 00:39:08,239 Speaker 1: have known her for a long time, you know, and 753 00:39:08,320 --> 00:39:12,080 Speaker 1: she has done this twice to you. Yeah, but it 754 00:39:12,160 --> 00:39:15,320 Speaker 1: was both guys that like we were a lot younger. 755 00:39:15,320 --> 00:39:17,600 Speaker 1: It's when we were younger and you weren't serious with 756 00:39:17,680 --> 00:39:20,680 Speaker 1: two guys. No, I wasn't really serious, like, and the 757 00:39:20,760 --> 00:39:23,440 Speaker 1: guys are the ones that told me what I feel like. 758 00:39:23,800 --> 00:39:26,560 Speaker 1: Guys are always gonna tell you. They're always gonna tell you. 759 00:39:26,680 --> 00:39:29,440 Speaker 1: That's another thing. That's another thing. Girls, the same thing 760 00:39:29,480 --> 00:39:31,920 Speaker 1: when you're talking to guys like you don't know that, 761 00:39:32,080 --> 00:39:33,799 Speaker 1: Like if you're working with somebody and you know he's 762 00:39:33,800 --> 00:39:37,360 Speaker 1: working with another person, don't don't talk about her. Yeah, 763 00:39:37,480 --> 00:39:40,520 Speaker 1: but because you think you're making yourself look good, but 764 00:39:40,600 --> 00:39:43,319 Speaker 1: you you're kind of making him think about the other person, right, 765 00:39:43,680 --> 00:39:47,560 Speaker 1: you know. But I feel like if you really mind 766 00:39:47,640 --> 00:39:49,960 Speaker 1: friend and you feel like, oh, I know you were 767 00:39:50,000 --> 00:39:51,920 Speaker 1: dealing with this guy, but it wasn't a serious like 768 00:39:52,040 --> 00:39:54,640 Speaker 1: ask me, like you'd be mad if I if I 769 00:39:54,680 --> 00:39:57,160 Speaker 1: sunk with him or you know, like then I'm gonna 770 00:39:57,160 --> 00:39:58,640 Speaker 1: tell you how I really feel, like, oh, no, this 771 00:39:58,680 --> 00:40:01,439 Speaker 1: one off guards or go I'm cool because you don't 772 00:40:01,440 --> 00:40:05,600 Speaker 1: feel like the one guy that told me right, he 773 00:40:05,719 --> 00:40:08,239 Speaker 1: was somebody that I introduced her to him. I was 774 00:40:08,280 --> 00:40:10,360 Speaker 1: talking to him, but he was like my boyfriend or anything, 775 00:40:10,800 --> 00:40:13,040 Speaker 1: and he actually told me that he sucked it. But 776 00:40:13,440 --> 00:40:14,799 Speaker 1: he was like, yeah, I told her I was going 777 00:40:14,840 --> 00:40:17,799 Speaker 1: to tell you, and she didn't believe me. He was like, yeah, 778 00:40:17,800 --> 00:40:21,600 Speaker 1: you know, I'm gonna tell you that, and she was like, no, 779 00:40:21,719 --> 00:40:25,160 Speaker 1: you're not. And he sure did come back and tell 780 00:40:25,200 --> 00:40:29,320 Speaker 1: me she's awful, and I stopped off. I stopped dealing 781 00:40:29,320 --> 00:40:32,239 Speaker 1: with him after that. But you know, like I feel 782 00:40:32,280 --> 00:40:34,759 Speaker 1: like with her, I don't really rock with her like that, 783 00:40:34,800 --> 00:40:36,319 Speaker 1: but I've known her a long time and it was 784 00:40:36,320 --> 00:40:38,560 Speaker 1: a long time ago, so I just be on something 785 00:40:38,640 --> 00:40:41,720 Speaker 1: like I just feel like, give you good your friend 786 00:40:41,760 --> 00:40:44,239 Speaker 1: man that I never was really friends because it's it's 787 00:40:44,239 --> 00:40:46,239 Speaker 1: so it's so much dick out here. It's like you 788 00:40:46,280 --> 00:40:51,400 Speaker 1: had to have that listen. It don't even be everywhere 789 00:40:51,440 --> 00:40:57,000 Speaker 1: like Pokemon got him. What he does for you said 790 00:40:57,080 --> 00:40:58,960 Speaker 1: that the love that they see that he gives you, 791 00:40:59,000 --> 00:41:01,839 Speaker 1: the things he see that that that he does for you, 792 00:41:02,080 --> 00:41:04,440 Speaker 1: the gifts, the way he moved you around, the way 793 00:41:04,520 --> 00:41:07,360 Speaker 1: y'all living they feel as though my pussy is so 794 00:41:07,360 --> 00:41:09,120 Speaker 1: good that if I give him something, he's gonna cut 795 00:41:09,120 --> 00:41:10,400 Speaker 1: that bit off and do the same things for me. 796 00:41:10,600 --> 00:41:18,719 Speaker 1: And that's why they go and that's our Like, I hate, 797 00:41:19,160 --> 00:41:21,160 Speaker 1: he ain't going to how good my pussy is on 798 00:41:21,160 --> 00:41:27,040 Speaker 1: this show anymore because I know people are tired tell 799 00:41:27,120 --> 00:41:30,360 Speaker 1: us about it. But I know, like every time a 800 00:41:30,440 --> 00:41:33,560 Speaker 1: girl tells somebody that I'm sucking up, every time he 801 00:41:33,640 --> 00:41:36,560 Speaker 1: talks about me, the God runs and tells me because 802 00:41:36,600 --> 00:41:39,160 Speaker 1: he always gonna tell me, because he's always gonna come back, 803 00:41:39,719 --> 00:41:42,680 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. He still wants to taste us. 804 00:41:42,840 --> 00:41:45,040 Speaker 1: He still wants it, you know what I mean, Like 805 00:41:45,440 --> 00:41:47,960 Speaker 1: you hating all me, He's just gonna it's just push 806 00:41:48,000 --> 00:41:50,160 Speaker 1: your hands to call me extra time he's hungry. And 807 00:41:50,200 --> 00:41:56,600 Speaker 1: I'm still gonna feel like even recently, I had a 808 00:41:56,640 --> 00:41:59,719 Speaker 1: guy that I'm dating, God, I'm sucking with he he 809 00:41:59,800 --> 00:42:02,560 Speaker 1: had a girl tell me tell him that I said 810 00:42:02,600 --> 00:42:04,480 Speaker 1: I was saying that he was paying my bills or 811 00:42:04,520 --> 00:42:08,319 Speaker 1: something like that. Please everybody know how proud I am 812 00:42:08,320 --> 00:42:10,399 Speaker 1: that not paying my own bills. This is an accomplishment 813 00:42:10,440 --> 00:42:16,600 Speaker 1: for me, you know. But I'm paying you know what 814 00:42:16,640 --> 00:42:18,919 Speaker 1: I mean? So you know, he ran back and told 815 00:42:18,920 --> 00:42:21,560 Speaker 1: me because he knows the person that I am. He 816 00:42:21,640 --> 00:42:23,680 Speaker 1: and I have a relationship, you know, like we're not 817 00:42:24,160 --> 00:42:28,560 Speaker 1: in a surbious relationship, so we don't just funk each 818 00:42:28,560 --> 00:42:31,279 Speaker 1: other and then keep it moving, you know, Like, so 819 00:42:31,520 --> 00:42:33,880 Speaker 1: he knows the type of person I am. And anybody 820 00:42:33,880 --> 00:42:37,839 Speaker 1: who knows he knows get you crazy when you tell 821 00:42:37,960 --> 00:42:40,479 Speaker 1: crazy about another text, because it do make it seem 822 00:42:40,560 --> 00:42:46,400 Speaker 1: like you feel a little insecure. She doing is making 823 00:42:46,920 --> 00:42:50,040 Speaker 1: because he's gonna tell the girl. So you're showing that 824 00:42:50,200 --> 00:42:52,200 Speaker 1: you care about this girl. You're thinking about her, you're 825 00:42:52,239 --> 00:42:55,279 Speaker 1: talking about you, You're she's relevant to the way she's 826 00:42:55,280 --> 00:42:57,000 Speaker 1: My girls be like, oh, you know everything on her 827 00:42:57,080 --> 00:42:59,000 Speaker 1: is fake, you know she but that you know she 828 00:42:59,440 --> 00:43:02,680 Speaker 1: like really make it seem like you're hating you know, 829 00:43:03,239 --> 00:43:11,120 Speaker 1: naturally blue. No, but that's why I went like, um, 830 00:43:11,239 --> 00:43:14,080 Speaker 1: you know, I'm I'm working with somebody who's popular, who's 831 00:43:14,120 --> 00:43:16,040 Speaker 1: a popular person, and I know he'd be sleeping with 832 00:43:16,040 --> 00:43:18,600 Speaker 1: other girls. He tries to act like he doesn't, but 833 00:43:18,640 --> 00:43:21,440 Speaker 1: I'll be knowing, yeah, you know what I mean. And 834 00:43:21,560 --> 00:43:24,399 Speaker 1: I hear about things him and there, but I will 835 00:43:24,480 --> 00:43:26,440 Speaker 1: not ever mention it to him one song because you 836 00:43:26,440 --> 00:43:29,040 Speaker 1: ain't my man? How about what you ask me nothing. 837 00:43:29,440 --> 00:43:31,680 Speaker 1: I shouldn't think that I'm hating on any of those 838 00:43:31,680 --> 00:43:35,000 Speaker 1: bites because no matter who it is, whether she's extremely rich, 839 00:43:35,160 --> 00:43:39,279 Speaker 1: has the fattest ass, the hope he ain't gonna how 840 00:43:39,280 --> 00:43:43,480 Speaker 1: about how about just that like bring you everything, like 841 00:43:43,520 --> 00:43:47,200 Speaker 1: oh yeah, I've seen him. That's the worst. I just 842 00:43:47,200 --> 00:43:52,640 Speaker 1: so happen to be on Instagram. And one thing with things, 843 00:43:52,680 --> 00:43:55,880 Speaker 1: for sure, do not check for my nigga, especially if 844 00:43:55,880 --> 00:43:57,520 Speaker 1: I'm not checking for my nigga right and then like 845 00:43:57,560 --> 00:43:59,840 Speaker 1: you but they bring you something like they got this 846 00:44:00,040 --> 00:44:07,160 Speaker 1: saying and you'll see side. Yeah there's I say two 847 00:44:07,200 --> 00:44:09,000 Speaker 1: things about that. Number One, yes, I had to tell 848 00:44:09,080 --> 00:44:11,120 Speaker 1: somebody one time stopped telling me stuff about my ex 849 00:44:11,120 --> 00:44:13,520 Speaker 1: because I don't want to hear it anymore. But the 850 00:44:13,600 --> 00:44:17,080 Speaker 1: other thing is sometimes people feel like, well, you might 851 00:44:17,120 --> 00:44:19,200 Speaker 1: be mad if they know something and didn't tell you, 852 00:44:19,640 --> 00:44:21,520 Speaker 1: but it's how you do it, Like it's when you 853 00:44:21,600 --> 00:44:26,399 Speaker 1: I got like Afford who all the time like oh 854 00:44:26,400 --> 00:44:28,759 Speaker 1: well I was just on my Instagram scrolling and that's 855 00:44:28,760 --> 00:44:31,280 Speaker 1: all such a such a comment on such such a picture, 856 00:44:31,719 --> 00:44:34,560 Speaker 1: and it's like why do you follow him? For one, 857 00:44:35,280 --> 00:44:37,080 Speaker 1: and how did you see this? He was going through 858 00:44:37,080 --> 00:44:39,960 Speaker 1: the comments. It's just too much now if you see 859 00:44:40,040 --> 00:44:42,480 Speaker 1: you out and you see him with another yeah, and 860 00:44:42,480 --> 00:44:45,600 Speaker 1: then you supposed it called me, but the whole Instagram 861 00:44:45,719 --> 00:44:49,160 Speaker 1: social media stuff emojis under his And then when this 862 00:44:49,280 --> 00:44:51,640 Speaker 1: frequentness like why do you know all this information about 863 00:44:51,880 --> 00:44:53,279 Speaker 1: why do you know stuff that I don't know? I'm 864 00:44:53,280 --> 00:44:57,200 Speaker 1: supposed to do the snooping. So it seemed like so 865 00:44:57,239 --> 00:44:58,880 Speaker 1: it seemed like they're just really trying to hate on 866 00:44:58,920 --> 00:45:03,120 Speaker 1: your situation or they or I feel like they more 867 00:45:03,160 --> 00:45:06,000 Speaker 1: than you are. Yeah, I feel like they want the situation. Okay, 868 00:45:06,200 --> 00:45:08,640 Speaker 1: I feel like my friends are there so um, they're 869 00:45:08,640 --> 00:45:12,799 Speaker 1: so like careful with me, like they don't even do 870 00:45:12,880 --> 00:45:15,600 Speaker 1: it no more like like my home girls. She used 871 00:45:15,600 --> 00:45:18,200 Speaker 1: to be like oh screen shining things and like and 872 00:45:18,400 --> 00:45:21,040 Speaker 1: every time like, b I don't sell me that because 873 00:45:21,080 --> 00:45:23,759 Speaker 1: I'm I'm spad, like I go from my girl what 874 00:45:24,760 --> 00:45:27,719 Speaker 1: you know what I mean? You know, I feel like 875 00:45:27,760 --> 00:45:30,799 Speaker 1: my friends are so like only like a handful of 876 00:45:30,800 --> 00:45:33,080 Speaker 1: people know my personal business, you know what I mean? 877 00:45:33,239 --> 00:45:35,279 Speaker 1: Because you gotta be careful these bishes to be bored 878 00:45:35,320 --> 00:45:37,400 Speaker 1: you working, you're busy, you know what I mean, you're 879 00:45:37,440 --> 00:45:39,200 Speaker 1: doing with everything you have to do, and these bishes 880 00:45:39,280 --> 00:45:42,600 Speaker 1: is bored. They changed life. It's a little boring, so 881 00:45:42,640 --> 00:45:45,440 Speaker 1: now they start checking on your life. All right? Well, 882 00:45:45,440 --> 00:45:47,319 Speaker 1: I know Leemasing is here because she has a lot 883 00:45:47,320 --> 00:45:49,799 Speaker 1: of press to do for Stan, so we do gotta 884 00:45:49,880 --> 00:45:52,560 Speaker 1: let you go. I appreciate you for him, But how 885 00:45:52,640 --> 00:45:55,160 Speaker 1: was the experience being on the show? Just so? Um? 886 00:45:55,160 --> 00:45:56,759 Speaker 1: It was dope. I had to get us to it 887 00:45:56,760 --> 00:45:58,719 Speaker 1: at first, but at the while you forget, like the 888 00:45:58,760 --> 00:46:01,400 Speaker 1: cameras is even there. He used to being around guys 889 00:46:01,440 --> 00:46:03,600 Speaker 1: all the time too. Yeah, my whole team is I 890 00:46:03,600 --> 00:46:05,919 Speaker 1: don't deal with too many girls because of what we 891 00:46:05,920 --> 00:46:11,080 Speaker 1: were talking about, So my whole time team is almost 892 00:46:11,120 --> 00:46:14,000 Speaker 1: all guys, like guys, and you and Meek are still cool, 893 00:46:14,080 --> 00:46:16,640 Speaker 1: right Yeah? Is he gonna like post and supported the show? 894 00:46:16,640 --> 00:46:18,839 Speaker 1: I know he's big on posting the support. I mean 895 00:46:18,920 --> 00:46:20,799 Speaker 1: that's I don't know. We had to win. Did you 896 00:46:20,840 --> 00:46:23,600 Speaker 1: ask him like hey, could you post it? Yeah? You 897 00:46:23,840 --> 00:46:26,160 Speaker 1: start stepping up and asking the stuff. That's somebody that 898 00:46:26,960 --> 00:46:29,120 Speaker 1: you used to be signed to his label. He wanted 899 00:46:29,160 --> 00:46:30,799 Speaker 1: kind of feel like it's one of those situations, like 900 00:46:30,840 --> 00:46:33,879 Speaker 1: you said, like that's that's something I feel like, now 901 00:46:34,040 --> 00:46:37,200 Speaker 1: you should ask because these droppers they asked everybody to right, 902 00:46:38,400 --> 00:46:40,960 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie because people like Bigger Caliber asked 903 00:46:41,160 --> 00:46:43,959 Speaker 1: calib would be like yo posted like sometimes you gotta 904 00:46:44,000 --> 00:46:47,080 Speaker 1: do that, you gotta put you know. I guess it's 905 00:46:47,080 --> 00:46:48,960 Speaker 1: a pride thing. I guess probably is a broad thing. 906 00:46:49,040 --> 00:46:51,680 Speaker 1: But I feel like all the people that I got 907 00:46:51,719 --> 00:46:54,279 Speaker 1: relationships with in the industry, like I didn't have to 908 00:46:54,320 --> 00:46:56,359 Speaker 1: ask them, not one person. I can't even one person 909 00:46:56,400 --> 00:46:58,400 Speaker 1: that I feel like I gotta dope bind with it. 910 00:46:58,480 --> 00:47:00,720 Speaker 1: I had, but sometimes people don't even be paying attention 911 00:47:00,719 --> 00:47:02,239 Speaker 1: and what's going on. I don't know if you're gonna 912 00:47:02,239 --> 00:47:04,160 Speaker 1: be like what I'm doing? What I do. I may 913 00:47:04,239 --> 00:47:06,839 Speaker 1: do something like a mass text, you know, and then 914 00:47:06,840 --> 00:47:08,640 Speaker 1: when he don't post it, then you know, or I 915 00:47:08,760 --> 00:47:11,560 Speaker 1: do something like a mass text like sense to everybody 916 00:47:11,640 --> 00:47:13,920 Speaker 1: and not not a group message, but like one by one, 917 00:47:14,000 --> 00:47:15,400 Speaker 1: like you know, this show coming on the night with 918 00:47:15,440 --> 00:47:17,560 Speaker 1: the picture and then see what follow up from there. 919 00:47:17,600 --> 00:47:19,719 Speaker 1: Because I get those same type of messages like you 920 00:47:19,840 --> 00:47:21,799 Speaker 1: we don't see everything, and if somebody hit me up 921 00:47:21,880 --> 00:47:23,960 Speaker 1: like oh I just dropped this, then I'll be like, oh, 922 00:47:23,840 --> 00:47:25,719 Speaker 1: I know what, she dropped this, or just let me 923 00:47:25,760 --> 00:47:28,200 Speaker 1: throw it up, and you know what, it helps if 924 00:47:28,239 --> 00:47:30,160 Speaker 1: you give them just what to write so they could 925 00:47:30,160 --> 00:47:32,040 Speaker 1: just come and paste it, so you don't got to 926 00:47:32,080 --> 00:47:34,600 Speaker 1: come to the whole thing, find the hashtag, find the ad, 927 00:47:35,040 --> 00:47:37,080 Speaker 1: just be like, hey, if you could just copy and 928 00:47:37,120 --> 00:47:39,680 Speaker 1: paste this, you know, I'd appreciate it. If not cool, 929 00:47:40,440 --> 00:47:44,160 Speaker 1: you know, still love, but it would be nice. I'm 930 00:47:44,200 --> 00:47:46,759 Speaker 1: just trying to say, sometimes we gotta stop acting like 931 00:47:46,800 --> 00:47:49,960 Speaker 1: we don't want to, you know, ask the thing absolutely right, 932 00:47:50,560 --> 00:47:52,440 Speaker 1: She's gonna be hit me like girls. So yeah, I 933 00:47:52,440 --> 00:47:55,680 Speaker 1: needed to come up now. Boy listen, I have no 934 00:47:55,760 --> 00:48:01,799 Speaker 1: problem with it. So myself in there. So I saw it. 935 00:48:02,120 --> 00:48:04,160 Speaker 1: I was so confused because I saw it like a 936 00:48:04,200 --> 00:48:06,000 Speaker 1: couple of people doing it the first time, Like, how 937 00:48:06,120 --> 00:48:10,680 Speaker 1: are they getting in this? All right? Well, we appreciate 938 00:48:10,680 --> 00:48:12,480 Speaker 1: you so much for stopping. Dude. We will be watching, 939 00:48:12,480 --> 00:48:14,120 Speaker 1: you know, I like Sister the Hip Hop. We actually 940 00:48:14,160 --> 00:48:16,640 Speaker 1: been on that show on the Breakfast Club. We're actually 941 00:48:16,640 --> 00:48:19,239 Speaker 1: watching it all together. Maybe we can get maybe we 942 00:48:19,280 --> 00:48:21,040 Speaker 1: can get lip service on there at one time, you 943 00:48:21,040 --> 00:48:24,160 Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. We could. They loved it, come 944 00:48:24,239 --> 00:48:29,120 Speaker 1: up here, and talk about y'all poicy. Yeah, so I'll 945 00:48:29,120 --> 00:48:31,680 Speaker 1: see you later. Don't have a little watch party at 946 00:48:31,719 --> 00:48:32,360 Speaker 1: post tonight. You