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<v Speaker 1>Second date Update. The girl that's on the phone to

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<v Speaker 1>do a second date update today didn't even think that

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<v Speaker 1>her story qualifies for a second date update because she's

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<v Speaker 1>been out on more than one date with this guy,

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<v Speaker 1>which makes it even more confusing why he wouldn't be

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<v Speaker 1>calling her back. Yeah, her name is Marie, and Marie,

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<v Speaker 1>how are you hi? I'm great? How are you guys? Good?

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<v Speaker 1>You definitely qualify for a second date update even though

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<v Speaker 1>you've been out with this guy a few times. How

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<v Speaker 1>many times have you gone out? Three? We've had three dates,

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<v Speaker 1>three dates with this guy, and now he's just disappeared

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<v Speaker 1>on you exactly. That is so annoyed. I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>why people do that to each other. Yeah, you're telling me,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, So tell us about how you met him.

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<v Speaker 1>We met on a dating website and that we were

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<v Speaker 1>actually talking on the website for I say, almost three

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<v Speaker 1>weeks total. So you guys talked for like three weeks

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<v Speaker 1>online and you've been on three dates. You're talking about

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<v Speaker 1>over a month of knowing this guy and then he

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<v Speaker 1>just failed on you. Yeah, exactly, definitely over a month

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<v Speaker 1>since we've been talking. And if it sucks if you've

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<v Speaker 1>gone on three dates, like how far have you guys?

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<v Speaker 1>This sounds weird about how far have you guys gone physically? Look, well,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just saying like I don't know what their relationship

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<v Speaker 1>is like if they already spent the night at each

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<v Speaker 1>other's house, because three dates, that's okay, you know, Actually, no,

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<v Speaker 1>we haven't. The fares we've gone, we've we've made out,

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<v Speaker 1>that's it all right. Well, I guess we don't need

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<v Speaker 1>every single date unless you feel like there's some details

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<v Speaker 1>we need. But what happened the last time you guys

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<v Speaker 1>hung out? Well, you know, the first dates were fine.

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<v Speaker 1>We basically got for coffee once and then dinner and

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<v Speaker 1>then so the third date, the last date that we had,

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<v Speaker 1>we went out to a bar, so it was a

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<v Speaker 1>little different environment, a little fun, a little noisy, loud,

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<v Speaker 1>but he ended up bringing a friend. Did he tell

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<v Speaker 1>you beforehand that he was going to break a friend?

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<v Speaker 1>Know which at first I thought, well, maybe we're not

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<v Speaker 1>comfortable with each other already. That it's okay. So then

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<v Speaker 1>I actually ended up calling one of my girlfriends and

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<v Speaker 1>she came over. Oh well, that's a good idea. So

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<v Speaker 1>how did that go? It turned out to be a

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<v Speaker 1>great night. He ended up buying Sequila shots and it

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<v Speaker 1>was really fun. And to be honest with you, I

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<v Speaker 1>was surprising. I've dated quite a lot, and I was

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<v Speaker 1>pleasantly surprised with where things were going. And he's definitely

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<v Speaker 1>a little quirky and has his ways, but I like that.

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<v Speaker 1>And you guys are practically married at this point. I've

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<v Speaker 1>been kind of seeing each other for about a month. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>you've met each other's friends. I mean, that's all there

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<v Speaker 1>is left to do, right I mean, I thought we

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<v Speaker 1>were moving forward, at least to something further than where

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<v Speaker 1>we were at. Do you think there's a possibility that

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<v Speaker 1>he was freaked out that maybe you were moving faster

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<v Speaker 1>than him. I guess it could be a possibility. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>at this point, I really don't know what happened. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think I came across as crazy at all.

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<v Speaker 1>To me. We were both moving forward together, if that

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<v Speaker 1>makes sense. You said that he had quirks, that you

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<v Speaker 1>liked a lot of times. That's code for he's kind

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<v Speaker 1>of weird, is you know? There's just little things about

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<v Speaker 1>him that at first I kind of found it endearing.

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<v Speaker 1>And he has his ways, likes to talk a little tangent,

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<v Speaker 1>but then he gets excited about the things that he's

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<v Speaker 1>talking about, and he has a gap in his teeth,

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<v Speaker 1>which is so it's just so cute and it just

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<v Speaker 1>makes him makes him who he is. I think diastema

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<v Speaker 1>is the technical term for that, if you were curious,

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<v Speaker 1>what is it? Diastema? Is it really that's a term

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<v Speaker 1>for a gap in your teth. Yeah, I've dated a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of dental assistance. If you ever need to talk

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<v Speaker 1>about his tooth gap again, you can use the doctor's

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<v Speaker 1>term for it if you want. Well, you know, that's

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<v Speaker 1>good to know. I will I would love to talk

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<v Speaker 1>about it with him, if he will ever call me

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<v Speaker 1>back or so, what was the last thing that he

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<v Speaker 1>said to you? So it's been eight days since our

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<v Speaker 1>last date when we were at the bar, and I've

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<v Speaker 1>actually tried to call him a few times. I texted

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<v Speaker 1>him a bunch and I've gotten one response and it

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<v Speaker 1>had one word and it just said sorry, Oh that's

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<v Speaker 1>all I got. Did you respond to the sorry, Yeah

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<v Speaker 1>I did, I wrote back, what the hell do you mean?

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<v Speaker 1>And I haven't gotten any response from that? So are

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<v Speaker 1>you hoping? I mean, because that sounds like a break

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<v Speaker 1>up to me. I mean like you don't have to

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<v Speaker 1>have a breakup talk because he only went on three dates.

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<v Speaker 1>But a sorry text means I'm I'm done. Yeah, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>at this point, i'd at least like an explanation, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like I deserve one. You know, we've had

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<v Speaker 1>this background together for over a month now and we've

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<v Speaker 1>been out three times, and then you know, to not

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<v Speaker 1>even give me anything. I'm just sorry. I'm just it's

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<v Speaker 1>up setting. It's I don't know, I don't even know.

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<v Speaker 1>Why did you stop him online yet? This is dating

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<v Speaker 1>profile still up? Yeah? No, I mean it's all it's

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<v Speaker 1>all still there. It's all normal and nothing that he

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<v Speaker 1>hasn't changed anything. Okay, Well, we'll play a song, come back,

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<v Speaker 1>call him and get your second date update. All right, great,

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<v Speaker 1>or third date update or whatever you want to fist,

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<v Speaker 1>but we'll get it right after this. You're looking jubil

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<v Speaker 1>in the morning. Today's second date update is a serious

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<v Speaker 1>one because the girl on the phone was left at

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<v Speaker 1>the altar. That's right. It's a very very sad story.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, way more in depth than any of

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<v Speaker 1>our other second date updates. Is she pregnant too? She

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<v Speaker 1>might be it, you don't know. She said that she

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<v Speaker 1>hasn't hooked up with the guy yet in that way,

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<v Speaker 1>but weirder things have happened. She was basically married to

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<v Speaker 1>this guy. They've been dating for about a month now,

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<v Speaker 1>and they've gone out on three dates in that time.

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<v Speaker 1>The last time they saw each other, they had fun,

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<v Speaker 1>they partied with a few friends. Then he didn't text

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<v Speaker 1>her back. She didn't hear from him for a little while,

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<v Speaker 1>kept texting him, and he finally just enter one text

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<v Speaker 1>that said sorry, and that's the last she's heard from him. Marie.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you ready to call your fiance? It wasn't that serious. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm ready. I'm ready. Are you mad at him right now?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you angry with this dude for just ghosting on you? Basically?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I don't want to be angry at him,

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<v Speaker 1>but I'm I am, and I'm mostly confused. I really

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<v Speaker 1>just want some answer. Depending on his answer, I guess

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<v Speaker 1>you can judge if you're angry. Yeah, yeah, good all right,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gon Dallas phone number right now, and see why

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<v Speaker 1>he's stopped calling you after three dates. Here we go. Hello, Hi,

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<v Speaker 1>I was looking for Paul. Yeah, let's see. Hey Paul,

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<v Speaker 1>what's up? How are you? This is Jewel from Brook

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<v Speaker 1>and Jewel in the Morning. It's a radio show. Okay, Um,

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<v Speaker 1>what do you want? I'm calling you because we recently

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<v Speaker 1>got an email about you from one of our listeners.

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<v Speaker 1>Her name is Marie. Uh Okay. She asked if we

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<v Speaker 1>could get you on the phone and find out why

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<v Speaker 1>you stopped calling her. It's a segment that we do

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<v Speaker 1>on our show called the Second Date Update. Do you

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<v Speaker 1>have a few minutes to tell us why you're not

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<v Speaker 1>talking to Marie anymore? I mean I don't. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know what she's told you or whatever, But I mean

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<v Speaker 1>I've kind of already sent her a text like saying sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>and I just I don't know. Yeah, Well, she told

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<v Speaker 1>us about the text, but she doesn't know why because

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<v Speaker 1>you never gave her an explanation. So she's just more

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<v Speaker 1>curious than anything. Honestly, I don't think I really want

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<v Speaker 1>to tell her. Yeah, but Paul, Hey, Paul, have you

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<v Speaker 1>ever gone out with a girl that you liked a lot,

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<v Speaker 1>and then she just stopped talking to you. I mean, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but yeah, so doesn't it kind of suck when you

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<v Speaker 1>don't know why? Yeah? I just I don't know if

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<v Speaker 1>if I can tell her, I don't know how to

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<v Speaker 1>really tell her. Well, the thing you're not telling her

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<v Speaker 1>right now, you're telling me? Yeah, I mean I don't know, man,

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<v Speaker 1>But I mean you said you talked to her, so

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<v Speaker 1>you're probably just gonna repeat, you know what I told you.

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<v Speaker 1>So I don't know. You can pick, you can pick

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<v Speaker 1>and choose information. Why don't you be straight with us

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<v Speaker 1>and then we'll decide what she needs to know? Was

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<v Speaker 1>she moving too fast? That's what we were thinking, like

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<v Speaker 1>maybe she was ahead of you. No, I mean, don't

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<v Speaker 1>get me wrong, it was not. It's nothing that she did, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't her fault at all. It was all on me, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>and this is all to do with me. Okay, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>then if it's your fault, why don't you just tell

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<v Speaker 1>us what happened? I mean, if it's not anything that's

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<v Speaker 1>going to embarrass her, The thing is is like it

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<v Speaker 1>was just it was just bad, Okay, Like I kind

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<v Speaker 1>of want to like move on from it. You just

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<v Speaker 1>forget like it ever happened. It is what it is

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<v Speaker 1>kind of thing. Just move on. There was so bad. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's weird. Did she tell you about the last day

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<v Speaker 1>that we had, like when we went to the bar.

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<v Speaker 1>She didn't tell us much. She just said, you hung

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<v Speaker 1>out at a bar with some friends. Yeah, well all right,

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<v Speaker 1>Well I was pretty drunk, because you know, we were

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<v Speaker 1>there with friends, drinking a lot. I drank a probably

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<v Speaker 1>way more than I should have. But we're having a

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<v Speaker 1>good time, you know, and you know that's where I

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<v Speaker 1>messed up. All right, Well, my mind automatically goes to

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<v Speaker 1>you were there with friends? Did you mess around with

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<v Speaker 1>whatever friends or something? Drunk? I mean, all right, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean that sound dog all right. Well let me just well,

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<v Speaker 1>let me just explain. Okay, So I don't know why,

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<v Speaker 1>Like we're drinking, like we're twenty one again, and so

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<v Speaker 1>I'm coming back from the bathroom and I've passed her friends.

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<v Speaker 1>We start talking in the hallway. I don't even remember

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<v Speaker 1>like how we got to the point, but we start

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<v Speaker 1>making out, and I like, in like mid make out,

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<v Speaker 1>like I sober up like instantly, like that moment of clarity,

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<v Speaker 1>like what the hell are you doing kind of thing?

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<v Speaker 1>And at that point I was like, whoa, I got

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<v Speaker 1>to get out of here, Like this is not how

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<v Speaker 1>I am, This is not who I am. Like, so

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<v Speaker 1>I like called my uber and I got the hell

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<v Speaker 1>out of there, like pretty much at that point. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>that's understandable. And what a crappy friend she has. It's

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<v Speaker 1>making out with some guy that she's crushing on, Like

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<v Speaker 1>that sucks. Well, I mean I don't want to put

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<v Speaker 1>it on on her. I mean, like literally, I know

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<v Speaker 1>how to drink, and that was not how you're supposed

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<v Speaker 1>to drink like night, So like I take a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of blames for that. You're kind of taking responsibility, but

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<v Speaker 1>then you're kind of blaming alcohol. You can blame it

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<v Speaker 1>on the goose right now, all right, So well that's understandable.

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<v Speaker 1>Then why you'd be like and does it suck? Though?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean it sounds like you guys were having a

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<v Speaker 1>fun time dating. Does it suck that you made this

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<v Speaker 1>mistake and now you don't feel like you can talk

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<v Speaker 1>to her? Totally? Dude, I'm like, we hit it off.

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<v Speaker 1>It was like we had versations that like probably some

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<v Speaker 1>married people don't have. So it really sucks. But at

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<v Speaker 1>this point, like I don't know how one she'll take

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<v Speaker 1>it to how to bring it up, and then like

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<v Speaker 1>three house she'll feel like for the rest of the relationships.

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<v Speaker 1>I've got some ideas on how you can bring it

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<v Speaker 1>up to her, actually have a really good idea. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I think you should just talk to her because she's

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<v Speaker 1>actually on the other line listening to this phone call.

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<v Speaker 1>What yeah, Marie, how hey? I don't even know what

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<v Speaker 1>to say it. I mean, did this seriously happen? I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>this is totally not how I wanted to tell you,

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<v Speaker 1>or even tell you really because I don't really know

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<v Speaker 1>how to bring it up. Like it's why I just

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<v Speaker 1>kind of texted sorry. I was going to text you

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<v Speaker 1>like this page and a half long text, and I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, well, that's weird, so I didn't text it,

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<v Speaker 1>and then I don't know. I'm sorry. I'm just I'm

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<v Speaker 1>so disappointed. I mean me too, I mean right now,

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like even more so because now you're finding

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<v Speaker 1>out this way and that's not who I am. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't believe my friend did that. I mean, she hasn't

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<v Speaker 1>wanted anything to me. Yeah, I don't want I don't

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<v Speaker 1>want you to blame her. I mean, like I'm taking

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<v Speaker 1>responsibility for it, like I guess, I guess, Well, well,

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<v Speaker 1>let me let me just say this, like it totally

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't emotional at that point because there was no connection.

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<v Speaker 1>Like when I got that woman to clarity, I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>what is going on and it was just once yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>like that's it. I don't even know her name to

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<v Speaker 1>be honest with you, and I don't really care to because,

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<v Speaker 1>like I said, it's not it wasn't emotional at that point.

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<v Speaker 1>It was like one physical I mean, I mean, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't even I don't even think you made out with

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<v Speaker 1>me that night, Maria. It's bad no matter what. But

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<v Speaker 1>at least he's kind of a stand up guy about it.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean a lot of guys are A lot of

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<v Speaker 1>guys would do this and then they would continue to

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<v Speaker 1>talk to you. They probably text your friend be like, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>don't mention what happened. Like at least he was a

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<v Speaker 1>big enough man to be like, I screwed up and

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<v Speaker 1>now I shouldn't continue this relationship. But it's also like

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<v Speaker 1>the biggest red flag ever. I mean, if he's already yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>if he's I mean, not that he's cheating on you

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<v Speaker 1>because you haven't had that guy's talk yet. But if

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<v Speaker 1>even in the beginning he's already making out with other

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<v Speaker 1>chicks while you're there, I don't know. He said, he's

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<v Speaker 1>never done that. It's not like you. Yeah. Yeah. The

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<v Speaker 1>thing is, Marie, I really like you, Okay. I think

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<v Speaker 1>we had a really good connection and I think we

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<v Speaker 1>still do. I just, yeah, is there any way you

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<v Speaker 1>can forgive me? I don't know what I can do

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<v Speaker 1>to maybe that, you know, you could forgive me for

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I can't believe that my friend didn't even

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<v Speaker 1>think that she needed to tell me. I mean, at

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<v Speaker 1>least you're telling me she was just going to keep

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<v Speaker 1>this super's friend. Yeah, yeah, that definitely is it. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's he was pressured into telling you and didn't

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<v Speaker 1>even realize he was telling you he was never going

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<v Speaker 1>to talk to you again. And actually, would that have

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<v Speaker 1>really been the situation where you're just gonna you just

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<v Speaker 1>thought you'd never wanted to talk to me again, like

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<v Speaker 1>I said, the one that got away kind of kind

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<v Speaker 1>of situation. But I don't know. It's been eating me

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<v Speaker 1>up inside, so I probably would have ended up calling you.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know even tomorrow the next day, eventually I

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<v Speaker 1>would have called you. That's kind of sweet. It's kind

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<v Speaker 1>of sweet. It clearly upset him so much that he

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<v Speaker 1>knew he did something wrong and there was a reason

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<v Speaker 1>why he you know, was so upset by it and

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<v Speaker 1>then had to just leave. I mean, it just shows

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<v Speaker 1>how much he cares. Yeah, I thought we had a

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<v Speaker 1>really good connection, um, you know, and it was Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I reflected on so many levels. So I don't I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. I don't know why I have such a

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<v Speaker 1>hard time believing you, Paul. I don't like you're just

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<v Speaker 1>feeding her lines at this point. Would you forgive her

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<v Speaker 1>if she made out with one of your friends at night?

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<v Speaker 1>I would have to know the situation. I I have

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<v Speaker 1>to know all the details. That have to know all

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<v Speaker 1>the information, you know, like me personally, this situation it

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<v Speaker 1>was only physical my mind. You know, I was with

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<v Speaker 1>Marie that night, I was not with her friend. I couldn't,

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<v Speaker 1>like emotionally kiss you then afterwards because I knew what

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<v Speaker 1>I just did. So I mean, really I did it

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<v Speaker 1>for you? Oh my god, No you did not. I

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<v Speaker 1>mean some things of the night like make more sense now.

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<v Speaker 1>And you did say that you're sorry, and well, I

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<v Speaker 1>think this is a perfect point to ask, Hey, Paul,

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<v Speaker 1>would you like to go out on a second date

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<v Speaker 1>with Marie? We will pay for it. Yeah, absolutely, I

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<v Speaker 1>would love to. Marie. Would you be willing to give

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<v Speaker 1>Paul another shot? Yeah? I really would. Don't give him

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<v Speaker 1>another shot after this one, though, like that will never

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<v Speaker 1>happen again. Okay, Marie, I can promise you that, you

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<v Speaker 1>really promise, I promise. Well, ratulations you guys, So finally

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<v Speaker 1>a successful second date. We haven't had a couple go

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<v Speaker 1>out on a second day in a while. I guess

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<v Speaker 1>this is like a fourth day for you guys, because

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<v Speaker 1>I've been out on three days. Will be number four. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, Paul, I'm a forgiving and understanding person. Then

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<v Speaker 1>I'm excited to go out with you again. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>I got to be honest. I don't think that I'm

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<v Speaker 1>going to be talking to my friend anymore. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>need her in my life anymore. I mean, I fully

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<v Speaker 1>support that. I think that any friend that would do

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<v Speaker 1>that to you is not a true friend. I agree.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm glad this worked out. And whoever said the phrase

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<v Speaker 1>you can't have your cake and eat it too was

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<v Speaker 1>it true. We just learned that in a second date

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<v Speaker 1>update in the morning, texting at seven eighty five and nine,

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<v Speaker 1>Who says that's quite deplorable, promising you won't cheat again

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<v Speaker 1>after a third date. Read that text on going to

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<v Speaker 1>say good job text her by using the most complicated

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<v Speaker 1>word any text has ever used, deplorable. Yeah, yeah, people

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<v Speaker 1>who texts you like day stupid idiot syllables talking about

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<v Speaker 1>today's second date update if you missed it. Marie wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to call Paul. They've actually been out on three dates

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<v Speaker 1>and the last date was a group date with her friends,

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<v Speaker 1>and Paul admitted that he wasn't calling her back because

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<v Speaker 1>he drank too much and made out with one of

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<v Speaker 1>Marie's friends by the bathroom. O. Man, he admitted it,

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<v Speaker 1>and then Marie suggests then Paul agrees that they should

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<v Speaker 1>never speak to that friend again. Wow, because she's a

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<v Speaker 1>bad person for not telling Marie it wasn't Paul's fault,

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<v Speaker 1>it was her friend's fault. Definitely her fault. Probably a

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<v Speaker 1>relief to her honestly, because she's been trying to hide

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<v Speaker 1>that for a old yeile now like finally so now

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<v Speaker 1>her and Paul can continue on in their relationship and

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<v Speaker 1>screw that friend. Remember if you want to do a

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<v Speaker 1>second date up, they'd always to do his email the

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<v Speaker 1>show and we will call the person that made out

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<v Speaker 1>with your friends.