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Speaker 1: Second date Update. The girl that's on the phone to

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Speaker 1: do a second date update today didn't even think that

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Speaker 1: her story qualifies for a second date update because she's

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Speaker 1: been out on more than one date with this guy,

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Speaker 1: which makes it even more confusing why he wouldn't be

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Speaker 1: calling her back. Yeah, her name is Marie, and Marie,

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Speaker 1: how are you hi? I'm great? How are you guys? Good?

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Speaker 1: You definitely qualify for a second date update even though

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Speaker 1: you've been out with this guy a few times. How

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Speaker 1: many times have you gone out? Three? We've had three dates,

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Speaker 1: three dates with this guy, and now he's just disappeared

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Speaker 1: on you exactly. That is so annoyed. I don't know

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Speaker 1: why people do that to each other. Yeah, you're telling me,

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Speaker 1: all right, So tell us about how you met him.

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Speaker 1: We met on a dating website and that we were

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Speaker 1: actually talking on the website for I say, almost three

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Speaker 1: weeks total. So you guys talked for like three weeks

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Speaker 1: online and you've been on three dates. You're talking about

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Speaker 1: over a month of knowing this guy and then he

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Speaker 1: just failed on you. Yeah, exactly, definitely over a month

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Speaker 1: gone on three dates, like how far have you guys?

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Speaker 1: This sounds weird about how far have you guys gone physically? Look, well,

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Speaker 1: I'm just saying like I don't know what their relationship

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Speaker 1: other's house, because three dates, that's okay, you know, Actually, no,

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Speaker 1: that's it all right. Well, I guess we don't need

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Speaker 1: every single date unless you feel like there's some details

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Speaker 1: we need. But what happened the last time you guys

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Speaker 1: We basically got for coffee once and then dinner and

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Speaker 1: then so the third date, the last date that we had,

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Speaker 1: Know which at first I thought, well, maybe we're not

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Speaker 1: I actually ended up calling one of my girlfriends and

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Speaker 1: how did that go? It turned out to be a

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Speaker 1: And you guys are practically married at this point. I've

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Speaker 1: been kind of seeing each other for about a month. Now,

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Speaker 1: is left to do, right I mean, I thought we

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Speaker 1: we were at. Do you think there's a possibility that

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Speaker 1: in the morning. Today's second date update is a serious

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Speaker 1: The last time they saw each other, they had fun,

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Speaker 1: and Jewel in the Morning. It's a radio show. Okay, Um,

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Speaker 1: what do you want? I'm calling you because we recently

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Speaker 1: Her name is Marie. Uh Okay. She asked if we

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Speaker 1: talking to Marie anymore? I mean I don't. I don't

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Speaker 1: get me wrong, it was not. It's nothing that she did, Okay,

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Speaker 1: She didn't tell us much. She just said, you hung

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Speaker 1: you were there with friends? Did you mess around with

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Speaker 1: Then why you'd be like and does it suck? Though?

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Speaker 1: What yeah, Marie, how hey? I don't even know what

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Speaker 1: It was like one physical I mean, I mean, I

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Speaker 1: I mean a lot of guys are A lot of

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Speaker 1: And you did say that you're sorry, and well, I

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Speaker 1: Paul another shot? Yeah? I really would. Don't give him

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