WEBVTT - Forehead on Zero w/ Larry Owens

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<v Speaker 1>You're listening to mess Okay, wow we're here.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh wow, girl, what accent is that?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>I've just had to you know how you have to

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<v Speaker 3>rep yourself up. You know, you will have one of

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<v Speaker 3>those cars where you do like man, you will you

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<v Speaker 3>be like m I had to rep myself up.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, that's how we do it. Yeah, thank you. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, I need some coffee, but I'll be okay.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah damn do I need some coffee?

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<v Speaker 4>No, you don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>You're doing great? Hey boo, what's up?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so Sydney, I feel like I haven't seen you

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<v Speaker 1>all of twenty twenty five.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh loys, going for seven days? Just seven day?

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<v Speaker 1>All that seven days? You was already gone for like

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<v Speaker 1>seven days. Yeah, yeah, like seventy seven days. That's you

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<v Speaker 1>know what, You're right all of twenty twenty five. I

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<v Speaker 1>am a mess exclusive. I'm in a relationship. I have someone,

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<v Speaker 1>and yes, yes I don't. I was like, I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>doing it, but I have someone.

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<v Speaker 3>So now I split time and so I've been split

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<v Speaker 3>time with them me.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah yeah, I mean it's just crazy. I don't have

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<v Speaker 2>enough time truly, just like where does the time go?

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<v Speaker 3>So yeah, I came back from Brazil, went to Brazil

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<v Speaker 3>for the birthday and love that. My mess of the

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<v Speaker 3>week is I did not post about my birthday. That

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<v Speaker 3>was dumb because people did not call me on my

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<v Speaker 3>actual birthday. That was my mess. I was surprised. I said, wait,

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<v Speaker 3>what nobody called own dry? My sister called me five times.

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<v Speaker 2>That's messy.

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<v Speaker 3>But yeah, I people didn't call. It was I was

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<v Speaker 3>surprised people didn't call you, and that's a mess. Yeah

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<v Speaker 3>that was because if you don't publicize your birthday, if

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<v Speaker 3>you don't do if you don't make a big deal,

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<v Speaker 3>then people don't make a big deal.

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<v Speaker 2>You have to make a big deal. That's just what

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<v Speaker 2>it is. Like you are the leader of how you

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<v Speaker 2>want people to celebrate you.

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<v Speaker 1>So I well remember back in the day, like you

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<v Speaker 1>used to put it on face Book and then everybody

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<v Speaker 1>would just be on your wall like love me birthday

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<v Speaker 1>and you'd be like, I got this money cabins, they

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<v Speaker 1>love me this year.

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<v Speaker 2>People from Facebook messaged me.

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<v Speaker 3>But yeah, I got my sister called five times and

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<v Speaker 3>I said, this is insane. She's like, I'm not calling

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<v Speaker 3>for anything, just to your birthday. I'm like, but don't

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<v Speaker 3>act like you don't call for stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>She's like, no, I was calling Greta.

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<v Speaker 1>And I was like, damn. So my sister called five times.

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<v Speaker 1>At least she knew that it was my birthday. Did

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<v Speaker 1>you not pick up four times? Or did you pick

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<v Speaker 1>pick up time?

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<v Speaker 5>No?

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't pick up.

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<v Speaker 3>She just kept calling because my phone was also on

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<v Speaker 3>D and D. That's also a mess. D and D

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<v Speaker 3>is a mess, but it's a productive mess because you're like,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm putting up a boundary. I don't I don't want to,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, engage right now.

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<v Speaker 1>So your phone was on do not disturb, and you're

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<v Speaker 1>mad that people didn't call you on your birthday.

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<v Speaker 2>But your phone was on do not disturb.

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<v Speaker 3>But people, dick, you still can call when you're on

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<v Speaker 3>D and D because my sister called five times.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, So you wouldn't have talked to anybody anyway. I was,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, it depends.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, you're right, But I would have looked and

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<v Speaker 3>I would have called back, but there was there was

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<v Speaker 3>no calls to call back.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, so you just had unlimited data when you travel?

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<v Speaker 5>Really?

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<v Speaker 2>No, no, no, no no.

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<v Speaker 3>Originally I was like, oh, I'm not I'm trying to

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<v Speaker 3>have my phone off so that I don't get international

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<v Speaker 3>because when I went to Morocco, my phone bill was

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<v Speaker 3>like full hundred some dollars.

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<v Speaker 2>That's when I came back thatause I got paid.

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<v Speaker 3>I got charged twelve dollars a day there ten days,

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<v Speaker 3>plus whatever extra shit I did while it was there.

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<v Speaker 1>You were on the Sydney was making full blown phone

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<v Speaker 1>calls from a pyramid, like, yeah, it was on the

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<v Speaker 1>phone right, so yeah, and not even WhatsApp the regular phone.

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<v Speaker 1>She wasn't using What'sapp in Brazil either.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I wasn't. I wasn't. She was like, go do

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<v Speaker 2>it didn't go through. I was like, girl, why are

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<v Speaker 2>you not calling me on WhatsApp?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but it was my girl rich No, it was stupid,

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<v Speaker 3>but yeah it was. I did want a low key birthday,

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<v Speaker 3>but I did make me sad that no one called.

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<v Speaker 3>But I think it was because I was with my girlfriend.

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<v Speaker 3>But I was like, my girlfriend doesn't supplement my friends.

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<v Speaker 3>I still want my friends to call. Well, we all

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<v Speaker 3>taught you in the group chat early in the morning.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't want a text.

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<v Speaker 5>I want to call.

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<v Speaker 3>Everyone called me last year. I was like, what you

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<v Speaker 3>were in the States, that's what's different. I went, I

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<v Speaker 3>don't know you were in Puerto Rico last year? What

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<v Speaker 3>did we call you every time? It doesn't matter where

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<v Speaker 3>i'm you guys call me wherever I am anywhere.

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<v Speaker 1>No, that's not true, because so I don't call you

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<v Speaker 1>on your birthday every year because most of the birthdays

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<v Speaker 1>I be there.

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<v Speaker 2>We did Colla Rica.

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<v Speaker 1>We did Costa Rica in twenty twenty two, twenty three, yes, yeah, no,

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<v Speaker 1>twenty four you was in Puerto Rico and we called

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<v Speaker 1>you because you were by yourself, because it was like

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want her to get kidnapped or took or

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<v Speaker 1>john Wick through whatever.

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<v Speaker 2>So I had to make sure you were still alive.

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<v Speaker 1>But did you you you're with your girl. When you're

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<v Speaker 1>with your girl, I am leaving you alone. I'm letting

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<v Speaker 1>you know that. I mean, I think you know that,

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<v Speaker 1>but I'm just assuming you know that's y'all. She's you

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<v Speaker 1>doing breakfast in bed? You know you you know croissant,

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<v Speaker 1>a Brazilian croissant, if that's a thing, paste leo.

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<v Speaker 2>I had a pastelo.

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<v Speaker 3>But yeah, but I well, I think that like it's

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<v Speaker 3>hard because it's like, yes, I'm with my girlfriend, but

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<v Speaker 3>my girlfriend does not like my friends are more not

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<v Speaker 3>more important, But I care about my friends just as much.

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<v Speaker 2>Sounds like you need to bring us on the trip

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<v Speaker 2>next year, will be there.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, But when we were in Costa Rica, I got

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<v Speaker 3>I got phone calls on my birthday. So this was

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<v Speaker 3>the first birthday I did not get phone calls and

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<v Speaker 3>I was suprised.

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<v Speaker 2>Surprise, surprise, Sabra. But we celebrated your birthday when you

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<v Speaker 2>got back.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, happy birthday, thank you, and everyone was saying it

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<v Speaker 1>when they saw you when you got back.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, our guest today who's a close friend. I had

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<v Speaker 3>this conversation with him before and he was like, I didn't.

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<v Speaker 2>Call you, So it felt like that was ill.

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<v Speaker 3>Never I will never do that again, take a trip

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<v Speaker 3>or not post on your birthday.

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<v Speaker 2>And then I, yeah, I don't. I know.

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<v Speaker 3>It was like when you ain't got no hoes. It

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<v Speaker 3>felt like that. That's what it felt like.

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<v Speaker 1>But maybe people work on you. They just wasn't going through.

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<v Speaker 1>No I could see no calls on my birthday. Well

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<v Speaker 1>your phone doesn't work international for sure?

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<v Speaker 2>Wow?

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<v Speaker 5>Wow wow?

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<v Speaker 2>Were your phone goes ghosts?

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<v Speaker 3>That's crazy in Jamaica and Jamaica every every time you

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<v Speaker 3>in Thailand.

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<v Speaker 1>I've called you, No, Jamaica. My phone worked when I

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<v Speaker 1>was on the Wi Fi. My phone always works on

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<v Speaker 1>the Wi Fi. And that Verizon is mess so period

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<v Speaker 1>except ex it.

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<v Speaker 2>What's your mess?

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<v Speaker 5>Mary?

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<v Speaker 2>My mess is also family related? I don't what was

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<v Speaker 2>your mess? Family related?

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<v Speaker 1>No, my friends are my family. So yeah, okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>my message family related. My cousin got married last weekend

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<v Speaker 1>and my mom did not go to the wedding. My

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<v Speaker 1>mom didn't go to the wedding, and she made a

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<v Speaker 1>whole big, dramatic thing about it and then tried to

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<v Speaker 1>act like it wasn't a big deal when I spoke to.

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<v Speaker 2>Her about it yesterday. Who he shit and so dramatic.

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<v Speaker 1>So my cousin is my mom's nephew on my aunt's side,

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<v Speaker 1>So my mom and his mom are sisters, and my aunt,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, this is her her son getting married, her baby.

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<v Speaker 1>So she got like a gold dress and silver shoes,

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<v Speaker 1>and she got her hair done. It was a wig,

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<v Speaker 1>but she, you know, she spent her like they spent

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<v Speaker 1>money and whatever. And she was talking to my mom

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<v Speaker 1>and my mom was like, I couldn't find something new

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<v Speaker 1>to wear, so I'm just gonna wear a dress that

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<v Speaker 1>I have, and my aunt was like, oh.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, cool, calls my dad.

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<v Speaker 1>Messy, calls my dad and it's like, I can't believe

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<v Speaker 1>she didn't get a new dress for the wedding, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, if I'm going to wedding, I'm gonna dress

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<v Speaker 1>up and I want to look good. And my dad

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<v Speaker 1>was like, oh yeah, I can't believe that either. And

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<v Speaker 1>then as soon as my mom got home, my dad

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<v Speaker 1>was like, let me tell you what your sister said

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone.

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<v Speaker 2>Dad is mess. Mess. The auntie man mess. Auntie mess.

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<v Speaker 2>Dad definitely mess.

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<v Speaker 1>And but the way that my aunt explained it to me,

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<v Speaker 1>she was like, well, your mom works really hard and

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<v Speaker 1>she doesn't spend any money on herself.

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<v Speaker 2>She deserves a nice note, does she does? She tell

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<v Speaker 2>dad that. I'm sure she said that to my dad

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<v Speaker 2>like that.

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<v Speaker 1>And then because he wasn't invited to the wedding, Oh

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<v Speaker 1>he wasn't invited, Mom didn't tell him.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, so it's the whole thing is mass. So that's

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<v Speaker 2>what I'm saying. When my aunt called to talk to

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<v Speaker 2>him about the wedding, my dad was like.

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<v Speaker 4>What wedding?

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<v Speaker 2>Now that that's so mess. This is a layer.

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<v Speaker 1>This is a panini layered of mess that yeah, panini

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<v Speaker 1>press mess, Panini press mess souh. You know, my dad

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<v Speaker 1>was just itching to tell my mom what my aunt said,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm sure he added extra adjectives to the story, right,

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<v Speaker 1>And so he told he was like, yeah, she said,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't have nothing new to wear, oh bitch. And

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<v Speaker 1>my mom was like, well, I guess I'm not going

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<v Speaker 1>to the wedding because they're not about to be looking

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<v Speaker 1>at me like I'm homeless at this wedding and I

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<v Speaker 1>don't need nobody talking about me. So this is the

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<v Speaker 1>night before the wedding, my mom decides this. Me and

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<v Speaker 1>my sister are like, what if we send you a uber?

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<v Speaker 1>What if we send you a car? My Mom's like,

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<v Speaker 1>I won't be there, no thanks, And she didn't come.

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<v Speaker 1>Then I'm talking to her on the phone like it's

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<v Speaker 1>gonna be mad Haitians at this wedding. You know, they're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna look crazy, like it's gonna be mad aunties and uncles,

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<v Speaker 1>they gonna look wild, like just show up. And my

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<v Speaker 1>mom was like no, and it was like such a

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<v Speaker 1>beautiful wedding. My cousin like was sad that she wasn't there.

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<v Speaker 1>But like you had such a nice time, and it

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<v Speaker 1>was like we're getting you're getting older, we're getting older,

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<v Speaker 1>Like this is the time to like be free and

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<v Speaker 1>do what you want. And instead you're just like mad

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<v Speaker 1>that this dress that would have looked great at the wedding.

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<v Speaker 1>You're mad, dad, She said that it wasn't new girl girl.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, but as somebody who I feel your mom

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<v Speaker 3>on it, because it's like yo, trying to find an

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<v Speaker 3>outfit is so annoying and stressful and depending on like

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<v Speaker 3>how you're feeling, and so you're like, oh, I already

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<v Speaker 3>got something. I'm gonna bring that. And then somebody makes

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<v Speaker 3>a comment that something you were probably already like stressed

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<v Speaker 3>out about. You're like, you know what, fuck it, I

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<v Speaker 3>don't need it, I don't need to come whatever. Nobody

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<v Speaker 3>don't see me. My presence was a present goodbye, and

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<v Speaker 3>so yeah, I would have went anyway, but she didn't.

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<v Speaker 3>It already like messed up her mental and I'm sure

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<v Speaker 3>your mother was like ego about it, like goodbye, y'all

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<v Speaker 3>have fun now.

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<v Speaker 1>And then the next day my aunt was at my

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<v Speaker 1>mother's house and they were talking like nothing happened, missed

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<v Speaker 1>the whole wedding, missed the whole wedding, but like had

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<v Speaker 1>a card for my cousin with money and it Like, girl,

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<v Speaker 1>you could have just came to the wedding.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you didn't want to come.

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<v Speaker 3>What's cousin Andrews the vemo so we can send cinema gift,

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<v Speaker 3>Cindema wedding gift. But congratulations, brother, we have another reason

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<v Speaker 3>to celebrate today, Yes we do.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm so excited, so happy.

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<v Speaker 3>Fabulous guests in the studio, the best, the best, I mean,

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<v Speaker 3>you were unofficial expert of the unofficial expert, truly one

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<v Speaker 3>of the stars of Abbot Elementary, one of the stars. Yes,

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<v Speaker 3>and all number seven on the call, all all all

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<v Speaker 3>things theater and plays and greatness.

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<v Speaker 2>Larry Owens is in the building and.

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<v Speaker 1>The building, the building.

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<v Speaker 4>I just put gum with that moment.

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<v Speaker 2>That's a mess. Yeah, chewing chewing gum, chewing on the pod.

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<v Speaker 5>You don't yet, I know, doing around no respect.

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<v Speaker 3>You're gonna swallow it, you swallow it? Yeah, you're not.

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<v Speaker 3>You truly can't chew on the past.

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<v Speaker 1>Crazy get that you needed you making me swallows crazy?

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<v Speaker 2>Swallow?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you saying that this is not your your mother?

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<v Speaker 5>Wow?

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<v Speaker 2>Seconds whoa.

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<v Speaker 4>You got Okay, that's my phone charger.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I sort of kicked it out of the plug

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<v Speaker 5>at twenty person, I can get down the road.

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<v Speaker 2>No, no, no, I mean if you need to do it,

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<v Speaker 2>just at any point, we could do it and put

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<v Speaker 2>it on put it on airplane mode.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I just don't need this live camera to see

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<v Speaker 5>me sort of plugging in an the bias.

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<v Speaker 2>Give me your phone. Take that gum off, the loose

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<v Speaker 2>gum off.

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<v Speaker 3>You have gum for later on the phone, Larry.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a lot of mess going on, this whole thing.

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<v Speaker 4>Actually, yes, an invoice from iHeart.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, you break it, you buy it, break it, you

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<v Speaker 1>buy it.

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<v Speaker 5>I can reach it.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>And you know who didn't do this when they came

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<v Speaker 1>to I heeart Riah car Sure didn't quen remove them?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah right here? Yeah, yeah, I don't really need to

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<v Speaker 5>Wikipedia anything.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay.

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<v Speaker 5>I know everything about you too, Yeah, okay, you know everything.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Middle, you're putting more gum in your mouth.

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<v Speaker 1>This is chaos, This is truly Wow. I can't believe

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<v Speaker 1>we're off the rails.

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<v Speaker 2>This put more don't come out?

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<v Speaker 5>Whoa?

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<v Speaker 2>We said?

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<v Speaker 3>You know it's crazy because the title now the pod

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<v Speaker 3>truly becoming the titles every.

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<v Speaker 4>Time you want to be in the studio with us.

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<v Speaker 1>You got it, Maria carric Ma, Malary car Larry, They're

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<v Speaker 1>going to when you post this on Patreon, eventually they're

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<v Speaker 1>going to see it.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, this is edits, which is why I didn't want

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<v Speaker 4>to bend over.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Larry, do you have any thoughts on what you

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<v Speaker 1>heard so far from the first half?

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<v Speaker 5>The first of all, congratulations chef Drew, Drew cousin Drew,

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<v Speaker 5>I really do, I know everything.

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<v Speaker 4>And Drew is just what an upstanding man.

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<v Speaker 2>He is so good, a good man.

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<v Speaker 5>We're just really happy for your family movie. And we're

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<v Speaker 5>actually really happy to hear about the inner workings of Mets.

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<v Speaker 4>Sort of the mess that made you so that is

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<v Speaker 4>maybe is sort.

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<v Speaker 2>Of king of the mess. You're princess mass Yeah, isn't

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<v Speaker 2>your genetic.

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<v Speaker 5>It's I love to hear that. And honestly, like, there's

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<v Speaker 5>nothing like good petty mess.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, yeah, the.

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<v Speaker 5>Petty or the mess actually kind of like the better.

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<v Speaker 5>It tastes like a little or dirt. Yeah, you know

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<v Speaker 5>what I mean. You get like a little like caviar

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<v Speaker 5>chip with crem fresh. You like, that's like, you know,

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<v Speaker 5>when the mess is small, now the global mess is

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<v Speaker 5>less funny.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, the global mess is people are dying every day.

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<v Speaker 2>Everything was a dress, right.

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<v Speaker 1>The petite mess is like this is.

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<v Speaker 2>I love your mom.

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<v Speaker 3>So I when you when you were texting me this,

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, wait, okay, like I don't want a

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<v Speaker 3>feelings to be heard.

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<v Speaker 4>Also, she kind of needs this small drama.

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<v Speaker 5>This is what makes her indie film of her life,

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<v Speaker 5>like after a twenty four films.

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<v Speaker 4>Dress dress, you know what I mean, he's already doing it. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>I got a time child.

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<v Speaker 5>I can't know new projects okay, Yeah, we can't nothing

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<v Speaker 5>up off the side of the road.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, is that what you call me?

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<v Speaker 5>No?

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<v Speaker 4>You know that film is going to be gorgeous.

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<v Speaker 5>That's going to take five years to bring it from

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<v Speaker 5>and I charge you with that. And in regards to

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<v Speaker 5>your mess, yeah, hiding oneself is mess.

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<v Speaker 4>I did the same thing one birthday.

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<v Speaker 5>I didn't post and then I found myself inside with

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<v Speaker 5>you know, my you know, my my move your musicals

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<v Speaker 5>being like where's the fanfare? And mind you, the fanfare

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<v Speaker 5>is out there even if we think we don't need it,

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<v Speaker 5>because it's actually not about vanity or ego, Like I

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<v Speaker 5>did try to explain this to you because you.

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<v Speaker 2>Were like wait, you were like you know, you were like, wait,

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<v Speaker 2>but I don't calling you.

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<v Speaker 5>I was, Oh, but yes, It's like it's actually an

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<v Speaker 5>acknowledgment that this life is tough as fuck and like

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<v Speaker 5>your body, no matter what the fuck you think happened,

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<v Speaker 5>went through three hundred and sixty five days like everybody else,

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<v Speaker 5>and we're just gonna acknowledge and celebrate that, and like

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<v Speaker 5>it kind of spiritually needs to be done because and

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<v Speaker 5>you don't get to the world alone.

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<v Speaker 1>And the birthday, the birthday day is so nice because

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<v Speaker 1>it's like people that you haven't spoken to in weeks, months,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe since your day, they pop back up and they're

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<v Speaker 1>like hey, and I like calling people on their birthdays

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<v Speaker 1>because I know that they're busy, so the calls.

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<v Speaker 2>Will be shure, Yeah, how you doing today, Happy birthday?

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<v Speaker 2>Don't want to hold you, gotta go.

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<v Speaker 4>Exactly, And that's what you wanted to feel.

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<v Speaker 5>You wanted to feel like like even just one would

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<v Speaker 5>have been one versus zero. Now happened zero was fucked

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<v Speaker 5>up feeling Yeah, but it was exactly what you asked for.

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<v Speaker 5>Who but going away to.

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<v Speaker 4>A foreign country with the park and not posting on

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<v Speaker 4>social media.

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<v Speaker 2>Shoot me up.

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<v Speaker 5>Volition you chose, yeah, volition, Yeah, down into the mic

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<v Speaker 5>Hey positive for both. It's so delicious. Let's keep it small.

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<v Speaker 5>Let's keep it smallst keep it unimportant, and then acknowledge

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<v Speaker 5>ourselves like it's gonna feel tough. Like it's like life

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<v Speaker 5>is mess like it's messy, which means that you know,

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<v Speaker 5>every cooking has clean up. So if you're gonna enjoy

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<v Speaker 5>the food, yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Larry owen.

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<v Speaker 1>The video camera, but you're all around, maybe you're on

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<v Speaker 1>Every cooking has a clean up.

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<v Speaker 5>Now you enjoy the food, you have a writer up

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<v Speaker 5>and you also have to there's a.

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<v Speaker 1>Little creative there's reads out loud. Now you hear it now, Larry,

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<v Speaker 1>I love you now, Larry? What what?

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<v Speaker 2>What? What is your mess?

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<v Speaker 5>Okay?

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<v Speaker 4>My mess is it's it's I don't.

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<v Speaker 2>Didn't pare a mess?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, chewing gum didn't bring mess?

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<v Speaker 4>Is my mess? Like truly like having to arrive here.

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<v Speaker 5>And like both like put like my voice into this thing.

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<v Speaker 5>And also now we go on camera, so like now

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<v Speaker 5>like look amazing?

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<v Speaker 4>Do I look?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay?

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<v Speaker 4>All right? So and then you know you just go

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<v Speaker 4>off the dome.

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<v Speaker 5>You know, it's it's wild and yeah, I do think

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<v Speaker 5>you know, some people with microphones, not the girls in

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<v Speaker 5>this room, are responsible for a lot of the collapse

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<v Speaker 5>of society. Can you have all the cards? It really democratized.

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<v Speaker 5>We used to have to get cleared and pass a

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<v Speaker 5>step up on stage and like hold attention. Not anymore,

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<v Speaker 5>people just recline. I don't want to go negative on the.

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<v Speaker 2>No, no, no, no, you're going no, that is my mess.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, no, no, no, Your negative in that house is hilarious.

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<v Speaker 1>That's another type of the pot. Now you could do both,

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<v Speaker 1>though you can you go in and out.

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<v Speaker 5>No, but my mess is that, like I like, I'm like,

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<v Speaker 5>I want to lean into the mess of it and

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<v Speaker 5>like not even choose.

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<v Speaker 2>Your episode will be the messiest one we've ever Yes,

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<v Speaker 2>we do. Yeah, the episode.

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<v Speaker 4>We love that.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, inside the Messa verse, Well I will I will

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<v Speaker 1>say this because we are close.

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<v Speaker 4>Right.

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<v Speaker 3>You don't like podcasting yourself because you don't want to

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<v Speaker 3>reveal you're vulnerable.

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<v Speaker 5>No, don't want to do anything actually for the Wikipedia.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah is gay?

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<v Speaker 4>I like that?

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<v Speaker 1>Also a great titles gay.

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<v Speaker 5>Actually really love it.

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<v Speaker 2>That's all your Wikipedia said, I think.

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<v Speaker 5>I haven't been, but like there's like a personal life,

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<v Speaker 5>you know, and it's like let's look up.

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<v Speaker 1>You know.

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<v Speaker 2>I love Wow. It doesn't need to be too much.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I don't want to have to scroll too

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<v Speaker 2>much to see things.

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<v Speaker 5>No, No, it's it's definitely like it's an amazing like

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<v Speaker 5>way of getting the audiences. Like you two are the

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<v Speaker 5>best at the form, like the joy and like the

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<v Speaker 5>surprising moment and the guessing the relationship between you two,

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<v Speaker 5>Like it's so like.

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<v Speaker 4>You were actually like you know, on the pioneering end

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<v Speaker 4>of it.

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<v Speaker 1>So of this art, your heart a bitch pioneers.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm so Julie on my back.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay.

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<v Speaker 3>So the one thing about podcasting for you, you don't

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<v Speaker 3>want to give extra because you already gave so much

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<v Speaker 3>like in real life.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, it's like, you know, like the work really I

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<v Speaker 5>love the work speaking for itself. Like I'm so interested

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<v Speaker 5>in people's work in their process, and I think that

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<v Speaker 5>that's so generous of artists to give over and so

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<v Speaker 5>then to like give over more. It's like we actually

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<v Speaker 5>have people doing these jobs now, you know, influencers and

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<v Speaker 5>reality stars, like they don't make art.

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<v Speaker 4>So you know, have them.

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<v Speaker 2>Die influencers and reality stars.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but like let's talk about that, right, Like can

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<v Speaker 1>we talk about reality stars? Which ones anyone that you

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<v Speaker 1>want to talk about? Because you are you are a

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<v Speaker 1>reality TV fan?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I watched I watched Salt Lake. I just finished

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<v Speaker 4>that reunion.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you watch the Salt Lake When Mary Mary is good?

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<v Speaker 4>Mary's coming back? You don't even Marry.

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<v Speaker 2>Mary took the cake. She took the cake.

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<v Speaker 5>It's Mary's arc Marie, Like just from Mary alone, she

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<v Speaker 5>left for a little bit. Don't have to watch that, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>but from like watch season one where she's like, what, like,

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<v Speaker 5>what the hell am I doing on TV? And then

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<v Speaker 5>she comes back after her little break. She knows what

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<v Speaker 5>she's doing on TV.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, which is very beautiful to see because now everyone

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<v Speaker 3>gets on reality and they know they're in reality TV,

0:21:51.440 --> 0:21:52.880
<v Speaker 3>and they're like are they already picked?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, who I'm going to be?

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<v Speaker 1>And it's already it's too calculated, calculated, and they're preoccupied,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's like, where's the funny.

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<v Speaker 5>You're not leaving any room for what actually being a

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<v Speaker 5>housewife is.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's what the beast, that's the monster of the housewives, right.

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<v Speaker 1>The first seasons of it, it was like legit women,

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<v Speaker 1>just you know that have money, and we're doing their

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<v Speaker 1>own makeup, and we're wearing stuff from Barney's or Bloomingdale's

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<v Speaker 1>or Sacks or whatever, coals.

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<v Speaker 2>And maybe not coals.

0:22:20.760 --> 0:22:24.439
<v Speaker 1>And they were just saying funny things and being like

0:22:24.480 --> 0:22:27.000
<v Speaker 1>going to events and having a good time. And now

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<v Speaker 1>it's like I'm trying to sell a wine, I'm trying

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<v Speaker 1>to get a spin off, I'm trying to start.

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<v Speaker 2>My own wig line, and it's like they're trying to

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<v Speaker 2>sell a brand.

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<v Speaker 5>Salt Lake Works because it is this weird microcosm, like

0:22:38.600 --> 0:22:40.959
<v Speaker 5>they're kind of secluded, like and nothing else going on

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<v Speaker 5>in Salt Lake besides kind of the petty mess, right,

0:22:44.320 --> 0:22:46.880
<v Speaker 5>and then they also have this backdrop of religion and

0:22:46.920 --> 0:22:49.600
<v Speaker 5>like Marianda Church and a lot of them are Mormons.

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<v Speaker 5>Like that also just kind of gives a little, you know,

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<v Speaker 5>a little specificity. Like now the coastal ones are a

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<v Speaker 5>little too wide. It's like the New York girls wouldn't

0:22:57.760 --> 0:22:59.600
<v Speaker 5>be in the same room. Not in twenty twenty five.

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<v Speaker 3>Now I'm so upset. I'm so upset that they let

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<v Speaker 3>New York go like this. I'm so it was so

0:23:05.920 --> 0:23:10.680
<v Speaker 3>fun before Derenda, Ramona Luan Sonya, like those those witch

0:23:10.720 --> 0:23:12.520
<v Speaker 3>just came in there, like I don't care what anybody thinks.

0:23:12.520 --> 0:23:14.320
<v Speaker 3>We're gonna be racist, We're gonna be stupid. I'm gonna

0:23:14.320 --> 0:23:16.639
<v Speaker 3>be bad with money. My house got a lean on it. Whatever,

0:23:16.800 --> 0:23:18.840
<v Speaker 3>let's go. My house got a lean on it.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's go.

0:23:19.600 --> 0:23:23.119
<v Speaker 4>I know they they were, they were so good.

0:23:23.480 --> 0:23:26.000
<v Speaker 5>I think New York reached a tipping point where it

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<v Speaker 5>was like, you're out of tricks now, those that set

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<v Speaker 5>of women. But I feel like there was something that

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<v Speaker 5>they could have done to just shake that set up

0:23:32.400 --> 0:23:36.600
<v Speaker 5>or like same same series that's like like have like

0:23:36.600 --> 0:23:39.680
<v Speaker 5>a little fifteen minutes manhat fifteen minutes Brooklyn.

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<v Speaker 2>Like something something time.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, girl slowly introduced some girls who like actually know

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<v Speaker 5>each other. Yeah, and it's meant to be different. But yeah,

0:23:49.560 --> 0:23:50.480
<v Speaker 5>it's a shame. It's a shame.

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<v Speaker 3>Nobody has a memorable line. Give me the like, no,

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<v Speaker 3>like watch Niini Leaks and come back, take a class, do.

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<v Speaker 4>Something emblematic of culture.

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<v Speaker 5>Me was spilling her well from hanging out with some

0:24:03.600 --> 0:24:06.720
<v Speaker 5>good old black gays in Atlanta. So when you aren't

0:24:06.720 --> 0:24:08.880
<v Speaker 5>getting Nani Leaks and I know that between black women

0:24:08.920 --> 0:24:11.280
<v Speaker 5>and queer black men there's a cultural exchanged. Chicken egg,

0:24:11.320 --> 0:24:12.720
<v Speaker 5>I know who started it.

0:24:12.840 --> 0:24:13.800
<v Speaker 2>You don't know, we don't know.

0:24:14.280 --> 0:24:16.000
<v Speaker 1>It's the black woman because they gave birth to the

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<v Speaker 1>black man, okay.

0:24:17.240 --> 0:24:19.960
<v Speaker 4>Or it's the black gays have to defy the black women.

0:24:20.000 --> 0:24:21.679
<v Speaker 4>It's homophobia.

0:24:22.119 --> 0:24:25.160
<v Speaker 1>No, no, you wouldn't be here.

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<v Speaker 5>If it wasn't for a black woman woman as a

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<v Speaker 5>black man. Only my privilege, I'll concede. Okay, okaymen, yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>make it easy. But I hear what you're saying exactly,

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<v Speaker 5>but saying that Nemi is bringing that to her reads.

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<v Speaker 4>Reading.

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<v Speaker 5>Shade came from reading. Reading came first. This is a

0:24:44.320 --> 0:24:47.600
<v Speaker 5>quote from Paris is Burning. And then we have in

0:24:47.640 --> 0:24:51.680
<v Speaker 5>the mid twenty tens, white people saying she's shading her.

0:24:52.080 --> 0:24:55.840
<v Speaker 5>You don't shade anyone, You throw shade.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay to teach.

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<v Speaker 5>And Hires built off Atlanta, popped it Jersey for the

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<v Speaker 5>table who.

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<v Speaker 3>Prostitution, whror horror, eyebrows non existent. That's forehead on zero

0:25:18.680 --> 0:25:19.360
<v Speaker 3>negative head.

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<v Speaker 2>Great, great title. I'll take that. Yeah, I wish for that.

0:25:23.040 --> 0:25:25.320
<v Speaker 2>That's one of my for sure.

0:25:25.760 --> 0:25:28.720
<v Speaker 5>You know, but Mary Mary learned organically. Mary like she came,

0:25:28.800 --> 0:25:30.320
<v Speaker 5>she kind of fell in her face. Were like, you're

0:25:30.359 --> 0:25:32.440
<v Speaker 5>so weird and she could have crumbled, but she came

0:25:32.480 --> 0:25:36.960
<v Speaker 5>back weirder than ever, like leaning. And then the season

0:25:37.000 --> 0:25:39.200
<v Speaker 5>with her her son's addiction, just like.

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<v Speaker 3>The love that, but not love addiction. But they love

0:25:41.920 --> 0:25:45.160
<v Speaker 3>when you are vulnerable. They love it when they know you.

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<v Speaker 5>Are actually remarkable, because you would think from three seasons

0:25:48.640 --> 0:25:51.639
<v Speaker 5>of Salt Lake that Mary can't you know, I can't

0:25:52.080 --> 0:25:54.400
<v Speaker 5>be there from for someone like you kind of doubt

0:25:54.440 --> 0:25:58.960
<v Speaker 5>her as a spiritual leader, and she actually did. She

0:25:59.119 --> 0:26:02.760
<v Speaker 5>practiced what she each in that moment. No me, I'm

0:26:02.760 --> 0:26:06.520
<v Speaker 5>a synec I'm watching I'm like production cut, voiceover cut,

0:26:06.680 --> 0:26:11.720
<v Speaker 5>like the match, look at the wine classes. I'm not

0:26:11.800 --> 0:26:14.960
<v Speaker 5>really watching reality with my heart open. But you know,

0:26:15.040 --> 0:26:17.040
<v Speaker 5>Mary got a little got me a little misty.

0:26:17.280 --> 0:26:19.880
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I didn't have the journey fun.

0:26:20.000 --> 0:26:21.600
<v Speaker 3>No, she did because it was like I was like,

0:26:21.640 --> 0:26:23.959
<v Speaker 3>I don't have a son, but I've dealt with addiction.

0:26:24.119 --> 0:26:26.399
<v Speaker 3>And where she where she was coming from, I was like,

0:26:26.800 --> 0:26:29.560
<v Speaker 3>that's what he needs, he needs that. I was like, yes,

0:26:30.000 --> 0:26:32.879
<v Speaker 3>this is exactly how you're supposed to look at it.

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<v Speaker 2>Damn, I don't I don't watch something but if you there,

0:26:35.880 --> 0:26:38.399
<v Speaker 2>there's clips on it. There's clips. I did watch Secret

0:26:38.440 --> 0:26:40.240
<v Speaker 2>Life of Mormons? Is that was? What was that? The

0:26:40.280 --> 0:26:43.399
<v Speaker 2>show Mormons of what are the sex Lives of?

0:26:44.520 --> 0:26:44.680
<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

0:26:44.680 --> 0:26:45.959
<v Speaker 2>I watched a couple of episodes of that.

0:26:46.080 --> 0:26:48.640
<v Speaker 1>They all look the same and they right, yeah, they

0:26:48.640 --> 0:26:50.040
<v Speaker 1>all have the same extensions.

0:26:50.080 --> 0:26:51.720
<v Speaker 2>They go to the same lady they go to. It's

0:26:51.720 --> 0:26:58.240
<v Speaker 2>the same place. They all soaking together, you know, yeah, soaking.

0:26:58.480 --> 0:26:59.240
<v Speaker 4>We all know this.

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<v Speaker 5>That's TikTok. Yeah, there's no other reason. Yeah, people just

0:27:06.880 --> 0:27:10.560
<v Speaker 5>be like soaking throwing it out there. You didn't learn

0:27:10.600 --> 0:27:11.080
<v Speaker 5>it from.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, because I had a show the other day and

0:27:15.720 --> 0:27:17.600
<v Speaker 1>there was a couple in the audience, but there was

0:27:17.640 --> 0:27:19.760
<v Speaker 1>a person sitting between them, and I was like, why

0:27:19.760 --> 0:27:22.080
<v Speaker 1>aren't y'all not sitting next to each other? And the

0:27:22.080 --> 0:27:23.760
<v Speaker 1>guy was like, we're Mormon. And I was like, oh,

0:27:23.960 --> 0:27:25.040
<v Speaker 1>is the friend in the middle of the one that

0:27:25.119 --> 0:27:28.960
<v Speaker 1>shakes the bed? Everybody laughed, and the people who didn't laugh,

0:27:29.000 --> 0:27:30.240
<v Speaker 1>I said, oh, y'all not on sick took.

0:27:31.359 --> 0:27:32.480
<v Speaker 2>I don't know about the Mormon.

0:27:32.760 --> 0:27:34.880
<v Speaker 5>But then, okay, let's talk a little about so TikTok

0:27:34.920 --> 0:27:37.160
<v Speaker 5>was that was my original number one that was coming here.

0:27:37.240 --> 0:27:38.840
<v Speaker 2>That was your mess is mess.

0:27:39.160 --> 0:27:41.960
<v Speaker 5>It had a stronghold on me. It was gripping my

0:27:42.040 --> 0:27:42.800
<v Speaker 5>brain cells.

0:27:43.040 --> 0:27:45.080
<v Speaker 2>So why is it mess? What's on it or what

0:27:45.119 --> 0:27:45.920
<v Speaker 2>it's done to you?

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<v Speaker 5>I think what it's done to the country, what it's

0:27:49.680 --> 0:27:53.040
<v Speaker 5>done to entertainment, to the idea of the entertainment industry,

0:27:53.760 --> 0:27:56.119
<v Speaker 5>and yeah, like what it does to our attend like

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<v Speaker 5>to art, Like we don't understand that this value time

0:28:00.560 --> 0:28:03.719
<v Speaker 5>we spend on there is the time that like we

0:28:03.760 --> 0:28:06.800
<v Speaker 5>need to be using for powder revolution.

0:28:07.080 --> 0:28:09.240
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, oh yeah, but that's what they're but they're doing.

0:28:09.480 --> 0:28:11.359
<v Speaker 3>But they believe that they're doing the revolution on the

0:28:11.400 --> 0:28:12.160
<v Speaker 3>TikTok and.

0:28:12.119 --> 0:28:15.120
<v Speaker 4>You can't and you can't do it like.

0:28:15.560 --> 0:28:17.760
<v Speaker 2>They say they're doing the work here. You like, you can't.

0:28:17.760 --> 0:28:20.240
<v Speaker 2>You can only free Palestine while you're on the t

0:28:20.359 --> 0:28:21.720
<v Speaker 2>t feting.

0:28:21.520 --> 0:28:24.400
<v Speaker 5>Into you're feeling into the oppressor as you do. It's

0:28:24.400 --> 0:28:26.600
<v Speaker 5>like it's hard. Obviously there's no like ethical consumption, but

0:28:26.680 --> 0:28:30.720
<v Speaker 5>like you can literally get your news, organization, entertainment elsewhere,

0:28:30.880 --> 0:28:32.320
<v Speaker 5>you know what I mean. This isn't like the one

0:28:32.359 --> 0:28:35.040
<v Speaker 5>grocery store in the hood. This is what you're doing

0:28:35.040 --> 0:28:37.639
<v Speaker 5>with your time. And really it was just like having

0:28:37.640 --> 0:28:39.840
<v Speaker 5>it be taken away and then giving back as a

0:28:39.920 --> 0:28:44.960
<v Speaker 5>gift from the pident. Oh, I will never be grateful.

0:28:45.040 --> 0:28:47.840
<v Speaker 5>I will like thank you, Like this can't be a

0:28:47.880 --> 0:28:49.920
<v Speaker 5>gift giving it back.

0:28:50.280 --> 0:28:51.400
<v Speaker 2>The propaganda of it all.

0:28:51.440 --> 0:28:54.320
<v Speaker 1>It was like, we're going to work with President Trump

0:28:54.440 --> 0:28:55.840
<v Speaker 1>to be back soon hopefully.

0:28:55.920 --> 0:28:59.440
<v Speaker 2>And then it went away for like ten minutes minutes

0:28:59.560 --> 0:28:59.840
<v Speaker 2>it was.

0:29:00.040 --> 0:29:01.960
<v Speaker 1>And then they got back and they were like rejoicing

0:29:02.120 --> 0:29:03.200
<v Speaker 1>President Trump and.

0:29:03.120 --> 0:29:05.880
<v Speaker 2>It was like he hasn't even become president.

0:29:06.120 --> 0:29:08.600
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, And they were like, you know what, we're gonna

0:29:08.600 --> 0:29:11.040
<v Speaker 1>get on red Note, We're gonna learn Mandarin. And I

0:29:11.120 --> 0:29:15.640
<v Speaker 1>was like, you can't read.

0:29:15.680 --> 0:29:18.560
<v Speaker 5>You don't want manifest I was like, was like, I

0:29:18.600 --> 0:29:20.520
<v Speaker 5>did not know. It was so fast on Commonist. It

0:29:20.600 --> 0:29:22.760
<v Speaker 5>was like that was a jump. It was sound right

0:29:22.800 --> 0:29:25.600
<v Speaker 5>over Socialism. They're like, go for it. This is crazy.

0:29:25.960 --> 0:29:28.760
<v Speaker 1>It stressed me out for shoot, at the moment, I

0:29:28.840 --> 0:29:31.480
<v Speaker 1>was like, because I didn't want people to think like, oh,

0:29:31.520 --> 0:29:33.240
<v Speaker 1>I don't want TikTok because I don't want people get money,

0:29:33.240 --> 0:29:37.240
<v Speaker 1>because obviously people are using it for marketing and getting

0:29:37.240 --> 0:29:39.640
<v Speaker 1>their audience, and I love that they're going. But at

0:29:39.680 --> 0:29:41.479
<v Speaker 1>the moment that I was like, it's almost gonna it's

0:29:41.520 --> 0:29:42.160
<v Speaker 1>gonna be gone.

0:29:42.520 --> 0:29:45.200
<v Speaker 2>Fuck, maybe we'll get back to like how it used

0:29:45.240 --> 0:29:46.680
<v Speaker 2>to be, like.

0:29:46.800 --> 0:29:50.520
<v Speaker 3>Being you know, connected and not so focused on being

0:29:50.640 --> 0:29:54.400
<v Speaker 3>perceived and putting ourselves in this marketing bubble.

0:29:54.800 --> 0:29:58.040
<v Speaker 2>That's what I was excited. I was like, Okay, maybe we'll.

0:29:57.920 --> 0:30:01.120
<v Speaker 3>Just start existing that That's what I was excited for.

0:30:01.280 --> 0:30:03.560
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, serve a double edged sword because the access and

0:30:03.640 --> 0:30:06.360
<v Speaker 5>reach of it is so great. Obviously, like anyone anywhere

0:30:06.400 --> 0:30:09.360
<v Speaker 5>can post a video and it could in minutes be

0:30:09.440 --> 0:30:12.640
<v Speaker 5>seen by millions of people. But I think just as

0:30:12.720 --> 0:30:15.200
<v Speaker 5>thinking people, and I'm only talking to thinking people now.

0:30:15.280 --> 0:30:18.200
<v Speaker 5>If you're making now if you're if you're a contrarian,

0:30:18.560 --> 0:30:20.880
<v Speaker 5>if you are, it's not a rd ass if you're

0:30:20.920 --> 0:30:23.120
<v Speaker 5>a butt, but but if you're a Devil's advocate, like.

0:30:23.160 --> 0:30:25.960
<v Speaker 4>Please jez the room, Yeah it acrs.

0:30:26.960 --> 0:30:30.800
<v Speaker 5>They're thinking person, just like ask yourself, like if something

0:30:30.880 --> 0:30:33.240
<v Speaker 5>is easily given, how easy is it to take away?

0:30:33.680 --> 0:30:35.880
<v Speaker 5>And so we actually saw that in those fourteen hours.

0:30:35.920 --> 0:30:38.400
<v Speaker 5>It's like all these people's livelihood, the people were depending

0:30:38.440 --> 0:30:41.800
<v Speaker 5>on that they got from this very relative, you know,

0:30:41.920 --> 0:30:45.440
<v Speaker 5>accessible medium was then able to be taken away and

0:30:45.520 --> 0:30:46.600
<v Speaker 5>all the benefits.

0:30:46.440 --> 0:30:49.200
<v Speaker 1>And they did it early they were like, on the nineteenth,

0:30:49.240 --> 0:30:50.920
<v Speaker 1>it is going to go. And then on the eighteenth

0:30:51.000 --> 0:30:52.400
<v Speaker 1>and Tampion people were like.

0:30:52.320 --> 0:30:55.800
<v Speaker 2>What it's gone, It's like, what's going on?

0:30:57.040 --> 0:30:58.760
<v Speaker 1>Doct They said, we're trying to get out of here early.

0:30:58.840 --> 0:31:01.000
<v Speaker 1>Let's just unplug it, lug it now so I can

0:31:01.080 --> 0:31:02.160
<v Speaker 1>go home to my wife.

0:31:02.280 --> 0:31:03.520
<v Speaker 5>That's going. Yeah.

0:31:03.560 --> 0:31:06.080
<v Speaker 4>I haven't posted on i G at all year.

0:31:06.400 --> 0:31:07.720
<v Speaker 2>It's hard all year.

0:31:07.840 --> 0:31:09.520
<v Speaker 4>I know, I'm really trying to upstate.

0:31:09.760 --> 0:31:14.080
<v Speaker 1>Why Sydney on her birthday?

0:31:14.840 --> 0:31:17.200
<v Speaker 5>Well, when I deleted TikTok, I did read seven books

0:31:17.200 --> 0:31:17.840
<v Speaker 5>in two weeks.

0:31:18.160 --> 0:31:21.040
<v Speaker 2>Shut up? Yeah, wait, seven real books.

0:31:21.120 --> 0:31:22.920
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it's various sizes.

0:31:22.680 --> 0:31:24.640
<v Speaker 2>But you were you're a reader before that, so don't

0:31:24.640 --> 0:31:25.120
<v Speaker 2>even do that.

0:31:27.000 --> 0:31:28.960
<v Speaker 5>But why couldn't I hold the sentence when I'm going

0:31:29.000 --> 0:31:30.720
<v Speaker 5>four hours of talk? Why?

0:31:30.800 --> 0:31:32.120
<v Speaker 2>Why can't I? Why can I?

0:31:32.200 --> 0:31:37.120
<v Speaker 5>Why? Through them holding the bone? I dropped the phone

0:31:37.200 --> 0:31:38.120
<v Speaker 5>from here to my.

0:31:38.120 --> 0:31:42.720
<v Speaker 3>Face, glasses on my nose, on everything right on the

0:31:42.800 --> 0:31:43.480
<v Speaker 3>Jackson five.

0:31:47.880 --> 0:31:49.480
<v Speaker 2>It's true, it's happened to all of us.

0:31:49.600 --> 0:31:52.800
<v Speaker 5>And watching what I can't tell you? I can't tell you?

0:31:53.000 --> 0:31:55.120
<v Speaker 5>Why then something I can't tell you?

0:31:56.480 --> 0:32:02.600
<v Speaker 2>Okay? That was the test being tested by the tt T.

0:32:02.840 --> 0:32:05.600
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, so I just really wanted to reclaim, honestly, my focus.

0:32:05.880 --> 0:32:08.440
<v Speaker 5>I wanted to reclaim like my own internal voice, and

0:32:08.520 --> 0:32:12.480
<v Speaker 5>I wanted to reclaim just like how I think about

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<v Speaker 5>my art being positioned in the world.

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<v Speaker 1>But you're a genius though, like you're like you're not

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<v Speaker 1>like an average person.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay.

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<v Speaker 5>First of all, thank you, wow, Okay, whoa. And second

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<v Speaker 5>of all, I think that we all are more engaged

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<v Speaker 5>in alert than we give ourselves credit for. And that's

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<v Speaker 5>what TikTok does. It allows us to undermine our intelligence.

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<v Speaker 5>That's what Fox News does, That's what CNN does, That's

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<v Speaker 5>what the right conservative edge is trying to do. They're

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<v Speaker 5>trying to take people to their lowest common denominator, not

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<v Speaker 5>to the part of themselves. It says, oh, wait, we

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<v Speaker 5>actually can create enough renewable energy in six months to

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<v Speaker 5>sustain us and we never have to worry about ol again.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh if we just simply have like the emotional conversation

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<v Speaker 5>about the blight of slavery on our peoples and we

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<v Speaker 5>learn how to rehabilitate the white psyche after hundreds of

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<v Speaker 5>years of faux idea of privilege, and then.

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<v Speaker 4>Well you know what I mean, introduced the coexistence.

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<v Speaker 2>Have you still off TikTok?

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<v Speaker 1>He can't, he can't redownload it, he's not on I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know, but you can use it on the laptop.

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<v Speaker 4>Wait, is this true? Way I can't get back on it.

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<v Speaker 1>No, yeah, if you deleted it, delet didn't get back

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<v Speaker 1>well for me, thank you.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh yes, and listen to my practice and no I did.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean I feel what you're saying, because that's why

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<v Speaker 3>I like, I've been struggling. I was like an online

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<v Speaker 3>person and I've been struggling because I was like, yo.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm so caught up.

0:33:32.000 --> 0:33:35.240
<v Speaker 1>I'm so caught up with like how I want to

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<v Speaker 1>put stuff out?

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<v Speaker 2>How nomn how side so much? How it was it

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<v Speaker 2>was not for fun.

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<v Speaker 5>These things used to be fund out purely fun, and

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<v Speaker 5>they weren't coming for the government. I had downloaded the

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<v Speaker 5>back you know, if it was a load of you know,

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<v Speaker 5>little little something something.

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<v Speaker 4>But no, it's too much.

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<v Speaker 5>We were okay, So I before not posting everyone on Instagram,

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<v Speaker 5>I actually unarchived all of my posts. Yeah, right before

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<v Speaker 5>the end of twenty twenty four, so December, I was like, oh,

0:34:00.600 --> 0:34:03.800
<v Speaker 5>it's like y'all on archive and I.

0:34:03.720 --> 0:34:06.320
<v Speaker 2>Went, you know, I came for you when you archived exactly.

0:34:06.400 --> 0:34:09.040
<v Speaker 2>It was like, I was like, what's it's a different time.

0:34:09.880 --> 0:34:11.080
<v Speaker 4>It's a different time.

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<v Speaker 5>It was it was taking that transition from personal to

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<v Speaker 5>purely professional to you know, completely corporatized. We watched that

0:34:18.320 --> 0:34:22.080
<v Speaker 5>happen in seven years. We watched Instagram, so the fore

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<v Speaker 5>mother to TikTok, the like what we spend hours on.

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<v Speaker 4>We watched it, watched it be so fun.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, yeah, people used to post grainy photos of food

0:34:29.320 --> 0:34:31.080
<v Speaker 1>and put a weird filter on.

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<v Speaker 4>But I was on our memes.

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<v Speaker 2>The themes were like.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm taking a photo of your hat right now, and

0:34:36.080 --> 0:34:39.040
<v Speaker 5>been like ooring is my favorite color, and thirteen likes

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<v Speaker 5>to skip down the streets thirteen likes and all to

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<v Speaker 5>look dot on the train and like is and that's

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<v Speaker 5>that's it, you know what I mean. That's like a

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<v Speaker 5>photo cataloging thing, and now it's just so far from that.

0:34:49.840 --> 0:34:51.320
<v Speaker 4>But it used to be so fun.

0:34:51.360 --> 0:34:56.359
<v Speaker 5>And I understand, like our are that we want to connect,

0:34:56.640 --> 0:34:59.200
<v Speaker 5>like that's the most human thing ever. And I understand

0:34:59.200 --> 0:35:02.880
<v Speaker 5>that the phone makes it seem like the mirage literal

0:35:02.960 --> 0:35:05.240
<v Speaker 5>glass and light. It makes it seem like we're connected

0:35:05.280 --> 0:35:08.560
<v Speaker 5>with each other, but nothing is that substantial social media.

0:35:09.040 --> 0:35:11.520
<v Speaker 2>Social media. They're like, yeah, I have one hundred thousand friends,

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<v Speaker 2>and it's like.

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<v Speaker 3>Do you know because when it was my actual birthday,

0:35:15.360 --> 0:35:16.319
<v Speaker 3>the niggas didn't talk.

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<v Speaker 2>I have a sister.

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<v Speaker 5>I have it.

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<v Speaker 2>I legit have a sister.

0:35:20.480 --> 0:35:24.040
<v Speaker 3>That's why I have no my brother didn't call, and

0:35:24.080 --> 0:35:26.400
<v Speaker 3>I talked to my brother more, which is I.

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<v Speaker 2>Was like, this is something's not adding up AnyWho?

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, I agree, I think that, Like, uh, I actually

0:35:34.239 --> 0:35:36.200
<v Speaker 3>want to take it all the way back to my space.

0:35:36.320 --> 0:35:40.080
<v Speaker 3>That's yeah, I's coding.

0:35:40.239 --> 0:35:41.120
<v Speaker 4>We didn't even know.

0:35:42.200 --> 0:35:45.360
<v Speaker 2>I want the dollar, the dollar sign to rotate the.

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<v Speaker 5>Top eight, kind of like American's model Core. Yeah, it's

0:35:49.440 --> 0:35:51.799
<v Speaker 5>choosing now. Can you imagine it's choosing eight people? And

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<v Speaker 5>I will up there. I don't want to imagine image.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I don't want to. I don't want to have

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<v Speaker 2>to think about it.

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<v Speaker 5>But actually, you know what I want that what he

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<v Speaker 5>I am? What at a computer? Chat with you at

0:36:08.200 --> 0:36:08.760
<v Speaker 5>a computer?

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<v Speaker 1>I want to put an away message up and people

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<v Speaker 1>be like, gir, what you're doing over there?

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<v Speaker 5>Exactly exactly what would your way message be?

0:36:15.680 --> 0:36:15.880
<v Speaker 4>Right now?

0:36:15.920 --> 0:36:17.640
<v Speaker 2>They had the away message now on Instagram.

0:36:17.640 --> 0:36:20.000
<v Speaker 4>I don't like it, not I need more.

0:36:20.080 --> 0:36:22.000
<v Speaker 2>My way message right now would be in the stew

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<v Speaker 2>with my boot.

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<v Speaker 5>It's actually really good, but it's like head, it's to

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<v Speaker 5>the stew so we would tell them it was such

0:36:32.880 --> 0:36:36.319
<v Speaker 5>a gorgeous communication. You could be doing something talk and

0:36:36.360 --> 0:36:39.280
<v Speaker 5>talking to six people at once, long sentences.

0:36:39.640 --> 0:36:41.239
<v Speaker 2>But that's what texting is right now, like.

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<v Speaker 5>Much with the device, because why are you getting your

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<v Speaker 5>communication from me from the same place that you get

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<v Speaker 5>your videos?

0:36:49.239 --> 0:36:53.200
<v Speaker 2>And you and you want the separation in your email

0:36:53.320 --> 0:36:54.879
<v Speaker 2>and your email because you just.

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<v Speaker 4>Parasympathetically.

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<v Speaker 5>I believe that we feel the energy of like all

0:36:59.880 --> 0:37:02.839
<v Speaker 5>the power that our device holds, even if we don't confront.

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<v Speaker 4>It all the time.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, So now that you don't have any social media on.

0:37:05.800 --> 0:37:09.640
<v Speaker 1>Your phone on Instagram, I scrolled, Oh you're just not

0:37:09.640 --> 0:37:10.760
<v Speaker 1>posting it, no.

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<v Speaker 5>Posts, and I'm scrolling less because of this diet.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, So I forgot what my question was because it

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<v Speaker 1>turned out I was wrong.

0:37:19.160 --> 0:37:19.879
<v Speaker 4>What was it?

0:37:20.160 --> 0:37:22.719
<v Speaker 2>Oh, you were going to say, Oh, how how are

0:37:22.719 --> 0:37:23.600
<v Speaker 2>you spending your time?

0:37:23.640 --> 0:37:23.799
<v Speaker 4>Now?

0:37:24.200 --> 0:37:24.560
<v Speaker 2>How do you?

0:37:24.680 --> 0:37:27.480
<v Speaker 1>I mean you said you read seven books in two weeks.

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<v Speaker 1>Need to see the episod of these books. Did they

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<v Speaker 1>look like the gum packet.

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<v Speaker 3>That's fine, we'll post we'll post the books that you read.

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<v Speaker 3>We'll put it on the Yeah, but you're still post

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<v Speaker 3>it on the fence.

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<v Speaker 5>No, I don't even like that no more the fence

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<v Speaker 5>to ry. Everybody quiet wants to.

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<v Speaker 2>Be popping, really giving, like, oh, now I know.

0:37:50.080 --> 0:37:52.839
<v Speaker 4>You because you want to show the front.

0:37:52.840 --> 0:37:55.480
<v Speaker 2>They don't want to. It's crazy because you well, because

0:37:56.520 --> 0:37:59.000
<v Speaker 2>it's the leaks.

0:37:59.080 --> 0:38:02.399
<v Speaker 1>You can't trust people. People are inside of it now

0:38:02.800 --> 0:38:05.040
<v Speaker 1>and it's like, yo, you can't just keep it, like

0:38:05.120 --> 0:38:07.239
<v Speaker 1>even if you do know, don't let howther people know that?

0:38:07.320 --> 0:38:09.239
<v Speaker 2>You know? Like, why are you doing that?

0:38:09.239 --> 0:38:12.120
<v Speaker 3>That sucks up the whole reason why we're doing fincedown,

0:38:12.239 --> 0:38:13.040
<v Speaker 3>that's the whole point.

0:38:13.560 --> 0:38:15.759
<v Speaker 2>How do we feel about close friends closes?

0:38:15.920 --> 0:38:17.800
<v Speaker 5>I love being on it. There's a few green bubbles

0:38:17.840 --> 0:38:19.720
<v Speaker 5>that I love and I'm not even close with these people.

0:38:19.800 --> 0:38:21.879
<v Speaker 1>But oh every time somebody asks me to their close

0:38:21.880 --> 0:38:26.440
<v Speaker 1>friends still, now I'd be like.

0:38:25.320 --> 0:38:26.160
<v Speaker 4>I love it.

0:38:27.120 --> 0:38:29.799
<v Speaker 5>But yeah, there are two closes, and I'm just like

0:38:30.280 --> 0:38:33.200
<v Speaker 5>just happy to see these people go, you know, like

0:38:33.200 --> 0:38:35.680
<v Speaker 5>like some like some twenties, they're still in their twenties

0:38:35.800 --> 0:38:37.759
<v Speaker 5>and they're like having fun. I'm like, wait, this is

0:38:37.760 --> 0:38:39.200
<v Speaker 5>what this is what I would be doing if I

0:38:39.239 --> 0:38:41.920
<v Speaker 5>was Keatsy, Like I'm in my I'm in my transition.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm not dad, but I'm like giving young Dad.

0:38:44.440 --> 0:38:45.359
<v Speaker 2>You're giving young Dad.

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<v Speaker 5>I think my voice like, I'm like, hey, you still

0:38:50.960 --> 0:38:51.440
<v Speaker 5>sound like that.

0:38:51.800 --> 0:38:53.400
<v Speaker 4>Okay, dam's fucked up.

0:38:53.520 --> 0:38:55.680
<v Speaker 2>No, I think it's you're not on d T.

0:38:57.200 --> 0:38:59.200
<v Speaker 3>You got such a serious you know it goes with

0:38:59.239 --> 0:39:01.400
<v Speaker 3>the button now, but it's like.

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<v Speaker 5>Chair she was whispering, Well yeah, but you probably lean

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<v Speaker 5>in just a little bit and just say something right.

0:39:14.880 --> 0:39:15.359
<v Speaker 2>That the thing.

0:39:15.400 --> 0:39:20.080
<v Speaker 1>But that's also about being celebrity though I think, you know,

0:39:20.080 --> 0:39:20.759
<v Speaker 1>what are you doing?

0:39:26.160 --> 0:39:29.640
<v Speaker 2>I think that like, you know, that's but that's celebrity.

0:39:29.800 --> 0:39:32.440
<v Speaker 3>That's the difference between TikTok is, Like people want to

0:39:32.480 --> 0:39:35.160
<v Speaker 3>be famous, but they don't need to be a celebrity.

0:39:35.560 --> 0:39:37.640
<v Speaker 3>They're like, I'm going to be in this bonnet. I

0:39:37.640 --> 0:39:39.919
<v Speaker 3>didn't wash my face. I'm saying what I want.

0:39:40.120 --> 0:39:40.640
<v Speaker 2>I went by.

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<v Speaker 4>TikTok is a mess. TikTok loves when you're down.

0:39:43.400 --> 0:39:46.320
<v Speaker 2>When you're down bad, when you're spiraling.

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<v Speaker 4>You have a bond.

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<v Speaker 5>There's something wrong with black culture. From the hood Baltimore City.

0:39:50.719 --> 0:39:54.359
<v Speaker 5>But they want that. They definitely will take that over

0:39:54.400 --> 0:39:55.160
<v Speaker 5>glam any day.

0:39:55.360 --> 0:39:58.960
<v Speaker 2>They want to make up smeared, they want mess that.

0:39:59.600 --> 0:40:03.720
<v Speaker 5>They want that that or fresh Valentino every day.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, like like what what lane are you in?

0:40:06.360 --> 0:40:06.600
<v Speaker 5>Yeah?

0:40:06.680 --> 0:40:07.120
<v Speaker 2>TikTok.

0:40:07.160 --> 0:40:12.120
<v Speaker 1>They also love the like well put together, like good life,

0:40:12.200 --> 0:40:15.080
<v Speaker 1>hair is always done, get ready with me.

0:40:15.880 --> 0:40:16.920
<v Speaker 2>They also love.

0:40:16.760 --> 0:40:20.040
<v Speaker 5>That consumer culture when someone's like my day and they

0:40:20.080 --> 0:40:23.600
<v Speaker 5>like opened a drawer of like things packages and they

0:40:23.640 --> 0:40:26.040
<v Speaker 5>put that on top of another product like they do.

0:40:26.239 --> 0:40:28.240
<v Speaker 1>And then they have the TikTok shop like my links

0:40:28.360 --> 0:40:31.240
<v Speaker 1>and it's like okay, okay, it's like these.

0:40:31.080 --> 0:40:34.560
<v Speaker 2>Glasses from TikTok shop. No I actually got from. No

0:40:34.640 --> 0:40:35.319
<v Speaker 2>I got this from.

0:40:35.440 --> 0:40:42.239
<v Speaker 1>I went to Keangle store and they were yeah Jackson.

0:40:46.640 --> 0:40:51.759
<v Speaker 2>No, I think they both they both yeah, I would say,

0:40:52.440 --> 0:40:52.840
<v Speaker 2>but whatever.

0:40:53.600 --> 0:40:57.920
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but I think like the selling everything everybody's selling

0:40:57.920 --> 0:40:58.440
<v Speaker 3>ship on there.

0:40:58.640 --> 0:41:01.000
<v Speaker 5>Now. He's supposed to be good word and he's supposed

0:41:01.000 --> 0:41:02.560
<v Speaker 5>to be like, I'm really good at this thing.

0:41:02.760 --> 0:41:04.680
<v Speaker 4>It's not like I do this one thing only and

0:41:04.760 --> 0:41:06.160
<v Speaker 4>you will you know what I mean. It's like it.

0:41:07.719 --> 0:41:09.919
<v Speaker 5>There was a moment I was dancing around, like what

0:41:09.960 --> 0:41:13.960
<v Speaker 5>My participation on that website was like as a person

0:41:14.080 --> 0:41:17.360
<v Speaker 5>who like, as a person do you mean? And I

0:41:17.400 --> 0:41:22.520
<v Speaker 5>was just like, ultimately, I like an anti niche, like

0:41:22.560 --> 0:41:25.680
<v Speaker 5>a comedian who say, like, that's like, but both are niches.

0:41:26.120 --> 0:41:28.040
<v Speaker 5>It's two and one, you know what I mean. It's

0:41:28.040 --> 0:41:29.680
<v Speaker 5>like I'm an actor who's black, you know what I mean.

0:41:29.719 --> 0:41:31.560
<v Speaker 5>So it's like I'm not just like wipeway of the mind.

0:41:31.760 --> 0:41:35.680
<v Speaker 5>Like it's like so it's it's just it just requires

0:41:35.760 --> 0:41:39.000
<v Speaker 5>such single mindedness.

0:41:38.680 --> 0:41:42.160
<v Speaker 1>My tactic for TikTok now is just throwing everything at

0:41:42.200 --> 0:41:42.880
<v Speaker 1>the wall and whatever.

0:41:42.960 --> 0:41:43.520
<v Speaker 2>Stick sticks.

0:41:43.680 --> 0:41:46.520
<v Speaker 4>You're amazing, You're like, I'm just saying comedian to the bone.

0:41:46.640 --> 0:41:49.960
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I'm just like yeah. But like the stuff is

0:41:50.160 --> 0:41:50.839
<v Speaker 2>does really well.

0:41:50.880 --> 0:41:52.400
<v Speaker 1>And then a lot of the stuff recently is just

0:41:52.440 --> 0:41:55.480
<v Speaker 1>like okay, dude, it's nobody on TikTok I think it's

0:41:55.480 --> 0:41:58.960
<v Speaker 1>algorithmic racism. Algorithmic racism, thank you.

0:41:59.160 --> 0:42:01.040
<v Speaker 5>But and so that's like a little bit of like

0:42:01.040 --> 0:42:02.879
<v Speaker 5>the invisible insipid stuff. Yeah.

0:42:02.960 --> 0:42:06.680
<v Speaker 1>If I was blond and skinny and had blue eyes

0:42:07.040 --> 0:42:09.520
<v Speaker 1>and my dad was like a judge or something, I

0:42:09.560 --> 0:42:10.680
<v Speaker 1>would be in a poppy commercial.

0:42:10.719 --> 0:42:17.120
<v Speaker 4>Right now. I think you're gonna be a poppy commercial.

0:42:17.160 --> 0:42:18.880
<v Speaker 5>Now, TikTok wants you to think that you need all

0:42:18.920 --> 0:42:23.440
<v Speaker 5>those things a person. That means it's working. This is

0:42:23.480 --> 0:42:25.359
<v Speaker 5>not funny, y'all, but it is.

0:42:27.239 --> 0:42:30.400
<v Speaker 1>They're getting there fighting the tiktoctors to the Grammys. They

0:42:30.480 --> 0:42:33.040
<v Speaker 1>inviting them to the They're in Super Bowl ads, like.

0:42:33.080 --> 0:42:35.400
<v Speaker 2>At the mec Gala. They at the met Gala, Like

0:42:35.680 --> 0:42:39.920
<v Speaker 2>what table? Who sponsored a table for you? But they're there.

0:42:40.360 --> 0:42:42.520
<v Speaker 2>I mean, they're they're entertainers. They deserve it.

0:42:42.560 --> 0:42:45.719
<v Speaker 3>I've sat and watched it, you know, a seventeen part

0:42:45.800 --> 0:42:48.719
<v Speaker 3>thing on like you know, my brother slept with my

0:42:48.840 --> 0:42:51.239
<v Speaker 3>sister and now they got a baby together, and you.

0:42:51.200 --> 0:42:53.000
<v Speaker 2>Know, I'm going to the I'm going to the birthday

0:42:53.000 --> 0:42:54.520
<v Speaker 2>of the baby. Like what do the baby look like?

0:42:55.400 --> 0:42:56.880
<v Speaker 2>Show me a phone with the baby now.

0:42:57.560 --> 0:43:00.719
<v Speaker 3>But like I watched them, like okay, like this is

0:43:01.440 --> 0:43:02.600
<v Speaker 3>it'll be more compelling.

0:43:02.640 --> 0:43:04.040
<v Speaker 1>This some of the stuff that I see on TV.

0:43:04.120 --> 0:43:07.880
<v Speaker 1>And I'm like, you'll crazy. Remember Marisa Tisasa. She was

0:43:07.880 --> 0:43:10.360
<v Speaker 1>like a forty seven part series. I don't even know

0:43:10.360 --> 0:43:14.359
<v Speaker 1>what the final count was, but everybody like all over the.

0:43:14.320 --> 0:43:15.880
<v Speaker 5>World was Yeah, it was episodic.

0:43:16.040 --> 0:43:19.400
<v Speaker 3>But you think that like you're special, Like there was

0:43:19.440 --> 0:43:22.160
<v Speaker 3>a moment where you're like, oh, you're special and like

0:43:22.280 --> 0:43:25.440
<v Speaker 3>nobody else had this has happened to and there was

0:43:25.480 --> 0:43:29.319
<v Speaker 3>a moment where everything that's out there is like there's

0:43:29.360 --> 0:43:32.359
<v Speaker 3>only a few of it. Now, It's like I don't

0:43:32.360 --> 0:43:34.600
<v Speaker 3>feel that way, Like I think that I'm funny. I

0:43:34.600 --> 0:43:37.239
<v Speaker 3>know there's nobody's like me. The things that happened to

0:43:37.280 --> 0:43:39.560
<v Speaker 3>me happened to me, and then there's me. But then

0:43:39.600 --> 0:43:42.680
<v Speaker 3>I get on TikTok and I'm like, girl, there's millions

0:43:42.680 --> 0:43:45.839
<v Speaker 3>of people crazy. Shit is I'm not comparing. I'm just

0:43:45.880 --> 0:43:46.520
<v Speaker 3>this is a fact.

0:43:46.600 --> 0:43:49.879
<v Speaker 5>But you aren't comparing by virtue, by virtue looking at

0:43:49.880 --> 0:43:51.920
<v Speaker 5>other people relationship to your art.

0:43:52.920 --> 0:43:54.960
<v Speaker 4>No, it's just like why do your TikTok? Was my

0:43:54.960 --> 0:43:56.680
<v Speaker 4>life changed? Like what do I do? It's like I

0:43:56.760 --> 0:43:57.399
<v Speaker 4>literally just.

0:43:57.320 --> 0:43:59.920
<v Speaker 5>Like don't think about other people who like, you know,

0:44:00.040 --> 0:44:02.160
<v Speaker 5>work all day to make thirty second clips when I write,

0:44:02.320 --> 0:44:03.520
<v Speaker 5>you know, plays.

0:44:04.400 --> 0:44:05.680
<v Speaker 2>I create art.

0:44:06.520 --> 0:44:08.960
<v Speaker 4>I don't think about the art, you know what I mean?

0:44:09.120 --> 0:44:12.279
<v Speaker 5>Like and just yeah, I just really understand that, Like

0:44:12.280 --> 0:44:14.239
<v Speaker 5>oh my gosh, Like I'm on the Mess podcast. It's

0:44:14.280 --> 0:44:16.279
<v Speaker 5>like this is plenty of attention. You know what I

0:44:16.360 --> 0:44:17.719
<v Speaker 5>mean like I get to be a part of like

0:44:17.760 --> 0:44:20.000
<v Speaker 5>abb Elementary, Like that's plenty of attention.

0:44:20.239 --> 0:44:20.480
<v Speaker 4>You know.

0:44:20.640 --> 0:44:24.520
<v Speaker 5>It's like why why if this thing that I'm using

0:44:24.560 --> 0:44:27.399
<v Speaker 5>for fun makes me feel like I'm not doing something enough?

0:44:28.040 --> 0:44:31.319
<v Speaker 5>And that's for everyone. That's for like, like if you

0:44:31.400 --> 0:44:33.279
<v Speaker 5>are an artist at a record label, they're like, get

0:44:33.320 --> 0:44:36.239
<v Speaker 5>on TikTok and so you have a record deal and

0:44:36.280 --> 0:44:39.120
<v Speaker 5>you make me read music and play the piano and

0:44:39.160 --> 0:44:40.120
<v Speaker 5>they're telling you to.

0:44:40.080 --> 0:44:41.680
<v Speaker 2>Like get but about it.

0:44:45.920 --> 0:44:49.000
<v Speaker 3>Okay, you don't sound like Monique, but your Monique in

0:44:49.000 --> 0:44:49.799
<v Speaker 3>a blazer right now?

0:44:52.200 --> 0:44:54.399
<v Speaker 4>Every time, you know, I'm always on her side.

0:44:54.480 --> 0:44:59.840
<v Speaker 2>Yeah side, Yeah, I'm like yeah.

0:45:00.040 --> 0:45:01.799
<v Speaker 5>That was probably like one where I was like, okay,

0:45:01.840 --> 0:45:06.759
<v Speaker 5>I'm gonna give you know, Shannon got one. But like generally, yeah,

0:45:06.800 --> 0:45:08.720
<v Speaker 5>I'm very much a line with my bottom my stuff.

0:45:12.600 --> 0:45:33.280
<v Speaker 2>I love that. Thank you for sharing, Larry.

0:45:33.280 --> 0:45:36.800
<v Speaker 3>What do you do for fun? Like that has nothing

0:45:36.800 --> 0:45:39.040
<v Speaker 3>to do with comedy theater?

0:45:39.520 --> 0:45:39.719
<v Speaker 5>Yeah?

0:45:39.880 --> 0:45:42.879
<v Speaker 2>Work, work, reading? What else? What else are we doing?

0:45:43.160 --> 0:45:43.879
<v Speaker 2>Is the reading? The fun?

0:45:44.160 --> 0:45:45.520
<v Speaker 5>The reading is really fun. And I do go to

0:45:45.560 --> 0:45:48.520
<v Speaker 5>the library a lot.

0:45:48.560 --> 0:45:52.600
<v Speaker 2>They know you your part is platinum. You're a platinum library.

0:45:52.760 --> 0:45:54.200
<v Speaker 5>Do you know your public library that line.

0:45:54.480 --> 0:45:58.920
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, why podcast that line? I want to leaning in

0:45:58.960 --> 0:45:59.960
<v Speaker 2>for library.

0:45:59.640 --> 0:46:02.440
<v Speaker 1>To Yes, we don't we need the library, give it

0:46:02.440 --> 0:46:05.640
<v Speaker 1>to us what is happening there because we will. Famously,

0:46:05.760 --> 0:46:07.960
<v Speaker 1>Carrie Bradshaw was trying to get married in that library

0:46:08.000 --> 0:46:09.200
<v Speaker 1>and she did get stood up.

0:46:09.200 --> 0:46:11.799
<v Speaker 2>In that life, it did not happen. So one stuff

0:46:11.840 --> 0:46:12.280
<v Speaker 2>does happen.

0:46:12.280 --> 0:46:14.320
<v Speaker 5>A yeah, I know, I know go to the patients

0:46:14.320 --> 0:46:17.120
<v Speaker 5>afforded to when I go to a different one. But yeah,

0:46:17.160 --> 0:46:19.240
<v Speaker 5>I know there's a guy who, like it was definitely

0:46:19.280 --> 0:46:22.720
<v Speaker 5>a skeezer who sits at this one desk every time.

0:46:23.280 --> 0:46:25.319
<v Speaker 5>And if like a girl sits across from like a

0:46:25.360 --> 0:46:28.680
<v Speaker 5>young like student girl, he will watch like a weird

0:46:28.800 --> 0:46:31.360
<v Speaker 5>sort of SMR video of their type. So if she's Asian,

0:46:31.400 --> 0:46:34.239
<v Speaker 5>it'll be an Asian girl like combing her hair. It

0:46:34.280 --> 0:46:37.520
<v Speaker 5>feels and I don't like it.

0:46:37.640 --> 0:46:39.880
<v Speaker 2>Are you going to step in or not? No, Okay,

0:46:40.800 --> 0:46:41.280
<v Speaker 2>I don't.

0:46:41.120 --> 0:46:43.520
<v Speaker 5>Really know if it is, but you hear what I'm saying.

0:46:43.600 --> 0:46:46.680
<v Speaker 2>I do. But that's the just between me and you

0:46:47.120 --> 0:46:47.480
<v Speaker 2>is like.

0:46:47.880 --> 0:46:51.560
<v Speaker 3>I need to know if I'm going to the library

0:46:51.600 --> 0:46:53.920
<v Speaker 3>all the time, I'm most likely going to get involved

0:46:55.040 --> 0:46:56.040
<v Speaker 3>that I know.

0:46:56.200 --> 0:46:57.880
<v Speaker 2>I know, I see her a lot. What's going on

0:46:58.040 --> 0:46:58.480
<v Speaker 2>is that her?

0:46:58.719 --> 0:47:01.680
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, he's so old and scary, honestly, Like, I don't

0:47:01.719 --> 0:47:04.080
<v Speaker 5>think that you would be old and gary.

0:47:04.360 --> 0:47:05.680
<v Speaker 2>I'm those together?

0:47:05.960 --> 0:47:07.920
<v Speaker 4>I know, Am I wrong?

0:47:08.200 --> 0:47:12.160
<v Speaker 2>You can push him over, you can blow on you fall.

0:47:12.200 --> 0:47:13.759
<v Speaker 5>I guess I haven't really said anything because libry is

0:47:13.800 --> 0:47:17.080
<v Speaker 5>kind of a silent place, like you don't really talk anyway.

0:47:17.080 --> 0:47:17.640
<v Speaker 2>Well I don't.

0:47:17.920 --> 0:47:21.440
<v Speaker 3>That's the thing, Like, now I don't know what we

0:47:21.480 --> 0:47:23.880
<v Speaker 3>should be doing because people are so used to putting

0:47:23.880 --> 0:47:26.480
<v Speaker 3>their phone up or like telling a story about something

0:47:26.520 --> 0:47:28.319
<v Speaker 3>that happened that it's like why you didn't call the

0:47:28.360 --> 0:47:30.440
<v Speaker 3>cops or why you didn't get involved? So now we

0:47:30.440 --> 0:47:30.840
<v Speaker 3>don't know what.

0:47:31.280 --> 0:47:32.120
<v Speaker 4>But what is the line?

0:47:32.120 --> 0:47:34.080
<v Speaker 5>What is the line of the vigilante in twenty twenty

0:47:34.080 --> 0:47:36.359
<v Speaker 5>five is if it's phone enough, you just recorded and

0:47:36.440 --> 0:47:37.520
<v Speaker 5>you know that's it, You got it.

0:47:37.600 --> 0:47:41.080
<v Speaker 1>I mean, there's certain situations you can't do anything except

0:47:41.360 --> 0:47:44.720
<v Speaker 1>record or stand and bear witness. I saw a video

0:47:44.719 --> 0:47:48.120
<v Speaker 1>the other day a shark jumped into a boat with

0:47:48.200 --> 0:47:49.040
<v Speaker 1>all of these white.

0:47:48.920 --> 0:47:50.719
<v Speaker 2>Dudes and it was like flanling around.

0:47:50.760 --> 0:47:52.640
<v Speaker 1>It had all these little razor sharp teeth and they're

0:47:52.680 --> 0:47:56.000
<v Speaker 1>all like who and like shooting it and laughing, and

0:47:56.040 --> 0:47:58.920
<v Speaker 1>people were like why would they just let it suffocate

0:47:59.000 --> 0:48:01.440
<v Speaker 1>on the boat, And everyone in the comments was like,

0:48:01.760 --> 0:48:03.280
<v Speaker 1>have you ever tried to pick up a shark?

0:48:04.320 --> 0:48:06.240
<v Speaker 2>How are you supposed to get in there? And it's

0:48:06.239 --> 0:48:07.759
<v Speaker 2>flailing and flash Like.

0:48:07.880 --> 0:48:12.000
<v Speaker 1>Comment section is mass, but the comments sometimes is the

0:48:12.000 --> 0:48:14.239
<v Speaker 1>best part of the medium, because.

0:48:15.160 --> 0:48:17.440
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, there was I remember there was like a shark

0:48:17.640 --> 0:48:20.920
<v Speaker 3>following a seal. The seal jumped on the boat and

0:48:20.960 --> 0:48:23.080
<v Speaker 3>the seal was like and but then people were trying

0:48:23.120 --> 0:48:23.719
<v Speaker 3>to push the seal.

0:48:23.760 --> 0:48:25.319
<v Speaker 2>It's like, what the fuck is wrong with you? Save

0:48:25.400 --> 0:48:25.880
<v Speaker 2>this seal?

0:48:26.200 --> 0:48:27.960
<v Speaker 1>And they were like, well, we don't want this seal

0:48:28.000 --> 0:48:30.000
<v Speaker 1>on this boat. Also, the shark is coming at it

0:48:30.040 --> 0:48:33.120
<v Speaker 1>because the seals here what it wants. But also the

0:48:33.160 --> 0:48:36.160
<v Speaker 1>seal didn't put in for the boat. It's true, and

0:48:36.200 --> 0:48:37.760
<v Speaker 1>that is real Housewives bright there.

0:48:43.800 --> 0:48:45.319
<v Speaker 4>Com like like.

0:48:45.280 --> 0:48:48.200
<v Speaker 5>After the Super Bowl performance, it's like you would never

0:48:48.600 --> 0:48:51.480
<v Speaker 5>everyone was sitting in the stadium watch having opinions. No

0:48:51.480 --> 0:48:53.160
<v Speaker 5>one could walk up to Kendrick and tell him, you

0:48:53.239 --> 0:48:55.600
<v Speaker 5>know what I mean, whatever opinion.

0:48:55.440 --> 0:49:00.880
<v Speaker 2>Doesn't matter, it's it's all not comment.

0:49:00.640 --> 0:49:03.560
<v Speaker 5>Is now in a Wall Street Journal article and that

0:49:03.960 --> 0:49:07.480
<v Speaker 5>reading someone's nonsense yep. And because people say it now

0:49:07.480 --> 0:49:11.120
<v Speaker 5>it's fact, and it's like people because we'll say anything anonymously. Oh.

0:49:11.239 --> 0:49:12.719
<v Speaker 1>My favorite thing is when you talk to somebody and

0:49:12.760 --> 0:49:15.880
<v Speaker 1>you're like, I read this article that said and it's like, no,

0:49:15.920 --> 0:49:16.840
<v Speaker 1>you watched a TikTok.

0:49:18.120 --> 0:49:20.239
<v Speaker 2>TikTok is a new reading if you didn't. So I

0:49:20.280 --> 0:49:22.520
<v Speaker 2>read this article the other day. I don't remember where

0:49:22.520 --> 0:49:23.560
<v Speaker 2>it was. It was on TikTok.

0:49:24.120 --> 0:49:27.799
<v Speaker 5>My my like verification of my new sources has also

0:49:27.880 --> 0:49:29.920
<v Speaker 5>got up. I will say, like, I just have to

0:49:29.920 --> 0:49:31.080
<v Speaker 5>go to trusted new sources.

0:49:31.160 --> 0:49:32.920
<v Speaker 2>Where what's the truth piece?

0:49:33.600 --> 0:49:35.800
<v Speaker 5>You know? I mean, we're all around, We're all around.

0:49:35.880 --> 0:49:37.680
<v Speaker 5>We hear Wall Street Journal. I already mentioned them.

0:49:37.719 --> 0:49:40.919
<v Speaker 3>Plug is some of the fact that it well, AP

0:49:41.120 --> 0:49:43.879
<v Speaker 3>is a mess because they had these girls interviewing people

0:49:43.920 --> 0:49:47.719
<v Speaker 3>and they were interviewing baby Pace, the Kenneth babyface Yes,

0:49:48.080 --> 0:49:51.279
<v Speaker 3>and they pushed him to decide to have chuck up.

0:49:51.800 --> 0:49:54.080
<v Speaker 2>So it was like, AP, do I trust you now?

0:49:54.280 --> 0:49:56.480
<v Speaker 5>He said, he said, you go do that.

0:49:56.960 --> 0:49:59.120
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, So you go do that, And that's how you

0:49:59.120 --> 0:50:00.640
<v Speaker 1>have to move. That's how we have to move in

0:50:00.680 --> 0:50:02.840
<v Speaker 1>twenty two five, respect.

0:50:02.960 --> 0:50:06.200
<v Speaker 5>Ball, it's the easiest thing to do. It's like that's

0:50:06.360 --> 0:50:09.399
<v Speaker 5>the state of like the media. It's like that's They're

0:50:09.480 --> 0:50:09.960
<v Speaker 5>just like.

0:50:10.160 --> 0:50:12.880
<v Speaker 4>Wow, why like why can't you focus?

0:50:12.920 --> 0:50:15.879
<v Speaker 5>Why why do you with a microphone in your hand

0:50:15.960 --> 0:50:18.080
<v Speaker 5>talking to a multi Grammy, a war winning artist at

0:50:18.120 --> 0:50:19.080
<v Speaker 5>the Grammy's.

0:50:18.840 --> 0:50:20.920
<v Speaker 2>Legend legend, legend legend, Why can't you.

0:50:20.880 --> 0:50:25.400
<v Speaker 5>Sustain a thought more than fourteen motherfucking her fy jerky

0:50:25.440 --> 0:50:27.759
<v Speaker 5>seconds to get to the end of the sentence and.

0:50:27.719 --> 0:50:34.200
<v Speaker 1>Say, because TikTok videos are fifteen seconds, thirty seconds, sixty seconds,

0:50:34.200 --> 0:50:34.800
<v Speaker 1>ten minutes.

0:50:35.160 --> 0:50:39.560
<v Speaker 2>Yes, So they're like, why would I our brain? Those

0:50:39.560 --> 0:50:41.880
<v Speaker 2>girls were like twenty our.

0:50:41.719 --> 0:50:45.120
<v Speaker 5>Brains, our brains, You got your work. You're in the

0:50:45.120 --> 0:50:46.239
<v Speaker 5>middle of something.

0:50:45.960 --> 0:50:48.279
<v Speaker 2>So how do we strengthen our brains? I gotta do sudokus.

0:50:48.600 --> 0:50:53.799
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you do a lot of wordles fromles.

0:50:53.080 --> 0:50:54.799
<v Speaker 4>Word right now. You know I'm playing chest out too.

0:50:54.840 --> 0:50:56.359
<v Speaker 4>See I'm not a word person ever, But this.

0:50:56.360 --> 0:50:59.120
<v Speaker 2>Is you're not boring because I had to.

0:50:59.040 --> 0:51:02.000
<v Speaker 5>Come up out of the mess, you know, not well,

0:51:02.200 --> 0:51:03.080
<v Speaker 5>just like you know.

0:51:03.800 --> 0:51:05.279
<v Speaker 2>We sit and mess here. This is mess.

0:51:05.320 --> 0:51:08.120
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, yeah, I mean I just have to like do

0:51:08.320 --> 0:51:08.879
<v Speaker 4>like be home.

0:51:08.960 --> 0:51:10.800
<v Speaker 5>I just have to like you know, save my energy

0:51:10.880 --> 0:51:13.080
<v Speaker 5>and just like grow.

0:51:12.920 --> 0:51:13.600
<v Speaker 4>Up and focus.

0:51:14.000 --> 0:51:16.239
<v Speaker 2>Grow up and focus. Is that what you're saying right now?

0:51:16.280 --> 0:51:23.920
<v Speaker 5>In five? A child and distract up and focus my trauma.

0:51:24.040 --> 0:51:25.040
<v Speaker 2>That's not like a four.

0:51:25.320 --> 0:51:30.640
<v Speaker 5>Now that's my trauma response. I'm like, oh, like.

0:51:29.400 --> 0:51:30.239
<v Speaker 2>I feel you on that.

0:51:30.360 --> 0:51:32.680
<v Speaker 3>I feel that I'm in a cross road right now

0:51:32.680 --> 0:51:35.040
<v Speaker 3>because it's like, damn, I want to be you know,

0:51:35.320 --> 0:51:36.399
<v Speaker 3>giddy and fun and.

0:51:36.440 --> 0:51:37.040
<v Speaker 2>Just like that that that.

0:51:37.600 --> 0:51:41.120
<v Speaker 3>But now it's like because of this birthday, I'm like, hmmm,

0:51:42.320 --> 0:51:42.960
<v Speaker 3>I don't know.

0:51:43.840 --> 0:51:46.960
<v Speaker 2>We gotta make a ship, we gotta pivot.

0:51:47.080 --> 0:51:49.719
<v Speaker 5>I feel like I'm usually relieving tension, like like the

0:51:49.760 --> 0:51:52.200
<v Speaker 5>mess is I call my mess, Like having fun would

0:51:52.280 --> 0:51:53.200
<v Speaker 5>usually respond.

0:51:52.960 --> 0:51:54.040
<v Speaker 4>To me like relieving tension.

0:51:54.120 --> 0:51:57.320
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, now there's so much retention, but I'm always having fun.

0:52:02.160 --> 0:52:03.080
<v Speaker 4>I have a fun line.

0:52:03.280 --> 0:52:06.000
<v Speaker 2>Yeah you are my friends New York.

0:52:07.080 --> 0:52:07.760
<v Speaker 4>It's fun.

0:52:08.120 --> 0:52:10.879
<v Speaker 5>And I have to be like okay, okay, great, I've

0:52:10.920 --> 0:52:13.000
<v Speaker 5>like I've seen it. I was like like, I know

0:52:13.040 --> 0:52:14.480
<v Speaker 5>what a big room looks like. I know what a

0:52:14.520 --> 0:52:16.600
<v Speaker 5>small room looks like. I know a room face people

0:52:16.600 --> 0:52:18.560
<v Speaker 5>look like. I know a room with everybody looks like.

0:52:19.000 --> 0:52:20.880
<v Speaker 5>It's like, you know, I can compare it, you know,

0:52:20.920 --> 0:52:21.680
<v Speaker 5>I can just keep going.

0:52:21.800 --> 0:52:23.040
<v Speaker 4>But just go home.

0:52:24.080 --> 0:52:27.160
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, just go home, just like instead instead of trying

0:52:27.160 --> 0:52:30.800
<v Speaker 5>to escape into like someone's perfect organization or they're perfect

0:52:31.000 --> 0:52:33.480
<v Speaker 5>like politic or they're amazing singing voice. This is a TikTok,

0:52:33.520 --> 0:52:37.160
<v Speaker 5>by the way, instead of like experiencing all of that

0:52:37.280 --> 0:52:41.560
<v Speaker 5>in this way that it's just not enough investment for me.

0:52:42.120 --> 0:52:43.759
<v Speaker 5>So yeah, I just like I want to mature. Our

0:52:43.760 --> 0:52:45.759
<v Speaker 5>country needs to mature. I feel like I'm just like

0:52:45.840 --> 0:52:48.240
<v Speaker 5>not because shit ain't funny.

0:52:48.320 --> 0:52:53.320
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, but when you think about it, our country

0:52:53.400 --> 0:52:56.839
<v Speaker 1>is really not that old. Yeah, compared to you know,

0:52:56.880 --> 0:52:58.600
<v Speaker 1>some of these other countries that's been around for three

0:52:58.640 --> 0:53:00.000
<v Speaker 1>thousand and five thousand years old.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, we're so unseerious though, Like we're so un

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<v Speaker 3>like you know, when when Donald Trump was like they're

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<v Speaker 3>eating the cast, they made a remix.

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<v Speaker 2>Eating we should be Laughing.

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<v Speaker 4>Podcast, I'm like, you're doing.

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<v Speaker 5>You said something insanely and like the next like like

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<v Speaker 5>the subterranean and now it's a fun thing and it's

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<v Speaker 5>literally it's like the spirit of black Twitter co opted

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<v Speaker 5>by white media, white legacy media, and now we're left

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<v Speaker 5>with the deterioration of.

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<v Speaker 4>A government black people.

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<v Speaker 5>We have the privilege to make shit funny that ain't

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<v Speaker 5>been funny because we're talking about no reparations from chattel

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<v Speaker 5>slavery and we have to that's all right now now, Now,

0:53:44.480 --> 0:53:53.240
<v Speaker 5>Becky from Ohio and Bruce from something should be serious

0:53:53.280 --> 0:53:56.440
<v Speaker 5>to you because someone was serious to your grandfather who

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<v Speaker 5>came over here by choice from wherever. You know, like

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<v Speaker 5>dot was important on the santam Aia, you know what

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<v Speaker 5>I mean. So it's like, how do we balance ourselves

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<v Speaker 5>so no one can have like fun petty mess again?

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<v Speaker 1>I think remove everything from TikTok except the wrapping chift.

0:54:19.080 --> 0:54:21.400
<v Speaker 1>This guy that cooks and he wraps when he cooks,

0:54:21.480 --> 0:54:25.080
<v Speaker 1>he made a spicy RIGATONI the other day that I

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<v Speaker 1>was like.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm trying to think of the song that he used,

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<v Speaker 2>but it was I don't know. I literally watched it

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<v Speaker 2>last night.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh so you didn't hold on to it from last night.

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<v Speaker 5>About TikTok brain.

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<v Speaker 2>It sounds like we'ed brain. Sounds like we'd brain yourself.

0:54:43.040 --> 0:54:45.400
<v Speaker 5>It's harty And if I didn't make it how you

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<v Speaker 5>make it, then I'm sorry. The chicken breads and marinated

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<v Speaker 5>and some yoga garlic pangs and ginger pas.

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<v Speaker 4>I got some thriller and spices.

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<v Speaker 2>That's not the one that I watched by This.

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<v Speaker 4>Is what we don't have overall deals anymore.

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<v Speaker 2>It is definitely not modo. All right, well let's read

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<v Speaker 2>some mess. Yeah, let's do it. Yeah, let's read some

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<v Speaker 2>mess and Larry, you could tell us how you feel

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<v Speaker 2>about it.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh yeah, this is good like a little prompt.

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, we love a prompt.

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<v Speaker 2>This is a different segment, and then we'll get everybody

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<v Speaker 2>out it.

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<v Speaker 1>Look the finish line, well, I mean I'm literally looking

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<v Speaker 1>at the clock.

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<v Speaker 5>Clock.

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<v Speaker 2>It's over there. I put it over to here. Are

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<v Speaker 2>you ready? It's a long one.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, this might make me sound like an ass is

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<v Speaker 1>the title. Hey, Marie and Sydney. So here's my mess.

0:55:39.520 --> 0:55:43.759
<v Speaker 1>I have a partner that's messy, an amazing partner. He

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<v Speaker 1>makes me feel loved, wanted, care for best relationship i've had, So.

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<v Speaker 2>What's the wrong.

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<v Speaker 1>However, before meeting him, I was having sex with a

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<v Speaker 1>different man for about a year.

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<v Speaker 2>This man is good at sex, great at sex.

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<v Speaker 4>I knew what it was going to be.

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<v Speaker 2>Best sex. Honestly, make sure I come every time.

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<v Speaker 1>She's dragging it. She's fucking dragging it. Girls, get out

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<v Speaker 1>of multiple rounds, long used toys.

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<v Speaker 2>Does it all? Girl? You don't have a job. Why

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<v Speaker 2>do you need you need all that?

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<v Speaker 5>Just because you haven't seen a Cydney doesn't mean it's

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<v Speaker 5>not possible you haven't.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, this is not what we was doing in Brazil.

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<v Speaker 1>I stopped having sex with this man after hearing his thoughts,

0:56:29.320 --> 0:56:30.960
<v Speaker 1>like if he had just shut up and fucked, I

0:56:30.960 --> 0:56:33.319
<v Speaker 1>would have been none the wiser. I had a man

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<v Speaker 1>like that once. This man is a misogynistic ass. What

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<v Speaker 1>really ended it is when he gave me an STI ladies,

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<v Speaker 1>no matter what.

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<v Speaker 2>Males say, make them wear a condom or leave.

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<v Speaker 1>I also decided I wanted a boyfriend, so I told

0:56:48.000 --> 0:56:50.440
<v Speaker 1>him our sessions were over and I went on to

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<v Speaker 1>find my partner. We remained somewhat friends following ig talk

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<v Speaker 1>about our travels and anime, nothing else.

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<v Speaker 4>Mm hm.

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<v Speaker 1>A year into the relationship, the sex guy texted me

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<v Speaker 1>asking could I come over for a good time. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even reply, just blocked. I thought it was disrespectful.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't post my partner, but he shouldn't know if

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<v Speaker 1>I have a man. But I'd be lying because I

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<v Speaker 1>think they still stuff anime. But I'd be lying if

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<v Speaker 1>I said I didn't think about the sex, like nothing

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<v Speaker 1>else about him is good but that and I would

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<v Speaker 1>never cheat. I don't want to break up to be

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<v Speaker 1>free to have sex with him. I know the grass

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<v Speaker 1>ain't greener on the other side, I just want to

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<v Speaker 1>stop thinking about him and his sex.

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<v Speaker 2>Like, how do I do this? Miss thoughts larry me first?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, we could all talk about it.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, yeah, it's a conundrum.

0:57:42.120 --> 0:57:45.200
<v Speaker 5>It's a conundrum because it's something specific that she wants.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I mean I dated a guy that was also

0:57:48.960 --> 0:57:51.800
<v Speaker 1>that The sex was great, but I also did not

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<v Speaker 1>listen like.

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<v Speaker 2>Listening to him talk.

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<v Speaker 1>He would quote Kevin Samuels and stuff to me, and

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, no, oh, this dude is an idiot girl.

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<v Speaker 2>And he had to.

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<v Speaker 4>Go How long did it last?

0:58:02.600 --> 0:58:02.920
<v Speaker 1>Mmm?

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<v Speaker 2>How long did I bang him for? On and off?

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<v Speaker 1>For like maybe like a year's time, maybe not even

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<v Speaker 1>maybe not even a full year.

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<v Speaker 2>Just Ninja Turtle beat me in.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, but that was like I knew him for

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<v Speaker 1>like over a year, but we actually hooked up for

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, like, oh no, no, it was not And.

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<v Speaker 4>What made you stop seeing him?

0:58:31.280 --> 0:58:33.720
<v Speaker 2>I didn't like him stupid he would.

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<v Speaker 1>Talk and I'd be like, oh my god, even.

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<v Speaker 2>The text messages off and shuch about and.

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<v Speaker 4>How did you deal with the fallout from not having

0:58:40.440 --> 0:58:41.240
<v Speaker 4>that dick? Oh?

0:58:41.280 --> 0:58:41.880
<v Speaker 2>I was fine.

0:58:42.040 --> 0:58:47.360
<v Speaker 1>I had a backup and he wasn't the best. Oh yeah, yeah, comparable, great,

0:58:47.360 --> 0:58:49.800
<v Speaker 1>but not excellent. No, no, no, it was it was

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<v Speaker 1>great the person after or the person that replaced him with.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah. I don't think she can go back to the

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<v Speaker 5>other guy for sex.

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<v Speaker 4>No, I don't think so.

0:59:00.840 --> 0:59:03.760
<v Speaker 2>I think I think maybe cut communication clean. But she

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<v Speaker 2>says she do like them.

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<v Speaker 3>But we gotta we gotta detach ourselves from from the

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<v Speaker 3>importance of sex.

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<v Speaker 2>I think, I like, hmm, it has helped me. I like,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't. I like it.

0:59:15.760 --> 0:59:18.880
<v Speaker 3>It's good. I have a good time, but it's not

0:59:19.160 --> 0:59:21.400
<v Speaker 3>a factor for me. I like, I could be with

0:59:21.480 --> 0:59:23.960
<v Speaker 3>somebody and not have sex all the time, and I'll

0:59:24.000 --> 0:59:24.919
<v Speaker 3>be Okay.

0:59:24.840 --> 0:59:28.240
<v Speaker 2>I want to be with somebody and not have good sex. No, no,

0:59:28.480 --> 0:59:29.120
<v Speaker 2>I couldn't do that.

0:59:29.240 --> 0:59:33.560
<v Speaker 3>But it's just because I've gone long periods without it

0:59:33.720 --> 0:59:36.640
<v Speaker 3>and then got back into it and then got out.

0:59:36.800 --> 0:59:40.360
<v Speaker 3>I was like, it's fine, it's cool, Like I enjoy it,

0:59:40.400 --> 0:59:42.520
<v Speaker 3>but it's I'm not. It's not gonna make me do

0:59:42.840 --> 0:59:46.800
<v Speaker 3>any more of these decisions. Like before last like last year,

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<v Speaker 3>what I was doing, I was like just not even

0:59:48.720 --> 0:59:50.440
<v Speaker 3>I don't even care about sex like this.

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<v Speaker 2>Why am I fucking in New Jersey right now? It's

0:59:53.760 --> 0:59:55.520
<v Speaker 2>just stupid. That is crazy.

0:59:55.560 --> 0:59:58.240
<v Speaker 5>Maybe this person can invite the guy with good dick

0:59:58.600 --> 1:00:04.160
<v Speaker 5>into the relationships. Then the other guy can watch how

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<v Speaker 5>the good guy and that has been an amazing episode

1:00:07.200 --> 1:00:09.280
<v Speaker 5>of mess because what the fuck?

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<v Speaker 1>No, no, no, because he says that I have a partner,

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<v Speaker 1>an amazing partner.

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<v Speaker 2>He makes me feel loved, wanted, cared for. She keep

1:00:15.040 --> 1:00:17.840
<v Speaker 2>thinking about that exactly, so then bringing the dick in? No,

1:00:17.960 --> 1:00:19.680
<v Speaker 2>maybe bring the toys. Maybe.

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<v Speaker 4>Sometimes good advice is hearing bad advice.

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<v Speaker 1>And you know what, miss miss.

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<v Speaker 5>She should I think she should really shake it up.

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<v Speaker 5>I think she should be messy. Invite the guy and

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<v Speaker 5>the other guy gets a tutorial. Be okay, tell first

1:00:39.040 --> 1:00:43.040
<v Speaker 5>guy it's more bad. Tell first guy, hey, you gotta

1:00:43.080 --> 1:00:45.800
<v Speaker 5>go study up? Or is it about the equipment? Is

1:00:46.040 --> 1:00:46.640
<v Speaker 5>he is it?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know if it's maybe, but.

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<v Speaker 5>She didn't mention that. She didn't say, like any that's

1:00:50.480 --> 1:00:51.440
<v Speaker 5>the most perfect.

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<v Speaker 1>No.

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<v Speaker 2>I just said great at sex, best sex.

1:00:54.360 --> 1:00:57.400
<v Speaker 1>Honestly, he said first, she said good at sex, great

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<v Speaker 1>at sex, best sex. Okay, make sure I come every time.

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<v Speaker 1>It sounds like the other one's not making you come.

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<v Speaker 4>Digmatized me, She's s digmatized.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, the other one has her heart, but the other

1:01:06.600 --> 1:01:07.400
<v Speaker 3>one has her coach.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah yeah, sometimes totally.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>I feel like it's hard to give advice because gay

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<v Speaker 5>men logic is so different.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't have it, but it's like what I have

1:01:16.240 --> 1:01:17.200
<v Speaker 4>to like live under.

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<v Speaker 2>What is game man logic?

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<v Speaker 5>Just see, there will always be more they'll like, There'll

1:01:21.240 --> 1:01:23.120
<v Speaker 5>always be more dick, just like go open with your

1:01:23.160 --> 1:01:25.360
<v Speaker 5>partner like the skies. If they don't like it, move on,

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<v Speaker 5>you know, just there will always be more dick around

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<v Speaker 5>the corner.

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<v Speaker 2>There will always be on the shelf.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, But my thing is this, like I'm sure the

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<v Speaker 1>sex is great, but you might.

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<v Speaker 2>Be remembering it better than what it.

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<v Speaker 1>Is because that happened to me before, like best sex,

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<v Speaker 1>great sex, And then I spin the block and I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>well I actually don't like this person, and now.

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<v Speaker 4>Nostalgic sex.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, sometimes it's a.

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<v Speaker 2>Quas Yeah, that's why I would go back that memory

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<v Speaker 2>foam sex.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, you're eating the eggs and suddenly you're like, I'm

1:02:02.880 --> 1:02:04.080
<v Speaker 5>eating the eggs.

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<v Speaker 2>Do I even like?

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<v Speaker 1>Ru?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah? So you're in New Jersey.

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<v Speaker 2>May all of these men that I've forgotten about rest

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<v Speaker 2>in peace?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah? Yeah, maybe this was incredible. I really had a

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<v Speaker 1>good time. Yeah, this was cute.

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<v Speaker 2>Can you tell people where they can find you even

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<v Speaker 2>though you're hiding?

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, Hey, everyone, I still have live accounts at Larry

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<v Speaker 5>Owens Live.

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<v Speaker 4>Follow because there may be news and just thank you so.

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<v Speaker 5>Much for having me.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, not you learned the voice.

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<v Speaker 5>Valentine's Day, every line, My family to yours. It's been

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<v Speaker 5>so wonderful to be here, my loving heart to yours.

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<v Speaker 5>Wishing all of you New Yorkers. Angelina's out there, Chicago

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<v Speaker 5>and anyone listening. Yeah, Berlin's you know, there's lots and lots.

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<v Speaker 1>Of Australia's in the hell, lots of Law and Kenya.

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<v Speaker 4>And Kenyon to Toronto, hel On.

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<v Speaker 3>And before we get out of here, we also have

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<v Speaker 2>Tickets see you next week.

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