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Speaker 1: You're listening to mess Okay, wow we're here.

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Speaker 2: Oh wow, girl, what accent is that?

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I've just had to you know how you have to

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Speaker 3: rep yourself up. You know, you will have one of

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Speaker 3: those cars where you do like man, you will you

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Speaker 3: be like m I had to rep myself up.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, that's how we do it. Yeah, thank you. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: you know, I need some coffee, but I'll be okay.

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Speaker 2: Yeah damn do I need some coffee?

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Speaker 4: No, you don't know.

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Speaker 2: You're doing great? Hey boo, what's up?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so Sydney, I feel like I haven't seen you

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Speaker 1: all of twenty twenty five.

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Speaker 2: Oh loys, going for seven days? Just seven day?

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Speaker 1: All that seven days? You was already gone for like

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Speaker 1: seven days. Yeah, yeah, like seventy seven days. That's you

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Speaker 1: know what, You're right all of twenty twenty five. I

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Speaker 1: am a mess exclusive. I'm in a relationship. I have someone,

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Speaker 1: and yes, yes I don't. I was like, I'm not

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Speaker 1: doing it, but I have someone.

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Speaker 3: So now I split time and so I've been split

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Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, I mean it's just crazy. I don't have

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Speaker 2: enough time truly, just like where does the time go?

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Speaker 3: So yeah, I came back from Brazil, went to Brazil

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Speaker 3: for the birthday and love that. My mess of the

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Speaker 3: week is I did not post about my birthday. That

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Speaker 3: was dumb because people did not call me on my

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Speaker 3: actual birthday. That was my mess. I was surprised. I said, wait,

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Speaker 3: what nobody called own dry? My sister called me five times.

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Speaker 2: That's messy.

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Speaker 3: But yeah, I people didn't call. It was I was

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Speaker 3: surprised people didn't call you, and that's a mess. Yeah

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Speaker 3: that was because if you don't publicize your birthday, if

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Speaker 3: you don't do if you don't make a big deal,

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Speaker 3: then people don't make a big deal.

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Speaker 2: You have to make a big deal. That's just what

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Speaker 2: it is. Like you are the leader of how you

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Speaker 2: want people to celebrate you.

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Speaker 1: So I well remember back in the day, like you

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Speaker 1: used to put it on face Book and then everybody

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Speaker 1: would just be on your wall like love me birthday

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Speaker 1: and you'd be like, I got this money cabins, they

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Speaker 1: love me this year.

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Speaker 2: People from Facebook messaged me.

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Speaker 3: But yeah, I got my sister called five times and

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Speaker 3: I said, this is insane. She's like, I'm not calling

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Speaker 3: act like you don't call for stuff.

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Speaker 2: She's like, no, I was calling Greta.

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Speaker 1: And I was like, damn. So my sister called five times.

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Speaker 1: At least she knew that it was my birthday. Did

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Speaker 1: you not pick up four times? Or did you pick

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Speaker 1: pick up time?

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Speaker 5: No?

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Speaker 2: I didn't pick up.

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Speaker 3: She just kept calling because my phone was also on

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Speaker 3: D and D. That's also a mess. D and D

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Speaker 3: is a mess, but it's a productive mess because you're like,

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Speaker 3: I'm putting up a boundary. I don't I don't want to,

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Speaker 3: you know, engage right now.

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Speaker 1: So your phone was on do not disturb, and you're

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Speaker 1: mad that people didn't call you on your birthday.

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Speaker 2: But your phone was on do not disturb.

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Speaker 3: But people, dick, you still can call when you're on

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Speaker 3: D and D because my sister called five times.

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Speaker 2: Right, So you wouldn't have talked to anybody anyway. I was,

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Speaker 2: you know, it depends.

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Speaker 3: You know, you're right, But I would have looked and

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Speaker 3: I would have called back, but there was there was

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Speaker 2: Okay, so you just had unlimited data when you travel?

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Speaker 5: Really?

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Speaker 2: No, no, no, no no.

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Speaker 3: Originally I was like, oh, I'm not I'm trying to

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Speaker 3: because when I went to Morocco, my phone bill was

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Speaker 3: like full hundred some dollars.

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Speaker 2: That's when I came back thatause I got paid.

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Speaker 3: I got charged twelve dollars a day there ten days,

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Speaker 3: plus whatever extra shit I did while it was there.

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Speaker 1: You were on the Sydney was making full blown phone

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Speaker 1: calls from a pyramid, like, yeah, it was on the

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Speaker 1: She wasn't using What'sapp in Brazil either.

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Speaker 2: No, I wasn't. I wasn't. She was like, go do

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Speaker 2: it didn't go through. I was like, girl, why are

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but it was my girl rich No, it was stupid,

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Speaker 3: but yeah it was. I did want a low key birthday,

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Speaker 3: but I did make me sad that no one called.

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Speaker 3: But I think it was because I was with my girlfriend.

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Speaker 3: But I was like, my girlfriend doesn't supplement my friends.

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Speaker 3: I still want my friends to call. Well, we all

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Speaker 3: taught you in the group chat early in the morning.

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Speaker 2: I don't want a text.

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Speaker 5: I want to call.

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Speaker 3: Everyone called me last year. I was like, what you

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Speaker 3: were in the States, that's what's different. I went, I

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Speaker 3: don't know you were in Puerto Rico last year? What

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Speaker 3: did we call you every time? It doesn't matter where

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Speaker 3: i'm you guys call me wherever I am anywhere.

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Speaker 1: No, that's not true, because so I don't call you

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Speaker 1: on your birthday every year because most of the birthdays

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Speaker 1: I be there.

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Speaker 2: We did Colla Rica.

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Speaker 1: We did Costa Rica in twenty twenty two, twenty three, yes, yeah, no,

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Speaker 1: twenty four you was in Puerto Rico and we called

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Speaker 1: you because you were by yourself, because it was like

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Speaker 2: So I had to make sure you were still alive.

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Speaker 1: But did you you you're with your girl. When you're

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Speaker 1: with your girl, I am leaving you alone. I'm letting

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Speaker 1: you know that. I mean, I think you know that,

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Speaker 1: but I'm just assuming you know that's y'all. She's you

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Speaker 1: doing breakfast in bed? You know you you know croissant,

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Speaker 1: a Brazilian croissant, if that's a thing, paste leo.

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Speaker 2: I had a pastelo.

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Speaker 3: But yeah, but I well, I think that like it's

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Speaker 3: hard because it's like, yes, I'm with my girlfriend, but

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Speaker 3: my girlfriend does not like my friends are more not

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Speaker 3: more important, But I care about my friends just as much.

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Speaker 2: Sounds like you need to bring us on the trip

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Speaker 2: next year, will be there.

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Speaker 3: Yes, But when we were in Costa Rica, I got

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Speaker 3: I got phone calls on my birthday. So this was

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Speaker 3: I was suprised.

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Speaker 2: Surprise, surprise, Sabra. But we celebrated your birthday when you

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Speaker 2: got back.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, happy birthday, thank you, and everyone was saying it

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Speaker 1: when they saw you when you got back.

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Speaker 3: Yes, our guest today who's a close friend. I had

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Speaker 3: this conversation with him before and he was like, I didn't.

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Speaker 2: Call you, So it felt like that was ill.

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Speaker 3: Never I will never do that again, take a trip

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Speaker 3: or not post on your birthday.

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Speaker 2: And then I, yeah, I don't. I know.

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Speaker 3: It was like when you ain't got no hoes. It

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Speaker 3: felt like that. That's what it felt like.

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Speaker 1: But maybe people work on you. They just wasn't going through.

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Speaker 1: No I could see no calls on my birthday. Well

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Speaker 1: your phone doesn't work international for sure?

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Speaker 2: Wow?

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Speaker 5: Wow wow?

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Speaker 2: Were your phone goes ghosts?

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Speaker 3: That's crazy in Jamaica and Jamaica every every time you

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Speaker 3: in Thailand.

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Speaker 1: I've called you, No, Jamaica. My phone worked when I

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Speaker 1: was on the Wi Fi. My phone always works on

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Speaker 1: the Wi Fi. And that Verizon is mess so period

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Speaker 1: except ex it.

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Speaker 2: What's your mess?

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Speaker 5: Mary?

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Speaker 2: My mess is also family related? I don't what was

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Speaker 2: your mess? Family related?

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Speaker 1: No, my friends are my family. So yeah, okay, okay,

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Speaker 1: my message family related. My cousin got married last weekend

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Speaker 1: and my mom did not go to the wedding. My

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Speaker 1: mom didn't go to the wedding, and she made a

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Speaker 2: Her about it yesterday. Who he shit and so dramatic.

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Speaker 1: So my cousin is my mom's nephew on my aunt's side,

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Speaker 1: So my mom and his mom are sisters, and my aunt,

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Speaker 1: you know, this is her her son getting married, her baby.

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Speaker 1: and my mom was like, I couldn't find something new

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Speaker 1: I have, and my aunt was like, oh.

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Speaker 2: Okay, cool, calls my dad.

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Speaker 1: Messy, calls my dad and it's like, I can't believe

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Speaker 2: Dad is mess. Mess. The auntie man mess. Auntie mess.

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Speaker 2: Dad definitely mess.

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Speaker 1: And but the way that my aunt explained it to me,

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Speaker 2: She deserves a nice note, does she does? She tell

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Speaker 2: dad that. I'm sure she said that to my dad

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Speaker 1: And then because he wasn't invited to the wedding, Oh

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Speaker 1: he wasn't invited, Mom didn't tell him.

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Speaker 2: Oh, so it's the whole thing is mass. So that's

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Speaker 2: what I'm saying. When my aunt called to talk to

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Speaker 4: What wedding?

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Speaker 2: Now that that's so mess. This is a layer.

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Speaker 1: This is a panini layered of mess that yeah, panini

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Speaker 1: press mess, Panini press mess souh. You know, my dad

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Speaker 1: was just itching to tell my mom what my aunt said,

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Speaker 1: and I'm sure he added extra adjectives to the story, right,

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Speaker 1: And so he told he was like, yeah, she said,

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Speaker 1: you don't have nothing new to wear, oh bitch. And

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Speaker 1: my mom was like, well, I guess I'm not going

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Speaker 1: at me like I'm homeless at this wedding and I

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Speaker 1: don't need nobody talking about me. So this is the

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Speaker 1: night before the wedding, my mom decides this. Me and

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Speaker 1: my sister are like, what if we send you a uber?

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Speaker 1: What if we send you a car? My Mom's like,

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Speaker 1: I won't be there, no thanks, And she didn't come.

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Speaker 1: Then I'm talking to her on the phone like it's

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Speaker 1: gonna be mad Haitians at this wedding. You know, they're

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Speaker 1: beautiful wedding. My cousin like was sad that she wasn't there.

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Speaker 1: The building, the building.

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Speaker 4: I just put gum with that moment.

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Speaker 5: You don't yet, I know, doing around no respect.

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Speaker 3: You're gonna swallow it, you swallow it? Yeah, you're not.

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Speaker 4: You got Okay, that's my phone charger.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I just don't need this live camera to see

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Speaker 3: You have gum for later on the phone, Larry.

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Speaker 2: It's a lot of mess going on, this whole thing.

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Speaker 4: Actually, yes, an invoice from iHeart.

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Speaker 1: Yes, you break it, you buy it, break it, you

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Speaker 5: I can reach it.

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Speaker 5: I know everything about you too, Yeah, okay, you know everything.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Middle, you're putting more gum in your mouth.

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Speaker 3: You know it's crazy because the title now the pod

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Speaker 1: You got it, Maria carric Ma, Malary car Larry, They're

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Speaker 4: Yes, this is edits, which is why I didn't want

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Speaker 1: Okay, Larry, do you have any thoughts on what you

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Speaker 5: The first of all, congratulations chef Drew, Drew cousin Drew,

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Speaker 5: I really do, I know everything.

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Speaker 4: And Drew is just what an upstanding man.

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Speaker 5: We're just really happy for your family movie. And we're

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Speaker 4: Sort of the mess that made you so that is

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Speaker 2: Of king of the mess. You're princess mass Yeah, isn't

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Speaker 5: It's I love to hear that. And honestly, like, there's

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Speaker 5: Petty or the mess actually kind of like the better.

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Speaker 5: It tastes like a little or dirt. Yeah, you know

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Speaker 2: Well, the global mess is people are dying every day.

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Speaker 2: Everything was a dress, right.

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Speaker 1: The petite mess is like this is.

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Speaker 2: I love your mom.

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Speaker 3: So I when you when you were texting me this,

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Speaker 4: Also, she kind of needs this small drama.

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Speaker 5: This is what makes her indie film of her life,

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Speaker 4: Dress dress, you know what I mean, he's already doing it. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: I got a time child.

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Speaker 5: I can't know new projects okay, Yeah, we can't nothing

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Speaker 2: You know, is that what you call me?

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Speaker 5: No?

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Speaker 4: You know that film is going to be gorgeous.

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Speaker 5: That's going to take five years to bring it from

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Speaker 4: I did the same thing one birthday.

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Speaker 5: I didn't post and then I found myself inside with

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Speaker 5: you know, my you know, my my move your musicals

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Speaker 1: And the birthday, the birthday day is so nice because

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Speaker 1: like hey, and I like calling people on their birthdays

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Speaker 2: Will be shure, Yeah, how you doing today, Happy birthday?

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Speaker 2: Don't want to hold you, gotta go.

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Speaker 4: Exactly, And that's what you wanted to feel.

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Speaker 5: You wanted to feel like like even just one would

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Speaker 5: Who but going away to.

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Speaker 4: A foreign country with the park and not posting on

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Speaker 2: Shoot me up.

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Speaker 5: Volition you chose, yeah, volition, Yeah, down into the mic

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Speaker 5: Hey positive for both. It's so delicious. Let's keep it small.

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Speaker 5: Let's keep it smallst keep it unimportant, and then acknowledge

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Speaker 5: ourselves like it's gonna feel tough. Like it's like life

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Larry owen.

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Speaker 1: The video camera, but you're all around, maybe you're on

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Speaker 1: Little creative there's reads out loud. Now you hear it now, Larry,

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Speaker 1: I love you now, Larry? What what?

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Speaker 2: What? What is your mess?

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Speaker 4: My mess is it's it's I don't.

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Speaker 2: Didn't pare a mess?

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Speaker 1: Okay, chewing gum didn't bring mess?

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Speaker 4: Is my mess? Like truly like having to arrive here.

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Speaker 5: And like both like put like my voice into this thing.

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Speaker 4: Do I look?

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Speaker 4: All right? So and then you know you just go

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Speaker 5: You know, it's it's wild and yeah, I do think

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Speaker 5: We used to have to get cleared and pass a

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Speaker 5: people just recline. I don't want to go negative on the.

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Speaker 2: No, no, no, no, you're going no, that is my mess.

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Speaker 1: Okay, no, no, no, Your negative in that house is hilarious.

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Speaker 1: That's another type of the pot. Now you could do both,

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Speaker 5: No, but my mess is that, like I like, I'm like,

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Speaker 2: Your episode will be the messiest one we've ever Yes,

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Speaker 2: we do. Yeah, the episode.

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Speaker 4: We love that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, inside the Messa verse, Well I will I will

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Speaker 4: Right.

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Speaker 3: You don't like podcasting yourself because you don't want to

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Speaker 5: No, don't want to do anything actually for the Wikipedia.

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Speaker 5: Yeah is gay?

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Speaker 4: I like that?

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Speaker 5: Actually really love it.

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Speaker 2: I love Wow. It doesn't need to be too much.

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Speaker 4: You were actually like you know, on the pioneering end

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Speaker 1: So of this art, your heart a bitch pioneers.

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Speaker 4: I'm so Julie on my back.

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Speaker 3: So the one thing about podcasting for you, you don't

448
00:20:41,040 --> 00:20:43,640
Speaker 3: want to give extra because you already gave so much

449
00:20:43,800 --> 00:20:44,480
Speaker 3: like in real life.

450
00:20:44,640 --> 00:20:47,280
Speaker 5: Yeah, it's like, you know, like the work really I

451
00:20:47,359 --> 00:20:51,480
Speaker 5: love the work speaking for itself. Like I'm so interested

452
00:20:51,520 --> 00:20:53,520
Speaker 5: in people's work in their process, and I think that

453
00:20:53,520 --> 00:20:56,520
Speaker 5: that's so generous of artists to give over and so

454
00:20:56,600 --> 00:20:58,600
Speaker 5: then to like give over more. It's like we actually

455
00:20:58,600 --> 00:21:00,919
Speaker 5: have people doing these jobs now, you know, influencers and

456
00:21:00,960 --> 00:21:03,040
Speaker 5: reality stars, like they don't make art.

457
00:21:03,600 --> 00:21:06,240
Speaker 4: So you know, have them.

458
00:21:06,119 --> 00:21:08,400
Speaker 2: Die influencers and reality stars.

459
00:21:08,680 --> 00:21:11,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, but like let's talk about that, right, Like can

460
00:21:11,040 --> 00:21:14,439
Speaker 1: we talk about reality stars? Which ones anyone that you

461
00:21:14,480 --> 00:21:16,280
Speaker 1: want to talk about? Because you are you are a

462
00:21:16,320 --> 00:21:18,240
Speaker 1: reality TV fan?

463
00:21:18,760 --> 00:21:21,800
Speaker 4: Yeah, I watched I watched Salt Lake. I just finished

464
00:21:21,800 --> 00:21:22,320
Speaker 4: that reunion.

465
00:21:22,359 --> 00:21:25,560
Speaker 2: Did you watch the Salt Lake When Mary Mary is good?

466
00:21:25,600 --> 00:21:28,119
Speaker 4: Mary's coming back? You don't even Marry.

467
00:21:27,960 --> 00:21:29,520
Speaker 2: Mary took the cake. She took the cake.

468
00:21:29,520 --> 00:21:33,240
Speaker 5: It's Mary's arc Marie, Like just from Mary alone, she

469
00:21:33,359 --> 00:21:35,160
Speaker 5: left for a little bit. Don't have to watch that, Yeah,

470
00:21:35,320 --> 00:21:38,800
Speaker 5: but from like watch season one where she's like, what, like,

471
00:21:38,840 --> 00:21:41,240
Speaker 5: what the hell am I doing on TV? And then

472
00:21:41,320 --> 00:21:44,040
Speaker 5: she comes back after her little break. She knows what

473
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Speaker 5: she's doing on TV.

474
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Speaker 3: Okay, which is very beautiful to see because now everyone

475
00:21:48,960 --> 00:21:51,360
Speaker 3: gets on reality and they know they're in reality TV,

476
00:21:51,440 --> 00:21:52,880
Speaker 3: and they're like are they already picked?

477
00:21:52,920 --> 00:21:53,800
Speaker 2: Oh, who I'm going to be?

478
00:21:54,119 --> 00:21:58,240
Speaker 1: And it's already it's too calculated, calculated, and they're preoccupied,

479
00:21:58,240 --> 00:21:59,639
Speaker 1: and it's like, where's the funny.

480
00:21:59,760 --> 00:22:03,040
Speaker 5: You're not leaving any room for what actually being a

481
00:22:03,080 --> 00:22:03,760
Speaker 5: housewife is.

482
00:22:03,880 --> 00:22:07,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what the beast, that's the monster of the housewives, right.

483
00:22:07,400 --> 00:22:09,919
Speaker 1: The first seasons of it, it was like legit women,

484
00:22:10,400 --> 00:22:13,199
Speaker 1: just you know that have money, and we're doing their

485
00:22:13,200 --> 00:22:16,440
Speaker 1: own makeup, and we're wearing stuff from Barney's or Bloomingdale's

486
00:22:16,520 --> 00:22:20,120
Speaker 1: or Sacks or whatever, coals.

487
00:22:19,320 --> 00:22:20,679
Speaker 2: And maybe not coals.

488
00:22:20,760 --> 00:22:24,439
Speaker 1: And they were just saying funny things and being like

489
00:22:24,480 --> 00:22:27,000
Speaker 1: going to events and having a good time. And now

490
00:22:27,040 --> 00:22:29,960
Speaker 1: it's like I'm trying to sell a wine, I'm trying

491
00:22:30,000 --> 00:22:32,640
Speaker 1: to get a spin off, I'm trying to start.

492
00:22:32,400 --> 00:22:34,359
Speaker 2: My own wig line, and it's like they're trying to

493
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Speaker 2: sell a brand.

494
00:22:35,119 --> 00:22:38,560
Speaker 5: Salt Lake Works because it is this weird microcosm, like

495
00:22:38,600 --> 00:22:40,959
Speaker 5: they're kind of secluded, like and nothing else going on

496
00:22:41,000 --> 00:22:44,120
Speaker 5: in Salt Lake besides kind of the petty mess, right,

497
00:22:44,320 --> 00:22:46,880
Speaker 5: and then they also have this backdrop of religion and

498
00:22:46,920 --> 00:22:49,600
Speaker 5: like Marianda Church and a lot of them are Mormons.

499
00:22:49,640 --> 00:22:52,679
Speaker 5: Like that also just kind of gives a little, you know,

500
00:22:52,960 --> 00:22:55,320
Speaker 5: a little specificity. Like now the coastal ones are a

501
00:22:55,320 --> 00:22:57,760
Speaker 5: little too wide. It's like the New York girls wouldn't

502
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Speaker 5: be in the same room. Not in twenty twenty five.

503
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Speaker 3: Now I'm so upset. I'm so upset that they let

504
00:23:02,840 --> 00:23:05,439
Speaker 3: New York go like this. I'm so it was so

505
00:23:05,920 --> 00:23:10,680
Speaker 3: fun before Derenda, Ramona Luan Sonya, like those those witch

506
00:23:10,720 --> 00:23:12,520
Speaker 3: just came in there, like I don't care what anybody thinks.

507
00:23:12,520 --> 00:23:14,320
Speaker 3: We're gonna be racist, We're gonna be stupid. I'm gonna

508
00:23:14,320 --> 00:23:16,639
Speaker 3: be bad with money. My house got a lean on it. Whatever,

509
00:23:16,800 --> 00:23:18,840
Speaker 3: let's go. My house got a lean on it.

510
00:23:18,920 --> 00:23:19,320
Speaker 2: Let's go.

511
00:23:19,600 --> 00:23:23,119
Speaker 4: I know they they were, they were so good.

512
00:23:23,480 --> 00:23:26,000
Speaker 5: I think New York reached a tipping point where it

513
00:23:26,040 --> 00:23:28,560
Speaker 5: was like, you're out of tricks now, those that set

514
00:23:28,600 --> 00:23:30,399
Speaker 5: of women. But I feel like there was something that

515
00:23:30,400 --> 00:23:32,240
Speaker 5: they could have done to just shake that set up

516
00:23:32,400 --> 00:23:36,600
Speaker 5: or like same same series that's like like have like

517
00:23:36,600 --> 00:23:39,680
Speaker 5: a little fifteen minutes manhat fifteen minutes Brooklyn.

518
00:23:39,560 --> 00:23:42,399
Speaker 2: Like something something time.

519
00:23:42,840 --> 00:23:46,280
Speaker 5: Yeah, girl slowly introduced some girls who like actually know

520
00:23:46,359 --> 00:23:49,560
Speaker 5: each other. Yeah, and it's meant to be different. But yeah,

521
00:23:49,560 --> 00:23:50,480
Speaker 5: it's a shame. It's a shame.

522
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Speaker 3: Nobody has a memorable line. Give me the like, no,

523
00:23:54,640 --> 00:23:58,080
Speaker 3: like watch Niini Leaks and come back, take a class, do.

524
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Speaker 4: Something emblematic of culture.

525
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Speaker 5: Me was spilling her well from hanging out with some

526
00:24:03,600 --> 00:24:06,720
Speaker 5: good old black gays in Atlanta. So when you aren't

527
00:24:06,720 --> 00:24:08,880
Speaker 5: getting Nani Leaks and I know that between black women

528
00:24:08,920 --> 00:24:11,280
Speaker 5: and queer black men there's a cultural exchanged. Chicken egg,

529
00:24:11,320 --> 00:24:12,720
Speaker 5: I know who started it.

530
00:24:12,840 --> 00:24:13,800
Speaker 2: You don't know, we don't know.

531
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Speaker 1: It's the black woman because they gave birth to the

532
00:24:16,040 --> 00:24:17,120
Speaker 1: black man, okay.

533
00:24:17,240 --> 00:24:19,960
Speaker 4: Or it's the black gays have to defy the black women.

534
00:24:20,000 --> 00:24:21,679
Speaker 4: It's homophobia.

535
00:24:22,119 --> 00:24:25,160
Speaker 1: No, no, you wouldn't be here.

536
00:24:25,080 --> 00:24:28,080
Speaker 5: If it wasn't for a black woman woman as a

537
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Speaker 5: black man. Only my privilege, I'll concede. Okay, okaymen, yeah,

538
00:24:32,080 --> 00:24:34,679
Speaker 5: make it easy. But I hear what you're saying exactly,

539
00:24:34,920 --> 00:24:39,480
Speaker 5: but saying that Nemi is bringing that to her reads.

540
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Speaker 4: Reading.

541
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Speaker 5: Shade came from reading. Reading came first. This is a

542
00:24:44,320 --> 00:24:47,600
Speaker 5: quote from Paris is Burning. And then we have in

543
00:24:47,640 --> 00:24:51,680
Speaker 5: the mid twenty tens, white people saying she's shading her.

544
00:24:52,080 --> 00:24:55,840
Speaker 5: You don't shade anyone, You throw shade.

545
00:24:56,320 --> 00:24:58,320
Speaker 2: Okay to teach.

546
00:24:59,680 --> 00:25:04,000
Speaker 5: And Hires built off Atlanta, popped it Jersey for the

547
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Speaker 5: table who.

548
00:25:08,080 --> 00:25:17,200
Speaker 3: Prostitution, whror horror, eyebrows non existent. That's forehead on zero

549
00:25:18,680 --> 00:25:19,360
Speaker 3: negative head.

550
00:25:19,359 --> 00:25:22,560
Speaker 2: Great, great title. I'll take that. Yeah, I wish for that.

551
00:25:23,040 --> 00:25:25,320
Speaker 2: That's one of my for sure.

552
00:25:25,760 --> 00:25:28,720
Speaker 5: You know, but Mary Mary learned organically. Mary like she came,

553
00:25:28,800 --> 00:25:30,320
Speaker 5: she kind of fell in her face. Were like, you're

554
00:25:30,359 --> 00:25:32,440
Speaker 5: so weird and she could have crumbled, but she came

555
00:25:32,480 --> 00:25:36,960
Speaker 5: back weirder than ever, like leaning. And then the season

556
00:25:37,000 --> 00:25:39,200
Speaker 5: with her her son's addiction, just like.

557
00:25:39,200 --> 00:25:41,800
Speaker 3: The love that, but not love addiction. But they love

558
00:25:41,920 --> 00:25:45,160
Speaker 3: when you are vulnerable. They love it when they know you.

559
00:25:44,960 --> 00:25:48,640
Speaker 5: Are actually remarkable, because you would think from three seasons

560
00:25:48,640 --> 00:25:51,639
Speaker 5: of Salt Lake that Mary can't you know, I can't

561
00:25:52,080 --> 00:25:54,400
Speaker 5: be there from for someone like you kind of doubt

562
00:25:54,440 --> 00:25:58,960
Speaker 5: her as a spiritual leader, and she actually did. She

563
00:25:59,119 --> 00:26:02,760
Speaker 5: practiced what she each in that moment. No me, I'm

564
00:26:02,760 --> 00:26:06,520
Speaker 5: a synec I'm watching I'm like production cut, voiceover cut,

565
00:26:06,680 --> 00:26:11,720
Speaker 5: like the match, look at the wine classes. I'm not

566
00:26:11,800 --> 00:26:14,960
Speaker 5: really watching reality with my heart open. But you know,

567
00:26:15,040 --> 00:26:17,040
Speaker 5: Mary got a little got me a little misty.

568
00:26:17,280 --> 00:26:19,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, I didn't have the journey fun.

569
00:26:20,000 --> 00:26:21,600
Speaker 3: No, she did because it was like I was like,

570
00:26:21,640 --> 00:26:23,959
Speaker 3: I don't have a son, but I've dealt with addiction.

571
00:26:24,119 --> 00:26:26,399
Speaker 3: And where she where she was coming from, I was like,

572
00:26:26,800 --> 00:26:29,560
Speaker 3: that's what he needs, he needs that. I was like, yes,

573
00:26:30,000 --> 00:26:32,879
Speaker 3: this is exactly how you're supposed to look at it.

574
00:26:33,000 --> 00:26:35,800
Speaker 2: Damn, I don't I don't watch something but if you there,

575
00:26:35,880 --> 00:26:38,399
Speaker 2: there's clips on it. There's clips. I did watch Secret

576
00:26:38,440 --> 00:26:40,240
Speaker 2: Life of Mormons? Is that was? What was that? The

577
00:26:40,280 --> 00:26:43,399
Speaker 2: show Mormons of what are the sex Lives of?

578
00:26:44,520 --> 00:26:44,680
Speaker 1: Yeah?

579
00:26:44,680 --> 00:26:45,959
Speaker 2: I watched a couple of episodes of that.

580
00:26:46,080 --> 00:26:48,640
Speaker 1: They all look the same and they right, yeah, they

581
00:26:48,640 --> 00:26:50,040
Speaker 1: all have the same extensions.

582
00:26:50,080 --> 00:26:51,720
Speaker 2: They go to the same lady they go to. It's

583
00:26:51,720 --> 00:26:58,240
Speaker 2: the same place. They all soaking together, you know, yeah, soaking.

584
00:26:58,480 --> 00:26:59,240
Speaker 4: We all know this.

585
00:26:59,359 --> 00:27:06,840
Speaker 5: That's TikTok. Yeah, there's no other reason. Yeah, people just

586
00:27:06,880 --> 00:27:10,560
Speaker 5: be like soaking throwing it out there. You didn't learn

587
00:27:10,600 --> 00:27:11,080
Speaker 5: it from.

588
00:27:13,080 --> 00:27:15,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, because I had a show the other day and

589
00:27:15,720 --> 00:27:17,600
Speaker 1: there was a couple in the audience, but there was

590
00:27:17,640 --> 00:27:19,760
Speaker 1: a person sitting between them, and I was like, why

591
00:27:19,760 --> 00:27:22,080
Speaker 1: aren't y'all not sitting next to each other? And the

592
00:27:22,080 --> 00:27:23,760
Speaker 1: guy was like, we're Mormon. And I was like, oh,

593
00:27:23,960 --> 00:27:25,040
Speaker 1: is the friend in the middle of the one that

594
00:27:25,119 --> 00:27:28,960
Speaker 1: shakes the bed? Everybody laughed, and the people who didn't laugh,

595
00:27:29,000 --> 00:27:30,240
Speaker 1: I said, oh, y'all not on sick took.

596
00:27:31,359 --> 00:27:32,480
Speaker 2: I don't know about the Mormon.

597
00:27:32,760 --> 00:27:34,880
Speaker 5: But then, okay, let's talk a little about so TikTok

598
00:27:34,920 --> 00:27:37,160
Speaker 5: was that was my original number one that was coming here.

599
00:27:37,240 --> 00:27:38,840
Speaker 2: That was your mess is mess.

600
00:27:39,160 --> 00:27:41,960
Speaker 5: It had a stronghold on me. It was gripping my

601
00:27:42,040 --> 00:27:42,800
Speaker 5: brain cells.

602
00:27:43,040 --> 00:27:45,080
Speaker 2: So why is it mess? What's on it or what

603
00:27:45,119 --> 00:27:45,920
Speaker 2: it's done to you?

604
00:27:46,240 --> 00:27:49,600
Speaker 5: I think what it's done to the country, what it's

605
00:27:49,680 --> 00:27:53,040
Speaker 5: done to entertainment, to the idea of the entertainment industry,

606
00:27:53,760 --> 00:27:56,119
Speaker 5: and yeah, like what it does to our attend like

607
00:27:56,160 --> 00:28:00,520
Speaker 5: to art, Like we don't understand that this value time

608
00:28:00,560 --> 00:28:03,719
Speaker 5: we spend on there is the time that like we

609
00:28:03,760 --> 00:28:06,800
Speaker 5: need to be using for powder revolution.

610
00:28:07,080 --> 00:28:09,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, oh yeah, but that's what they're but they're doing.

611
00:28:09,480 --> 00:28:11,359
Speaker 3: But they believe that they're doing the revolution on the

612
00:28:11,400 --> 00:28:12,160
Speaker 3: TikTok and.

613
00:28:12,119 --> 00:28:15,120
Speaker 4: You can't and you can't do it like.

614
00:28:15,560 --> 00:28:17,760
Speaker 2: They say they're doing the work here. You like, you can't.

615
00:28:17,760 --> 00:28:20,240
Speaker 2: You can only free Palestine while you're on the t

616
00:28:20,359 --> 00:28:21,720
Speaker 2: t feting.

617
00:28:21,520 --> 00:28:24,400
Speaker 5: Into you're feeling into the oppressor as you do. It's

618
00:28:24,400 --> 00:28:26,600
Speaker 5: like it's hard. Obviously there's no like ethical consumption, but

619
00:28:26,680 --> 00:28:30,720
Speaker 5: like you can literally get your news, organization, entertainment elsewhere,

620
00:28:30,880 --> 00:28:32,320
Speaker 5: you know what I mean. This isn't like the one

621
00:28:32,359 --> 00:28:35,040
Speaker 5: grocery store in the hood. This is what you're doing

622
00:28:35,040 --> 00:28:37,639
Speaker 5: with your time. And really it was just like having

623
00:28:37,640 --> 00:28:39,840
Speaker 5: it be taken away and then giving back as a

624
00:28:39,920 --> 00:28:44,960
Speaker 5: gift from the pident. Oh, I will never be grateful.

625
00:28:45,040 --> 00:28:47,840
Speaker 5: I will like thank you, Like this can't be a

626
00:28:47,880 --> 00:28:49,920
Speaker 5: gift giving it back.

627
00:28:50,280 --> 00:28:51,400
Speaker 2: The propaganda of it all.

628
00:28:51,440 --> 00:28:54,320
Speaker 1: It was like, we're going to work with President Trump

629
00:28:54,440 --> 00:28:55,840
Speaker 1: to be back soon hopefully.

630
00:28:55,920 --> 00:28:59,440
Speaker 2: And then it went away for like ten minutes minutes

631
00:28:59,560 --> 00:28:59,840
Speaker 2: it was.

632
00:29:00,040 --> 00:29:01,960
Speaker 1: And then they got back and they were like rejoicing

633
00:29:02,120 --> 00:29:03,200
Speaker 1: President Trump and.

634
00:29:03,120 --> 00:29:05,880
Speaker 2: It was like he hasn't even become president.

635
00:29:06,120 --> 00:29:08,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, And they were like, you know what, we're gonna

636
00:29:08,600 --> 00:29:11,040
Speaker 1: get on red Note, We're gonna learn Mandarin. And I

637
00:29:11,120 --> 00:29:15,640
Speaker 1: was like, you can't read.

638
00:29:15,680 --> 00:29:18,560
Speaker 5: You don't want manifest I was like, was like, I

639
00:29:18,600 --> 00:29:20,520
Speaker 5: did not know. It was so fast on Commonist. It

640
00:29:20,600 --> 00:29:22,760
Speaker 5: was like that was a jump. It was sound right

641
00:29:22,800 --> 00:29:25,600
Speaker 5: over Socialism. They're like, go for it. This is crazy.

642
00:29:25,960 --> 00:29:28,760
Speaker 1: It stressed me out for shoot, at the moment, I

643
00:29:28,840 --> 00:29:31,480
Speaker 1: was like, because I didn't want people to think like, oh,

644
00:29:31,520 --> 00:29:33,240
Speaker 1: I don't want TikTok because I don't want people get money,

645
00:29:33,240 --> 00:29:37,240
Speaker 1: because obviously people are using it for marketing and getting

646
00:29:37,240 --> 00:29:39,640
Speaker 1: their audience, and I love that they're going. But at

647
00:29:39,680 --> 00:29:41,479
Speaker 1: the moment that I was like, it's almost gonna it's

648
00:29:41,520 --> 00:29:42,160
Speaker 1: gonna be gone.

649
00:29:42,520 --> 00:29:45,200
Speaker 2: Fuck, maybe we'll get back to like how it used

650
00:29:45,240 --> 00:29:46,680
Speaker 2: to be, like.

651
00:29:46,800 --> 00:29:50,520
Speaker 3: Being you know, connected and not so focused on being

652
00:29:50,640 --> 00:29:54,400
Speaker 3: perceived and putting ourselves in this marketing bubble.

653
00:29:54,800 --> 00:29:58,040
Speaker 2: That's what I was excited. I was like, Okay, maybe we'll.

654
00:29:57,920 --> 00:30:01,120
Speaker 3: Just start existing that That's what I was excited for.

655
00:30:01,280 --> 00:30:03,560
Speaker 5: Yeah, serve a double edged sword because the access and

656
00:30:03,640 --> 00:30:06,360
Speaker 5: reach of it is so great. Obviously, like anyone anywhere

657
00:30:06,400 --> 00:30:09,360
Speaker 5: can post a video and it could in minutes be

658
00:30:09,440 --> 00:30:12,640
Speaker 5: seen by millions of people. But I think just as

659
00:30:12,720 --> 00:30:15,200
Speaker 5: thinking people, and I'm only talking to thinking people now.

660
00:30:15,280 --> 00:30:18,200
Speaker 5: If you're making now if you're if you're a contrarian,

661
00:30:18,560 --> 00:30:20,880
Speaker 5: if you are, it's not a rd ass if you're

662
00:30:20,920 --> 00:30:23,120
Speaker 5: a butt, but but if you're a Devil's advocate, like.

663
00:30:23,160 --> 00:30:25,960
Speaker 4: Please jez the room, Yeah it acrs.

664
00:30:26,960 --> 00:30:30,800
Speaker 5: They're thinking person, just like ask yourself, like if something

665
00:30:30,880 --> 00:30:33,240
Speaker 5: is easily given, how easy is it to take away?

666
00:30:33,680 --> 00:30:35,880
Speaker 5: And so we actually saw that in those fourteen hours.

667
00:30:35,920 --> 00:30:38,400
Speaker 5: It's like all these people's livelihood, the people were depending

668
00:30:38,440 --> 00:30:41,800
Speaker 5: on that they got from this very relative, you know,

669
00:30:41,920 --> 00:30:45,440
Speaker 5: accessible medium was then able to be taken away and

670
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Speaker 5: all the benefits.

671
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Speaker 1: And they did it early they were like, on the nineteenth,

672
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Speaker 1: it is going to go. And then on the eighteenth

673
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Speaker 1: and Tampion people were like.

674
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Speaker 2: What it's gone, It's like, what's going on?

675
00:30:57,040 --> 00:30:58,760
Speaker 1: Doct They said, we're trying to get out of here early.

676
00:30:58,840 --> 00:31:01,000
Speaker 1: Let's just unplug it, lug it now so I can

677
00:31:01,080 --> 00:31:02,160
Speaker 1: go home to my wife.

678
00:31:02,280 --> 00:31:03,520
Speaker 5: That's going. Yeah.

679
00:31:03,560 --> 00:31:06,080
Speaker 4: I haven't posted on i G at all year.

680
00:31:06,400 --> 00:31:07,720
Speaker 2: It's hard all year.

681
00:31:07,840 --> 00:31:09,520
Speaker 4: I know, I'm really trying to upstate.

682
00:31:09,760 --> 00:31:14,080
Speaker 1: Why Sydney on her birthday?

683
00:31:14,840 --> 00:31:17,200
Speaker 5: Well, when I deleted TikTok, I did read seven books

684
00:31:17,200 --> 00:31:17,840
Speaker 5: in two weeks.

685
00:31:18,160 --> 00:31:21,040
Speaker 2: Shut up? Yeah, wait, seven real books.

686
00:31:21,120 --> 00:31:22,920
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's various sizes.

687
00:31:22,680 --> 00:31:24,640
Speaker 2: But you were you're a reader before that, so don't

688
00:31:24,640 --> 00:31:25,120
Speaker 2: even do that.

689
00:31:27,000 --> 00:31:28,960
Speaker 5: But why couldn't I hold the sentence when I'm going

690
00:31:29,000 --> 00:31:30,720
Speaker 5: four hours of talk? Why?

691
00:31:30,800 --> 00:31:32,120
Speaker 2: Why can't I? Why can I?

692
00:31:32,200 --> 00:31:37,120
Speaker 5: Why? Through them holding the bone? I dropped the phone

693
00:31:37,200 --> 00:31:38,120
Speaker 5: from here to my.

694
00:31:38,120 --> 00:31:42,720
Speaker 3: Face, glasses on my nose, on everything right on the

695
00:31:42,800 --> 00:31:43,480
Speaker 3: Jackson five.

696
00:31:47,880 --> 00:31:49,480
Speaker 2: It's true, it's happened to all of us.

697
00:31:49,600 --> 00:31:52,800
Speaker 5: And watching what I can't tell you? I can't tell you?

698
00:31:53,000 --> 00:31:55,120
Speaker 5: Why then something I can't tell you?

699
00:31:56,480 --> 00:32:02,600
Speaker 2: Okay? That was the test being tested by the tt T.

700
00:32:02,840 --> 00:32:05,600
Speaker 5: Yeah, so I just really wanted to reclaim, honestly, my focus.

701
00:32:05,880 --> 00:32:08,440
Speaker 5: I wanted to reclaim like my own internal voice, and

702
00:32:08,520 --> 00:32:12,480
Speaker 5: I wanted to reclaim just like how I think about

703
00:32:12,480 --> 00:32:14,600
Speaker 5: my art being positioned in the world.

704
00:32:14,760 --> 00:32:18,080
Speaker 1: But you're a genius though, like you're like you're not

705
00:32:18,120 --> 00:32:19,240
Speaker 1: like an average person.

706
00:32:19,320 --> 00:32:19,640
Speaker 4: Okay.

707
00:32:19,680 --> 00:32:22,360
Speaker 5: First of all, thank you, wow, Okay, whoa. And second

708
00:32:22,400 --> 00:32:25,480
Speaker 5: of all, I think that we all are more engaged

709
00:32:25,480 --> 00:32:27,560
Speaker 5: in alert than we give ourselves credit for. And that's

710
00:32:27,600 --> 00:32:30,120
Speaker 5: what TikTok does. It allows us to undermine our intelligence.

711
00:32:30,360 --> 00:32:32,520
Speaker 5: That's what Fox News does, That's what CNN does, That's

712
00:32:32,560 --> 00:32:35,920
Speaker 5: what the right conservative edge is trying to do. They're

713
00:32:35,960 --> 00:32:39,080
Speaker 5: trying to take people to their lowest common denominator, not

714
00:32:39,120 --> 00:32:41,640
Speaker 5: to the part of themselves. It says, oh, wait, we

715
00:32:41,680 --> 00:32:44,360
Speaker 5: actually can create enough renewable energy in six months to

716
00:32:44,360 --> 00:32:46,400
Speaker 5: sustain us and we never have to worry about ol again.

717
00:32:46,640 --> 00:32:50,880
Speaker 5: Oh if we just simply have like the emotional conversation

718
00:32:51,000 --> 00:32:53,320
Speaker 5: about the blight of slavery on our peoples and we

719
00:32:53,400 --> 00:32:56,240
Speaker 5: learn how to rehabilitate the white psyche after hundreds of

720
00:32:56,320 --> 00:33:00,160
Speaker 5: years of faux idea of privilege, and then.

721
00:33:00,120 --> 00:33:02,240
Speaker 4: Well you know what I mean, introduced the coexistence.

722
00:33:02,400 --> 00:33:03,560
Speaker 2: Have you still off TikTok?

723
00:33:05,400 --> 00:33:07,880
Speaker 1: He can't, he can't redownload it, he's not on I

724
00:33:07,880 --> 00:33:10,800
Speaker 1: don't know, but you can use it on the laptop.

725
00:33:11,080 --> 00:33:12,760
Speaker 4: Wait, is this true? Way I can't get back on it.

726
00:33:13,160 --> 00:33:15,320
Speaker 1: No, yeah, if you deleted it, delet didn't get back

727
00:33:15,600 --> 00:33:16,760
Speaker 1: well for me, thank you.

728
00:33:16,920 --> 00:33:20,239
Speaker 4: Oh yes, and listen to my practice and no I did.

729
00:33:21,800 --> 00:33:24,640
Speaker 3: I mean I feel what you're saying, because that's why

730
00:33:24,800 --> 00:33:27,560
Speaker 3: I like, I've been struggling. I was like an online

731
00:33:27,600 --> 00:33:30,600
Speaker 3: person and I've been struggling because I was like, yo.

732
00:33:30,560 --> 00:33:31,800
Speaker 2: I'm so caught up.

733
00:33:32,000 --> 00:33:35,240
Speaker 1: I'm so caught up with like how I want to

734
00:33:35,240 --> 00:33:35,920
Speaker 1: put stuff out?

735
00:33:36,160 --> 00:33:40,440
Speaker 2: How nomn how side so much? How it was it

736
00:33:40,720 --> 00:33:41,360
Speaker 2: was not for fun.

737
00:33:41,480 --> 00:33:43,560
Speaker 5: These things used to be fund out purely fun, and

738
00:33:43,560 --> 00:33:45,440
Speaker 5: they weren't coming for the government. I had downloaded the

739
00:33:45,520 --> 00:33:47,200
Speaker 5: back you know, if it was a load of you know,

740
00:33:47,280 --> 00:33:48,640
Speaker 5: little little something something.

741
00:33:48,600 --> 00:33:49,640
Speaker 4: But no, it's too much.

742
00:33:49,680 --> 00:33:53,360
Speaker 5: We were okay, So I before not posting everyone on Instagram,

743
00:33:53,480 --> 00:33:57,760
Speaker 5: I actually unarchived all of my posts. Yeah, right before

744
00:33:57,760 --> 00:34:00,480
Speaker 5: the end of twenty twenty four, so December, I was like, oh,

745
00:34:00,600 --> 00:34:03,800
Speaker 5: it's like y'all on archive and I.

746
00:34:03,720 --> 00:34:06,320
Speaker 2: Went, you know, I came for you when you archived exactly.

747
00:34:06,400 --> 00:34:09,040
Speaker 2: It was like, I was like, what's it's a different time.

748
00:34:09,880 --> 00:34:11,080
Speaker 4: It's a different time.

749
00:34:11,239 --> 00:34:13,600
Speaker 5: It was it was taking that transition from personal to

750
00:34:13,760 --> 00:34:18,200
Speaker 5: purely professional to you know, completely corporatized. We watched that

751
00:34:18,320 --> 00:34:22,080
Speaker 5: happen in seven years. We watched Instagram, so the fore

752
00:34:22,160 --> 00:34:24,600
Speaker 5: mother to TikTok, the like what we spend hours on.

753
00:34:24,800 --> 00:34:26,160
Speaker 4: We watched it, watched it be so fun.

754
00:34:26,360 --> 00:34:29,240
Speaker 1: Well, yeah, people used to post grainy photos of food

755
00:34:29,320 --> 00:34:31,080
Speaker 1: and put a weird filter on.

756
00:34:31,480 --> 00:34:32,880
Speaker 4: But I was on our memes.

757
00:34:33,160 --> 00:34:34,239
Speaker 2: The themes were like.

758
00:34:34,200 --> 00:34:35,960
Speaker 5: I'm taking a photo of your hat right now, and

759
00:34:36,080 --> 00:34:39,040
Speaker 5: been like ooring is my favorite color, and thirteen likes

760
00:34:39,320 --> 00:34:41,800
Speaker 5: to skip down the streets thirteen likes and all to

761
00:34:41,800 --> 00:34:44,840
Speaker 5: look dot on the train and like is and that's

762
00:34:44,880 --> 00:34:46,560
Speaker 5: that's it, you know what I mean. That's like a

763
00:34:46,560 --> 00:34:49,719
Speaker 5: photo cataloging thing, and now it's just so far from that.

764
00:34:49,840 --> 00:34:51,320
Speaker 4: But it used to be so fun.

765
00:34:51,360 --> 00:34:56,359
Speaker 5: And I understand, like our are that we want to connect,

766
00:34:56,640 --> 00:34:59,200
Speaker 5: like that's the most human thing ever. And I understand

767
00:34:59,200 --> 00:35:02,880
Speaker 5: that the phone makes it seem like the mirage literal

768
00:35:02,960 --> 00:35:05,240
Speaker 5: glass and light. It makes it seem like we're connected

769
00:35:05,280 --> 00:35:08,560
Speaker 5: with each other, but nothing is that substantial social media.

770
00:35:09,040 --> 00:35:11,520
Speaker 2: Social media. They're like, yeah, I have one hundred thousand friends,

771
00:35:11,560 --> 00:35:12,120
Speaker 2: and it's like.

772
00:35:12,120 --> 00:35:15,160
Speaker 3: Do you know because when it was my actual birthday,

773
00:35:15,360 --> 00:35:16,319
Speaker 3: the niggas didn't talk.

774
00:35:17,760 --> 00:35:18,560
Speaker 2: I have a sister.

775
00:35:18,800 --> 00:35:19,160
Speaker 5: I have it.

776
00:35:19,320 --> 00:35:20,400
Speaker 2: I legit have a sister.

777
00:35:20,480 --> 00:35:24,040
Speaker 3: That's why I have no my brother didn't call, and

778
00:35:24,080 --> 00:35:26,400
Speaker 3: I talked to my brother more, which is I.

779
00:35:26,280 --> 00:35:29,960
Speaker 2: Was like, this is something's not adding up AnyWho?

780
00:35:30,080 --> 00:35:34,240
Speaker 3: Yes, I agree, I think that, Like, uh, I actually

781
00:35:34,239 --> 00:35:36,200
Speaker 3: want to take it all the way back to my space.

782
00:35:36,320 --> 00:35:40,080
Speaker 3: That's yeah, I's coding.

783
00:35:40,239 --> 00:35:41,120
Speaker 4: We didn't even know.

784
00:35:42,200 --> 00:35:45,360
Speaker 2: I want the dollar, the dollar sign to rotate the.

785
00:35:45,680 --> 00:35:49,359
Speaker 5: Top eight, kind of like American's model Core. Yeah, it's

786
00:35:49,440 --> 00:35:51,799
Speaker 5: choosing now. Can you imagine it's choosing eight people? And

787
00:35:51,840 --> 00:35:56,319
Speaker 5: I will up there. I don't want to imagine image.

788
00:35:56,560 --> 00:35:59,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't want to. I don't want to have

789
00:35:59,520 --> 00:36:00,000
Speaker 2: to think about it.

790
00:36:00,040 --> 00:36:02,400
Speaker 5: But actually, you know what I want that what he

791
00:36:02,600 --> 00:36:08,200
Speaker 5: I am? What at a computer? Chat with you at

792
00:36:08,200 --> 00:36:08,760
Speaker 5: a computer?

793
00:36:08,960 --> 00:36:10,600
Speaker 1: I want to put an away message up and people

794
00:36:10,640 --> 00:36:11,919
Speaker 1: be like, gir, what you're doing over there?

795
00:36:12,120 --> 00:36:15,600
Speaker 5: Exactly exactly what would your way message be?

796
00:36:15,680 --> 00:36:15,880
Speaker 4: Right now?

797
00:36:15,920 --> 00:36:17,640
Speaker 2: They had the away message now on Instagram.

798
00:36:17,640 --> 00:36:20,000
Speaker 4: I don't like it, not I need more.

799
00:36:20,080 --> 00:36:22,000
Speaker 2: My way message right now would be in the stew

800
00:36:22,120 --> 00:36:22,840
Speaker 2: with my boot.

801
00:36:24,640 --> 00:36:26,440
Speaker 5: It's actually really good, but it's like head, it's to

802
00:36:26,480 --> 00:36:32,879
Speaker 5: the stew so we would tell them it was such

803
00:36:32,880 --> 00:36:36,319
Speaker 5: a gorgeous communication. You could be doing something talk and

804
00:36:36,360 --> 00:36:39,280
Speaker 5: talking to six people at once, long sentences.

805
00:36:39,640 --> 00:36:41,239
Speaker 2: But that's what texting is right now, like.

806
00:36:43,680 --> 00:36:46,520
Speaker 5: Much with the device, because why are you getting your

807
00:36:46,560 --> 00:36:48,560
Speaker 5: communication from me from the same place that you get

808
00:36:48,600 --> 00:36:49,200
Speaker 5: your videos?

809
00:36:49,239 --> 00:36:53,200
Speaker 2: And you and you want the separation in your email

810
00:36:53,320 --> 00:36:54,879
Speaker 2: and your email because you just.

811
00:36:56,400 --> 00:36:57,360
Speaker 4: Parasympathetically.

812
00:36:57,600 --> 00:36:59,839
Speaker 5: I believe that we feel the energy of like all

813
00:36:59,880 --> 00:37:02,839
Speaker 5: the power that our device holds, even if we don't confront.

814
00:37:02,480 --> 00:37:03,080
Speaker 4: It all the time.

815
00:37:03,719 --> 00:37:05,839
Speaker 2: Okay, So now that you don't have any social media on.

816
00:37:05,800 --> 00:37:09,640
Speaker 1: Your phone on Instagram, I scrolled, Oh you're just not

817
00:37:09,640 --> 00:37:10,760
Speaker 1: posting it, no.

818
00:37:10,800 --> 00:37:13,200
Speaker 5: Posts, and I'm scrolling less because of this diet.

819
00:37:13,600 --> 00:37:17,480
Speaker 1: Okay, So I forgot what my question was because it

820
00:37:17,520 --> 00:37:18,440
Speaker 1: turned out I was wrong.

821
00:37:19,160 --> 00:37:19,879
Speaker 4: What was it?

822
00:37:20,160 --> 00:37:22,719
Speaker 2: Oh, you were going to say, Oh, how how are

823
00:37:22,719 --> 00:37:23,600
Speaker 2: you spending your time?

824
00:37:23,640 --> 00:37:23,799
Speaker 4: Now?

825
00:37:24,200 --> 00:37:24,560
Speaker 2: How do you?

826
00:37:24,680 --> 00:37:27,480
Speaker 1: I mean you said you read seven books in two weeks.

827
00:37:28,200 --> 00:37:29,560
Speaker 1: Need to see the episod of these books. Did they

828
00:37:29,560 --> 00:37:30,600
Speaker 1: look like the gum packet.

829
00:37:32,760 --> 00:37:34,799
Speaker 3: That's fine, we'll post we'll post the books that you read.

830
00:37:35,160 --> 00:37:38,279
Speaker 3: We'll put it on the Yeah, but you're still post

831
00:37:38,320 --> 00:37:38,920
Speaker 3: it on the fence.

832
00:37:39,040 --> 00:37:41,200
Speaker 5: No, I don't even like that no more the fence

833
00:37:41,239 --> 00:37:43,960
Speaker 5: to ry. Everybody quiet wants to.

834
00:37:44,760 --> 00:37:50,080
Speaker 2: Be popping, really giving, like, oh, now I know.

835
00:37:50,080 --> 00:37:52,839
Speaker 4: You because you want to show the front.

836
00:37:52,840 --> 00:37:55,480
Speaker 2: They don't want to. It's crazy because you well, because

837
00:37:56,520 --> 00:37:59,000
Speaker 2: it's the leaks.

838
00:37:59,080 --> 00:38:02,399
Speaker 1: You can't trust people. People are inside of it now

839
00:38:02,800 --> 00:38:05,040
Speaker 1: and it's like, yo, you can't just keep it, like

840
00:38:05,120 --> 00:38:07,239
Speaker 1: even if you do know, don't let howther people know that?

841
00:38:07,320 --> 00:38:09,239
Speaker 2: You know? Like, why are you doing that?

842
00:38:09,239 --> 00:38:12,120
Speaker 3: That sucks up the whole reason why we're doing fincedown,

843
00:38:12,239 --> 00:38:13,040
Speaker 3: that's the whole point.

844
00:38:13,560 --> 00:38:15,759
Speaker 2: How do we feel about close friends closes?

845
00:38:15,920 --> 00:38:17,800
Speaker 5: I love being on it. There's a few green bubbles

846
00:38:17,840 --> 00:38:19,720
Speaker 5: that I love and I'm not even close with these people.

847
00:38:19,800 --> 00:38:21,879
Speaker 1: But oh every time somebody asks me to their close

848
00:38:21,880 --> 00:38:26,440
Speaker 1: friends still, now I'd be like.

849
00:38:25,320 --> 00:38:26,160
Speaker 4: I love it.

850
00:38:27,120 --> 00:38:29,799
Speaker 5: But yeah, there are two closes, and I'm just like

851
00:38:30,280 --> 00:38:33,200
Speaker 5: just happy to see these people go, you know, like

852
00:38:33,200 --> 00:38:35,680
Speaker 5: like some like some twenties, they're still in their twenties

853
00:38:35,800 --> 00:38:37,759
Speaker 5: and they're like having fun. I'm like, wait, this is

854
00:38:37,760 --> 00:38:39,200
Speaker 5: what this is what I would be doing if I

855
00:38:39,239 --> 00:38:41,920
Speaker 5: was Keatsy, Like I'm in my I'm in my transition.

856
00:38:42,200 --> 00:38:43,919
Speaker 4: I'm not dad, but I'm like giving young Dad.

857
00:38:44,440 --> 00:38:45,359
Speaker 2: You're giving young Dad.

858
00:38:45,440 --> 00:38:50,919
Speaker 5: I think my voice like, I'm like, hey, you still

859
00:38:50,960 --> 00:38:51,440
Speaker 5: sound like that.

860
00:38:51,800 --> 00:38:53,400
Speaker 4: Okay, dam's fucked up.

861
00:38:53,520 --> 00:38:55,680
Speaker 2: No, I think it's you're not on d T.

862
00:38:57,200 --> 00:38:59,200
Speaker 3: You got such a serious you know it goes with

863
00:38:59,239 --> 00:39:01,400
Speaker 3: the button now, but it's like.

864
00:39:03,080 --> 00:39:10,440
Speaker 5: Chair she was whispering, Well yeah, but you probably lean

865
00:39:10,560 --> 00:39:12,920
Speaker 5: in just a little bit and just say something right.

866
00:39:14,880 --> 00:39:15,359
Speaker 2: That the thing.

867
00:39:15,400 --> 00:39:20,080
Speaker 1: But that's also about being celebrity though I think, you know,

868
00:39:20,080 --> 00:39:20,759
Speaker 1: what are you doing?

869
00:39:26,160 --> 00:39:29,640
Speaker 2: I think that like, you know, that's but that's celebrity.

870
00:39:29,800 --> 00:39:32,440
Speaker 3: That's the difference between TikTok is, Like people want to

871
00:39:32,480 --> 00:39:35,160
Speaker 3: be famous, but they don't need to be a celebrity.

872
00:39:35,560 --> 00:39:37,640
Speaker 3: They're like, I'm going to be in this bonnet. I

873
00:39:37,640 --> 00:39:39,919
Speaker 3: didn't wash my face. I'm saying what I want.

874
00:39:40,120 --> 00:39:40,640
Speaker 2: I went by.

875
00:39:40,680 --> 00:39:43,280
Speaker 4: TikTok is a mess. TikTok loves when you're down.

876
00:39:43,400 --> 00:39:46,320
Speaker 2: When you're down bad, when you're spiraling.

877
00:39:46,320 --> 00:39:46,919
Speaker 4: You have a bond.

878
00:39:47,239 --> 00:39:50,560
Speaker 5: There's something wrong with black culture. From the hood Baltimore City.

879
00:39:50,719 --> 00:39:54,359
Speaker 5: But they want that. They definitely will take that over

880
00:39:54,400 --> 00:39:55,160
Speaker 5: glam any day.

881
00:39:55,360 --> 00:39:58,960
Speaker 2: They want to make up smeared, they want mess that.

882
00:39:59,600 --> 00:40:03,720
Speaker 5: They want that that or fresh Valentino every day.

883
00:40:03,800 --> 00:40:05,880
Speaker 4: Yeah, like like what what lane are you in?

884
00:40:06,360 --> 00:40:06,600
Speaker 5: Yeah?

885
00:40:06,680 --> 00:40:07,120
Speaker 2: TikTok.

886
00:40:07,160 --> 00:40:12,120
Speaker 1: They also love the like well put together, like good life,

887
00:40:12,200 --> 00:40:15,080
Speaker 1: hair is always done, get ready with me.

888
00:40:15,880 --> 00:40:16,920
Speaker 2: They also love.

889
00:40:16,760 --> 00:40:20,040
Speaker 5: That consumer culture when someone's like my day and they

890
00:40:20,080 --> 00:40:23,600
Speaker 5: like opened a drawer of like things packages and they

891
00:40:23,640 --> 00:40:26,040
Speaker 5: put that on top of another product like they do.

892
00:40:26,239 --> 00:40:28,240
Speaker 1: And then they have the TikTok shop like my links

893
00:40:28,360 --> 00:40:31,240
Speaker 1: and it's like okay, okay, it's like these.

894
00:40:31,080 --> 00:40:34,560
Speaker 2: Glasses from TikTok shop. No I actually got from. No

895
00:40:34,640 --> 00:40:35,319
Speaker 2: I got this from.

896
00:40:35,440 --> 00:40:42,239
Speaker 1: I went to Keangle store and they were yeah Jackson.

897
00:40:46,640 --> 00:40:51,759
Speaker 2: No, I think they both they both yeah, I would say,

898
00:40:52,440 --> 00:40:52,840
Speaker 2: but whatever.

899
00:40:53,600 --> 00:40:57,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, but I think like the selling everything everybody's selling

900
00:40:57,920 --> 00:40:58,440
Speaker 3: ship on there.

901
00:40:58,640 --> 00:41:01,000
Speaker 5: Now. He's supposed to be good word and he's supposed

902
00:41:01,000 --> 00:41:02,560
Speaker 5: to be like, I'm really good at this thing.

903
00:41:02,760 --> 00:41:04,680
Speaker 4: It's not like I do this one thing only and

904
00:41:04,760 --> 00:41:06,160
Speaker 4: you will you know what I mean. It's like it.

905
00:41:07,719 --> 00:41:09,919
Speaker 5: There was a moment I was dancing around, like what

906
00:41:09,960 --> 00:41:13,960
Speaker 5: My participation on that website was like as a person

907
00:41:14,080 --> 00:41:17,360
Speaker 5: who like, as a person do you mean? And I

908
00:41:17,400 --> 00:41:22,520
Speaker 5: was just like, ultimately, I like an anti niche, like

909
00:41:22,560 --> 00:41:25,680
Speaker 5: a comedian who say, like, that's like, but both are niches.

910
00:41:26,120 --> 00:41:28,040
Speaker 5: It's two and one, you know what I mean. It's

911
00:41:28,040 --> 00:41:29,680
Speaker 5: like I'm an actor who's black, you know what I mean.

912
00:41:29,719 --> 00:41:31,560
Speaker 5: So it's like I'm not just like wipeway of the mind.

913
00:41:31,760 --> 00:41:35,680
Speaker 5: Like it's like so it's it's just it just requires

914
00:41:35,760 --> 00:41:39,000
Speaker 5: such single mindedness.

915
00:41:38,680 --> 00:41:42,160
Speaker 1: My tactic for TikTok now is just throwing everything at

916
00:41:42,200 --> 00:41:42,880
Speaker 1: the wall and whatever.

917
00:41:42,960 --> 00:41:43,520
Speaker 2: Stick sticks.

918
00:41:43,680 --> 00:41:46,520
Speaker 4: You're amazing, You're like, I'm just saying comedian to the bone.

919
00:41:46,640 --> 00:41:49,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm just like yeah. But like the stuff is

920
00:41:50,160 --> 00:41:50,839
Speaker 2: does really well.

921
00:41:50,880 --> 00:41:52,400
Speaker 1: And then a lot of the stuff recently is just

922
00:41:52,440 --> 00:41:55,480
Speaker 1: like okay, dude, it's nobody on TikTok I think it's

923
00:41:55,480 --> 00:41:58,960
Speaker 1: algorithmic racism. Algorithmic racism, thank you.

924
00:41:59,160 --> 00:42:01,040
Speaker 5: But and so that's like a little bit of like

925
00:42:01,040 --> 00:42:02,879
Speaker 5: the invisible insipid stuff. Yeah.

926
00:42:02,960 --> 00:42:06,680
Speaker 1: If I was blond and skinny and had blue eyes

927
00:42:07,040 --> 00:42:09,520
Speaker 1: and my dad was like a judge or something, I

928
00:42:09,560 --> 00:42:10,680
Speaker 1: would be in a poppy commercial.

929
00:42:10,719 --> 00:42:17,120
Speaker 4: Right now. I think you're gonna be a poppy commercial.

930
00:42:17,160 --> 00:42:18,880
Speaker 5: Now, TikTok wants you to think that you need all

931
00:42:18,920 --> 00:42:23,440
Speaker 5: those things a person. That means it's working. This is

932
00:42:23,480 --> 00:42:25,359
Speaker 5: not funny, y'all, but it is.

933
00:42:27,239 --> 00:42:30,400
Speaker 1: They're getting there fighting the tiktoctors to the Grammys. They

934
00:42:30,480 --> 00:42:33,040
Speaker 1: inviting them to the They're in Super Bowl ads, like.

935
00:42:33,080 --> 00:42:35,400
Speaker 2: At the mec Gala. They at the met Gala, Like

936
00:42:35,680 --> 00:42:39,920
Speaker 2: what table? Who sponsored a table for you? But they're there.

937
00:42:40,360 --> 00:42:42,520
Speaker 2: I mean, they're they're entertainers. They deserve it.

938
00:42:42,560 --> 00:42:45,719
Speaker 3: I've sat and watched it, you know, a seventeen part

939
00:42:45,800 --> 00:42:48,719
Speaker 3: thing on like you know, my brother slept with my

940
00:42:48,840 --> 00:42:51,239
Speaker 3: sister and now they got a baby together, and you.

941
00:42:51,200 --> 00:42:53,000
Speaker 2: Know, I'm going to the I'm going to the birthday

942
00:42:53,000 --> 00:42:54,520
Speaker 2: of the baby. Like what do the baby look like?

943
00:42:55,400 --> 00:42:56,880
Speaker 2: Show me a phone with the baby now.

944
00:42:57,560 --> 00:43:00,719
Speaker 3: But like I watched them, like okay, like this is

945
00:43:01,440 --> 00:43:02,600
Speaker 3: it'll be more compelling.

946
00:43:02,640 --> 00:43:04,040
Speaker 1: This some of the stuff that I see on TV.

947
00:43:04,120 --> 00:43:07,880
Speaker 1: And I'm like, you'll crazy. Remember Marisa Tisasa. She was

948
00:43:07,880 --> 00:43:10,360
Speaker 1: like a forty seven part series. I don't even know

949
00:43:10,360 --> 00:43:14,359
Speaker 1: what the final count was, but everybody like all over the.

950
00:43:14,320 --> 00:43:15,880
Speaker 5: World was Yeah, it was episodic.

951
00:43:16,040 --> 00:43:19,400
Speaker 3: But you think that like you're special, Like there was

952
00:43:19,440 --> 00:43:22,160
Speaker 3: a moment where you're like, oh, you're special and like

953
00:43:22,280 --> 00:43:25,440
Speaker 3: nobody else had this has happened to and there was

954
00:43:25,480 --> 00:43:29,319
Speaker 3: a moment where everything that's out there is like there's

955
00:43:29,360 --> 00:43:32,359
Speaker 3: only a few of it. Now, It's like I don't

956
00:43:32,360 --> 00:43:34,600
Speaker 3: feel that way, Like I think that I'm funny. I

957
00:43:34,600 --> 00:43:37,239
Speaker 3: know there's nobody's like me. The things that happened to

958
00:43:37,280 --> 00:43:39,560
Speaker 3: me happened to me, and then there's me. But then

959
00:43:39,600 --> 00:43:42,680
Speaker 3: I get on TikTok and I'm like, girl, there's millions

960
00:43:42,680 --> 00:43:45,839
Speaker 3: of people crazy. Shit is I'm not comparing. I'm just

961
00:43:45,880 --> 00:43:46,520
Speaker 3: this is a fact.

962
00:43:46,600 --> 00:43:49,879
Speaker 5: But you aren't comparing by virtue, by virtue looking at

963
00:43:49,880 --> 00:43:51,920
Speaker 5: other people relationship to your art.

964
00:43:52,920 --> 00:43:54,960
Speaker 4: No, it's just like why do your TikTok? Was my

965
00:43:54,960 --> 00:43:56,680
Speaker 4: life changed? Like what do I do? It's like I

966
00:43:56,760 --> 00:43:57,399
Speaker 4: literally just.

967
00:43:57,320 --> 00:43:59,920
Speaker 5: Like don't think about other people who like, you know,

968
00:44:00,040 --> 00:44:02,160
Speaker 5: work all day to make thirty second clips when I write,

969
00:44:02,320 --> 00:44:03,520
Speaker 5: you know, plays.

970
00:44:04,400 --> 00:44:05,680
Speaker 2: I create art.

971
00:44:06,520 --> 00:44:08,960
Speaker 4: I don't think about the art, you know what I mean?

972
00:44:09,120 --> 00:44:12,279
Speaker 5: Like and just yeah, I just really understand that, Like

973
00:44:12,280 --> 00:44:14,239
Speaker 5: oh my gosh, Like I'm on the Mess podcast. It's

974
00:44:14,280 --> 00:44:16,279
Speaker 5: like this is plenty of attention. You know what I

975
00:44:16,360 --> 00:44:17,719
Speaker 5: mean like I get to be a part of like

976
00:44:17,760 --> 00:44:20,000
Speaker 5: abb Elementary, Like that's plenty of attention.

977
00:44:20,239 --> 00:44:20,480
Speaker 4: You know.

978
00:44:20,640 --> 00:44:24,520
Speaker 5: It's like why why if this thing that I'm using

979
00:44:24,560 --> 00:44:27,399
Speaker 5: for fun makes me feel like I'm not doing something enough?

980
00:44:28,040 --> 00:44:31,319
Speaker 5: And that's for everyone. That's for like, like if you

981
00:44:31,400 --> 00:44:33,279
Speaker 5: are an artist at a record label, they're like, get

982
00:44:33,320 --> 00:44:36,239
Speaker 5: on TikTok and so you have a record deal and

983
00:44:36,280 --> 00:44:39,120
Speaker 5: you make me read music and play the piano and

984
00:44:39,160 --> 00:44:40,120
Speaker 5: they're telling you to.

985
00:44:40,080 --> 00:44:41,680
Speaker 2: Like get but about it.

986
00:44:45,920 --> 00:44:49,000
Speaker 3: Okay, you don't sound like Monique, but your Monique in

987
00:44:49,000 --> 00:44:49,799
Speaker 3: a blazer right now?

988
00:44:52,200 --> 00:44:54,399
Speaker 4: Every time, you know, I'm always on her side.

989
00:44:54,480 --> 00:44:59,840
Speaker 2: Yeah side, Yeah, I'm like yeah.

990
00:45:00,040 --> 00:45:01,799
Speaker 5: That was probably like one where I was like, okay,

991
00:45:01,840 --> 00:45:06,759
Speaker 5: I'm gonna give you know, Shannon got one. But like generally, yeah,

992
00:45:06,800 --> 00:45:08,720
Speaker 5: I'm very much a line with my bottom my stuff.

993
00:45:12,600 --> 00:45:33,280
Speaker 2: I love that. Thank you for sharing, Larry.

994
00:45:33,280 --> 00:45:36,800
Speaker 3: What do you do for fun? Like that has nothing

995
00:45:36,800 --> 00:45:39,040
Speaker 3: to do with comedy theater?

996
00:45:39,520 --> 00:45:39,719
Speaker 5: Yeah?

997
00:45:39,880 --> 00:45:42,879
Speaker 2: Work, work, reading? What else? What else are we doing?

998
00:45:43,160 --> 00:45:43,879
Speaker 2: Is the reading? The fun?

999
00:45:44,160 --> 00:45:45,520
Speaker 5: The reading is really fun. And I do go to

1000
00:45:45,560 --> 00:45:48,520
Speaker 5: the library a lot.

1001
00:45:48,560 --> 00:45:52,600
Speaker 2: They know you your part is platinum. You're a platinum library.

1002
00:45:52,760 --> 00:45:54,200
Speaker 5: Do you know your public library that line.

1003
00:45:54,480 --> 00:45:58,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, why podcast that line? I want to leaning in

1004
00:45:58,960 --> 00:45:59,960
Speaker 2: for library.

1005
00:45:59,640 --> 00:46:02,440
Speaker 1: To Yes, we don't we need the library, give it

1006
00:46:02,440 --> 00:46:05,640
Speaker 1: to us what is happening there because we will. Famously,

1007
00:46:05,760 --> 00:46:07,960
Speaker 1: Carrie Bradshaw was trying to get married in that library

1008
00:46:08,000 --> 00:46:09,200
Speaker 1: and she did get stood up.

1009
00:46:09,200 --> 00:46:11,799
Speaker 2: In that life, it did not happen. So one stuff

1010
00:46:11,840 --> 00:46:12,280
Speaker 2: does happen.

1011
00:46:12,280 --> 00:46:14,320
Speaker 5: A yeah, I know, I know go to the patients

1012
00:46:14,320 --> 00:46:17,120
Speaker 5: afforded to when I go to a different one. But yeah,

1013
00:46:17,160 --> 00:46:19,240
Speaker 5: I know there's a guy who, like it was definitely

1014
00:46:19,280 --> 00:46:22,720
Speaker 5: a skeezer who sits at this one desk every time.

1015
00:46:23,280 --> 00:46:25,319
Speaker 5: And if like a girl sits across from like a

1016
00:46:25,360 --> 00:46:28,680
Speaker 5: young like student girl, he will watch like a weird

1017
00:46:28,800 --> 00:46:31,360
Speaker 5: sort of SMR video of their type. So if she's Asian,

1018
00:46:31,400 --> 00:46:34,239
Speaker 5: it'll be an Asian girl like combing her hair. It

1019
00:46:34,280 --> 00:46:37,520
Speaker 5: feels and I don't like it.

1020
00:46:37,640 --> 00:46:39,880
Speaker 2: Are you going to step in or not? No, Okay,

1021
00:46:40,800 --> 00:46:41,280
Speaker 2: I don't.

1022
00:46:41,120 --> 00:46:43,520
Speaker 5: Really know if it is, but you hear what I'm saying.

1023
00:46:43,600 --> 00:46:46,680
Speaker 2: I do. But that's the just between me and you

1024
00:46:47,120 --> 00:46:47,480
Speaker 2: is like.

1025
00:46:47,880 --> 00:46:51,560
Speaker 3: I need to know if I'm going to the library

1026
00:46:51,600 --> 00:46:53,920
Speaker 3: all the time, I'm most likely going to get involved

1027
00:46:55,040 --> 00:46:56,040
Speaker 3: that I know.

1028
00:46:56,200 --> 00:46:57,880
Speaker 2: I know, I see her a lot. What's going on

1029
00:46:58,040 --> 00:46:58,480
Speaker 2: is that her?

1030
00:46:58,719 --> 00:47:01,680
Speaker 5: Yeah, he's so old and scary, honestly, Like, I don't

1031
00:47:01,719 --> 00:47:04,080
Speaker 5: think that you would be old and gary.

1032
00:47:04,360 --> 00:47:05,680
Speaker 2: I'm those together?

1033
00:47:05,960 --> 00:47:07,920
Speaker 4: I know, Am I wrong?

1034
00:47:08,200 --> 00:47:12,160
Speaker 2: You can push him over, you can blow on you fall.

1035
00:47:12,200 --> 00:47:13,759
Speaker 5: I guess I haven't really said anything because libry is

1036
00:47:13,800 --> 00:47:17,080
Speaker 5: kind of a silent place, like you don't really talk anyway.

1037
00:47:17,080 --> 00:47:17,640
Speaker 2: Well I don't.

1038
00:47:17,920 --> 00:47:21,440
Speaker 3: That's the thing, Like, now I don't know what we

1039
00:47:21,480 --> 00:47:23,880
Speaker 3: should be doing because people are so used to putting

1040
00:47:23,880 --> 00:47:26,480
Speaker 3: their phone up or like telling a story about something

1041
00:47:26,520 --> 00:47:28,319
Speaker 3: that happened that it's like why you didn't call the

1042
00:47:28,360 --> 00:47:30,440
Speaker 3: cops or why you didn't get involved? So now we

1043
00:47:30,440 --> 00:47:30,840
Speaker 3: don't know what.

1044
00:47:31,280 --> 00:47:32,120
Speaker 4: But what is the line?

1045
00:47:32,120 --> 00:47:34,080
Speaker 5: What is the line of the vigilante in twenty twenty

1046
00:47:34,080 --> 00:47:36,359
Speaker 5: five is if it's phone enough, you just recorded and

1047
00:47:36,440 --> 00:47:37,520
Speaker 5: you know that's it, You got it.

1048
00:47:37,600 --> 00:47:41,080
Speaker 1: I mean, there's certain situations you can't do anything except

1049
00:47:41,360 --> 00:47:44,720
Speaker 1: record or stand and bear witness. I saw a video

1050
00:47:44,719 --> 00:47:48,120
Speaker 1: the other day a shark jumped into a boat with

1051
00:47:48,200 --> 00:47:49,040
Speaker 1: all of these white.

1052
00:47:48,920 --> 00:47:50,719
Speaker 2: Dudes and it was like flanling around.

1053
00:47:50,760 --> 00:47:52,640
Speaker 1: It had all these little razor sharp teeth and they're

1054
00:47:52,680 --> 00:47:56,000
Speaker 1: all like who and like shooting it and laughing, and

1055
00:47:56,040 --> 00:47:58,920
Speaker 1: people were like why would they just let it suffocate

1056
00:47:59,000 --> 00:48:01,440
Speaker 1: on the boat, And everyone in the comments was like,

1057
00:48:01,760 --> 00:48:03,280
Speaker 1: have you ever tried to pick up a shark?

1058
00:48:04,320 --> 00:48:06,240
Speaker 2: How are you supposed to get in there? And it's

1059
00:48:06,239 --> 00:48:07,759
Speaker 2: flailing and flash Like.

1060
00:48:07,880 --> 00:48:12,000
Speaker 1: Comment section is mass, but the comments sometimes is the

1061
00:48:12,000 --> 00:48:14,239
Speaker 1: best part of the medium, because.

1062
00:48:15,160 --> 00:48:17,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, there was I remember there was like a shark

1063
00:48:17,640 --> 00:48:20,920
Speaker 3: following a seal. The seal jumped on the boat and

1064
00:48:20,960 --> 00:48:23,080
Speaker 3: the seal was like and but then people were trying

1065
00:48:23,120 --> 00:48:23,719
Speaker 3: to push the seal.

1066
00:48:23,760 --> 00:48:25,319
Speaker 2: It's like, what the fuck is wrong with you? Save

1067
00:48:25,400 --> 00:48:25,880
Speaker 2: this seal?

1068
00:48:26,200 --> 00:48:27,960
Speaker 1: And they were like, well, we don't want this seal

1069
00:48:28,000 --> 00:48:30,000
Speaker 1: on this boat. Also, the shark is coming at it

1070
00:48:30,040 --> 00:48:33,120
Speaker 1: because the seals here what it wants. But also the

1071
00:48:33,160 --> 00:48:36,160
Speaker 1: seal didn't put in for the boat. It's true, and

1072
00:48:36,200 --> 00:48:37,760
Speaker 1: that is real Housewives bright there.

1073
00:48:43,800 --> 00:48:45,319
Speaker 4: Com like like.

1074
00:48:45,280 --> 00:48:48,200
Speaker 5: After the Super Bowl performance, it's like you would never

1075
00:48:48,600 --> 00:48:51,480
Speaker 5: everyone was sitting in the stadium watch having opinions. No

1076
00:48:51,480 --> 00:48:53,160
Speaker 5: one could walk up to Kendrick and tell him, you

1077
00:48:53,239 --> 00:48:55,600
Speaker 5: know what I mean, whatever opinion.

1078
00:48:55,440 --> 00:49:00,880
Speaker 2: Doesn't matter, it's it's all not comment.

1079
00:49:00,640 --> 00:49:03,560
Speaker 5: Is now in a Wall Street Journal article and that

1080
00:49:03,960 --> 00:49:07,480
Speaker 5: reading someone's nonsense yep. And because people say it now

1081
00:49:07,480 --> 00:49:11,120
Speaker 5: it's fact, and it's like people because we'll say anything anonymously. Oh.

1082
00:49:11,239 --> 00:49:12,719
Speaker 1: My favorite thing is when you talk to somebody and

1083
00:49:12,760 --> 00:49:15,880
Speaker 1: you're like, I read this article that said and it's like, no,

1084
00:49:15,920 --> 00:49:16,840
Speaker 1: you watched a TikTok.

1085
00:49:18,120 --> 00:49:20,239
Speaker 2: TikTok is a new reading if you didn't. So I

1086
00:49:20,280 --> 00:49:22,520
Speaker 2: read this article the other day. I don't remember where

1087
00:49:22,520 --> 00:49:23,560
Speaker 2: it was. It was on TikTok.

1088
00:49:24,120 --> 00:49:27,799
Speaker 5: My my like verification of my new sources has also

1089
00:49:27,880 --> 00:49:29,920
Speaker 5: got up. I will say, like, I just have to

1090
00:49:29,920 --> 00:49:31,080
Speaker 5: go to trusted new sources.

1091
00:49:31,160 --> 00:49:32,920
Speaker 2: Where what's the truth piece?

1092
00:49:33,600 --> 00:49:35,800
Speaker 5: You know? I mean, we're all around, We're all around.

1093
00:49:35,880 --> 00:49:37,680
Speaker 5: We hear Wall Street Journal. I already mentioned them.

1094
00:49:37,719 --> 00:49:40,919
Speaker 3: Plug is some of the fact that it well, AP

1095
00:49:41,120 --> 00:49:43,879
Speaker 3: is a mess because they had these girls interviewing people

1096
00:49:43,920 --> 00:49:47,719
Speaker 3: and they were interviewing baby Pace, the Kenneth babyface Yes,

1097
00:49:48,080 --> 00:49:51,279
Speaker 3: and they pushed him to decide to have chuck up.

1098
00:49:51,800 --> 00:49:54,080
Speaker 2: So it was like, AP, do I trust you now?

1099
00:49:54,280 --> 00:49:56,480
Speaker 5: He said, he said, you go do that.

1100
00:49:56,960 --> 00:49:59,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, So you go do that, And that's how you

1101
00:49:59,120 --> 00:50:00,640
Speaker 1: have to move. That's how we have to move in

1102
00:50:00,680 --> 00:50:02,840
Speaker 1: twenty two five, respect.

1103
00:50:02,960 --> 00:50:06,200
Speaker 5: Ball, it's the easiest thing to do. It's like that's

1104
00:50:06,360 --> 00:50:09,399
Speaker 5: the state of like the media. It's like that's They're

1105
00:50:09,480 --> 00:50:09,960
Speaker 5: just like.

1106
00:50:10,160 --> 00:50:12,880
Speaker 4: Wow, why like why can't you focus?

1107
00:50:12,920 --> 00:50:15,879
Speaker 5: Why why do you with a microphone in your hand

1108
00:50:15,960 --> 00:50:18,080
Speaker 5: talking to a multi Grammy, a war winning artist at

1109
00:50:18,120 --> 00:50:19,080
Speaker 5: the Grammy's.

1110
00:50:18,840 --> 00:50:20,920
Speaker 2: Legend legend, legend legend, Why can't you.

1111
00:50:20,880 --> 00:50:25,400
Speaker 5: Sustain a thought more than fourteen motherfucking her fy jerky

1112
00:50:25,440 --> 00:50:27,759
Speaker 5: seconds to get to the end of the sentence and.

1113
00:50:27,719 --> 00:50:34,200
Speaker 1: Say, because TikTok videos are fifteen seconds, thirty seconds, sixty seconds,

1114
00:50:34,200 --> 00:50:34,800
Speaker 1: ten minutes.

1115
00:50:35,160 --> 00:50:39,560
Speaker 2: Yes, So they're like, why would I our brain? Those

1116
00:50:39,560 --> 00:50:41,880
Speaker 2: girls were like twenty our.

1117
00:50:41,719 --> 00:50:45,120
Speaker 5: Brains, our brains, You got your work. You're in the

1118
00:50:45,120 --> 00:50:46,239
Speaker 5: middle of something.

1119
00:50:45,960 --> 00:50:48,279
Speaker 2: So how do we strengthen our brains? I gotta do sudokus.

1120
00:50:48,600 --> 00:50:53,799
Speaker 1: Yeah, you do a lot of wordles fromles.

1121
00:50:53,080 --> 00:50:54,799
Speaker 4: Word right now. You know I'm playing chest out too.

1122
00:50:54,840 --> 00:50:56,359
Speaker 4: See I'm not a word person ever, But this.

1123
00:50:56,360 --> 00:50:59,120
Speaker 2: Is you're not boring because I had to.

1124
00:50:59,040 --> 00:51:02,000
Speaker 5: Come up out of the mess, you know, not well,

1125
00:51:02,200 --> 00:51:03,080
Speaker 5: just like you know.

1126
00:51:03,800 --> 00:51:05,279
Speaker 2: We sit and mess here. This is mess.

1127
00:51:05,320 --> 00:51:08,120
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, I mean I just have to like do

1128
00:51:08,320 --> 00:51:08,879
Speaker 4: like be home.

1129
00:51:08,960 --> 00:51:10,800
Speaker 5: I just have to like you know, save my energy

1130
00:51:10,880 --> 00:51:13,080
Speaker 5: and just like grow.

1131
00:51:12,920 --> 00:51:13,600
Speaker 4: Up and focus.

1132
00:51:14,000 --> 00:51:16,239
Speaker 2: Grow up and focus. Is that what you're saying right now?

1133
00:51:16,280 --> 00:51:23,920
Speaker 5: In five? A child and distract up and focus my trauma.

1134
00:51:24,040 --> 00:51:25,040
Speaker 2: That's not like a four.

1135
00:51:25,320 --> 00:51:30,640
Speaker 5: Now that's my trauma response. I'm like, oh, like.

1136
00:51:29,400 --> 00:51:30,239
Speaker 2: I feel you on that.

1137
00:51:30,360 --> 00:51:32,680
Speaker 3: I feel that I'm in a cross road right now

1138
00:51:32,680 --> 00:51:35,040
Speaker 3: because it's like, damn, I want to be you know,

1139
00:51:35,320 --> 00:51:36,399
Speaker 3: giddy and fun and.

1140
00:51:36,440 --> 00:51:37,040
Speaker 2: Just like that that that.

1141
00:51:37,600 --> 00:51:41,120
Speaker 3: But now it's like because of this birthday, I'm like, hmmm,

1142
00:51:42,320 --> 00:51:42,960
Speaker 3: I don't know.

1143
00:51:43,840 --> 00:51:46,960
Speaker 2: We gotta make a ship, we gotta pivot.

1144
00:51:47,080 --> 00:51:49,719
Speaker 5: I feel like I'm usually relieving tension, like like the

1145
00:51:49,760 --> 00:51:52,200
Speaker 5: mess is I call my mess, Like having fun would

1146
00:51:52,280 --> 00:51:53,200
Speaker 5: usually respond.

1147
00:51:52,960 --> 00:51:54,040
Speaker 4: To me like relieving tension.

1148
00:51:54,120 --> 00:51:57,320
Speaker 5: Yeah, now there's so much retention, but I'm always having fun.

1149
00:52:02,160 --> 00:52:03,080
Speaker 4: I have a fun line.

1150
00:52:03,280 --> 00:52:06,000
Speaker 2: Yeah you are my friends New York.

1151
00:52:07,080 --> 00:52:07,760
Speaker 4: It's fun.

1152
00:52:08,120 --> 00:52:10,879
Speaker 5: And I have to be like okay, okay, great, I've

1153
00:52:10,920 --> 00:52:13,000
Speaker 5: like I've seen it. I was like like, I know

1154
00:52:13,040 --> 00:52:14,480
Speaker 5: what a big room looks like. I know what a

1155
00:52:14,520 --> 00:52:16,600
Speaker 5: small room looks like. I know a room face people

1156
00:52:16,600 --> 00:52:18,560
Speaker 5: look like. I know a room with everybody looks like.

1157
00:52:19,000 --> 00:52:20,880
Speaker 5: It's like, you know, I can compare it, you know,

1158
00:52:20,920 --> 00:52:21,680
Speaker 5: I can just keep going.

1159
00:52:21,800 --> 00:52:23,040
Speaker 4: But just go home.

1160
00:52:24,080 --> 00:52:27,160
Speaker 5: Yeah, just go home, just like instead instead of trying

1161
00:52:27,160 --> 00:52:30,800
Speaker 5: to escape into like someone's perfect organization or they're perfect

1162
00:52:31,000 --> 00:52:33,480
Speaker 5: like politic or they're amazing singing voice. This is a TikTok,

1163
00:52:33,520 --> 00:52:37,160
Speaker 5: by the way, instead of like experiencing all of that

1164
00:52:37,280 --> 00:52:41,560
Speaker 5: in this way that it's just not enough investment for me.

1165
00:52:42,120 --> 00:52:43,759
Speaker 5: So yeah, I just like I want to mature. Our

1166
00:52:43,760 --> 00:52:45,759
Speaker 5: country needs to mature. I feel like I'm just like

1167
00:52:45,840 --> 00:52:48,240
Speaker 5: not because shit ain't funny.

1168
00:52:48,320 --> 00:52:53,320
Speaker 1: I'm like, but when you think about it, our country

1169
00:52:53,400 --> 00:52:56,839
Speaker 1: is really not that old. Yeah, compared to you know,

1170
00:52:56,880 --> 00:52:58,600
Speaker 1: some of these other countries that's been around for three

1171
00:52:58,640 --> 00:53:00,000
Speaker 1: thousand and five thousand years old.

1172
00:53:00,440 --> 00:53:02,840
Speaker 3: You know, we're so unseerious though, Like we're so un

1173
00:53:03,200 --> 00:53:05,919
Speaker 3: like you know, when when Donald Trump was like they're

1174
00:53:05,960 --> 00:53:08,319
Speaker 3: eating the cast, they made a remix.

1175
00:53:09,560 --> 00:53:11,480
Speaker 2: Eating we should be Laughing.

1176
00:53:14,880 --> 00:53:17,120
Speaker 4: Podcast, I'm like, you're doing.

1177
00:53:20,239 --> 00:53:24,400
Speaker 5: You said something insanely and like the next like like

1178
00:53:24,960 --> 00:53:28,719
Speaker 5: the subterranean and now it's a fun thing and it's

1179
00:53:28,800 --> 00:53:31,280
Speaker 5: literally it's like the spirit of black Twitter co opted

1180
00:53:31,320 --> 00:53:34,439
Speaker 5: by white media, white legacy media, and now we're left

1181
00:53:34,480 --> 00:53:35,520
Speaker 5: with the deterioration of.

1182
00:53:35,480 --> 00:53:37,120
Speaker 4: A government black people.

1183
00:53:37,160 --> 00:53:39,239
Speaker 5: We have the privilege to make shit funny that ain't

1184
00:53:39,280 --> 00:53:41,840
Speaker 5: been funny because we're talking about no reparations from chattel

1185
00:53:41,840 --> 00:53:44,399
Speaker 5: slavery and we have to that's all right now now, Now,

1186
00:53:44,480 --> 00:53:53,240
Speaker 5: Becky from Ohio and Bruce from something should be serious

1187
00:53:53,280 --> 00:53:56,440
Speaker 5: to you because someone was serious to your grandfather who

1188
00:53:56,520 --> 00:53:59,719
Speaker 5: came over here by choice from wherever. You know, like

1189
00:54:00,160 --> 00:54:03,120
Speaker 5: dot was important on the santam Aia, you know what

1190
00:54:03,239 --> 00:54:09,440
Speaker 5: I mean. So it's like, how do we balance ourselves

1191
00:54:09,440 --> 00:54:11,959
Speaker 5: so no one can have like fun petty mess again?

1192
00:54:12,360 --> 00:54:18,759
Speaker 1: I think remove everything from TikTok except the wrapping chift.

1193
00:54:19,080 --> 00:54:21,400
Speaker 1: This guy that cooks and he wraps when he cooks,

1194
00:54:21,480 --> 00:54:25,080
Speaker 1: he made a spicy RIGATONI the other day that I

1195
00:54:25,160 --> 00:54:25,640
Speaker 1: was like.

1196
00:54:27,560 --> 00:54:29,080
Speaker 2: I'm trying to think of the song that he used,

1197
00:54:29,120 --> 00:54:32,160
Speaker 2: but it was I don't know. I literally watched it

1198
00:54:32,239 --> 00:54:32,799
Speaker 2: last night.

1199
00:54:33,080 --> 00:54:35,200
Speaker 5: Oh so you didn't hold on to it from last night.

1200
00:54:35,360 --> 00:54:36,320
Speaker 5: About TikTok brain.

1201
00:54:36,280 --> 00:54:42,640
Speaker 2: It sounds like we'ed brain. Sounds like we'd brain yourself.

1202
00:54:43,040 --> 00:54:45,400
Speaker 5: It's harty And if I didn't make it how you

1203
00:54:45,480 --> 00:54:48,799
Speaker 5: make it, then I'm sorry. The chicken breads and marinated

1204
00:54:48,840 --> 00:54:51,760
Speaker 5: and some yoga garlic pangs and ginger pas.

1205
00:54:51,760 --> 00:54:54,560
Speaker 4: I got some thriller and spices.

1206
00:54:58,239 --> 00:54:59,799
Speaker 2: That's not the one that I watched by This.

1207
00:54:59,800 --> 00:55:01,560
Speaker 4: Is what we don't have overall deals anymore.

1208
00:55:02,960 --> 00:55:11,200
Speaker 2: It is definitely not modo. All right, well let's read

1209
00:55:11,200 --> 00:55:14,160
Speaker 2: some mess. Yeah, let's do it. Yeah, let's read some

1210
00:55:14,239 --> 00:55:15,799
Speaker 2: mess and Larry, you could tell us how you feel

1211
00:55:15,800 --> 00:55:16,040
Speaker 2: about it.

1212
00:55:16,280 --> 00:55:18,880
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, this is good like a little prompt.

1213
00:55:19,360 --> 00:55:20,920
Speaker 5: Yes, we love a prompt.

1214
00:55:20,920 --> 00:55:23,360
Speaker 2: This is a different segment, and then we'll get everybody

1215
00:55:23,400 --> 00:55:23,719
Speaker 2: out it.

1216
00:55:25,880 --> 00:55:28,919
Speaker 1: Look the finish line, well, I mean I'm literally looking

1217
00:55:28,920 --> 00:55:30,359
Speaker 1: at the clock.

1218
00:55:30,160 --> 00:55:30,359
Speaker 5: Clock.

1219
00:55:30,400 --> 00:55:32,239
Speaker 2: It's over there. I put it over to here. Are

1220
00:55:32,239 --> 00:55:33,520
Speaker 2: you ready? It's a long one.

1221
00:55:33,640 --> 00:55:36,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, this might make me sound like an ass is

1222
00:55:36,080 --> 00:55:39,440
Speaker 1: the title. Hey, Marie and Sydney. So here's my mess.

1223
00:55:39,520 --> 00:55:43,759
Speaker 1: I have a partner that's messy, an amazing partner. He

1224
00:55:43,800 --> 00:55:48,759
Speaker 1: makes me feel loved, wanted, care for best relationship i've had, So.

1225
00:55:48,680 --> 00:55:49,280
Speaker 2: What's the wrong.

1226
00:55:50,080 --> 00:55:53,279
Speaker 1: However, before meeting him, I was having sex with a

1227
00:55:53,280 --> 00:55:54,520
Speaker 1: different man for about a year.

1228
00:55:55,120 --> 00:55:57,600
Speaker 2: This man is good at sex, great at sex.

1229
00:55:57,640 --> 00:55:58,640
Speaker 4: I knew what it was going to be.

1230
00:55:58,640 --> 00:56:03,359
Speaker 2: Best sex. Honestly, make sure I come every time.

1231
00:56:03,400 --> 00:56:06,640
Speaker 1: She's dragging it. She's fucking dragging it. Girls, get out

1232
00:56:06,680 --> 00:56:10,640
Speaker 1: of multiple rounds, long used toys.

1233
00:56:10,719 --> 00:56:12,440
Speaker 2: Does it all? Girl? You don't have a job. Why

1234
00:56:12,480 --> 00:56:13,560
Speaker 2: do you need you need all that?

1235
00:56:13,719 --> 00:56:15,640
Speaker 5: Just because you haven't seen a Cydney doesn't mean it's

1236
00:56:15,680 --> 00:56:17,840
Speaker 5: not possible you haven't.

1237
00:56:18,080 --> 00:56:19,760
Speaker 2: Okay, this is not what we was doing in Brazil.

1238
00:56:23,719 --> 00:56:26,480
Speaker 1: I stopped having sex with this man after hearing his thoughts,

1239
00:56:29,320 --> 00:56:30,960
Speaker 1: like if he had just shut up and fucked, I

1240
00:56:30,960 --> 00:56:33,319
Speaker 1: would have been none the wiser. I had a man

1241
00:56:33,400 --> 00:56:36,799
Speaker 1: like that once. This man is a misogynistic ass. What

1242
00:56:36,920 --> 00:56:40,880
Speaker 1: really ended it is when he gave me an STI ladies,

1243
00:56:40,920 --> 00:56:41,680
Speaker 1: no matter what.

1244
00:56:41,640 --> 00:56:44,319
Speaker 2: Males say, make them wear a condom or leave.

1245
00:56:44,760 --> 00:56:47,920
Speaker 1: I also decided I wanted a boyfriend, so I told

1246
00:56:48,000 --> 00:56:50,440
Speaker 1: him our sessions were over and I went on to

1247
00:56:50,480 --> 00:56:53,839
Speaker 1: find my partner. We remained somewhat friends following ig talk

1248
00:56:53,880 --> 00:56:55,760
Speaker 1: about our travels and anime, nothing else.

1249
00:56:56,960 --> 00:56:57,319
Speaker 4: Mm hm.

1250
00:56:58,000 --> 00:57:00,680
Speaker 1: A year into the relationship, the sex guy texted me

1251
00:57:00,719 --> 00:57:03,120
Speaker 1: asking could I come over for a good time. No,

1252
00:57:03,480 --> 00:57:07,040
Speaker 1: I don't even reply, just blocked. I thought it was disrespectful.

1253
00:57:07,440 --> 00:57:09,520
Speaker 1: I don't post my partner, but he shouldn't know if

1254
00:57:09,520 --> 00:57:12,520
Speaker 1: I have a man. But I'd be lying because I

1255
00:57:12,520 --> 00:57:17,920
Speaker 1: think they still stuff anime. But I'd be lying if

1256
00:57:17,920 --> 00:57:20,000
Speaker 1: I said I didn't think about the sex, like nothing

1257
00:57:20,000 --> 00:57:22,600
Speaker 1: else about him is good but that and I would

1258
00:57:22,600 --> 00:57:24,520
Speaker 1: never cheat. I don't want to break up to be

1259
00:57:24,600 --> 00:57:26,240
Speaker 1: free to have sex with him. I know the grass

1260
00:57:26,240 --> 00:57:28,440
Speaker 1: ain't greener on the other side, I just want to

1261
00:57:28,440 --> 00:57:30,360
Speaker 1: stop thinking about him and his sex.

1262
00:57:30,560 --> 00:57:38,320
Speaker 2: Like, how do I do this? Miss thoughts larry me first?

1263
00:57:38,560 --> 00:57:40,000
Speaker 2: I mean, we could all talk about it.

1264
00:57:40,080 --> 00:57:42,080
Speaker 4: I mean, yeah, it's a conundrum.

1265
00:57:42,120 --> 00:57:45,200
Speaker 5: It's a conundrum because it's something specific that she wants.

1266
00:57:45,480 --> 00:57:48,520
Speaker 1: Well, I mean I dated a guy that was also

1267
00:57:48,960 --> 00:57:51,800
Speaker 1: that The sex was great, but I also did not

1268
00:57:51,920 --> 00:57:52,440
Speaker 1: listen like.

1269
00:57:52,400 --> 00:57:53,480
Speaker 2: Listening to him talk.

1270
00:57:54,000 --> 00:57:56,360
Speaker 1: He would quote Kevin Samuels and stuff to me, and

1271
00:57:56,400 --> 00:57:59,880
Speaker 1: I was like, no, oh, this dude is an idiot girl.

1272
00:58:00,120 --> 00:58:01,120
Speaker 2: And he had to.

1273
00:58:01,080 --> 00:58:02,200
Speaker 4: Go How long did it last?

1274
00:58:02,600 --> 00:58:02,920
Speaker 1: Mmm?

1275
00:58:04,280 --> 00:58:05,919
Speaker 2: How long did I bang him for? On and off?

1276
00:58:06,120 --> 00:58:09,120
Speaker 1: For like maybe like a year's time, maybe not even

1277
00:58:09,120 --> 00:58:10,280
Speaker 1: maybe not even a full year.

1278
00:58:10,920 --> 00:58:15,880
Speaker 2: Just Ninja Turtle beat me in.

1279
00:58:19,000 --> 00:58:23,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, but that was like I knew him for

1280
00:58:24,080 --> 00:58:27,560
Speaker 1: like over a year, but we actually hooked up for

1281
00:58:27,760 --> 00:58:29,600
Speaker 1: I don't know, like, oh no, no, it was not And.

1282
00:58:29,600 --> 00:58:30,919
Speaker 4: What made you stop seeing him?

1283
00:58:31,280 --> 00:58:33,720
Speaker 2: I didn't like him stupid he would.

1284
00:58:33,560 --> 00:58:35,760
Speaker 1: Talk and I'd be like, oh my god, even.

1285
00:58:35,600 --> 00:58:38,200
Speaker 2: The text messages off and shuch about and.

1286
00:58:38,200 --> 00:58:40,439
Speaker 4: How did you deal with the fallout from not having

1287
00:58:40,440 --> 00:58:41,240
Speaker 4: that dick? Oh?

1288
00:58:41,280 --> 00:58:41,880
Speaker 2: I was fine.

1289
00:58:42,040 --> 00:58:47,360
Speaker 1: I had a backup and he wasn't the best. Oh yeah, yeah, comparable, great,

1290
00:58:47,360 --> 00:58:49,800
Speaker 1: but not excellent. No, no, no, it was it was

1291
00:58:49,880 --> 00:58:54,160
Speaker 1: great the person after or the person that replaced him with.

1292
00:58:55,080 --> 00:58:58,080
Speaker 5: Yeah. I don't think she can go back to the

1293
00:58:58,280 --> 00:58:59,360
Speaker 5: other guy for sex.

1294
00:58:59,720 --> 00:59:00,720
Speaker 4: No, I don't think so.

1295
00:59:00,840 --> 00:59:03,760
Speaker 2: I think I think maybe cut communication clean. But she

1296
00:59:03,800 --> 00:59:04,640
Speaker 2: says she do like them.

1297
00:59:04,680 --> 00:59:07,960
Speaker 3: But we gotta we gotta detach ourselves from from the

1298
00:59:08,000 --> 00:59:09,600
Speaker 3: importance of sex.

1299
00:59:09,880 --> 00:59:13,760
Speaker 2: I think, I like, hmm, it has helped me. I like,

1300
00:59:13,880 --> 00:59:15,760
Speaker 2: I don't. I like it.

1301
00:59:15,760 --> 00:59:18,880
Speaker 3: It's good. I have a good time, but it's not

1302
00:59:19,160 --> 00:59:21,400
Speaker 3: a factor for me. I like, I could be with

1303
00:59:21,480 --> 00:59:23,960
Speaker 3: somebody and not have sex all the time, and I'll

1304
00:59:24,000 --> 00:59:24,919
Speaker 3: be Okay.

1305
00:59:24,840 --> 00:59:28,240
Speaker 2: I want to be with somebody and not have good sex. No, no,

1306
00:59:28,480 --> 00:59:29,120
Speaker 2: I couldn't do that.

1307
00:59:29,240 --> 00:59:33,560
Speaker 3: But it's just because I've gone long periods without it

1308
00:59:33,720 --> 00:59:36,640
Speaker 3: and then got back into it and then got out.

1309
00:59:36,800 --> 00:59:40,360
Speaker 3: I was like, it's fine, it's cool, Like I enjoy it,

1310
00:59:40,400 --> 00:59:42,520
Speaker 3: but it's I'm not. It's not gonna make me do

1311
00:59:42,840 --> 00:59:46,800
Speaker 3: any more of these decisions. Like before last like last year,

1312
00:59:46,880 --> 00:59:48,680
Speaker 3: what I was doing, I was like just not even

1313
00:59:48,720 --> 00:59:50,440
Speaker 3: I don't even care about sex like this.

1314
00:59:50,520 --> 00:59:53,720
Speaker 2: Why am I fucking in New Jersey right now? It's

1315
00:59:53,760 --> 00:59:55,520
Speaker 2: just stupid. That is crazy.

1316
00:59:55,560 --> 00:59:58,240
Speaker 5: Maybe this person can invite the guy with good dick

1317
00:59:58,600 --> 01:00:04,160
Speaker 5: into the relationships. Then the other guy can watch how

1318
01:00:04,280 --> 01:00:07,200
Speaker 5: the good guy and that has been an amazing episode

1319
01:00:07,200 --> 01:00:09,280
Speaker 5: of mess because what the fuck?

1320
01:00:09,680 --> 01:00:11,600
Speaker 1: No, no, no, because he says that I have a partner,

1321
01:00:11,760 --> 01:00:12,600
Speaker 1: an amazing partner.

1322
01:00:12,640 --> 01:00:14,960
Speaker 2: He makes me feel loved, wanted, cared for. She keep

1323
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Speaker 2: thinking about that exactly, so then bringing the dick in? No,

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Speaker 2: maybe bring the toys. Maybe.

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Speaker 4: Sometimes good advice is hearing bad advice.

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Speaker 1: And you know what, miss miss.

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Speaker 5: She should I think she should really shake it up.

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Speaker 5: I think she should be messy. Invite the guy and

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Speaker 5: the other guy gets a tutorial. Be okay, tell first

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Speaker 5: guy it's more bad. Tell first guy, hey, you gotta

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Speaker 5: go study up? Or is it about the equipment? Is

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Speaker 5: he is it?

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Speaker 2: I don't know if it's maybe, but.

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Speaker 5: She didn't mention that. She didn't say, like any that's

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Speaker 5: the most perfect.

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Speaker 1: No.

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Speaker 2: I just said great at sex, best sex.

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Speaker 1: Honestly, he said first, she said good at sex, great

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Speaker 1: at sex, best sex. Okay, make sure I come every time.

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Speaker 1: It sounds like the other one's not making you come.

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Speaker 4: Digmatized me, She's s digmatized.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, the other one has her heart, but the other

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Speaker 3: one has her coach.

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Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, sometimes totally.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: I feel like it's hard to give advice because gay

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Speaker 5: men logic is so different.

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Speaker 4: I don't have it, but it's like what I have

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Speaker 4: to like live under.

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Speaker 2: What is game man logic?

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Speaker 5: Just see, there will always be more they'll like, There'll

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01:01:21,240 --> 01:01:23,120
Speaker 5: always be more dick, just like go open with your

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Speaker 5: partner like the skies. If they don't like it, move on,

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Speaker 5: you know, just there will always be more dick around

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Speaker 5: the corner.

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Speaker 2: There will always be on the shelf.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, But my thing is this, like I'm sure the

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Speaker 1: sex is great, but you might.

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Speaker 2: Be remembering it better than what it.

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Speaker 1: Is because that happened to me before, like best sex,

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01:01:47,160 --> 01:01:49,320
Speaker 1: great sex, And then I spin the block and I'm like,

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Speaker 1: well I actually don't like this person, and now.

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Speaker 4: Nostalgic sex.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, sometimes it's a.

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Speaker 2: Quas Yeah, that's why I would go back that memory

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Speaker 2: foam sex.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, you're eating the eggs and suddenly you're like, I'm

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01:02:02,880 --> 01:02:04,080
Speaker 5: eating the eggs.

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Speaker 2: Do I even like?

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Speaker 1: Ru?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? So you're in New Jersey.

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Speaker 2: May all of these men that I've forgotten about rest

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Speaker 2: in peace?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah, maybe this was incredible. I really had a

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Speaker 1: good time. Yeah, this was cute.

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Speaker 2: Can you tell people where they can find you even

1378
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Speaker 2: though you're hiding?

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