Speaker 1: Second date of date. Everybody's had a first date that
Speaker 1: just didn't go according to plan, Oh yeah for sure,
Speaker 1: whether you showed up twenty minutes late or accidentally called
Speaker 1: them by the wrong name. Yeah, or they got back
Speaker 1: together with their ex in the middle of appetizers. It's
Speaker 1: always awkward your phone now, you couldn't even make it
Speaker 1: to the main course. Yeah, but you know, I'd almost
Speaker 1: prefer those bad dates to the ones where you can't
Speaker 1: think of a bad moment, because at least you know, yeah,
Speaker 1: that's true, you have an answer. But one of our
Speaker 1: listeners has been going crazy trying to figure out why
Speaker 1: the night took a turn for the worst, and now
Speaker 1: she's at an all time low, calling a bunch of
Speaker 1: morons on the radio for help. So here we are, Cammy.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry that you've been reduced to this. Yeah. Like
Speaker 1: I said, I would never do this. Yeah yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: So tell us about the guy that brought you to
Speaker 1: this new low. What's his name? His names Justin? Justin? Okay,
Speaker 1: where'd you meet Justin? On an app? All right? I
Speaker 1: don't know if you've been on apps recently, but it's
Speaker 1: like hit and miss, but like more like a million missus. Yeah,
Speaker 1: a lot from our listeners. Were you excited about justin though, Yeah,
Speaker 1: no I was. I mean most guys now, like they're
Speaker 1: really quick to be kind of overtly sexual, you know,
Speaker 1: and it's just like, oh, it's so gross. And then
Speaker 1: this guy though, like he was sweet and he's sincere,
Speaker 1: like it just like refreshing, I guess. And then so
Speaker 1: by sweet and sincere, you mean he didn't ask to
Speaker 1: exchange nudes in the first five minutes. Yeah. Yeah, it's
Speaker 1: like the bar is so low. This bar is very low.
Speaker 1: Just said, how are you like, I'm like you, yeah,
Speaker 1: poor Cammy, really sweet and sincere not asking you for anything.
Speaker 1: What did you guys do for your date? Well, it
Speaker 1: took a while for us to get there. First of all,
Speaker 1: like we had talked on the phone for like two weeks.
Speaker 1: Oh wait, wait, hold on, you had an actual phone conversation.
Speaker 1: I know. Are you sure that he's actually into women?
Speaker 1: Even then? Are you sure he's not eighty years old?
Speaker 1: A better question? Even the last time I really click
Speaker 1: with somebody, it's when you actually talk and call and
Speaker 1: like that is like a whole new level nowadays. That's awesome.
Speaker 1: It makes me nervous just even thinking about making that. Yeah,
Speaker 1: here guys, you guys were clicking. Yeah, it was good.
Speaker 1: And then he said we were going to go to
Speaker 1: a steakhouse for dinner. We got there and he was
Speaker 1: handsome and he seemed like, you know, like we hadn't FaceTime,
Speaker 1: but he looked like his pictures like he sounded like himself,
Speaker 1: Like sometimes you meet somebody're like, oh, that's who you
Speaker 1: are in your life. I didn't think that was going
Speaker 1: to happen, but no, that's what the nudes are for.
Speaker 1: They show you who they really are. How did he
Speaker 1: receive you? Like, you know, like you know, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean? You awful on a dating app? What
Speaker 1: were you like in person? Did you also show up correctly?
Speaker 1: I know, I know what I mean. No, I look
Speaker 1: like my pictures understood. Yeah, okay, and you got it.
Speaker 1: So how was your connection on the date? Yeah, I
Speaker 1: mean it was good. It was like we just kept
Speaker 1: talking about the same stuff we talked about, like trips
Speaker 1: we took and our friends, like normal state stuff. Did
Speaker 1: you feel like you ran out of things to talk
Speaker 1: about at any poce? No, I don't think so. Well.
Speaker 1: At one point he was going to put this on
Speaker 1: his company credit card. So he and I was like, oh,
Speaker 1: I hopefully it doesn't get him in trouble. But he said, well,
Speaker 1: if you talk about one business thing, it counts technicality.
Speaker 1: So you guys talked about business stuff. No, we're making jokes,
Speaker 1: like we were saying things like lucrative deals and mergers
Speaker 1: and like run it up the flagpole and you know,
Speaker 1: like we're just trying to be silly with it. Since
Speaker 1: he was offering to pay on the company card, what
Speaker 1: did you get for dinner? I got surfinter yea, now
Speaker 1: we're talking. He got a stake, like he got a
Speaker 1: really nice day. So okay, yeah, so where did the
Speaker 1: knight get weird for you? Okay? So this is the thing,
Speaker 1: Like all of a sudden kind of the mood changed.
Speaker 1: It was like two different people. Like he got much quieter,
Speaker 1: he stopped making eye contacts. It was like the weirdest thing,
Speaker 1: like he's barely touching his own food. So I was,
Speaker 1: I was like, well, is he sick? Like is something wrong?
Speaker 1: Like what if he if he trying to just power
Speaker 1: through and be a hero, but some appetizers not making
Speaker 1: him feel good or I don't so this this happened
Speaker 1: before even the main course came. It's kind of as
Speaker 1: the main versus coming, Okay, how do you come up
Speaker 1: with any reasons? You think no? And I even said
Speaker 1: like did I say something? Did I do something? He's like, no, no,
Speaker 1: it's fine. I had a really good time and he
Speaker 1: hugged me and like that's it. Wow, So you asked him,
Speaker 1: well it was so weird, and I was like, I
Speaker 1: really at that point, was like, what had nothing to
Speaker 1: lose by saying that? At that point? Did you try
Speaker 1: and save the date with a nude pick? Because it
Speaker 1: could happen that way too. I don't know this, this
Speaker 1: is really bizarre. Yeah, I mean maybe somehow he got
Speaker 1: news that was bad. I don't know, Like my friends
Speaker 1: are like, well, maybe it's not you. Maybe he's exits
Speaker 1: in the restaurant, or he knew the waitress or I
Speaker 1: just have no idea. It didn't feel like let's see
Speaker 1: each other again. It felt like a nice to meet
Speaker 1: you by. So I mean, even though that was a
Speaker 1: nice to meet you by, did you try to reach out?
Speaker 1: I texted once and then they didn't text back, and
Speaker 1: I was like, oh no, what, I don't even know
Speaker 1: what happened, all right, weird. Well, let's try and figure
Speaker 1: it out. We're going to play a song. Come back,
Speaker 1: We'll called Justin for you, and we'll try and get
Speaker 1: your second date update. All right, okay, that would be great.
Speaker 1: Hold on if you're just tuning in for the second
Speaker 1: date update. One of our listeners, Cammy, went out with
Speaker 1: a guy named Justin recently and went out to a
Speaker 1: steakhouse for dinner, and Justin told her to order anything
Speaker 1: she wanted because he was paying with his company's credit card.
Speaker 1: Nice and he said, He said, as long as they
Speaker 1: mentioned a few business related things, then it technically counts
Speaker 1: as a business meeting. Thing is. Halfway through dinner, Justin
Speaker 1: started to act a little bit strange. You got really quiet,
Speaker 1: little distant, wasn't eating, And from there everything just ended
Speaker 1: kind of awkwardly. Cammy has no idea exactly where it
Speaker 1: is that things went wrong. Yeah, and Cammy, I just
Speaker 1: I feel like I feel like we've talked for a
Speaker 1: while and we gave this whole second date thing a shot,
Speaker 1: and you seem nice. Oh we're breaking up with her.
Speaker 1: I'm just not really feeling okay. So well, it's not
Speaker 1: to the point it's not to the point where I
Speaker 1: want to stop the second day completely, but I am
Speaker 1: going to treat you differently from this point forward, and
Speaker 1: I will tell you it's not you, it's me, Okay,
Speaker 1: but it is a little bit you. Is this sounding
Speaker 1: too close to home? Cammy? It's super painful for me.
Speaker 1: Dare you? I'm still interested in you, Cammy? Okay, I
Speaker 1: appreciate that. I think it's so weird, like it's two
Speaker 1: different people we talked on the phone, Like that's a
Speaker 1: big deal. I might be jaded, but my first thought
Speaker 1: is he's married or he's in a relationship, and like
Speaker 1: the guilt finally caught up to a mid meal, do
Speaker 1: you know what I mean? I just need to know
Speaker 1: what happened because it was so dramatic, and I even
Speaker 1: asked him because at that point, like the end of
Speaker 1: the day, I really had nothing to lose, Like what
Speaker 1: don't you stop making eye Like Okay, I'm back to
Speaker 1: being interested now I'm going to rejoin this conversation. Let's
Speaker 1: go Okay, let's do it. Let's hope that we can
Speaker 1: do the same with Justin and get him interested in you.
Speaker 1: I see clever. I don't know if it's worth our energy.
Speaker 1: Try it anyway. You're ready, Cammy, Yeah, let's try it. Okay,
Speaker 1: that's interest again. Okay, I'm back on board. Let's see
Speaker 1: what's going on with Justin A Dallas number right now
Speaker 1: here we go. Hello, Hey, I'm looking for Justin. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's Jessin. Hey Justin. How's it going. My name is
Speaker 1: Jeffrey from the radio show Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 1: Who's this It's a morning radio show, Brooke and Jeffrey
Speaker 1: in the Morning. I've never heard of it. I don't
Speaker 1: listen to the radio. Sorry, low blow there. Okay, Well,
Speaker 1: I'm calling because we're kind of mad at you Justin. Ooh,
Speaker 1: that's coming off hive. Well, sorry, you're gonna crche to me.
Speaker 1: I gotta throw it back. Okay, but we're mad at you.
Speaker 1: We're mad at you on behalf of one of our listeners.
Speaker 1: I really don't understand what you're calling me about. One
Speaker 1: of our listeners told us she went on a date
Speaker 1: with you recently. You started acting really weird towards her,
Speaker 1: and you kind of just gave up halfway through dinner.
Speaker 1: I think I know who you're talking about. Yeah, her
Speaker 1: name's Cammy. Yep, Cammy, and you really hurt her feelings
Speaker 1: and therefore my feelings. I think more than I think,
Speaker 1: she's just confused justice an angry inside. No, I know
Speaker 1: it's not that dramatic, man. She just wants to know
Speaker 1: why you're not calling her back and what changed. So Cammy,
Speaker 1: you guys know, Cammy, she called you. Yeah, she emailed
Speaker 1: our show and we spoke to her about your date
Speaker 1: and she had a great time with you. I'm not
Speaker 1: really sure what to tell you or how much you
Speaker 1: guys already know, but I just realized, you know, we
Speaker 1: are two different types of people, Cammy and I. Honestly,
Speaker 1: things just couldn't work out between us. So wait, hold on, Like,
Speaker 1: was there a moment that told you that, Because why
Speaker 1: would you just like stop making eye contact with her.
Speaker 1: Why wouldn't you say, oh, man, you know what, I
Speaker 1: don't know that this is going to work out. That's
Speaker 1: the thing. I went into the dinner really hopeful, but
Speaker 1: it was really loud in the restaurant, and maybe I
Speaker 1: didn't quite hear what she ordered. But you know, when
Speaker 1: when the plates arrived, I saw that she ordered this
Speaker 1: one plate called the surf and turch. Yeah, like every
Speaker 1: invent that urch. Yeah, yeah, I don't want to go
Speaker 1: to in a whole lot of details about it, but
Speaker 1: it just wasn't okay with me. But didn't you specifically
Speaker 1: you're cheap? Yeah okay, I mean I don't get it though,
Speaker 1: because she said that you told her to order anything
Speaker 1: she wanted and that the company credit card was paying
Speaker 1: for it. Yeah, if anything that's on you. Look, this
Speaker 1: is gonna sound really weird. Okay, So surf and turfs
Speaker 1: includes lobsters. Okay, Well, I actually have two pet lobsters
Speaker 1: at home that I love and care for. They're very meat.
Speaker 1: You don't you're okay eating You're okay eating beef a
Speaker 1: big cow. But because you have a pet lobster at home,
Speaker 1: I don't just have one. I have two. I have
Speaker 1: two lobters and they are awesome. And you know, I
Speaker 1: don't have a pet cow. I don't know anybody who
Speaker 1: has a pet cow. But if I did know somebody,
Speaker 1: I wouldn't eat a cow in front of them. Oh,
Speaker 1: I actually makes sense. What are you talking about? What
Speaker 1: if you talked about your pet lobsters like this is
Speaker 1: so weird? What are you expecting when you go to
Speaker 1: a steakhow listen, listen, Look that two siny lobsters. One
Speaker 1: is named Snipped and the others name Leonardo da PINCHI
Speaker 1: that's really cute. But again I told you, I knew you.
Speaker 1: I knew you would think it was weird. I hear
Speaker 1: them laughing, I know it. Look, but you know it's
Speaker 1: they mean a lot to me, you know, And I
Speaker 1: just wasn't expecting to see her order lobster to eat
Speaker 1: in front of me. Well, did Cammy know that you
Speaker 1: own two lobsters before she put in her order. I
Speaker 1: don't think we got to that point a comment. I mean,
Speaker 1: we had talked about other stuff, like so I don't
Speaker 1: understand that's so like unrealistic, Like how are she supposed
Speaker 1: to respect feelings that she doesn't even know about? I
Speaker 1: understand that, but look, can you imagine from my perspective
Speaker 1: right one of the labster on her plate, The labster
Speaker 1: on her plate looked like snipped. Wow, wow, very traumatic.
Speaker 1: As soon as I saw that, I couldn't even look
Speaker 1: at her because every time I looked over that, I
Speaker 1: felt like I was gonna cry, as like she was
Speaker 1: eating my pet justin I gotta be honest with you, man,
Speaker 1: Not in a million years would I have guessed that
Speaker 1: this was the reason you weren't calling your back. I'm
Speaker 1: guessing Cammy couldn't have guessed either. I let's find out
Speaker 1: if Cammy could have guessed, because Justin, I need to
Speaker 1: tell you, she's been on the other line listening and
Speaker 1: she wants to talk to you. She's been on the
Speaker 1: phone this whole time, ye had, Yeah, yeah, Justin, this
Speaker 1: has to be made up. Like I listened to this
Speaker 1: whole thing and I was like, this just sounds like
Speaker 1: you don't want to say what the real thing is
Speaker 1: to what I mean, you're like on the spot on
Speaker 1: the radio. I get it, it's weird, but at this point, like,
Speaker 1: what is the reason you don't believe them? No, Canny,
Speaker 1: I'm being honest. Things were great and then I saw
Speaker 1: you fight into it looked like one of my pats.
Speaker 1: Don't they all look the same? No, they do not
Speaker 1: all look the same. Why would you take other though
Speaker 1: it was your suggestion to go to this? Oh it
Speaker 1: was a steakhouse. It wasn't a lobster house. Was wow?
Speaker 1: I mean, now that you know this, Canny, do you
Speaker 1: feel bad at all? Well? I can't. I can't feel
Speaker 1: bad for eating lobster at a nice restaurant and like
Speaker 1: that you can't feel bad or you won't feel bad. Man,
Speaker 1: I can't feel bad about that. I I don't And
Speaker 1: this is why I knew at one point in the dinner.
Speaker 1: Now nothing would work out between us. I mean, I'm sorry,
Speaker 1: this just sounds crazy. How am I supposed well, how
Speaker 1: am I supposed to say that you're eating something that
Speaker 1: looks like my friend? That's a pretty good way to say.
Speaker 1: Said that. You know, what's weird to me is that
Speaker 1: you don't even feel bad. You know, you know now
Speaker 1: that you know, like because you you had a chance
Speaker 1: to like stay what was wrong, you didn't say what
Speaker 1: was wrong. You just got quiet and you made me
Speaker 1: feel that. And now it's just like, I'm so evil
Speaker 1: for eating lobster in a nice restaurant where we ate meat. Okay,
Speaker 1: you like steak and cow to have more personality. I'm
Speaker 1: sorry you don't understand. Lobsters are great companions. That was
Speaker 1: a lobster a great companion. You never have to walk them.
Speaker 1: They're never gonna pee on the floor. You may have
Speaker 1: heard this, but lobsters are loyal. They mate for life. Okay,
Speaker 1: I'm not those promiscuous dogs and cats that meep around.
Speaker 1: A dog will hump a leg. What a lobster made
Speaker 1: for life? And they live a for a hundred years.
Speaker 1: And let me tell you, Cammy, that's way longer than
Speaker 1: you're going to live with all that butter that you
Speaker 1: were putting that lobster. Oh my god, may this is
Speaker 1: so crazy, you know? Yeah, yeah, you don't have to.
Speaker 1: I mean, wait, would you give her another chance if
Speaker 1: she said she'd never eat it lobster again or something?
Speaker 1: It's so hard even right now revisiting that night, it's
Speaker 1: so hard. Okay, justin Look, I don't want to put
Speaker 1: you through any more trauma. I don't want to give
Speaker 1: you any more PTSD. So let me just ask, would
Speaker 1: you like to go out on another date with Cammy?
Speaker 1: Will pay for it. No lobster, just any other type
Speaker 1: of seafood will be fine. Yeah, I don't know. You
Speaker 1: guys can eat crabs and then give her crabs later.
Speaker 1: No crustaceans all. No, I don't know. This is a
Speaker 1: terrible way to start a relationship. Everyone else I don't all.
Speaker 1: I think we've gone too far down the hole. I
Speaker 1: don't think we can recover after the butter and the
Speaker 1: lot or whatever. Leonardo DAPINCHI like the painter. Sorry, but
Speaker 1: you know this is just too much for me. I'm
Speaker 1: not interested anymore either. You guys are worried about him
Speaker 1: being triggered. I'm triggered by this whole conversation doesn't end
Speaker 1: up now. I hope you never go out on a
Speaker 1: date and somebody eats like a dog or a kitten
Speaker 1: in front of you. I hope that too. Thank you
Speaker 1: for that. What restaurants are you going to? Brooke and
Speaker 1: Jeffrey in the morning,