1 00:00:02,400 --> 00:00:06,920 Speaker 1: Oh my god, back this feels so weird to me. 2 00:00:08,600 --> 00:00:11,440 Speaker 1: Amazing by the way, I actually have not been here 3 00:00:11,440 --> 00:00:13,800 Speaker 1: in months. Well, I mean there's new furniture. I mean 4 00:00:13,800 --> 00:00:15,080 Speaker 1: maybe the last time I was here you had a 5 00:00:15,120 --> 00:00:19,320 Speaker 1: Christmas tree. Still probably, I mean, this has been quite 6 00:00:19,440 --> 00:00:22,640 Speaker 1: the time of not seeing each other, recording over the phone. 7 00:00:22,680 --> 00:00:26,680 Speaker 1: It's just that the same. I gotta tell you, I 8 00:00:26,720 --> 00:00:28,680 Speaker 1: am so glad we're not on a zoom right now. 9 00:00:29,240 --> 00:00:31,560 Speaker 1: The zoom. We only did that twice. Zoom is like 10 00:00:31,640 --> 00:00:34,120 Speaker 1: a bad word in my world. Now, yeah, I don't. 11 00:00:34,240 --> 00:00:37,040 Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure that I never want to do another name. Yeah, 12 00:00:37,280 --> 00:00:38,800 Speaker 1: you know, it was there was a lot of novel 13 00:00:39,000 --> 00:00:41,280 Speaker 1: It was like it was, I like, there was a 14 00:00:41,320 --> 00:00:43,280 Speaker 1: novelty to it in the beginning. I loved it because 15 00:00:43,320 --> 00:00:46,800 Speaker 1: we were actually like really craving seeing people. And I'm like, 16 00:00:47,560 --> 00:00:50,160 Speaker 1: then now it's reached a point where it's a necessity 17 00:00:50,200 --> 00:00:53,120 Speaker 1: and you're like, another, damn zoom. Can't this be an email? 18 00:00:53,440 --> 00:00:56,400 Speaker 1: And now I don't even turn my camera on for him? Yeah, yeah, 19 00:00:56,400 --> 00:00:58,080 Speaker 1: I've done that a couple of times too, because also, 20 00:00:58,160 --> 00:00:59,800 Speaker 1: like I used to try to maybe look cute, but 21 00:01:00,400 --> 00:01:04,400 Speaker 1: not anymore. Don't wash the hair thank god they can't 22 00:01:04,400 --> 00:01:07,640 Speaker 1: sell what are these days? I mean, here's the deal 23 00:01:07,800 --> 00:01:12,200 Speaker 1: we have for months now. I've been doing the phone think, 24 00:01:12,280 --> 00:01:14,120 Speaker 1: but we tried Zoom. We didn't work. We did the 25 00:01:14,120 --> 00:01:17,000 Speaker 1: phone thing and that's fine, but it's like our cadence 26 00:01:17,040 --> 00:01:19,160 Speaker 1: is a little off. We're not like looking at each 27 00:01:19,200 --> 00:01:21,240 Speaker 1: other when we talk. You can't read the room the 28 00:01:21,319 --> 00:01:23,759 Speaker 1: same way. So I feel like it's and I don't 29 00:01:23,800 --> 00:01:25,480 Speaker 1: want to say our episodes have been a little flat, 30 00:01:25,520 --> 00:01:27,760 Speaker 1: but I do feel like there's a zinger that happens 31 00:01:27,760 --> 00:01:29,720 Speaker 1: when we're in person. I also think it's really easy 32 00:01:29,760 --> 00:01:32,520 Speaker 1: to get distracted, you know, when the zoom needs you 33 00:01:32,600 --> 00:01:36,880 Speaker 1: kept looking at yourself, right, Okay, Well I wasn't. I 34 00:01:36,959 --> 00:01:39,560 Speaker 1: was more judging myself. Yeah, you start to analyze your 35 00:01:40,840 --> 00:01:44,160 Speaker 1: God that at this angle. Also, it's really easy to 36 00:01:44,240 --> 00:01:46,880 Speaker 1: like dip into an email while you're talking, you know, 37 00:01:47,360 --> 00:01:50,920 Speaker 1: so it's through a drawer, through a drawer, do that 38 00:01:52,760 --> 00:01:54,280 Speaker 1: if you don't know what I'm referencing. A couple of 39 00:01:54,320 --> 00:01:56,880 Speaker 1: episodes ago, there were so much loud noise in the 40 00:01:56,920 --> 00:01:59,360 Speaker 1: background and I literally had to stop my sentence and 41 00:01:59,400 --> 00:02:01,560 Speaker 1: I was like, Chip the funk are you doing right now? 42 00:02:01,840 --> 00:02:04,520 Speaker 1: Taxpapers were stuck in a drawer. Let me organize a 43 00:02:04,560 --> 00:02:07,360 Speaker 1: drawer while we do a podcast. Cool. I'm so glad. 44 00:02:10,919 --> 00:02:14,359 Speaker 1: So today we busted out the tequila. We should give 45 00:02:14,360 --> 00:02:17,720 Speaker 1: the people a background in that we broke are not 46 00:02:17,800 --> 00:02:20,639 Speaker 1: seeing each other. We broke the seal, popped the cherry, 47 00:02:20,680 --> 00:02:24,280 Speaker 1: if you will. Um. This past weekend we had a 48 00:02:24,360 --> 00:02:29,200 Speaker 1: social distance. I mean we tried. We really didn't try 49 00:02:29,240 --> 00:02:31,840 Speaker 1: to hug I I broke it. I literally have not 50 00:02:31,960 --> 00:02:34,799 Speaker 1: hugged my friends since this started. I can't remember the 51 00:02:34,880 --> 00:02:37,320 Speaker 1: last time I had seen you. Probably I don't know. 52 00:02:37,360 --> 00:02:39,959 Speaker 1: I've just been living on a It was probably March. 53 00:02:40,000 --> 00:02:43,280 Speaker 1: We're in June. Yeah, oh my god, June. Okay, that 54 00:02:43,400 --> 00:02:45,400 Speaker 1: is crazy. Yeah. So it's like I haven't seen any 55 00:02:45,400 --> 00:02:46,919 Speaker 1: of my friends, and I was just like, you know, 56 00:02:48,440 --> 00:02:50,640 Speaker 1: y'all have been operating one way or a lot of 57 00:02:50,639 --> 00:02:53,240 Speaker 1: our friends have been operating one way. I've been operating another. 58 00:02:53,320 --> 00:02:57,480 Speaker 1: I've been pretty strict, very very strict. Um, but I 59 00:02:57,480 --> 00:03:01,240 Speaker 1: couldn't take it anymore. And now that the world in Nashville, 60 00:03:01,360 --> 00:03:03,919 Speaker 1: I don't think the world in general, but in Nashville 61 00:03:03,960 --> 00:03:07,560 Speaker 1: things seem to be going back a little. Numbers are 62 00:03:07,560 --> 00:03:11,120 Speaker 1: still rising, so it makes absolutely necess but they are, 63 00:03:11,360 --> 00:03:13,280 Speaker 1: and so we decided to get together out of front 64 00:03:13,320 --> 00:03:17,440 Speaker 1: of our's house. I hugged everybody. I may have coronavirus now, 65 00:03:17,520 --> 00:03:22,960 Speaker 1: but I mean while I'm still active, you're only seeing 66 00:03:22,960 --> 00:03:25,519 Speaker 1: the same people that you've already infected. Yes, and so 67 00:03:25,880 --> 00:03:31,520 Speaker 1: we're infected by right. I feel like if anyone infected 68 00:03:31,520 --> 00:03:33,919 Speaker 1: me was for sure you, it was definitely me. Yeah, 69 00:03:33,960 --> 00:03:35,960 Speaker 1: So I mean, you gotta do what you gotta do. 70 00:03:36,160 --> 00:03:38,240 Speaker 1: I think we're easing back in, and that's kind of 71 00:03:38,280 --> 00:03:39,800 Speaker 1: what we wanted to talk about today, is a little 72 00:03:39,800 --> 00:03:42,160 Speaker 1: bit about re entry. I think we discussed this, do 73 00:03:42,240 --> 00:03:45,400 Speaker 1: we not a couple of weeks ago? Maybe it's hard 74 00:03:45,440 --> 00:03:47,440 Speaker 1: to say. It's hard to say. Hard to say, I mean, 75 00:03:47,480 --> 00:03:49,520 Speaker 1: what's two weeks ago? I don't I don't even like 76 00:03:49,560 --> 00:03:51,720 Speaker 1: if I didn't take old people vitamins and that little 77 00:03:51,760 --> 00:03:53,320 Speaker 1: like thing that tells me what day it is, I 78 00:03:53,320 --> 00:03:57,360 Speaker 1: wouldn't know what day is? Sure who Wednesday? I don't 79 00:03:57,360 --> 00:04:01,480 Speaker 1: even know today is Wednesday. But I mean now, I 80 00:04:01,480 --> 00:04:04,680 Speaker 1: mean technically it's Friday. That actually doesn't make any sense 81 00:04:04,680 --> 00:04:07,000 Speaker 1: because the people listen on Friday, but we're recording on Wednesday. 82 00:04:07,400 --> 00:04:12,320 Speaker 1: Because I'm going back to the farm tomorrow. Listen, there's 83 00:04:12,320 --> 00:04:15,920 Speaker 1: no pick to milk, and you know, there's only horses. 84 00:04:15,960 --> 00:04:19,880 Speaker 1: But I appreciate it. I think it's just farm life, 85 00:04:19,960 --> 00:04:22,680 Speaker 1: man um. But we wanted to talk a little bit 86 00:04:22,680 --> 00:04:25,080 Speaker 1: about re entry because we asked you guys. I asked 87 00:04:25,120 --> 00:04:28,120 Speaker 1: on Instagram this week on at Velvet's Edge, what kind 88 00:04:28,120 --> 00:04:30,600 Speaker 1: of questions you wanted to know? We got a lot 89 00:04:30,640 --> 00:04:32,680 Speaker 1: of great questions. I will say that we're going to do. 90 00:04:32,920 --> 00:04:36,320 Speaker 1: I think the next episode should be just the dating 91 00:04:36,320 --> 00:04:38,799 Speaker 1: and sex questions we got because there were so many 92 00:04:38,839 --> 00:04:42,000 Speaker 1: about that. Y'all got sex on the brain. I mean, 93 00:04:42,160 --> 00:04:45,279 Speaker 1: who does that's true? I mean, I mean, no judgment, like, 94 00:04:45,960 --> 00:04:48,320 Speaker 1: but I loved them. There's some good there's some sally 95 00:04:48,400 --> 00:04:50,760 Speaker 1: juicy ones, and I think we're next week will really 96 00:04:50,760 --> 00:04:53,200 Speaker 1: address those because I feel like they deserve their whole, 97 00:04:53,400 --> 00:04:55,760 Speaker 1: a whole other episode. Um. But we did get a 98 00:04:55,800 --> 00:04:58,640 Speaker 1: lot of questions too about re entry and like what 99 00:04:58,680 --> 00:05:00,960 Speaker 1: do you do? And there's so you know, there's a 100 00:05:01,000 --> 00:05:03,920 Speaker 1: lot of differing opinions, which is what we've been battling. 101 00:05:03,920 --> 00:05:06,800 Speaker 1: I mean, truthfully, I don't feel like I wanted to 102 00:05:06,800 --> 00:05:08,960 Speaker 1: see our group of friends because there was a couple 103 00:05:09,000 --> 00:05:11,880 Speaker 1: of our friends who just weren't taking this seriously to me, Yeah, 104 00:05:11,880 --> 00:05:14,960 Speaker 1: I mean I think they knew that the virus was serious, 105 00:05:15,000 --> 00:05:17,720 Speaker 1: but they were taking risks that other people weren't taking. 106 00:05:17,800 --> 00:05:20,640 Speaker 1: But I wasn't willing to. And they're also friends that, like, 107 00:05:20,839 --> 00:05:23,360 Speaker 1: we have like a lot of respect for it too, 108 00:05:23,400 --> 00:05:25,480 Speaker 1: So it's like you didn't want to judge them. So 109 00:05:25,560 --> 00:05:29,200 Speaker 1: the best way to go about handling it is to 110 00:05:29,279 --> 00:05:32,240 Speaker 1: handle yourself in a way that keeps you safe. And 111 00:05:32,279 --> 00:05:34,480 Speaker 1: I think that's really important, is that, Like, I mean, 112 00:05:34,480 --> 00:05:37,000 Speaker 1: the truth is, our friends that were referencing right now 113 00:05:37,040 --> 00:05:38,720 Speaker 1: could look at us and be like, I never got it, 114 00:05:38,920 --> 00:05:42,919 Speaker 1: So what was your problem? So they weren't wrong, but um, 115 00:05:43,200 --> 00:05:45,440 Speaker 1: you know that didn't that right? They don't have it yet, 116 00:05:45,839 --> 00:05:49,239 Speaker 1: and um, but it doesn't mean that they weren't putting 117 00:05:49,279 --> 00:05:52,559 Speaker 1: themselves at risk. So I think that you know, there 118 00:05:52,600 --> 00:05:55,360 Speaker 1: are varying opinions, and neither of us are experts or 119 00:05:55,400 --> 00:05:59,240 Speaker 1: even scientists or you know, I don't even know. You're 120 00:05:59,240 --> 00:06:01,480 Speaker 1: trying to be so good you right now, I'm like, 121 00:06:01,560 --> 00:06:05,080 Speaker 1: we don't have the we don't the answers, But like, 122 00:06:05,400 --> 00:06:08,040 Speaker 1: I think, if you're concerned, you have to do for 123 00:06:08,120 --> 00:06:11,240 Speaker 1: you what the right thing are you, which is basically 124 00:06:11,240 --> 00:06:14,200 Speaker 1: a life lesson in itself if we're really being bigger 125 00:06:14,240 --> 00:06:17,080 Speaker 1: than the virus truly. But I mean, I think that 126 00:06:17,160 --> 00:06:20,320 Speaker 1: this is such a confusing time in general, because like 127 00:06:20,400 --> 00:06:22,599 Speaker 1: I'm going back in and I'm like, but I actually 128 00:06:22,640 --> 00:06:25,520 Speaker 1: am not seeing any proof that this is any better. 129 00:06:25,720 --> 00:06:29,880 Speaker 1: Like the numbers are technically going up at Tennessee Nashville. Yeah, 130 00:06:29,920 --> 00:06:32,320 Speaker 1: And so you're like, wait, why am I now all 131 00:06:32,320 --> 00:06:34,280 Speaker 1: of a sudden hanging out with people or why am 132 00:06:34,320 --> 00:06:36,280 Speaker 1: I doing all this stuff? And it's like, I don't know. 133 00:06:36,440 --> 00:06:38,440 Speaker 1: My big thing with getting the virus is it's not 134 00:06:38,520 --> 00:06:41,480 Speaker 1: just about me. It's like, you know, my boyfriend, his kids. 135 00:06:41,520 --> 00:06:43,280 Speaker 1: Then I think like my parents might come visit, and 136 00:06:43,320 --> 00:06:45,480 Speaker 1: so you just start to be really cautious because it's 137 00:06:45,520 --> 00:06:48,200 Speaker 1: like my parents are older. Like I just started thinking 138 00:06:48,200 --> 00:06:50,440 Speaker 1: about all the other people. As much as it would 139 00:06:50,440 --> 00:06:54,640 Speaker 1: suck to get coronavirus, hopefully I would be okay, But 140 00:06:54,680 --> 00:06:56,040 Speaker 1: it's just like you don't want to pass it on, 141 00:06:56,120 --> 00:07:00,839 Speaker 1: you know, and just make it exactly so anyway, we 142 00:07:00,920 --> 00:07:03,280 Speaker 1: could go on about this forever, because I really still 143 00:07:03,320 --> 00:07:05,360 Speaker 1: feel very confused, to be fun honest, and I think 144 00:07:05,400 --> 00:07:07,320 Speaker 1: a lot of people do. So some of the questions 145 00:07:07,360 --> 00:07:11,000 Speaker 1: that we got, we wanted to just address um and 146 00:07:11,040 --> 00:07:13,760 Speaker 1: talk about how we're handling these certain scenarios or how 147 00:07:13,760 --> 00:07:16,920 Speaker 1: we've seen other people handle these certain scenarios. This one 148 00:07:17,000 --> 00:07:18,880 Speaker 1: is a good one. For instance, she says, how do 149 00:07:18,960 --> 00:07:20,720 Speaker 1: I tell my friends we will not be coming to 150 00:07:20,760 --> 00:07:25,280 Speaker 1: their party because of a pandemic? Well, I mean, I 151 00:07:25,320 --> 00:07:29,840 Speaker 1: think you could probably answer this. I didn't really go 152 00:07:29,880 --> 00:07:32,080 Speaker 1: to any parties, but I did have I'm single, I 153 00:07:32,120 --> 00:07:34,400 Speaker 1: live alone. There were I have a couple of friends 154 00:07:34,440 --> 00:07:36,240 Speaker 1: that are in the same situation, and those were the 155 00:07:36,280 --> 00:07:38,680 Speaker 1: people that I saw, and I felt comfortable in that 156 00:07:39,880 --> 00:07:42,320 Speaker 1: we were only seeing each other. I knew that there 157 00:07:42,360 --> 00:07:43,880 Speaker 1: was a risk that they could go to the grocery 158 00:07:43,920 --> 00:07:45,600 Speaker 1: store and get it from somebody there. There was there's 159 00:07:45,600 --> 00:07:48,640 Speaker 1: always an outside force that we can't control. For the 160 00:07:48,640 --> 00:07:51,400 Speaker 1: most part, I was choosing to believe that they were 161 00:07:51,440 --> 00:07:53,160 Speaker 1: being as safe as possible, that I was being as 162 00:07:53,200 --> 00:07:56,440 Speaker 1: safe as possible. But I was choosing to see them, 163 00:07:56,560 --> 00:08:00,320 Speaker 1: whereas you took a more extreme approach and you didn't 164 00:08:00,320 --> 00:08:03,760 Speaker 1: see us I know at all. And all I said 165 00:08:03,800 --> 00:08:05,840 Speaker 1: to you, guys, was and it didn't offend me. I 166 00:08:05,880 --> 00:08:08,040 Speaker 1: was never offended. I totally understood think that some of 167 00:08:08,040 --> 00:08:10,080 Speaker 1: our friends. It didn't offend me. Yeah, I don't think 168 00:08:10,080 --> 00:08:11,680 Speaker 1: it offended you, but I do think it offended some 169 00:08:11,720 --> 00:08:13,960 Speaker 1: of our friends. And I had to just be honest 170 00:08:13,960 --> 00:08:16,960 Speaker 1: and be like, I'm so sorry. But the truth is 171 00:08:17,080 --> 00:08:18,760 Speaker 1: is like I'm doing what's right for me and what 172 00:08:18,920 --> 00:08:21,320 Speaker 1: I feel comfortable with right now. And it's sort of 173 00:08:21,360 --> 00:08:23,800 Speaker 1: like what you said to Like, if I was single 174 00:08:24,120 --> 00:08:28,080 Speaker 1: right now, one hands down, I would have done exactly 175 00:08:28,160 --> 00:08:29,880 Speaker 1: what you did, Like there's no doubt in my mind 176 00:08:29,880 --> 00:08:32,600 Speaker 1: because I would be going crazy in my house. But 177 00:08:32,679 --> 00:08:36,640 Speaker 1: I was, I'm not single, and I wasn't alone, and 178 00:08:36,679 --> 00:08:38,079 Speaker 1: I had a place that I could go to and 179 00:08:38,160 --> 00:08:40,920 Speaker 1: kind of retreat to that gave me a lot of activities, 180 00:08:40,960 --> 00:08:42,280 Speaker 1: and so I was just like, you know what, I'm 181 00:08:42,320 --> 00:08:44,520 Speaker 1: just gonna like lean in. I've also had a shitty year, 182 00:08:44,720 --> 00:08:50,040 Speaker 1: so fine out world. I need a break, And that 183 00:08:50,160 --> 00:08:52,000 Speaker 1: was just it is kind of like a timing thing 184 00:08:52,080 --> 00:08:55,000 Speaker 1: for me. So I think it just depends on the situation. 185 00:08:55,160 --> 00:08:57,480 Speaker 1: I also think that if your friends can't give you 186 00:08:57,520 --> 00:08:59,600 Speaker 1: the grace to be like, hey, if you don't feel 187 00:08:59,640 --> 00:09:03,560 Speaker 1: comfortable will go do you whatever. They're not real friends 188 00:09:03,720 --> 00:09:06,880 Speaker 1: or they that's their problem. Here's the one thing that 189 00:09:07,559 --> 00:09:09,719 Speaker 1: I haven't even mentioned this to you. And it's not 190 00:09:09,760 --> 00:09:12,319 Speaker 1: necessarily about like responding to a friend, but it's about 191 00:09:12,360 --> 00:09:15,040 Speaker 1: like being in a situation. So I've been looking at 192 00:09:15,080 --> 00:09:17,920 Speaker 1: houses and my real estate agent we were at this 193 00:09:18,000 --> 00:09:20,959 Speaker 1: house and this other really and all of us wearing masks, 194 00:09:21,280 --> 00:09:25,400 Speaker 1: and the seller was started to approach us, and my 195 00:09:25,480 --> 00:09:28,120 Speaker 1: real estate agent was like, back up and was like 196 00:09:28,280 --> 00:09:30,400 Speaker 1: very dramatic about it, and it was like I was 197 00:09:30,520 --> 00:09:36,520 Speaker 1: kind of embarrassed, but so dramatic. And that to me 198 00:09:36,640 --> 00:09:39,280 Speaker 1: is like how do you react to that situation? Like 199 00:09:39,679 --> 00:09:42,440 Speaker 1: should I have been like, Yo, don't be, don't be 200 00:09:42,480 --> 00:09:47,000 Speaker 1: so dramatic. Might be trying to buy this house? Like 201 00:09:47,040 --> 00:09:50,720 Speaker 1: back up, like throw a handbook? What if that's a movie? 202 00:09:50,760 --> 00:09:55,040 Speaker 1: Back up up? Magic business? My business? I don't know. 203 00:09:55,320 --> 00:09:58,200 Speaker 1: But anyway, so that was actually another question. Someone said, 204 00:09:58,320 --> 00:10:00,880 Speaker 1: this is awkward. My boyfriend's friend don't think COVID is 205 00:10:00,880 --> 00:10:02,559 Speaker 1: a big deal. So they refused to wear a mask. 206 00:10:03,880 --> 00:10:05,839 Speaker 1: The guy ended put him up putting on a mask 207 00:10:05,880 --> 00:10:08,960 Speaker 1: after your real estate agent went after they had a 208 00:10:09,000 --> 00:10:12,760 Speaker 1: mask on already. Okay, it was just about like the 209 00:10:14,160 --> 00:10:17,000 Speaker 1: and it was still that was still kind of early on, 210 00:10:17,160 --> 00:10:19,800 Speaker 1: like when they were just starting the show. Some homes 211 00:10:19,840 --> 00:10:21,439 Speaker 1: like I did, I saw a couple of homes like, 212 00:10:22,200 --> 00:10:24,520 Speaker 1: I mean, I probably shouldn't say this out loud, but 213 00:10:24,600 --> 00:10:26,800 Speaker 1: like pretty just called and got the code and went 214 00:10:26,840 --> 00:10:31,920 Speaker 1: in by myself. Um so, but this was people were 215 00:10:31,920 --> 00:10:33,920 Speaker 1: starting to ease back into it and this one was 216 00:10:34,040 --> 00:10:35,800 Speaker 1: and we knew it was a pretty hot property. So 217 00:10:35,920 --> 00:10:40,000 Speaker 1: she wanted to see it with me. But wait, what 218 00:10:40,040 --> 00:10:42,840 Speaker 1: was the question you asked? Sorry, we started drinking tequila's 219 00:10:42,840 --> 00:10:44,679 Speaker 1: here and she put that just clamber on anything that 220 00:10:44,720 --> 00:10:46,800 Speaker 1: we say right now. It's probably why I'm so fiery 221 00:10:46,840 --> 00:10:53,520 Speaker 1: about right. I mean, we're back in business there. We 222 00:10:53,640 --> 00:10:56,439 Speaker 1: had to have a drink. Um. I said to you 223 00:10:56,640 --> 00:11:02,040 Speaker 1: the thing about the mask, and yes, I mean, come on, people, 224 00:11:02,080 --> 00:11:05,120 Speaker 1: there are a hundred and thirteen thousand dead people now, 225 00:11:05,200 --> 00:11:07,600 Speaker 1: Like it is real. It's real, it is real. This 226 00:11:07,679 --> 00:11:12,000 Speaker 1: isn't politics, this is science. I've heard people say our 227 00:11:12,120 --> 00:11:17,240 Speaker 1: response to it has been overblown. You can question it, 228 00:11:17,320 --> 00:11:20,880 Speaker 1: but like I'd rather fewer people die, you know. So 229 00:11:20,960 --> 00:11:23,679 Speaker 1: it's like to me and I hate to see people 230 00:11:23,720 --> 00:11:26,400 Speaker 1: broke and out of business and all of these things. 231 00:11:26,640 --> 00:11:30,720 Speaker 1: I don't think there's a perfect solution, but I would 232 00:11:30,840 --> 00:11:33,960 Speaker 1: rather see people alive. Also, I'm just like, just wear 233 00:11:33,960 --> 00:11:36,160 Speaker 1: a fucking mask. It's not why is it that big 234 00:11:36,160 --> 00:11:39,440 Speaker 1: of a deal, Like, it's not hard. It's to me 235 00:11:39,600 --> 00:11:41,320 Speaker 1: when I put my mask on, I mean because it 236 00:11:41,360 --> 00:11:43,720 Speaker 1: doesn't protect you. They say it can still get in 237 00:11:43,800 --> 00:11:46,160 Speaker 1: or I don't know. That's also debatable, But it's like 238 00:11:46,520 --> 00:11:48,439 Speaker 1: I put my mask on to be like, hey, I'm 239 00:11:48,440 --> 00:11:50,880 Speaker 1: gonna do my part, and I'm gonna if I'm, you know, 240 00:11:51,120 --> 00:11:53,160 Speaker 1: have the virus and I'm walking around the grocery store, 241 00:11:53,360 --> 00:11:54,680 Speaker 1: I don't want to give it to you. And I 242 00:11:54,679 --> 00:11:58,000 Speaker 1: don't you know this older woman or sure like I 243 00:11:58,080 --> 00:12:00,679 Speaker 1: think it's us communicating to each other. Are you matter 244 00:12:00,760 --> 00:12:03,080 Speaker 1: to me? This world matters to me? Which don't we 245 00:12:03,120 --> 00:12:05,160 Speaker 1: all need that right now? I mean, it's like it's 246 00:12:05,200 --> 00:12:07,800 Speaker 1: not dissimilar than being like, well it's quicker for me 247 00:12:07,840 --> 00:12:09,480 Speaker 1: to drive the grocery store if I go the wrong 248 00:12:09,480 --> 00:12:11,839 Speaker 1: way down a one way street, Like you're not gonna 249 00:12:11,920 --> 00:12:15,520 Speaker 1: do that? Wait? What like if if there's a shortcut 250 00:12:15,600 --> 00:12:17,319 Speaker 1: for you to go to the grocery store and it's 251 00:12:17,360 --> 00:12:19,280 Speaker 1: to drive the wrong way down a one way street, 252 00:12:19,320 --> 00:12:21,080 Speaker 1: like you're not going to do it. It It wouldn't do it, 253 00:12:21,200 --> 00:12:23,040 Speaker 1: like you drive the right way. So put on a 254 00:12:23,120 --> 00:12:25,760 Speaker 1: fucking mass so it doesn't take very much time. Like 255 00:12:25,920 --> 00:12:27,800 Speaker 1: I'm literally I do it as I get out of 256 00:12:27,840 --> 00:12:30,240 Speaker 1: my car, like third around my ears. It takes two seconds. 257 00:12:30,280 --> 00:12:34,080 Speaker 1: And I wear glasses. Yeah, it's fucking annoying my glass. 258 00:12:34,920 --> 00:12:37,040 Speaker 1: If that's the only thing that people should be able 259 00:12:37,040 --> 00:12:40,440 Speaker 1: to complain about, is that and still just get used 260 00:12:40,480 --> 00:12:44,160 Speaker 1: to it. It's just not get a deal. And if 261 00:12:44,320 --> 00:12:47,920 Speaker 1: and if if your friends don't think that this is real, 262 00:12:48,640 --> 00:12:51,640 Speaker 1: I say, you better look for better, smarter friends. Yeah, 263 00:12:51,800 --> 00:12:54,440 Speaker 1: I feel like I see that a lot amongst us 264 00:12:54,440 --> 00:12:57,720 Speaker 1: sounds so old right now. Amongst the youngsters, it's like 265 00:12:58,000 --> 00:12:59,640 Speaker 1: they're just like this is not a thing or whatever. 266 00:12:59,640 --> 00:13:01,440 Speaker 1: They don't to take it seriously because they think they'll 267 00:13:01,480 --> 00:13:05,440 Speaker 1: be fine and like okay, but like, you asshole, are 268 00:13:05,480 --> 00:13:06,760 Speaker 1: the one who's going to give it to all these 269 00:13:06,760 --> 00:13:08,560 Speaker 1: older people who don't deserve it, are the people who 270 00:13:08,600 --> 00:13:11,360 Speaker 1: are high risk, Like just do it as a courtesy, 271 00:13:11,520 --> 00:13:13,960 Speaker 1: even if you don't think that you're at like you're 272 00:13:14,000 --> 00:13:16,040 Speaker 1: at risk or it's that big of a deal, do 273 00:13:16,080 --> 00:13:19,240 Speaker 1: it as a courtesy for other people, you know. I mean, 274 00:13:19,280 --> 00:13:23,920 Speaker 1: it's I get it's really conflicting. Because we want our 275 00:13:23,920 --> 00:13:26,120 Speaker 1: lives to feel really normal. They're not going to feel 276 00:13:26,160 --> 00:13:28,960 Speaker 1: normal for a while, that's not And the longer that 277 00:13:29,000 --> 00:13:32,240 Speaker 1: we sort of rail against the idea of this, the 278 00:13:32,280 --> 00:13:34,720 Speaker 1: longer they're not going to feel normal. Also, I don't 279 00:13:34,760 --> 00:13:37,320 Speaker 1: even know what normal is going to be, do you 280 00:13:37,320 --> 00:13:40,240 Speaker 1: know what I mean? Like, there's so much ship going 281 00:13:40,280 --> 00:13:42,600 Speaker 1: on right now that maybe there's going to be a 282 00:13:42,600 --> 00:13:45,520 Speaker 1: new normal and maybe that's okay. Like I think the 283 00:13:46,160 --> 00:13:48,120 Speaker 1: quicker we can get to acceptance of that and just 284 00:13:48,240 --> 00:13:51,679 Speaker 1: leaning into like what's going on, the better. Well. I mean, look, 285 00:13:51,720 --> 00:13:53,800 Speaker 1: we preach all of this like live in the present, 286 00:13:55,000 --> 00:13:57,480 Speaker 1: all of this bullshit. It's because people are choosing to 287 00:13:57,520 --> 00:13:59,839 Speaker 1: live in the past. Oh good, you know what I mean. 288 00:14:00,000 --> 00:14:04,319 Speaker 1: It's like fuck yesterday, let's right tomorrow? Right? You know? 289 00:14:04,559 --> 00:14:06,559 Speaker 1: So I don't know, it's yeah, I feel like we're 290 00:14:06,600 --> 00:14:11,280 Speaker 1: getting a little uh scary. So I'm gonna bring up this. 291 00:14:11,600 --> 00:14:18,640 Speaker 1: Someone asked, what about sharing nachos during just don't? First 292 00:14:18,679 --> 00:14:21,440 Speaker 1: of all, I mean, isn't this a great excuse to 293 00:14:21,520 --> 00:14:24,760 Speaker 1: not share your nachos, like, ship, order your own. I 294 00:14:24,760 --> 00:14:27,080 Speaker 1: always get pissed when I share nachos because like that 295 00:14:27,160 --> 00:14:32,880 Speaker 1: one nacho that looks perfect with the gooey that literally 296 00:14:32,880 --> 00:14:35,120 Speaker 1: has a little bit of the meat, a little bit 297 00:14:35,120 --> 00:14:38,240 Speaker 1: of the South Crane tomato, and you're like, God, damn it, 298 00:14:38,320 --> 00:14:40,760 Speaker 1: someone grabbed it before I could, So just order your 299 00:14:40,760 --> 00:14:43,680 Speaker 1: own nachos. Great, you're right, what a good excuse to 300 00:14:43,680 --> 00:14:47,240 Speaker 1: have your own plate? And yeah, don't share, don't share, 301 00:14:47,480 --> 00:14:50,280 Speaker 1: don't share it. This one says, or um, what about 302 00:14:50,360 --> 00:14:53,400 Speaker 1: telling my mom that she has to tell us when 303 00:14:53,400 --> 00:14:55,640 Speaker 1: she's seen other family members so we know how to 304 00:14:55,640 --> 00:14:58,880 Speaker 1: avoid her for two weeks. I will say, I give disclaimers. 305 00:14:58,960 --> 00:15:00,840 Speaker 1: This is who I've seen my parents. I guess that 306 00:15:00,920 --> 00:15:02,960 Speaker 1: are coming to visit me next week. And I was like, 307 00:15:03,040 --> 00:15:06,360 Speaker 1: full disclosure. I went to like a party I'm doing 308 00:15:06,360 --> 00:15:08,400 Speaker 1: air quotes right now, a party the other night, and 309 00:15:08,440 --> 00:15:12,880 Speaker 1: I saw I think there was eight people. We're both 310 00:15:12,880 --> 00:15:17,720 Speaker 1: like eight to say, we're like backchecking and okay, excuse me, 311 00:15:17,760 --> 00:15:20,840 Speaker 1: that was terrible timing, but we yeah, we saw. I 312 00:15:20,840 --> 00:15:23,000 Speaker 1: think I actually do think it was ten people, probably, 313 00:15:23,520 --> 00:15:29,040 Speaker 1: and I just can't throat. I was clearing my throat 314 00:15:29,760 --> 00:15:39,400 Speaker 1: kid like a spit bubble got lodged. Anyway, I told 315 00:15:39,520 --> 00:15:42,160 Speaker 1: my mom that and that was She was like, well, 316 00:15:42,160 --> 00:15:45,000 Speaker 1: thank you for the information, Like here's who's we've seen. 317 00:15:45,080 --> 00:15:47,160 Speaker 1: I know you're being careful. And I was like, yeah, 318 00:15:47,200 --> 00:15:50,240 Speaker 1: but I did a lot of tequila, hugged everybody. I 319 00:15:50,240 --> 00:15:51,760 Speaker 1: mean it just straight up, you know. And I think 320 00:15:51,760 --> 00:15:53,600 Speaker 1: you just have to do that because people have to 321 00:15:53,600 --> 00:15:55,920 Speaker 1: know what they're signing up for. And it's like none 322 00:15:55,960 --> 00:15:57,880 Speaker 1: of us know. But at the end of the day, 323 00:15:58,000 --> 00:16:02,120 Speaker 1: I don't want to lead peoplelinely into seeing me, right. Yeah, 324 00:16:02,160 --> 00:16:05,200 Speaker 1: And and the truth is is our parents are more 325 00:16:05,280 --> 00:16:08,400 Speaker 1: vulnerable than us, so it makes me really nice. It 326 00:16:08,400 --> 00:16:10,640 Speaker 1: would suck if your parents brought it to you, like 327 00:16:10,680 --> 00:16:13,560 Speaker 1: they're carrying in not symptomatic, but it would suck so 328 00:16:13,640 --> 00:16:16,440 Speaker 1: much worse if you gave it to them. Absolutely. I 329 00:16:16,480 --> 00:16:19,960 Speaker 1: had a friend's dad pass away. Um yeah, two weeks ago. 330 00:16:20,040 --> 00:16:24,479 Speaker 1: You know I'm too he plays um for dirks. Yeah, 331 00:16:24,280 --> 00:16:26,000 Speaker 1: oh I didn't know this. You didn't know this ever? 332 00:16:26,240 --> 00:16:31,200 Speaker 1: Can talk about it? Slide bar one o. Um, yeah, 333 00:16:31,280 --> 00:16:35,200 Speaker 1: it's awful. So anyway, it's a real thing. But we 334 00:16:35,320 --> 00:16:37,720 Speaker 1: digress a little bit. I mean, I think The point 335 00:16:37,840 --> 00:16:40,920 Speaker 1: is is you still figure out what feels comfortable to you. 336 00:16:41,240 --> 00:16:44,320 Speaker 1: I mean, I know I'm easing him with precaution. I'm 337 00:16:44,320 --> 00:16:47,600 Speaker 1: still wearing my mask everywhere. But don't be selfish. What 338 00:16:47,640 --> 00:16:50,400 Speaker 1: do you mean, like, do what's comfortable to you, but like, 339 00:16:50,640 --> 00:16:53,080 Speaker 1: don't make it just about you, you know what I mean, 340 00:16:53,080 --> 00:16:56,600 Speaker 1: because it does your actions affect other people. Well, that's 341 00:16:56,600 --> 00:16:58,920 Speaker 1: what I'm saying. I'm still wearing a mask. I'm still 342 00:16:58,960 --> 00:17:02,360 Speaker 1: washing my hands. Still, I did hug. I feel like 343 00:17:02,400 --> 00:17:04,200 Speaker 1: I like broke a little bit of a barrier there, 344 00:17:04,200 --> 00:17:05,600 Speaker 1: but like I needed it too. It was like an 345 00:17:05,640 --> 00:17:07,879 Speaker 1: emotional well being. I mean, you can die of that 346 00:17:07,960 --> 00:17:11,439 Speaker 1: kind of I mean i'm air quote deaths, but like 347 00:17:11,520 --> 00:17:15,119 Speaker 1: that's emotional death to be able to do those sorts 348 00:17:15,119 --> 00:17:18,120 Speaker 1: of things. See people hug people like we're I mean, 349 00:17:18,119 --> 00:17:20,760 Speaker 1: it's human nature to want to touch. Yeah, So use 350 00:17:20,800 --> 00:17:23,800 Speaker 1: precaution where you can, and like you know, take care 351 00:17:23,880 --> 00:17:26,560 Speaker 1: of everyone else too. And we're a fucking mask. Just 352 00:17:26,560 --> 00:17:28,520 Speaker 1: wear a mask. Just wear a mask. It's not that hard. 353 00:17:32,720 --> 00:17:34,480 Speaker 1: We do have a couple of listener questions we wanted 354 00:17:34,480 --> 00:17:36,480 Speaker 1: to answer this week. Next week, like I said, we'll 355 00:17:36,520 --> 00:17:41,760 Speaker 1: be the full blown sex and dating listener email, there's 356 00:17:41,760 --> 00:17:44,280 Speaker 1: a Bush question that I can't wait to die? Are 357 00:17:44,280 --> 00:17:46,200 Speaker 1: you so excited about this? And whenever sent it to 358 00:17:46,280 --> 00:17:51,720 Speaker 1: you even got excited because Bush seems so like you 359 00:17:51,760 --> 00:17:55,120 Speaker 1: also just like saying bush. Yeah, it's a good word. 360 00:17:55,280 --> 00:17:57,440 Speaker 1: It's going to be a good episode next week. So 361 00:17:57,600 --> 00:18:01,480 Speaker 1: if you do still have dating or sex questions, I 362 00:18:01,520 --> 00:18:03,320 Speaker 1: mean we might even have to divide into the two. 363 00:18:03,359 --> 00:18:05,520 Speaker 1: I don't know. These are my favorite kind of questions 364 00:18:05,520 --> 00:18:11,320 Speaker 1: to answer to, not because I have the most some 365 00:18:11,680 --> 00:18:17,320 Speaker 1: bound sorry mom um. But anyway, so email us act 366 00:18:17,760 --> 00:18:20,800 Speaker 1: at act Casual at velvet edge dot com or slide 367 00:18:20,800 --> 00:18:23,160 Speaker 1: into my d M s at Velvet's Edge. We will 368 00:18:23,160 --> 00:18:25,360 Speaker 1: try to answer all that we can, honestly because they're 369 00:18:25,359 --> 00:18:29,960 Speaker 1: all very interesting. Yeah, there was one particular that was 370 00:18:30,000 --> 00:18:31,879 Speaker 1: my favorite. We'll talk about it next week. So anyway, 371 00:18:31,960 --> 00:18:36,439 Speaker 1: these are questions for this week. This has to do 372 00:18:36,680 --> 00:18:41,840 Speaker 1: with tipping and tipping and quarantine. Are tipping during the 373 00:18:41,880 --> 00:18:44,199 Speaker 1: pandemic is probably a little different, but this is what 374 00:18:44,240 --> 00:18:46,399 Speaker 1: she says. Hey, Kelly and Chip, hope you all are 375 00:18:46,400 --> 00:18:48,240 Speaker 1: having a good day. I need some insight on something 376 00:18:48,280 --> 00:18:50,000 Speaker 1: and I would like to hear some discussion about it. 377 00:18:50,040 --> 00:18:53,480 Speaker 1: Instead of doing a Google search, and the topic is tipping. 378 00:18:53,760 --> 00:18:56,560 Speaker 1: I'm good to go with restaurant tipping. I always do 379 00:18:56,600 --> 00:19:05,640 Speaker 1: at least especially sorry, especially if the service was superb. 380 00:19:05,920 --> 00:19:09,720 Speaker 1: But I'm curious the proper etiquette for let's say, a wax, hair, 381 00:19:10,119 --> 00:19:13,080 Speaker 1: med spot, et cetera. I got a dermoplane and hydrofacial 382 00:19:13,160 --> 00:19:15,280 Speaker 1: the other day. I hope you wear a mask, which 383 00:19:15,359 --> 00:19:17,600 Speaker 1: is a luxury for me. I only do it a 384 00:19:17,640 --> 00:19:21,400 Speaker 1: few times a year because they can get expensive tip 385 00:19:21,440 --> 00:19:23,600 Speaker 1: on that makes that bill much higher. That is true, 386 00:19:24,320 --> 00:19:26,160 Speaker 1: but I don't want my beauty girl to think I'm 387 00:19:26,160 --> 00:19:29,000 Speaker 1: a cheapo and I don't or that I don't appreciate 388 00:19:29,040 --> 00:19:31,760 Speaker 1: her work. Do med spot people fall in the same 389 00:19:31,880 --> 00:19:36,080 Speaker 1: category as hair and wax or are they a base? Sorry? 390 00:19:36,160 --> 00:19:39,199 Speaker 1: And they don't rely on just tips? Also, what about nails? 391 00:19:40,040 --> 00:19:44,520 Speaker 1: What about This is a lot of questions. Kelly, this 392 00:19:44,640 --> 00:19:46,480 Speaker 1: is her name. Her name is Kelly as well? What 393 00:19:46,600 --> 00:19:48,919 Speaker 1: about the random high school boys that vacuum your car 394 00:19:48,960 --> 00:19:51,720 Speaker 1: at the car wash? So many scenarios, but mainly just 395 00:19:51,760 --> 00:19:54,680 Speaker 1: concerned about doing my med spot girl right, but also 396 00:19:54,760 --> 00:19:57,520 Speaker 1: being wise with my money. Thanks so much for your help. 397 00:19:57,960 --> 00:19:59,679 Speaker 1: I can't wait to hear what you think for the 398 00:19:59,720 --> 00:20:06,639 Speaker 1: at casual tip, Well, I mean my role is across 399 00:20:06,640 --> 00:20:11,320 Speaker 1: the board. I think that like the vacuum guy, some 400 00:20:11,440 --> 00:20:13,480 Speaker 1: of those things, it's like from a couple of bucks, 401 00:20:13,600 --> 00:20:17,480 Speaker 1: you know, because they're in a volume business, um, and 402 00:20:17,520 --> 00:20:21,240 Speaker 1: they're not doing the full kit and caboodle. Um. It's 403 00:20:21,280 --> 00:20:25,600 Speaker 1: kind of like the valet like or even even when 404 00:20:25,600 --> 00:20:27,600 Speaker 1: you're at a bar, if you're paying cash, like I 405 00:20:27,680 --> 00:20:30,320 Speaker 1: usually do a dollar or a a drink unless I put 406 00:20:30,359 --> 00:20:32,719 Speaker 1: my card down and open a tab. Then it's just 407 00:20:34,920 --> 00:20:36,800 Speaker 1: in the night. Yeah, because I'm never going up in 408 00:20:36,880 --> 00:20:39,320 Speaker 1: like for a mixed drink being like give me a 409 00:20:39,320 --> 00:20:42,240 Speaker 1: tequila soda and then handing them a twenty and leaving 410 00:20:42,280 --> 00:20:46,160 Speaker 1: a dollar like if I'm ordering cocktail. That usually happens 411 00:20:46,160 --> 00:20:48,199 Speaker 1: when it's a beer. So you're talking about like a 412 00:20:48,200 --> 00:20:51,440 Speaker 1: four or five dollar purchase a dollar, is you or 413 00:20:51,480 --> 00:20:56,680 Speaker 1: more so? Um? My general is I think when you're 414 00:20:56,680 --> 00:21:00,479 Speaker 1: talking about things like waxes and and facial than all 415 00:21:00,520 --> 00:21:04,320 Speaker 1: that bush um facials and all that saying like yeah, 416 00:21:04,320 --> 00:21:07,880 Speaker 1: they are a luxury thing and you need you need 417 00:21:07,920 --> 00:21:10,359 Speaker 1: to be willing to pay these people. I think the 418 00:21:10,400 --> 00:21:14,520 Speaker 1: expectation is there. These people are just like us. Like, 419 00:21:15,920 --> 00:21:18,639 Speaker 1: and the fact that we even concerned about it means 420 00:21:18,680 --> 00:21:21,280 Speaker 1: that we need to make sure that we are meeting 421 00:21:21,320 --> 00:21:25,320 Speaker 1: everyone's expectations. So and and first of all, like, the 422 00:21:25,359 --> 00:21:30,280 Speaker 1: difference between eighteen and to you as the buyer is 423 00:21:30,359 --> 00:21:33,040 Speaker 1: nothing what it says. And this is coming from someone 424 00:21:33,080 --> 00:21:38,800 Speaker 1: who's waited tables me a back steakhouse. Um, shout out um. 425 00:21:39,720 --> 00:21:43,520 Speaker 1: It's the difference between eighteen and to some person who 426 00:21:43,680 --> 00:21:46,440 Speaker 1: is tipping is not a lot of money, but what 427 00:21:46,800 --> 00:21:49,080 Speaker 1: the message that it sends to the person receiving the 428 00:21:49,160 --> 00:21:54,119 Speaker 1: tip means a lot. And the math to figure is 429 00:21:54,240 --> 00:21:57,080 Speaker 1: so much easier. You just take the first two numbers 430 00:21:57,560 --> 00:22:02,920 Speaker 1: and double it. So is so hard to calculate. So 431 00:22:03,320 --> 00:22:06,239 Speaker 1: I'm full blown with you. And as another person who 432 00:22:06,600 --> 00:22:12,680 Speaker 1: also waited tables PF change, Yeah, I cannot totally serve. 433 00:22:12,720 --> 00:22:16,200 Speaker 1: You'll let us wrap guys. Um. But no, anyway, once 434 00:22:16,280 --> 00:22:19,040 Speaker 1: I did that, I have always and forever, no matter 435 00:22:19,160 --> 00:22:23,560 Speaker 1: how broke I have been in my life, I will 436 00:22:23,600 --> 00:22:26,000 Speaker 1: not go to a place that I can't tip. If 437 00:22:26,040 --> 00:22:32,040 Speaker 1: I get horrible service, that's still usually tipped twenty And 438 00:22:32,119 --> 00:22:33,879 Speaker 1: maybe sometimes I'll write a note like you could have 439 00:22:33,960 --> 00:22:36,080 Speaker 1: been better or something I don't mean I've never have 440 00:22:36,200 --> 00:22:39,320 Speaker 1: done that actually, but like it's just like you maybe 441 00:22:39,359 --> 00:22:41,720 Speaker 1: communicate to them somehow, like this wasn't that great, but 442 00:22:41,840 --> 00:22:45,639 Speaker 1: like because of the nature of that job, the tips 443 00:22:45,760 --> 00:22:48,359 Speaker 1: do matter. And a lot of states in terms of 444 00:22:48,600 --> 00:22:50,840 Speaker 1: food service, and I think that Kelly had said that 445 00:22:50,920 --> 00:22:54,040 Speaker 1: she understands restaurants like a lot of states like you 446 00:22:54,200 --> 00:23:00,159 Speaker 1: make like less than three and I do think in 447 00:23:00,200 --> 00:23:03,359 Speaker 1: the beauty business they do make more. I do also 448 00:23:03,440 --> 00:23:06,480 Speaker 1: think there's a reason they ask for tips, because in 449 00:23:06,560 --> 00:23:09,720 Speaker 1: any place that doesn't ask for tips, it's built into 450 00:23:09,720 --> 00:23:11,560 Speaker 1: their salary. Do you know what I'm saying, right, And 451 00:23:11,680 --> 00:23:14,000 Speaker 1: a lot of the like you know, I I love 452 00:23:14,840 --> 00:23:17,119 Speaker 1: This is going to sound so much creepier than it 453 00:23:17,160 --> 00:23:20,399 Speaker 1: actually is, but I do love a discount like bush. 454 00:23:20,800 --> 00:23:24,880 Speaker 1: I do love a discount like massage place for example, 455 00:23:24,920 --> 00:23:27,320 Speaker 1: like Massage Envy, which is not a sketchy place, but 456 00:23:27,359 --> 00:23:30,639 Speaker 1: the pricing is much lower, but you're not paying for 457 00:23:31,000 --> 00:23:35,080 Speaker 1: all the sort of extra you know, luxury, and that 458 00:23:35,280 --> 00:23:37,399 Speaker 1: they often will say, like a lot of those places 459 00:23:37,520 --> 00:23:39,240 Speaker 1: on the back of the door where you would like 460 00:23:39,320 --> 00:23:42,080 Speaker 1: hang your clothes or whatever, it says like our people 461 00:23:42,240 --> 00:23:44,760 Speaker 1: work for tips and they like they expect you to 462 00:23:44,920 --> 00:23:47,960 Speaker 1: go above and beyond like even a rates because the 463 00:23:48,080 --> 00:23:50,480 Speaker 1: rates are lower, so they're they're being paid a lower 464 00:23:50,600 --> 00:23:55,480 Speaker 1: wage per hour. But I think in general, if you 465 00:23:55,560 --> 00:23:59,119 Speaker 1: can do do it, I actually did a little. I 466 00:23:59,160 --> 00:24:02,760 Speaker 1: mean we can sort of move into like the quarantine times. 467 00:24:02,840 --> 00:24:05,720 Speaker 1: It's different, you know, like, well, nobody's making the same 468 00:24:05,720 --> 00:24:08,760 Speaker 1: amount of the same amount of money. And obviously people 469 00:24:09,240 --> 00:24:11,320 Speaker 1: especially at the height of it, when we didn't really 470 00:24:11,359 --> 00:24:13,040 Speaker 1: know how this was going to play out at all, 471 00:24:13,119 --> 00:24:15,600 Speaker 1: and not that we still do, but like it seems 472 00:24:15,640 --> 00:24:17,639 Speaker 1: to be like, you know, restaurants are opening, like some 473 00:24:17,800 --> 00:24:20,719 Speaker 1: normalcies coming back to our into our lives. But there 474 00:24:20,800 --> 00:24:23,360 Speaker 1: were people that were delivering our groceries and doing ship 475 00:24:23,480 --> 00:24:26,480 Speaker 1: that like we're putting their lives and their families lives 476 00:24:26,600 --> 00:24:29,840 Speaker 1: on the line. I even read where people were like 477 00:24:30,040 --> 00:24:34,600 Speaker 1: tip baiting for instat card, so I guess I've never 478 00:24:34,720 --> 00:24:36,960 Speaker 1: used instat card. I was actually going on the store, 479 00:24:37,520 --> 00:24:40,600 Speaker 1: but you can you can pre put what you're gonna tip, 480 00:24:40,720 --> 00:24:42,960 Speaker 1: and people were putting that they would tip fifty dollars 481 00:24:43,040 --> 00:24:46,000 Speaker 1: for their order. And the instant cart employees that are 482 00:24:46,040 --> 00:24:48,840 Speaker 1: seeing it, they're made aware of like that, so they 483 00:24:49,200 --> 00:24:51,040 Speaker 1: they can. It's like the first one to grab it 484 00:24:51,119 --> 00:24:53,760 Speaker 1: grabs it. So people were like, hell, yeah, I'll go 485 00:24:53,880 --> 00:24:56,800 Speaker 1: do this for fifty bucks, putting themselves on the line. 486 00:24:57,000 --> 00:24:59,760 Speaker 1: And then instat card has a policy where if you're 487 00:24:59,800 --> 00:25:01,720 Speaker 1: not happy, you can change the tip for up to 488 00:25:01,800 --> 00:25:05,119 Speaker 1: twenty four hours, and these motherfucker's are going in and 489 00:25:05,280 --> 00:25:07,440 Speaker 1: changing it back to zero after they got They're not 490 00:25:07,480 --> 00:25:11,199 Speaker 1: actually even paying, they just don't tip. So there are 491 00:25:11,240 --> 00:25:13,560 Speaker 1: people that are actually suing some of these companies to 492 00:25:13,640 --> 00:25:16,320 Speaker 1: try and change the policy because that's I mean, that's 493 00:25:16,359 --> 00:25:21,600 Speaker 1: just wrong. It's morally an ethically right now. Like before 494 00:25:21,680 --> 00:25:24,760 Speaker 1: we knew what was happening, I mean, the people with 495 00:25:24,880 --> 00:25:27,359 Speaker 1: my groceries, I stopped doing that even because it's just 496 00:25:27,560 --> 00:25:28,719 Speaker 1: I don't know, I don't I don't want to put 497 00:25:28,760 --> 00:25:30,640 Speaker 1: them out of business. But like if you did order 498 00:25:30,720 --> 00:25:32,800 Speaker 1: food or whatever, everyone was so scared. You know, it's 499 00:25:32,800 --> 00:25:34,399 Speaker 1: just like leaving it on the door set because we 500 00:25:34,440 --> 00:25:37,560 Speaker 1: thought it could be so easily transmitted by touch well, 501 00:25:37,640 --> 00:25:39,960 Speaker 1: and honestly, like instat cart was making a lot of 502 00:25:40,000 --> 00:25:41,960 Speaker 1: money off the backs of the people that were delivering 503 00:25:42,040 --> 00:25:44,719 Speaker 1: this stuff, they should at least give them the due process. 504 00:25:44,880 --> 00:25:47,600 Speaker 1: So if somebody had a complaint and said I had 505 00:25:47,680 --> 00:25:52,160 Speaker 1: terrible service, make a complaint and then let instat cart 506 00:25:52,400 --> 00:25:56,400 Speaker 1: contact the insta carter to say like, hey, this person 507 00:25:56,520 --> 00:25:58,680 Speaker 1: wasn't happy what happened, and then figure it out. Don't 508 00:25:58,720 --> 00:26:03,280 Speaker 1: just let someone cancel it. Absolutely, But um, I also 509 00:26:03,359 --> 00:26:06,160 Speaker 1: think too there is on the on the honest side 510 00:26:06,240 --> 00:26:08,640 Speaker 1: of it, there were people like they want a tip, 511 00:26:08,760 --> 00:26:12,760 Speaker 1: more like they want to show their appreciations. So it's like, 512 00:26:13,000 --> 00:26:15,679 Speaker 1: how do you cal like what's okay? Like because obviously, 513 00:26:16,840 --> 00:26:19,680 Speaker 1: you know not everyone's losing money right now, so it's 514 00:26:19,920 --> 00:26:22,040 Speaker 1: it's not It doesn't mean that like we all have 515 00:26:22,160 --> 00:26:25,280 Speaker 1: to feel guilty and and be exorbitant in our tipping. 516 00:26:25,359 --> 00:26:27,560 Speaker 1: It just means that, like we should do what we 517 00:26:27,600 --> 00:26:30,359 Speaker 1: feel is right. So I googled and I found a 518 00:26:30,400 --> 00:26:34,160 Speaker 1: little story in the l A Times where um they 519 00:26:34,280 --> 00:26:37,920 Speaker 1: spoke with the great great granddaughter of Emily Post, whose 520 00:26:38,000 --> 00:26:40,120 Speaker 1: name is Lizzie Post. And if you don't know who 521 00:26:40,160 --> 00:26:42,760 Speaker 1: Emily Post is, then you probably have bad etiquette, so 522 00:26:43,359 --> 00:26:48,480 Speaker 1: or you're not from the UM. So yeah, she's good etiquette. 523 00:26:48,480 --> 00:26:52,159 Speaker 1: Emily Post wrote the book on etiquette, so it's um. Anyway, 524 00:26:52,320 --> 00:26:55,240 Speaker 1: She basically said a tip is a gratuity which is 525 00:26:55,240 --> 00:26:58,320 Speaker 1: connected to the word gratitude. So it's about showing our 526 00:26:58,400 --> 00:27:01,080 Speaker 1: thanks when someone has delivered food to our doorstep. We 527 00:27:01,119 --> 00:27:03,240 Speaker 1: as Americans tend to want to say thanks for what, 528 00:27:04,400 --> 00:27:06,560 Speaker 1: say thanks for that, and do it in a FORMATIP. 529 00:27:06,680 --> 00:27:12,080 Speaker 1: It means something extra. So she would not go into 530 00:27:12,440 --> 00:27:14,879 Speaker 1: like a standard of what you need to do in 531 00:27:14,960 --> 00:27:17,520 Speaker 1: these times, like, because that's really up for you to decide, 532 00:27:17,640 --> 00:27:21,160 Speaker 1: like if you're happy, um, and I think it's really 533 00:27:21,200 --> 00:27:24,080 Speaker 1: about like doing what you can, you know, like and 534 00:27:24,200 --> 00:27:28,760 Speaker 1: I even think too if like the standard isn't what 535 00:27:29,000 --> 00:27:31,720 Speaker 1: you can do and you are having these things delivered 536 00:27:31,800 --> 00:27:34,960 Speaker 1: out of fear for your life, any tip is a 537 00:27:35,400 --> 00:27:38,600 Speaker 1: sign of thanks, you know. But I think if you're 538 00:27:38,640 --> 00:27:41,280 Speaker 1: going out and you're doing luxury things to take care 539 00:27:41,320 --> 00:27:44,960 Speaker 1: of it to make yourself happy, then you need to 540 00:27:45,040 --> 00:27:48,600 Speaker 1: think about that and you need to we're also putting 541 00:27:48,680 --> 00:27:50,560 Speaker 1: themselves in danger, and I mean they're also trying to 542 00:27:50,600 --> 00:27:53,560 Speaker 1: make Yeah. I mean it's hard to say right now. 543 00:27:53,720 --> 00:27:56,240 Speaker 1: I think you're right with especially with the delivery services, 544 00:27:56,320 --> 00:27:59,399 Speaker 1: do what you can, and I mean I can't say that. 545 00:27:59,440 --> 00:28:02,560 Speaker 1: I probably every time on that I started thinking about 546 00:28:02,560 --> 00:28:04,920 Speaker 1: that when just said it had like you know, she said, 547 00:28:04,960 --> 00:28:07,240 Speaker 1: some people have policies where like they do five dollars 548 00:28:07,280 --> 00:28:10,600 Speaker 1: of delivery. Yeah, right, right right, But I mean but 549 00:28:11,040 --> 00:28:13,080 Speaker 1: at the end of somebody to pick up a thousand 550 00:28:13,160 --> 00:28:15,800 Speaker 1: dollars worth of groceries for your like ten person family, 551 00:28:15,840 --> 00:28:18,560 Speaker 1: and it's they're lugging a ton of ship. Like that 552 00:28:18,720 --> 00:28:21,040 Speaker 1: was extreme, I know, but like there are some big 553 00:28:21,119 --> 00:28:22,960 Speaker 1: families out there that eat a lot of food, you 554 00:28:23,040 --> 00:28:25,560 Speaker 1: know what I mean. That's a lot of bad So 555 00:28:26,119 --> 00:28:28,280 Speaker 1: you know, just be mindful. I think it would be 556 00:28:28,400 --> 00:28:31,400 Speaker 1: mindful to be considered of the people doing the service. 557 00:28:31,520 --> 00:28:33,400 Speaker 1: And then also, like you said, one of the luxury things. 558 00:28:33,480 --> 00:28:36,440 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, but if you can fork out what it 559 00:28:36,560 --> 00:28:38,480 Speaker 1: costs to do those items, like I know, it makes 560 00:28:38,520 --> 00:28:39,920 Speaker 1: it a lot more for me every time I go 561 00:28:40,040 --> 00:28:42,480 Speaker 1: get botox on. Like, I don't know how women afford 562 00:28:42,520 --> 00:28:45,360 Speaker 1: to be women. I mean expensive as ship. And I'll 563 00:28:45,400 --> 00:28:49,360 Speaker 1: tell you this. In quarantine, I realized how much money 564 00:28:49,520 --> 00:28:56,840 Speaker 1: I spend on like maintenance or clothes beauty editors because 565 00:28:56,960 --> 00:28:59,360 Speaker 1: they've convinced us that we need a beauty editor. I'd 566 00:28:59,400 --> 00:29:03,400 Speaker 1: be like ladies with like beard, hair is in you 567 00:29:03,440 --> 00:29:06,080 Speaker 1: know what I mean? Hair I mean it's a whole 568 00:29:06,160 --> 00:29:08,760 Speaker 1: different beast. I mean I have I have such a 569 00:29:10,040 --> 00:29:12,120 Speaker 1: back and forth mentality because of what I do for 570 00:29:12,200 --> 00:29:15,000 Speaker 1: a living. I mean, my business is beauty, but like 571 00:29:15,400 --> 00:29:18,760 Speaker 1: what I actually enjoy is the inner sides of that too, 572 00:29:18,880 --> 00:29:21,120 Speaker 1: and so I do think there's like a combination of both, 573 00:29:21,200 --> 00:29:24,239 Speaker 1: and like that's something I'm actually a really good job 574 00:29:24,320 --> 00:29:27,040 Speaker 1: of saying what works for you, thank you. So if 575 00:29:27,880 --> 00:29:30,800 Speaker 1: that doesn't mean that, it's like you're saying, I am 576 00:29:30,880 --> 00:29:33,240 Speaker 1: the pinnacle of beauty and this is what you have. 577 00:29:33,520 --> 00:29:35,560 Speaker 1: Like I like doing this, I like doing that. If 578 00:29:35,600 --> 00:29:38,360 Speaker 1: you're into it, swipe up, yeah, and here's where you 579 00:29:38,400 --> 00:29:40,880 Speaker 1: can find it yourself. So believe that. I don't think 580 00:29:41,200 --> 00:29:42,840 Speaker 1: it's like a one sis fits all thing with this. 581 00:29:43,360 --> 00:29:47,000 Speaker 1: But I did realize how much money because like I 582 00:29:47,200 --> 00:29:49,760 Speaker 1: was so scared going into this, all my work, all 583 00:29:49,800 --> 00:29:51,880 Speaker 1: my like hair and makeup stuff. I mean it basically 584 00:29:51,920 --> 00:29:55,440 Speaker 1: went away. And so that was like tons of money 585 00:29:55,520 --> 00:29:57,840 Speaker 1: that I had planned on that just went out the door. 586 00:29:57,880 --> 00:29:59,280 Speaker 1: And I was like, how am I going to survive? 587 00:29:59,400 --> 00:30:01,480 Speaker 1: And the truth is I've been fine because I just 588 00:30:01,600 --> 00:30:05,160 Speaker 1: haven't Tonu. I want to know, I've been buying tequila 589 00:30:05,240 --> 00:30:08,200 Speaker 1: let's not get it twisted here. No, I've been buying 590 00:30:08,320 --> 00:30:11,400 Speaker 1: groceries and liquor and like that is truly. I go 591 00:30:11,480 --> 00:30:13,800 Speaker 1: to the liquor store, in the grocery store, I've started. 592 00:30:13,880 --> 00:30:15,920 Speaker 1: Now I got a haircut and you know those things. 593 00:30:16,000 --> 00:30:18,800 Speaker 1: But like I'm not getting my eyelashes done anymore. It's 594 00:30:18,840 --> 00:30:22,200 Speaker 1: like the stuff that I thought was so important. Sure 595 00:30:22,240 --> 00:30:23,920 Speaker 1: I would love to do it, but like it's not 596 00:30:24,080 --> 00:30:26,960 Speaker 1: a necessity and like, god, I's spent a lot of 597 00:30:27,000 --> 00:30:30,440 Speaker 1: money on it. Yeah, I mean right down to like 598 00:30:30,560 --> 00:30:33,840 Speaker 1: the cost of a purse, like a nice bad I 599 00:30:34,080 --> 00:30:36,520 Speaker 1: literally like that I've bought. I bought one pair of 600 00:30:36,600 --> 00:30:39,960 Speaker 1: overalls this whole quarantine, and I wear the ship out 601 00:30:40,000 --> 00:30:45,720 Speaker 1: of the rocks. Also, I bought some shoes right before quarantine, 602 00:30:45,800 --> 00:30:47,920 Speaker 1: and my boyfriend was like, I don't even want to 603 00:30:47,960 --> 00:30:49,800 Speaker 1: know the press tag and I was like you don't, 604 00:30:50,080 --> 00:30:56,560 Speaker 1: Like I can't even when. But it's like the point 605 00:30:56,760 --> 00:30:58,840 Speaker 1: is is like now you go, holy sh it, I 606 00:30:58,920 --> 00:31:02,320 Speaker 1: used to spend that on shoes. What the Yeah? Any 607 00:31:02,560 --> 00:31:05,520 Speaker 1: life is different life. One other thing about delivering that 608 00:31:05,840 --> 00:31:07,880 Speaker 1: they mentioned in this article was, you know we have 609 00:31:08,040 --> 00:31:12,520 Speaker 1: people like FedEx ups are the postman post women, Um, 610 00:31:13,160 --> 00:31:15,800 Speaker 1: you know, they've been not doing their job the whole time. 611 00:31:15,880 --> 00:31:18,520 Speaker 1: So they suggested even just putting a sign on your 612 00:31:18,560 --> 00:31:20,560 Speaker 1: front porch or your front door or whatever wherever people 613 00:31:20,560 --> 00:31:22,960 Speaker 1: eat packages and just say thank you. And if you 614 00:31:23,000 --> 00:31:25,120 Speaker 1: want to even go above and beyond, like put out 615 00:31:25,160 --> 00:31:28,200 Speaker 1: bottles of water or you know, individually wrapped snacks or 616 00:31:28,280 --> 00:31:31,560 Speaker 1: things like that. It's just a nice sign of gratitude gesture. 617 00:31:32,440 --> 00:31:34,240 Speaker 1: Seeing is better than the food, because like, I'm not 618 00:31:34,320 --> 00:31:36,720 Speaker 1: taking a random right, Like that's like when you get 619 00:31:36,720 --> 00:31:38,080 Speaker 1: in an uber and they're like you want to mint, 620 00:31:38,120 --> 00:31:40,640 Speaker 1: You're like, nope, yeah, do I want to end up 621 00:31:40,680 --> 00:31:45,280 Speaker 1: in the I'm good, thank you, But yeah, I'm not 622 00:31:45,360 --> 00:31:47,440 Speaker 1: taking a random thing. But no, that's a really nice thing. 623 00:31:47,480 --> 00:31:49,920 Speaker 1: I ever even thought about that for your postman or something, 624 00:31:50,200 --> 00:31:53,080 Speaker 1: or just like they said, like or just even yell 625 00:31:53,120 --> 00:31:56,400 Speaker 1: across the street one day thank you. The love that stuff. 626 00:31:56,520 --> 00:31:58,720 Speaker 1: So I've been saying I've noticed this too. I don't 627 00:31:58,720 --> 00:32:00,920 Speaker 1: know if you feel this way, but just like amongst 628 00:32:01,040 --> 00:32:03,640 Speaker 1: all the ship going on, I'm trying to be way 629 00:32:03,720 --> 00:32:06,560 Speaker 1: more conscious of Like like today, for instance, I was 630 00:32:06,680 --> 00:32:09,440 Speaker 1: at the gas station and this man opened the door 631 00:32:09,520 --> 00:32:11,120 Speaker 1: for me, and I was like, thank you so much, 632 00:32:11,320 --> 00:32:12,800 Speaker 1: Like I just want to, like, you know, you want 633 00:32:12,880 --> 00:32:16,840 Speaker 1: to communicate, spread kindness, spread love a lot more because 634 00:32:17,280 --> 00:32:19,080 Speaker 1: there's just a lot of ship going on right now 635 00:32:19,120 --> 00:32:22,160 Speaker 1: and everyone is feeling tense. I think, but do you 636 00:32:22,200 --> 00:32:25,520 Speaker 1: find yourself doing totally? And the one pitfall to wearing 637 00:32:25,640 --> 00:32:28,440 Speaker 1: masks is people can't see you smile. I think about that. 638 00:32:28,760 --> 00:32:31,600 Speaker 1: It's such a way that I communicate, you, like, even 639 00:32:31,640 --> 00:32:34,120 Speaker 1: with strangers, instead of saying hello, sometimes I just smile, 640 00:32:34,240 --> 00:32:36,360 Speaker 1: and now I have to like smies at them. You know, 641 00:32:36,400 --> 00:32:43,800 Speaker 1: it's like the right see, this is why we should 642 00:32:43,840 --> 00:32:47,400 Speaker 1: be on zoom. Oh well you'll be looking at yourself 643 00:32:47,520 --> 00:32:51,719 Speaker 1: the whole time. Okay, So it's beautiful. Yes you are 644 00:32:52,040 --> 00:32:55,400 Speaker 1: bush Okay. This email comes from Tyler, from Tyler's landing. 645 00:32:55,480 --> 00:32:58,440 Speaker 1: It's a small island in Percy Preceast. Just kidding. This 646 00:32:58,560 --> 00:33:01,400 Speaker 1: is my friend Tyler. This is a legit question though, 647 00:33:01,440 --> 00:33:05,320 Speaker 1: and he did ask me he's some Pigram's not from 648 00:33:05,520 --> 00:33:09,920 Speaker 1: I don't even know what thats okay. I was hoping 649 00:33:10,000 --> 00:33:11,880 Speaker 1: you guys could do an episode where you talk about 650 00:33:11,920 --> 00:33:14,920 Speaker 1: social etiquette, specifically related to where someone is allowed to 651 00:33:15,000 --> 00:33:17,719 Speaker 1: peer poo these days I'm so glad that you put 652 00:33:18,040 --> 00:33:20,120 Speaker 1: number two in there. That's just like that makes this 653 00:33:20,200 --> 00:33:23,080 Speaker 1: takes us to a whole new level. Restrooms are closed, 654 00:33:23,560 --> 00:33:26,120 Speaker 1: so like, are we allowed to go in the alley 655 00:33:26,200 --> 00:33:28,440 Speaker 1: now or do we have to hold it? How would 656 00:33:28,480 --> 00:33:31,680 Speaker 1: you tackle this? Does that mean like when you're walking 657 00:33:31,720 --> 00:33:34,160 Speaker 1: down the street and suddenly it hits you because if 658 00:33:34,160 --> 00:33:37,320 Speaker 1: you're at a restaurant or the bathrooms closed, I don't 659 00:33:37,400 --> 00:33:40,320 Speaker 1: think so. I mean I'm wandering let me. Um, you 660 00:33:40,400 --> 00:33:45,600 Speaker 1: know what's unfortunate. It's a really old. This is how 661 00:33:45,680 --> 00:33:48,400 Speaker 1: bad I am at taking our emails. Um, but I'm 662 00:33:48,440 --> 00:33:53,200 Speaker 1: getting better. But this was my seven. It's only a month, 663 00:33:53,320 --> 00:33:56,040 Speaker 1: I hold, so it's a little old. Things have opened 664 00:33:56,120 --> 00:33:58,640 Speaker 1: up a little bit. But we've talked about this before 665 00:33:58,800 --> 00:34:01,840 Speaker 1: on this podcast because is something that I have learned 666 00:34:01,960 --> 00:34:05,240 Speaker 1: in quarantine about my boyfriend is he would rather pee 667 00:34:05,360 --> 00:34:09,280 Speaker 1: outside at all times than pete inside. He could literally 668 00:34:09,400 --> 00:34:12,759 Speaker 1: be equal distance from a door to go outside to 669 00:34:13,160 --> 00:34:15,279 Speaker 1: the door that goes to the bathroom, and he will 670 00:34:15,360 --> 00:34:17,520 Speaker 1: choose the door that goes outside and pee off the 671 00:34:17,560 --> 00:34:22,160 Speaker 1: front point. I've been peeing a lot outside because I'm 672 00:34:22,200 --> 00:34:24,680 Speaker 1: on the phone a lot. But then, so what you 673 00:34:24,680 --> 00:34:27,160 Speaker 1: don't want to hear the toilet flush toilets. This is 674 00:34:27,200 --> 00:34:30,080 Speaker 1: a difference between girls and guys that well, I mean 675 00:34:30,160 --> 00:34:32,240 Speaker 1: it's so much easier for a dude to go outside 676 00:34:32,280 --> 00:34:34,399 Speaker 1: and pete than it is for a girl. Yeah, I mean, okay, 677 00:34:34,440 --> 00:34:36,480 Speaker 1: So my boyfriend says, it's a little bit about like 678 00:34:36,640 --> 00:34:39,040 Speaker 1: this is my land, I own it. I think there's 679 00:34:39,080 --> 00:34:41,480 Speaker 1: something and it's like even if you look at a 680 00:34:41,600 --> 00:34:44,960 Speaker 1: dog like they're like pan on ship, Like, there's something 681 00:34:45,360 --> 00:34:47,680 Speaker 1: oddly sexy about it to me, and it makes me 682 00:34:47,719 --> 00:34:53,960 Speaker 1: feel weird about myself. But every time he says there's 683 00:34:53,960 --> 00:34:58,279 Speaker 1: no active casual about that something he's being on me. 684 00:35:00,040 --> 00:35:08,040 Speaker 1: That's another bush kind of stop drinking. I know, Like 685 00:35:08,120 --> 00:35:09,560 Speaker 1: I haven't even had a whole one, and I'm like, 686 00:35:09,840 --> 00:35:14,320 Speaker 1: I'm not to get an over home. I'm scared to 687 00:35:15,480 --> 00:35:18,759 Speaker 1: spend the night. I won't be here. But it's cool. 688 00:35:19,680 --> 00:35:23,120 Speaker 1: Um No, But I do think that if you can 689 00:35:23,520 --> 00:35:27,640 Speaker 1: be outside, take advantage of it, especially it's definitely liberating. 690 00:35:28,239 --> 00:35:31,359 Speaker 1: Number two is a whole another story outside. I don't 691 00:35:31,440 --> 00:35:35,480 Speaker 1: but like are they saying like people are getting this 692 00:35:35,560 --> 00:35:39,040 Speaker 1: through their butt jakes? Like, no, what do you mean 693 00:35:40,280 --> 00:35:42,440 Speaker 1: if you have to go number two in a public restaurant, 694 00:35:42,480 --> 00:35:46,719 Speaker 1: hold it unless you have a well, now you can 695 00:35:46,880 --> 00:35:53,360 Speaker 1: more in restaurants and stuff, but like blow, nothing's cooler 696 00:35:53,400 --> 00:35:57,239 Speaker 1: than ship in your pants. But welcomes to being a girl. 697 00:35:57,320 --> 00:35:59,279 Speaker 1: We're just so used to this stuff. It's like you 698 00:35:59,400 --> 00:36:02,520 Speaker 1: just yeah, you gotta hold it afar for all of 699 00:36:02,560 --> 00:36:07,320 Speaker 1: our listeners with Crown's disease, Um, I know how difficult 700 00:36:07,360 --> 00:36:11,439 Speaker 1: that can be. I think it's safe. Just wash your hands. 701 00:36:15,360 --> 00:36:16,920 Speaker 1: I'm gonna have to edit the ship out of it. 702 00:36:17,120 --> 00:36:18,960 Speaker 1: We're not. That was the best thing I've ever said 703 00:36:19,040 --> 00:36:23,680 Speaker 1: this whole podcast. Please everyone just know we're not trying 704 00:36:23,719 --> 00:36:26,520 Speaker 1: to offend anyone. We're not. The reason why I said 705 00:36:26,560 --> 00:36:28,279 Speaker 1: that is because I have a really good friend of 706 00:36:28,320 --> 00:36:31,319 Speaker 1: mine has Crence disease, and like, when it hits, it hits, 707 00:36:31,680 --> 00:36:34,000 Speaker 1: you gotta go. And we once went into a store 708 00:36:34,120 --> 00:36:37,400 Speaker 1: and she looked at this clerking was like, where's your restroom. 709 00:36:37,480 --> 00:36:40,359 Speaker 1: She's like, sorry, it's for employees almost, And she goes, 710 00:36:40,800 --> 00:36:42,400 Speaker 1: do you want me to ship in your floor? Are 711 00:36:42,400 --> 00:36:44,080 Speaker 1: you're gonna let me use the bathroom? And the person 712 00:36:44,200 --> 00:36:46,799 Speaker 1: was like, it's right this way, ma'am. I mean, it's 713 00:36:46,880 --> 00:36:49,840 Speaker 1: the truth. Nobody wants to have to go to a 714 00:36:49,880 --> 00:36:51,960 Speaker 1: store and be like, I gotta ship right now. Who 715 00:36:52,040 --> 00:36:53,960 Speaker 1: wants to admit that to take a ship in a 716 00:36:53,960 --> 00:36:56,920 Speaker 1: public back Nobody wants to do that. You know what 717 00:36:57,000 --> 00:36:59,120 Speaker 1: the worst is when it's a public bathroom with multiple 718 00:36:59,120 --> 00:37:01,120 Speaker 1: stalls and you like it, hold it like what you're saying. 719 00:37:01,840 --> 00:37:04,520 Speaker 1: You go in and you're like, you think you're safe 720 00:37:04,520 --> 00:37:06,799 Speaker 1: because no one's in there. In the second you sit down, 721 00:37:07,000 --> 00:37:12,800 Speaker 1: it's like someone w store. That's when you got a 722 00:37:12,840 --> 00:37:18,000 Speaker 1: courtesy flesh people. Anyway, last email I'm going to read 723 00:37:18,400 --> 00:37:20,920 Speaker 1: is from Jill Osborne, and we really appreciated this email, 724 00:37:20,960 --> 00:37:22,680 Speaker 1: so I just wanted to give Jill a little shout out. 725 00:37:23,080 --> 00:37:24,719 Speaker 1: Kelly and Chip just a quick note to say, I 726 00:37:24,840 --> 00:37:27,479 Speaker 1: really enjoy the At Casual episodes and I look forward 727 00:37:27,480 --> 00:37:29,839 Speaker 1: to them every Friday. There have been a few weeks 728 00:37:29,920 --> 00:37:32,400 Speaker 1: where there have not been a new episode, just I 729 00:37:32,560 --> 00:37:36,960 Speaker 1: completely understand, especially in the last few months of unprecedented ridiculousness, 730 00:37:37,560 --> 00:37:39,560 Speaker 1: And on those days I send good thoughts your way 731 00:37:39,600 --> 00:37:42,239 Speaker 1: and look forward to the following week when hopefully there 732 00:37:42,280 --> 00:37:44,799 Speaker 1: will be an episode. Today, I was sort of sad 733 00:37:44,880 --> 00:37:46,960 Speaker 1: this morning when I woke up to no episode but 734 00:37:47,040 --> 00:37:49,400 Speaker 1: about thirty minutes ago I received a notification of a 735 00:37:49,480 --> 00:37:52,360 Speaker 1: new episode and it made the start of my holiday weekend. 736 00:37:52,520 --> 00:37:55,920 Speaker 1: This is also an old email. Sorry, I'm gonna get better, 737 00:37:56,040 --> 00:37:59,799 Speaker 1: but because we've taken the time off, and then she said, 738 00:38:00,120 --> 00:38:01,920 Speaker 1: thank you for your episodes and all the fun acting 739 00:38:02,000 --> 00:38:06,360 Speaker 1: casual Jill, So to a couple of things. We have 740 00:38:06,600 --> 00:38:08,560 Speaker 1: been taken a couple of weeks off and like it's 741 00:38:08,840 --> 00:38:10,880 Speaker 1: I don't we actually don't want to. We love doing this, 742 00:38:11,120 --> 00:38:13,239 Speaker 1: so it's hard to do that. But it has been 743 00:38:13,239 --> 00:38:14,840 Speaker 1: a little bit weird, and we don't want to seem 744 00:38:15,440 --> 00:38:18,000 Speaker 1: like we're just taking things lightly, which I think right now, 745 00:38:18,120 --> 00:38:19,800 Speaker 1: there's been a lot of situations where we kind of 746 00:38:19,840 --> 00:38:22,319 Speaker 1: need to focus on and take serious. So we've wanted 747 00:38:22,360 --> 00:38:24,960 Speaker 1: to give respect to that and we've done that, and 748 00:38:25,040 --> 00:38:29,799 Speaker 1: I feel like we're back. I mean, we're back. I mean, 749 00:38:29,840 --> 00:38:32,759 Speaker 1: who knows mercury retrograd is about to start to I 750 00:38:32,800 --> 00:38:35,400 Speaker 1: wouldn't be surprised if a volcano like rose up out 751 00:38:35,440 --> 00:38:38,880 Speaker 1: of my backyard erupted and buried Nashville. Yeah, I mean, 752 00:38:38,920 --> 00:38:40,920 Speaker 1: I actually would not be surprised at all. But so 753 00:38:41,200 --> 00:38:44,640 Speaker 1: hopefully we're back, and we so appreciate you guys listening. 754 00:38:44,840 --> 00:38:47,120 Speaker 1: We we love getting these emails from you all too, 755 00:38:47,160 --> 00:38:50,080 Speaker 1: and love hearing what you guys are, loving us talking 756 00:38:50,160 --> 00:38:54,120 Speaker 1: about and vibing with. And next week we'll be back 757 00:38:54,160 --> 00:38:56,560 Speaker 1: with more of that ship. We're gonna get dirty next week, 758 00:38:56,719 --> 00:38:59,960 Speaker 1: so we I don't know, I mean, if anyone lives 759 00:39:00,200 --> 00:39:03,160 Speaker 1: after this, Bush Beer might sponsor us, I don't know. 760 00:39:03,280 --> 00:39:04,920 Speaker 1: We should probably look into it, aren't They like the 761 00:39:05,040 --> 00:39:07,719 Speaker 1: number one selling beer of Quarantine. I think that. Yeah. 762 00:39:07,800 --> 00:39:11,000 Speaker 1: I think they did really really well because they because 763 00:39:11,000 --> 00:39:15,840 Speaker 1: they're called Bush, because the voiceovers I've done for them, Bush, 764 00:39:16,440 --> 00:39:18,440 Speaker 1: I'm gonna I want to get that deal. All right, Well, 765 00:39:18,520 --> 00:39:21,600 Speaker 1: you guys just have a great week, have a great weekend. 766 00:39:22,600 --> 00:39:29,560 Speaker 1: Just continue to always remember a cattle. Bye.