1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:03,160 Speaker 1: Dead sister gives me her house, so my parents are 2 00:00:03,240 --> 00:00:05,519 Speaker 1: suing me for everything. 3 00:00:05,920 --> 00:00:09,360 Speaker 2: Okay, Opie, when your parents sue you, that's an issue. 4 00:00:09,440 --> 00:00:11,239 Speaker 2: Come on, I'm like you, haven't you not made out 5 00:00:11,360 --> 00:00:14,680 Speaker 2: enough money? Already supposed to be family business family? Yeah, 6 00:00:14,680 --> 00:00:17,400 Speaker 2: I know, your baby boomer. Like back in the good 7 00:00:17,440 --> 00:00:19,000 Speaker 2: old days, you could buy a house for like two 8 00:00:19,079 --> 00:00:20,000 Speaker 2: dollars exactly. 9 00:00:20,120 --> 00:00:23,079 Speaker 1: How we having to transplant our kidneys and give you 10 00:00:23,120 --> 00:00:26,400 Speaker 1: twenty million dollars for this is bullshit? Start an ony, fans, 11 00:00:26,680 --> 00:00:29,560 Speaker 1: It starts heavy, y'all. My thirty six female sister died 12 00:00:29,600 --> 00:00:32,559 Speaker 1: six months ago from a heart condition. She practically raised me, 13 00:00:32,680 --> 00:00:34,320 Speaker 1: so it's been pretty difficult to deal with in my 14 00:00:34,400 --> 00:00:38,320 Speaker 1: final year of university and have failed every single class 15 00:00:38,360 --> 00:00:38,919 Speaker 1: this semester. 16 00:00:39,680 --> 00:00:40,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's awful. 17 00:00:40,640 --> 00:00:42,519 Speaker 1: She'd be disappointed, but it is what it is. My 18 00:00:42,560 --> 00:00:45,239 Speaker 1: sister never married, never had children. I lived with her 19 00:00:45,320 --> 00:00:48,240 Speaker 1: near campus, and she ran a successful side business and 20 00:00:48,280 --> 00:00:50,520 Speaker 1: I got to help her occasionally as a paid intern. 21 00:00:50,600 --> 00:00:53,000 Speaker 1: She worked a lot, but not to support us. She 22 00:00:53,080 --> 00:00:55,160 Speaker 1: wanted to retire by the time she was forty. She 23 00:00:55,200 --> 00:00:57,800 Speaker 1: would have been done in four years if her heart 24 00:00:57,960 --> 00:00:58,640 Speaker 1: hadn't failed. 25 00:00:58,680 --> 00:01:02,440 Speaker 3: First, dude, that's that's so tragic. Building her whole life 26 00:01:02,480 --> 00:01:04,959 Speaker 3: and it didn't work out. When she died, her attorney 27 00:01:05,000 --> 00:01:07,800 Speaker 3: read her will to me. She had left everything to me. 28 00:01:07,959 --> 00:01:10,640 Speaker 3: She had an extremely large amount of money put away 29 00:01:10,640 --> 00:01:14,440 Speaker 3: for her retirement inside accounts for various activities for her retirement. 30 00:01:14,520 --> 00:01:16,720 Speaker 3: I was unaware of this, but she had made several 31 00:01:16,760 --> 00:01:20,039 Speaker 3: real estate investments so she could continue living a comfy 32 00:01:20,040 --> 00:01:23,160 Speaker 3: lifestyle when she retired. She left her two thousand and 33 00:01:23,200 --> 00:01:25,640 Speaker 3: six super to me and willed our current house to 34 00:01:25,680 --> 00:01:27,959 Speaker 3: me as well. She had explained she wanted to use 35 00:01:28,000 --> 00:01:31,200 Speaker 3: this house for college housing eventually. This is all extremely 36 00:01:31,280 --> 00:01:35,440 Speaker 3: overwhelming to hear, especially because she left nothing to my parents, 37 00:01:35,520 --> 00:01:37,880 Speaker 3: But as they didn't know she had assets, they willingly 38 00:01:37,959 --> 00:01:40,959 Speaker 3: paid for the funeral and any other associated costs. I 39 00:01:41,000 --> 00:01:43,640 Speaker 3: mean that right there is like, why did she leave 40 00:01:43,680 --> 00:01:44,520 Speaker 3: nothing to the parents? 41 00:01:44,720 --> 00:01:46,440 Speaker 2: Yeah? I mean I think we're about to find out. 42 00:01:46,520 --> 00:01:49,240 Speaker 1: My sister was no contact with our parents, and I'm 43 00:01:49,600 --> 00:01:52,680 Speaker 1: very low contact and we're their only children, so why 44 00:01:52,840 --> 00:01:53,920 Speaker 1: why are they low contact? 45 00:01:54,080 --> 00:01:55,080 Speaker 3: Something's going on here. 46 00:01:55,120 --> 00:01:57,000 Speaker 1: At the funeral, my parents asked me how I was 47 00:01:57,040 --> 00:01:59,400 Speaker 1: going to continue going to college without her money. Well, 48 00:01:59,440 --> 00:02:02,600 Speaker 1: they thought that my sister paid for college psych I 49 00:02:02,640 --> 00:02:06,400 Speaker 1: got student a baby. I told them I'd continue to 50 00:02:06,440 --> 00:02:08,840 Speaker 1: take out loans. They asked me about living arrangements, and 51 00:02:08,880 --> 00:02:11,600 Speaker 1: I shrug. At the time, I didn't know all the details. Anyway, Well, 52 00:02:11,760 --> 00:02:14,480 Speaker 1: two weeks ago I found out my parents tried to 53 00:02:14,560 --> 00:02:18,200 Speaker 1: sell my sister's house while I was still living there. 54 00:02:18,320 --> 00:02:21,880 Speaker 3: That's crazy, which also means they were like definitely hiding it. 55 00:02:21,960 --> 00:02:24,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, they were hiding it exactly. They brought a they 56 00:02:24,400 --> 00:02:27,600 Speaker 1: brought a realtor over and towar and toward our home 57 00:02:27,720 --> 00:02:30,440 Speaker 1: and everything. It was on all the cameras set up 58 00:02:30,440 --> 00:02:30,800 Speaker 1: at home. 59 00:02:30,880 --> 00:02:31,520 Speaker 2: So I saw it. 60 00:02:31,520 --> 00:02:34,160 Speaker 1: And when I called them and informed them I'm calling 61 00:02:34,200 --> 00:02:36,079 Speaker 1: the police, they said, all right, no, I all explain 62 00:02:36,120 --> 00:02:36,639 Speaker 1: the situation. 63 00:02:36,680 --> 00:02:37,200 Speaker 2: It's all fine. 64 00:02:37,200 --> 00:02:39,399 Speaker 1: We're just going to sell your sister's house, okay, even 65 00:02:39,400 --> 00:02:43,239 Speaker 1: though it's ope's I told them, actually, it's my home. 66 00:02:43,600 --> 00:02:46,840 Speaker 1: And this home was wailed to me and me alone. 67 00:02:47,080 --> 00:02:50,280 Speaker 1: That's right, baby, laid down that law. They couldn't sell it, 68 00:02:50,400 --> 00:02:52,880 Speaker 1: and they were confused heavily. I told them to meet 69 00:02:52,919 --> 00:02:55,239 Speaker 1: at my attorneys in set a time, which is such 70 00:02:55,280 --> 00:02:57,440 Speaker 1: like a bold move made me at my attorney. 71 00:02:57,560 --> 00:03:00,720 Speaker 3: You know, it's crazy when you're meeting your family with 72 00:03:00,800 --> 00:03:01,399 Speaker 3: an attorney. 73 00:03:01,440 --> 00:03:02,799 Speaker 2: Oh God, do not want. 74 00:03:02,680 --> 00:03:05,320 Speaker 1: To be there Q today, my attorney explained the will 75 00:03:05,400 --> 00:03:07,680 Speaker 1: to my parents. My mother went white as a sheet, 76 00:03:07,840 --> 00:03:10,800 Speaker 1: and my father was grumbling about suing me for his 77 00:03:10,919 --> 00:03:14,280 Speaker 1: rightful money plus the cost of the funeral. What kind 78 00:03:14,320 --> 00:03:15,160 Speaker 1: of father are you? 79 00:03:15,320 --> 00:03:17,760 Speaker 2: I know? Like, actually so garbage? God. 80 00:03:17,880 --> 00:03:21,440 Speaker 1: My mother began ugly sobbing, telling the attorney he was wrong. 81 00:03:21,919 --> 00:03:25,240 Speaker 1: Her daughter would not leave the house to someone like me. Bro, 82 00:03:25,480 --> 00:03:28,160 Speaker 1: you were no contact with your daughter, your daughter. 83 00:03:28,400 --> 00:03:28,720 Speaker 2: Wow. 84 00:03:28,840 --> 00:03:31,680 Speaker 1: The attorney cut the meeting short, and now we're preparing 85 00:03:32,000 --> 00:03:34,000 Speaker 1: for the inevitable lawsuit coming my way. 86 00:03:34,080 --> 00:03:34,920 Speaker 2: I like how she's. 87 00:03:34,800 --> 00:03:37,160 Speaker 3: Crying at the fact that she's like lost this real 88 00:03:37,280 --> 00:03:40,480 Speaker 3: estate and not the daughter. Isn't even mentioning, like worrying 89 00:03:40,480 --> 00:03:41,120 Speaker 3: about the daughter. 90 00:03:41,240 --> 00:03:41,480 Speaker 2: Wow? 91 00:03:41,640 --> 00:03:43,720 Speaker 1: I just want to sleep and avoid all of this. 92 00:03:44,120 --> 00:03:45,920 Speaker 1: Just some added info. My mom is a stay at 93 00:03:45,960 --> 00:03:48,000 Speaker 1: home mom, but she's the kind who spends her life 94 00:03:48,000 --> 00:03:50,840 Speaker 1: at the country club, not the involved kind. And my 95 00:03:50,960 --> 00:03:53,680 Speaker 1: dad is a businessman and typically on business trips for 96 00:03:53,760 --> 00:03:55,680 Speaker 1: weeks at a time. They live, as they call it, 97 00:03:55,760 --> 00:03:57,960 Speaker 1: a lower upper class lifestyle. 98 00:03:57,640 --> 00:04:00,800 Speaker 3: Really trying to like finesse their way out of that one. 99 00:04:00,920 --> 00:04:03,920 Speaker 1: Updates, though, there are updates to the story. Okay, as 100 00:04:03,960 --> 00:04:06,600 Speaker 1: for the grades and me failing my classes, I did 101 00:04:06,640 --> 00:04:09,560 Speaker 1: talk to the professors and four of six of them 102 00:04:09,760 --> 00:04:12,720 Speaker 1: gave me extensions, but the other two are being jerks 103 00:04:12,720 --> 00:04:14,960 Speaker 1: about it. Lame. It's fine though. I did sign up 104 00:04:15,000 --> 00:04:17,320 Speaker 1: for my school's grief group. I just got done changing 105 00:04:17,400 --> 00:04:19,559 Speaker 1: all the locks to in the house. Thanks to everyone 106 00:04:19,600 --> 00:04:21,520 Speaker 1: who helped me with the home stuff too. I'll be 107 00:04:21,560 --> 00:04:23,960 Speaker 1: sure to watch the home insurance bill or get a 108 00:04:23,960 --> 00:04:27,160 Speaker 1: financial advisor or something. My sister's degrees in mine are 109 00:04:27,160 --> 00:04:29,960 Speaker 1: in the same field, so I'll be continuing her business too, 110 00:04:30,040 --> 00:04:32,240 Speaker 1: and I'll need a real estate attorney to redo the 111 00:04:32,320 --> 00:04:34,520 Speaker 1: leases on her other rentals. I guess I don't know 112 00:04:34,560 --> 00:04:36,360 Speaker 1: how to do all of this, and it's kind of overwhelming. 113 00:04:36,440 --> 00:04:37,000 Speaker 3: That's amazing. 114 00:04:37,000 --> 00:04:38,400 Speaker 2: Reddit came in clutch. 115 00:04:38,200 --> 00:04:40,480 Speaker 1: Bro and like she's taking over the sister's business. That's 116 00:04:40,600 --> 00:04:42,599 Speaker 1: that's awesome. It's awesome, Like I feel like that's what 117 00:04:42,640 --> 00:04:43,560 Speaker 1: her sister would have wanted. 118 00:04:43,720 --> 00:04:46,320 Speaker 2: Yes, one hundred percent. So final update. 119 00:04:46,440 --> 00:04:49,640 Speaker 1: My father sent me a text apologizing said he wanted 120 00:04:49,680 --> 00:04:51,480 Speaker 1: to sell the house because of the market right now, 121 00:04:51,640 --> 00:04:54,080 Speaker 1: but won't push me. I'll give more details at some point, 122 00:04:54,240 --> 00:04:55,800 Speaker 1: going to see how this plays out, and I'll give 123 00:04:55,839 --> 00:04:57,600 Speaker 1: the official update at some point later. 124 00:04:57,720 --> 00:05:00,400 Speaker 3: Man Like, so he wanted to sell the house because 125 00:05:00,400 --> 00:05:02,000 Speaker 3: that was at the peak of the market, then why 126 00:05:02,000 --> 00:05:03,640 Speaker 3: didn't No, No, that's that's cap. 127 00:05:03,760 --> 00:05:05,520 Speaker 2: That's cap, that's cap. They were just trying to get 128 00:05:05,560 --> 00:05:06,080 Speaker 2: that money. 129 00:05:06,120 --> 00:05:08,960 Speaker 3: They were for making the best of a bad situation. 130 00:05:09,000 --> 00:05:10,400 Speaker 2: In fact, she did it. She did it.