WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Long Distance Surprise

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<v Speaker 1>Second, d D think for a second. What do you

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<v Speaker 1>think it's the farthest you've ever traveled to go out

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<v Speaker 1>on a first date? Oh? Wow, first date? I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>First one time I went all the way down to

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<v Speaker 1>the lobby of my fifth floor apartment. That the farthest

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<v Speaker 1>you've got. Yeah, we have a vending machine, a water

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<v Speaker 1>fountain down there, cheap couch. I mean, what more do

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<v Speaker 1>you need to have a great date? That's true, A

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<v Speaker 1>simple man, that's right. But one of our listeners says

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<v Speaker 1>he actually boarded a plane in order to take a

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<v Speaker 1>woman out on their first night, and now he needs

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<v Speaker 1>our help. So his name's Kirk. Kirk, what's your credit

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<v Speaker 1>card number? Or no, sorry, that's not what you ask Kirk?

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<v Speaker 1>How are you? What's the person's name that she that

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<v Speaker 1>you went to go see? The girl's name is Jillian

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<v Speaker 1>Jillian Wait. I have a question, can we just know

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<v Speaker 1>run off the bat. Are you boarding the plane because

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<v Speaker 1>you're going to see her somewhere or are you both

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<v Speaker 1>getting on the plane together. No, had boarded a plane

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<v Speaker 1>to go see her, okay far away. I've all listened

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<v Speaker 1>on this twice with like listeners and fans from other

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<v Speaker 1>parts and I've never been able to pull the trigger.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just too scary. You're gonna go to England. Imagine

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<v Speaker 1>if it doesn't go well first day, Now I have

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<v Speaker 1>a week in England or wherever. Oh that sounds terrible,

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<v Speaker 1>God by yourself, by yourself. It would just be awful

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<v Speaker 1>flying without a chaperone on the plane. It's about the Kirk.

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<v Speaker 1>Tell us more about Jillian. How do you guys mean? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>it was the typical online left site thing, and I

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<v Speaker 1>was talking to her for like a month or so,

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<v Speaker 1>and it was weird because I started catching feelings for

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<v Speaker 1>her like super quick. Yeah, why do you think? Like?

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<v Speaker 1>What about her? So? I was in a relationship for

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<v Speaker 1>eight years prior, and it was kind of like maybe

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<v Speaker 1>a bounce back thing for me, But it was a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit more than that, you know, I really really

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<v Speaker 1>started to love her. Yeah you can read you can

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<v Speaker 1>rebound in your own zip code. Yeah, and you can

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<v Speaker 1>do it like right after the breakup. Youn't got to

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<v Speaker 1>wait eight years? Ye? Did I hear you say you

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<v Speaker 1>started to love her? What? I was beginning to fall

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<v Speaker 1>in love with her for sure, without even having met

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<v Speaker 1>her yet. I've heard that happened a lot though. I mean, like,

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<v Speaker 1>how often are you guys talking? Oh? We were talking

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<v Speaker 1>like every night before we go to bed. Oh you remember,

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<v Speaker 1>so excited to talk to each other. The chemistry, the

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<v Speaker 1>chemistry was amazing. But the thing is that I've never

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<v Speaker 1>video chatted her, so it was all just talking. You

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<v Speaker 1>maybe a catfish. I don't want to say that, bro,

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<v Speaker 1>but yeah, it's definitely a red flag. It like when

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<v Speaker 1>you actually flew out to see her. No, man, I

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<v Speaker 1>undertell you I probably should a video chatted her. Oh no, bro,

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<v Speaker 1>why because you needed to reveal something or what? No? No, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>it was just that she told me the week before

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<v Speaker 1>I went out there that she was going to be

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<v Speaker 1>at a hotel speaking for her job or something like that,

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<v Speaker 1>and I thought it would be a cool idea for

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<v Speaker 1>me to just jump on a flight. And she was

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<v Speaker 1>that I would just meet up with her. Oh wait,

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<v Speaker 1>as like a surprise. Yeah. I was just surprised her,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, because we've been talking and I thought it

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<v Speaker 1>was something in my heart told me I could do this,

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<v Speaker 1>you know. So wow. Okay, if you guys are that bonded, bro,

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<v Speaker 1>and do you feel that I exclusive and you guys

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<v Speaker 1>know everything I mean, there's so much risk there, like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I've never been to this woman's hometown. She doesn't know

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<v Speaker 1>you're coming. Like, so, but you actually flew out and

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<v Speaker 1>you saw her. What was that Like? I flew out there,

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<v Speaker 1>I went to the hotel, I blended in with the crowd,

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<v Speaker 1>and I you know, I've never seen it before. I start,

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<v Speaker 1>I know if she looked like you didn't even have

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<v Speaker 1>to blend in. She has no idea what you guys

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<v Speaker 1>look like? You guys video and like, what are you

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<v Speaker 1>doing just in the crowd, asking like, hey, do you

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<v Speaker 1>know who Julian is? No, I was just gonna be

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<v Speaker 1>like waiting for them to announce her. Oh she's gonna

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<v Speaker 1>go up on stage and do a talk and stage Julian,

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<v Speaker 1>I love you. That would have been so cute, right,

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe those thoughts all right through my mind. I played

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<v Speaker 1>it cool. I played it cool. And the thing is this,

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<v Speaker 1>when and I heard her voice, I knew it was her.

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<v Speaker 1>And going back to what you said earlier, she wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>who she said she was. She didn't look anything like her.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh like maybe she was using a different person in

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<v Speaker 1>her pictures, like that much difference. Yeah, this photoshop and

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<v Speaker 1>it's like, oh, you know, but full blown catfish. So

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<v Speaker 1>now you've taken a flight to go see this woman,

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<v Speaker 1>You're in a completely different town. What do you do?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you stick around? Man? Of course I stick around. Man.

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<v Speaker 1>I had so many feelings. I was angry, I was

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<v Speaker 1>lied to. Yeah, so I had to speak to her.

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<v Speaker 1>It was like, no way I was gonna leave without

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<v Speaker 1>talking to her. And I saw her and I just said, um, surprised.

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<v Speaker 1>She recognize your voice? Run away? Recognize my voice right away?

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<v Speaker 1>She turned around and it was so awkward because she

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<v Speaker 1>started crying. Oh sweetie. So now I'm like from anger

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<v Speaker 1>to like feeling bad. Yeah. I mean she's doing it

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<v Speaker 1>because she's like self conscious, right, I mean, why else

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<v Speaker 1>would you pretend to look like somebody else? She prettier?

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<v Speaker 1>Was she just like a way prettier? Were you like

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<v Speaker 1>holding some onions right up to her face? It's not

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<v Speaker 1>usually because you're a victorious secret model in the sky.

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<v Speaker 1>After she started crying and I was like, man, let's talk.

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<v Speaker 1>So I went to the car and we started talking.

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<v Speaker 1>Told her how I felt, and I said, do you

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<v Speaker 1>want give me a call later after night and we'll

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<v Speaker 1>have some drinks or something. At the hotel. Okay, so

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<v Speaker 1>you guys ended on a good note then that's good. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we lived on a good note, just like the thing

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<v Speaker 1>connection we had when we were talking to the beginning.

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<v Speaker 1>It kind of like fiddled in again. That's how you

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<v Speaker 1>know it's real, bro. Yeah, and then we talked a

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<v Speaker 1>few times when I got home. But she really doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>know how I feel right now, you know. Like I said,

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<v Speaker 1>I can still want to talk to her, so she

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't know that, Okay, okay, and so now we're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>call her and let her know how you feel. That's perfect.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you want to see her? And uh, maybe you

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<v Speaker 1>know if we do see so you can fly out

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<v Speaker 1>to see me this time. Okay. We don't have any

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<v Speaker 1>plane tickets in the radio station's budget though, that's going

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<v Speaker 1>to come from you bus though we could bust her.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh rayhound, so cute. I'm I'm so excited. Yeah, wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to see you guys, falling a baby. We'll play a song.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll go talk to the radio station accountant to make

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<v Speaker 1>sure that we can finance this thing. But then we'll

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<v Speaker 1>call Jillian for you and try and get your second

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<v Speaker 1>date up date. Okay, Oh perfect? Man? All right. Hold

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<v Speaker 1>on second catfished. You know a woman who lives a

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<v Speaker 1>full plane ride away. He shows up to surprise her

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<v Speaker 1>and discovers she looks nothing like her profile picks, but

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<v Speaker 1>he's still DTF. I L what's what's the I L

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<v Speaker 1>down to full all in love. Welcome to the life

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<v Speaker 1>of our listener, Kirk, who's asking us to call Jillian today?

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<v Speaker 1>I know that I'm so excited for Kirk. I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>so excited about this. I think Jillian's going to be

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<v Speaker 1>over the moon when we call her. Okay, no pressure, now,

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<v Speaker 1>good work. But according to your email, Kirk, the reason

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<v Speaker 1>that you want to do this second date is because

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<v Speaker 1>with the whole long distance thing happening, you only talked

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<v Speaker 1>a couple of times since you've been back from that

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<v Speaker 1>trip over the last two weeks. Like, is that worrying you?

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<v Speaker 1>Kind of because we used to talk every day. So

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<v Speaker 1>if you haven't told her that you are okay with

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<v Speaker 1>like her not being the person she said she was originally,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, she probably just thinks that you're still mad

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<v Speaker 1>at her. She may be still embarrassed, you know. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, it took me a little bit time to

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<v Speaker 1>process everything, so I gee, when you're coming from dude,

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<v Speaker 1>that's valid. That's valid. And maybe there's a chance that

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<v Speaker 1>she's not dt F I L she's just DTF would

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<v Speaker 1>that be? Okay? Down the fall way? What are you

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<v Speaker 1>talking about? Actually, I don't know what I'm talking about,

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<v Speaker 1>but either way, I know we're all rooting for you. Here,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a dal Jillian's number right now, right, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>let's get hello. Hi. Is this Jillian speaking? Hey Jillian,

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<v Speaker 1>my name is jeff from the radio show Brooke and

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<v Speaker 1>Jeffrey in the Morning. Do you have Brooke and Jeffrey

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<v Speaker 1>in the Morning on the radio where you live? Oh? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we didn't ask that. Um, I'm sorry. Who is this hi? Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's fine, that's all right. Um. We're we're morning radio

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<v Speaker 1>show and we're doing a segment called a Second Date

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<v Speaker 1>Update that we'd like you to be a part of. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>actually too late, you're a part of it. Yeah, congratulations, show.

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<v Speaker 1>We're really excited to talk to you, Jillian or I

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<v Speaker 1>am anyway? Um? Okay, Well, I'm glad you're excited. But

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know you. Okay, Yeah, that's true. You don't

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<v Speaker 1>know us, but you do know somebody that listens to

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<v Speaker 1>our show, and that asked us to call you. And

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<v Speaker 1>his name's Kirk. What yeah, yeah, right? Remember seeing Kirk

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<v Speaker 1>not too long ago? Yeah? Okay? Was that exciting and

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<v Speaker 1>he flew out to see you? Is this like payback

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<v Speaker 1>or something? No? No, no, no, no, let's not payback

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<v Speaker 1>ground Kirk. We talked to him and he just told

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<v Speaker 1>us the story about how you guys met online and

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<v Speaker 1>you talked for like a month or so. Then he

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<v Speaker 1>flew out to surprise you, and that's when he found

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<v Speaker 1>out you weren't quite the same person as you put

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<v Speaker 1>in your profile pictures. I'm just wondering, how how did

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<v Speaker 1>you feel when he showed up that day and saw you.

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<v Speaker 1>I was mortified. Yeah, you know, I didn't know he

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<v Speaker 1>was coming and he was there like in my face.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah it was. I mean I would feel almost ambushed.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean because you you had been betraying you know.

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<v Speaker 1>Somebody else said totally right. I guess I want to ask, like,

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<v Speaker 1>has your feelings changed since you saw him, because he

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<v Speaker 1>said you guys sat down for drinks afterwards and things

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<v Speaker 1>seem to go pretty well. They yeah, I mean my yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I would say my feelings have changed a little bit.

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<v Speaker 1>So I mean, he he obviously had to process the

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<v Speaker 1>whole physical part was different right than he expected, and

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<v Speaker 1>you can understand that that would be a pretty big shock.

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<v Speaker 1>I was taken it back as well. Yeah, appearance totally absolutely.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh oh wait, Kirk looked different than you thought he

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<v Speaker 1>was going to look. I mean in his picture he

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<v Speaker 1>didn't have glasses and he's got glasses. Okay, that's okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Well a lot of people, like I wear glasses sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>and sometimes I don't, like I mean, yeah, I do

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<v Speaker 1>prefer without the glasses. Yeah, I mean, is that a

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<v Speaker 1>joke like he clark pented you or something. I mean

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<v Speaker 1>when he had his glasses on, he kind of looked

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<v Speaker 1>older and like that character there's a South Park character

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<v Speaker 1>I can't remember his name, Ester Mackie. Yes, the guy

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<v Speaker 1>who's like that guy. Ye? Yes, yes, he wears glasses

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<v Speaker 1>and he reminded me of that characters. Good picture to paint.

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<v Speaker 1>I also like projecting your own feelings like on him. Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>I am not blaming him, but he didn't look like

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<v Speaker 1>his picture either. Okay, that makes me laugh. He said

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<v Speaker 1>that you used a completely different picture on your profile,

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<v Speaker 1>like it wasn't even you at all. Yeah, and we've

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<v Speaker 1>been through that already. But you're asking me how I

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<v Speaker 1>felt about him, and I'm telling you he looked older,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe like eight pounds heavier. Okay, what are you saying that?

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<v Speaker 1>You like? You are attracted to him, it's just different.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh wow, we had a big connection on the phone. Yeah, yeah, okay, okay.

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<v Speaker 1>And so glasses and eight pounds ruins that. It's not

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<v Speaker 1>what I think we were expecting when we called you

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<v Speaker 1>at all. And look, Jillian, I know that Kirk already

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<v Speaker 1>surprised you once, but he's actually going to be surprising

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<v Speaker 1>you again right now because he's been quietly listening on

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<v Speaker 1>the other line and he wants to talk to you. Hello.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh come on, yeah, cook, what are you doing? What?

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<v Speaker 1>What am I doing? I cannot believe he just said

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<v Speaker 1>all that glasses and eight pounds heavier, and I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>it's still me, It's still me in the picture, the

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<v Speaker 1>picture that you had. What even new? But I I

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<v Speaker 1>was remorseful for that. She just feel bad. She knows

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<v Speaker 1>she did something wrong. Yeah, and I know that, And

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<v Speaker 1>that's why we talked afterwards, remember, And we spoke about that,

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<v Speaker 1>and you shared your feelings with me, and we I know,

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<v Speaker 1>we haven't spoken for a while, but I was hoping

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<v Speaker 1>to keep talking to you, and then now I'm kind

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<v Speaker 1>of like confused. Well, I'm just being honest with you,

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<v Speaker 1>and I can't get that south Park character out of

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<v Speaker 1>my head every time I keep for you. Are you

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<v Speaker 1>wearing your glasses right now? Kirk? Maybe I'm about to

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<v Speaker 1>put them on right now? Don't do that great with

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<v Speaker 1>your glass design. I cannot believe that. Like anyway, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>you guys just had a really bad first meeting. There's

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of surprises, a lot of big, huge emotions

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<v Speaker 1>like large glasses, Like maybe you're just making this as

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<v Speaker 1>an excuse just because it was just ikey. Yeah, this

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<v Speaker 1>is this embarrassment on your part, Jillian. As I've said before,

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<v Speaker 1>I am remorse. Yeah, but that doesn't excuse what he did. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>this is crazy because this is two people who just

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<v Speaker 1>a couple of weeks ago was saying that they loved

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<v Speaker 1>each other, and now they're on the phone and I

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<v Speaker 1>can sense all this tension and Brooke, I think you

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<v Speaker 1>would agree we can fix this. Yeah, if Kirk would

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<v Speaker 1>just apologize for not sending her a photo of himself

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<v Speaker 1>wearing glasses, that was his bad Kirk, Can you own that?

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<v Speaker 1>Can you say I'm sorry, Hey, look, I send you

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<v Speaker 1>guys an email so I can talk to her. And

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<v Speaker 1>now I'm the one who's apologizing to her for wearing glasses.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just saying, Jillian, apologize to you. Being sarcastic, Kerk.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't need to apologize. I mean, I do think

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<v Speaker 1>you could say something nice to Jillian if you still

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<v Speaker 1>even want to go out with her again. You know what,

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<v Speaker 1>that's the thing, Like, I wanted to go out with

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<v Speaker 1>her again. I wanted to continue to talk, but after this,

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<v Speaker 1>and she wants to go out with you too, as

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<v Speaker 1>long as you lose the glasses and the wood. So

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<v Speaker 1>with that being say, we would love to sends you

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<v Speaker 1>guys out on a second date, and we will pay

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<v Speaker 1>for that. I mean, I'm not happy about this. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just letting you know. That's why we haven't been talking. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>that's how most married couples are. They're not happy with

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<v Speaker 1>each other most of the time. I think that's a

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<v Speaker 1>very very good thing each other they do. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm worried about bad habits. Bad habits like bad video.

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<v Speaker 1>So I mean, I'm just saying, like it could be

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<v Speaker 1>a poor diet that leads to poor hygiene and then

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<v Speaker 1>maybe you know, bad eyesight. Guys, you know what, Just

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<v Speaker 1>stop because I don't even want to do this anymore.

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<v Speaker 1>No I do, I do? This has gone totally less.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh man, Oh wait, so now you don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>go out with me when you just said you would

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<v Speaker 1>think about it. I haven't lost the words. I was

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<v Speaker 1>going to actually pay for you to come see me,

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<v Speaker 1>and now it feels like that would be a waste

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<v Speaker 1>of time and money. But I didn't say that I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't want to come see you. Well you never wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to either, But didn't you read between the lines? Oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god, have we got to be done? Oh no,

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<v Speaker 1>oh no. Who knew that a catfish across country could

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<v Speaker 1>turn out like this? This is the most romantic story

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<v Speaker 1>that I think we've heard all We don't do very

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<v Speaker 1>good romance on this shore. This is the best that

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<v Speaker 1>we have to offer. I wanted to l Jeffrey, and

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<v Speaker 1>it's ruined. I think we all were d T F

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<v Speaker 1>I L, but most that we're just so o L

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<v Speaker 1>got it broke and Jeffrey in the morning