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Speaker 1: You like? You are attracted to him, it's just different.

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Speaker 1: Oh wow, we had a big connection on the phone. Yeah, yeah, okay, okay.

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Speaker 1: Oh come on, yeah, cook, what are you doing? What?

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Speaker 1: What am I doing? I cannot believe he just said

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Speaker 1: like large glasses, Like maybe you're just making this as

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Speaker 1: Can you say I'm sorry, Hey, look, I send you

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Speaker 1: I'm just saying, Jillian, apologize to you. Being sarcastic, Kerk.

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Speaker 1: You don't need to apologize. I mean, I do think

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Speaker 1: long as you lose the glasses and the wood. So

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Speaker 1: that's how most married couples are. They're not happy with

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Speaker 1: I'm worried about bad habits. Bad habits like bad video.

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Speaker 1: So I mean, I'm just saying, like it could be

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Speaker 1: No I do, I do? This has gone totally less.

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Speaker 1: Oh man, Oh wait, so now you don't want to

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Speaker 1: think about it. I haven't lost the words. I was

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Speaker 1: didn't want to come see you. Well you never wanted

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Speaker 1: my god, have we got to be done? Oh no,

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Speaker 1: oh no. Who knew that a catfish across country could

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Speaker 1: turn out like this? This is the most romantic story

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Speaker 1: that I think we've heard all We don't do very

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Speaker 1: good romance on this shore. This is the best that

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