1 00:00:00,680 --> 00:00:03,440 Speaker 1: It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter, and if 2 00:00:03,480 --> 00:00:06,760 Speaker 1: you need advice on relationships, work, sex, parenting and more, 3 00:00:07,040 --> 00:00:10,520 Speaker 1: please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVFM by clicking 4 00:00:10,600 --> 00:00:13,880 Speaker 1: submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your letter live 5 00:00:14,000 --> 00:00:15,920 Speaker 1: on the air, just like we're going to read this 6 00:00:15,920 --> 00:00:18,520 Speaker 1: one right here, right now, and you never know, it 7 00:00:18,560 --> 00:00:19,880 Speaker 1: could be yours. 8 00:00:20,880 --> 00:00:22,720 Speaker 2: It could be yours. Buckle up and hold on tight. 9 00:00:22,800 --> 00:00:25,239 Speaker 2: We got it for you. Here it is Strawberry Letter. 10 00:00:25,680 --> 00:00:29,000 Speaker 1: Thank you for your subject. He prefers it soft and squishy. 11 00:00:29,400 --> 00:00:32,280 Speaker 1: Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm a thirty seven year old married 12 00:00:32,320 --> 00:00:34,720 Speaker 1: woman with a four year old son. I gained a 13 00:00:34,720 --> 00:00:37,479 Speaker 1: few pounds after I had the baby, so I hired 14 00:00:37,479 --> 00:00:40,680 Speaker 1: a personal trainer last year. At first, I hate it 15 00:00:40,720 --> 00:00:43,040 Speaker 1: going to the gym and I would cry on the 16 00:00:43,080 --> 00:00:46,159 Speaker 1: way home. My husband gave me a pep talk and 17 00:00:46,200 --> 00:00:49,279 Speaker 1: he was very supportive. So I stuck with the program 18 00:00:49,320 --> 00:00:52,040 Speaker 1: and I worked out three days a week. Now, a 19 00:00:52,159 --> 00:00:55,279 Speaker 1: year later, my six pack is back and I have 20 00:00:55,360 --> 00:00:59,720 Speaker 1: my athletic build back. I'm dressing sexy again and I 21 00:00:59,800 --> 00:01:03,520 Speaker 1: have more stamina for sex. My husband loves to show 22 00:01:03,560 --> 00:01:06,399 Speaker 1: me off in front of his friends, But recently he 23 00:01:06,720 --> 00:01:10,320 Speaker 1: said something that hurt my feelings really badly. We were 24 00:01:10,360 --> 00:01:14,120 Speaker 1: being intimate and my husband said my grip was too strong. 25 00:01:14,480 --> 00:01:17,560 Speaker 1: He said my thighs were as tough as his thighs. 26 00:01:17,840 --> 00:01:20,280 Speaker 1: I thought he was joking at first, but he kept 27 00:01:20,280 --> 00:01:23,800 Speaker 1: saying I was crushing him, so I shifted my weight. 28 00:01:24,200 --> 00:01:27,000 Speaker 1: It messed up the whole experience for me, and I 29 00:01:27,080 --> 00:01:30,120 Speaker 1: felt inadequate. I talked to him about it, and he 30 00:01:30,200 --> 00:01:33,160 Speaker 1: said that I am not soft and squishy like I 31 00:01:33,319 --> 00:01:36,160 Speaker 1: used to be. He said he actually liked my jelly 32 00:01:36,200 --> 00:01:39,840 Speaker 1: thighs and soft arms around him. I was shocked because 33 00:01:39,880 --> 00:01:42,520 Speaker 1: we both agreed that I needed to tone up a bit. 34 00:01:42,880 --> 00:01:45,080 Speaker 1: I told him that he can't have the best of 35 00:01:45,120 --> 00:01:48,160 Speaker 1: both worlds. Either I'm going to be squishy and not 36 00:01:48,280 --> 00:01:50,360 Speaker 1: able to wear the clothes I want to wear, or 37 00:01:50,400 --> 00:01:53,800 Speaker 1: I'm going to be toned and feel good about myself. 38 00:01:54,120 --> 00:01:56,480 Speaker 1: He told me that I don't need a trainer anymore 39 00:01:56,800 --> 00:01:59,720 Speaker 1: and I should just do cardio to maintain the weight 40 00:01:59,800 --> 00:02:03,639 Speaker 1: I've lost. I love pasta and bread, so cardio won't 41 00:02:03,640 --> 00:02:06,680 Speaker 1: be enough. Am I supposed to stop working out to 42 00:02:06,720 --> 00:02:10,119 Speaker 1: please my husband or stay in the gym and keep 43 00:02:10,160 --> 00:02:13,560 Speaker 1: the body I want. Does this sound crazy to you? Yeah, 44 00:02:13,600 --> 00:02:18,360 Speaker 1: it sounds crazy, it does. No, you're not supposed to 45 00:02:18,400 --> 00:02:22,320 Speaker 1: stop working out to please your husband. You're supposed to 46 00:02:22,360 --> 00:02:25,960 Speaker 1: do what makes you feel good about yourself. That's what 47 00:02:26,000 --> 00:02:28,359 Speaker 1: you should do, and your husband shouldn't be asking you 48 00:02:29,160 --> 00:02:31,960 Speaker 1: to stop. After he was the one being so supportive 49 00:02:32,000 --> 00:02:34,799 Speaker 1: and everything. I got to say, congratulations to you. You 50 00:02:34,840 --> 00:02:37,079 Speaker 1: did it, you put the work in, you got your 51 00:02:37,080 --> 00:02:40,360 Speaker 1: body back. Now you're so fine that your husband is 52 00:02:40,560 --> 00:02:43,520 Speaker 1: feeling somewhat threatened by it. That's what it is. He 53 00:02:43,720 --> 00:02:45,760 Speaker 1: was the one, like I said, that was being so 54 00:02:45,800 --> 00:02:48,799 Speaker 1: supportive of you, giving you the pep talk. He agreed 55 00:02:48,880 --> 00:02:51,720 Speaker 1: you needed to tone up a bit. Isn't he the 56 00:02:51,720 --> 00:02:54,200 Speaker 1: one that likes to show you off to his friends. 57 00:02:54,280 --> 00:02:58,600 Speaker 1: Let's not forget about that. Now he's complaining, well, you're right, 58 00:02:58,720 --> 00:03:01,640 Speaker 1: he can't have it both ways. His insecurities are showing, 59 00:03:01,880 --> 00:03:05,400 Speaker 1: and instead of the putdowns he's throwing your way, he 60 00:03:05,440 --> 00:03:09,480 Speaker 1: should keep that same positive, supportive attitude. Now that you've 61 00:03:09,480 --> 00:03:12,680 Speaker 1: accomplished your goal, maybe he should get in the gym, maybe, 62 00:03:12,919 --> 00:03:15,800 Speaker 1: you know, and tone up a bit too, you know, 63 00:03:16,320 --> 00:03:20,040 Speaker 1: to please your husband. You said, either you're gonna be 64 00:03:20,120 --> 00:03:23,680 Speaker 1: fat and squishy, but you don't have to. You know, 65 00:03:23,760 --> 00:03:25,880 Speaker 1: you can go to the gym and maybe not work 66 00:03:25,919 --> 00:03:29,320 Speaker 1: out with weights every every time, and then you know 67 00:03:29,400 --> 00:03:32,240 Speaker 1: you won't be hard. Maybe he's saying you're I don't 68 00:03:32,280 --> 00:03:35,000 Speaker 1: know really what he's saying. Are you too muscular? Is 69 00:03:35,040 --> 00:03:37,920 Speaker 1: that what he's saying? Too much like a bodybuilder? Now, 70 00:03:37,920 --> 00:03:41,160 Speaker 1: because it doesn't sound like that. But you know you 71 00:03:41,160 --> 00:03:43,600 Speaker 1: should choose to feel good about yourself. 72 00:03:43,880 --> 00:03:49,040 Speaker 3: Steve, I see what's really happening in this letter. You know, 73 00:03:49,160 --> 00:03:51,800 Speaker 3: my specialty and e Strawberry letters is weight. 74 00:03:53,520 --> 00:03:55,280 Speaker 1: Wait, I thought it was race. 75 00:03:55,680 --> 00:04:01,040 Speaker 3: It's weight weight and race is ta Yeah, I'm an 76 00:04:01,040 --> 00:04:05,840 Speaker 3: expertent talking about weight in the race my two favorite 77 00:04:05,880 --> 00:04:12,520 Speaker 3: Strawberry letter subjects. This one is about weight. As always 78 00:04:12,560 --> 00:04:19,120 Speaker 3: a hidden fat person in these letters, and I think 79 00:04:19,320 --> 00:04:21,520 Speaker 3: I found who it is. 80 00:04:22,680 --> 00:04:25,080 Speaker 2: It's him. 81 00:04:25,200 --> 00:04:29,479 Speaker 3: It's the chubby hubby. And this is a letter written 82 00:04:29,920 --> 00:04:33,840 Speaker 3: about her life. That's all it is. That what you 83 00:04:33,880 --> 00:04:36,080 Speaker 3: should have called this letter, ain't No, he prefers this 84 00:04:36,240 --> 00:04:39,760 Speaker 3: softens with you. No, no, No, chubby Hubby all of 85 00:04:39,760 --> 00:04:43,240 Speaker 3: a sudden got a dog on problem this Stephen Shelle, 86 00:04:43,240 --> 00:04:45,520 Speaker 3: I'm thirty seven year old married woman. I got four 87 00:04:45,600 --> 00:04:48,800 Speaker 3: year old son gained some weight after the baby, so 88 00:04:48,880 --> 00:04:51,240 Speaker 3: she decided to go to the gym. She hated going 89 00:04:51,279 --> 00:04:54,240 Speaker 3: to the gym at first. Her husband was very encouraging 90 00:04:54,279 --> 00:04:57,440 Speaker 3: to her. She finally went back stuck with the program 91 00:04:57,680 --> 00:05:01,520 Speaker 3: three days a week. Nah, she got a six pack 92 00:05:01,839 --> 00:05:09,560 Speaker 3: is back. My athletic build is back. My husband loved 93 00:05:09,640 --> 00:05:11,840 Speaker 3: and show me off in front of his friends. But 94 00:05:11,880 --> 00:05:15,919 Speaker 3: then he said something to hurt your feelings really bad. 95 00:05:16,240 --> 00:05:22,000 Speaker 3: We were being intimate, and her husband said, my grip 96 00:05:22,360 --> 00:05:23,160 Speaker 3: was too strong. 97 00:05:23,240 --> 00:05:30,960 Speaker 2: Now let's stop. Back. My grip was too strong. What 98 00:05:31,480 --> 00:05:32,320 Speaker 2: did you grab? 99 00:05:34,320 --> 00:05:42,599 Speaker 3: See when your grip is too strong, my question becomes, 100 00:05:42,880 --> 00:05:47,840 Speaker 3: what did you grab? Now? You can't be in here 101 00:05:47,880 --> 00:05:50,640 Speaker 3: picking up these dumbbells with these gloves on and handling 102 00:05:50,760 --> 00:05:52,520 Speaker 3: me like I'm a damn dumb bell. 103 00:05:52,760 --> 00:05:55,800 Speaker 2: So you can't handle me like you snatching weights around 104 00:05:55,839 --> 00:05:56,359 Speaker 2: in the jail. 105 00:05:56,800 --> 00:05:59,960 Speaker 3: See, when you get intimate, you got to leave all 106 00:06:00,120 --> 00:06:06,599 Speaker 3: let gym stuff at the gym. Wait snatching snatch That 107 00:06:06,640 --> 00:06:12,280 Speaker 3: ain't good in the bedroom. You know they got exercise 108 00:06:12,440 --> 00:06:16,200 Speaker 3: called a snatch and clean snatching lift. Snatch is a 109 00:06:16,200 --> 00:06:22,200 Speaker 3: big word in the gym. Snatch boy, like even describing 110 00:06:22,240 --> 00:06:26,000 Speaker 3: the body who that girl body was snatch snatch, But 111 00:06:26,120 --> 00:06:28,520 Speaker 3: you don't want to bring that in the bedroom because 112 00:06:28,600 --> 00:06:31,240 Speaker 3: your husband and told you your grip is too strong. 113 00:06:31,640 --> 00:06:34,200 Speaker 3: What in the world did you grab on this man 114 00:06:34,520 --> 00:06:35,880 Speaker 3: that made him pass out? 115 00:06:36,160 --> 00:06:40,599 Speaker 1: Hang it on? Uh well of part two of Steve's response, 116 00:06:40,680 --> 00:06:44,360 Speaker 1: coming up, uh on to today's strawberry letter twenty three 117 00:06:44,400 --> 00:06:47,840 Speaker 1: minutes after the hour. The subject is he prefers it's 118 00:06:47,960 --> 00:06:51,400 Speaker 1: soft and squishy. We'll get back into it right after this. 119 00:06:52,160 --> 00:06:56,000 Speaker 1: You're listening hard morning show. All right, come on, Steve, 120 00:06:56,080 --> 00:06:59,480 Speaker 1: let's recap today's strawberry letter. The subject he prefers it 121 00:06:59,640 --> 00:07:01,400 Speaker 1: soft and squishy. 122 00:07:02,080 --> 00:07:04,839 Speaker 3: Yeah, well, this letter right here is about weight because 123 00:07:04,839 --> 00:07:07,120 Speaker 3: we talking about soft and squishy. But then name of 124 00:07:07,120 --> 00:07:11,480 Speaker 3: this letter should be my chubby hubby because fat boy 125 00:07:11,760 --> 00:07:13,680 Speaker 3: then got tired of his wife. She picked up some 126 00:07:13,720 --> 00:07:16,400 Speaker 3: weight up, she got pregnant, she started going to the gym. 127 00:07:16,480 --> 00:07:18,840 Speaker 3: Now she got an athletic bill and a six pack, 128 00:07:19,640 --> 00:07:21,560 Speaker 3: and now she's strong in the gym. And there he 129 00:07:21,680 --> 00:07:24,360 Speaker 3: hurt her feelings the other day because they was intimate, 130 00:07:24,400 --> 00:07:27,800 Speaker 3: and he said your grip was too strong. What it 131 00:07:27,880 --> 00:07:32,760 Speaker 3: probably is? It probably is he grabbed it you handled 132 00:07:32,800 --> 00:07:35,520 Speaker 3: him a little rough. You can't go in there grabbing 133 00:07:35,560 --> 00:07:38,480 Speaker 3: this man like you snatching up some weights. I just 134 00:07:38,600 --> 00:07:42,120 Speaker 3: told you that he ain't built like that. But let's 135 00:07:42,240 --> 00:07:45,040 Speaker 3: just move on from that. He said your grip was 136 00:07:45,080 --> 00:07:48,120 Speaker 3: too strong. That ain't where it stopped. He said my 137 00:07:48,280 --> 00:07:53,040 Speaker 3: thighs was as tough as his thighs. I thought he 138 00:07:53,080 --> 00:07:54,960 Speaker 3: was joking at first, but he kept saying I was 139 00:07:55,120 --> 00:08:03,520 Speaker 3: crushing him. Lord her Mercy, crush me, please, crush me. 140 00:08:05,080 --> 00:08:09,600 Speaker 3: I wants to be crushed. You can squeeze your thighs 141 00:08:09,640 --> 00:08:11,720 Speaker 3: so tight that I can't breathe. 142 00:08:12,880 --> 00:08:17,280 Speaker 2: Well, let's see crush me. 143 00:08:18,200 --> 00:08:21,640 Speaker 3: Come on, and we're gonna have a thry We're gonna 144 00:08:21,640 --> 00:08:26,240 Speaker 3: have a thigh crushing contest. But now your grip strong, 145 00:08:26,400 --> 00:08:29,560 Speaker 3: and you crushing little chubby, Now chubby, just a little 146 00:08:29,600 --> 00:08:32,480 Speaker 3: teddy bear now because you in there just crushing litd chubby, 147 00:08:32,800 --> 00:08:35,559 Speaker 3: chubby hubby in that little fat ass just getting worked 148 00:08:35,559 --> 00:08:38,040 Speaker 3: over in the bedroom. Now he ain't in charge no more. 149 00:08:38,400 --> 00:08:41,839 Speaker 3: He getting snatched on. Your grip too, strike you, I mean, 150 00:08:41,920 --> 00:08:44,040 Speaker 3: I mean your grip is too strong. You're sitting up 151 00:08:44,080 --> 00:08:45,840 Speaker 3: in the here, you got your thighs around here. He 152 00:08:45,920 --> 00:08:49,559 Speaker 3: can't breathe, fat boy in that struggling and then you 153 00:08:49,600 --> 00:08:51,480 Speaker 3: had to shift your waiting to mess up the whole 154 00:08:51,520 --> 00:08:54,599 Speaker 3: experience for me. Now see lately, now you've got to 155 00:08:54,640 --> 00:08:56,520 Speaker 3: be careful. Now you're in the gym. You could be 156 00:08:56,600 --> 00:08:59,000 Speaker 3: doing too much because little fat boy you got. You 157 00:08:59,040 --> 00:08:59,960 Speaker 3: gotta look at your husband. 158 00:09:00,200 --> 00:09:01,400 Speaker 2: He he ain't in the gym. 159 00:09:01,600 --> 00:09:03,640 Speaker 3: I ain't heard you say nothing about him in the gym, 160 00:09:03,960 --> 00:09:06,640 Speaker 3: So fat boy, you done went past him. Now I 161 00:09:06,760 --> 00:09:08,839 Speaker 3: talked to him about it. He said that I'm not 162 00:09:09,000 --> 00:09:12,080 Speaker 3: soft and squishy like I used to be. Oh see 163 00:09:12,240 --> 00:09:15,600 Speaker 3: see you don't went too far to him. Now that's 164 00:09:15,640 --> 00:09:17,920 Speaker 3: a dog one shame. A woman works to get herself 165 00:09:17,960 --> 00:09:21,440 Speaker 3: toned and stuff. She should be congratulated. But not when 166 00:09:21,440 --> 00:09:24,240 Speaker 3: you weard the look. Not when you little married the 167 00:09:24,240 --> 00:09:27,599 Speaker 3: little chubby hebby though, fat boy fat boy tied you 168 00:09:27,679 --> 00:09:29,160 Speaker 3: looking better than here, and he don't want to show 169 00:09:29,200 --> 00:09:31,199 Speaker 3: y'all to your friends because you're too strong. You might 170 00:09:31,200 --> 00:09:33,720 Speaker 3: slap it. See that's what didn't happen right here. So 171 00:09:33,800 --> 00:09:36,240 Speaker 3: he said he actually used to like my jelly thighs 172 00:09:36,280 --> 00:09:40,720 Speaker 3: and soft arms around him because see he fat know 173 00:09:40,800 --> 00:09:44,680 Speaker 3: this about fat people. Fat people like other fat where 174 00:09:44,720 --> 00:09:51,520 Speaker 3: does it say this letter fat people like other fat. 175 00:09:52,000 --> 00:09:57,600 Speaker 3: That's a true statement. I just said, this is my shot, 176 00:09:57,920 --> 00:09:59,520 Speaker 3: fat people like other fat. 177 00:10:00,000 --> 00:10:01,839 Speaker 1: He doesn't even stay fed in the letter. 178 00:10:02,559 --> 00:10:08,120 Speaker 2: Well, it don't say he fit nowhere in this letter. 179 00:10:08,760 --> 00:10:11,360 Speaker 3: The only person that's fit in this letter is this 180 00:10:11,400 --> 00:10:13,440 Speaker 3: woman that had that baby and went and got to 181 00:10:13,480 --> 00:10:13,880 Speaker 3: the gym. 182 00:10:14,120 --> 00:10:16,040 Speaker 2: She ain't mentioned him at the gym. 183 00:10:17,080 --> 00:10:19,600 Speaker 3: I was shocked because we both agreed that I needed 184 00:10:19,600 --> 00:10:20,480 Speaker 3: to tone up a bit. 185 00:10:20,840 --> 00:10:22,439 Speaker 2: I told him that he can't have the best of 186 00:10:22,480 --> 00:10:23,000 Speaker 2: both world. 187 00:10:23,160 --> 00:10:25,240 Speaker 3: Either I'm gonna be squishing our label to wear the 188 00:10:25,240 --> 00:10:27,240 Speaker 3: clothes I want to wear, or I'm gonna be toned 189 00:10:27,320 --> 00:10:30,480 Speaker 3: and feel good about myself and you should, sister. He 190 00:10:30,640 --> 00:10:33,120 Speaker 3: told me that I don't need a trainer anymore and 191 00:10:33,160 --> 00:10:35,880 Speaker 3: I should just do cardio to maintain the weight I've lost. 192 00:10:36,080 --> 00:10:39,000 Speaker 3: I love postain bread, so cardio won't be enough. Am 193 00:10:39,040 --> 00:10:41,040 Speaker 3: I supposed to stop working out to please my husband? 194 00:10:41,120 --> 00:10:43,120 Speaker 3: Stay in the gym and keep the body? I wont 195 00:10:43,360 --> 00:10:47,240 Speaker 3: Does this sound crazy in you? Yeah? You done got 196 00:10:47,280 --> 00:10:51,080 Speaker 3: toned up, chevvy hubby sitting up in here, good stomach, 197 00:10:51,240 --> 00:10:54,719 Speaker 3: everything you in here? Your thighs is crushing it. I 198 00:10:54,760 --> 00:10:59,920 Speaker 3: don't know why you complaining about little thigh crushing crush me. Yeah, 199 00:11:00,080 --> 00:11:04,679 Speaker 3: put my arm between your thighs lock it. Yeah, let's 200 00:11:04,720 --> 00:11:08,440 Speaker 3: see how long you can hold my bicep between your 201 00:11:08,559 --> 00:11:13,040 Speaker 3: thigh crush shit. Wow, yeah, let's go. But you gotta 202 00:11:13,080 --> 00:11:15,240 Speaker 3: stop all that thigh locking though. You're gonna have to 203 00:11:15,240 --> 00:11:16,959 Speaker 3: stop that because you hurt me. 204 00:11:17,640 --> 00:11:18,400 Speaker 2: He ain't in the gym. 205 00:11:18,520 --> 00:11:21,880 Speaker 3: The grip too strong. Thighs is too strong. She toned 206 00:11:21,920 --> 00:11:25,320 Speaker 3: into everybody. You know, you're gonna have to encourage little 207 00:11:25,400 --> 00:11:27,680 Speaker 3: chubby hubby that he gotta get his little fat ass 208 00:11:27,720 --> 00:11:31,319 Speaker 3: and gin. Now you in here, man at your girl, 209 00:11:31,360 --> 00:11:33,280 Speaker 3: because she done got into shape. She the one had 210 00:11:33,320 --> 00:11:35,880 Speaker 3: the baby. But now you're sitting over there and looking 211 00:11:35,920 --> 00:11:38,439 Speaker 3: like you and your first tryvester. See this don't work 212 00:11:38,480 --> 00:11:46,600 Speaker 3: like your the letter don't say nothing but that shirt. Shure. 213 00:11:47,040 --> 00:11:50,800 Speaker 2: I'm reading between the lines. What ain't said in this net. 214 00:11:51,360 --> 00:11:54,840 Speaker 3: She never once said her husband was physically in shape, 215 00:11:54,920 --> 00:11:58,160 Speaker 3: because she loved the man for what he is. That 216 00:11:58,280 --> 00:12:00,840 Speaker 3: he wanted her to tone up after the baby. She 217 00:12:01,080 --> 00:12:04,520 Speaker 3: done took you too far. She got strong grip and 218 00:12:04,600 --> 00:12:06,640 Speaker 3: there grabbing this man, snatching him round. 219 00:12:07,920 --> 00:12:10,000 Speaker 1: Now he lay on bedroom. 220 00:12:10,600 --> 00:12:13,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, and now he laying on top over she locking 221 00:12:13,120 --> 00:12:15,520 Speaker 2: them thighs. He can't. 222 00:12:17,080 --> 00:12:18,960 Speaker 1: Are they wrestling or making love? 223 00:12:19,000 --> 00:12:22,360 Speaker 2: What are they? You oak at me? You oak at me? 224 00:12:24,520 --> 00:12:28,480 Speaker 2: Your dog to day pull up dumb. I can't breathe. 225 00:12:28,520 --> 00:12:30,360 Speaker 2: I can't breeve. I'm trying to do it, but I 226 00:12:30,400 --> 00:12:32,880 Speaker 2: can't breathe. Shut your punk ass something called. 227 00:12:35,080 --> 00:12:35,160 Speaker 1: Me. 228 00:12:35,559 --> 00:12:39,920 Speaker 2: You squeeze at me, you squeeming quick, grabbing me like that. 229 00:12:40,040 --> 00:12:40,800 Speaker 2: Your grip is. 230 00:12:40,720 --> 00:12:43,520 Speaker 3: Too strong, And shut your punk asself and get to 231 00:12:43,600 --> 00:12:46,480 Speaker 3: the gym and ladies. For those of you that's out 232 00:12:46,480 --> 00:12:48,800 Speaker 3: there trying to decide, do you stay soft and squishy 233 00:12:48,960 --> 00:12:50,959 Speaker 3: for your man or you live life you want? 234 00:12:51,320 --> 00:12:53,320 Speaker 2: Do you do. 235 00:12:54,000 --> 00:12:59,320 Speaker 1: You feel good about yourself? That's right today. Strawberry Letter 236 00:12:59,360 --> 00:13:02,320 Speaker 1: on the instam at Steve Harvey FM. 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