1 00:00:00,720 --> 00:00:04,040 Speaker 1: Time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need 2 00:00:04,080 --> 00:00:08,000 Speaker 1: advice and relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting and more. Please 3 00:00:08,039 --> 00:00:11,560 Speaker 1: submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEYFM dot com and 4 00:00:11,640 --> 00:00:15,720 Speaker 1: click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your letter 5 00:00:15,840 --> 00:00:17,800 Speaker 1: live on the air, just like we're going to read 6 00:00:17,800 --> 00:00:19,520 Speaker 1: this one right here, right now. 7 00:00:20,440 --> 00:00:22,520 Speaker 2: Buggle up, hold on tight, We got it for you. 8 00:00:22,600 --> 00:00:22,760 Speaker 3: Here. 9 00:00:22,800 --> 00:00:27,440 Speaker 1: It is letter subject he facetimed me while he was 10 00:00:27,480 --> 00:00:30,240 Speaker 1: with her. Dear Stephen Shirley. I met the love of 11 00:00:30,280 --> 00:00:32,400 Speaker 1: my life seven years ago and I was twenty one 12 00:00:32,520 --> 00:00:35,479 Speaker 1: years old at the time. He's three years older than 13 00:00:35,520 --> 00:00:38,360 Speaker 1: me and had already had a child. He was my 14 00:00:38,440 --> 00:00:42,320 Speaker 1: first everything, and he influenced everything I did. I overlooked 15 00:00:42,360 --> 00:00:44,400 Speaker 1: a lot of things he did because I was young 16 00:00:44,479 --> 00:00:47,640 Speaker 1: and crazy in love. He would be intimate with the 17 00:00:47,680 --> 00:00:50,479 Speaker 1: mother of his child, and he didn't try to hide it. 18 00:00:50,479 --> 00:00:52,600 Speaker 1: It made me feel like I wasn't good enough or 19 00:00:52,720 --> 00:00:56,080 Speaker 1: skilled enough at sex because he kept on having sex 20 00:00:56,120 --> 00:00:58,560 Speaker 1: with her. She threw it up in my face whenever 21 00:00:58,600 --> 00:01:02,320 Speaker 1: she could, so I finally broke up with him. I 22 00:01:02,400 --> 00:01:06,119 Speaker 1: was heartbroken, but managed to stay friends with him. He 23 00:01:06,240 --> 00:01:08,800 Speaker 1: ended up having another child with this lady and told 24 00:01:08,880 --> 00:01:11,679 Speaker 1: me that it was a big mistake. Then he started 25 00:01:11,760 --> 00:01:14,399 Speaker 1: dating this lady he worked with, and they had a 26 00:01:14,440 --> 00:01:18,119 Speaker 1: baby together. After his third child was born, he came 27 00:01:18,200 --> 00:01:21,080 Speaker 1: to me humbly and said he was so tired of 28 00:01:21,120 --> 00:01:23,840 Speaker 1: how he had been doing things and he wanted me back. 29 00:01:24,080 --> 00:01:26,679 Speaker 1: He also said he was ready to get married. We 30 00:01:26,760 --> 00:01:31,360 Speaker 1: got back together eight months ago, and I'm pregnant. He 31 00:01:31,400 --> 00:01:34,000 Speaker 1: seemed to be happy when I told him, and he 32 00:01:34,080 --> 00:01:36,280 Speaker 1: said he would have my dream wedding. We would have 33 00:01:36,319 --> 00:01:39,920 Speaker 1: my dream wedding, but that's on hold for now. Week ago, 34 00:01:40,440 --> 00:01:43,440 Speaker 1: he went to visit his youngest son and we were 35 00:01:43,480 --> 00:01:46,640 Speaker 1: on FaceTime as he drove. When he got out of 36 00:01:46,640 --> 00:01:49,800 Speaker 1: the car, he thought he had hung up and he 37 00:01:49,920 --> 00:01:52,800 Speaker 1: must have thrown his phone in his pocket. I heard 38 00:01:52,800 --> 00:01:56,240 Speaker 1: a female mumbling, and then I clearly heard her ask 39 00:01:56,320 --> 00:01:59,040 Speaker 1: if he had a condom. Then I heard a lot 40 00:01:59,040 --> 00:02:02,680 Speaker 1: of moaning. I hung up and I got physically ill. 41 00:02:02,920 --> 00:02:05,040 Speaker 1: When he came back, I didn't let him know what 42 00:02:05,120 --> 00:02:08,600 Speaker 1: I'd heard. I'm about to deliver his fourth child and 43 00:02:08,639 --> 00:02:11,359 Speaker 1: he's still a liar and a cheater. I don't want 44 00:02:11,360 --> 00:02:16,040 Speaker 1: to be a single parent. What should I do now? Well, girl, 45 00:02:16,160 --> 00:02:19,400 Speaker 1: you got to get it together, I mean quickly and 46 00:02:19,440 --> 00:02:22,160 Speaker 1: in a hurry. You're about to deliver his fourth child. 47 00:02:22,200 --> 00:02:24,560 Speaker 1: You got to just stop being stupid. These are some 48 00:02:24,560 --> 00:02:27,600 Speaker 1: stupid moves you've been making, you know, with this man. 49 00:02:28,120 --> 00:02:30,680 Speaker 1: This guy's been using you, lying to you all along, 50 00:02:30,840 --> 00:02:35,120 Speaker 1: and you keep on falling for it. I know you're young, 51 00:02:35,360 --> 00:02:39,440 Speaker 1: but I mean you could have just asked him to 52 00:02:39,560 --> 00:02:43,200 Speaker 1: use a condom. You could have to use protection. It's 53 00:02:43,240 --> 00:02:47,160 Speaker 1: okay to say that, you know, or did you want 54 00:02:47,200 --> 00:02:50,200 Speaker 1: to get pregnant by him? I'm not so sure you didn't, 55 00:02:50,600 --> 00:02:52,840 Speaker 1: you know because you were so happy to have him back. 56 00:02:53,160 --> 00:02:55,240 Speaker 1: I mean, and did you think that a baby would 57 00:02:55,320 --> 00:02:58,960 Speaker 1: keep him well? As you can clearly see, it didn't. 58 00:02:59,440 --> 00:03:01,920 Speaker 1: And now although you may not want to be a 59 00:03:01,960 --> 00:03:05,520 Speaker 1: single parent, you will be. This guy is a loser 60 00:03:05,560 --> 00:03:08,120 Speaker 1: in every sense of the word, who just keeps dropping 61 00:03:08,120 --> 00:03:12,200 Speaker 1: babies wherever he goes. I mean, he's not thinking about protection. 62 00:03:12,600 --> 00:03:16,839 Speaker 1: And you know, you never once said at least he's 63 00:03:16,880 --> 00:03:20,880 Speaker 1: a good father, because he's not. He's not. Let's face it, 64 00:03:20,919 --> 00:03:25,280 Speaker 1: he's too busy making kids and he's immature like a kid. 65 00:03:25,760 --> 00:03:28,520 Speaker 1: I'm sorry you loved him more than you loved you 66 00:03:28,720 --> 00:03:31,320 Speaker 1: and got yourself caught up in his game of lies 67 00:03:31,400 --> 00:03:34,320 Speaker 1: and deceit. But please know that it is not the 68 00:03:34,480 --> 00:03:37,320 Speaker 1: end of the world for you. First of all, please 69 00:03:37,360 --> 00:03:41,119 Speaker 1: don't even consider marrying this guy right now. I mean 70 00:03:41,560 --> 00:03:45,400 Speaker 1: you need to walk away from this toxic relationship. It 71 00:03:45,480 --> 00:03:48,520 Speaker 1: is now time to make plans for a future without him. 72 00:03:49,040 --> 00:03:51,320 Speaker 1: Use this time. I'm telling you to use this time 73 00:03:51,320 --> 00:03:53,080 Speaker 1: to figure out how are you going to take care 74 00:03:53,120 --> 00:03:56,560 Speaker 1: of your baby and taking that baby daddy to court 75 00:03:57,200 --> 00:03:57,760 Speaker 1: right now? 76 00:03:58,160 --> 00:04:03,720 Speaker 2: Steve, Wow, this love of here. 77 00:04:03,800 --> 00:04:03,920 Speaker 1: Man. 78 00:04:04,120 --> 00:04:08,520 Speaker 3: Listen, I feel bad for this lady right here, this 79 00:04:08,640 --> 00:04:13,880 Speaker 3: young girl. But this started wrong, and it's wrong from 80 00:04:13,960 --> 00:04:17,000 Speaker 3: the very beginning, and there are no corrections being made 81 00:04:17,040 --> 00:04:20,040 Speaker 3: along the way. And now you're faced with the ultimatum 82 00:04:20,080 --> 00:04:22,919 Speaker 3: at the end of this letter. You're simply saying, I 83 00:04:22,920 --> 00:04:25,279 Speaker 3: don't want to be a single parent. What should I 84 00:04:25,320 --> 00:04:29,320 Speaker 3: do now? Well, let me show you what has happened 85 00:04:29,640 --> 00:04:33,160 Speaker 3: so I can paint a clear picture of you. You met 86 00:04:33,160 --> 00:04:35,080 Speaker 3: the love of your life seven years ago. 87 00:04:35,279 --> 00:04:41,040 Speaker 2: Stop saying that because this is the love of your life, your. 88 00:04:40,920 --> 00:04:45,760 Speaker 3: Life is headed for a loveless, remaining livelihood. 89 00:04:46,960 --> 00:04:49,440 Speaker 2: This can't be the love of your life. This was 90 00:04:49,480 --> 00:04:50,640 Speaker 2: the love of your life. 91 00:04:50,880 --> 00:04:55,240 Speaker 3: So you thought up until that point, but after you 92 00:04:55,440 --> 00:04:58,520 Speaker 3: met him, he started proving to you he was not 93 00:04:58,640 --> 00:05:01,080 Speaker 3: the love of your life. You've got to get a 94 00:05:01,120 --> 00:05:04,360 Speaker 3: better definition of love of your life. You got to 95 00:05:04,480 --> 00:05:06,520 Speaker 3: learn how to let somebody else love you that knows 96 00:05:06,520 --> 00:05:09,360 Speaker 3: how to do it. Twenty one, he's three years older, 97 00:05:11,240 --> 00:05:14,880 Speaker 3: he already had a child. He was my first everything. 98 00:05:14,920 --> 00:05:18,600 Speaker 3: He influenced everything I did. I overlooked a lot of 99 00:05:18,680 --> 00:05:19,320 Speaker 3: things he. 100 00:05:19,200 --> 00:05:22,400 Speaker 2: Did because I was young and crazy enough. Right there, 101 00:05:24,279 --> 00:05:26,640 Speaker 2: right there, you made the. 102 00:05:26,560 --> 00:05:28,920 Speaker 3: Statement, young lady, that I want you to pay attention 103 00:05:29,040 --> 00:05:32,159 Speaker 3: to I overlooked a lot of things he did because 104 00:05:32,160 --> 00:05:35,880 Speaker 3: I was young and crazy in love. He would be 105 00:05:36,160 --> 00:05:40,400 Speaker 3: intimate with the mother of his child. He didn't try 106 00:05:40,440 --> 00:05:45,080 Speaker 3: to hide it, so he just throw it up in 107 00:05:45,120 --> 00:05:48,200 Speaker 3: your face. It made me feel like I wasn't good 108 00:05:48,279 --> 00:05:50,919 Speaker 3: enough or skilled enough as sex because he kept having 109 00:05:50,920 --> 00:05:55,119 Speaker 3: sex with him, and you knew he was kept having 110 00:05:55,160 --> 00:05:58,040 Speaker 3: sex with her, and you allowed him to have sex, 111 00:05:59,279 --> 00:06:01,640 Speaker 3: and then you can having sexuate. And then the lady 112 00:06:01,640 --> 00:06:04,680 Speaker 3: threw it up in your face whenever she could. And 113 00:06:04,720 --> 00:06:09,479 Speaker 3: now you got other women calling you about the love 114 00:06:09,600 --> 00:06:13,680 Speaker 3: of your life, and the love of your life is 115 00:06:13,720 --> 00:06:19,719 Speaker 3: screwing all these other people. I was hard broken, but 116 00:06:19,800 --> 00:06:22,320 Speaker 3: I managed to stay friends with him. 117 00:06:22,360 --> 00:06:22,600 Speaker 2: Why? 118 00:06:24,400 --> 00:06:29,520 Speaker 3: Why what has he done that's friendly towards you? 119 00:06:29,440 --> 00:06:30,679 Speaker 2: You know, we need to do two. 120 00:06:30,520 --> 00:06:32,880 Speaker 3: Things right now when we come back, we talk about it. 121 00:06:33,200 --> 00:06:36,279 Speaker 3: You need a new definition of friend and you need 122 00:06:36,360 --> 00:06:37,760 Speaker 3: a new definition of love. 123 00:06:38,360 --> 00:06:42,120 Speaker 1: Wow, all right, Steve, hold on to that thought. We'll 124 00:06:42,120 --> 00:06:44,440 Speaker 1: get part two of your response coming up at twenty 125 00:06:44,480 --> 00:06:48,159 Speaker 1: three minutes after the hours subject he face timed me 126 00:06:48,360 --> 00:06:50,400 Speaker 1: while he was with her. We'll get back into it 127 00:06:50,480 --> 00:06:55,760 Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening, Steve Hardy Morning Show. All right, Steve, 128 00:06:55,800 --> 00:06:58,680 Speaker 1: come on, let's recap today's strawberry letter. The subject he 129 00:06:58,800 --> 00:07:01,600 Speaker 1: face timed me when he was with her. 130 00:07:02,080 --> 00:07:06,560 Speaker 3: This young lady who I have no jokes for because 131 00:07:06,560 --> 00:07:10,320 Speaker 3: I'm heartbroken for her because the twenty one she claimed 132 00:07:10,320 --> 00:07:12,000 Speaker 3: to have met the love of her life, which was 133 00:07:12,120 --> 00:07:14,000 Speaker 3: just the love of her life up at that point. 134 00:07:14,960 --> 00:07:19,680 Speaker 3: But this guy has shown her no respect or love. 135 00:07:19,760 --> 00:07:23,080 Speaker 3: He was your first everything. He influenced everything you did, 136 00:07:23,160 --> 00:07:25,160 Speaker 3: and the mistake you made was I overlooked a lot 137 00:07:25,200 --> 00:07:27,200 Speaker 3: of things he did because I was young and crazy 138 00:07:27,200 --> 00:07:27,600 Speaker 3: in love. 139 00:07:28,200 --> 00:07:29,400 Speaker 2: So what did you do? 140 00:07:30,800 --> 00:07:34,200 Speaker 3: You allowed him to have sex with other women repeatedly 141 00:07:34,360 --> 00:07:37,560 Speaker 3: that you knew about it. They had other women call 142 00:07:37,680 --> 00:07:40,520 Speaker 3: you to confront you about the screwing that he was 143 00:07:40,560 --> 00:07:44,840 Speaker 3: doing with them. You allowed it, and you allowed him 144 00:07:44,880 --> 00:07:45,440 Speaker 3: to put it. 145 00:07:45,400 --> 00:07:49,320 Speaker 2: In front of your face because he didn't care that 146 00:07:49,400 --> 00:07:50,240 Speaker 2: you knew about it. 147 00:07:50,920 --> 00:07:53,640 Speaker 3: Okay, these are the stuff did you allowed to happen 148 00:07:53,680 --> 00:07:58,880 Speaker 3: because you was young and crazy in love. Now let's 149 00:07:58,960 --> 00:08:04,120 Speaker 3: move on. So finally you broke up with him. You say, 150 00:08:04,600 --> 00:08:10,440 Speaker 3: but y'all remain friends. Why what friendly was he towards you? 151 00:08:11,720 --> 00:08:14,800 Speaker 3: He's done nothing but dog you the entire time. That 152 00:08:14,880 --> 00:08:19,000 Speaker 3: ain't love of friendship. I was heartbroken, but manistate friends 153 00:08:19,040 --> 00:08:21,720 Speaker 3: with wind of He ended up having another child with 154 00:08:21,760 --> 00:08:25,800 Speaker 3: this lady. So now that lady they had another baby 155 00:08:25,840 --> 00:08:28,160 Speaker 3: and told me that it was a big mistake. Then 156 00:08:28,200 --> 00:08:30,200 Speaker 3: he started dating a lady from work and they had 157 00:08:30,200 --> 00:08:33,760 Speaker 3: a baby together. Now, after the third child was born, 158 00:08:34,559 --> 00:08:36,800 Speaker 3: he came to you humbly and said he was so 159 00:08:37,040 --> 00:08:39,840 Speaker 3: tired of how he's been doing things and he wanted 160 00:08:39,880 --> 00:08:44,120 Speaker 3: you back. He also said he was ready to get married. Oh, 161 00:08:44,120 --> 00:08:46,640 Speaker 3: he said everything you wanted to hear. We got ben 162 00:08:46,679 --> 00:08:49,720 Speaker 3: together eight months ago, and I'm pregnant he seemed to 163 00:08:49,720 --> 00:08:52,520 Speaker 3: be so happy when I told him, he said we 164 00:08:52,559 --> 00:08:54,160 Speaker 3: would have my dream wedding. 165 00:08:56,120 --> 00:08:57,600 Speaker 2: But all that's on whole now. 166 00:08:57,800 --> 00:09:00,200 Speaker 3: You know why because a week ago he went to 167 00:09:00,280 --> 00:09:03,600 Speaker 3: visit his youngest son and we were on FaceTime as 168 00:09:03,600 --> 00:09:06,800 Speaker 3: he drove. When he got out the car, he thought 169 00:09:06,840 --> 00:09:08,640 Speaker 3: he had hung up, and he must have thrown his 170 00:09:08,640 --> 00:09:12,920 Speaker 3: phone in his pocket. You heard a female moumling, and 171 00:09:13,200 --> 00:09:15,600 Speaker 3: you clearly heard her ask if he had a condom. 172 00:09:16,160 --> 00:09:18,240 Speaker 2: Then I heard a lot of moaning. I hung up 173 00:09:18,280 --> 00:09:19,440 Speaker 2: and I got physically ill. 174 00:09:19,960 --> 00:09:24,800 Speaker 3: When he came back, he go to other mistaken I 175 00:09:24,880 --> 00:09:28,920 Speaker 3: did not let him know what I heard. Now I'm 176 00:09:28,960 --> 00:09:32,679 Speaker 3: about to deliver his fourth child. He's still a liar 177 00:09:32,720 --> 00:09:35,320 Speaker 3: and a Cheatah has been that the entire time. 178 00:09:36,320 --> 00:09:38,000 Speaker 2: And I don't want to be a single parent. What 179 00:09:38,040 --> 00:09:38,760 Speaker 2: should I do now? 180 00:09:38,880 --> 00:09:41,640 Speaker 3: So, young lady, you don't want to be a single parent, 181 00:09:41,760 --> 00:09:46,000 Speaker 3: So the only other option is this. You can get 182 00:09:46,120 --> 00:09:53,559 Speaker 3: married and ruin your entire remaining life by being married 183 00:09:53,640 --> 00:09:59,400 Speaker 3: to this liar and this cheater. All you could take 184 00:09:59,440 --> 00:10:05,800 Speaker 3: this blessed this baby. Learn from your mistakes. Never allow 185 00:10:05,880 --> 00:10:12,240 Speaker 3: another person to walk over you. Take your child, raise him, 186 00:10:12,480 --> 00:10:15,280 Speaker 3: and then wait on your real love of your life 187 00:10:15,320 --> 00:10:19,400 Speaker 3: to come along. You're still young. You're still young. This 188 00:10:19,440 --> 00:10:22,320 Speaker 3: is not the end of the world for you. The 189 00:10:22,400 --> 00:10:23,640 Speaker 3: baby is not a mistake. 190 00:10:24,320 --> 00:10:24,680 Speaker 2: It's not. 191 00:10:25,280 --> 00:10:30,200 Speaker 3: The baby is fine. The baby will you'll You'll be fine. 192 00:10:30,280 --> 00:10:33,200 Speaker 3: You will manage, just like every other single parent does. 193 00:10:34,440 --> 00:10:38,800 Speaker 3: Do not marry this man. Now he gonna have to 194 00:10:38,840 --> 00:10:41,560 Speaker 3: get his But it's not up you. It's not up 195 00:10:41,559 --> 00:10:44,040 Speaker 3: to you to give it to it. Let me tell 196 00:10:44,080 --> 00:10:48,559 Speaker 3: you something, ladies, y'all waste a lot of time being scorn, 197 00:10:48,880 --> 00:10:52,880 Speaker 3: and I do understand it, and I ain't saying it shouldn't. 198 00:10:52,520 --> 00:10:53,040 Speaker 2: Be that way. 199 00:10:53,120 --> 00:10:55,959 Speaker 3: Because you hurt, you hurt. He'll have no fury like 200 00:10:56,000 --> 00:10:57,640 Speaker 3: a woman scorn. I used to think it was a 201 00:10:57,640 --> 00:10:59,880 Speaker 3: Bible verse. I swear to God I did. I thought 202 00:11:00,000 --> 00:11:03,679 Speaker 3: it was a Bible verse. It's not, but it sounds 203 00:11:03,760 --> 00:11:06,640 Speaker 3: so true. And they use the word scorn. Scorn is 204 00:11:06,640 --> 00:11:09,959 Speaker 3: a biblical term. That's why I thought it was a 205 00:11:09,960 --> 00:11:10,680 Speaker 3: Bible verse. 206 00:11:11,360 --> 00:11:13,240 Speaker 2: But it's not. So. 207 00:11:13,320 --> 00:11:16,440 Speaker 3: Now you have it, you have a decision to make. 208 00:11:17,240 --> 00:11:21,120 Speaker 3: Cut your losses from this man. Stop giving yourself to 209 00:11:21,200 --> 00:11:25,600 Speaker 3: this man. Stop thinking you can change this man, Stop 210 00:11:25,640 --> 00:11:27,120 Speaker 3: hoping this man changes. 211 00:11:28,200 --> 00:11:29,600 Speaker 2: You may have been the love. 212 00:11:29,800 --> 00:11:32,320 Speaker 3: He may have been the love of your life, but 213 00:11:32,440 --> 00:11:34,760 Speaker 3: listen to me, young sister, you have never been the 214 00:11:34,840 --> 00:11:36,840 Speaker 3: love of his life ever. 215 00:11:37,400 --> 00:11:38,720 Speaker 1: He knows nothing about it. 216 00:11:39,000 --> 00:11:42,880 Speaker 3: And you are not now, so let God handle him. 217 00:11:43,000 --> 00:11:47,240 Speaker 3: Oh please know he got his coming. Ladies, dudes that 218 00:11:47,360 --> 00:11:49,520 Speaker 3: do like this, they don't get away scot free. 219 00:11:49,559 --> 00:11:51,160 Speaker 2: I'm just why. I just need you to know that. 220 00:11:51,800 --> 00:11:55,000 Speaker 1: And he'll probably have more kids with other women. 221 00:11:56,000 --> 00:11:57,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean a lot of stuff gonna happen, but 222 00:11:57,720 --> 00:11:59,480 Speaker 2: it don't need to happen in your face though. 223 00:11:59,559 --> 00:12:00,400 Speaker 1: Nope, nope. 224 00:12:00,679 --> 00:12:04,079 Speaker 3: You could take your baby and get along and start over. 225 00:12:04,120 --> 00:12:07,920 Speaker 3: And it happens all the time. There are men who 226 00:12:07,960 --> 00:12:13,559 Speaker 3: accept women who have children with open arms, become great fathers, 227 00:12:13,720 --> 00:12:18,120 Speaker 3: great families, They adopted kids, the kids take their nail. 228 00:12:18,160 --> 00:12:21,760 Speaker 3: All types of stuff happened. Don't think it's hopeless for you. 229 00:12:22,160 --> 00:12:24,960 Speaker 3: But please do not let your yearning not to be 230 00:12:25,040 --> 00:12:27,960 Speaker 3: a single parent, wanting not to be a single parent, 231 00:12:28,320 --> 00:12:30,839 Speaker 3: be in your decision in fact of whether you marry 232 00:12:30,880 --> 00:12:37,040 Speaker 3: this worthless, no good human being. For don't compound your mistakes. 233 00:12:38,040 --> 00:12:42,080 Speaker 3: Your mistake was taking him back. Don't compound it by 234 00:12:42,160 --> 00:12:48,000 Speaker 3: keeping him. Let it go, little girl, Uncle Steve telling 235 00:12:48,040 --> 00:12:53,880 Speaker 3: you walk off, cut your losses, tell him what you 236 00:12:54,040 --> 00:12:57,640 Speaker 3: know so he know, and go on about your. 237 00:12:57,559 --> 00:13:01,120 Speaker 1: Best Steve, thank you. 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