WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: Convention Slut

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<v Speaker 1>Brooking jewels second day. Business conventions are good for three reasons. One,

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<v Speaker 1>you get to learn new techniques about whatever industry that

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<v Speaker 1>you're in, maybe help you increase your business. Number two

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<v Speaker 1>of the sex, and then number three the sex are

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<v Speaker 1>the three reasons that business conventions are really really good.

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<v Speaker 1>Meaningtime you meet somebody at a convention, you just assume

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<v Speaker 1>you're probably gonna be having sex with him. Why are

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<v Speaker 1>you in the porn industry? Like everybody knows that about

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<v Speaker 1>business conventions. It's like you're in town for one night,

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<v Speaker 1>you're for the weekend, and you're just there and you

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<v Speaker 1>go and you learn whatever it is that you have

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<v Speaker 1>to learn for the day. Then you got drinking at

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<v Speaker 1>night and usually probably hook up with somebody. And that's

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<v Speaker 1>where James, who's on the phone today, he met the

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<v Speaker 1>girl that he wants to call at a business convention.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm assuming that they slept together, did you, James?

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<v Speaker 1>We did not? What are you doing? Man? Come on,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a convention girl. They're so easy, I guess. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know if that's true yet. Is that the way

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<v Speaker 1>it is? You know what? I haven't been to a

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<v Speaker 1>business convention in a long time, so was it in

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<v Speaker 1>a marketing company for like a couple of years, and

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<v Speaker 1>it was terrible. But that's what I remember always thinking

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<v Speaker 1>every time I had to go to convention, was like,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna get lucky. Did you ever myself? That's just

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<v Speaker 1>so there's no fact at all to what you're saying.

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<v Speaker 1>Our business convention is like what I think they are.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, Uh, it's a lot of people. We're trapped

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<v Speaker 1>in space, you know. Yeah, when you get out, I

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<v Speaker 1>guess things could happen. It happened for me this time.

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<v Speaker 1>But you know, why don't you tell us a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit about the girl that you want to call today? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>her name is Kia. We met at a convention. Really

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<v Speaker 1>come in at interesting you met at a convention convention? Shock? Right?

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<v Speaker 1>I come in from town every couple of weeks. That's

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<v Speaker 1>where I met her and we just kind of hit

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<v Speaker 1>it off. Have you ever seen her before or no? No,

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<v Speaker 1>this is my first time seeing her. Was that this

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<v Speaker 1>specific convention. Did you guys actually go at on a

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<v Speaker 1>date or did you just hang out all day at

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<v Speaker 1>the convention? Well, we like hung out and then I said,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, hey, do you want to grab you know,

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<v Speaker 1>some dinner tonight. I'm leaving in tomorrow if you want

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<v Speaker 1>to grab dinner tonight, And she said, yeah, was it?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, was it clear that it was a date?

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<v Speaker 1>Because I feel like if you're hanging out all day

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<v Speaker 1>with business people, it could just be like, hey, we're

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<v Speaker 1>both from out of town, we both have to go

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<v Speaker 1>out to eat. That's when the sex happened. Oh of course. Sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>Have you never been in business before ever? Apparently not.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you knew that this was more than a

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<v Speaker 1>dinner date, and you know, honestly, I was kind of

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<v Speaker 1>hoping that we would end up having a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>of sex maybe at the end of the night. You go,

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<v Speaker 1>I actually knew that already because I read your email

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<v Speaker 1>and it says at one point you started actually asking

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<v Speaker 1>her about getting physical with each other. Yeah, after a

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<v Speaker 1>few drinks that I did. Oh, that sounds so awkward

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<v Speaker 1>to me. Well, I mean we had we're having a

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<v Speaker 1>couple of drinks and I felt comfortable. I felt like

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<v Speaker 1>she was comfortable too, so I you know, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>it wasn't I got to look back at it. It

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<v Speaker 1>was not the kind of move I should have made.

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<v Speaker 1>How did you approach that with her? Though? What'd you say.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I was just like, how about you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I got my room key hotels right next door. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>I was trying to be sly and it was not sly.

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<v Speaker 1>What did she say to you back? She kind of

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<v Speaker 1>got a little uncomfortable and was like ready to go.

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<v Speaker 1>And I felt awful. You know, I'm a human, and

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<v Speaker 1>I offered to walk her back to her hotel and

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<v Speaker 1>she said no, no thanks and got a cab and

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<v Speaker 1>I just went back to my place. And you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I tried to reach out because I felt bad, and

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<v Speaker 1>I haven't heard from her. What do you do about

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<v Speaker 1>trying to reach out? You text her or call her? Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I sent her a text. Let's seems to

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<v Speaker 1>be the easiest way to get a hold of her,

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<v Speaker 1>and I haven't heard anything. I think the problem was

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<v Speaker 1>that you actually asked her to like go to your hotel.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, everybody knows the way you approach that is

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<v Speaker 1>you just slide your room ki across the table and

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<v Speaker 1>a wink three times and then you go uh huh,

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<v Speaker 1>and then she'll just pick up on that hint. I mean, like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, like all joking, decide I really really like

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<v Speaker 1>this girl, and I mean That's why I wrote in

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<v Speaker 1>because I want to try to make this happen, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>So do you want to apologize to her for being

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<v Speaker 1>a maybe a little too forward and then ask her

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<v Speaker 1>for a second date. Absolutely, I want to apologize and

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<v Speaker 1>I want to see if, you know, if I can't

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<v Speaker 1>get a second chance. You know, you feel like she's

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<v Speaker 1>got the wrong impression. Yeah, you know that's like, that's

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<v Speaker 1>not really me, that's not really you. But if she

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<v Speaker 1>would have said yes to going back to your done

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<v Speaker 1>it right, So it's you sometimes, So sometimes that's really you.

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<v Speaker 1>But you would actually like to date her. I mean

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<v Speaker 1>there's two sides each person, right, Yeah, before all that happened,

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<v Speaker 1>I really do think we had an actual connection and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm very interested and attracted to her. So you think

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<v Speaker 1>you just messed up by trying to get it back

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<v Speaker 1>to your room same night that you totally messed up.

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<v Speaker 1>I totally miss I mean we were drinking, and yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean you know how it is he takes signs

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<v Speaker 1>that might not be there, you know. Yeah, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>well we'll play a song, come back, call her and

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<v Speaker 1>get your second date update. All right, all right, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>hang on looking jubil in the morning, we've got James

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone with us, and today he wants to

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<v Speaker 1>call a girl named Kiara. They met at a convention.

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<v Speaker 1>He thinks he screwed up their first date because during

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<v Speaker 1>dinner he asked her if she wanted to go back

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<v Speaker 1>to his hotel room not to like check out the

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<v Speaker 1>great deal on Wi Fi, that they have their great

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<v Speaker 1>amenities to do stuff that adults do with each other

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<v Speaker 1>in hotel rooms on occasion. And she turned him down

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<v Speaker 1>and said no and hasn't talked to him since. But

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<v Speaker 1>he'd liked to get her on the phone because they

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<v Speaker 1>met at this convention. He's in town once in a while.

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<v Speaker 1>He wants to go out with her again, like on

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<v Speaker 1>an actual date and not just try to, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>get some butts one sexy way to put it. James'll say, no,

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<v Speaker 1>you're not ready to give her a call and see

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<v Speaker 1>if you can do some damage control and get another date.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's see what happened, all right. You know the tough

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<v Speaker 1>part about this for you is convincing her that you're

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<v Speaker 1>not just interested in sex, right because you already went there,

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<v Speaker 1>So how do you go back and be like, no,

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<v Speaker 1>I promise that wasn't the only thing that I'm interested in.

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<v Speaker 1>I would actually like to date you. Charm. Yeah, maybe

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<v Speaker 1>you think you have some of that, James. Well, I

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<v Speaker 1>guess we'll find out today. If you had charm, you

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<v Speaker 1>would have been able to get her to go back

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<v Speaker 1>to your room. You wouldn't even be having this problem. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess it's the power of persuasion. But I think

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<v Speaker 1>I think just be honest and true to yourself, James,

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<v Speaker 1>is probably the best goal here. Okay. Yeah, I'll just

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<v Speaker 1>I mean apologize and let her know that I was

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<v Speaker 1>just too forward and see if we can't, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>go back and try it again and sure who I

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<v Speaker 1>really am? Okay? Cool. Well, I'm gonna do the phone

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<v Speaker 1>right now and get her on the phone. You're ready,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, let's do it. Okay. Hello? Oh can I

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<v Speaker 1>speak to Kara? Please speaking? Hi Kara. This is Jewel

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<v Speaker 1>from Brook and Jewil in the Morning. How are you?

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<v Speaker 1>This is who? Jebil from Brooke and Jewil in the Morning. Jebil,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry, I don't know who this is. Okay, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>calling from Brooke and Jewel in the Morning. It's a

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<v Speaker 1>radio show, Okay. One of our listeners recently emailed us

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<v Speaker 1>about you, asking if we could get you on the phone.

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<v Speaker 1>Someone wants me on the phone? Yes, sort of. We

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<v Speaker 1>do a segment on our show called the Second Date Update.

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<v Speaker 1>It's basically, if you go out on a date with

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<v Speaker 1>somebody and then blow them off, they email us and

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<v Speaker 1>ask if we can get you on the phone and

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<v Speaker 1>ask if they did something wrong? Who would do that?

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<v Speaker 1>His name is James and you recently met him at

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<v Speaker 1>a convention. God really yep? James emailed us and asked

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<v Speaker 1>if we get a hold of you because you're apparently

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<v Speaker 1>not answering any of his text messages. Did you like

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<v Speaker 1>James at all? Well? I liked him on our date

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<v Speaker 1>until the very end. But no, are you talking about

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<v Speaker 1>the point where he asked if you want to go

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<v Speaker 1>back to his hotel room? He told you that, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he did. Yea. He told us because we asked him

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<v Speaker 1>about your date and about meeting you. He said that

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<v Speaker 1>he really liked you, but he also felt like he

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<v Speaker 1>kind of overstepped his bounds there and he felt bad

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<v Speaker 1>about it. He kind of overstepped his boundary. Did he

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<v Speaker 1>tell you everything? That's all I know is that you

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<v Speaker 1>guys met at a convention went out for dinner, and

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<v Speaker 1>he asked you to go back to his room, and

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<v Speaker 1>that's the last yard from you. That's all he told us. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so did he tell you towards the end of dinner?

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<v Speaker 1>And I understand we've both had a couple of drinks,

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<v Speaker 1>but did he tell you that he'd said to me, Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I'm in town every couple of weeks, and

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<v Speaker 1>I would love to have you as my friend with benefits.

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<v Speaker 1>That is seriously what he propositioned you. He was already

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<v Speaker 1>trying to get me back to his place that night,

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<v Speaker 1>which I have to hear it out. Yeah, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not to do that. It's not my first convention.

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<v Speaker 1>But just be like, hey, baby, I'm in found every

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<v Speaker 1>couple of weeks. Be my regular friends of Benniff. What

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<v Speaker 1>the hell is that all? Is that really how he

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<v Speaker 1>said it, because that's not how he explained it to

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<v Speaker 1>us at all. Well, I'm sure he's being all sweet

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<v Speaker 1>when he explains it to you guys. He doesn't want

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<v Speaker 1>to sound like a son. I mean when I said no,

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<v Speaker 1>because seriously, I've known him over a dinner for maybe

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<v Speaker 1>an hour and a half. Yeah, he accused me of

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<v Speaker 1>being a prude. No he didn't. He sure did. How

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<v Speaker 1>did he say that? So wired? Because I value myself

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<v Speaker 1>as a human being, not just as a woman, but

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<v Speaker 1>as a human being. He just doesn't want to spread

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<v Speaker 1>my legs over cheap wine. And she says, what did

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<v Speaker 1>he say to you? I mean, did he's flat out

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<v Speaker 1>call you a prude? He did. He called me a

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<v Speaker 1>trude to dinner and that was that. And then there

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<v Speaker 1>I got up and I went to go get a cat,

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<v Speaker 1>so back to my hotel. That is so like the

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<v Speaker 1>way he painted it was how much he enjoyed your

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<v Speaker 1>company and how great he thought you were. Like I

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<v Speaker 1>would have never guessed he was that sleazy. I would

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<v Speaker 1>have never thought he was that sleazy when he so

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<v Speaker 1>very nicely asked me out after we hung out all day.

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<v Speaker 1>But as it turns out, he's no different than the

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<v Speaker 1>majority of the slee falls who go to these conventions

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<v Speaker 1>that are like, hey, time to hook up, wife, not around.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, they're all hit Does this happen a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of conventions? Oh my god, yeah. I mean everyone who's

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<v Speaker 1>ever been to a convention knows it's just like one.

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<v Speaker 1>I was joking about that earlier. We were talking about it,

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<v Speaker 1>and I was like, that's the way at least I

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<v Speaker 1>would think of conventions. Wait, I mean, I guess you

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<v Speaker 1>get a bunch of horny businessmen out there. Is this

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<v Speaker 1>the first time something like this has happened to you? Actually,

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<v Speaker 1>it is, because this is the first time I've ever

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<v Speaker 1>said yes to going to dinner with anyone. Yeah. Normally

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<v Speaker 1>I just go, I do my thing, I hang out

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<v Speaker 1>with whoever's there, and I just go back to my

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<v Speaker 1>hotel room and go to bed. Yeah. So he told

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<v Speaker 1>us that he tried to text you after your date.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, he sure did. Oh did he not just

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<v Speaker 1>apologize in his text? No? No? No, Oh, I mean

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<v Speaker 1>he did. He's like, listen, I'm sorry if things got

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<v Speaker 1>out of hand. And I wrote him back, I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>just don't contact me ever again. And then the guy

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<v Speaker 1>has evolves to say, well, you don't know what you're

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<v Speaker 1>missing with this, and I'm like, he really said that

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<v Speaker 1>to you? He really? I still have the text message.

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<v Speaker 1>He left all of that out. It didn't. From his

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<v Speaker 1>side of the story, it sounds like he was very

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<v Speaker 1>sweet to you after, like I really apologize for asking

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<v Speaker 1>you go to back to my room. That was so

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<v Speaker 1>wrong of me. Wouldn't you love to just kind of

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<v Speaker 1>talk to him about it? Though, actually I really wouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>like to talk to him about it. I hope I

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<v Speaker 1>never talk to him or see him again at all.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a shame because he's on the phone listening right now.

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<v Speaker 1>He wants to talk to you. What. Yeah, No, I

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<v Speaker 1>seriously am not over exaggerating. I have those text messages.

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<v Speaker 1>It's that you sent me and you're like a foul

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<v Speaker 1>craft pig, and I don't worry and hear it. Please,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, just just hang on one second, right, I

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<v Speaker 1>apologize for these text messages and you know like it

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<v Speaker 1>it isn't really me. But at the same time, we

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<v Speaker 1>were both drinking a lot. I don't remember sending you

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<v Speaker 1>that text lesson. I remember apologizing, but I don't remember

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<v Speaker 1>saying anything about my I thought it was just another

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<v Speaker 1>piece of proof I would have discussing, pig that you

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<v Speaker 1>are that I saved it, showed it to all the

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<v Speaker 1>women that I know that are going to the convention

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<v Speaker 1>in a week, to make sure that they didn't as

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<v Speaker 1>much as even say hello to you. But you know what,

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<v Speaker 1>you were the one that went out with me. Didn't

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<v Speaker 1>you just say that you knew that these conventions were

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<v Speaker 1>all about, and yet you came out to dinner with me.

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<v Speaker 1>On me, why I went out to dare with you.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't go back to your hotel with you and

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<v Speaker 1>then suddenly become a fruit. There's a big difference. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>but here's the deal. You got me going you We

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<v Speaker 1>were there together, and then all of sudden you gonna

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<v Speaker 1>walk away. That sounds with a fruit to me. We

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<v Speaker 1>were drinking, you were flirting, you were trying to get

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<v Speaker 1>me going, and you got me going. James, Why do

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<v Speaker 1>you have to say it like that? Stop? It's true

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<v Speaker 1>you did it for me. Oh my god, Seriously, you guys,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm so sick of this side. He's a cake. If

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<v Speaker 1>you can't tell that all of your delusion, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think anybody liked outs that. Everybody's on your side with

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<v Speaker 1>this one. Kia. Once I heard the phrase got me

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<v Speaker 1>going a few times in there, I'm on board. Hey Carrott, regardless,

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<v Speaker 1>would you like to go out with James again on

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<v Speaker 1>a second date. I'd love to pay for it. No, No,

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<v Speaker 1>what if we don't get him going? Is bad? I

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<v Speaker 1>would sooner so out with my dog. Yeah, yeah, you

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<v Speaker 1>know whatever, you proved you learn how to throw your

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<v Speaker 1>signals out. Yeah. Yeah, it's definitely fault. Don't get a

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<v Speaker 1>prostitute next time, honey. Well, you know there's not a

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<v Speaker 1>convention coming up. I'll see what I can do. Now.

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<v Speaker 1>You guys got me going with that whole process, dude.

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<v Speaker 1>And when you got me going, you got me going broken.

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<v Speaker 1>Jupil in the morning,