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Speaker 1: sits right. But but but but it's it's a fraud

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Speaker 1: because I'm sitting on a couch right now. That is

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Speaker 1: you know, it's the it's the Anna wind Tours speech

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Speaker 1: in Devilware's product. To be honest, I'm sitting on a

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Speaker 1: couch right now where Miranda Priestley Miranda Priestle's speech by

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Speaker 1: by Meryl Street. I'm sitting at a couch. It's like

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Speaker 1: a linen. It's somewhat looks like a slipcover. It's probably

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Speaker 1: inspired by a restoration hardware. I don't think it's a dupe,

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Speaker 1: but I'm sure that the reason this couch was designed

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Speaker 1: was because of restoration hardware, so we're all part of it.

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Speaker 1: I guess it's just calling things a complete exact knock off.

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Speaker 1: Maybe that loves me the wrong way, and I don't know.

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Speaker 1: What do you think