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Speaker 1: Time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need

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Speaker 1: hear it right here, right now, it could be yours.

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Speaker 1: You never know. Buggle up and hold on tight. We

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Speaker 1: got it for you. Here it is. It's a Strawberry letter.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, nephew. Subjects in between Lovers. In between Lovers

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Speaker 1: is our subject. Dear Stephen Shirley's I'm a thirty four

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Speaker 1: year old woman and I'm married. I found the man

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Speaker 1: of my dreams and he's treated me like a queen

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Speaker 1: since the beginning of our courtship. We've been married almost

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Speaker 1: a year. Until recently, my life and marriage were great.

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Speaker 1: He's in his late forties and he's having issues with

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Speaker 1: high blood pressure, so his doctor put him on a

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Speaker 1: high dose of medication. Because of all the medicine, our

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Speaker 1: sex life sucks. He has to get really worked up

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Speaker 1: to get it started, and then it's over for him

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Speaker 1: at the blink of an eye. I lost all hope

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Speaker 1: when his doctor said he'd need to be on the

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Speaker 1: medication indefinitely. He has the medication for erectile dysfunction, but

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Speaker 1: he refuses to take it because he's gotten excited at

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Speaker 1: the wrong time. I had to suffer without sex for

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Speaker 1: a while, but then the unthinkable happened. My husband's twenty

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Speaker 1: eight year old son is a personal trainer and he's

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Speaker 1: got muscles that pop out all over his creamy chocolate body.

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Speaker 1: He also has twists in his hair, and since I

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Speaker 1: was a hairstylist for years, I help him by retwisting

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Speaker 1: his hair when needed. He'd usually come over in the

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Speaker 1: morning after his dad went to work. He's always been

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Speaker 1: a little firtatious, and I'm sure he could sense that

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Speaker 1: I was attracted to him. He finally admitted that he

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Speaker 1: fantasizes about his sexy stepmother seducing him, and he suggests

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Speaker 1: we role play. I was so turned on and in

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Speaker 1: need of sex that I played along with him. We

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Speaker 1: have the most amazing sex and have been sneaking around

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Speaker 1: for two months. I've got the best of both worlds,

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Speaker 1: with a husband that spoils me and my stepson that

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Speaker 1: pleases me. I'm just doing this until my husband gets

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Speaker 1: his mojo back. Do you think I should have a

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Speaker 1: talk with my stepson or do you think he's just

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Speaker 1: in it for the sex too? Please advise, well, talk

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Speaker 1: to him about what? What are you talking to him about?

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Speaker 1: And yes, of course he's just in it for the sex.

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Speaker 1: You're his dad's wife, and what does it matter what

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Speaker 1: the reason is anyway? I mean, you're sleeping with your stepson. Okay, hello,

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Speaker 1: you're sleeping with your stepson. You can't rationalize this, you

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Speaker 1: can't excuse this. You can't act like this is a

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Speaker 1: normal affair. You're not even having a normal affair. You're

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Speaker 1: sleeping with your husband's son. Come on, both of you.

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Speaker 1: Both of you are really low for doing this to

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Speaker 1: your husband and his father. Your man has a medical issue, Okay,

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Speaker 1: that's what that is, and this is how you help him.

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Speaker 1: This is your version of being the supportive wife to

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Speaker 1: sleep with his son and gloat about it to us.

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Speaker 1: My husband spoils me. Oh no, she said, I have

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Speaker 1: the best of both worlds. My husband spoils me and

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Speaker 1: my stepson pleases me. That sounds crazy and how selfish

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Speaker 1: of you. I mean, this is not a movie, this

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Speaker 1: is real life. What you're doing is really not cool.

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Speaker 1: You know, if you guys slipped up and your husband

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Speaker 1: found out about this, this would tear him apart. He's

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Speaker 1: already going through enough. I think he would be as mad.

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Speaker 1: I don't think he would be as mad. I should say,

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Speaker 1: if you did go out and had like a normal affair,

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Speaker 1: of course he'd be mad. But with his son, that's unthinkable.

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Speaker 1: I'm not telling you to do that, of course, to

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Speaker 1: go out and have any kind of a fair But

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Speaker 1: what I'm saying is that you should encourage your husband

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Speaker 1: maybe to get a second opinion, get a third opinion,

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Speaker 1: you know, seek some natural methods or something, some alternative

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Speaker 1: solutions to get your husband's blood pressure down. In the meantime,

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Speaker 1: you're gonna have to break it off with Junior, because

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Speaker 1: that's a go nowhere situation that's going to hurt everyone. Steve, Wow,

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Speaker 1: this letter is filled with nothing but triflingness. I mean,

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Speaker 1: there's no there's no redeeming quality in this letter at all.

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Speaker 1: I've never been so disappointed it. Well, I can't say

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Speaker 1: that I'm just the whole letter. It's just trifling. First

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Speaker 1: of all, she's thirty four, her husband is in his

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Speaker 1: late forties. Let's say forty eight is late forty nine.

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Speaker 1: It's late okay, forty eight forty nine, that's late forty

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Speaker 1: you're the man of your dreams. Treat you like a

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Speaker 1: tween a queen. Since the beginning of our court, we've

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Speaker 1: been married almost a year a year one year, and

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Speaker 1: until recently my life in marriage were great. It's just

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Speaker 1: been a year. You go digging low down, no good

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Speaker 1: winch a year. Man, it's just winch is winch, but

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Speaker 1: winch is when you're from the country, just a no

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Speaker 1: good woman. You know, without using no other words, just

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Speaker 1: to no good chick. You get treated like a queen

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Speaker 1: and up and you've been the beginning of that court.

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Speaker 1: We've been married almost a year, and until recently, my

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Speaker 1: life in marriage were great. He's as late fearn as.

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Speaker 1: He's having issues with high blood pressure, so it's doctor

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Speaker 1: to put him on a high dose of medication. Because

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Speaker 1: of all his medication, our sex life sucks. He gotta

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Speaker 1: get really rucked up to get it started, and then

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Speaker 1: it's over him at the blink of an eye. I

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Speaker 1: lost all hope when the doctor said he'd be needed

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Speaker 1: a medication in definitely, So you lost all hope in

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Speaker 1: a year. Why was you in it in the first place? Yo, Yo,

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Speaker 1: vials ain't deaf? Do us part meant nothing? Seeking in

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Speaker 1: his health meant no. It ain't even been a year,

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Speaker 1: and yo, trifling behind. I ain't even told the people

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Speaker 1: what you did yet he got a reptile just function.

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Speaker 1: Oh boy, oh son. We'll get back to the wine

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Speaker 1: all right. We'll have part two of Steve's response coming

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Speaker 1: up at twenty three minutes after the hour. Today's Strawberry

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Speaker 1: Letters subjects in between lovers. That's all she cares about.

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Speaker 1: We'll get back into it right after this. You're listening to,

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Speaker 1: all right, Come on, Steve, let's recap today's strawberry letter.

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Speaker 1: This subject is in between lovers. This girl, thirty four

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Speaker 1: year old trifling woman married. Now, she hadn't wrote this letter.

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Speaker 1: She didn't found the man of her dreams. Treat her

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Speaker 1: like a queen, and it's been the queen since the

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Speaker 1: beginning by a core show. Now they've been married almost

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Speaker 1: a year. And then your life and marriage were great.

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Speaker 1: He's in his late forties and he's having issues with

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Speaker 1: high blood so the doctor put him on a high

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Speaker 1: dose medication because of all the medicine. Our sex life sucks.

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Speaker 1: It's been a year, it's been one year, and this

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Speaker 1: trifling woman right here. He got to really get worked

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Speaker 1: up to get his start, and then this over for

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Speaker 1: him at the blink of an eye. I lost all

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Speaker 1: hope when the doctor said he needed to be on

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Speaker 1: the medication indefinitely. That's not true. High blood you can.

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Speaker 1: You can help change your high blood with food. You

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Speaker 1: can change high blood with food. I know for a witness.

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Speaker 1: I am a living with this to this that I

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Speaker 1: was given a diagnosis of going into high blood and

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Speaker 1: I was put on a low dose of high blood.

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Speaker 1: I no longer take it, and I did it with

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Speaker 1: food and exercise. You can. You don't have to be

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Speaker 1: on that. I'm not saying high blood is not incurable,

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Speaker 1: but you have to make some drastic steps. You got

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Speaker 1: to get real holistic. His medication and so the doc

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Speaker 1: said he be on medication. At Devon, he has medication

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Speaker 1: for erectile dysfunction, but refuses to take it because he's

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Speaker 1: gotten excited at the wrong time. What wait a minute,

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Speaker 1: You got some medicine for erectile dysfunction and you don't

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Speaker 1: want to take it because you get in direction at

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Speaker 1: the wrong time where the wrong time is not the

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Speaker 1: right time for us to get on any hill. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I see it now, Yeah, the time is now. All

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Speaker 1: that stuff come with instructions, Yes, but they got some

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Speaker 1: stuff out there. Now, man, you can take in this instant.

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Speaker 1: You ain't got to wear about no timing. This, this

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Speaker 1: don't make no sense, this twenty twenty one. But nah,

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Speaker 1: he don't want to take it because it gets sex

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Speaker 1: after get excited at the wrong times. I've had to

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Speaker 1: suffer without sex for a while. But then the unthinkable happened.

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Speaker 1: Now see first right here, It wasn't unthinkable. This what

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Speaker 1: I'm about to share with y'all was not unthinkable. You

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Speaker 1: thought of this before. My husband's twenty eight year old

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Speaker 1: son is a personal train and he got muscles that

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Speaker 1: pop out all over his creamy chocolate body. He also

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Speaker 1: has twist in his hand, and since I was a

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Speaker 1: hand stylers for years, I used to help him about

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Speaker 1: retwisting his half when needed. He usually come over in

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Speaker 1: the morning after his dad and went to work. He's

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Speaker 1: always been a little flirtatious, and I'm sure he could

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Speaker 1: sense that I was attracted to him well. And then

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Speaker 1: then when you said earlier that the unthinkable happened. Who

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Speaker 1: who was you trying to fool in the letter, because

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Speaker 1: it wasn't even thinkable because Jeff from twisting his hair,

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Speaker 1: he could tell that you was attracted to him, see,

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Speaker 1: because you're thirty four and twenty eight year old dude

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Speaker 1: in his late forties. He finally admitted that he fantasizes

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Speaker 1: rolled play. You ain't have no problem. I was so

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Speaker 1: turned on and didn't need a sex that I played

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Speaker 1: along with him. We had the most amazing sex and

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Speaker 1: have been sneaking around for two months. I got the

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Speaker 1: best of both worlds with a husband that spoils me

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Speaker 1: and my stepson that pleases me. I'm just doing this

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Speaker 1: until my husband gets his mojo back. What wait a minute, see,

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Speaker 1: let me stay to him. Trifling. Yeah, you just said

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Speaker 1: it was gonna be in definitely and you've lost star hope.

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Speaker 1: So you're not doing this until your husband get his

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Speaker 1: mojo back. I don't know who you thought you wrote

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Speaker 1: this letter in team. You're doing it because you're trifling. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you're doing it because it's already been just a year

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Speaker 1: and your life is ruined. See, you can't be a

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Speaker 1: of circumstances on when the trifles is gonna surface. Trifling

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Speaker 1: people do trifling things all the time, all the time.

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Speaker 1: You can't put a time limit when your husband getting back.

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Speaker 1: That's not gonna stop you from being trifling. I got

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Speaker 1: news for you. You was trifling before your husband had

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Speaker 1: the rectile problem. Yeah, you've been trifling. See this just

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Speaker 1: bought it out. You married him because you was trifling,

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Speaker 1: because you was getting small and getting treated right, I'm

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Speaker 1: doing this until my husband getting him. Do you think

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Speaker 1: I should have a talk with my stepson, like Sherley said,

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Speaker 1: what you've been talking about? What is you're talking about?

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Speaker 1: Y'all ain't been talking y'all schooling? So what you want

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Speaker 1: to talk to him about? Do you think we should

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Speaker 1: have talking about SEPs or do you think he's just

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Speaker 1: in it for the sex too, in it for the

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Speaker 1: sex too? What you think it was? He told you

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Speaker 1: fantasized me. What you see? What you think is I'm

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Speaker 1: just doing as my husband. Do you think I should

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Speaker 1: he just send it for the sex, Please avide, lady,

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Speaker 1: listen to me, see what else could he be in

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Speaker 1: it for? Or do you think this could be more?

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Speaker 1: I'm telling you, this chick thinks it could be more.

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Speaker 1: That's why she want to have a talk with him,

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Speaker 1: to make see if he's just in it for the

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Speaker 1: sex too, or is he starting to have some feelings? Well,

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Speaker 1: because she gonna go with him exactly, exactly because all

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Speaker 1: hope is gone. His son ain't sugar hunted iced tea,

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Speaker 1: and his wife ain't gonna honey iced teeth. Bye for Lisha.

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