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Speaker 2: He offered up his body as an experiment for his

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Speaker 2: We talked about AI and all the subscription AI subscriptions

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Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't have one AI subscription? What am

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Speaker 3: Well, my best friend uses it for work, So I

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Speaker 3: have the password and I use it for everything. Right,

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Speaker 3: mean Instagram caption? Give me some, you know, fun things?

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Speaker 4: Would you tell?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, you can tell when it's definitely Instagram.

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Speaker 1: Our captions are written by AI.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, a lot of them.

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Speaker 3: I tweak them though, See that that's your first mistake

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Speaker 3: is that you went to tajibt. You typed one, you

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Speaker 1: But I don't.

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Speaker 2: If I'm doing that, I can just do it myself.

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Speaker 2: If I'm tweaking it. For having us on the radio,

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Speaker 2: on the iHeart app live and anytime search for the

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Speaker 2: Freends Show on demand. I got some. I got wedding news.

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Speaker 2: It's not my wedding news. No, sorry, my mom heard

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Speaker 2: that and burked up and sorryness that my it is

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Speaker 2: not my wedding news. I got two things. So, first

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Speaker 2: of all, when did it ever become a thing for

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Speaker 2: someone to propose at someone else's wedding?

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Speaker 1: What? Like?

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Speaker 2: When when did that ever become something that anyone thought

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Speaker 2: was a good idea? Because at a recent Jacksonville wedding,

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Speaker 2: a guest named Alissa her boyfriend Josh.

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Speaker 1: I love how now in.

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Speaker 2: These stories they put your full name, like, oh cool,

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Speaker 2: So now we can go to your LinkedIn find out

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Speaker 2: where you work and like harassed you there too, Like

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Speaker 2: then again, don't do this then you won't to have

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Speaker 2: the problem. So Josh, he's Alyssa's boyfriend. He dropped to

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Speaker 2: one knee and proposed right on the dance floor at

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Speaker 2: someone else's wedding without asking the bride or groom for permission.

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Speaker 2: The bride was caught off guard, where there was surprise

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Speaker 2: and supportive no he didn't ask, but say yes. The

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Speaker 1: Very heated debate. Critics slammed the move.

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Speaker 2: It's disrespectful, and attention grabbing, with some labeling it hillbilly

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Speaker 1: They argue that it overshadowed.

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Speaker 2: A couple of Special Day supporters saw it as spontaneous

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Speaker 2: and active love, noting that weddings are about celebrating unity. Yes,

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Speaker 2: the unity of the person who paid for the wedding,

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Speaker 2: not you. You do not get to use someone else's

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Speaker 4: Yeah, right, that's kind of what it is.

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Speaker 2: So I mean, like, what are people thinking, Like, in

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Speaker 2: what world has had a good idea? I'm honestly, I'm

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Speaker 2: a minute, I waited for this day. We planned it,

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Speaker 2: somehow try and make it about you, this about me today, Well,

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Speaker 2: really it's about you.

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Speaker 6: Know whoever I'm married, I know someone who shared their

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Speaker 6: engagement during the wedding weekend of someone else's And even

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Speaker 6: I think even that's like a little bit off, just

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Speaker 6: And so the group of friends were there and they

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Speaker 2: But I guess if you show up with a ring

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Speaker 2: and people are like, what's that? But then again, your

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Speaker 2: together for someone else's event, Like, the least you could do, like,

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Speaker 2: The least you could do is let everybody know before

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and I feel like I wouldn't even as somebody

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Speaker 4: I'd say no. So both sides be like, you're rude.

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Speaker 4: I don't want to mirror you. Yeah, I feel like

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Speaker 2: I mean, I'm curious quickly eight five three five Did

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Speaker 1: And then some of those people didn't show up.

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Speaker 2: because they you know, there were empty seats at this thing.

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Speaker 1: They paid for it. Either way, so they weren't happy either.

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Speaker 4: Oh, like emergency, like your arm fell off.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, your arm fell off, fell out of nowhere, you

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Speaker 6: Someone in one of the wedding parties, because that takes

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Speaker 6: I'm kidding, but it does make everybody talk the next morning,

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Speaker 2: I've been on both sides of that one where the breakfast,

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Speaker 2: All you guys are gonna love each other. She lives

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Speaker 2: We never met, you know it. It was just a

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Speaker 2: So yeah, the Sunday morning brunch could be a little awkward.

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Speaker 2: Oh boy, Paul, Paul, what have you done?

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Speaker 1: What did you?

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Speaker 8: Paul? Well, good morning, love you, love your chef.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, love you too, well, I love you too.

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Speaker 1: But what's this story? What did you do?

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Speaker 8: So I actually got engaged at my sister's wedding.

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Speaker 1: You better have a good reason for this.

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Speaker 8: I do, I do. I had planned it out with

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Speaker 2: I love you, Paul, But you went ahead and just

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Speaker 2: a ninety degree turn on someone else's wedding. Now, I

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Speaker 8: She would Okay, okay, all right. It was something that

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Speaker 1: So I mean you asked. You asked.

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Speaker 2: This person that we're talking about in the story didn't ask,

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Speaker 2: You did get permission.

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Speaker 1: So and I see the logic.

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Speaker 2: Everybody's there, you know, when when you're going to get everybody

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Speaker 2: So I see, I see where you're going. And it

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Speaker 2: was nice of you to ask for permission.

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Speaker 1: But I don't know that.

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Speaker 2: I think your sister is a very nice person, because

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Speaker 2: I think there are some people out there that would

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Speaker 8: You know, yes, absolutely, when I said, I do agree

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Speaker 1: Know you asked.

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Speaker 8: I did ask, And it wasn't like I said, hey,

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Speaker 8: you know what can I do this? It was a

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Speaker 8: proposing and when and that idea came up is totally destorative.

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Speaker 8: And then we you know doctor kerb soon to be

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Speaker 1: All right, well you you ran you ran it by it.

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Speaker 1: It's good. Paul. Hey, thanks for Sarah Man.

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Speaker 8: Have a good day.

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Speaker 1: Thank you you too.

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Speaker 2: What?

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Speaker 1: This is your wedding? Yes?

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Speaker 9: So this was my wedding. My mom had been having

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Speaker 4: That's good luck though, if that happens on your wedding day.

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Speaker 1: So you're going, wow, oh no, have you ever forgiven

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Speaker 2: Like? Have you have you guys discussed it? Are you talking?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I would imagine I would have that story alone

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Speaker 4: She's very nice?

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Speaker 2: I'm not I'm not a licensed psychologist, but I can

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Speaker 2: spot one when I hear it. Thank you, Seanny, have

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Speaker 2: a good day you thank you? Oh my god, that

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Speaker 2: is amazing. What is wrong with you?

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Speaker 4: I betrayal your own mom?

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Speaker 1: What is wrong with you?

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Speaker 1: This was planned.

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Speaker 2: I mean somebody went to FedEx Kinkos and got everything

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Speaker 2: So my thing is yeah, I mean of course, you

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Speaker 4: Oh? I love this, I think he this is chef's kiss.

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Speaker 7: This is how you expose somebody, and you build it

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Speaker 2: Now, except for the story that I would have had

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Speaker 1: Really, Mike, So wait a minute. You knew a week.

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Speaker 2: Ago when you were at you know, at Kinko's copies

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Speaker 1: You knew that.

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Speaker 2: And I still had to fly across the country to Tuscaloosa,

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Speaker 2: to know this wasn't gonna happen to be a big

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Speaker 2: the bar later. Yes, and it's a good story, but

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Speaker 2: I who does this actually make look worse though? I mean,

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Speaker 2: of course it's the cheater, But then this is pretty

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Speaker 2: like I don't know, this is like, this is not

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Speaker 1: Like Penny mad.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but how about just cancel the wedding, keep the

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Speaker 2: it's cost effective, and you're accomplishing the same thing. Oh no,

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Speaker 2: So you would have if this happened, and God forbid,

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Speaker 2: Big Tim were this guy, you would we'd all go

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Speaker 2: to your wedding. We'd have the flowers and the you know,

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Speaker 1: Oh yes, and then you'd blow it up.

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Speaker 7: Everybody's reacting at the same time. The bride is stunned,

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Speaker 7: this is this is phenomenal. I love it. Man, I

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Speaker 7: Really yeah, yeah, because I like to embarrassed people that

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Speaker 3: I mean, I'm marrying you, and it's it's my best

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Speaker 4: I know it's not great. My therapist doesn't like, let

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Speaker 4: I do that. But if I'm hurt, you're gonna be

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Speaker 4: hurt too.

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Speaker 1: Oh neat Well, okay, keeping very pretty.

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Speaker 4: I'm working on it.

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Speaker 8: Well.

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Speaker 2: And I guess you paid for everything, so like you know,

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Speaker 2: I mean, you're committed. I get I suppose, but again,

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Speaker 4: Right right, you would love this.

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Speaker 7: This is the best story, I guess, But I you know,

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Speaker 7: he can't pay for this type of entertainment, Like there's

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Speaker 7: no movie that would entertain you more than being at

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Speaker 4: You're like, what, And.

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Speaker 2: I'm not saying it's right, but sometimes I think the

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Speaker 2: It's like, so you took all that time and energy

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Speaker 1: But like you thought about it. Entertainment Report. He's on

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Speaker 6: I sold you yesterday that Lauren Hill hit the stage

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Speaker 4: In New Orleans, like two thirty in the morning.

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Speaker 6: Late, and by then most of the eighty three thousand

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Speaker 6: and I kind of agree.

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Speaker 4: But fans online were split.

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Speaker 4: The people who stayedly.

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Speaker 6: I think she ended up like three to three in

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Speaker 6: He struggles with tourettes, all kinds of things, which is

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Speaker 4: We haven't seen someone do that to my knowledge.

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Speaker 6: In lieu of summer and the fourth of July, a

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Speaker 4: That's the top ten.

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Speaker 6: However, Austin had the highest number of top rated barbecue restaurants,

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Speaker 4: Text me. Actually it text us if you know.

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Speaker 6: But speaking of the fourth too, Tom Brady was partying

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Speaker 6: on a yacht with newly single Dacota Johnson and Kate

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Speaker 6: Hudson in Abiza. So it was for someone's birthday. But

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Speaker 6: maybe maybe there's something there. I have no idea. I

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Speaker 2: Fred Show, good morning, Thanks for having us on the radio,

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Speaker 1: Man, you's so rude. Kiki did that. I can't believe you.

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Speaker 2: You hanging out with your rich sister in law trying

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Speaker 2: to do rich sister in law stuff. Oh yes, I

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Speaker 2: love how I ask you about stuff that you told

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Speaker 2: me about and then you're like, what are you talking about?

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Speaker 4: Yes, say, Kiki, you are so rude.

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Speaker 1: You are rude. Though you're rude, you're ridden.

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Speaker 2: You told so you you wanted to go get it

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Speaker 2: facial because you're trying to hang out. You're trying to

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Speaker 2: be like your rich sister in law. I'm trying trying

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Speaker 2: to yes, okay, And and so they gave you an

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Speaker 2: option when you win to get the facial.

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Speaker 10: Well I haven't gotten it yet. So oh, I see

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Speaker 10: I scheduled it. It looks like your skin looks flawless.

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Speaker 10: It looks like you did thank you booth. Yeah yeah,

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Speaker 10: I mean I could have it. Looks it's glowing as

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Speaker 10: though it already happened.

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Speaker 1: Thank you. So you're scheduling, and they give you some choices.

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Speaker 7: Yes, and on the like, they make you fill out

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Speaker 7: this very detailed intake form, almost like you're going to

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Speaker 7: a doctor's appointment.

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Speaker 4: When's the last time you had sex? Do you have?

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Speaker 2: You know? That's strains for official at least that yeah.

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Speaker 2: So yeah, that's a weird.

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't. Why are you asking me this right? Why

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Speaker 1: are you asking me none of your business?

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Speaker 4: I'm gonna say nothing.

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Speaker 2: No, It's like I'm a physician, fred No, I don't

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Speaker 2: care none of your business for a facial. They're asking

444
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Speaker 2: you all kinds of personal questions, probably not that.

445
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Speaker 1: One that all right?

446
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Speaker 7: Yes, And then on this intake form, it says, during

447
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Speaker 7: your appointment, would you like moderate talking, no talking, excessive talking,

448
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Speaker 7: like you know, lots of chatter and explanation of what

449
00:19:00,400 --> 00:19:03,840
Speaker 7: the services are happening to you and me, be and me.

450
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Speaker 7: After I get off this radio, I have no words.

451
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Speaker 7: So I'm like, oh, for sure, no talking. My sister

452
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Speaker 7: and I'm like, hey, you know, I filled it out

453
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Speaker 7: and I said, I've never seen a form.

454
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Speaker 4: That asks you how much do you want to talk?

455
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Speaker 7: And I said I went ahead and put no, and

456
00:19:17,800 --> 00:19:20,159
Speaker 7: my sister and law was like, oh, girl, like I

457
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Speaker 7: we chat the whole appointment.

458
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Speaker 4: She's really cool, she's really nice.

459
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Speaker 7: And now I feel like a jerk because when I

460
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Speaker 7: show up, the lady's going to be like hello and

461
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Speaker 7: just start.

462
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Speaker 4: She's not going to talk to me.

463
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Speaker 2: So yeah, well I don't probably talk to you. I'm

464
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Speaker 2: thinking she'll probably greet you. And I literally saying no talking,

465
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Speaker 2: be friendly. Well, because it's not supposed to be a

466
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Speaker 2: relaxing experience. I know some people do it for the esthetics.

467
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Speaker 2: Some people do it for the aesthetic and because it

468
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Speaker 2: feels good to them, right. I don't like people touching

469
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Speaker 2: me like that. So I don't do that kind of stuff,

470
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Speaker 2: but I I don't see a problem with that.

471
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Speaker 6: I like when there's like a set aside time for

472
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Speaker 6: the no talking, so at first they'll explain what they're

473
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Speaker 6: doing and what the benefits are, and then there's a

474
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Speaker 6: RelA exation part of the facial where they they they're

475
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Speaker 6: quiet for a little bit.

476
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Speaker 2: Because you could darn your fall asleep during those things.

477
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Speaker 2: When I have had them done and I'm not trying

478
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Speaker 2: to have a conversation with you, right, I'm not really good.

479
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Speaker 2: I wonder if the people, if you're somebody who gives

480
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Speaker 2: this kind of service a five, five, five, nine, one

481
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Speaker 2: oh three five, I kind of wonder if you're not

482
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Speaker 2: just then relieved when somebody says no talking, because that

483
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Speaker 2: means I don't have to say anything. We don't have

484
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Speaker 2: to do this. I don't really know you, so I

485
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Speaker 2: don't have to come up with questions. I don't have

486
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Speaker 2: to you know, I don't have to come up with hey,

487
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Speaker 2: So only think about the tariffs, you know.

488
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Speaker 1: I mean, I don't have to.

489
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Speaker 2: I don't have to say anything to you. So if anything,

490
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Speaker 2: you're probably doing this woman a favor. I don't think

491
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Speaker 2: she's going to take it personally at all at all

492
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Speaker 2: or man or whomever it is.

493
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Speaker 1: She can either be.

494
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Speaker 7: Like us where we won't you know, we don't mind

495
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Speaker 7: not talking, or she's Bella and Bella is offended because

496
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Speaker 7: I said, I don't want to telp. I'm nervous about

497
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Speaker 7: doing this service with this woman because sometimes the estheticians

498
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Speaker 7: want to explain every single step. You don't want that. No,

499
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Speaker 7: Like I don't care. I don't plan on leaving here

500
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Speaker 7: with the skin routine. Don't sell me your products. Let

501
00:21:04,880 --> 00:21:07,040
Speaker 7: me just come in here, get this little facial that

502
00:21:07,080 --> 00:21:09,120
Speaker 7: I save my opinions up for. I don't have money

503
00:21:09,160 --> 00:21:10,760
Speaker 7: for your skincare because you know they're going to try

504
00:21:10,760 --> 00:21:14,040
Speaker 7: to sell you. You know, I use this exfoliating moisturizer

505
00:21:14,359 --> 00:21:16,600
Speaker 7: with cream and your sigh if you don't buy it.

506
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Speaker 2: There's like water from the Amazon rainforest, like dripped off

507
00:21:21,280 --> 00:21:23,639
Speaker 2: a leaf or whatever. Yeah, it's like we collect this

508
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Speaker 2: one drop at a time in the middle of the rainforest.

509
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Speaker 4: You know, all my money on you and your tesl.

510
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Speaker 4: I don't want it.

511
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Speaker 11: Do you know what kind of facially you're getting, like

512
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Speaker 11: a hydrofacial. It's what she calls a starter facial. So

513
00:21:36,760 --> 00:21:39,600
Speaker 11: it's like a first time client and so I know

514
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Speaker 11: she's gonna come. She and tell me I'm very dehydrated

515
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Speaker 11: and I need to do this and that.

516
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Speaker 7: That's fine, just don't sell me nothing. I've already gave

517
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Speaker 7: you all my money to come.

518
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Speaker 1: I would think people would be relieved by this. I

519
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Speaker 1: think we all go.

520
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Speaker 2: I don't have to talk to you about anything, we

521
00:21:51,400 --> 00:21:53,800
Speaker 2: don't have to make small talk. The only thing i'd

522
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Speaker 2: want to know is if you're going to do something

523
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Speaker 2: that might be potentially painful, like those little extraction things

524
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Speaker 2: you do, Like I'd like a heads up for that, Like, hey,

525
00:22:00,320 --> 00:22:02,440
Speaker 2: but I'm gonna start picking up your face. You're like, okay,

526
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Speaker 2: so I can prepare myself mentally for the staff.

527
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Speaker 4: And please, yeah, please prepare me for that.

528
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Speaker 1: Yeah.

529
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Speaker 7: But if Bob's a decision, I would love my client

530
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Speaker 7: to say no talking. Jason and I actually had this

531
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Speaker 7: experience with Uber. He keeps getting Uber drivers that say

532
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Speaker 7: they are dead, yes, but when we get in the

533
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Speaker 7: car they're not dead.

534
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Speaker 12: Then stop it stop it on multitude of stop. It's like,

535
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Speaker 12: do you have a study like in your app that

536
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Speaker 12: only asks for like hearing drivers.

537
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Speaker 4: I was like, I don't think that's an option, because.

538
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Speaker 2: I think they do that so that you don't so

539
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Speaker 2: you're aware of it, you know, any kind of disability,

540
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Speaker 2: so that you're trying to get their attention or something

541
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Speaker 2: and they can't hear very well, then you don't feel

542
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Speaker 2: like they're being rude. But you're saying this is a

543
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Speaker 2: this is a strategy. I don't know, but it's an

544
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Speaker 2: experience that on there so they don't have to talk

545
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Speaker 2: to you. I mean, but I don't want to talk

546
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Speaker 2: to anyone because I am half deaf. Legally, I'm legal.

547
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Speaker 2: I'm truly one percent. My left ear does not work. Yeah,

548
00:22:56,080 --> 00:22:58,240
Speaker 2: I head menagitis when I was four, and it doesn't work.

549
00:22:58,359 --> 00:23:01,080
Speaker 2: I should just start saying that to people and then

550
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Speaker 2: they won't talk to me, and then I won't have

551
00:23:02,480 --> 00:23:04,840
Speaker 2: to talk to them. It's not that I don't like people.

552
00:23:04,920 --> 00:23:07,200
Speaker 2: I like the people listening to this show, but I

553
00:23:07,240 --> 00:23:09,359
Speaker 2: don't like making small talk. I really don't. They all

554
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Speaker 2: it's a new strategy.

555
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Speaker 5: Yeah.

556
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Speaker 13: They were in an uber on the way back from

557
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Speaker 13: a nevent like this guy was his Chad yet And

558
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Speaker 13: on the way to the uber, I was like, Oh,

559
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Speaker 13: it just so you know, like it says this.

560
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Speaker 4: So yeah, Jasus like Kiki, just so you know, the

561
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Speaker 4: guy is deaf. And he opened the door like hey.

562
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Speaker 2: Y'all, and I'm like, wait a minute, He's back to

563
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Speaker 2: he's can you guys keep it down?

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Speaker 8: Man?

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Speaker 1: I thought you were deaf, Like what's going on? It

566
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Speaker 1: says right here, like do I haven't.

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Speaker 5: You know?

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Speaker 1: I don't know? That's I mean, that is kind of

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Speaker 1: brilliant to be honest with.

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Speaker 2: When I was someone texted in sixth three, oh, when

571
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Speaker 2: I was in beauty school to become an aesthetician. We

572
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Speaker 2: had to tell them every single benefit of every single

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Speaker 2: thing we were going to do, and people would not care,

574
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Speaker 2: even if they were sleeping. We had to continue telling them.

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Speaker 2: It was horrible. I would be so relieved. So they're

576
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Speaker 1: Well go in the city like I'm at a point

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Speaker 1: in my life.

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Speaker 2: Where I don't if there's any chance that leaving the

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Speaker 2: house is a dangerous activity, if there's any chance that

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Speaker 2: we're finding ourselves in a position where the public bathroom

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Speaker 2: is going to be a mandatory experience, then I probably

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Speaker 2: am not leaving the house.

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Speaker 1: That's where I'm at in my life. I followed that role.

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Speaker 1: I'd never be here. So Fred's show is so have

602
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Speaker 1: you every time you left your home in your life?

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Speaker 1: Can did you have a mobile phone?

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Speaker 14: No?

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Speaker 6: But I definitely, like I missed the payphones, but I

606
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Speaker 6: think there was like times that the movies maybe where

607
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Speaker 6: like we would pick a time when it was over

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Speaker 6: and my mom would pick me up.

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Speaker 4: But I don't think I ever used a payphone, but

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Speaker 4: sounds lit.

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Speaker 1: I think it was college before it was like here's

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Speaker 1: a mobile phone. The show is on. It's Stay or Go?

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Speaker 2: Hey, Amanda, good morning. Well, hi Amanda, welcome to the show.

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Speaker 2: Welcome to Stay or Go. We appreciate your note. What's

615
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Speaker 2: going on with this boyfriend of yours?

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Speaker 1: Is his name?

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Speaker 2: Well, when I'm gonna say his name, but he's been

618
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Speaker 2: around for six months? This boyfriend, Yes.

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Speaker 15: Yeah, we've been dating for about six months. And you know,

620
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Speaker 15: as a disclaimer, he's not had a drinker like whatsoever.

621
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Speaker 15: But you know, he does like to go out over

622
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Speaker 15: the weekend on his days off, and he does usually

623
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Speaker 15: getting he gets really drunk.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So what okay?

625
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Speaker 2: So the guy, this guy even dating, he he doesn't

626
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Speaker 2: drink like some what is like not during the week

627
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Speaker 2: he doesn't drink, but then when he goes out he

628
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Speaker 2: bings drinks.

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Speaker 1: Is that the story?

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Speaker 15: Yeah? I mean, well, the thing is is that he

631
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Speaker 15: just turns into a different person when he starts drinking,

632
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Speaker 15: and he's you know, he really is such a kind

633
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Speaker 15: and considerate boyfriend. But you know, on the weekends when

634
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Speaker 15: he drinks, he's just not as sweet and he starts

635
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Speaker 15: like picking fights with me and even like just people

636
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Speaker 15: around in the bar. It's just really weird. Like he

637
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Speaker 15: gets like overly protective, Like he like he thinks that

638
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Speaker 15: guys are flirting with me when they're.

639
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Speaker 1: Not when he's drinking.

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Speaker 16: I mean, that's the thing, is, like I know.

641
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Speaker 15: Him as this big softy, but you know there are

642
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Speaker 15: times like where he's even like left me at the

643
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Speaker 15: bar and he's gone home like without me, without telling me,

644
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Speaker 15: and it seems like he found a reason to be

645
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Speaker 15: like really mad. I don't know, but the whole thing

646
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Speaker 15: is that he doesn't even remember leaving me, you know,

647
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Speaker 15: Like I did talk to him about it. It's just

648
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Speaker 15: that he explained that he I don't know if this

649
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Speaker 15: is an excuse or not, but he said that he

650
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Speaker 15: probably did that because he knows his limits and he

651
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Speaker 15: was getting too drunk.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but that's you know, you would say that.

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Speaker 2: I mean, you're his partner, so if that were the case,

654
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Speaker 2: and I realized when you're drinking, you're not necessarily in

655
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Speaker 2: your right mind. But that that's something you would say

656
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Speaker 2: to your partner. You wouldn't leave your partner somewhere. I mean,

657
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Speaker 2: that's something I'm the thing of that iras exit when

658
00:27:55,920 --> 00:27:57,800
Speaker 2: I met a little bit too much or whatever. When

659
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Speaker 2: it's time, I usually to sneak out, but I don't

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Speaker 2: have anybody with me. I don't leave anybody where we were.

661
00:28:02,720 --> 00:28:05,639
Speaker 15: You can't do that, right, like, at least let me

662
00:28:05,760 --> 00:28:08,399
Speaker 15: know that you know, you need to go home or something,

663
00:28:08,480 --> 00:28:10,840
Speaker 15: because I know he would be so modified to that

664
00:28:11,000 --> 00:28:15,120
Speaker 15: to him, you know, But like I said, I mean,

665
00:28:15,280 --> 00:28:19,360
Speaker 15: he he it's not just about like checking out boxes

666
00:28:19,400 --> 00:28:22,480
Speaker 15: that he really is such a great boyfriend outside of

667
00:28:22,680 --> 00:28:27,679
Speaker 15: when he drinks. He's like it seems like he's perfect

668
00:28:27,720 --> 00:28:30,280
Speaker 15: for me other than that, and I don't know, it's

669
00:28:30,359 --> 00:28:34,640
Speaker 15: just it's not like I would say he's caught ride

670
00:28:35,040 --> 00:28:38,120
Speaker 15: of having a huge drinking problem because he only drinks

671
00:28:38,200 --> 00:28:39,600
Speaker 15: like once or twice a weekend.

672
00:28:40,760 --> 00:28:44,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, but if he's drinking and again not an alcohol

673
00:28:44,840 --> 00:28:49,000
Speaker 2: substance abuse counselor, but if he's drinking to that level

674
00:28:49,720 --> 00:28:52,040
Speaker 2: once or twice a week, that's still a problem. I mean,

675
00:28:52,280 --> 00:28:55,360
Speaker 2: the problem isn't necessarily And again, someone's welcome to call

676
00:28:55,440 --> 00:28:57,800
Speaker 2: and correct me on this. Eighty five five five one

677
00:28:57,960 --> 00:29:00,320
Speaker 2: three five. I don't think it's the frequency. Don't think

678
00:29:00,320 --> 00:29:02,360
Speaker 2: it's if you drink every day or if you just

679
00:29:02,400 --> 00:29:05,360
Speaker 2: get hammered twice a week. It sounds like he may

680
00:29:05,480 --> 00:29:08,520
Speaker 2: have a problem with alcohol. And I think the question is,

681
00:29:08,680 --> 00:29:11,720
Speaker 2: I mean, have you have you said to him? And again,

682
00:29:11,720 --> 00:29:13,440
Speaker 2: I don't know that I'm qualified to give this advice,

683
00:29:13,480 --> 00:29:15,080
Speaker 2: but I'm going to try. I mean, have you said,

684
00:29:15,080 --> 00:29:16,680
Speaker 2: have you have you had this conversation with him? Hey,

685
00:29:16,720 --> 00:29:19,400
Speaker 2: I'm concerned about your drinking. I'm concerned about your behavior

686
00:29:19,440 --> 00:29:22,600
Speaker 2: when you drink. I mean, have you have you had

687
00:29:22,760 --> 00:29:27,040
Speaker 2: like a like a kind sort of constructive conversation about that?

688
00:29:27,880 --> 00:29:28,960
Speaker 16: I have I've had.

689
00:29:29,320 --> 00:29:33,800
Speaker 15: I would say, yeah, like a few very light conversations

690
00:29:33,880 --> 00:29:38,560
Speaker 15: around it. And I think, you know, he gets a

691
00:29:38,600 --> 00:29:41,680
Speaker 15: little bit defensive, like I'm attacking him for all like

692
00:29:41,800 --> 00:29:44,600
Speaker 15: the good things that he does do for me, And

693
00:29:44,720 --> 00:29:48,120
Speaker 15: so I don't think he really like understands how it

694
00:29:48,200 --> 00:29:51,479
Speaker 15: affects me and like other people, because he doesn't remember,

695
00:29:51,640 --> 00:29:56,360
Speaker 15: you know. So Yeah, it's kind of like tricky.

696
00:29:57,840 --> 00:30:00,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, I hate to say this, But my gut tells

697
00:30:01,000 --> 00:30:03,160
Speaker 2: me you got to go. My gut tells me that

698
00:30:03,280 --> 00:30:06,520
Speaker 2: it's it's you're you're early in this relationship. It's going

699
00:30:06,560 --> 00:30:10,760
Speaker 2: to be a difficult thing. No, it's gonna be difficult

700
00:30:10,760 --> 00:30:12,800
Speaker 2: thing to mitigate. I don't know if it's your job

701
00:30:12,920 --> 00:30:15,080
Speaker 2: to save this guy. You know, he gets to I

702
00:30:15,160 --> 00:30:16,720
Speaker 2: mean you, I think you can tell him, you know,

703
00:30:16,800 --> 00:30:19,920
Speaker 2: in a caring, loving way. Hey, this this concerns me.

704
00:30:20,320 --> 00:30:23,280
Speaker 2: I care about you. I like you, you know, but

705
00:30:23,400 --> 00:30:26,800
Speaker 2: you don't seem to be acknowledging what is a serious

706
00:30:26,880 --> 00:30:29,240
Speaker 2: problem here. And someone texted that Ben shrinking is a

707
00:30:29,280 --> 00:30:32,080
Speaker 2: form of alcoholism. I mean, I think again, it's I

708
00:30:32,080 --> 00:30:33,920
Speaker 2: don't think you have to get hammered every day to

709
00:30:34,000 --> 00:30:36,680
Speaker 2: be to have a problem. I think you can get

710
00:30:37,240 --> 00:30:41,720
Speaker 2: If you're getting hammered consistently in any frequency, that's probably

711
00:30:41,800 --> 00:30:45,600
Speaker 2: an issue, especially if he's doing it to to sort

712
00:30:45,640 --> 00:30:47,800
Speaker 2: of mask other issues, insecurities or whatever.

713
00:30:48,200 --> 00:30:48,560
Speaker 1: I don't know.

714
00:30:48,960 --> 00:30:51,200
Speaker 2: I mean, this could be something you deal with the

715
00:30:51,520 --> 00:30:55,520
Speaker 2: entire length of your relationship. This this may never go away.

716
00:30:58,520 --> 00:31:01,040
Speaker 15: Yeah, that would really think. Viral like him so much

717
00:31:01,120 --> 00:31:04,600
Speaker 15: and I really care for him, So it's it's.

718
00:31:04,560 --> 00:31:05,320
Speaker 14: Really hard to.

719
00:31:07,120 --> 00:31:10,880
Speaker 15: And just like that, you know. But yeah, I totally

720
00:31:10,960 --> 00:31:11,720
Speaker 15: hear what you're saying.

721
00:31:12,200 --> 00:31:13,720
Speaker 2: I've dealt with this a little bit in my life,

722
00:31:13,760 --> 00:31:15,480
Speaker 2: and all I can tell you is that this is

723
00:31:15,520 --> 00:31:20,240
Speaker 2: a decision that the person using this substance, they have

724
00:31:20,400 --> 00:31:23,600
Speaker 2: to make that decision. Like you can beg him, you can,

725
00:31:23,800 --> 00:31:25,840
Speaker 2: you can, you know, ultimatums, you can do all this

726
00:31:25,920 --> 00:31:29,160
Speaker 2: different stuff, But ultimately, I think it's just going to

727
00:31:29,280 --> 00:31:32,560
Speaker 2: cause a divide. I feel like if you're saying to him, look,

728
00:31:32,560 --> 00:31:33,880
Speaker 2: I really care about you and you are a lot

729
00:31:33,920 --> 00:31:36,280
Speaker 2: of things that I want, but this he is a problem.

730
00:31:36,520 --> 00:31:38,680
Speaker 2: And in order for this relationship to continue, you're going

731
00:31:38,760 --> 00:31:41,880
Speaker 2: to need to manage this somehow. And he's telling you, oh,

732
00:31:41,960 --> 00:31:44,040
Speaker 2: I don't know, or he's using it making excuse you,

733
00:31:44,080 --> 00:31:46,640
Speaker 2: why do to remember? Okay, well, then don't drink as

734
00:31:46,720 --> 00:31:48,080
Speaker 2: much you might rememb you know what I mean. I

735
00:31:48,160 --> 00:31:51,040
Speaker 2: think the only real option here is for him to

736
00:31:52,320 --> 00:31:54,960
Speaker 2: stop drinking or manage the drinking, or get some help

737
00:31:55,080 --> 00:31:57,000
Speaker 2: or do something if he wants to save the relationship.

738
00:31:57,120 --> 00:31:59,800
Speaker 2: If he's not willing to do any of that, then

739
00:31:59,880 --> 00:32:02,840
Speaker 2: I don't know that this changes, right.

740
00:32:02,960 --> 00:32:05,080
Speaker 15: I mean, what do you think is you know, he says,

741
00:32:05,120 --> 00:32:08,520
Speaker 15: you know, change doesn't happen overnight, like you know, you

742
00:32:08,640 --> 00:32:11,120
Speaker 15: have to just like trust me with it, like let me,

743
00:32:12,240 --> 00:32:14,720
Speaker 15: you know, take care of it, and then it kind

744
00:32:14,760 --> 00:32:17,480
Speaker 15: of like evolve. I think like evol then is in

745
00:32:17,600 --> 00:32:20,720
Speaker 15: my court to like let him deal with it and

746
00:32:21,200 --> 00:32:26,280
Speaker 15: try not to like micromanage the action right.

747
00:32:29,160 --> 00:32:30,000
Speaker 1: When you bring it up.

748
00:32:30,160 --> 00:32:31,960
Speaker 7: If he's getting defensive when you bring it up, it

749
00:32:32,000 --> 00:32:34,680
Speaker 7: doesn't even sound like he's really acknowledging that there's an issue.

750
00:32:37,440 --> 00:32:40,320
Speaker 15: Yeah, I feel like I feel like he knowsday. I

751
00:32:40,400 --> 00:32:42,840
Speaker 15: think you can see like it feels vulnerable.

752
00:32:44,000 --> 00:32:45,880
Speaker 2: Okay, but again, I mean this this is going to

753
00:32:45,920 --> 00:32:48,760
Speaker 2: affect your life too. And so if he's serious about

754
00:32:48,800 --> 00:32:52,160
Speaker 2: this relationship and it's it really is becoming a problem,

755
00:32:52,200 --> 00:32:54,960
Speaker 2: whether it's the way he acts, it's about the way

756
00:32:55,000 --> 00:32:57,360
Speaker 2: he treats you or leaving you places of it about

757
00:32:57,360 --> 00:33:01,080
Speaker 2: your safety. You know, again, I think you're in you

758
00:33:01,160 --> 00:33:03,920
Speaker 2: have You have every right to communicate your concern. You

759
00:33:04,040 --> 00:33:06,600
Speaker 2: have every right to wish of him that he changes

760
00:33:06,640 --> 00:33:09,160
Speaker 2: his behavior. You can offer him help, you can offer

761
00:33:09,240 --> 00:33:10,960
Speaker 2: him support. But I mean, if he's not going to

762
00:33:11,040 --> 00:33:12,720
Speaker 2: do any of that and deny it, I don't know,

763
00:33:13,200 --> 00:33:14,840
Speaker 2: he may not be as perfect as you think. And

764
00:33:14,920 --> 00:33:17,080
Speaker 2: I'm again I'm not I'm not advocating you just dump

765
00:33:17,120 --> 00:33:18,920
Speaker 2: the guy and leave him. But I mean, if you

766
00:33:19,000 --> 00:33:22,520
Speaker 2: express your care and you express your concern, ultimately he

767
00:33:22,560 --> 00:33:23,920
Speaker 2: has to make the decision. If he's telling you he

768
00:33:23,960 --> 00:33:26,000
Speaker 2: doesn't have a problem, that's I think that says a lot.

769
00:33:26,240 --> 00:33:30,000
Speaker 15: Yep, yeah, no, you have a point there, especially with

770
00:33:30,160 --> 00:33:32,760
Speaker 15: like leaving me and stuff that's like becomes more of

771
00:33:32,800 --> 00:33:33,800
Speaker 15: a safety issue.

772
00:33:35,160 --> 00:33:39,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, the text is blowing up, it's overwhelmingly

773
00:33:39,840 --> 00:33:42,880
Speaker 2: You've got to go run a lot of people, you know,

774
00:33:43,040 --> 00:33:47,440
Speaker 2: sharing their personal experience. I mean, it's hundreds of texts already. Unfortunately,

775
00:33:47,480 --> 00:33:49,160
Speaker 2: this is something that I think affects a lot of people.

776
00:33:49,200 --> 00:33:50,880
Speaker 2: But let me take some phone calls. Maybe there's some

777
00:33:50,920 --> 00:33:54,080
Speaker 2: people more qualify, anyone's more qualified than me to be

778
00:33:54,120 --> 00:33:55,920
Speaker 2: giving you advice on this, because again, this is not

779
00:33:56,000 --> 00:33:58,600
Speaker 2: something to play with. You know, this is a this

780
00:33:58,760 --> 00:34:01,240
Speaker 2: could be a disease, This would be you know, a

781
00:34:01,360 --> 00:34:03,760
Speaker 2: dependency that he needs real help with. And I don't

782
00:34:03,800 --> 00:34:06,160
Speaker 2: I don't want to say anything that you know I

783
00:34:06,200 --> 00:34:08,360
Speaker 2: shouldn't say because I'm certainly not an expert. But let

784
00:34:08,400 --> 00:34:10,239
Speaker 2: me take some calls and and see people have to

785
00:34:10,280 --> 00:34:11,839
Speaker 2: say and keep the radio one and man, I wish

786
00:34:11,880 --> 00:34:13,239
Speaker 2: you the best. Thank you for sharing that with us.

787
00:34:13,280 --> 00:34:18,160
Speaker 2: Good luck, Damn eight five five five one one three five. Nick,

788
00:34:18,200 --> 00:34:22,160
Speaker 2: you're a you're a mental health therapist. I am, I am.

789
00:34:22,280 --> 00:34:23,439
Speaker 5: How's everybody doing today?

790
00:34:23,560 --> 00:34:26,160
Speaker 1: Good morning? So you hear this story, well, what comes

791
00:34:26,160 --> 00:34:26,520
Speaker 1: to mind?

792
00:34:27,880 --> 00:34:31,040
Speaker 8: What comes to mind is not immediately like leave.

793
00:34:31,360 --> 00:34:35,560
Speaker 17: Obviously he is like struggling and what he's struggling with

794
00:34:35,880 --> 00:34:40,399
Speaker 17: is impacting their relationship and he clearly needs some form

795
00:34:40,520 --> 00:34:41,799
Speaker 17: of therapy to.

796
00:34:41,920 --> 00:34:43,160
Speaker 5: Address these concerns.

797
00:34:43,239 --> 00:34:46,240
Speaker 18: The thread, I agree with you, it's not necessarily about

798
00:34:46,680 --> 00:34:47,480
Speaker 18: the frequency.

799
00:34:47,600 --> 00:34:49,680
Speaker 8: It's also about like how much.

800
00:34:49,520 --> 00:34:52,960
Speaker 18: You're drinking in that two day period that he's getting

801
00:34:53,160 --> 00:34:54,080
Speaker 18: black out drunk.

802
00:34:54,560 --> 00:34:56,960
Speaker 17: That could qualify as like a potential.

803
00:34:56,520 --> 00:35:01,799
Speaker 18: Binge eatings or binge drinking disorder, and that definitely needs

804
00:35:01,840 --> 00:35:04,839
Speaker 18: to be addressed. So I think maybe putting the relationship

805
00:35:04,920 --> 00:35:08,200
Speaker 18: on like approbation and saying, hey, if within this six

806
00:35:08,320 --> 00:35:11,680
Speaker 18: month time period you don't seek help or make any changes,

807
00:35:12,520 --> 00:35:15,720
Speaker 18: and we don't communicate what you're doing to make these changes,

808
00:35:15,880 --> 00:35:17,000
Speaker 18: then I can't be.

809
00:35:17,120 --> 00:35:17,800
Speaker 5: With you anymore.

810
00:35:17,880 --> 00:35:18,920
Speaker 4: This has become unsafe.

811
00:35:19,280 --> 00:35:21,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, ma'am, good advice. Thank you, Nick, thanks for listening.

812
00:35:21,760 --> 00:35:25,080
Speaker 1: Have a good day anytime. You guys too, Love you, Yeah,

813
00:35:25,080 --> 00:35:25,520
Speaker 1: I love you too.

814
00:35:25,560 --> 00:35:27,719
Speaker 2: I mean, it's sad you don't want to leave someone

815
00:35:27,760 --> 00:35:29,840
Speaker 2: who care about, who you think has all these qualities.

816
00:35:30,280 --> 00:35:32,839
Speaker 2: You don't want to just leave them. But again, if

817
00:35:32,880 --> 00:35:34,920
Speaker 2: I know anything about this, and sadly it's in my

818
00:35:35,000 --> 00:35:37,839
Speaker 2: family and it's been part of my life. Unfortunately, it's

819
00:35:37,920 --> 00:35:41,160
Speaker 2: the kind of thing where the person having the issue

820
00:35:41,960 --> 00:35:44,160
Speaker 2: and I don't mean, I don't mean to isolate that person,

821
00:35:44,239 --> 00:35:46,440
Speaker 2: but that person, in my experience, has to make the

822
00:35:46,520 --> 00:35:49,440
Speaker 2: decision that they want that for their life and that

823
00:35:50,120 --> 00:35:53,000
Speaker 2: people that they matter and that the people around them

824
00:35:53,000 --> 00:35:55,719
Speaker 2: matter enough. But like again, you can threaten, you might

825
00:35:55,800 --> 00:35:58,799
Speaker 2: threaten your whole relationship. I'm going to leave you if well,

826
00:35:58,840 --> 00:36:02,759
Speaker 2: guess what. If you don't leaven, then your threats don't

827
00:36:02,760 --> 00:36:05,480
Speaker 2: mean anything anymore. Oh yeah, you know, ultimatums aren't going

828
00:36:05,560 --> 00:36:08,120
Speaker 2: to work. And if you're going to leave, then leave,

829
00:36:08,560 --> 00:36:10,880
Speaker 2: you know what I mean? And you can offer so

830
00:36:11,040 --> 00:36:12,920
Speaker 2: much support, but then if they don't want to take

831
00:36:12,920 --> 00:36:15,359
Speaker 2: the support, this could be an issue for a very

832
00:36:15,400 --> 00:36:18,800
Speaker 2: long time. Hey, Bianca. Yeah, Hi, Hi, good morning. So

833
00:36:18,880 --> 00:36:20,520
Speaker 2: this resonates with you, this story.

834
00:36:20,880 --> 00:36:24,239
Speaker 16: Oh, yes, I've been in a seventeen year relationship. I

835
00:36:24,360 --> 00:36:28,920
Speaker 16: have a child or blended family. He's a great guy,

836
00:36:29,040 --> 00:36:30,960
Speaker 16: I mean, don't get mean, he's a family guy. But

837
00:36:31,320 --> 00:36:37,200
Speaker 16: seventeen years weekend drinker doesn't get better. Definitely needs some

838
00:36:37,440 --> 00:36:41,520
Speaker 16: kind of therapy there. You know, it's just it's a

839
00:36:41,600 --> 00:36:45,840
Speaker 16: hard situation. You're six months in. You know, you have

840
00:36:46,080 --> 00:36:49,200
Speaker 16: your whole life ahead of you. It's sometimes it's not

841
00:36:49,360 --> 00:36:49,680
Speaker 16: worth it.

842
00:36:49,840 --> 00:36:50,000
Speaker 19: Now.

843
00:36:50,160 --> 00:36:52,359
Speaker 16: It's gotten better through the years, but you don't want

844
00:36:52,400 --> 00:36:55,479
Speaker 16: to wait seventeen years right for it to get better,

845
00:36:56,640 --> 00:36:59,560
Speaker 16: you know what I mean. Like he's like he's really

846
00:36:59,640 --> 00:37:02,800
Speaker 16: calmed down through the years, but you know it was hearty,

847
00:37:02,880 --> 00:37:06,799
Speaker 16: nothing but heartache and heartbreak and coming and going into

848
00:37:06,880 --> 00:37:08,640
Speaker 16: the house, and then when you have children, it just

849
00:37:08,719 --> 00:37:12,000
Speaker 16: makes it even worse because it's just like you feel

850
00:37:12,160 --> 00:37:15,320
Speaker 16: stuck and I'm a product of a divorce, you know,

851
00:37:15,440 --> 00:37:19,080
Speaker 16: divorced parents, and you know, I've been through relationships and whatnot,

852
00:37:20,200 --> 00:37:22,920
Speaker 16: and it's just it's a heart you want to make

853
00:37:23,040 --> 00:37:25,600
Speaker 16: up by saying, oh, he's a teddy bear, he's this,

854
00:37:25,800 --> 00:37:30,040
Speaker 16: he's a family guy. He does great things, very successful,

855
00:37:30,800 --> 00:37:34,480
Speaker 16: very this, very that. But it's you know, you're willing

856
00:37:34,560 --> 00:37:38,440
Speaker 16: to spend the rest of your time with somebody who

857
00:37:38,640 --> 00:37:41,920
Speaker 16: just constantly drinks on the weekend. It's it's it's never

858
00:37:41,960 --> 00:37:44,360
Speaker 16: going to change, and they're never going to change. You know,

859
00:37:44,600 --> 00:37:46,160
Speaker 16: there's deeper issues there.

860
00:37:46,360 --> 00:37:49,040
Speaker 8: There's deeper, deeper issues thereon you.

861
00:37:49,840 --> 00:37:51,520
Speaker 2: What you're saying resonates with me a little bit. And

862
00:37:51,560 --> 00:37:53,000
Speaker 2: I think probably other people in the room who were

863
00:37:53,040 --> 00:37:54,960
Speaker 2: the product of a divorced family, because because I know

864
00:37:55,080 --> 00:37:59,359
Speaker 2: Caitlin is, I am, Paulina was. It's like, I think

865
00:37:59,719 --> 00:38:01,799
Speaker 2: if I were married and I had kids, I can

866
00:38:01,880 --> 00:38:03,400
Speaker 2: tell you that I would and I think in some

867
00:38:03,520 --> 00:38:05,920
Speaker 2: ways it maybe is preventive of me getting into a

868
00:38:05,960 --> 00:38:10,200
Speaker 2: serious relationship. I don't want to be to someone else

869
00:38:10,320 --> 00:38:12,520
Speaker 2: what my parents were to each other at that time.

870
00:38:12,640 --> 00:38:13,839
Speaker 2: I mean, like, I don't want to I don't want

871
00:38:13,880 --> 00:38:15,960
Speaker 2: I don't want to be in a situation where I

872
00:38:16,000 --> 00:38:17,400
Speaker 2: get divorced. I don't want to be in a situation

873
00:38:17,440 --> 00:38:19,440
Speaker 2: where I have kids and I'd break up the family

874
00:38:19,600 --> 00:38:21,960
Speaker 2: or the family is broken up by my actions are

875
00:38:22,000 --> 00:38:24,480
Speaker 2: someone else's, And so I think I would be inclined

876
00:38:24,840 --> 00:38:28,880
Speaker 2: to stick with things and behaviors and mannerisms that are unhealthy.

877
00:38:29,400 --> 00:38:30,600
Speaker 2: And I think this is a trap that a lot

878
00:38:30,600 --> 00:38:32,040
Speaker 2: of people fall into, where it's like, well, I don't

879
00:38:32,040 --> 00:38:33,320
Speaker 2: want to break up for the kids, I don't.

880
00:38:33,160 --> 00:38:36,520
Speaker 1: Want to divorcely, but it's like, hey, how long can

881
00:38:36,560 --> 00:38:37,239
Speaker 1: you live like that?

882
00:38:37,560 --> 00:38:37,719
Speaker 2: You know?

883
00:38:38,560 --> 00:38:41,520
Speaker 16: Yeah, it's very hard, you know. I see her in

884
00:38:41,640 --> 00:38:43,600
Speaker 16: my own head here and there. It's kind of like,

885
00:38:43,760 --> 00:38:46,400
Speaker 16: but I stuck around this long? Why am I to

886
00:38:46,520 --> 00:38:46,920
Speaker 16: leave now?

887
00:38:47,280 --> 00:38:47,440
Speaker 19: You know?

888
00:38:47,719 --> 00:38:49,520
Speaker 16: But I mean, like I said, through the years that

889
00:38:49,640 --> 00:38:51,800
Speaker 16: has gotten a lot better. But you know, you do

890
00:38:52,000 --> 00:38:54,560
Speaker 16: suffer through. I suffer through a lot of years and

891
00:38:54,680 --> 00:38:57,520
Speaker 16: between where I'm like, hey, you know, what the heck

892
00:38:57,600 --> 00:39:00,799
Speaker 16: am I doing? You know, like this is not right

893
00:39:00,880 --> 00:39:03,200
Speaker 16: and it's not and it's not fair if you're bringing

894
00:39:03,280 --> 00:39:06,239
Speaker 16: you know, other little people into the world and they

895
00:39:06,360 --> 00:39:06,759
Speaker 16: see that.

896
00:39:07,239 --> 00:39:10,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, you know, well they see that mom or

897
00:39:10,120 --> 00:39:11,839
Speaker 2: dad is unhappy. And I know you think you're doing

898
00:39:11,880 --> 00:39:14,880
Speaker 2: the right thing, but sadly, you know, this stuff does permeate.

899
00:39:15,320 --> 00:39:17,840
Speaker 2: And look, I thank you for sharing. Very brave of you, Bianca,

900
00:39:17,840 --> 00:39:19,880
Speaker 2: and I appreciate you calling and for offering your perspective.

901
00:39:19,960 --> 00:39:20,600
Speaker 1: Have a good morning.

902
00:39:21,200 --> 00:39:21,879
Speaker 14: Thank you too.

903
00:39:22,040 --> 00:39:22,200
Speaker 1: Yeah.

904
00:39:22,320 --> 00:39:23,960
Speaker 2: Sadly this is I mean a lot of these calls

905
00:39:24,000 --> 00:39:28,560
Speaker 2: are the same. It's almost universally go yeah, yeah, Molly, Hi,

906
00:39:28,680 --> 00:39:29,160
Speaker 2: good morning.

907
00:39:30,280 --> 00:39:30,360
Speaker 15: Hi.

908
00:39:30,440 --> 00:39:31,279
Speaker 1: How are you hey?

909
00:39:31,320 --> 00:39:33,360
Speaker 2: You say good? Thanks for calling, for listening. So just

910
00:39:33,400 --> 00:39:35,560
Speaker 2: said recap and stair go here. This woman called and

911
00:39:35,800 --> 00:39:37,439
Speaker 2: she's been with the guy for six months. She thinks

912
00:39:37,480 --> 00:39:40,560
Speaker 2: he's perfect in every way excepted and these are my words,

913
00:39:40,600 --> 00:39:43,360
Speaker 2: but he binge drinks on the weekend, and he gets combative,

914
00:39:43,440 --> 00:39:45,840
Speaker 2: not with her, but with other people. He leaves her places,

915
00:39:46,800 --> 00:39:50,120
Speaker 2: doesn't communicate well when he's reached his limits, and you know,

916
00:39:50,239 --> 00:39:53,040
Speaker 2: she's wondering, is this something that I need to overlook

917
00:39:53,400 --> 00:39:56,680
Speaker 2: or that I can overlook? And and I mean overwhelmingly

918
00:39:56,760 --> 00:40:00,960
Speaker 2: people are saying no, right, she absolutely needs to go.

919
00:40:01,600 --> 00:40:04,520
Speaker 5: So my reasoning is that since they've only been together

920
00:40:04,600 --> 00:40:08,160
Speaker 5: for six months, if the relationship does get any longer,

921
00:40:08,320 --> 00:40:08,840
Speaker 5: and let's.

922
00:40:08,640 --> 00:40:11,319
Speaker 16: Say they have kids, or they get married.

923
00:40:11,120 --> 00:40:14,600
Speaker 5: Or something happens at his job and then there's more

924
00:40:14,600 --> 00:40:17,680
Speaker 5: stressors or his life, he might start drinking more and

925
00:40:18,120 --> 00:40:20,799
Speaker 5: with the if he's already being mister macho man at

926
00:40:20,840 --> 00:40:23,920
Speaker 5: the bar, like, he's probably going to be physically abusive

927
00:40:23,960 --> 00:40:26,200
Speaker 5: towards her and she definitely does not need that in

928
00:40:26,320 --> 00:40:26,760
Speaker 5: her life.

929
00:40:27,280 --> 00:40:30,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, and I hate that she feels that he's perfect

930
00:40:30,920 --> 00:40:32,640
Speaker 2: in every way except for this. And I don't know

931
00:40:32,760 --> 00:40:35,480
Speaker 2: the guy, but that's a big this, you know what

932
00:40:35,560 --> 00:40:37,640
Speaker 2: I mean. He's perfect in every way except he's a

933
00:40:37,680 --> 00:40:41,000
Speaker 2: binge drinker and he and it seems like it's something

934
00:40:41,040 --> 00:40:43,480
Speaker 2: that he wants to deny and doesn't isn't going to

935
00:40:43,520 --> 00:40:47,200
Speaker 2: be able to adjust easily that that? Unfortunately, that means

936
00:40:47,280 --> 00:40:49,360
Speaker 2: you might deserve more. He might not be as perfect

937
00:40:49,400 --> 00:40:49,960
Speaker 2: as you think.

938
00:40:50,160 --> 00:40:51,400
Speaker 4: Yeah, oh that's a big issue.

939
00:40:51,600 --> 00:40:53,680
Speaker 7: And then if you bring children into the mix, A

940
00:40:53,719 --> 00:40:55,239
Speaker 7: lot of people are saying, you know, they stay for

941
00:40:55,360 --> 00:40:57,200
Speaker 7: the kids. The worst thing you can do is say

942
00:40:57,320 --> 00:40:59,680
Speaker 7: these situations for your kids. I agree, the kids are

943
00:40:59,719 --> 00:41:01,920
Speaker 7: trauma ties because they're scared dad on the weekend.

944
00:41:02,120 --> 00:41:04,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree. I agree.

945
00:41:04,640 --> 00:41:06,520
Speaker 2: It's a it's a serious and it's a sad situation.

946
00:41:06,640 --> 00:41:10,000
Speaker 2: But you know, six months, it might be it might

947
00:41:10,080 --> 00:41:11,960
Speaker 2: be more than enough to know that this is what

948
00:41:12,040 --> 00:41:14,120
Speaker 2: you're up against and it's sad.

949
00:41:14,239 --> 00:41:16,120
Speaker 1: Thank you, Mollie, thanks for calling. Have a good day.

950
00:41:16,920 --> 00:41:17,759
Speaker 17: Thanks love you guys.

951
00:41:17,800 --> 00:41:18,279
Speaker 1: I love you too.

952
00:41:18,280 --> 00:41:20,040
Speaker 2: I only got time for one more Sophia, you're a

953
00:41:20,120 --> 00:41:20,839
Speaker 2: therapist as well.

954
00:41:20,920 --> 00:41:21,359
Speaker 1: Good morning.

955
00:41:22,719 --> 00:41:22,839
Speaker 2: Hi.

956
00:41:23,440 --> 00:41:26,200
Speaker 20: Yes, I'm so glad that I got through because I'm

957
00:41:26,360 --> 00:41:28,919
Speaker 20: never a caller in for the radio, but I felt

958
00:41:28,960 --> 00:41:31,719
Speaker 20: like I needed to because I actually have I am

959
00:41:31,760 --> 00:41:34,600
Speaker 20: a therapist, but I also have firsthand experience within my

960
00:41:34,800 --> 00:41:40,200
Speaker 20: family of this happening where my brother in law became

961
00:41:40,560 --> 00:41:45,239
Speaker 20: somebody that was a drinker and unfortunately he took it

962
00:41:45,280 --> 00:41:48,400
Speaker 20: out on my sister and he became physically abusive and

963
00:41:48,480 --> 00:41:52,759
Speaker 20: it is a very sad situation. One night he drank

964
00:41:52,840 --> 00:41:56,040
Speaker 20: too much, he became abusive, and she almost died.

965
00:41:55,880 --> 00:41:56,960
Speaker 19: Because of the situation.

966
00:41:58,320 --> 00:42:01,040
Speaker 20: So this is just like my gut, like you need

967
00:42:01,160 --> 00:42:03,600
Speaker 20: to go, Like there is no waiting for them to

968
00:42:03,640 --> 00:42:06,120
Speaker 20: get help. You're you're so new in the relationship, You're

969
00:42:06,120 --> 00:42:09,440
Speaker 20: going to find another guy that texts every box and

970
00:42:09,680 --> 00:42:10,000
Speaker 20: there is.

971
00:42:10,080 --> 00:42:13,319
Speaker 19: No this that you have to kind of roll out.

972
00:42:14,160 --> 00:42:18,080
Speaker 20: But it's just it's the beginning signs of abuse. If

973
00:42:18,120 --> 00:42:21,040
Speaker 20: he's already doing it in public, just when he's gets home,

974
00:42:21,120 --> 00:42:23,759
Speaker 20: it's going to become even worse because there's no audience.

975
00:42:25,239 --> 00:42:25,800
Speaker 4: He needs to go.

976
00:42:26,200 --> 00:42:30,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, Sophia, thank you, have a good day. Thank

977
00:42:30,120 --> 00:42:30,520
Speaker 1: you for calling.

978
00:42:30,600 --> 00:42:32,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, I hate to say them. And in my personal

979
00:42:32,800 --> 00:42:35,160
Speaker 2: experience too, I think sometimes people need to hit rock bottom.

980
00:42:35,239 --> 00:42:37,279
Speaker 2: They sometimes they need to either stand to lose or

981
00:42:37,360 --> 00:42:40,360
Speaker 2: lose everything absolutely before they can come to the Sadly,

982
00:42:40,480 --> 00:42:42,959
Speaker 2: some people that that's not enough either. But you know, again,

983
00:42:43,000 --> 00:42:45,720
Speaker 2: the threats aren't going to do anything unless you actually

984
00:42:45,800 --> 00:42:48,080
Speaker 2: follow through it. And the truth is if if he

985
00:42:48,200 --> 00:42:50,919
Speaker 2: feels for you what you feel for him, then maybe

986
00:42:50,960 --> 00:42:52,680
Speaker 2: he looks in the mirror and says, this is a

987
00:42:52,800 --> 00:42:54,040
Speaker 2: change I need to make if I want to be

988
00:42:54,120 --> 00:42:56,400
Speaker 2: with this person. And if he doesn't make that change,

989
00:42:56,440 --> 00:42:58,960
Speaker 2: I think that you then learned in six months what

990
00:42:59,120 --> 00:43:01,000
Speaker 2: you didn't need to take ten years to learn.

991
00:43:01,120 --> 00:43:03,960
Speaker 4: Right, relutely, Yes, he has to want something more than

992
00:43:04,000 --> 00:43:04,839
Speaker 4: he wants to drink.

993
00:43:05,040 --> 00:43:07,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, honestly it sounds like it. And thanks for the

994
00:43:07,560 --> 00:43:10,120
Speaker 2: actual professionals for calling, because yeah.

995
00:43:09,960 --> 00:43:10,360
Speaker 5: I mean it was.

996
00:43:10,440 --> 00:43:12,279
Speaker 2: Unfortunately, we've all lived many of us in this room

997
00:43:12,320 --> 00:43:15,840
Speaker 2: have lived at yes, But at the same time I

998
00:43:15,920 --> 00:43:20,120
Speaker 2: don't claim to you know, know exactly. The Calon's Entertainment

999
00:43:20,200 --> 00:43:21,839
Speaker 2: report is on the Fresh Show.

1000
00:43:22,000 --> 00:43:24,720
Speaker 6: According to authorities, at least one hundred and four people

1001
00:43:24,880 --> 00:43:28,239
Speaker 6: have died across six counties in Central Texas as a

1002
00:43:28,320 --> 00:43:31,040
Speaker 6: result of those catastrophic floods, Kirk County was struck the

1003
00:43:31,120 --> 00:43:34,160
Speaker 6: hardest on Friday, which is where that all Girls.

1004
00:43:34,000 --> 00:43:35,920
Speaker 4: Camp Camp Mystic is located.

1005
00:43:36,040 --> 00:43:40,600
Speaker 6: Remember flooding struck central Texas on July fourth, after torrential

1006
00:43:40,680 --> 00:43:44,919
Speaker 6: downpour caused the Guadalupe River to surge around twenty six feet.

1007
00:43:45,000 --> 00:43:48,440
Speaker 6: Camp Mystic sat along that river, and they announced Monday

1008
00:43:48,480 --> 00:43:51,040
Speaker 6: that it was grieving the loss of twenty seven campers

1009
00:43:51,080 --> 00:43:54,640
Speaker 6: and counselors, adding that ten campers and one councilor still

1010
00:43:54,800 --> 00:43:58,600
Speaker 6: remain unaccounted for. If you would like to help by donating,

1011
00:43:58,719 --> 00:44:00,360
Speaker 6: they could really really use it.

1012
00:44:01,000 --> 00:44:04,080
Speaker 4: Things are dire there. Obviously. You can do so at

1013
00:44:04,239 --> 00:44:08,760
Speaker 4: Community Foundation dot net. That's Community Foundation dot net.

1014
00:44:08,800 --> 00:44:12,800
Speaker 6: And they will allocate your money to local organizations that

1015
00:44:12,840 --> 00:44:15,239
Speaker 6: are going to go directly to long term and short

1016
00:44:15,320 --> 00:44:16,080
Speaker 6: term relief.

1017
00:44:16,239 --> 00:44:18,839
Speaker 4: So let's move on to some smut. Be what we're

1018
00:44:18,880 --> 00:44:19,160
Speaker 4: known for.

1019
00:44:19,360 --> 00:44:22,719
Speaker 6: So Blake Lively will be deposed by Justin Baldoni's legal

1020
00:44:22,760 --> 00:44:25,800
Speaker 6: team next Thursday in New York. I'm hearing or it is.

1021
00:44:25,880 --> 00:44:27,839
Speaker 6: It's just going to be Blake and her own legal

1022
00:44:27,880 --> 00:44:30,680
Speaker 6: team in the room. Husband Ryan Reynolds.

1023
00:44:30,320 --> 00:44:31,000
Speaker 4: Is not going to be there.

1024
00:44:31,040 --> 00:44:33,000
Speaker 6: I don't know if that's because Justin's asking him not

1025
00:44:33,120 --> 00:44:34,719
Speaker 6: to be and if that's allowed, or if he's just

1026
00:44:35,280 --> 00:44:37,759
Speaker 6: not available, which I can't really see. This marks one

1027
00:44:37,800 --> 00:44:41,040
Speaker 6: of the bigger moments in that ongoing legal drama between

1028
00:44:41,080 --> 00:44:45,520
Speaker 6: the former co stars since his four hundred million countersuit was.

1029
00:44:45,560 --> 00:44:46,399
Speaker 4: Tossed last month.

1030
00:44:46,960 --> 00:44:49,200
Speaker 6: And we've all been dealing with hearing about this for

1031
00:44:49,360 --> 00:44:51,680
Speaker 6: about seven months now, but it actually feels like two years.

1032
00:44:51,719 --> 00:44:53,520
Speaker 4: So maybe something will happen. I am hearing.

1033
00:44:53,560 --> 00:44:56,960
Speaker 6: Blake says, she's ready. Her story's never changed, so she's

1034
00:44:57,000 --> 00:44:58,520
Speaker 6: ready to do this and I'm ready for it to

1035
00:44:58,600 --> 00:45:00,719
Speaker 6: be over. And some of you liked when I did

1036
00:45:00,760 --> 00:45:04,560
Speaker 6: a little Love Island recap yesterday, but I want to

1037
00:45:04,640 --> 00:45:07,160
Speaker 6: tell you I stayed up past my bedtime last night.

1038
00:45:07,960 --> 00:45:08,680
Speaker 4: Don't bother.

1039
00:45:09,040 --> 00:45:11,440
Speaker 6: I mean, that was the worst episode of Love Island

1040
00:45:11,480 --> 00:45:13,800
Speaker 6: I have ever seen. I think they're trying to distract

1041
00:45:13,840 --> 00:45:17,320
Speaker 6: from the fact that Sierra was pulled and she was

1042
00:45:17,400 --> 00:45:19,640
Speaker 6: kind of the main focus of the season, or her

1043
00:45:19,719 --> 00:45:22,719
Speaker 6: couple was rather but last night they gave them all.

1044
00:45:22,800 --> 00:45:24,279
Speaker 6: They woke them up in the middle of the night

1045
00:45:24,360 --> 00:45:27,480
Speaker 6: with fake babies that were just crying constantly, and then

1046
00:45:27,840 --> 00:45:30,160
Speaker 6: the couples had to raise the babies all day. There

1047
00:45:30,239 --> 00:45:33,800
Speaker 6: was no drama, barely anything going on. I was like,

1048
00:45:34,320 --> 00:45:36,360
Speaker 6: that should have gone to bed, but that's what happened.

1049
00:45:36,400 --> 00:45:40,000
Speaker 6: That's your Love Island recap. If you're watching, don't waste

1050
00:45:40,040 --> 00:45:40,359
Speaker 6: your time.

1051
00:45:40,520 --> 00:45:41,160
Speaker 1: Poor your old.

1052
00:45:41,040 --> 00:45:45,200
Speaker 2: Knees probably needs everything exactly exactly. My sister travels with

1053
00:45:45,360 --> 00:45:48,360
Speaker 2: like it's like she's an NBA team. She comes wheeling

1054
00:45:48,400 --> 00:45:50,080
Speaker 2: in like big boxes of equipment with.

1055
00:45:52,040 --> 00:45:52,600
Speaker 1: It's Kyleen.

1056
00:45:53,040 --> 00:45:54,719
Speaker 2: I mean it's we gotta have that. We gotta have

1057
00:45:54,760 --> 00:45:56,920
Speaker 2: the right pillows, correct, we gotta have and I think

1058
00:45:56,960 --> 00:45:57,839
Speaker 2: they have names for him.

1059
00:45:57,920 --> 00:45:58,760
Speaker 4: He brings pillows.

1060
00:45:59,440 --> 00:46:02,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's like her special pillow. And then there of

1061
00:46:02,880 --> 00:46:05,160
Speaker 2: course we have to have certain dolls and certain pajamas

1062
00:46:05,200 --> 00:46:08,560
Speaker 2: we have. We do travel with the noise machine. Yeah,

1063
00:46:08,960 --> 00:46:11,359
Speaker 2: oh yeah, No. Honestly, it's like if you've ever seen

1064
00:46:11,400 --> 00:46:13,480
Speaker 2: a sports team come into town for a game, it's

1065
00:46:13,520 --> 00:46:15,759
Speaker 2: my sister. The big uall truck pulls up in front

1066
00:46:15,800 --> 00:46:20,120
Speaker 2: of the house before her the advanced team. It's like

1067
00:46:20,200 --> 00:46:23,080
Speaker 2: that Calling Daddy interview with Kamala Ayas where they had

1068
00:46:23,120 --> 00:46:26,279
Speaker 2: to make the set in the hotel room in laws Vegas.

1069
00:46:26,000 --> 00:46:27,440
Speaker 1: To make it look like the set. That's how we

1070
00:46:27,520 --> 00:46:27,680
Speaker 1: do it.

1071
00:46:27,760 --> 00:46:28,320
Speaker 4: Oh, they did that.

1072
00:46:28,520 --> 00:46:29,960
Speaker 2: So Polly walks in and it looks like she's in

1073
00:46:30,040 --> 00:46:34,680
Speaker 2: her own room. But yeah, Dallas, but really we're in Scottsdale. Yeah.

1074
00:46:34,960 --> 00:46:37,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, No, it's sweet, but it's like it's like no.

1075
00:46:37,960 --> 00:46:39,879
Speaker 2: And then of course nobody can put the kid down

1076
00:46:40,000 --> 00:46:42,680
Speaker 2: properly because nobody could possibly get all the steps right,

1077
00:46:42,840 --> 00:46:45,560
Speaker 2: which is probably true because the kid has trained you.

1078
00:46:46,520 --> 00:46:46,800
Speaker 1: Honey.

1079
00:46:47,560 --> 00:46:49,359
Speaker 2: My sister got so mad at me when I said,

1080
00:46:49,400 --> 00:46:53,080
Speaker 2: she was really upset because I'm watching the kid tell

1081
00:46:53,160 --> 00:46:55,320
Speaker 2: her what the four year old tell my sister what

1082
00:46:55,480 --> 00:46:58,319
Speaker 2: to do, and then my sister does it. And I said,

1083
00:46:58,440 --> 00:47:01,080
Speaker 2: you guys, this is Fordian sisters a therapist, so she

1084
00:47:01,160 --> 00:47:03,400
Speaker 2: should get that. She does get that better than I do.

1085
00:47:03,719 --> 00:47:06,440
Speaker 2: But I was like, this is freudium. She is raising you.

1086
00:47:07,239 --> 00:47:08,920
Speaker 2: And my sister is like, and this is what she

1087
00:47:09,000 --> 00:47:11,440
Speaker 2: said to me. You know, as a family that doesn't

1088
00:47:11,480 --> 00:47:15,120
Speaker 2: have any other kids, you guys just don't understand. So

1089
00:47:15,239 --> 00:47:16,920
Speaker 2: one of those things because I don't have a kid,

1090
00:47:16,960 --> 00:47:18,719
Speaker 2: so I don't know, which is probably true. By the way,

1091
00:47:18,760 --> 00:47:21,840
Speaker 2: I don't have a child, so I probably don't fully understand,

1092
00:47:21,880 --> 00:47:23,879
Speaker 2: and I don't claim to, but what I can see

1093
00:47:23,960 --> 00:47:26,600
Speaker 2: with my eyes is that my four year old niece

1094
00:47:26,840 --> 00:47:31,239
Speaker 2: runs that bitch. And I mean my sister, I mean

1095
00:47:31,760 --> 00:47:33,759
Speaker 2: you know, entity of the entity of the home.

1096
00:47:33,960 --> 00:47:37,560
Speaker 4: Yes, you were clarifying that I would tell yourself. Well, actually,

1097
00:47:37,600 --> 00:47:38,799
Speaker 4: don't tell her anything ever again.

1098
00:47:38,880 --> 00:47:41,640
Speaker 1: But oh I love her, but she'll she'll kill us all.

1099
00:47:41,920 --> 00:47:44,719
Speaker 6: Gently remind her that like her daughter, probably will grow

1100
00:47:44,800 --> 00:47:47,120
Speaker 6: up with sleeping issues if she has to do all those.

1101
00:47:47,040 --> 00:47:48,560
Speaker 4: Things to put her down. Because my mom was like

1102
00:47:48,640 --> 00:47:50,360
Speaker 4: that with me, and she wasn't with Bella.

1103
00:47:50,440 --> 00:47:52,320
Speaker 6: And one of us can sleep and the other can't,

1104
00:47:52,840 --> 00:47:55,000
Speaker 6: Like you know what I mean, Like my sister doesn't

1105
00:47:55,080 --> 00:47:55,960
Speaker 6: need a sound machine.

1106
00:47:56,000 --> 00:47:58,360
Speaker 4: We were talking loud, like she's a good sleeper. I

1107
00:47:58,400 --> 00:47:58,640
Speaker 4: don't know.

1108
00:47:59,000 --> 00:48:01,360
Speaker 6: It worries me for pop because you know, when you

1109
00:48:01,400 --> 00:48:03,000
Speaker 6: don't sleep with all that stuff, you can't sleep.

1110
00:48:03,120 --> 00:48:03,520
Speaker 4: That's fair.

1111
00:48:03,719 --> 00:48:06,560
Speaker 2: Well, and look, I'm not a parent, but I also

1112
00:48:06,760 --> 00:48:10,040
Speaker 2: know that my sister's number one and Colin, her husband,

1113
00:48:10,280 --> 00:48:12,440
Speaker 2: my brother in law her their number one priority is

1114
00:48:12,520 --> 00:48:15,279
Speaker 2: to make whatever the issue at hand is stop. The

1115
00:48:15,440 --> 00:48:18,040
Speaker 2: problem with that is that I don't know when the

1116
00:48:18,160 --> 00:48:21,160
Speaker 2: issues will end. And the other thing is. She is

1117
00:48:21,200 --> 00:48:23,640
Speaker 2: a master manipulator, this four year old. Matt love this

1118
00:48:23,719 --> 00:48:27,200
Speaker 2: little girl, but like if if she's unhappy and mom's there,

1119
00:48:27,239 --> 00:48:29,200
Speaker 2: then she needs dad really.

1120
00:48:29,440 --> 00:48:32,000
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, she's a daddy's girl. She wants dad. Dad

1121
00:48:32,280 --> 00:48:34,120
Speaker 1: has to do. I need dad.

1122
00:48:35,440 --> 00:48:38,080
Speaker 3: If dad's not there, like working, we got a brand

1123
00:48:38,200 --> 00:48:43,320
Speaker 3: to the bar, a win for cigarettes, and hey, my

1124
00:48:43,440 --> 00:48:44,719
Speaker 3: our dad's never came back, so.

1125
00:48:46,440 --> 00:48:49,440
Speaker 1: I can't tell her that story. Colin doesn't smoke, thank god.

1126
00:48:49,320 --> 00:48:52,480
Speaker 4: But sorry, let me talk about my dad.

1127
00:48:55,880 --> 00:48:56,240
Speaker 1: Anyway.

1128
00:48:56,280 --> 00:48:57,920
Speaker 2: This is anyway. I love my sister and I love

1129
00:48:57,920 --> 00:49:00,120
Speaker 2: my nieces. But it is interesting to watch because I

1130
00:49:00,200 --> 00:49:00,440
Speaker 2: get it.

1131
00:49:00,520 --> 00:49:02,880
Speaker 1: I get it. It's like you're tired. They're tired.

1132
00:49:03,000 --> 00:49:05,239
Speaker 2: The sooner that they get what they want, then the

1133
00:49:05,320 --> 00:49:06,840
Speaker 2: sooner I can get what I want with just to

1134
00:49:06,880 --> 00:49:08,759
Speaker 2: go to sleep. Close my eyes, because here's the thing.

1135
00:49:08,960 --> 00:49:11,200
Speaker 2: The toddler goes to bed at you know, the baby

1136
00:49:11,320 --> 00:49:12,600
Speaker 2: she has a one year old goes to bed at

1137
00:49:12,640 --> 00:49:15,440
Speaker 2: like seven, and then the tidleer goes to bed I

1138
00:49:15,480 --> 00:49:18,280
Speaker 2: think at like eight, eight thirty. But no matter what happens,

1139
00:49:18,360 --> 00:49:21,680
Speaker 2: the toddler's getting up at like six, no matter what happened, right,

1140
00:49:21,800 --> 00:49:23,400
Speaker 2: and then I don't know what time Polly gets up.

1141
00:49:23,440 --> 00:49:25,920
Speaker 2: It like it's like they're constantly working against the clock,

1142
00:49:26,040 --> 00:49:27,880
Speaker 2: Like the window is just narrower and narrower.

1143
00:49:28,000 --> 00:49:30,279
Speaker 1: So I get that part for sure, but she loves

1144
00:49:30,320 --> 00:49:30,799
Speaker 1: it like will.

1145
00:49:31,080 --> 00:49:34,360
Speaker 2: Occasionally I'll get her when we're all together because she

1146
00:49:34,440 --> 00:49:36,960
Speaker 2: lives in Dallas, so we're all together someplace. Occasionally I'll

1147
00:49:36,960 --> 00:49:39,080
Speaker 2: get her to go out, like to a bar, and

1148
00:49:39,160 --> 00:49:40,719
Speaker 2: then she'll have a couple of drinks, will be sitting there.

1149
00:49:40,760 --> 00:49:43,800
Speaker 2: It's like ten o'clock. I'll be like, hey, Amanda, Polly's

1150
00:49:43,920 --> 00:49:49,640
Speaker 2: charging as we sit here. She's gaining strength. Every moment

1151
00:49:49,760 --> 00:49:55,200
Speaker 2: you're not sleeping, Polly is gaining strength. And my sister

1152
00:49:55,239 --> 00:49:57,920
Speaker 2: we both have anxiety. My sister's like, I don't like this,

1153
00:49:58,560 --> 00:50:01,000
Speaker 2: have another drink of Mary. Just keep taking each minute

1154
00:50:01,000 --> 00:50:03,040
Speaker 2: you sit here, and oh, this was the best. So

1155
00:50:03,120 --> 00:50:05,719
Speaker 2: one night we went to a concert. What's the band

1156
00:50:05,760 --> 00:50:08,399
Speaker 2: that my sister knows the drummer? This is an emo

1157
00:50:08,520 --> 00:50:11,560
Speaker 2: band from the two thousand Summerset. So my sister knows

1158
00:50:11,600 --> 00:50:14,400
Speaker 2: the drummer from a band called the Summerset. And we

1159
00:50:14,520 --> 00:50:16,600
Speaker 2: went to a concert a couple of years ago, and

1160
00:50:17,040 --> 00:50:18,960
Speaker 2: she didn't have the second baby yet, so Polly was

1161
00:50:19,000 --> 00:50:22,560
Speaker 2: maybe like two, and so we're at the concert and

1162
00:50:22,600 --> 00:50:24,440
Speaker 2: they don't go on till like ten o'clock at night. Now,

1163
00:50:24,480 --> 00:50:26,640
Speaker 2: at this point, Polly's a two year old and she's

1164
00:50:26,680 --> 00:50:27,880
Speaker 2: getting up at six no matter what.

1165
00:50:28,120 --> 00:50:29,200
Speaker 1: It's ten o'clock at night.

1166
00:50:29,400 --> 00:50:30,960
Speaker 2: This is the latest that these two have been out,

1167
00:50:31,000 --> 00:50:32,799
Speaker 2: the three of us latest these two have been out

1168
00:50:32,840 --> 00:50:33,200
Speaker 2: since they.

1169
00:50:33,200 --> 00:50:33,760
Speaker 1: Had the baby.

1170
00:50:34,120 --> 00:50:36,000
Speaker 2: So we're at the concert ten o'clock. These guys go

1171
00:50:36,120 --> 00:50:39,040
Speaker 2: on and the guy gets to at least singer Brian,

1172
00:50:39,080 --> 00:50:40,880
Speaker 2: and he gets on the stage and he was like, this.

1173
00:50:41,000 --> 00:50:43,040
Speaker 1: Is gonna be the longest show we've ever done.

1174
00:50:44,160 --> 00:50:46,160
Speaker 2: And all my sister wanted to do was get to

1175
00:50:46,200 --> 00:50:47,640
Speaker 2: the end of the show she could see her friend

1176
00:50:48,280 --> 00:50:51,279
Speaker 2: and then leave, and like, through throughout the night, he

1177
00:50:51,440 --> 00:50:53,399
Speaker 2: just kept like, So now we're like ten forty five.

1178
00:50:53,480 --> 00:50:57,080
Speaker 2: He's like, we're just getting started. And that was when

1179
00:50:57,120 --> 00:51:00,840
Speaker 2: I was like, hey, Amanda, Polly's charging. She's like, damn it.

1180
00:51:01,160 --> 00:51:03,759
Speaker 2: And then he's like, you know, eleven thirty. He's like,

1181
00:51:04,000 --> 00:51:07,920
Speaker 2: we got ten songs to go, We're.

1182
00:51:07,000 --> 00:51:08,440
Speaker 1: Gonna play the whole new album.

1183
00:51:08,840 --> 00:51:09,600
Speaker 4: We can go home.

1184
00:51:10,680 --> 00:51:13,279
Speaker 2: My sister's and the drummer can see us, so we

1185
00:51:13,400 --> 00:51:16,080
Speaker 2: can't leave, and you know so it's yeah, in the

1186
00:51:16,120 --> 00:51:19,439
Speaker 2: whole time, Like Amanda, she's getting stronger by the moment.

1187
00:51:20,760 --> 00:51:27,719
Speaker 2: She hated me for that more Fred show. Next, he's

1188
00:51:27,800 --> 00:51:30,120
Speaker 2: telling people for the next twenty years. I went to Juilliard,

1189
00:51:30,840 --> 00:51:34,680
Speaker 2: only to be discovered and uncovered and revealed as a liar.

1190
00:51:35,120 --> 00:51:36,680
Speaker 4: What he's looking at Juilliard?

1191
00:51:37,040 --> 00:51:43,400
Speaker 2: Who's Julie Julie Julie Julie's yard. Fred's show is on

1192
00:51:44,560 --> 00:51:44,919
Speaker 2: a woman.

1193
00:51:45,000 --> 00:51:45,600
Speaker 1: This is terrible.

1194
00:51:46,120 --> 00:51:49,480
Speaker 2: A nurse was battered by cheesy nachos. This is an

1195
00:51:49,520 --> 00:51:53,120
Speaker 2: awful story. A nacho fueled domestic dispute is making waves

1196
00:51:53,160 --> 00:51:56,359
Speaker 2: in Florida Port Saint Lucy. A nurse and Allison Swan

1197
00:51:56,440 --> 00:51:58,839
Speaker 2: got into a heated three a m argument with her wife,

1198
00:51:58,880 --> 00:52:01,480
Speaker 2: who's also a nurse, over late night snacking, and things

1199
00:52:01,640 --> 00:52:05,200
Speaker 2: escalated when Swan allegedly grabbed a handful of cheesy nachos

1200
00:52:05,440 --> 00:52:07,640
Speaker 2: and shoved them down the back of her wife's leggings.

1201
00:52:07,960 --> 00:52:11,440
Speaker 1: Oh cops, that I didn't stop there.

1202
00:52:11,520 --> 00:52:14,680
Speaker 2: Swan reportedly dragged her to the ground, fish hooked her

1203
00:52:14,719 --> 00:52:16,759
Speaker 2: in the mouth, and slammed her head to the floor.

1204
00:52:16,840 --> 00:52:19,920
Speaker 2: Now that is, in fact tragic now the nacho's in

1205
00:52:20,000 --> 00:52:22,520
Speaker 2: the leggings tens the waste of nachos, and I need

1206
00:52:22,600 --> 00:52:25,120
Speaker 2: to understand why someone heard the chaos called nine one.

1207
00:52:25,160 --> 00:52:27,840
Speaker 2: One woman's been arrested on domestic battery. But imagine you

1208
00:52:27,880 --> 00:52:29,800
Speaker 2: have to explain that in chord like what happen?

1209
00:52:32,040 --> 00:52:36,919
Speaker 1: Never been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show. Carl,

1210
00:52:37,000 --> 00:52:40,080
Speaker 1: good morning, welcome to the program. How are you uh

1211
00:52:40,800 --> 00:52:43,320
Speaker 1: doing okay? Considering? Okay?

1212
00:52:43,480 --> 00:52:46,200
Speaker 2: All right, just okay, which is honest because you think

1213
00:52:46,239 --> 00:52:49,480
Speaker 2: maybe you've been ghosted. So tell us about Mina, this woman,

1214
00:52:49,640 --> 00:52:51,839
Speaker 2: and then you know about how you met, any dates

1215
00:52:51,880 --> 00:52:53,960
Speaker 2: you've been on, kind of all the backstory fill us in.

1216
00:52:54,280 --> 00:52:58,879
Speaker 21: Yeah, like you said, her name is Mina. I met

1217
00:52:58,920 --> 00:53:02,239
Speaker 21: her on a d app. We chatted for a little

1218
00:53:02,280 --> 00:53:04,960
Speaker 21: bit on there, and then we decided to meet up

1219
00:53:05,080 --> 00:53:07,719
Speaker 21: and we uh we went to this uh this rest

1220
00:53:07,760 --> 00:53:08,840
Speaker 21: of this Italian.

1221
00:53:08,520 --> 00:53:12,120
Speaker 1: Place, my favorite place, and it was it was a

1222
00:53:12,160 --> 00:53:16,560
Speaker 1: great day. It was great. And then I never hear

1223
00:53:16,600 --> 00:53:19,080
Speaker 1: from her, So I'm, you know, maybe it wasn't great.

1224
00:53:20,160 --> 00:53:20,560
Speaker 1: I don't know.

1225
00:53:20,760 --> 00:53:25,240
Speaker 21: I feel like i'm I'm I'm missing something because every

1226
00:53:25,280 --> 00:53:27,360
Speaker 21: time I try to respond or I try to you know,

1227
00:53:27,440 --> 00:53:30,279
Speaker 21: reach out to her. I'm not getting anything back, right,

1228
00:53:30,480 --> 00:53:34,120
Speaker 21: one hundred percent ghosting, So I don't you know, was

1229
00:53:34,200 --> 00:53:34,880
Speaker 21: it something I did?

1230
00:53:35,040 --> 00:53:37,920
Speaker 1: I don't know. I'm really in the dark over here.

1231
00:53:38,000 --> 00:53:39,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's always kind of a risk when you meet

1232
00:53:39,520 --> 00:53:41,839
Speaker 2: someone on the apps that the chemistry and person will

1233
00:53:41,880 --> 00:53:43,879
Speaker 2: be what you hope it is. But hey, you're looking

1234
00:53:43,920 --> 00:53:45,840
Speaker 2: back on this date, You're thinking, Hey, I thought it

1235
00:53:45,880 --> 00:53:48,200
Speaker 2: went really well. Conversation was good. I thought there was

1236
00:53:48,239 --> 00:53:51,719
Speaker 2: attraction in chemistry and all that, except this woman is

1237
00:53:51,840 --> 00:53:54,200
Speaker 2: not responding to you now for another date, and you

1238
00:53:54,360 --> 00:53:55,840
Speaker 2: kind of want to know what if I if I

1239
00:53:55,960 --> 00:53:58,600
Speaker 2: thought everything went well, then what am I missing? Exactly

1240
00:53:58,640 --> 00:54:01,480
Speaker 2: one hundred percent percent? All right, well, Carl, let's play

1241
00:54:01,480 --> 00:54:03,000
Speaker 2: a song. Come back in a couple of minutes. We'll

1242
00:54:03,040 --> 00:54:05,200
Speaker 2: call Mina. We'll ask these questions. You'll be on the phone.

1243
00:54:05,239 --> 00:54:07,120
Speaker 2: You're welcome to jump in. At some point, I'm gonna

1244
00:54:07,160 --> 00:54:09,120
Speaker 2: reach out to Mina. We're gonna go on another day.

1245
00:54:09,200 --> 00:54:12,040
Speaker 2: This is going someplace. Except you did that and she

1246
00:54:12,200 --> 00:54:14,080
Speaker 2: has not responded to you, and you want to know

1247
00:54:14,160 --> 00:54:17,440
Speaker 2: why exactly exactly right, Yeah, all right, let's call Mina. Now,

1248
00:54:17,480 --> 00:54:28,279
Speaker 2: good luck? Hi is this Mina?

1249
00:54:30,520 --> 00:54:30,919
Speaker 1: Hey, Mina.

1250
00:54:30,960 --> 00:54:32,440
Speaker 2: Good morning. My name is Fred. I'm calling for the

1251
00:54:32,440 --> 00:54:35,480
Speaker 2: Fred's Show, the Morning radio Show. The whole crew is here.

1252
00:54:35,520 --> 00:54:36,680
Speaker 2: I have to tell you that we are on the

1253
00:54:36,760 --> 00:54:39,360
Speaker 2: radio right now. I would need your permission to continue

1254
00:54:39,400 --> 00:54:40,920
Speaker 2: with the call. Can we chat for just a second

1255
00:54:41,040 --> 00:54:45,880
Speaker 2: on the air. You can hang up anytime? Ummm I

1256
00:54:46,080 --> 00:54:49,239
Speaker 2: guess okay, I'll take that as a yes.

1257
00:54:49,320 --> 00:54:49,560
Speaker 5: Thank you.

1258
00:54:49,800 --> 00:54:52,160
Speaker 2: We're calling on behalf of a dude named Carl who

1259
00:54:52,239 --> 00:54:54,440
Speaker 2: you met on a dating app recently apparently and went

1260
00:54:54,520 --> 00:54:55,920
Speaker 2: on a date with Italian restaurant.

1261
00:54:56,080 --> 00:54:56,680
Speaker 1: Is it ring a bell?

1262
00:54:58,120 --> 00:54:58,319
Speaker 16: Yeah?

1263
00:54:59,040 --> 00:55:01,680
Speaker 2: Okay, so oh he called us and had nice things

1264
00:55:01,680 --> 00:55:04,240
Speaker 2: to say about you and that he was excited about

1265
00:55:04,280 --> 00:55:06,759
Speaker 2: you and thought the date went well. He says he's

1266
00:55:06,800 --> 00:55:09,719
Speaker 2: reached out since then for another date and you're not responding.

1267
00:55:09,760 --> 00:55:12,000
Speaker 2: He feels like he's being ghosted. So what you know,

1268
00:55:12,040 --> 00:55:13,279
Speaker 2: what's kind of your side of the story?

1269
00:55:13,400 --> 00:55:14,719
Speaker 1: Is that true? Are you avoiding him?

1270
00:55:15,120 --> 00:55:21,200
Speaker 19: I mean, yeah, he seemed normal at first and he

1271
00:55:22,400 --> 00:55:25,640
Speaker 19: I don't know, it was just a weird situation. Do

1272
00:55:25,719 --> 00:55:27,440
Speaker 19: you want me to tell you what happened?

1273
00:55:27,680 --> 00:55:30,200
Speaker 1: Absolutely? We all we would like you to tell us

1274
00:55:30,239 --> 00:55:30,800
Speaker 1: what happened.

1275
00:55:31,200 --> 00:55:32,000
Speaker 4: Okay, So.

1276
00:55:33,520 --> 00:55:36,120
Speaker 19: Yeah, he asked if you can order for the table,

1277
00:55:36,520 --> 00:55:39,880
Speaker 19: and you know, I thought that that made sense because

1278
00:55:39,960 --> 00:55:43,000
Speaker 19: he took me to his favorite spot and I'm not picky,

1279
00:55:44,600 --> 00:55:48,160
Speaker 19: and he ordered like a lot, like a ton of food,

1280
00:55:48,680 --> 00:55:52,520
Speaker 19: and I would say it was an abnormal amount of

1281
00:55:52,640 --> 00:55:57,680
Speaker 19: food and yeah, that the dinner just got kind of

1282
00:55:57,760 --> 00:56:01,439
Speaker 19: weird from there, and then I realized that he wasn't

1283
00:56:01,520 --> 00:56:04,600
Speaker 19: really eating much, but he just kept insisting that I

1284
00:56:04,640 --> 00:56:08,240
Speaker 19: should eat and try things. And then you know, after

1285
00:56:08,400 --> 00:56:12,520
Speaker 19: some time, you know, we'd had some wine and everything.

1286
00:56:12,760 --> 00:56:15,400
Speaker 19: I finally was just like, what is going on? What

1287
00:56:15,560 --> 00:56:19,200
Speaker 19: is the deal? And then he was like, I just

1288
00:56:19,400 --> 00:56:21,839
Speaker 19: want you to eat so much that you feel sick.

1289
00:56:22,280 --> 00:56:24,200
Speaker 1: And that was why why would he want that?

1290
00:56:25,600 --> 00:56:26,919
Speaker 10: What's the Yeah?

1291
00:56:27,200 --> 00:56:28,799
Speaker 8: And then he.

1292
00:56:30,400 --> 00:56:33,239
Speaker 19: Yeah, he said that he like wanted to hook up,

1293
00:56:35,160 --> 00:56:38,600
Speaker 19: but that I like, he's feeling sick.

1294
00:56:38,640 --> 00:56:38,960
Speaker 18: I don't know.

1295
00:56:39,040 --> 00:56:40,759
Speaker 19: I think it was some sort of kink of his,

1296
00:56:41,920 --> 00:56:43,360
Speaker 19: Like it was very weird.

1297
00:56:44,040 --> 00:56:47,160
Speaker 2: So he wanted you to like in gorge and eat

1298
00:56:47,200 --> 00:56:49,800
Speaker 2: all the food and then he wanted to go mess around.

1299
00:56:50,080 --> 00:56:52,480
Speaker 2: Like isn't that the exact opposite of how you get

1300
00:56:52,520 --> 00:56:55,439
Speaker 2: most people to hook up with you? Like I don't

1301
00:56:55,719 --> 00:56:58,880
Speaker 2: normally think eat everything. Let's go to let's go to

1302
00:56:58,960 --> 00:57:01,839
Speaker 2: the you know, Brazilian teakehouse and the meat on the stick,

1303
00:57:02,000 --> 00:57:03,239
Speaker 2: and then let's go home and get it.

1304
00:57:03,280 --> 00:57:04,520
Speaker 4: On blue cheese crest.

1305
00:57:05,640 --> 00:57:08,319
Speaker 1: No thank you, no, thank you, Ryan.

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00:57:09,000 --> 00:57:11,080
Speaker 2: So you think he was in because he's watching you

1307
00:57:11,280 --> 00:57:12,920
Speaker 2: eat and then he wants to go home and do

1308
00:57:13,000 --> 00:57:14,919
Speaker 2: some stuff and he thinks that's like something he's into.

1309
00:57:15,080 --> 00:57:17,880
Speaker 19: I think the to do this so much that I

1310
00:57:18,040 --> 00:57:20,360
Speaker 19: felt sick, and then he wanted to hook up.

1311
00:57:20,840 --> 00:57:23,440
Speaker 1: I've imaginally mentioned that Carl is here, the masochist.

1312
00:57:23,960 --> 00:57:25,160
Speaker 8: Carl, what what?

1313
00:57:25,800 --> 00:57:29,680
Speaker 21: Okay, Look, it's it's not masochism, Okay, it's it's a

1314
00:57:29,880 --> 00:57:33,320
Speaker 21: well known thing. It's called theism, all right, and yeah,

1315
00:57:33,480 --> 00:57:34,760
Speaker 21: and yeah I'm into it.

1316
00:57:37,080 --> 00:57:39,200
Speaker 1: It's called I'm a feeder, all right.

1317
00:57:39,640 --> 00:57:42,200
Speaker 21: I feed my partners and they get, you know, till

1318
00:57:42,240 --> 00:57:47,120
Speaker 21: they're full, and then we have an amazing sexual experience together.

1319
00:57:47,480 --> 00:57:51,640
Speaker 22: And you know, you know, you guys, you guys are

1320
00:57:51,680 --> 00:57:53,880
Speaker 22: knocking it. Have you ever tried it? No, you're having

1321
00:57:54,040 --> 00:57:58,120
Speaker 22: all right? I mean not on purpose, yes, but not

1322
00:57:58,240 --> 00:57:58,800
Speaker 22: the first time.

1323
00:57:58,920 --> 00:57:59,080
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1324
00:57:59,120 --> 00:58:01,600
Speaker 2: I know it's usually like you know, the comfort levels

1325
00:58:02,040 --> 00:58:05,320
Speaker 2: too high. Yes, yes, it's way too high at that point.

1326
00:58:05,440 --> 00:58:07,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know I'm getting I'm getting a lot of

1327
00:58:07,280 --> 00:58:10,240
Speaker 1: judgment over here, and and and you know I don't.

1328
00:58:10,360 --> 00:58:10,680
Speaker 1: I don't.

1329
00:58:10,720 --> 00:58:12,240
Speaker 21: I don't think I signed up for that when I

1330
00:58:12,280 --> 00:58:13,560
Speaker 21: asked you guys, no little help.

1331
00:58:13,800 --> 00:58:16,040
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, well let's relax for a second, Carl. And

1332
00:58:16,120 --> 00:58:19,920
Speaker 2: no one's judging you. I think we're trying to figure out. Okay,

1333
00:58:19,960 --> 00:58:23,160
Speaker 2: well is I'm not judging you. I'm trying to figure out,

1334
00:58:23,400 --> 00:58:24,680
Speaker 2: you know, where's the turn on?

1335
00:58:24,960 --> 00:58:28,040
Speaker 1: Right? But for him that's his thing feederism. Did you

1336
00:58:28,160 --> 00:58:29,280
Speaker 1: make that up? Or is that real?

1337
00:58:29,840 --> 00:58:32,320
Speaker 21: No, there's a small community of us.

1338
00:58:32,560 --> 00:58:37,880
Speaker 1: We we are small but vocal. You know, you guys

1339
00:58:37,920 --> 00:58:40,240
Speaker 1: are laughing. I mean, I mean you look it up.

1340
00:58:40,280 --> 00:58:45,880
Speaker 1: I think we're not a thing. Passion is amazing. The sex,

1341
00:58:46,440 --> 00:58:48,520
Speaker 1: it's the best sex I've ever.

1342
00:58:48,480 --> 00:58:50,640
Speaker 21: Had when I'm with a partner who is you know,

1343
00:58:50,880 --> 00:58:54,400
Speaker 21: filled to the guilt, absolutely stopping.

1344
00:58:57,760 --> 00:59:00,160
Speaker 2: If you, guys, if you got to come down your

1345
00:59:00,240 --> 00:59:03,680
Speaker 2: ivory power and listen to me for a second with you,

1346
00:59:04,000 --> 00:59:05,960
Speaker 2: maybe you know you could see things.

1347
00:59:07,440 --> 00:59:09,400
Speaker 4: Why don't you have to meat? Though? I don't get that.

1348
00:59:09,600 --> 00:59:11,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, wouldn't this be like both of you eat?

1349
00:59:12,080 --> 00:59:12,120
Speaker 7: No?

1350
00:59:13,000 --> 00:59:13,400
Speaker 4: Are you going?

1351
00:59:13,960 --> 00:59:15,960
Speaker 1: Are you guys listening, I'm I'm the fever.

1352
00:59:16,200 --> 00:59:19,080
Speaker 22: I wish I would say, okay, okay, I give my

1353
00:59:19,360 --> 00:59:23,960
Speaker 22: partner the food I provide, and then once.

1354
00:59:24,240 --> 00:59:30,680
Speaker 7: They're you know, so you feed, you feed her, and

1355
00:59:30,720 --> 00:59:32,600
Speaker 7: then y'all go to bes and I'm like, garlic butter

1356
00:59:32,680 --> 00:59:33,440
Speaker 7: and get it, pass it.

1357
00:59:33,720 --> 00:59:35,040
Speaker 4: And that's with that.

1358
00:59:35,320 --> 00:59:38,040
Speaker 21: Well, and it's amazing, It's absolutely amazing.

1359
00:59:38,360 --> 00:59:40,320
Speaker 2: I'm not mean, what did you want to say, please?

1360
00:59:40,320 --> 00:59:43,240
Speaker 2: I mean, Kky's into this, I guess carling later, but uh,

1361
00:59:44,320 --> 00:59:45,800
Speaker 2: what did you want to say? Mena because you were

1362
00:59:45,800 --> 00:59:47,440
Speaker 2: trying to get in Well, I.

1363
00:59:47,640 --> 00:59:51,520
Speaker 19: Just okay, here's the thing is, that's what you're into whatever.

1364
00:59:51,680 --> 00:59:54,400
Speaker 19: But you need to disclose that to somebody before you

1365
00:59:54,520 --> 00:59:57,400
Speaker 19: ask them on a date and start making them do that.

1366
00:59:58,280 --> 01:00:00,520
Speaker 19: You should talk about the curse, you know.

1367
01:00:01,440 --> 01:00:04,320
Speaker 4: I need you to calm him down, sir.

1368
01:00:04,840 --> 01:00:06,680
Speaker 1: He's exactly blessing about his craft.

1369
01:00:07,320 --> 01:00:10,280
Speaker 4: Hungry, that's what he meant. Angry.

1370
01:00:10,920 --> 01:00:15,960
Speaker 2: He doesn't get Carl, I'm gonna let what do you

1371
01:00:16,000 --> 01:00:17,640
Speaker 2: get to say something else? What do you want to say?

1372
01:00:18,080 --> 01:00:20,800
Speaker 21: You know, it's it's I thought I had made some

1373
01:00:20,960 --> 01:00:23,880
Speaker 21: references to that in our chats, you know, and.

1374
01:00:26,560 --> 01:00:28,040
Speaker 1: Day you know, I'm not.

1375
01:00:28,280 --> 01:00:30,320
Speaker 21: I'm not a mind reader, all right. I don't have

1376
01:00:30,400 --> 01:00:33,800
Speaker 21: a crystal ball over here. Okay, but I mean I

1377
01:00:33,880 --> 01:00:36,640
Speaker 21: think you know, from what from what we talked about before,

1378
01:00:36,720 --> 01:00:38,680
Speaker 21: I was I would hope that you would be, uh,

1379
01:00:38,760 --> 01:00:42,320
Speaker 21: you know a little bit more open minded about it,

1380
01:00:42,840 --> 01:00:43,000
Speaker 21: you know.

1381
01:00:43,200 --> 01:00:44,560
Speaker 1: And now here's the thing.

1382
01:00:45,000 --> 01:00:48,320
Speaker 21: Okay, we're talking about it now and that's that's step

1383
01:00:48,520 --> 01:00:51,360
Speaker 21: one to in the process.

1384
01:00:51,000 --> 01:00:54,240
Speaker 1: On the radio, in the convergent process. Yeah, and you know,

1385
01:00:54,400 --> 01:00:54,760
Speaker 1: to to.

1386
01:00:57,000 --> 01:00:58,120
Speaker 19: You weren't upfront about it.

1387
01:00:58,200 --> 01:00:59,160
Speaker 2: And here's the thing.

1388
01:00:59,240 --> 01:01:01,720
Speaker 19: There's the field app so you can go on there

1389
01:01:01,920 --> 01:01:06,160
Speaker 19: and oh yeah, hey, everything that you're into and like we.

1390
01:01:08,240 --> 01:01:11,600
Speaker 1: Talked about feel that you have you have no idea

1391
01:01:12,640 --> 01:01:17,880
Speaker 1: while is you? But no you yeah, trick. I mean

1392
01:01:17,960 --> 01:01:18,360
Speaker 1: I'm with you.

1393
01:01:18,600 --> 01:01:20,720
Speaker 2: The number one way to get me to probably not

1394
01:01:20,840 --> 01:01:22,240
Speaker 2: hook up with you, Like if you're on a day

1395
01:01:22,280 --> 01:01:23,800
Speaker 2: with me and you don't want to mess around, like

1396
01:01:23,960 --> 01:01:26,920
Speaker 2: just stuff food in my face, like you know, make

1397
01:01:27,000 --> 01:01:29,400
Speaker 2: me eat more, because then I get home I feel disgusted.

1398
01:01:29,480 --> 01:01:30,440
Speaker 4: Don't you feel tired too?

1399
01:01:30,560 --> 01:01:31,880
Speaker 3: Like the only thing I want to do is get

1400
01:01:31,920 --> 01:01:33,080
Speaker 3: it on, Like I just want to lay like a

1401
01:01:33,120 --> 01:01:34,120
Speaker 3: beach oil like vertically.

1402
01:01:34,280 --> 01:01:40,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, well, don't hey, be careful. Carl's getting turned on. Yeah,

1403
01:01:40,320 --> 01:01:42,440
Speaker 2: all right, look, I mean I'll ask the question. I

1404
01:01:42,480 --> 01:01:44,120
Speaker 2: think I know the answer. But would you be interested

1405
01:01:44,160 --> 01:01:45,680
Speaker 2: in going out with Carl again?

1406
01:01:48,680 --> 01:01:49,960
Speaker 1: All right? Not interested?

1407
01:01:50,040 --> 01:01:52,280
Speaker 2: Hey, Carl, Look, no one's judging you, no one's king

1408
01:01:52,360 --> 01:01:54,960
Speaker 2: shaming you do whatever you do. I just you got

1409
01:01:55,080 --> 01:01:56,880
Speaker 2: to realize. I think it's not going to be for everybody.

1410
01:01:57,240 --> 01:02:01,640
Speaker 21: You know, are the most maligned I think in this country.

1411
01:02:01,960 --> 01:02:04,240
Speaker 21: And I think one day it's you know, one day

1412
01:02:04,280 --> 01:02:06,040
Speaker 21: that the table is gonna you know, be on the

1413
01:02:06,120 --> 01:02:07,440
Speaker 21: other foot and it's gonna.

1414
01:02:07,200 --> 01:02:10,240
Speaker 1: Turn then be on the other foot, and you know,

1415
01:02:10,400 --> 01:02:11,919
Speaker 1: you know what, you know what I'm saying.

1416
01:02:11,960 --> 01:02:15,240
Speaker 21: I'm sorry, I get you know, I mean, it's just frustrating.

1417
01:02:16,200 --> 01:02:17,360
Speaker 1: I'm sorry that you're frustrated.

1418
01:02:17,480 --> 01:02:20,120
Speaker 4: Carl on the streets, Carl, Yeah, do you think?

1419
01:02:20,240 --> 01:02:21,919
Speaker 1: Okay, it's the frend Show.

1420
01:02:22,000 --> 01:02:23,800
Speaker 2: Good morning, Thanks for having us on the radio, on

1421
01:02:23,840 --> 01:02:26,320
Speaker 2: the iHeart app live and anytime search for the Freend

1422
01:02:26,320 --> 01:02:26,920
Speaker 2: Show on demand.

1423
01:02:27,040 --> 01:02:28,280
Speaker 1: Aren't of you watching Severance?

1424
01:02:29,040 --> 01:02:29,080
Speaker 2: No?

1425
01:02:29,280 --> 01:02:31,040
Speaker 4: But like I feel like I should because everybody talks

1426
01:02:31,040 --> 01:02:31,320
Speaker 4: about it.

1427
01:02:31,440 --> 01:02:32,919
Speaker 1: Could somebody tell me what Severance? Please?

1428
01:02:32,960 --> 01:02:35,560
Speaker 2: Eight five five five three five I feel like there's

1429
01:02:35,600 --> 01:02:37,560
Speaker 2: usually somebody in the room who's watching, you know, one

1430
01:02:37,640 --> 01:02:40,720
Speaker 2: of everything. Someone in here covers all of it. You know,

1431
01:02:40,960 --> 01:02:44,880
Speaker 2: do we have any Minecraft people? I like it you

1432
01:02:45,040 --> 01:02:47,960
Speaker 2: like Minecraft game or the or the like the movies

1433
01:02:48,200 --> 01:02:50,120
Speaker 2: that kind of stuff. Because it was a movie. Of course,

1434
01:02:50,160 --> 01:02:51,760
Speaker 2: it was I think the biggest movie in a long time.

1435
01:02:51,920 --> 01:02:54,600
Speaker 4: Yeah, there's wee records. But did you go No, they

1436
01:02:54,640 --> 01:02:56,280
Speaker 4: sent me a nice pr box that was cool.

1437
01:02:56,680 --> 01:02:59,880
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, okay, so you're a Minecraft girl. Mycraft

1438
01:03:00,120 --> 01:03:00,439
Speaker 1: no idea.

1439
01:03:00,520 --> 01:03:01,800
Speaker 4: I'm going this week because you know, we.

1440
01:03:01,840 --> 01:03:04,640
Speaker 2: Got the housewives people, we have the Dateline people, me,

1441
01:03:05,200 --> 01:03:09,080
Speaker 2: you have the we have the sports people, Jason, Mom,

1442
01:03:09,400 --> 01:03:10,960
Speaker 2: we have a team Mom, Piky.

1443
01:03:11,960 --> 01:03:15,360
Speaker 4: We have like fortune, but we haven't like.

1444
01:03:15,440 --> 01:03:17,200
Speaker 1: I really do you do?

1445
01:03:17,440 --> 01:03:19,920
Speaker 4: Yeah, before we do, I have a story for you.

1446
01:03:20,240 --> 01:03:21,840
Speaker 4: That's why I came to work today and that will

1447
01:03:21,880 --> 01:03:23,720
Speaker 4: be in the second port. So you're gonna have to hang.

1448
01:03:23,640 --> 01:03:25,480
Speaker 1: Around exciting week and we have a fortune.

1449
01:03:25,480 --> 01:03:25,680
Speaker 12: I know.

1450
01:03:26,000 --> 01:03:26,920
Speaker 4: That's I'm clucking.

1451
01:03:27,640 --> 01:03:30,520
Speaker 2: Why I bring this up because I don't I'm not watching, okay,

1452
01:03:30,560 --> 01:03:34,600
Speaker 2: And you know sometimes I just reject. I just say no, no,

1453
01:03:34,800 --> 01:03:38,120
Speaker 2: moss is what I say sometimes when everyone's talking about something.

1454
01:03:38,200 --> 01:03:40,440
Speaker 2: What do you mean you know how that goes? Are

1455
01:03:40,440 --> 01:03:41,440
Speaker 2: you watching Severance? No?

1456
01:03:41,640 --> 01:03:42,520
Speaker 1: What do you mean?

1457
01:03:42,800 --> 01:03:44,120
Speaker 2: You know the thing that people do when you're not

1458
01:03:44,160 --> 01:03:45,640
Speaker 2: watching the show that everyone else is watching.

1459
01:03:45,960 --> 01:03:46,640
Speaker 1: And I just I don't know.

1460
01:03:46,680 --> 01:03:48,280
Speaker 2: I haven't watched it, and now at this point I

1461
01:03:48,360 --> 01:03:50,200
Speaker 2: might just not watch it out of principle. Just I'm

1462
01:03:50,240 --> 01:03:53,480
Speaker 2: just not going to. But so I don't really know

1463
01:03:53,560 --> 01:03:55,200
Speaker 2: what it's about. So I need someone who explained this

1464
01:03:55,280 --> 01:03:55,440
Speaker 2: to me.

1465
01:03:55,920 --> 01:03:56,720
Speaker 1: But there's a big story.

1466
01:03:56,760 --> 01:03:59,960
Speaker 2: Today, over a third of real life employees would will

1467
01:04:00,000 --> 01:04:03,960
Speaker 2: only undergo the procedure to sever their work memories from

1468
01:04:03,960 --> 01:04:09,280
Speaker 2: their personal lives, like britt Lower did as Helly on

1469
01:04:09,320 --> 01:04:12,840
Speaker 2: Apple TV Severance. Among eighteen to twenty five year olds,

1470
01:04:13,600 --> 01:04:16,400
Speaker 2: the figure rose to almost fifty percent. Among workers age

1471
01:04:16,440 --> 01:04:18,920
Speaker 2: fifty five and over, only one in five would want

1472
01:04:18,920 --> 01:04:21,320
Speaker 2: to be severed. One expert says the fact that somebody

1473
01:04:21,360 --> 01:04:24,920
Speaker 2: employees relate to the characters in Severance shows just how

1474
01:04:25,000 --> 01:04:27,800
Speaker 2: blurred the lines between work and personal life have become.

1475
01:04:28,320 --> 01:04:30,640
Speaker 2: The research is a stark reminder of the stress and

1476
01:04:30,680 --> 01:04:33,480
Speaker 2: pressure people face today. No one should feel the need

1477
01:04:33,640 --> 01:04:36,240
Speaker 2: to completely forget about their work lives just to cope,

1478
01:04:36,760 --> 01:04:40,040
Speaker 2: rather than employees feeling the need to disconnect entirely from

1479
01:04:40,080 --> 01:04:42,840
Speaker 2: work to protect their mental health. Leaders should build cultures

1480
01:04:42,840 --> 01:04:45,760
Speaker 2: where people feel able to bring their whole selves to

1481
01:04:45,920 --> 01:04:50,760
Speaker 2: work without feeling overwhelmed or burnt out. Okay, so I

1482
01:04:50,840 --> 01:04:52,440
Speaker 2: guess I don't know if I need someone to explain

1483
01:04:52,480 --> 01:04:55,280
Speaker 2: this to me, Like, okay, so that's what the show

1484
01:04:55,360 --> 01:04:58,680
Speaker 2: is about. The show is about that you don't remember

1485
01:04:58,840 --> 01:05:01,880
Speaker 2: work when you're at home. I guess that would be

1486
01:05:02,000 --> 01:05:03,280
Speaker 2: nice for something, I guess.

1487
01:05:03,560 --> 01:05:03,760
Speaker 8: Yeah.

1488
01:05:04,720 --> 01:05:07,320
Speaker 6: Okay, So Mark leads a team of office workers whose

1489
01:05:07,400 --> 01:05:10,280
Speaker 6: memories have been surgically divided, like you said, between their

1490
01:05:10,360 --> 01:05:13,080
Speaker 6: work and personal lives. So yeah, you don't you don't

1491
01:05:13,080 --> 01:05:14,680
Speaker 6: have any memories of it when you're at the other

1492
01:05:15,680 --> 01:05:17,280
Speaker 6: I don't know, that's yea.

1493
01:05:17,280 --> 01:05:20,040
Speaker 7: I feel like that would be good for everyone's mental health, correct,

1494
01:05:20,120 --> 01:05:22,520
Speaker 7: you know, like you can really clock in and enjoy

1495
01:05:22,600 --> 01:05:27,200
Speaker 7: your family without checking email worrying about like Sunday scaries.

1496
01:05:27,280 --> 01:05:29,400
Speaker 4: I don't know if you guys get that, but girl, yeah,

1497
01:05:29,560 --> 01:05:30,400
Speaker 4: like Sunday.

1498
01:05:30,080 --> 01:05:35,280
Speaker 7: Scaries, you can really just enjoy without thinking about what's

1499
01:05:35,360 --> 01:05:36,360
Speaker 7: what's facing.

1500
01:05:36,040 --> 01:05:36,680
Speaker 4: You on Monday.

1501
01:05:36,840 --> 01:05:38,560
Speaker 1: I love the people that think that that's what this

1502
01:05:38,720 --> 01:05:40,680
Speaker 1: job is for. A lot of people like.

1503
01:05:41,040 --> 01:05:42,880
Speaker 2: Like, oh, Fred, you just you just go in there

1504
01:05:42,920 --> 01:05:44,400
Speaker 2: and talk and then you go home and like take

1505
01:05:44,400 --> 01:05:49,000
Speaker 2: a nap and whatever. It's like, yeah, this is well

1506
01:05:49,120 --> 01:05:50,080
Speaker 2: not for Jason.

1507
01:05:50,000 --> 01:05:51,520
Speaker 4: Wake up in the middle of the night at least

1508
01:05:51,520 --> 01:05:53,520
Speaker 4: three to four times agreement freaking out.

1509
01:05:53,560 --> 01:05:56,040
Speaker 1: Oh you have four full time jobs, so there's that.

1510
01:05:56,160 --> 01:05:57,880
Speaker 1: It would be amazing to not think about that.

1511
01:05:58,200 --> 01:06:00,720
Speaker 2: But don't you think more about the other crap than

1512
01:06:00,760 --> 01:06:03,120
Speaker 2: you do this, Like oh yeah, yeah, because it's like

1513
01:06:03,160 --> 01:06:06,080
Speaker 2: you've got actual jobs once you leave here, Like you're

1514
01:06:06,160 --> 01:06:08,240
Speaker 2: the moron who decided during COVID to come in here

1515
01:06:08,560 --> 01:06:11,720
Speaker 2: and give yourself another job, and I'm so glad you did.

1516
01:06:12,480 --> 01:06:14,720
Speaker 2: You were my favorite moron for that because you've made

1517
01:06:14,720 --> 01:06:16,720
Speaker 2: this show so much better. But at the same time,

1518
01:06:16,800 --> 01:06:18,880
Speaker 2: you also made yourself. So it was like, I remember

1519
01:06:18,920 --> 01:06:21,880
Speaker 2: when you know, COVID started and you you were doing

1520
01:06:22,440 --> 01:06:25,160
Speaker 2: promotions in marketing for a couple of radio stations, and

1521
01:06:25,320 --> 01:06:27,360
Speaker 2: you had the forethought to say, you know what, I

1522
01:06:27,400 --> 01:06:28,960
Speaker 2: don't think we're gonna be doing a lot of events,

1523
01:06:30,240 --> 01:06:32,120
Speaker 2: and so you came in here and decided I'm gonna

1524
01:06:32,120 --> 01:06:33,560
Speaker 2: start learning how to do morning show stuff.

1525
01:06:33,560 --> 01:06:35,439
Speaker 1: And we were like great. And then when COVID was over.

1526
01:06:35,760 --> 01:06:37,520
Speaker 2: I remember the suits at the time were like, great,

1527
01:06:37,560 --> 01:06:40,880
Speaker 2: so Jason's going back to work now, and I'm like, uhhh,

1528
01:06:41,960 --> 01:06:46,160
Speaker 2: That's exactly how I responded professionally. I go, y'all better

1529
01:06:46,200 --> 01:06:49,000
Speaker 2: figure it out, because my boy's not leaving. He's ours now,

1530
01:06:49,800 --> 01:06:51,320
Speaker 2: you know. And then so here you are. But you

1531
01:06:51,360 --> 01:06:53,160
Speaker 2: know what, they did figure it out. They just gave

1532
01:06:53,240 --> 01:06:56,160
Speaker 2: you this and all the time they figured it out.

1533
01:06:56,440 --> 01:06:58,800
Speaker 13: Yeah yeah, yeah, I mean I just sit here in

1534
01:06:58,840 --> 01:07:00,760
Speaker 13: the app so yeah, No, it's definitely this stuff after

1535
01:07:00,880 --> 01:07:01,880
Speaker 13: this show that.

1536
01:07:02,280 --> 01:07:02,920
Speaker 1: You do more than that.

1537
01:07:03,040 --> 01:07:03,360
Speaker 9: But or.

1538
01:07:05,360 --> 01:07:09,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm not saying this is a hard people driving work.

1539
01:07:09,680 --> 01:07:11,560
Speaker 2: I'm not speaking for myself. People driving to work right

1540
01:07:11,600 --> 01:07:14,040
Speaker 2: now work a lot harder than I do. That's That's

1541
01:07:14,080 --> 01:07:15,960
Speaker 2: not what I'm saying. But for those who think that

1542
01:07:16,040 --> 01:07:17,440
Speaker 2: we just get to come in here and talk and

1543
01:07:17,480 --> 01:07:20,479
Speaker 2: then there's like nothing that happens after that, that would

1544
01:07:20,520 --> 01:07:22,560
Speaker 2: be silly. You would be silly for thinking it's silly.

1545
01:07:24,840 --> 01:07:26,120
Speaker 2: But I don't know, I don't think you could do that.

1546
01:07:26,240 --> 01:07:28,680
Speaker 2: You couldn't do this job and pretend like you you

1547
01:07:28,760 --> 01:07:31,920
Speaker 2: couldn't do it. I don't think you could. I don't

1548
01:07:31,960 --> 01:07:34,800
Speaker 2: think you could have a radio show and and you know,

1549
01:07:34,960 --> 01:07:40,200
Speaker 2: have a personality radio show and then no personality well

1550
01:07:40,480 --> 01:07:41,800
Speaker 2: and your life doesn't come into it.

1551
01:07:42,080 --> 01:07:44,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, we wouldn't be able to do this job that way. Yeah.

1552
01:07:44,680 --> 01:07:46,560
Speaker 3: I read an article recently that was talking about like,

1553
01:07:46,640 --> 01:07:48,480
Speaker 3: you know, when you're at work, you know, you should

1554
01:07:48,560 --> 01:07:51,200
Speaker 3: never overshare, you should never tell your call workers about

1555
01:07:51,200 --> 01:07:53,280
Speaker 3: your life, keep things separate. And I'm like, honey, with

1556
01:07:53,360 --> 01:07:55,280
Speaker 3: this job, like I wouldn't have a job because like

1557
01:07:55,360 --> 01:07:58,080
Speaker 3: I got it, I got to talk about right or

1558
01:07:58,960 --> 01:08:00,400
Speaker 3: point of the other.

1559
01:08:01,160 --> 01:08:03,680
Speaker 2: On Severn, someone textedly this seven o eight on sevens.

1560
01:08:03,720 --> 01:08:05,840
Speaker 2: You don't even recognize the people you work with outside

1561
01:08:05,880 --> 01:08:09,040
Speaker 2: of work. It's a complete separation. Imagine you could go

1562
01:08:09,120 --> 01:08:12,200
Speaker 2: to work hungover and feel bad but not know why

1563
01:08:13,560 --> 01:08:16,240
Speaker 2: because you don't bring your personal life into work, and

1564
01:08:16,320 --> 01:08:18,600
Speaker 2: then you don't bring work into your personal life, so

1565
01:08:18,600 --> 01:08:19,639
Speaker 2: it's completely divided.

1566
01:08:19,800 --> 01:08:22,240
Speaker 4: Well, that'd be terrifying to feel crappy and not know why.

1567
01:08:23,120 --> 01:08:24,479
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know if this would work.

1568
01:08:25,600 --> 01:08:27,760
Speaker 6: And we see each other like we like basically live

1569
01:08:27,800 --> 01:08:29,679
Speaker 6: together right as well, So I don't.

1570
01:08:29,479 --> 01:08:30,439
Speaker 4: Think it would work for us.

1571
01:08:31,520 --> 01:08:33,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean cameln gosh, she hogs all the covers,

1572
01:08:34,000 --> 01:08:35,040
Speaker 2: like every day I wake up.

1573
01:08:35,240 --> 01:08:38,160
Speaker 4: We are the grandparents in willy Wonka. We all share

1574
01:08:38,200 --> 01:08:40,800
Speaker 4: a bed, We see each other more than I see

1575
01:08:40,800 --> 01:08:42,960
Speaker 4: my family times. Absolutely really, and.

1576
01:08:43,200 --> 01:08:44,800
Speaker 2: She needs to keep it down at night, okay, because

1577
01:08:44,840 --> 01:08:48,200
Speaker 2: because Uncle Fred needs some sleep in this frat house

1578
01:08:48,240 --> 01:08:50,639
Speaker 2: that we live in together all day. The real world

1579
01:08:50,880 --> 01:08:55,160
Speaker 2: Fred Show not true stories. And if you don't know

1580
01:08:55,240 --> 01:09:00,719
Speaker 2: that record, you don't know. You don't know nothing. Hey, Lanah, Hi, Okay,

1581
01:09:00,800 --> 01:09:03,040
Speaker 2: So thank you for trying to explain Severence to us.

1582
01:09:03,360 --> 01:09:05,280
Speaker 2: So what is the premise of this show? And why

1583
01:09:05,320 --> 01:09:05,960
Speaker 2: should I watch it?

1584
01:09:07,160 --> 01:09:07,479
Speaker 19: Okay?

1585
01:09:07,760 --> 01:09:13,080
Speaker 14: So Severance is basically like a corporate sci fi So,

1586
01:09:13,920 --> 01:09:16,920
Speaker 14: like you've heard, like the premises that people undergo this

1587
01:09:17,000 --> 01:09:22,479
Speaker 14: surgical procedure to divide their workplace memories from their personal lives.

1588
01:09:22,560 --> 01:09:25,200
Speaker 14: But it's a procedure that only exists at this one

1589
01:09:25,840 --> 01:09:28,280
Speaker 14: giant corporation essentially to.

1590
01:09:28,439 --> 01:09:29,479
Speaker 4: Keep their secrets.

1591
01:09:30,120 --> 01:09:32,920
Speaker 14: But part of what's scary about that is you don't

1592
01:09:32,960 --> 01:09:35,880
Speaker 14: know what the corporation is doing, and also you create

1593
01:09:36,000 --> 01:09:39,920
Speaker 14: this entirely different version of yourself with none of your

1594
01:09:40,040 --> 01:09:43,920
Speaker 14: personal memories that only exists at work, so they know

1595
01:09:44,160 --> 01:09:48,120
Speaker 14: nothing about anything else except what it's like to be

1596
01:09:48,439 --> 01:09:51,400
Speaker 14: at that office and you don't know how the office

1597
01:09:51,520 --> 01:09:56,000
Speaker 14: is treating you when you're like outside, Like they can

1598
01:09:56,120 --> 01:09:57,960
Speaker 14: do anything to you, and they can just give you

1599
01:09:58,120 --> 01:10:00,840
Speaker 14: a random explanation for what happened to you, but that's

1600
01:10:01,400 --> 01:10:04,680
Speaker 14: usually in severance at least, not what actually happened to you.

1601
01:10:05,120 --> 01:10:05,960
Speaker 1: Is this a good thing?

1602
01:10:06,320 --> 01:10:06,960
Speaker 3: Like it?

1603
01:10:07,560 --> 01:10:09,040
Speaker 1: Do you watch this and go I would want this?

1604
01:10:10,320 --> 01:10:14,519
Speaker 2: No? I'm guessing that the premise or the idea is

1605
01:10:14,600 --> 01:10:17,240
Speaker 2: that people and the reason that people in this survey

1606
01:10:18,360 --> 01:10:21,080
Speaker 2: wanted is because they wish they could just leave work

1607
01:10:21,120 --> 01:10:22,680
Speaker 2: and not have to think about it anymore. So I

1608
01:10:22,720 --> 01:10:24,720
Speaker 2: guess that would be the upside, right, is that you

1609
01:10:25,120 --> 01:10:27,240
Speaker 2: don't have to you know, like Kiki's been worried about

1610
01:10:27,240 --> 01:10:29,280
Speaker 2: the show of this Kiky Showdown all weekend. Well, I

1611
01:10:29,320 --> 01:10:31,160
Speaker 2: guess if she were on severance, then she'd walk out

1612
01:10:31,160 --> 01:10:32,599
Speaker 2: of here and she wouldn't even know that she had

1613
01:10:33,040 --> 01:10:34,800
Speaker 2: worked here, right, wouldn't worry about it?

1614
01:10:35,760 --> 01:10:38,920
Speaker 14: Yeah, that's true. I mean, well that's part of like

1615
01:10:39,080 --> 01:10:41,760
Speaker 14: the they have like ethical debates. Like in the show,

1616
01:10:41,920 --> 01:10:44,680
Speaker 14: there's people who are like, no, severance is bad, You're

1617
01:10:44,720 --> 01:10:48,599
Speaker 14: treating like a slave version of yourself. And then there's

1618
01:10:48,600 --> 01:10:50,720
Speaker 14: people who are like, actually, I would really want this,

1619
01:10:50,880 --> 01:10:52,920
Speaker 14: Like a lot of the characters who like undergo the

1620
01:10:53,000 --> 01:10:58,080
Speaker 14: procedure had like personal dramas that they were trying to forget,

1621
01:10:58,240 --> 01:11:02,759
Speaker 14: like the main character's wife, and so he went underwent

1622
01:11:02,800 --> 01:11:05,120
Speaker 14: the seferances each here because of he went to like

1623
01:11:05,200 --> 01:11:06,280
Speaker 14: separate morning time.

1624
01:11:08,120 --> 01:11:10,320
Speaker 2: I guess, but isn't life kind of managing all the

1625
01:11:10,360 --> 01:11:12,240
Speaker 2: different things and trying to figure it out? I mean,

1626
01:11:12,439 --> 01:11:16,840
Speaker 2: I guess I'm making this a little bit more existential

1627
01:11:16,880 --> 01:11:17,479
Speaker 2: than it needs to be.

1628
01:11:17,800 --> 01:11:18,840
Speaker 1: But I get it.

1629
01:11:18,880 --> 01:11:20,639
Speaker 2: I get the idea that people would like to leave

1630
01:11:20,720 --> 01:11:23,280
Speaker 2: work at work and then go live their personal lives

1631
01:11:23,360 --> 01:11:25,760
Speaker 2: and then come and then work starts again and then

1632
01:11:25,800 --> 01:11:27,120
Speaker 2: they can leave, and you know what I mean. And

1633
01:11:27,560 --> 01:11:29,439
Speaker 2: I think it's true a lot of businesses don't allow

1634
01:11:29,479 --> 01:11:31,880
Speaker 2: that because now we all have email on our phones

1635
01:11:32,000 --> 01:11:34,840
Speaker 2: and you know, the full internet everywhere we go on

1636
01:11:35,120 --> 01:11:36,960
Speaker 2: like twenty years ago, where it was like, oh you

1637
01:11:37,000 --> 01:11:38,360
Speaker 2: sent me an email, I don't know. I didn't have

1638
01:11:38,400 --> 01:11:41,479
Speaker 2: dial up internet where I was, so I couldn't see it,

1639
01:11:41,560 --> 01:11:43,400
Speaker 2: like you could really only do the work stuff. And

1640
01:11:43,479 --> 01:11:45,479
Speaker 2: even though this place will say like, well, don't email

1641
01:11:45,520 --> 01:11:49,240
Speaker 2: after five or whatever. Everybody emails after five, and there's

1642
01:11:49,240 --> 01:11:50,640
Speaker 2: no way that I'm going to wait to email you

1643
01:11:50,760 --> 01:11:52,680
Speaker 2: back until nine am the next day. And even though

1644
01:11:52,720 --> 01:11:54,360
Speaker 2: they say that's what you're supposed to be allowed to do,

1645
01:11:54,720 --> 01:11:56,960
Speaker 2: you're not allowed to do that. Everybody knows that. So

1646
01:11:57,160 --> 01:11:58,920
Speaker 2: I don't know a lot of Hey, thank you, have

1647
01:11:58,960 --> 01:12:00,200
Speaker 2: a great day, thanks for listening.

1648
01:12:01,040 --> 01:12:02,160
Speaker 14: Yeah, no problem, big fan.

1649
01:12:02,320 --> 01:12:04,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, oh, thank you so much. I don't I don't know,

1650
01:12:04,320 --> 01:12:06,280
Speaker 1: big fan of you, Ulana. I don't know. I just

1651
01:12:06,320 --> 01:12:07,800
Speaker 1: don't know. I don't know. I don't know this.

1652
01:12:08,040 --> 01:12:10,519
Speaker 2: This job wouldn't work because you got to be able

1653
01:12:10,600 --> 01:12:14,120
Speaker 2: to bring that in here and whatever. But at the

1654
01:12:14,160 --> 01:12:18,280
Speaker 2: same time, I guess if I had a job that

1655
01:12:18,400 --> 01:12:20,000
Speaker 2: was a little it was it was different. You know,

1656
01:12:20,080 --> 01:12:22,040
Speaker 2: Like if I had an accounting job or something, and

1657
01:12:22,120 --> 01:12:24,280
Speaker 2: you're paying me forty hours a week or something, and

1658
01:12:24,680 --> 01:12:26,240
Speaker 2: I do that and then I leave and then you're

1659
01:12:26,320 --> 01:12:28,400
Speaker 2: you're texting me about accounting at eight o'clock at night,

1660
01:12:28,439 --> 01:12:30,360
Speaker 2: that would be annoying because well, there's nothing. I'm not

1661
01:12:30,400 --> 01:12:33,639
Speaker 2: going to account for anything until tomorrow. Like there's gonna

1662
01:12:33,640 --> 01:12:36,080
Speaker 2: be no accounting happening now, Like we're gonna account tomorrow.

1663
01:12:37,240 --> 01:12:39,200
Speaker 2: But then I think there are probably people listening now

1664
01:12:39,280 --> 01:12:41,720
Speaker 2: going But I throw all of myself into the job.

1665
01:12:41,760 --> 01:12:43,760
Speaker 2: That's why I'm good at it, you know, That's why

1666
01:12:43,800 --> 01:12:45,920
Speaker 2: I excel. That's why I make more money than other people,

1667
01:12:46,000 --> 01:12:48,680
Speaker 2: because I'm willing to not have that divide. I don't know,

1668
01:12:49,960 --> 01:12:51,479
Speaker 2: because how do you how do you how do you

1669
01:12:52,360 --> 01:12:54,680
Speaker 2: separate yourself from everybody else? If you just if you

1670
01:12:54,800 --> 01:12:57,479
Speaker 2: just walk out us like you were never there. True,

1671
01:12:57,720 --> 01:13:00,800
Speaker 2: now you're just like a cog anda wheel this and

1672
01:13:00,880 --> 01:13:02,519
Speaker 2: you know what, Now I'm interested, and I may watch

1673
01:13:02,560 --> 01:13:06,160
Speaker 2: the show Camwen's Entertainment Report, and he's on the Bread Show.

1674
01:13:07,200 --> 01:13:09,640
Speaker 6: Lana del Rey went from singing diet Pepsi in her

1675
01:13:09,680 --> 01:13:13,200
Speaker 6: car to on stage at Wembley Stadium, inviting Addison ray

1676
01:13:13,600 --> 01:13:16,880
Speaker 6: Back out to perform Alongsider, the pair also saying Lana's

1677
01:13:16,920 --> 01:13:19,879
Speaker 6: new song fifty seven point five, that song she debuted

1678
01:13:20,120 --> 01:13:23,240
Speaker 6: at stage Coach when you talked about Morgan walland afterwards

1679
01:13:23,320 --> 01:13:26,360
Speaker 6: Addison tag Lana thanking Harry, writing I'll never forget this.

1680
01:13:26,560 --> 01:13:29,720
Speaker 6: Thank you so much to the most beautiful divine woman, heart,

1681
01:13:29,880 --> 01:13:31,200
Speaker 6: soul mind, Lana.

1682
01:13:31,439 --> 01:13:33,720
Speaker 4: I'm the happiest and luckiest girl on Earth. She said,

1683
01:13:33,920 --> 01:13:34,799
Speaker 4: you are forever.

1684
01:13:35,360 --> 01:13:37,840
Speaker 6: Addison was one of a trio of opening acts for

1685
01:13:38,120 --> 01:13:41,080
Speaker 6: Lana and now that that overseas tour is over, we

1686
01:13:41,160 --> 01:13:43,880
Speaker 6: are waiting for her tenth studio album, which has changed

1687
01:13:44,120 --> 01:13:46,439
Speaker 6: date and names so many times, but I hope.

1688
01:13:46,320 --> 01:13:49,360
Speaker 4: We get it soon. Katy Perry and Orlando Bloom were.

1689
01:13:49,320 --> 01:13:52,240
Speaker 6: Spotted together for the first time since splitting up the exes.

1690
01:13:52,600 --> 01:13:55,439
Speaker 6: We're on a big old sailing boat along Italy's a

1691
01:13:56,000 --> 01:13:59,559
Speaker 6: Malfe Coast as they planned or played rather with their

1692
01:13:59,560 --> 01:14:02,440
Speaker 6: four year ol daughter Daisy and mingled with Jeff Bezos

1693
01:14:02,479 --> 01:14:05,479
Speaker 6: and his new Wifeye remember Katie missed the big wedding

1694
01:14:05,520 --> 01:14:08,000
Speaker 6: in Ventice she was touring in Australia, and they broke

1695
01:14:08,040 --> 01:14:10,840
Speaker 6: their silence via their reps on Wednesday, just saying that

1696
01:14:10,920 --> 01:14:14,080
Speaker 6: they've slowly shifted from romance to co parenting and they

1697
01:14:14,160 --> 01:14:16,640
Speaker 6: planned to be seen together as a family, which is

1698
01:14:17,280 --> 01:14:17,920
Speaker 6: what they're doing.

1699
01:14:18,080 --> 01:14:20,560
Speaker 4: And lastly, real quick, this is why I'm superstitious.

1700
01:14:20,680 --> 01:14:23,280
Speaker 6: Just months after Denise Richards said that she's never going

1701
01:14:23,360 --> 01:14:27,600
Speaker 6: to get divorced again, the actress and former Real Housewife

1702
01:14:28,040 --> 01:14:32,160
Speaker 6: is getting divorced. Her husband filed after six years of marriage. Remember,

1703
01:14:32,200 --> 01:14:34,439
Speaker 6: she was accused of having an affair with that fellow

1704
01:14:34,520 --> 01:14:37,479
Speaker 6: housewife Brandy Glanville during the time of her marriage.

1705
01:14:37,479 --> 01:14:40,120
Speaker 4: Always denied it. But the divorce comes a few months after.

1706
01:14:40,280 --> 01:14:43,360
Speaker 6: Like I said on the March premiere of her Bravo show,

1707
01:14:43,920 --> 01:14:46,640
Speaker 6: she said she's never getting divorced again. Aaron responded, they

1708
01:14:46,680 --> 01:14:48,920
Speaker 6: could just live in different homes instead of getting divorced.

1709
01:14:48,960 --> 01:14:50,720
Speaker 4: But apparently he changed his mind.

1710
01:14:50,760 --> 01:14:54,160
Speaker 6: He's seeking spousal support and the return of his power tools,

1711
01:14:54,560 --> 01:14:56,880
Speaker 6: by the way, which made me giggle. If you miss

1712
01:14:56,920 --> 01:14:58,639
Speaker 6: any part of our show, just type the Fred Show

1713
01:14:58,720 --> 01:15:01,360
Speaker 6: on demand. And so this is a preset on the

1714
01:15:01,400 --> 01:15:02,080
Speaker 6: free I heard.

1715
01:15:01,960 --> 01:15:03,800
Speaker 4: Radiato more Fread Show.

1716
01:15:04,000 --> 01:15:09,200
Speaker 1: Next, the Fread Show is on Fred's Fun Fact.

1717
01:15:09,600 --> 01:15:10,639
Speaker 4: Fred Fun.

1718
01:15:16,680 --> 01:15:19,800
Speaker 1: So Much, Learn so much.

1719
01:15:21,120 --> 01:15:24,799
Speaker 2: Guys, did you know there's a song by Randy Newman

1720
01:15:25,560 --> 01:15:29,160
Speaker 2: that was almost banned. It was almost banned, It wasn't

1721
01:15:29,200 --> 01:15:31,960
Speaker 2: actually in the state of Maryland. It's called short People.

1722
01:15:32,840 --> 01:15:35,800
Speaker 2: This is from I Believe nineteen seventy seven. Let me

1723
01:15:35,880 --> 01:15:37,720
Speaker 2: play you this song for a second. You got to

1724
01:15:37,800 --> 01:15:39,439
Speaker 2: understand the actual meaning here.

1725
01:15:39,600 --> 01:15:40,120
Speaker 1: But here it is.

1726
01:15:40,240 --> 01:15:51,040
Speaker 2: This is a Randy Newman's song called short People. Reason

1727
01:15:54,200 --> 01:16:01,639
Speaker 2: no Reason, got no reason to live the disrespect Brandy.

1728
01:16:01,840 --> 01:16:03,519
Speaker 2: Here is the song, I mean the short King's out

1729
01:16:03,520 --> 01:16:07,240
Speaker 2: there now. It's important to realize that this song is

1730
01:16:07,280 --> 01:16:10,439
Speaker 2: meant to be a satirical take on short sighted people

1731
01:16:10,920 --> 01:16:14,519
Speaker 2: and intolerance and prejudice. But the state of Maryland didn't

1732
01:16:14,560 --> 01:16:16,439
Speaker 2: take coldly to the tune. In nineteen seventy eight, a

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Speaker 2: delegate tried to introduce legislation to make it illegal to

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Speaker 2: play this song on the radio, proposing a five hundred

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Speaker 2: dollars fine. However, his effort was unsuccessful. The Assistant Attorney

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Speaker 2: General deemed that the move would be a violation of

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Speaker 2: the First Amendment. So he's not talking about actual short people.

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Speaker 2: He's talking about short sighted people who were, you know,

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Speaker 2: not open minded to different kinds of things.

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Speaker 1: So there, that's not what he say it right, Oh

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Speaker 1: you s you're taking him literally.

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Speaker 4: Yes, he said short people. I didn't hear nothing about

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Speaker 4: a side.

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Speaker 1: Well, we didn't hear the whole song.

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Speaker 2: Oh well you look at you go band the song anyway,

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Speaker 2: I hope I do not have to pay five hundred

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Speaker 2: bucks now so

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