1 00:00:00,320 --> 00:00:04,480 Speaker 1: Oh boy, here we go. This is crazy subject. Husband 2 00:00:04,600 --> 00:00:09,000 Speaker 1: has lost his wrath. Dear Mr Harvey and Morning Crew, 3 00:00:09,160 --> 00:00:12,200 Speaker 1: I have an irritating problem with my husband. I am 4 00:00:12,280 --> 00:00:15,520 Speaker 1: so sick and tired of my husband trying to be 5 00:00:15,560 --> 00:00:18,319 Speaker 1: a rap artist. He goes to the studio on his 6 00:00:18,440 --> 00:00:22,239 Speaker 1: days off to record some more of his music and quotations. 7 00:00:22,480 --> 00:00:24,800 Speaker 1: My husband likes to play the music he makes around 8 00:00:24,800 --> 00:00:27,480 Speaker 1: the house, and I am really tired of it. Now. 9 00:00:27,800 --> 00:00:31,400 Speaker 1: I want to hear Luther Vandras, Tina Marie or some jaheem, 10 00:00:31,440 --> 00:00:35,839 Speaker 1: But no, I got to keep hearing his weak attempt 11 00:00:35,880 --> 00:00:39,519 Speaker 1: at musical genius. We have fiercely discussed how he is 12 00:00:39,560 --> 00:00:41,960 Speaker 1: not making any cash with his music, and we have 13 00:00:42,040 --> 00:00:45,720 Speaker 1: discussed how I despise him leaving me at night alone 14 00:00:45,800 --> 00:00:48,280 Speaker 1: in the house while he is staying out late with 15 00:00:48,320 --> 00:00:51,440 Speaker 1: the boys at the studio. My husband still insists that 16 00:00:51,520 --> 00:00:54,040 Speaker 1: one day we will be kicking it with the rich 17 00:00:54,080 --> 00:00:56,760 Speaker 1: and famous. I don't think any married man has any 18 00:00:56,800 --> 00:00:59,400 Speaker 1: business walking in the door at two a m. So 19 00:00:59,640 --> 00:01:03,640 Speaker 1: drunk his bowels release on himself and high as a kite. 20 00:01:04,520 --> 00:01:07,160 Speaker 1: What kind of music can be made like that? He's 21 00:01:07,200 --> 00:01:09,440 Speaker 1: too old now to get in the game. He has 22 00:01:09,520 --> 00:01:11,920 Speaker 1: lost his edge. We are now in our mid thirties. 23 00:01:12,319 --> 00:01:15,479 Speaker 1: He's really sensitive about this subject, very much like those 24 00:01:15,560 --> 00:01:18,680 Speaker 1: less talented people on American Idol who insists they are 25 00:01:18,760 --> 00:01:21,760 Speaker 1: the bomb, but truly they aren't that good. I have 26 00:01:21,920 --> 00:01:24,919 Speaker 1: tried to discuss this with him, but he will not listen. 27 00:01:25,160 --> 00:01:27,679 Speaker 1: He insists that he's got what it takes, and I 28 00:01:27,680 --> 00:01:31,280 Speaker 1: am being a hater. No, I don't hate on my husband. 29 00:01:31,400 --> 00:01:33,959 Speaker 1: I want him to be a better bill payer. Yes, 30 00:01:34,000 --> 00:01:36,640 Speaker 1: he is working two part time jobs and bringing home 31 00:01:36,640 --> 00:01:40,160 Speaker 1: a small check. I couldn't have. I couldn't have had 32 00:01:40,200 --> 00:01:42,880 Speaker 1: a sweeter man for a husband. But like I said, 33 00:01:42,920 --> 00:01:46,720 Speaker 1: this rapping stuff at his age is just irritating. I 34 00:01:46,760 --> 00:01:49,120 Speaker 1: just want him to see reality for what it is, 35 00:01:49,400 --> 00:01:52,440 Speaker 1: but I don't know how to get him to understand. Yes, 36 00:01:52,520 --> 00:01:55,200 Speaker 1: I have completed my education, I have a well paying 37 00:01:55,320 --> 00:01:59,360 Speaker 1: career resulting in my success being a breadwinner for our family. 38 00:01:59,680 --> 00:02:03,200 Speaker 1: We don't have children, and since I am handling everything 39 00:02:03,320 --> 00:02:06,600 Speaker 1: cook account and handywoman, made, etcetera, I do not want 40 00:02:06,640 --> 00:02:09,120 Speaker 1: to add to my stress with the duties of motherhood, 41 00:02:09,440 --> 00:02:12,400 Speaker 1: even though he wants children. A little advice would be 42 00:02:12,440 --> 00:02:15,440 Speaker 1: appreciated on how I need to handle this since this 43 00:02:15,480 --> 00:02:18,880 Speaker 1: stuff is getting on my nerves. Husband lost his rap. 44 00:02:19,800 --> 00:02:23,600 Speaker 1: Dear husband, lost his rap. Okay, your husband is trifling, 45 00:02:23,960 --> 00:02:27,160 Speaker 1: He just really is. You know, um what he what 46 00:02:27,360 --> 00:02:29,760 Speaker 1: he's doing has nothing to do with you, and it 47 00:02:29,840 --> 00:02:32,200 Speaker 1: has nothing to do with this marriage. I mean, this 48 00:02:32,280 --> 00:02:34,680 Speaker 1: is all about getting out the house on his part 49 00:02:34,919 --> 00:02:38,240 Speaker 1: and thinking he's young. Uh, you know what is getting 50 00:02:38,320 --> 00:02:40,480 Speaker 1: drunk and high and losing his bowels and all that. 51 00:02:40,560 --> 00:02:43,120 Speaker 1: What does that have to do with being a rapper? Uh? 52 00:02:43,160 --> 00:02:46,640 Speaker 1: Your husband is selfish. He's just absolutely selfish. She needs 53 00:02:46,639 --> 00:02:49,440 Speaker 1: to get a regular, full time job to help you 54 00:02:49,560 --> 00:02:52,920 Speaker 1: out in the household. That he's got his priorities all 55 00:02:53,160 --> 00:02:56,080 Speaker 1: all screwed up. Alright, twelve minutes after we'll be back 56 00:02:56,440 --> 00:03:00,960 Speaker 1: you're listening to Alright, Come and Steve with part two 57 00:03:00,960 --> 00:03:07,239 Speaker 1: of your response to today's letter subject my husband has 58 00:03:07,440 --> 00:03:11,520 Speaker 1: lost his rap. Dear Mr Harving, Morning Crew, I have 59 00:03:11,520 --> 00:03:13,760 Speaker 1: an irritating problem with my husband. I'm so sick of 60 00:03:13,800 --> 00:03:15,840 Speaker 1: tired of my husband trying to be a rap artist. 61 00:03:16,160 --> 00:03:18,480 Speaker 1: He goes to the studio owners days off to record 62 00:03:18,560 --> 00:03:20,760 Speaker 1: some more of his music. My husband likes to play 63 00:03:20,840 --> 00:03:23,600 Speaker 1: the music he makes around the house and I'm really 64 00:03:23,639 --> 00:03:26,400 Speaker 1: tired of it right now. I want to hear Luther Vandross, 65 00:03:26,480 --> 00:03:30,840 Speaker 1: Tina Marie, or some John Heen, But now I gotta 66 00:03:30,960 --> 00:03:34,000 Speaker 1: keep hearing his weak attempt at musical genius. We have 67 00:03:34,200 --> 00:03:37,280 Speaker 1: fiercely discussed how he's not making any cash with his music, 68 00:03:37,320 --> 00:03:40,840 Speaker 1: and we have discussed how he's not making discuss how 69 00:03:40,840 --> 00:03:44,400 Speaker 1: he's not making him making any anything. Steve, I lost 70 00:03:44,440 --> 00:03:47,240 Speaker 1: my place. I'm not making any cash with his music. 71 00:03:47,280 --> 00:03:49,360 Speaker 1: We have discussed how I despise him leaving me at 72 00:03:49,440 --> 00:03:51,400 Speaker 1: night alone in the house while he is staying out 73 00:03:51,440 --> 00:03:53,960 Speaker 1: late with the boys at the studio. My husband still 74 00:03:54,040 --> 00:03:57,160 Speaker 1: insists that one day we will be kicking it with 75 00:03:57,200 --> 00:03:59,400 Speaker 1: the rich and famous. I don't think any married man 76 00:03:59,480 --> 00:04:02,240 Speaker 1: has any just walking in the door two am so 77 00:04:02,360 --> 00:04:06,720 Speaker 1: drunk his bows release on himself and high as a kite. 78 00:04:06,960 --> 00:04:09,480 Speaker 1: What kind of music can be made like that. He's 79 00:04:09,520 --> 00:04:12,320 Speaker 1: too old now to get in the game, and he 80 00:04:12,400 --> 00:04:15,440 Speaker 1: has lost his edge. We are in our mid thirties now. 81 00:04:15,480 --> 00:04:18,960 Speaker 1: He's really sensitive about the subject, very much like those 82 00:04:19,040 --> 00:04:21,560 Speaker 1: less talented people on American Island who insists they are 83 00:04:21,560 --> 00:04:24,680 Speaker 1: the bomb, but truthfully they aren't that good. I've tried 84 00:04:24,720 --> 00:04:27,279 Speaker 1: to discuss this with him, but he will not listen. 85 00:04:27,320 --> 00:04:29,480 Speaker 1: He insists that he's got what it takes and I'm 86 00:04:29,520 --> 00:04:32,520 Speaker 1: being a hater. No, I don't hate on my husband. 87 00:04:32,720 --> 00:04:35,120 Speaker 1: I want him to be a better bill pair. Yes, 88 00:04:35,160 --> 00:04:37,720 Speaker 1: he is working two part time jobs and bringing home 89 00:04:37,760 --> 00:04:40,719 Speaker 1: a small check. I couldn't have had a sweeter man 90 00:04:40,880 --> 00:04:44,000 Speaker 1: for a husband. But like I said, this rapping stuff 91 00:04:44,040 --> 00:04:47,200 Speaker 1: at his age is just irritating. I just want him 92 00:04:47,200 --> 00:04:48,919 Speaker 1: to see the reality of what it is, but I 93 00:04:48,960 --> 00:04:51,479 Speaker 1: don't know how to get him to understand. Yes, I 94 00:04:51,520 --> 00:04:53,799 Speaker 1: have completed my education, I have a well paying career, 95 00:04:53,839 --> 00:04:57,000 Speaker 1: resulting in myself being the breadwinner for our family. We 96 00:04:57,040 --> 00:05:00,719 Speaker 1: don't have children, and since I'm handling everything cook counting, handy, 97 00:05:00,760 --> 00:05:03,120 Speaker 1: woman made, etcetera, I did not want to add to 98 00:05:03,160 --> 00:05:06,000 Speaker 1: my stress with the duties of motherhood, even though he 99 00:05:06,080 --> 00:05:09,120 Speaker 1: wants children. A little advice would be appreciated on how 100 00:05:09,160 --> 00:05:11,520 Speaker 1: I need to handle this since this stuff is getting 101 00:05:11,520 --> 00:05:13,400 Speaker 1: on my nerves. Since this rap stuff is getting on 102 00:05:13,440 --> 00:05:16,120 Speaker 1: my nerves, husband lost his rap. Well, first of all, 103 00:05:16,560 --> 00:05:22,080 Speaker 1: interesting dilemma in front of you, man, many Steve, really, really, 104 00:05:22,120 --> 00:05:24,279 Speaker 1: I don't know what to say to yourself, This fool 105 00:05:24,360 --> 00:05:28,080 Speaker 1: is too old. Like you say, ain't no fool like 106 00:05:28,120 --> 00:05:30,560 Speaker 1: an old food, and thirty something in the rap game 107 00:05:30,680 --> 00:05:34,160 Speaker 1: is old, especially when you're not established. If you're l 108 00:05:34,440 --> 00:05:39,919 Speaker 1: L COO, j j Z P Diddy lu to all 109 00:05:40,000 --> 00:05:43,320 Speaker 1: of these boys, Uh that's been in the game for 110 00:05:43,440 --> 00:05:50,680 Speaker 1: a minute, then comming it's okay, snoop cue, but you 111 00:05:50,880 --> 00:05:57,040 Speaker 1: cannot get in the rap game at thirty five now 112 00:05:57,080 --> 00:05:59,760 Speaker 1: to prove to you that you're too old for this. 113 00:06:00,800 --> 00:06:03,240 Speaker 1: You hanging out at the studio now, lady, you're paying 114 00:06:03,279 --> 00:06:05,560 Speaker 1: for all of this because your husband taking his little 115 00:06:05,600 --> 00:06:09,120 Speaker 1: small checks and buying studio time. That's probably why the 116 00:06:09,200 --> 00:06:11,560 Speaker 1: young boys letting him come in there, because they get 117 00:06:11,600 --> 00:06:15,240 Speaker 1: studio time. They're making tracks. They're letting him wrap on them. 118 00:06:15,400 --> 00:06:17,960 Speaker 1: But all they need is two tracks. They're gonna take 119 00:06:18,000 --> 00:06:21,159 Speaker 1: his voice off if you think he can't wrap. Believe me, 120 00:06:21,200 --> 00:06:23,440 Speaker 1: them young boys in that as producing them beats know 121 00:06:23,600 --> 00:06:27,200 Speaker 1: that they're using him for for a studio time, and 122 00:06:27,240 --> 00:06:30,039 Speaker 1: then they're gonna take their tracks that they own and 123 00:06:30,040 --> 00:06:32,440 Speaker 1: they're gonna put them to somebody who really can wrap. 124 00:06:32,839 --> 00:06:35,279 Speaker 1: Your husband, don't see that now he coming in the house, 125 00:06:35,400 --> 00:06:39,880 Speaker 1: hi and he having by movements on himself and releasing on. 126 00:06:40,839 --> 00:06:44,440 Speaker 1: So now what I think you ought to do is 127 00:06:45,520 --> 00:06:49,560 Speaker 1: you may have to just buy into this. I have 128 00:06:49,760 --> 00:06:54,040 Speaker 1: jotted down some names that would be nice names for 129 00:06:54,160 --> 00:06:57,560 Speaker 1: him now, some names that's already taken that he could 130 00:06:57,560 --> 00:07:00,080 Speaker 1: come up with. See when you thirt if I and 131 00:07:00,240 --> 00:07:02,200 Speaker 1: just getting in the rap game, a name like big 132 00:07:02,320 --> 00:07:05,480 Speaker 1: Daddy Kane go it can be a good name for you. 133 00:07:06,360 --> 00:07:11,480 Speaker 1: Or cool mo Pe see not cool mo d cool 134 00:07:11,600 --> 00:07:14,720 Speaker 1: mo Pe since he coming in the house two o'clock 135 00:07:15,160 --> 00:07:22,680 Speaker 1: drunk DJ depends is another one. How about l L 136 00:07:23,000 --> 00:07:27,440 Speaker 1: that's a little late. See he could be he could 137 00:07:27,480 --> 00:07:30,480 Speaker 1: be He could be the new rap group n W 138 00:07:30,840 --> 00:07:38,920 Speaker 1: n W N in word what now? Or you could 139 00:07:38,960 --> 00:07:42,600 Speaker 1: just call him p T p T S part time 140 00:07:42,800 --> 00:07:46,160 Speaker 1: because he got two part time jobs. Now he part time. 141 00:07:46,400 --> 00:07:50,680 Speaker 1: Or you could call him oldt old time. It's thirty five. 142 00:07:50,720 --> 00:07:54,800 Speaker 1: You might have to buy into this thing with him. 143 00:07:54,920 --> 00:07:58,200 Speaker 1: Or you could just call him big pig because at 144 00:07:58,240 --> 00:08:00,520 Speaker 1: two o'clock in the morning, that's you when you have 145 00:08:00,680 --> 00:08:06,480 Speaker 1: your biggest one. Excuse me when I wake up the crazy. 146 00:08:06,680 --> 00:08:10,480 Speaker 1: How about DJ clutis, Yeah, we come out. How about 147 00:08:10,560 --> 00:08:15,080 Speaker 1: Dukie Stick. Dukey Stick would be a good name for 148 00:08:15,160 --> 00:08:22,800 Speaker 1: him right here. How about Moses the Great, Moses the Great, 149 00:08:22,880 --> 00:08:28,000 Speaker 1: he could be the oldest rap Moses. How about oh 150 00:08:28,120 --> 00:08:36,160 Speaker 1: a T like oh eight that didn't mean you out 151 00:08:36,160 --> 00:08:41,240 Speaker 1: of time, out of time, or you could all he 152 00:08:41,240 --> 00:08:45,800 Speaker 1: could call itself. Swap big swap s w A P. Yeah, 153 00:08:46,120 --> 00:08:55,439 Speaker 1: that's when you come in from smoking weed and pete 154 00:08:58,640 --> 00:09:04,120 Speaker 1: FTL far too late. Yeah, alright, Steve, we gotta go. 155 00:09:04,880 --> 00:09:07,600 Speaker 1: Email us your Instagram what's your thoughts on today's Strawberry 156 00:09:07,679 --> 00:09:10,439 Speaker 1: Letter at my girl Shirley and please do not forget 157 00:09:10,480 --> 00:09:14,880 Speaker 1: this Thursday, one pm Eastern time. Uh The Strawberry Letter 158 00:09:15,040 --> 00:09:19,600 Speaker 1: Live After Show. It's on Facebook. 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