1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:13,320 Speaker 1: M hm okay. Welcome to the Therapy for Black Girls Podcast, 2 00:00:13,840 --> 00:00:18,720 Speaker 1: a weekly conversation about mental health, personal development, and all 3 00:00:18,720 --> 00:00:21,400 Speaker 1: the small decisions we can make to become the best 4 00:00:21,400 --> 00:00:25,760 Speaker 1: possible versions of ourselves. I'm your host, Dr joy hard 5 00:00:25,800 --> 00:00:30,560 Speaker 1: and Bradford, a licensed psychologist in Atlanta, Georgia. For more 6 00:00:30,640 --> 00:00:34,640 Speaker 1: information or to find a therapist in your area, visit 7 00:00:34,680 --> 00:00:38,760 Speaker 1: our website at Therapy for Black Girls dot com. While 8 00:00:38,800 --> 00:00:42,479 Speaker 1: I hope you love listening to and learning from the podcast, 9 00:00:42,960 --> 00:00:46,080 Speaker 1: it is not meant to be a substitute for relationship 10 00:00:46,159 --> 00:00:57,440 Speaker 1: with a licensed mental health professional. Hey y'all, thanks so 11 00:00:57,520 --> 00:01:00,680 Speaker 1: much for joining me for session one of the Therapy 12 00:01:00,720 --> 00:01:04,880 Speaker 1: for Black Girls Podcast. By now, you've likely heard the 13 00:01:04,959 --> 00:01:09,080 Speaker 1: jokes about gaining the quarantine fifteen. But what you might 14 00:01:09,080 --> 00:01:12,200 Speaker 1: not have heard is why jokes and messages like this 15 00:01:12,560 --> 00:01:16,039 Speaker 1: can be harmful. So today we're gonna chat about it. 16 00:01:16,760 --> 00:01:19,920 Speaker 1: For this conversation, I was joined by Dr Gail Brooks. 17 00:01:20,840 --> 00:01:24,520 Speaker 1: Dr Brooks is Vice President and Chief Clinical Officer for 18 00:01:24,600 --> 00:01:28,320 Speaker 1: the Room Crew Center. She leaves the Room Crew Clinical 19 00:01:28,400 --> 00:01:32,319 Speaker 1: Excellence Board and the Clinical Training Department, and has clinical 20 00:01:32,360 --> 00:01:38,240 Speaker 1: and administrative oversight responsibility for Renfrew's residential facility in Florida 21 00:01:38,360 --> 00:01:43,800 Speaker 1: and for the non residential sites in California, Florida, Georgia, Illinois, 22 00:01:44,160 --> 00:01:49,240 Speaker 1: North Carolina, and Tennessee. For the past thirty years, she's 23 00:01:49,280 --> 00:01:53,320 Speaker 1: treated patients from diverse backgrounds who suffer from eating disorders. 24 00:01:54,080 --> 00:01:56,920 Speaker 1: Dr Brookes served as the eating disorder specialists in the 25 00:01:57,080 --> 00:02:01,480 Speaker 1: HBO film Thin, has appeared on Good Morning America and 26 00:02:01,560 --> 00:02:05,560 Speaker 1: has been featured in a variety of notable publications. A 27 00:02:05,640 --> 00:02:09,840 Speaker 1: frequent presenter at conferences and workshops, Dr Brooks speaks on 28 00:02:09,919 --> 00:02:13,600 Speaker 1: topics such as the treatment of the complex patient eating 29 00:02:13,639 --> 00:02:19,320 Speaker 1: disorders and cultural diversity, the interplay between eating disorders and trauma, 30 00:02:19,480 --> 00:02:23,560 Speaker 1: and eating disorders in midlife women. Dr Brooks is a 31 00:02:23,560 --> 00:02:26,080 Speaker 1: member of the i a e d P Board of 32 00:02:26,120 --> 00:02:29,720 Speaker 1: Directors and former co chair of the Academy of Eating 33 00:02:29,720 --> 00:02:34,799 Speaker 1: Disorders Diversity Special Interest Group. Dr Brooks and I discussed 34 00:02:34,800 --> 00:02:38,680 Speaker 1: the link between trauma and eating disorders, why there's been 35 00:02:38,680 --> 00:02:42,640 Speaker 1: a spike in disordered eating during the pandemic, how to 36 00:02:42,680 --> 00:02:46,920 Speaker 1: recognize if your relationship with food has become unhealthy, and 37 00:02:47,000 --> 00:02:50,919 Speaker 1: the role that social media plays in eating disorders. If 38 00:02:50,919 --> 00:02:54,320 Speaker 1: you notice something that resonates with you while enjoying our conversation. 39 00:02:55,040 --> 00:02:57,960 Speaker 1: Please share with us on social media using the hashtag 40 00:02:58,520 --> 00:03:04,360 Speaker 1: TBG in session. Here's our conversation. So muld be so 41 00:03:04,440 --> 00:03:07,520 Speaker 1: much for joining us today, Dr Brooks, Oh, thank you 42 00:03:07,560 --> 00:03:10,000 Speaker 1: for having me. It's great to be here. Yes, I'm 43 00:03:10,080 --> 00:03:12,480 Speaker 1: very pleased to have you joined us today because I 44 00:03:12,560 --> 00:03:15,640 Speaker 1: know we have been hearing lots and lots of you know, 45 00:03:15,760 --> 00:03:19,960 Speaker 1: jokes that aren't actually funny. I'm about like the quarantine fifteen, 46 00:03:20,000 --> 00:03:22,480 Speaker 1: and you know, people thinking about their bodies a lot, 47 00:03:22,520 --> 00:03:24,280 Speaker 1: and we know a lot of our like self care 48 00:03:24,760 --> 00:03:26,680 Speaker 1: strategies in terms of going to the gym, and all 49 00:03:26,720 --> 00:03:28,880 Speaker 1: of those things have been upended, and so it feels 50 00:03:28,919 --> 00:03:32,400 Speaker 1: like there's just a lot more attention maybe than usual 51 00:03:32,639 --> 00:03:35,400 Speaker 1: around like eating and body image. And so I'm glad 52 00:03:35,680 --> 00:03:39,040 Speaker 1: that you were able to join us today for this conversation. Yes, well, 53 00:03:39,080 --> 00:03:40,920 Speaker 1: you're so right. I think all of those things that 54 00:03:40,920 --> 00:03:44,240 Speaker 1: are impacting all of us, but in particular people with 55 00:03:44,280 --> 00:03:49,520 Speaker 1: eating disorders, I think are are really struggling right now. Absolutely. So. 56 00:03:49,720 --> 00:03:53,560 Speaker 1: I know that the National Eating Disorder Association's instant messaging 57 00:03:53,640 --> 00:03:57,240 Speaker 1: service has seen a seventy percent increase in volume traffic 58 00:03:57,320 --> 00:04:00,160 Speaker 1: since the pandemic begin and I know that they're is 59 00:04:00,160 --> 00:04:04,880 Speaker 1: a large connection between eating disordered behaviors and trauma. So 60 00:04:04,920 --> 00:04:06,840 Speaker 1: I wanted to hear if you could talk a little 61 00:04:06,840 --> 00:04:09,119 Speaker 1: bit about, you know, what you think is really being 62 00:04:09,120 --> 00:04:12,280 Speaker 1: triggered for people right now. Yeah. Well, I think in 63 00:04:12,360 --> 00:04:15,160 Speaker 1: so many ways, we're probably all being triggered by the 64 00:04:15,200 --> 00:04:17,720 Speaker 1: crisis that we're in. You know. I think the fact 65 00:04:17,760 --> 00:04:20,839 Speaker 1: that we are in the middle of this COVID crisis, 66 00:04:20,920 --> 00:04:23,440 Speaker 1: and also what's happening, you know, sort of with racial 67 00:04:23,560 --> 00:04:26,719 Speaker 1: inequity and all of that. I think it's causing a 68 00:04:26,800 --> 00:04:31,839 Speaker 1: lot of heightened emotion among us all, you know, in particular, 69 00:04:31,880 --> 00:04:35,920 Speaker 1: depression and anxiety, as well as other types of mental 70 00:04:35,960 --> 00:04:39,680 Speaker 1: health conditions like eating disorders, disordered eating and even body 71 00:04:39,720 --> 00:04:43,040 Speaker 1: image dissatisfaction are really on the rise over the last 72 00:04:43,040 --> 00:04:46,120 Speaker 1: several months. And I think there are several factors that 73 00:04:46,480 --> 00:04:48,880 Speaker 1: impact that. The fact that we were sort of very 74 00:04:48,960 --> 00:04:53,440 Speaker 1: quickly thrown into isolation, you know, being asked to you know, 75 00:04:53,520 --> 00:04:58,400 Speaker 1: stay at home, really separate from our connections, and also 76 00:04:58,440 --> 00:05:01,120 Speaker 1: spend a lot of time around family members, which I 77 00:05:01,160 --> 00:05:03,960 Speaker 1: think can be sometimes a mixed blessing, but you know, 78 00:05:04,000 --> 00:05:07,760 Speaker 1: we're really social beings, and I think when we don't 79 00:05:07,800 --> 00:05:11,120 Speaker 1: have connection that that really does make it much more 80 00:05:11,120 --> 00:05:13,559 Speaker 1: difficult for us to deal with the stressors in life 81 00:05:13,600 --> 00:05:16,359 Speaker 1: and to also just deal with with any sort of 82 00:05:16,400 --> 00:05:19,040 Speaker 1: trauma that we may have along with that. I think 83 00:05:19,080 --> 00:05:21,039 Speaker 1: the fears that we have around our own health and 84 00:05:21,080 --> 00:05:24,599 Speaker 1: the fear of contagion and anxiety about death. I don't 85 00:05:24,600 --> 00:05:26,360 Speaker 1: know about you, but I don't know that I ever 86 00:05:26,360 --> 00:05:28,240 Speaker 1: really thought about death as much as I have in 87 00:05:28,240 --> 00:05:30,720 Speaker 1: the last several months, thinking, you know, it could happen 88 00:05:30,760 --> 00:05:32,880 Speaker 1: to me just as much as it could happen to 89 00:05:32,960 --> 00:05:35,680 Speaker 1: someone else. And so I think that can certainly be 90 00:05:35,800 --> 00:05:39,680 Speaker 1: very sort of scary. If you have an eating disorder 91 00:05:39,760 --> 00:05:41,880 Speaker 1: and and you know, are struggling just with sort of 92 00:05:41,920 --> 00:05:44,560 Speaker 1: how you're feeling about your body, I think all of 93 00:05:44,560 --> 00:05:47,880 Speaker 1: these pressures are going to kind of be magnified in 94 00:05:47,920 --> 00:05:51,080 Speaker 1: many ways, and the way it oftentimes comes out is 95 00:05:51,120 --> 00:05:55,119 Speaker 1: in the sort of complex, problematic relationship that a person 96 00:05:55,200 --> 00:05:58,080 Speaker 1: might have with food and with their body. So if 97 00:05:58,080 --> 00:06:01,120 Speaker 1: you take somebody who's maybe struggling with arexia, which is 98 00:06:01,200 --> 00:06:06,200 Speaker 1: really you know, intentional sort of self starvation that you 99 00:06:06,200 --> 00:06:08,320 Speaker 1: know there, you tend to be pretty rigid and wanting 100 00:06:08,320 --> 00:06:11,800 Speaker 1: to have certain foods available and whatnot. And and if 101 00:06:11,880 --> 00:06:15,120 Speaker 1: in the pandemic you're having to stay home or grocery 102 00:06:15,120 --> 00:06:17,320 Speaker 1: stores don't have the foods that you're sort of rigidly, 103 00:06:17,560 --> 00:06:21,880 Speaker 1: sort of attached to, that that can become very uh frightening. 104 00:06:22,000 --> 00:06:24,720 Speaker 1: You can feel very out of control, and just the 105 00:06:24,800 --> 00:06:29,000 Speaker 1: uncertainty of life I think can really impact an individual 106 00:06:29,080 --> 00:06:31,480 Speaker 1: and they may choose to really not want to eat 107 00:06:31,600 --> 00:06:34,599 Speaker 1: because of that. I think more commonly what we're seeing 108 00:06:34,720 --> 00:06:37,559 Speaker 1: is is with in the areas of bulimia and binge 109 00:06:37,560 --> 00:06:41,279 Speaker 1: eating disorder, when someone is sort of home seven the 110 00:06:41,400 --> 00:06:46,000 Speaker 1: routine is disrupted, you may have very limited opportunities to 111 00:06:46,000 --> 00:06:49,240 Speaker 1: go out and even buy food, be more sedentary that 112 00:06:49,360 --> 00:06:53,480 Speaker 1: this you know, understandably often times skills results and some 113 00:06:53,560 --> 00:06:55,480 Speaker 1: changes in our body. You know that we may begin 114 00:06:55,520 --> 00:06:58,119 Speaker 1: to gain weight, which is again when we're going through 115 00:06:58,240 --> 00:07:03,280 Speaker 1: such disruption, it's no wonder that our bodies may also 116 00:07:03,360 --> 00:07:06,760 Speaker 1: go through some changes in uh with this as well, 117 00:07:07,120 --> 00:07:10,200 Speaker 1: and that this can lead to increased feelings of shame 118 00:07:10,280 --> 00:07:13,920 Speaker 1: and depression and you know, maybe sleeping all day or 119 00:07:13,960 --> 00:07:16,520 Speaker 1: really having a very difficult time with routine, and that 120 00:07:16,600 --> 00:07:19,440 Speaker 1: that can lead to more binge eating and engaging and 121 00:07:19,480 --> 00:07:22,240 Speaker 1: purging behavior. Perhaps, Um, so these are some of the 122 00:07:22,280 --> 00:07:24,040 Speaker 1: things that I think we're really sort of impacting an 123 00:07:24,040 --> 00:07:27,240 Speaker 1: individual right now. Yeah, And Dr Brooks, I'm wondering if 124 00:07:27,280 --> 00:07:30,280 Speaker 1: you can talk about how we might know when something 125 00:07:30,360 --> 00:07:33,240 Speaker 1: has risen to the level of a concern. Right. So, 126 00:07:33,640 --> 00:07:36,160 Speaker 1: you know a lot of people like stress eat or 127 00:07:36,200 --> 00:07:39,040 Speaker 1: you know, we talked about emotion no eating, right right, so, 128 00:07:39,120 --> 00:07:40,920 Speaker 1: I think it can be hard to know where the 129 00:07:41,000 --> 00:07:43,560 Speaker 1: line is, where it is just Okay, this is how 130 00:07:43,600 --> 00:07:46,160 Speaker 1: I'm coping versus maybe I need to talk with someone 131 00:07:46,200 --> 00:07:47,840 Speaker 1: about this. Can you say a little bit more about 132 00:07:47,840 --> 00:07:50,600 Speaker 1: how we might know when it's a concern? Yeah? Yeah, 133 00:07:50,720 --> 00:07:52,040 Speaker 1: you know, I think we can really sort of think 134 00:07:52,040 --> 00:07:54,520 Speaker 1: about this on a continuum because probably all of us 135 00:07:54,520 --> 00:07:57,800 Speaker 1: at times that emotionally eat, or maybe there are times 136 00:07:57,800 --> 00:07:59,920 Speaker 1: when you don't eat when you're feeling really pretty stressed. 137 00:08:00,080 --> 00:08:04,080 Speaker 1: Those are not unusual kinds of reactions. But when it 138 00:08:04,080 --> 00:08:07,920 Speaker 1: comes to the point where it's really a focus, and 139 00:08:07,960 --> 00:08:11,520 Speaker 1: it's more of an obsessive focus, an obsessive focus on weight, 140 00:08:11,640 --> 00:08:16,440 Speaker 1: that weight and controlling of weight is becomes something that 141 00:08:16,480 --> 00:08:19,080 Speaker 1: you're thinking about all the time and engaging in behaviors 142 00:08:19,080 --> 00:08:23,200 Speaker 1: to manage it. If you're feeling very depressed about your 143 00:08:23,200 --> 00:08:26,960 Speaker 1: body and really focused on, you know, comparing yourself a 144 00:08:26,960 --> 00:08:30,120 Speaker 1: lot to others, and it's really beginning to disrupt your 145 00:08:30,440 --> 00:08:34,720 Speaker 1: your daily functioning and your feelings about yourself. Um, that's 146 00:08:34,760 --> 00:08:38,199 Speaker 1: certainly a sign that it's it's reached the point of 147 00:08:38,200 --> 00:08:42,000 Speaker 1: of an eating disorder or possibly an eating disorder. And 148 00:08:42,120 --> 00:08:45,680 Speaker 1: if you're having medical symptoms in relation to either how 149 00:08:45,679 --> 00:08:48,720 Speaker 1: you're you're eating or not eating, that that also can 150 00:08:48,960 --> 00:08:51,680 Speaker 1: be you know, certainly a clear sign as well. Yeah, 151 00:08:51,679 --> 00:08:54,360 Speaker 1: and Dr Brooks, I know that one of the common 152 00:08:54,400 --> 00:08:58,560 Speaker 1: misconceptions is that eating disorders only happen to young people, right, 153 00:08:58,640 --> 00:09:01,040 Speaker 1: so you know, maybe if you're being yon high school age, 154 00:09:01,080 --> 00:09:04,160 Speaker 1: you're not likely to develop it eating disorder. We know, 155 00:09:04,240 --> 00:09:06,360 Speaker 1: of course that that is not true, and so I'm 156 00:09:06,360 --> 00:09:08,520 Speaker 1: curious to hear can you share a little bit about 157 00:09:08,559 --> 00:09:12,880 Speaker 1: how eating disorders develop? Yeah, you know, I think for 158 00:09:12,920 --> 00:09:16,000 Speaker 1: so long the belief was that eating disorders were like 159 00:09:16,040 --> 00:09:19,280 Speaker 1: an urban, suburban white girl's disease. And what we have 160 00:09:19,360 --> 00:09:24,120 Speaker 1: come to understand through research and really just asking the 161 00:09:24,240 --> 00:09:28,800 Speaker 1: appropriate questions, is that eating disorders cross you know, racial, 162 00:09:28,920 --> 00:09:33,440 Speaker 1: lined gender, age, that It's not just you know, young, 163 00:09:33,720 --> 00:09:36,880 Speaker 1: a young teenager who develops in eating disorder. You know, 164 00:09:36,960 --> 00:09:40,400 Speaker 1: we can have complicated relationships with food at any age 165 00:09:40,600 --> 00:09:44,440 Speaker 1: really and oftentimes I mean, I think what really sort 166 00:09:44,440 --> 00:09:48,760 Speaker 1: of fuels and eating disorder is really how you relate 167 00:09:48,840 --> 00:09:54,000 Speaker 1: to your emotions, and that when someone is having a 168 00:09:54,040 --> 00:10:01,920 Speaker 1: hard time tolerating certain emotions like let's say, anxiety or sadness, depression, shame, whatever, 169 00:10:02,520 --> 00:10:05,600 Speaker 1: that we look for things to help kind of numb that, 170 00:10:05,920 --> 00:10:10,160 Speaker 1: to somehow make that less intense, and food can be 171 00:10:10,240 --> 00:10:13,280 Speaker 1: a way of doing that, either eating or not even 172 00:10:13,320 --> 00:10:17,480 Speaker 1: both things can result in you being able to somehow 173 00:10:17,840 --> 00:10:21,520 Speaker 1: distance yourself or to reduce down the intensity of an 174 00:10:21,520 --> 00:10:26,240 Speaker 1: emotion that feels intolerable. So oftentimes, what will you know? 175 00:10:26,240 --> 00:10:28,640 Speaker 1: There are never several factors that can lead to developing 176 00:10:28,640 --> 00:10:30,720 Speaker 1: and eating disorder, some of which you know, we believe 177 00:10:30,760 --> 00:10:33,040 Speaker 1: sort of happened in childhood. But I think what's probably 178 00:10:33,080 --> 00:10:35,560 Speaker 1: more important is what keeps in eating disorder going once 179 00:10:35,600 --> 00:10:38,920 Speaker 1: you have it, And what keeps it going is the 180 00:10:38,960 --> 00:10:44,640 Speaker 1: continual avoidance of really experiencing your full range of emotions 181 00:10:44,960 --> 00:10:48,560 Speaker 1: that you are engaging in behaviors to really dampen down 182 00:10:48,600 --> 00:10:51,439 Speaker 1: your emotional experience. So every time you start to feel, 183 00:10:51,440 --> 00:10:56,360 Speaker 1: whether it's that anticipatory anxiety or sadness, depression, loneliness, that 184 00:10:56,440 --> 00:10:58,720 Speaker 1: there's this feeling of I can't tolerate this, it's going 185 00:10:58,760 --> 00:11:00,320 Speaker 1: to kill me. I need to do some thing to 186 00:11:00,360 --> 00:11:02,720 Speaker 1: make it go down. And when they turn to food 187 00:11:02,840 --> 00:11:06,600 Speaker 1: or turn to restriction, um, turned to exercise, purging, these 188 00:11:06,640 --> 00:11:09,760 Speaker 1: are always to try to sort of reduce down the 189 00:11:09,800 --> 00:11:12,200 Speaker 1: intensity of emotion. So this may be a good place 190 00:11:12,200 --> 00:11:14,880 Speaker 1: to kind of talk about then what treatment looks like. Right, 191 00:11:14,920 --> 00:11:17,760 Speaker 1: So if if a part of what keeps it going 192 00:11:18,040 --> 00:11:21,160 Speaker 1: is not allowing yourself to experience this range of emotion, 193 00:11:21,240 --> 00:11:23,920 Speaker 1: but that's the thing you're most afraid of, right, Um, 194 00:11:23,960 --> 00:11:27,000 Speaker 1: of course there's that is where the treatment happens. So 195 00:11:27,000 --> 00:11:29,839 Speaker 1: so how do you bridge that gap between somebody who 196 00:11:29,880 --> 00:11:32,960 Speaker 1: feels really uncomfortable experiencing their emotions and getting them to 197 00:11:33,000 --> 00:11:35,160 Speaker 1: a place where they can tolerate it a little better 198 00:11:35,360 --> 00:11:38,760 Speaker 1: so that maybe food does not become the answer. Yeah, yeah, 199 00:11:38,840 --> 00:11:41,080 Speaker 1: I think that's really really where the rubber kind of 200 00:11:41,080 --> 00:11:43,160 Speaker 1: meets the road a bit here, is that you have 201 00:11:43,280 --> 00:11:47,240 Speaker 1: to first understand the role of emotions and the fact 202 00:11:47,280 --> 00:11:50,440 Speaker 1: that emotions are adaptive, it's important that we feel them, 203 00:11:50,840 --> 00:11:54,040 Speaker 1: and all emotions are important. You know, people tend to 204 00:11:54,080 --> 00:11:56,280 Speaker 1: want to only feel the good emotions and not have 205 00:11:56,360 --> 00:11:59,959 Speaker 1: to feel the bad emotions, but in reality, whole emotions 206 00:12:00,000 --> 00:12:02,720 Speaker 1: sort of a purpose, and that if we don't allow 207 00:12:02,720 --> 00:12:05,920 Speaker 1: ourselves to sort of experience all of those emotions, that 208 00:12:06,080 --> 00:12:09,000 Speaker 1: they end up then sort of developing sort of a 209 00:12:09,080 --> 00:12:13,360 Speaker 1: vicious cycle of maladaptive behavior. More behavior that's not is 210 00:12:13,360 --> 00:12:15,679 Speaker 1: functioning to not feel, but it doesn't really function well 211 00:12:15,720 --> 00:12:19,400 Speaker 1: in our lives. And so I think treatment needs needs 212 00:12:19,440 --> 00:12:22,520 Speaker 1: to first include just understanding the role of your emotions 213 00:12:22,800 --> 00:12:25,640 Speaker 1: that they play and like for example, if you're feeling 214 00:12:25,679 --> 00:12:31,440 Speaker 1: anxious about COVID, what anxiety does is that it prompts 215 00:12:31,559 --> 00:12:35,040 Speaker 1: us to prepare, to to get focused and to prepare 216 00:12:35,360 --> 00:12:38,040 Speaker 1: for what may be coming. And it's that sort of 217 00:12:38,040 --> 00:12:39,960 Speaker 1: feeling that we have in our stomach and that sort 218 00:12:39,960 --> 00:12:42,920 Speaker 1: of itcheness that we have in our body, and there's 219 00:12:42,920 --> 00:12:44,880 Speaker 1: a purpose for that. That might mean then that you 220 00:12:44,960 --> 00:12:46,880 Speaker 1: focus on the fact that you need to be washing 221 00:12:46,920 --> 00:12:51,000 Speaker 1: your hands and wearing a mask and socially distancing. But 222 00:12:51,240 --> 00:12:53,800 Speaker 1: if it goes you sort of you know, if that 223 00:12:53,920 --> 00:12:57,560 Speaker 1: then becomes something that you get so terrified about that 224 00:12:57,600 --> 00:13:00,679 Speaker 1: you can't allow yourself to feel this emotion. You might 225 00:13:00,760 --> 00:13:04,400 Speaker 1: then start to really isolate yourself in ways where you're 226 00:13:04,400 --> 00:13:06,839 Speaker 1: not at all going out and being with people and 227 00:13:07,360 --> 00:13:10,440 Speaker 1: even in a socially distant way or through any sort 228 00:13:10,440 --> 00:13:13,679 Speaker 1: of whether it's through the telephone or whatever. You may 229 00:13:13,679 --> 00:13:16,640 Speaker 1: be cutting down your social connections because you don't want 230 00:13:16,679 --> 00:13:20,000 Speaker 1: to feel that anxiety that you feel um right now. 231 00:13:20,080 --> 00:13:22,400 Speaker 1: So I think a part of its sorting about the 232 00:13:22,440 --> 00:13:26,400 Speaker 1: importance of emotions allowing yourself to actually feel them. So 233 00:13:26,480 --> 00:13:29,160 Speaker 1: one of the things we do in our treatment model 234 00:13:29,320 --> 00:13:33,080 Speaker 1: is that we really ask people to lean into difficulty 235 00:13:33,080 --> 00:13:35,880 Speaker 1: emotion rather than trying to distract from it, you know, 236 00:13:35,920 --> 00:13:38,400 Speaker 1: trying rather than trying to do something to not feel it. 237 00:13:38,720 --> 00:13:41,240 Speaker 1: And that what happens when you lean into the emotion 238 00:13:41,640 --> 00:13:46,439 Speaker 1: is that you discover that emotions have a natural life cycle. 239 00:13:46,520 --> 00:13:50,880 Speaker 1: They kind of um rise rapidly and then sort of 240 00:13:50,920 --> 00:13:54,199 Speaker 1: peak and then they sort of stuffcumb down slowly on 241 00:13:54,240 --> 00:13:57,000 Speaker 1: their own. And that happens in a matter of you know, 242 00:13:57,480 --> 00:14:01,120 Speaker 1: seconds to minutes to minute that you can the natural 243 00:14:01,160 --> 00:14:04,520 Speaker 1: life cycle of that particular emotional experience you're having. But 244 00:14:04,640 --> 00:14:08,000 Speaker 1: most people don't sort of allow themselves to feel that whole, 245 00:14:08,440 --> 00:14:11,240 Speaker 1: you know, cycle of the emotion and instead begin to 246 00:14:11,320 --> 00:14:14,400 Speaker 1: do things to to bring it down or to isolate, 247 00:14:14,720 --> 00:14:18,240 Speaker 1: to really to avoid it. And what that does is 248 00:14:18,280 --> 00:14:21,800 Speaker 1: make them the emotion more intense, because every time then 249 00:14:21,840 --> 00:14:24,400 Speaker 1: you start to feel anything, you then start to you know, 250 00:14:24,440 --> 00:14:28,040 Speaker 1: turn to behaviors, whether it's eating, not eating, substance use, 251 00:14:28,520 --> 00:14:30,520 Speaker 1: you know, self harm, It could be lots of different 252 00:14:30,560 --> 00:14:33,200 Speaker 1: behaviors that help to sort of bring the emotion down. 253 00:14:33,840 --> 00:14:37,360 Speaker 1: Um So I think treatment really really needs to require 254 00:14:37,840 --> 00:14:41,160 Speaker 1: really becoming a bit more of an expert around your 255 00:14:41,160 --> 00:14:44,480 Speaker 1: own emotions, uh, knowing what you're feeling, being able to 256 00:14:44,560 --> 00:14:47,320 Speaker 1: unpack the feeling, figuring out that you know, while I 257 00:14:47,360 --> 00:14:49,320 Speaker 1: could turn to food right now, but if I were 258 00:14:49,360 --> 00:14:52,640 Speaker 1: to really just tune into what is happening in this 259 00:14:52,760 --> 00:14:56,080 Speaker 1: moment in a sort of mindful way. What's happening in 260 00:14:56,120 --> 00:14:58,880 Speaker 1: this moment inside my body? What am I feel feeling 261 00:14:58,880 --> 00:15:01,440 Speaker 1: in terms of sensation, What are my thoughts that I'm 262 00:15:01,480 --> 00:15:04,680 Speaker 1: having right now, some of which can be kind of catastrophic, 263 00:15:05,080 --> 00:15:07,680 Speaker 1: And what do I feel the urge to do? And 264 00:15:07,720 --> 00:15:09,720 Speaker 1: when we can sort of look at our emotions in 265 00:15:09,720 --> 00:15:12,440 Speaker 1: that way. We it sort of gives us some perspective 266 00:15:12,800 --> 00:15:15,720 Speaker 1: and also gives us the ability to kind of look 267 00:15:15,720 --> 00:15:17,600 Speaker 1: at So how do I want to respond to this, 268 00:15:17,680 --> 00:15:20,360 Speaker 1: because some responses are going to be more adaptive than others. 269 00:15:20,680 --> 00:15:22,840 Speaker 1: You know, if I go and binge eat, then what's 270 00:15:22,880 --> 00:15:25,200 Speaker 1: going to happen That may in the short run give 271 00:15:25,280 --> 00:15:27,400 Speaker 1: me some relief because I'm going to feel like I've 272 00:15:27,480 --> 00:15:30,760 Speaker 1: distracted from those feelings, But in the long run, I'm 273 00:15:30,760 --> 00:15:35,320 Speaker 1: gonna be feeling more shame and depression and distress because 274 00:15:35,360 --> 00:15:37,720 Speaker 1: I've I've beene eat. Those would be the things I 275 00:15:37,720 --> 00:15:39,640 Speaker 1: think would be important to kind of take a look at. 276 00:15:39,920 --> 00:15:43,480 Speaker 1: And Dr Brooks, do you feel like virtual settings have 277 00:15:43,680 --> 00:15:47,640 Speaker 1: adapted will to treatment for eating disorders? I know sometimes 278 00:15:48,000 --> 00:15:51,280 Speaker 1: treatment for eating disorders sometimes involves like groups and very 279 00:15:51,360 --> 00:15:54,600 Speaker 1: like experiential kinds of things. Um, I'm curious to hear 280 00:15:54,680 --> 00:15:58,600 Speaker 1: just about how treatment has transformed maybe in a virtual setting. Yeah, 281 00:15:58,640 --> 00:16:01,239 Speaker 1: it's a very good question, because we we found ourselves 282 00:16:01,240 --> 00:16:03,440 Speaker 1: in you know, mid March. I think, like most of 283 00:16:03,440 --> 00:16:08,200 Speaker 1: the country suddenly having to shift and be home and 284 00:16:08,320 --> 00:16:10,920 Speaker 1: not be able to bring people into groups and and 285 00:16:10,960 --> 00:16:14,600 Speaker 1: really put a lot more onto a virtual platform, and 286 00:16:14,600 --> 00:16:16,720 Speaker 1: I know at Renfrew we it was. We did it 287 00:16:16,800 --> 00:16:18,840 Speaker 1: in a matter of about three days. Was to take 288 00:16:18,920 --> 00:16:23,160 Speaker 1: all of our programs that were not in our residential facility, 289 00:16:23,160 --> 00:16:26,400 Speaker 1: but our day programs and our intensive outpatient programs and 290 00:16:26,440 --> 00:16:30,320 Speaker 1: put them all on virtual platforms. So all patients had 291 00:16:30,360 --> 00:16:33,600 Speaker 1: to move from being in person to being actually virtual. 292 00:16:33,920 --> 00:16:35,320 Speaker 1: And as you can imagine, there was a lot of 293 00:16:35,360 --> 00:16:38,920 Speaker 1: anxiety I think with patients initially around you know, what 294 00:16:38,960 --> 00:16:41,720 Speaker 1: it would be like to be you know, on Zoom 295 00:16:41,760 --> 00:16:44,160 Speaker 1: throughout the day and and that sort of thing. What 296 00:16:44,240 --> 00:16:47,680 Speaker 1: we have found, which I think is um been interesting 297 00:16:47,720 --> 00:16:49,760 Speaker 1: even just to the whole field of eating disorders, is 298 00:16:49,800 --> 00:16:52,880 Speaker 1: that patients have adapted very well to this UM. I know, 299 00:16:52,920 --> 00:16:56,360 Speaker 1: our treatment model which is one that we do a 300 00:16:56,360 --> 00:16:59,640 Speaker 1: lot of psycho education and UM which is something you 301 00:16:59,680 --> 00:17:02,360 Speaker 1: can try and slate pretty well into Zoom, but we 302 00:17:02,360 --> 00:17:04,800 Speaker 1: were also able to do a lot of experiential things 303 00:17:04,840 --> 00:17:08,959 Speaker 1: as well UM with patients. You know, being able to 304 00:17:09,040 --> 00:17:12,639 Speaker 1: provide support during meals was something that we had to 305 00:17:12,640 --> 00:17:16,000 Speaker 1: sort of learn how to do. Patients do have their 306 00:17:16,200 --> 00:17:19,360 Speaker 1: meals on camera, so you know, they will fix some meal, 307 00:17:19,440 --> 00:17:21,879 Speaker 1: come back and you know they're in a group with 308 00:17:21,920 --> 00:17:25,560 Speaker 1: other people eating their meals and getting support and whatnot, 309 00:17:25,600 --> 00:17:27,440 Speaker 1: and believe it or not, I think people have found 310 00:17:27,480 --> 00:17:30,800 Speaker 1: that to be actually very very helpful. I think ultimately 311 00:17:31,080 --> 00:17:33,360 Speaker 1: when we can come back in person, I think ultimately 312 00:17:33,359 --> 00:17:35,840 Speaker 1: that's that's where we sort of want to be, because again, 313 00:17:35,960 --> 00:17:38,560 Speaker 1: I think social connection via zoom is not the same 314 00:17:38,960 --> 00:17:41,720 Speaker 1: fully as a social connection in the room. But I 315 00:17:41,760 --> 00:17:46,000 Speaker 1: think we've we've been very surprised that it has seemed 316 00:17:46,040 --> 00:17:48,120 Speaker 1: to meet the needs of our our patients pretty well. 317 00:17:48,480 --> 00:17:50,960 Speaker 1: Mm hmmm. Yeah. And I wonder if that might not 318 00:17:51,160 --> 00:17:53,440 Speaker 1: be something that you all might think about kind of 319 00:17:53,520 --> 00:17:56,359 Speaker 1: keeping later, right, because I would imagine that for certain people, 320 00:17:56,400 --> 00:17:58,920 Speaker 1: like getting to one of your facilities may have been difficult, 321 00:17:59,200 --> 00:18:02,080 Speaker 1: but now that you've tested this out and seeing that 322 00:18:02,160 --> 00:18:04,280 Speaker 1: it can work, though not maybe as great as in 323 00:18:04,359 --> 00:18:06,840 Speaker 1: person and me, you know, and for the option for 324 00:18:06,880 --> 00:18:08,560 Speaker 1: other people to be able to participate in some of 325 00:18:08,560 --> 00:18:11,639 Speaker 1: the programs right right exactly. I mean, I think it 326 00:18:12,080 --> 00:18:15,239 Speaker 1: has really allowed for more access to care, you know, 327 00:18:15,320 --> 00:18:17,640 Speaker 1: so that if you can't you're not within a driving distance, 328 00:18:17,680 --> 00:18:21,399 Speaker 1: you still can, you know, join treatment. And you know, 329 00:18:21,400 --> 00:18:24,119 Speaker 1: we're doing research right now to really look at whether 330 00:18:24,480 --> 00:18:28,959 Speaker 1: the outcomes are any different on virtual than on in person, 331 00:18:29,080 --> 00:18:30,960 Speaker 1: you know that, and and so far we're not really 332 00:18:31,000 --> 00:18:33,320 Speaker 1: seeing that adding totally. But we're really going to sort 333 00:18:33,320 --> 00:18:35,080 Speaker 1: of back it up with with research as well to 334 00:18:35,119 --> 00:18:38,080 Speaker 1: show that you can get you know, the same level 335 00:18:38,119 --> 00:18:42,240 Speaker 1: of treatment effect even if you are doing virtual versus 336 00:18:42,280 --> 00:18:46,280 Speaker 1: in person. Mm hmmm nice. So Dr Brooks, she talks 337 00:18:46,280 --> 00:18:48,960 Speaker 1: earlier just about anxiety, right, and I feel like that 338 00:18:49,080 --> 00:18:52,760 Speaker 1: has been the overwhelming like feeling for much of what 339 00:18:52,840 --> 00:18:55,280 Speaker 1: a lot of us have been experiencing since more. It's right, 340 00:18:55,400 --> 00:18:58,280 Speaker 1: just this anxiety about what's going to happen, and we 341 00:18:58,359 --> 00:19:00,879 Speaker 1: know that that can be a tie in for eating 342 00:19:00,880 --> 00:19:04,720 Speaker 1: disordered behavior. And I'm wondering how you maybe have had 343 00:19:04,760 --> 00:19:07,840 Speaker 1: to work differently with clients given that what we typically 344 00:19:07,880 --> 00:19:12,119 Speaker 1: teach around anxiety is okay, is this realistic? And you know, like, 345 00:19:12,160 --> 00:19:14,159 Speaker 1: are you kind of going too far? And you're thinking 346 00:19:14,480 --> 00:19:17,480 Speaker 1: when so much of it really is? It is realistic? 347 00:19:17,640 --> 00:19:20,600 Speaker 1: Right at this point? Um, you know some people who had, 348 00:19:20,640 --> 00:19:23,440 Speaker 1: you know, concerns about germs and those kinds of things 349 00:19:23,440 --> 00:19:26,280 Speaker 1: that kind of seemed for fitched, you know before March 350 00:19:27,000 --> 00:19:29,439 Speaker 1: is not so far fished right now, right, And so 351 00:19:29,480 --> 00:19:31,720 Speaker 1: I'm wondering, you know, what kinds of things have had 352 00:19:31,760 --> 00:19:34,160 Speaker 1: to change in your approach of working with clients, given 353 00:19:34,200 --> 00:19:36,399 Speaker 1: that you know so much more of anxiety does feel 354 00:19:36,400 --> 00:19:39,640 Speaker 1: like it is grounded in reality right now, right right now, 355 00:19:39,640 --> 00:19:42,040 Speaker 1: you're right, and you know, I mean, anxiety is a 356 00:19:42,119 --> 00:19:45,000 Speaker 1: natural part of life, and you know, oftentimes when you're 357 00:19:45,000 --> 00:19:48,680 Speaker 1: talking with someone who has high anxiety, they can give 358 00:19:48,720 --> 00:19:51,720 Speaker 1: you a lot of good reasons why they're anxious, you know, 359 00:19:52,240 --> 00:19:54,640 Speaker 1: and if our minds dwell on the things that could 360 00:19:54,680 --> 00:19:58,159 Speaker 1: possibly be dangerous, yes, you could really kind of be 361 00:19:58,680 --> 00:20:02,480 Speaker 1: um walking around, uh, feeling like you don't want to 362 00:20:02,560 --> 00:20:04,840 Speaker 1: leave your house because there's so many things that can happen, 363 00:20:05,080 --> 00:20:08,560 Speaker 1: and so there is always, i think a realistic component 364 00:20:09,040 --> 00:20:11,720 Speaker 1: to the things that that would make us anxious and 365 00:20:11,720 --> 00:20:14,280 Speaker 1: that we're fearful about, and not right now it's it's 366 00:20:14,320 --> 00:20:17,960 Speaker 1: it's even probably more pronounced. But I think when we 367 00:20:18,040 --> 00:20:23,320 Speaker 1: start to catastrophize, meaning that we are not really weighing 368 00:20:23,640 --> 00:20:27,879 Speaker 1: the likelihood that something is going to happen in this moment, 369 00:20:28,960 --> 00:20:33,480 Speaker 1: in part partly because we're sort of uh, just ruminating 370 00:20:33,600 --> 00:20:36,800 Speaker 1: over it and whatnot, that that's what begins to affect 371 00:20:36,800 --> 00:20:40,879 Speaker 1: our ability to function. And right now we're we're having 372 00:20:40,920 --> 00:20:43,560 Speaker 1: to function even in spite of the fact that we 373 00:20:43,600 --> 00:20:47,240 Speaker 1: are in a pandemic, and that we have to learn 374 00:20:47,280 --> 00:20:50,400 Speaker 1: how to be able to kind of feel that anxiety 375 00:20:50,440 --> 00:20:53,919 Speaker 1: but still be able to weigh the amount of danger 376 00:20:54,000 --> 00:20:56,920 Speaker 1: that there really is. You know. So for example, if 377 00:20:56,960 --> 00:20:59,040 Speaker 1: I can't what are my groceries and I have to 378 00:20:59,080 --> 00:21:03,000 Speaker 1: go to the groceries store, yes there's some risk, but 379 00:21:03,040 --> 00:21:05,040 Speaker 1: there's some things I can do to try to mitigate 380 00:21:05,080 --> 00:21:07,680 Speaker 1: that risk. And if I don't go to the grocery store, 381 00:21:07,680 --> 00:21:09,840 Speaker 1: I mean, I have anything to eat. So I've got 382 00:21:09,880 --> 00:21:14,520 Speaker 1: to somehow way the risk and also doing what I 383 00:21:14,560 --> 00:21:16,240 Speaker 1: know I need to do to be able to function. 384 00:21:17,480 --> 00:21:19,600 Speaker 1: You know, early on Dr Brooks kind of when all 385 00:21:19,640 --> 00:21:22,440 Speaker 1: this first started, you would read a lot of stories 386 00:21:22,480 --> 00:21:24,360 Speaker 1: and hear a lot of stories just about like all 387 00:21:24,359 --> 00:21:27,359 Speaker 1: the hoarding, you know, like people getting all these groceries 388 00:21:27,400 --> 00:21:29,600 Speaker 1: and totally paper and all that kind of stuff. And 389 00:21:29,640 --> 00:21:33,280 Speaker 1: I'm wondering if there has been some connection or like 390 00:21:33,359 --> 00:21:36,560 Speaker 1: in your work maybe or maybe through the research, there 391 00:21:36,720 --> 00:21:39,760 Speaker 1: is some connection between like people who had maybe early 392 00:21:39,800 --> 00:21:43,120 Speaker 1: experiences with like food insecurity, and how that has now 393 00:21:43,160 --> 00:21:47,280 Speaker 1: been connected to our experiences of the pandemic. Yeah, well, 394 00:21:47,320 --> 00:21:50,399 Speaker 1: we're learning a lot more about food insecurity and the 395 00:21:50,520 --> 00:21:53,960 Speaker 1: relationship between that and eating disorders. And also, I think 396 00:21:54,000 --> 00:21:56,600 Speaker 1: in terms of what we're seeing here with with being 397 00:21:56,640 --> 00:21:59,320 Speaker 1: in the pandemic, you know, we used to think that 398 00:21:59,440 --> 00:22:03,840 Speaker 1: eating just order behavior was really something of more an 399 00:22:03,880 --> 00:22:06,600 Speaker 1: affluent kind of thing where you have food and you 400 00:22:06,720 --> 00:22:08,680 Speaker 1: just don't want to kind of eat it kind of thing, 401 00:22:09,320 --> 00:22:12,240 Speaker 1: or you have so much food around. But what we're 402 00:22:12,320 --> 00:22:15,480 Speaker 1: learning is that when there is food insecurity, when a 403 00:22:15,520 --> 00:22:22,040 Speaker 1: person truly does not have enough reliable food available, that 404 00:22:22,040 --> 00:22:25,359 Speaker 1: that produces many of the same kinds of behaviors that 405 00:22:25,440 --> 00:22:29,280 Speaker 1: we see in someone who is bolimic or antorexic or 406 00:22:29,359 --> 00:22:33,320 Speaker 1: engages in binge eating disorder. This sort of preoccupation with food, 407 00:22:33,880 --> 00:22:38,320 Speaker 1: guilt around eating, also even just issues around weight gain, 408 00:22:38,480 --> 00:22:41,800 Speaker 1: if if you can imagine that as well, and if 409 00:22:41,840 --> 00:22:44,800 Speaker 1: you have a lot of anxiety not only about feeding 410 00:22:44,800 --> 00:22:48,040 Speaker 1: yourself but feeding your children, that that seems to eat 411 00:22:48,119 --> 00:22:52,280 Speaker 1: really increase one's vulnerability to developing and eating disorder. And 412 00:22:52,280 --> 00:22:54,280 Speaker 1: this is something that's really new that we're starting to 413 00:22:54,640 --> 00:22:57,560 Speaker 1: sort of understand in the field that wasn't seen before. 414 00:22:58,000 --> 00:23:01,399 Speaker 1: M hm. So we out at early on talking about 415 00:23:01,480 --> 00:23:03,800 Speaker 1: how we've seen like lots of you know, jokes and 416 00:23:03,920 --> 00:23:08,000 Speaker 1: memes about the quarantine fifteen and people being very mindful. 417 00:23:08,400 --> 00:23:10,359 Speaker 1: I want to hear you talk a little bit about 418 00:23:10,560 --> 00:23:15,000 Speaker 1: why those kinds of messages are harmful. Yeah. I could 419 00:23:15,040 --> 00:23:21,720 Speaker 1: probably go on and on about but I'm sure you 420 00:23:21,760 --> 00:23:24,400 Speaker 1: know that one of the things I think that happens 421 00:23:24,480 --> 00:23:27,520 Speaker 1: during right now, during this time, is that when people 422 00:23:27,520 --> 00:23:30,920 Speaker 1: are home more and you know, sort of feeling more 423 00:23:30,960 --> 00:23:33,920 Speaker 1: bored and maybe their routines have been disrupted, that they're 424 00:23:33,920 --> 00:23:37,600 Speaker 1: probably spending more time on social media. And I think 425 00:23:37,640 --> 00:23:40,520 Speaker 1: the what maybe started out as a joke in terms 426 00:23:40,560 --> 00:23:45,720 Speaker 1: of the quarantine fifteen, I think it's really legitimate anxiety 427 00:23:45,760 --> 00:23:49,320 Speaker 1: that and that individuals are having about some natural weight 428 00:23:49,320 --> 00:23:52,600 Speaker 1: game that probably people are experiencing. You know. Again, I 429 00:23:52,600 --> 00:23:56,000 Speaker 1: think there's been a major shift in our lifestyles, and 430 00:23:56,240 --> 00:23:59,720 Speaker 1: it wouldn't be surprising that that might result then in 431 00:23:59,760 --> 00:24:03,280 Speaker 1: a shift in how we're eating and also the amount 432 00:24:03,440 --> 00:24:06,600 Speaker 1: of movement that we have in our lives and if 433 00:24:07,480 --> 00:24:12,040 Speaker 1: we gain and messages about that on social media and 434 00:24:12,320 --> 00:24:16,920 Speaker 1: comparing individuals and whatnot is really rampant. I think it's 435 00:24:17,000 --> 00:24:19,119 Speaker 1: understandable that we're going to see a lot of people 436 00:24:19,280 --> 00:24:22,879 Speaker 1: be really traumatized by this and feel a lot of 437 00:24:22,880 --> 00:24:26,440 Speaker 1: self hatred, a lot of distress around their own bodies, 438 00:24:26,520 --> 00:24:29,080 Speaker 1: and not being able to be in an accepting mode 439 00:24:29,560 --> 00:24:32,959 Speaker 1: that these are unusual times and that we have to 440 00:24:33,000 --> 00:24:36,080 Speaker 1: take care of ourselves and be able to accept ourselves. 441 00:24:36,560 --> 00:24:39,680 Speaker 1: You know, when you're home balancing kids and work and 442 00:24:40,000 --> 00:24:41,560 Speaker 1: you know, trying to get a meal on the table, 443 00:24:41,680 --> 00:24:43,560 Speaker 1: or you may be turning to very quick things to 444 00:24:43,640 --> 00:24:46,879 Speaker 1: satisfy everybody, and that that may have an impact on 445 00:24:46,880 --> 00:24:49,720 Speaker 1: on things, but it doesn't mean that you've failed or 446 00:24:49,760 --> 00:24:54,360 Speaker 1: that something's wrong, or that somehow you're you're inadequate. Yeah, 447 00:24:54,359 --> 00:24:57,239 Speaker 1: and I think that there isn't also the awareness of 448 00:24:57,280 --> 00:25:01,359 Speaker 1: just how our bodies respond in a stressful situation, right, 449 00:25:01,480 --> 00:25:03,320 Speaker 1: you know, so there may be the tendency to hold 450 00:25:03,359 --> 00:25:06,000 Speaker 1: on to weight because we are like preparing for battle 451 00:25:06,160 --> 00:25:09,119 Speaker 1: almost in some ways. Exactly. Well, that's one of the 452 00:25:09,160 --> 00:25:13,040 Speaker 1: things when we look at eating disorders among black people 453 00:25:13,040 --> 00:25:16,960 Speaker 1: and people of colors that you know, there's there's been 454 00:25:17,000 --> 00:25:20,520 Speaker 1: so much focus on obesity being about what you eat, 455 00:25:20,760 --> 00:25:23,440 Speaker 1: you know, and you know, I think clearly what we're 456 00:25:23,520 --> 00:25:26,240 Speaker 1: coming to understand is that, you know, it's not about 457 00:25:26,280 --> 00:25:29,680 Speaker 1: the fried chicken, It's about the stress, and that stress 458 00:25:29,840 --> 00:25:32,879 Speaker 1: really has much more an impact on how a person, 459 00:25:33,400 --> 00:25:37,400 Speaker 1: you know, the impact physiologically on an individual that may 460 00:25:37,400 --> 00:25:41,200 Speaker 1: result in them gaining weight and that sort of thing. So, 461 00:25:41,760 --> 00:25:44,600 Speaker 1: you know, I think we need to understand that the 462 00:25:44,640 --> 00:25:48,960 Speaker 1: stress itself is gonna be very impactful on both our 463 00:25:49,000 --> 00:25:52,480 Speaker 1: behaviors and on how our bodies respond. So what tips 464 00:25:52,480 --> 00:25:54,440 Speaker 1: do you have, Dr Brooks for people who may be 465 00:25:54,560 --> 00:25:57,960 Speaker 1: struggling with disordered eating and seeing like the memes and 466 00:25:58,040 --> 00:26:00,399 Speaker 1: things shared on social media with tips would you have 467 00:26:00,480 --> 00:26:03,080 Speaker 1: for them for how to maybe protect themselves or you know, 468 00:26:03,160 --> 00:26:07,439 Speaker 1: to manage some of that. Yeah, well, you know this 469 00:26:07,520 --> 00:26:09,520 Speaker 1: is coming from somebody here sort of refuses to be 470 00:26:09,600 --> 00:26:12,479 Speaker 1: on social media for the most part. So I do 471 00:26:12,840 --> 00:26:15,960 Speaker 1: sort of put that out there, but I think it's 472 00:26:16,000 --> 00:26:19,800 Speaker 1: it's really important to reduce it down. You know. I 473 00:26:19,840 --> 00:26:22,159 Speaker 1: think when you're looking at something, if you're finding yourself 474 00:26:22,200 --> 00:26:26,679 Speaker 1: going through your feed and feeling that it's time to 475 00:26:26,720 --> 00:26:30,040 Speaker 1: get off, it's time to either you know, mute those 476 00:26:30,080 --> 00:26:33,160 Speaker 1: people that may be putting things out there that are 477 00:26:33,400 --> 00:26:36,240 Speaker 1: really triggering shame inside of you and and a lot 478 00:26:36,280 --> 00:26:39,840 Speaker 1: of negative self talk that you don't need, that that's 479 00:26:39,880 --> 00:26:43,120 Speaker 1: not helpful, and so I think to be able to 480 00:26:43,119 --> 00:26:47,120 Speaker 1: to really just say no, turn it off. The other 481 00:26:47,200 --> 00:26:50,040 Speaker 1: thing I think is really thinking about any time that 482 00:26:50,080 --> 00:26:52,719 Speaker 1: we're going through a lot of stress, that what we 483 00:26:52,760 --> 00:26:56,359 Speaker 1: need more than anything is self care, that that's really 484 00:26:56,359 --> 00:27:00,960 Speaker 1: what the body is creating, is something that is going 485 00:27:01,000 --> 00:27:04,240 Speaker 1: to feel as if you are you know, listening to 486 00:27:04,520 --> 00:27:06,840 Speaker 1: what your body is needing in the moment, and that 487 00:27:06,880 --> 00:27:10,679 Speaker 1: maybe everything from what you eat in terms of what 488 00:27:10,760 --> 00:27:13,639 Speaker 1: your body is kind of wanting in this moment to 489 00:27:14,240 --> 00:27:18,120 Speaker 1: what you need in terms of being able to get 490 00:27:18,160 --> 00:27:21,440 Speaker 1: some relaxation, get some you know, sometimes it's getting out 491 00:27:21,480 --> 00:27:25,480 Speaker 1: and just getting some fresh air, being able to engage 492 00:27:25,520 --> 00:27:28,720 Speaker 1: in joyful activity, you know, which is not the same 493 00:27:28,720 --> 00:27:30,640 Speaker 1: thing as going out and running in the heat and 494 00:27:30,760 --> 00:27:33,280 Speaker 1: sweating and all of that, but really doing something where 495 00:27:33,280 --> 00:27:36,480 Speaker 1: your body actually feels good in the moment while you're 496 00:27:36,520 --> 00:27:39,880 Speaker 1: doing it, that you know, that can be very very 497 00:27:39,880 --> 00:27:43,840 Speaker 1: important as well. I think finding connection is so important 498 00:27:43,880 --> 00:27:47,520 Speaker 1: during this time, um that if you are finding yourself 499 00:27:47,560 --> 00:27:50,840 Speaker 1: really not connected with friends and colleagues, you know, even 500 00:27:50,840 --> 00:27:53,520 Speaker 1: though zoom is not the same as being there. It 501 00:27:53,720 --> 00:27:56,680 Speaker 1: is better than sitting in your own isolation and in 502 00:27:56,760 --> 00:27:59,960 Speaker 1: your own boredom. And so I think to intentionally put 503 00:28:00,040 --> 00:28:04,000 Speaker 1: those moments in your schedule where you're staying connected um 504 00:28:04,359 --> 00:28:08,520 Speaker 1: is very very important. And I also think just being 505 00:28:08,520 --> 00:28:11,960 Speaker 1: able to think about what what you value, what's important 506 00:28:11,960 --> 00:28:15,600 Speaker 1: to you, what you feel grateful about in your life too, 507 00:28:16,240 --> 00:28:18,840 Speaker 1: sort of be in the moment that you're in right now, 508 00:28:19,280 --> 00:28:22,880 Speaker 1: as opposed to maybe stressing out about the future or 509 00:28:23,240 --> 00:28:25,720 Speaker 1: you know, dwelling on what you didn't do and dwelling 510 00:28:25,760 --> 00:28:28,600 Speaker 1: in the past. But to really find some mindful moments 511 00:28:28,640 --> 00:28:31,119 Speaker 1: and the mindful practice I think can really take you 512 00:28:31,160 --> 00:28:33,720 Speaker 1: a long way. Yeah. Those are great. It was Dr Brooks, 513 00:28:33,800 --> 00:28:36,720 Speaker 1: Thank you. Yeah. So I think something else that is 514 00:28:36,760 --> 00:28:40,600 Speaker 1: happening on social media, and I think particularly on platforms 515 00:28:40,640 --> 00:28:43,680 Speaker 1: like Instagram and sick time because there are more visual platforms. 516 00:28:43,680 --> 00:28:45,280 Speaker 1: And I know you said you're not really on social 517 00:28:45,320 --> 00:28:47,440 Speaker 1: but I'm sure you know because of your work what 518 00:28:47,520 --> 00:28:52,320 Speaker 1: these are, all right, And it feels like they're tends 519 00:28:52,360 --> 00:28:55,800 Speaker 1: to be lots of like videos are like beautiful pictures 520 00:28:55,800 --> 00:28:59,280 Speaker 1: of food right in and in some ways, you know, 521 00:28:59,400 --> 00:29:02,200 Speaker 1: it feels like people are sharing tips for like how 522 00:29:02,240 --> 00:29:04,800 Speaker 1: to be healthy and like this is how you can 523 00:29:04,840 --> 00:29:08,200 Speaker 1: make you know, these vegetables interesting, and you might not 524 00:29:08,240 --> 00:29:10,240 Speaker 1: have thought about it that way, right, And so it 525 00:29:10,240 --> 00:29:13,840 Speaker 1: feels like there's a fine line between like what kinds 526 00:29:13,840 --> 00:29:16,880 Speaker 1: of things could be helpful on social media and what 527 00:29:17,000 --> 00:29:20,560 Speaker 1: kinds of things Like there's a TikTok hashtag that we 528 00:29:20,680 --> 00:29:23,080 Speaker 1: found that talked about like what I ate today, right 529 00:29:23,080 --> 00:29:25,520 Speaker 1: where people are kind of sharing, you know, like they 530 00:29:25,560 --> 00:29:28,040 Speaker 1: may eat like a handful of raspberries or something, you know, 531 00:29:28,160 --> 00:29:30,200 Speaker 1: kind of thing, right, And so it feels like there 532 00:29:30,280 --> 00:29:32,320 Speaker 1: is a very fine line between what can be helpful 533 00:29:32,360 --> 00:29:35,360 Speaker 1: and what can be harmful. Yeah, you're you're right. And 534 00:29:35,400 --> 00:29:40,000 Speaker 1: I think that so much of of those extremes are 535 00:29:40,040 --> 00:29:42,640 Speaker 1: out there um for individuals to get sort of caught 536 00:29:42,760 --> 00:29:45,840 Speaker 1: up in. You know, I think it's probably better too, 537 00:29:46,560 --> 00:29:48,440 Speaker 1: in some ways sort of step out of it if 538 00:29:48,480 --> 00:29:50,400 Speaker 1: you can, because you don't know if you're going to 539 00:29:50,480 --> 00:29:53,440 Speaker 1: be necessarily the person that's going to get so kind 540 00:29:53,440 --> 00:29:57,120 Speaker 1: of preoccupied with it that it becomes more destructive to 541 00:29:57,200 --> 00:30:00,120 Speaker 1: you rather than than helpful. I think that there's a 542 00:30:00,120 --> 00:30:03,720 Speaker 1: lot of moralistic sort of attitude out there that if 543 00:30:03,760 --> 00:30:06,000 Speaker 1: you can eat this particular way, or if you can 544 00:30:06,240 --> 00:30:11,600 Speaker 1: do this particular exercise program daily and then put it online, 545 00:30:11,640 --> 00:30:13,440 Speaker 1: and that sort of thing, that that somehow that makes 546 00:30:13,480 --> 00:30:16,400 Speaker 1: you a better person. And I think that that kind 547 00:30:16,400 --> 00:30:20,160 Speaker 1: of thinking is really destructive, you know that we start 548 00:30:20,240 --> 00:30:23,480 Speaker 1: to think that somehow, how we look what our weight 549 00:30:23,720 --> 00:30:27,560 Speaker 1: is is going to have us feel differently inside. And 550 00:30:27,760 --> 00:30:30,840 Speaker 1: the reality is if that's really not true. You know 551 00:30:31,400 --> 00:30:34,320 Speaker 1: that if the thought is that if I lose weight, 552 00:30:34,600 --> 00:30:39,320 Speaker 1: I'm going to be you know, more confident, you know, well, 553 00:30:39,440 --> 00:30:42,040 Speaker 1: you know that doesn't wait in confidence really don't have 554 00:30:42,120 --> 00:30:45,160 Speaker 1: anything to do with one another. And if you ask yourself, 555 00:30:45,520 --> 00:30:48,760 Speaker 1: you know, how, how would you be if you were confident? 556 00:30:48,840 --> 00:30:52,960 Speaker 1: What would that look like? Those behaviors are really what 557 00:30:53,040 --> 00:30:56,000 Speaker 1: are important? Thing? How do I want to be behaving 558 00:30:56,040 --> 00:30:58,200 Speaker 1: in a way that is more in line with my 559 00:30:58,320 --> 00:31:01,480 Speaker 1: values for myself and that has nothing to do with 560 00:31:01,520 --> 00:31:04,640 Speaker 1: body sides, you know, And so just beginning to sort 561 00:31:04,680 --> 00:31:08,080 Speaker 1: of think more about sort of the deeper values that 562 00:31:08,120 --> 00:31:10,880 Speaker 1: you have rather than hanging so much on weight and 563 00:31:11,000 --> 00:31:14,320 Speaker 1: body image, which is really driven by I think our 564 00:31:14,480 --> 00:31:19,880 Speaker 1: societal messages that are that are really not healthy. M M. Yeah, 565 00:31:20,280 --> 00:31:22,680 Speaker 1: So before we started recording. Dr Brick, you and I 566 00:31:22,680 --> 00:31:26,000 Speaker 1: were talking a little bit about, um, just the the 567 00:31:26,080 --> 00:31:29,120 Speaker 1: reliance on Zoom and other video platforms that we have 568 00:31:29,320 --> 00:31:31,960 Speaker 1: now and how that is impacting our body imagined. That 569 00:31:32,160 --> 00:31:34,280 Speaker 1: is not something I had thought about. UM, So I'd 570 00:31:34,280 --> 00:31:35,920 Speaker 1: love to hear you talk a little bit more about, 571 00:31:35,960 --> 00:31:38,920 Speaker 1: like how you're seeing that show up first in terms 572 00:31:39,000 --> 00:31:41,240 Speaker 1: of just how I think it affects us, whether you 573 00:31:41,240 --> 00:31:44,400 Speaker 1: haven't eating disorder or not. I think being in a 574 00:31:45,040 --> 00:31:48,840 Speaker 1: interaction with someone where you are just basically staring at 575 00:31:48,880 --> 00:31:51,680 Speaker 1: their face, you know, you're not you know, when we're 576 00:31:51,680 --> 00:31:53,880 Speaker 1: in the room with one another, you look all around, 577 00:31:54,040 --> 00:31:57,000 Speaker 1: You're not so concentrated on looking at the other person 578 00:31:57,040 --> 00:31:59,760 Speaker 1: and having the other person look at you. And I 579 00:32:00,000 --> 00:32:03,160 Speaker 1: think that that can create in us. And I think 580 00:32:03,200 --> 00:32:06,480 Speaker 1: about for myself even this sense of oh my god, 581 00:32:06,520 --> 00:32:08,239 Speaker 1: what are they seeing on camera? You know, and then 582 00:32:08,280 --> 00:32:10,920 Speaker 1: you can sort of see yourself on camera, and I 583 00:32:10,960 --> 00:32:13,600 Speaker 1: think that sort of discomfort that comes with it. I 584 00:32:13,600 --> 00:32:16,280 Speaker 1: find myself sort of looking at the gray hairs and thinking, oh, 585 00:32:16,280 --> 00:32:18,600 Speaker 1: my goodness, I should have done something about that. And 586 00:32:19,200 --> 00:32:22,520 Speaker 1: you know that it can be a real preoccupation we 587 00:32:22,640 --> 00:32:25,600 Speaker 1: find with some of our pictures that we treat that 588 00:32:26,400 --> 00:32:28,920 Speaker 1: really struggle with an eating disorder. One of the things 589 00:32:28,920 --> 00:32:31,520 Speaker 1: that they have a hard time with is being seeing 590 00:32:31,600 --> 00:32:36,360 Speaker 1: themselves on camera and being very preoccupied with sort of 591 00:32:36,400 --> 00:32:39,400 Speaker 1: pointing out in themselves all the flaws that they see, 592 00:32:39,520 --> 00:32:42,200 Speaker 1: and they're worrying about what other people are seeing in 593 00:32:42,280 --> 00:32:44,800 Speaker 1: them and whatnot. So, you know, one of the things 594 00:32:44,800 --> 00:32:47,240 Speaker 1: that we do, we do ask our individuals that are 595 00:32:47,400 --> 00:32:50,360 Speaker 1: sort of going to be on camera is to take 596 00:32:50,400 --> 00:32:52,440 Speaker 1: your picture off so that you're not constantly looking at 597 00:32:52,480 --> 00:32:55,200 Speaker 1: yourself and trying to sort of evaluate how you're looking, 598 00:32:55,800 --> 00:32:57,720 Speaker 1: you know. So, so I think it's it's just we 599 00:32:57,800 --> 00:33:01,040 Speaker 1: have to understand that this new way of being with 600 00:33:01,080 --> 00:33:04,800 Speaker 1: each other can sort of bring up anxieties that you know, 601 00:33:04,840 --> 00:33:08,240 Speaker 1: maybe weren't there quite as significantly before. Mm hmm. Yeah, 602 00:33:08,280 --> 00:33:10,120 Speaker 1: not to mention with you know how many of our 603 00:33:10,200 --> 00:33:13,239 Speaker 1: grouping practices have been shut down, right, so people are 604 00:33:13,280 --> 00:33:15,800 Speaker 1: not able to get their brows in and all of 605 00:33:15,800 --> 00:33:18,560 Speaker 1: these things. So it definitely makes you attend to things 606 00:33:18,600 --> 00:33:23,040 Speaker 1: that you maybe wouldn't normally. M Yeah, for sure. So 607 00:33:23,160 --> 00:33:26,000 Speaker 1: do you have some favorite tips for how people can 608 00:33:26,120 --> 00:33:30,080 Speaker 1: begin to practice body positivity? Dr books? You know what 609 00:33:30,200 --> 00:33:33,960 Speaker 1: I think one of the first steps, even before you 610 00:33:34,000 --> 00:33:38,680 Speaker 1: get to body positivity, is just some body acceptance, okay, 611 00:33:39,080 --> 00:33:42,720 Speaker 1: because you know we we come in all shapes and sizes, 612 00:33:42,960 --> 00:33:47,600 Speaker 1: and you know, being able to sort of be in 613 00:33:47,680 --> 00:33:52,840 Speaker 1: your body and just have some sense of it being 614 00:33:53,160 --> 00:33:56,440 Speaker 1: all the things that your body really does do for you. 615 00:33:56,440 --> 00:33:58,640 Speaker 1: You know, it keeps you upright, it gets you here 616 00:33:58,680 --> 00:34:01,760 Speaker 1: to there, it you know, keeps you breathing every day. 617 00:34:01,800 --> 00:34:05,040 Speaker 1: I mean, your your body does a tremendous amount. And 618 00:34:05,080 --> 00:34:08,800 Speaker 1: if you're not sort of embracing and having some appreciation 619 00:34:09,080 --> 00:34:11,799 Speaker 1: for that body that, you know, I think you really 620 00:34:11,800 --> 00:34:14,600 Speaker 1: put yourself at war with yourself and then really I 621 00:34:14,600 --> 00:34:16,880 Speaker 1: think you can really affect your health in some ways. 622 00:34:17,320 --> 00:34:21,080 Speaker 1: So I really being able to look at yourself. You 623 00:34:21,080 --> 00:34:23,839 Speaker 1: know that that part of treatment can be this sort 624 00:34:23,880 --> 00:34:26,719 Speaker 1: of exposure work that we do with individuals, which we 625 00:34:26,800 --> 00:34:29,960 Speaker 1: asked them to just be able to look at their 626 00:34:30,040 --> 00:34:34,560 Speaker 1: body and sort of describe it in neutral terms. You know, 627 00:34:34,640 --> 00:34:38,279 Speaker 1: not good, bad, you know, ugly pretty, you know, but 628 00:34:38,520 --> 00:34:42,680 Speaker 1: just this is this is what my body is. And 629 00:34:42,920 --> 00:34:46,960 Speaker 1: being able to be with that and to accept it 630 00:34:47,040 --> 00:34:50,319 Speaker 1: is I think that the greatest gift we might you 631 00:34:50,400 --> 00:34:52,640 Speaker 1: might not ever be able to get to, oh boy, 632 00:34:52,680 --> 00:34:55,720 Speaker 1: I love my this or I love my that, because 633 00:34:55,719 --> 00:34:57,880 Speaker 1: that may not be what you sort of feel in 634 00:34:57,920 --> 00:35:02,000 Speaker 1: the moment, But can you except that your body has 635 00:35:02,239 --> 00:35:04,880 Speaker 1: value and that it is important to you, and that 636 00:35:04,960 --> 00:35:08,080 Speaker 1: it is worth taken care of and and appreciating. I 637 00:35:08,080 --> 00:35:09,799 Speaker 1: think that that's really the where we need to try 638 00:35:09,840 --> 00:35:12,960 Speaker 1: to get to, so not even as much body positivity 639 00:35:13,000 --> 00:35:15,960 Speaker 1: as body acceptance and really just appreciating our body for 640 00:35:16,040 --> 00:35:19,600 Speaker 1: what it can do for us. Yeah. Yeah, Sometimes people 641 00:35:19,600 --> 00:35:22,560 Speaker 1: work on affirmations, you know, being able to say positive 642 00:35:22,600 --> 00:35:25,520 Speaker 1: things about their body, but oftentimes even if you're saying 643 00:35:25,520 --> 00:35:28,760 Speaker 1: it inside your head, you're kind of saying other stuff yourself, 644 00:35:28,800 --> 00:35:31,160 Speaker 1: you know. And so I think just to be able 645 00:35:31,239 --> 00:35:33,319 Speaker 1: to look at the you know, so after I take 646 00:35:33,320 --> 00:35:35,440 Speaker 1: a shower, I stand here kind of look at myself. 647 00:35:35,840 --> 00:35:39,600 Speaker 1: There's some roles, Yes, there's you know, there's what it is, 648 00:35:39,600 --> 00:35:41,600 Speaker 1: what it is, And I think to be able to 649 00:35:41,640 --> 00:35:44,600 Speaker 1: have an appreciation for that rather than the negatives, you know, 650 00:35:44,600 --> 00:35:47,640 Speaker 1: sort of noticing the negative self talk that comes into 651 00:35:47,719 --> 00:35:51,319 Speaker 1: your head and if you can just sort of let that, 652 00:35:51,840 --> 00:35:54,440 Speaker 1: let that go, just kind of okay, I don't have 653 00:35:54,480 --> 00:35:56,480 Speaker 1: to dwell on this I don't have to feed it 654 00:35:56,520 --> 00:35:59,239 Speaker 1: in my head right now. And the more you do that, 655 00:35:59,360 --> 00:36:01,680 Speaker 1: I think you'll find is that you need You may 656 00:36:01,760 --> 00:36:04,400 Speaker 1: notice some shifting and how much you are sort of 657 00:36:04,440 --> 00:36:07,879 Speaker 1: detegrating yourself when you when you look at yourself. Mm hmmm. 658 00:36:08,520 --> 00:36:11,280 Speaker 1: So do you have some favorite resources that you typically 659 00:36:11,320 --> 00:36:13,239 Speaker 1: like to share for people who maybe want to learn 660 00:36:13,280 --> 00:36:17,239 Speaker 1: more or you know, need some assistance in this area. Yeah, Well, 661 00:36:17,320 --> 00:36:20,319 Speaker 1: for those individuals who are struggling with eating disorders right 662 00:36:20,320 --> 00:36:23,319 Speaker 1: now during this time, there is you know, I'm not 663 00:36:23,520 --> 00:36:27,200 Speaker 1: down on all social media, but there is an instagram 664 00:36:27,280 --> 00:36:30,960 Speaker 1: I think of COVID nineteen Eating Support. At COVID nineteen 665 00:36:31,000 --> 00:36:34,680 Speaker 1: Eating Support, which eating disorder professionals from around the world 666 00:36:34,680 --> 00:36:38,399 Speaker 1: are providing eating support to individuals who are struggling with 667 00:36:38,400 --> 00:36:41,400 Speaker 1: with their eating disorder seven. So if you're having a 668 00:36:41,440 --> 00:36:43,920 Speaker 1: meal and you need some support, you can tune into 669 00:36:43,960 --> 00:36:46,920 Speaker 1: this and there will be someone there that can help 670 00:36:46,960 --> 00:36:48,840 Speaker 1: with you know, sort of how you're feeling in the 671 00:36:48,880 --> 00:36:51,239 Speaker 1: moment and to sort of get you through. So, I 672 00:36:51,280 --> 00:36:53,000 Speaker 1: know that's been something that a lot of people in 673 00:36:53,040 --> 00:36:55,319 Speaker 1: the eating disorder field patients have used that I think 674 00:36:55,360 --> 00:36:59,160 Speaker 1: it's been very helpful there's a lot of information. There's 675 00:36:59,239 --> 00:37:03,680 Speaker 1: a organization called NIDA, the Nationally Eating Disorder Association. They 676 00:37:03,680 --> 00:37:07,080 Speaker 1: have a lot of information for anyone that may be 677 00:37:07,120 --> 00:37:10,400 Speaker 1: struggling with an eating disorder. Also, there's a lot of 678 00:37:10,440 --> 00:37:13,520 Speaker 1: information for anyone who knows of somebody with an eating 679 00:37:13,560 --> 00:37:15,720 Speaker 1: disorder that may be struggling like it maybe a family 680 00:37:15,800 --> 00:37:19,120 Speaker 1: member or you know, a friend or whatever, and just 681 00:37:19,239 --> 00:37:20,719 Speaker 1: how do I deal with this? What do I do 682 00:37:20,840 --> 00:37:23,200 Speaker 1: to help um? There's a lot of information around that. 683 00:37:23,800 --> 00:37:26,400 Speaker 1: And also I think a lot of good information around 684 00:37:26,800 --> 00:37:30,040 Speaker 1: just if you're having you know, disordered eating or just 685 00:37:30,120 --> 00:37:32,279 Speaker 1: some problematic eating it doesn't necessarily have to be eating 686 00:37:32,280 --> 00:37:36,399 Speaker 1: disorder that there's a lot of good resources there as well. 687 00:37:37,160 --> 00:37:40,399 Speaker 1: People can certainly go onto the Renfrew website, the Renfro 688 00:37:40,480 --> 00:37:43,840 Speaker 1: Center website for center dot com, we have a resource 689 00:37:43,880 --> 00:37:47,320 Speaker 1: page that has resources and from lots of different areas 690 00:37:47,360 --> 00:37:51,600 Speaker 1: for teens, for families, for individuals from special populations, if 691 00:37:51,640 --> 00:37:56,120 Speaker 1: you're a person of color, also looking at professional resources 692 00:37:56,120 --> 00:37:57,960 Speaker 1: that are there as well. Thank you so much for 693 00:37:58,000 --> 00:38:00,480 Speaker 1: all of that, doctor folks. I really appreciate the wealth 694 00:38:00,520 --> 00:38:03,960 Speaker 1: of information you share Today. You're welcome and skreat talking 695 00:38:03,960 --> 00:38:09,040 Speaker 1: with you. Thank you. I'm so glad Dr Brooks was 696 00:38:09,080 --> 00:38:11,839 Speaker 1: able to join us this week. Don't forget to visit 697 00:38:11,880 --> 00:38:14,320 Speaker 1: the show notes at Therapy for Black Girls dot com 698 00:38:14,360 --> 00:38:18,520 Speaker 1: slash session to check out some of the resources she shared, 699 00:38:19,600 --> 00:38:21,560 Speaker 1: And don't forget to share your takeaways with us on 700 00:38:21,640 --> 00:38:25,920 Speaker 1: social media using the hashtag tb G in session. 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