Speaker 1: Second date of date. I don't know about you, guys,
Speaker 1: but I've only had cops show up to my dates
Speaker 1: two or three dozen times, and all of them had
Speaker 1: taraway pants, so I didn't even mind being handcuffed on them.
Speaker 2: I was going to say, I know what the problem
Speaker 2: is here, because I still know.
Speaker 1: Still calling the authorities in the middle of a romantic
Speaker 1: encounter usually not a great sign.
Speaker 3: It's not.
Speaker 1: But one of our listeners, Tara, sent us an email
Speaker 1: saying her friends almost dialed the police during her first date,
Speaker 1: and she says it was a good thing. What's learned
Speaker 1: about this?
Speaker 4: Tara?
Speaker 1: Welcome to the show.
Speaker 4: Hi, you are safe, right, Yeah, I'm okay.
Speaker 2: She obviously has no duct tape on her mouth. That's
Speaker 2: really start.
Speaker 1: Okay, very interested to hear what happened on your date.
Speaker 1: Tell us what's going on. Who's this guy that you met?
Speaker 5: Well, his name is Rich, okayt him online?
Speaker 2: All Right, I'm already like assuming there's some huge red
Speaker 2: flag if your friends want to call the police, Well.
Speaker 5: I mean it was kind of my fault.
Speaker 2: You're the red flat. Okay.
Speaker 1: Now, okay, you met Rich online? What attracted you to Rich?
Speaker 5: You know, I don't do online dating that much. But
Speaker 5: when I saw his profiles, he had the cutest dog.
Speaker 5: He also had like this quote in his description saying
Speaker 5: human looking for another human to share a pizza with.
Speaker 5: And I'm like, okay, I love pizza, that's my favorite food.
Speaker 1: That doesn't sound like it's actually a person anymore.
Speaker 2: Is there a choice to put non humans?
Speaker 1: Are aliens already hopping on to It?
Speaker 3: Was like he's trying to make a joke, but it
Speaker 3: didn't come out.
Speaker 2: She liked it.
Speaker 5: They last, Oh yeah, of course.
Speaker 2: Of course. Did do humans get pizza together? Is that
Speaker 2: what you ended up doing?
Speaker 4: Yes, we did.
Speaker 5: He arranged the date for us, and really all of
Speaker 5: this is just my fault, Like I'm the one that
Speaker 5: messed up. I mean the date was fabulous. I mean
Speaker 5: I show up there, I see the guy and he's stunning.
Speaker 5: You know, I give Riches huge hugs.
Speaker 2: He's stunning. We don't hear that about men very often.
Speaker 2: That's a really nice compliment.
Speaker 5: No, I mean this guy, Wow, Like I really lucked out.
Speaker 5: He was way better looking than the photos.
Speaker 2: Oh that's awesome because he was so ugly.
Speaker 1: Yeah, he was stunning in the good way.
Speaker 5: Yes, that's just the conversation was so great that I
Speaker 5: had forgot to check my phone.
Speaker 3: Oh now, why your girlfriends were trying to check in
Speaker 3: or something.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 5: I had promised them that like ten to fifteen minutes
Speaker 5: into the date, I would give them an update, kind
Speaker 5: of let them know I was safe.
Speaker 2: That's really suited to a date.
Speaker 1: Really, he showed up emergency.
Speaker 5: It was like the stupidest thing because my phone was
Speaker 5: on silent and I had missed dozens of text messages
Speaker 5: from them asking like are you okay?
Speaker 4: What's going on?
Speaker 2: But I was just there.
Speaker 5: I was having the time of my life.
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, you were so into what was happening with
Speaker 1: you and Rich that you totally forgot it was a
Speaker 1: good day.
Speaker 3: Exactly when parents tell you when you were a kid,
Speaker 3: like you better be home or call us by this time,
Speaker 3: and you lose track. Five minutes later, they're like literally
Speaker 3: calling the police.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, that would do that for three weeks.
Speaker 2: How long did it take for you to see the
Speaker 2: text messages from your friends?
Speaker 4: Oh my god, it took me two hours.
Speaker 2: Oh oh so they are legit worried.
Speaker 5: Yeah, but it wasn't even me checking my phone. There
Speaker 5: was a waiter. They came up to our table. He's like,
Speaker 5: there's a call for you.
Speaker 2: Whoa, oh, because you told them where you were gonna be,
Speaker 2: and so they called the restaurant. Is that what happened?
Speaker 5: That's exactly right, and oh my god, like it just
Speaker 5: made it made everything so weird. And I got up
Speaker 5: and I took the call, and afterwards, you know, I
Speaker 5: texted my friends saying like, hey, we'll probably be here
Speaker 5: for a little longer.
Speaker 4: Don't worry about us.
Speaker 5: But yeah, I was totally my mistake. They were freaked out.
Speaker 2: Oh my god, you're good friends. You good friends. I'd
Speaker 2: forget I'd be like, oh my god, Ale, this was
Speaker 2: on a date yesterday and I forgot to text her.
Speaker 2: They would just stalk my location and be like, yeah, what.
Speaker 3: Wait did you tell him your friends called the restaurant
Speaker 3: or do you just say, like, all these scam callers
Speaker 3: are getting real bad.
Speaker 2: I don't want your warranty not interested.
Speaker 5: Well, I felt so embarrassed about it all. I kind
Speaker 5: of just brushed it off.
Speaker 1: Well, yeah, okay, I feel like, as a guy, you
Speaker 1: wouldn't want to hear from the girl that you're with.
Speaker 1: By the way, I told my friends, I would warn
Speaker 1: now if you were okay, I didn't think of that.
Speaker 2: Actually, no, though it's like dating nowadays. I mean, everybody's
Speaker 2: got to be careful. I feel like the dudes should
Speaker 2: be telling their friends to check in on him. It's
Speaker 2: not just women.
Speaker 3: Dude, you tell me if she actually showed up, broll.
Speaker 2: Around, but it would be so nice.
Speaker 1: Okay, but the friends knew that you're okay. And how
Speaker 1: did the rest of the date go?
Speaker 5: I mean it went great. I don't think that affected
Speaker 5: anything at all. We kept talking, we were there so
Speaker 5: long that we closed down the.
Speaker 4: Restaurant, Oh my gosh.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 5: And then after that, I mean he just he gave
Speaker 5: me a kiss.
Speaker 2: How was it?
Speaker 5: It was really sweet. I mean the guy is so
Speaker 5: attractive that, like, even if he was a bad kisser,
Speaker 5: I would, you know.
Speaker 2: I don't think I've never met a guy like that before.
Speaker 1: Okay. And so how long has it been since the
Speaker 1: date happened.
Speaker 5: It's been almost a week now. I've just been waiting
Speaker 5: for him to make that move and I haven't heard anything.
Speaker 2: Do you have any guesses as to why not at all?
Speaker 5: I mean even after like the phone call I took
Speaker 5: with my friends, we were there for so much longer.
Speaker 5: We were having such a great conversation, and I would
Speaker 5: assume you wouldn't have kissed me if he didn't enjoy sony.
Speaker 4: Time with me.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Well, don't underestimate men and what we're willing to do.
Speaker 3: I mean, even girls will kiss anyone because she's born.
Speaker 1: Yeah, especially we stayed there the whole night.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, that's a time.
Speaker 1: You'll stick around for hours. We'll see how strong this
Speaker 1: human to human connection really is when we come back,
Speaker 1: call Rich and try and get you a second date
Speaker 1: update right after this? Do you need to let your
Speaker 1: friends know that you're good on this call?
Speaker 4: By the way, No, okay, I make sure they're listening,
Speaker 4: to make sure you're okay.
Speaker 1: Your second day up date, next second date update. I know,
Speaker 1: whenever Jose is gone in the bathroom for over ten minutes,
Speaker 1: we all contact the police and let them know. Yeah, right,
Speaker 1: just in case. You know, he's supposed to text us
Speaker 1: how it's going in there. How are we supposed to
Speaker 1: know that he's Okay?
Speaker 3: Am I supposed to text updates?
Speaker 2: You just send him to me, don't send him to me.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm worried about you. I'm not, and I only
Speaker 1: bring that up because one of our listeners, Tara, was
Speaker 1: supposed to contact her friends to let them know that
Speaker 1: her first date with Rich was going well, but they
Speaker 1: hit it off so incredibly that she got distracted and
Speaker 1: never texted them, missed all of their calls during the date,
Speaker 1: and wasn't even aware that was going on until the
Speaker 1: waiter came over and said, your friends are on the line.
Speaker 1: This is two hours into the day and they're they're
Speaker 1: wanting to make sure that you're okay.
Speaker 2: I mean, it is the longest pizza date ever.
Speaker 4: Place.
Speaker 2: I'd be worried.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but luckily it all worked out after that, except
Speaker 1: for the fact that he's not calling her back. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that is a tiny problem, but luckily it's a problem
Speaker 1: we can tackle, right Tara.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm excited to find out what's going on.
Speaker 2: Okay.
Speaker 4: I think even if.
Speaker 3: You come clean and tell him my friends called to
Speaker 3: check up on me, that doesn't seem like a deal breaker.
Speaker 2: It seems like you have good friends. It should be
Speaker 2: a green flag, not a red flag. Exactly.
Speaker 1: You don't take so Jo disagree. You have high maintenance
Speaker 1: friends who are gonna worry about you.
Speaker 2: Just carry You're not creepy yeah. I thought for sure,
Speaker 2: Jeff is gonna be like disagree. You have friends also surprises.
Speaker 1: What are you guys doing? Anyway, let's get calling Rich
Speaker 1: here and see what he has to say.
Speaker 5: You ready, Tara, I'm ready?
Speaker 1: Okay, here we go right now. Hello, Hey, we're looking
Speaker 1: for Rich.
Speaker 4: This is Rich.
Speaker 2: Okay.
Speaker 1: Hey man, you're on the radio right now with a
Speaker 1: show called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 2: Rich. Hi.
Speaker 4: Hi.
Speaker 2: It doesn't happen very often.
Speaker 1: It's okay. This is a good thing. It's a good
Speaker 1: call because we're trying to set you up on another
Speaker 1: date with one of our listeners.
Speaker 4: Oh okay, all right, would that be.
Speaker 1: It's a girl that you've already been out with once
Speaker 1: to a pizza place. Her name is Tara.
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, I remember.
Speaker 2: Okay, we're not going to read into that at all away.
Speaker 2: She sounds lovely.
Speaker 4: Yeah, it was. It was a memorable date, for sure.
Speaker 2: That's yeah.
Speaker 1: Is it memorable in a good way?
Speaker 4: No? I wouldn't say that.
Speaker 3: All right.
Speaker 2: It sounds like you guys spent so much time together.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 1: We heard a little bit about the date from Tara,
Speaker 1: some highlights about being at the pizza place and having
Speaker 1: a blast for hours apparently.
Speaker 2: Honestly, she had no low lights. It was all highlights.
Speaker 2: It is how you guys connected.
Speaker 1: So she's just confused. Why it's been a week since
Speaker 1: then you haven't reached out to her.
Speaker 4: I mean I wanted to reach out with her. I
Speaker 4: just feel like I couldn't reach out to her. Like
Speaker 4: the police came to the date.
Speaker 1: And what what the police came?
Speaker 4: Yeah, she didn't tell you.
Speaker 3: No, no, wait, this isn't like a theme restaurant like
Speaker 3: police pizza.
Speaker 2: Pizza.
Speaker 1: Yeah, talking legit cops.
Speaker 4: Yeah, they were waiting outside the restaurant by my car.
Speaker 2: Wait what happened?
Speaker 4: Yeah? At that point, I didn't know what was going on.
Speaker 4: So I was just trying to answer their questions.
Speaker 2: Yeah wait, yeah, what was There are questions about like
Speaker 2: why were they there?
Speaker 4: I mean they you know, start asking me like are
Speaker 4: you out with a girl? Like I mean, apparently I
Speaker 4: had a warrant out for my.
Speaker 3: Arrest, like a previous.
Speaker 4: Is this this thing? So anyway, the fact that they
Speaker 4: were there, you know, it ended up not being good
Speaker 4: for me.
Speaker 2: Wait, you got arrested? Did you get arrested?
Speaker 4: Yeah? I had to spend the night in Dale.
Speaker 2: No, well no, did you deserve it from the previous warrants.
Speaker 2: It could just be unpaid parking tickets or something to
Speaker 2: left us. You better watch out, you know.
Speaker 4: Yeah, it was something stupid, But anyway, I didn't really
Speaker 4: want to talk much after that.
Speaker 1: Not a good guy.
Speaker 2: I do not think she knows that that happened.
Speaker 1: Well, I mean, she didn't know that that happened, but
Speaker 1: now she does because we didn't mention this, Rich, but
Speaker 1: Tera has been on the other line this whole time,
Speaker 1: one to talk to you.
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, hey, rich Oh my god.
Speaker 1: This is one phone call.
Speaker 2: Sorry, we call them collect ara.
Speaker 1: Did you have any idea that there were police?
Speaker 5: No, Oh no, not at all. Oh my god. They
Speaker 5: said that they alerted the police because they were worried
Speaker 5: about me, But oh my, it was.
Speaker 2: Call the police.
Speaker 1: Oh my god.
Speaker 5: Well yeah, but the police never indicated that they would
Speaker 5: show up there or anything to them.
Speaker 1: Oh my god.
Speaker 4: You know what police do them?
Speaker 1: Those darn police following up on things. God, they're so rude,
Speaker 1: as we may look at you. Why would you rate
Speaker 1: do that?
Speaker 2: Like, I understand they're checking on you, but they called
Speaker 2: the restaurant. No, that is not protective. That's crazy.
Speaker 1: They were worried about her.
Speaker 2: She was gone for two hours. It's not like she
Speaker 2: was missing for twenty four hours.
Speaker 1: Then you called the We'll do that with one of
Speaker 1: your children the next time that you don't call them
Speaker 1: the same, okay.
Speaker 2: And they even called the restaurant to talk where they
Speaker 2: found out she was okay, Like, why would they call
Speaker 2: the police before that?
Speaker 3: That is true if they called the cops first, that's Tara.
Speaker 1: Do you have any answers for us here? We're confused.
Speaker 5: I mean, I'm I'm so confused too, because like I
Speaker 5: said bye to him and I went to my car
Speaker 5: and that's it. Like I didn't see any cops.
Speaker 4: I had no idea pham.
Speaker 5: Like my mind is now jumping to like so many
Speaker 5: different conclusions, like I want to know what the war
Speaker 5: just for, Like did you do something like really bad?
Speaker 4: I mean, what does it matter? Like the point is,
Speaker 4: like I arrest I don't want to talk about it.
Speaker 4: It's just a stupid thing.
Speaker 5: Look it matters to me because like we we sone
Speaker 5: so long together. I learned so much about you and
Speaker 5: now I'm hearing this, like it completely changes everything I
Speaker 5: knew about you.
Speaker 2: Well, it's not like something that you bring up on
Speaker 2: the first date, like, oh yeah, the interesting facts about
Speaker 2: me are I like dogs and I have a warn
Speaker 2: out for my arrest.
Speaker 1: But bro, put yourself into terror's shoes. If you were
Speaker 1: in her situation, you might want to know who you
Speaker 1: were out with that night.
Speaker 2: Not like it'd be my first ex felon I've dated.
Speaker 1: No, I don't know what type of felony.
Speaker 2: I think that grand theft auto was fine as long
Speaker 2: as you, you know, don't do it anymore in her situation,
Speaker 2: but I want to know.
Speaker 1: Yes, I think we all want to know. Would you
Speaker 1: mind telling us what it is? Rich? If it's really bad,
Speaker 1: we'll take it out.
Speaker 4: It's stupid. I had a neighbor's kid kept kicking his
Speaker 4: ball into my yard and I didn't return the ball.
Speaker 2: That's it. So you stole a bouncy ball.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I stole the kids ball, so that does make sense.
Speaker 2: The parents called the police on you.
Speaker 4: The parents called the police about stolen property. You know,
Speaker 4: I got fined and I didn't show up to court.
Speaker 2: That's all pretty stupid. Yeah, I mean, does that make
Speaker 2: you feel better?
Speaker 5: I feel worse right now.
Speaker 2: Maybe she didn't finish your sentence. You mean you feel
Speaker 2: worse about the whole incident, right about your friend.
Speaker 5: Yeah, now I feel like it's all my fall. Like
Speaker 5: if I would have checked my phone, the beach wouldn't
Speaker 5: have shown up there, he wouldn't have this like huge hassle.
Speaker 5: Is there any way I can make it up to you, Rich, Yeah,
Speaker 5: you can.
Speaker 1: Make it up to her on another date that we
Speaker 1: would pay for if you willing to go out with
Speaker 1: Tara one more time.
Speaker 4: If you give me a arrested again I swore to.
Speaker 2: We can work around your upcoming next court date.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you have a three strike policy. Get me arrested twice,
Speaker 1: shame on me. Yes, the rest me three times, shame
Speaker 1: on you. We're gonna go with it. We need an
Speaker 1: answer from your rich yes or no? Another day?
Speaker 3: All right?
Speaker 4: If you can promise five zero won't be involved, I
Speaker 4: think I can handle that.
Speaker 1: Your friends won't call the cops on this one.
Speaker 2: Her friends are going to be so protective after she
Speaker 2: tells him that the guy got the tail. Maybe even
Speaker 2: bring them on the date.
Speaker 1: All right, Well, successful second date, you guys.
Speaker 4: I mean this is great.
Speaker 5: I'm glad I have some clarity now. I was like
Speaker 5: racking my brain for too long.
Speaker 2: Yeah, next time, you just need to call the local
Speaker 2: prisons and see who's been booked. Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 1: I could just imagine they go out somewhere on the
Speaker 1: next date and he gets pulled over for speeding. He's
Speaker 1: going to be like, did your friends tell the cops?
Speaker 1: We're going to take this round. She's like, no, my
Speaker 1: friend is the copy. Poor guy's going to be paranoid
Speaker 1: for the rest of his life whenever he goes out
Speaker 1: with anyone.
Speaker 2: Oh, I could think of the first time he actually
Speaker 2: meets the friends is going to be so awkward.
Speaker 1: To make it even he needs to call the cops
Speaker 1: on them.
Speaker 2: Oh good, let's just always the police services. That's a
Speaker 2: great idea, jeff.
Speaker 3: Or maybe not cops. It's called the fire department.
Speaker 1: Yea, the Coast Guard ambulance.
Speaker 2: I mean, women would love some firemen.
Speaker 1: We're doing a good service here, and I do hope
Speaker 1: that it works out between him and we can actually
Speaker 1: get an update update from those two after he serves
Speaker 1: his time, of course, for grand Theft bouncy Ball talk
Speaker 1: about offices. It might actually work out, and it could
Speaker 1: work out for you. If you want to email the show,
Speaker 1: we'll call that person who wasn't calling you back.
Speaker 4: Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning,