Speaker 1: Una, crush a bit, little bit, bone it up, take
Speaker 1: it it lit feeling like two am summer night.
Speaker 2: I don't care being on the wheel, driving drunk.
Speaker 3: I'm doing my.
Speaker 4: Thing, bon in the mid beside him, now, living my life.
Speaker 2: And getting out dreams.
Speaker 5: People told me slow my role.
Speaker 4: I'm streaming out that I'm a dude, just what I want.
Speaker 4: Looking at hed, no turning back if I found, no
Speaker 4: one lived the tailor pull for found, if no one
Speaker 4: lived in missing bullets.
Speaker 5: Welcome back to good Moms, bad choices. I'm Erica and
Speaker 5: I'm Nila. Oh, Happy Easter, Easter, Happy Easter. How was
Speaker 5: your Easter? It was good? It was jam packed.
Speaker 6: Lena is very spoiled and loved by.
Speaker 7: Many many people, so she got like fourteen Easter Bennies,
Speaker 7: Easter baskets, way too much candy, way too much crap.
Speaker 6: But I'm happy that everybody else does it and I
Speaker 6: don't have to.
Speaker 3: You know, Yeah, I was like conflicted about Easter.
Speaker 5: I think I did.
Speaker 3: I don't know why I was conflicted, because I did
Speaker 3: do an Easter eg kind of my house last year,
Speaker 3: but I just this year, I've just been so busy
Speaker 3: and so overwhelmed. I was kind of just like fuck Easter,
Speaker 3: and I was just like, I'm not very I'm not.
Speaker 5: Even very religious. What is the point? I don't care.
Speaker 3: I don't. I think a lot of it also just
Speaker 3: was like I was just stressed. I knew that I
Speaker 3: wasn't gonna like do anything really for it, like I wasn't.
Speaker 3: I forgot that I didn't get the basket.
Speaker 5: I had no time. I guess I could have altered
Speaker 5: it on Amazon or something.
Speaker 7: But I'm not a holiday like I'm not with the
Speaker 7: pagan holidays, you know, the pagan bullshit.
Speaker 6: But I realized it makes the kids happy.
Speaker 5: But it's really what I realized.
Speaker 6: But it's not realize it's not I saw you you
Speaker 6: hit her eggs.
Speaker 5: It's not gonna She's not gonna be like remember.
Speaker 6: When I was four.
Speaker 5: Get me an, I know it's not gonna happen.
Speaker 7: And I don't like to like she got so much crap,
Speaker 7: and I'm like, I don't want to put your value
Speaker 7: into gifts.
Speaker 5: Gifts.
Speaker 6: I don't want that to be your level language.
Speaker 3: It's true, but they're still kids and they even though
Speaker 3: you remember those moments, but you would get so excited
Speaker 3: just getting stupid shit you know.
Speaker 6: Yeah, what's true. I got it from other people's family.
Speaker 3: But like this morning, my mom was like, there's an
Speaker 3: Easter basket in my closet, so.
Speaker 5: Did you put it out yet?
Speaker 3: Because she told me that yesterday and I was like, oh,
Speaker 3: thank god, yeah right, but she she hit me that
Speaker 3: this morning we woke up. I totally forgot about it.
Speaker 3: I knew it was Easter, and she was like, did
Speaker 3: you do it? And I was like, no, I's away.
Speaker 5: How am I supposed to do it.
Speaker 3: She's like, I'll distract her on FaceTime because my mom's
Speaker 3: on town. So she distracted her and I quickly like
Speaker 3: got the easter basket, put it on like the bed,
Speaker 3: then like snuck into the kitchen, got the Easter eggs
Speaker 3: that she made also while I was out of town
Speaker 3: and had nothing to do with, and then hit them
Speaker 3: around in the backyard really quickly, like I was like
Speaker 3: ducking behind the window to make sure she couldn't see
Speaker 3: me and shit.
Speaker 5: And then I came back in the kitchen and I
Speaker 5: was like, irie the easter bunny came. I think the
Speaker 5: funny came.
Speaker 3: Oh my god, Luna's gonna go tell her best friend
Speaker 3: all this information Luna's sitting here with us right now.
Speaker 5: She's like looking at me, taking notes, like, Mom, that's
Speaker 5: how I'm about to tell Irin audit.
Speaker 6: This is how it happened.
Speaker 3: So I so then Iri was like what and she
Speaker 3: went and she was so excited. Yeah, and then went
Speaker 3: in the backyard and was like so giddy. And then
Speaker 3: I was just like okay, like let meed to like
Speaker 3: sometimes you have to like disassociate yourself from like whatever,
Speaker 3: this religion, whatever it is that's making you feel negative
Speaker 3: about it, and just get down to what it really
Speaker 3: is is about making your happy. And so then I
Speaker 3: just went all Eastern in it. I was all in Eastern.
Speaker 3: Then after that I was like, all have a picture
Speaker 3: with the Oh bitch, no, Because I went to the
Speaker 3: first place with my dad. My dad called my dad
Speaker 3: on Easter and he was like, what are you guys
Speaker 3: doing today? I was like, I don't know, what do
Speaker 3: you do? And so he was like, well, I'm going
Speaker 3: to this golf course over in Seemy Valley and they're
Speaker 3: having East Ray hunts. So we got there like right
Speaker 3: at the East Ray Hunt. The East Ray Hunt had
Speaker 3: lasted maybe forty five seconds. There's just too many kids
Speaker 3: and the eggs and the easter money had left, and
Speaker 3: I was like, okay, you know what, We're going to
Speaker 3: drive to go through the easter money. So then, but
Speaker 3: it was a lot of like fifteen minutes. You went
Speaker 3: to Underwood Farms, which, by the way, if you live
Speaker 3: in La, I've heard of this place, but I've never
Speaker 3: actually been.
Speaker 5: It's really dope, Like where is it.
Speaker 3: It's in more Park, so it's like kind of like
Speaker 3: thousand Oaks, like you drive out that direction.
Speaker 5: But it's beautiful. It's just like this beautiful farm.
Speaker 3: And they have fresh produce you can buy there, get
Speaker 3: all these activities for kids. It is like a money
Speaker 3: grab because you have to buy tickets and some of
Speaker 3: the tickets are like just it's ridiculous.
Speaker 5: Right, you know.
Speaker 3: But I had this really nice mom, just give me tickets.
Speaker 3: I was like, thanks, Yeah, I already bought, like I
Speaker 3: bought like ten, but I really should have needed like
Speaker 3: twenty to like really do anything. And I was just
Speaker 3: like so happy all day. She kept saying like, Mommy,
Speaker 3: this is the best day ever. And I was like
Speaker 3: I kind of felt guilty because I was like I
Speaker 3: was gonna skip this day, you know, And.
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, I agree, it's important for the kids.
Speaker 7: And if I knew her grandparents weren't going to do it,
Speaker 7: and like, you know, like people close to her weren't
Speaker 7: going to do it, I probably would do it because
Speaker 7: I remember caring about the type.
Speaker 6: Of ship for the kids.
Speaker 3: I mean, my grandma was a tradition to get me
Speaker 3: a bathing suit every so I would look forward to
Speaker 3: be served strictly for the bathing suit.
Speaker 5: That's yeah, summer's coming, your bathing suit. She even asked me, like,
Speaker 5: should I get ire a bathing suit?
Speaker 3: She's like, I'm like, damn, this thirty thirty two year tradition,
Speaker 3: isn't it crazy when you realize like that this time
Speaker 3: goes by?
Speaker 7: Today she had oh she had some the bubble gum
Speaker 7: measuring tape. Oh yeah, and youthing and I was like, oh,
Speaker 7: that's crap and love and then doesn't give me some
Speaker 7: like bomb. I literally turned four all over again. I
Speaker 7: remember in your mouth, your sugar, just loving, like pulling
Speaker 7: it out and pushing down.
Speaker 6: It was just like a huge deal rolling it back
Speaker 6: in right.
Speaker 5: It was just the thing.
Speaker 3: That's so funny because even in her Easter basket there
Speaker 3: was a yo yo and I haven't played with a
Speaker 3: yo yo in so long.
Speaker 5: She's like, what is this?
Speaker 3: And I kept saying it's candy. It looked like a macaroon,
Speaker 3: like a fake macaroon.
Speaker 5: I was like, it's candy, it's candy. She's like, no,
Speaker 5: this and I was like, what is it? And I
Speaker 5: was like, oh, this is a yo yo.
Speaker 7: I'm getting nostalgic and realizing how time much time flies.
Speaker 7: I remember when I was four, and I like the
Speaker 7: discussing gum too and these weird ass holidays. And also
Speaker 7: I'm pretty sure Easter your red its origin is about sex.
Speaker 7: It's about fruit fertility, It's about yeah, it's about multiplying.
Speaker 7: That's a why eggs are for fertility, and rabbits because
Speaker 7: they fuckle up?
Speaker 5: Are you?
Speaker 3: Are you?
Speaker 5: It's about the first of all, it's a spring equals Okay,
Speaker 5: I'm not. I'm not. I'm not disputing that it's blooming.
Speaker 7: And no, it's about fatiguay but like not action, not sex.
Speaker 3: Fertility maybe like oh yeah, sex like pro creat like
Speaker 3: creating babies like on that day.
Speaker 6: Yeah, I posted about it a couple of Easters ago.
Speaker 5: Did your aunt send you this conspiracy?
Speaker 6: She didn't, She doesn't care about these topics. Topics she
Speaker 6: cares about. It's just not one of them.
Speaker 7: Oh my god, I'm gonna find it for you, and
Speaker 7: I'm gonna report it. But when I find it in
Speaker 7: my history of instagrams.
Speaker 3: Damn my pons or you just google hit easter, sex Easter,
Speaker 3: history of sex Easter.
Speaker 6: Oh yes, I mean, I'm not.
Speaker 5: I don't whatever. I don't know who knows. Airplane yesterday was.
Speaker 3: For twenty Oh yeah, I was, Oh wait, I was,
Speaker 3: so I went to a I went it was even
Speaker 3: a four twenty. My cousin had a party and it
Speaker 3: was like a homecoming akay. She's getting into a roommate
Speaker 3: and so she had dinner and had people over coming.
Speaker 3: She was like it was yeah. She called it her front,
Speaker 3: like her whatever. Her roommate's name is homecoming okay. And
Speaker 3: it was taco night and no one was smoking. I
Speaker 3: was like, what the fuck is going on? I literally
Speaker 3: walked in. Why is no one high? Where's the weed?
Speaker 3: It's four twenty and like literally I had irin with
Speaker 3: me and everyone's staring at me like why is this
Speaker 3: a mom asking where the weeds at? I'm like, because
Speaker 3: it's four and twenty, What the fuck are you talking about?
Speaker 3: We could smoke a joint? The fuck is happening here?
Speaker 3: And then I was told my cousin, I'm like, Yo,
Speaker 3: where's the weed? What it's going on? You guys result
Speaker 3: eating her drinking wine. It's so Caucasian, like old white
Speaker 3: Caucasian people.
Speaker 6: What the fuck?
Speaker 5: And she was like, you're right, I don't know. I
Speaker 5: have a joint. Should we go smoke it? I was like, yeah,
Speaker 5: that's oh my god.
Speaker 3: So I didn't even really get as high as I
Speaker 3: usually do on four twenty, but I didn't adulge a
Speaker 3: little bit.
Speaker 5: It's like Jamila, she was at a four twenty pat It.
Speaker 6: Was just some la shit like first of a rack
Speaker 6: gets a real holiday, it is the fuck.
Speaker 7: So I yeah, I got invited by a friend out
Speaker 7: medic Coachella, which we'll get in to this party. He
Speaker 7: sent me a link and all I saw it was
Speaker 7: like Neon lights and ship and I was like, that's
Speaker 7: like bomb. I'm like four twenty party Neon lights, Okay,
Speaker 7: I might need to have to do that. And then
Speaker 7: I was supposed to do my friend slashes and then
Speaker 7: we left lunch and heard my other friend were having
Speaker 7: conversation and the conversation took a turn for the worst.
Speaker 7: They both agreed mutually that Rihanna was aging not well
Speaker 7: and yeah, yeah, yes, why because I have no clue.
Speaker 7: And then they dropped off at your house because I
Speaker 7: want to get my car, and I was just like,
Speaker 7: I can't go. I can't go back over there. I
Speaker 7: was like, why am I so mad? I'm like, because
Speaker 7: what kind of fucking shit is that?
Speaker 5: Wait? Oh my god?
Speaker 6: And so I was like, yeah, I'm gonna go with
Speaker 6: that one guy from the coach.
Speaker 3: I'm mad that you were this upset and disturbed by Rihanna.
Speaker 3: She's a black woman, and I was a non black woman.
Speaker 6: It was Tiffany. No, Tiffany was one of them.
Speaker 5: I was just mads thick.
Speaker 6: That's what I said.
Speaker 7: She's thicker, she's getting older. It's ten years later. She
Speaker 7: looks like a woman. She looks bomb as fuck. Yeah,
Speaker 7: of course she's gonna get thicker. I mean they were like, no,
Speaker 7: she's just she.
Speaker 6: Didn't They said, I didn't even tell my got this man.
Speaker 7: They said, she really needs to put on another album
Speaker 7: because she's not getting any younger.
Speaker 6: Yeah, she's not aging.
Speaker 5: What the fuck? That's the problem with she's not aging,
Speaker 5: That's what I said.
Speaker 3: Literally, she's got an album because she's not getting any younger, and.
Speaker 7: She's Beyonce is aging perfectly, but not not Rihanna is
Speaker 7: not eating.
Speaker 6: So did you not see wife?
Speaker 5: Why is it a competition between Rihanna?
Speaker 6: And why do they think Rihanna is aging terribly? What
Speaker 6: the fuck?
Speaker 3: I was like, I was supposed to go back over
Speaker 3: there to do her last she so I was like,
Speaker 3: I just can't.
Speaker 5: I can't bring myself to go back over there, said negative,
Speaker 5: And I.
Speaker 3: Can't bear to put my fingers on your lashes after
Speaker 3: you talked about re read.
Speaker 7: So I went to a four twenty party with the
Speaker 7: almost stranger because that seemed like a better idea.
Speaker 5: So, you know what, fuck this I make it looks
Speaker 5: good tonight. It's it's four twenty. I'm gonna fucking celebrate
Speaker 5: that eye shadow. I didn't that eye shadow.
Speaker 7: And you know, so I went to this fucking bitching
Speaker 7: ass cool ass weed party. First, all we get there,
Speaker 7: it's all these older, like very prestidious white people and
Speaker 7: like kind of celebrities and all in suits and ties
Speaker 7: and counts.
Speaker 5: I'm wearing jeans and a T.
Speaker 7: Shirt and a leather jacket, and I'm like, why didn't
Speaker 7: you tell me it was? I didn't know either. We're
Speaker 7: both totally plain dress. But they have like a rolling
Speaker 7: station of free weed and joints.
Speaker 6: They're like people.
Speaker 7: Cleaning the bong for you to take a hit and
Speaker 7: choose what kind you on Indica, CBD or satifa.
Speaker 5: Damn that I'm talking about.
Speaker 3: It was, Yeah, I was loucky jealous. I was like,
Speaker 3: this bitch went somewhere, didn't call me. Well fuck at
Speaker 3: some four to twenty weed shit, I couldn't go anywhere.
Speaker 3: I know, I knew that that's when I go Anywhay.
Speaker 5: I was more jealous that I was just mad. I
Speaker 5: was like, I call her because it seems like you'd
Speaker 5: be into.
Speaker 6: It, but I know you can't go, so I'm not
Speaker 6: gonna tempt you like that.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 6: Then there was like this trippy cool art inside that
Speaker 6: was moving and ship.
Speaker 7: It was virtual reality, right, Yeah, then I got into
Speaker 7: virtu reality. I was already stone. I almost fell because
Speaker 7: it was too virtual for my reality because I was high.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 7: Those and oh so the virtuality was called micro dose
Speaker 7: and it literally felt like you took acid. Oh wow,
Speaker 7: I know that you might die because it was already
Speaker 7: that's an Easter egg rolling across the table. And then
Speaker 7: you're like in a carnival in virtual reality. Then you
Speaker 7: go to another room and there's like a live artist painting.
Speaker 7: Then you go another one there's a band and virtual
Speaker 7: real reality on the ceiling.
Speaker 5: Then they're in domes.
Speaker 3: Close the door, please, it looks so cute. Okay, I'm coming, Okay,
Speaker 3: we'll come in here.
Speaker 7: Then then you could hear people's conversations at certain points
Speaker 7: in the dome because of how it's shaped.
Speaker 6: So it was just a bunch of trippy shit.
Speaker 7: And then if you do was in suits and ties
Speaker 7: and smoking in the exhibit, it was basically amazing.
Speaker 5: So wow, I'm yeah.
Speaker 3: So back to what's really important, which is our Coachella weekend.
Speaker 5: So me and Jamila met up at Coachella last year.
Speaker 5: We were you were with b D.
Speaker 6: I was with D. I didn't say that last year,
Speaker 6: but I was.
Speaker 3: With I was with like actually my brother and my
Speaker 3: girlfriend Romo, and we're staying like way too far away.
Speaker 5: We didn't have vi P, which.
Speaker 3: Honestly, it doesn't make a difference. It doesn't make a difference,
Speaker 3: but it does no parking parking it does did we
Speaker 3: park vip?
Speaker 5: Look?
Speaker 3: How do we not exited the wrong side of Coachella
Speaker 3: this time? Which we'll get to and why it was
Speaker 3: a shit show. We would have gotten there quickly. But yeah, anyway,
Speaker 3: me and Jamila ended up going to Coachella this year
Speaker 3: together together.
Speaker 5: We intended on like, we're just gonna swing by Coachella.
Speaker 6: That's what we're like.
Speaker 5: That's just gonna swing by, Just go swing by. You know,
Speaker 5: we can go to this party. I'm gonna go to
Speaker 5: the fast. We're just gonna swing back.
Speaker 3: We're gonna do like real mature about Coachella. Yeah, we're
Speaker 3: not even gonna fuck Coachella even though we go.
Speaker 5: For me, we don't need to.
Speaker 6: Go, Okay, no headliners like who Okay.
Speaker 7: So the night before Coachella that was her whole altitude,
Speaker 7: and the very night before at eleven PM, I'm like, Erica,
Speaker 7: I know we're going like like Coachella, but like, are
Speaker 7: you sure we don't need to take anything?
Speaker 5: And she's like, I know, I know, I think maybe
Speaker 5: she at least.
Speaker 7: Try and get some shrooms or like some Mollie. She's like, yeah,
Speaker 7: I was thinking Mollie. Okay, I'm like, okay, so we're
Speaker 7: on the same page. So I make a few calls.
Speaker 7: I guess all the all the all the dealers were
Speaker 7: hot on the streets because they're like minimum seven.
Speaker 5: I'm like seven.
Speaker 7: It's just two girls, just two ups trying to take
Speaker 7: it easy, not at Coachella. At Coachella, but not at Coachella.
Speaker 7: So we were totally like fuck it, we're not you know,
Speaker 7: we don't need that. We're just gonna go and figure
Speaker 7: it out. So we get there. Sorry, your ears are
Speaker 7: very crooked. Okay, So okay, So we're supposed to be
Speaker 7: chaperoning her baby brother and his friend to Coachella's.
Speaker 6: We get there, everything's good.
Speaker 3: Yeah, So we're shepherding my brother, who, by the way,
Speaker 3: is not a small child. He's nineteen years old. But
Speaker 3: my mom was like really concerned that he wasn't going
Speaker 3: to figure it out, and you know what, he probably
Speaker 3: wouldn't have because the airbnb situation was fucked up, and looky,
Speaker 3: I had to go because I booked the airbnb, and
Speaker 3: I was like, you know what, I have friends going.
Speaker 6: We'll just chill and we're gonna do like mature things.
Speaker 3: Yeah, we're gonna do mature things. So the first night,
Speaker 3: like we even like took a nap late, like we
Speaker 3: woke up at like twelve am after we took a
Speaker 3: mommy nap, like, and then.
Speaker 7: We're like, we're gonna go out. So we went to
Speaker 7: a party. We went to what was it, oh, Ronda.
Speaker 3: It was Ronda, Yeah, which Ronda, by the way, is
Speaker 3: like a party that's been in La for like probably
Speaker 3: like maybe like eight seven to eight years. And it's
Speaker 3: like a very house like used to be in a
Speaker 3: warehouse in downtown a leg go to like six am
Speaker 3: like house music. Everyone does a lot of drugs, and
Speaker 3: it's non binary, non binary, lots of lots of like
Speaker 3: strange like and just you know, free and weird shit
Speaker 3: happening in there.
Speaker 5: We were basically right at home and I was like,
Speaker 5: fuck it, let's go. We did that and it was
Speaker 5: kind of whack.
Speaker 3: It was cool, It was kind It wasn't as packed
Speaker 3: as it could have been thought it would be.
Speaker 5: We were just.
Speaker 3: Happy to be out, so happy. We're just so happy
Speaker 3: to be out. Way to get drunk, couldn't wait.
Speaker 7: We were downing drinks as fastly as they were giving
Speaker 7: them as fastly they like pushed the bars being open.
Speaker 5: We were thrilled.
Speaker 6: A guy offered me to go back to his motel six.
Speaker 6: Oh my god.
Speaker 5: That's so that's a huge highlight for me.
Speaker 6: Huge win.
Speaker 5: Oh my god.
Speaker 3: Wait the guy the way. He also approached Emula in
Speaker 3: the parking lot. We were walking in the parking lot
Speaker 3: and he was like trying to cat call her.
Speaker 5: I was like, oh god.
Speaker 3: He's like come, he's gonna come here, and I was like,
Speaker 3: I hate when they get say come here first.
Speaker 7: So we were on foot. He's in the car, which
Speaker 7: I don't feel like you're a kidnapt me.
Speaker 5: Yeah. I was like no, no. I was kept ignoring him,
Speaker 5: and finally he was like, yo, I'm trying to flirt
Speaker 5: with you.
Speaker 3: And we're like oh, and they're like, oh, okay, you're
Speaker 3: being really clear about what you want, so we should
Speaker 3: talk about it.
Speaker 7: He's like, I'm meet I'm gonna find you when we
Speaker 7: get inside. I'm like, okay. The hundreds of the cars
Speaker 7: in the parking like, no, you're not. But mind you,
Speaker 7: my nipples are out and I'm wearing a Neon striped
Speaker 7: holder fish net top so in a Neon headband. So
Speaker 7: I'm sure he did. He found me as soon as
Speaker 7: he got inside and offered me to go back to
Speaker 7: his Motel six because he thinks I need to protector
Speaker 7: and provider and he that's.
Speaker 6: Basically what he was. So yeah, that was great. It's
Speaker 6: a complete win for me.
Speaker 5: And then it was we went home.
Speaker 3: Right, No, no, we went back to so Happy Bay.
Speaker 3: I ended up going to Coachella too, and we ended
Speaker 3: up being staying in the exact same community, like gated community,
Speaker 3: which is so crazy out of all the communities literally
Speaker 3: around the corner. So we went back, we drank, we
Speaker 3: made pizza, we made Yeah, we went back to and
Speaker 3: we made cookies.
Speaker 5: We made cookies.
Speaker 6: Yeah, totally cool, calm night. We went be at five am,
Speaker 6: but just because it was just because.
Speaker 3: We were trying to be crazy. But there was nothing
Speaker 3: going on.
Speaker 6: Day two.
Speaker 5: Saturday, Saturday.
Speaker 3: Oh, we woke up a little late. Oh, I woke
Speaker 3: up at Happy Bays. Yes, I went traveled back, got dressed.
Speaker 5: We got dressed.
Speaker 3: Because we were going to a Fashion Mama's event. So
Speaker 3: Fashion Mama's is like a it's a mom group. Actually,
Speaker 3: I'm really excited because we're having their founder on next
Speaker 3: few weeks. Shout out to Natalie and it's a really
Speaker 3: cool mom group, very cool, like super cool, like really
Speaker 3: cool moms.
Speaker 5: Like really really like I'm really cool, how happened? Really cool?
Speaker 7: Not really cool, really really cool, really cool, really cool moms.
Speaker 5: It's like these sohole house of money groups.
Speaker 6: And of course Erica belongs to it.
Speaker 5: Only because of my girlfri I didn't even know they existed.
Speaker 3: It was Nisha, my my other homegirl, was like, have
Speaker 3: you heard of I've joined Fashion Moments?
Speaker 5: Have you joined?
Speaker 3: I was like, what is that? Just like you should try?
Speaker 3: And then I accepted me and then I said fuck it, and.
Speaker 5: I'm glad I did.
Speaker 3: Actually, yeah, So we went to they were had they
Speaker 3: had a house, They rented a house and.
Speaker 5: Yeah, does she want some white rice?
Speaker 6: Do you want white rice?
Speaker 5: You want rice?
Speaker 3: Okay, five minutes, Okay, I'll give it to you. Five minutes,
Speaker 3: I'm coming.
Speaker 5: Okay, okay, you keep talking. She walked away. It worked
Speaker 5: all the way.
Speaker 3: We went to they rented the house and invited like
Speaker 3: members to come.
Speaker 5: You had like I got.
Speaker 3: The email and I responded immediately and it's like, I
Speaker 3: guess it was like thirty members allowed or something. I
Speaker 3: got the plus one and social Gmail was my plus
Speaker 3: one and it was really dope. Like it was like
Speaker 3: this really cute house with the pool and like the
Speaker 3: husbands were invited the kids.
Speaker 5: They had a play area for the kids. They had
Speaker 5: this like venos.
Speaker 3: They had cast most importantly, they had cast Amigo cast amigos.
Speaker 3: They had like these little vendors selling bathing not selling
Speaker 3: giving bathing suits away. It was awesome. It was really
Speaker 3: cool to see that. But so we got there. We
Speaker 3: drank our alcohol there. We made sure we were like
Speaker 3: probably the only moms without kids. There was like a few,
Speaker 3: but we were there.
Speaker 6: Which I was shocked at.
Speaker 7: My moms are bringing their kids to the cella, which
Speaker 7: actually Coachella is free for kids under seven or six,
Speaker 7: I believe. And when we get really vi she said ten,
Speaker 7: I know, I think it's six though six Okay, it's
Speaker 7: free for them, and it's actually free for adults if
Speaker 7: you tune in a little bit longer.
Speaker 5: Oh my god, I love you. Yeah. So we basically
Speaker 5: drank their alcohol. We left that party.
Speaker 3: We then tried to go to the Revolve party, which
Speaker 3: ended up being a ship show. Second year in a row,
Speaker 3: Revolve its fucked me. I am now I'm done, done
Speaker 3: trying to be cool and go to the Revolves till
Speaker 3: next year. I'm done until next year when we get
Speaker 3: it in. We were like, okay, we're gonna get there early.
Speaker 5: We're to revolve us.
Speaker 6: We're gonna have a game plan. It's gonna go not terribly.
Speaker 5: I'm so done with Revolved. I even had then the
Speaker 5: wrist bandsire I supposed to have. It didn't fucking matter whatever.
Speaker 7: So yeah, so we've got to Revolve Party. We're like,
Speaker 7: fuck this ship. We're not going to Revolve Party. We're
Speaker 7: gonna Now. This is when Mission Sneaking to Go Chilla starts.
Speaker 7: It's like a very baby baby beginning.
Speaker 6: What do we do.
Speaker 5: We went to the house, we drank more.
Speaker 6: We drank more.
Speaker 5: Then we then we had a photo shoot.
Speaker 6: We had a photo SHOOTI to bring out my list.
Speaker 3: Oh my god, we had a photo sho a photo shoot,
Speaker 3: and then we ate Mexican food. Yeah, and okay, that's
Speaker 3: when it kind of all went downhill. So we got
Speaker 3: drunk at the MoMA event. Then we went back to
Speaker 3: Happy Bays house, got more drunk and more smoked more,
Speaker 3: we worked more weed, got more and more and more drunk.
Speaker 3: Then we went to eat Mexican food and got more drunk,
Speaker 3: and then what happened?
Speaker 5: We went home?
Speaker 6: No where did we go?
Speaker 5: Okay?
Speaker 3: Okay, So then this is when it all starts. So
Speaker 3: we were in the car driving back from Coachella. To
Speaker 3: me was like, I think we need to write the
Speaker 3: shit down because we're gonna forget everything. So I'm gonna
Speaker 3: write keywords that are like explain everything that happened.
Speaker 5: So they're so here it is. Okay, this is the
Speaker 5: list of what Coachella consisted of.
Speaker 6: Okay this year.
Speaker 7: The list is called find your Friends, and the list
Speaker 7: goes fashion, Mamas, Revolve, cocaine, house, photo, shoots, Mexican was sexy,
Speaker 7: Didty party Now, Nigga rap, Cipher, no Fried Chicken, nap Mission,
Speaker 7: sneak into Coachella, Take mushrooms, find Alana, take more drugs,
Speaker 7: kid Ketty, Where's Kitketty? Erica, Snapchat glasses plus trolling balls,
Speaker 7: sitting down the middle of the road in traffic, Jesus sandals,
Speaker 7: found market, ravaged the house for snacks from the Growing Boy.
Speaker 6: You gotta do what you gotta do, and where's Chris?
Speaker 6: So that is what happened. So just as if we.
Speaker 3: Can explain the list a little bit. I mean, starting
Speaker 3: with the cocaine house.
Speaker 6: The house had always mirrors.
Speaker 3: So many mirrors. It was all white. It was the
Speaker 3: perfect place for cocaine. Did we do any No, there
Speaker 3: was none. Photo shoots. This is when we were drunk
Speaker 3: taking the photo shoots. Then we went and had Mexican food.
Speaker 3: Then we went to a ditty party, which I didn't
Speaker 3: see ditty there.
Speaker 5: No, here's the thing we were bagging.
Speaker 3: After the first party, were like, I wonder where the
Speaker 3: black people of Coachella are.
Speaker 7: There has to be some black parties. So that's why
Speaker 7: we took her out to the ditty party with it.
Speaker 7: It was too black because I got there and I
Speaker 7: could smell fried chicken. I could smell it. It was there,
Speaker 7: but I could not find the fried chicken anywhere.
Speaker 5: It pissed me off.
Speaker 3: She was really upset. She literally was going inside of
Speaker 3: the house, like in the bedrooms looking for this chicken.
Speaker 3: I was like, bitch, the chicken. I don't it's gone
Speaker 3: just at this point, and it smelled like those black people.
Speaker 5: That chicken was gonage.
Speaker 7: We love a fried chicken. Leaving me ravaging the house
Speaker 7: for fried chicken. I was really young. It was really
Speaker 7: very young. We had like a rap battle that happened
Speaker 7: right in front of us. It was like I felt
Speaker 7: when one man was wearing a hit attatoo on his
Speaker 7: face and the young man was wearing a bulletproof vest
Speaker 7: type of fashions. I don't know if these are the
Speaker 7: new fashions the kids are wearing, but it appeared to
Speaker 7: be a bullet type of vest, but probably wouldn't couldn't
Speaker 7: protect you from a bullet?
Speaker 5: No, no, no.
Speaker 3: And then also he was wearing a choker, a Raiders
Speaker 3: diamond choker m hm. And he was from Atlanta, so
Speaker 3: that was pretty confusing. And then to make matters even better,
Speaker 3: him and his homeboy I suppose got into.
Speaker 5: A rap cipher and me and Erka just happened to
Speaker 5: be like right in the middle.
Speaker 3: We were like we were like the groupies in the middle,
Speaker 3: like egging them on, yeah, like oh yeah.
Speaker 6: And then there was like a box, an open box.
Speaker 3: People were like, I guess it was a box specifically
Speaker 3: for photo shoots.
Speaker 5: They had lights.
Speaker 7: And then every so often I would just look over
Speaker 7: and there's people in there having real serious photo shoots,
Speaker 7: and I would like tap Erica, like look, how serious
Speaker 7: that guy is and he was like giving.
Speaker 5: Tyson Beck for it.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it was every person that stepped into that box
Speaker 3: was like a super moment.
Speaker 5: We didn't make it there, we didn't make it.
Speaker 3: I was tempted, like, damn, are we supposed to take
Speaker 3: a picture for proof that we were at the ditty
Speaker 3: party at Coachella?
Speaker 7: But yeah, we were way too high. And at this point, okay,
Speaker 7: here's another thing, we were pressed.
Speaker 5: Yeah, super pressed.
Speaker 6: We were superpress.
Speaker 5: We had gotten drunk, but we're like.
Speaker 3: We knew we had to leave Sunday mornings. So we
Speaker 3: were like, tonight's the night, bitch, we gotta get.
Speaker 5: Fucked up this Coachella.
Speaker 3: We kept saying, I can't believe it's Saturday and we
Speaker 3: haven't done anything crazy yet.
Speaker 6: So we keep pressing Happy Bay because he has the stroom, yeah,
Speaker 6: the mushrooms, Like.
Speaker 5: Please, I'm like, let's just take him now. And then
Speaker 5: I was like, wait, do I really want to take
Speaker 5: mushrooms out the strange didty party? And then then what
Speaker 5: then what?
Speaker 3: So then we said so then we said okay, well
Speaker 3: wait let's go to Coachella.
Speaker 5: So four of us get back in the car. We
Speaker 5: had to Coachella.
Speaker 3: I take a mean hardcore, snoring, flabbering nap in the backseat.
Speaker 5: Yeah, because I had what's falling off your head?
Speaker 7: I was probably at least ten drinks in and that's
Speaker 7: a cross between tequila and covasier at this point.
Speaker 3: Meanwhile, I'm coordinating with my brother who's at Coachella to
Speaker 3: give me his wristband somehow because we are me are
Speaker 3: going to sneak in because me and Jamila were the
Speaker 3: only people in the car without a wristband.
Speaker 7: But we has reassured me she had done this many times,
Speaker 7: it was very easy. Meanwhile, my baby daddy tell me
Speaker 7: everybody's going to jail. Hundreds of people have gone to
Speaker 7: jail who have snuck.
Speaker 5: In this year.
Speaker 7: Before I left, he specifically told me, oh, don't even
Speaker 7: try it. Hundreds of people are going to jail at Coachella.
Speaker 7: I've heard it and I was like, oh. I was like,
Speaker 7: Erica Beattie said, hundreds of people getting locked up.
Speaker 5: She's like, what are you talking about?
Speaker 6: Do it every year?
Speaker 7: So we head on over to Coachella. I'm knocked out
Speaker 7: in the back pull it.
Speaker 3: I'm like, oh, we're here, who wrapad wrap back on,
Speaker 3: ready to go.
Speaker 7: Pike My Daisy dukes up. It's it's time to get popping.
Speaker 7: We walk about a quarter four miles to the front door.
Speaker 5: No, actually was a quick it's a quick walk.
Speaker 7: It's a quarter of a mile, okay, in dust and
Speaker 7: me and Erica. So everybody else continues when your can
Speaker 7: casually pretend at the very last stup that we're just
Speaker 7: you know, haven't.
Speaker 5: Just we're just falling back.
Speaker 3: Ay, we're just talking. Meanwhile, Happy bays inside. My brother's
Speaker 3: slipping off his wristband.
Speaker 7: Giving him to our other brother's friend. Shout out to
Speaker 7: p K. Shout out to PK.
Speaker 5: He then delivered both of their wristbands to outside.
Speaker 7: Wait he gets into us, we slip them on our
Speaker 7: hands and then Eric and then Erica goes, don't be obvious.
Speaker 7: Pretend like to pretend like we're not together.
Speaker 3: There's nobody, so we all walk in together but pretending
Speaker 3: we don't know each other.
Speaker 5: It works. It's look, I'm a sneaking. There's there's a
Speaker 5: technique to just babe, baby.
Speaker 6: We're all in line right next to other, like not like.
Speaker 5: We go and we hug.
Speaker 6: Yeah, and then then we get in and I'm like,
Speaker 6: we're in. She's like yeah, we're in.
Speaker 5: That's it.
Speaker 6: I'm like, oh, we're in'sig whoa Okay, so I'm pumped.
Speaker 7: So they're like mushrooms mushrooms. Now I'm like, we need
Speaker 7: something down them with. We need to beverage. Fine, fuck like.
Speaker 6: Okay, So we make her way.
Speaker 5: I see a lemonade stand, I'm like, lemonade.
Speaker 7: Lemonade is perfect. Way, then Happy Babe, he moves really slow,
Speaker 7: like a crap, and he's.
Speaker 5: Like, oh, I see a juicerey, Let's get some pressed,
Speaker 5: fresh pressed juice. We're like juice ending in two hours. Oh,
Speaker 5: by the way, we didn't mention it.
Speaker 3: We snack into Coachella. At the end of Coachella. It
Speaker 3: was literally like two and a half hours before it
Speaker 3: was over.
Speaker 5: Okay babe, Okay.
Speaker 7: Happy Way is convinced that he must have a fresh
Speaker 7: pressed juice.
Speaker 5: Weird livid, so annoyed. I'm like, why are you fucking kidding?
Speaker 3: We're just like a party, like yo, we don't care,
Speaker 3: and we're not time for health. Time to get this
Speaker 3: ship away at it. We're getting fucked up, fuck up.
Speaker 7: So we somehow gear him away from the fresh press
Speaker 7: juice to the bar and then Cochilla. He had to
Speaker 7: go get a fucking twenty one year old bracelet first.
Speaker 7: Then you go to the bar, so that was the
Speaker 7: whole thing. And then who were we catching the end
Speaker 7: of the show at that point?
Speaker 3: Oh uh, tame and Paula tame and Paula was dope,
Speaker 3: but we were mostly just focused on these Yeah.
Speaker 5: I didn't I didn't even know who.
Speaker 6: I was like, whoa mushrooms? Mushrooms?
Speaker 5: Okay, So we get a drink and then.
Speaker 3: Finally, finally I see the mushrooms in sight bringing him
Speaker 3: out of the zip bag and he starts just shipping them.
Speaker 7: They're fucking disgusting, disgusting.
Speaker 3: I'm cheering, like, this is what we're so excited to do.
Speaker 5: Can't wait. It's some fucking you know, mushrooms were out
Speaker 5: of cowship.
Speaker 6: Right, yeah, I heard. I was think there's other ways
Speaker 6: to make them.
Speaker 3: There has to be at this point, right, And then
Speaker 3: who would Okay, yeah, okay, I hope they watch him.
Speaker 6: I don't know.
Speaker 5: We ate them mm hmm.
Speaker 3: And then so then finally we ate them, and then
Speaker 3: and then then we walked and then Happy Bay still
Speaker 3: wanted gestures and we're like we're going to go. We
Speaker 3: got gotta go, so we I was like, peace, I'll see,
Speaker 3: we'll meet up later. We'll catulated. Let's just let's spread,
Speaker 3: let's spread our wings. And so me and Jamila then
Speaker 3: went to go meet up with my other friend and
Speaker 3: we couldn't find her at first.
Speaker 5: When we ended up finding her.
Speaker 3: Well, so I note, I was I had been talking
Speaker 3: about meeting up with this friend all weekend because she'd
Speaker 3: already established she had a party pack, a party pack.
Speaker 5: So I was like, where she? Where she?
Speaker 6: Where she?
Speaker 5: Where is she?
Speaker 6: Where she?
Speaker 7: Keep mind, it's not my friend, it's never I think
Speaker 7: you've met her? Maybe what's in passing? Eric his friend like, hey,
Speaker 7: we facetimer.
Speaker 6: Where is she? Where is she?
Speaker 7: Where the fuck is hey? Where is Finally we start
Speaker 7: coordinating with them. I'm on the phone like, well, where
Speaker 7: are by the wine side.
Speaker 5: Where Jamila's leading?
Speaker 7: Leading the journey a red tree? I don't see a
Speaker 7: fucking red treat Okay. So finally we meet her. Apparently
Speaker 7: she's with a posse of maybe four others, six, four.
Speaker 6: To five others.
Speaker 3: They are clearly festival ready, festival ready. They're clearly festival vets. Yeah,
Speaker 3: I could tell by their like their their gadgets there
Speaker 3: fanny packs, they're out bags. Yeah, it could turn warm
Speaker 3: at any moment, it could turn hot whatever, ready for anything.
Speaker 7: Yeah, they seemed really trustworthy. So that's when they pulled
Speaker 7: out the party pack.
Speaker 5: That what you're trying to establish.
Speaker 7: Honestly, it took about six minutes to get to the
Speaker 7: party pack, because that's how pressed.
Speaker 6: Again, I will take full responsibility.
Speaker 7: Pressed that I was, and her fiance breaks something in
Speaker 7: half hands.
Speaker 5: It puts places in Menierka's mouth.
Speaker 6: And I was like, what is this?
Speaker 5: He's like ecstasy, and I'm like, do people still take this?
Speaker 7: I haven't take this since they're only two thousands, and
Speaker 7: he's like yeah. She shakes her head at me, and
Speaker 7: I'm like, and I see yakat taken and we just
Speaker 7: there and at that, and right before them, we were like,
Speaker 7: I think those mushrooms start kick in.
Speaker 5: They did literally looked at you.
Speaker 7: I think tho MUSHes about to kick in. And then
Speaker 7: we took to take half of the next to Sea Pimp, which.
Speaker 5: You know in hindsight, No hindsight is twenty twenty.
Speaker 7: Okay, So then we're with the festival gurus and we're
Speaker 7: heading over.
Speaker 5: To kid cutting.
Speaker 7: Everybody needs to see Kit Cuddy because kid Ketty's cool,
Speaker 7: it's a second night had it's a kid.
Speaker 3: Cutty is like, because everyone knows Saturday night is like
Speaker 3: that day that the party pack gets pulled out.
Speaker 5: Yeah, and so kid Cutty is is the party pack?
Speaker 5: Kid Cutty's like, yeah.
Speaker 6: I think he gave him a genre at the at
Speaker 6: the like it was.
Speaker 5: Just a trap.
Speaker 3: Oh my god, what I called it a drug trap?
Speaker 3: I get a genre, gave him a genre. It was
Speaker 3: like high It made total sense though it did. It
Speaker 3: was it was like trippy trip hop trap, trip hop trap.
Speaker 5: I don't think he's like hip hop. I think he's
Speaker 5: more like trippy high hop.
Speaker 7: Or some Erka was making lots of things once her
Speaker 7: things hit, so we head over to Oh we.
Speaker 5: Head During that time, though, too, I was like I
Speaker 5: don't know how to feel. I was like, should I
Speaker 5: sit down?
Speaker 3: I'm like, what, it's okay, I see it, it's go eat?
Speaker 5: Are you done? What are you doing? Five minutes we're
Speaker 5: about to small Ladybug, go watch lady Bug. Oh my god,
Speaker 5: I can't believe that worked. Okay.
Speaker 3: I didn't know whether I wanted to sit or stand
Speaker 3: or meet like and then were on someone or so
Speaker 3: much wheat already, and we're drunk.
Speaker 5: We are drunkly, it's taking so much weat.
Speaker 7: And then we were just so gung ho about the
Speaker 7: past and then we're when we it's hit. And then
Speaker 7: we were with this guru of fucking festivalers. They start
Speaker 7: keep going deeper. I feel like they kept going deeper.
Speaker 3: In the crowd, and they were like they were like professionally,
Speaker 3: like they were professional crowdsurfers.
Speaker 7: I was like, I've never seen a group of people
Speaker 7: surf a crowd so significant, so bonded, like they were together.
Speaker 5: And like I was like, don't look anybody like.
Speaker 6: It was just like there, I feel like a little squirrel.
Speaker 6: And thenet like a group of squirrels. The school of squirrels.
Speaker 5: Could have been the mushrooms also, I'm sure it was.
Speaker 3: And then we get to Kink Cuddy and he starts
Speaker 3: singing his trippy trappy trip hop trap, trip hop trap.
Speaker 7: I'm like, oh, because that's kind of how Kit Cutty sounds.
Speaker 3: Sure, we're not singing any version of his songs right. Basically,
Speaker 3: my god, basically you should not listen to his music
Speaker 3: on any of these drugs. And then when you do
Speaker 3: It's like, oh, I really felt like I was in
Speaker 3: a fucking spaceship on Mars.
Speaker 6: I kept looking at the stage like where.
Speaker 3: Are we because it was all read and it was
Speaker 3: then and you couldn't see him.
Speaker 5: I couldn't. Kyla kept looking over at me and be like, but.
Speaker 3: Where do you see him? Is he moving around? Where
Speaker 3: is he?
Speaker 5: Because I could see him on the screen, But when
Speaker 5: I looked at the.
Speaker 6: Stage, the lights and spaceships that.
Speaker 5: You were like concerned for his safety. You were like,
Speaker 5: is he okay?
Speaker 6: Making that noise?
Speaker 7: I don't even know it was good, but I couldn't
Speaker 7: make a little word he was saying. And then I
Speaker 7: felt like, wow, all of the festival goers we were
Speaker 7: with every song like they were just singing along. I'm like, oh,
Speaker 7: I not appreciating this because I don't know any kid
Speaker 7: cutty songs. Yeah I do know some what song Doing.
Speaker 5: On the Suit of Beness No, no, never heard that song,
Speaker 5: or There's Man on the Moon.
Speaker 6: But it is a lot, but I can't remember.
Speaker 5: You if you hear them, you know you know what
Speaker 5: I mean?
Speaker 3: The way my Ecstasy Slashroom dropped in the mid of
Speaker 3: his concert.
Speaker 6: I don't ever want to hear him again, it scared you.
Speaker 7: No, it's just too much. I'm gonna get clashbacks. And
Speaker 7: I was like, yeah, I don't know if I could stand.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 5: I was like wavering around.
Speaker 6: And then the worst thing of all happened, the worst.
Speaker 7: The fucking concert ended and me and Erica ship had
Speaker 7: just started to go nuts. And suddenly I looked at
Speaker 7: Erica and I was like, we didn't think this ship
Speaker 7: through at all.
Speaker 5: And we just starting oh my god, following people. My friend.
Speaker 5: We followed my friend and he was like, do you
Speaker 5: want to go to this Jeremy Scott party? And we're like,
Speaker 5: we're like, yeah, let's go. Let's go. So we start
Speaker 5: walking following him.
Speaker 6: He's like walking really fack.
Speaker 5: He's wearing his sweat, the sweat jacket, that sweat. It's
Speaker 5: a whole body sweat suit. It's like that running like the.
Speaker 6: So we're just following the noise.
Speaker 5: To the shoes, shoes, shoes, shoes.
Speaker 3: There's a bug in there. Oh, go in your room. Okay,
Speaker 3: I'll go. Where is the bug? Where is it?
Speaker 6: Ignore it.
Speaker 3: It's not gonna not gonna get you. It's fine, it's nature.
Speaker 3: It's not coming for you. Tell her tell Luna, tell Iri,
Speaker 3: it's not coming for her. Oh Jesus, let me kill
Speaker 3: this goddamn bug. So the cons ended, oh wait, okay.
Speaker 5: So his pants were going.
Speaker 6: And we just were like following the sounds, so crush.
Speaker 3: And then at some point I was like, wait, Jamila, wait,
Speaker 3: we came with happy Bay.
Speaker 5: How can we leave him? We can't just leave him?
Speaker 5: What the fuck? And I was like, it's fine.
Speaker 7: You said he needed space, right, let's just go. What
Speaker 7: else are we gonna kept saying, what are we gonna do?
Speaker 7: What else are we gonna do?
Speaker 5: We don't know.
Speaker 6: I said, we didn't prepare for this part. It's fine,
Speaker 6: let's just go.
Speaker 5: We didn't even drive. We have a key, right, We're fine.
Speaker 7: And then so she was like, so she like dials
Speaker 7: her phone, puts it to her ear. It must have
Speaker 7: rang like twice, and she she goes, well, he didn't answer,
Speaker 7: so let's go.
Speaker 6: It was like that easy.
Speaker 7: She's like, oh, he didn't answer, let's going, okay. So
Speaker 7: he continued to walk, and at some point we exited.
Speaker 5: The festival, and not realize to this day, I regret it.
Speaker 5: I regret it was like an invisible exit.
Speaker 6: Yeah, that's the thing. You even know when you're in
Speaker 6: and your out because it's so fucking out it.
Speaker 7: So we start walking and we keep walking, and we
Speaker 7: just realized.
Speaker 5: We lose the friend friend.
Speaker 7: I think he was intentionally trying to lose us, because
Speaker 7: we were like we were tripping balls and I kept laughing.
Speaker 7: I couldn't stop laughing.
Speaker 5: She would not stop.
Speaker 3: I was literally would not just anytime I asked her something,
Speaker 3: she's like to the point I was crying. She's like,
Speaker 3: to me, what should we do? And I was like,
Speaker 3: it's kind of putting that.
Speaker 5: I don't know. I'm just no help. I was just like,
Speaker 5: why did we do this? Oh my god, that's such
Speaker 5: a bad idea.
Speaker 7: So we keep walking and then then we would find
Speaker 7: someone to help us, like someone who worked there, and
Speaker 7: they would talk.
Speaker 5: To us and like we're like we're at one aim.
Speaker 6: They're like, ooh, that's far, Like wait, what do you mean?
Speaker 5: Can we go back?
Speaker 6: And they're like keep going follows barricade keeping for about four.
Speaker 7: Miles straight, and then I would just keep laughing, and
Speaker 7: then Erica was just looking so worried, and then I
Speaker 7: was laughing, and then we went to another We kept
Speaker 7: walking about two more miles and then went to another
Speaker 7: person like on a bicycle.
Speaker 6: This time, this person pulls.
Speaker 7: Out an ire the screen and I looked at so first,
Speaker 7: Erica is looking at it all intensely, and I look
Speaker 7: over to look at it.
Speaker 5: Bitch.
Speaker 7: Everything on the screen was moving really fast. There was
Speaker 7: things like gyrating.
Speaker 3: And moving out red dots everywhere.
Speaker 7: And then I looked at him. I thought that was hilarious.
Speaker 7: I started laughing some more.
Speaker 3: She just did walk straight, make a ray. I was like, Okay,
Speaker 3: that's all I can do. That's all I can do.
Speaker 7: No, And then at another point, Erica had taken a
Speaker 7: picture of the intersections before we left.
Speaker 6: She thought it was gonna take.
Speaker 5: It was a good idea, you know what had helped
Speaker 5: us in some capacity.
Speaker 6: No, it didn't.
Speaker 7: She took a picture of the intersection and and her
Speaker 7: highest fucking tripping out state.
Speaker 6: We pull it up to ask for help. This is
Speaker 6: where can you help us find our car?
Speaker 3: One of the signs is blurry, so all you can
Speaker 3: see is avenue, yeah and something. It was blurred conveniently.
Speaker 3: It was like because she's so really I remember asking
Speaker 3: guys and she was like, can you make out this street?
Speaker 3: And he was like, oh yeah, I think that says foth.
Speaker 3: And then the guy's like, I say, foalth, I ain't
Speaker 3: no fault, and I was like, I was like, I
Speaker 3: just kept laughing. He's like, I don't know where that is,
Speaker 3: baby girl.
Speaker 7: I was like, oh my god, what's the point of
Speaker 7: having a picture. And then finally and then we're on
Speaker 7: the phone with Haavy Bass.
Speaker 5: She said, I don't know, babe, come find us.
Speaker 7: And then she had on these Jesus Sanda, Oh my god,
Speaker 7: that weren't really sandals at all. They're just stringing a
Speaker 7: cardboard at the bottom pretty much exactly, and she kept
Speaker 7: tying them.
Speaker 3: They kept untying every five fucking minutes.
Speaker 5: Like Jamila, wait the time my show.
Speaker 6: It was dusty at one point to pull on their scarves.
Speaker 6: We were going against the grain and.
Speaker 5: There was like thousands of people coming towards us.
Speaker 3: And we were going against them. It was literally like
Speaker 3: Jamilam compared it. It was like Simba going against the pride.
Speaker 3: It was the fucking line.
Speaker 5: The stampede we were in, it was.
Speaker 3: It was it's all very animalistic. And at one point,
Speaker 3: like I was on the phone and I was like.
Speaker 5: I was walking through that crowd. It was all this dust,
Speaker 5: and I was like, why am I even wearing shoes?
Speaker 5: What's the point of shoes? Just take them off?
Speaker 6: And I just kept laughing, Oh my god, I'm finally no.
Speaker 7: And then she's like, she's like, I just need to
Speaker 7: this is too much. I haven't been able to take
Speaker 7: the sulon That's what she says. I haven't even to
Speaker 7: take the sul n. This is too much. And I
Speaker 7: was looking at her, laughing still and she's like, we
Speaker 7: need to sit down, and I was like, okay, okay,
Speaker 7: So we sit down and we must have like put
Speaker 7: one cheek on the cement when headlights are coming straight
Speaker 7: for us.
Speaker 6: Clay She's like, wait, wait, I didn't think this through.
Speaker 5: I don't think this is the right place to sit down.
Speaker 6: We're in the parking lot. The parking lot.
Speaker 3: Which is also a field, but it's just a parking lot.
Speaker 3: So it felt like, okay, this is a field, it
Speaker 3: is safe. But nothing was safe. There was nowhere to
Speaker 3: sit so we could collect ourselves. We could not find
Speaker 3: where we were at. It was so intense, and to
Speaker 3: top it off, we were tripping balls all because we
Speaker 3: were so fucking gung ho about getting good Coachella going
Speaker 3: wild here.
Speaker 5: The more of the story is, don't take drugs when
Speaker 5: you're pressed.
Speaker 7: Don't don't take drugs you don't have a plan. We
Speaker 7: were so worried about getting high that we didn't know
Speaker 7: the plan. Yeah, the plan.
Speaker 5: Oh my god.
Speaker 3: Never take drugs when you only have a limited amount
Speaker 3: of time to be somewhere.
Speaker 5: And also in the large crowd.
Speaker 6: I don't think shrooms is a large crowds type.
Speaker 5: Of well, you know what you could do them if
Speaker 5: if we were not in the crowd.
Speaker 3: It was chilling listen to the music from away, just
Speaker 3: watching people that might.
Speaker 5: Have been better. We were fully immersed in the whole experience.
Speaker 6: It was so.
Speaker 5: It was so worrisome. So finally we found happy. But
Speaker 5: oh my god, it was like this.
Speaker 3: It's been two hours of us lost in the Pride
Speaker 3: d Erica's shoes coming on and off, me just laughing hysterically,
Speaker 3: watching ship move.
Speaker 7: The lights were moving fast. I was crying, laughing. No
Speaker 7: words came out nice.
Speaker 3: We both were laughing. I was like, I don't know
Speaker 3: what to do. You know what I realized in that moment.
Speaker 3: Some in that moment, I was like.
Speaker 5: Okay, I'm a leader. I've got this. I was a leader.
Speaker 5: I was like, we've got to take control of the situation.
Speaker 6: And I was like, yes, yes, you're right. And then
Speaker 6: I just start laughing.
Speaker 5: I'm like, not this, We're gonna figure this out. I'm
Speaker 5: gonna find this ship. We have to. We have no choice.
Speaker 5: What are we gonna do? Sleep outside like saying we
Speaker 5: have to what are we gonna do? What are we
Speaker 5: gonna do? We gotta find. We just gotta find.
Speaker 6: It's gotta do it. We're like pumping each other out.
Speaker 5: But I was shocking each other. You got it, I
Speaker 5: got it.
Speaker 3: You're a ship and I was like, this is ridiculous.
Speaker 7: It was a change, like ship talking Coachella, and also
Speaker 7: you're the ship.
Speaker 5: We got this.
Speaker 7: We don't have a choice but to find our house.
Speaker 7: Oh my god, we're just gonna have to walk home.
Speaker 7: We were closed, but not that close.
Speaker 5: Oh my god. Okay, anyway, that.
Speaker 6: Was really intense. And so then we got to the car.
Speaker 3: Thank god, we got with the moment I closed that door,
Speaker 3: Oh my god, wait, did you keep him?
Speaker 7: I opened the door on happy bassed friend and then
Speaker 7: I realized he was laying up against it, fall asleep. Closed,
Speaker 7: I didn't say, oh my bad. I was like oop,
Speaker 7: and then I got another side.
Speaker 5: It was like the moment I closed the door, I
Speaker 5: felt like safety.
Speaker 6: I was everything.
Speaker 5: It was quiet and quiet, everything was.
Speaker 6: Like and then like we were still hot.
Speaker 7: It's like all the lights oh we got dark. It
Speaker 7: was just a different dynamic. And then we were like
Speaker 7: just laughing hysterically and how dumb we are, absolutely goddamn,
Speaker 7: ridiculously dumb we are that we just had to accept
Speaker 7: ecstasy from the early two thousands, and we also an
Speaker 7: addition to the shrooms we had just consumed. So then
Speaker 7: we had a brilliant idea that we should go to
Speaker 7: the market because like me, happy face always hungry. In
Speaker 7: a long conversation in the car the parkula about where
Speaker 7: we're gonna get from the market.
Speaker 3: I just was like, if you want me to fry
Speaker 3: some shrimp, I will fine. Nobody asked me, No one
Speaker 3: asked you to fry shit. But because like, so we're
Speaker 3: gonna go get shrimp right now if you want me.
Speaker 6: Too, fine.
Speaker 3: She's like, she's like, it's just too simple. Ingredients, fried shrimp,
Speaker 3: that's it. Vegetable invest well, that's it.
Speaker 5: And I was like okay, So.
Speaker 7: We had about a ten minute conversation about whatere we're
Speaker 7: gonna kind of snatch when we get from the store,
Speaker 7: only to find that the store was actually closed the
Speaker 7: entire conversation. So then we had another brilliant idea. We
Speaker 7: would go to our house, get our snacks and take
Speaker 7: them to Happy Bay's.
Speaker 5: House because we had gone grocery shopping.
Speaker 3: And we got there and we began to everyone started
Speaker 3: looking in the fridge, and then I got really like stressed,
Speaker 3: and I was like, yo, like because I kept thinking
Speaker 3: about my brother, and I was like, we.
Speaker 5: Can't take all the food. You guys, we can't take
Speaker 5: all the food.
Speaker 6: They are growing boys.
Speaker 5: They're gondn't need food in the morning. They are growing boys,
Speaker 5: growing boys.
Speaker 3: Her brother and his friend are literally six ' five,
Speaker 3: two hundred fucking pounds each, Like like, bitch, they're they're fine.
Speaker 5: Oh my god, so let me talk.
Speaker 3: We got the pizzas we went back, and I don't
Speaker 3: even know we just like I felt like I melted
Speaker 3: into the couch. We did flash was getting up, felt
Speaker 3: like I also had to do a handstand that stretch, stretch, stretch.
Speaker 7: And then at one point she made up a song
Speaker 7: and it went like, you gotta do what you gotta do.
Speaker 5: You gotta find what she gotta find.
Speaker 6: And I was like, what song is that?
Speaker 3: We're all like abruptly, she said it really confidently, like
Speaker 3: you gotta do what you gotta do, and we're like what's.
Speaker 6: Like what, like what song is that? She's like what,
Speaker 6: I just made it that.
Speaker 5: I just it just it felt appropriate at the moment, like.
Speaker 6: How She's like, you know, we gotta do what you
Speaker 6: gotta do.
Speaker 5: You know, we gotta find that food. We're gonna find it.
Speaker 3: Oh my god, Oh wow, the movie arrived at the house.
Speaker 5: Oh my god, I forgot.
Speaker 6: I can't even go back far.
Speaker 3: The snapchat glasses, Oh yeah, has anyone heard of snapchat glasses?
Speaker 5: I don't even know they wind.
Speaker 7: This has to be said at the Kitcutti concerto. In
Speaker 7: between not being able to find him, also fucking trolling balls.
Speaker 7: I look over at our friend's fiance and he like,
Speaker 7: I see something shine on his glasses and then I
Speaker 7: look like a little puzzled, and he like gives me
Speaker 7: this slick wink, and in the midst of my highness,
Speaker 7: I'm like.
Speaker 5: Snick of men in black?
Speaker 6: Is he watching us?
Speaker 5: What the fuck is going on here?
Speaker 7: And then I'm pretty sure I went on about my concert,
Speaker 7: pretending to know the songs and then look back over
Speaker 7: and he does it again. He like flashes a light
Speaker 7: and he like winks, and I'm like.
Speaker 6: This, nigg is, it's fine.
Speaker 5: He's like Snapchat glasses. If my phone dies, I got
Speaker 5: Snapchat glasses. And that was fucking oh my god.
Speaker 3: They'll always live here. So fast forward back to now
Speaker 3: arriving at the house. We're just chilling on the couch
Speaker 3: and I don't even know girl, don't even Matt becomes
Speaker 3: a blur. We ate there was pizza that was cooked.
Speaker 5: We saw nobody saw no one was there.
Speaker 3: We made this whole story about what if there was
Speaker 3: a party happening there. We pulled up, there was absolutely
Speaker 3: no one there, and we're just chilling on the couch
Speaker 3: and we're like, I wonder where those other people went,
Speaker 3: like where because it was huge house of people, And
Speaker 3: then like more people came.
Speaker 6: Like where did everybody go?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 3: The girl sexy left her sexy yeah go had a
Speaker 3: sexy diamond chain literally said sexy across her neck.
Speaker 5: I'm sweet and I'm Sweden sexy, and I found her
Speaker 5: sexy chain anyway.
Speaker 3: Then out of nowhere, one of the guys comes out,
Speaker 3: emerges from like the bat cave with two a bottle
Speaker 3: of Cavassier, bottle of champagne with no shirt off, Like.
Speaker 7: Where the fuck where did you just come from? We
Speaker 7: thought we were home alone, and that's when I clocked out.
Speaker 3: I had to go in my private space with Happy
Speaker 3: Bay because no one could witness anything.
Speaker 5: Else and I couldn't. I couldn't be around any more people.
Speaker 5: And then I say any more things.
Speaker 6: I drove myself.
Speaker 7: It was only around the corner, but it took me
Speaker 7: fifteen minutes because I was high, and I kept pep
Speaker 7: tapping myself, like I can't call her.
Speaker 5: She don't know where you're at. You don't even know
Speaker 5: where you're at.
Speaker 7: Find the house, Just keep driving to the street, looks familiar,
Speaker 7: Arnold Palmer drive.
Speaker 6: Finally I made it home about fifteen minutes later.
Speaker 5: We crashed, woke up around ten am. Checkout was at
Speaker 5: eleven am, and then also realized not realize we knew,
Speaker 5: we knew.
Speaker 3: We had to get back to LA. To get back
Speaker 3: to LA take our kids to a fucking birthday party. Yes,
Speaker 3: and we had to be there by at least by
Speaker 3: two two.
Speaker 5: Oh.
Speaker 3: That was a rough right, ried a rough drive. I
Speaker 3: can't believe. I drove like I can't thought it was
Speaker 3: okay to drive. We're still kind of high.
Speaker 7: We drove or We had to coordinate two separate drop
Speaker 7: offs of our kids to the party.
Speaker 3: They had to meet us at the party. We had
Speaker 3: to and on top of it, it was, oh, fuck
Speaker 3: my knee. On top of it, it had nerve to
Speaker 3: be a seventies themed party. So we're like pulled up
Speaker 3: to the party late. We went through our Coachella luggage.
Speaker 5: We had opened the truck. We're going through our leggings,
Speaker 5: rest outside.
Speaker 3: In a parking like in a street, a residential street,
Speaker 3: and what we thought was disco like Coachella outfits, did
Speaker 3: full glittered to make up, and.
Speaker 5: I definitely put full glitter on my eyelids.
Speaker 3: And walked and successfully completed our task of going to Coachella,
Speaker 3: getting sucked up and making it a.
Speaker 5: First birthday party to our homegirls first birthday party with
Speaker 5: the kids, with the kids.
Speaker 3: Somehow, some I didn't think that. I didn't think that
Speaker 3: was gonna that was gonna happen. There was no way
Speaker 3: that was gonna happen. But it all came. People came
Speaker 3: through and on the way back, I said like we
Speaker 3: were eric and I was like, you know, maybe we're
Speaker 3: not like other moms, maybe we're a little out.
Speaker 6: In a good way, but you.
Speaker 5: Didn't say that, and I'm nodded left. Oh man.
Speaker 3: Anyway, it was a really fun time. It was a
Speaker 3: really fun time. It took me about five day us
Speaker 3: to recover from that one day. But I knew that
Speaker 3: was gonna happened. I've been known, I've been known that
Speaker 3: my tolerance is my like recovery time is fucked up.
Speaker 5: This is not a surprise, you know.
Speaker 3: You get about when I was about twenty about twenty
Speaker 3: nine started happening. That's when I realized, oh shit, I
Speaker 3: can't do it all like I used to. And as
Speaker 3: I get older, it's more and more my recovery time,
Speaker 3: my recovery time, you used to be able to be
Speaker 3: like Okay, it's let's go right now.
Speaker 6: I'm like, yeah, that took that took a lot out
Speaker 6: of me.
Speaker 7: And I would like to say we learned our lesson
Speaker 7: and next year we're gonna.
Speaker 5: Not go to Coachella.
Speaker 7: But I have a feeling we're gonna get to Revolt.
Speaker 7: I would like fashion Mama is Revolt. We'll get there
Speaker 7: Revolt early, and we're gonna get in and we'll be fine.
Speaker 3: We'll have a light light light like light turn up
Speaker 3: and then it's gonna be light a light like this
Speaker 3: year is supposed to be. And we we'll still do
Speaker 3: some fuck s because yollo.
Speaker 5: It's like Mom's gone wild. It's literally Mom's gonna wild.
Speaker 3: It's Mom's gone wild. It's like we couldn't. We're away
Speaker 3: from our kids, were on a little vacation. We have
Speaker 3: two days to get it.
Speaker 5: Let's go. We're with the youngins, okay.
Speaker 7: I even I had like text, Oh, I txt my
Speaker 7: little boo, like, who's out here? You know within drugs
Speaker 7: you've been on one day? Hey, I know you got
Speaker 7: all the crews and connections. You're Caucasian. I know your
Speaker 7: friends out here doing drugs to a drug and drugs
Speaker 7: doing drugs.
Speaker 3: Can you do an intro? And then he did, and
Speaker 3: I was like, well, DOMMI to think someone's going to
Speaker 3: meet her strain who wants drugs with her homegirl.
Speaker 5: He's like.
Speaker 7: Yeah, so yeah, basically we need to grow up.
Speaker 6: But also it was really fun.
Speaker 7: And I had so much fune I did I have
Speaker 7: not laughed that hard in a long.
Speaker 3: Hilarious It was hilarious. I laughed so hard. What it
Speaker 3: has Soul's face on it. It has Soul's face on
Speaker 3: it right there, up there. Okay, get the chair.
Speaker 6: So that was great.
Speaker 7: Yes, there's the other repercussions, just maybe naming, saying that
Speaker 7: we did hroom the next legal activities, legal activities. So
Speaker 7: this is our truth and yeah, we're sticking to it.
Speaker 6: Oh.
Speaker 3: Also on a brighter side, we're very mature and classy
Speaker 3: because we also started an intern.
Speaker 5: Oh my god, we have a new intern. Guys, we
Speaker 5: have a team.
Speaker 6: We're growing.
Speaker 5: Oh my god. Yes, if you if you want to
Speaker 5: email a.
Speaker 6: New intern, welcome her to the team.
Speaker 5: Yes, her name is Mary, Mary the intern. What Mary.
Speaker 3: Shout out to Mary and you can reach her at
Speaker 3: a S S T at Good.
Speaker 5: Mom's Bad Choices dot com. Yeah, shout out to Mary.
Speaker 5: Tell her welcome to the Good mom Say what up girl?
Speaker 7: Where we're going?
Speaker 6: We're going big now.
Speaker 7: This is this is the the first step of our
Speaker 7: growing expansion and game.
Speaker 5: Open.
Speaker 6: Hold on to your seats, guys.
Speaker 5: Mary's on the team.
Speaker 6: So we weren't completely useless all week. We've done that.
Speaker 3: Yeah, we did that, and we went swimming and we
Speaker 3: had full mood.
Speaker 5: We saw full move.
Speaker 6: We had some crazy, crazy full What day was that.
Speaker 5: Friday?
Speaker 3: No, it was Thursday. It was Thursday because we posted
Speaker 3: like Friday, So Thursday.
Speaker 7: I don't know if you guys felt, but last yeah, Thursday,
Speaker 7: something fucking happened.
Speaker 6: There was a shift, Like we were with the kids.
Speaker 7: At the pool and she was on the phone for
Speaker 7: a really long time, and I'm like, oh, you are
Speaker 7: the phone, get out this sense. And then I got
Speaker 7: this really odd phone call and then she came in crying,
Speaker 7: why are you crying, bitch? I want to tell you something.
Speaker 7: I gotta read a phone call. And then we both
Speaker 7: had really strange conversations.
Speaker 3: With like shifting conversations, like things that needed to be said,
Speaker 3: yes that like even waiting to hear, or that have
Speaker 3: needed to be said, and I was feeling and I
Speaker 3: did not anticipate having that conversation at that time, you
Speaker 3: know what I mean.
Speaker 5: It was totally.
Speaker 3: Unexpected conversation separately. And then we went to the store
Speaker 3: and looked at the moon and the moon was gnarly huge, round,
Speaker 3: full and big, and we found it was like the
Speaker 3: pink full moon, like the easter Phone one.
Speaker 7: And basically at that very moment, probably around four o'clock
Speaker 7: specific time, some shit shifted.
Speaker 5: Yeah, and then I was and then I was like,
Speaker 5: what does this mean? This moon mean? And it's like
Speaker 5: when we read.
Speaker 3: It, I was like, bitch, I was like, what, First
Speaker 3: of all, it's a Libra moon, and I was basically
Speaker 3: it was like talking about exploring, not exploring, like this
Speaker 3: moon is going to force you to make decisions about
Speaker 3: your relationship and let your value within your relationships with
Speaker 3: people and what you want and need, like the things
Speaker 3: you really want and you really need, you know.
Speaker 5: I just didn't say it's something else. I can't remember.
Speaker 3: But anyway, if you go on the hood, which is Instagram,
Speaker 3: you'll see it. And I was like, it just spoke
Speaker 3: to my soul and I was like tripping the fuck
Speaker 3: out and ever since then, Yo, by the way, you guys, oh,
Speaker 3: I know you guys have got to download this app
Speaker 3: called the Pattern.
Speaker 5: I don't know if you guys have already downloaded it.
Speaker 3: I might be laid to the party, but bitch, this
Speaker 3: shit has got me all the way fucked up because.
Speaker 5: We've got Yeah, it's pretty intense.
Speaker 3: Okay, So basically, if you've heard of any other apps
Speaker 3: where they like take your you know, your birthday, time
Speaker 3: of birth, where you were born or whatever, and they
Speaker 3: do your natal chart. So there's other apps like co Star,
Speaker 3: Like I used to be on this app called Coastar
Speaker 3: that I thought was pretty cool, but this ship, like
Speaker 3: you put all that in, but it doesn't even talk
Speaker 3: about horoscopes, you know, they never mentioned your sign ever,
Speaker 3: They really don't. They don't say anything just talking about you.
Speaker 3: And I think that's why it feels more personal because
Speaker 3: sometimes when you're reading those apps or like your third
Speaker 3: house is in Jupiter and you're like, what the fuck
Speaker 3: does that even mean? Like this just seems I don't know,
Speaker 3: and just what it says just is so accurate in
Speaker 3: so many ways.
Speaker 7: And childhood you can do compatibility charts with your friends,
Speaker 7: also with like my romantic partners. I haven't done I
Speaker 7: haven't done learning yet, but you know, like you put
Speaker 7: it in so many ways.
Speaker 5: I did Iri, and it was crazy. Iri.
Speaker 3: It almost made me feel like it gave me like
Speaker 3: some sort of like insight guide into her future in
Speaker 3: some way that I can like help guide her and
Speaker 3: encourage things more that I already have seen. Like I'm
Speaker 3: already starting to see the things that they were saying,
Speaker 3: like you know, how she'll be when she's grown, or
Speaker 3: like the things that might hold her back, you know.
Speaker 3: And I was like, this is so interesting, and so
Speaker 3: it kind of like, oh my god. I had a
Speaker 3: few friends downloaded and they're like, this is fucked up.
Speaker 3: This fucked up my day.
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, one of my friends was pissed.
Speaker 6: Yeah.
Speaker 3: I had a few two friends like fuck this shit
Speaker 3: and read at your own risk.
Speaker 5: But anyway, how do we get on to the pattern? Oh?
Speaker 7: Oh, the moon are really weird conversations. But yeah, there
Speaker 7: was definitely a shift.
Speaker 5: And what did you feel, Like, what kind of shift
Speaker 5: do you feel now?
Speaker 7: Like, I don't know how I feel you still feel
Speaker 7: a shift?
Speaker 3: Yeah, I just now I'm thinking about what that guy
Speaker 3: called and told me because okay, so this guy that
Speaker 3: I used to really, oh my god, be like head
Speaker 3: over crazy and love with I thought.
Speaker 5: Speaking of witch, what I ran.
Speaker 3: I ran into that girl last night, the one we
Speaker 3: met at the party, the singing girl bitch. I swear
Speaker 3: to god, she's at my cousin's house last night last night,
Speaker 3: and she was, oh, my god, I forgot to tell you.
Speaker 5: What the one I said, yes, and I was like,
Speaker 5: do you sing?
Speaker 3: I was like, wait, I met you at like a
Speaker 3: house in Encino one time. She's like, oh, you know,
Speaker 3: you know And I was like, yeah, you know, Jamila
Speaker 3: and she was like, oh, yeah, I.
Speaker 5: Know, Jamila. I was like, whoa, this is too much.
Speaker 5: But the ship that's been.
Speaker 3: Like this ship has been, the witchy shit that's been
Speaker 3: transpiring is really crazy weird. I feel like it's the
Speaker 3: it's God, the universe telling us get out of your
Speaker 3: witchy ship because you can have whatever you want.
Speaker 5: It's strange because it's like just popping up.
Speaker 3: I'm telling you that Thursday, getting both of that phone
Speaker 3: call thing, I was like, this is so strange. We're
Speaker 3: in tune with the shifts and we're noticing that things
Speaker 3: don't just happened. Conversations like that don't just you know
Speaker 3: what I'm saying. There's just things that are like it's
Speaker 3: like playing a video game and new levels are unlocking.
Speaker 7: You protected that shot song like getting ding ding ding ding,
Speaker 7: like wafe forgetting We're getting it.
Speaker 5: Oh, it's crazy.
Speaker 6: Yeah, I know, I can't believe that.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I didn't mean to interrupt you, but I was
Speaker 5: just like, oh my.
Speaker 6: God, oh no, this guy I was like so psycho
Speaker 6: in love with.
Speaker 5: Who whatever.
Speaker 7: It was pretty brief and kind of made me feel
Speaker 7: like I was crazy, and I was pretty sure that
Speaker 7: person put a spell on me, which I'm I don't
Speaker 7: even know if it's still not true. And finally, it's
Speaker 7: been like a long ass time, like years, just gradually
Speaker 7: out of the blue called me and was like.
Speaker 5: Can I talk to you?
Speaker 7: You know, I just want to know if you feel
Speaker 7: that with anybody else, because I'm having a hard time,
Speaker 7: like I feel like there's nothing that's going to measure
Speaker 7: up to what we experience.
Speaker 6: This nigga has never.
Speaker 3: Even acknowledged that it happened. I thought I was bad
Speaker 3: shit crazy.
Speaker 7: I'm like, okay, I'm I must be crazy, I must
Speaker 7: be really gullible. But anyway, that conversation happens. So now
Speaker 7: I've just been thinking about that, which is really fucking annoying.
Speaker 5: But it's so crazy, I don't know.
Speaker 7: But I also feel good that I'm like in a
Speaker 7: stronger place to look at it, because I'm like, that's nice.
Speaker 5: And all.
Speaker 3: No.
Speaker 7: I got over it the first time though, because I
Speaker 7: mean even you know, I knew I wasn't crazy, but
Speaker 7: I was just like, sometimes.
Speaker 5: You just need that acknowledgment.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean that's really what it was about, you
Speaker 3: know that, Like you're like, Okay, I'm not like this needy,
Speaker 3: crazy person, Like this really happened. We shared something that's
Speaker 3: so real, felt big, you know.
Speaker 7: Right you even if it took two and a half
Speaker 7: years for you to acknowledge. Oh, thank you for not
Speaker 7: letting me think I'm fucking nuts because I was feeling crazy.
Speaker 7: But yeah, other than that thinking about that, which you
Speaker 7: know it waves, I feel good.
Speaker 6: I feel.
Speaker 7: Just really aware, hyper aware of myself even when I
Speaker 7: don't want to be m hm. And I just feel
Speaker 7: a shift that the shift that's happening, and I'm with it.
Speaker 5: I'm on board.
Speaker 7: And so I feel like even when bord shit happens,
Speaker 7: I'm like, Okay, I see it and I'm looking at
Speaker 7: it and that's all I can do.
Speaker 6: How about you? How do you feel?
Speaker 5: I feel on board too. I'm just like I want
Speaker 5: to be better.
Speaker 3: You know. It's this weird like weird like obsession sort
Speaker 3: of and I'm not always when I'm failing a.
Speaker 5: Lot all the time.
Speaker 3: But I want to, you know what I mean, and
Speaker 3: like I felt, I feel like the conversation that I
Speaker 3: had was basically, you know, a shift in my relationship
Speaker 3: that I'm by like non dating relationship, you know, not
Speaker 3: non dating, non boyfriend relationship, non titled, non titled relationship.
Speaker 5: And you know it's just like, really give me.
Speaker 3: I feel like I kept questioning, why is it that
Speaker 3: sometimes I feel so overwhelmed by it? And like sometimes
Speaker 3: I'm cool about it, I'm so excited about it, and
Speaker 3: other times I feel totally overwhelmed by it, and I
Speaker 3: feel like it's because in some capacity I feel like
Speaker 3: I'm not ready and also that I need to explore
Speaker 3: I'm not valuing my.
Speaker 5: Still don't value myself all the way. I don't know.
Speaker 3: I've realized that in this relationship. But it's not really
Speaker 3: to anything. That's his fault. He's done nothing to me,
Speaker 3: he has no part in it. It's me not valuing myself,
Speaker 3: you know what I mean, Like going above and beyond
Speaker 3: when it's not necessary, he's not asking me to do that,
Speaker 3: and then feeling disappointed if it's not reciprocated.
Speaker 5: You know what I mean.
Speaker 3: It's like obviously still having standards and wanting things like
Speaker 3: having expectations, expectations not even expectations, like things that you
Speaker 3: should you want in a partner you hope that they
Speaker 3: would do because you feel like they should they want to,
Speaker 3: or or at least the person that is for you
Speaker 3: would do. You know what I mean, That person just
Speaker 3: might not be for you just because he doesn't do
Speaker 3: that doesn't mean whatever. So I I just I feel
Speaker 3: like I'm really hyper focused on my value right now,
Speaker 3: and like it's like kind of like emotional and painful.
Speaker 5: It is.
Speaker 3: The journey is because it's like embarrassing sometimes to think
Speaker 3: how much I don't that I haven't valued myself in
Speaker 3: a way, Like.
Speaker 5: How could I Who am I? Yeah?
Speaker 6: I thought I was this this and that am I strong?
Speaker 6: This is who I project myself to be.
Speaker 5: Right yeah, and a lot of that.
Speaker 3: But it's like it's all I feel what I've realized.
Speaker 3: It's all in practice. You have to just keep It's
Speaker 3: not something that one day you just like, Okay, now
Speaker 3: I value myself. No, it's like a constant check in,
Speaker 3: like like get.
Speaker 5: That out of your mind.
Speaker 3: It's really the mental part of it. Get that out
Speaker 3: of your mind, Get that out of your mind.
Speaker 5: Stop.
Speaker 3: No, no, no, it's like that's not true. That's not true,
Speaker 3: you know anyway, And so I feel like I'm just
Speaker 3: going through like this, like I'm trying to like unfuck
Speaker 3: my brain right now pretty much about like how I
Speaker 3: value myself. It's because I value myself differently with different
Speaker 3: people too, Like the way I value myself with like
Speaker 3: my mom is different than like how I value myself
Speaker 3: with my dad, or like how I value myself in
Speaker 3: a relationship with your dad, Like I think my value
Speaker 3: with my mom, you know, I mean, like I don't
Speaker 3: know how to describe it, Like first of all, you
Speaker 3: know my dad didn't yes, no.
Speaker 5: No, no, open it.
Speaker 6: Oh my god?
Speaker 5: Is I love pop?
Speaker 6: I want that?
Speaker 5: Oh my god. You can tell she's been maading a
Speaker 5: stugar how she's yelling. They're always okay, give me five minutes. Okay,
Speaker 5: does anybody else's minutes? Just five minutes? Okay?
Speaker 3: Well if you want to eat that, if you want
Speaker 3: to eat that, you better give me five minutes.
Speaker 5: Please, Oh god, Okay, we gotta end this ship.
Speaker 7: Enough about it, our deep journeys to self healing anyway,
Speaker 7: they don't care.
Speaker 5: Don't you want to know how I want to value myself?
Speaker 5: I value myself?
Speaker 3: Oh shit, anyway, that's how I feel like. I just
Speaker 3: feel like I'm really focused on that my value in
Speaker 3: all capacities, money wise, career wise, relationship wise, myself.
Speaker 5: How I value myself? You know what I mean?
Speaker 3: Like the choices you make even when you known your gut.
Speaker 5: You're like, oh, I shouldn't do this, but I don't
Speaker 5: give a fuck.
Speaker 3: Because I this is because it feels good I feel.
Speaker 3: But if you value yourself, you eat healthy, you make
Speaker 3: the right decisions, you get into sleep, you.
Speaker 5: Make those You choose to do something that's uncomfortable.
Speaker 6: Right, yeah, I'm right there with you.
Speaker 3: Choose to do something uncomfortable and then until it doesn't
Speaker 3: feel like choosing anymore.
Speaker 7: Yes, and uncomfortable is not comfortable, so it's hard.
Speaker 5: Yeah, it's like until it doesn't feel like choosing. Okay,
Speaker 5: there you go. Thanks, you're welcome. Thanks, thanks? Mm hmmm?
Speaker 5: Why did I take my hair out of what I didn't? Oh?
Speaker 5: Because because you did last time? Is take you out?
Speaker 3: Oh?
Speaker 5: Oh yeah? Why is it taking so long?
Speaker 7: Okay?
Speaker 5: Bye?
Speaker 6: Beat it? You have something there? No, you don't need
Speaker 6: a lot.
Speaker 3: You have had candy, all right, beat it bye, all right,
Speaker 3: go on, guys, we'll be in there in five minutes. Okay, okay,
Speaker 3: thank you. Can you close that door? Please be careful
Speaker 3: crawling over it? Okay, okay, Jesus close that thank you anyway. Yeah,
Speaker 3: it's hard. It's hard.
Speaker 6: You're saying, how you fail yourself with your Momrida.
Speaker 3: Oh uh, I don't know.
Speaker 5: It's just it's hard to explain. It's like.
Speaker 3: My mom, I think I feel more important to my
Speaker 3: mom than my dad in a way, like how they
Speaker 3: but that's not true your value and then but I
Speaker 3: know that's not that's not true. But yeah, and then
Speaker 3: in relationships obviously it's just like you know, just not
Speaker 3: valuing yourself, like go doing ship when someone doesn't deserve that,
Speaker 3: you know what I mean? Or like who maybe hasn't
Speaker 3: shown you the same, Yeah, it hasn't shown you, and
Speaker 3: continuing to do it and getting hurt over and over
Speaker 3: again by it, but it can still continuing to.
Speaker 6: Do it because it's like kind of good.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm kind of like or you're hoping that if
Speaker 3: I keep doing you know, it's just so looking for
Speaker 3: that validation that's it's like that's not fair to them,
Speaker 3: that's just who they are, and maybe that's just not yea.
Speaker 5: But yeah, so that's really like where I feel the shift.
Speaker 3: And I also just feel very I feel very I
Speaker 3: don't know, like focused on like work, but also this
Speaker 3: and it feels like it's just flowing.
Speaker 5: I don't know how to describe it. Like I'm not worried.
Speaker 7: I read a recently and I said not to worry
Speaker 7: about any of those things.
Speaker 3: Like I feel like I'm on the right path and
Speaker 3: as long as I just continue doing what I'm doing,
Speaker 3: it's gonna be Okay, We're gonna do something. It's gonna
Speaker 3: we're gonna figure it out. And I feel like that
Speaker 3: in like a lot of aspects of my life. I
Speaker 3: feel like getting lost at Coachella, yeah, I was like,
Speaker 3: we're gonna get there.
Speaker 6: I'm gonna find one day.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 3: I just feel very connected to like I don't know,
Speaker 3: there's not I don't I feel like a bit fearless.
Speaker 3: And I realized I feel a bit fearless because of
Speaker 3: the decision that I made on that phone call, you
Speaker 3: know what I mean, Like there's something in me that's
Speaker 3: like shifting and it's like be brave, do this, go
Speaker 3: against that. You're You're gonna be fine regardless, you know
Speaker 3: what I mean. If it's meant, if it's meant to
Speaker 3: come back, it'll come back. And if not, there's more,
Speaker 3: you know, there's more.
Speaker 5: You know.
Speaker 3: It's that's like kind of like where I'm what I'm
Speaker 3: feeling so much out there there really is and we
Speaker 3: get so like drawn to the first thing that like
Speaker 3: makes us feel something, and I don't want to do that,
Speaker 3: you know, not and no and not no disrespect to
Speaker 3: my you know that situation because it's deep, you know,
Speaker 3: very very deep. And but I feel like I'm excited
Speaker 3: because we are exploring the different facets of our relationship.
Speaker 3: You know, we know we have romance, we know we
Speaker 3: have a connection for sure, that's undeniable. But giving ourselves
Speaker 3: time to like also focus on friendship is something that we.
Speaker 5: Don't ever do.
Speaker 3: And even now, like it's just like it takes time
Speaker 3: to realize the things that you maybe do or don't
Speaker 3: like about somebody because there's like this super intense fog
Speaker 3: period in the beginning where it's like desire, passion, sex, intimacy, oh, attention, urgency, attention, validation, validation, validation,
Speaker 3: because you're getting all this attention.
Speaker 5: It's new, it's exciting that news, that new spark.
Speaker 3: You know that now like the smoke settles and it's like, okay,
Speaker 3: that's still there, you know, but what else? And also
Speaker 3: are we ready for this even more? I don't know,
Speaker 3: you know, I don't know.
Speaker 5: I don't think. I don't I don't think I am.
Speaker 3: It's like about making the adult decision something in like that,
Speaker 3: Like the old Erica that loves to be in a
Speaker 3: relationship is okay, I'll get in a second. The old
Speaker 3: Erica would have been would just be like, oh, fuck it,
Speaker 3: like just go with it, go be your girlfriend again.
Speaker 3: You know you're in love, don't go against your just
Speaker 3: do it feels good. And then now I'm like, no,
Speaker 3: take your time. Like even though something in me it
Speaker 3: can easily fall into something like that, I'm just like, no,
Speaker 3: take your time, take your time. So that's what I'm doing,
Speaker 3: and it feels I just feel connected, just like I'm like,
Speaker 3: and it's gonna be okay either way.
Speaker 5: Everything's all good. You know, everything's all good even if
Speaker 5: it isn't.
Speaker 3: But anyway, we gotta bounce, y'all, because I'm leaving town
Speaker 3: in the morning and I gotta pack.
Speaker 5: And I gotta fucking do a lot of ship.
Speaker 7: So yeah, okay, donkie, Well we'll catch you next week.
Speaker 5: I have a wonderful week and okay, oh my god. Okay.
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Speaker 5: Cause Coachella was definitely good.
Speaker 3: Bag could have went bad, but it was pretty good.
Speaker 3: It was pretty good, alright, y'all.
Speaker 5: Bye?
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