WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Two's Company, Three's An Intervention

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I think we officially did it. Welcome to the

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<v Speaker 1>Second Date Podcast with Brook and Jeffrey in the morning. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>we are officially ranked on Spotify number thirty third. Wait

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<v Speaker 1>is that how you say?

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<v Speaker 2>Nope, that's funny you lost us a spot bron Also,

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<v Speaker 2>this is not a brag.

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<v Speaker 1>We're the thirty third best comedy podcast and we love

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<v Speaker 1>that you love this and we just want to let

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<v Speaker 1>and Jeffrey many other bits.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, any other phone stuff, a little more.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, now, let's get it.

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<v Speaker 1>Do your favorite the Second Day podcast.

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<v Speaker 2>Second Date up Date. I'm not sure if you guys

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<v Speaker 2>remember this, but about six months ago, we did an

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<v Speaker 2>awkward Tuesday phone call with a listener named Kevin who

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<v Speaker 2>wanted to ask out his coworker and he was super

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<v Speaker 2>nervous about it needed our advice. The call wasn't perfect, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>he had some stumbles along the way, but she's sound

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<v Speaker 2>like every call that we do absolutely flawless.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm tried to remember what happened.

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<v Speaker 2>In the end, she did say yes and agree to

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<v Speaker 2>a date with him. I guess, I don't know. It

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<v Speaker 2>was a yes, Okaytom. Now apparently they went out a

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<v Speaker 2>few times, things fizzled, didn't quite last. So Kevin has

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<v Speaker 2>jumped back into the beautiful oasis we call the modern

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<v Speaker 2>dating pool. And again, that was months ago. So Kevin,

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<v Speaker 2>how's it been. Have you had a lot of dates

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<v Speaker 2>in that time?

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<v Speaker 4>Like ten ten.

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<v Speaker 2>Ten days? You do dates in the last two years?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you doing some work? Congratulations, you're a catch.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, but I actually haven't had a second date.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh but is that from your choosing, Like maybe you

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<v Speaker 1>didn't want to go out again with any of them.

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<v Speaker 4>No, I would have been happy to go out with

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<v Speaker 4>really any of them again.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh okay, okay, that's hard.

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<v Speaker 1>Here, we're going to help you.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, they haven't been the greatest. I actually had a

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<v Speaker 4>really bad one. Yeah. She was a nice girl, I thought,

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<v Speaker 4>But when I walked her out to her car, opened

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<v Speaker 4>the door and then she just suck her punched me,

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<v Speaker 4>and then drove off.

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<v Speaker 2>Wait what did you say? Sorry? I did not expect

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<v Speaker 2>that sentence. That is terrible face. Did she punch you?

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<v Speaker 2>In the face.

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<v Speaker 4>It was actually in the back of my head. I

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<v Speaker 4>was opening her door, and then all of a sudden,

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<v Speaker 4>I just felt this, like, why did.

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<v Speaker 2>You ask permission to open the door for her? Because

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<v Speaker 2>she mayn't really if not liked that you weren't fast

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<v Speaker 2>enough for her.

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<v Speaker 4>Maybe so I don't know if she thought I was

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<v Speaker 4>going to kiss her or.

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<v Speaker 2>Your head, How are you going to kiss her? Maybe

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<v Speaker 2>she thought that you were trying to steal her car, so.

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<v Speaker 1>It has to be a self defense.

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<v Speaker 2>He's not like they give me the keys.

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<v Speaker 4>I know, wasn't that bad.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know. Some people give off natural grand theft

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<v Speaker 2>auto five, so maybe you fell into that category.

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<v Speaker 1>Just ask for you Okay, now I am yeah, confused.

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<v Speaker 2>So with sucker punch girl, the one you want us

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<v Speaker 2>to call for a second date date?

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<v Speaker 1>No, we'll call her.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, who do you want to call?

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<v Speaker 4>I've had this really bad luck until I met Chelsea?

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<v Speaker 2>Chelsea, Okay, it's a new girl.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, okay, no physical silence.

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<v Speaker 2>I hope you'll tell us about your I'm assuming you

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<v Speaker 2>went on a date with Chelsea.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, she didn't punch me.

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<v Speaker 2>That's actually we're perfect. We're improving.

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<v Speaker 4>I thought it was a good sign, and we connected

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<v Speaker 4>the best out of all of the first dates I

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<v Speaker 4>went on.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, what made important?

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<v Speaker 1>What made it the best?

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<v Speaker 4>I just felt like I could talk to her because,

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<v Speaker 4>like when we went on our coffee date, it was

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<v Speaker 4>a good conversation, even though it didn't last very long. Okay,

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<v Speaker 4>it was actually like twenty minutes.

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<v Speaker 1>Why was it so short?

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<v Speaker 4>You know, I'm not really sure my friends got by

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<v Speaker 4>and by your friend? Yeah, I don't really know why.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, so you had a friend come by randomly and

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<v Speaker 2>you talk to the friend a little bit, and you

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<v Speaker 2>feel like maybe she got offended that the attention was

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<v Speaker 2>taken away from her.

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<v Speaker 4>I make I don't know, that would be weird to me.

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<v Speaker 1>She got a friend in what happens if you're only

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<v Speaker 1>there for twenty minutes and you have a five minute

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<v Speaker 1>conversation with a friend, that's one fourth of the date.

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<v Speaker 2>They were't trying to play it off. Hey Brooke, good

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<v Speaker 2>to see you here.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, are too successful and beautiful.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like I normally wouldn't ask this, but I

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<v Speaker 2>feel like I need to know Chelsea. She's not the barista, right,

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<v Speaker 2>You're not considering that a date. That's creative like, she

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<v Speaker 2>doesn't work there.

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<v Speaker 4>No, she doesn't work there.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, that's a good question. So how did it end? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>after the twenty minutes? How did you two leave it?

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<v Speaker 4>She said she had to do something, so we got

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<v Speaker 4>up and left, and I yes, that was kind of

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<v Speaker 4>weird too, because I was kind of like behind her

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<v Speaker 4>for a couple of blocks while she what.

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<v Speaker 2>Away the same direction.

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<v Speaker 1>That's like the most awkward thing ever.

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<v Speaker 2>And then she started to jog, and then you started

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<v Speaker 2>to jog. You're like, hey, I'm gonna run up someone.

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<v Speaker 2>Weird chases you.

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<v Speaker 4>End up. I lost her, I lost you, I.

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<v Speaker 1>Think, yeah, that's did she know you were back there?

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<v Speaker 4>I don't think so. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, but you weren't following her. That was just a coincidence.

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<v Speaker 2>You have the same route home, Dude.

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<v Speaker 1>I hate that, even when that happens with my friends

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<v Speaker 1>and we're saying good bye at the restaurant and then

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<v Speaker 1>we're like, yeah, oh okay, this.

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<v Speaker 4>Later, get it? You get it all right?

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<v Speaker 2>So how long has it been since this twenty minute date?

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<v Speaker 4>I credit two weeks?

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<v Speaker 1>Two weeks, okay? And have you reached out much with her?

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<v Speaker 4>I was texting her quite a bit.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we may.

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<v Speaker 2>We might. We might find out if you've crossed any

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<v Speaker 2>lines or how many texts you've actually sent when we

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<v Speaker 2>call her here. I think it's more how far he

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<v Speaker 2>did cross them, or maybe they were right in that

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<v Speaker 2>sweet spot. We don't know, Brooke. Remember when you said

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<v Speaker 2>you had hope.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I do have hope as long as you didn't

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<v Speaker 1>send her a picture of the back of her head

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<v Speaker 1>as she was walking away.

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<v Speaker 2>From you on the He was just trying to make

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<v Speaker 2>sure she doesn't get sucker punched back there. I was

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<v Speaker 2>gonna say.

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<v Speaker 4>When I was on last time, Brooke, you told me

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<v Speaker 4>to be more certain, so I'm really trying to be here.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Sota, he follows ladies in their car.

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<v Speaker 1>There's a balance that we need to discuss.

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<v Speaker 2>But maybe period and weren't trying to be weird. You

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<v Speaker 2>were just trying to walk to your car.

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<v Speaker 1>And maybe that's not why she's not calling me back

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<v Speaker 1>at all.

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<v Speaker 2>We're making stuff. Okay, Well, let's call her and use

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<v Speaker 2>that assertion to aggressively get you a second date. When

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<v Speaker 2>we called Chelsea right after this hold.

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<v Speaker 5>On second date update, don't you hate it when you're

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<v Speaker 5>on a first date and the girl says she has

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<v Speaker 5>to go, and you accidentally follow her all the way home.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh no, Jef, I think it.

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<v Speaker 1>Was only three blocks to be fair, I mean enough

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<v Speaker 1>blocks to be alarming.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but you lost her. That's what happened to our listener, Kevin.

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<v Speaker 2>Sort of. He wasn't following his date Chelsea on purpose.

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<v Speaker 2>They just left the coffee shop at the same time,

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<v Speaker 2>and he coincidentally was walking behind her on the street

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<v Speaker 2>for a long, long while.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, yeah, at any point, did you think I

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<v Speaker 1>should take a different route.

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<v Speaker 2>Or just stop for a second, No, stop hoping? He

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<v Speaker 2>didn't think speed up, catch.

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<v Speaker 4>Up with her.

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<v Speaker 2>Did that thought come to your mind at all, Kevin,

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<v Speaker 2>any of those?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, well I didn't think it was that weird, And

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<v Speaker 4>so I've been thinking about it, like while we were

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<v Speaker 4>on hold, and I think you should tell her that

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<v Speaker 4>I didn't intentionally walk behind her, because I really did it.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, So you want you want us to let her know.

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<v Speaker 4>That, Okay, yeah, okay, okay.

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<v Speaker 2>We're not exactly sure what happened there. We just know

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<v Speaker 2>that the date was only twenty minutes long, which is

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<v Speaker 2>kind of short to get to know someone that's honestly

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<v Speaker 2>the bigger concern for me, like why did she only

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<v Speaker 2>stay for twenty minutes? The following is a totally different story.

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<v Speaker 2>If you've ever in a hurry, why would you even

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<v Speaker 2>schedule a date during that time?

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<v Speaker 1>They're just trying to squeeze it in and it's like

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<v Speaker 1>one of those pre dates or it's just like a

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<v Speaker 1>quick coffee, like will this be worth a full night?

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<v Speaker 2>You didn't catfish her with like a photo of Liam Hemsworth,

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<v Speaker 2>did you, because you do sound like a Liam to

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<v Speaker 2>me right now kind of hunky.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm actually bushing right now, but no.

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<v Speaker 2>Coulda fooled me. Let's call Chelsea here. We'll see if

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<v Speaker 2>we can get an explanation from her if she picks up,

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<v Speaker 2>all right, here we go. Hello, Hey is this Chelsea?

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<v Speaker 3>This is calling?

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<v Speaker 2>This is a radio show calling called Brook and Jeffrey

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<v Speaker 2>in the Morning. Hey, Chelsea, what what?

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<v Speaker 4>What is this? This is?

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<v Speaker 2>For some of us, it's fun. It's a segment we

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<v Speaker 2>do call the second Date Update and we're looking.

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<v Speaker 1>To Sorry, okay, she's just listening, Okay, just actively listening.

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<v Speaker 2>By interrupting me. But let's okay, we're trying to help

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<v Speaker 2>out one of our listeners that you went out on

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<v Speaker 2>a date with recently. He says he had a really

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<v Speaker 2>good time with you, but it ended kind of short.

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<v Speaker 2>His name is Kevin.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, I'm hoping that was a smile and not a laugh.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, sens. We're calling because Kevin told us a little

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<v Speaker 2>bit about your guys' date coffee date, coffee date, and

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<v Speaker 2>from what we heard, it sounded pretty fun.

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<v Speaker 1>Tame short.

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<v Speaker 3>That was two weeks ago.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but he.

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<v Speaker 1>Liked you, He thought you were awesome. He wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>see you again.

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<v Speaker 2>He said. He's been pursuing it actually and texting you,

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<v Speaker 2>trying to organize something, but he doesn't understand why nothing's happening.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, he has sent me quite a few texts, but

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<v Speaker 3>I guess I'm confused as to why he doesn't understand

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<v Speaker 3>why he start moving forward.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you write him back?

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<v Speaker 4>He?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I guess we never asked if you ever

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<v Speaker 1>texted him back?

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<v Speaker 2>Or is it that obvious?

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<v Speaker 3>From my perspective, he was pretty obviously.

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<v Speaker 2>The only idea that he had about the date about

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<v Speaker 2>why it would have ended so quickly is he did mention.

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<v Speaker 2>One of his friends stopped by and.

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<v Speaker 3>Said, hi, U, that's what he said. He he said

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<v Speaker 3>a friend stops by.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, really quick.

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<v Speaker 1>So you think that they were actually friends?

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<v Speaker 2>Was an enemy? Was it his X?

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<v Speaker 1>No?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, as far as I know, I don't think

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<v Speaker 3>it was an ex. But I don't know. Thirty seconds

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<v Speaker 3>a minute into us meeting at the coffee shop, this

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<v Speaker 3>guy comes over and sits like right next to us,

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<v Speaker 3>isn't looking at me at all. So I asked Kevin.

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, Hi, can we introduce him? He's like, well, no, no, don't.

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<v Speaker 3>He's not engaged in the conversation. He's just my emotional

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<v Speaker 3>support friend.

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<v Speaker 2>Emotional support friend.

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<v Speaker 3>So originally I thought he might have been kidding, and

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<v Speaker 3>so I laugh and he's like, it's not funny. This

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<v Speaker 3>is Charles. I've had a couple of poor dates, and

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<v Speaker 3>Charles is really there to just kind of help me

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<v Speaker 3>with my confidence and communicate more effectively to you. Like

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, I think it's maybe I had been given

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<v Speaker 3>a heads up, I would have been more open to

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<v Speaker 3>the idea.

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<v Speaker 2>Emotional support friend.

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<v Speaker 1>Vest that's amazing that he can find a friend that

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<v Speaker 1>will take the time to go on a day with him.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, but I'll say I think that that says

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<v Speaker 1>a lot about Vin, that he must be a.

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<v Speaker 2>Good Charles sitting on his phone.

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<v Speaker 1>Is he just listening taking.

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<v Speaker 2>We got the impression that he just popped in real

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<v Speaker 2>quick and left.

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<v Speaker 3>No, oh, not at all. He was there the whole time.

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<v Speaker 3>He wasn't really engaging in the conversation. He was just there.

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<v Speaker 1>Did he hype Kevin up? Ever?

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<v Speaker 2>You know, like he's not.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, he laughed at some of the things that

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<v Speaker 3>Kevin said, but beyond that, there wasn't much in our action.

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<v Speaker 1>Everybody needs a good backup la friend Charles a few

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<v Speaker 1>tables over.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we didn't know that was how it played out.

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<v Speaker 2>We got a little bit of a different version of

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<v Speaker 2>that story on.

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<v Speaker 1>The phone too.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, because, oh my god, we have an emotional support

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<v Speaker 2>friend quietly listening on the other line right now, just

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<v Speaker 2>to make sure that I do a good job with

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<v Speaker 2>this segment. And that person is Kevin.

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<v Speaker 1>Kevin's here.

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<v Speaker 3>What he's on the phone?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and he's really actually he wants to talk in

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<v Speaker 2>this conversation. So I'm going to give him permission to

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<v Speaker 2>jump in and say something. Okay, I don't know if

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<v Speaker 2>he's there, Kevin.

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<v Speaker 4>You there, Yeah, I'm here.

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<v Speaker 1>How you doing, buddy.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm good. I'm just I'm listening. Yeah, I don't understand

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<v Speaker 4>what the big deal is really, Kevin.

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<v Speaker 2>When did you get an emotional support bro? You didn't

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<v Speaker 2>tell us about that?

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<v Speaker 3>Well?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I mean, a friend is a friend. He doesn't

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<v Speaker 4>need like a title or any sounds like.

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<v Speaker 2>You gave him a title. You you called him your

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<v Speaker 2>emotional support friend.

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<v Speaker 1>Keviny brought him along on the date and didn't tell

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<v Speaker 1>us the whole time.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, yes, he was there, but he was there

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<v Speaker 4>for me.

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<v Speaker 2>Sure, Chelsea, do you see where he's coming from?

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<v Speaker 3>I guess. I mean, but you kind of have to

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<v Speaker 3>put my like yourself in my shoes, Kevin. It's it's

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<v Speaker 3>a little bizarre to just have a third person there

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<v Speaker 3>without kind of giving the heads up why and not

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<v Speaker 3>engaging really in the conversation.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, are you mad because he didn't laugh at your

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<v Speaker 4>jokes and he has I'd be mad.

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<v Speaker 2>That's a good question, guys, Chelsea.

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<v Speaker 3>No, not really. I don't think I was particularly funny

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<v Speaker 3>because I was kind of creeped out by the whole thing.

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<v Speaker 2>I told so many jokes and.

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<v Speaker 1>Just I mean, Kevin, do you think that maybe you

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<v Speaker 1>could have told her prior to the date that he

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<v Speaker 1>was coming along?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, he's going to be right.

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<v Speaker 4>I didn't need to tell her because he wasn't going

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<v Speaker 4>to do anything. Like, he's just the wallpaper. He's going

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<v Speaker 4>to be there now for me.

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<v Speaker 2>So what I think, Kevin, Chelsea is saying that it's

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<v Speaker 2>hard for her to connect romantically with you.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't even mean romantically, I just mean as a

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<v Speaker 3>person to person. It's just it's hard.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Kevin, it's a little bit distracting, Kevin.

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe he's waiting for Charles to.

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<v Speaker 5>Responds Charles speak up right now.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, so it's a little bit distracting. I guess it is.

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<v Speaker 4>But like the thing is, I can tell him to

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<v Speaker 4>do whatever I want. Does that make sense because I'm

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<v Speaker 4>the one that's paying him? Oh? You paying? I mean okay, yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>he was technically not facing you for the time. But

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<v Speaker 4>I mean I could guess I could get him to

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<v Speaker 4>like face the wall if you really wanted.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I do think that would be better. That's that's

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<v Speaker 2>at least a good first step. Can we agree on that?

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<v Speaker 1>Awkward, Kevin?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, people need the rest of the day. But

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<v Speaker 2>the blindfolded a ball game, you can't see, you can't speak.

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<v Speaker 1>Both of you what emotional support is totally normal and

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<v Speaker 1>needs But let's get you a dog or.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, but dogs can't laugh at jokes exactly.

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<v Speaker 4>And it was a good date.

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<v Speaker 2>It wasn't.

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<v Speaker 3>Did you hear it wasn't a good date. I am

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<v Speaker 3>so sorry, y'all. I don't understand why this was even

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<v Speaker 3>a conversation. Is awkward and weird, and I've got to go.

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<v Speaker 3>I hope you all have a great day.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay. Sounds like you need an emotional support friend to

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<v Speaker 2>deal with that.

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<v Speaker 4>He keeps having to go and I think that's.

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<v Speaker 1>She's not interested. And I don't know that you're going

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<v Speaker 1>to find many that are interested when Charles.

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<v Speaker 2>Has to be there with you. But a dog, a

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<v Speaker 2>lot of women would be interested.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, emotional for animals are kind of weird. I prefer people.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Well maybe again, Maybe just follow her home again

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<v Speaker 2>and see if she stops looking Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 4>Man.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't say this about many people, but this show

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<v Speaker 2>is an open door for Kevin whenever he wants to

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<v Speaker 2>come back. He is officially a friend of the show,

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<v Speaker 2>even if he wasn't being one hundred per century full

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<v Speaker 2>with us about his emotional support friend. I like him

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<v Speaker 2>and I would let him follow me home anytime.

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<v Speaker 1>Is he the only one that pushes back on dogs

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<v Speaker 1>that people are better than dogs?

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<v Speaker 3>They're not Kevin.

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<v Speaker 2>People are your problem. Everybody agrees. All the people on

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<v Speaker 2>the text board, they're saying dogs.

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<v Speaker 1>Are better than be Yes, get the right emotional support.

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<v Speaker 2>Actually, wait, did his emotional support friend follow Chelsea home too?

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<v Speaker 2>I think of that.

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<v Speaker 1>So there's two dudes following If there's.

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<v Speaker 2>Two guys following you, now, I kind of understand the creepiness,

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<v Speaker 2>especially when he's talking to his friend and going, what

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<v Speaker 2>is the boy?

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<v Speaker 1>You didn't understand the creepiness when the guy was sitting

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<v Speaker 1>next to him staring at her.

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<v Speaker 2>The date itself was pretty odes. Yeah, I mean he's

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<v Speaker 2>just being supportive. No better ways, Yeah, better ways. You

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<v Speaker 2>should have done a FaceTime totally.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean he honestly could have had him on speakerphone

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<v Speaker 1>and just set the phone on the You know.

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<v Speaker 2>There's lots of life lessons to be taken from these segments,

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<v Speaker 2>and you can go find them online wherever you get

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<v Speaker 2>your podcast at Brook and Jeffrey and then email the show.

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<v Speaker 2>We can call that person who wasn't calling

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<v Speaker 4>You back, freaking Jeffrey in the morning, really