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Speaker 1: Well, I think we officially did it. Welcome to the

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Speaker 1: Second Date Podcast with Brook and Jeffrey in the morning. Yes,

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Speaker 1: we are officially ranked on Spotify number thirty third. Wait

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Speaker 2: Nope, that's funny you lost us a spot bron Also,

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Speaker 2: this is not a brag.

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Speaker 1: We're the thirty third best comedy podcast and we love

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Speaker 1: got like a full show, one hour, brand new every day,

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Speaker 1: forty five more minutes of this dumb humor. You could

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Speaker 1: have it. All you got to do is search Brooke

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Speaker 1: and Jeffrey many other bits.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, any other phone stuff, a little more.

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Speaker 2: All right, now, let's get it.

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Speaker 1: Do your favorite the Second Day podcast.

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Speaker 2: Second Date up Date. I'm not sure if you guys

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Speaker 2: remember this, but about six months ago, we did an

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Speaker 2: awkward Tuesday phone call with a listener named Kevin who

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Speaker 2: wanted to ask out his coworker and he was super

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Speaker 2: nervous about it needed our advice. The call wasn't perfect, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: he had some stumbles along the way, but she's sound

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Speaker 2: like every call that we do absolutely flawless.

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Speaker 1: I'm tried to remember what happened.

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Speaker 2: In the end, she did say yes and agree to

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Speaker 2: a date with him. I guess, I don't know. It

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Speaker 2: was a yes, Okaytom. Now apparently they went out a

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Speaker 2: few times, things fizzled, didn't quite last. So Kevin has

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Speaker 2: jumped back into the beautiful oasis we call the modern

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Speaker 2: dating pool. And again, that was months ago. So Kevin,

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Speaker 2: how's it been. Have you had a lot of dates

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Speaker 2: in that time?

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Speaker 4: Like ten ten.

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Speaker 2: Ten days? You do dates in the last two years?

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Speaker 1: Are you doing some work? Congratulations, you're a catch.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but I actually haven't had a second date.

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Speaker 1: Oh but is that from your choosing, Like maybe you

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Speaker 1: didn't want to go out again with any of them.

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Speaker 4: No, I would have been happy to go out with

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Speaker 2: Oh okay, okay, that's hard.

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Speaker 1: Here, we're going to help you.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, they haven't been the greatest. I actually had a

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Speaker 4: really bad one. Yeah. She was a nice girl, I thought,

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Speaker 4: But when I walked her out to her car, opened

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Speaker 2: Wait what did you say? Sorry? I did not expect

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Speaker 2: that sentence. That is terrible face. Did she punch you?

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Speaker 4: It was actually in the back of my head. I

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Speaker 4: I just felt this, like, why did.

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Speaker 2: You ask permission to open the door for her? Because

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Speaker 2: she mayn't really if not liked that you weren't fast

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Speaker 4: Maybe so I don't know if she thought I was

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Speaker 2: Your head, How are you going to kiss her? Maybe

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Speaker 2: she thought that you were trying to steal her car, so.

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Speaker 1: It has to be a self defense.

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Speaker 2: He's not like they give me the keys.

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Speaker 4: I know, wasn't that bad.

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Speaker 2: I don't know. Some people give off natural grand theft

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Speaker 1: Just ask for you Okay, now I am yeah, confused.

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Speaker 2: So with sucker punch girl, the one you want us

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Speaker 2: to call for a second date date?

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Speaker 1: No, we'll call her.

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Speaker 2: Well, who do you want to call?

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Speaker 4: I've had this really bad luck until I met Chelsea?

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Speaker 2: Chelsea, Okay, it's a new girl.

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Speaker 1: Hey, okay, no physical silence.

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Speaker 2: I hope you'll tell us about your I'm assuming you

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Speaker 2: went on a date with Chelsea.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, she didn't punch me.

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Speaker 2: That's actually we're perfect. We're improving.

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Speaker 4: I thought it was a good sign, and we connected

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Speaker 2: Okay, what made important?

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Speaker 1: What made it the best?

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Speaker 4: I just felt like I could talk to her because,

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Speaker 1: Why was it so short?

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Speaker 4: You know, I'm not really sure my friends got by

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Speaker 4: and by your friend? Yeah, I don't really know why.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so you had a friend come by randomly and

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Speaker 4: I make I don't know, that would be weird to me.

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Speaker 1: She got a friend in what happens if you're only

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Speaker 2: They were't trying to play it off. Hey Brooke, good

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Speaker 2: to see you here.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, are too successful and beautiful.

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Speaker 2: I feel like I normally wouldn't ask this, but I

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Speaker 2: You're not considering that a date. That's creative like, she

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Speaker 4: No, she doesn't work there.

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Speaker 2: Okay, that's a good question. So how did it end? Yeah,

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Speaker 4: She said she had to do something, so we got

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Speaker 1: That's like the most awkward thing ever.

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Speaker 2: And then she started to jog, and then you started

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Speaker 2: Weird chases you.

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Speaker 4: End up. I lost her, I lost you, I.

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Speaker 1: Think, yeah, that's did she know you were back there?

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Speaker 4: I don't think so. I don't know.

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Speaker 2: Okay, but you weren't following her. That was just a coincidence.

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Speaker 2: You have the same route home, Dude.

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Speaker 1: I hate that, even when that happens with my friends

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Speaker 4: Later, get it? You get it all right?

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Speaker 2: So how long has it been since this twenty minute date?

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Speaker 4: I credit two weeks?

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Speaker 1: Two weeks, okay? And have you reached out much with her?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we may.

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Speaker 2: We might. We might find out if you've crossed any

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Speaker 2: call her here. I think it's more how far he

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Speaker 2: sweet spot. We don't know, Brooke. Remember when you said

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Speaker 2: you had hope.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I do have hope as long as you didn't

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Speaker 1: as she was walking away.

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Speaker 2: From you on the He was just trying to make

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Speaker 4: When I was on last time, Brooke, you told me

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Sota, he follows ladies in their car.

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Speaker 1: There's a balance that we need to discuss.

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Speaker 2: But maybe period and weren't trying to be weird. You

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Speaker 1: And maybe that's not why she's not calling me back

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Speaker 2: We're making stuff. Okay, Well, let's call her and use

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Speaker 2: that assertion to aggressively get you a second date. When

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Speaker 2: we called Chelsea right after this hold.

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Speaker 5: On second date update, don't you hate it when you're

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Speaker 5: on a first date and the girl says she has

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Speaker 2: Oh no, Jef, I think it.

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Speaker 1: Was only three blocks to be fair, I mean enough

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but you lost her. That's what happened to our listener, Kevin.

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Speaker 2: Sort of. He wasn't following his date Chelsea on purpose.

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Speaker 2: They just left the coffee shop at the same time,

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Speaker 2: and he coincidentally was walking behind her on the street

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Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, at any point, did you think I

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Speaker 2: Or just stop for a second, No, stop hoping? He

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Speaker 4: Up with her.

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Speaker 2: Did that thought come to your mind at all, Kevin,

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Speaker 4: Yeah, well I didn't think it was that weird, And

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Speaker 4: so I've been thinking about it, like while we were

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Speaker 4: I didn't intentionally walk behind her, because I really did it.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So you want you want us to let her know.

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Speaker 2: We're not exactly sure what happened there. We just know

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Speaker 2: kind of short to get to know someone that's honestly

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Speaker 2: stay for twenty minutes? The following is a totally different story.

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Speaker 2: If you've ever in a hurry, why would you even

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Speaker 1: They're just trying to squeeze it in and it's like

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Speaker 2: You didn't catfish her with like a photo of Liam Hemsworth,

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Speaker 4: I'm actually bushing right now, but no.

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Speaker 2: Coulda fooled me. Let's call Chelsea here. We'll see if

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Speaker 2: we can get an explanation from her if she picks up,

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Speaker 2: all right, here we go. Hello, Hey is this Chelsea?

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Speaker 3: This is calling?

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Speaker 2: This is a radio show calling called Brook and Jeffrey

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Speaker 2: in the Morning. Hey, Chelsea, what what?

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Speaker 4: What is this? This is?

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Speaker 2: For some of us, it's fun. It's a segment we

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Speaker 2: do call the second Date Update and we're looking.

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Speaker 1: To Sorry, okay, she's just listening, Okay, just actively listening.

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Speaker 2: By interrupting me. But let's okay, we're trying to help

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Speaker 2: out one of our listeners that you went out on

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Speaker 2: a date with recently. He says he had a really

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Speaker 2: good time with you, but it ended kind of short.

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Speaker 2: His name is Kevin.

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Speaker 3: Okay, I'm hoping that was a smile and not a laugh.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, sens. We're calling because Kevin told us a little

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Speaker 2: bit about your guys' date coffee date, coffee date, and

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Speaker 2: from what we heard, it sounded pretty fun.

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Speaker 1: Tame short.

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Speaker 3: That was two weeks ago.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but he.

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Speaker 1: Liked you, He thought you were awesome. He wanted to

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Speaker 1: see you again.

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Speaker 2: He said. He's been pursuing it actually and texting you,

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Speaker 2: trying to organize something, but he doesn't understand why nothing's happening.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, he has sent me quite a few texts, but

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Speaker 3: I guess I'm confused as to why he doesn't understand

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Speaker 1: Did you write him back?

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Speaker 4: He?

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Speaker 3: No, oh, not at all. He was there the whole time.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, because, oh my god, we have an emotional support

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Speaker 2: When did you get an emotional support bro? You didn't

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Speaker 3: Well?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean, a friend is a friend. He doesn't

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Speaker 2: You gave him a title. You you called him your

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Speaker 1: Keviny brought him along on the date and didn't tell

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Speaker 4: I mean, yes, he was there, but he was there

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Speaker 2: Sure, Chelsea, do you see where he's coming from?

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Speaker 3: I guess. I mean, but you kind of have to

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Speaker 4: Yeah, are you mad because he didn't laugh at your

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Speaker 2: That's a good question, guys, Chelsea.

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Speaker 3: No, not really. I don't think I was particularly funny

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Speaker 1: Just I mean, Kevin, do you think that maybe you

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Speaker 4: I didn't need to tell her because he wasn't going

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Speaker 3: I don't even mean romantically, I just mean as a

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Speaker 4: Okay, so it's a little bit distracting. I guess it is.

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Speaker 2: Well, I do think that would be better. That's that's

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Speaker 1: Awkward, Kevin?

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Speaker 2: I mean, people need the rest of the day. But

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Speaker 1: Both of you what emotional support is totally normal and

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Speaker 2: You know, but dogs can't laugh at jokes exactly.

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Speaker 4: And it was a good date.

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Speaker 2: It wasn't.

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Speaker 3: Did you hear it wasn't a good date. I am

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Speaker 3: so sorry, y'all. I don't understand why this was even

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Speaker 2: Okay. Sounds like you need an emotional support friend to

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Speaker 4: He keeps having to go and I think that's.

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Speaker 1: She's not interested. And I don't know that you're going

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Speaker 2: Has to be there with you. But a dog, a

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Speaker 4: Yeah, emotional for animals are kind of weird. I prefer people.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Well maybe again, Maybe just follow her home again

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Speaker 2: and see if she stops looking Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 4: Man.

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Speaker 2: I don't say this about many people, but this show

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Speaker 2: come back. He is officially a friend of the show,

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Speaker 2: even if he wasn't being one hundred per century full

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Speaker 2: with us about his emotional support friend. I like him

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Speaker 1: Is he the only one that pushes back on dogs

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Speaker 3: They're not Kevin.

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Speaker 2: People are your problem. Everybody agrees. All the people on

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Speaker 1: Are better than be Yes, get the right emotional support.

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Speaker 2: Actually, wait, did his emotional support friend follow Chelsea home too?

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Speaker 1: So there's two dudes following If there's.

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Speaker 2: Two guys following you, now, I kind of understand the creepiness,

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Speaker 1: You didn't understand the creepiness when the guy was sitting

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Speaker 2: The date itself was pretty odes. Yeah, I mean he's

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Speaker 2: just being supportive. No better ways, Yeah, better ways. You

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Speaker 2: should have done a FaceTime totally.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I mean he honestly could have had him on speakerphone

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Speaker 1: and just set the phone on the You know.

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Speaker 2: There's lots of life lessons to be taken from these segments,

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Speaker 2: and you can go find them online wherever you get

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Speaker 2: your podcast at Brook and Jeffrey and then email the show.

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Speaker 2: We can call that person who wasn't calling

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Speaker 4: You back, freaking Jeffrey in the morning, really