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Speaker 2: No, but I'm what a good one you guys threw

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Speaker 1: Yeah life, there you go? Oh I love it? Well,

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Speaker 1: thank you for Benji, Yes, all of it and hope

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Speaker 5: Hey guys, thanks having made sure Wow like to be

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Speaker 5: They're listening classes?

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Speaker 3: How many times do you like positive video and take

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Speaker 5: Well that's all I feel too. But like she doesn't

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Speaker 5: Thank you so much.

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Speaker 3: All that work finally paid off when he went out

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Speaker 5: Oh? Wow, that ain't crossed my mind.

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Speaker 1: The only guy could thank for you, James, is maybe

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Speaker 1: Hi, Hey, welcome to the show.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, James, Yes, yeah.

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Speaker 5: He's just a little.

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Speaker 7: But I was.

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Speaker 6: He runs an apartment, but I have my own house.

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Speaker 7: So I was just complaining, and he, like the.

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Speaker 4: First times inside of his mouth was well, why why

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Speaker 7: Oh gosh, Literally that was me. I'm like, what do

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Speaker 3: Like we could do it.

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Speaker 3: Good investment for you. Oh so, Brooke, that's okay that

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Speaker 3: he said that. No, No, that's okay.

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Speaker 1: But I would assume he was being lighthearted in that

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Speaker 3: The Yeah, yeah, we heard that. He's a very humorous

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Speaker 3: I mean, you didn't pull out like Zillow or Redfin

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Speaker 4: No, but just to say that on a first date

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I could see that. I don't know if it's

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Speaker 3: We can understand you. You were a little scared by it,

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Speaker 3: a little intimated. It was a lot all at once

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Speaker 3: on a first date. That's what you're saying. Absolutely, Okay,

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Speaker 3: if you feel like he's serious, there's a good way

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Speaker 3: to you. Oh gosh, really yeah, really, I'm sorry, that's

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Speaker 3: how this works. James, are you there?

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Speaker 5: Hey? Audrey?

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Speaker 7: All right, Hi James.

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Speaker 5: Hey, it's so good to hear your voice. First of all,

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Speaker 5: but hey, I want to be clear, like I actually

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Speaker 3: What whoa James?

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Speaker 1: Way in wait, you went from buying a place with

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Speaker 5: In my defense, Like, I don't mean right away. I'm

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Speaker 5: not trying to like jump into that right now. Help

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Speaker 5: a little bit, actually, yeah, I mean like far in

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Speaker 4: That's a lot. No, that's a lot to handle.

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Speaker 6: I appreciate it.

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Speaker 4: You're really nice. But if I need a handyman, I'll

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Speaker 4: just call somebody. I don't need them to move in

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Speaker 1: Yeah, let her when she needs something. You'll make a

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Speaker 5: So, Audrey, you're saying I made a mistake on the date,

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Speaker 4: You should not have said that to me, even if

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Speaker 4: you were thinking of it. I appreciate that.

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Speaker 7: I guess it seems like your heart's.

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Speaker 4: In the right place.

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Speaker 5: But like, but you're saying I made a mistake.

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Speaker 7: Though you made a mistake, you're talking about moving in

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Speaker 7: with me. We don't even know each other.

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Speaker 1: Why do you keep asking her about you making a mistake.

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Speaker 5: I'm just writing this down. I'm trying to learn god.

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Speaker 3: His self improvement.

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Speaker 7: Journey, self improvement journey.

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Speaker 4: I don't know anything about that.

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Speaker 1: I think that could be a positive. This tell her James,

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Speaker 1: tell her what you've been doing.

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Speaker 3: Go for it, James.

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Speaker 5: Okay, wow, okay, we're doing this. Okay, Well, I went

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Speaker 3: Don't start doing no, no, no.

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Speaker 7: He's dating his brother's wife. No no, no, no no.

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Speaker 3: No, James, go back before your brother's wife.

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Speaker 1: Go to the listening part.

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Speaker 6: James, I don't want to go to another place.

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Speaker 7: He just said he's dating his brother's wife.

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Speaker 3: No, no, James, you need to explain that to her.

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Speaker 5: Uh. Well, I I asked her to.

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Speaker 1: Tell her about the practice.

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Speaker 3: Does he use the words mock date, mock date right?

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Speaker 5: Right, a mock date right? And so she can critique me,

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Speaker 5: so that all the stupid things I do, she can

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Speaker 5: be like, hey, you're an idiot. Don't do those things,

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Speaker 5: and then maybe I'll learn it was just to be

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Speaker 5: a better dater, basically. And she doesn't even really like me,

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Speaker 5: but she gave me a pretty good sport.

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Speaker 3: Wow, but he did well.

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Speaker 1: I think, Audrey, what he's trying to say is he

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Speaker 5: And Audrey, you don't even know this, but I actually

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Speaker 5: which he was trying to tell me about her pet dying.

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Speaker 3: I think the next step on your journey, James is

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Speaker 3: to find a YouTube class about not over sharing during

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Speaker 5: Okay, fine, hold on, let me write that downright, Audrey.

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Speaker 1: Honestly, I'm still rooting for this guy. I still think

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Speaker 3: We all are team James, though, Audrey, he's definitely been

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Speaker 3: a better dater or so. He might not be perfect

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Speaker 5: Audrey, He's not lying. I actually really will be better,

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Speaker 5: Like a couple of months from now. I'm really sorry

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Speaker 5: that I brought up the move in thing. Maybe we won't, don't.

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Speaker 5: We don't do that. We can just go on vacation

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Speaker 3: Is that better?

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Speaker 1: Did you say no, Audrey?

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Speaker 4: No, let's pumps the break.

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Speaker 5: Let's pump the break.

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Speaker 7: Okay, no vacations just yet.

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Speaker 4: Like I think, James, you're a great guy.

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Speaker 6: I have to be honest I've.

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Speaker 4: Been dating quite a lot more than i'd.

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Speaker 6: Like to right now, and most guys are.

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Speaker 4: Not admitting their flaws and faults. So in a way,

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Speaker 4: I like that you overshare and you're.

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Speaker 7: Honest about who you are.

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Speaker 6: Like to take the lot is to do this, and

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Speaker 6: I mean you.

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Speaker 4: Are funny, Like the diamond ash thing kind of got

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Speaker 5: Oh okay, hey, you guys, hear that she thinks I'm funny.

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Speaker 5: Hold on, write that down.

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Speaker 3: All right, Well, sure you write that down. And in

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Speaker 6: Okay, on two conditions.

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Speaker 4: Oh, we're not buying a property together, and we're.

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Speaker 6: Not going on vacation.

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Speaker 3: Okay, you set down pretty strict terms, James, are you

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Speaker 5: Wait? Yeah, does she mean ever? Because I kind of

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Speaker 1: Okay, I think for the second date, James.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, all right, yeah, I mean, just don't plan that door.

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Speaker 5: I guess the whole thing is, I don't know. I

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Speaker 5: guess I can do it.

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Speaker 1: That's a modification motivational that didn't make.

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Speaker 3: Sense ritten down.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so yes, you're going out again pizza.

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Speaker 7: Let's go for pizza.

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Speaker 4: Let's keep it casual.

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Speaker 6: But I'm definitely willing to go out with you again dreams.

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Speaker 5: All right, I'm just going to do one more mock

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Speaker 5: All right.

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Speaker 1: Well, I just feel bad for the brother's wife.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like five dates in She's like, what is

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you better be paying for dinner.

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Speaker 3: And Jeffrey in the morning, James has a lot of

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Speaker 1: Well, he's been taking notes.

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Speaker 3: That's a day he's got to go back and review

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Speaker 3: his notes book. Another hangout with his brother's wife. Probably

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Speaker 3: listen back to this podcast and the old one that

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Speaker 3: he did before, which you can too, by the way, Spotify, Apple, iHeart,

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Speaker 3: wherever you get your podcasts.

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Speaker 1: Yes for those huh yeah.

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Speaker 3: But overall, he's one of the few guys who's ever

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Speaker 1: Yeah, just guys, just person any of us. Yeah, Like

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Speaker 1: I'm really I hope we get an update from.

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Speaker 3: Them, me too. I'll hope we get an update from

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Speaker 3: him and Audrey, or from him and his sister in

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Speaker 3: law whoever he deserves to end up with somebody.

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Speaker 1: You're gonna get an awkward Toesday phone call from her, like,

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Speaker 1: can we tell my brother in law to stop asking

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Speaker 1: me out?

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Speaker 3: And we would do that, but either way, we are

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Speaker 3: pro James at the moment, and you could be pro

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Speaker 3: James by just subscribing to the podcast hit that follow

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Speaker 3: Buddy