WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Mistah Secure

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<v Speaker 1>Second date. This happens every so often, but sometimes a

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<v Speaker 1>listener will do a second date update with us that

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't end with a yes. But the thing is they're

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<v Speaker 1>so impressed by us, specifically me and my efforts to

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<v Speaker 1>jump start their love lives, that they're willing to call

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<v Speaker 1>back and give it another go. You know, you don't

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<v Speaker 1>have to do mouth to mouth anymore with CPR, but

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<v Speaker 1>I know that. Yeah, that's why Justin has reached out

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<v Speaker 1>to us once again. He was on a few months back,

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<v Speaker 1>and last time the lady he went out with was

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<v Speaker 1>not impressed because she showed up an hour late to dinner,

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<v Speaker 1>but said Justin wasn't mad enough to be mad about

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<v Speaker 1>it and cancel what I think. I remember that it

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<v Speaker 1>was really weird and that call definitely crashed and burned,

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<v Speaker 1>but we promised to try and do better for Justin

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<v Speaker 1>this time. So Justin, welcome back. Hey, thank you guys

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<v Speaker 1>for having me. Oh man, how long did you wait

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<v Speaker 1>for your date to show up this time? Justin? Not?

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<v Speaker 1>She actually came right on time this time, test and

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<v Speaker 1>you failed it to get up and leave and make

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<v Speaker 1>her way. Yeah, I think that show's improvement. And I

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<v Speaker 1>heard that you've been actually doing a little bit of

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<v Speaker 1>research since the last time you were on with us. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like the learning process never really ends. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>always trying to better myself. You know, I heard about

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<v Speaker 1>this book called Attached. Have you guys, are you familiar

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<v Speaker 1>with it Attached? I don't. Yeah, reading is not on

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<v Speaker 1>the top of the list of hobbies for this group,

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<v Speaker 1>so but tell us about it. What is attached about?

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<v Speaker 1>So this book basically talked about how most people come

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<v Speaker 1>into three different psychological categories while dating. Okay to cure

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<v Speaker 1>where you can communicate openly and like I could be like, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>I know you're busy, but I just kind of get

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<v Speaker 1>nervous when you don't text back. Could you text me?

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<v Speaker 1>Just let me know, even if it's just like a

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<v Speaker 1>little thumbs up or something. Oh, it's like the type

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<v Speaker 1>of communicator you are exactly in three groups, they're secure. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>The other two categories are anxious and avoidant. Anxious people

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<v Speaker 1>are like the super needy ones where it's just like, no,

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<v Speaker 1>you gotta text me, and if you don't hear a

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<v Speaker 1>text back, you're texting them like twenty times, like where

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<v Speaker 1>are you? Where are you registered? For you? I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know if I'm necessarily anxious in that sense, but in

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<v Speaker 1>real life I'm anxious a lot. Yeah, and then what's

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<v Speaker 1>the other one? Again? The last one is avoidant, where

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<v Speaker 1>like if things start getting real, they'll push apart a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit, like they want distance. They don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>be smothered or anything. Okay, can you be more than one?

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<v Speaker 1>Like I feel like I'm the first two combined. You

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<v Speaker 1>have to read the book and find out. I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>gonna wait for the movie to come out. Sounds really

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<v Speaker 1>like a fun movie. Just yea if they can to

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<v Speaker 1>make it really short because my attentions fan isn't great. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So which which one are you? Justin? So I'm secure

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<v Speaker 1>with traits of anxious and so you can be more

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<v Speaker 1>than one? Okay? Okay, So how did that change dating?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just really open and communicative about what I'm expecting,

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<v Speaker 1>how I feel. No more games of like like you know,

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<v Speaker 1>with the girl who was late, I could just be like,

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<v Speaker 1>hey you're late, that made me feel this way? What's

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<v Speaker 1>going on? You know? Just talk about it? So we

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<v Speaker 1>did we go on a date or we just hearing

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<v Speaker 1>about how your love life has improved, which is for

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<v Speaker 1>everybody in the room or Justin wrote this book and

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<v Speaker 1>he's trying to sell exactly, So how does all this

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<v Speaker 1>relate to your new and improved dating life? So I

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<v Speaker 1>put this on my dating profile where I said secure

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<v Speaker 1>attachment styles only, and it didn't really get me any clicks. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but then I put that smiley emoji with like the

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<v Speaker 1>sweat drop coming on the forehead, you know, and that

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<v Speaker 1>got so who matched with your secure people only demand?

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<v Speaker 1>With this wonderful woman named Kelly. She's an interior designer,

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<v Speaker 1>absolutely very very secure, okay, and I kind of wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to have her see what I did. Um. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>even know if he spoke about this last time. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>a professional rapper, Like at least part time, Wow did

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<v Speaker 1>not come up because, like you know, unless you're super

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<v Speaker 1>duper famous, people just presume your craps. Oh, Jack, Jack,

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<v Speaker 1>you invited Callie to watch you wrap somewhere, Yeah, to

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<v Speaker 1>a show that I was doing, and we hung out

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<v Speaker 1>before we got to know each other, and then it

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<v Speaker 1>was time for me to go on stage. And I

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<v Speaker 1>had a couple of songs that night, so I did those.

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<v Speaker 1>The crowd was really into it. Like I was a

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<v Speaker 1>little nervous you know, sometimes the crowd might not be

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<v Speaker 1>into it. But yeah, but when I got off stage,

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<v Speaker 1>she said it was awesome. People were coming up to me,

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<v Speaker 1>just like taking photos and things that that start, which

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<v Speaker 1>is always fun. But I kind of worried, like maybe

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<v Speaker 1>my lyrics were a little bit too vulgar. But that's

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<v Speaker 1>kind of also like the nature of the beast of

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<v Speaker 1>being an artist to boy, I mean, you're a rap artist,

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<v Speaker 1>but unless you're Will Smith, are you. Yeah, she did

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<v Speaker 1>say it was awesome, but I remember, like there's a

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<v Speaker 1>point where I made eye contact with her while I

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<v Speaker 1>was wrapping, and I noticed her eyes were kind of big,

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<v Speaker 1>where she like I don't know if she thought this,

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<v Speaker 1>but my read was like she's like, what the hell

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<v Speaker 1>did he just say? Boy? Can you give a subject

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<v Speaker 1>material like you to know anything? Some of it gets political,

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<v Speaker 1>some of it is just, you know, like oka democrats

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<v Speaker 1>in the building, Well, okay, got your openers for you.

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<v Speaker 1>The next year, I wanted to stay a little longer

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<v Speaker 1>and hang out more, but like, while the people were

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<v Speaker 1>taking photos, she was just like, I gotta go. It

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<v Speaker 1>was so great being you. And then yeah, I had

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<v Speaker 1>a tough time getting another date, and I really really

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<v Speaker 1>did like her, you know, way more than the girl

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<v Speaker 1>who made me wait an hour. Yeah, by this time,

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<v Speaker 1>you kind of made her way. Yeah, same thing. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll see what Callie has to say, because we're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>drop some beats right here just for you, and then

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna come back and get your second date update

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<v Speaker 1>right after this. All right, sounds great, All right, hold

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<v Speaker 1>on the second. He's smart, he's sexy, and he's totally secure.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm talking about our listener, Justin, who's back doing a

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<v Speaker 1>second date update for the second time on our show

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<v Speaker 1>because we failed him the first go right, Yeah, but

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<v Speaker 1>this time Justin went out with a woman named Callie,

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<v Speaker 1>who he described as also secure and right or whatever

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<v Speaker 1>it is. It's a good thing, yeah, okay, and she

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<v Speaker 1>got to see him in his elements, spitting mad bars

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<v Speaker 1>at a rap show. Weird part was while he was

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<v Speaker 1>taking photos with fans after his performance, Callie suddenly ducked

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<v Speaker 1>out said she had to go. Yeah, and we don't

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<v Speaker 1>know why. I'm sure Brooke has some theories for why.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. Maybe she just was sick of Bean.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it's a long time to go to a

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<v Speaker 1>rap show and then to sit and all fans coming up. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>your date like being on stage and not with you.

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<v Speaker 1>You said you're by yourself, and then you're by yourself

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<v Speaker 1>more compared. You're like literally like as a comedy and

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<v Speaker 1>Greed and your date is just watching. Yeah, it's just boring. Like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't get that at all. I mean I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>want to be route to the people who come up.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I'm not like a Kanye West or anything.

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<v Speaker 1>They came to the show, I'm going to take a

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<v Speaker 1>second to say hello back. No, we're not saying that

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<v Speaker 1>that's bad. It's just that like on a first date,

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<v Speaker 1>that may be. You know, it kind of just sucks

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<v Speaker 1>from her perspective, you know, but everyone else gets time

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<v Speaker 1>with you, but her real stars don't take photos with

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<v Speaker 1>their fans because they past that. Yeah, that's true. And

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<v Speaker 1>maybe it came across as kind of needy. He said

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<v Speaker 1>he was secure, but maybe this whole time reading, maybe yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>what's the other one's anxious? I have Tray's anxiousness. I

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<v Speaker 1>said that maybe the anxiousness turned her off. But we're

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<v Speaker 1>going to call her and find out. Let's dial Cally's

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<v Speaker 1>number and see what she has to say. Right, all

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<v Speaker 1>right here we go. Hello, Hey is this CALLI? This

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<v Speaker 1>is her secure account. No, excuse me. My name is Jeff.

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<v Speaker 1>I heard that you were secure. Sorry, my name is

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<v Speaker 1>Jeff from the radio show Broken Jeffrey in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 1>Which radio show? I don't we have a podcast too.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe you listen to that. I don't think i've heard

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<v Speaker 1>of you guys. Okay, right, so what's this about. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>we do a segment on this show called Second Date Update,

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<v Speaker 1>and we're trying to help one of our listeners get

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<v Speaker 1>a hold of you because you went out with him

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<v Speaker 1>the other night and now you're avoiding him. His name's Justin. Oh, well,

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<v Speaker 1>you guys went to a rap show. Yeah, I remember him?

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<v Speaker 1>How much do you guys know? Well, we know that

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<v Speaker 1>he is an up and coming rap star and he

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<v Speaker 1>took you to his show. But he said you left

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<v Speaker 1>while they were doing a meet and greet. Yeah I

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<v Speaker 1>did so. I didn't really enjoy him very much. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>oh like the show. You didn't enjoy her? No, the

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<v Speaker 1>show is fine. He's actually a really talented rapper. Like,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't mind the show at all. I thought he

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<v Speaker 1>was pretty good. You liked him on stage, but you

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<v Speaker 1>didn't like him on his on stage persona. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he lost me. I mean before the rap, Like you

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<v Speaker 1>were talking before the show. Oh, he just kept going

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<v Speaker 1>on about the book, the attachment theory book. Was it

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<v Speaker 1>too much for you? He just wouldn't let it go,

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<v Speaker 1>Like and on a first date, the first time I'm

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<v Speaker 1>ever talking to him, he's like psychoanalyzing me and like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we're trying to figure about personality smatch And I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>I could find out if I click with you through

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<v Speaker 1>just having a conversation about what we like to do, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it's cool to click with someone in their values,

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<v Speaker 1>but you don't normally figure that out on date one,

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<v Speaker 1>and like just based on this one theory, Like it

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<v Speaker 1>was boring to just talk about that and only that.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like people who won't date like other horoscope signs. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and you didn't feel like, I mean you were interested.

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<v Speaker 1>You knew from the beginning that you weren't going to

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<v Speaker 1>give him another shot. Well, I knew after about thirty

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<v Speaker 1>minutes of him talking about this over and over that

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<v Speaker 1>I was bored. Went on for thirty minutes of that

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<v Speaker 1>attachment theory. We talked to him for like five minutes

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<v Speaker 1>about it, and it felt like a lot thirty minutes.

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<v Speaker 1>At least, he's passionate about it. Passion is a good

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<v Speaker 1>quality to have about things. But he wouldn't let it go.

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<v Speaker 1>And it was like a tedious breakdown in the book,

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<v Speaker 1>like all the categories who they match with, and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>deciding that Okay, I'm secure and he's secure. I was like, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>but only one of us is boring. Yeah, that really hurts.

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<v Speaker 1>Gott a hurt to hear. Or I don't know, maybe

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<v Speaker 1>Justin's secure enough to take it in stride, because cal

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<v Speaker 1>I needed to tell you he's on the other line

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<v Speaker 1>listening right now and wants to talk to you. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>you had him on the whole time. Yeah he did.

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<v Speaker 1>Justin there, Hey Kelly, here, how secure he sounds. You

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<v Speaker 1>could be secure. I didn't. I didn't want to be

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<v Speaker 1>mean to you. I just you need to know that

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<v Speaker 1>this strategy doesn't work, like women aren't into that. It's

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<v Speaker 1>not a strategy. I just really liked the book I read,

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<v Speaker 1>and I thought you were enjoying the conversation, like the

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<v Speaker 1>vibe that I was getting. You know, I'm sorry I

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<v Speaker 1>misread the situation. I didn't know. Maybe it was because

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<v Speaker 1>I was pre show Jitters or something and I missed

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<v Speaker 1>the signs. But I don't think you were reading that

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<v Speaker 1>situation right at all. And it's just not a good tragy,

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<v Speaker 1>Like it's date one. We're supposed to just talk about,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, the trivial things, likes and dislikes. What pizza

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<v Speaker 1>toppings do you eat? When Netflix shows you're currently binge watching, Like, well,

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<v Speaker 1>he's talking about his favorite book. You know, it's not

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<v Speaker 1>fifty Shades of Gray, but at least it's like adjacent.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry, I'm not basic. I don't want to go

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<v Speaker 1>and talk about like pizza toppings, Like do you know

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<v Speaker 1>how many girls I go out with? Like I'm trying

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<v Speaker 1>to find somebody who's special. Hey, some people can talk

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<v Speaker 1>about pizza toppings for three minutes very much. Just that

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<v Speaker 1>just came off a little hot, Yeah, came off confidence.

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<v Speaker 1>The first nates get so repetitive. I thought we connected

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<v Speaker 1>on something deefair, you know, but it sounds like you

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<v Speaker 1>weren't listening to her. It sounds like you were just

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<v Speaker 1>like monologuing about a book that you read. I thought

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<v Speaker 1>she was into it, And I apologize. I didn't mean

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<v Speaker 1>to be boring. Okay, I gotta be word for you

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<v Speaker 1>and it's not boring. Oh, I'm a dope rapper. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>one of the best to ever do it. Okay, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll remember you're taking pictures of fans, and that's Jeffrey proved. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't think Kanye taking picture of anybody. Kellie. Let's

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<v Speaker 1>just pretend that you didn't hear him call you the

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<v Speaker 1>other b work. Can you see how it was maybe

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit your fault because you were encouraging him.

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<v Speaker 1>He said that she seemed interested. Yeah, that can definitely

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<v Speaker 1>not be blamed on me, just because I didn't step

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<v Speaker 1>in and say, hey, stop talking about this now, you're

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<v Speaker 1>boring me, Like that would have been very helpful clue

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<v Speaker 1>to him that he needs to change the subject. And

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<v Speaker 1>he was really secure. You would have been fine with it.

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<v Speaker 1>I just think he's not the best at reading people,

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<v Speaker 1>because it was very clear that I was bored. And

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<v Speaker 1>you know when you say to somebody like, oh cool,

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<v Speaker 1>like four times in a row, yeah, you're not really there. Luckily,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm very good at reading people and reading situations, and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sensing a vibe right here. I am I'm feeling

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<v Speaker 1>the love connection happening, and that's why I'd like to

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<v Speaker 1>offer to send Callie out on another date with Justin.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll pay for it. I'm going to stop you right there.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought this girl was secure. I'm getting so much

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<v Speaker 1>avoidant and anxious vibes from her. I don't think I'm

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<v Speaker 1>ready for a second day. You know, I'm still sensing

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<v Speaker 1>some vibes going on. I don't want to not only

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<v Speaker 1>there's something we agree on. Okay, yeah, I not only

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<v Speaker 1>misread that conversation, I misread her entire profile and who

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<v Speaker 1>she was as a human being. So yeah, hard pass.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm getting a sense this is more of just

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<v Speaker 1>a hook up one night thing. Oh okay, she's not

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<v Speaker 1>going to stay the night. She's just going to be

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<v Speaker 1>in and out before the sun even comes up. Path

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't the name of his album. That's a good album

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<v Speaker 1>single heart Beat. I'm just trying really hard because I

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to go oh for two with Justin here. Listen,

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<v Speaker 1>listen you guys. This is not your fault. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I love you, guys. I love the show. I love

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<v Speaker 1>that you like are taking the time to help me.

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<v Speaker 1>You're oh for one betting five hundred. It's pretty good. Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm calling it fifty fifty. We have definitely never gotten

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<v Speaker 1>on basic. It's in victory in my book. Congratulations Justin.

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<v Speaker 1>I just got hit by a pitch Jeffrey in the morning.