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Speaker 1: I know that. Yeah, that's why Justin has reached out

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Speaker 1: this time. So Justin, welcome back. Hey, thank you guys

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Speaker 1: for having me. Oh man, how long did you wait

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Speaker 1: She actually came right on time this time, test and

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Speaker 1: heard that you've been actually doing a little bit of

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Speaker 1: I feel like the learning process never really ends. I'm

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Speaker 1: this book called Attached. Have you guys, are you familiar

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Speaker 1: with it Attached? I don't. Yeah, reading is not on

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Speaker 1: So this book basically talked about how most people come

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Speaker 1: So which which one are you? Justin? So I'm secure

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Speaker 1: right after this. All right, sounds great, All right, hold

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Speaker 1: is her secure account. No, excuse me. My name is Jeff.

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Speaker 1: Jeff from the radio show Broken Jeffrey in the Morning.

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Speaker 1: Which radio show? I don't we have a podcast too.

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Speaker 1: the other night and now you're avoiding him. His name's Justin. Oh, well,

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Speaker 1: Justin's secure enough to take it in stride, because cal

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Speaker 1: you know, the trivial things, likes and dislikes. What pizza

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Speaker 1: toppings do you eat? When Netflix shows you're currently binge watching, Like, well,

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Speaker 1: he's talking about his favorite book. You know, it's not

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I'm not basic. I don't want to go

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Speaker 1: and talk about like pizza toppings, Like do you know

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Speaker 1: about pizza toppings for three minutes very much. Just that

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Speaker 1: just came off a little hot, Yeah, came off confidence.

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Speaker 1: The first nates get so repetitive. I thought we connected

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Speaker 1: like monologuing about a book that you read. I thought

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Speaker 1: and it's not boring. Oh, I'm a dope rapper. I'm

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Speaker 1: I'll remember you're taking pictures of fans, and that's Jeffrey proved. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you don't think Kanye taking picture of anybody. Kellie. Let's

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Speaker 1: just pretend that you didn't hear him call you the

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Speaker 1: other b work. Can you see how it was maybe

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Speaker 1: a little bit your fault because you were encouraging him.

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Speaker 1: He said that she seemed interested. Yeah, that can definitely

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Speaker 1: not be blamed on me, just because I didn't step

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Speaker 1: boring me, Like that would have been very helpful clue

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Speaker 1: to him that he needs to change the subject. And

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Speaker 1: he was really secure. You would have been fine with it.

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Speaker 1: I just think he's not the best at reading people,

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Speaker 1: you know when you say to somebody like, oh cool,

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Speaker 1: like four times in a row, yeah, you're not really there. Luckily,

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Speaker 1: I'm very good at reading people and reading situations, and

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Speaker 1: I'm sensing a vibe right here. I am I'm feeling

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Speaker 1: offer to send Callie out on another date with Justin.

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Speaker 1: We'll pay for it. I'm going to stop you right there.

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Speaker 1: I thought this girl was secure. I'm getting so much

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Speaker 1: ready for a second day. You know, I'm still sensing

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Speaker 1: there's something we agree on. Okay, yeah, I not only

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Speaker 1: misread that conversation, I misread her entire profile and who

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Speaker 1: she was as a human being. So yeah, hard pass.

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Speaker 1: So I'm getting a sense this is more of just

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Speaker 1: a hook up one night thing. Oh okay, she's not

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Speaker 1: in and out before the sun even comes up. Path

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Speaker 1: wasn't the name of his album. That's a good album

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Speaker 1: single heart Beat. I'm just trying really hard because I

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Speaker 1: don't want to go oh for two with Justin here. Listen,

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Speaker 1: listen you guys. This is not your fault. I mean,

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Speaker 1: I love you, guys. I love the show. I love

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Speaker 1: that you like are taking the time to help me.

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Speaker 1: You're oh for one betting five hundred. It's pretty good. Hey,

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Speaker 1: I'm calling it fifty fifty. We have definitely never gotten

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Speaker 1: on basic. It's in victory in my book. Congratulations Justin.

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Speaker 1: I just got hit by a pitch Jeffrey in the morning.