WEBVTT - Episode 386: Best of 2022 0:00:00.120 --> 0:00:03.280 Hey, it's Angela. Ye. I hope everybody had a happy 0:00:03.279 --> 0:00:06.400 New Year and an amazing holiday season. You know last 0:00:06.480 --> 0:00:09.160 year was pretty wild, and coming up, I do have 0:00:09.360 --> 0:00:13.880 some of my favorite moments from my favorite guests from 0:00:13.960 --> 0:00:16.880 It was really hard to actually narrow this down, but 0:00:17.160 --> 0:00:20.600 coming in at number ten, we have a j. Johnson. Now, 0:00:20.640 --> 0:00:23.079 if you remember, she shook up social media when she 0:00:23.160 --> 0:00:26.720 shared the story from her crazy fifty birthday. It was 0:00:26.760 --> 0:00:29.200 so wild she had to come back. We've never had 0:00:29.200 --> 0:00:32.280 a guest come back like so quickly to explain themselves. 0:00:32.360 --> 0:00:38.000 Remember this, listen, do you think it would ever be 0:00:38.080 --> 0:00:41.440 normalized for three somes with two men and a women 0:00:41.680 --> 0:00:44.280 and a woman's? Guys can't take that? You think it 0:00:44.280 --> 0:00:46.760 will ever be like a normalized thing for two guys 0:00:46.800 --> 0:00:49.560 and one woman, because you know, it is like train 0:00:50.760 --> 0:00:53.760 and it's very normal for like three somes when there's 0:00:53.760 --> 0:00:56.440 two women and a man. But do you think we'll 0:00:56.440 --> 0:00:59.320 ever come to a place in society where it would 0:00:59.320 --> 0:01:00.800 be like a three him as two men and a 0:01:00.840 --> 0:01:03.760 woman and a woman and they'll be okay with that? No? 0:01:04.800 --> 0:01:06.800 What is that? I mean? But some men they do it, 0:01:06.800 --> 0:01:08.920 but again it's just to them. Is a is a train. 0:01:09.000 --> 0:01:13.560 It's not a threesome, right, but um, I mean, but 0:01:13.600 --> 0:01:15.840 every women, a lot of women will never do that. Yeah. 0:01:15.840 --> 0:01:17.640 When they asked me, they're like, would you would you 0:01:17.680 --> 0:01:19.760 do a threesome? I'm like, yeah, bringing, let me pick 0:01:19.800 --> 0:01:25.039 the guy. They're like, wait, what mad, let me pick 0:01:25.080 --> 0:01:30.560 the guy that yeah, and two men, two men, and 0:01:30.560 --> 0:01:32.880 and they traded off. It was like they were friends 0:01:33.440 --> 0:01:38.760 and they traded off. It's the best fiftieth birthday ever, Okay, 0:01:38.880 --> 0:01:41.880 And they they traded off. So it's never like them 0:01:41.920 --> 0:01:44.720 together together. They were like they were flip flopping me. 0:01:44.920 --> 0:01:47.760 And it was like, Queen four would have been weird 0:01:47.760 --> 0:01:49.640 for you if they would have been there together though, 0:01:49.720 --> 0:01:54.320 like and they've done things together together, if they would 0:01:54.320 --> 0:01:57.520 have like, oh yeah, that would have been weird. But yeah, 0:01:57.640 --> 0:01:59.840 that would have been a little weird for me. Yeah. Yeah. 0:02:00.040 --> 0:02:02.080 But it was more like, you know, one would please me, 0:02:02.120 --> 0:02:04.320 then he passed me to the other, and one would 0:02:04.360 --> 0:02:06.040 kiss me and then he's spin me around for the other. 0:02:06.400 --> 0:02:11.200 It was like a beautiful dance. It was like doing 0:02:11.200 --> 0:02:13.840 the salsa with two guys at the same time, just 0:02:14.080 --> 0:02:17.320 like romantic and sexy and never intertwined. But at the 0:02:17.360 --> 0:02:21.000 same time, it was too steel. But people make you 0:02:21.040 --> 0:02:23.240 feel like because I feel like in society, like we've 0:02:23.240 --> 0:02:25.360 been on here, guys don't really admit to stuff like 0:02:25.400 --> 0:02:27.640 that as much. Yeah, they're not gonna I don't think 0:02:27.639 --> 0:02:29.040 they're gonna be. It's like a list of things that 0:02:29.040 --> 0:02:31.960 they don't admit to. So wait, were these guys but 0:02:32.000 --> 0:02:34.520 they said they were friends with each other? They were friends, okay, 0:02:34.639 --> 0:02:37.080 and I knew they were friends, and it was all 0:02:37.080 --> 0:02:47.080 about that Coco patron perfect had some wild nights on 0:02:51.240 --> 0:02:53.040 those are my real drunk days. I used to love 0:02:54.639 --> 0:02:59.920 listen for a birthday party, get some cafe patrol swell 0:03:01.680 --> 0:03:07.440 Man would like, it's tasty, like you could even put 0:03:07.520 --> 0:03:11.520 milk with It's good. You just don't even notice how 0:03:11.760 --> 0:03:14.320 washed up you're about. So wait said the next day, 0:03:14.320 --> 0:03:16.400 how did they act to each other? Or like afterward, 0:03:16.480 --> 0:03:18.360 what did they ever acknowledge it? Or was it just 0:03:18.400 --> 0:03:20.720 a one thing? And nobody ever did know? We all 0:03:20.760 --> 0:03:23.359 went to breakfast and it was like three friends that 0:03:23.440 --> 0:03:25.160 hung out and had a good time. It was weird 0:03:25.160 --> 0:03:27.040 because it's not like I was into that. I had 0:03:27.080 --> 0:03:30.280 never done it before. But it was happy birthday to me, 0:03:30.400 --> 0:03:33.000 and it was like, okay, And as it was happening, 0:03:33.000 --> 0:03:35.360 I was like, this is happening. I was like, this 0:03:35.440 --> 0:03:38.320 is actually happening. It's really really th't even I was like, 0:03:38.360 --> 0:03:40.040 oh my god, this is happening. And then I just 0:03:40.120 --> 0:03:41.960 kind of relaxed and let it happen. And the next 0:03:42.000 --> 0:03:49.560 morning we were like the three months. My Rod has 0:03:49.600 --> 0:03:52.640 a movie about that called Threatle. He's part of a Threatle. 0:03:52.640 --> 0:03:55.840 It's him and another dude and a girl. Wow, what 0:03:55.960 --> 0:03:58.960 you're doing it. I've never thought about it. I'm a 0:03:59.040 --> 0:04:00.520 very one on one person. I have even been with 0:04:00.520 --> 0:04:05.240 a woman. Okay, so I'm a very like I don't 0:04:05.240 --> 0:04:07.720 even like sixty nine, so I can't even imagine. I 0:04:07.800 --> 0:04:13.240 can't multitask like that. But but yeah, the way she 0:04:13.400 --> 0:04:22.880 made it her, it was a like, exactly, you know what, 0:04:23.240 --> 0:04:26.120 you you are so right because it was so effortless. 0:04:26.760 --> 0:04:32.040 It was so sexy sexy, not in a sexual way. Yes, 0:04:32.440 --> 0:04:35.680 it was sensual. They were very gentle, you know, they 0:04:35.680 --> 0:04:40.560 treated me like I was a queen freaky simultaneously. Yes, 0:04:40.720 --> 0:04:44.200 it wasn't like no internet you know, porn site crap. 0:04:44.320 --> 0:04:46.960 It was just it was very sensual and sexy and 0:04:47.120 --> 0:04:50.120 romantic and it was just like having Oh my goodness, 0:04:50.440 --> 0:04:53.480 I say, yes, everybody do it again. I know you 0:04:53.560 --> 0:04:55.200 got to have two guys at the same time, but 0:04:55.360 --> 0:05:05.159 like it was the sexiest, most romantic. I mean it 0:05:05.320 --> 0:05:10.839 was like this sounds like it you know what it 0:05:10.880 --> 0:05:14.200 sounds like. It sounds that about. Its fine. They never 0:05:14.279 --> 0:05:16.080 talked about it. You just let it happen that it 0:05:16.120 --> 0:05:18.919 talked about it, and we just continue. You know, it 0:05:18.960 --> 0:05:22.000 happened one more time in that little vacation strip. Okay, 0:05:22.160 --> 0:05:23.920 we still never talked about it. It was just kind 0:05:23.920 --> 0:05:27.200 of like a thing we did, right, And that's when 0:05:27.240 --> 0:05:29.480 you to be like, hey, y'all want to go get 0:05:29.520 --> 0:05:43.760 some cafe. You know that, right? I mean anything that 0:05:43.839 --> 0:05:48.359 you haven't done that you want to do in the bedroom, 0:05:48.440 --> 0:05:50.800 Like is there something that's on your bucket list? Your 0:05:50.839 --> 0:05:56.440 bucket list? Um not no, I mean that probably would 0:05:56.440 --> 0:05:58.960 have been the thing that is like top tier crim 0:05:59.040 --> 0:06:02.039 dela crime. I don't think anything's gonna say that the 0:06:02.120 --> 0:06:04.320 one thing I had not done. And that's why, like 0:06:04.360 --> 0:06:06.240 on fiftieth birthday, I was like, you know what, if 0:06:06.279 --> 0:06:08.960 it's going down, it's going down, it's going down. And 0:06:08.960 --> 0:06:11.640 I wasn't predicting it but you know, by the time 0:06:11.680 --> 0:06:14.560 I did, like the fourth shot of the Cafe Petrone, 0:06:14.680 --> 0:06:16.600 I could kind of tell they were both dancing closer. 0:06:16.680 --> 0:06:19.160 And I'm like, happy birthday to meeting I'm doing. I'm 0:06:19.160 --> 0:06:21.279 going in. I don't have to choose. I'm going in. 0:06:21.360 --> 0:06:25.320 Whatever's happening. I'm letting happen. That's what I was. Well, 0:06:25.360 --> 0:06:27.760 I was attracted to one more than the other. It's 0:06:27.800 --> 0:06:29.880 not that one was better. I was attracted to one 0:06:29.880 --> 0:06:32.320 more than the other. Both of them were French, so 0:06:32.440 --> 0:06:34.120 you know, and I speak French, so it was we 0:06:34.200 --> 0:06:49.120 spoke no English, right, so I speaking. It was so, 0:06:49.720 --> 0:06:53.680 you know, internationally sexy, and it's two French guys in 0:06:53.760 --> 0:06:58.600 stark yes yes, and beautiful and chocolate and pretty teeth, 0:06:58.720 --> 0:07:02.080 and I spark one in the dark, you know, like 0:07:04.480 --> 0:07:14.760 I'm down for you know, I didn't ask. I don't know. 0:07:14.880 --> 0:07:17.440 It was a birthday to be but we're still friends, 0:07:17.560 --> 0:07:19.800 you know, we still hate each other. On birthday, I 0:07:19.840 --> 0:07:23.680 was like, not as happy as it wasn't done? When 0:07:23.680 --> 0:07:26.320 are you coming back? I let you know, I have 0:07:26.440 --> 0:07:28.320 been so attracted to somebody, and then when it came 0:07:28.360 --> 0:07:30.720 time to have sex, it wasn't hiding Oh my god, Yes, 0:07:33.600 --> 0:07:36.800 has happened to me the worst? Oh my god, down, 0:07:37.080 --> 0:07:40.800 such let down? And were you do you tell them? Yeah? Absolutely? 0:07:41.280 --> 0:07:44.040 Did you tell them? Did you tell them? Now? I 0:07:44.040 --> 0:07:47.440 don't want to hurt anybody's feelings. The never call again, 0:07:48.200 --> 0:07:52.240 never never happened again, that you never want to go again. 0:07:52.440 --> 0:07:55.600 He could have helped. You know, I'm a ghost. I 0:07:55.640 --> 0:08:01.160 can't be a goostar. Are you a ghost? You same ghost? Really? Yeah? Yeah? 0:08:01.640 --> 0:08:07.720 Block power book, yeah, but I will delete them. Tell 0:08:07.800 --> 0:08:10.680 them I don't block on a blocked so that I 0:08:10.720 --> 0:08:13.520 don't contact you, so you know, when the numbers there, 0:08:13.560 --> 0:08:17.360 you don't want to call a person drunk. Oh my god, 0:08:17.480 --> 0:08:19.360 I would delete everything because it's like I don't even 0:08:19.360 --> 0:08:24.080 want to have your number exactly. But you're too nice. See, 0:08:24.120 --> 0:08:26.200 I feel like I'm too nice because I never ghost. 0:08:26.560 --> 0:08:28.160 I just kind of like, you know, ghost, I'm just 0:08:28.200 --> 0:08:30.520 really not going to call you back, like I never ghost. Yeah, 0:08:30.560 --> 0:08:32.319 now I just won't answer, but I do be busy. 0:08:34.960 --> 0:08:38.560 Then you run into them at the least. See, that's 0:08:38.600 --> 0:08:42.000 why I used to have a DNA list and I 0:08:42.040 --> 0:08:43.920 used to have all of these numbers saved in the DNA, 0:08:44.120 --> 0:08:48.840 and I just wouldn't answer it because I know somebody, 0:08:49.280 --> 0:08:51.760 somebody that made it on that list, and because had 0:08:51.840 --> 0:08:54.240 the same contact. I just never answered that. That list 0:08:54.320 --> 0:08:57.440 grow pretty long. Yeah, luckily I don't have to do 0:08:57.480 --> 0:08:59.400 that anymore. But they made a fake page to hit me. 0:08:59.440 --> 0:09:01.400 I'm not why have to make up a fake page 0:09:01.520 --> 0:09:04.199 just to get you? Blocked me on both and then 0:09:04.240 --> 0:09:06.600 he sent me a dollar on cash app, like when 0:09:06.640 --> 0:09:13.000 the name like please talk to me, do dollars. I 0:09:13.160 --> 0:09:16.040 might have considered. So it makes somebody bad, like if 0:09:16.040 --> 0:09:17.959 you're like, okay, we had a lot of chemistry, but 0:09:18.000 --> 0:09:21.559 then it was bad. What's bad like what happens too fast? 0:09:23.520 --> 0:09:27.400 Just no passion, Like I hate for a guy that 0:09:27.520 --> 0:09:28.880 just wants to just like put it in and just 0:09:28.920 --> 0:09:33.440 home until you come in and like hello. That's sometimes 0:09:33.679 --> 0:09:37.959 rhythm here. Yeah, he can't kiss. That's the thing for me. 0:09:38.559 --> 0:09:40.560 You gotta kiss. You gotta be able to kiss. That's 0:09:40.600 --> 0:09:42.840 that's the foreplay for me. You gotta be able to kiss. 0:09:42.880 --> 0:09:48.760 If you can't kiss, then it's just that somebody without 0:09:48.800 --> 0:09:51.640 kissing him, Like yes, but that's part of what wasn't good. 0:09:52.040 --> 0:09:54.000 It's like the rhythm because I didn't know the rhythm 0:09:54.040 --> 0:09:55.800 of the kiss. I didn't realize they were gonna have 0:09:55.840 --> 0:09:58.599 no rhythm period. And you know, I know hytherly is 0:09:58.600 --> 0:10:00.840 the point of you. We've seen your dad saying abilities. 0:10:02.160 --> 0:10:04.199 I mean, you know, but I think there's some supporting 0:10:04.240 --> 0:10:07.000 to everybody. The rhythm. The rhythm tell you how the 0:10:07.120 --> 0:10:10.120 little flow and moving their pace and their energy, you know, 0:10:10.160 --> 0:10:14.600 in the chemistry, you know. And yeah, but but you 0:10:14.600 --> 0:10:17.280 know there's there's Cutie Price who ain't got no rhythm 0:10:17.559 --> 0:10:20.880 right right, and that sucks. At number nine, I wanted 0:10:20.920 --> 0:10:23.920 to bring back some of our conversation with Brandy Evans 0:10:23.960 --> 0:10:28.040 and Nico Annan from the hit show P Valley. That's 0:10:28.120 --> 0:10:32.360 Uncle Clifford and our girl Mercedes. Aside from DJ announcing 0:10:32.400 --> 0:10:35.400 her appearance on P Valley this episode, this was really 0:10:35.440 --> 0:10:37.439 special to me because you know, I've been a fan 0:10:37.480 --> 0:10:41.800 of the show since day one. Enjoy all right, Now, 0:10:41.840 --> 0:10:44.400 let me ask you this. Another thing that happens, right, 0:10:44.840 --> 0:10:48.439 is how involved you get in somebody else's relationship when 0:10:48.480 --> 0:10:51.160 you see that things aren't going well, Like when do 0:10:51.240 --> 0:10:53.719 you say, okay, let me interfare, Like we see what's 0:10:53.760 --> 0:10:57.040 going on with Key Sean and Derek and Derry, right, 0:10:57.200 --> 0:11:01.120 and you know, she's coming and she is defending her 0:11:01.160 --> 0:11:04.959 man even though he's abusive toward her. So if that 0:11:05.040 --> 0:11:07.000 happens in real life, when do you say I gotta 0:11:07.000 --> 0:11:09.080 step in and get involved or do you mind your business? 0:11:10.960 --> 0:11:13.080 That's a tough one. I think you need to know 0:11:13.080 --> 0:11:14.920 who you're talking to first, because you know you got 0:11:14.920 --> 0:11:18.400 those those some friends, Like for me, it's gonna hurt me, 0:11:18.440 --> 0:11:21.840 but tell me, tell me the truth. I might be mad. 0:11:22.080 --> 0:11:24.440 I'm a process it, but I want to know. I'm 0:11:24.480 --> 0:11:26.240 gonna be more mad if you don't tell me. Then 0:11:26.280 --> 0:11:27.960 you have some friends you know they're not ready to 0:11:27.960 --> 0:11:30.160 hear that truth yet, but you also want to have 0:11:30.200 --> 0:11:32.160 their backs. So I feel like in those cases, you 0:11:32.200 --> 0:11:34.760 just gotta be there, like I'm waiting outside the door, yep, 0:11:34.840 --> 0:11:37.160 and I'm ready and whenever if you want to fall, 0:11:37.280 --> 0:11:39.960 I got you here to catch you, sis um. But 0:11:40.200 --> 0:11:42.200 also trying to let them know some people just saying 0:11:42.240 --> 0:11:45.240 ready to hear it. Yeah. I think also you gotta 0:11:45.440 --> 0:11:49.080 uh in speaking to that person and having the conversations, 0:11:49.600 --> 0:11:52.360 know why they may be doing it, like or find 0:11:52.400 --> 0:11:56.840 out the why. When I think about Key Sewan, especially 0:11:56.840 --> 0:12:01.920 as Uncle Clifford, we have had conversations that told me, oh, 0:12:02.000 --> 0:12:05.439 this is why you are in this situation, and it's 0:12:05.440 --> 0:12:09.640 it's much greater than just the fact that like he's 0:12:09.679 --> 0:12:12.240 just a man, you know, like you know, but that's 0:12:12.400 --> 0:12:15.080 more than just her baby's father. There's a reason why 0:12:15.280 --> 0:12:18.040 he is her baby's father. There's a reason why she 0:12:18.200 --> 0:12:21.120 crossed that color nine, especially in the South, you know, 0:12:21.800 --> 0:12:27.760 crazy when they found out white man. But is it 0:12:27.800 --> 0:12:31.240 any better if it was a black man? Exactly? Actually 0:12:31.320 --> 0:12:35.360 like that twist, Yeah, I mean it was because you know, 0:12:35.440 --> 0:12:39.640 you just figured accustomed to dysfunction, right, you know what 0:12:39.679 --> 0:12:42.040 I mean. I know Shannon who plays um Kei Shan 0:12:42.120 --> 0:12:43.839 has said that a lot too, because she would get 0:12:43.880 --> 0:12:46.160 comments and she's just like, I can't believe you letting 0:12:46.160 --> 0:12:47.760 a white man beat your ass, and they would say 0:12:47.760 --> 0:12:50.679 the turn she's like a man, A man is a man. 0:12:51.120 --> 0:12:55.520 It doesn't matter even if you're ye And it's not 0:12:55.600 --> 0:12:59.280 okay domestic abuse, it's your white that came from the 0:12:59.280 --> 0:13:03.760 white guys with um and they would beat their wise 0:13:03.800 --> 0:13:11.920 and they started calling them Puerto Ricans. But that's when 0:13:11.920 --> 0:13:14.240 that's a Bill Callaway said, And what's love got to 0:13:14.240 --> 0:13:15.559 do with it? It's not all right to let the 0:13:15.600 --> 0:13:18.280 motherfucker pound on you. Do you understand what I mean? 0:13:19.800 --> 0:13:21.800 Have you ever had to like interference? I had a 0:13:21.840 --> 0:13:25.280 friend that was getting abused, and when I tell you, like, 0:13:25.320 --> 0:13:27.560 her mom called me, can you talk to her? And 0:13:27.720 --> 0:13:29.600 everybody they tried to talk to her about it, she 0:13:29.640 --> 0:13:32.800 would just cut you off, you know, so something and 0:13:32.800 --> 0:13:34.320 then people feel like, oh, you're not a good friend 0:13:34.400 --> 0:13:36.720 if you don't say something. But then I was also 0:13:36.800 --> 0:13:39.439 aware that everybody and her family, her friends tried to 0:13:39.440 --> 0:13:41.960 talk to her and she wouldn't listen to anybody, And 0:13:42.000 --> 0:13:44.400 so I just was like, Okay, I'll just tell it. Look, 0:13:44.440 --> 0:13:47.200 whatever you do, I'm supportive of whatever decisions you make. 0:13:47.240 --> 0:13:49.120 I just want you to know him here because she 0:13:49.200 --> 0:13:51.720 wasn't ready and all it's gonna do is make her 0:13:51.800 --> 0:13:54.320 not want to communicate or not want to stay, isolate her, 0:13:54.760 --> 0:13:57.719 have somebody. Yeah, and the next thing you know, you're 0:13:57.800 --> 0:14:00.160 not friends no more, you know, And then he to 0:14:00.160 --> 0:14:02.360 you too, So now you really can't be around her 0:14:02.400 --> 0:14:04.920 and the kids. But she did eventually have to leave him, 0:14:05.320 --> 0:14:07.760 and I was there ready to drive into the police 0:14:07.800 --> 0:14:12.560 station to get that standing on her. My best friends. 0:14:12.640 --> 0:14:16.240 She caught this guy that she was so in love 0:14:16.280 --> 0:14:20.640 with during the most she caught him with dating man, 0:14:21.080 --> 0:14:24.240 she caught him doing a lot of different things, and 0:14:24.320 --> 0:14:26.920 she stood around and some of her friends that we 0:14:27.000 --> 0:14:29.320 all we you know, we grew up together. So a 0:14:29.360 --> 0:14:31.480 lot of the girls couldn't take it anymore and just 0:14:31.480 --> 0:14:34.440 stopped talking to her. And that was always my response 0:14:34.480 --> 0:14:38.120 to her, like whatever your decisions, I supported, you know, 0:14:38.200 --> 0:14:41.520 like I'm I'm not gonna judge your decisions. Has to 0:14:41.520 --> 0:14:44.760 put it her though I tried. I tried to support, 0:14:46.120 --> 0:14:48.480 but it worked out. Now she's would have a better guy, 0:14:48.920 --> 0:14:59.320 more compatible match for her. Your ms be looking like nowadays, 0:14:59.640 --> 0:15:02.720 like what's crazy? Like for real? A lot of people 0:15:02.800 --> 0:15:05.040 feel like I'm Uncle Clifford in real life and they 0:15:05.080 --> 0:15:08.920 come with this I'm sure fixed my life, like yama 0:15:09.080 --> 0:15:11.560 kind of a thing going on. So there's that, and 0:15:11.600 --> 0:15:13.880 then I have got enough few that's like, you know, 0:15:14.640 --> 0:15:17.440 some raunchy pictures like and I'm trying, I'm trying to 0:15:17.440 --> 0:15:21.040 get fluid out And I was like, dude, I'm trying 0:15:21.080 --> 0:15:24.040 to get literally and I'm gonnaelling. Those were some white 0:15:24.040 --> 0:15:25.840 folks that sent that to me, and I was like, 0:15:25.880 --> 0:15:29.800 no way to hold this reverse slavery. What's going on? 0:15:31.200 --> 0:15:33.480 You know what I'm saying, Like they own some old 0:15:33.520 --> 0:15:37.600 fetish situation. But those they get to the restricted, how 0:15:38.160 --> 0:15:40.400 they get to restrict? They don't get black and get restricted. 0:15:40.800 --> 0:15:43.640 What's that? Ain't got the same? He ain't owned social media. 0:15:43.920 --> 0:15:45.840 He's supposed to think, No, no, no, don't know what 0:15:46.360 --> 0:15:48.040 I stact the people because then they don't know they 0:15:48.160 --> 0:15:50.520 blocked that part. But you also could just send them 0:15:50.520 --> 0:15:52.080 to the message request where you can see it all. 0:15:52.160 --> 0:15:54.160 They don't know you saw it. That's where I'm see. 0:15:54.200 --> 0:15:56.480 I don't be doing all that. She she just keep 0:15:56.480 --> 0:16:02.560 it in the request exactly called a number. I'm not 0:16:02.640 --> 0:16:05.600 all there's a partner like social media. For me that 0:16:05.720 --> 0:16:08.840 it becomes a little much, especially because of the show, 0:16:08.920 --> 0:16:12.480 like I'm giving my all, i am baring my soul. 0:16:12.680 --> 0:16:16.080 I'm using all that God has given me to tell 0:16:16.200 --> 0:16:20.840 these stories. I don't owe y'all a post. I'll get 0:16:20.840 --> 0:16:22.240 to that ship when I get to it, you know 0:16:22.280 --> 0:16:24.440 what I mean. And I feel like that's just my 0:16:24.520 --> 0:16:27.400 healthy way of doing it, because for me, what's most 0:16:27.400 --> 0:16:31.000 important is my art. The social the posting, the promotion 0:16:31.080 --> 0:16:34.720 of that. It is great. I absolutely love it. And 0:16:34.760 --> 0:16:36.760 I'm gonna give it to you, but I'm gonna give 0:16:36.800 --> 0:16:40.040 it to you time I'm along stroke you do you 0:16:40.080 --> 0:16:44.240 understand what I'm saying. I don't give it to you 0:16:44.240 --> 0:16:48.120 one to want to. So what's your m thinking? Like 0:16:48.200 --> 0:16:51.080 Brandy chap Mine just want to talk to me like 0:16:51.120 --> 0:16:52.920 I'm a therapist. I don't know what's going on. I'm 0:16:52.920 --> 0:16:55.040 not getting no ratchet stuff I tried to look through. No, 0:16:55.800 --> 0:16:59.240 I do not promise. I don't have one. I have 0:16:59.440 --> 0:17:08.520 literally been looking for them, and I the man sometimes 0:17:08.560 --> 0:17:10.359 I think we do too. Yeah, I don't forget it 0:17:10.400 --> 0:17:12.640 from women. I haven't got I think because I talk 0:17:12.680 --> 0:17:14.320 about Mama so much, they like, we don't want to 0:17:14.320 --> 0:17:16.199 do that to her. So I get a lot of 0:17:16.240 --> 0:17:18.080 you know, I'm a caregiver or you know what I'm 0:17:18.080 --> 0:17:21.080 doing this with my mom because yeah, I get that, 0:17:21.200 --> 0:17:23.480 and then I get them roasting me like I literally 0:17:23.480 --> 0:17:25.640 have so many dams right now, like, bitch, pull it together. 0:17:25.880 --> 0:17:28.720 If the funk that you fall like, you shouldn't know better. 0:17:28.960 --> 0:17:30.919 I have one from last night. I was like, so 0:17:30.920 --> 0:17:32.560 you're gonna let that girl from Snowfall come up in 0:17:32.600 --> 0:17:35.240 here out? You know you are the safe How dare you? 0:17:35.480 --> 0:17:37.080 And they were like, they was like, do bad. I 0:17:37.160 --> 0:17:43.320 was like, yeah, yeah, I love listening. I love the 0:17:43.359 --> 0:17:48.280 new edition to It's something right, Yeah, they add to it. 0:17:49.359 --> 0:17:51.480 That's a little we don't know what's gonna end up happening. 0:17:52.960 --> 0:17:55.520 I'm here for it's it's all of the things. It's 0:17:55.600 --> 0:17:58.480 you know, the pink as the clubs in general. The 0:17:58.520 --> 0:18:02.360 door revolves. You know what I'm saying to everything day 0:18:02.600 --> 0:18:05.960 Yeah yeah, yeah, so okay, so no extending. Have you 0:18:06.040 --> 0:18:08.879 ever gotten a dick pick in your life? Yes? But 0:18:08.920 --> 0:18:12.119 it was they could have kept that ship. It was weak, 0:18:12.320 --> 0:18:14.119 Like first of all, I don't I don't really like 0:18:15.040 --> 0:18:16.800 It's just I was like, why it's so lame? It 0:18:16.800 --> 0:18:24.359 looked dirty in the background, like everything matters, Like you 0:18:24.359 --> 0:18:25.840 don't want to see your feet in the picture? Why 0:18:25.840 --> 0:18:27.200 I don't. We don't want to see you sitting on 0:18:27.240 --> 0:18:28.920 the toilet, We don't want to see the baby. But 0:18:29.960 --> 0:18:32.840 you cut more charage your thoughts and yeah, I didn't 0:18:32.880 --> 0:18:37.920 like it. And I shaved unshaved. I like unshaved. I'm 0:18:37.920 --> 0:18:40.840 saying wrong. I like shave. I don't like hair, like school, 0:18:41.440 --> 0:18:42.840 I don't like hair. I don't have it. And I 0:18:42.880 --> 0:18:49.520 don't like it like ye, yes, yes, yes, I like 0:18:50.160 --> 0:18:54.159 a man's very well. I mean, if you want what 0:18:54.200 --> 0:18:55.679 you need, then that's why I'm gonna need you to 0:18:55.680 --> 0:18:58.359 do what you need to do. Yeah. Ye. People have 0:18:58.400 --> 0:19:00.439 to understand the art of the dick picking. We always have, 0:19:00.720 --> 0:19:02.560 you know, discussed that and it's all about the angles. 0:19:02.600 --> 0:19:04.560 You know how we certain angles are but looks bigger 0:19:05.160 --> 0:19:06.880 and it looks nice to our legs look longer when 0:19:06.880 --> 0:19:09.119 you same thing with the dick. When you do you 0:19:09.200 --> 0:19:10.879 get this dick pick and it looks like it's like 0:19:10.920 --> 0:19:15.800 oh snap, oh it's fat, always squeezing to make it 0:19:15.800 --> 0:19:21.159 look bigger when you squeeze it, that's what you feel. 0:19:22.240 --> 0:19:24.639 So the visual is just what you're gonna feel on 0:19:24.720 --> 0:19:33.280 that post. Has nothing wrong with that, Listen, I'm just saying, 0:19:33.440 --> 0:19:37.240 don't get me that. So what do you feel like 0:19:37.280 --> 0:19:38.840 when you you get this picture and you're just like, 0:19:38.960 --> 0:19:41.719 all right, this is gonna be good time? And if 0:19:41.720 --> 0:19:44.720 it's like solicited, that's exactly don't see me or solicited. 0:19:44.720 --> 0:19:47.600 I ask you for that, And like, I don't think 0:19:47.600 --> 0:19:51.320 God should sending dick picks before you've seen their dick agreed. See, Now, 0:19:51.400 --> 0:19:53.159 a lot of guys saying that they should show you 0:19:53.240 --> 0:19:56.760 a pick so that I don't like that. I can 0:19:56.760 --> 0:20:01.200 see I don't want to. So you never sent one out? 0:20:01.760 --> 0:20:06.040 No hesitated, He hesitated. It was a little drink, the 0:20:06.080 --> 0:20:12.280 drink out of unsolicited. No, but he sent out in 0:20:12.640 --> 0:20:14.359 because I could tell you a lying about how you 0:20:14.880 --> 0:20:20.280 She said it right there. Okay, it was the requested package, 0:20:20.440 --> 0:20:30.639 because you know it's a whole package here. Well, listen, 0:20:30.640 --> 0:20:32.800 we appreciate you all so much, honestly, like it is 0:20:32.800 --> 0:20:34.639 an honor to have you guys here because we do 0:20:34.760 --> 0:20:37.280 love p Valley and we support the show so much. 0:20:37.359 --> 0:20:40.119 I know Jus having her moment here too, so I 0:20:40.160 --> 0:20:42.560 love that though, just even here you express how you 0:20:42.600 --> 0:20:45.159 feel about the representation on the show. That makes me 0:20:45.200 --> 0:20:48.399 so happy and really killed it. I cannot wait to 0:20:48.400 --> 0:20:52.760 see you on the pole. Okay, Nico, I mean Clifford, well, 0:20:52.840 --> 0:20:59.119 the one you were took earlier. Congratulations to you. I 0:20:59.160 --> 0:21:02.680 just want to say I'm loving seeing this moment for you, 0:21:02.920 --> 0:21:06.560 and you deserve all the flowers and all of the success. 0:21:06.640 --> 0:21:09.800 I really pray that your career goes beyond your widest imagination. 0:21:09.880 --> 0:21:12.040 Thank you, I really appreciate it. It's just an honor 0:21:12.080 --> 0:21:14.600 to be here with you guys. And I know in 0:21:14.680 --> 0:21:17.639 Memphis they must be so proud of you too. It's amazing. 0:21:17.720 --> 0:21:19.760 Child was a school teacher, I told high school English. 0:21:20.080 --> 0:21:23.840 So my students are gagging, yes, and it's it's beautiful 0:21:23.840 --> 0:21:26.040 because I would tell them all the time, you can 0:21:26.080 --> 0:21:28.560 live your dream. But then deep down and sometimes I'd 0:21:28.600 --> 0:21:30.040 be like, I'm getting older though, but that and I 0:21:30.080 --> 0:21:32.160 was like, nope, keep pushing forward. So it's a beautiful 0:21:32.160 --> 0:21:34.600 moment now when I have students like miss Evans, thank 0:21:34.640 --> 0:21:36.600 you you told me. You know, you're showing us what 0:21:36.640 --> 0:21:39.240 you taught us in the classroom. So and Miss Evans 0:21:39.240 --> 0:21:44.920 on the post, I didn't know. Oh my gosh. I 0:21:44.960 --> 0:21:47.560 did get one pick and I deleted it so fast. 0:21:47.600 --> 0:21:50.280 I've forgotten to this one moment from a freaking student 0:21:50.920 --> 0:21:52.920 and he told about some Miss Evans. I'm grown now 0:21:53.000 --> 0:21:56.800 and I swipe deleted so fast. I just remember right now. 0:21:57.440 --> 0:22:03.040 I deleted so fast. I was like, boy, boy, I'm 0:22:03.080 --> 0:22:09.560 grown now about that. Yes, Brandy, that's how you teaching 0:22:09.560 --> 0:22:19.600 the ABC listen. I was thinking, like, wow, she must 0:22:19.640 --> 0:22:21.879 have had a lot of money. I was teaching English 0:22:21.920 --> 0:22:32.120 and stilettos like a right. At number eight, we got 0:22:32.160 --> 0:22:36.160 Brooklyn's own Joey Badass. Joey gives a very in depth 0:22:36.200 --> 0:22:40.159 perspective as to why he believes in polygamous relationships. What 0:22:40.280 --> 0:22:44.520 are your thoughts? Are you down? You feel like aquarious 0:22:44.520 --> 0:22:47.240 camp be monogamous? Well, I can't speak for all the quarters, 0:22:47.280 --> 0:22:50.040 but you know I do resonate with that personally. You know, 0:22:50.119 --> 0:22:54.760 I'm not sure for anogamous relationships is necessarily for me? 0:22:54.920 --> 0:22:57.720 You know what I'm saying, your tweets, let's talk about 0:22:57.760 --> 0:23:07.639 it all right, here's the tweets and seething all right. 0:23:08.280 --> 0:23:11.760 Time to got to stop being a sorry s and word. 0:23:11.840 --> 0:23:14.560 Tell Clo you're a fucking yass and you need more 0:23:14.600 --> 0:23:16.520 than one woman? Straight up? What's so hard about being 0:23:16.520 --> 0:23:20.000 honest with our women? Fellas fun? This Western bullshit? Relationships 0:23:20.000 --> 0:23:22.919 should be expansive and beneficial for all. Most of us 0:23:22.960 --> 0:23:25.800 have been in polyamorous relationships our whole lives. The only 0:23:25.800 --> 0:23:29.240 differences we weren't honest about it, so that deserves like, 0:23:30.640 --> 0:23:35.880 we know how you feel first of all, just as 0:23:35.920 --> 0:23:37.679 a mean to come out and say, because that's not 0:23:37.720 --> 0:23:39.960 the broad thing to do. You're supposed to be like, yeah, 0:23:40.080 --> 0:23:42.920 you know, that's real ship, Like that's corny to play 0:23:42.960 --> 0:23:46.080 with somebody like that in the public publicly embarrassed them 0:23:46.240 --> 0:23:48.160 over and over and over, you know what I mean. 0:23:48.560 --> 0:23:51.120 I think it should be another mean, you know, like 0:23:51.320 --> 0:23:53.760 I mean that other men respect to say that's corny. 0:23:53.920 --> 0:23:55.439 Some people will say he lies to you because he 0:23:55.480 --> 0:23:59.480 loves you. It's real, girl, all right. So I feel 0:23:59.520 --> 0:24:02.840 like people lie in general because they're trying to preserve 0:24:02.880 --> 0:24:06.040 a reality for themselves. Like I'm a lied to you 0:24:06.119 --> 0:24:09.680 because this reality that we've built together is the one 0:24:09.760 --> 0:24:12.720 that's convenient for me or for you, you know what 0:24:12.720 --> 0:24:15.160 I mean, or for us. But I feel like when 0:24:15.160 --> 0:24:17.439 you're ready to be real, or when you're ready to 0:24:18.119 --> 0:24:21.200 experience with true love is unconditional love is just like 0:24:21.680 --> 0:24:23.400 nothing that I could say to you is gonna break 0:24:23.440 --> 0:24:25.920 this bond. So it's like if I got to tell you, like, yo, 0:24:26.280 --> 0:24:29.160 I love you, but I have another love it it's 0:24:29.160 --> 0:24:31.400 somebody else that I love and if that's gonna break 0:24:31.480 --> 0:24:33.159 us up, And I feel like we ain't meant to 0:24:35.680 --> 0:24:39.320 love more than one person absolutely. I mean, don't you 0:24:39.359 --> 0:24:41.679 love your mother and your kids and your pops and 0:24:41.760 --> 0:24:44.800 your cousins, and you know you could you could definitely 0:24:44.800 --> 0:24:46.840 love more than what Okay, but I'm talking about like 0:24:47.000 --> 0:24:55.840 in love. In love, what is people do different things 0:24:55.960 --> 0:24:59.879 for you. So being in love is you can't like 0:25:00.200 --> 0:25:02.879 see yourself with no one else in certain that you 0:25:02.920 --> 0:25:05.119 can't have different conversations with other people that you can 0:25:05.200 --> 0:25:06.960 have with that person. You don't open up to other 0:25:07.000 --> 0:25:09.360 people like you open up. You don't feel it's comfortable 0:25:09.480 --> 0:25:12.960 because you trust people, period exactly. I just feel like 0:25:14.560 --> 0:25:18.119 love is more of a verb butterflies than it is. 0:25:18.200 --> 0:25:21.080 Like love is not a now you know what I'm saying. 0:25:21.119 --> 0:25:24.080 It's a verb. Love is it love does Like when 0:25:24.119 --> 0:25:26.199 you say you love somebody, what are you willing to 0:25:26.280 --> 0:25:31.000 do for them to show that you love them? Sacrifice? Okay, 0:25:31.440 --> 0:25:35.959 maybe other relationships, but you know my sacrifice can look 0:25:36.040 --> 0:25:38.439 different than your sacrifice, so the other way around. So 0:25:38.520 --> 0:25:41.560 you're okay with Okay, I love you, but I love 0:25:41.560 --> 0:25:43.040 other women, And you're okay with being with a woman 0:25:43.080 --> 0:25:44.880 who's like, I love you, but I love other men. Right, 0:25:45.359 --> 0:25:48.560 I mean, any woman that I've ever been with has 0:25:48.600 --> 0:25:52.480 pretty much loved another man before at the time. You 0:25:52.520 --> 0:25:54.760 know what would be okay if she was honest and like, 0:25:55.160 --> 0:25:58.160 all right, so boom, this is my whole thing. Boom. Alright. 0:25:58.200 --> 0:26:03.240 So you got polyamory, which is we're both aware that 0:26:03.320 --> 0:26:05.680 you know, we have a thing with each other. We 0:26:06.119 --> 0:26:08.040 love each other, we have a lot of love bond 0:26:08.080 --> 0:26:09.960 with each other, but you know we're messing with other people. 0:26:10.000 --> 0:26:12.440 It's not committed, you know what I'm saying. Then you 0:26:12.560 --> 0:26:15.760 got you know, polygamous situations, which is more of a 0:26:15.840 --> 0:26:19.160 committed thing. It's like, all right, if a man has 0:26:19.240 --> 0:26:22.879 two women, right, he's committed to those two women. He 0:26:22.920 --> 0:26:25.760 can't mess with no other women outside of those two women. 0:26:25.800 --> 0:26:28.120 You know what I'm saying, Like, that's that's the agreement. 0:26:28.480 --> 0:26:31.200 It all depends on what the agreement is with whatever partner. 0:26:31.320 --> 0:26:33.840 You know what I'm saying, you have And everybody is different. 0:26:33.920 --> 0:26:38.000 Like I think this world today, this generation is a 0:26:38.080 --> 0:26:42.720 lack of understanding with dynamics, relationship dynamics, Like people are 0:26:42.720 --> 0:26:45.960 not really diving deep to what their partner wants. It's 0:26:46.000 --> 0:26:47.720 more about what they want and they're like, you know, 0:26:47.800 --> 0:26:51.280 they even go deeper. This society that how it raised 0:26:51.359 --> 0:26:54.440 us is like the woman's happiness is at the expense 0:26:54.480 --> 0:26:57.399 of a man. So a lot of the times, you know, 0:26:57.600 --> 0:27:02.040 women lack the understanding of what their man one. But 0:27:02.080 --> 0:27:05.960 what what about the expense of the women and the 0:27:06.080 --> 0:27:09.120 other way? Because I feel like we make a lot 0:27:09.119 --> 0:27:13.919 of sacrifices, we make more safices than it depends on 0:27:14.080 --> 0:27:16.040 who the man is. You know what I'm saying. I 0:27:16.320 --> 0:27:18.919 feel like it depends on who the man is. You know, 0:27:19.160 --> 0:27:22.120 I agree. I feel like like when you said your 0:27:22.160 --> 0:27:25.679 definition of love, it sounds good, you know, like that 0:27:25.680 --> 0:27:28.760 that is one. I feel like everybody has their own 0:27:28.880 --> 0:27:32.360 definition of what love is. And you know, when I'm 0:27:32.400 --> 0:27:34.800 in love with somebody, I feel like I sacrifice a lot, 0:27:35.000 --> 0:27:39.800 Like I sacrifice my my mental stability. Okay, you shouldn't 0:27:39.840 --> 0:27:54.280 have to do that. And like I mean, you know, 0:27:54.359 --> 0:27:57.520 I've been with a man who who I love so much, 0:27:57.640 --> 0:28:00.600 and I know he loves me back, but he just 0:28:01.160 --> 0:28:04.600 his lifestyle and his career it just brings a lot 0:28:04.640 --> 0:28:07.320 of women to his feet. And I will never be 0:28:07.400 --> 0:28:10.119 okay with a man being with me and being with 0:28:10.240 --> 0:28:14.440 other women openly. I just don't. Even though, like I've 0:28:14.480 --> 0:28:17.760 been saying this, I've I've thought about the whole Polly 0:28:18.000 --> 0:28:22.600 and polygamy thing in recent weeks. I've thought about it 0:28:22.680 --> 0:28:25.280 because I feel like that made me. Allowing my man 0:28:25.400 --> 0:28:28.399 to be with another woman who I am also close 0:28:28.440 --> 0:28:32.480 to might be the only way. That's it's the only way, 0:28:32.560 --> 0:28:37.239 because that's what It's just something i'm thinking about. Who 0:28:37.359 --> 0:28:39.760 has again, Yeah, let's get back to that, you know, 0:28:40.120 --> 0:28:44.239 but saying with saying that, I'm not dumb. You know, 0:28:44.360 --> 0:28:48.440 I know what's going on, So I know what's going 0:28:48.520 --> 0:28:50.239 on in the back of my mind. But I just 0:28:50.320 --> 0:28:52.960 I'm not okay with him telling me that I'm never 0:28:53.000 --> 0:28:57.040 gonna be okay. I'm on the road, so I got 0:28:57.080 --> 0:29:00.240 this prostitute sucking my dick, I'm never gonna be okay. 0:29:00.800 --> 0:29:02.400 By the way, I don't think that's okay. You know what, 0:29:03.680 --> 0:29:07.040 Rather a situation where it's like I have another woman 0:29:07.440 --> 0:29:09.760 because I don't want to prostitute sucking my dick. I 0:29:09.800 --> 0:29:11.280 don't want to mess with holes. I don't want to 0:29:11.280 --> 0:29:13.800 mess with nobody who I ain't got a real love bond, 0:29:13.840 --> 0:29:16.640 genuine connection with. But also, let's get down to the 0:29:16.720 --> 0:29:20.520 root of the problem. Why why would you rather to 0:29:20.640 --> 0:29:24.440 being dark about a prostitute? Second is, women have like 0:29:24.480 --> 0:29:28.160 a real other love. My love language is um you know, 0:29:28.560 --> 0:29:34.440 um affirmations of love, you know, terms of in So 0:29:34.600 --> 0:29:37.880 it's like it's hard for me. How could a man 0:29:38.000 --> 0:29:40.680 be be telling me? How can a man tell me 0:29:40.720 --> 0:29:43.280 I love you, but I want to be with another woman. 0:29:43.360 --> 0:29:46.640 That's like crushing my whole heart that I love you 0:29:46.680 --> 0:29:52.920 but I want to Nat. I wanted to add to 0:29:52.960 --> 0:29:55.280 what you said earlier. And I think the other big 0:29:55.320 --> 0:29:58.320 part is when you said society. Women get caught up 0:29:58.320 --> 0:30:00.400 on what people think a lot. So I I feel like, 0:30:00.480 --> 0:30:02.720 when you're in a relationship with me and right he's 0:30:02.720 --> 0:30:05.600 giving you everything you need, you feel fulfilled. Right with 0:30:05.760 --> 0:30:08.800 your sisters, say, with the people that follow on social media, say, 0:30:08.880 --> 0:30:10.880 with the church, say or whatever say. A lot of 0:30:10.880 --> 0:30:14.040 that impacts how you react or you respond. So when 0:30:14.040 --> 0:30:15.720 he said the thing about society, it's a lot of 0:30:15.720 --> 0:30:18.360 pressure on women that, oh, he bet not have another bit, 0:30:18.560 --> 0:30:20.800 you know what I mean? Versus if you're comfortable, people 0:30:20.800 --> 0:30:22.680 ask me for advice all the time, and I tell him, like, 0:30:23.000 --> 0:30:25.360 if you know that he dates other women or he 0:30:25.400 --> 0:30:27.760 deals with other women in whatever way, and you're really 0:30:27.760 --> 0:30:30.080 truly happy home, I'm not talking about being suspicious and 0:30:30.120 --> 0:30:31.760 look at through phones and you can't sleep in your 0:30:31.800 --> 0:30:34.440 mental simbility. I'm talking about this nick. Keep you happy, 0:30:35.040 --> 0:30:38.000 that's any fun? Other women, why do you care? Like 0:30:38.080 --> 0:30:40.000 why why does it bother you if you're happy in 0:30:40.040 --> 0:30:42.520 the home? And because the truth is, men come like 0:30:42.640 --> 0:30:45.760 him straightforward. Most bitches can't take it, even though you're 0:30:45.800 --> 0:30:53.040 being honest. Most but then there's just something women is 0:30:53.080 --> 0:30:55.840 more okay with, Like, all right, a funk with Joey, 0:30:55.880 --> 0:30:58.280 Like I know he gets bitches and ship like that, 0:30:58.360 --> 0:31:00.880 but she gonna I'm in make him commit to me, 0:31:01.360 --> 0:31:03.360 even though I know he can go on tour and boom, 0:31:03.680 --> 0:31:04.800 he might do what you do as long as I 0:31:04.800 --> 0:31:07.400 don't know about It's like I just think that that's 0:31:07.440 --> 0:31:11.040 exactly that's just shaddy though. But because it's like now 0:31:11.040 --> 0:31:13.000 me is Joey, I can't come back home, and like 0:31:13.000 --> 0:31:14.880 I don't feel like I could be real with you 0:31:15.080 --> 0:31:18.080 like I'm keeping you. I just I'm keeping you in 0:31:18.120 --> 0:31:22.080 this false real can be real without being you know, 0:31:22.440 --> 0:31:28.280 so you know you don't want to honest man, So 0:31:28.360 --> 0:31:32.200 you don't want to honest? Man, I don't I feel 0:31:32.240 --> 0:31:35.080 like like you said, if a man is making you 0:31:35.120 --> 0:31:36.960 happy in all kinds of ways, but he's sleeping with 0:31:37.000 --> 0:31:41.240 other women. You're not making me happy no matter what 0:31:41.320 --> 0:31:45.280 you do. You're not making me happy. You're making me sad, 0:31:45.480 --> 0:31:51.280 all right, But let me stop you right there. Though. 0:31:51.480 --> 0:31:53.720 How many times have you dealt with a man who 0:31:53.760 --> 0:31:56.280 you wasn't in an exclusive relationship with and you telling 0:31:56.400 --> 0:31:58.760 all your home girls like, yo, I think he's the one, 0:31:58.840 --> 0:32:01.040 boom boom, but you're not committed, so you know what 0:32:01.080 --> 0:32:04.600 that means. He got other bitches, but he's satisfying your 0:32:04.640 --> 0:32:09.680 knees though for now. But if I'm looking to get 0:32:09.720 --> 0:32:12.320 married or be with somebody in a minute, I'm a 0:32:12.360 --> 0:32:15.320 monogamous type of person. Like I don't want to have 0:32:16.000 --> 0:32:18.240 be with somebody that's with other people. But that's just me. 0:32:18.520 --> 0:32:20.240 I don't think it's wrong. If other people need to 0:32:20.680 --> 0:32:22.080 do that, you can do what you want to do. 0:32:22.560 --> 0:32:24.320 But I know that that's how I feel, because I 0:32:24.400 --> 0:32:27.000 also know that I need somebody that's like making me 0:32:27.040 --> 0:32:30.080 a priority over anybody else. So I know there's somebody 0:32:30.120 --> 0:32:32.680 else in the picture that you might have to compromise 0:32:32.760 --> 0:32:35.080 the situation with me because they need something, and it 0:32:35.200 --> 0:32:38.680 might that's gonna upset me. But that's the understanding, that 0:32:41.600 --> 0:32:43.920 expectation from the beginning, like I'd rather than men be 0:32:44.000 --> 0:32:45.880 open like where I'm at now. Before I used to 0:32:45.960 --> 0:32:47.600 think like that, like no, I don't want, but now 0:32:47.600 --> 0:32:49.000 where I'm at in my life, I'm just like, you 0:32:49.040 --> 0:32:51.680 know what, if you're open and honest from the beginning, 0:32:51.720 --> 0:32:59.560 you're giving me a choice. But he can expectations get 0:33:00.080 --> 0:33:03.160 way of breaking my heart, Like what the ship you do? 0:33:03.480 --> 0:33:06.120 Work that out with God? Don't let me find out, 0:33:06.520 --> 0:33:12.760 because I'm gonna not feel like I shouldn't do anything 0:33:12.800 --> 0:33:16.440 else either, right, Like, if you're like I'm dating other women, 0:33:16.520 --> 0:33:18.320 I'm gonna be like, okay, we're in an open relationships. 0:33:19.040 --> 0:33:22.360 What kind of men are your dating? Though? Bro? What 0:33:22.360 --> 0:33:30.080 do you mean you said? Band? I had a lot 0:33:30.120 --> 0:33:32.640 of guys lately, Like like, I think I'm meeting guys 0:33:33.320 --> 0:33:35.360 and it's like that they're open with me from the beginning. 0:33:35.400 --> 0:33:37.440 So I'm like, okay, well, now this is different. I 0:33:37.520 --> 0:33:39.600 respect that you're giving me a choice. As long as 0:33:39.600 --> 0:33:42.000 you're giving me the choice to either you know, go 0:33:42.080 --> 0:33:44.560 through it or not, then I'm okay with it. But 0:33:44.600 --> 0:33:47.040 I'm gonna let you know these are my expectations as 0:33:47.080 --> 0:33:49.959 long as that's not compromising my happiness. Where I'm at, 0:33:50.440 --> 0:33:52.720 and you making sure that you could play that field. 0:33:52.840 --> 0:33:55.160 Never had no right. I dated a guy recently and 0:33:55.160 --> 0:33:58.000 I'm like, yo, let's let's not lock in. Let's just 0:33:58.080 --> 0:34:00.320 enjoy each other. Let's make financial goals. We have to 0:34:00.360 --> 0:34:02.320 go together. You do you do me? He was like, no, 0:34:02.400 --> 0:34:04.360 let's get married, just for me to find out he 0:34:04.400 --> 0:34:07.040 got some I never feel a man that was like 0:34:07.160 --> 0:34:09.600 open and honest with me. I'm such aggressive, like a 0:34:09.600 --> 0:34:11.480 big personality. Think it's like the lock me now. So 0:34:11.520 --> 0:34:14.000 the first thing is like, you don't take no body whatever. 0:34:14.280 --> 0:34:16.680 I think I'm cool with the polygamy thing too, because 0:34:16.680 --> 0:34:19.200 I'm Muslim my faith and Muslims can have I'm Muslam 0:34:19.400 --> 0:34:21.359 had more than one wife and with a Muslim that's 0:34:21.360 --> 0:34:23.919 like how you said, it's almost contractual. So if we're 0:34:23.960 --> 0:34:26.560 both had the same husband, we both have to live 0:34:26.600 --> 0:34:28.400 the same. You can't have a rental property and I 0:34:28.440 --> 0:34:30.880 have owned home. I can't mean the projects and you 0:34:30.920 --> 0:34:32.839 in the mansion. It has to be fair to days 0:34:32.840 --> 0:34:34.920 and with unfair. So I mean for me to say 0:34:34.920 --> 0:34:39.000 I'm not with is against my religions because everybody gotta 0:34:39.040 --> 0:34:42.680 have this. It depends on the level of that let's 0:34:42.680 --> 0:34:46.560 get to You said something about priority, right. I think 0:34:46.640 --> 0:34:51.399 that's a very important word because who is really priority? Right? 0:34:51.440 --> 0:34:54.399 If you're dealing with a man who's purposeful, you could 0:34:54.440 --> 0:34:57.920 never be his priority, you know why, because his purpose 0:34:58.719 --> 0:35:01.360 to himself to what he you gotta do, it's always 0:35:01.360 --> 0:35:03.640 going to be first. He's always going to choose the 0:35:03.680 --> 0:35:07.680 opportunity that's going to advance his career, which trickles down 0:35:07.719 --> 0:35:10.879 it benefits you as woman over you. Well, I don't 0:35:10.880 --> 0:35:13.240 mean that I have to be a priority over every 0:35:13.320 --> 0:35:15.920 aspect because my my career is a priority too, and 0:35:15.960 --> 0:35:18.839 I think at times people know that. But I also 0:35:18.920 --> 0:35:22.080 don't want to know when it comes to another woman. Yeah, 0:35:22.320 --> 0:35:27.239 like if it's a holiday, a man with purpose, I 0:35:27.239 --> 0:35:31.120 think children are children are different, you know what. Truthfully, 0:35:31.120 --> 0:35:33.600 i'd rather date somebody that doesn't, you know, have a 0:35:33.680 --> 0:35:36.319 kid that if I had a choice, if we're talking 0:35:36.320 --> 0:35:39.520 about choices, i'd rather not. Yeah, if I can do that, 0:35:39.560 --> 0:35:42.640 I would rather not have to. But I love kids 0:35:42.719 --> 0:35:45.880 and so no, but I love kids. But I'm okay 0:35:45.920 --> 0:35:48.520 with that. But when it comes to somebody that you're 0:35:48.600 --> 0:35:51.239 treating like in a relationship, I don't want to feel 0:35:51.280 --> 0:35:53.880 like in your relationship, there's somebody that's you know, you 0:35:53.960 --> 0:35:56.080 might have to be like, yo, Angela, it's her birthday, 0:35:56.120 --> 0:36:00.440 so me and her gonna go on this. Have to 0:36:00.520 --> 0:36:02.120 know how to deal like he has to know how 0:36:02.160 --> 0:36:04.279 to play that, like play that like. I mean, I've 0:36:04.320 --> 0:36:06.760 never been in that situation, so I don't know he shouldn't. 0:36:07.440 --> 0:36:09.840 I feel like it's nice. In the perfect world, a 0:36:09.840 --> 0:36:12.200 man will give you the choice. But listen, if you 0:36:12.280 --> 0:36:14.560 give me the choice, I'm gonna choose to not with 0:36:14.680 --> 0:36:22.760 my heart break. My heartbreak has come from an lying 0:36:22.800 --> 0:36:28.440 to me a picture that is not for having multiple 0:36:28.920 --> 0:36:32.080 lives aside of me. I'm thinking I'm the only one. No, 0:36:32.719 --> 0:36:34.799 give me a choice, don't waste my time. I feel like, 0:36:34.880 --> 0:36:37.560 I mean, I would say I'm not I'm more than 0:36:37.719 --> 0:36:40.040 enough woman man to just want to be with me. 0:36:40.120 --> 0:36:45.080 I'm down, I'll do whatever, I make my own money. 0:36:45.080 --> 0:36:49.879 I'm independent, I'm intelligent, I'm beautiful, I'm sexy, and I'm shy. 0:36:50.760 --> 0:36:53.800 I feel like I'm just because all those things that 0:36:53.800 --> 0:36:57.760 that doesn't take away a man wanting alright, so boom, 0:36:59.000 --> 0:37:08.240 I just can't help. Like if a man is telling 0:37:08.239 --> 0:37:10.400 me straight up, like listen, you one of mine. You're 0:37:10.480 --> 0:37:12.840 part of my realm. You're you're one of the girls 0:37:12.840 --> 0:37:15.560 that I'm working with right now. I'm okay, fine, you're 0:37:15.600 --> 0:37:17.239 not one of the guys that I'm sing with. I 0:37:17.320 --> 0:37:19.480 just want a guy who's at least gonna give me 0:37:19.520 --> 0:37:21.799 the respect to give me time in the beginning, to 0:37:21.920 --> 0:37:24.920 just be with me at first, at least give me 0:37:24.960 --> 0:37:30.399 a try. You know what I'm saying, You know, because 0:37:30.520 --> 0:37:33.000 then you're accepting and you're just accepting that right from 0:37:33.000 --> 0:37:35.440 the beginning. But that's the guy for you, and that's 0:37:35.480 --> 0:37:38.920 the guy that's meant for you. He's gonna be happening 0:37:39.920 --> 0:37:42.640 at all. I was saying, all I, you know, wanted 0:37:42.680 --> 0:37:44.879 to say, is you know everything that you just said 0:37:44.920 --> 0:37:47.480 about yourself. You're being beautiful and you're being with you 0:37:47.600 --> 0:37:50.640 being small, you being in the tracking, like you're being kind. 0:37:51.160 --> 0:37:53.839 I'm so nice. Yeah, Like, you know, you're being one 0:37:53.840 --> 0:37:58.640 of these A man, okay, So first, it takes a 0:37:58.640 --> 0:38:01.640 certain type of man either to even be able to 0:38:01.760 --> 0:38:07.000 handle a situation where he's managing two or more relationships, 0:38:07.040 --> 0:38:08.879 you know what I'm saying. Like me, personally, I feel 0:38:08.880 --> 0:38:11.200 like I only do two. I can't do more than two. 0:38:11.440 --> 0:38:13.479 You know what I mean, I can only do too 0:38:13.640 --> 0:38:16.560 or whatever. Right, what's the highest duty of a man? 0:38:17.600 --> 0:38:22.760 The highest duty of a man protection like just making 0:38:22.800 --> 0:38:24.759 me feel like I'm okay, like I'm good with you, 0:38:24.840 --> 0:38:27.160 so I feel protecting it more than one way, so 0:38:27.200 --> 0:38:37.400 safely together, Okay, providing what's supportive mentally, physics, But what 0:38:37.440 --> 0:38:40.640 would you I mean, what's the highest were the only duty? 0:38:40.680 --> 0:38:47.040 But what's the highest dudy. So when it comes to 0:38:47.560 --> 0:38:52.480 when it comes to providing financially, it's probably the biggest 0:38:52.520 --> 0:38:55.799 aspect of that. In capitalist America and the society that 0:38:55.880 --> 0:38:57.920 we live in, a man has to be able to 0:38:57.960 --> 0:39:03.760 provide for his family, right. That's pretty much every most 0:39:03.840 --> 0:39:07.400 women's expectation of a man, and that's most men's expectation 0:39:07.560 --> 0:39:10.880 of themselves. However, that's not the only way your man 0:39:11.280 --> 0:39:13.200 is supposed to provide. A man needs to be able 0:39:13.239 --> 0:39:19.239 to provide guidance and leadership From a man. I need 0:39:19.320 --> 0:39:22.640 him to provide me with inspiration. That's all I need. Okay, 0:39:22.640 --> 0:39:24.160 So look, this is this is the point that I'm 0:39:24.160 --> 0:39:25.880 getting into. This is the point that I'm getting to. 0:39:26.520 --> 0:39:29.799 You See, most women haven't come across a man who 0:39:29.840 --> 0:39:35.600 is able to provide financially and intellectually, spiritually, emotionally, and 0:39:35.719 --> 0:39:38.799 I'm physically all of that ship, you know what I'm saying. 0:39:38.880 --> 0:39:41.440 So of course, at the first glance, it would be like, 0:39:41.719 --> 0:39:44.400 oh yeah, I could never do that because most women 0:39:44.520 --> 0:39:47.359 have not been introduced to that type of man. And 0:39:47.800 --> 0:39:50.239 you know, to be real, not a lot of these 0:39:50.280 --> 0:39:54.320 men exist because the way society has groomed us all, 0:39:54.840 --> 0:39:57.560 it's corrupted. You know what I'm saying. It's corrupted, like 0:39:57.600 --> 0:40:02.440 society's groom mental life. Just a woman to you know, 0:40:02.800 --> 0:40:06.200 almost take on this masculine role of today. It's like, 0:40:06.280 --> 0:40:09.879 let's be real as a woman, all of y'all. Don't 0:40:09.920 --> 0:40:14.560 don't ya want your men to dominate you? Yeah? That's 0:40:14.560 --> 0:40:24.320 all I want. Yes, I mean I'm a very dominated person. 0:40:24.840 --> 0:40:26.920 Like I mean, no, no, no, what I'm saying like, 0:40:26.960 --> 0:40:33.120 don't when you say dominate, I mean, don't you want 0:40:33.160 --> 0:40:37.279 your man to lead y'all? For sure? Don't you don't 0:40:37.320 --> 0:40:39.080 y'all want to be with a man who you know, 0:40:39.160 --> 0:40:41.960 y'all can close your eyes fall back this nigga, right, 0:40:42.040 --> 0:40:45.120 But I want to be that for him too, Okay. 0:40:45.120 --> 0:40:49.360 But the thing is the way natural order works a 0:40:49.520 --> 0:40:52.640 real man is not necessarily going to allow a woman 0:40:52.719 --> 0:40:55.080 to be that for him because that kind of takes 0:40:55.120 --> 0:41:00.040 away his power. However, all men need a woman to 0:41:00.080 --> 0:41:02.239 remind them of who they are, to remind them of 0:41:02.239 --> 0:41:04.200 their part because at times we do get lost, we 0:41:04.200 --> 0:41:07.040 do get misguided, and we lean on our women a 0:41:07.080 --> 0:41:10.880 lot of the times. With men, woman is our inspiration. 0:41:11.360 --> 0:41:15.680 You see men turn their whole lives around. Why the woman? 0:41:16.480 --> 0:41:18.719 You know what I'm saying. So what I'm basically trying 0:41:18.760 --> 0:41:20.680 to get to is if a man is living in 0:41:20.719 --> 0:41:24.719 his highest duty, he's checking every box off for you. 0:41:27.000 --> 0:41:30.319 For that type of man, some woman might not be 0:41:30.560 --> 0:41:34.759 enough to fulfill him. Number seven our guys starsty staying 0:41:34.840 --> 0:41:38.640 Tanna Sarcy with hands down one of our funniest guests 0:41:38.680 --> 0:41:41.279 of the year, So open and honest and can you 0:41:41.360 --> 0:41:45.000 guess why his nickname is Young Gummy? Sounds like I 0:41:45.080 --> 0:41:46.839 need to brush up on some things. Check it out? 0:41:48.719 --> 0:41:55.280 All right, Well, look we got a little game, so 0:41:55.640 --> 0:41:57.480 we're gonna give you some scenarios and you're gonna tell 0:41:57.520 --> 0:42:00.480 us if you would walk or stay. Okay, all right, 0:42:01.120 --> 0:42:04.480 you get a first class flight to get fluid out, 0:42:04.560 --> 0:42:08.920 but they put you in a three star hotel. I'm 0:42:08.920 --> 0:42:14.759 gonna stay for that because Beach this much, you're not 0:42:14.880 --> 0:42:17.640 about a situation. I'm stay for that because Beach. I 0:42:17.719 --> 0:42:20.040 know how to I know how to make your worth 0:42:20.080 --> 0:42:22.600 the three star. Wow, Beach. We're going to them all 0:42:22.640 --> 0:42:27.840 the same. Okay, Okay, you're making up other We're going 0:42:27.560 --> 0:42:30.200 on nice and I'm real hungry. When I got eat, 0:42:31.719 --> 0:42:35.520 I don't order everything. I do order everything that's market price. Okay. 0:42:35.760 --> 0:42:37.719 You know how much kind of drink you ordering when 0:42:37.719 --> 0:42:39.560 you go out to eat? You drinking ninety for you? Like, 0:42:39.560 --> 0:42:43.360 what are you drinking? Um? It's if it's on the 0:42:43.400 --> 0:42:48.719 nigga ninety for the two class you alright, So you're 0:42:48.719 --> 0:42:51.480 staying for that, all right. He tells you he loves 0:42:51.520 --> 0:43:03.320 you after the first date. I'm staying very me. You 0:43:03.440 --> 0:43:05.200 haven't been talking to a nigga and he just give 0:43:05.320 --> 0:43:07.120 like do you know how you had them? Like them 0:43:07.160 --> 0:43:08.880 little like when you first I'm talking to somebody and 0:43:09.040 --> 0:43:12.479 just kid y'all y'all on the phone. Ship. Yeah, after 0:43:12.600 --> 0:43:14.200 days we go together. I love You're ready to meet 0:43:14.200 --> 0:43:19.560 your mama. Man, so many mama's I was like always 0:43:19.600 --> 0:43:22.160 I always get I meet the Mama's I watched the 0:43:22.239 --> 0:43:27.960 kids all you do all of that. That's fast, Okay, 0:43:27.960 --> 0:43:30.440 So I love you too. What if that if it's 0:43:30.480 --> 0:43:34.080 like during sex and he's like, I love you, but 0:43:34.120 --> 0:43:36.040 we're saying so even if you don't love him and 0:43:36.080 --> 0:43:37.960 you don't feel it like that, you still said, yeah, 0:43:38.040 --> 0:43:40.960 just still give. What if he's like, my dick is 0:43:40.960 --> 0:43:49.359 so big, isn't it? And it's not like because one 0:43:49.400 --> 0:43:51.200 thing about the one thing about one thing about the 0:43:51.360 --> 0:43:55.439 little niggas, like day a little niggas you got with men, 0:43:55.840 --> 0:43:58.080 so they already insecured their heads, so they already ready 0:43:58.120 --> 0:44:00.080 to make up them them the niggas that spin the 0:44:00.120 --> 0:44:03.279 bag say they're gonna spend the bed. They't gonna eat 0:44:03.280 --> 0:44:05.040 you out all night on it because they already know, 0:44:05.200 --> 0:44:11.600 like they can't give me. So I'm like, yeah, all right. 0:44:11.760 --> 0:44:18.680 He sneaks a picture of you, bitch, oh walk a 0:44:18.719 --> 0:44:21.200 picture of me, like I don't know who you're sending 0:44:21.239 --> 0:44:23.719 the two albums like yeah, I always saying Tenna, like 0:44:24.200 --> 0:44:26.040 I don't get me group you like this. But what 0:44:26.080 --> 0:44:27.960 if Jaron dinner and it's a cute picture and you're 0:44:27.960 --> 0:44:31.080 looking cute if okay, so you're like looking down. So 0:44:31.239 --> 0:44:34.080 I mean, but I know work mode. I know, I 0:44:34.160 --> 0:44:37.239 know he's sneaking. A sounds you like y'all picture of 0:44:37.280 --> 0:44:39.719 me like he's sneaking and then show it. What IF's 0:44:39.719 --> 0:44:42.040 sneaking and saying to you, yeah, like he did like 0:44:42.040 --> 0:44:46.120 a pictures like looking at the mid and by the 0:44:46.160 --> 0:44:48.680 damn show should be like, okay, well that was cute, 0:44:48.960 --> 0:44:54.719 but reasonally, get right, I love you. What if he's 0:44:54.920 --> 0:44:58.360 getting put it in his story framing, I may not 0:44:58.440 --> 0:45:04.840 see it, class friend. And that's like l's because because normally, 0:45:04.920 --> 0:45:06.759 like when I when I'll be talking to niggas, I'll 0:45:06.760 --> 0:45:09.480 be talking to niggas like for a good little minute 0:45:09.480 --> 0:45:12.400 like and then like I live, I live with a 0:45:12.480 --> 0:45:15.640 nigga my close friends for like three or four months 0:45:15.640 --> 0:45:17.680 and then pop out and everybody I was like, I've 0:45:17.719 --> 0:45:20.239 been talking to that, right, So I'm just spressing, like 0:45:20.520 --> 0:45:23.040 you know, it'll be trying to errwin it. So don't 0:45:23.040 --> 0:45:24.799 just be so quick to post me, because now I'm 0:45:24.800 --> 0:45:27.520 gonna like, you know, nigga's nigga because you're trying to 0:45:27.560 --> 0:45:29.080 you're trying to get cloud. You'd be trying to p 0:45:29.160 --> 0:45:32.319 post me to make your ex home man like, I'm like, oh, 0:45:32.360 --> 0:45:36.360 bit says him, don't use me because I had niggas 0:45:36.360 --> 0:45:41.400 had me in crossfired with games. I'm like, bitch, oh 0:45:41.560 --> 0:45:45.560 you mad about yeah? Wow, girl, I talked to ten niggas, 0:45:45.640 --> 0:45:48.239 trust me, and he like number eight. So you open 0:45:48.320 --> 0:45:50.600 about that, like if you date multiple people and somebody 0:45:50.640 --> 0:45:57.879 asked you, now if you only baby and okay, yeah, 0:45:59.160 --> 0:46:00.960 one thing about me up. Fend me when you tell 0:46:01.040 --> 0:46:05.680 me the truth, because bitch, who I go to the house. No, 0:46:05.840 --> 0:46:07.920 you're not. You're gonna go to your I don't give 0:46:07.920 --> 0:46:10.000 a what you gotta tell me. I don't want to 0:46:10.000 --> 0:46:16.759 know anyway. I feel like me, I'm like, bitch, who 0:46:18.600 --> 0:46:21.279 I never saw you? I'm always at his house where 0:46:21.280 --> 0:46:25.239 you being, because I'll be there because i'd bitch. I 0:46:25.360 --> 0:46:31.200 need lashes out and the beaches fer nails. I'm trying 0:46:31.239 --> 0:46:34.239 to get him cut. I'm I need to be able 0:46:34.239 --> 0:46:36.399 to be like where you was. Shortly enough, I never 0:46:36.719 --> 0:46:40.400 got somewhere stop somebody like Susy said, who isn't gonna 0:46:40.440 --> 0:46:44.200 make you feel crazy? Okay the time he was like, 0:46:45.200 --> 0:46:47.480 I was donning with this nigga and he was like, 0:46:47.560 --> 0:46:49.919 and I guess like a on and off relationship type 0:46:49.920 --> 0:46:52.960 of ship. And I was at his house. Bitch left 0:46:53.000 --> 0:46:57.239 my little nail over that left like lashes he people. 0:46:57.360 --> 0:47:00.400 He was like his birth had laid. And then I 0:47:00.480 --> 0:47:04.200 was like, oh that shoe you're slipping on your paper beach. 0:47:04.239 --> 0:47:06.600 Throw the sh away. Okay, Now, what if he has 0:47:06.640 --> 0:47:10.400 a girlfriend. I don't. I don't know. I don't like. Well, 0:47:10.680 --> 0:47:13.759 if if he bi sexual, that's one thing, but I 0:47:13.800 --> 0:47:16.160 don't like down on nigga. So if you got a girlfriend, 0:47:16.560 --> 0:47:19.000 I'm not really I don't get into that. What if 0:47:19.000 --> 0:47:25.120 the girlfriend is okay with him? Eggs like that? Like 0:47:25.200 --> 0:47:26.640 the hell was ready to beating out. I was like, 0:47:26.680 --> 0:47:27.960 you want to be for me for real about him? 0:47:28.000 --> 0:47:35.520 She was like, bitch, I don't give a fucked. I 0:47:35.560 --> 0:47:37.959 didn't expect it. I can go, I can go blow 0:47:38.000 --> 0:47:39.600 for blow with any hope, but I'm not competing with 0:47:39.640 --> 0:47:42.279 the man. You got it. Yeah, she was like, I 0:47:42.320 --> 0:47:47.600 don't give a fun I was like, that's right, who's 0:47:47.640 --> 0:47:50.319 my giving in a relationship? You are? Are you more 0:47:50.320 --> 0:47:53.240 of a taker or a giver? I give what it gives. 0:47:53.680 --> 0:47:57.560 So I kind of watched like how Nigga is? I 0:47:57.640 --> 0:47:59.600 kind of watched, like you know, when we're going out. 0:47:59.640 --> 0:48:02.480 I just watch on mannimalisms and that's what makes me. 0:48:02.719 --> 0:48:04.880 And then you reciprocate, you know what I'm saying, step up? 0:48:05.040 --> 0:48:06.800 And I feel like you got to invest in niggas. 0:48:06.880 --> 0:48:09.560 Like if you're invest niggas would bad excuse me. So 0:48:09.840 --> 0:48:14.200 you know you know that you got a nigga that's 0:48:14.920 --> 0:48:17.120 that's gonna spind or you know that you got nigga 0:48:17.160 --> 0:48:19.799 that don't mad. Then the niggas like, bitch, I pop 0:48:19.840 --> 0:48:21.640 on a bitch, I'll call on your ricks on it 0:48:21.680 --> 0:48:27.120 because I know, bitch, when the niggas that's like, oh 0:48:27.239 --> 0:48:30.400 what you want to go half? All the time. I 0:48:30.400 --> 0:48:32.719 hate the niggas just sitting around. I'm like, you ain't 0:48:32.719 --> 0:48:37.960 gonna want nothing. Nigga order slave. I don't have nigga 0:48:37.360 --> 0:48:39.919 shot or that order nothing. So then when the bill 0:48:39.960 --> 0:48:49.279 come to like what he's still been like, I ate 0:48:50.360 --> 0:48:52.480 because what you came because you ain't I want you 0:48:52.480 --> 0:48:54.600 to sitting just sitting with me. Now, are you how 0:48:54.680 --> 0:48:57.919 quick are you to bring somebody around your girls? Like, yes, 0:48:58.040 --> 0:49:00.600 we meet them. Autists are right here the first day. 0:49:00.960 --> 0:49:03.719 Really yeah, they're getting around like a lotto or the 0:49:03.760 --> 0:49:11.520 city girls. They can come around yeah, man man, so like, 0:49:12.920 --> 0:49:18.040 oh yeah, nigga, and did she tell you like how 0:49:18.080 --> 0:49:20.439 she feel about him right away or the like were 0:49:20.560 --> 0:49:23.240 so we all kind of getting Nigga's the same treatment, 0:49:23.320 --> 0:49:26.120 like you know what I'm saying, So he'll just nig 0:49:26.200 --> 0:49:28.000 gonna be with me, He'll just doing me to be 0:49:28.080 --> 0:49:32.480 with me, like you ain't really damn, My friends ain't 0:49:32.480 --> 0:49:34.399 gonna say that until like maybe you've seen the niggle 0:49:34.440 --> 0:49:37.480 a couple of times, right, because they know you probably 0:49:37.480 --> 0:49:41.000 ain't gonna never even motherfuck. So you know, if they 0:49:41.120 --> 0:49:44.040 keep seeing you in there like oh hey, but what's up? 0:49:44.120 --> 0:49:46.680 You know what I'm saying, But bitch, the first time 0:49:46.680 --> 0:49:48.600 they're giving like child, we don't know if we're gonna 0:49:48.600 --> 0:49:53.080 see you yea, So hey al right, walk I stay 0:49:53.200 --> 0:49:55.279 if you do bring somebody around and they ask a 0:49:55.280 --> 0:49:58.000 lot of to follow them on Instagram while I'm not 0:49:58.000 --> 0:50:03.240 play that niggas no as player like you around my pledge. 0:50:03.239 --> 0:50:06.960 If you're a big fan, you just gotta kill yourself, 0:50:07.360 --> 0:50:09.719 right girl? What did they even say, I'm a big 0:50:09.719 --> 0:50:12.360 fan of your? Is that okay? You gotta go? We 0:50:13.120 --> 0:50:15.919 say that we instantly aggravated because it's not the time 0:50:16.960 --> 0:50:18.960 if you were a big fan, go to a concert, 0:50:19.000 --> 0:50:23.040 but agree with b I p stage pass whatever, and 0:50:23.040 --> 0:50:25.520 then do that like, don't come around me and my 0:50:25.560 --> 0:50:27.640 friends like I'm a big fan, Like I don't like 0:50:27.719 --> 0:50:31.160 stuff like that. Okay, I mean it's honest. I still 0:50:31.200 --> 0:50:33.560 would tell people nowadays, like I'm a big fan. I 0:50:33.600 --> 0:50:38.520 feel like I feel like once you get like me, 0:50:38.640 --> 0:50:40.879 you know, been talking about as soon as you need Yeah, 0:50:40.960 --> 0:50:43.840 me're talking up whatever. They're like, my lady, like, man, sis, 0:50:44.040 --> 0:50:46.080 you really be popping your ship like you know I 0:50:46.120 --> 0:50:47.920 could go for that, But the first time you meet 0:50:47.920 --> 0:50:49.560 you around me and my friends, you're like, I'm a 0:50:49.600 --> 0:50:51.600 big Fand now I'm like, oh, I don't know. But 0:50:51.840 --> 0:50:53.439 some people don't know how to act, especially if they've 0:50:53.440 --> 0:50:56.840 never been in that situation. That's why they got you. 0:50:56.880 --> 0:51:01.400 Got you gotta says like you gotta know how to 0:51:01.440 --> 0:51:05.440 handle yourself because I had that same attitude when I 0:51:05.480 --> 0:51:09.239 grew up. My daddy was um celebrity bodyguard, so I 0:51:09.719 --> 0:51:11.600 had kind of grew up around celebrities and my daddy 0:51:11.640 --> 0:51:13.440 just taught me. Like you know, they still people. So 0:51:13.560 --> 0:51:17.120 when you see people like, chill the funk out, because 0:51:17.160 --> 0:51:24.239 even me, I'm starting something back. It comes in with me, 0:51:24.360 --> 0:51:30.440 but don't money. That's like when we're working on the 0:51:30.480 --> 0:51:32.839 street and we'll just be randomly walking and there would 0:51:32.840 --> 0:51:37.719 be and I'm like, what happened? It's like you like 0:51:37.840 --> 0:51:43.719 it that. I'm like it just person like. I love 0:51:43.760 --> 0:51:46.080 when people see me act like they like not like 0:51:46.120 --> 0:51:49.200 act like you know me, but when they seem like 0:51:49.239 --> 0:51:58.400 you're doing your job. Just man, I'm like, that's cute. 0:51:57.080 --> 0:52:00.680 But the whole point of like you do what you do? 0:52:00.719 --> 0:52:03.320 You want people to feel like I love you, I 0:52:03.360 --> 0:52:05.520 can relate to you. We friends, and I could just 0:52:05.560 --> 0:52:08.439 be like, hey, what's up with you? Appreciate your music? Yeah, 0:52:08.640 --> 0:52:12.719 And that's that the hole. I'll be like, yea, got 0:52:13.719 --> 0:52:16.200 do never yeah, Like I hate that because you never 0:52:16.239 --> 0:52:19.160 know what people be going through. So I'm going through today, 0:52:19.560 --> 0:52:26.960 Baba might be sick anything like hey, I'm never gonna 0:52:27.000 --> 0:52:29.319 be I'm never not gonna be rude and not say 0:52:29.400 --> 0:52:32.880 like hey or whatever, Hey, Hey, what's up? Look cute? Okay, 0:52:32.920 --> 0:52:36.879 thank you, but I'm keeping but just alright, walk or stay. 0:52:36.960 --> 0:52:42.320 He doesn't like to kiss. I could stay. I don't care. Okay, 0:52:42.440 --> 0:52:45.120 kiss is not important to you. I now like, not 0:52:45.239 --> 0:52:47.719 really I don't give a funk about on it. I'll 0:52:47.719 --> 0:52:50.040 just stay you don't like the kiss because I don't 0:52:50.080 --> 0:52:52.920 want to kiss you every day neither, Alright, but I'm saying, 0:52:52.920 --> 0:52:55.000 what about four play and all of that kiss is 0:52:55.040 --> 0:52:57.560 not part of four play? For you? It is, but 0:52:57.680 --> 0:52:59.360 I could still, like I could deal with it. But 0:52:59.440 --> 0:53:17.560 if you don't say a day, oh okay, the situation, 0:53:20.920 --> 0:53:24.680 I can stay up. I can still. That's so crazy 0:53:24.760 --> 0:53:27.719 that you can be okay without kissing. But you kid 0:53:28.200 --> 0:53:31.560 the head, but I got the wall. Now. I tell 0:53:31.640 --> 0:53:33.960 you don't call me my girl. That's hot girl, Mona. 0:53:35.760 --> 0:53:37.960 So when you did you lose your virginity to a 0:53:38.040 --> 0:53:43.200 man or a woman? Okay? And then you said I'm 0:53:43.200 --> 0:53:46.680 gonna try this too. Yeah. I just felt like I 0:53:46.760 --> 0:53:48.840 was like, well, let me just see like what again? 0:53:50.000 --> 0:53:52.320 Because I had already did everything but a boy people, 0:53:52.840 --> 0:53:54.160 So I was like, well let me see you like 0:53:54.280 --> 0:53:57.239 you now what again? With a girl? It was cute, 0:53:57.400 --> 0:54:02.600 It was cute, it was cute. Kill I was like, okay, 0:54:03.280 --> 0:54:07.520 hospital they got that wet? Yeah. I was just like, 0:54:07.600 --> 0:54:09.960 I was like, I've never done an't know. Does the 0:54:10.000 --> 0:54:13.080 buck get wet? You have to lose, you have to 0:54:13.200 --> 0:54:16.319 don't you have to lose and just kill Luke. I 0:54:16.320 --> 0:54:19.000 don't know what's all? What's all the no ship just 0:54:19.080 --> 0:54:21.400 the old school the old school ship. Let me just 0:54:21.480 --> 0:54:24.239 give you a little bit now because some people have 0:54:24.360 --> 0:54:28.839 told me that like something no ship like I don't know, 0:54:29.200 --> 0:54:39.560 a sleeking like like night like what I was told 0:54:39.560 --> 0:54:43.080 you get the best orgasms from back there. But I 0:54:43.120 --> 0:54:46.040 know a lot of girls that like ant set. Yeah yeah, 0:54:47.480 --> 0:54:53.600 she always a lot of girl. I'm like, you know 0:54:53.680 --> 0:54:59.160 what's so funny? I hate it? You hate it? Hate it? Really, 0:54:59.360 --> 0:55:01.480 I hate it, so you don't do it, or you'll 0:55:01.520 --> 0:55:04.799 do it, but you just don't enjoy it. I'm swear 0:55:04.840 --> 0:55:06.759 to God, I'm not. I have handle sex since like 0:55:07.200 --> 0:55:10.799 two thousand eighteen before the pandemic brish, I swear to 0:55:10.800 --> 0:55:17.920 God like bad That's what I was too. Another thing 0:55:18.120 --> 0:55:21.360 is too like I didn't have never had um animal 0:55:21.360 --> 0:55:24.120 sex to the boys. I was eighteen, So when I 0:55:24.160 --> 0:55:27.680 did it, I just felt like, oh, bitch, like you're 0:55:27.680 --> 0:55:33.360 not not having my first I was on the train 0:55:33.480 --> 0:55:37.360 like I was right. I was like, oh the kid, 0:55:37.719 --> 0:55:40.080 all the dulk words, all that stuff. It was fun 0:55:40.120 --> 0:55:42.400 back then, but then once I had kind of snapped 0:55:42.440 --> 0:55:45.240 out of my whole face, like I got like eighteen, 0:55:45.320 --> 0:55:49.360 so I was probably like toy. It was bad. It 0:55:49.480 --> 0:55:52.480 was at home. I was a hole and it was 0:55:52.520 --> 0:55:57.759 because I was just experiment. Don't wait to the eight teen, 0:55:57.840 --> 0:56:00.080 but you're bed fucking their work tee fifteen or the 0:56:00.239 --> 0:56:05.000 six on it or bitches. I know. Anyways, I feel 0:56:05.040 --> 0:56:06.879 like I was a late bloom when it gave me six, 0:56:06.960 --> 0:56:11.600 so I was just it didn't hurt back then. You know, 0:56:11.640 --> 0:56:13.840 I feel like it didn't hurt me because you know, 0:56:14.000 --> 0:56:16.279 and they said that abo was sex is the buying thing. Yeah, 0:56:16.520 --> 0:56:19.839 they ain't gonna even lax and because back then I 0:56:19.880 --> 0:56:22.560 felt like that's what I was supposed to do. That's 0:56:22.560 --> 0:56:25.040 what I had to do. So it used to hurt 0:56:25.080 --> 0:56:27.879 by myself. I used to make it. Now I'm like, 0:56:28.200 --> 0:56:30.560 now I just explore the sex. I'm like, bitch, I 0:56:30.560 --> 0:56:36.279 ain't got to do that. It's not required. White Hello, Hello, 0:56:39.520 --> 0:56:50.839 because I ain't gotta fucking Who are you calling? Where 0:56:45.920 --> 0:56:59.800 are you? Is this justin girl? Oh my gosh, yourself 0:57:00.040 --> 0:57:19.000 said when they call me, I don't call um you gummy? 0:57:19.920 --> 0:57:32.960 What does that mean? A little? You do know? Number 0:57:33.000 --> 0:57:38.240 six Glorilla that's right, baby, alongside porn starr g Or 0:57:38.400 --> 0:57:40.880 what a matchup. Now. When I spoke with Grilla on 0:57:40.920 --> 0:57:43.520 the Breakfast Club, she opened up about not ever having 0:57:43.600 --> 0:57:46.920 an orgasm from intercourse while g was there to help 0:57:47.000 --> 0:57:50.720 coach Glorrilla. Glorrilla really showed us why she's so freaky 0:57:50.720 --> 0:57:54.520 and nasty during this conversation. Don't you think that drink 0:57:54.600 --> 0:57:58.120 nuts sounds nastier than swallow? It sounds really weird when 0:57:58.160 --> 0:58:02.840 you say it like that, you like I do. I'm 0:58:02.920 --> 0:58:05.000 not on camera, but I do in my personal life. 0:58:05.040 --> 0:58:07.720 It hurts all bad, like I get better. So I 0:58:07.720 --> 0:58:11.760 had to be really high the first time. Okay, really yes, 0:58:11.800 --> 0:58:14.840 I had to be really high and then lots of lubricant. 0:58:15.640 --> 0:58:19.520 But my work, some of my best work. Organs, excuse me, 0:58:19.600 --> 0:58:21.840 I have been with it. I've heard that to, heard 0:58:21.840 --> 0:58:25.760 that it was a little, it was good, it was 0:58:25.760 --> 0:58:29.680 a good size, It wasn't it was eight inches and 0:58:29.800 --> 0:58:36.680 like inches is pretty big. Yeah, that's inches, that's big. 0:58:40.880 --> 0:58:44.560 It's not the first time I had the dude, the 0:58:44.640 --> 0:58:47.280 first one he had come like a nice SiZ, heard 0:58:47.360 --> 0:58:49.320 us all bad the half to he got a mirror. 0:58:49.520 --> 0:58:53.160 I screamed like I was thinking my brother's neal and 0:58:53.280 --> 0:59:00.200 I didn't give a funk. Okay, I didn't out now 0:59:00.600 --> 0:59:03.240 and my my buddle hole was hurting for like twenty minutes. 0:59:04.720 --> 0:59:08.480 I want that or again said it was hurt? Did 0:59:08.520 --> 0:59:10.960 you bleed a little bit? Now? You just like, oh 0:59:11.040 --> 0:59:12.480 my god, it hurts. So I had went and sit 0:59:12.560 --> 0:59:15.520 on the toilet and hers, how did you like if 0:59:15.600 --> 0:59:22.160 you like right now, did you go about the insertion? 0:59:22.520 --> 0:59:25.240 Did you put loup loup? And did you sit on it? 0:59:25.520 --> 0:59:29.720 Did he call at you came from the back, okay, 0:59:30.080 --> 0:59:32.080 and he just put a lot of speed on it. 0:59:32.160 --> 0:59:35.520 Didn't do the loose were like because this was the 0:59:35.600 --> 0:59:39.080 first time he tol him he ate my okay in 0:59:39.120 --> 0:59:43.520 your as, let me try to put my head, let 0:59:43.560 --> 0:59:46.720 me try so he did it rock. It's all the 0:59:46.760 --> 0:59:48.720 second experience. Hey, he's not even kind of little. I 0:59:48.800 --> 0:59:50.320 was like, okay, dude, he might not her. Yeah, this 0:59:50.440 --> 0:59:53.600 might be a good place her great time. For got 0:59:53.640 --> 0:59:55.520 a couple of strokes and he got like three strokes 0:59:55.640 --> 1:00:00.520 in stop. It's not pleasure once. Then you take a 1:00:00.560 --> 1:00:03.680 deep breath and then you're like and then you're like, okay, 1:00:03.960 --> 1:00:07.320 I got that. What if you what if you use 1:00:07.400 --> 1:00:12.640 like numbing cream, I'm sure, but you will still feel 1:00:12.720 --> 1:00:16.880 inside of the orgasms like girls, the orgasm is I 1:00:16.920 --> 1:00:19.280 don't know if it's worth the pen it's worth it, 1:00:19.440 --> 1:00:22.360 I don't know. Once you get past the like the initials. 1:00:22.360 --> 1:00:25.160 I've definitely heard that those are the best. I know 1:00:25.280 --> 1:00:28.439 somebody who can only come from anal sex. Oh my god, 1:00:28.560 --> 1:00:36.240 that every time. I don't even like the best way. Yeah, okay, 1:00:36.280 --> 1:00:39.880 I don't even nerve like that. The time to go 1:00:40.040 --> 1:00:42.560 a little bit in our boy like they try to 1:00:42.560 --> 1:00:44.040 do with some I'm like, just please, I feel like 1:00:44.040 --> 1:00:46.280 I'm feeling hell, I feel like I'm going to do 1:00:46.360 --> 1:00:49.800 numbers two. That is though, because if you go to 1:00:49.840 --> 1:00:52.120 the doctor, you know how they check everything and it 1:00:52.240 --> 1:00:56.200 always makes me ship right after. Man, I never had 1:00:56.280 --> 1:00:58.640 to have the experience where like they went in and 1:00:58.760 --> 1:01:02.120 came out with a shitty dick. Haven't you haven't tried it? 1:01:02.280 --> 1:01:05.040 That's what I'm like, that would be so embarrassing, But 1:01:05.160 --> 1:01:07.920 they know that's a potential, Yeah, that that could happen. 1:01:08.680 --> 1:01:10.960 So for anal and porn, you're like not supposed to 1:01:11.000 --> 1:01:14.200 eat for like twelve hours fire and have friends that 1:01:14.400 --> 1:01:16.800 are point stars, not poor stars but are gay. But 1:01:16.880 --> 1:01:19.160 they say it's the whole thing before, like you don't 1:01:19.200 --> 1:01:31.000 eat anything crazy before and not on Toco Tuesday, Thursday, Monday. 1:01:31.240 --> 1:01:34.080 Have you ever had an embarrassing sexual experience? Like something 1:01:34.120 --> 1:01:48.120 happened during sex? She's like it again, did you smell it? 1:01:48.280 --> 1:01:55.480 Like did it smell? Really? That's probably get the funk out, 1:01:58.920 --> 1:02:04.840 not going on. It's just so embarrassed. It's so cute. 1:02:05.800 --> 1:02:08.480 I think everybody here has fared during well maybe not that, 1:02:08.640 --> 1:02:11.200 but during sex and during sex. I'm sure I don't 1:02:11.200 --> 1:02:12.720 know about what somebody eat me. I don't think i've 1:02:13.160 --> 1:02:19.400 I don't have to hold it. You just sometimes sometimes 1:02:19.920 --> 1:02:24.800 sparted not right, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, that's the air. 1:02:25.120 --> 1:02:26.960 So embarrassed. I don't know what it was. And I 1:02:27.080 --> 1:02:29.360 used to be like, oh my god, this is like 1:02:29.520 --> 1:02:32.440 they like it. Yeah, they didn't stop. It makes them 1:02:32.480 --> 1:02:35.120 feel like ye like when he started, don't stop me, 1:02:35.320 --> 1:02:36.760 and like you will be trying to let them no, no, 1:02:36.840 --> 1:02:40.800 you don't know, fart it's my I'll be like, oh, 1:02:42.000 --> 1:02:44.040 now you said he was nasty. We made him nasty. 1:02:44.200 --> 1:02:48.000 It was just a little old nasty motherfucker, Like like 1:02:48.120 --> 1:02:54.840 what did he do? I was like thinking about it. 1:02:56.240 --> 1:03:02.120 I want to know what he was doing. Everything everything nasty? Yeah? 1:03:04.840 --> 1:03:07.600 Are you nasty to you think people were? Like if 1:03:07.600 --> 1:03:09.840 I had to say about glorilla and bad, she is 1:03:10.440 --> 1:03:16.000 nasty nasty like that I never heard of. Like need examples, 1:03:16.280 --> 1:03:19.720 we need one example. Tell us like now we want 1:03:19.760 --> 1:03:22.000 to hear it. I want to hear corny and uma 1:03:22.160 --> 1:03:24.080 because I want to see if it really is nasty. Listen, 1:03:25.000 --> 1:03:27.440 I want to see if I tried it to say 1:03:27.480 --> 1:03:37.720 I drink nut right, yeah, drink nuts, drink I don't drink, 1:03:38.240 --> 1:03:45.440 go ahead, but I'm looking forward to like it's just 1:03:45.640 --> 1:03:51.680 so cording to me. Oh my god, scared, it's so 1:03:51.840 --> 1:03:55.439 weird sheet But okay, we got eating right, don't worry 1:03:55.440 --> 1:04:00.240 about it. You too are in now. Yeah. So it's 1:04:00.280 --> 1:04:02.280 like people, you got to eating has sins right out 1:04:03.080 --> 1:04:04.960 and some food and I'm gonna still eating. So if 1:04:04.960 --> 1:04:09.160 you've been none of my food I'm eating, it's like 1:04:09.320 --> 1:04:14.720 dressing none of my friend. That is crazy. I never 1:04:17.680 --> 1:04:27.880 got hilarious doings like like I said, trash anybody that 1:04:28.000 --> 1:04:31.440 ever tasted bad because you know people's diets. Oh my god, 1:04:32.360 --> 1:04:40.080 it was hot and spicy drinking again saying drink it. 1:04:40.160 --> 1:04:42.320 It's so funny to My first experience was like that, 1:04:42.440 --> 1:04:47.640 I'm gonna be really mad. Never swallowed you think about. 1:04:48.320 --> 1:04:51.280 First of all, I've turned a couple of guys off 1:04:51.320 --> 1:04:53.440 because I'm like, don't come in my mouth, Like that's 1:04:53.480 --> 1:04:55.080 all I'm telling you, Just don't come in my mouth. 1:04:55.520 --> 1:04:58.480 So they're like, I haven't tried up the vibe. Yeah, 1:04:58.560 --> 1:05:01.200 they had so out. I just make sure like I'm 1:05:01.240 --> 1:05:05.240 like I keep coming, you know, do it? No, you 1:05:05.240 --> 1:05:08.520 know they've come on my back and on my stomach 1:05:09.320 --> 1:05:13.200 and I really didn't really come right let me rub 1:05:13.240 --> 1:05:16.000 it on you, but get a cap drake. I just 1:05:16.120 --> 1:05:19.360 started enjoying second dick though, So that was another thing. 1:05:19.440 --> 1:05:22.120 I wasn't really doing the sucking dick like that, but 1:05:22.240 --> 1:05:24.960 now I like she enjoyed. Like I got tired because 1:05:25.120 --> 1:05:26.680 they take so long to come, and I used to 1:05:26.720 --> 1:05:29.479 be like my jaws hurt like it's all the spit 1:05:29.640 --> 1:05:33.440 and was just okay, you just hurt like when I 1:05:35.000 --> 1:05:37.360 and when I take forever, I'm like, baby, can you please? 1:05:37.440 --> 1:05:39.640 It's like hevery and that's gonna make him last longer 1:05:39.680 --> 1:05:43.439 if you do that, because then they get annoyed that. Yeah, 1:05:43.760 --> 1:05:49.800 I just stopped and I sit on it. I haven't 1:05:49.840 --> 1:05:52.880 tried it to not like, yeah, I'm gonna try try 1:05:54.680 --> 1:05:56.760 get on my hands and put them. What about if 1:05:56.800 --> 1:05:58.800 you have what about if you had something to do 1:05:58.920 --> 1:06:01.240 and it gets in your hair, or what if your 1:06:01.280 --> 1:06:05.000 makeup is done then wet, No, they don't do it 1:06:05.040 --> 1:06:11.080 my make up. They don't do it being What about 1:06:11.160 --> 1:06:16.280 your hair is done and you got I got my last? Okay, 1:06:17.520 --> 1:06:25.040 Like when you annoyed it, did you like it? You're 1:06:28.040 --> 1:06:31.720 she seems like she's found in the best. We're gonna 1:06:31.720 --> 1:06:34.000 have a time now Ruby is gonna have a last. 1:06:35.280 --> 1:06:37.919 This is gonna be great. What about do you talk 1:06:37.920 --> 1:06:43.040 a lot in bed? You do like I don't be 1:06:43.120 --> 1:06:45.120 talking to I'd be being good, Like I might be 1:06:45.200 --> 1:06:47.080 there one time and I was being funny. I'll talk 1:06:47.120 --> 1:06:49.600 about have well, I don't fund like I've be sounding 1:06:49.600 --> 1:06:53.600 like a girl. Okay, that would make sense. Girl, I'll 1:06:53.640 --> 1:06:55.800 be saying some and she like, I would never want 1:06:55.800 --> 1:06:58.120 to hear myself because I'll be in bath. I'm like, 1:06:58.120 --> 1:06:59.919 oh my god, you just read it putting on these boys. 1:07:04.640 --> 1:07:08.120 Have you ever recorded yourself? You know? Yeah, I played 1:07:08.120 --> 1:07:10.520 it back and watched it. Have you ever been like, 1:07:10.640 --> 1:07:13.280 oh my god, what did I just say? Not like 1:07:13.360 --> 1:07:16.840 I turned the sound out, okay, okay and just watch it. Yeah, 1:07:17.120 --> 1:07:19.960 And like that's how thought masthend was. I thought Masturbaan 1:07:20.120 --> 1:07:22.600 was watching someone. We're thinking about something and playing with yourself. 1:07:22.720 --> 1:07:24.640 You can do that too, Yeah, it's part. It could 1:07:24.640 --> 1:07:28.439 be anything with your hands. It could be watching porn. Yeah. 1:07:28.480 --> 1:07:30.880 See like when I'm about myself and I got videos, 1:07:31.240 --> 1:07:34.200 I watched the videos and play with my toy. Okay 1:07:35.040 --> 1:07:38.760 the mood, Yeah you have a time. What about on 1:07:38.800 --> 1:07:42.080 the road? Boy? What's on the road. On the road, 1:07:42.120 --> 1:07:44.920 do you bring toys with you? Uh? That's my system 1:07:45.000 --> 1:07:46.680 right there. I haven't rolled your head to get me. 1:07:47.520 --> 1:07:49.680 I'll be losing my roads and some much you know 1:07:49.800 --> 1:07:51.440 bad you know what we got to get her some 1:07:51.520 --> 1:07:58.320 type of endorsement. Definitely. I haven't tried the roads. You're 1:07:58.320 --> 1:08:00.920 gonna get a deep and I heard Okay, I had 1:08:00.960 --> 1:08:02.760 a bad experience with the roads, like I was using 1:08:02.760 --> 1:08:04.440 it so much, cow for so single. I ain't have 1:08:04.600 --> 1:08:08.400 no no d a's or nothing like that. So what's 1:08:08.440 --> 1:08:19.560 a dipent? Oh okay, thank you attorney. Okay, Like I 1:08:19.760 --> 1:08:23.439 was stupid, only I had went through a breakop months before, 1:08:23.520 --> 1:08:26.439 and so like I just thought using this roads and 1:08:26.560 --> 1:08:28.840 like I was using so much, like probably three three 1:08:29.040 --> 1:08:31.120 twice or three times a day, and it's like I 1:08:31.200 --> 1:08:33.519 could be in a in the kitchen cooking and I 1:08:33.680 --> 1:08:39.479 just start having an orgasm everything. I had a part 1:08:39.600 --> 1:08:40.960 with my friends on time. They were like, what's my 1:08:40.960 --> 1:08:42.320 wrongn with you? I just had to tell them because 1:08:42.320 --> 1:08:44.200 I just kept leaving now because I I would cook 1:08:44.240 --> 1:08:46.840 a sufficient spaghetti and so I just kept going in 1:08:46.880 --> 1:08:48.680 the bathroom. They're like, what's wrong with you? It's like 1:08:48.880 --> 1:08:51.400 I had to take a shower. I just kept doing it, 1:08:51.479 --> 1:08:52.800 and I was like, Okay, I just can't use it 1:08:52.920 --> 1:08:57.360 like this because yeah, like he's dead addictive, like being 1:08:57.400 --> 1:08:59.960 like I'm having six, so like I don't need six. 1:09:00.000 --> 1:09:02.479 I'm coming in three minutes on my road. And so 1:09:02.680 --> 1:09:04.920 I just kept doing it, like I he went to 1:09:05.000 --> 1:09:08.280 the doctor about anything. What the doctor said, I need 1:09:08.280 --> 1:09:12.960 to stop using kind of getting you out I heard it, 1:09:13.120 --> 1:09:14.920 or like making actually have a rose at home. I 1:09:14.960 --> 1:09:19.560 haven't used it yet, but you're actually making me. I 1:09:19.720 --> 1:09:23.840 like it, not need you don't make you come like 1:09:24.200 --> 1:09:34.799 three minutes at least white may walk around. We're officially 1:09:34.840 --> 1:09:37.800 halfway through the Tap ten episodes of two and at 1:09:37.880 --> 1:09:42.000 number five we have the one and only Ruby Rose. 1:09:42.360 --> 1:09:44.599 This makes sense right after Globrilla, because this is actually 1:09:44.640 --> 1:09:47.960 the person who Globrilla has a crush on Ruby immediately 1:09:48.040 --> 1:09:50.360 fitting and honestly, this whole episode felt like it was 1:09:50.439 --> 1:09:53.240 a wine night with my ladies. Now I fully understand 1:09:53.280 --> 1:09:59.400 why everybody swoons over her. Have you ever cheated? Um no, 1:09:59.680 --> 1:10:02.439 but I've cheated back, like I stayed with the nigga 1:10:02.640 --> 1:10:04.840 and after he cheated on me and cheated on him, 1:10:04.960 --> 1:10:09.479 which is incorrect in an error. Now just to leave, 1:10:09.600 --> 1:10:16.240 just leaves. I told him I'm a very openly honest person, 1:10:16.360 --> 1:10:18.640 like I tell people what then be going on? What 1:10:18.840 --> 1:10:24.439 was that conversation? Like he was traumatized, always did, but 1:10:24.520 --> 1:10:26.880 they can't take it. He was taking him over the 1:10:26.960 --> 1:10:33.040 phone person a pussy. Oh my god, Oh my god, 1:10:36.479 --> 1:10:46.080 Sty you should have been like Ibody. He knew, I 1:10:46.160 --> 1:10:49.040 mean he knows of him, I'm sure, but they didn't know. 1:10:49.320 --> 1:10:51.080 I didn't even actually know. I told him I slept 1:10:51.120 --> 1:10:53.759 with somebody. I didn't tell him who. This nigga went crazy, 1:10:54.000 --> 1:10:56.360 ran out to my lobby in my building, took my 1:10:56.479 --> 1:10:59.320 phone found out who put the screensaver on my phone 1:10:59.800 --> 1:11:06.280 at the like, just they can, like they definitely can't 1:11:06.280 --> 1:11:09.400 take that ship, but they're crazy for telling him they're waiting. 1:11:09.640 --> 1:11:12.280 And I was just honest. I can't lie. I'm a 1:11:12.439 --> 1:11:14.560 very bad lying Like I'm gonna do some ship, but 1:11:14.560 --> 1:11:18.080 I'm gonna be honest about it. And how was that 1:11:18.160 --> 1:11:21.800 other guy? It was a one time only thing, you know. 1:11:21.920 --> 1:11:25.479 Once Sometimes you it's crazy, like you will be with 1:11:25.600 --> 1:11:27.280 somebody else and it makes you realize how much, oh 1:11:27.320 --> 1:11:29.840 my god, I love that other person. But that's why 1:11:29.960 --> 1:11:32.280 rebound sex is sometimes not good because it makes you 1:11:32.320 --> 1:11:35.120 even feel worse, like do you try to forget somebody? 1:11:35.240 --> 1:11:37.960 And then you're like, damn, what a waste? And I 1:11:38.080 --> 1:11:40.200 feel like when you do rebound sex and you're still 1:11:40.400 --> 1:11:42.360 in love with your other person, it was just such 1:11:42.400 --> 1:11:45.040 a waste, Like what was the point of view? Facts? 1:11:45.479 --> 1:11:50.560 Hurt yourself more, right, But it was good. Have you 1:11:50.600 --> 1:11:56.719 ever stayed with somebody because the sex is so good? Absolutely? Girl? Yeah, 1:11:57.000 --> 1:12:01.400 but in those situations, I know, it's just obviously that 1:12:01.479 --> 1:12:03.479 and it's not like a shift when you said it, 1:12:03.520 --> 1:12:05.720 because it felt like you had a moment. Yeah, it's 1:12:05.760 --> 1:12:11.040 a recollection last like I have never we have some 1:12:11.280 --> 1:12:20.240 for you know this guy? Right? Do you want to 1:12:21.000 --> 1:12:24.720 um of one percent? Of course? I um. I just 1:12:26.600 --> 1:12:31.080 learned how to orgasm recently with it by yourself or 1:12:31.200 --> 1:12:33.479 was it with someone? It was by myself, And then 1:12:33.600 --> 1:12:35.519 after that I learned how to do it like or 1:12:35.600 --> 1:12:37.639 how to let it happen when I'm with other people? 1:12:38.000 --> 1:12:39.599 How do you let it happen for people out there 1:12:39.640 --> 1:12:44.720 who have never aasmed um? Just like really completely like relax, 1:12:44.960 --> 1:12:46.920 like I always some super in my head, like, oh 1:12:47.000 --> 1:12:48.680 my god, does it even feel good as you're enjoying it? 1:12:49.160 --> 1:12:52.200 So I just learned to relax, let go and try 1:12:52.240 --> 1:12:55.000 to please like I shouldn't only be trying to please him, 1:12:55.040 --> 1:12:56.920 like make sure that it's feeling good to myself. So 1:12:57.439 --> 1:13:00.200 just really that. And you know, is there a certain 1:13:00.240 --> 1:13:03.080 position that works better for you? Yes, ma'am on top 1:13:03.240 --> 1:13:07.200 on top, yes, like gods, she's like my little sister. 1:13:08.800 --> 1:13:15.680 That's the easiest way. It's that a ruby, yeah, I mean, 1:13:15.720 --> 1:13:17.640 because I feel like that is the easiest way, and 1:13:17.720 --> 1:13:20.080 I think scientifically it is the easiest way for women 1:13:20.080 --> 1:13:22.400 to have it because you have more control at that 1:13:22.560 --> 1:13:24.960 point in my room. It might be the only way. 1:13:25.600 --> 1:13:31.080 M hmmm, I could come my favorite. And it's like 1:13:31.880 --> 1:13:33.720 as much as I like, I don't think I ever 1:13:33.760 --> 1:13:36.680 work in the same way I think I have, but 1:13:36.960 --> 1:13:41.640 I don't think so myself. So have you were you 1:13:41.760 --> 1:13:44.560 lying to guys before that about orgasming? Like if he's like, 1:13:44.600 --> 1:13:48.080 did you come? Absolutely you are a liar, I am. 1:13:48.240 --> 1:13:50.640 But a lot of big people feel good sometimes, you know. 1:13:51.240 --> 1:13:55.040 But yeah, and I honestly I still do but hopefully 1:13:55.640 --> 1:13:57.839 I don't know. But yeah, I was gonna say, actually 1:13:58.200 --> 1:14:00.360 I didn't know, Like I know this sounds crazy, but 1:14:00.400 --> 1:14:02.519 like I didn't know sex was supposed to feel good 1:14:02.600 --> 1:14:06.800 for a girl until like becoming like in my two Like, 1:14:07.280 --> 1:14:09.439 I literally didn't There's so much I didn't you know, 1:14:09.640 --> 1:14:13.280 know about sex until recently, Like do you get like 1:14:13.400 --> 1:14:15.320 what about earl sex? You let guys eat you out? 1:14:15.360 --> 1:14:19.519 You come that way? I've never came off of that. Wait, 1:14:20.120 --> 1:14:22.120 I don't want to like guys to do it because 1:14:22.120 --> 1:14:23.519 I just want them to do it, but on the sale, 1:14:23.560 --> 1:14:28.000 even like they don't make it feel good. So you want, girl, 1:14:28.120 --> 1:14:30.519 how you like it? I know, but I don't know 1:14:30.600 --> 1:14:33.479 how I like it because I don't. I've never had right, 1:14:33.640 --> 1:14:35.960 are the guys like they're like your age or they 1:14:36.600 --> 1:14:39.080 I want you to answer, have you been with a girl? 1:14:39.120 --> 1:14:42.360 Have you been with a girl? No? Okay, we'll try it. 1:14:45.120 --> 1:14:50.760 I mean, if you ever find the moment you're having 1:14:50.800 --> 1:14:53.320 a good time and there's somebody you have in kinvent 1:14:53.320 --> 1:14:55.800 stry where I don't, don't be shy about it because 1:14:55.800 --> 1:14:59.519 it's gonna be nice because girls will find it. Have 1:14:59.600 --> 1:15:02.160 you making this girl all my only fans. Her name 1:15:02.200 --> 1:15:06.439 is Lopez, but that's just for only fans. What does 1:15:06.520 --> 1:15:10.000 she eat? I don't know. You should try, I should try. 1:15:10.120 --> 1:15:12.680 Definitely say this all the time. I definitely want to 1:15:12.720 --> 1:15:14.439 try that, because but do it with a girl who's 1:15:14.439 --> 1:15:17.559 into you, you know, like really wants to make you calm? Okay, 1:15:17.800 --> 1:15:20.200 you think sex is better? Okay, So the best sex 1:15:20.280 --> 1:15:22.120 you ever had was it with somebody that you were 1:15:22.120 --> 1:15:23.920 in love with? There wasn't somebody who was just good? 1:15:24.120 --> 1:15:26.439 Definitely somebody like when you're in love. I think the 1:15:26.520 --> 1:15:29.040 passion and chemistry just makes it so much better. Is 1:15:29.080 --> 1:15:30.280 that the guy who made you or gas? And I 1:15:30.439 --> 1:15:39.519 know though it was okay? Now, how many times do 1:15:39.560 --> 1:15:43.439 you double back? Um? Like what do you mean by that? Like, okay, 1:15:43.520 --> 1:15:45.960 say you dating Little t J and then you always 1:15:45.960 --> 1:15:49.959 spotted again together again? Is that a double back situation? 1:15:50.120 --> 1:15:52.400 Like Okay, we broke up and now we're back, Well 1:15:52.479 --> 1:15:55.920 we were never together, but um, like messing with him 1:15:55.960 --> 1:15:58.200 again or messing with whoever again, I don't know what. 1:15:58.400 --> 1:16:02.599 However times until like until you over it, until I'm 1:16:02.640 --> 1:16:04.479 over it, I guess, until I want to stop that. 1:16:04.560 --> 1:16:06.559 Howd he managed to get back in because y'all had 1:16:06.600 --> 1:16:10.680 some public drama. Yeah, Um, he's just school. He's just 1:16:10.720 --> 1:16:13.519 super nice. He was very apologetic after the situation. I 1:16:13.600 --> 1:16:16.080 saw you guys as like thing that he didn't he do, 1:16:16.200 --> 1:16:18.519 like a talk with you or something. I wasn't there 1:16:18.600 --> 1:16:21.240 that day. It was over the phone, like you guys, 1:16:21.360 --> 1:16:24.639 he was on live and it was with you. Yeah okay, yeah, 1:16:24.880 --> 1:16:27.439 but he was just super apologetic and he's he's a 1:16:27.479 --> 1:16:30.000 super cool guy. Super I don't like when people say 1:16:30.040 --> 1:16:32.479 disrespectful things. Yeah. I know what happened, and what he 1:16:32.560 --> 1:16:36.599 did was definitely fucking crazy, But the nigga's youngest, fucking stupid. 1:16:36.640 --> 1:16:39.760 I'm stupid. You know, we did stupid things. He apologized, 1:16:39.880 --> 1:16:41.800 and I'm over you. Know that's not my nigga, that's 1:16:41.880 --> 1:16:44.240 my buddy, okay, and we'll leave it at that. They 1:16:44.240 --> 1:16:47.240 seems like you're pretty nice to people. Is there anybody 1:16:47.280 --> 1:16:53.080 you don't forgive? Um? Honestly, no, I think I forgive everybody. 1:16:53.080 --> 1:16:54.560 I don't forget, and I might not want to be 1:16:54.680 --> 1:16:57.240 friends and hang out, but like, I definitely am a 1:16:57.320 --> 1:17:00.080 forgiving person. I don't have hate in my heart. What 1:17:00.240 --> 1:17:04.760 sound are you? I'm a libra? Okay, fair balance. Now, 1:17:04.800 --> 1:17:06.479 it's interesting that when you came in here you acted 1:17:06.520 --> 1:17:08.680 like you didn't have a lot going on, but you do, right, 1:17:08.960 --> 1:17:10.920 thank you. Now you have the tour coming up with 1:17:11.080 --> 1:17:15.240 them with Kalifa and Logic, that's a huge deal. You 1:17:15.360 --> 1:17:17.080 can't say, yes, I have a lot going on. You 1:17:17.160 --> 1:17:20.720 got so humble. Thank you. Um, I don't know, Yeah 1:17:20.960 --> 1:17:24.479 I do, I guess, thank you. I'm very excited about that. Um, 1:17:25.240 --> 1:17:28.240 do you have anything else coming? I have some festivals 1:17:28.280 --> 1:17:32.640 in London and Tokyo that I'm about to do that 1:17:32.840 --> 1:17:39.960 song dreamed Dog. That's a big deal. Thank you. It's 1:17:40.000 --> 1:17:42.400 just it's so crazy, like i'd be forgetting like it 1:17:42.560 --> 1:17:44.040 is a big deal. But you know, when like should 1:17:44.120 --> 1:17:46.080 so much, should just be happening, like life become like 1:17:46.720 --> 1:17:50.200 becomes blase blase, like everything that kind of becomes regularly. 1:17:50.320 --> 1:17:52.320 I needed to get excited. I know, I want to 1:17:52.360 --> 1:17:54.600 be She's like me, I feel like I don't like 1:17:54.760 --> 1:17:58.719 boasting on my past glories like glorified on when they're happening, 1:17:58.880 --> 1:18:02.040 and then I'm on for because look I'm gonna keep it. Really, 1:18:02.080 --> 1:18:04.559 I'm sure I should be prob of it. It's harder 1:18:04.640 --> 1:18:06.639 for you, just how you got started in this business. 1:18:07.000 --> 1:18:08.920 I know that people will try to act like, oh, 1:18:09.160 --> 1:18:12.360 she's just this Instagram or this on, but then for 1:18:12.479 --> 1:18:14.679 you to actually really be making all these things happen, 1:18:14.720 --> 1:18:17.040 I mean sitting down having l a read just like 1:18:17.360 --> 1:18:20.040 I mean, that's a huge deal, is it is? Thank 1:18:20.080 --> 1:18:22.320 you girl. I appreciate that you got to celebrate. That's 1:18:22.360 --> 1:18:24.840 a big deal. And I always feel like it's nice 1:18:24.880 --> 1:18:26.679 and when those things can happen for you, when people 1:18:26.760 --> 1:18:29.479 hate on you and you're like hell yeah, So that's 1:18:29.520 --> 1:18:31.680 why you got to be like bam, like hell, look 1:18:31.720 --> 1:18:37.400 what I'm making happen and what you're doing well, because 1:18:37.439 --> 1:18:39.759 sometimes you're right, like life does that things just happen, 1:18:39.960 --> 1:18:42.799 and you do got to celebrate like all the winds 1:18:42.920 --> 1:18:46.240 and think to yourself like, this is fucking amazing. Absolutely. 1:18:46.600 --> 1:18:51.360 I mean, look, you've already made a million dollars million more. Yeah, one, 1:18:51.800 --> 1:18:53.599 and just think about how young you are. Though people 1:18:53.600 --> 1:18:57.080 are people might not achieve that in their whole lifetime. No, 1:18:57.280 --> 1:19:00.040 I am. I am very appreciative of everything going on 1:19:00.160 --> 1:19:03.120 in my life. Just the enthusiasm I sometimes like, but 1:19:03.520 --> 1:19:07.519 I'm very appreciative. Yeah, I just need to be like, yeah, like, 1:19:07.600 --> 1:19:10.639 what are you liking bed? Are you enthusiastic in bed? Girl? 1:19:10.640 --> 1:19:16.800 I'm an animal because you see to chill like I don't. 1:19:16.880 --> 1:19:19.960 I'm not like a screamer monkey, but you know, nobody's 1:19:20.040 --> 1:19:24.400 ever complained. You know, I'm not talking talk shit. No, 1:19:24.560 --> 1:19:30.280 I'm more like moner kind of but more loving like daddy. 1:19:30.320 --> 1:19:32.840 Do you like it? Like, just you're not telling him 1:19:32.840 --> 1:19:34.720 what to do. I'm not a dominatrix type of girl. 1:19:34.880 --> 1:19:37.640 Your pleaser. I am a pleaser. I want you to 1:19:37.680 --> 1:19:43.320 get a little more wild. Let's give her some homework, right, 1:19:43.439 --> 1:19:45.200 Can we get her to talk? What are some things 1:19:45.240 --> 1:19:47.640 that Ruby Rose could be saying in bed to make 1:19:48.400 --> 1:19:50.920 tea Yeah. Part of the reason that it took you 1:19:50.960 --> 1:19:52.600 so long to Organs is probably because you couldn't let 1:19:52.640 --> 1:19:55.000 loose and relax, And part of that is sometimes just 1:19:55.040 --> 1:19:57.840 like having fun talking shit, you know, taking it to 1:19:57.920 --> 1:20:00.160 the next instead of going do you like it? Need 1:20:00.200 --> 1:20:01.800 to be? Like you better like it? You better make 1:20:01.840 --> 1:20:07.640 this pussy come for you make this day? Yeah? I 1:20:07.680 --> 1:20:17.120 should Yeah, be more demanding space absolutely okay? And do 1:20:17.160 --> 1:20:20.720 you say you gotta verbalize what's happening to why? Like 1:20:21.439 --> 1:20:23.720 explain tell me what you do and you gotta tell 1:20:23.800 --> 1:20:25.400 him things like yeah, came all over it like you 1:20:25.479 --> 1:20:28.320 gotta tell him like you said, dick right girl? Are 1:20:28.360 --> 1:20:31.760 you good at it? Yeah? Okay, I say you're okay. 1:20:31.800 --> 1:20:34.640 What's following? What about your getting on your lashes and 1:20:34.680 --> 1:20:39.320 stuff um on your face? I it depends the situation. 1:20:39.360 --> 1:20:41.640 If I don't have anything going on, then sunk my 1:20:41.680 --> 1:20:46.680 shut up. I'm super say that. Shut up my face? 1:20:46.760 --> 1:20:50.600 It's pretty. You better cut that came all over this 1:20:50.680 --> 1:20:57.679 pretty and face this face up? That sounds face up? Okay? 1:20:58.840 --> 1:21:03.559 That just now supposed to be a boy this already 1:21:08.360 --> 1:21:12.639 coming in at number four is the man himself, Nick Cannon. 1:21:12.800 --> 1:21:16.120 No holds by Nick Cannon. The timing on this episode 1:21:16.120 --> 1:21:18.600 couldn't have been better because it was here when he 1:21:18.680 --> 1:21:22.200 announced he has even more children on the way. I 1:21:22.240 --> 1:21:24.679 feel like that might still be relevant right now. I'd 1:21:24.680 --> 1:21:26.280 like to send a special thank you to Nick for 1:21:26.320 --> 1:21:30.160 always supporting me throughout my career, and congratulations and everything 1:21:30.240 --> 1:21:36.200 that you've achieved. But let's keep it rail, bab. I 1:21:36.240 --> 1:21:38.639 gotta ask you about the story we saw. It says 1:21:38.680 --> 1:21:40.400 you have three babies on the way? Is that you 1:21:40.479 --> 1:21:45.360 are false? But when you say on the way, you 1:21:45.479 --> 1:21:48.280 know where? God damn it, Hey, what counts you at 1:21:49.479 --> 1:22:00.880 on the way? Yeahs yes, there's it could be you 1:22:00.960 --> 1:22:04.240 know this all this is what I said. If you 1:22:04.320 --> 1:22:11.800 thought the numbers are put up you know a lot 1:22:11.840 --> 1:22:15.639 of kids, h my God with this how the therapy, 1:22:15.840 --> 1:22:18.760 the celibacy and so you were right there. Okay, I'm 1:22:18.800 --> 1:22:21.960 glad I got to talk about this so obviously, and 1:22:22.479 --> 1:22:24.920 uh I did. My therapist while I was started my 1:22:25.000 --> 1:22:26.920 showing stuff, had told me I needed to chill out. 1:22:27.040 --> 1:22:29.840 So I was like, yo, let's try celibacy. And I 1:22:30.040 --> 1:22:33.720 was like October like no, I didn't even make it 1:22:33.760 --> 1:22:35.880 that I was supposed to go. That was the whole 1:22:35.880 --> 1:22:37.240 thing I was supposed to make at the top of 1:22:37.280 --> 1:22:38.920 the year. But then obviously I will start going through 1:22:39.000 --> 1:22:41.479 some stuff with you know, just I got depressed with 1:22:41.560 --> 1:22:43.400 the loss of my son and stuff. So in December, 1:22:43.760 --> 1:22:46.400 and the thing is because everybody saw I was so down, 1:22:46.880 --> 1:22:49.160 so everybody's like, lem, just give him a little vagina. 1:22:52.360 --> 1:22:54.560 And that's what I fell victim to it because I 1:22:54.640 --> 1:22:57.040 was in a week say so December, especially right doing 1:22:57.840 --> 1:23:01.679 right before Christmas, I started sucking like crazy and that's 1:23:01.720 --> 1:23:04.920 when it, like, so I broke the celibacy. But I 1:23:05.040 --> 1:23:07.200 was probably celibate for probably like a month and a 1:23:07.240 --> 1:23:09.040 half strong. I mean you were I was trying to 1:23:09.160 --> 1:23:11.720 do it at a new show, New Energy I was 1:23:11.840 --> 1:23:15.920 dealing with I was there. So I told this one 1:23:16.000 --> 1:23:18.479 of two. So around holidays, we should expect be expected 1:23:22.439 --> 1:23:25.479 are pretty good at math because you know, they always 1:23:25.520 --> 1:23:27.599 say that's a popular month because people have sex during 1:23:27.640 --> 1:23:30.800 the holiday. And so, okay, have you ever thought you 1:23:30.920 --> 1:23:32.599 had a baby and it turned out not to be yours? 1:23:33.800 --> 1:23:37.960 M hmm, Okay, I got, I got a crazy I 1:23:38.080 --> 1:23:40.800 on even have time to tell this story, but there 1:23:41.800 --> 1:23:44.640 it was my high school sweetheart, right I get. I'll 1:23:44.640 --> 1:23:48.080 tell the whole story. Um, I'm popping, you know, from 1:23:48.200 --> 1:23:52.840 where I came from I'm popping, you know, range over 1:23:53.200 --> 1:23:55.599 all that forgot it got a new crib and all 1:23:55.680 --> 1:23:57.759 of that stuff, and the girls I went to school. 1:23:57.800 --> 1:23:59.920 It was from the hood was in love with us. 1:24:00.040 --> 1:24:03.400 She comes to the house, She's mind blown. Boom, we 1:24:03.520 --> 1:24:05.680 have sex. She's like, as soon as we have sex, 1:24:05.720 --> 1:24:09.160 she's like, I'm pregnant. Wait what She's like, I know 1:24:09.280 --> 1:24:15.360 how fertile I am. I can't really whatever yo. Not 1:24:15.520 --> 1:24:18.720 even a month later, she really was pregnant. Pregnant, and 1:24:18.800 --> 1:24:20.559 I'm like, and I'm trying. This is at the time. 1:24:20.560 --> 1:24:23.240 I'm about to be twenty one years old. I'm like, yeah, 1:24:23.240 --> 1:24:24.680 I'm not ready for a child. I was going to 1:24:24.800 --> 1:24:26.040 church every day. I was like, God, I don't know 1:24:26.080 --> 1:24:28.840 what I'm gonna do. But and I, you know, respectfully, 1:24:28.840 --> 1:24:30.840 I was like, whatever you want to do, I support it. 1:24:31.000 --> 1:24:33.680 I'm not but it would be difficult for me to 1:24:33.760 --> 1:24:35.280 have a child right now. But if this is what 1:24:35.360 --> 1:24:37.880 we're doing, this is what we do. I was still 1:24:37.920 --> 1:24:39.560 on Nickelodeon. I was like, how am I going to 1:24:39.600 --> 1:24:42.439 explain this to Nickelodeon. I had to go. But over 1:24:42.600 --> 1:24:44.360 the next couple of months or whatever, we I was 1:24:44.439 --> 1:24:46.439 like and I'm ready for the kid. Uh. And I 1:24:46.439 --> 1:24:48.280 actually remember going to church and I was like, Lord, 1:24:48.320 --> 1:24:50.160 I don't know if you could get me out of this. 1:24:50.600 --> 1:24:53.040 I promise I'm gonna be celibate. I'm not not gonna 1:24:53.080 --> 1:24:56.080 do the abortion thing and none of that, but whatever 1:24:57.040 --> 1:25:01.000 miracles and your magic. Uh. And then unfortunately it was 1:25:01.120 --> 1:25:03.600 crazy right like a week later, you know, because she 1:25:03.720 --> 1:25:05.479 was in college and I will go to her dorm 1:25:05.520 --> 1:25:07.000 and it was a tough night and she was like, 1:25:07.720 --> 1:25:13.320 I'm miscarried. I was like, damn. And then I was 1:25:13.360 --> 1:25:15.479 like so, I'm like but soon it's like I have 1:25:15.600 --> 1:25:17.479 made this coming in with God. But I was back 1:25:17.520 --> 1:25:21.519 out in the streets. And then literally two days later, 1:25:21.560 --> 1:25:24.960 she's like, I'm still pregnant. And I was like, oh God, 1:25:25.080 --> 1:25:27.320 you're playing with me. So she was pregnant with twins 1:25:27.360 --> 1:25:28.560 and she was like, Yo, now I gotta be on 1:25:28.680 --> 1:25:31.880 bed rest for you know, for the rest of the pregnancy. 1:25:32.840 --> 1:25:34.680 She's on bed rest. I said, long story show. I'll 1:25:34.720 --> 1:25:37.240 never forget this day. I was in London filming and 1:25:37.400 --> 1:25:39.599 she gets a call and she's like, Yo, wildest thing, 1:25:40.120 --> 1:25:41.840 you know what I mean, this is the craziest day 1:25:41.880 --> 1:25:44.439 in my life. She was like, you know, I woke up, 1:25:44.800 --> 1:25:50.120 you know, bleeding, which is unfortunate. Planes flying into buildings. 1:25:50.600 --> 1:25:52.960 This is the worst day ever, like plane, I'm in London. 1:25:55.000 --> 1:25:58.040 It was nine eleven and that's how like she's the 1:25:58.120 --> 1:25:59.920 one that told me. And then I was in late 1:26:00.080 --> 1:26:01.560 the middle of the day and it was still and 1:26:01.920 --> 1:26:05.439 she told me on nine eleven that she miscarried the again. 1:26:06.320 --> 1:26:08.960 And then so story even gets crazier. I mean, we're 1:26:09.040 --> 1:26:13.640 still cool. So yo, So June, I'm back down. I 1:26:13.920 --> 1:26:16.240 think I was on the road or something, June calling 1:26:16.240 --> 1:26:18.800 and she was like, yeah, so it's been while I 1:26:18.880 --> 1:26:20.560 talk to you, and he like, so, I'm about to 1:26:20.600 --> 1:26:26.519 have his baby? What then do you baby? She literally, 1:26:27.280 --> 1:26:32.360 she literally had a baby right after that with her dude, 1:26:32.400 --> 1:26:34.760 who was like her dude she was in a relationship with. 1:26:36.000 --> 1:26:38.120 I was the cide piece thing because I was, I 1:26:38.240 --> 1:26:40.479 was popping, I was and was she was still living 1:26:40.520 --> 1:26:42.760 in San Diego all of that stuff, So are going 1:26:42.840 --> 1:26:45.800 to going to school. So by that time she had 1:26:45.840 --> 1:26:49.679 a baby, like literally the same time that our baby 1:26:49.720 --> 1:26:52.040 would have been born, maybe like a month off and 1:26:52.560 --> 1:26:55.840 probably for the first probably for the first two or 1:26:55.920 --> 1:26:59.080 three years, I was looking at like luckily the little 1:26:59.080 --> 1:27:04.719 girl looked just like her daddy. Like, but I treated 1:27:04.760 --> 1:27:07.200 that little girl like it was like, you know, my daughter, 1:27:07.240 --> 1:27:09.680 and like even I'll see pictures now like she's like 1:27:09.920 --> 1:27:11.880 damn near like twenty now, you know what I mean, 1:27:12.000 --> 1:27:17.479 Like and it's just nick silly. No. No, But in 1:27:17.600 --> 1:27:20.559 that in that sense, it was like to me everybody 1:27:20.600 --> 1:27:22.840 because during that time, my mom was like that ain't 1:27:23.320 --> 1:27:25.320 like she was never pregnant in the first how are 1:27:25.320 --> 1:27:27.240 you gonna be? Had a miscaan and all of a sudden, 1:27:27.439 --> 1:27:30.000 like and nobody believed her story because it just was 1:27:30.160 --> 1:27:32.800 so crazy. And then the fact that she had a 1:27:32.880 --> 1:27:36.559 baby immediately after that. So that's probably the closest thing 1:27:36.640 --> 1:27:39.240 I ever had where somebody was But I treated that 1:27:39.320 --> 1:27:41.759 little because you know, for I don't know where their relationship. 1:27:41.840 --> 1:27:44.559 I treated her like that was my daughter until her 1:27:44.600 --> 1:27:46.920 pop step. Do you get tests like are you like okay? 1:27:47.160 --> 1:27:51.240 Let me at least make sure, uh, I would be 1:27:51.320 --> 1:27:54.599 offended if somebody. I'm gonna be honest, people always tell 1:27:54.680 --> 1:27:59.200 me to everybody that says they're pregnant, but me, I 1:27:59.240 --> 1:28:03.439 mean fully, they're they're not having sex with anybody else. 1:28:03.479 --> 1:28:05.240 I mean, at least that's what we've discussed, and I 1:28:05.320 --> 1:28:08.280 don't take any of them to be liars. If there's 1:28:08.320 --> 1:28:10.760 somebody that I feel like, we probably got to figure 1:28:10.800 --> 1:28:13.519 this out. But luckily, like every every child I've had, 1:28:13.880 --> 1:28:16.479 comes out looking just like me, just like you know. 1:28:16.600 --> 1:28:19.439 I want to talk about love languages, Nick, and I 1:28:19.520 --> 1:28:21.920 want to ask you what your love language is, and 1:28:22.040 --> 1:28:24.200 so you know this all was developed by a writer, 1:28:24.320 --> 1:28:30.320 Gary Chapman R. Five love languages back of my hand. Okay, 1:28:30.439 --> 1:28:33.360 I'm asking you this because you say that you only 1:28:33.400 --> 1:28:36.280 give these girls Kentucky five chicken, and I don't believe 1:28:36.360 --> 1:28:41.840 that that was that was that's wrap, bravado and yeah, 1:28:41.880 --> 1:28:45.759 I definitely that. So the love languages for people listening gifts, 1:28:46.439 --> 1:28:50.599 quality time, a service, words of affirmation, and physical touch. 1:28:50.720 --> 1:28:54.400 With Nick Cannon's I got I got to I'm definitely 1:28:54.400 --> 1:28:57.720 because I have trust issues, so words of affirmation is 1:28:57.840 --> 1:28:59.960 my first, Like I need that, I need you to 1:29:00.080 --> 1:29:01.720 tell me you love me. I need you. I need 1:29:01.800 --> 1:29:05.000 to be told that because otherwise my insecurities are gonna 1:29:05.080 --> 1:29:08.360 kick in. And then I would say acts of service, 1:29:08.680 --> 1:29:10.120 but not in the sense of like I need you 1:29:10.200 --> 1:29:12.280 to do stuff for me, but service in the space 1:29:12.360 --> 1:29:15.400 of servitude to where that I know you got my back, 1:29:15.520 --> 1:29:17.320 you were there for me, like if they if I 1:29:17.439 --> 1:29:20.280 ever need to call on somebody, you're gonna hold me down. 1:29:20.320 --> 1:29:22.439 So it's that whole. So it's that access service, like 1:29:22.439 --> 1:29:25.360 I don't need you to actually service me, but I 1:29:25.439 --> 1:29:29.000 need the servitude of like if Again, that goes back 1:29:29.000 --> 1:29:31.160 to the insecurities, like I know I could pick up 1:29:31.160 --> 1:29:33.120 the phone and call and at any time and I 1:29:33.160 --> 1:29:34.519 could cry in front of I could do this, like 1:29:34.720 --> 1:29:36.320 she's going to be there for me. So those are 1:29:36.400 --> 1:29:40.160 probably my two. I don't need the quality time because 1:29:40.200 --> 1:29:45.680 it's hard for touch. I don't. I like, I'm a 1:29:45.760 --> 1:29:47.720 coverer and all that, but I can if I'm like 1:29:47.800 --> 1:29:51.120 that would probably number three, but like I'm not. The 1:29:51.320 --> 1:29:53.800 people that end up being single and the most are 1:29:53.880 --> 1:29:57.200 people who are who require quality time as their love lagers. 1:29:57.240 --> 1:29:58.880 Yeah see that's not that's not me because I know 1:29:59.000 --> 1:30:01.479 I can't it's hard for him. Like that's my biggest 1:30:01.520 --> 1:30:03.679 issue with everybody I'm involved with is like I don't 1:30:03.880 --> 1:30:07.840 have physically have the time to what you know, most 1:30:07.920 --> 1:30:10.080 people deserve, so if any So that's why I try 1:30:10.160 --> 1:30:13.639 to pick up every if it's gifts, whatever you need, 1:30:13.840 --> 1:30:17.040 like if it's if it's physical touch, if it's great sex, 1:30:17.160 --> 1:30:21.040 I'm trying to blow your mind. If it's words affirmations, 1:30:21.160 --> 1:30:23.840 I'm gonna tell you I love you. But quality time, 1:30:23.920 --> 1:30:25.680 that's my biggest down. Has there ever been a time 1:30:25.720 --> 1:30:27.800 that you felt like you didn't perform well in bed? 1:30:29.240 --> 1:30:31.920 I'm dealing with some ship right now where like I 1:30:32.080 --> 1:30:35.639 feel like it's and this is I'll bring it to y'all, 1:30:35.760 --> 1:30:41.400 y'all with these damn toys. So so I've I've I've 1:30:41.479 --> 1:30:48.759 expanded my horizon a little bit because I'm I'm angry 1:30:48.840 --> 1:30:51.240 at toys. This is why I'm gonna tell you this 1:30:51.400 --> 1:30:55.600 is something I'm currently dealing with. So when obviously, like 1:30:55.680 --> 1:30:58.799 you said, the first time you have sex right hugely 1:30:58.880 --> 1:31:01.960 butterflies is honey moon, It's probably gonna be amazing. It's 1:31:01.960 --> 1:31:04.400 gonna be amazing, man. So like now that's the bar 1:31:04.520 --> 1:31:06.880 we're trying to hear every time, and usually she's probably 1:31:07.240 --> 1:31:10.919 hopefully she's gonna come on that first time because emotions 1:31:10.960 --> 1:31:14.760 are high now y'all doing it all the time, and 1:31:15.720 --> 1:31:18.040 depending on how long it take you, Mike, it's you, 1:31:19.400 --> 1:31:21.639 she's coming. You know what I mean, like and sometimes 1:31:21.720 --> 1:31:24.920 but for whatever reason, boom. Then now we're familiar with 1:31:25.040 --> 1:31:27.200 each other. You know, I don't have as much time 1:31:27.360 --> 1:31:30.120 as as you would like. That's probably pissing you off 1:31:30.160 --> 1:31:32.800 a little bit. So now you got your toy, and 1:31:32.920 --> 1:31:35.519 your toy kicks in and when I'm out of town 1:31:36.240 --> 1:31:39.080 going crazy with that joint. So then by the time 1:31:39.160 --> 1:31:44.160 I get back home, like, yo, what happened to the honeymoons? 1:31:44.160 --> 1:31:46.920 And what happened? Like yo, I'm now now you're asking 1:31:47.000 --> 1:31:50.080 me to bring the toy with I'm like, what the fuck? 1:31:50.200 --> 1:31:53.920 Like I remember now, granted there have been some women that, oh, okay, 1:31:54.040 --> 1:31:56.120 this is you only use it to Okay, I'll get 1:31:56.360 --> 1:32:00.640 but don't we used to have amazing sex. But now 1:32:00.760 --> 1:32:06.720 that you have allowed this substitute to come in, can't 1:32:06.920 --> 1:32:10.639 Can men compete with the toy? No, Like, let's keep 1:32:10.680 --> 1:32:12.880 it a stack that ship like you put that thing. 1:32:13.600 --> 1:32:16.479 Man can't make you feel the way the toy makes 1:32:16.520 --> 1:32:20.639 you feel. But the toy also does not make you feel. Yeah, 1:32:21.439 --> 1:32:23.600 I need a body. I need to see what I 1:32:24.400 --> 1:32:31.320 can Definitely, yeah, I'm talking about the normal sitting on 1:32:34.320 --> 1:32:37.240 You got to get in there, like like I function 1:32:37.360 --> 1:32:40.840 ones the pocket rocket regular pocket rock back in the 1:32:40.960 --> 1:32:43.120 day that you put a triple a battery in it 1:32:43.400 --> 1:32:46.040 or whatever, double a battery. That makes me squirt. I 1:32:46.080 --> 1:32:48.920 always had to put a towel down every time, just 1:32:49.280 --> 1:32:54.920 vibrating from the click. Yeah, I know, based off us. 1:32:55.000 --> 1:32:57.880 I mean, that's a shark clatorial game is crazy because 1:32:57.880 --> 1:33:00.320 I know when I have to make girls squirt, it's 1:33:01.560 --> 1:33:05.639 you ever use the toy? Hell no, this girl asked 1:33:05.640 --> 1:33:09.280 me to put on this little vibrating Yeah, the cock 1:33:11.520 --> 1:33:16.560 of my circulation. That's vibrating me. I don't want to vibrate. Like, 1:33:16.920 --> 1:33:23.880 what the great this is our girl? Rom me say 1:33:23.960 --> 1:33:26.400 she was up here, but this is her vagina. Oh 1:33:26.520 --> 1:33:32.200 that's a pocket penis. So that's called a stroker. It's 1:33:32.200 --> 1:33:36.519 a stroker. So maybe one day you might need Yeah, 1:33:37.320 --> 1:33:40.880 you can talk that. Okay. It's like a little master band. 1:33:41.920 --> 1:33:47.880 Do you want it as much as you don't need one? 1:33:47.960 --> 1:33:50.920 But like its like those times like yeah, like in 1:33:51.000 --> 1:33:53.559 the shower, But it's a part of the routine because 1:33:53.600 --> 1:33:56.040 that's where the proof. Like you ever watched the street, 1:33:56.120 --> 1:34:00.080 you know Nicker Savage he opened it it. Now we 1:34:00.160 --> 1:34:03.840 got to like we've had so many of them setting 1:34:03.880 --> 1:34:07.400 it here you go sitting there. This is quite heavy. 1:34:07.560 --> 1:34:14.679 That's the back side. That's the anus back. He opened 1:34:14.680 --> 1:34:19.120 the wrong side, Nick, you do ain't knows. It looks 1:34:19.160 --> 1:34:23.680 pretty absolutely I've never seen it. I've never seen to 1:34:23.720 --> 1:34:26.680 be that. Who you know that's the wrong side. Let 1:34:26.720 --> 1:34:29.720 me see you do it? You do it because I'm 1:34:29.760 --> 1:34:32.400 the sexually yeah, she's the sex side extra here. Now 1:34:32.560 --> 1:34:34.800 it might have been that side. Nothing, that was the 1:34:34.960 --> 1:34:42.599 right side and the front. Everybody looks like that. Nick, 1:34:42.640 --> 1:34:45.000 I got to ask you something to do you purposely 1:34:45.040 --> 1:34:52.080 put your print on TV? Oh no, there you go. 1:34:52.760 --> 1:34:56.519 You know, I don't want a person like that. I 1:34:56.760 --> 1:35:03.200 was exposing myself. Was Heidi coom on embarrassing was on 1:35:03.320 --> 1:35:09.439 America's Guy Talent, And I didn't know story because I 1:35:09.680 --> 1:35:13.479 think about it, like, first of all, tailored and tapered 1:35:13.600 --> 1:35:19.040 suits just started coming before. So then probably like you know, 1:35:19.439 --> 1:35:21.519 close to ten years ago, I started getting my joints 1:35:21.600 --> 1:35:25.120 tapered and slammed up. So I'm on and then like 1:35:25.520 --> 1:35:27.840 this is like literally Malby and Heidi Coon They're like, 1:35:28.680 --> 1:35:31.160 I'm like, what are y'all telling us live TV? And 1:35:31.400 --> 1:35:34.439 like I'm like what, Like and then She's like, you're 1:35:34.479 --> 1:35:37.040 doing that on purpose? Are you so excited? I'm like, 1:35:37.160 --> 1:35:39.240 what are you talking about? And then I was like, 1:35:40.479 --> 1:35:42.760 oh so and so ever since they have you ever 1:35:42.840 --> 1:35:45.080 watched me on television? I keep my phone in my 1:35:45.200 --> 1:35:47.519 pocket and people are like, why do you have your phone? 1:35:48.040 --> 1:35:52.120 Because if I didn't have you here in my podcast. 1:35:52.200 --> 1:35:57.160 So that's just when and now for the top three 1:35:57.240 --> 1:36:01.479 episodes of two and then but three is Ari Fletcher. 1:36:01.920 --> 1:36:04.400 This episode was important because I felt like I was 1:36:04.439 --> 1:36:07.360 always judge based on social media and no one really 1:36:07.439 --> 1:36:09.960 got to know who she was as a person. Not 1:36:10.120 --> 1:36:12.880 only does she clear up some misconceptions about herself, but 1:36:13.000 --> 1:36:16.280 she also opens up about her dream future with money bag. Yell, 1:36:16.680 --> 1:36:21.320 So let's get back into it, alright. So now we're 1:36:21.320 --> 1:36:23.559 gonna play a little game Ari's house. We're gonna talk 1:36:23.600 --> 1:36:25.559 about some things that have been happening in the headlines, 1:36:25.600 --> 1:36:28.000 and we're gonna get your input on them. All right. 1:36:28.080 --> 1:36:30.880 So this woman was on TikTok and she said she 1:36:30.920 --> 1:36:34.080 found out that her boyfriend masturbates to I G models 1:36:34.120 --> 1:36:36.800 and TikTok girls and she feels like, now she's insufficient. 1:36:37.240 --> 1:36:41.720 Do you think that's wrong? No? I mean he liked, well, 1:36:41.760 --> 1:36:45.520 he likes you can't really control that, right, just masturbating 1:36:45.600 --> 1:36:48.160 to these. But I mean I'll be mad at though, Like, 1:36:48.360 --> 1:36:51.439 but I mean, damn, it's a little hurtful. I mean, 1:36:51.520 --> 1:36:54.840 at the end of the day, he's fantasizing because the 1:36:54.920 --> 1:36:57.040 difference for you is that he couldn't meet them girls too, 1:36:57.520 --> 1:37:04.880 like yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, Like your man 1:37:04.960 --> 1:37:07.400 has access to any woman he would want, so for 1:37:07.560 --> 1:37:10.320 him to be fanticizing over another he could possibly get that. 1:37:10.439 --> 1:37:12.800 That's one thing. But this random girl on TikTok, whose 1:37:12.840 --> 1:37:17.680 value is a regular never girls like you, right, and 1:37:17.840 --> 1:37:23.280 he can never touch you, so that I'll be like, 1:37:24.320 --> 1:37:29.960 it's kind of it's like watching pouring, yeah, because I mean, 1:37:30.000 --> 1:37:31.960 if he don't have you know, he ain't even got 1:37:32.000 --> 1:37:35.040 the juice to get him access to these. I mean, 1:37:35.120 --> 1:37:37.439 it's probably it's a feeling inside of her that's probably 1:37:37.479 --> 1:37:40.400 a little like I don't look like that, yeah, you know, 1:37:41.439 --> 1:37:44.559 for me to get my body done, make me look 1:37:44.640 --> 1:37:47.599 like what you like me, mix me up, mix me up, 1:37:47.800 --> 1:37:50.640 and if you don't like me to go all right now. 1:37:50.720 --> 1:37:53.160 This woman said she sends herself anonymous drinks on first 1:37:53.280 --> 1:37:56.160 dates so that the guy that she's with knows that 1:37:56.280 --> 1:38:07.080 she has options that right, just be like I like 1:38:07.360 --> 1:38:10.400 for Martini, okay, but she's gonna get it, but she 1:38:10.439 --> 1:38:12.320 wants him to be jealous, like thinking that other guys 1:38:12.920 --> 1:38:16.800 sending her dreams for real, Let nigga really seeing you 1:38:16.880 --> 1:38:19.640 a drink turn up for real? Like yeah, no, we 1:38:19.680 --> 1:38:22.760 ain't gonna have stuff. Who's more jealous? You are money bag? Yo? 1:38:27.960 --> 1:38:36.240 Sorry bad, let's you? It's really yeah? He but he 1:38:36.520 --> 1:38:39.639 like he liked my homie like I don't. I don't 1:38:39.680 --> 1:38:42.160 be sweating ship like I don't care. But then it's 1:38:42.160 --> 1:38:43.960 like he'd be feeling the same way. But it's like 1:38:44.080 --> 1:38:46.599 the same sound like we're still check each other about 1:38:46.640 --> 1:38:50.160 some little shit but nothing ever, like I never had 1:38:50.320 --> 1:38:54.120 no drama like no like with him and girls. Somebody 1:38:54.200 --> 1:38:55.479 else wo hacked you and said a lot of your 1:38:55.520 --> 1:38:57.280 bag is getting sun this year. I ain't gonna lie 1:38:57.720 --> 1:39:02.639 and it is put that on my page. It's still there. 1:39:05.400 --> 1:39:09.320 Sound sound about right? Yes, the ladies need to be 1:39:09.560 --> 1:39:13.439 on the lookout. Have y'all ever done that, like picked 1:39:13.479 --> 1:39:19.360 a girl up together in trouble for that was trying 1:39:19.360 --> 1:39:21.320 to tell you was freaky? Were trying to get up 1:39:22.240 --> 1:39:25.800 are a great time. I genuinely like women, like that 1:39:25.960 --> 1:39:30.040 was my I had sex with a woman before. Man, Like, 1:39:30.240 --> 1:39:33.120 I'm really I'm really into girls, like on my own, 1:39:33.200 --> 1:39:36.320 like I don't have threeesomes, like because that's what he 1:39:36.400 --> 1:39:38.160 want to do, Like that's what I want to do, 1:39:38.760 --> 1:39:40.720 you know, like you I mean, of course he want 1:39:40.760 --> 1:39:43.280 to do it. But you know it's like with like 1:39:43.400 --> 1:39:47.479 I really like women, Like I'm into women. You're sexual. Yeah, 1:39:47.920 --> 1:39:49.960 I dated like I've been in a real relationship with 1:39:50.040 --> 1:39:53.919 a girl for three years, like has sex with numerous 1:39:54.439 --> 1:39:57.320 we're all bisexual except for Angela. I never did it. 1:39:57.680 --> 1:40:00.920 You have your crossover now, I've never kissed the woman 1:40:01.040 --> 1:40:05.240 or nothing, you know, strictly dick Ley. Really, yeah, I 1:40:05.320 --> 1:40:08.439 don't like women. I love women, but not like like 1:40:08.560 --> 1:40:11.760 actually yeah, I've never felt like a desire and I 1:40:11.840 --> 1:40:13.760 don't mind, like I go to the strip club looking 1:40:13.760 --> 1:40:15.920 at women everything. I don't but I don't know, I 1:40:16.040 --> 1:40:18.160 just don't be like I wanna. Yeah, I never think 1:40:18.240 --> 1:40:23.040 like that. I didn't really a woman first, too, So 1:40:25.560 --> 1:40:27.640 I've never been in a relationship with one. And we 1:40:27.760 --> 1:40:30.800 had this conversation a couple episodes back about will we 1:40:30.880 --> 1:40:33.320 be in a relationship with the woman, and I just 1:40:33.720 --> 1:40:36.400 don't don't see it like I need dick and I 1:40:36.479 --> 1:40:39.200 need like the energy I need masculine energy and not 1:40:39.400 --> 1:40:42.120 from a masculine woman from a man. Why did you 1:40:42.240 --> 1:40:44.720 a your girlfriend break up? That's should that should just 1:40:44.840 --> 1:40:48.440 get toxic. It was real top fighting, going to the hospital. 1:40:48.640 --> 1:40:52.439 Just it was. It was bad. And then I was younger, 1:40:52.560 --> 1:40:55.200 so and I was got me a man. I was like, bitch, 1:40:55.240 --> 1:40:59.360 I'm about to go get some bit like I'm bad, 1:41:00.040 --> 1:41:02.000 I gotta go. Then I after that it was like 1:41:02.560 --> 1:41:07.040 all fun girls like I never oh one other girls 1:41:07.160 --> 1:41:09.880 like I act that I actually liked and I consistently 1:41:09.960 --> 1:41:12.960 talked to. But besides her and we went in a relationship, 1:41:13.000 --> 1:41:16.760 it was just like a thing. But everybody else was 1:41:16.920 --> 1:41:19.519 just like a fun time. T G always used to 1:41:19.560 --> 1:41:22.720 say she wanted to get married and have a girlfriend too. 1:41:22.920 --> 1:41:25.559 I did. At one point, I changed my mind really well, 1:41:25.840 --> 1:41:31.559 oh I'm strongly considering. Yeah, it was during my last relationship, 1:41:31.600 --> 1:41:33.200 because I mean he was cheating on me with eight 1:41:33.760 --> 1:41:36.320 bitches anyway, so oh yes, I mean, why not just 1:41:36.400 --> 1:41:37.920 bring one home? And I would tell him all the time, 1:41:37.960 --> 1:41:39.280 like just bring one in the bitches home and make 1:41:39.320 --> 1:41:42.040 her play her part. But I don't know whatever happened 1:41:42.040 --> 1:41:44.240 with that. He just couldn't get it together. Um I 1:41:44.280 --> 1:41:45.840 guess he couldn't get his lives to match up. But 1:41:45.920 --> 1:41:48.000 who knows what. I think I could do a Polly 1:41:48.160 --> 1:41:52.479 relationship if the man is like really that guy. Yeah, 1:41:52.600 --> 1:41:55.760 I get along with the other girls, other girls that 1:41:59.800 --> 1:42:02.600 I want to be the girlfriend, and she's my girlfriend 1:42:02.760 --> 1:42:05.280 and just fun for him. I don't know that's how 1:42:05.280 --> 1:42:07.200 I wanted it, but like her for real and lessen, 1:42:07.439 --> 1:42:09.880 but I wanted it. That's kind of hard to make 1:42:09.960 --> 1:42:15.080 not happen because like another one, I have the kids 1:42:15.160 --> 1:42:17.640 for us, you know, and we'd be a family with 1:42:17.760 --> 1:42:22.360 the kids. I don't have the kids. She have the kids, 1:42:22.880 --> 1:42:25.879 you know what I mean. And we all have fun together. 1:42:26.120 --> 1:42:30.479 And she's pregnant but I'm not. It's amazing and we're 1:42:30.520 --> 1:42:33.320 growing her family. And like you said, I don't feel 1:42:33.320 --> 1:42:39.800 like you go here right now. I'm thinking about it. 1:42:39.920 --> 1:42:43.080 Let me tell you, that's like a real thing I want. 1:42:43.280 --> 1:42:45.800 I need a break. I'm not even like I've done that. 1:42:46.400 --> 1:42:49.760 I'm not even being funny. I'm really because I don't 1:42:49.760 --> 1:42:52.000 feel like doing it. No I've been KidSing. I've been 1:42:52.160 --> 1:42:56.040 because I've had this idea and from my entire life 1:42:56.120 --> 1:42:59.000 that it's one man and one woman. I want my 1:42:59.160 --> 1:43:01.679 man to be so old faithful to me. It drives 1:43:01.720 --> 1:43:03.559 me crazy when you look at other girls. I can't 1:43:03.600 --> 1:43:06.120 take it. I can't take it. And this has not 1:43:06.240 --> 1:43:08.800 worked for me. This is you're kind of jealous. I 1:43:08.840 --> 1:43:10.599 don't know if you can handle that. That's what I'm saying. 1:43:10.680 --> 1:43:13.680 But I also have great relationships with the women who 1:43:13.680 --> 1:43:16.200 are in my life, you know, Like I don't have 1:43:16.360 --> 1:43:18.400 no smoke with the women who are in my life, 1:43:18.479 --> 1:43:22.120 like I love you, and I genuinely love G. You know. 1:43:22.280 --> 1:43:24.920 G knows me really well. And I don't have a 1:43:25.000 --> 1:43:27.479 lot of girlfriends, but the woman that I do have 1:43:27.640 --> 1:43:31.160 in my life, like we have great relationships. So I 1:43:31.280 --> 1:43:33.519 feel like with a man, maybe if I gave him 1:43:33.520 --> 1:43:36.599 a little slack, you know, and it's kind of more 1:43:36.720 --> 1:43:39.040 realistic if you think about it. I'm not saying this 1:43:39.160 --> 1:43:42.280 is what I want to do. I'm just thinking, I 1:43:42.439 --> 1:43:50.720 just but you know, maybe you know that it might 1:43:51.040 --> 1:43:53.040 work for us, because I don't. At the end of 1:43:53.080 --> 1:43:55.000 the day, I'm I'm the type of person who needs 1:43:55.000 --> 1:43:57.320 space I need a lot of space. I like to 1:43:57.400 --> 1:43:59.600 be to myself, and I feel like I want a 1:43:59.680 --> 1:44:01.920 man who needs space too. But then you give a 1:44:02.000 --> 1:44:04.880 man too much space and he starts doing funny things 1:44:04.960 --> 1:44:07.640 with the space, you know what I mean. But I 1:44:07.720 --> 1:44:10.639 feel like if you have this relationship where the family 1:44:10.880 --> 1:44:13.320 is full, you know, like I said, there's one like 1:44:13.600 --> 1:44:16.840 cooking and cleaning, then there's another one having kids, and 1:44:16.880 --> 1:44:19.920 then there's one that does like poltrick. This is like 1:44:21.240 --> 1:44:27.720 eisode every money and I'm real, you know, like it's like, 1:44:32.600 --> 1:44:34.920 but I mean, what kind of guy he would really 1:44:35.000 --> 1:44:37.280 have to be? That guy you supposed to be able 1:44:37.320 --> 1:44:40.400 to control all of that. I got to have a 1:44:40.600 --> 1:44:44.160 bond that's so crazy, like exactly you know, ain't know, 1:44:44.560 --> 1:44:47.280 you know this whole ain't working with you right? And 1:44:47.360 --> 1:44:48.920 I think it will be more like a family thing. 1:44:48.960 --> 1:44:58.679 We're not really jealous. We're not worried about yea. But maybe, 1:44:59.000 --> 1:45:00.880 like I said, I would want to little hot sexy 1:45:01.000 --> 1:45:07.839 one that like does you know a part time? Sorry? 1:45:07.880 --> 1:45:11.760 How do you pick the women? Like you? You have 1:45:11.880 --> 1:45:14.040 to pick the woman? I'm sorry, I'm not available for 1:45:14.160 --> 1:45:18.960 your friends. I think the girl ship. I mean, a 1:45:19.040 --> 1:45:20.600 man could pick too. But then it's kind of like 1:45:20.680 --> 1:45:22.760 too many things out to your head when a man 1:45:22.880 --> 1:45:25.240 pick us kind of like you probably already sucked her before. 1:45:26.160 --> 1:45:29.160 That's what I've been thinking, Like you, I said, we're 1:45:29.200 --> 1:45:33.200 sucking her? Who? Who? You said? Nobody? Okay. I just 1:45:33.320 --> 1:45:35.240 feel like when a man pick is kind of like 1:45:36.160 --> 1:45:39.000 it's just too much going on. I feel like y'all 1:45:39.000 --> 1:45:43.960 already sucked before. And yeah, so I was gonna ask, 1:45:44.000 --> 1:45:46.040 have you ever had a bad experience when it came 1:45:46.080 --> 1:45:51.479 to a threesomes? You know, like anything ever? Anytime it 1:45:51.600 --> 1:45:54.479 was it was I had a I had a wife, 1:45:55.000 --> 1:45:59.559 um or girlfriend whatever she was stop the sexual act, 1:45:59.640 --> 1:46:01.800 miss stroke because she didn't like the way that he 1:46:01.920 --> 1:46:03.800 was sucking me. She said he was enjoying it too much, 1:46:03.840 --> 1:46:08.519 so she stopped the whole thing. Square. Yeah, it was 1:46:08.560 --> 1:46:12.160 like that, should I be flatter or mad? Well what happened? 1:46:12.160 --> 1:46:14.320 It's like that is that he just started working me 1:46:14.400 --> 1:46:21.120 without her, Oh my god, that'll do it. After that, 1:46:21.439 --> 1:46:23.680 it's like they called her at the game, they're like 1:46:23.760 --> 1:46:29.599 get on the bench, but like you know, that night 1:46:30.840 --> 1:46:32.439 and then he hit me like okay, well we're not 1:46:32.439 --> 1:46:34.880 going to involve her anymore. And it went on for 1:46:35.120 --> 1:46:40.560 like quite sometimes she felt it though, and so did you? 1:46:42.200 --> 1:46:46.080 Damn look and so did you Okay in that situation, 1:46:46.160 --> 1:46:47.960 are you allowed to mess with the girl and he's 1:46:47.960 --> 1:46:54.400 not around? No, But I don't really think that he 1:46:54.479 --> 1:46:58.960 would really mind that much, like because you know, I 1:46:59.000 --> 1:47:01.800 don't won't a girlfriend for real, Like you know, I 1:47:01.840 --> 1:47:03.720 don't want to be with a girl, so probably like 1:47:04.400 --> 1:47:09.960 all right, y'all gonna hear how y'all little fun? Too 1:47:10.040 --> 1:47:16.200 much fun? Now? No, do you guys FaceTime sex? Like 1:47:16.280 --> 1:47:18.200 do you have sex ver? FaceTime? Ever when he's on 1:47:18.280 --> 1:47:21.280 the road or you're on the road, like some videos 1:47:21.439 --> 1:47:24.280 or something, you don't be scared that they're gonna get out. 1:47:24.520 --> 1:47:28.400 Hell yeah, I just I swell to god. I literally 1:47:28.680 --> 1:47:31.040 just start saying them the videos. I used to always 1:47:31.080 --> 1:47:33.519 be like, no, no, no, I'm not doing it. No, 1:47:33.600 --> 1:47:36.960 I'm not doing it. But ship, I mean, make that 1:47:37.000 --> 1:47:39.760 ship look good if you get out. I mean I 1:47:39.840 --> 1:47:43.479 feel the same greatness out there, great people be like 1:47:43.560 --> 1:47:45.839 how you got only fans? Because I know when I'm posting, 1:47:46.720 --> 1:47:48.280 and I don't care if you get out. Clearly I 1:47:48.360 --> 1:47:51.080 posted it, I know you put on it in it. 1:47:51.880 --> 1:47:55.560 I look damn good. I just think money. Do you 1:47:55.760 --> 1:47:59.439 feel yourself having sex? So? Where so the videos are 1:47:59.479 --> 1:48:03.240 on your phone? Yeah? All right, now my phone? Okay, 1:48:05.000 --> 1:48:08.800 my phone. Do you ever masturbate to your videos? Yes? 1:48:09.200 --> 1:48:13.120 Out of time? Okay, that makes sense the best, as 1:48:13.200 --> 1:48:16.240 I think that people should masturbate once a day. Once 1:48:16.320 --> 1:48:20.200 a day you're working on at least five times a week. Girl, 1:48:20.640 --> 1:48:25.840 I wish what's your favorite toy? Oh, we have something toys. Oh, 1:48:25.920 --> 1:48:31.240 we do have something for you. Here you go. It's 1:48:31.240 --> 1:48:34.400 a pussy pump. Oh I got one of these. Here's 1:48:34.400 --> 1:48:39.280 a new one, like some extra ship. Okay, I'm gonna 1:48:39.320 --> 1:48:43.200 try this. It's nice. It's like you put your pussy 1:48:43.280 --> 1:48:49.320 in here and it's like it's and then yeah, it 1:48:49.439 --> 1:48:51.600 brings all of the blood to the nerve endings and 1:48:51.680 --> 1:48:56.400 it also vibrates. I have that. Can you? Can you square? 1:48:56.439 --> 1:49:00.160 It's good for four play? I can't. I can't. Then 1:49:00.200 --> 1:49:03.080 I do it's but I don't. It's like it's it's 1:49:03.160 --> 1:49:05.519 so it's like a mind think for me, I'd be like, 1:49:05.760 --> 1:49:10.439 oh did I just right? Like it's a mass like 1:49:11.360 --> 1:49:15.680 when I masturbate. Oh really, do you ever not want 1:49:15.680 --> 1:49:21.600 to do it? Because it's messy to like put a 1:49:21.720 --> 1:49:27.599 towel down before us. Has he ever told you noticed 1:49:27.600 --> 1:49:33.600 sex still? No, not if he was exhausted. Nothing. I 1:49:33.760 --> 1:49:36.479 never told him not to sex either. Never. Never. So 1:49:36.600 --> 1:49:39.280 y'allre just in tune like that. I'm not saying notice that. 1:49:39.520 --> 1:49:41.600 I don't care how tired I am. Yeah, I just 1:49:41.720 --> 1:49:47.880 feel like you know, Yeah, I never saying no. He's 1:49:47.920 --> 1:49:51.320 not saying no. We have a strong sexual connection. That's great. 1:49:52.000 --> 1:49:53.320 How long did it take for you guys to have 1:49:53.439 --> 1:49:58.360 sex the first time? Like a month? Really? A month? Yeah, right, 1:49:58.439 --> 1:50:01.360 a little open month. So you guys went on dates? 1:50:01.400 --> 1:50:03.160 Like what was the first date? How was the whole 1:50:03.240 --> 1:50:10.000 courting time? I met him at the club? Yeah, we 1:50:10.040 --> 1:50:11.200 went on days to be and we went out to 1:50:11.240 --> 1:50:14.559 eat before we had sex. We um it was chilling 1:50:14.600 --> 1:50:17.680 out and flew to him and everything. And then as sex, well, 1:50:17.960 --> 1:50:20.360 I wanted so when I the first time he flew 1:50:20.400 --> 1:50:22.559 me out to him, he had like all these teddy 1:50:22.600 --> 1:50:25.280 bears and roses and he bought me like some Gucci bags. 1:50:26.040 --> 1:50:28.519 He was going hard. He was going hard, he was. 1:50:28.640 --> 1:50:30.280 I taxed him suit in a car because he had 1:50:30.320 --> 1:50:31.640 like a car service picked me up with all the 1:50:31.680 --> 1:50:33.560 stuff in the car. He takes me, Like, what you 1:50:33.600 --> 1:50:34.960 want to eat? I said, I want to eat you 1:50:36.280 --> 1:50:38.640 and then but I didn't ask sex soon though you 1:50:38.840 --> 1:50:42.519 posted your sex adversary anniversary right to the first time 1:50:42.560 --> 1:50:47.639 your head sex with you Thanksgiving and you guys both 1:50:47.760 --> 1:50:51.759 like had other situations. Obviously everybody does before they get together. 1:50:52.080 --> 1:50:54.800 How hard was it to like let other people know, like, look, 1:50:54.840 --> 1:50:56.200 this is what I'm doing now, because you know, you 1:50:56.280 --> 1:50:59.080 gotta I already left my nigger that I was talking to, 1:50:59.680 --> 1:51:01.760 but still have to tell him, Like at some point 1:51:02.479 --> 1:51:07.840 he's gonna see that I was gone. I was doing 1:51:08.000 --> 1:51:11.920 me so and you know what's crazy, The same exact 1:51:12.040 --> 1:51:14.519 night that I met him was the last day that 1:51:14.640 --> 1:51:22.040 I talked to my ex boyfriend. Really okay, okay? And 1:51:22.360 --> 1:51:24.439 so how was it for you? Because he has he 1:51:24.560 --> 1:51:27.599 had other situations? So do you get along with everybody? 1:51:27.640 --> 1:51:29.719 How does that work? Like do you have advice for women? 1:51:29.760 --> 1:51:32.519 Because a lot of people, you know, later in life 1:51:32.600 --> 1:51:34.840 you get with somebody, they got baby mamas that you 1:51:34.960 --> 1:51:37.439 got to talked to and deal with. So I just 1:51:38.200 --> 1:51:40.719 I like kind of let his business be his business 1:51:40.840 --> 1:51:42.760 unless he talked to me about it, Like I don't 1:51:42.800 --> 1:51:45.840 try to be like, so, what's your baby mama? You know, 1:51:46.000 --> 1:51:48.160 like I don't. I don't really get into that. First 1:51:48.160 --> 1:51:51.120 of all, he has it's a lot of them over there, 1:51:51.160 --> 1:51:56.400 you know. It's like it's just it already, you know, 1:51:56.520 --> 1:51:58.240 and then I don't want it, like, you know, I 1:51:58.320 --> 1:51:59.720 know he got a lot to deal with with that, 1:51:59.840 --> 1:52:02.880 so I don't want him to feel like damn, like, 1:52:03.000 --> 1:52:05.000 but you stay talking about my baby mammas, you know 1:52:05.040 --> 1:52:07.600 what's supposed to be, you know, a breakaway, Like I 1:52:07.640 --> 1:52:09.519 ain't trying to just be focused on that. So I 1:52:09.560 --> 1:52:12.280 mean I let him me into his business, like, if 1:52:12.320 --> 1:52:14.719 it's something that we need to talk about, we're gonna 1:52:14.760 --> 1:52:17.800 talk about it. But well, like even with that, I 1:52:17.840 --> 1:52:20.160 ain't really got no smoke with nobody. Like none of 1:52:20.200 --> 1:52:21.800 them asked like I want to meet Harry because she's 1:52:21.840 --> 1:52:25.760 gonna be around before or did I meet too? I 1:52:25.880 --> 1:52:27.960 met one of them. Yeah, I met one of them 1:52:28.000 --> 1:52:31.519 before stocks on the phone. She cool, real mature. She 1:52:31.880 --> 1:52:33.639 because you're here to stay and you could be around 1:52:33.680 --> 1:52:36.200 their kids. So the best situation is if y'all could 1:52:36.439 --> 1:52:40.559 be cordial. Yeah, absolutely I would. I have no problem 1:52:40.640 --> 1:52:42.439 with sitting there with nobody and talking because I would 1:52:42.520 --> 1:52:44.680 want that for my child, you know, like, and you've 1:52:44.720 --> 1:52:48.400 done that. Absolutely, listen, this is what we're doing. This 1:52:48.520 --> 1:52:50.400 is how it is, and this is what I don't 1:52:50.439 --> 1:52:53.080 like this what I do like like God bless whatever 1:52:53.200 --> 1:52:57.360 y'all doing. And you know, like respect my child. Period. 1:52:57.640 --> 1:52:59.639 You don't do this. You do like this is what's 1:52:59.680 --> 1:53:03.240 cool's not cool? And that's It's a simple conversation. But 1:53:03.280 --> 1:53:05.360 everybody not ready for that, you know, right. It does 1:53:05.400 --> 1:53:10.439 take time though, absolutely, and I ain't a'm stressed out 1:53:10.439 --> 1:53:13.000 about it. I hondesstand. I know. Everybody to deal with things, 1:53:14.000 --> 1:53:16.920 you know how they deal with them. So, but it 1:53:17.040 --> 1:53:19.080 is it is a process because I think sometimes in 1:53:19.160 --> 1:53:20.920 the beginning when you deal with that, you feel like 1:53:21.520 --> 1:53:23.920 this is what it is. But then as you know, 1:53:24.000 --> 1:53:26.519 as time goes by and you realize she's here to stay, 1:53:27.320 --> 1:53:29.680 I'm here to stay in his life, you know. So 1:53:30.360 --> 1:53:31.920 everybody got to learn how to deal with it the 1:53:32.000 --> 1:53:34.400 best way possible and as long as you feel like 1:53:34.520 --> 1:53:36.360 this is a safe environment, because it's really about the 1:53:36.439 --> 1:53:40.680 kids at the end of the day, it's about that's all. 1:53:40.720 --> 1:53:43.040 It's about. Make sure them kids good with everybody, don't 1:53:43.280 --> 1:53:46.160 you know, people really how I look at it like 1:53:47.479 --> 1:53:50.080 you could tell a man, I don't want my child 1:53:50.160 --> 1:53:52.880 around her. You don't know if somebody around the child 1:53:52.960 --> 1:53:54.840 or not. You know, because I went through that like 1:53:54.960 --> 1:53:56.760 I was like, no, don't like my fun you know 1:53:56.800 --> 1:53:59.000 what I'm saying, And guys do that too. I don't 1:53:59.040 --> 1:54:01.639 want my child around. But then it's like you don't 1:54:01.680 --> 1:54:03.640 know what's going on. Yeah, you don't have to just 1:54:03.800 --> 1:54:07.479 be cordial exactly. So then it's like it won't be 1:54:07.600 --> 1:54:13.360 no weird weird behind your back. I'd rather know than not. Yes, 1:54:14.560 --> 1:54:18.960 people gonna do. And you can't really tell nobody like 1:54:19.200 --> 1:54:20.559 I mean, you could say you could tell them all 1:54:20.640 --> 1:54:23.040 you won't, but you can't control with somebody do. And 1:54:23.120 --> 1:54:25.679 it's their child too. That's what I had to realize, 1:54:25.760 --> 1:54:31.679 Like and you, yeah, it's like right, it's both our child. 1:54:31.880 --> 1:54:33.800 I have to trust you to make smart decisions and 1:54:33.880 --> 1:54:36.000 you have to trust me to make smart decisions because 1:54:36.040 --> 1:54:37.960 if I want that respect from you, I gotta give 1:54:38.000 --> 1:54:39.840 it to you also and trust that you're gonna do 1:54:39.920 --> 1:54:44.280 what's best. Number two, it's the mysterious and Brent fires. 1:54:44.800 --> 1:54:47.480 This was personally one of my favorite conversations this past 1:54:47.600 --> 1:54:49.880 year because not only does Brent not do a lot 1:54:49.920 --> 1:54:52.960 of interviews, I also love him just as an artist 1:54:53.080 --> 1:54:57.600 and as a person. So check out Brant. How many 1:54:57.680 --> 1:55:01.360 times can you go in a road? Case by case? 1:55:01.800 --> 1:55:04.920 There's some when I spend time with and I and 1:55:05.000 --> 1:55:07.680 I could finish, but I'm still not done. Just keep 1:55:07.720 --> 1:55:10.520 going the whole time, like Dune came out twice, but 1:55:10.640 --> 1:55:12.880 still like just going because it's something about show you 1:55:12.960 --> 1:55:14.680 that just got me like like I don't know why 1:55:14.720 --> 1:55:17.840 I can just keep going type ship others it's other 1:55:17.920 --> 1:55:20.000 ones I finish, I'm just like, get the funk out, 1:55:20.120 --> 1:55:23.960 Like damn, wow, I'm not gonna say that. You'd be 1:55:24.040 --> 1:55:28.480 like and I'm like I'm already like what you're doing 1:55:28.520 --> 1:55:31.200 the next hour or two? Like that? That's like watching 1:55:31.240 --> 1:55:35.280 a porn How you finishing? And how do you get 1:55:35.320 --> 1:55:37.880 somebody out when you're ready for them to go? M 1:55:38.080 --> 1:55:41.680 hm um. It's a lot that you could do. It's 1:55:41.680 --> 1:55:44.800 a little tricky, like I don't want to give my secrets, 1:55:44.840 --> 1:55:46.320 and then when I try to do is she going up? 1:55:46.520 --> 1:55:48.040 You know what you gotta do. You gotta get the 1:55:48.080 --> 1:55:49.920 fake phone call, like you have to do something. You 1:55:50.000 --> 1:55:52.240 gotta text somebody and that's too much work. If you 1:55:52.320 --> 1:55:55.040 think that's work, now, that's easiest. I'm going to be 1:55:55.080 --> 1:55:57.040 completely honest with y'all. Just be like, only be more 1:55:57.120 --> 1:56:00.920 myself right now you've done that. I don't know me 1:56:01.000 --> 1:56:04.720 and ship, though, I'll be like, really, go to the 1:56:04.760 --> 1:56:06.600 bath room. I don't know. I don't know. I don't 1:56:06.600 --> 1:56:09.080 know me and ship. But it's something like that, you know, 1:56:09.160 --> 1:56:11.600 I got like it's like mashing going on. I got, 1:56:11.840 --> 1:56:16.360 I got the studio is the main one, you know. 1:56:16.480 --> 1:56:18.720 That's a that's but that's that's better than saying I 1:56:18.720 --> 1:56:20.680 want to be by myself. But even so something I'm 1:56:20.680 --> 1:56:23.160 always working, I just want to sit right like, and 1:56:23.600 --> 1:56:25.720 just you being there is kind of disrupting the process, 1:56:25.800 --> 1:56:28.080 like it's not even necessarily excuses. I'm not gonna lie 1:56:28.080 --> 1:56:31.120 about ship. I ain't gonna be like yeah, just facts 1:56:31.200 --> 1:56:32.960 like like I want to be by myself right now. 1:56:33.080 --> 1:56:35.680 It ain't nothing against you, but like now, like that 1:56:36.120 --> 1:56:37.920 we got that shop, the way that we shared that moment, 1:56:38.040 --> 1:56:39.720 like I probably see some time this week, but I 1:56:39.800 --> 1:56:42.960 gotta get some ship, get some ship to go. I 1:56:43.000 --> 1:56:45.200 gotta write some ship, gotta answer some emails, gotta like 1:56:46.080 --> 1:56:48.440 always it's always things to do though. That's the thing. 1:56:48.880 --> 1:56:50.680 Even when I'm when I'm in the moments, when I'm 1:56:50.680 --> 1:56:52.840 intimately having fun, there's still some other ship that I 1:56:52.880 --> 1:56:59.080 could be doing as I'm sure it's choices. Yeah, so 1:56:59.160 --> 1:57:00.960 I'm just always in the back of my mind, that's 1:57:01.000 --> 1:57:03.040 what I'm thinking about, Like, damn, it's time to get 1:57:03.080 --> 1:57:06.240 back to work. Like, so you gotta slot you think. 1:57:06.600 --> 1:57:10.000 So you've been in love before? How many a lot? 1:57:10.200 --> 1:57:11.840 Or are you like a fall in love fast type 1:57:11.840 --> 1:57:17.080 of person or mm hmmm. I feel like I wonder 1:57:17.120 --> 1:57:20.160 them type people? Would I fall in love quick and 1:57:20.200 --> 1:57:24.280 then be out there ship opening grand clothes? Right? Yeah, 1:57:24.800 --> 1:57:27.840 like the beginning of a relationship. That's my favorite part 1:57:27.880 --> 1:57:30.680 of every relationship, at the beginning, right, that's the best part. 1:57:31.240 --> 1:57:34.040 Besides when you really get into the group of being 1:57:34.080 --> 1:57:36.000 a real thing and y'all on the same page, and 1:57:36.080 --> 1:57:38.880 then you know, that's a good part too. But the beginning, 1:57:38.920 --> 1:57:41.040 it's like, yes, it's new, it's fun. You're talking on 1:57:41.120 --> 1:57:44.120 the phone all the time, to be falling asleep on FaceTime. 1:57:45.080 --> 1:57:47.720 You know, you're excited to see each other like doing 1:57:47.760 --> 1:57:50.360 special things all the time. I've been in love so 1:57:50.400 --> 1:57:54.880 many times so many women? Is that really love then 1:57:54.960 --> 1:57:57.000 if you're out of it fast? Absolutely? Or is that 1:57:57.200 --> 1:57:59.600 just like a lust? No? But he said so many times, 1:58:00.000 --> 1:58:03.480 it's it's love, it's real love. How what's your fine? 1:58:06.200 --> 1:58:11.280 Virgos are definitely over? I mean, I don't think if 1:58:11.320 --> 1:58:13.880 it's so many times so you loved every woman you went, 1:58:14.240 --> 1:58:17.160 every relationship you were in, like you love them? Yeah, 1:58:17.160 --> 1:58:19.600 I wouldn't be in a relationship them all right? And 1:58:19.680 --> 1:58:21.640 then what what made it spit? Since there was so 1:58:21.760 --> 1:58:24.120 many that you love? Like? What what is your you know? 1:58:24.240 --> 1:58:26.840 The same time more virgo so's It only takes but 1:58:26.960 --> 1:58:29.160 you don't take much for me to be like you, 1:58:30.000 --> 1:58:32.320 Like you know what I'm saying, It don't take much. 1:58:32.360 --> 1:58:34.560 Like the little ship that another motherfucker might forgive, I'll 1:58:34.600 --> 1:58:39.840 be like, no, I'm cool. It could be it could 1:58:39.880 --> 1:58:41.800 be anything, man, could we could we could go out 1:58:41.960 --> 1:58:44.360 and then just be we're not anything. But it could 1:58:44.400 --> 1:58:46.920 be I'm trying. It could be me trying to talk 1:58:46.960 --> 1:58:48.560 to you about some real ship, right, because you could 1:58:48.600 --> 1:58:50.760 love somebody like you really love this this new ship, 1:58:51.080 --> 1:58:52.760 but you don't really see what you got up until 1:58:52.760 --> 1:58:55.240 you win some ship. Right, So like, hey, man, like 1:58:55.320 --> 1:58:57.400 it's family should just stick? Where should just stick? It's 1:58:57.400 --> 1:58:58.920 a lot of ship going on, Like I gotta wrap 1:58:58.960 --> 1:59:01.000 at you about some ship and show you really don't 1:59:01.000 --> 1:59:05.000 got ship to give me. Yeah, like no nothing, so'd 1:59:05.000 --> 1:59:07.000 be like damn, like you're really cool to go on dates, 1:59:07.040 --> 1:59:09.080 would eat meals with the ship. But like when it 1:59:09.160 --> 1:59:10.600 comes to some real ship, I gotta talk about you, 1:59:10.680 --> 1:59:13.600 I've got nothing to give me. That's waste some time. Yeah, 1:59:13.640 --> 1:59:16.560 that's that's a thing. So ship like that don't have me, 1:59:16.680 --> 1:59:19.480 Like like I ain't gonna just keep doing this ship. 1:59:19.760 --> 1:59:21.360 That means you don't really like somebody like that though, 1:59:21.360 --> 1:59:23.920 because I'm gonna tell you. One time I was dating 1:59:23.960 --> 1:59:26.280 this guy and he came to the door. This is 1:59:26.360 --> 1:59:28.360 so weird, but I didn't like him anymore after this. 1:59:28.400 --> 1:59:33.280 He had on like short shorts. They were like running 1:59:33.320 --> 1:59:36.320 track shorts, like track shorts, you know how they dress. 1:59:36.840 --> 1:59:38.760 And I never liked him after that. I don't know 1:59:38.960 --> 1:59:42.600 what it was, but that was it. I ain't gonna 1:59:42.640 --> 1:59:46.400 lie guys like how he dressed, but kinda I was like, yo, 1:59:46.520 --> 1:59:49.000 what is he doing? Why would he open it? Don't 1:59:49.000 --> 1:59:50.880 wear no short shorts in front of angels? She's not 1:59:52.560 --> 1:59:57.760 she is not here. I was a lot younger, but 1:59:57.880 --> 2:00:00.120 I don't know what it was about it that is 2:00:00.160 --> 2:00:03.000 bothered with college skinny right? How was his body type? 2:00:03.280 --> 2:00:05.560 Like he used to run track in college or something, 2:00:07.200 --> 2:00:09.400 but it was just weird. Yeah, he was very little. 2:00:09.520 --> 2:00:12.280 Is that there showing off the legs? Girl, I'm not 2:00:12.360 --> 2:00:15.160 gonna like be this guy that comes into the coffee 2:00:15.160 --> 2:00:18.320 shop and he'd be wearing short shorts like that, but 2:00:18.480 --> 2:00:21.000 his legs are nice. So we'll be standing back there 2:00:21.080 --> 2:00:24.680 like usually don't like this, but his butt look okay 2:00:24.760 --> 2:00:26.760 and his legs look all right to that. I didn't 2:00:26.800 --> 2:00:35.160 know y'all looked at our legs and I look at that. 2:00:37.800 --> 2:00:39.200 You know what the best part is when you're having 2:00:39.240 --> 2:00:41.200 sex and the guy has like muscles in his eyes 2:00:41.280 --> 2:00:44.280 and you're holding his and I don't need you like mine. 2:00:44.400 --> 2:00:47.960 I need to have like the older muscles here. Yeah, 2:00:48.000 --> 2:00:53.920 it's a little definition definition this wow wow. But like 2:00:54.040 --> 2:00:56.000 you were saying, it's so important to be able to 2:00:56.080 --> 2:00:59.000 converse with your partner. It's a big turn off if 2:00:59.040 --> 2:01:02.160 I can't have any with you, if I can't talk 2:01:02.200 --> 2:01:11.720 about aliens at Jesus and the Santos and together. You 2:01:11.840 --> 2:01:14.920 got to get real. Yeah, I agree with that. Let's 2:01:14.960 --> 2:01:18.080 talk about some of your music right now. You said 2:01:18.080 --> 2:01:21.440 all my bitches now I'm leaving. At some point, he's 2:01:21.480 --> 2:01:26.280 always do they really know that it's in the song? 2:01:28.200 --> 2:01:33.160 He's like, that's just that's just how I felt that 2:01:33.280 --> 2:01:35.320 in that in that moment, in that point in like, 2:01:35.480 --> 2:01:37.960 I'm not gonna lie like your music, I'd be like, 2:01:38.120 --> 2:01:39.840 this is fucked up for a guy to say this, 2:01:39.960 --> 2:01:44.160 But I still like it because y'all know you'll be 2:01:44.200 --> 2:01:46.440 feeling the same way for it. We do. But I 2:01:46.480 --> 2:01:48.880 feel like we get judge more for that. Yeah, that's 2:01:48.920 --> 2:01:51.760 definitely a double standard. But we can kind of do 2:01:51.840 --> 2:01:53.320 whatever we want to do in that ship. For you. 2:01:54.080 --> 2:01:56.000 It's a lot of rules for y'all. Like there's so 2:01:56.080 --> 2:02:00.960 many rules for women. It's rules, so many rules. You 2:02:01.040 --> 2:02:04.320 gotta be freaky but not have any experience. Yeah, that's 2:02:05.480 --> 2:02:07.040 how am I supposed? You got to make money, but 2:02:07.120 --> 2:02:08.880 not more than me. It's all type of little ship. 2:02:08.960 --> 2:02:10.840 They're like, you wouldn't like somebody to make more money 2:02:10.880 --> 2:02:13.280 than you. I don't give a funk money. I'm speaking 2:02:13.280 --> 2:02:15.360 for niggers, Like, generally, what do you feel weird? If 2:02:15.360 --> 2:02:16.920 a woman made a whole like let's say say she 2:02:17.040 --> 2:02:21.120 was richest fortune five CEO. Would that feel weird to you? No, 2:02:21.360 --> 2:02:26.200 not at all. I feel like absolutely, Like when when 2:02:26.280 --> 2:02:29.120 a man dates me or or g or you, any 2:02:29.160 --> 2:02:31.600 of us, like, I feel like they should be happy 2:02:31.720 --> 2:02:34.600 that they with a successful woman. I think that comes 2:02:34.640 --> 2:02:37.000 with that relatability to Like I said, I'm going through 2:02:37.040 --> 2:02:39.440 some workshop, I'm talking to a chicken sugar ship ship 2:02:39.600 --> 2:02:41.640 to tell me you can't even go back and forth 2:02:41.680 --> 2:02:43.320 on ideas that I gotta what I'm trying to do 2:02:43.360 --> 2:02:47.800 because she don't even she don't do ship. So I 2:02:47.920 --> 2:02:49.920 prefer a woman to be bossy for me. When a 2:02:50.000 --> 2:02:52.520 guy has like ideas for me and we could go 2:02:52.680 --> 2:02:56.400 back and forth for hours, I love that. I hate 2:02:56.480 --> 2:03:00.920 a goofy jockey ass man. That's one thing I cut 2:03:00.960 --> 2:03:03.160 a guy off for is like being the airhead or 2:03:03.200 --> 2:03:06.560 not being educated, like you know, it's like it's such 2:03:06.560 --> 2:03:09.920 an How do you feel about spending money on women? 2:03:10.480 --> 2:03:14.520 Are you okay with I mean, I'm spoiling somebody buying back. 2:03:14.680 --> 2:03:16.360 What if they ask you for something? It depends on 2:03:16.400 --> 2:03:19.360 a relationship. I prefer you to not ask, Like, let 2:03:19.400 --> 2:03:20.720 me let me do that because I don't want to 2:03:20.720 --> 2:03:25.560 do it. You know, women, it could be if I 2:03:25.680 --> 2:03:28.360 really funk with y'all, we go off like you like, yeah, 2:03:28.440 --> 2:03:30.600 that's that's my little Yeah. Like if you out here 2:03:30.600 --> 2:03:33.240 you represent me, motherfucker's you me? You ain't all looking 2:03:33.280 --> 2:03:35.360 for me, that's what. Damn sure. But I ain't really 2:03:35.480 --> 2:03:36.720 just go ahead and buy you something just because I 2:03:36.840 --> 2:03:39.040 work with you, Like do you care how women dresses? 2:03:39.160 --> 2:03:40.640 Like if you meet there and you don't got no styles, 2:03:40.640 --> 2:03:43.680 asn't mad at to you, I'll be looking at all 2:03:43.720 --> 2:03:47.240 that ship. I can't. I can't do that. I can't 2:03:47.240 --> 2:03:50.880 do the goofy ship like thee I don't know, just 2:03:51.040 --> 2:03:52.720 extra out of as ship or like a chick that 2:03:52.800 --> 2:03:54.680 don't know how to coordinate their colors or some ship. 2:03:54.800 --> 2:03:57.880 Because my first love is drawing, like something I'm real 2:03:57.960 --> 2:04:00.160 esthetic that was my first love is always just just 2:04:00.280 --> 2:04:03.760 drawing colors and so like I like looking at colors. 2:04:03.760 --> 2:04:05.560 I like looking at shapes and ship that's put together. 2:04:05.600 --> 2:04:07.160 I like ship to come from in the woman's body. 2:04:07.440 --> 2:04:09.600 But if she's not the most detailed oriented when it 2:04:09.640 --> 2:04:11.960 comes to her style addressed like that ain't no like 2:04:12.120 --> 2:04:14.680 dealbreaker and little ship like that, like if she's the 2:04:14.720 --> 2:04:17.080 ship in other ways, like I'm sorry I dressed. You 2:04:17.080 --> 2:04:19.840 don't worry about that? What about I had to Let's 2:04:19.840 --> 2:04:22.000 say she had to tell Fendy or like had to 2:04:22.080 --> 2:04:25.520 tell Gucci or something like that. It depends. Fenny and 2:04:25.520 --> 2:04:28.040 Guccy both got some paces. But I could I like, 2:04:28.120 --> 2:04:29.560 it feels good now and I can see him like 2:04:29.600 --> 2:04:33.440 I could put you on some ship, like where did 2:04:33.520 --> 2:04:36.960 you learn how to do all this stuff? Swimming? But 2:04:37.080 --> 2:04:39.360 I mean, like you know what I mean, like growing up, 2:04:39.760 --> 2:04:43.120 like how did you become so creative? Um? I think 2:04:43.160 --> 2:04:45.200 both my parents is really saucy, you know what I'm saying. 2:04:45.280 --> 2:04:48.120 Like my father he was he was an automotive technician. 2:04:48.200 --> 2:04:50.760 He was a teacher. Both my parents teachers. So my 2:04:50.880 --> 2:04:53.840 father he was like driving Japanese imports and ship like 2:04:53.920 --> 2:04:55.760 the seventies and ship just a saucy nigga, you know 2:04:55.760 --> 2:04:59.080 what I'm saying. My mom, she's from South Carolina. She's 2:04:59.120 --> 2:05:01.320 like dumb smart like she ended up in their masses 2:05:01.360 --> 2:05:04.160 and business from John's Hopkins and ship like it's mass smart. 2:05:04.440 --> 2:05:06.280 Like both of my parents are smartest ship. They talk 2:05:06.320 --> 2:05:08.080 a whole lot. They could talk to each other all 2:05:08.160 --> 2:05:11.120 fucking day. My mom got really good tastes of music. 2:05:11.200 --> 2:05:13.440 My father is really good with like cars, my mom 2:05:13.560 --> 2:05:16.640 is good with interr decorating ship like that. So growing up, 2:05:16.680 --> 2:05:18.600 it's just always just a certain way, like they like, 2:05:18.760 --> 2:05:20.160 go ahead and change for you, step out with me. 2:05:20.200 --> 2:05:23.240 That that's my mom type ship. Like to say, you 2:05:23.280 --> 2:05:27.120 got a naturally yeah that my parents just not no 2:05:27.240 --> 2:05:29.720 slouches over here. You got my life the mixing pot 2:05:29.840 --> 2:05:33.240 of the statics and cool things, a lot of stuff 2:05:33.240 --> 2:05:35.840 that you get from your parents too. Absolutely, How hard 2:05:35.920 --> 2:05:38.760 is it for you to bring somebody home to meet them? Um, 2:05:38.920 --> 2:05:41.240 it's easy. Missed this fun up thing with my mom, 2:05:41.320 --> 2:05:46.040 Like any check I bring home type ship, like my 2:05:46.120 --> 2:05:51.280 mom should go to that. She just she likes she 2:05:51.400 --> 2:05:55.120 like you like her lover type ship. So I'll be 2:05:55.200 --> 2:05:56.880 going through the quick So she'd be like how soon 2:05:57.000 --> 2:06:00.520 boom boom, Like I'm like, we don't think no more. 2:06:00.600 --> 2:06:02.520 She's like what she just she just texted me the 2:06:02.600 --> 2:06:05.320 other day. I just said happy Thanksgiving and show. I'm like, na, 2:06:05.440 --> 2:06:07.080 we don't talk to her no more. That's that's right. 2:06:09.480 --> 2:06:14.840 Did she have a favorite ou No? Not particularly were 2:06:14.880 --> 2:06:17.160 your mom life for you know, she I don't got 2:06:17.160 --> 2:06:18.800 one of the mothers that's gonna take my side. She 2:06:19.000 --> 2:06:20.840 she's very much so like I'm a woman first, like 2:06:21.240 --> 2:06:22.960 if you really out here to be dogging shorty on 2:06:23.040 --> 2:06:25.080 fing to tell you about your ship type and at 2:06:25.080 --> 2:06:29.440 the number one spot, the one the only CARDI b 2:06:29.840 --> 2:06:32.560 We were so excited. This was actually her second time 2:06:32.760 --> 2:06:35.720 coming through on lift service. But even though she seems 2:06:35.720 --> 2:06:37.920 a little more reserved than normal, you know, she's still 2:06:37.920 --> 2:06:40.240 a good time. It was such an honor to have 2:06:40.360 --> 2:06:43.240 her on lift service again. Thank you so much, buddy. 2:06:45.600 --> 2:06:48.440 Now we're gonna do something else. We're gonna name a lyric, okay, 2:06:48.640 --> 2:06:52.280 and we're gonna see um if we all still feel 2:06:52.320 --> 2:06:56.120 this way. Alright, So broke boys don't deserve no pussy. 2:06:56.520 --> 2:06:58.520 This makes guys so mad, by the way. You know 2:06:58.560 --> 2:07:00.120 how many guys have said this, Like, well, y'all, I'll 2:07:00.120 --> 2:07:03.400 be saying this and girls be feeling like, what have 2:07:03.640 --> 2:07:06.040 y'all ever been with a broke guy? Yeah? Of course 2:07:07.720 --> 2:07:17.520 not want to be there. That's like you think you 2:07:18.080 --> 2:07:19.640 I thought that. Bitches just thing like if we don't 2:07:19.680 --> 2:07:21.040 want to be first of all, I feel like a 2:07:21.120 --> 2:07:23.600 lot of bitches be lying about like, oh, I know broken. 2:07:25.440 --> 2:07:27.240 I guess that you have to have that experience so 2:07:27.320 --> 2:07:30.520 you could be like I would never I would never 2:07:30.600 --> 2:07:33.040 give you pussy. I don't give a fun because it's 2:07:33.080 --> 2:07:35.200 just it's just, you know what I say. The broke 2:07:35.280 --> 2:07:39.560 on the best. They needed a place to stay. That's 2:07:39.600 --> 2:07:46.120 what I say. They're hungry, and that Dick is working. 2:07:46.160 --> 2:07:50.200 It's what he's doing. They don't deserve it. But you're right. 2:07:50.240 --> 2:07:52.240 I learned that super early on, and I'm glad I did. 2:07:52.480 --> 2:07:56.080 Like my first boyfriend was so broke it was ridiculous, 2:07:56.480 --> 2:07:59.440 like it was. He had kids too, and I had 2:07:59.440 --> 2:08:01.800 to like buy his kid's presence for Christmas because he 2:08:01.800 --> 2:08:03.720 didn't have the money to do it. And he wasn't 2:08:03.840 --> 2:08:10.320 very um. He wasn't very motivated. Yes, yeah, little kids 2:08:10.400 --> 2:08:12.480 like you gotta get them something. He would um. He 2:08:12.520 --> 2:08:14.760 used to sell weed, but he wasn't even like really 2:08:14.960 --> 2:08:19.320 motivated by that. He said, just enough. But you know, 2:08:19.600 --> 2:08:21.600 I feel like every I feel like you see, that's 2:08:21.640 --> 2:08:23.600 just I feel like everybody got the same story because 2:08:23.640 --> 2:08:25.960 it's always like that nigga that it's like he's sell 2:08:26.040 --> 2:08:28.440 weed but he never got money or or the money 2:08:28.480 --> 2:08:31.440 to buy the weed ship, barely even have weed, like, 2:08:33.920 --> 2:08:35.960 and that's all they want to do. Is like I know, 2:08:36.080 --> 2:08:40.000 I know if I saw this, but you're never you 2:08:40.160 --> 2:08:42.720 never make it. You never make a nigga. Like it's like, 2:08:43.520 --> 2:08:45.840 I can't, I can't, Like I just can't. I was like, 2:08:45.920 --> 2:08:48.400 go work harder, sell some more weed, Like why are 2:08:48.440 --> 2:08:53.800 you for everybody? It's really not, it's not. He was 2:08:53.880 --> 2:08:56.240 just barely making it. And he went to jail and 2:08:56.400 --> 2:08:58.160 his mom was like, can I borrow some money into 2:08:58.240 --> 2:09:01.920 the hymn? No? Mo, yeah, don't be the ones too. 2:09:02.400 --> 2:09:04.040 And I was first out of college. It wasn't like 2:09:04.160 --> 2:09:07.080 I really had money either. So even me, like maybe 2:09:07.120 --> 2:09:08.760 like twenty five dollars, but that was a lot for 2:09:08.840 --> 2:09:12.640 me to be like dolls. As a matter of fact, 2:09:12.640 --> 2:09:15.040 when I was younger, all my boyfriends are broke, Angela, 2:09:15.280 --> 2:09:17.320 they were because I was broke too. We were young. 2:09:17.560 --> 2:09:19.400 I was young, but I was working older guys. I 2:09:19.480 --> 2:09:21.160 was working like the older dopeboys that will come pick 2:09:21.200 --> 2:09:23.360 me up from high school and any nice cars. Yeah, 2:09:23.440 --> 2:09:25.000 that's what I'm saying. When I was young, all the 2:09:25.040 --> 2:09:26.960 guys I was working on was broke, but I didn't 2:09:26.960 --> 2:09:30.800 think they were broke, like they had cars and we're 2:09:30.840 --> 2:09:34.600 taking me to e and they were buying me cigarettes 2:09:38.520 --> 2:09:45.480 right and jeans, ear rings with your name, and was 2:09:45.520 --> 2:09:48.080 your broke guy experienced it made you be like never again. 2:09:48.520 --> 2:09:51.640 It's a whole lot of plenty the one, the one like, 2:09:51.760 --> 2:09:54.120 let me start saying, I went when I was twenty 2:09:54.200 --> 2:09:55.760 years old. I used to be like I used to 2:09:55.840 --> 2:09:57.720 say this so much because I was like, I'm twenty 2:09:57.800 --> 2:10:00.640 years old and I got twenty. Like I'm twenty and 2:10:00.640 --> 2:10:03.520 I got twenty. And that just always like made me 2:10:03.600 --> 2:10:05.480 like hyped up because I worked hard for it, Like 2:10:05.640 --> 2:10:13.360 I shake my ass real hard, yeah, and then you're 2:10:13.360 --> 2:10:17.840 gonna get me tight. I came home one day from work. 2:10:18.160 --> 2:10:20.800 Everything I'm cunning, the money and everything. I'm about to 2:10:20.840 --> 2:10:23.640 put it in my stash, my stash. I got like 2:10:23.760 --> 2:10:29.160 a thousand dollars Like this nigga took my fucking money. Yes, 2:10:29.360 --> 2:10:31.400 he took my money. Didn't asked the phone for like 2:10:31.520 --> 2:10:34.960 a whole day. I was going insane, and then he 2:10:35.080 --> 2:10:37.080 was like, yeah, you know, I take them. I took 2:10:37.120 --> 2:10:40.520 the money because I'm in California, I'm getting pounds. It's 2:10:40.520 --> 2:10:43.000 always that weird ship. That's why I really, I'm traumatized. 2:10:45.680 --> 2:10:48.720 This nigga gave me back like four thousand dollars talking 2:10:48.760 --> 2:10:54.240 about all the weed like the package got stage yes, 2:10:54.600 --> 2:10:59.440 like like it's just traumatized me. It traumatized me. I 2:10:59.560 --> 2:11:02.480 can't terrible. I can't. I can't imagine that I feeling 2:11:02.520 --> 2:11:04.080 when you come in and you're like, okay, let me, 2:11:04.680 --> 2:11:07.520 let me add to this, and it's the one you see. 2:11:07.520 --> 2:11:13.160 I'm almost getting my shape and like you know, like 2:11:13.280 --> 2:11:15.360 when I was twunny, like it was like that's a lot. 2:11:16.920 --> 2:11:18.880 You know, I got like I got my ash shots 2:11:18.920 --> 2:11:22.760 and everything, and I was like one so I had 2:11:22.840 --> 2:11:24.960 like big booze. But I was so skinny when I 2:11:25.040 --> 2:11:26.800 was a dancer and I had I ain't had a 2:11:26.880 --> 2:11:30.120 lot of ash, so I to like work iuld I 2:11:30.240 --> 2:11:34.160 took ready word, this is before the shots. Yeah, I 2:11:34.200 --> 2:11:38.720 would have been yeah right, So you was work first. 2:11:39.360 --> 2:11:40.960 He was going to really make the money, like it 2:11:41.160 --> 2:11:43.760 did you have paper at first? Sometimes because it's just 2:11:44.440 --> 2:11:46.720 you I never heard nobody talking about like it was 2:11:46.800 --> 2:11:48.680 like he made it like a planet. Because like I'm 2:11:48.680 --> 2:11:53.160 in California, like it's like, oh, you're you're ready any weed, 2:11:53.320 --> 2:11:56.440 But I'm like I'm getting pounds like there's not an ounds, 2:11:56.520 --> 2:12:00.160 this is a lot, like I'm getting pounds like these 2:12:00.240 --> 2:12:03.080 niggers four dollars? What happened to him after that? Did 2:12:03.120 --> 2:12:05.560 you just I just have to get rid of him? 2:12:06.240 --> 2:12:08.600 It's just I used to pray to God because like God, peas, 2:12:08.680 --> 2:12:10.520 let me stop, not like I just don't want to 2:12:10.600 --> 2:12:14.120 like this nigga anymore, like let me move on. Another 2:12:14.200 --> 2:12:16.040 funk nigga came my life, but this one had money 2:12:16.480 --> 2:12:23.600 after that, ain't a matter of fact. One more, I 2:12:24.240 --> 2:12:27.080 broke nigger after that, by the full, because he had money, 2:12:27.120 --> 2:12:29.040 but he went to jail, so he's got me turned broke. 2:12:29.080 --> 2:12:33.480 So I was like by the full was saying like 2:12:34.360 --> 2:12:38.000 he wasn't broke, But then a situation happens when not broke. Ye, 2:12:38.920 --> 2:12:42.120 I'm not holding you death on my wrongster. Listen. The 2:12:42.240 --> 2:12:44.520 worst is when you started dating somebody and things are good, 2:12:44.600 --> 2:12:46.120 and then because I did this guy one time and 2:12:46.160 --> 2:12:49.520 then he lost his job and he was so like 2:12:49.640 --> 2:12:52.040 he was doing good and everything and it was too 2:12:52.120 --> 2:12:54.560 early for me to like be rather to die, you know, 2:12:55.240 --> 2:12:56.960 and then he's not only did he loses his job, 2:12:57.040 --> 2:12:59.040 but I feel like he lost his whole spirit. When 2:12:59.080 --> 2:13:01.320 he lost his job. He is like bitter all the time. 2:13:01.800 --> 2:13:04.160 He had an attitude and I was like, I can't 2:13:04.200 --> 2:13:09.400 do this, Like we just started dating. I'm happy every 2:13:09.480 --> 2:13:11.600 bad when that happened. When like they had like an 2:13:11.640 --> 2:13:14.040 ex girlfriend or something, and then they always to buy 2:13:14.120 --> 2:13:16.880 them ship. Now you're the girlfriend, and then start buying 2:13:16.920 --> 2:13:19.040 you ship and then they out of nowhere go broken. 2:13:19.080 --> 2:13:20.760 It's like, why the funk? I gotta be the bitch. 2:13:20.800 --> 2:13:27.120 They gotta deal with the ship, Like all right, here's 2:13:27.120 --> 2:13:29.200 another lyric. Of course we noticed when make a cream, 2:13:29.280 --> 2:13:31.800 make me scream out in public, make a scene. Have 2:13:31.920 --> 2:13:40.840 you ever had sex in public? Yeah? Yeah, yeah, that 2:13:41.640 --> 2:13:44.280 what ass pussy. My favorite public sex is on the 2:13:44.320 --> 2:13:47.240 balcony and the resort, like facing the ocean and like 2:13:47.480 --> 2:13:49.040 you don't care somebody else on the bocony see you 2:13:49.080 --> 2:13:50.960 from all we over there, so you put on the show. 2:13:52.760 --> 2:13:57.480 And yeah, I don't think I've ever added the heels, 2:13:57.560 --> 2:14:01.840 but maybe that's for good. So you've had sex in public? Um, 2:14:02.080 --> 2:14:04.840 I've had sex like that, not even too long ago, 2:14:05.680 --> 2:14:09.560 on the balcony, just recently, I think, just now, just 2:14:09.720 --> 2:14:11.560 this week. I don't even like the beach as much 2:14:11.600 --> 2:14:13.120 as if though I would like the beach other I 2:14:13.160 --> 2:14:15.440 don't like being in the water to have sex. Yeah, 2:14:15.520 --> 2:14:24.120 I don't like that. You, Yeah, it's so good. I 2:14:24.160 --> 2:14:26.520 don't like. Yeah, water sex is wait over. I still 2:14:26.600 --> 2:14:28.520 like car sex. That's the way to get busted down 2:14:28.560 --> 2:14:35.280 in the car. I can't remember the last time that. Yeah, 2:14:37.360 --> 2:14:41.040 long ride, especially if it's like like bringing them just happens. 2:14:42.160 --> 2:14:48.080 What was your outdoor sex experience? Too many too many 2:14:48.200 --> 2:14:52.440 old balconies. Did you ever get a caught? No, we 2:14:52.520 --> 2:14:56.360 never got caught. Like now now, I just can't really. 2:14:56.520 --> 2:14:58.200 We can't really do it too much because we just 2:14:58.400 --> 2:15:00.680 made my nigga. We just be parent on like you 2:15:00.720 --> 2:15:04.680 should be, because yeah, they'll figure a way to get 2:15:04.760 --> 2:15:08.680 behind the sense like you gotta be careful. But the 2:15:08.760 --> 2:15:12.640 thought of getting caught is kind of exciting. Part that 2:15:12.800 --> 2:15:15.680 asked that extra adrenaline rush. Did you ever almost get 2:15:15.720 --> 2:15:18.680 caught or be nervous? Yeah, because you hear people past married. 2:15:24.680 --> 2:15:27.040 All right, how about this one? You still said it 2:15:27.040 --> 2:15:30.960 after certain questions. You keep in contact with certain exes. Okay, 2:15:31.080 --> 2:15:34.040 does anybody in here keep in contact with the exes? 2:15:34.760 --> 2:15:40.720 This is touchy for some people to what degree, like 2:15:42.280 --> 2:15:47.200 high your likes or maybe nothing. I'm just saying like, 2:15:47.360 --> 2:15:49.800 sometimes you might be still cool with your ex there's 2:15:49.800 --> 2:15:52.200 an execute that I might talk to on social media, 2:15:52.640 --> 2:15:56.520 but there ain't no text messages and hey how you Yeah, yeah, 2:15:56.560 --> 2:15:58.800 all my exes love me. I'm so cool. I mean 2:15:59.680 --> 2:16:04.000 most of my exes. That is that bad. I talked 2:16:04.200 --> 2:16:06.200 some of my exes, maybe like half of them I 2:16:06.440 --> 2:16:09.240 used to, so waste of time, but not trying to 2:16:09.360 --> 2:16:12.720 date them. But like y'all, like they try, always try, 2:16:12.840 --> 2:16:15.200 it always be down, so they want that old thing. 2:16:15.680 --> 2:16:17.960 So it's like why even bother Even when social media 2:16:17.960 --> 2:16:20.000 always gotta leave the comments, so it's like, hey, I 2:16:20.120 --> 2:16:22.720 fun her everybody, you know what I mean. It's always 2:16:22.760 --> 2:16:24.760 like the comment like yeah, I remember you used to 2:16:24.840 --> 2:16:30.200 do that for me about chicken. I swear my exes 2:16:30.240 --> 2:16:35.400 in the comments, like your chicken is good. You just 2:16:35.640 --> 2:16:41.360 swipet not to day, Like that's so corny. What about 2:16:41.840 --> 2:16:44.840 talk to any of your exes, not even from way 2:16:44.840 --> 2:16:46.640 back in the day. Maybe I'll still cool, like happy 2:16:46.680 --> 2:16:52.800 birthday or I'm proud of you. She's like, I ain't 2:16:52.800 --> 2:16:55.240 getting the tuble today because I don't even think they 2:16:55.320 --> 2:16:58.480 have social media anymore, Like I swear, I don't. I 2:16:58.520 --> 2:17:01.680 don't even I ain't really had that much boyfriends, like 2:17:02.840 --> 2:17:05.720 or somebody used to fun. Can you still be like cordial? 2:17:06.320 --> 2:17:09.080 I could be cordial, but it's like a really nothing 2:17:09.120 --> 2:17:12.080 to talk about. Like it's like I'm a new bitch 2:17:12.120 --> 2:17:19.280 now you even know that's a different when you're still 2:17:20.160 --> 2:17:22.040 be in a relationship and all of that is cool, 2:17:22.200 --> 2:17:24.280 but once you get married, it's like a different type 2:17:24.280 --> 2:17:27.200 of boundaries, right that you don't want to sure, But 2:17:27.400 --> 2:17:31.200 I just I don't. I don't think my um, I 2:17:31.240 --> 2:17:33.959 don't think my exs will ever crossed like that boundary 2:17:34.120 --> 2:17:37.840 or anything. I just like, ain't nothing really to talk about, 2:17:37.920 --> 2:17:41.959 like like what to you for? Like a matter of fact, 2:17:42.000 --> 2:17:43.720 I feel like you're gonna try to set me up, 2:17:43.760 --> 2:17:46.280 so I'm not even going to trust it. Right, somebody 2:17:46.320 --> 2:17:48.440 I work with invited a couple of his excess to 2:17:48.520 --> 2:17:52.720 his wedding. That's awkward, but he said he told his wife, 2:17:52.800 --> 2:17:55.320 like I'm still friends. And how did the wife feel 2:17:55.320 --> 2:17:57.400 about that? I mean she was fine, now you know, 2:17:58.400 --> 2:18:02.440 I don't know. That's fucking weird. That's some kinky, weird ship, 2:18:03.480 --> 2:18:05.600 like she has to be like, yeah, bitch. She has 2:18:05.640 --> 2:18:07.880 to have some type because any other one would be like, no, 2:18:08.000 --> 2:18:10.720 why are they coming? Why would they be welcome here? Why? Yeah, 2:18:10.760 --> 2:18:12.400 that's kind of weird and I'm kind of open minded. 2:18:12.480 --> 2:18:15.160 But now, yeah, I would you even want to be there? 2:18:15.240 --> 2:18:18.440 But like, look, look, yeah, bitch, you could have had 2:18:18.560 --> 2:18:22.920 bit could be some people you might have dated been 2:18:22.959 --> 2:18:24.959 better off as friends. Like you might be like that's 2:18:25.000 --> 2:18:27.640 a cool person, but I'm just not interested, he said 2:18:27.720 --> 2:18:30.760 one year. But a few of us actually it's a weirdo. 2:18:30.920 --> 2:18:34.959 That's weird. Would you what if you dated a guy 2:18:35.480 --> 2:18:38.160 or what if like your husband's friends with like or 2:18:38.240 --> 2:18:40.160 had to, you know, communicated with some of his exes, 2:18:40.200 --> 2:18:41.840 would you have a problem? I mean, if they have children, 2:18:43.800 --> 2:18:48.480 that's that's they have children together, that's it. But if 2:18:48.520 --> 2:18:50.680 you have children together, then there's no need for you 2:18:50.720 --> 2:18:53.880 all to be talking about who do you think it's 2:18:53.920 --> 2:18:58.120 more jealous? You're offset my man? For sure? Because I 2:18:58.200 --> 2:19:00.600 feel like, don't soft niggas Like they're a little bit 2:19:01.360 --> 2:19:06.640 more different, like they have like different type of rules 2:19:06.680 --> 2:19:09.640 and everything, like it's like they have a different outlook 2:19:09.640 --> 2:19:12.720 on things. Yes, for sure, for sure, Like what do 2:19:12.760 --> 2:19:14.480 you mean because I know you from New York, so 2:19:14.680 --> 2:19:17.119 you think guys here are not as jealous as guys 2:19:17.160 --> 2:19:19.520 from down South, or I mean, I feel like I 2:19:19.600 --> 2:19:23.119 feel like guys from like New York are like more understanding, 2:19:23.200 --> 2:19:25.879 Like for example, like it's like for some reason, everybody 2:19:26.160 --> 2:19:29.840 boys see me too much as like a homie a lot. 2:19:30.680 --> 2:19:34.320 So you think, no, I know, I'm not even gonna 2:19:34.320 --> 2:19:35.800 be cool with you. If you even try to like 2:19:35.879 --> 2:19:38.840 flirt fake flirt me, I'll be like, no, this is 2:19:38.879 --> 2:19:42.680 not it. But I feel like girls damn South, like 2:19:43.240 --> 2:19:45.840 I guess like the logic of my Nigua is on 2:19:45.920 --> 2:19:48.040 something like girls don't even have boys that are like 2:19:48.200 --> 2:19:52.320 friends or something like that. Like and I'm I don't know, 2:19:52.400 --> 2:19:54.640 like I just grew up with like so many like 2:19:56.000 --> 2:20:00.680 being from the city, were mad guys. Like yeah, I 2:20:00.800 --> 2:20:02.640 think that all the time, Like I have so many 2:20:02.720 --> 2:20:05.320 street brothers. I don't even have a handful of good 2:20:05.360 --> 2:20:07.360 girlfriends that I know for a lot of years. And 2:20:07.480 --> 2:20:10.879 then my street brothers, I can't even come how many 2:20:10.920 --> 2:20:12.959 of them they hold you damn And yeah, like they're 2:20:13.000 --> 2:20:16.680 either like even ten of them died like an eight 2:20:16.800 --> 2:20:19.360 or nine funerals and it's still a lot of street 2:20:19.400 --> 2:20:22.320 brothers after that, you know, being from the city and 2:20:22.360 --> 2:20:23.720 it's hard to do what you do and not be 2:20:23.800 --> 2:20:28.000 cool with guys too, Like, yeah, you gotta have some 2:20:28.200 --> 2:20:30.600 guys that you cool with. You probably got some new 2:20:30.720 --> 2:20:35.160 street brothers from the industry, like music industry street brothers. Yeah, 2:20:35.240 --> 2:20:40.120 I definitely do. But he get he got close with 2:20:40.200 --> 2:20:41.920 them too. That it's just like you see, we all 2:20:47.080 --> 2:20:52.800 like but with rappers though, I can't. I can't. I don't, right, 2:20:53.040 --> 2:20:56.959 I know it's you know, yeah, man, I can't. Your 2:20:57.040 --> 2:21:00.680 husband is a rapper. Yeah, I don't even like to 2:21:00.800 --> 2:21:03.760 even play that ship like yeah, yeah, but you don't 2:21:03.760 --> 2:21:06.240 want to be buddy, buddy, I don't even I don't 2:21:06.320 --> 2:21:10.720 like you people want too much. Just yeah, that's a whole. 2:21:10.840 --> 2:21:12.480 I feel like I would like a Southern or like 2:21:12.640 --> 2:21:17.120 they're more protective in the old school. They might you 2:21:17.160 --> 2:21:19.720 know what I mean. Yeah, I think I would like 2:21:20.240 --> 2:21:24.280 not like Philly guys exactly, big old black gold tee 2:21:24.480 --> 2:21:29.160 family one. You could definitely get one. They like They 2:21:29.280 --> 2:21:33.880 like my kind kinds like like I don't know, I 2:21:33.959 --> 2:21:36.520 feel like they like up North girls, like loud girls. 2:21:36.800 --> 2:21:39.600 They do. They like this, yeah, just a track they do. 2:21:39.760 --> 2:21:43.040 They like that Southern guys. They like our swag. They 2:21:43.080 --> 2:21:45.400 feel like we have a lot more masculine energy. Like 2:21:48.160 --> 2:21:49.879 you wanted a bad and booge, you got a bad 2:21:49.920 --> 2:21:55.520 and gird up. Making such a good couple though, Like 2:21:55.640 --> 2:21:57.440 I think a lot of people just you can kind 2:21:57.440 --> 2:21:59.960 of feel like, you know, like you'all attracted to each other. 2:22:00.400 --> 2:22:02.840 Sometimes you could tell, like with couples even though you're 2:22:02.840 --> 2:22:04.840 always looking from the outside, and you can kind of 2:22:04.920 --> 2:22:07.720 feel like the sexual energy between people, like like y'all 2:22:07.720 --> 2:22:10.120 really are attracting to each other, you'll like each other. Yeah, 2:22:11.879 --> 2:22:13.960 I remember when y'all first got out it as a couple, 2:22:14.360 --> 2:22:16.360 like going was it at that game when you guys 2:22:16.400 --> 2:22:19.520 were at the game? I went to the super Bowl together? Right, Yeah, 2:22:19.760 --> 2:22:28.560 first date you he locked that in. When was the 2:22:28.680 --> 2:22:31.040 moment that she realized like, okay, he's the one, Like 2:22:31.200 --> 2:22:35.800 I'm here for this. Well I just I mean he 2:22:36.040 --> 2:22:38.040 was aggressive, like the way that he like tried to 2:22:38.160 --> 2:22:41.080 like holler at me, like hitting on my friends and everything. 2:22:41.160 --> 2:22:43.840 But it's like, you know, like my publicist that she 2:22:43.959 --> 2:22:45.800 was like she was a good she was a friend 2:22:45.879 --> 2:22:47.400 to me. She was a good close friend to me. 2:22:47.680 --> 2:22:50.600 She told him like before I went on that date 2:22:50.640 --> 2:22:52.760 because I didn't really kind of I was scared of 2:22:52.800 --> 2:22:55.480 go because it's like listening, everyone's gonna see, that's gonna 2:22:55.480 --> 2:22:57.760 see that. Don't even try me. Don't even play with me, 2:22:57.840 --> 2:23:00.760 because it's like, no, I do not want to. I 2:23:00.800 --> 2:23:03.680 don't want to look embarrassing. Don't embarrass me, nigga. He 2:23:03.800 --> 2:23:05.480 was like, yeah, I would like her. I'm seeing her 2:23:05.560 --> 2:23:09.920 like that. I'm seeing like that. And I haven't sucked 2:23:10.000 --> 2:23:12.240 him yet. I haven't sucked him yet. I ain't sucked 2:23:12.280 --> 2:23:14.160 him on that. I sucked him after, and I was like, 2:23:15.360 --> 2:23:21.560 I like it for you'll for sure. And it's like, 2:23:22.000 --> 2:23:27.480 but now I gotta make you my mind. Oh girl, 2:23:28.040 --> 2:23:32.280 who said I love you first? He did? You ain't 2:23:32.280 --> 2:23:35.760 getting no love for me first? What was your response? 2:23:35.920 --> 2:23:37.640 Was it thank you? Or was it I love you too? 2:23:38.640 --> 2:23:41.200 You know what's mad at him? So that's what I 2:23:41.280 --> 2:23:43.800 gotta tell you. That's the worst time to tell somebody 2:23:43.840 --> 2:23:45.440 you loved it for the first time when I mad 2:23:45.520 --> 2:23:47.600 at you. But I called my I call my bitches 2:23:47.680 --> 2:23:55.760 right after love me a little bit longer. But guess 2:23:55.840 --> 2:24:01.119 what I had to have already. How about this? Should 2:24:01.160 --> 2:24:02.800 I call first? I can't decide. I want to, but 2:24:02.879 --> 2:24:05.800 a bitch I pride. Okay, so when you argue, who 2:24:05.920 --> 2:24:08.240 is the first person to normally make up or admit 2:24:08.320 --> 2:24:13.520 that they're wrong? Ship? Oh man, I never really. I 2:24:16.879 --> 2:24:20.120 just be nice. You just forget about it. I just 2:24:20.200 --> 2:24:22.440 be nice. I'm like, a can't I get it? I 2:24:22.520 --> 2:24:24.080 can't I get it. But I'm not gonna be like 2:24:24.240 --> 2:24:27.480 it's wrong. Have you ever been wrong and just not 2:24:27.800 --> 2:24:32.440 admitted it? Do you think you're just not wrong? Sometimes 2:24:32.520 --> 2:24:34.280 like a real little wrong? But I'm not gonna like 2:24:36.879 --> 2:24:39.760 why why not just be like I'm sorry? I was one? 2:24:39.800 --> 2:24:43.640 He probably would be like now, but because I'm like, 2:24:43.680 --> 2:24:45.360 all right, I'm all right, I get it, I get 2:24:45.400 --> 2:24:49.680 it all right. That's that's enough that it hurt you. 2:24:50.000 --> 2:24:54.080 And then I would like never even like navigate that vible. 2:24:55.480 --> 2:24:57.440 I like to say I'm sorry and I was wrong, 2:24:57.520 --> 2:24:59.520 because I don't do it that much. So it's like 2:24:59.640 --> 2:25:02.280 very pack. Yeah, I feel like I like and many 2:25:02.320 --> 2:25:06.400 when I'm wrong, because look now i'm right again because 2:25:06.480 --> 2:25:11.480 I admit and when I was right, I'm sorry. So 2:25:11.600 --> 2:25:14.800 I'm good for what I'm wrong as soon as you 2:25:14.920 --> 2:25:16.760 catch me wrong and you prove that I'm wrong, I'll 2:25:16.760 --> 2:25:19.000 be like, Okay, you got it right, Yeah, you got that, 2:25:19.240 --> 2:25:30.080 you got it. Okay. Bade is already shaping up to 2:25:30.160 --> 2:25:32.920 be a big year. Just get ready for Way Up 2:25:33.000 --> 2:25:35.200 with Angela Gye. And you know lip Service is going 2:25:35.240 --> 2:25:38.000 to be on that show every week to right. You know, y'all, 2:25:38.080 --> 2:25:41.160 we gotta have these conversations on the radio. So thank 2:25:41.200 --> 2:25:44.120 you all for riding with us, and we're already up 2:25:44.160 --> 2:25:46.360 to a good start here for three. So I'm looking 2:25:46.400 --> 2:25:49.199 forward to racking with y'all and making lip Service even 2:25:49.320 --> 2:25:51.760 bigger and better, because bigger is better, right,