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Speaker 1: First day of follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury

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Speaker 1: Attorneys online at advocatesla dot com.

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Speaker 2: Madison is on the phone today for our first day

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Speaker 2: follow up and she's getting ghosted by a guy named

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Speaker 2: Daniel that she really likes. So in a few minutes

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Speaker 2: we'll call him and see if you'll tell us why

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Speaker 2: he's ghosting her and maybe get her another day. But first, Madison,

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Speaker 2: how long has it been since you heard from Daniel?

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Speaker 3: It's been a week?

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Speaker 4: A week? Oh okay, yeah, okay. Have you tried to

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Speaker 4: reach out to him in the week?

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Speaker 5: I have.

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Speaker 3: I am not texted. And so we met.

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Speaker 1: At the gym and I've been hitting the gym same

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Speaker 1: time we always did, and he's not been there.

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Speaker 5: And I finally asked Swore my girls at the desk.

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Speaker 5: I was like hey, and she's like, yeah, he's been

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Speaker 5: coming in real early lately.

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Speaker 3: I just don't get it, Like, do you he needs

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Speaker 3: to avoid you?

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Speaker 5: It's got to be right, And I don't understand why,

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Speaker 5: because like we met there obviously right and worked out together.

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Speaker 5: Like I was filming one day and I was like,

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Speaker 5: is that dude watching me? But he was he was

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Speaker 5: so hot. I was like so I did the thing.

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Speaker 5: I was like, hey, do you know how like can

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Speaker 5: you help me.

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Speaker 3: With my form?

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Speaker 5: So he came over and we started working out together

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Speaker 5: and then he finally asked me if I wanted to

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Speaker 5: go out, like outside the gym, and I was like yes.

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Speaker 5: He went all out. It was an amazing night. Took

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Speaker 5: me to this rooftop place. It was beautiful, like oyster

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Speaker 5: champagne the whole night. Yeah, like supervibing everything.

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Speaker 3: It was just unreal. I've never never had it like

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Speaker 3: that with a dud before.

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Speaker 5: So we moved from the table to the bar and

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Speaker 5: we're throwing back cocktails and getting handsy and I mean

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Speaker 5: it was it was the night. And then we were

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Speaker 5: trying to figure out like neither one of us wanted

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Speaker 5: to leave, and he finally was like, hey, you want

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Speaker 5: to go back to my place?

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Speaker 3: And I was.

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Speaker 5: I was glad he asked because I was about to

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Speaker 5: ask Okay, but yeah, I'm not usually like that, but like,

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Speaker 5: oh my gosh, everything was just perfect this night.

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Speaker 3: We hooked up like.

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Speaker 5: All over everywhere, kids, en counter, couch, wow, and yeah,

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Speaker 5: it was amazing.

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Speaker 3: He's like butterflies, dude.

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Speaker 5: So that's why I'm so I'm like, what what happened?

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Speaker 3: I texted him I had to leave.

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Speaker 5: After he fell asleep and I get to the car

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Speaker 5: and you know, I sent him this hot text included

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Speaker 5: a picture and was like, Hey, I.

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Speaker 3: Can't wait to see you again. And I haven't heard

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Speaker 3: from him since.

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Speaker 6: So how was so he was super into it too.

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Speaker 6: Did anything weird happen on the date like that would

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Speaker 6: have made it awkward or would have changed anything.

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Speaker 5: The only thing I can think of is, like, you know,

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Speaker 5: I threw my phone on the floor when we got.

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Speaker 3: Into his bedroom and it was kind of like on

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Speaker 3: the side where he was.

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Speaker 5: And after midnight, I got this, like I got a reminder,

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Speaker 5: like a calendar reminder and it said date with.

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Speaker 7: Chris okay, And I was like, I was like, oh

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Speaker 7: that's you know, picked it up and I know he

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Speaker 7: thought it and I was like, oh, I can fel that,

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Speaker 7: you know, And then we got right back to things.

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Speaker 7: And that was the.

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Speaker 3: Only thing I can think of. Like I've been racking

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Speaker 3: my brain because I might was.

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Speaker 5: It was a perfect night, Like everything was just perfect.

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Speaker 3: So I don't know how I'm getting ghosted.

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Speaker 6: A reminder about another person is kind of awkward, Yeah,

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Speaker 6: so you might be onto something there, but or did you.

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Speaker 4: Just like get it? And I was like, yeah, I

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Speaker 5: Yeah it was I thought it was just like a

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Speaker 5: and you know, tossed it back down and then we

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Speaker 3: So I don't, you know, he didn't act wear in

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Speaker 3: the moment.

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Speaker 4: Okay, I don't know what.

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Speaker 5: I did or said or or what I just I

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Speaker 5: really love to see him again, Like would I love

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Speaker 4: Okay, Well we'll try to figure it out for you.

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Speaker 2: Then we'll play a song come back, and then call

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Speaker 2: him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting

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Speaker 2: you and maybe get you another date.

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Speaker 4: Okay, thank you guys. Yep, get your first Day follow

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Speaker 4: up next.

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Speaker 2: Right in the middle of today's First Day follow up

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Speaker 2: if you're just joining us, Madison is on the phone

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Speaker 2: and she's getting ghosted by a guy named Daniel. So

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Speaker 2: we're about to call him and see if he'll tell

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Speaker 2: us why he's ghosting her and maybe get her another date.

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Speaker 2: But before we do that, Madison, why don't you refresh

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Speaker 2: our memory on your date?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Daniel, I went at the gym. We were like

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Speaker 1: getting along super well. He played us like amazing night

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Speaker 1: for us Oyster Champagne. We hooked up multiple times. Send

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Speaker 1: him a hot text after I left, and I haven't heard.

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Speaker 3: From him soon.

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Speaker 4: Okay, Well you ready for us to call him?

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Speaker 3: I am all right?

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Speaker 4: Here we go. Hello, Hey, ma, I speak to Daniel please.

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Speaker 8: This is him.

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Speaker 4: Hey Daniel, how are your? My name is Jewbel. I'm

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Speaker 4: calling from a radio show. It's called The Jewbel Show.

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Speaker 6: Hi, Daniel, I'm Nina also on the show.

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Speaker 4: Hi, and I'm Victoria.

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Speaker 8: Cool.

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Speaker 4: Have you ever listened to The Jewel Show before?

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Speaker 8: I've heard of you, guys. I think a couple of times,

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Speaker 8: but yeah, I don't listen to you all the time.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I'm calling you today because one of our listeners

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Speaker 2: actually emailed.

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Speaker 4: Us about you.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So we do a segment on the show. It's

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Speaker 2: called the first Date follow Up. That's where if you

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Speaker 2: go out on a date with somebody and then you

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Speaker 2: ghost them, that person can email us to call you

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Speaker 2: and ask why you're ghosting them? All right, So we

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Speaker 2: got an email about you from somebody.

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Speaker 8: That's pretty weird.

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Speaker 4: Are you ghosting anybody?

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Speaker 8: I don't know what classifies as ghosting? But is her

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Speaker 8: name Madison by chance?

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Speaker 4: Yes?

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Speaker 5: It is.

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Speaker 8: Well, that's hilarious she'd be calling you guys, Okay, why

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Speaker 8: she's a cheater to say the least. Oh what, Yeah,

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Speaker 8: she was over my house.

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Speaker 9: Her little phone dinged off and it said date with

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Speaker 9: Chris or whatever.

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Speaker 8: She told me it was some other.

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Speaker 9: Guy she was dating and she was going to cancel

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Speaker 9: it or something like that. And when she left, I

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Speaker 9: went on her social media accounts and looked up if

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Speaker 9: she was seeing somebody. Yeah, she's married to a dude

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Speaker 9: named Chris y. Yeah, that was with her husband. She's married.

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Speaker 9: I'm not really about.

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Speaker 8: That kind of thing. So I don't know why she's

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Speaker 8: calling you guys. That's kind of hilarious.

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Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, I mean I guess that would be reason

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Speaker 2: to go somebody if you out they're married.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, she's in an open relationship.

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Speaker 9: Oh well you would tell me about that, right, shouldn't

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Speaker 9: I be aware of that?

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Speaker 8: So I'm not this side piece. Look, I've been cheated

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Speaker 9: I'm not really about that kind of life. I don't

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Speaker 9: like women who cheat on their men. And uh yeah,

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Speaker 9: that's kind of where I'm at on the whole situation.

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Speaker 9: She should have told me if I'm some kind of

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Speaker 9: like weird piece and their you know, triangle relationship, I

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Speaker 9: should have been aware of that.

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Speaker 2: Okay, well here, thanks for telling us. I'll also tell

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Speaker 2: you that Madison is on the phone and wants to

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Speaker 2: talk to you.

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Speaker 4: She's been listening.

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Speaker 8: Okay, why would.

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Speaker 7: Why would you go on my social media and dig

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Speaker 9: You're being pretty sloppy about the whole thing, Like you're

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Speaker 9: lucky I didn't just text message christ and just let

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Speaker 9: them know what the hell's going on or send them

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Speaker 9: a message on whatever. I mean, that's pretty floppy on

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Speaker 9: your part. You know, you didn't even tell me what

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Speaker 9: was going on. I should have probably known, right.

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Speaker 3: Why why are you bringing CHRISTI in to this?

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Speaker 7: You didn't need to know any of this.

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Speaker 3: I'm not cheating. I'm enjoying my life.

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Speaker 5: Like, why dude, it tell me you didn't have an

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Speaker 5: amazing night?

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Speaker 8: I okay, that is completely not the damn point. Does

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Speaker 8: your husband know you're out here baying other dudes?

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Speaker 3: Why does that matter? Like, it's not about having him,

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Speaker 3: This is about you and me.

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Speaker 9: Well, when you're seeing somebody, you care about their integrity

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Speaker 9: and their willingness to just turn around and screw on

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Speaker 9: somebody to completely that that shows who they are on

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Speaker 9: the inside, you know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 8: So, yeah, that's why. That's why it's important.

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Speaker 5: Dude, You're getting so deep. Like I'm not trying to

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Speaker 5: like have you pay my bills. I just want I

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Speaker 5: just want to hook up like that.

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Speaker 3: I thought that we.

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Speaker 9: Were there's another guy on the end of this, and

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Speaker 9: I've been that other guy before, and I don't want

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Speaker 9: to hurt somebody like that. And if I'm participating in it,

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Speaker 9: then I'm equally a part of it, and I'm not

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Speaker 9: going to do that. That's what I'm trying to say.

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Speaker 5: How's he gonna hurt if he doesn't know nothing to

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Speaker 3: This is an ab situation.

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Speaker 2: Not like I'll ask the question, Daniel, would you like

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Speaker 2: to go with Madison again on another date?

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Speaker 4: We'll pay for it.

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Speaker 8: No, I think she's nuts. Absolutely not. We're good.

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Speaker 9: We hung out together one time, did a few squats.

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Speaker 8: That's it.

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Speaker 3: Let's call it. Were good.

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Speaker 8: We're good. Yeah, that's it.

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Speaker 4: Sorry, Madison, you don't get another date.

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Speaker 3: There's the least now I know. But like, can we

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Speaker 3: still like work out together?

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Speaker 9: No?

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Speaker 3: You know, Jubile's first date follow up