1 00:00:15,120 --> 00:00:18,800 Speaker 1: Hello, and welcome to Rewind with Karen and Georgia. 2 00:00:19,000 --> 00:00:21,759 Speaker 2: You know, every Wednesday we recap our old shows with 3 00:00:21,800 --> 00:00:25,080 Speaker 2: all new commentary and updates and insight. We truly do, Karen, 4 00:00:25,160 --> 00:00:25,760 Speaker 2: We really do. 5 00:00:25,960 --> 00:00:28,600 Speaker 3: And today we're recapping episode eighty three, which is the 6 00:00:28,640 --> 00:00:32,720 Speaker 3: second half of our two part Unqualified crossover, which we 7 00:00:32,880 --> 00:00:36,479 Speaker 3: succinctly titled Unqualified with on a Farris Crossover Part two. 8 00:00:36,800 --> 00:00:40,160 Speaker 2: This episode came out on August twenty second, twenty seventeen. 9 00:00:40,280 --> 00:00:43,000 Speaker 1: Now let's listen to the intro of episode eighty three. 10 00:00:46,159 --> 00:00:47,720 Speaker 4: Sim this is when you're supposed to talk. 11 00:00:47,800 --> 00:00:49,559 Speaker 5: Well, this is part two. I'm excited that we're all 12 00:00:49,560 --> 00:00:51,080 Speaker 5: back here. Thank you for showing up again. 13 00:00:51,200 --> 00:00:54,040 Speaker 4: No problems of long drive, but we're great. It's so 14 00:00:54,120 --> 00:00:56,880 Speaker 4: crazy you're wearing the same and well, I love it though. 15 00:00:57,240 --> 00:00:58,440 Speaker 4: This is my Thursday shirt. 16 00:01:00,080 --> 00:01:00,360 Speaker 6: All right. 17 00:01:00,400 --> 00:01:02,840 Speaker 5: So we're gonna start with Anna first. She's gonna do 18 00:01:02,840 --> 00:01:06,200 Speaker 5: her favorite murder. After that we'll go to Georgia. You'll 19 00:01:06,240 --> 00:01:06,720 Speaker 5: do yours. 20 00:01:07,000 --> 00:01:09,760 Speaker 6: We have one more advice call and then we're done 21 00:01:09,760 --> 00:01:10,160 Speaker 6: with the show. 22 00:01:11,400 --> 00:01:13,120 Speaker 7: Are we calling this my favorite Unqualified? 23 00:01:13,200 --> 00:01:16,000 Speaker 6: My favorite Unqualified? I love it already? 24 00:01:16,840 --> 00:01:18,600 Speaker 4: Can I? I didn't mean to cut you off, Georgia. 25 00:01:18,880 --> 00:01:19,600 Speaker 7: There was nothing else. 26 00:01:19,720 --> 00:01:23,480 Speaker 4: I'll just say that way all time. I wish you 27 00:01:23,520 --> 00:01:25,280 Speaker 4: would just start. 28 00:01:28,760 --> 00:01:32,920 Speaker 2: And we're back. We had to learn what other people's 29 00:01:33,240 --> 00:01:37,039 Speaker 2: podcasts like Engineers are like totally because Sim was the 30 00:01:37,080 --> 00:01:39,720 Speaker 2: Stephen of Anna Ferris is Unqualified. 31 00:01:39,800 --> 00:01:41,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, and he was great. 32 00:01:41,360 --> 00:01:41,679 Speaker 4: He was. 33 00:01:41,720 --> 00:01:43,240 Speaker 1: We were like, Steven, step it up. 34 00:01:43,240 --> 00:01:46,440 Speaker 2: Stephen, You're no, sim could you imagine if you said that? 35 00:01:47,560 --> 00:01:47,640 Speaker 8: No? 36 00:01:47,720 --> 00:01:49,480 Speaker 2: But it was like a different energy. And then we're 37 00:01:49,520 --> 00:01:52,480 Speaker 2: just kind of like we are combining podcasts right now, 38 00:01:52,560 --> 00:01:54,200 Speaker 2: so weird, very street. 39 00:01:54,720 --> 00:01:55,080 Speaker 8: Yeah. 40 00:01:55,160 --> 00:01:58,680 Speaker 3: We said last episode about how incredibly wonderful Anna is 41 00:01:59,480 --> 00:02:02,560 Speaker 3: and and will be and always be. 42 00:02:02,640 --> 00:02:04,560 Speaker 2: I always will be, forever and ever. I mean, it 43 00:02:04,680 --> 00:02:08,320 Speaker 2: was interesting to meet a person that we already knew 44 00:02:08,480 --> 00:02:12,760 Speaker 2: totally and have them know us, yeah, separately from us 45 00:02:13,400 --> 00:02:14,359 Speaker 2: directly knowing them. 46 00:02:14,440 --> 00:02:16,600 Speaker 1: Right, So I'm like, oh, this is a fellow podcaster. 47 00:02:16,760 --> 00:02:17,120 Speaker 6: What's up. 48 00:02:17,120 --> 00:02:19,400 Speaker 3: It's like, oh, hey, you're a fucking A list celebrity 49 00:02:19,440 --> 00:02:21,200 Speaker 3: and we're in your house right now. 50 00:02:21,200 --> 00:02:23,200 Speaker 2: And we just found out that you somehow know who 51 00:02:23,240 --> 00:02:26,000 Speaker 2: we are. Yeah, so now we're all acting chill about it. 52 00:02:26,120 --> 00:02:27,360 Speaker 1: Why are you so pretty? 53 00:02:27,440 --> 00:02:30,760 Speaker 3: It's like not fair and tiny, I have so many 54 00:02:30,840 --> 00:02:31,799 Speaker 3: questions for you. 55 00:02:31,840 --> 00:02:32,120 Speaker 1: Anna. 56 00:02:32,400 --> 00:02:35,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, all right, well she delivers, Yes, she does in 57 00:02:35,600 --> 00:02:39,560 Speaker 3: her story. Let's get into Anna's story about Rebecca Schaeffer. 58 00:02:46,880 --> 00:02:49,400 Speaker 9: Okay, so I have to tell you, though, I have 59 00:02:49,480 --> 00:02:52,560 Speaker 9: to qualify this with this is actually like a story 60 00:02:52,560 --> 00:02:56,799 Speaker 9: that I remember very vividly and kind of has sort 61 00:02:56,840 --> 00:02:59,919 Speaker 9: of haunted me throughout Hollywood and like and the idea 62 00:03:00,040 --> 00:03:04,160 Speaker 9: of sort of becoming well known, shall we say famous? 63 00:03:04,200 --> 00:03:04,959 Speaker 6: Oh my god, Oh my god. 64 00:03:05,400 --> 00:03:07,200 Speaker 4: I think I think I might do. 65 00:03:07,960 --> 00:03:10,360 Speaker 9: Maybe I have two ideas of what it could be. 66 00:03:11,240 --> 00:03:14,680 Speaker 9: It's it's like as all these stories are horribly tragic. 67 00:03:14,720 --> 00:03:18,120 Speaker 7: Oh, I know, you do, I Thatt idea what I'm excited? 68 00:03:18,200 --> 00:03:21,800 Speaker 9: No, no, no, it's it's terrifying because you know, I 69 00:03:21,840 --> 00:03:27,080 Speaker 9: live here like whatever, like in a weird home anything, 70 00:03:27,800 --> 00:03:30,080 Speaker 9: and anytime there's a dang dong in the back of 71 00:03:30,080 --> 00:03:35,240 Speaker 9: my mind, this story comes up a little bit, which 72 00:03:35,280 --> 00:03:37,400 Speaker 9: is Rebecca Shaeffer. 73 00:03:37,680 --> 00:03:39,800 Speaker 4: Oh shit, is Thatt what you were gonna guess? 74 00:03:40,680 --> 00:03:42,360 Speaker 8: You were, Karen, you were gonna guess it was either 75 00:03:42,400 --> 00:03:45,040 Speaker 8: Rebecca Shaeffer or Treesa Saldana is the other one. 76 00:03:45,480 --> 00:03:47,000 Speaker 7: Yes, I was gonna gets Sharon Tate. 77 00:03:47,480 --> 00:03:52,320 Speaker 9: So oh I couldn't go quite there, but this is 78 00:03:52,480 --> 00:03:55,320 Speaker 9: this is one of the most well, they're all tragic stories, 79 00:03:55,360 --> 00:03:55,800 Speaker 9: aren't they? 80 00:03:55,920 --> 00:03:56,400 Speaker 3: So sad? 81 00:03:56,640 --> 00:03:56,960 Speaker 4: Okay? 82 00:03:57,040 --> 00:03:57,120 Speaker 10: So. 83 00:03:57,200 --> 00:04:00,280 Speaker 9: Rebecca was born November sixth, nineteen sixty seven and raised 84 00:04:00,280 --> 00:04:03,840 Speaker 9: in Portland, Organ And She wanted to grow up being 85 00:04:03,840 --> 00:04:05,840 Speaker 9: a rabbi. But when she was fourteen years old, her 86 00:04:05,840 --> 00:04:09,120 Speaker 9: good looks caught the attention of a cattle call, which 87 00:04:09,240 --> 00:04:12,160 Speaker 9: my good looks never caught the attention of a cattle call, 88 00:04:13,360 --> 00:04:16,440 Speaker 9: of a of a temple of a rabbit. 89 00:04:16,640 --> 00:04:19,920 Speaker 4: Hey at a local modeling agency. 90 00:04:20,080 --> 00:04:22,720 Speaker 9: Less than two years later, in nineteen eighty four, after 91 00:04:22,760 --> 00:04:25,600 Speaker 9: appearing in a number of Portland area publications, she went 92 00:04:25,600 --> 00:04:29,400 Speaker 9: to New York to pursue her modeling career. Her modeling 93 00:04:29,400 --> 00:04:32,520 Speaker 9: career didn't take off due to being only five foot seven, 94 00:04:32,600 --> 00:04:38,440 Speaker 9: which poor thing gross, so she decided to focus on acting, quickly, 95 00:04:38,480 --> 00:04:43,039 Speaker 9: appearing in television commercials, seventeen magazine Woody Allen's film Radio 96 00:04:43,120 --> 00:04:46,160 Speaker 9: Days in One Life to Live, So she became very successful. 97 00:04:46,480 --> 00:04:49,159 Speaker 9: She was a stunningly Who was she in Radio Days? 98 00:04:49,440 --> 00:04:52,000 Speaker 9: It was cut, Oh, son of a Baitch. Some movie's 99 00:04:52,080 --> 00:04:54,960 Speaker 9: so good. In nineteen eighty six, at the age of eighteen, 100 00:04:55,000 --> 00:04:57,920 Speaker 9: Her work caught the attention of Los Angeles casting directors, 101 00:04:58,320 --> 00:05:02,480 Speaker 9: and she was cast in the CBS sitcom My Sister Sam, 102 00:05:02,520 --> 00:05:08,440 Speaker 9: playing the character of Patty Sam's Sam's next door Sam's 103 00:05:08,480 --> 00:05:09,520 Speaker 9: girl next door sister. 104 00:05:09,760 --> 00:05:10,479 Speaker 4: What the fuck? 105 00:05:12,760 --> 00:05:16,440 Speaker 9: Yeah, okay, anyway, now she's living in La. Rebecca was 106 00:05:16,440 --> 00:05:18,360 Speaker 9: on the fast track to stardom. 107 00:05:18,520 --> 00:05:20,320 Speaker 8: Can I just say that my sister and I loved 108 00:05:20,360 --> 00:05:23,240 Speaker 8: my Sister Sam from the second it came out. We 109 00:05:23,320 --> 00:05:25,680 Speaker 8: loved her so much. She was just one of She 110 00:05:25,760 --> 00:05:28,760 Speaker 8: looks like one of those classic all American girls, curly hair, 111 00:05:29,360 --> 00:05:32,960 Speaker 8: great face, beautiful, but you also like sweet. Yeah, you 112 00:05:33,000 --> 00:05:35,680 Speaker 8: could feel her positive because I watched it too, and 113 00:05:35,839 --> 00:05:36,760 Speaker 8: you could feel like her. 114 00:05:37,040 --> 00:05:38,760 Speaker 9: I don't know, I hate to say positive energy. That 115 00:05:38,760 --> 00:05:41,440 Speaker 9: sounds like a very La thing to say, but a warmth. 116 00:05:41,600 --> 00:05:43,320 Speaker 9: She had the Sandra bullockfield to her. 117 00:05:43,640 --> 00:05:45,200 Speaker 4: Yeah, like, oh, I'm friends with her already. 118 00:05:45,279 --> 00:05:50,240 Speaker 9: Yeah. So now we have the stalker. The stalker comes 119 00:05:50,279 --> 00:05:50,680 Speaker 9: into play. 120 00:05:50,880 --> 00:05:52,080 Speaker 7: That was a fucking stalker. 121 00:05:52,480 --> 00:05:52,760 Speaker 4: Yep. 122 00:05:53,080 --> 00:05:57,039 Speaker 9: Robert John Bardow So he was a nineteen year old 123 00:05:57,040 --> 00:06:02,640 Speaker 9: Tucson resident. Barto repeatedly had a troubled childhood, an alcoholic mom, 124 00:06:02,680 --> 00:06:05,640 Speaker 9: and mentally ill father. He was abused by one of 125 00:06:05,640 --> 00:06:08,440 Speaker 9: his siblings and placed in foster care after he threatened 126 00:06:08,440 --> 00:06:11,760 Speaker 9: to commit suicide. He was diagnosed with manic depression and 127 00:06:11,760 --> 00:06:15,719 Speaker 9: at one time institutionalized for a month for emotional problems. 128 00:06:15,920 --> 00:06:17,920 Speaker 3: Don't put your fucking kid in foster care if he 129 00:06:17,960 --> 00:06:19,400 Speaker 3: wants to kill himself. 130 00:06:19,160 --> 00:06:20,000 Speaker 4: No kidding. 131 00:06:22,160 --> 00:06:26,760 Speaker 9: So beyond that timeline, beyond that he says here on 132 00:06:26,839 --> 00:06:28,040 Speaker 9: my info sheet. 133 00:06:28,200 --> 00:06:29,560 Speaker 4: Beyond that tim time. 134 00:06:32,640 --> 00:06:42,839 Speaker 9: Professional Beyond that tim time he received professional help. But okay, 135 00:06:42,880 --> 00:06:48,000 Speaker 9: back to my sweet Rebecca. At age sixteen, before stalking Rebecca, 136 00:06:48,120 --> 00:06:51,800 Speaker 9: he stocked a child peace activist, which I always thought 137 00:06:51,800 --> 00:06:53,440 Speaker 9: was an interesting detail. 138 00:06:54,520 --> 00:06:56,760 Speaker 4: How do you find the child peace activist? 139 00:06:56,800 --> 00:07:00,800 Speaker 9: But anyway, TV is something wonderful woman named Samantha Smith 140 00:07:02,360 --> 00:07:07,560 Speaker 9: who tragically died in a nineteen eighty five plane crash, which, 141 00:07:07,600 --> 00:07:10,440 Speaker 9: weirdly was a year of. 142 00:07:10,360 --> 00:07:13,640 Speaker 4: A lot of plane crashes. Eighty five, Yeah, nineteen eighty five, 143 00:07:13,840 --> 00:07:17,960 Speaker 4: John Edgar, I don't know, I don't know. Probably don't 144 00:07:18,000 --> 00:07:20,240 Speaker 4: ask me too any questions. I'm just I just got 145 00:07:20,240 --> 00:07:21,440 Speaker 4: to read the tim time sheet. 146 00:07:21,480 --> 00:07:25,920 Speaker 3: Okay, Karen usually knows whose weird obscure facts. 147 00:07:25,520 --> 00:07:27,880 Speaker 8: I was scraping my brain? Was that the one where 148 00:07:27,920 --> 00:07:31,240 Speaker 8: the rugby teammate each other. Yeah maybe maybe yeah? 149 00:07:31,360 --> 00:07:33,080 Speaker 7: Could that counts for three? That one? 150 00:07:33,720 --> 00:07:36,600 Speaker 9: Anyway, So this fella Bardo, he was lonely and he 151 00:07:36,680 --> 00:07:39,520 Speaker 9: spent a lot of time watching television. Believe it or not, 152 00:07:41,600 --> 00:07:45,600 Speaker 9: he discovered Rebecca sitcom my sister Sam, and he became 153 00:07:45,840 --> 00:07:48,880 Speaker 9: pretty smitten. He saw her was a beautiful he saw 154 00:07:48,880 --> 00:07:50,440 Speaker 9: her his beautiful and hosts wholesome. 155 00:07:50,560 --> 00:07:51,080 Speaker 4: Wholesome? 156 00:07:51,440 --> 00:07:54,920 Speaker 9: Oh god, can I even say that again? Wholesome That's 157 00:07:55,000 --> 00:08:00,320 Speaker 9: like how you describe oatmeal. But innocent, I think is 158 00:08:00,760 --> 00:08:03,240 Speaker 9: sort of the major point that we will get to later. 159 00:08:03,960 --> 00:08:06,600 Speaker 9: And he collected her magazine covers and talked about her 160 00:08:06,640 --> 00:08:09,040 Speaker 9: as if they were friends. I don't know who you 161 00:08:09,040 --> 00:08:10,360 Speaker 9: talked to her about, because I don't think he had 162 00:08:10,360 --> 00:08:10,960 Speaker 9: a lot of friends. 163 00:08:10,960 --> 00:08:13,320 Speaker 7: Maybe he just the Grosbeaks store clerk. 164 00:08:13,480 --> 00:08:16,880 Speaker 9: Yeah, he's delivery bought the magazine from So over the 165 00:08:16,920 --> 00:08:19,800 Speaker 9: course of three years, he wrote, you know, a ton 166 00:08:19,840 --> 00:08:22,760 Speaker 9: of letters to Rebecca, and one letter was answered by 167 00:08:22,760 --> 00:08:26,440 Speaker 9: an employee of Schaeffer's Rebecca Shaffer's fan club, and he 168 00:08:26,480 --> 00:08:29,880 Speaker 9: was encouraged. But that he came to Los Angeles hoping 169 00:08:29,920 --> 00:08:32,160 Speaker 9: to meet her on the set of her sitcom My 170 00:08:32,200 --> 00:08:35,200 Speaker 9: Sister Sam, but he was turned away by Warner Brothers security. 171 00:08:36,240 --> 00:08:37,000 Speaker 4: He was pissed. 172 00:08:37,320 --> 00:08:40,800 Speaker 9: He returned a month later armed with a knife, but 173 00:08:41,120 --> 00:08:44,439 Speaker 9: security guards once again prevented him from gaining access to 174 00:08:44,480 --> 00:08:45,200 Speaker 9: the actress. 175 00:08:45,240 --> 00:08:49,120 Speaker 4: I don't know why you can't get onto that Warner 176 00:08:49,160 --> 00:08:49,760 Speaker 4: Brothers A lot. 177 00:08:50,200 --> 00:08:52,600 Speaker 7: You can't not the first time. That's a time, come 178 00:08:52,679 --> 00:08:52,960 Speaker 7: on in. 179 00:08:53,240 --> 00:08:55,320 Speaker 4: I love it. If somebody was like, I got a knife, 180 00:08:55,360 --> 00:08:57,600 Speaker 4: I got us there. Oh well, then you should have 181 00:08:57,600 --> 00:09:01,959 Speaker 4: said that the last time you were here. Okay. 182 00:09:02,160 --> 00:09:04,160 Speaker 9: So he later said that he brought the knife because 183 00:09:04,160 --> 00:09:08,800 Speaker 9: he thought Rebecca was becoming too arrogant. The security weirdly 184 00:09:08,840 --> 00:09:12,600 Speaker 9: thought that he was just harmless and loved sick, and 185 00:09:12,679 --> 00:09:13,959 Speaker 9: he was never reported. 186 00:09:13,600 --> 00:09:15,040 Speaker 7: To the police. 187 00:09:15,559 --> 00:09:19,600 Speaker 9: So, once again very upset, he returned to Tucson and 188 00:09:19,640 --> 00:09:22,840 Speaker 9: lost focus on Schaeffer for just a little while. His 189 00:09:22,920 --> 00:09:27,679 Speaker 9: obsession shifted towards pop singers Debbie Gibson and Tiffany Oh. 190 00:09:27,720 --> 00:09:29,600 Speaker 7: I mean minded too, but I was in a fucking 191 00:09:29,840 --> 00:09:31,640 Speaker 7: psychopath I. 192 00:09:31,600 --> 00:09:34,200 Speaker 4: Mean eighty five, which host do we have right? They 193 00:09:34,200 --> 00:09:35,360 Speaker 4: were on their mall tours. 194 00:09:35,480 --> 00:09:36,040 Speaker 7: Yeah. 195 00:09:36,080 --> 00:09:38,640 Speaker 9: So during this period, he was arrested three times on 196 00:09:38,760 --> 00:09:43,600 Speaker 9: charges including domestic violence and disorderly conduct. Okay, now we're 197 00:09:43,600 --> 00:09:47,640 Speaker 9: getting to the actual tragic events. And I hope our 198 00:09:47,679 --> 00:09:53,560 Speaker 9: listeners know and everybody knows that this it's I'm simply 199 00:09:53,760 --> 00:09:57,160 Speaker 9: like the scary movie one, two, three, four actress, not 200 00:09:57,320 --> 00:09:58,240 Speaker 9: five year old. 201 00:10:00,679 --> 00:10:02,160 Speaker 7: I did not understand that. 202 00:10:02,240 --> 00:10:05,959 Speaker 4: Well, I didn't all the scary movies. But so I 203 00:10:06,040 --> 00:10:09,679 Speaker 4: don't have it. I don't. But but fame is. 204 00:10:09,640 --> 00:10:12,760 Speaker 9: An odd thing, and I don't think that. I hope, 205 00:10:12,960 --> 00:10:17,160 Speaker 9: I hope nobody comes over and does a dang dog. 206 00:10:17,280 --> 00:10:19,480 Speaker 4: There's so we can talk about this for a half. 207 00:10:19,559 --> 00:10:25,280 Speaker 9: Right, But I do, yes, But but the obsession with 208 00:10:25,360 --> 00:10:30,560 Speaker 9: fame is something that at times has freaked me out 209 00:10:30,600 --> 00:10:32,760 Speaker 9: just a little bit, not too much, because you know, 210 00:10:32,760 --> 00:10:36,400 Speaker 9: I'm simply that that other one that like a beautiful 211 00:10:36,440 --> 00:10:39,720 Speaker 9: twenty one year old who stars on a massive Well. 212 00:10:40,160 --> 00:10:42,160 Speaker 7: Honey, it's okay, you're not going to see him arrogant. 213 00:10:42,200 --> 00:10:43,920 Speaker 4: Oh thank you are scared. 214 00:10:47,360 --> 00:10:54,000 Speaker 9: So On June third, nineteen eighty nine, our Murder turned 215 00:10:54,000 --> 00:10:56,280 Speaker 9: his attention back to Rebecca after watching her in the 216 00:10:56,280 --> 00:10:59,479 Speaker 9: black comedy Class Struggle in Beverly Hills. 217 00:11:00,559 --> 00:11:01,160 Speaker 7: Have you seen that? 218 00:11:02,080 --> 00:11:04,559 Speaker 8: Yes, it's but is that the name of it? It's 219 00:11:04,559 --> 00:11:06,120 Speaker 8: not class struggle on Beverly Hills. 220 00:11:06,200 --> 00:11:08,440 Speaker 4: It's this is it truth? 221 00:11:08,640 --> 00:11:08,800 Speaker 3: Really? 222 00:11:09,720 --> 00:11:11,680 Speaker 6: No, it's right, class struggle in Beverly Hills. 223 00:11:12,080 --> 00:11:13,000 Speaker 4: Oh do you guys want to fight? 224 00:11:13,120 --> 00:11:13,240 Speaker 10: Oh? 225 00:11:13,280 --> 00:11:16,800 Speaker 4: Sorry, Storry, Sorry, sorry, that'd be amazing. What am I 226 00:11:16,840 --> 00:11:17,000 Speaker 4: to do? 227 00:11:17,480 --> 00:11:17,560 Speaker 10: You? 228 00:11:17,720 --> 00:11:19,600 Speaker 4: The one with Nick Nolty right now? 229 00:11:19,679 --> 00:11:21,120 Speaker 6: This was like a I'm sure it was like a 230 00:11:21,120 --> 00:11:21,560 Speaker 6: B movie. 231 00:11:21,559 --> 00:11:22,400 Speaker 4: Hell oh sorry. 232 00:11:23,360 --> 00:11:25,840 Speaker 9: So she had a scene in bed with a man 233 00:11:26,400 --> 00:11:30,120 Speaker 9: and yeap, and Bardo went into a jealous rage and 234 00:11:30,240 --> 00:11:34,000 Speaker 9: decided that she should be punished for becoming another Hollywood whore. 235 00:11:34,080 --> 00:11:36,479 Speaker 7: It's not an arriant piece of shit. 236 00:11:36,480 --> 00:11:36,760 Speaker 4: I know. 237 00:11:37,040 --> 00:11:40,480 Speaker 9: He believed that she had lost her innocence, so he 238 00:11:40,559 --> 00:11:43,360 Speaker 9: paid a detective agency two hundred fifty dollars to find 239 00:11:43,440 --> 00:11:48,360 Speaker 9: Shaefer's home address in California DMV records, and Bardo's brother 240 00:11:48,520 --> 00:11:51,280 Speaker 9: helped him get a handgun because he was only nineteen. 241 00:11:51,800 --> 00:11:54,600 Speaker 9: I guess maybe in Tucson you can't get a gun. 242 00:11:55,080 --> 00:11:56,599 Speaker 9: I'm sure the laws of change. You can get a 243 00:11:56,640 --> 00:11:59,200 Speaker 9: gun now when you're nine. You actually get one automatic 244 00:11:59,360 --> 00:11:59,880 Speaker 9: when you're eight. 245 00:11:59,800 --> 00:12:03,880 Speaker 7: Years and automatic automatically yeah, okay. 246 00:12:03,920 --> 00:12:06,760 Speaker 9: So on July eighteenth, nineteen eighty nine, he traveled to 247 00:12:06,800 --> 00:12:08,200 Speaker 9: Los Angeles a third time. 248 00:12:08,280 --> 00:12:10,559 Speaker 4: I bet, do you think he drove or did I 249 00:12:10,559 --> 00:12:11,360 Speaker 4: think he took a bus? 250 00:12:11,440 --> 00:12:11,600 Speaker 10: Right? 251 00:12:12,160 --> 00:12:15,199 Speaker 7: I remember watching your bus and I remember watching. 252 00:12:14,920 --> 00:12:16,520 Speaker 3: Like a reenactment thing, and he's like, dude, do you 253 00:12:16,559 --> 00:12:19,760 Speaker 3: do off a bus like a greyhound like a boy? 254 00:12:19,880 --> 00:12:22,440 Speaker 4: Smells wonderful? 255 00:12:23,720 --> 00:12:26,040 Speaker 9: Okay, So we went to her apartment, which is in 256 00:12:26,040 --> 00:12:29,479 Speaker 9: the Fairfax District around six thirty am. 257 00:12:29,720 --> 00:12:31,120 Speaker 4: Oh no, can you imagine? 258 00:12:31,840 --> 00:12:34,920 Speaker 9: So he rang the doorbell. The intercom was not working 259 00:12:34,960 --> 00:12:37,800 Speaker 9: that day, that fucking manager. 260 00:12:38,000 --> 00:12:40,760 Speaker 3: Oh my career manager and detective need to go on 261 00:12:40,800 --> 00:12:41,360 Speaker 3: an island. 262 00:12:41,760 --> 00:12:42,840 Speaker 4: Yeah, let's stay there. 263 00:12:43,280 --> 00:12:46,199 Speaker 9: So Shaeffer was She was up preparing for an audition 264 00:12:46,320 --> 00:12:50,040 Speaker 9: for the role and Godfather Part three. Oh, she was 265 00:12:50,120 --> 00:12:54,520 Speaker 9: absolute early, so she answered the door. Bart showed Shaeffer 266 00:12:54,559 --> 00:12:56,920 Speaker 9: a letter in an autograph that she had previously sent him, 267 00:12:57,000 --> 00:12:59,960 Speaker 9: probably through the agency that like sends that stuff out. 268 00:13:00,360 --> 00:13:02,840 Speaker 9: Rebecca thanked him and said she was busy and had 269 00:13:02,880 --> 00:13:06,680 Speaker 9: to go. So then Barto went to a local diner 270 00:13:06,720 --> 00:13:10,640 Speaker 9: and had breakfast, and he was very disappointed. An hour later, 271 00:13:10,720 --> 00:13:13,200 Speaker 9: ten fifteen am, he returned to Shaeffer's apartment for the 272 00:13:13,280 --> 00:13:16,480 Speaker 9: second time. Shaeffer answered the door. Again, this is a 273 00:13:16,480 --> 00:13:21,200 Speaker 9: weird detail. I know, it's weird. Wearing a black bathrobe, 274 00:13:21,400 --> 00:13:24,760 Speaker 9: which maybe she looked. Of course, she looked incredibly hot, 275 00:13:24,800 --> 00:13:27,680 Speaker 9: and maybe that agitated him even more. She was about 276 00:13:27,679 --> 00:13:29,960 Speaker 9: to get dressed for her audition. He pulled a gun 277 00:13:30,040 --> 00:13:32,160 Speaker 9: from a brown paper bag and shot her in the 278 00:13:32,240 --> 00:13:35,640 Speaker 9: chest a point blank range, in the doorway of her 279 00:13:35,640 --> 00:13:41,720 Speaker 9: apartment building, and Shaeffer apparently became screaming why she collapsed 280 00:13:41,800 --> 00:13:45,960 Speaker 9: in her doorway as Bartow fled. A neighbor phoned paramedics 281 00:13:46,360 --> 00:13:49,679 Speaker 9: who arrived to transfer to Cedars Sinai Medical Center and 282 00:13:49,720 --> 00:13:52,520 Speaker 9: she was pronounced dead thirty minutes after her arrival. And 283 00:13:52,559 --> 00:13:57,520 Speaker 9: she was twenty one when she died. And so anyway, 284 00:13:57,800 --> 00:14:00,400 Speaker 9: he was arrested a day later in Tucson, Era, Sona 285 00:14:02,080 --> 00:14:05,200 Speaker 9: after motorists reported a man running through traffic on the 286 00:14:05,240 --> 00:14:09,440 Speaker 9: ten and he immediately confessed to the murder. So in 287 00:14:09,520 --> 00:14:13,160 Speaker 9: nineteen ninety one, he was brought to trial and prosecuted 288 00:14:13,160 --> 00:14:14,280 Speaker 9: by Marcia Clark. 289 00:14:14,760 --> 00:14:16,480 Speaker 4: Whoa yeah, that's so weird. 290 00:14:16,600 --> 00:14:19,160 Speaker 9: Yeah, And during the trial, Barto claimed that the U 291 00:14:19,200 --> 00:14:21,600 Speaker 9: two song Exit was an influence in the murder. 292 00:14:21,800 --> 00:14:24,600 Speaker 4: The song played in the courtroom as evidence. 293 00:14:24,240 --> 00:14:27,280 Speaker 3: Which one is that someone saying it to me, I 294 00:14:27,280 --> 00:14:28,480 Speaker 3: don't know every breath. 295 00:14:31,240 --> 00:14:31,920 Speaker 1: I swear to God. 296 00:14:31,960 --> 00:14:35,720 Speaker 4: I feel like you two would know so much trivia. Sorry, no, 297 00:14:36,800 --> 00:14:37,160 Speaker 4: I don't. 298 00:14:37,440 --> 00:14:40,120 Speaker 9: Yeah, oh boy, it's so this is a hard one 299 00:14:40,160 --> 00:14:41,240 Speaker 9: for me to talk about. 300 00:14:41,400 --> 00:14:42,080 Speaker 4: Yeah, a little bit. 301 00:14:42,800 --> 00:14:46,960 Speaker 9: Well they're all hard, aren't they. It's all awful. Yeah. So, 302 00:14:47,120 --> 00:14:50,440 Speaker 9: Bartow's attorneys argued that he was mentally ill, that schizophrenia 303 00:14:50,480 --> 00:14:52,440 Speaker 9: had led him to commit the murder. So he was 304 00:14:52,440 --> 00:14:54,680 Speaker 9: convicted of capital murder and he was sentenced to life 305 00:14:54,720 --> 00:14:58,440 Speaker 9: in prison without the possibility of parole. But here's the 306 00:14:58,520 --> 00:15:01,800 Speaker 9: good sort of good news who's after all of this, 307 00:15:02,600 --> 00:15:06,760 Speaker 9: is that the Driver's Privacy Protection Act was enacted in 308 00:15:06,840 --> 00:15:10,800 Speaker 9: nineteen ninety four, which prevents the DMV from releasing private 309 00:15:10,840 --> 00:15:14,680 Speaker 9: average addresses. So there are now anti stocking laws in 310 00:15:14,760 --> 00:15:17,200 Speaker 9: every state. And in nineteen eighty nine, in the wake 311 00:15:17,280 --> 00:15:22,160 Speaker 9: of the murder, LA police created the nation's first team 312 00:15:22,240 --> 00:15:26,760 Speaker 9: specializing in stocking investigations. Also, California was the first date 313 00:15:26,840 --> 00:15:29,360 Speaker 9: to criminalize stocking in the United States in nineteen ninety 314 00:15:29,360 --> 00:15:31,880 Speaker 9: following her murder in a string of other Hope high 315 00:15:31,880 --> 00:15:37,760 Speaker 9: profile assaults. But also that also came on the heels 316 00:15:37,880 --> 00:15:42,280 Speaker 9: of Teresa Saldana. So that is something that I just 317 00:15:42,920 --> 00:15:48,040 Speaker 9: resonates with me, just because the obsession, I guess with 318 00:15:48,480 --> 00:15:51,520 Speaker 9: fame and how scary sometimes it can be when people 319 00:15:51,560 --> 00:15:52,920 Speaker 9: feel very familiar with you. 320 00:15:53,160 --> 00:15:56,080 Speaker 8: Yeah, yeah, they know you, so it's not weird to 321 00:15:56,120 --> 00:15:57,960 Speaker 8: them that they're coming to talk to you and they 322 00:15:58,000 --> 00:16:01,280 Speaker 8: don't ever flip it and see it's like something out 323 00:16:01,320 --> 00:16:03,920 Speaker 8: of the blue. Also, it just kills me because the 324 00:16:04,040 --> 00:16:07,200 Speaker 8: idea of like you moved to La, you get a job, 325 00:16:07,560 --> 00:16:10,400 Speaker 8: you get like a good apartment, and you're in that mode. 326 00:16:10,520 --> 00:16:13,000 Speaker 8: I'm sure she didn't think I'm famous because she was 327 00:16:13,120 --> 00:16:15,600 Speaker 8: like it was like, you know, she's on that show, 328 00:16:15,720 --> 00:16:17,600 Speaker 8: maybe she's in she'sn't one movie or whatever. 329 00:16:17,640 --> 00:16:19,680 Speaker 3: But I feel like in La, you get people talk 330 00:16:19,760 --> 00:16:22,600 Speaker 3: to you a lot less, like they know that you know. 331 00:16:22,720 --> 00:16:28,000 Speaker 9: And I think that people maybe think that, like like 332 00:16:28,040 --> 00:16:31,920 Speaker 9: I imagine now like at the time, she probably was 333 00:16:31,960 --> 00:16:33,680 Speaker 9: making a nice chunk of. 334 00:16:33,680 --> 00:16:35,360 Speaker 4: Change, but probably not enough. 335 00:16:35,600 --> 00:16:38,440 Speaker 9: She was still living in an apartment, an unsecured apartment, right, 336 00:16:38,560 --> 00:16:42,560 Speaker 9: and because why wouldn't she necessarily be And I just 337 00:16:42,600 --> 00:16:45,120 Speaker 9: want you two to know that I have a fucking 338 00:16:45,120 --> 00:16:46,760 Speaker 9: a ton of cameras around too. 339 00:16:47,400 --> 00:16:50,360 Speaker 4: That's fucking right. So yeah, either of you try to 340 00:16:50,400 --> 00:16:53,440 Speaker 4: take me out, I've already scre painted over half of them. 341 00:16:53,520 --> 00:16:55,520 Speaker 4: I've been finished for this. 342 00:16:56,320 --> 00:17:02,960 Speaker 9: Well listen, like I want to reiterate, I'm forty. Yeah, 343 00:17:03,720 --> 00:17:06,320 Speaker 9: it's not the sexiest of murders. 344 00:17:06,320 --> 00:17:10,040 Speaker 4: If somebody comes, I'll. 345 00:17:09,880 --> 00:17:12,479 Speaker 8: Just to make you feel better. It took me fucking 346 00:17:12,520 --> 00:17:15,640 Speaker 8: forever to find this out, so I think you're oak. 347 00:17:15,800 --> 00:17:17,520 Speaker 8: Even if they could break into. 348 00:17:17,280 --> 00:17:19,160 Speaker 3: It, give them the address and be like, I bet 349 00:17:19,200 --> 00:17:22,960 Speaker 3: you can't find it, go ahead, challenge it is. 350 00:17:23,080 --> 00:17:24,480 Speaker 4: I mean, it's just super said. 351 00:17:25,200 --> 00:17:27,720 Speaker 8: Sometimes those are the only high lights of when we 352 00:17:27,880 --> 00:17:31,080 Speaker 8: tell our stories. Is stuff like that, where you know, 353 00:17:31,280 --> 00:17:35,320 Speaker 8: it's such a tragedy that Rebecca Shaeffer had to die. 354 00:17:35,720 --> 00:17:38,160 Speaker 4: But then they finally were like, oh, that's right. 355 00:17:38,280 --> 00:17:40,639 Speaker 8: You shouldn't be able to know anyone's address, and you 356 00:17:40,640 --> 00:17:42,600 Speaker 8: shouldn't be able to walk up to anybody's house, and 357 00:17:42,640 --> 00:17:45,560 Speaker 8: you shouldn't if you tell the eight people that you're 358 00:17:45,600 --> 00:17:48,639 Speaker 8: obsessed with somebody, that should count against you. You know, 359 00:17:48,840 --> 00:17:51,240 Speaker 8: stalking is a very serious thing. 360 00:17:51,640 --> 00:17:54,040 Speaker 3: It's not that wasn't and it's probably still not taken 361 00:17:54,080 --> 00:17:57,440 Speaker 3: seriously by a lot of law enforcement officials. 362 00:17:57,920 --> 00:18:01,360 Speaker 4: Well it is now the point. Yeah. 363 00:18:01,520 --> 00:18:03,440 Speaker 9: Yeah, like you were saying that it hasn't been taken 364 00:18:03,480 --> 00:18:06,760 Speaker 9: seriously because there's so much ego involved, Like there's a 365 00:18:06,800 --> 00:18:08,720 Speaker 9: dismissal of that, especially as a woman. 366 00:18:10,119 --> 00:18:12,920 Speaker 4: Having said that, if anyone out there were like to stock. 367 00:18:12,720 --> 00:18:19,520 Speaker 9: Me nose, submit your application, no, no, let us know, 368 00:18:19,920 --> 00:18:21,840 Speaker 9: cancel history of violence. 369 00:18:25,520 --> 00:18:27,680 Speaker 7: Wow, that's I'm so sorry. 370 00:18:27,720 --> 00:18:31,200 Speaker 9: I know, I know, so sad, but like you were saying, Karen, 371 00:18:31,440 --> 00:18:33,680 Speaker 9: thankfully it's changed some things well. 372 00:18:33,680 --> 00:18:36,520 Speaker 8: And also the Teresa Saldonna story is so insane. I 373 00:18:36,560 --> 00:18:41,880 Speaker 8: saw that as a kid on TV. The that's Dominique 374 00:18:41,920 --> 00:18:43,679 Speaker 8: Dominic Dunn's daughter, Dominique, No. 375 00:18:43,760 --> 00:18:45,439 Speaker 4: It's it was. 376 00:18:46,560 --> 00:18:51,040 Speaker 8: It was the woman who was the wife in Raging Bull. 377 00:18:51,400 --> 00:18:53,960 Speaker 8: So she was just starting her acting career and getting 378 00:18:54,040 --> 00:18:57,000 Speaker 8: kind of amazing parts. And she also had a stalker 379 00:18:57,440 --> 00:18:59,439 Speaker 8: and she and he did the exact same thing. 380 00:18:59,440 --> 00:19:01,800 Speaker 4: He walked up to apartment door and stabbed her. 381 00:19:02,000 --> 00:19:05,359 Speaker 8: And actually the Colagan man was walking up delivering water 382 00:19:05,440 --> 00:19:08,000 Speaker 8: to somebody else's apartment and he got I think he 383 00:19:08,280 --> 00:19:08,840 Speaker 8: saved her. 384 00:19:09,000 --> 00:19:11,399 Speaker 4: He either pulled the guy off of her or like 385 00:19:11,520 --> 00:19:12,040 Speaker 4: got her. 386 00:19:12,480 --> 00:19:15,359 Speaker 8: Like he the Colagan man saved her life, and she 387 00:19:15,760 --> 00:19:18,960 Speaker 8: you know, went on to advocate for all those laws too. 388 00:19:19,640 --> 00:19:21,720 Speaker 3: That's like the end of so many of our stories 389 00:19:21,720 --> 00:19:25,600 Speaker 3: are like, you know, the the victim's family then went 390 00:19:25,640 --> 00:19:29,320 Speaker 3: on to do great things, amazing. That's the only way 391 00:19:29,359 --> 00:19:33,320 Speaker 3: I feel like you can personally survive these horrific things 392 00:19:33,320 --> 00:19:37,520 Speaker 3: happening is if you tried to make it worse, like 393 00:19:37,720 --> 00:19:38,600 Speaker 3: make make. 394 00:19:38,560 --> 00:19:43,119 Speaker 4: Their the tragedy where like hopefully prevention of like we 395 00:19:43,160 --> 00:19:43,359 Speaker 4: did that. 396 00:19:43,480 --> 00:19:49,159 Speaker 3: We've done the Amber Law, Amber, Alert Girl Amber, and 397 00:19:49,240 --> 00:19:51,200 Speaker 3: we did Megan's Law. 398 00:19:52,359 --> 00:19:54,359 Speaker 4: You know, That's why I keep the guillotine though. 399 00:19:54,400 --> 00:19:57,440 Speaker 8: Outside the house warning says a kind of like a 400 00:19:57,520 --> 00:19:59,280 Speaker 8: simple warning. 401 00:19:59,440 --> 00:20:01,840 Speaker 4: Yeah, come fuck with me. I'll fuck with you. Yeah, 402 00:20:03,720 --> 00:20:04,679 Speaker 4: here's what I like that. 403 00:20:04,840 --> 00:20:07,639 Speaker 8: X guy standing there, like I just do something just 404 00:20:07,640 --> 00:20:08,840 Speaker 8: for you're fucking with me. 405 00:20:09,160 --> 00:20:13,040 Speaker 4: Oh you're bringing me my clothes. Yeah all right, okay. 406 00:20:12,760 --> 00:20:15,800 Speaker 3: I'll take this, but don't fuck with me. But give 407 00:20:15,840 --> 00:20:16,960 Speaker 3: me my fighting booths. 408 00:20:21,440 --> 00:20:24,280 Speaker 1: We are back, Karen. We do you have any updates? 409 00:20:24,600 --> 00:20:28,119 Speaker 2: The only update is that Robert John Bardo remains in prison. 410 00:20:28,240 --> 00:20:31,200 Speaker 2: But we did look through the Gmail about this case 411 00:20:31,280 --> 00:20:34,119 Speaker 2: and we found a hometown. So I'm gonna read it 412 00:20:34,119 --> 00:20:37,200 Speaker 2: to you now. It says hello to my beloved MFM crew. 413 00:20:37,359 --> 00:20:39,439 Speaker 2: This is not so much my hometown story as it 414 00:20:39,480 --> 00:20:41,879 Speaker 2: is my mom's, but I thought I would share anyway, 415 00:20:41,920 --> 00:20:44,000 Speaker 2: since it relates to a story that's mentioned on the 416 00:20:44,000 --> 00:20:46,119 Speaker 2: show every now and then, and that was covered in 417 00:20:46,119 --> 00:20:49,680 Speaker 2: the crossover episode with Anna Faris. In the mid nineteen seventies, 418 00:20:49,800 --> 00:20:51,879 Speaker 2: a couple years before I was born, my mom was 419 00:20:51,920 --> 00:20:56,159 Speaker 2: a graduate student in Oregon studying child psychology. One of 420 00:20:56,200 --> 00:20:59,920 Speaker 2: her professors had a preschool age daughter named Rebecca who 421 00:21:00,000 --> 00:21:02,919 Speaker 2: so he asked my mom to babysit. Oh no, She 422 00:21:03,000 --> 00:21:05,560 Speaker 2: babysat this child regularly for a couple of years until 423 00:21:05,600 --> 00:21:07,840 Speaker 2: she had me, and I probably never would have heard 424 00:21:08,119 --> 00:21:11,720 Speaker 2: the rather unremarkable story of my mom babysitting her professor's daughter. 425 00:21:12,280 --> 00:21:14,840 Speaker 2: But just before I began sixth grade, we were watching 426 00:21:14,880 --> 00:21:17,359 Speaker 2: a television interview with the parents of a young woman 427 00:21:17,560 --> 00:21:21,640 Speaker 2: who was murdered by a stalker. And then, oh, my god, 428 00:21:21,720 --> 00:21:24,920 Speaker 2: that's doctor Schaefer, my mom said. When she had initially 429 00:21:24,960 --> 00:21:26,840 Speaker 2: heard the news, she had not yet put two and 430 00:21:26,920 --> 00:21:30,440 Speaker 2: two together to realize that the Rebecca Shaeffer who was 431 00:21:30,520 --> 00:21:34,560 Speaker 2: murdered was the very same that she babysat about fifteen 432 00:21:34,640 --> 00:21:35,159 Speaker 2: years earlier. 433 00:21:35,240 --> 00:21:36,240 Speaker 1: Oh God, I. 434 00:21:36,160 --> 00:21:39,040 Speaker 2: Can't imagine how horrifying and surreal that moment of realization 435 00:21:39,160 --> 00:21:42,080 Speaker 2: must have been for my mother. While there truly is 436 00:21:42,200 --> 00:21:44,879 Speaker 2: no silver lining to the murder of Rebecca Schaeffer, it 437 00:21:44,920 --> 00:21:49,160 Speaker 2: was a catalyst in getting California's first anti stalking laws passed. Also, 438 00:21:49,240 --> 00:21:51,760 Speaker 2: a few years later, my mom went on to run 439 00:21:51,840 --> 00:21:55,640 Speaker 2: a crisis center and domestic violence shelter where she helped 440 00:21:55,720 --> 00:22:00,600 Speaker 2: victims of stalkers, abusers, and human traffickers escape. It's still 441 00:22:00,600 --> 00:22:03,560 Speaker 2: infuriating that so often it takes someone being hurt or 442 00:22:03,640 --> 00:22:05,840 Speaker 2: killed to get police and lawmakers to pay attention to 443 00:22:05,840 --> 00:22:10,160 Speaker 2: the situation. So stay sexy and pass preventative legislation before 444 00:22:10,320 --> 00:22:14,000 Speaker 2: it escalates. Miriam, that's incredible. 445 00:22:14,080 --> 00:22:17,320 Speaker 3: I mean, yeah, hearing that story and how little could 446 00:22:17,359 --> 00:22:21,400 Speaker 3: have even been done had anyone known yes to protect Rebecca, 447 00:22:21,720 --> 00:22:23,440 Speaker 3: it was just so horrifying. 448 00:22:23,440 --> 00:22:25,679 Speaker 2: And I mean, also, I think that is one of 449 00:22:25,680 --> 00:22:29,280 Speaker 2: those and we talk about this, but that idea that 450 00:22:29,720 --> 00:22:32,560 Speaker 2: you're watching a person you've interpreted their life this one 451 00:22:32,600 --> 00:22:35,200 Speaker 2: way because there a TV star that's been brought into 452 00:22:35,240 --> 00:22:37,320 Speaker 2: your world, because it's like, oh, it's a TV star, 453 00:22:37,920 --> 00:22:40,399 Speaker 2: and then the ending of that person's life is so 454 00:22:41,000 --> 00:22:45,159 Speaker 2: horrific and tragic, and it's like a reality bending in 455 00:22:45,200 --> 00:22:47,040 Speaker 2: a way because it's like, oh no, wait, I just 456 00:22:47,119 --> 00:22:50,679 Speaker 2: knew her in this ideal situation, right, or as a 457 00:22:50,800 --> 00:22:54,399 Speaker 2: human being with yeah, and you think it's ideal, this 458 00:22:54,480 --> 00:22:57,320 Speaker 2: idea of fame, this idea of like this is what 459 00:22:57,520 --> 00:23:01,800 Speaker 2: she's made it to the big time horrible. It's so sad, 460 00:23:02,119 --> 00:23:05,480 Speaker 2: it really is. Okay, so we're going to get back 461 00:23:05,480 --> 00:23:09,720 Speaker 2: into the Unqualified Crossover. Here's Georgia's story about Charlie Brandt. 462 00:23:16,760 --> 00:23:17,840 Speaker 6: Georgia, what do you have for us? 463 00:23:18,160 --> 00:23:18,520 Speaker 4: Well? 464 00:23:18,680 --> 00:23:20,919 Speaker 3: I have a serial killer I've never ever heard of 465 00:23:21,760 --> 00:23:24,600 Speaker 3: in one of those like there's just some this BuzzFeed 466 00:23:24,720 --> 00:23:27,959 Speaker 3: or web some website that I found that like like 467 00:23:28,240 --> 00:23:32,440 Speaker 3: the craziest murderer in every state, and this guy was Florida, 468 00:23:32,600 --> 00:23:35,119 Speaker 3: So you know, he's fucking top notch, you know what 469 00:23:35,160 --> 00:23:35,480 Speaker 3: I mean. 470 00:23:35,720 --> 00:23:38,679 Speaker 9: I love it that we have like like Washington crazy 471 00:23:38,760 --> 00:23:39,560 Speaker 9: serial killers. 472 00:23:39,640 --> 00:23:41,359 Speaker 4: And then float like it's. 473 00:23:41,000 --> 00:23:43,000 Speaker 3: A yeah, I love it, and we're doing three shows 474 00:23:43,000 --> 00:23:44,760 Speaker 3: in Florida, and Florida was like when are you going 475 00:23:44,800 --> 00:23:47,000 Speaker 3: to come to do a live show here? And we're 476 00:23:47,040 --> 00:23:48,920 Speaker 3: like Oh, you have the best murders were coming there 477 00:23:49,000 --> 00:23:51,360 Speaker 3: for three shows, like no other state that we're doing 478 00:23:51,359 --> 00:23:56,560 Speaker 3: three shows in all right, September fifteenth, two thousand and four. 479 00:23:59,119 --> 00:24:02,600 Speaker 3: So friends of Misslle Jones, she's a pretty vivacious thirty 480 00:24:02,600 --> 00:24:06,120 Speaker 3: seven year old executive at the Golf Channel in Orlando, 481 00:24:06,760 --> 00:24:09,280 Speaker 3: were worried because they couldn't reach her, which is like 482 00:24:09,359 --> 00:24:13,840 Speaker 3: the beginning of every murder story, right. Michelle's aunt and uncle, 483 00:24:14,200 --> 00:24:18,000 Speaker 3: Charlie Brandt and Terry Helfrich, were staying with her for 484 00:24:18,040 --> 00:24:21,040 Speaker 3: a few days because they had been evacuated from their 485 00:24:21,040 --> 00:24:25,040 Speaker 3: home in a sea friend villa near Key West. There 486 00:24:25,160 --> 00:24:28,360 Speaker 3: was Hurricane Ivan was coming and they had a look 487 00:24:28,359 --> 00:24:32,160 Speaker 3: out of there. Michelle is like the niece and. 488 00:24:32,160 --> 00:24:34,040 Speaker 4: Their very ly sexy name for hurricane. 489 00:24:34,040 --> 00:24:36,840 Speaker 3: Sorry Ivan, Ivan, did you hear the thing about how 490 00:24:37,240 --> 00:24:39,639 Speaker 3: hurricane's name named after women kill more people? 491 00:24:40,000 --> 00:24:40,200 Speaker 4: Oh? 492 00:24:40,280 --> 00:24:42,440 Speaker 3: No, because they don't take them seriously. People don't take 493 00:24:42,440 --> 00:24:47,119 Speaker 3: them seriously when theyre named after women. Anyway, Da Da, 494 00:24:47,200 --> 00:24:49,480 Speaker 3: She's close with her aunt and uncle. She invited them 495 00:24:49,480 --> 00:24:54,040 Speaker 3: to stay with them. So Michelle's mother, who was Terry 496 00:24:54,240 --> 00:24:57,240 Speaker 3: the aunt's sister, called one of Michelle's friends and was like, 497 00:24:57,280 --> 00:25:01,119 Speaker 3: can you go check on her? So the friend finds 498 00:25:01,160 --> 00:25:04,280 Speaker 3: their mail overflowing newspapers from days earlier on the lawn. 499 00:25:04,480 --> 00:25:06,880 Speaker 7: No one's answering the door. When she knocks, the door's locked. 500 00:25:06,960 --> 00:25:10,320 Speaker 3: She walks around to the garage, sees lights on through 501 00:25:10,320 --> 00:25:12,479 Speaker 3: the windows. There's cars parked in the driveway, so she 502 00:25:12,480 --> 00:25:16,159 Speaker 3: calls the cops. They arrived. They entered the home and 503 00:25:16,240 --> 00:25:20,040 Speaker 3: quickly run back out and vomit in the yard, horrified 504 00:25:20,240 --> 00:25:25,359 Speaker 3: by what they had found inside. So inside, reclining on 505 00:25:25,400 --> 00:25:29,120 Speaker 3: the couch is the body of Michelle's aunt, Charlie's wife, 506 00:25:29,400 --> 00:25:32,399 Speaker 3: aunt Terry. She's been stabbed seven times in the chest, 507 00:25:32,840 --> 00:25:35,320 Speaker 3: and then her clothes had been removed, but she hadn't 508 00:25:35,320 --> 00:25:40,560 Speaker 3: been sexually assaulted. In the bedroom is Michelle's body. She'd 509 00:25:40,600 --> 00:25:44,520 Speaker 3: been stabbed only once, but then she had been disemboweled. 510 00:25:44,920 --> 00:25:47,960 Speaker 3: Her heart and organs had been removed, and she had 511 00:25:48,000 --> 00:25:52,280 Speaker 3: also been decapitated, and her head was sitting next to 512 00:25:52,320 --> 00:25:52,840 Speaker 3: her body. 513 00:25:52,840 --> 00:25:55,639 Speaker 4: She didn't lead with that part. There's a lot. This 514 00:25:55,760 --> 00:25:57,680 Speaker 4: is like talking us through the house. We're going, room, 515 00:25:57,760 --> 00:25:58,040 Speaker 4: We're going. 516 00:25:58,680 --> 00:26:01,440 Speaker 3: Karen was like, should we warned people about the murders first? 517 00:26:01,480 --> 00:26:04,600 Speaker 3: And I was like, don't remind's way fucking worse, so 518 00:26:04,720 --> 00:26:06,119 Speaker 3: we should warn this. 519 00:26:07,840 --> 00:26:09,320 Speaker 7: So her head's next to her body. 520 00:26:09,400 --> 00:26:11,200 Speaker 3: The weapons that have been used in the crime were 521 00:26:11,240 --> 00:26:14,879 Speaker 3: the knives from her own kitchen. Then in the garage, 522 00:26:15,760 --> 00:26:19,120 Speaker 3: Uncle Charlie we find in a state of decomposition because 523 00:26:19,160 --> 00:26:23,439 Speaker 3: of the heat. Uncle Charlie's body is hanging from his 524 00:26:23,600 --> 00:26:27,760 Speaker 3: neck by a sheet from the rafters. He's dead. And 525 00:26:27,800 --> 00:26:31,400 Speaker 3: then the investigators determined that it was a suicide. So 526 00:26:31,680 --> 00:26:36,160 Speaker 3: there's no like it, right, I mean, there's no suicide note, 527 00:26:36,440 --> 00:26:38,600 Speaker 3: and there's no way of knowing exactly what happened. But 528 00:26:38,720 --> 00:26:40,480 Speaker 3: because of the lack of a break in or any 529 00:26:40,480 --> 00:26:44,159 Speaker 3: other explanation, they conclude that Charlie was the murderer and 530 00:26:44,200 --> 00:26:47,360 Speaker 3: it had been a murder suicide. So Uncle Charlie, I'm 531 00:26:47,359 --> 00:26:49,480 Speaker 3: gonna call him that because it's easier to remember him. 532 00:26:49,880 --> 00:26:53,880 Speaker 3: He's described by all as a mild mannered, loving husband, 533 00:26:54,119 --> 00:26:57,639 Speaker 3: all around good guy. They aren't they always called that, 534 00:26:58,840 --> 00:27:00,160 Speaker 3: but he was known as being a bit of an 535 00:27:00,200 --> 00:27:03,880 Speaker 3: oddball and eccentric. But by all accounts, including Aunt Terry's 536 00:27:03,880 --> 00:27:07,159 Speaker 3: best friend, Charlie loved her very deeply and the couple 537 00:27:07,280 --> 00:27:10,800 Speaker 3: was inseparable. No one ever detected any problems or saw 538 00:27:10,840 --> 00:27:13,920 Speaker 3: a fight in the relationship or anyone's temper. In fact, 539 00:27:14,080 --> 00:27:17,040 Speaker 3: here's something annoying. They would make each other's lunches every 540 00:27:17,040 --> 00:27:19,760 Speaker 3: morning because they said that lunch made by food made 541 00:27:19,760 --> 00:27:21,760 Speaker 3: by someone you love, tastes better than when you make 542 00:27:21,800 --> 00:27:24,679 Speaker 3: it yourself. Which can you imagine that couple? And you're like, 543 00:27:24,680 --> 00:27:26,280 Speaker 3: can you guys shut the fuck up and just like 544 00:27:26,800 --> 00:27:27,560 Speaker 3: eat your lunch. 545 00:27:27,800 --> 00:27:30,159 Speaker 9: It sounds like like a great way to make some 546 00:27:30,560 --> 00:27:31,840 Speaker 9: like make your food for you. 547 00:27:32,040 --> 00:27:34,000 Speaker 4: Yeah, exactly right. 548 00:27:34,280 --> 00:27:35,880 Speaker 7: I want a peanut butter and jelly, but I love 549 00:27:35,920 --> 00:27:36,600 Speaker 7: the way it's tasting. 550 00:27:36,640 --> 00:27:39,160 Speaker 3: You is so much better when you do it all 551 00:27:39,200 --> 00:27:44,320 Speaker 3: the chores when you wouldn't freeze my chicken nuggets. When 552 00:27:44,359 --> 00:27:47,160 Speaker 3: the investigators began to look into the murder suicide, Uncle 553 00:27:47,240 --> 00:27:50,399 Speaker 3: Charlie's older sister Angela is like, hold up, I gotta 554 00:27:50,400 --> 00:27:53,919 Speaker 3: tell you guys something. This has been a secret family 555 00:27:53,960 --> 00:27:57,600 Speaker 3: secret for thirty years. Here we go yep. Nineteen seventy one. 556 00:27:57,800 --> 00:28:01,600 Speaker 3: Uncle Charlie is just thirteen. His father had recently killed 557 00:28:01,640 --> 00:28:06,000 Speaker 3: his dog during a hunting trip with Charlie. The dad 558 00:28:06,040 --> 00:28:08,480 Speaker 3: says he did it on accident, but he had shot 559 00:28:08,480 --> 00:28:14,879 Speaker 3: the Dog twice and also uncle. Charlie has some difficulty 560 00:28:14,920 --> 00:28:18,280 Speaker 3: with school assignments, struggling to maintain his grades, but he 561 00:28:18,440 --> 00:28:21,439 Speaker 3: was reportedly a really bright kid. So in the evening 562 00:28:21,680 --> 00:28:24,600 Speaker 3: of January third, nineteen seventy one, while his dad so 563 00:28:24,680 --> 00:28:27,120 Speaker 3: his dad's in the bathroom shaving, his mother, who's eight 564 00:28:27,160 --> 00:28:30,640 Speaker 3: months pregnant, is soaking in the bathtub, Charlie gets up 565 00:28:30,760 --> 00:28:34,440 Speaker 3: from his homework, randomly grabs a nine millimeter handgun from 566 00:28:34,480 --> 00:28:38,400 Speaker 3: his father's nightstand, goes into the bathroom and shoots his 567 00:28:38,440 --> 00:28:41,360 Speaker 3: father in the back. Then he walks to his mother, 568 00:28:41,480 --> 00:28:45,920 Speaker 3: who's in the bathtub. She says no, Charlie, no, but 569 00:28:46,000 --> 00:28:50,120 Speaker 3: he fires at her until there's no more bullets left. 570 00:28:50,720 --> 00:28:52,520 Speaker 3: This is really fucked up. I should have started with that. 571 00:28:52,720 --> 00:28:54,040 Speaker 3: I'm sorry that this. 572 00:28:55,200 --> 00:28:59,680 Speaker 4: That's it for everything else that's up, more or less 573 00:28:59,680 --> 00:29:00,160 Speaker 4: fucked up. 574 00:29:00,200 --> 00:29:02,200 Speaker 6: In most of your murders that you do on your shows. 575 00:29:01,960 --> 00:29:03,760 Speaker 4: It's exactly the same. Yeah, it's pretty right. 576 00:29:04,120 --> 00:29:06,880 Speaker 7: Yeah. 577 00:29:07,160 --> 00:29:10,200 Speaker 3: Next, he goes to his fifteen year old sister, Angela's room. 578 00:29:10,200 --> 00:29:13,360 Speaker 3: Angela is the one telling the cops about this case. 579 00:29:13,600 --> 00:29:15,239 Speaker 3: He goes to her room, points the gun at her, 580 00:29:15,240 --> 00:29:17,320 Speaker 3: and tries to fire he didn't even know that the 581 00:29:17,840 --> 00:29:19,760 Speaker 3: gun was empty, and she said that he looked like 582 00:29:19,800 --> 00:29:21,360 Speaker 3: he was in a trance, so he might not even 583 00:29:21,360 --> 00:29:23,840 Speaker 3: have been aware this was like going on and his 584 00:29:23,840 --> 00:29:26,840 Speaker 3: gun was empty. They start to wrestle. Angela tries to 585 00:29:26,840 --> 00:29:28,600 Speaker 3: talk Charlie down. She tells him that she loves him 586 00:29:28,640 --> 00:29:31,000 Speaker 3: and we're run away with him, but as soon as 587 00:29:31,040 --> 00:29:33,520 Speaker 3: she gets a chance, she runs to a neighbor's house, 588 00:29:33,560 --> 00:29:38,040 Speaker 3: screaming for help. Charlie's mom dies, but his father survives, 589 00:29:38,480 --> 00:29:40,640 Speaker 3: and from the hospital bed, says he has no idea 590 00:29:40,760 --> 00:29:44,400 Speaker 3: why his son would ever commit such an act. When 591 00:29:44,480 --> 00:29:47,680 Speaker 3: Charlie's evaluated by psychologists, they see no signs of a 592 00:29:47,720 --> 00:29:50,600 Speaker 3: diagnosable mental illness. They can't pinpoint a motive for the 593 00:29:50,600 --> 00:29:53,080 Speaker 3: shooting at all. By all accounts, He's like, I loved 594 00:29:53,080 --> 00:29:54,600 Speaker 3: my family. I have no idea why they did this. 595 00:29:54,760 --> 00:29:58,200 Speaker 3: So they they said they were going to prosecute They 596 00:29:58,240 --> 00:30:01,080 Speaker 3: weren't going to prosecute him because of that and his age, 597 00:30:02,480 --> 00:30:04,440 Speaker 3: because he's not responsible for his actions. 598 00:30:04,440 --> 00:30:06,760 Speaker 7: But instead they send him to a psychiatric clinic. 599 00:30:07,560 --> 00:30:10,440 Speaker 3: His father visits him very often, and after a year, 600 00:30:10,480 --> 00:30:14,600 Speaker 3: his dad is able to have him released to his custody, 601 00:30:14,800 --> 00:30:17,360 Speaker 3: and the whole family moves to Florida to get away 602 00:30:17,360 --> 00:30:21,720 Speaker 3: from the town's scrutiny, and the murder of his mother 603 00:30:21,800 --> 00:30:23,680 Speaker 3: is not spoken of again, to the point where his 604 00:30:23,840 --> 00:30:26,200 Speaker 3: two younger sisters, who were super young when the bomb 605 00:30:26,280 --> 00:30:29,120 Speaker 3: was murdered, didn't even know about it. They thought their 606 00:30:29,160 --> 00:30:33,440 Speaker 3: mom had died in a car accident until the murder suicide, 607 00:30:33,520 --> 00:30:35,880 Speaker 3: when Angela told the cops they didn't know a thing. 608 00:30:38,080 --> 00:30:41,400 Speaker 3: Charlie gets excellent grades in school. He becomes a radar 609 00:30:41,760 --> 00:30:45,720 Speaker 3: technician engineer. He finds the note from the BTK killer 610 00:30:45,840 --> 00:30:46,880 Speaker 3: in the library. 611 00:30:47,280 --> 00:30:52,160 Speaker 8: That's right, that was his favorite book, referencing the old episode. 612 00:30:52,240 --> 00:30:56,480 Speaker 3: Oh Shit, I forgot that It's A week later, Angela, 613 00:30:56,520 --> 00:30:59,120 Speaker 3: his sister, marries a dude named Jim, finds out about 614 00:30:59,440 --> 00:31:02,680 Speaker 3: the brother Charlie murdering their mom, still becomes good friends 615 00:31:02,680 --> 00:31:07,000 Speaker 3: with him. So once Jim, his brother in law, and 616 00:31:07,000 --> 00:31:09,880 Speaker 3: Angela are getting a divorce, on the topic of revenge, 617 00:31:10,240 --> 00:31:13,200 Speaker 3: Uncle Charlie says, well, you know, the perfect revenge is 618 00:31:13,920 --> 00:31:16,600 Speaker 3: you kill someone and you cut their heart out and 619 00:31:16,640 --> 00:31:17,400 Speaker 3: then you eat it. 620 00:31:17,680 --> 00:31:18,880 Speaker 7: That's the perfect revenge. 621 00:31:19,200 --> 00:31:20,160 Speaker 4: Oo okah. 622 00:31:21,280 --> 00:31:24,600 Speaker 3: But Jim, despite that, sets Charlie uncle Charlie up with 623 00:31:25,040 --> 00:31:27,760 Speaker 3: a friend of his new girlfriend. This friend is aunt Terry. 624 00:31:27,840 --> 00:31:30,280 Speaker 3: After six months, they get married. Can you imagine setting 625 00:31:30,320 --> 00:31:34,120 Speaker 3: her fucking friend up with someone who said that No, no, 626 00:31:35,160 --> 00:31:41,760 Speaker 3: that's the correct answer. No, fucking tally not. Let's see, 627 00:31:42,320 --> 00:31:45,160 Speaker 3: then we don't know if Terry knew or not about 628 00:31:45,160 --> 00:31:49,520 Speaker 3: the murder of the mother. And okay, so let's go 629 00:31:49,560 --> 00:31:52,600 Speaker 3: back to two thousand and four. Post murder suicide, the 630 00:31:52,640 --> 00:31:55,280 Speaker 3: police find out about the fucked up stuff from Charlie's pass. 631 00:31:55,360 --> 00:31:58,000 Speaker 3: They begin to take a closer look at the murders 632 00:31:58,000 --> 00:31:59,160 Speaker 3: of his wife and niece. 633 00:31:59,240 --> 00:32:01,800 Speaker 8: So can I really quick ask a question always I 634 00:32:01,920 --> 00:32:02,960 Speaker 8: just don't understand. 635 00:32:03,720 --> 00:32:05,800 Speaker 4: As a kid, he kills his own mother, h. 636 00:32:05,800 --> 00:32:08,920 Speaker 8: Huh, tries to kill his father and his sister and 637 00:32:08,920 --> 00:32:12,960 Speaker 8: his sister, but the sister lives. Yeah, so then he 638 00:32:13,040 --> 00:32:16,440 Speaker 8: just goes to a psychiatric hospital for a little while. 639 00:32:16,960 --> 00:32:19,840 Speaker 4: And then they're just like business as usual, yeah. 640 00:32:19,480 --> 00:32:22,440 Speaker 3: Less than business as usual, like hiding stuff. And the 641 00:32:22,560 --> 00:32:26,880 Speaker 3: dad is like, the way that this is speculation that 642 00:32:26,920 --> 00:32:29,360 Speaker 3: could get me sued. Can I do this? Of course 643 00:32:29,440 --> 00:32:30,360 Speaker 3: if I preemptively. 644 00:32:30,400 --> 00:32:31,440 Speaker 6: We have a lawyer in the room. 645 00:32:32,640 --> 00:32:33,240 Speaker 4: He must have. 646 00:32:33,280 --> 00:32:35,280 Speaker 3: Been some shit, must have been going on in that 647 00:32:35,280 --> 00:32:38,200 Speaker 3: household that his dad was like, nope, I want my 648 00:32:38,280 --> 00:32:40,320 Speaker 3: kid out of there. Everything's fine, you know what I mean? 649 00:32:40,920 --> 00:32:42,720 Speaker 3: Wink wink, nudge nudge. Molestation. 650 00:32:44,040 --> 00:32:46,080 Speaker 8: So you think the dog thing was almost just like 651 00:32:46,120 --> 00:32:47,960 Speaker 8: the straw that broke the camel's back, but really he 652 00:32:48,000 --> 00:32:51,240 Speaker 8: was being molested. Yeah, and that's why the father wouldn't 653 00:32:51,240 --> 00:32:52,800 Speaker 8: turn him in because that all would come out. 654 00:32:53,000 --> 00:32:53,240 Speaker 5: Yeah. 655 00:32:53,280 --> 00:32:56,360 Speaker 3: And then we have that thing about like if someone's 656 00:32:56,400 --> 00:32:59,760 Speaker 3: molesting if you know, like killing the mother as well 657 00:33:00,080 --> 00:33:03,400 Speaker 3: is always like a really weird thing because if you 658 00:33:03,440 --> 00:33:05,320 Speaker 3: have an issue with your dad, why would you you know, 659 00:33:05,400 --> 00:33:09,040 Speaker 3: the mother would never step in that kind of thing. Speculation, 660 00:33:09,720 --> 00:33:10,200 Speaker 3: your honor? 661 00:33:10,880 --> 00:33:11,520 Speaker 6: Do you know what I mean? 662 00:33:11,800 --> 00:33:19,400 Speaker 3: M hm, Okay, please approach the bench, all right, Okay, 663 00:33:19,480 --> 00:33:22,760 Speaker 3: So they begin to take a closer look. They note 664 00:33:22,760 --> 00:33:26,880 Speaker 3: that the amputations inflicted on Michelle Denise were not amateur, 665 00:33:26,920 --> 00:33:29,360 Speaker 3: but were accomplished with skill and experience. 666 00:33:30,080 --> 00:33:31,240 Speaker 4: They searched the couple's house. 667 00:33:31,280 --> 00:33:35,000 Speaker 3: The couple's house is still boarded up from the hurricane, 668 00:33:35,440 --> 00:33:38,080 Speaker 3: and they find a bunch of fucked up stuff. They 669 00:33:38,080 --> 00:33:42,320 Speaker 3: find the bedroom door. So bedroom doors open. I never 670 00:33:42,360 --> 00:33:44,440 Speaker 3: closed my bedroom door when they open it on the 671 00:33:44,480 --> 00:33:47,240 Speaker 3: back of the bedroom door is a really creepy illustration 672 00:33:47,760 --> 00:33:51,560 Speaker 3: poster of the female muscular and skeletal system and she 673 00:33:51,600 --> 00:33:53,200 Speaker 3: has like a bun on her head and it's like 674 00:33:53,240 --> 00:33:55,440 Speaker 3: a cartoon drawing. It's like so creepy. It's not just 675 00:33:55,480 --> 00:33:58,800 Speaker 3: a skeleton. It's like a female skeleton with a face. 676 00:34:00,080 --> 00:34:03,200 Speaker 8: So it's like one of those weird. 677 00:34:03,080 --> 00:34:06,080 Speaker 7: You know that manity like a pop up book. 678 00:34:05,960 --> 00:34:07,520 Speaker 4: Kind of thing. Well, no, I was thinking of. 679 00:34:07,600 --> 00:34:10,000 Speaker 8: There was actually an art installation of a guy who 680 00:34:10,160 --> 00:34:11,799 Speaker 8: just like remember the thing, and I was just like, 681 00:34:11,880 --> 00:34:15,040 Speaker 8: that person is a serial killer that made this who 682 00:34:15,080 --> 00:34:18,839 Speaker 8: would want to go and like show what people look 683 00:34:18,920 --> 00:34:19,840 Speaker 8: like with no skin. 684 00:34:19,760 --> 00:34:21,799 Speaker 7: Like embalming someone and then putting it. 685 00:34:21,840 --> 00:34:23,440 Speaker 4: Up his art but really just skinning them. 686 00:34:23,440 --> 00:34:26,880 Speaker 3: Anyway, I got nauseous at that art installation quote unquote 687 00:34:26,880 --> 00:34:29,160 Speaker 3: and had believe it was so disturbing. 688 00:34:28,960 --> 00:34:32,239 Speaker 8: That one of like the human bodies. 689 00:34:32,440 --> 00:34:35,520 Speaker 9: Yeah, I saw it in New York And I don't 690 00:34:35,520 --> 00:34:38,520 Speaker 9: have too many regrets in life. I mean I should, 691 00:34:38,640 --> 00:34:43,680 Speaker 9: I should, but that one is one of my regrets. 692 00:34:44,239 --> 00:34:46,960 Speaker 3: Yeah, considering how much I can read and watch and 693 00:34:47,000 --> 00:34:48,879 Speaker 3: look at I look at crime scene photos and shit 694 00:34:49,080 --> 00:34:51,560 Speaker 3: like that was really fucking I. 695 00:34:51,600 --> 00:34:54,719 Speaker 4: Still had like hair well, and there was all this. 696 00:34:54,840 --> 00:34:58,200 Speaker 9: Like these ethical issues of how the bodies were were they? 697 00:34:58,360 --> 00:35:01,600 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, and apparently there was and I would do it. 698 00:35:01,719 --> 00:35:03,160 Speaker 3: And who would go to it? Like we don't need 699 00:35:03,200 --> 00:35:07,600 Speaker 3: to know that? Well, apparently Charlie did so. And also 700 00:35:07,640 --> 00:35:11,200 Speaker 3: despite not being in the medical profession, of course, there 701 00:35:11,200 --> 00:35:15,080 Speaker 3: were books on human anatomy and a bookshelf, and one 702 00:35:15,120 --> 00:35:17,960 Speaker 3: of them contained a newspaper clipping of a labeled illustration 703 00:35:18,120 --> 00:35:19,040 Speaker 3: of the human heart. 704 00:35:19,800 --> 00:35:21,880 Speaker 7: He also subscribed Here's What's. 705 00:35:21,760 --> 00:35:24,680 Speaker 3: Fucking Creepy to Victoria's Secret magazine, and it was like 706 00:35:24,960 --> 00:35:25,680 Speaker 3: her catalog. 707 00:35:25,719 --> 00:35:26,640 Speaker 7: It was like in his name. 708 00:35:26,680 --> 00:35:27,760 Speaker 4: It was to his wife. 709 00:35:28,239 --> 00:35:31,080 Speaker 3: And his nickname for his niece Michelle, who he killed, 710 00:35:31,640 --> 00:35:35,520 Speaker 3: was Victoria's Secret he called her, which is like, don't. 711 00:35:35,360 --> 00:35:38,680 Speaker 4: It's not a nickname. It does it's not shorter. 712 00:35:40,520 --> 00:35:40,719 Speaker 8: Name. 713 00:35:41,440 --> 00:35:42,680 Speaker 4: No, it's not even close. 714 00:35:43,840 --> 00:35:45,200 Speaker 7: They checked out his computer. 715 00:35:45,280 --> 00:35:49,799 Speaker 3: There was a bunch of erotica websites related to sacrifice, violence, necrophilia, 716 00:35:49,920 --> 00:35:55,920 Speaker 3: containing photos of torture, rape, and violent deaths, depicting female autopsies. 717 00:35:55,960 --> 00:36:00,680 Speaker 3: They're all staged. Don't worry, uh, living models to look dead. 718 00:36:01,040 --> 00:36:04,120 Speaker 3: And they came to the conclusion that Charlie was obsessed 719 00:36:04,160 --> 00:36:07,919 Speaker 3: with his niece Michelle, had a premeditate and had premeditated 720 00:36:07,960 --> 00:36:10,320 Speaker 3: the murders, and that he was also obsessed. 721 00:36:09,880 --> 00:36:12,040 Speaker 7: With human anatomy, especially a female humanity. 722 00:36:12,280 --> 00:36:14,480 Speaker 3: Due to what they found in his house, as well 723 00:36:14,520 --> 00:36:16,839 Speaker 3: as the observation that the murder of his wife's wife 724 00:36:16,880 --> 00:36:19,200 Speaker 3: and niece seemed to be the work of a skilled 725 00:36:19,239 --> 00:36:23,200 Speaker 3: and practice killer, police began to look at previously unsolved 726 00:36:23,200 --> 00:36:25,960 Speaker 3: cold cases in the area and also in the areas 727 00:36:25,960 --> 00:36:28,239 Speaker 3: where he would travel for work, which he did a lot, 728 00:36:28,280 --> 00:36:32,440 Speaker 3: because I guess engineers travel for work a lot. 729 00:36:32,880 --> 00:36:34,319 Speaker 4: They train engineers. 730 00:36:35,520 --> 00:36:38,719 Speaker 7: Come on, toot, what's the you know. 731 00:36:40,120 --> 00:36:45,919 Speaker 3: They sent out a description of the mo disinboweled, decapitated, 732 00:36:46,000 --> 00:36:48,719 Speaker 3: clean cut, surgical precision, and they quickly got a ton 733 00:36:48,760 --> 00:36:52,239 Speaker 3: of hits from other police stations. So his ties to 734 00:36:52,719 --> 00:36:57,439 Speaker 3: an additional murder were uncovered by not investigators, but by 735 00:36:57,840 --> 00:37:03,160 Speaker 3: the producers of the show for eight Hours, which is like, fuck, yeah, 736 00:37:03,200 --> 00:37:06,600 Speaker 3: there's a really good episode of this on forty eight hours. 737 00:37:06,719 --> 00:37:09,960 Speaker 3: They passed along the information of the authorities. So in 738 00:37:10,040 --> 00:37:13,600 Speaker 3: July nineteen eighty nine off Big Pine Key, Florida, two 739 00:37:13,600 --> 00:37:17,120 Speaker 3: fishermen found the body of Sherry Parisio. 740 00:37:17,320 --> 00:37:18,000 Speaker 4: She was thirty eight. 741 00:37:18,080 --> 00:37:20,399 Speaker 3: She lived in a small boat and had been seen 742 00:37:20,480 --> 00:37:23,040 Speaker 3: riding her bike earlier that day. She'd been in the 743 00:37:23,080 --> 00:37:26,240 Speaker 3: water dead no longer than twelve hours, and the site 744 00:37:26,640 --> 00:37:29,400 Speaker 3: her body was found at was one thousand feet away 745 00:37:29,560 --> 00:37:34,040 Speaker 3: from Charlie Brandt's big pine key house one thousand feet away. 746 00:37:34,400 --> 00:37:37,000 Speaker 3: Her head had been severed and her heart had been removed, 747 00:37:38,400 --> 00:37:42,040 Speaker 3: and Charlie resembled the sketch of a man seen crossing 748 00:37:42,160 --> 00:37:47,160 Speaker 3: the US one near the near by on the night 749 00:37:47,200 --> 00:37:50,600 Speaker 3: of the murder. And Jim, the fucking dude who set 750 00:37:50,640 --> 00:37:54,520 Speaker 3: them up? Who had who had set them up? Said 751 00:37:54,600 --> 00:37:57,400 Speaker 3: Terry told him that Charlie came home that night wet 752 00:37:57,440 --> 00:38:00,760 Speaker 3: and covered with blood around the time she was killed, 753 00:38:00,760 --> 00:38:02,560 Speaker 3: and she was like, what the fuck? And he was like, 754 00:38:02,800 --> 00:38:05,680 Speaker 3: I was fishing and I killed some fish, and then 755 00:38:05,719 --> 00:38:08,600 Speaker 3: I know, I've ember nineteen ninety five along the Miami 756 00:38:08,680 --> 00:38:11,520 Speaker 3: Dade County Highway that Charlie would have had to use 757 00:38:11,520 --> 00:38:14,080 Speaker 3: to get in and out of the keys. The mutilated 758 00:38:14,080 --> 00:38:18,080 Speaker 3: body of Darlene Toller. She was thirty five. She was 759 00:38:18,120 --> 00:38:20,839 Speaker 3: discovered in a plastic bag, and her head and heart 760 00:38:20,880 --> 00:38:25,120 Speaker 3: were missing, as well, so since then, twenty six murders 761 00:38:25,160 --> 00:38:30,120 Speaker 3: going back as far what as nineteen seventy three, which 762 00:38:30,160 --> 00:38:32,880 Speaker 3: is when his dad checked him out of the insane 763 00:38:32,920 --> 00:38:34,840 Speaker 3: asylum and took him to Florida, so that means he 764 00:38:34,920 --> 00:38:40,040 Speaker 3: was fifteen years old. They have had possible links to Charlie, 765 00:38:40,239 --> 00:38:46,120 Speaker 3: but six murders have been positively identified and ascribed to Charlie. 766 00:38:46,560 --> 00:38:48,960 Speaker 3: So Charlie Rant the fucking serial killer that I had 767 00:38:49,000 --> 00:38:51,879 Speaker 3: never heard of a possibility of twenty six murders going 768 00:38:51,920 --> 00:38:54,239 Speaker 3: back from when he was fifteen years old, two years 769 00:38:54,280 --> 00:38:55,960 Speaker 3: after he killed his fucking pregnant mother. 770 00:38:57,320 --> 00:38:57,719 Speaker 6: That's it. 771 00:38:58,160 --> 00:39:03,480 Speaker 4: The Head in the Heart huh a fuck they named 772 00:39:03,520 --> 00:39:04,080 Speaker 4: that band. 773 00:39:04,520 --> 00:39:07,360 Speaker 7: Yeah, I know, the Heart and the Hunter. Oh no, 774 00:39:07,440 --> 00:39:08,400 Speaker 7: there's an actual. 775 00:39:09,640 --> 00:39:13,439 Speaker 4: Well I've never heard of that guy. Oh right, yeah, 776 00:39:13,480 --> 00:39:15,200 Speaker 4: that's crazy. Yeah. 777 00:39:14,880 --> 00:39:17,799 Speaker 3: Oh and he was like, he looks so much like 778 00:39:17,880 --> 00:39:20,520 Speaker 3: my cousin. Creeps me out, Like my cousin could play 779 00:39:20,560 --> 00:39:21,400 Speaker 3: him in a movie. 780 00:39:21,640 --> 00:39:23,920 Speaker 8: I also feel like that lesson of like if somebody 781 00:39:23,960 --> 00:39:26,160 Speaker 8: just shoot gets up as a thirteen year old and 782 00:39:26,200 --> 00:39:29,279 Speaker 8: shoots a bunch of people in their family, you can 783 00:39:29,320 --> 00:39:31,040 Speaker 8: pretty much assume that's not going to end there. 784 00:39:31,280 --> 00:39:33,920 Speaker 3: No, And I think the psych psychologists were like, this 785 00:39:34,080 --> 00:39:36,560 Speaker 3: is gonna happen again, but his dad was like nope, 786 00:39:36,640 --> 00:39:38,440 Speaker 3: taking him into custody. Wow. 787 00:39:38,640 --> 00:39:40,480 Speaker 4: Yeah, it's crazy, man. 788 00:39:40,880 --> 00:39:43,480 Speaker 3: And how could there not be one little thing that 789 00:39:43,560 --> 00:39:48,520 Speaker 3: the psychologists found that were like, well, here's like everything's fine. Nope, 790 00:39:48,560 --> 00:39:51,120 Speaker 3: he just killed his parents once, but everything else is fine. 791 00:39:51,719 --> 00:39:53,759 Speaker 4: That's impossible, I do. 792 00:39:54,080 --> 00:39:58,360 Speaker 9: Yeah, it does feel like I think maybe now I 793 00:39:58,600 --> 00:40:01,279 Speaker 9: like to think that there's like people are much more 794 00:40:01,320 --> 00:40:02,680 Speaker 9: aware of warning signs. 795 00:40:02,960 --> 00:40:04,920 Speaker 4: But it's disturbing that even. 796 00:40:04,840 --> 00:40:08,040 Speaker 9: As recently as back in the nineties, like the warning 797 00:40:08,080 --> 00:40:10,760 Speaker 9: signs are like, well, well, you know, people get better. 798 00:40:10,960 --> 00:40:13,040 Speaker 9: I suppose, yeah, let's. 799 00:40:12,840 --> 00:40:15,279 Speaker 4: Have a positive attitude about this guy. 800 00:40:15,040 --> 00:40:16,960 Speaker 7: Apartment and he'll be fine. 801 00:40:17,160 --> 00:40:17,440 Speaker 4: Great. 802 00:40:17,600 --> 00:40:23,560 Speaker 9: Yeah, yeah, crazy, Well, thank you for your really latest 803 00:40:23,800 --> 00:40:25,600 Speaker 9: favorite murdered. 804 00:40:25,840 --> 00:40:28,680 Speaker 6: There's no real way to transition to a call from. 805 00:40:28,480 --> 00:40:32,280 Speaker 8: This, believe me. How do our shows are so different? 806 00:40:32,320 --> 00:40:42,920 Speaker 8: Our signs cimataurus stop? Okay, I'm as sad, oh I am. 807 00:40:43,280 --> 00:40:45,879 Speaker 8: I have no idea what the fox says, nor do. 808 00:40:45,840 --> 00:40:47,640 Speaker 4: I want don't either have no idea. 809 00:40:47,640 --> 00:40:49,120 Speaker 6: You know I'm a Gemini, are you? 810 00:40:49,360 --> 00:40:49,520 Speaker 8: Oh? 811 00:40:49,520 --> 00:40:53,279 Speaker 3: We're so much fun because we're fucking bata i saw. 812 00:40:53,400 --> 00:40:54,319 Speaker 4: I actually saw a thing. 813 00:40:54,400 --> 00:40:57,120 Speaker 8: I had a list of like the most well known 814 00:40:57,160 --> 00:40:59,759 Speaker 8: serial killers, and most of them are Geminis. 815 00:41:00,360 --> 00:41:02,280 Speaker 4: Thank you, it's Gemini or Virgo. 816 00:41:02,760 --> 00:41:03,680 Speaker 7: We'rego. 817 00:41:03,960 --> 00:41:05,040 Speaker 4: Yeah, amazing. 818 00:41:05,160 --> 00:41:09,040 Speaker 3: Gemini man are specifically or particularly crazy. Gemini girls are 819 00:41:09,080 --> 00:41:10,280 Speaker 3: just fun drunks. 820 00:41:10,719 --> 00:41:14,839 Speaker 4: No, I love you all right, Well, because I'm the one. 821 00:41:14,880 --> 00:41:18,200 Speaker 4: Someone says that to you. It's because you're crazy, right person. 822 00:41:22,880 --> 00:41:24,720 Speaker 2: Okay, we're back. Do you have any updates? 823 00:41:24,760 --> 00:41:26,840 Speaker 3: I don't have case updates, but I also have a 824 00:41:26,880 --> 00:41:31,080 Speaker 3: hometown regarding the story, So here we go. Greetings, pleasantries, 825 00:41:31,120 --> 00:41:33,680 Speaker 3: and niceties. I grew up hearing lots of stories from 826 00:41:33,680 --> 00:41:36,520 Speaker 3: my father and uncle about their adventures of misspent youth, 827 00:41:36,600 --> 00:41:40,240 Speaker 3: growing up on military bases, stealing cars, catching venomous snakes 828 00:41:40,239 --> 00:41:43,760 Speaker 3: with their bare hands, sneaking into bars underage, and hustling 829 00:41:43,800 --> 00:41:46,920 Speaker 3: bikers at pool. But I was still wholly unprepared for 830 00:41:47,000 --> 00:41:49,080 Speaker 3: a casual text for my mom a few weeks ago 831 00:41:49,080 --> 00:41:51,839 Speaker 3: that sound out, your uncle, Kevin's old roommate was a 832 00:41:51,880 --> 00:41:55,799 Speaker 3: serial killer. Obviously, this was not an appropriate conversation to 833 00:41:55,800 --> 00:41:57,360 Speaker 3: have the a text, so over the course of the 834 00:41:57,400 --> 00:42:00,239 Speaker 3: subsequent phone call, my mom told me how my uncle 835 00:42:00,280 --> 00:42:03,040 Speaker 3: had been watching twenty twenty when he heard a familiar name, 836 00:42:03,320 --> 00:42:05,200 Speaker 3: the name of a man he had been close friends 837 00:42:05,200 --> 00:42:09,080 Speaker 3: with while working together as radar technicians in the Bahamas 838 00:42:09,520 --> 00:42:12,399 Speaker 3: and then later became roommates with when they moved back 839 00:42:12,400 --> 00:42:17,359 Speaker 3: to Central Florida. His old buddy, Charlie motherfucking Brandt. Yep, 840 00:42:17,400 --> 00:42:20,120 Speaker 3: the Charlie Brant who's insane story Georgia covered in episode 841 00:42:20,200 --> 00:42:23,080 Speaker 3: eighty three. The Charlie Brant who seemed like a totally 842 00:42:23,160 --> 00:42:27,480 Speaker 3: normal guy in an incredibly loving marriage, annoyingly so until 843 00:42:27,520 --> 00:42:31,240 Speaker 3: the day he brutally murdered his wife Terry and niece Michelle, 844 00:42:31,280 --> 00:42:32,040 Speaker 3: and then hung. 845 00:42:31,920 --> 00:42:33,600 Speaker 1: Himself in the garage. 846 00:42:33,719 --> 00:42:35,680 Speaker 3: My uncle said what everyone who spent time in close 847 00:42:35,680 --> 00:42:39,200 Speaker 3: proximity to a serial killer says. That he seemed totally normal, 848 00:42:39,480 --> 00:42:42,080 Speaker 3: save for the one instance. He told my uncle that 849 00:42:42,200 --> 00:42:44,359 Speaker 3: the best way to get revenge on someone was to 850 00:42:44,440 --> 00:42:47,759 Speaker 3: cut out and eat their heart. This was apparently a 851 00:42:47,800 --> 00:42:50,160 Speaker 3: belief he told to a handful of people. None of 852 00:42:50,160 --> 00:42:52,160 Speaker 3: them clocked it as terribly abnormal. 853 00:42:52,560 --> 00:42:53,319 Speaker 1: You had to think it was. 854 00:42:53,280 --> 00:42:56,920 Speaker 2: A joke, right, I mean, it's so extreme and insane. 855 00:42:57,080 --> 00:42:59,400 Speaker 3: How do you respond to that. He had no idea 856 00:42:59,400 --> 00:43:02,080 Speaker 3: what Charlie was capable of what he had already done. 857 00:43:02,280 --> 00:43:04,520 Speaker 3: All that's right because he knew him when he'd already 858 00:43:04,560 --> 00:43:05,360 Speaker 3: done those things. 859 00:43:05,239 --> 00:43:07,960 Speaker 2: Yes, and was like, this is a completely normal person. 860 00:43:08,000 --> 00:43:11,320 Speaker 2: That's the scary to me. That's the scariest, one hundred percent. 861 00:43:11,760 --> 00:43:13,600 Speaker 3: My dad and uncle are very close, and early on 862 00:43:13,680 --> 00:43:15,920 Speaker 3: in my parents' relationship, they would all hang out together. 863 00:43:16,520 --> 00:43:18,759 Speaker 3: My mom said the same thing as my uncle. He 864 00:43:18,880 --> 00:43:21,560 Speaker 3: was charming and handsome and sweet, and she had no 865 00:43:21,640 --> 00:43:24,520 Speaker 3: idea what kind of monster he truly was. When he 866 00:43:24,600 --> 00:43:27,000 Speaker 3: left for South Florida, they all lost touch and didn't 867 00:43:27,000 --> 00:43:29,480 Speaker 3: think much of him again until that episode of twenty twenty. 868 00:43:29,760 --> 00:43:32,000 Speaker 3: My uncle said he didn't sleep for a month when 869 00:43:32,040 --> 00:43:35,440 Speaker 3: he heard the details, and I can't blame him. Stay sexy, 870 00:43:35,600 --> 00:43:38,240 Speaker 3: don't drink and drive, and don't shack up with serial killers. 871 00:43:38,560 --> 00:43:39,000 Speaker 1: Katie. 872 00:43:39,080 --> 00:43:42,799 Speaker 2: She her, it's kind of like the other side of 873 00:43:42,880 --> 00:43:46,200 Speaker 2: the first Hometown. Yeah, I read where it's like the victims, 874 00:43:46,440 --> 00:43:49,440 Speaker 2: the experience of the victims, the loved ones of the victims, 875 00:43:49,480 --> 00:43:53,520 Speaker 2: and now it's the experience of the friends and supposed 876 00:43:53,560 --> 00:43:54,960 Speaker 2: loved ones of the killer. 877 00:43:55,160 --> 00:43:57,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, just insane takes all kinds. 878 00:43:58,000 --> 00:44:00,000 Speaker 2: Thank you for sending in your hometowns. We always life 879 00:44:00,239 --> 00:44:00,759 Speaker 2: to hear them. 880 00:44:00,840 --> 00:44:03,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, send them into My Favorite Murder at gmail dot 881 00:44:03,040 --> 00:44:04,040 Speaker 3: com if you have one. 882 00:44:04,200 --> 00:44:06,600 Speaker 2: Yeah. And Okay, So now we're going to revisit the 883 00:44:06,640 --> 00:44:08,960 Speaker 2: next part of this crossover and that's where we take 884 00:44:08,960 --> 00:44:11,200 Speaker 2: an advice call with Anna. 885 00:44:13,560 --> 00:44:15,440 Speaker 6: Are we ready to Callia Leah? 886 00:44:15,520 --> 00:44:23,800 Speaker 5: Yeah, she's in Ohio and she's twenty eight, aren't we all? 887 00:44:28,239 --> 00:44:28,560 Speaker 4: Hello? 888 00:44:28,920 --> 00:44:32,920 Speaker 6: Heyleah? How are you? It's sim Oh Hi Sam are you? 889 00:44:33,080 --> 00:44:34,719 Speaker 6: I'm going to introduce you to Honor right now? 890 00:44:34,840 --> 00:44:35,799 Speaker 1: Hi Leah? 891 00:44:36,800 --> 00:44:41,160 Speaker 9: Hi, Anna, thank you so much for you know, being 892 00:44:41,200 --> 00:44:42,240 Speaker 9: with us here tonight. 893 00:44:42,600 --> 00:44:44,960 Speaker 6: So Anna, can you introduce our special guests. 894 00:44:47,200 --> 00:44:50,640 Speaker 9: We have Karen and Georgia from My Favorite Murder, which 895 00:44:50,680 --> 00:44:52,759 Speaker 9: is an awesome HI podcast. 896 00:44:53,000 --> 00:44:56,360 Speaker 4: Hi, Hi, it is Hi Hileiah. 897 00:44:58,080 --> 00:44:58,480 Speaker 11: Leah. 898 00:44:58,520 --> 00:44:59,200 Speaker 6: You wrote us. 899 00:44:59,320 --> 00:45:01,399 Speaker 5: You wrote us a asking if it's okay to hook 900 00:45:01,480 --> 00:45:03,560 Speaker 5: up with your cheating friend's ex husband. 901 00:45:04,480 --> 00:45:07,279 Speaker 6: Tell us your story? Did give me your stories? Kind of? Yeah? 902 00:45:07,320 --> 00:45:08,000 Speaker 6: It is interesting. 903 00:45:08,000 --> 00:45:08,520 Speaker 7: This is fun. 904 00:45:08,640 --> 00:45:09,440 Speaker 6: Start from the beginning. 905 00:45:10,000 --> 00:45:14,279 Speaker 10: Okay, So two years ago I was training a new 906 00:45:14,320 --> 00:45:17,440 Speaker 10: girl at the place where I worked then, and her 907 00:45:17,520 --> 00:45:19,920 Speaker 10: name was Jannie and she had just moved to Ohio 908 00:45:21,640 --> 00:45:25,480 Speaker 10: and she had moved to be with her fiance, and 909 00:45:25,560 --> 00:45:28,160 Speaker 10: we found out that her fiance was actually one of 910 00:45:28,160 --> 00:45:31,319 Speaker 10: my old friends from high school. So Jamie and I 911 00:45:31,360 --> 00:45:33,640 Speaker 10: we became really close. I mean we were doing everything 912 00:45:33,680 --> 00:45:38,600 Speaker 10: together immediately. We just got along so well, and so 913 00:45:38,680 --> 00:45:41,160 Speaker 10: we became friends and it was really fun. It was 914 00:45:41,200 --> 00:45:42,960 Speaker 10: so fun to hang out with her and her fiance 915 00:45:43,480 --> 00:45:45,560 Speaker 10: because you know, we had. 916 00:45:45,440 --> 00:45:46,479 Speaker 4: A past history too. 917 00:45:48,400 --> 00:45:53,080 Speaker 10: So Jamie and dust and her fiance, they started to 918 00:45:53,120 --> 00:45:55,719 Speaker 10: have some problems, and I was the first person to 919 00:45:55,719 --> 00:45:58,439 Speaker 10: give them advice about him. We kind of lost touch, 920 00:45:58,600 --> 00:46:01,040 Speaker 10: Janie and I did when I started a new job 921 00:46:01,239 --> 00:46:04,160 Speaker 10: that was kind of farther away, but I would stop 922 00:46:04,200 --> 00:46:05,879 Speaker 10: in every once in a while to my old job 923 00:46:05,920 --> 00:46:09,680 Speaker 10: and just hear and see how she was doing. The 924 00:46:09,719 --> 00:46:11,239 Speaker 10: one day I stopped in and she told me that 925 00:46:11,280 --> 00:46:14,719 Speaker 10: her and Dustin were getting a divorce, and I told her, 926 00:46:14,760 --> 00:46:17,239 Speaker 10: you know, whatever I can do to help. So the 927 00:46:17,280 --> 00:46:21,360 Speaker 10: next time that I stopped in, she was there and 928 00:46:21,360 --> 00:46:24,680 Speaker 10: she looked kind of nervous, and I found out why 929 00:46:24,760 --> 00:46:27,439 Speaker 10: soon enough. It was because her new boyfriend was there. 930 00:46:27,719 --> 00:46:30,480 Speaker 10: And it was a boyfriend that she met while she 931 00:46:30,520 --> 00:46:36,120 Speaker 10: and Dustin were married. So they were together, and I 932 00:46:36,200 --> 00:46:38,040 Speaker 10: found out. She had told me then that she had 933 00:46:38,120 --> 00:46:42,839 Speaker 10: cheated on Dustin. She had cheated with him with two 934 00:46:42,840 --> 00:46:46,080 Speaker 10: different guys, and starting three months into their marriage. They 935 00:46:46,080 --> 00:46:50,120 Speaker 10: got divorced about a year later. So Dustin had gotten 936 00:46:50,120 --> 00:46:51,880 Speaker 10: a hold of me because I was kind of I 937 00:46:51,960 --> 00:46:53,799 Speaker 10: was going through some stuff and he was going through 938 00:46:53,800 --> 00:46:57,080 Speaker 10: some stuff, and we caught up and we ended up 939 00:46:57,120 --> 00:46:59,960 Speaker 10: starting to hook up. And I've been so torn up 940 00:47:00,000 --> 00:47:03,960 Speaker 10: about it because I want to be a good friend, 941 00:47:04,600 --> 00:47:07,440 Speaker 10: and I guess I've never been in a situation like 942 00:47:07,480 --> 00:47:12,160 Speaker 10: this before, so it's all kind of weird. Eventually, I thought, 943 00:47:12,160 --> 00:47:15,000 Speaker 10: you know, I have to at least ask her if 944 00:47:15,040 --> 00:47:17,680 Speaker 10: we can be friends, and so I did, and she 945 00:47:17,760 --> 00:47:19,600 Speaker 10: actually she hasn't talked to me since. She was so 946 00:47:19,680 --> 00:47:20,840 Speaker 10: mad at me for even asking. 947 00:47:21,840 --> 00:47:26,200 Speaker 8: Sorry, if you with Dustin exactly right, Yeah, it was 948 00:47:26,239 --> 00:47:28,000 Speaker 8: okay for Dustin and I to be friends. 949 00:47:28,120 --> 00:47:31,600 Speaker 10: Yeah, yeah, to hang out, she got She got really mad. Yeah, 950 00:47:31,600 --> 00:47:34,440 Speaker 10: and we haven't talked since. So I guess that's kind 951 00:47:34,480 --> 00:47:37,120 Speaker 10: of where I'm at. Is Number one. I don't know, 952 00:47:37,400 --> 00:47:40,480 Speaker 10: is it okay for Dustin and I to be hooking up. 953 00:47:40,520 --> 00:47:43,279 Speaker 10: It's the best sex that I've ever had in my life. 954 00:47:43,600 --> 00:47:48,160 Speaker 10: Nice to me, I mean like that, Yeah I can't. 955 00:47:48,760 --> 00:47:49,800 Speaker 7: Yeah, honey. 956 00:47:50,080 --> 00:47:52,960 Speaker 10: So there's that and then and and it's also it's 957 00:47:53,000 --> 00:47:55,160 Speaker 10: something that I would never ever do. I would never 958 00:47:55,200 --> 00:47:58,200 Speaker 10: hook up with a friend's ex in different circumstances. 959 00:47:58,200 --> 00:48:01,320 Speaker 7: Ever, you don't even know. 960 00:48:04,120 --> 00:48:05,000 Speaker 4: We've got some answers. 961 00:48:05,160 --> 00:48:08,359 Speaker 3: Yeah, they're such a sweet cart. 962 00:48:08,600 --> 00:48:11,239 Speaker 7: You're not a bad person, you know what. 963 00:48:11,640 --> 00:48:15,080 Speaker 9: A dude would never be asking these questions. And women, 964 00:48:15,120 --> 00:48:17,880 Speaker 9: we beat ourselves up so fucking much. 965 00:48:18,160 --> 00:48:20,640 Speaker 4: Look, here's the thing. She cheated on him. 966 00:48:21,120 --> 00:48:23,560 Speaker 8: Uh not, it didn't even matter what she did because 967 00:48:23,600 --> 00:48:25,759 Speaker 8: you already had a relationship with him, You already knew 968 00:48:25,840 --> 00:48:30,520 Speaker 8: him before, so she was actually the new friend. And 969 00:48:30,600 --> 00:48:35,040 Speaker 8: then she got rid of him. So that's like you, 970 00:48:35,480 --> 00:48:37,680 Speaker 8: it doesn't matter what happens after that, because if that 971 00:48:37,760 --> 00:48:40,520 Speaker 8: relationship ends, you get to do whatever you want. And 972 00:48:40,600 --> 00:48:43,520 Speaker 8: her being mad at you after she cheated on him 973 00:48:43,600 --> 00:48:46,880 Speaker 8: and then has someone else in her life to even 974 00:48:47,000 --> 00:48:49,560 Speaker 8: want to be friends with him, and that is insane. 975 00:48:49,640 --> 00:48:50,360 Speaker 4: I think you're. 976 00:48:50,200 --> 00:48:52,840 Speaker 8: Going by her rules and you're kind of like taking 977 00:48:52,880 --> 00:48:55,760 Speaker 8: her framework of the situation and going is this okay 978 00:48:55,800 --> 00:48:56,839 Speaker 8: because she said it isn't. 979 00:48:57,040 --> 00:48:58,719 Speaker 4: It's abs a fucking lutely. 980 00:48:58,400 --> 00:49:00,719 Speaker 3: Okay, and it doesn't sound like someone that I would 981 00:49:00,760 --> 00:49:03,360 Speaker 3: really want to be friends with anyways, So you checking 982 00:49:03,520 --> 00:49:04,319 Speaker 3: you checking in with. 983 00:49:04,320 --> 00:49:07,759 Speaker 4: Her and general it's so sweet and generous. 984 00:49:07,239 --> 00:49:08,720 Speaker 7: But not necessary. 985 00:49:08,960 --> 00:49:09,440 Speaker 4: You don't. 986 00:49:09,719 --> 00:49:11,480 Speaker 7: You don't owe her anything. 987 00:49:12,280 --> 00:49:15,800 Speaker 3: And you know you guys are you're not gonna get married, maybe, 988 00:49:15,800 --> 00:49:19,160 Speaker 3: but you're getting your fucking sexual healing and it has 989 00:49:19,239 --> 00:49:21,880 Speaker 3: nothing to do with her in any way. And cheating 990 00:49:21,920 --> 00:49:24,879 Speaker 3: on someone's three months into a wedding, you know, that's 991 00:49:24,880 --> 00:49:26,240 Speaker 3: probably not the marriage. 992 00:49:26,280 --> 00:49:27,560 Speaker 7: It's not the first time she did that. 993 00:49:27,680 --> 00:49:29,560 Speaker 4: Probably it wasn't. 994 00:49:30,800 --> 00:49:31,359 Speaker 10: I was right. 995 00:49:31,440 --> 00:49:33,719 Speaker 8: It doesn't matter, It doesn't matter what she does, it 996 00:49:33,719 --> 00:49:34,239 Speaker 8: doesn't matter. 997 00:49:34,280 --> 00:49:36,880 Speaker 9: It's so true because because it sounds like, you know, 998 00:49:38,600 --> 00:49:41,040 Speaker 9: you might not value her friendship as much as you 999 00:49:41,120 --> 00:49:46,640 Speaker 9: do like other friendships or relationships, and life is fucking short. 1000 00:49:46,719 --> 00:49:50,640 Speaker 4: And I don't. I don't think you owe her anything. 1001 00:49:50,880 --> 00:49:54,840 Speaker 8: I mean, in this situation, it's I think it's interesting 1002 00:49:55,640 --> 00:50:02,359 Speaker 8: the idea that they broke up and that was over right, 1003 00:50:02,440 --> 00:50:05,120 Speaker 8: So it's not she wasn't. She didn't get this girl 1004 00:50:05,160 --> 00:50:07,120 Speaker 8: didn't get cheated on by the guy that you're hooking 1005 00:50:07,200 --> 00:50:10,000 Speaker 8: up with. So the idea that she's mad at you 1006 00:50:10,600 --> 00:50:13,360 Speaker 8: when She is absolutely not the victim in this situation. 1007 00:50:13,520 --> 00:50:16,359 Speaker 8: She she went and did exactly what she wanted. So 1008 00:50:16,400 --> 00:50:18,680 Speaker 8: why don't you get to because you should get to 1009 00:50:18,719 --> 00:50:20,319 Speaker 8: and if you want to get together with that guy, 1010 00:50:20,880 --> 00:50:21,440 Speaker 8: you should get to. 1011 00:50:21,600 --> 00:50:24,200 Speaker 4: Dude, get to know your fucking body with a man 1012 00:50:24,200 --> 00:50:27,239 Speaker 4: that you did. He's nice to you, and I think 1013 00:50:28,360 --> 00:50:28,759 Speaker 4: so far. 1014 00:50:28,960 --> 00:50:30,800 Speaker 7: So Yeah, I was like, I think. 1015 00:50:30,800 --> 00:50:32,880 Speaker 3: You wouldn't have called an asked this if you didn't 1016 00:50:32,880 --> 00:50:35,200 Speaker 3: know somewhere in your mind that something was really off 1017 00:50:35,239 --> 00:50:35,840 Speaker 3: about this. 1018 00:50:36,239 --> 00:50:37,319 Speaker 4: And I did. 1019 00:50:37,520 --> 00:50:40,200 Speaker 10: Yeah, I felt like it was, but I was surprised 1020 00:50:40,239 --> 00:50:42,080 Speaker 10: that the few people that I kind of ran it 1021 00:50:42,120 --> 00:50:44,359 Speaker 10: by I got really a mixed answer. And I think 1022 00:50:44,400 --> 00:50:46,279 Speaker 10: that's what made me so confused about it. 1023 00:50:46,360 --> 00:50:49,239 Speaker 3: Well, people are answering based on their own history, not 1024 00:50:49,760 --> 00:50:50,400 Speaker 3: on the situation. 1025 00:50:50,640 --> 00:50:52,000 Speaker 4: Yeah, that's what everybody does. 1026 00:50:52,120 --> 00:50:54,799 Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah, if any of my girlfriends who I cared 1027 00:50:54,800 --> 00:50:57,719 Speaker 3: about and loved wanted to hook up with my exes 1028 00:50:57,760 --> 00:50:59,880 Speaker 3: who are good people, I would be so happy for 1029 00:51:00,239 --> 00:51:00,640 Speaker 3: me too. 1030 00:51:01,160 --> 00:51:04,160 Speaker 4: Yeah, exactly, I would too. Yeah. 1031 00:51:04,280 --> 00:51:07,319 Speaker 8: I think that's adult reactions. Yeah, so she might be 1032 00:51:07,360 --> 00:51:09,560 Speaker 8: having more of a high school reaction. 1033 00:51:09,680 --> 00:51:11,760 Speaker 9: It's think when you get an awesome pair of boots 1034 00:51:12,200 --> 00:51:15,280 Speaker 9: and your friend is like, I really like this. Boots 1035 00:51:15,320 --> 00:51:18,920 Speaker 9: would be okay if I also bought those, And some 1036 00:51:18,960 --> 00:51:24,120 Speaker 9: people would be like no, and other people. 1037 00:51:23,840 --> 00:51:25,640 Speaker 4: Are like, fuck, yeah, I'm so glad you like these. 1038 00:51:25,680 --> 00:51:27,680 Speaker 7: They're so comfortable your feet are gonna feel a maze. 1039 00:51:27,760 --> 00:51:33,520 Speaker 9: Yeah, and you celebrate it like oh, but it's also 1040 00:51:33,560 --> 00:51:33,839 Speaker 9: the thing. 1041 00:51:33,960 --> 00:51:38,080 Speaker 8: I think, it's also the thing of uh the It's 1042 00:51:38,120 --> 00:51:41,239 Speaker 8: weird to think that you can make friends with, say, 1043 00:51:41,760 --> 00:51:42,600 Speaker 8: a narcissist. 1044 00:51:42,840 --> 00:51:43,719 Speaker 4: It's weird to think that. 1045 00:51:43,719 --> 00:51:45,799 Speaker 8: You could have a good time and have a good 1046 00:51:45,840 --> 00:51:50,080 Speaker 8: relationship with a person who's actually, deep down incredibly selfish 1047 00:51:50,160 --> 00:51:53,360 Speaker 8: or incredibly self serving. So I think you're having doubts 1048 00:51:53,440 --> 00:51:55,279 Speaker 8: because the two of you hit it off and had 1049 00:51:55,320 --> 00:51:57,000 Speaker 8: a good time. But maybe a lot of the reason 1050 00:51:57,080 --> 00:51:58,720 Speaker 8: you had such a good time with her is because 1051 00:51:59,200 --> 00:52:01,399 Speaker 8: the boyfriend was or who you really liked and. 1052 00:52:01,360 --> 00:52:03,680 Speaker 3: Maybe have liked for a long time, so he evened 1053 00:52:03,719 --> 00:52:05,880 Speaker 3: it out the fact that she kind of sucked. 1054 00:52:07,280 --> 00:52:07,600 Speaker 4: We did. 1055 00:52:07,680 --> 00:52:09,960 Speaker 10: Yeah, we had a lot of fun all together, and 1056 00:52:10,040 --> 00:52:12,520 Speaker 10: I didn't. I mean, Shanna, I got got really close in. 1057 00:52:12,440 --> 00:52:13,160 Speaker 4: A different way. 1058 00:52:14,160 --> 00:52:17,440 Speaker 10: But yeah, I that's I've never even thought about that before. 1059 00:52:18,000 --> 00:52:20,640 Speaker 9: You're not a bad person. Just like you know, we've 1060 00:52:20,640 --> 00:52:23,160 Speaker 9: been telling you, but we have been talking about bad people, 1061 00:52:23,480 --> 00:52:24,960 Speaker 9: but you are not one of them. 1062 00:52:25,200 --> 00:52:26,000 Speaker 4: You're nowhere near it. 1063 00:52:26,200 --> 00:52:28,239 Speaker 3: No, and the fact that you even question if you're 1064 00:52:28,280 --> 00:52:30,640 Speaker 3: a bad person or not based on this, I think 1065 00:52:30,840 --> 00:52:32,319 Speaker 3: proves to us that you're not. 1066 00:52:32,960 --> 00:52:37,279 Speaker 9: You're a wonderful person. Yeah and no, yeah, yeah, like, 1067 00:52:37,640 --> 00:52:39,759 Speaker 9: enjoy yourself. I don't know, life is short, ye, I 1068 00:52:39,800 --> 00:52:44,080 Speaker 9: don't think you have to. Like, I would like encourage 1069 00:52:44,120 --> 00:52:46,920 Speaker 9: you to distance yourself, and you know you already have 1070 00:52:46,960 --> 00:52:52,200 Speaker 9: already from from the friend the gal. But but also 1071 00:52:52,600 --> 00:52:54,600 Speaker 9: you know, I don't know how much social media has 1072 00:52:54,640 --> 00:52:56,560 Speaker 9: to play in all of this, But I would also 1073 00:52:56,640 --> 00:53:00,440 Speaker 9: encourage like easing up on any of that is that 1074 00:53:00,560 --> 00:53:03,000 Speaker 9: always gets anybody into trouble. 1075 00:53:02,760 --> 00:53:06,200 Speaker 4: But I would. I was just like, yeah, have have 1076 00:53:06,640 --> 00:53:09,439 Speaker 4: I don't know, I don't know. You're in your twenties, yep, 1077 00:53:09,520 --> 00:53:10,960 Speaker 4: get your nut, get yours? 1078 00:53:11,239 --> 00:53:14,480 Speaker 5: Yeah, Well, Leah, I think this is pretty obvious. 1079 00:53:14,520 --> 00:53:16,239 Speaker 4: Here are you okay with this? 1080 00:53:16,600 --> 00:53:16,680 Speaker 6: Just? 1081 00:53:17,040 --> 00:53:17,279 Speaker 1: Yeah? 1082 00:53:17,640 --> 00:53:19,160 Speaker 10: I had? I mean, thank you? 1083 00:53:19,239 --> 00:53:19,759 Speaker 4: Yeah, I do. 1084 00:53:19,800 --> 00:53:20,840 Speaker 10: I feel a lot better. 1085 00:53:21,960 --> 00:53:24,440 Speaker 4: Yeah, we love you. 1086 00:53:24,280 --> 00:53:25,439 Speaker 6: Thank you so much. 1087 00:53:25,480 --> 00:53:26,200 Speaker 10: I love you too. 1088 00:53:26,640 --> 00:53:27,040 Speaker 4: Bye. 1089 00:53:27,600 --> 00:53:45,320 Speaker 11: Thankye, I love you l Yeah. 1090 00:53:39,000 --> 00:53:40,120 Speaker 1: And we're back. 1091 00:53:40,360 --> 00:53:40,839 Speaker 4: How fun? 1092 00:53:40,960 --> 00:53:41,239 Speaker 3: Is that. 1093 00:53:41,280 --> 00:53:44,320 Speaker 1: Can we just start doing that instead of the homework podcast? 1094 00:53:44,880 --> 00:53:47,279 Speaker 2: I mean we can, but we're not that good at it. 1095 00:53:47,400 --> 00:53:48,520 Speaker 1: I think we're great at it. 1096 00:53:48,600 --> 00:53:49,120 Speaker 4: I don't know. 1097 00:53:49,280 --> 00:53:50,040 Speaker 6: Break up with him. 1098 00:53:50,120 --> 00:53:51,480 Speaker 1: That's my advice for everything. 1099 00:53:51,600 --> 00:53:54,280 Speaker 2: Seriously, walk away, dump him, who cares? 1100 00:53:54,520 --> 00:53:57,480 Speaker 1: Go no contact with your mom. 1101 00:53:57,680 --> 00:54:01,439 Speaker 2: Okay, so this episode we're going to get to the retitling. Yeah, 1102 00:54:01,520 --> 00:54:03,800 Speaker 2: it was, of course called the MFM and Unqualified with 1103 00:54:03,840 --> 00:54:05,399 Speaker 2: Anna Faris Crossover Part two. 1104 00:54:05,520 --> 00:54:07,839 Speaker 3: But if we were naming it today, maybe we would 1105 00:54:07,880 --> 00:54:09,880 Speaker 3: call it My Favorite Unqualified. 1106 00:54:10,880 --> 00:54:13,239 Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, that was George's quip. Or we could call 1107 00:54:13,280 --> 00:54:15,760 Speaker 2: it tim time sheet, which is what Anna kept saying, 1108 00:54:15,880 --> 00:54:18,960 Speaker 2: because she should have read the word timeline and she wasn't. 1109 00:54:19,200 --> 00:54:19,960 Speaker 2: There was a typo. 1110 00:54:20,320 --> 00:54:22,840 Speaker 1: What about scary movie one, two, three, four? Actress? 1111 00:54:23,280 --> 00:54:23,960 Speaker 2: So funny? 1112 00:54:24,120 --> 00:54:25,200 Speaker 1: Oh she's so funny. 1113 00:54:25,280 --> 00:54:26,840 Speaker 2: She was so great. Anna. 1114 00:54:27,160 --> 00:54:27,680 Speaker 4: We love you. 1115 00:54:27,800 --> 00:54:30,520 Speaker 2: Thank you for having us at your home seven or 1116 00:54:30,560 --> 00:54:31,239 Speaker 2: eight years ago. 1117 00:54:31,360 --> 00:54:33,799 Speaker 1: Yeah, what a fun memory to look back on. 1118 00:54:34,160 --> 00:54:34,640 Speaker 4: Yeah. 1119 00:54:34,680 --> 00:54:37,080 Speaker 2: Well that's it for this week's episode of Rewind. 1120 00:54:36,800 --> 00:54:38,840 Speaker 1: And we'll say goodbye from Anna Ferris's house. 1121 00:54:42,320 --> 00:54:44,720 Speaker 6: All right, we're coming to us again. 1122 00:54:46,360 --> 00:54:47,719 Speaker 4: Wow, that's it. That's the wrap it up. 1123 00:54:47,719 --> 00:54:50,440 Speaker 7: Th hes giving us the finger guys. 1124 00:54:50,440 --> 00:54:53,200 Speaker 4: Thank you so much, so fun. Thanks for being in 1125 00:54:53,200 --> 00:54:54,200 Speaker 4: my creepy. 1126 00:54:53,840 --> 00:54:57,120 Speaker 9: House, in the creepy room talking about incredibly creepy things, 1127 00:54:57,200 --> 00:54:57,480 Speaker 9: such a. 1128 00:54:57,480 --> 00:54:59,720 Speaker 4: Creepy thing, and you gave amazing advice. 1129 00:55:00,120 --> 00:55:01,000 Speaker 6: This is a lot of fun. 1130 00:55:01,120 --> 00:55:02,560 Speaker 5: I mean, let's do this once a year if we 1131 00:55:02,600 --> 00:55:05,239 Speaker 5: can want total for sure, once a week or once 1132 00:55:05,239 --> 00:55:06,200 Speaker 5: a year, we're gonna be there. 1133 00:55:06,239 --> 00:55:08,759 Speaker 6: Let's do it once. So perfect, this sounds good. 1134 00:55:08,920 --> 00:55:12,400 Speaker 7: Thank you so much, Thank you so much, honest day sexy. 1135 00:55:12,520 --> 00:55:16,440 Speaker 4: Oh no, let's go on and don't get murdered. That's 1136 00:55:16,440 --> 00:55:19,080 Speaker 4: how we always end ours. Now you got yours. I 1137 00:55:19,120 --> 00:55:22,839 Speaker 4: always say fuck you, sim fuck you, sim you sim. 1138 00:55:22,840 --> 00:55:23,480 Speaker 4: Don't get murdered. 1139 00:55:23,480 --> 00:55:25,600 Speaker 6: Get that everyone and they love you. 1140 00:55:25,680 --> 00:55:26,160 Speaker 4: Listeners