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Speaker 1: show well a good morning everybody. You're listening to the voice.

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Speaker 1: Come on dig me now, one and only Steve Harvey.

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Speaker 1: I got a radio show. Real grateful for that. You know,

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Speaker 1: a long conversation, but the gist of it was, don't

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Speaker 1: You don't know what that's gonna be one day. You

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Speaker 1: so temporary because now, like I've said before, now as

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Speaker 1: where you are now is a very fleeting process. Now

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Speaker 1: you can change where you are now, and you can

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Speaker 1: you can change about where you're going by simply changing

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Speaker 1: your mind. It is no difference. I'm telling you, folks,

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Speaker 1: the thing that I've learned about successful people is not

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Speaker 1: Starting now, you have to understand that. Man, the biggest

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Speaker 1: I've chosen several ways to be successful. I want to

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Speaker 1: My father didn't have an easy life man. My father

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Speaker 1: And why should I? I work? I work? You know,

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Speaker 1: That's a scripture that He comes to you to give

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Speaker 1: That's a fact, and the fact that if you don't

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Speaker 1: Then it starts by believing, and how to don't even

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Speaker 1: we go, Cheyenne and Virginia says. My boyfriend and I

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Speaker 1: Why won't he let me go so I can be happy? Why?

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Speaker 1: Moving on to MJ and Charlotte. MJ says, I'm a

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Speaker 1: single mother of six boys and they're with me most

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Speaker 1: of the time because their father works in another state.

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Speaker 1: My ex husband invited me to come see him for

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Speaker 1: them for the weekend and his parents well babysit. He says,

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Speaker 1: he wants us to catch up and he wants me

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Speaker 1: to relax. Is that all he wants or does he

429
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Speaker 1: want sex too? You got six boys? What you think

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Speaker 1: he won't You didn't make them. You didn't make them

431
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Speaker 1: six boys just because y'all got together six times. He

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Speaker 1: wants you to come and relax. Relax, you relax if

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Speaker 1: he come get them damn boys. If he wants me

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Speaker 1: to relax, come pick up the damn boy are going

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Speaker 1: to right now. And he wants you to come over there.

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Speaker 1: And you know what's gonna happen? What? What? What always happened?

437
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Speaker 1: What you usually happened? Seven boys? What's gonna happen? That's

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Speaker 1: what's going to happen. He might want a little girl,

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Speaker 1: I don't know, but he is trying to get you

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Speaker 1: over there without them boys, so they can quit blocking

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Speaker 1: right now. The thing of it is you're hoping in

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Speaker 1: the back of her mind that he wants her back. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: and they can pull this thing together. Is that all

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Speaker 1: he wants for me to relax? Hey, y'all know, y'all

445
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Speaker 1: gonna be relaxing after you to woe yourself out a

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Speaker 1: single mother of six boys down. Yeah, he invited her

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Speaker 1: to come see him for the weekend. Oh yeah, they

448
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Speaker 1: got a babysitter. He wants it all all right. Last one, Steve,

449
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Speaker 1: Vicky and Beverly says. I'm an educator and I'm active

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Speaker 1: in my church, so I don't have time to hang

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Speaker 1: out and meet men. All the guys I date are

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Speaker 1: either at my job or at my church, and it's

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Speaker 1: usually just for sex. If I want to date one

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Speaker 1: of them, is it too forward to tell them straight up? What? Yeah? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Wait a minute, Vicky, see this is what I who

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Speaker 1: that is I don't have time to date because I'm

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Speaker 1: real active on my job and my church. So the

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Speaker 1: only man I date go out with our own my job,

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Speaker 1: at my church, and it's usually just for sex, just

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Speaker 1: for sex. Would I be too forward to tell them

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Speaker 1: I want to date? Wait a minute, man, how much

462
00:27:10,800 --> 00:27:14,520
Speaker 1: more forward can you be? Them? Having sex? Thank you

463
00:27:14,640 --> 00:27:18,080
Speaker 1: pretty much? And you pretty much put the whipped cream

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Speaker 1: on top of the ice cream. I'm gonna tell you

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Speaker 1: that right now, because after that it ain't no more forward.

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00:27:23,200 --> 00:27:27,680
Speaker 1: How much more forward you want? Yeah, you forward enough

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Speaker 1: to have sex with these men, but you ain't forward

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Speaker 1: enough to say I want to be dated. I don't understand. Well,

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Speaker 1: enlighten her because you know, I'm sure she's not well.

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Speaker 1: She needs but she needs some standards. Let's just start there.

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Speaker 1: I think miss Vicky, you need some standards. You need

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Speaker 1: to have an idea of who you are and what's

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Speaker 1: best for you, and not just at that particular time,

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Speaker 1: but you need to give some type of fourth thought

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Speaker 1: to the long run. You can't date the men at

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Speaker 1: your job and then your church just for sex and

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Speaker 1: then gonna decide one of them you want to ask

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Speaker 1: them to date you. After we didn't just had sex.

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Speaker 1: Now you want to be romanced, you want to be courted.

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Speaker 1: It's not how this works. No, you didn't, she said,

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Speaker 1: what you no I'm saying. She said she doesn't have

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Speaker 1: time to hang out and meet them, meet men. But

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Speaker 1: people make time for what's important to them. They just

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Speaker 1: take time. Excuse me, excuse me, she's having sex with

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Speaker 1: these people. What you Russian? Look at here? Oh god,

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Speaker 1: we got to go ahead. Come on now, come on out.

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Speaker 1: We ain't got time to get in the hotel room.

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Speaker 1: Come on, what you're doing. Let's get at n I

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Speaker 1: don't want to meet your boma. Let's go out, come out.

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Speaker 1: You need to reverse that, missus binky. All right, thank you, Cello.

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Speaker 1: Coming up next at the top of the hour, we'll

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Speaker 1: have some entertainment news right after this. You're listening to

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Speaker 1: the String Show. Well, ladies and gentlemen, please make sure

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Speaker 1: you check out Judge Steve tonight at eight seventh Central

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Speaker 1: on ABC and Hulu. Steve Harvey's Court is now in session.

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Speaker 1: The Judge is in the building for a two hour

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Speaker 1: season finale tonight. Steve what what? What? Who? You man?

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Speaker 1: You know you did not just say a double run.

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Speaker 1: I said it time. Yes, yes, Oh my god, major network.

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Speaker 1: You just didn't say that to me, I said tonight

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Speaker 1: at eight seventh Central. What I said, Boy, you better

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Speaker 1: praise him, sir, Listen to me. I ain't ever in

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Speaker 1: my TV career had a double run in prime time

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Speaker 1: television of a show that's not syndicated. I got a

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Speaker 1: lot of double runs going on all over the country

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Speaker 1: for Family Few, but that's a syndicated show. This is

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Speaker 1: prime time network show. You get a double run, it's

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Speaker 1: because they liked them numbers and they want to see

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Speaker 1: what they do it. We're gonna leave it on twice,

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Speaker 1: and we're gonna guarner them viewers. That ain't nothing but

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Speaker 1: a gift from the Lord Almighty. Thank ya. You better

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Speaker 1: praise him to our season sud Steve tonight, eight seventh

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Speaker 1: Central on ABC and on Hulu. All right, Steve, congratulations,

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Speaker 1: We're so happy it was happy. You show us the

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Speaker 1: way for sure, all right and other entertainment news while

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Speaker 1: you pray, while you yet praise him, Steve. Chris Rock's

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Speaker 1: mom is finally speaking out about the slap, the infamous

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Speaker 1: slap I should say that was laid upon her son

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Speaker 1: at the hands of Will Smith at the Academy Awards

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Speaker 1: last month. While chatting with the South Carolina news station

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Speaker 1: wi STV earlier this week, Miss Rose Rock I love

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Speaker 1: her name. Miss Rose Rock recalled her initial reaction after

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Speaker 1: seeing Will strike Chris, noting that at first, she, like

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Speaker 1: many others, thought it was a joke, but then after

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Speaker 1: Will started using obscenities, she knew in her heart that

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Speaker 1: something was wrong. Take a listen, Well, I told someone

527
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Speaker 1: when when Will slapped Chris, he slapped all of us,

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Speaker 1: but he really slapped me. But so many things could

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Speaker 1: have happened from that. Chris could have stepped back and fallen. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you really could have taken out in handcuffs, you know.

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Speaker 1: So what was you didn't think? You reacted to your

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00:32:08,160 --> 00:32:11,760
Speaker 1: wife's um giving you the side eye. Yeah, and you

533
00:32:11,880 --> 00:32:14,640
Speaker 1: went up and you made her day because she was

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00:32:14,920 --> 00:32:20,760
Speaker 1: bold overlapping when it happened. I don't think this is over.

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Speaker 1: And the reason I don't think this is over, it's

536
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Speaker 1: because when your mom makes a comment and she's one

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00:32:27,640 --> 00:32:32,120
Speaker 1: hundred percent correct, Miss Rose Rock is one hundred percent correct.

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Speaker 1: But let me tell you something. When she said she

539
00:32:34,680 --> 00:32:37,920
Speaker 1: slapped all of us, she really he really slapped me,

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00:32:38,840 --> 00:32:43,360
Speaker 1: this ain't over, This ain't old. Yeah, this ain't over.

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Speaker 1: And I almost there say this and it shouldn't be.

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00:32:47,400 --> 00:32:50,720
Speaker 1: Oh no, I got my mama feeling like she slapped. No,

543
00:32:50,880 --> 00:32:54,560
Speaker 1: this ain't no, my Pardner, this ain't over. Well, we

544
00:32:54,640 --> 00:32:57,040
Speaker 1: haven't seen Will Smith for a while, and that's because

545
00:32:57,640 --> 00:33:01,600
Speaker 1: he is in India seeking solid us and reflection at

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00:33:01,640 --> 00:33:05,880
Speaker 1: a spiritual retreat. Okay. Will was spotted in casual attire

547
00:33:05,920 --> 00:33:09,240
Speaker 1: and he smiled and waved at cameras after landing in India.

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Speaker 1: It's the first time he's been seen since the Oscar slap.

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Speaker 1: Will was greeted by fans and graciously, graciously took a

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Speaker 1: number of selfies. Will is reportedly in India to meet

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Speaker 1: spiritual leader there uh Side Guru, who Smith and his

552
00:33:24,160 --> 00:33:27,520
Speaker 1: family met with back in twenty twenty in Los Angeles.

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Speaker 1: So that's where Will is. That's what he's doing in India.

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00:33:31,960 --> 00:33:35,840
Speaker 1: No what ye what Junior? No, he trying to play craze.

555
00:33:36,040 --> 00:33:39,480
Speaker 1: See no, no, no, you you you're trying to avoid.

556
00:33:39,520 --> 00:33:42,360
Speaker 1: You're trying to you trying to buy out gracifually you

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Speaker 1: trying to put your hands together Noma state No, not buying,

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00:33:46,840 --> 00:33:49,640
Speaker 1: you buying a state. Nothing I know, I don't know.

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00:33:49,680 --> 00:33:53,200
Speaker 1: We try to play craz spiritual guru. Where God it

560
00:33:53,480 --> 00:33:55,480
Speaker 1: We need to be talked to because the whole Rock

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Speaker 1: family they slapped Smith's everywhere, Tommy Smith, Gregg Smith, willis

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00:34:01,840 --> 00:34:08,600
Speaker 1: anybody out Junior? Let me say something. He could have said,

563
00:34:08,760 --> 00:34:10,680
Speaker 1: all that money, all the flying over there, and he

564
00:34:10,719 --> 00:34:13,080
Speaker 1: could have flew right into Dallas to the Potter's house

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00:34:13,400 --> 00:34:16,439
Speaker 1: and saw Jake, you ain't gotta go over there talking

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Speaker 1: to the people right here, old dollar Lama, Lama, got dollars,

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Speaker 1: all this hill, all up in a Tibetan mountain, got

568
00:34:25,960 --> 00:34:29,040
Speaker 1: a little orange roll, got a little got some hints sense.

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Speaker 1: We are gonna come back with in sense and selling

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00:34:32,520 --> 00:34:38,480
Speaker 1: sandals orange roll. Okay, okay, well we're still gonna know

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Speaker 1: it's you though, Yeah, come back home. Oh my ass Hey,

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Speaker 1: when I see you doing something, I ain't knocking and

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00:35:00,160 --> 00:35:01,920
Speaker 1: I don't know the people over that visited, and I

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00:35:01,960 --> 00:35:04,800
Speaker 1: ain't talking about them right right, I gonna try to

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Speaker 1: go get in no cave now tho. Yeah, and this

576
00:35:08,719 --> 00:35:11,600
Speaker 1: and this is not the first time we've seen him, sister,

577
00:35:11,719 --> 00:35:14,000
Speaker 1: infam a slap. I want to point that out too,

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00:35:14,239 --> 00:35:19,720
Speaker 1: because his ass was at the park right after Yeah, okay,

579
00:35:20,440 --> 00:35:23,800
Speaker 1: big Willie style, Yeah right now, though they'll still be

580
00:35:23,920 --> 00:35:28,640
Speaker 1: looking for that Oscar bab We got it when you

581
00:35:28,719 --> 00:35:35,320
Speaker 1: said it the first ten thousand times. Where to Oscar

582
00:35:35,400 --> 00:35:42,040
Speaker 1: that we all ain't saying? But he still at the

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Speaker 1: whole flight coming up in twenty minutes, we're moving on

584
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Speaker 1: twenty minutes after the hour. Did you all see Mary J.

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00:35:50,680 --> 00:35:54,319
Speaker 1: Blige's yell at Kyrie Irving at the next game. We'll

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Speaker 1: talk about that right after this. You're listening to show

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00:36:00,200 --> 00:36:03,359
Speaker 1: all right, still trending, guys in sports entertainment news. Did

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Speaker 1: you all see Mary J. Blige sitting courtside at the

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00:36:06,320 --> 00:36:11,000
Speaker 1: Brooklyn Nets versus Boston Celtics game. Well, anyway, people are

590
00:36:11,040 --> 00:36:14,839
Speaker 1: talking because Mary yelled at Kyrie Irving. She yelled at

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00:36:14,920 --> 00:36:18,719
Speaker 1: him step it up, and social media went crazy. One

592
00:36:18,760 --> 00:36:20,960
Speaker 1: of the comments was Mary J. Blige was yelling at

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00:36:21,040 --> 00:36:27,120
Speaker 1: Kyrie like she's talking to Cane on power. Also at

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Speaker 1: the same game, Nets player Ben Simmons, who was not

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00:36:29,920 --> 00:36:33,080
Speaker 1: playing due to a toe injury. Did you see Ben's

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00:36:33,120 --> 00:36:36,320
Speaker 1: colorful trending outfit? Ben was rocking a pair of orange pants,

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00:36:36,400 --> 00:36:40,239
Speaker 1: orange glasses, and purple varsity jacket. One person tweeted Ben

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00:36:40,360 --> 00:36:43,840
Speaker 1: Simmons teammates out here trying to survive the playoffs. Meanwhile

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Speaker 1: he is sitting on the bench with an injured toe,

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00:36:46,560 --> 00:36:50,480
Speaker 1: looking like a pack of skittles. So they were going

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Speaker 1: in h he got a toe. Now I thought it

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00:36:53,840 --> 00:36:59,000
Speaker 1: was his back. Yeah, I thought, well, this story says

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Speaker 1: injured toe. He ain't played all years last year. Hey man,

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Speaker 1: I don't know, man, he's casts man. They cut different man. Now, Yeah,

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00:37:10,120 --> 00:37:12,200
Speaker 1: he ain't played all year. You know, if he got

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00:37:12,320 --> 00:37:15,080
Speaker 1: a back injury, I understand, but you know they didn't

607
00:37:15,120 --> 00:37:17,400
Speaker 1: want to bring him in this in that series. With

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Speaker 1: all that, I don't know when they're gonna bring him

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00:37:20,480 --> 00:37:24,560
Speaker 1: back the kids. He's fragile to me. Well, let's get

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00:37:24,600 --> 00:37:26,239
Speaker 1: back to Mary J. Blige, because I do have a

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00:37:26,320 --> 00:37:29,799
Speaker 1: question for you concerning what Mary J Blige did. Now,

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00:37:29,880 --> 00:37:32,799
Speaker 1: do you think it's okay with the situation with Mary

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00:37:32,880 --> 00:37:35,960
Speaker 1: J Blige and Kyrie? So can celebrities be fans? I

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00:37:36,040 --> 00:37:39,719
Speaker 1: know celebrities are fans yea of sports? So can they

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00:37:39,800 --> 00:37:43,000
Speaker 1: yell at the players too? Like the fans? Don't shadn't

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00:37:43,040 --> 00:37:48,040
Speaker 1: do nothing wrong? Wasn't disrespectful? Step? It up. No, that's cheering,

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00:37:48,239 --> 00:37:51,040
Speaker 1: like come on, now, that's an other way to say it.

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00:37:51,960 --> 00:37:54,640
Speaker 1: H You know, my stepping up is a little bit different,

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Speaker 1: like I'm afraid syllables ain't but two words was a

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00:37:59,480 --> 00:38:05,480
Speaker 1: lot more syllables with the blank we do. Step it up?

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Speaker 1: Come on, blank up? You ain't played half a year man, Yeah,

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00:38:16,239 --> 00:38:18,960
Speaker 1: this is sad nets is down three old. I saw

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Speaker 1: Mary J at the game. She looked nice. Man, she's

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00:38:21,080 --> 00:38:26,600
Speaker 1: having beautiful Yeah, you get into it too. Absolutely, how

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00:38:26,719 --> 00:38:31,719
Speaker 1: Spike be into it? Drake Jack Nicholson? Jack Nicholson was

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00:38:31,760 --> 00:38:33,799
Speaker 1: into it? So let me just go to games all

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00:38:33,840 --> 00:38:36,160
Speaker 1: the time. Mary J. Blige, she s New York girl.

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00:38:36,239 --> 00:38:41,759
Speaker 1: She pulled it for him. Yeah, step it up, but

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Speaker 1: yours would just be a little different. Oh with mine

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00:38:46,000 --> 00:38:50,680
Speaker 1: had vibes way more colorful. Step it up. I don't

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00:38:50,719 --> 00:38:53,960
Speaker 1: give a damn how you step it shows out at

632
00:38:54,000 --> 00:38:55,600
Speaker 1: my nephew game. It don't matter what game he is.

633
00:38:55,600 --> 00:38:57,319
Speaker 1: I'm watching my rooting for rooting for you, Like when

634
00:38:57,320 --> 00:38:59,399
Speaker 1: you're gonna get off the bench man, me and him

635
00:38:59,440 --> 00:39:01,920
Speaker 1: both on the bit. Where did you gonna play to

636
00:39:02,000 --> 00:39:04,480
Speaker 1: flow away? Down here? I got a hotel to see this.

637
00:39:06,640 --> 00:39:16,480
Speaker 1: You came from Atlanta. Don't even all right, thanks guys

638
00:39:16,560 --> 00:39:18,480
Speaker 1: coming up with thirty four minutes after the hour. We're

639
00:39:18,480 --> 00:39:22,400
Speaker 1: gonna check Steve's voicemail right after this, you're listening to

640
00:39:22,840 --> 00:39:27,880
Speaker 1: Steve Morning Show. All right, Steve, it is time to

641
00:39:28,000 --> 00:39:30,000
Speaker 1: check your voicemail if you want to leave a voice

642
00:39:30,000 --> 00:39:31,759
Speaker 1: message for Steve. If you want to do that, all

643
00:39:31,760 --> 00:39:33,640
Speaker 1: you have to do is call him eight seven seven

644
00:39:33,719 --> 00:39:37,720
Speaker 1: twenty nine. Steve is the number. So Steve, remember last

645
00:39:37,800 --> 00:39:40,560
Speaker 1: week when you guys were asking the audience to call

646
00:39:40,680 --> 00:39:42,800
Speaker 1: in to say if Tommy was good looking or not?

647
00:39:43,000 --> 00:39:48,760
Speaker 1: Remember we did that last week? Oh yeah, well, okay,

648
00:39:49,000 --> 00:39:51,439
Speaker 1: all right, we're going to the phone. Call her name.

649
00:39:51,920 --> 00:39:55,720
Speaker 1: Megan left a message about Tommy. You're just knock and kirk.

650
00:39:56,640 --> 00:40:01,960
Speaker 1: I think tommins very fine name, skin complexion and he's

651
00:40:02,200 --> 00:40:08,600
Speaker 1: very tall, box all of hansel. Hey god, oh well,

652
00:40:08,640 --> 00:40:10,600
Speaker 1: I hope you like it because it sound like a man.

653
00:40:11,239 --> 00:40:19,920
Speaker 1: Oh doctor, Hey whoa tall dog and you've got nice

654
00:40:19,960 --> 00:40:29,640
Speaker 1: complexion on you? But here are you? All right? Let's

655
00:40:29,680 --> 00:40:34,759
Speaker 1: move on to Sabrina in Tampa Bay. Hey, Tommy, this

656
00:40:35,000 --> 00:40:39,640
Speaker 1: is Sabrina from Tampa Flora. I think you're fine and

657
00:40:42,400 --> 00:40:48,319
Speaker 1: I didn't hear what she said. She was saying, don't

658
00:40:48,320 --> 00:40:59,920
Speaker 1: worry about the bush about Yeah, all right, M Beverly

659
00:41:00,560 --> 00:41:04,799
Speaker 1: from Jersey has something to say about Tommy. I Steve.

660
00:41:05,000 --> 00:41:07,640
Speaker 1: My name is Beverly. I'm calling from New Jersey. I'm

661
00:41:07,680 --> 00:41:12,120
Speaker 1: calling regards to is Tommy fine? I think Tommy is fine.

662
00:41:12,239 --> 00:41:16,680
Speaker 1: It's hell. I think he dressed nice. He probably smells good.

663
00:41:17,400 --> 00:41:19,600
Speaker 1: And I just want to say that I love you, Steve.

664
00:41:19,800 --> 00:41:22,120
Speaker 1: I love your show, I love your words, I love

665
00:41:22,239 --> 00:41:25,120
Speaker 1: everything about you. I love your beautiful wife. May God

666
00:41:25,200 --> 00:41:30,080
Speaker 1: continue to bless you. And yes, Tommy is fine as hell.

667
00:41:30,560 --> 00:41:34,360
Speaker 1: Love you seed By. Wow. She puts some extra on

668
00:41:34,520 --> 00:41:37,360
Speaker 1: that one, didn't she. Let's just get some calls from somebody.

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Speaker 1: Don't go to church anymoment. All right. This one's from

670
00:41:42,239 --> 00:41:48,120
Speaker 1: No More, No More about Tommy. But this one's Hey, Steve,

671
00:41:48,239 --> 00:41:51,279
Speaker 1: this is Kathy Lord. Hey. I was just thinking, if

672
00:41:51,320 --> 00:41:55,800
Speaker 1: we all wear Man and it saves live, doesn't that

673
00:41:56,080 --> 00:41:59,440
Speaker 1: mean that we're all superhero? I was just thinking this

674
00:42:00,080 --> 00:42:06,240
Speaker 1: looking next, this inner in the wrong way. So yeah, okay,

675
00:42:07,080 --> 00:42:11,239
Speaker 1: the question was hollest Timmy. Look, I didn't call. I

676
00:42:11,320 --> 00:42:15,759
Speaker 1: didn't say calling here now, Timmy, I didn't ask you

677
00:42:15,880 --> 00:42:19,120
Speaker 1: to call in here and impersonate Tommy. Don't come in

678
00:42:19,280 --> 00:42:24,160
Speaker 1: here with the look. Don't ask remarks like Tommy be making. Um,

679
00:42:24,480 --> 00:42:32,080
Speaker 1: I just have a question if wearing man sage love mask,

680
00:42:32,719 --> 00:42:37,800
Speaker 1: ain't we all superheroes? The question was it is Tommy cute?

681
00:42:38,239 --> 00:42:41,600
Speaker 1: That's what we asked for, not can you do Timmy?

682
00:42:42,400 --> 00:42:46,880
Speaker 1: What's your impersonation of Timmy? We asked you what's Tommy cute? Now?

683
00:42:46,960 --> 00:42:50,080
Speaker 1: Three people thank you cute? We got nine million listeners

684
00:42:50,440 --> 00:42:56,200
Speaker 1: them ain't good? An asshole? Oh gotta meet that. How

685
00:42:56,239 --> 00:43:00,560
Speaker 1: I'm taking a good start though? Oh we with three

686
00:43:00,680 --> 00:43:06,560
Speaker 1: phone calls say nine million people there? All right? This

687
00:43:06,880 --> 00:43:10,160
Speaker 1: last color is um Zik from New York keeps the

688
00:43:10,200 --> 00:43:12,640
Speaker 1: taxi driver. Let's see what the end day. Hey Steve,

689
00:43:12,880 --> 00:43:14,920
Speaker 1: good morning. My name is Zeke. I'm calling you from

690
00:43:15,320 --> 00:43:19,680
Speaker 1: what happened, New York. I drive for disabled people in

691
00:43:19,760 --> 00:43:22,200
Speaker 1: New York. I listen to your program every day, My friend,

692
00:43:22,440 --> 00:43:25,160
Speaker 1: you do wonderful work. Man until tallman that the stop

693
00:43:25,280 --> 00:43:27,560
Speaker 1: of the frank you man. Hey Steve, if you're in

694
00:43:27,600 --> 00:43:30,200
Speaker 1: New York, he hit me up. Man, maybe I can

695
00:43:30,280 --> 00:43:34,440
Speaker 1: take you out and I'm get some some doubles. Have

696
00:43:34,560 --> 00:43:38,200
Speaker 1: you ever had double steeds. Yeah, man, it's a wonderful

697
00:43:38,320 --> 00:43:41,000
Speaker 1: dish from Trinidad. I'm from Drivedad originally, but I live

698
00:43:41,040 --> 00:43:44,440
Speaker 1: in New York by drive over here. I'm a taxi driver. Say, bro,

699
00:43:44,680 --> 00:43:46,480
Speaker 1: give me a holloas you in the city. But you

700
00:43:46,520 --> 00:43:48,759
Speaker 1: can do something all right, Stay safe for the good

701
00:43:48,800 --> 00:43:51,160
Speaker 1: work again, and thank you very much for the last

702
00:43:51,239 --> 00:43:55,279
Speaker 1: every day bro. Hey zeke. I appreciate the calls and everything. Man,

703
00:43:55,440 --> 00:43:57,800
Speaker 1: love the invitation, but I bet you won't catch my

704
00:43:57,920 --> 00:44:01,440
Speaker 1: black ass in the camp. Thank you for calling everything

705
00:44:01,560 --> 00:44:03,680
Speaker 1: about you. I loved everything about you. But I'm not

706
00:44:03,880 --> 00:44:06,680
Speaker 1: riding in your damn cab. You see me in the

707
00:44:06,760 --> 00:44:10,239
Speaker 1: cab in New York, man, But you know what I

708
00:44:10,320 --> 00:44:13,879
Speaker 1: do have to ride Coming up next, Fine, Tommy, it's

709
00:44:13,960 --> 00:44:17,879
Speaker 1: here with today's Hey, it was unanimous prank phone call

710
00:44:18,000 --> 00:44:22,400
Speaker 1: coming up next right after this. You're listening to morning

711
00:44:22,480 --> 00:44:27,000
Speaker 1: show coming up at the top of the hour, right

712
00:44:27,040 --> 00:44:30,479
Speaker 1: about four minutes after. It's my strawberry letter for today

713
00:44:30,520 --> 00:44:32,840
Speaker 1: and the subject is he doesn't make me feel safe.

714
00:44:33,760 --> 00:44:35,560
Speaker 1: We'll get into that see what that's all about in

715
00:44:35,640 --> 00:44:38,520
Speaker 1: just a few but right now the nephew is here,

716
00:44:38,920 --> 00:44:41,520
Speaker 1: or should I say the fine nephew is here with

717
00:44:41,680 --> 00:44:47,400
Speaker 1: today's prank phone call. Let's say it's Shirley. What you got? Fine,

718
00:44:47,640 --> 00:44:52,600
Speaker 1: it's it's section Okay, I'm it's unanimous. It's all nine

719
00:44:52,719 --> 00:44:58,920
Speaker 1: mean said it. I didn't well, actually of nine million,

720
00:44:59,080 --> 00:45:00,920
Speaker 1: but you know, are you out of the man? I

721
00:45:01,040 --> 00:45:04,360
Speaker 1: take them free? It's bad. Let's go. We got This

722
00:45:04,560 --> 00:45:09,759
Speaker 1: is a this is fight night, Fight night. Shut up, Jian,

723
00:45:09,920 --> 00:45:13,239
Speaker 1: this is fight night. Let's go. Hell. Hey, I'm trying

724
00:45:13,239 --> 00:45:16,480
Speaker 1: to speak to Troy. Yeah, here's hey, Troy. You're doing man?

725
00:45:16,560 --> 00:45:19,160
Speaker 1: It's Kirby Man. I live a couple of streets over

726
00:45:19,239 --> 00:45:23,040
Speaker 1: from you. What what's happening with your brother, Kirban Kenny?

727
00:45:23,400 --> 00:45:26,160
Speaker 1: Kenny gave me you got kid? You know Kenny on

728
00:45:26,280 --> 00:45:29,120
Speaker 1: your street? Right? Oh yeah he had no Kenny, Yeah yeah,

729
00:45:29,200 --> 00:45:31,239
Speaker 1: Kenny gave me your number. Man. I wanted to reach out.

730
00:45:31,280 --> 00:45:34,279
Speaker 1: I'm inviting a lot of people in the neighborhood, man,

731
00:45:34,400 --> 00:45:36,560
Speaker 1: to you know, Mayweather fight. So I'm inviting a lot

732
00:45:36,600 --> 00:45:38,359
Speaker 1: of people over to the fight party over here at

733
00:45:38,400 --> 00:45:40,880
Speaker 1: my house. Oh yeah, yeah, I'm gonna watch it on

734
00:45:40,960 --> 00:45:44,279
Speaker 1: fight too. Learns that don't sound like a bad did man? Okay? Okay,

735
00:45:44,320 --> 00:45:47,200
Speaker 1: well listen man, come on through. Everybody gonna be getting

736
00:45:47,200 --> 00:45:50,400
Speaker 1: here like around seven seven thirty and uh, man, we

737
00:45:50,520 --> 00:45:53,839
Speaker 1: got food. We got Luka, margaritea machine. My boy here

738
00:45:53,840 --> 00:45:55,520
Speaker 1: gonna be on the grill with the burgers and the

739
00:45:55,840 --> 00:45:58,120
Speaker 1: hot dogs. Man, and one of my other partner's gonna

740
00:45:58,120 --> 00:46:00,880
Speaker 1: be smoking some wings. Man, so we could man. So

741
00:46:00,960 --> 00:46:02,920
Speaker 1: I'm just inviting a bunch of people to the neighborhood

742
00:46:02,960 --> 00:46:04,960
Speaker 1: to come through. Cool. You need me to brace them through?

743
00:46:05,040 --> 00:46:08,880
Speaker 1: Mans from one anything. Uh look at now that you uh,

744
00:46:09,360 --> 00:46:11,320
Speaker 1: now that you mentioned it. Man, we we missed a

745
00:46:11,360 --> 00:46:14,160
Speaker 1: little something. Uh hey, let me let me ask you

746
00:46:14,280 --> 00:46:19,680
Speaker 1: this here. Try you um, you got cable at your house? Yeah, yeah, okay, okay,

747
00:46:19,800 --> 00:46:23,959
Speaker 1: listen here what we need man, I got about four

748
00:46:24,080 --> 00:46:27,840
Speaker 1: thousand feet a cable card. And what I want to

749
00:46:27,920 --> 00:46:31,840
Speaker 1: do is come over there and hook up this cable

750
00:46:31,960 --> 00:46:35,560
Speaker 1: card to your house and run it two streets over

751
00:46:36,080 --> 00:46:38,800
Speaker 1: to my house so we can watch the fight in

752
00:46:38,920 --> 00:46:41,960
Speaker 1: the backyard. Hey wait, wait, wait, hold up, man, I

753
00:46:42,040 --> 00:46:44,200
Speaker 1: know your hold up, man, ship, I know hold I

754
00:46:44,320 --> 00:46:46,400
Speaker 1: know you didn't just say I say that again? You

755
00:46:46,480 --> 00:46:49,520
Speaker 1: want you got see we got, like I say, we

756
00:46:49,640 --> 00:46:52,200
Speaker 1: got the food. The look of all of that man,

757
00:46:52,719 --> 00:46:54,560
Speaker 1: you know a lot of people coming over. But see

758
00:46:54,560 --> 00:46:56,799
Speaker 1: the problem is, I ain't got cable here at the house.

759
00:46:57,120 --> 00:46:59,040
Speaker 1: How is you gonna have a fight for it? And

760
00:46:59,160 --> 00:47:01,440
Speaker 1: you ain't got no And that's what I'm saying. That's

761
00:47:01,440 --> 00:47:03,279
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. You asked me work as you help

762
00:47:03,320 --> 00:47:06,000
Speaker 1: by wit, so that's what I'm asking you. I used

763
00:47:06,040 --> 00:47:07,440
Speaker 1: to wait for the cable coming. I know how to

764
00:47:07,520 --> 00:47:09,759
Speaker 1: look it up at your house. I know how to

765
00:47:09,840 --> 00:47:12,440
Speaker 1: buy pass pay per view. We're gonna run. It's two

766
00:47:12,480 --> 00:47:15,360
Speaker 1: streets so I got a real duable cable call. I

767
00:47:15,440 --> 00:47:17,600
Speaker 1: got a big TV. I'm gonna put out in the backyard.

768
00:47:17,719 --> 00:47:20,319
Speaker 1: You called me and invite me to a fight. Part

769
00:47:20,360 --> 00:47:23,000
Speaker 1: of y'all ain't got no no, no cable. Now you

770
00:47:23,080 --> 00:47:26,040
Speaker 1: want me to do something illegal and run folk thoys

771
00:47:26,120 --> 00:47:28,600
Speaker 1: and see the cable wives two streets over to my

772
00:47:28,800 --> 00:47:33,359
Speaker 1: backyard over to sit. I might heal d wife POLM

773
00:47:33,480 --> 00:47:36,800
Speaker 1: have man, get me put out. I'm already having my

774
00:47:36,880 --> 00:47:38,680
Speaker 1: mortgage are alridy. Now now you want me to do

775
00:47:38,760 --> 00:47:41,440
Speaker 1: something illegal, get me put out? Okay, I understand that.

776
00:47:41,480 --> 00:47:43,600
Speaker 1: Do will listen. What I'm saying is, do we just

777
00:47:43,719 --> 00:47:45,759
Speaker 1: talk about for a few hours. We ain't open. We

778
00:47:45,920 --> 00:47:47,279
Speaker 1: ain't like we're gonna do it for a couple of

779
00:47:47,360 --> 00:47:50,399
Speaker 1: days or not. I don't know how you've been even

780
00:47:50,440 --> 00:47:52,440
Speaker 1: to call it. Call up a cat man and invite

781
00:47:52,440 --> 00:47:53,960
Speaker 1: them out to a fight part. And you ain't got

782
00:47:54,080 --> 00:47:56,200
Speaker 1: no cable, okay, but I invited you to do. You

783
00:47:56,239 --> 00:47:58,840
Speaker 1: putn't get looking food and stuff. Man, You putn't have

784
00:47:58,920 --> 00:48:01,239
Speaker 1: a good time, do yo hard. Let me let me

785
00:48:01,280 --> 00:48:02,879
Speaker 1: get a little bit of you, okay before a couple

786
00:48:02,920 --> 00:48:05,160
Speaker 1: of hours so everybody can watch the fight. So you

787
00:48:05,239 --> 00:48:06,799
Speaker 1: want to have a fight part that in my hout, man,

788
00:48:06,800 --> 00:48:08,320
Speaker 1: I don't know you like that. You know I'm not

789
00:48:08,480 --> 00:48:11,120
Speaker 1: saying we have an it. I don't how house. Man.

790
00:48:11,440 --> 00:48:14,160
Speaker 1: I was like, so I'm gonna we're having it at

791
00:48:14,239 --> 00:48:17,160
Speaker 1: my were just using your cave. Man. I can't have

792
00:48:17,360 --> 00:48:19,279
Speaker 1: no cab. I don't do nothing that illegal. Man, So

793
00:48:19,400 --> 00:48:21,200
Speaker 1: I'm not having no polies in front of my house. Man.

794
00:48:21,239 --> 00:48:23,200
Speaker 1: I got I got a family. Now, I'm a family man.

795
00:48:23,400 --> 00:48:25,080
Speaker 1: I got to get up every morning, go to work.

796
00:48:25,160 --> 00:48:27,799
Speaker 1: I work hard. I'm not and I got that man.

797
00:48:27,880 --> 00:48:30,160
Speaker 1: I'm just killing you for a few hours, man, so

798
00:48:30,400 --> 00:48:32,719
Speaker 1: everybody see the main weather fight. Man. Man, you're saying

799
00:48:32,840 --> 00:48:35,200
Speaker 1: clever man, Kennedy, Man, I don't know. I don't really know,

800
00:48:35,320 --> 00:48:37,480
Speaker 1: y'all people like that. Man, I don't know, Kennedy. Man,

801
00:48:37,520 --> 00:48:39,359
Speaker 1: I didn't know because of keep a nice yard. Man,

802
00:48:39,560 --> 00:48:41,560
Speaker 1: I don't know, y'all. I can't be having no laws

803
00:48:41,640 --> 00:48:43,560
Speaker 1: and all this in my children running around this cave

804
00:48:43,600 --> 00:48:45,359
Speaker 1: but coming from my highlight. I can't have that. Man.

805
00:48:45,560 --> 00:48:47,160
Speaker 1: I'm out here with the white shaw. These white folks

806
00:48:47,200 --> 00:48:49,359
Speaker 1: are not having it. Man. I understand all that, man,

807
00:48:49,440 --> 00:48:51,080
Speaker 1: but I didn't invite it all these people. I can't

808
00:48:51,120 --> 00:48:53,480
Speaker 1: disappoint these people. I got to have to fight on

809
00:48:53,680 --> 00:48:56,440
Speaker 1: at the house. I understand your situation. Brother. I want

810
00:48:56,480 --> 00:48:58,120
Speaker 1: to be at your house watching the fight too, But

811
00:48:58,200 --> 00:48:59,680
Speaker 1: I can't know where in the run up the hair.

812
00:48:59,760 --> 00:49:02,120
Speaker 1: No for the cable running from my house, I can't

813
00:49:02,160 --> 00:49:04,279
Speaker 1: see that. What happen. I'm not hitting a suburb now

814
00:49:04,360 --> 00:49:05,799
Speaker 1: with a family, and now I can't do them type

815
00:49:05,800 --> 00:49:07,480
Speaker 1: of thing. Man. I can't. I don't want to the police.

816
00:49:07,480 --> 00:49:09,880
Speaker 1: I don't want the cable, can man? You only one

817
00:49:10,000 --> 00:49:12,040
Speaker 1: in the suburb. I'm not here too. What I'm trying

818
00:49:12,080 --> 00:49:14,759
Speaker 1: to tell you? If I'm nothing to disappoint the people now,

819
00:49:14,800 --> 00:49:17,040
Speaker 1: I want to have your approval, But I'm coming to

820
00:49:17,120 --> 00:49:19,360
Speaker 1: hook this cable up. You're coming well to hook up

821
00:49:19,360 --> 00:49:21,440
Speaker 1: from cable. I'm coming to your eyes to hook this

822
00:49:21,560 --> 00:49:24,120
Speaker 1: table and run it two streets old. Oh. So if

823
00:49:24,200 --> 00:49:26,040
Speaker 1: I say you can't hook it up, you're gonna come

824
00:49:26,040 --> 00:49:27,799
Speaker 1: and hook up anywhere. That was you're telling me. I'm

825
00:49:27,880 --> 00:49:30,719
Speaker 1: telling you I can't disappoint these people. I'm coming to

826
00:49:30,800 --> 00:49:34,719
Speaker 1: hook this cable up, man, whether you like it or not. Now,

827
00:49:34,760 --> 00:49:36,840
Speaker 1: if you put me in front of my hour fut

828
00:49:36,960 --> 00:49:39,560
Speaker 1: for the cable, it's thennae. I got it right. Hey man,

829
00:49:39,800 --> 00:49:42,120
Speaker 1: I can't disappoint these people. Now, I'm just trying to

830
00:49:42,160 --> 00:49:44,840
Speaker 1: get you to show some law for four pm. You

831
00:49:44,880 --> 00:49:47,160
Speaker 1: don't have a shot form. If you don't come around house,

832
00:49:47,280 --> 00:49:48,920
Speaker 1: you're bringing them people you got coming up with you

833
00:49:49,080 --> 00:49:51,279
Speaker 1: so they can see the fight. Hey man, what are you?

834
00:49:51,320 --> 00:49:53,120
Speaker 1: What is you saying? You're trying to tell me you

835
00:49:53,160 --> 00:49:54,600
Speaker 1: ain't gonna let me hook the cable up. When I

836
00:49:54,640 --> 00:49:56,840
Speaker 1: get over that, I'm standing up on it. I'll be

837
00:49:56,880 --> 00:49:59,799
Speaker 1: waiting out there with no short the shot. You're gonna

838
00:50:00,160 --> 00:50:02,239
Speaker 1: fit teen around with me? Hey, non, I'm nothing to

839
00:50:02,320 --> 00:50:04,239
Speaker 1: see and kenny me you was I don't know who

840
00:50:04,320 --> 00:50:05,640
Speaker 1: to extend and I you're not going to give me

841
00:50:05,680 --> 00:50:07,000
Speaker 1: the breaking on a long in front of my chittering

842
00:50:07,080 --> 00:50:09,400
Speaker 1: out here. Man, I'm sitting nine years. I'll play them

843
00:50:09,440 --> 00:50:11,320
Speaker 1: games man when I was you know, you maybele the

844
00:50:11,360 --> 00:50:13,160
Speaker 1: cut of course me with a lot of money, but hey,

845
00:50:13,320 --> 00:50:15,000
Speaker 1: I'm not going for I'm not going for that route

846
00:50:15,040 --> 00:50:17,080
Speaker 1: to sign brother. I'm not having all that activity going

847
00:50:17,120 --> 00:50:19,080
Speaker 1: on in my house. I'm coming over that and I'm

848
00:50:19,280 --> 00:50:21,520
Speaker 1: get up this cable when you come over here, you

849
00:50:21,600 --> 00:50:24,040
Speaker 1: to man, I got something fun of you testing you

850
00:50:24,160 --> 00:50:25,759
Speaker 1: come over. I'm gonna sitting in front of my house

851
00:50:25,840 --> 00:50:28,720
Speaker 1: right now. I can't it comes winning two, mister Cary,

852
00:50:28,880 --> 00:50:31,160
Speaker 1: I got something on y'all all. I'm telling you if

853
00:50:31,239 --> 00:50:33,759
Speaker 1: I'm coming over that my cable though, so these people

854
00:50:33,800 --> 00:50:36,440
Speaker 1: can watch height they were lining up dead. Yeah, and

855
00:50:36,480 --> 00:50:38,520
Speaker 1: you're gonna come take some care from my house. Line

856
00:50:38,520 --> 00:50:40,399
Speaker 1: it up. I'm gonna have my wife's taking my hands

857
00:50:40,480 --> 00:50:42,640
Speaker 1: up right now. So I'm beings like. I got one

858
00:50:42,719 --> 00:50:44,640
Speaker 1: more thing I need to say to you though, issue listening.

859
00:50:44,719 --> 00:50:46,600
Speaker 1: I don't care what you say. You come in front

860
00:50:46,600 --> 00:50:48,359
Speaker 1: of my house, You're better raising him with you because

861
00:50:48,360 --> 00:50:50,040
Speaker 1: you're gonna leave here you con front of my house

862
00:50:50,040 --> 00:50:52,239
Speaker 1: with a cable car. I don't gonna who you is.

863
00:50:52,440 --> 00:50:54,799
Speaker 1: And I'm gonna whop kenning when them I see him,

864
00:50:54,960 --> 00:50:57,440
Speaker 1: I'm whooping him on side. I don't get my chairing

865
00:50:57,480 --> 00:50:59,520
Speaker 1: in the car and his shooting to come and I'm

866
00:50:59,520 --> 00:51:01,800
Speaker 1: gonna whoop you if you come out here then this

867
00:51:01,880 --> 00:51:04,920
Speaker 1: time about your camera. I'm on you right here, man,

868
00:51:05,960 --> 00:51:08,719
Speaker 1: right now. I said, I got one more thing to

869
00:51:08,840 --> 00:51:11,520
Speaker 1: say to you. What you got to say is you

870
00:51:11,719 --> 00:51:14,800
Speaker 1: listen to me. I'm listening. This is nephew caught me

871
00:51:14,920 --> 00:51:17,600
Speaker 1: from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You just got franked

872
00:51:17,640 --> 00:51:24,080
Speaker 1: by your boy. Who is who you say is here?

873
00:51:24,440 --> 00:51:27,680
Speaker 1: This is nephew tire me from the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

874
00:51:27,960 --> 00:51:31,000
Speaker 1: And I know you ain't called my phone. Man, I'm

875
00:51:31,080 --> 00:51:33,279
Speaker 1: my blood pressure hid here. You got me riding the

876
00:51:33,320 --> 00:51:35,160
Speaker 1: squabrel mean, I got me a cliss from and I

877
00:51:36,000 --> 00:51:37,839
Speaker 1: my cliss rom that a little thing, man. You got

878
00:51:37,880 --> 00:51:41,719
Speaker 1: me riding somebody out here? All right, man, I gotta

879
00:51:41,760 --> 00:51:43,960
Speaker 1: ask you this right here, choice, what is what is

880
00:51:44,040 --> 00:51:46,880
Speaker 1: the baddest I'm talking about the badest radio show in

881
00:51:47,000 --> 00:51:52,680
Speaker 1: the land, man, Steve Harvey Morning Show man, y'all crazy coming?

882
00:51:56,239 --> 00:52:02,520
Speaker 1: That was right down. Man, Really want my favorite first

883
00:52:02,560 --> 00:52:07,400
Speaker 1: of all ignorance to say, I'm glad you asked me that.

884
00:52:07,520 --> 00:52:12,480
Speaker 1: Don Look, I got four thousand feet of cable. I'm

885
00:52:12,480 --> 00:52:18,839
Speaker 1: gonna running two streets over. Man, Man, what did you say?

886
00:52:24,080 --> 00:52:27,920
Speaker 1: D d My favorite lines and the whole thing. What

887
00:52:28,080 --> 00:52:33,520
Speaker 1: did you say? Huh dog? You can't run four thousand

888
00:52:33,640 --> 00:52:37,960
Speaker 1: feet of cable from my house two streets over. I'm

889
00:52:38,040 --> 00:52:42,200
Speaker 1: out here with these wife folks. That's my line. They

890
00:52:42,239 --> 00:52:45,240
Speaker 1: ain't having it. Hold up, I got two more lines.

891
00:52:45,840 --> 00:52:48,040
Speaker 1: If they come over here, I'm gonna be in the

892
00:52:48,120 --> 00:52:53,200
Speaker 1: front with my shirt off. My next favorite line was

893
00:52:53,680 --> 00:52:56,680
Speaker 1: I've been going here and have my wife tape off

894
00:52:56,800 --> 00:53:02,560
Speaker 1: my hands. This dude is Fenn the Beef. Yeah, come on, Toughie,

895
00:53:03,120 --> 00:53:07,200
Speaker 1: come on, Oh my god, come on Toffy. Oh other line,

896
00:53:08,320 --> 00:53:11,440
Speaker 1: I promise you you can't go fifteen rounds with me.

897
00:53:14,360 --> 00:53:19,560
Speaker 1: That boy thore my white tape of my hands. I said, yeah,

898
00:53:19,800 --> 00:53:22,440
Speaker 1: just do right here. Business a few years ago you

899
00:53:22,480 --> 00:53:24,279
Speaker 1: could have you could have cohersed me. A few years

900
00:53:24,280 --> 00:53:26,239
Speaker 1: ago with no money, you could have gotten me. But

901
00:53:26,840 --> 00:53:29,520
Speaker 1: I got a family now. Man thirty nine years old. Man,

902
00:53:29,600 --> 00:53:31,200
Speaker 1: I can't head any law in front of my house

903
00:53:31,239 --> 00:53:35,680
Speaker 1: from my kids. Man. Yeah, all right, listen coming up next,

904
00:53:35,760 --> 00:53:38,920
Speaker 1: thanking you Strawberry letter for today. The subject is he

905
00:53:39,040 --> 00:53:41,840
Speaker 1: doesn't make me feel safe. We'll get back into it

906
00:53:42,040 --> 00:53:46,040
Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

907
00:53:48,600 --> 00:53:51,120
Speaker 1: Time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need

908
00:53:51,160 --> 00:53:55,520
Speaker 1: advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting and more, please

909
00:53:55,560 --> 00:53:58,560
Speaker 1: submit your Strawberry letter to Steve HARVEYFM dot com and

910
00:53:58,719 --> 00:54:01,759
Speaker 1: click submit Jobberry Letter. We could be reading your letter

911
00:54:01,920 --> 00:54:05,719
Speaker 1: live pap on the air. It's just like we're gonna

912
00:54:05,760 --> 00:54:08,319
Speaker 1: do this one right here, right now, and it could

913
00:54:08,320 --> 00:54:11,960
Speaker 1: be yours. You never know. Bugle up and hold on tight.

914
00:54:12,000 --> 00:54:15,760
Speaker 1: We gotta four you here. It is Strawberry Letter. Thank you, Tommy.

915
00:54:15,800 --> 00:54:19,359
Speaker 1: What's your fine self? All right? Subject he doesn't make

916
00:54:19,440 --> 00:54:24,279
Speaker 1: me feel safe. Dear Stephen Shirley. I'm a twenty nine

917
00:54:24,360 --> 00:54:27,600
Speaker 1: year old woman and my fiance is thirty. We met

918
00:54:27,640 --> 00:54:29,799
Speaker 1: at a house party four years ago and we got

919
00:54:29,880 --> 00:54:33,000
Speaker 1: engaged a few weeks ago. We started out as friends

920
00:54:33,080 --> 00:54:35,800
Speaker 1: for a while because of his height. He is shorter

921
00:54:35,920 --> 00:54:38,400
Speaker 1: than the men I used to date. I love his

922
00:54:38,520 --> 00:54:42,120
Speaker 1: personality and that's what got me hooked on him. Whenever

923
00:54:42,200 --> 00:54:45,800
Speaker 1: we are together, everyone always says we're such a cute couple.

924
00:54:46,320 --> 00:54:49,640
Speaker 1: It's because we're short. I'm five to three and he

925
00:54:50,120 --> 00:54:53,040
Speaker 1: is five six, but he loves to say he is

926
00:54:53,120 --> 00:54:55,879
Speaker 1: a lot taller. He works out a lot, so he's

927
00:54:55,920 --> 00:54:59,320
Speaker 1: got muscles everywhere. But he's not an alpha male and

928
00:54:59,440 --> 00:55:01,800
Speaker 1: I don't. He'll protect it when we are out. And

929
00:55:02,120 --> 00:55:05,440
Speaker 1: here's why we got engaged and then went to Paradise

930
00:55:05,560 --> 00:55:09,520
Speaker 1: Island to celebrate. Our getaway was going great until the

931
00:55:09,680 --> 00:55:12,440
Speaker 1: second day when I was sitting by the pool and

932
00:55:12,520 --> 00:55:14,560
Speaker 1: a man came over and tried to talk to me.

933
00:55:15,000 --> 00:55:17,320
Speaker 1: I let him know that I was newly engaged, and

934
00:55:17,440 --> 00:55:20,759
Speaker 1: my fiance went to get me a drink. He said

935
00:55:20,840 --> 00:55:22,719
Speaker 1: that was cool, but he was going to sit by

936
00:55:22,800 --> 00:55:26,160
Speaker 1: me anyway. When my fiance came back, they shook hands

937
00:55:26,719 --> 00:55:29,640
Speaker 1: and my fiance asked him if he needed anything. The

938
00:55:29,719 --> 00:55:31,960
Speaker 1: guy said he was just sitting there trying to get

939
00:55:32,000 --> 00:55:34,520
Speaker 1: to know me better. But I told him I'm engaged.

940
00:55:35,000 --> 00:55:37,520
Speaker 1: My fiance laughed it off and leaned back in his chair.

941
00:55:38,120 --> 00:55:40,360
Speaker 1: Then the guy said he could still take me, but

942
00:55:40,480 --> 00:55:43,120
Speaker 1: he was there to relax, not to steal anyone's girl.

943
00:55:43,480 --> 00:55:45,960
Speaker 1: I looked at my fiance so crazy, and he was

944
00:55:46,080 --> 00:55:49,680
Speaker 1: lying back, drinking his girly frozen drink, and I could

945
00:55:49,760 --> 00:55:53,520
Speaker 1: not believe he didn't say a word. He didn't ask

946
00:55:53,560 --> 00:55:55,360
Speaker 1: the guy to move or asked me to move with

947
00:55:55,560 --> 00:55:58,480
Speaker 1: him to a different area. I set there stressed out

948
00:55:58,560 --> 00:56:01,600
Speaker 1: because he didn't protect me. Am I overreacting? Or is

949
00:56:01,680 --> 00:56:04,680
Speaker 1: this a major sign that I'm marrying a whim? Why

950
00:56:04,719 --> 00:56:09,960
Speaker 1: didn't he say anything? Well, you're not engaged to Will Smith,

951
00:56:10,320 --> 00:56:14,000
Speaker 1: that's for sure. Will Smith is not your man because

952
00:56:14,040 --> 00:56:18,080
Speaker 1: he didn't do anything and Will Smith did. But I'm

953
00:56:18,120 --> 00:56:20,919
Speaker 1: going to take a little different approach to this letter.

954
00:56:21,480 --> 00:56:24,520
Speaker 1: I agree with you. Women do like to feel protected

955
00:56:24,680 --> 00:56:27,160
Speaker 1: when we're out. We absolutely do. We like to feel

956
00:56:27,200 --> 00:56:31,840
Speaker 1: that security when we're with our men. But it sounds

957
00:56:31,880 --> 00:56:35,719
Speaker 1: like your man was saying to the guy, if you

958
00:56:35,840 --> 00:56:37,560
Speaker 1: think you can get her, go ahead and shoot your

959
00:56:37,600 --> 00:56:41,600
Speaker 1: best shot. Your fiance had probably already sized him up

960
00:56:41,600 --> 00:56:43,440
Speaker 1: when the guy hit on you at the pool. He

961
00:56:43,600 --> 00:56:45,879
Speaker 1: was at the bar, remember, getting drinks. He probably saw

962
00:56:45,920 --> 00:56:48,680
Speaker 1: everything go down, and that's why he wasn't worried. I

963
00:56:48,800 --> 00:56:52,279
Speaker 1: think your man sounded confident and not worried about this

964
00:56:52,440 --> 00:56:54,880
Speaker 1: man at all. This other man, he probably thought he

965
00:56:54,960 --> 00:56:57,920
Speaker 1: could take him if something jumped off, if he had

966
00:56:57,960 --> 00:57:00,880
Speaker 1: to throw the hands, he probably would. And I think

967
00:57:00,960 --> 00:57:02,960
Speaker 1: that's why he laughed and just leaned back in his

968
00:57:03,120 --> 00:57:06,520
Speaker 1: chair and sipped his cocktail. I don't think he's going

969
00:57:06,600 --> 00:57:08,560
Speaker 1: to the gym every day and working out for nothing.

970
00:57:08,640 --> 00:57:11,839
Speaker 1: He said he has muscles everywhere. I suppose he could

971
00:57:11,880 --> 00:57:14,000
Speaker 1: have told the guy to keep it moving, to leave

972
00:57:14,080 --> 00:57:16,920
Speaker 1: you alone, to get up, you know, all of that.

973
00:57:17,000 --> 00:57:18,760
Speaker 1: He could have customed out. He could have punched him

974
00:57:18,760 --> 00:57:21,400
Speaker 1: in the face, but he decided to play it cool

975
00:57:21,520 --> 00:57:24,360
Speaker 1: and not start anything while you guys were on vacac.

976
00:57:24,560 --> 00:57:26,560
Speaker 1: He could have done more, he could have said more,

977
00:57:26,960 --> 00:57:29,960
Speaker 1: but I think he took the high road out of

978
00:57:30,040 --> 00:57:31,960
Speaker 1: the country. I think that's what he did. If you're

979
00:57:32,000 --> 00:57:34,439
Speaker 1: concerned about his method, I think you need to talk

980
00:57:34,520 --> 00:57:36,120
Speaker 1: to him and let him know how you feel that

981
00:57:36,240 --> 00:57:39,600
Speaker 1: you don't feel protected, you don't feel safe, and you

982
00:57:39,680 --> 00:57:41,680
Speaker 1: know I don't want you to go into this marriage.

983
00:57:41,720 --> 00:57:44,120
Speaker 1: If you feel this way, you need some reassurance from

984
00:57:44,160 --> 00:57:50,400
Speaker 1: this guy. You want to feel secure, Steve, I don't

985
00:57:50,400 --> 00:57:59,160
Speaker 1: even go ahead. I was leading Miss letter just rubbing

986
00:57:59,280 --> 00:58:04,560
Speaker 1: my thighs on top of you. I couldn't even what

987
00:58:05,600 --> 00:58:10,080
Speaker 1: I already know because I kept waiting. I kept waiting

988
00:58:10,600 --> 00:58:15,200
Speaker 1: for him. Yeah, and what twenty nine year old woman

989
00:58:15,880 --> 00:58:19,280
Speaker 1: fiance thirty met at a house party four years ago,

990
00:58:19,560 --> 00:58:23,240
Speaker 1: got engaged a few weeks ago. Started out as friends

991
00:58:23,280 --> 00:58:28,400
Speaker 1: because you know, of his height, he's shorter than the

992
00:58:28,520 --> 00:58:35,400
Speaker 1: men you know I used to date. I love this personality,

993
00:58:35,480 --> 00:58:38,040
Speaker 1: and we hooked up on him. Now whenever we're together,

994
00:58:38,120 --> 00:58:42,720
Speaker 1: people always say we're such cute couple. It's because we shot.

995
00:58:44,280 --> 00:58:46,959
Speaker 1: I'm fied three and he five six. But he loved

996
00:58:47,000 --> 00:58:51,280
Speaker 1: to say here a lot taller. This is so fun,

997
00:58:54,440 --> 00:59:02,520
Speaker 1: just what, it's so familiar. So I'm not gonna say anything.

998
00:59:02,680 --> 00:59:07,400
Speaker 1: But I know men who say that a lot taller

999
00:59:07,520 --> 00:59:10,760
Speaker 1: than they are all the time. And y'all all cute

1000
00:59:10,800 --> 00:59:13,720
Speaker 1: couple because you five three and he five six. But

1001
00:59:13,880 --> 00:59:17,800
Speaker 1: he say here a lot taller all the time. They

1002
00:59:17,920 --> 00:59:21,200
Speaker 1: do that he works out a lot. Oh this is so,

1003
00:59:22,800 --> 00:59:26,880
Speaker 1: he works out a lot, always running. It just helped

1004
00:59:26,960 --> 00:59:33,080
Speaker 1: the lady. Helped the lady. I am, okay, I'm sorry

1005
00:59:33,120 --> 00:59:37,760
Speaker 1: to you know, you get caught up Steve, and he's

1006
00:59:38,160 --> 00:59:41,800
Speaker 1: got muscles everywhere, but he's not an alpha male. Now

1007
00:59:41,960 --> 00:59:44,360
Speaker 1: that's the only reason this ain't about Tommy, because Tommy

1008
00:59:44,520 --> 00:59:49,040
Speaker 1: is an alpha mayle as crazy. He won't. He ain't

1009
00:59:49,040 --> 00:59:51,800
Speaker 1: got a lot of muscles everywhere, but he do have muscles,

1010
00:59:53,680 --> 01:00:00,400
Speaker 1: but everything else? Who close about Tommy? We now where

1011
01:00:00,440 --> 01:00:05,040
Speaker 1: has Paradise Island? Why do I know that? Is? Okay?

1012
01:00:07,320 --> 01:00:09,800
Speaker 1: I get away. He was going great until the second day.

1013
01:00:10,640 --> 01:00:14,160
Speaker 1: Sitting by the pool, a man came over and tried

1014
01:00:14,240 --> 01:00:16,320
Speaker 1: to talk right hold that thought. This is where the

1015
01:00:16,440 --> 01:00:22,800
Speaker 1: letter gonna go crazy. Okay, surely totally dis We disagree

1016
01:00:22,840 --> 01:00:25,240
Speaker 1: on this one. I knew we would. All Right, listen,

1017
01:00:25,320 --> 01:00:27,560
Speaker 1: we'll have part two of Steve's response coming up in

1018
01:00:27,600 --> 01:00:32,080
Speaker 1: twenty three minutes after the hour. Today's Strawberry letter subjects

1019
01:00:32,120 --> 01:00:34,920
Speaker 1: he doesn't make me feel safe. He doesn't make me

1020
01:00:35,000 --> 01:00:38,040
Speaker 1: feel safe. We'll get back into it. Gets Steve's response

1021
01:00:38,200 --> 01:00:41,720
Speaker 1: part two coming up right after this. You're listening to

1022
01:00:42,920 --> 01:00:46,200
Speaker 1: Morning Show. All right, Come on, Steve, let's recap today's

1023
01:00:46,200 --> 01:00:50,440
Speaker 1: Strawberry letter. The subject is he doesn't make me feel safe,

1024
01:00:51,200 --> 01:00:54,200
Speaker 1: and I think we have a problem here. I've heard

1025
01:00:54,240 --> 01:00:57,920
Speaker 1: Show's response and that's fine, but let me explain something

1026
01:00:57,960 --> 01:01:01,000
Speaker 1: to you now, y'all look cute, ass coupling to everything.

1027
01:01:01,080 --> 01:01:04,160
Speaker 1: People call y'all cute because you're short. You five three,

1028
01:01:04,280 --> 01:01:08,160
Speaker 1: he five six, you know, and people think y'all cute. Now.

1029
01:01:08,240 --> 01:01:11,360
Speaker 1: He always telling people he a lot taller. I don't

1030
01:01:11,400 --> 01:01:13,880
Speaker 1: know how you're gonna keep telling me you're talling. You ain't.

1031
01:01:13,960 --> 01:01:17,640
Speaker 1: I've been dealing with that for years, So you can

1032
01:01:17,760 --> 01:01:21,800
Speaker 1: stop telling me you're tall coast to me, you ain't so,

1033
01:01:21,960 --> 01:01:25,040
Speaker 1: but let's get off of that. Because you're tall and

1034
01:01:25,160 --> 01:01:29,160
Speaker 1: I knew it, and I've been around basketball players and

1035
01:01:29,360 --> 01:01:34,000
Speaker 1: looking up going one, I'd be damned. Man's six two.

1036
01:01:34,040 --> 01:01:36,280
Speaker 1: Ain't nothing right here, ain't throwing all my shots out

1037
01:01:36,320 --> 01:01:40,600
Speaker 1: in the hallway. But he's not an aw for male

1038
01:01:40,720 --> 01:01:42,800
Speaker 1: and I don't feel protective when we're out in here.

1039
01:01:42,960 --> 01:01:45,280
Speaker 1: While we got engaged, we went to Paradise Island and

1040
01:01:45,320 --> 01:01:48,400
Speaker 1: celebrate our gataway. It was going great until the second day.

1041
01:01:48,960 --> 01:01:50,960
Speaker 1: I'm sitting by the pool and the moment man came

1042
01:01:51,000 --> 01:01:53,280
Speaker 1: over and tried to talk to me, I let him

1043
01:01:53,320 --> 01:01:55,560
Speaker 1: know I was newly engaged, and my fiance went to

1044
01:01:55,600 --> 01:01:58,360
Speaker 1: give me a drink. He said it was cool, but

1045
01:01:58,520 --> 01:02:01,960
Speaker 1: he was gonna sit by me way. When my fiance

1046
01:02:02,240 --> 01:02:06,200
Speaker 1: came back, they shook hands and my fiance asked him

1047
01:02:06,240 --> 01:02:09,360
Speaker 1: if he needed something. The guy said he was just

1048
01:02:09,560 --> 01:02:12,960
Speaker 1: sitting there trying to get to know me better. But

1049
01:02:13,120 --> 01:02:17,160
Speaker 1: I told him I'm engaged. My fiance laughed it off

1050
01:02:17,320 --> 01:02:20,840
Speaker 1: and leaned back in his chair. Then the guy said

1051
01:02:20,920 --> 01:02:24,920
Speaker 1: he could still take me, but he was dad of relax,

1052
01:02:25,080 --> 01:02:29,040
Speaker 1: not to steal anybody's girl. I looked at my fiance

1053
01:02:29,280 --> 01:02:31,560
Speaker 1: so crazy, and he was lying back drinking his girl.

1054
01:02:31,600 --> 01:02:33,920
Speaker 1: He froze and drink and I could not believe he

1055
01:02:34,000 --> 01:02:36,040
Speaker 1: did not say a word. He didn't say to the

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01:02:36,120 --> 01:02:38,120
Speaker 1: guy move or asked me to move with him to

1057
01:02:38,200 --> 01:02:41,280
Speaker 1: a different area. I set that stressed out because he

1058
01:02:41,400 --> 01:02:44,320
Speaker 1: didn't protect me and my overreacting. Was this a major

1059
01:02:44,400 --> 01:02:47,080
Speaker 1: sign that I married a whim? Why didn't he say anything?

1060
01:02:47,360 --> 01:02:50,720
Speaker 1: I don't think you overacting at all, And I'm gonna

1061
01:02:50,720 --> 01:02:52,840
Speaker 1: tell you because these are the rules of manhood. This

1062
01:02:53,000 --> 01:02:56,240
Speaker 1: is man engagement. I'm not asking anybody out that to

1063
01:02:56,400 --> 01:02:58,640
Speaker 1: agree with me. I don't gonna give a damn. How

1064
01:02:58,760 --> 01:03:02,880
Speaker 1: you feel is how it'd go. Because I've had something

1065
01:03:03,000 --> 01:03:07,280
Speaker 1: similar happened to me when I first started dating Marjorie.

1066
01:03:07,560 --> 01:03:11,040
Speaker 1: We were standing at a party. She asked, I said,

1067
01:03:11,120 --> 01:03:13,000
Speaker 1: you want something to drink. I said, I'm gonna get

1068
01:03:13,040 --> 01:03:16,000
Speaker 1: your champagne. We're standing there with about two three people.

1069
01:03:16,360 --> 01:03:18,680
Speaker 1: I told the guys, I say, hey man, this is

1070
01:03:18,720 --> 01:03:23,480
Speaker 1: my fiance right here. This is Marjorie introduced it to

1071
01:03:23,640 --> 01:03:25,640
Speaker 1: some guy. I'm gonna go get a drink. I go

1072
01:03:25,760 --> 01:03:27,640
Speaker 1: get a drinking. Now, what I was doing was marking

1073
01:03:27,720 --> 01:03:31,480
Speaker 1: my territory. What happened in this ladder was the guy

1074
01:03:31,840 --> 01:03:35,120
Speaker 1: had been watching her from a distance and him so

1075
01:03:35,280 --> 01:03:39,120
Speaker 1: when he got up, he swooped in. He had already

1076
01:03:39,240 --> 01:03:42,240
Speaker 1: sized him up, figured he little man going on out

1077
01:03:42,280 --> 01:03:44,400
Speaker 1: the way. He walked his tall ass over there and

1078
01:03:44,440 --> 01:03:47,200
Speaker 1: set out and started talking. So this dude, I come

1079
01:03:47,240 --> 01:03:49,720
Speaker 1: back with the drink. He's standing there and I'm walking up.

1080
01:03:49,840 --> 01:03:52,200
Speaker 1: He don't see me coming, and his head is tilted

1081
01:03:52,280 --> 01:03:54,760
Speaker 1: to the side talking to Margrete. Now I know when

1082
01:03:54,800 --> 01:03:57,680
Speaker 1: a man got his head cocked to the side, I

1083
01:03:57,800 --> 01:04:00,760
Speaker 1: know what's happening. So I walked up and poured the

1084
01:04:00,880 --> 01:04:05,040
Speaker 1: drink on it. He went, oh, man, hold up, damn,

1085
01:04:05,120 --> 01:04:07,120
Speaker 1: you just poured the drink on it. I said, hey, man,

1086
01:04:07,560 --> 01:04:10,040
Speaker 1: didn't I tell you when I went over here. Who

1087
01:04:10,120 --> 01:04:13,320
Speaker 1: she was? Dog? We're just talking, na, dog, you ain't

1088
01:04:13,400 --> 01:04:16,240
Speaker 1: just talking, you're hitting on it. And I told your

1089
01:04:16,280 --> 01:04:18,760
Speaker 1: ass He said, man, you're just gonna pour a drink

1090
01:04:18,840 --> 01:04:23,440
Speaker 1: on me because I'm trying to get it started. Then

1091
01:04:23,480 --> 01:04:25,440
Speaker 1: you ain't doing nothing I can't handle. So that was it.

1092
01:04:25,640 --> 01:04:28,320
Speaker 1: That's how my reaction to it. So now he come

1093
01:04:28,360 --> 01:04:32,160
Speaker 1: back with his drink. The girls and told him I'm

1094
01:04:32,480 --> 01:04:37,400
Speaker 1: help with my fiance. Say you newly engaged, and he

1095
01:04:37,480 --> 01:04:39,640
Speaker 1: went to get you a drink. He said, that's cool,

1096
01:04:40,040 --> 01:04:43,600
Speaker 1: but I'm gonna sit by you anyway. Then the fiance

1097
01:04:43,920 --> 01:04:47,320
Speaker 1: shurely came back. They shook hands on my fiance, asking me,

1098
01:04:47,520 --> 01:04:50,000
Speaker 1: my fiance, do we need something because see right now

1099
01:04:50,040 --> 01:04:54,560
Speaker 1: I'm finging this thinning go down? Hey man, you need something? Nah? Man,

1100
01:04:55,040 --> 01:04:56,880
Speaker 1: I'm just sitting here. I was trying to get to

1101
01:04:56,960 --> 01:05:00,600
Speaker 1: know your girl better. But she told me she was engaged.

1102
01:05:02,000 --> 01:05:04,760
Speaker 1: And then my fiance laughed it off and leaned back

1103
01:05:05,160 --> 01:05:08,080
Speaker 1: in his chair. The guy said that. Then the guy said,

1104
01:05:08,120 --> 01:05:11,520
Speaker 1: I could still take her, but I'm just here to relax,

1105
01:05:11,640 --> 01:05:15,280
Speaker 1: not to steal nobody's girl. And now we're sitting here,

1106
01:05:16,440 --> 01:05:17,920
Speaker 1: let me tell you something I to put them to

1107
01:05:18,000 --> 01:05:20,800
Speaker 1: a strong ass muscles to work. Now I'm in the

1108
01:05:20,880 --> 01:05:23,640
Speaker 1: gym to get all these muscles. It's time to test

1109
01:05:23,720 --> 01:05:28,400
Speaker 1: them that a man. Listen to me. Hey, my man,

1110
01:05:29,240 --> 01:05:32,320
Speaker 1: she told you she was engaged, that you still gonna

1111
01:05:32,320 --> 01:05:35,400
Speaker 1: sit here. Then I come back and now you're gonna

1112
01:05:35,400 --> 01:05:37,560
Speaker 1: sit here and tell me that you're gonna sit here anyway.

1113
01:05:37,920 --> 01:05:39,920
Speaker 1: But you could try, but you ain't here to take

1114
01:05:39,960 --> 01:05:42,480
Speaker 1: nobody's girl. See, first of all, let me tell you

1115
01:05:42,520 --> 01:05:45,320
Speaker 1: something like Shirley said, he took the high road because

1116
01:05:45,320 --> 01:05:47,760
Speaker 1: they out of the country. I don't give a damn

1117
01:05:47,960 --> 01:05:52,000
Speaker 1: if we end on Pluto. You don't have to like me.

1118
01:05:52,440 --> 01:05:56,400
Speaker 1: You're not gonna disrespect me. And that's the ultimate show

1119
01:05:56,520 --> 01:06:00,440
Speaker 1: of disrespect in the manhood game. So now let me

1120
01:06:00,520 --> 01:06:02,840
Speaker 1: tell you what. We're gonna see how much you want

1121
01:06:02,840 --> 01:06:04,920
Speaker 1: to disrespect me, because we're gonna get to move with

1122
01:06:05,000 --> 01:06:07,520
Speaker 1: some furniture around out here at this pool. Because what

1123
01:06:07,640 --> 01:06:09,760
Speaker 1: you're not fit to do is sit over there on

1124
01:06:09,840 --> 01:06:13,120
Speaker 1: the other side of my girl and say, you know,

1125
01:06:13,200 --> 01:06:15,440
Speaker 1: I could take you anyway, but I ain't really here

1126
01:06:15,480 --> 01:06:19,760
Speaker 1: to take nobody's girl. Pardner, you're asking for this ass whooping,

1127
01:06:20,040 --> 01:06:23,120
Speaker 1: and I got to issue it. No, I don't have

1128
01:06:23,240 --> 01:06:28,480
Speaker 1: a choice because you can't disrespect me and that's ultimate disrespect.

1129
01:06:28,800 --> 01:06:31,360
Speaker 1: And yeah, you're marrying a whim. You need to slow

1130
01:06:31,440 --> 01:06:33,800
Speaker 1: this thing down because he ain't gonna protect you now,

1131
01:06:33,920 --> 01:06:36,200
Speaker 1: he ain't gonna protect you later because it ain't any

1132
01:06:36,280 --> 01:06:38,560
Speaker 1: heina alpha mail? Why would you marry a man that

1133
01:06:38,600 --> 01:06:42,200
Speaker 1: ain't Alpha mail? What kind of mail is it? Beta?

1134
01:06:42,840 --> 01:06:45,480
Speaker 1: Thank you, Steve. Post your comments on today's Strawberry Letter

1135
01:06:45,760 --> 01:06:48,640
Speaker 1: at Steve HARVEFM on Instagram and Facebook, and check out

1136
01:06:48,640 --> 01:06:51,640
Speaker 1: the Strawberry Letter podcast on demand. Two coming up with

1137
01:06:51,720 --> 01:06:54,000
Speaker 1: forty six minutes after the hour. You know what time

1138
01:06:54,040 --> 01:06:57,040
Speaker 1: it is time for Junior and Sports Talk. Right after

1139
01:06:57,160 --> 01:07:02,920
Speaker 1: this you're listening, Dave, it is time for Junior and

1140
01:07:03,120 --> 01:07:06,240
Speaker 1: Sports Talk. What you got junior? Thank you, Shirley. Just

1141
01:07:06,360 --> 01:07:10,000
Speaker 1: let everybody know. June fourth is the fourth annual Kiers

1142
01:07:10,040 --> 01:07:13,320
Speaker 1: Hope Fun Running and Walked for Sickle Celle happening in

1143
01:07:13,480 --> 01:07:15,640
Speaker 1: Dallas at the Market Hunt Hill Bridge. Go to kiars

1144
01:07:15,680 --> 01:07:19,200
Speaker 1: Hope dot org and register. Listen. We need volunteers this year.

1145
01:07:19,240 --> 01:07:21,080
Speaker 1: We need we need some men out there this year.

1146
01:07:21,120 --> 01:07:23,520
Speaker 1: Man to help move somebody equipment around. So I gotta

1147
01:07:23,600 --> 01:07:24,880
Speaker 1: I gotta work on that. I'm gonna talk to the

1148
01:07:24,880 --> 01:07:26,320
Speaker 1: teams see how we're gonna get that done. But we're

1149
01:07:26,320 --> 01:07:28,560
Speaker 1: gonna have that out there all right. Listen, man, I

1150
01:07:28,560 --> 01:07:30,160
Speaker 1: don't know you missed it over the weekend. I know

1151
01:07:30,200 --> 01:07:33,919
Speaker 1: you're probably working, but Tyson Fury knocked out Dylan White

1152
01:07:34,000 --> 01:07:36,640
Speaker 1: in the sixth round. I'm gonna tell you right now,

1153
01:07:36,680 --> 01:07:39,160
Speaker 1: we need a black heavyweight back. I'm telling you right now,

1154
01:07:39,520 --> 01:07:41,840
Speaker 1: something's wrong about this fight because it happened at two

1155
01:07:41,880 --> 01:07:43,920
Speaker 1: in the afternoon. You probably couldn't catch it because the

1156
01:07:44,000 --> 01:07:46,600
Speaker 1: fight was at two in the afternoon, and I was like, well,

1157
01:07:46,640 --> 01:07:48,600
Speaker 1: maybe the champ got to go to bed or something

1158
01:07:48,600 --> 01:07:52,280
Speaker 1: because the fight starting at two pms. I see, wouldn't

1159
01:07:52,480 --> 01:07:54,200
Speaker 1: I ain't know when it were, but it happened over

1160
01:07:54,800 --> 01:07:57,160
Speaker 1: it was overseas. I didn't know that the fight was

1161
01:07:57,280 --> 01:08:00,880
Speaker 1: overseas at Wimbley Stadium. If I'll tell you, I've never

1162
01:08:01,000 --> 01:08:04,120
Speaker 1: seen this many white men in a ring. Everybody was

1163
01:08:04,160 --> 01:08:07,240
Speaker 1: from Great Written Box had probably two blacks on the undercard.

1164
01:08:07,440 --> 01:08:10,640
Speaker 1: It was six fights, two blacks, and that's concluding the

1165
01:08:10,720 --> 01:08:14,080
Speaker 1: one that was fighting types of fear. We need rappers

1166
01:08:14,160 --> 01:08:16,599
Speaker 1: to walk these champs back down the ring. I understand why,

1167
01:08:16,640 --> 01:08:20,160
Speaker 1: Little Wayne. Now I see why, because Sweet Caroline is

1168
01:08:20,200 --> 01:08:24,479
Speaker 1: not an aggressive song. They coming after Sweet Caroline, Nil Diamond.

1169
01:08:24,800 --> 01:08:29,880
Speaker 1: They singing this. This is not aggressive. This is not

1170
01:08:30,120 --> 01:08:33,519
Speaker 1: aggressive at all. I swear to god, I can't even

1171
01:08:33,560 --> 01:08:36,080
Speaker 1: get mad. There was so much lugging going on out

1172
01:08:36,160 --> 01:08:42,200
Speaker 1: in the artist. That's the coming out to the ring

1173
01:08:42,360 --> 01:08:47,520
Speaker 1: with it. Man, Please give me out of Tiger. That's

1174
01:08:47,520 --> 01:08:55,760
Speaker 1: a big stadium, sold out nineties. You know how we

1175
01:08:55,880 --> 01:08:58,960
Speaker 1: used to say Bill Clinton was our first other black

1176
01:08:59,040 --> 01:09:03,599
Speaker 1: brillion Uh huh, Tyson Fiard, black Dog, the Gypsy King

1177
01:09:05,640 --> 01:09:10,200
Speaker 1: sat shirts and drink, and he be dressing. He dressed

1178
01:09:10,240 --> 01:09:14,800
Speaker 1: like a hood. He can't talk good. He got bad.

1179
01:09:15,000 --> 01:09:19,960
Speaker 1: Grandmother talked trash. He did come out to me, He

1180
01:09:20,120 --> 01:09:23,920
Speaker 1: came out to Biggie. He did walk the ring. That

1181
01:09:24,040 --> 01:09:28,600
Speaker 1: boy got hands man head movement talk. He called and

1182
01:09:29,080 --> 01:09:32,840
Speaker 1: dog came. Nobody whoop him. No man, I'm talking about

1183
01:09:32,880 --> 01:09:34,519
Speaker 1: He set him up with a right and a straight

1184
01:09:34,640 --> 01:09:36,680
Speaker 1: upper cut man. The boy was lights out. It was

1185
01:09:36,720 --> 01:09:39,880
Speaker 1: over after that. Yeah, it was lights out. I've talked

1186
01:09:39,880 --> 01:09:43,720
Speaker 1: about what you ever heard of this other dude? We

1187
01:09:43,840 --> 01:09:45,880
Speaker 1: didn't know him. How much money he made Junior to

1188
01:09:45,960 --> 01:09:47,840
Speaker 1: do this. I had no idea. But I tell you

1189
01:09:47,920 --> 01:09:49,680
Speaker 1: one thing, though, it ain't enough to get it. It

1190
01:09:49,760 --> 01:09:51,360
Speaker 1: ain't enough money to get that ass him. He just

1191
01:09:51,479 --> 01:09:56,080
Speaker 1: took THEO. I bet you took the junior. I bet

1192
01:09:56,160 --> 01:10:00,439
Speaker 1: I bet you to took that ass from me. Oh man.

1193
01:10:00,520 --> 01:10:04,600
Speaker 1: But it was good for Michael. It was a thank you,

1194
01:10:05,120 --> 01:10:07,800
Speaker 1: all right, coming up at the top of the hour. Sometimes, guys,

1195
01:10:08,000 --> 01:10:11,479
Speaker 1: honesty isn't the best policy. You already know that. Of

1196
01:10:11,560 --> 01:10:15,120
Speaker 1: course we'll talk about it though right after this you're

1197
01:10:15,200 --> 01:10:23,160
Speaker 1: listening to you guys already know. But sometimes honesty isn't

1198
01:10:23,360 --> 01:10:26,600
Speaker 1: the best policy. Here's a situation or a question that

1199
01:10:26,720 --> 01:10:29,200
Speaker 1: we found on Facebook, and this one is from Jerry.

1200
01:10:29,600 --> 01:10:31,880
Speaker 1: Jerry says, when my wife comes home from getting her

1201
01:10:31,920 --> 01:10:35,000
Speaker 1: hair done and colored, it doesn't look great, but I

1202
01:10:35,320 --> 01:10:41,280
Speaker 1: always tell her it does always okay. Any married man

1203
01:10:41,400 --> 01:10:44,320
Speaker 1: should know this, no matter what, tell her she looks beautiful.

1204
01:10:44,880 --> 01:10:47,960
Speaker 1: So when do you feel like honesty isn't the best

1205
01:10:48,040 --> 01:10:56,320
Speaker 1: policy all the time. I'm not hardest look on me,

1206
01:10:57,040 --> 01:11:01,479
Speaker 1: just man, just yeah, joy, I've been on the old

1207
01:11:03,600 --> 01:11:08,519
Speaker 1: because I've been on the old. Yeah, I was going

1208
01:11:09,040 --> 01:11:16,400
Speaker 1: yourself virgin. I'm trying to save myself from what I

1209
01:11:16,479 --> 01:11:19,439
Speaker 1: already know. If I tell the truth, what's gonna happen?

1210
01:11:20,760 --> 01:11:23,720
Speaker 1: So why not try this? Yet? You put your hand

1211
01:11:23,840 --> 01:11:26,760
Speaker 1: on the Bible and still like, that's not a real

1212
01:11:26,880 --> 01:11:33,800
Speaker 1: Bible shilling. And the people that's in there trying to

1213
01:11:34,080 --> 01:11:42,800
Speaker 1: get me is not religious people. Everybody in that line

1214
01:11:42,840 --> 01:11:46,400
Speaker 1: to prosecutor line, everybody in that line. I ain't even

1215
01:11:46,640 --> 01:11:48,560
Speaker 1: put my hand on the Bible and then hold me

1216
01:11:48,680 --> 01:11:56,040
Speaker 1: to that. Um, if you lied in the relationship, yeah,

1217
01:11:56,880 --> 01:11:58,560
Speaker 1: you lied to you. The last time you lied to you?

1218
01:11:58,640 --> 01:12:03,559
Speaker 1: Who uh, it's been a while, that's been a while,

1219
01:12:04,479 --> 01:12:06,400
Speaker 1: you know, I'm not Yeah, I don't, you know, I

1220
01:12:06,439 --> 01:12:08,680
Speaker 1: don't really lie. But the last time you lie at

1221
01:12:08,680 --> 01:12:17,839
Speaker 1: your wife time? There's morning? What's your call? What? Perfectly comfortable? Yeah? Morning?

1222
01:12:18,479 --> 01:12:22,040
Speaker 1: Now that was an honest answer from you. When it

1223
01:12:22,120 --> 01:12:26,080
Speaker 1: when about you, Steve? Yeah, well, she out of town

1224
01:12:26,200 --> 01:12:31,760
Speaker 1: right now, So I'm anticipating you sooner. I'm anticipating as

1225
01:12:31,760 --> 01:12:38,760
Speaker 1: soon as she called exactly. But why do you guys

1226
01:12:38,880 --> 01:12:41,799
Speaker 1: lie when the truth will? Will we beat your spine?

1227
01:12:41,960 --> 01:12:47,599
Speaker 1: I don't get that. Don't say that. No truth, Yeah,

1228
01:12:48,280 --> 01:12:51,360
Speaker 1: ninety percent of the time, the truth is not fine, Okay,

1229
01:12:51,439 --> 01:12:53,240
Speaker 1: what is she gonna ask you that you have to

1230
01:12:53,320 --> 01:12:55,200
Speaker 1: lie about this? I don't. I'll tell you what. I'll

1231
01:12:55,200 --> 01:12:57,799
Speaker 1: tell you what asked me something. Let's let's just practice.

1232
01:12:57,880 --> 01:13:02,000
Speaker 1: Let's go do several my honey, is it raining there?

1233
01:13:03,000 --> 01:13:10,840
Speaker 1: About to seem like, why are you asking about rain? Yeah?

1234
01:13:11,160 --> 01:13:13,680
Speaker 1: Because see now I got to is it raining there?

1235
01:13:13,680 --> 01:13:16,360
Speaker 1: Because now what I got to see in you in

1236
01:13:16,479 --> 01:13:20,800
Speaker 1: the mail? No, go ahead, and she'll ask me something that, uh,

1237
01:13:21,320 --> 01:13:23,200
Speaker 1: what what are you doing today? What are you gonna

1238
01:13:23,200 --> 01:13:25,400
Speaker 1: do today? Like after work? I know you have to work,

1239
01:13:25,439 --> 01:13:27,720
Speaker 1: but like after working all day, baby, I ain't. I'm

1240
01:13:27,720 --> 01:13:29,240
Speaker 1: gonna work all the way to this time to go

1241
01:13:29,320 --> 01:13:33,360
Speaker 1: to bed. I ain't got no breaks, no breaks because

1242
01:13:33,360 --> 01:13:35,479
Speaker 1: I was thinking about coming down and maybe we could

1243
01:13:35,520 --> 01:13:39,160
Speaker 1: have lunch together. Now we don't have a lunch today

1244
01:13:39,400 --> 01:13:42,360
Speaker 1: because we got we got cases is backed up for COVID.

1245
01:13:49,840 --> 01:13:52,680
Speaker 1: What did you wear to work today? Did Ellie? Um?

1246
01:13:53,520 --> 01:13:56,160
Speaker 1: Did Ellie pick something out for you to wear? No? No,

1247
01:13:56,400 --> 01:13:59,280
Speaker 1: I just put on something myself, just got on sweatsuit.

1248
01:13:59,680 --> 01:14:03,200
Speaker 1: That's well. I saw you posted something and it had

1249
01:14:03,240 --> 01:14:06,479
Speaker 1: Ellie's name under it. Yeah, I was picture from last week.

1250
01:14:08,760 --> 01:14:10,560
Speaker 1: You know. I don't post that. No, damn way. So

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Speaker 1: I pictured that from last week? Well, um, have you

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01:14:15,479 --> 01:14:21,120
Speaker 1: been on Instagram lately? Instagram social media? Yeah? Have you

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01:14:21,200 --> 01:14:24,439
Speaker 1: been on Instagram lately? When did they When did they

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01:14:24,520 --> 01:14:37,519
Speaker 1: start that? To lie? You know? Just that that just

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01:14:37,760 --> 01:14:42,519
Speaker 1: gets your black ass. If you don't ride by Steve,

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01:14:43,280 --> 01:14:46,439
Speaker 1: what are you lying about Instagram? I don't know, just

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01:14:46,600 --> 01:14:54,599
Speaker 1: practicing dis yeh, all right, when did they start? We'll

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Speaker 1: have more of the show coming up in twenty minutes after.

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01:14:58,560 --> 01:15:01,960
Speaker 1: Right after this, I worked with a bunch of liars. Yeah,

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01:15:03,080 --> 01:15:10,679
Speaker 1: you're listening show, all right, guys. Before we left for break,

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01:15:10,760 --> 01:15:14,680
Speaker 1: we were talking about lying when it isn't a good

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01:15:14,760 --> 01:15:18,800
Speaker 1: time to lie. But you guys like, regardless, it doesn't matter. Yeah,

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01:15:18,920 --> 01:15:24,200
Speaker 1: And I'll tell you why I lie regardless. Why if

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01:15:24,280 --> 01:15:28,360
Speaker 1: you tell a woman the truth, yeah, they're gonna expect

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01:15:28,439 --> 01:15:34,599
Speaker 1: it all the time. Yeah, thank you, and then manage

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01:15:34,600 --> 01:15:39,640
Speaker 1: her expectations. Yeah, And then what happens when I do

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01:15:39,960 --> 01:15:44,040
Speaker 1: tell the truth and then she don't believe me. I

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01:15:44,200 --> 01:15:46,759
Speaker 1: picked those moments where I will tell you the truth,

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01:15:47,479 --> 01:15:50,640
Speaker 1: but they're very few. And then when you when you

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01:15:50,800 --> 01:15:54,479
Speaker 1: assume that's a lie, then I jump out and proved

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01:15:54,600 --> 01:15:57,240
Speaker 1: that it was the truth, and then I'm good for

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01:15:57,360 --> 01:16:01,000
Speaker 1: another yell. See, damn, every time AMNA tell you something,

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01:16:01,200 --> 01:16:03,040
Speaker 1: you think I'm lying? Did I tell you the truth?

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01:16:03,200 --> 01:16:07,360
Speaker 1: Now look at this right here? Yeah? Damn baby, that

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01:16:07,680 --> 01:16:11,360
Speaker 1: allowed me to lie for another year? Love it? You

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01:16:11,400 --> 01:16:14,800
Speaker 1: see what I'm saying. You see that, Shirley, That's how

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01:16:14,880 --> 01:16:18,320
Speaker 1: that worked. I see it. But you know whatever with

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01:16:18,520 --> 01:16:24,479
Speaker 1: that all the life? Yeah? Ain't you still with your

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01:16:24,600 --> 01:16:27,760
Speaker 1: husband after all these years? Yeah? Thank the Lord, he's

1280
01:16:27,760 --> 01:16:34,439
Speaker 1: been lying? Yes, Yeah, so you're so then you're saying,

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01:16:34,600 --> 01:16:39,479
Speaker 1: all men lie. That's what you're saying. I'm saying you're saying,

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01:16:39,600 --> 01:16:43,800
Speaker 1: all men lie. Absolutely. Yeah. Coming up in thirty three

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01:16:43,880 --> 01:16:46,679
Speaker 1: minutes after the hour, we'll try to get the truth

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01:16:46,720 --> 01:16:48,599
Speaker 1: out of you when we play a round of would

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01:16:48,640 --> 01:16:55,360
Speaker 1: you rather? Right after this, you're listening time now for

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01:16:55,520 --> 01:17:00,200
Speaker 1: would you rather? Would you rather let your ball us

1287
01:17:01,120 --> 01:17:04,720
Speaker 1: see your full Internet history? Or would you rather let

1288
01:17:04,800 --> 01:17:12,559
Speaker 1: your spouse see your full Internet history? Boss or spouse? Yeah,

1289
01:17:18,280 --> 01:17:21,000
Speaker 1: and he won't fire you, and he wonna fire you

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01:17:22,200 --> 01:17:23,920
Speaker 1: might get a raised at the deal. If I do

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01:17:24,000 --> 01:17:35,639
Speaker 1: it right, you might bade me proud. All right, boss,

1292
01:17:35,720 --> 01:17:38,040
Speaker 1: all day, all right? Would you rather lose a finger.

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01:17:39,520 --> 01:17:42,240
Speaker 1: Lose a finger, or have a headache every day for

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01:17:42,360 --> 01:17:48,880
Speaker 1: the rest of your life. No, take this damn finger. Okay, yeah,

1295
01:17:49,840 --> 01:17:55,080
Speaker 1: not that headache, all right, but but but take that.

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01:17:56,200 --> 01:18:01,040
Speaker 1: Take that ring from on the right hand, you know,

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01:18:01,160 --> 01:18:04,160
Speaker 1: the ring finger on the left hand. Just give me

1298
01:18:04,240 --> 01:18:07,519
Speaker 1: the ring finger on the right hand, because I'm left handed,

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01:18:08,280 --> 01:18:10,240
Speaker 1: and that thing. I don't need that finger to button

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01:18:10,320 --> 01:18:13,000
Speaker 1: my shirt or nothing, jip up my pants. That finger

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01:18:13,160 --> 01:18:20,439
Speaker 1: kind of useless. I'm gonna need that. Yeah, you ain't

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01:18:20,479 --> 01:18:22,679
Speaker 1: gonna be a behold a knife without that thumb, without

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01:18:22,760 --> 01:18:28,719
Speaker 1: looking like a cave man. Yeah, all right, it's hard

1304
01:18:28,840 --> 01:18:32,920
Speaker 1: to button your shirt with both your indeck fingers. I'm

1305
01:18:32,920 --> 01:18:40,000
Speaker 1: gonna tell you that right now. All right, picking up

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01:18:40,040 --> 01:18:42,280
Speaker 1: French fries gonna look a little crazier like you're smoking

1307
01:18:42,320 --> 01:18:48,200
Speaker 1: a cigarette. Yeah. Would you rather be trapped on the

1308
01:18:48,320 --> 01:18:52,560
Speaker 1: desert island with someone who never speaks, never talks to you,

1309
01:18:52,960 --> 01:18:55,080
Speaker 1: Or would you rather be trapped on a desert island

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01:18:55,160 --> 01:19:02,519
Speaker 1: with someone who never shuts up? Hey, quiet all the time.

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01:19:04,280 --> 01:19:07,760
Speaker 1: You're gonna get tired of that. I'm talking, gonna dry

1312
01:19:07,800 --> 01:19:11,080
Speaker 1: you crave. I really had to talk. Yeah, you rather

1313
01:19:11,160 --> 01:19:14,800
Speaker 1: have to talk to Niles and kill me, Junior. You

1314
01:19:14,880 --> 01:19:18,479
Speaker 1: want someone who saw the talk to me? We talk

1315
01:19:18,680 --> 01:19:20,479
Speaker 1: every morning. I don't. I don't want to talk all

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01:19:20,479 --> 01:19:24,599
Speaker 1: the time. Okay, do you want someone who who who's quiet?

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01:19:24,680 --> 01:19:26,720
Speaker 1: What about you never shut up? Oh? No, I want

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01:19:26,760 --> 01:19:28,280
Speaker 1: the person to talk all the time. I know how

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01:19:28,320 --> 01:19:30,240
Speaker 1: to cut I know, I know how to shut people

1320
01:19:30,280 --> 01:19:34,519
Speaker 1: out anyway. You can be talking your ass off to me, man,

1321
01:19:34,520 --> 01:19:36,320
Speaker 1: I just look right at you, to be looking right

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01:19:36,400 --> 01:19:40,680
Speaker 1: through the back of your head. I know how to

1323
01:19:40,800 --> 01:19:43,280
Speaker 1: I know how do you hear me? I know you

1324
01:19:43,439 --> 01:19:45,720
Speaker 1: hear me looking right at me and make them think

1325
01:19:45,760 --> 01:19:48,080
Speaker 1: I'm looking at them. But I'll be my man. Man,

1326
01:19:48,120 --> 01:19:50,040
Speaker 1: I'll be looking at something right off to the side

1327
01:19:50,080 --> 01:19:53,800
Speaker 1: of your head after me, you know, you know, like

1328
01:19:53,920 --> 01:19:56,880
Speaker 1: a bush or something, and you be talking to your ass.

1329
01:19:58,120 --> 01:20:03,680
Speaker 1: I don't even know you talk to me. All right,

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Speaker 1: that's today's round, guys of would you rather now? Coming

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01:20:07,479 --> 01:20:09,640
Speaker 1: up at forty nine minutes after the hour, it is

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01:20:09,640 --> 01:20:11,720
Speaker 1: our last break of the day, and of course we'll

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01:20:11,760 --> 01:20:14,160
Speaker 1: have some closing remarks from the one and only Steve

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Speaker 1: Harvey right after this. You're listening to Steven Show. All right, guys,

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01:20:20,120 --> 01:20:22,840
Speaker 1: here we are our last break of the day on

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Speaker 1: this Tuesday. And it's been a good day. It's been

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01:20:26,280 --> 01:20:30,200
Speaker 1: a real good day. Grateful and don't forget to watch

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01:20:30,400 --> 01:20:35,759
Speaker 1: Judge Steve Harvey tonight. Okay two hours season finale, Mister

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01:20:36,240 --> 01:20:39,600
Speaker 1: Judge Steve Harvey, Sir, oh, y'all need to watch this

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01:20:39,800 --> 01:20:42,519
Speaker 1: to tonight. Thanks for tune and in. If you can't

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01:20:42,560 --> 01:20:46,280
Speaker 1: watch it on TV, please stream it on Hulu over

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01:20:46,760 --> 01:20:50,040
Speaker 1: and over and over and over again. To click it,

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01:20:50,200 --> 01:20:56,080
Speaker 1: walk off, watch it, let it run out. M eight

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01:20:56,160 --> 01:21:00,439
Speaker 1: seventh Central on ABC and Hulu. Two hours season finale.

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01:21:01,320 --> 01:21:05,679
Speaker 1: The Court is in session. Who Steve? Very good? Such

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01:21:05,720 --> 01:21:07,320
Speaker 1: a blessing. Hey, I want to talk to you all

1347
01:21:07,400 --> 01:21:15,160
Speaker 1: about haters. My closing remark today is about haters because

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01:21:15,320 --> 01:21:21,479
Speaker 1: everybody has experienced it or currently experiencing it. I think

1349
01:21:21,520 --> 01:21:24,760
Speaker 1: we all have them. For those of you who don't

1350
01:21:24,840 --> 01:21:30,600
Speaker 1: have haters, it's simply because you're not doing anything to

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01:21:30,760 --> 01:21:35,240
Speaker 1: be hated for. But the moment, the moment you make

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01:21:35,320 --> 01:21:41,120
Speaker 1: the decision to improve your position your life, to improve

1353
01:21:41,320 --> 01:21:45,720
Speaker 1: your space, to improve your family, to improve your education,

1354
01:21:46,080 --> 01:21:50,080
Speaker 1: to improve your job, to improve your money, to improve

1355
01:21:50,240 --> 01:21:54,280
Speaker 1: your lifestyle, the moment you make that decision. You are

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01:21:54,400 --> 01:21:58,479
Speaker 1: going to have haters. Everybody has them, and because social

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01:21:58,520 --> 01:22:02,559
Speaker 1: media is so big now you find haters everywhere. It's

1358
01:22:02,640 --> 01:22:05,799
Speaker 1: sad that there are those who spend their day hating.

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01:22:06,439 --> 01:22:08,880
Speaker 1: One guy told me what time? I said, Man, why

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01:22:08,920 --> 01:22:11,760
Speaker 1: do you waste your time hating? He said, Hey, man,

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Speaker 1: that's what I do. I'm a hater. Everybody know I'm

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01:22:16,200 --> 01:22:20,880
Speaker 1: a hater. Does what does that get you? But I

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01:22:21,040 --> 01:22:23,880
Speaker 1: tell you what they're hoping. The cause and effect is

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01:22:24,880 --> 01:22:27,960
Speaker 1: a hater is hoping that their voice is big enough

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01:22:28,240 --> 01:22:32,200
Speaker 1: in your ear or your space to affect it. That's

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01:22:32,280 --> 01:22:35,040
Speaker 1: what they actually think and actually hate us or some

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01:22:35,200 --> 01:22:38,320
Speaker 1: really really small minded people. Because I gotta tell you something, man,

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01:22:38,800 --> 01:22:43,200
Speaker 1: I don't even know powerful people. That's haters because they

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01:22:43,240 --> 01:22:45,920
Speaker 1: don't have time. I don't have I don't know any

1370
01:22:46,040 --> 01:22:50,800
Speaker 1: powerful decision making people who are online blogging about somebody else.

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01:22:51,720 --> 01:22:54,439
Speaker 1: Most people that I know and affiliate with that are

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01:22:54,479 --> 01:22:57,560
Speaker 1: shakers and movers and decision makers. They have to be

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01:22:57,720 --> 01:23:00,479
Speaker 1: told what's online. They don't have time. I'm for that

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01:23:00,640 --> 01:23:04,200
Speaker 1: mess right there, and haters, let me give you some

1375
01:23:04,320 --> 01:23:06,920
Speaker 1: advice for those of you that are suffering from something

1376
01:23:07,040 --> 01:23:10,400
Speaker 1: that a hater has said and done. If it's affecting you,

1377
01:23:10,600 --> 01:23:16,040
Speaker 1: I want you to understand something. Haters don't matter unless

1378
01:23:16,160 --> 01:23:21,480
Speaker 1: you allow them to. Haters don't matter unless you allow

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01:23:21,720 --> 01:23:26,000
Speaker 1: them to. Well. See, once you understand something, you can

1380
01:23:26,080 --> 01:23:29,120
Speaker 1: take the power from a hater by not giving it

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01:23:29,240 --> 01:23:31,639
Speaker 1: to them in the first place. But if they think

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01:23:31,680 --> 01:23:35,280
Speaker 1: they have the power, and you've in the past given

1383
01:23:35,360 --> 01:23:37,920
Speaker 1: the power to a hater, this is how you get

1384
01:23:37,960 --> 01:23:40,879
Speaker 1: it back. I need for you today, I need everybody

1385
01:23:40,960 --> 01:23:44,280
Speaker 1: to look at it like this. Listen to me. Haters

1386
01:23:45,960 --> 01:23:53,120
Speaker 1: do not make decisions in your life. Haters opinion of

1387
01:23:53,280 --> 01:23:59,240
Speaker 1: you is merely that it's their opinion. It's not a

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01:23:59,479 --> 01:24:05,560
Speaker 1: factual statement. Haters don't know who you really are, what

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01:24:05,760 --> 01:24:09,080
Speaker 1: you really think, or what you really feel. They are

1390
01:24:09,200 --> 01:24:14,040
Speaker 1: basing in a round what makes them sound the most hateful,

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01:24:14,520 --> 01:24:17,080
Speaker 1: and they say it in a way to bring about

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01:24:17,200 --> 01:24:22,599
Speaker 1: the most hurt to come towards you. Once you demand,

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01:24:22,760 --> 01:24:26,000
Speaker 1: once you take that power back, once you just say, hey,

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01:24:26,040 --> 01:24:29,559
Speaker 1: you know what, you don't matter to me. You don't

1395
01:24:29,640 --> 01:24:33,160
Speaker 1: You're not the author of my book. You're not the

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01:24:33,400 --> 01:24:37,439
Speaker 1: architect of my life. You are not my creator. You

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01:24:37,520 --> 01:24:42,360
Speaker 1: will not determine how I swim or sink you are

1398
01:24:42,520 --> 01:24:46,479
Speaker 1: not the person who's responsible for my comings or goings.

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01:24:47,960 --> 01:24:51,479
Speaker 1: After you make that assertion, right there, haters no longer

1400
01:24:51,600 --> 01:24:56,840
Speaker 1: have power. Stop giving haters power. They have none. Do

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01:24:57,000 --> 01:25:00,320
Speaker 1: you know, man, I don't care what you say about me.

1402
01:25:01,360 --> 01:25:04,639
Speaker 1: You don't know me. If you're sitting in the barber

1403
01:25:04,720 --> 01:25:07,400
Speaker 1: shop talking about me and you hear somebody talking about

1404
01:25:07,439 --> 01:25:09,519
Speaker 1: turn around and ask him do you know him? I

1405
01:25:09,640 --> 01:25:15,080
Speaker 1: bet they don't. I bet they don't. Stop allowing people

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01:25:15,120 --> 01:25:19,120
Speaker 1: to shape your day. I've been stopped doing that because

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01:25:19,600 --> 01:25:22,600
Speaker 1: I am a child of God, and I know this.

1408
01:25:23,479 --> 01:25:27,160
Speaker 1: I know I'm his I really am, And you can't

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01:25:27,200 --> 01:25:29,960
Speaker 1: do nothing to me. He don't allow and the stuff

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01:25:30,000 --> 01:25:33,519
Speaker 1: he allows to happen to me is just testing my dreams,

1411
01:25:34,439 --> 01:25:37,280
Speaker 1: because every dream you have is going to be tested.

1412
01:25:37,320 --> 01:25:41,720
Speaker 1: I said this the other day, so I understand that

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01:25:41,840 --> 01:25:44,360
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be tested. It just ain't thing to be

1414
01:25:44,479 --> 01:25:47,880
Speaker 1: by you. You're not my testing. You may think you are.

1415
01:25:48,600 --> 01:25:51,880
Speaker 1: But all a hater has done for me, It's taught

1416
01:25:51,920 --> 01:25:55,160
Speaker 1: me how to depend on God. Even more, all haters

1417
01:25:55,200 --> 01:25:58,000
Speaker 1: has done for me has made me stronger. And I

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01:25:58,200 --> 01:26:00,960
Speaker 1: thank y'all. I thank y'all of the hate you've given

1419
01:26:01,040 --> 01:26:03,840
Speaker 1: me over the years, because you've helped mold me into

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01:26:03,880 --> 01:26:05,920
Speaker 1: the man that I am to today. And it's not

1421
01:26:06,120 --> 01:26:10,360
Speaker 1: because your hate worked, It's because God showed me that

1422
01:26:10,520 --> 01:26:14,160
Speaker 1: your hate don't work. My life is totally in God's hands.

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01:26:14,439 --> 01:26:17,040
Speaker 1: It has nothing to do with you. I don't kill

1424
01:26:17,320 --> 01:26:20,360
Speaker 1: what you say about me because what you say don't

1425
01:26:20,400 --> 01:26:24,640
Speaker 1: matter because you you're nothing. You're just a hater and

1426
01:26:25,640 --> 01:26:28,400
Speaker 1: I'm going on about my business. Please take that attitude

1427
01:26:28,680 --> 01:26:31,400
Speaker 1: and stop letting hate and shake your day or and

1428
01:26:31,640 --> 01:26:34,519
Speaker 1: and and they don't do nothing for me. Say what

1429
01:26:34,680 --> 01:26:37,120
Speaker 1: you want to say. Your opinion in me is none

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01:26:37,160 --> 01:26:40,280
Speaker 1: of my business, nor should I make it. Man, those

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01:26:40,280 --> 01:26:42,720
Speaker 1: are my closing remarks. If you didn't like that one,

1432
01:26:42,960 --> 01:26:45,439
Speaker 1: tune in tomorrow. God's willing will have one that you

1433
01:26:45,560 --> 01:26:49,679
Speaker 1: will like. Last, but not least, don't get talk to God.

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01:26:50,479 --> 01:26:55,120
Speaker 1: He would love at least eighteen years old, unless otherwise stated.

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Speaker 1: For complete contest rules, visit Steve Harvey FM dot com.

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Speaker 1: You're listening, she will stayed Horday Morning Show