Speaker 1: Second date up date. If you've been off the dating
Speaker 1: apps for a while and decide to get back into
Speaker 1: it and start meeting new people, It's all about the
Speaker 1: frequency of how much you get on. You got to
Speaker 1: shake the rust off before you can find your groove again.
Speaker 1: So how many times are you going out to get
Speaker 1: yourself back into peak four?
Speaker 2: Oh?
Speaker 1: I say, okay, once a week. You're going on a
Speaker 1: date once an hour?
Speaker 3: Wow?
Speaker 4: Yes, I thought it at.
Speaker 1: One of our listeners, Daniel recently jumped back into the
Speaker 1: dating game. And Daniel, give us a timeline on this
Speaker 1: before this date, when's the last time you went out
Speaker 1: with somebody?
Speaker 3: Oh my god, Hey guys, so funny story. I thought
Speaker 3: it was just a few months, but after I went
Speaker 3: on the date, I realized it's been over a year.
Speaker 4: Wait, you haven't gone on a date in over a
Speaker 4: year and you didn't even remember that.
Speaker 3: No, it's just been so long. Life got in a way.
Speaker 1: Every time I count too, I'm like, oh my gosh,
Speaker 1: it really has been that long. Maybe the p that
Speaker 1: your dated just weren't that memorable. That's also true, but
Speaker 1: apparently this new one did stick out in your mind.
Speaker 1: What's her name?
Speaker 3: Yeah, so her name's Meghan.
Speaker 4: Okay, then you're active on the dating site still, you
Speaker 4: meant even though you haven't had a date in so long.
Speaker 3: Well, no, I just now started being active on the
Speaker 3: dating site, and this was the first one that we
Speaker 3: were able to actually make a date out of it.
Speaker 4: Okay, okay, good job, back in the saddle, I see.
Speaker 1: Yeah, So tell us more about Megan and what you
Speaker 1: guys did.
Speaker 3: Yeah, So, anyway, we thought it would be cute and funny,
Speaker 3: you know, with all the stuff online to Joe try
Speaker 3: cheesecake factory.
Speaker 1: Oh so good. Yeah, it has been a while since
Speaker 1: you've been on a date.
Speaker 2: Huh.
Speaker 1: No, I think that's fun.
Speaker 2: Cheesecake Factory is great.
Speaker 1: Everybody loves it.
Speaker 4: And it's like kind of a joke right now on
Speaker 4: TikTok and stuff.
Speaker 3: I don't know, seriously, like in the time that they
Speaker 3: were giving us all this bread in the beginning and
Speaker 3: we're reading this book and figuring out out we were
Speaker 3: able to bond and that's the problem.
Speaker 1: Is yeah, what's the problem.
Speaker 3: So here's the deal. So Megan is amazing. We really
Speaker 3: hit it off. We were able to bond about sports
Speaker 3: and football. Even Taylor Swift believe it or not. And
Speaker 3: the conversation went so well that at one point we
Speaker 3: had a moment and she asked me, now, Meghan has
Speaker 3: dropped that beautiful. I mean, she's gorgeous, but she's taller.
Speaker 4: She's tall, taller than you with.
Speaker 3: Her boots on, yes, okay, bring five inch boots.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, sorry, and I think we missed it. How
Speaker 1: tall is she?
Speaker 3: Five eleven without her boots?
Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, without the boots, okay, with the boots on
Speaker 1: over six Yeah.
Speaker 4: I have a couple of girlfriends that are that height,
Speaker 4: five eleven, six foot yeah.
Speaker 3: Yeah. And she just looked at me, just innocently and said,
Speaker 3: does it bother you that I'm tall? And look, as
Speaker 3: I said, I've been out of the game.
Speaker 2: For a while.
Speaker 3: And all I could do is I looked at her
Speaker 3: and I said, I don't mind a lengthy lady.
Speaker 5: What lady?
Speaker 2: Huh?
Speaker 3: A lengthy lady.
Speaker 4: Lengthy lady. Okay, lady, I don't mind either.
Speaker 1: Maybe that's a romantic thing to say, Alexis, if a
Speaker 1: guy said that to.
Speaker 5: You, it's not great, but it's not terrible.
Speaker 1: Statue of liberty.
Speaker 4: My girlfriends that are tall, like they have heard everything
Speaker 4: under the moon about how long they are, how tall
Speaker 4: they are? Do you play basketball? What a waste if
Speaker 4: you don't.
Speaker 1: You know, I got a joke about with girls with
Speaker 1: guys as funny. Yeah, well, mixed reactions from the room
Speaker 1: on that response. But what was Megan's reaction when you
Speaker 1: said that.
Speaker 3: Was she looked at me and she didn't understand. And
Speaker 3: I tried to you know, I've been out of the
Speaker 3: game for so long that I just said to her,
Speaker 3: I'm so sorry and meant I love me some lengthy lady.
Speaker 1: So you double, but just change the grammar to something
Speaker 1: a little more proper.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but I was so tongue tied. And remember we're
Speaker 3: in cheesecake factory. We're only at like the salon at
Speaker 3: this point. And the rest of the date. I tried
Speaker 3: to recover. I tried to bring it back, but by
Speaker 3: the time we were done, I basically we just hugged,
Speaker 3: no kiss, And I know I did something wrong, but
Speaker 3: there was such a chemistry there.
Speaker 4: What I was just gonna ask, do you know if
Speaker 4: she has a height requirement? Because maybe her asking if
Speaker 4: you have a problem was actually her telling you she
Speaker 4: has an issue.
Speaker 1: Some girls are like five ft zero and the overseas.
Speaker 3: Yeah, well, without the boots, I would be taller than her.
Speaker 3: But she chose to wear five inches boots. How many
Speaker 3: men out there are six fives?
Speaker 2: Pick and choose?
Speaker 4: When you didn't say that, right?
Speaker 1: No five cheesecake factory. Yeah, I mean walked walked in
Speaker 1: with some stilts for dinner.
Speaker 4: Oh my god, stop it. Tall women are absolutely gorgeous
Speaker 4: and tall heels.
Speaker 1: You know, I didn't say they weren't gorgeous.
Speaker 4: Okay, Well, stilts. Stilts does not come to a beautiful
Speaker 4: like image.
Speaker 1: It's a big presence walking in for that big date.
Speaker 4: Now, and you don't compliment a tall woman that way.
Speaker 1: What's the right way to say? Don't talk about any
Speaker 1: women saying beautiful up there? Say you're a lengthy lady.
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Maybe all along this entire time, this is why tall
Speaker 1: women want tall men. Yeah, okay, you say so, you
Speaker 1: know some of the word fumbling aside. Did you feel
Speaker 1: like the connection was going pretty well between you two?
Speaker 3: Again? The connection was amazing. Again. I've matched up with
Speaker 3: multiple women, but I kind of really like Megan, and
Speaker 3: I want to know if there's a possibility for another date.
Speaker 3: I mean, did I ruin it or probably.
Speaker 1: But it doesn't mean we can't recover for you.
Speaker 5: If it's something small, if it's just the hiking, gotta
Speaker 5: be fine.
Speaker 1: The fact that she's not answering because I don't know
Speaker 1: you've been texting her, is that right?
Speaker 3: Yeah? Yeah, texting some social media and just no answer.
Speaker 4: Okay, quite a few things, you know.
Speaker 1: That's that's a bad sign.
Speaker 4: How did you guys leave things at the end of
Speaker 4: the day.
Speaker 3: We just hugged and said we'll contact each other.
Speaker 4: I'm sure that's always it.
Speaker 1: Did you climb up on a chair to hug her
Speaker 1: or did you just do She is not that tall,
Speaker 1: but the boot song, God.
Speaker 3: No, this situation. My head was in the right place
Speaker 3: when I hugged there, So okay, he wassled, right, Yeah.
Speaker 1: We're gonna come back. We'll give Megan a call. We're
Speaker 1: gonna try and get you a second date. Update Right
Speaker 1: after this, all right, thank you? Second date update. I
Speaker 1: was thinking more about it and taking someone on a
Speaker 1: first date to the cheesecake factory got kind of a
Speaker 1: lukewarm reaction in here, at least when we first heard
Speaker 1: about it.
Speaker 4: I think it was you that was kind of judging
Speaker 4: about it, you know. Yeah, you're mister Luke, right, But.
Speaker 1: Look, I thought about it, and there's definitely some positives. Okay,
Speaker 1: come over to our side. The menus are like a book,
Speaker 1: so you're already proving that you can read. There's number one,
Speaker 1: number two point. Your date automatically is going to last
Speaker 1: longer because of all the indecision.
Speaker 6: Choosing a food item as you flip to volume sixteen, yes,
Speaker 6: oh my god, and then number three cheesecake, bunch of cheesecake.
Speaker 4: I mean, honestly, though, by the time you get to
Speaker 4: the end of that meal, it's.
Speaker 1: Like, by the way, shout out to the Adam's peanut
Speaker 1: butter cup cheesecake. You're lucky to make it home after that.
Speaker 1: But the main issue that Daniel thinks was during the
Speaker 1: conversation his date, Megan asked, are you okay being with
Speaker 1: a taller woman? And his response was I love me
Speaker 1: a lengthy lady, which technically is a compliment throughout, Like, yeah,
Speaker 1: we don't know if she took it that way because
Speaker 1: she's not calling back, so maybe it's not looking very.
Speaker 4: Next time to say, oh my god, you are absolutely stunning.
Speaker 1: Of course, Yeah. The best thing you can do is
Speaker 1: just be as vague as possible when you're complimenting a
Speaker 1: woman on her books. Yeah right, Daniel, we've learned a lot.
Speaker 3: We definitely have.
Speaker 6: Yeah, okay, And no matter what happens, at least we've
Speaker 6: learned something already.
Speaker 1: The whole point was that he's trying to shake off
Speaker 1: the rust. It's been a while since he's been in
Speaker 1: the dating game, so now he wants to get fully
Speaker 1: back into it with Meghan. We're gonna see she's up
Speaker 1: for that.
Speaker 4: I will say, like glass half full, even if it
Speaker 4: doesn't work out with Megan in this phone call, this
Speaker 4: is a good learning experience to get you back in
Speaker 4: the game.
Speaker 3: Yeah. I need it, I really need it. It's been a.
Speaker 1: While, Okay.
Speaker 2: I love the optimism.
Speaker 1: Yeah all right, great, we're in a good place. Let's
Speaker 1: bring it down by giving her a call.
Speaker 2: Hello.
Speaker 1: Hey, we're looking for Megan.
Speaker 5: This is Meghan.
Speaker 1: Yes, you may. This is a radio show called Brook
Speaker 1: and Jeffrey in the Morning. Hey, Megan, we're all here.
Speaker 4: Hi, Welcome to the show.
Speaker 2: Yeah okay.
Speaker 1: I kind of just like hearing people square them on
Speaker 1: the other end of the but we're doing something here.
Speaker 1: It's called a second date update, and we're trying to
Speaker 1: help reconnect you with one of our listeners that you
Speaker 1: went out with the other night, a guy named Daniel.
Speaker 5: What if I don't want to be reconnected with Daniel?
Speaker 4: Yeah, well I think I think he knows that as well.
Speaker 1: Yeah, he told us a little bit about your guys's date,
Speaker 1: and from his perspective, things went pretty well, he'll admit,
Speaker 1: not perfect, but.
Speaker 2: Perfect.
Speaker 4: Back there, What happened, Megan?
Speaker 1: What are we missing? You're agreeing with him it didn't
Speaker 1: go perfect.
Speaker 5: I honestly, I have no idea what he told you,
Speaker 5: so I don't really know even I don't even know
Speaker 5: how to respond at all.
Speaker 1: Well, I mean I could some of the highlights that
Speaker 1: he gave us cheesecake factory, good conversation broke help me out.
Speaker 4: He said that you asked him a pretty direct question
Speaker 4: about your high and whether that was cool with him
Speaker 4: or not.
Speaker 5: I did. I'm a tall girl. I did ask him.
Speaker 5: You know, if it bothered him that I was tall,
Speaker 5: that's that's true.
Speaker 4: Did it bother you that he was shorter than you
Speaker 4: and you were in heels?
Speaker 5: That's not what bothered me?
Speaker 1: Oh okay, we're trying to zero in on what did
Speaker 1: bother you because he has no idea. We're just trying
Speaker 1: to gi him a little clarity.
Speaker 4: He knows he could hear something that isn't cool, you know.
Speaker 5: Okay, Well, let's just say I kind of feel like
Speaker 5: maybe the writing was on the walls from the beginning. Yeah,
Speaker 5: because I'm surprised he didn't mention her. It sounds like
Speaker 5: he didn't mention anyway that we actually also had an
Speaker 5: extremely tall but very cute waitress.
Speaker 1: I think he was more focused on you.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I would beg to differ. I actually think that
Speaker 5: he paid more attention to our very tall, beautiful waitress.
Speaker 1: Yeah. Let it makes you think that he was into her.
Speaker 4: Oh.
Speaker 5: I mean like every time she came by, it was well,
Speaker 5: what would you recommend? And what's your favorite? Me off?
Speaker 5: And every time that she would walk by, even if
Speaker 5: it was to go serve another table, that was like
Speaker 5: totally across in the other section, you would like, watch
Speaker 5: her what buy? And I was just like, hello, my
Speaker 5: eyes are here.
Speaker 4: Like, oh man, that's hard.
Speaker 2: Was he like.
Speaker 1: Waiting to flagger down?
Speaker 2: Maybe for service?
Speaker 5: I have a hard time asking them for help. No,
Speaker 5: you know, when you know someone caressing someone out and
Speaker 5: like here's the thing at the end of the day,
Speaker 5: like I had made this comment about me being like
Speaker 5: tall and does that bother him? Yes, he did give
Speaker 5: me kind of a weird response back. He was like, oh,
Speaker 5: I don't mind a lengthy lady. Yeah, what So then
Speaker 5: that kind of got my brain kind of tiktoking and thinking,
Speaker 5: I'm like, maybe he had a thing for like tall women.
Speaker 1: Okay, so he's saying he liked your lengthiness, but he
Speaker 1: saw someone even lengthier than you.
Speaker 5: He's a lengthy lover. I don't know.
Speaker 1: A lengthy lover. Oh my god, I'm.
Speaker 5: Pushing five eleven and a half and I don't even
Speaker 5: think I was telling not for him.
Speaker 1: Oh enough.
Speaker 4: But that can't be true because he called us to
Speaker 4: go out.
Speaker 1: With you again.
Speaker 4: I feel like, maybe you're reading into this and don't.
Speaker 1: Just trust us on that. Trust Daniel, who's on the
Speaker 1: other line right now, listening in on this conversation. He'll
Speaker 1: tell you that.
Speaker 2: Megan.
Speaker 1: Megan, I'm sorry, Megan, this is how the segment works.
Speaker 3: Yeah, Meghan, listen, I can't believe you're thinking this. I mean,
Speaker 3: I used to be a waiter and I was just trying.
Speaker 4: To be nice, But why were you looking at her.
Speaker 3: Well, what I'm supposed to do not look at her.
Speaker 3: I mean I didn't want to make too much eye
Speaker 3: contact with you, and I wanted to be cool, and
Speaker 3: I wanted to show you that, hey, you know, I
Speaker 3: can talk to other women and be okay.
Speaker 1: And no, you're not allowed to talk to other women
Speaker 1: or make eye contact with anybody else.
Speaker 5: Okay, listen, you paid no attention to the the girl
Speaker 5: who came and brought us the bread or the water,
Speaker 5: and she was like this little five foot two, little
Speaker 5: cutie bituity. You know, you didn't even look at her.
Speaker 3: I didn't make that's because I was a waiter, not
Speaker 3: a bus boy.
Speaker 5: Or yeah, all people do stand out. I would stare
Speaker 5: at all people.
Speaker 1: That's true. So, Megan, it would make you feel better
Speaker 1: if he had checked out all of the women in
Speaker 1: the bar, that's all of them, then you wouldn't have
Speaker 1: felt No, she's saying.
Speaker 4: That he's kind of full of it.
Speaker 5: That is exactly, And I kind of want to ask you.
Speaker 5: You have your settings on your dating app sets to
Speaker 5: women five eleven and over.
Speaker 1: Be honest here, I mean I I do have it.
Speaker 3: Set for five eleven and over, but that's because.
Speaker 5: That was kind of a joke, and I didn't expect
Speaker 5: you to say yes.
Speaker 3: Wait wait wait wait.
Speaker 1: Wait wait wa? Why is that bad?
Speaker 4: Women have their dating preferences set all the time for
Speaker 4: certain heights.
Speaker 1: Why would it be bad for men are allowed to
Speaker 1: be judgmental men, can't you?
Speaker 5: No matter what most women said it like I do
Speaker 5: for guys my height or taller, just so I don't
Speaker 5: end up with a guy.
Speaker 2: You know.
Speaker 4: Yeah, but I think if you're setting yours, he's allowed
Speaker 4: to set his. I mean, I just think that that's
Speaker 4: how it is.
Speaker 3: I told you I love me some lengthy lady.
Speaker 4: Oh my god, So you don't want a man who
Speaker 4: loves taller than not?
Speaker 5: He's not gonna have the manners to make me feel
Speaker 5: like I'm the only lengthy lady there.
Speaker 1: It is you want him to the upset me about it?
Speaker 4: I could see like you don't want your day ag
Speaker 4: the waitress like that? Is that's true for no matter
Speaker 4: what your height is.
Speaker 1: Well, maybe that's something Daniel can agree to do. Is
Speaker 1: it possibly you can go the rest of your life,
Speaker 1: Daniel and not look at any other tall women with you?
Speaker 4: No, you, guys, it's just you shouldn't be given eyes
Speaker 4: at anybody else.
Speaker 1: But that's not what she was worried about. She would
Speaker 1: have been happy if he gave eyes to the cute
Speaker 1: little water girl.
Speaker 3: She did it.
Speaker 5: She was he'll know you guys. Honestly, I think the
Speaker 5: guys are right here. I think it just really bothers
Speaker 5: me if he's checking out these other women that are super.
Speaker 1: Tough her thing. We can't take that away from your
Speaker 1: direct competition. I don't even know anymore. All right, just answer,
Speaker 1: are you going to.
Speaker 4: Go out with them?
Speaker 1: Because Meghan, we would love to send you out on
Speaker 1: one more date with Daniel.
Speaker 3: Megan, listen, they're gonna pay for another date if you
Speaker 3: say yes. Here's what I think. We should go to
Speaker 3: an all male restaurant.
Speaker 1: Are there are things such as all mail.
Speaker 4: Let's just want reservations to show Yeah, I want to date.
Speaker 5: It is weird, you know that's the offer. Let's just
Speaker 5: go see like Thunder down Under together.
Speaker 3: Suggest we can go to a male strip club.
Speaker 1: Thanks the Brook, We've been banned for most of those,
Speaker 1: so we don't have to give parts of that. We
Speaker 1: can just do a normal date.
Speaker 4: I don't understand why they don't want me to come
Speaker 4: up and dance with them.
Speaker 1: Seriously, though, Meghan, we will offer for one more day.
Speaker 1: We need an answer.
Speaker 5: Come on, I will give him a one more chance.
Speaker 1: All right, Daniel, were cool.
Speaker 3: Yeah, we're totally cool, but only if she wears those heels,
Speaker 3: because you know I don't like short women.
Speaker 1: Oh, you got plenty of length to go around. Jeffrey
Speaker 1: in the morning,