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Speaker 1: Ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show.

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Speaker 2: Carl, good morning, Welcome to the program.

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Speaker 1: How are you, uh don't okay?

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Speaker 2: Considering okay, all right, just okay, which is honest because

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Speaker 2: you think maybe you've been ghosted. So tell us about Mina,

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Speaker 2: this woman, and then you know about how you met

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Speaker 2: any date you've been on, kind of all the backstory.

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Speaker 1: Fill listen.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, like you said, her her name is Mina.

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Speaker 1: I met her on a dating app.

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Speaker 3: We chatted for a little bit on there, and then

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Speaker 3: we decided to meet up and we uh we went

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Speaker 3: to this uh this rest of this Italian place, my

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Speaker 3: favorite place, and it was it was a great day.

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Speaker 1: It was great.

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Speaker 3: And did I never hear from her? So I'm you know,

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Speaker 3: maybe it wasn't great.

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I feel like I'm I'm I'm missing something because every

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Speaker 3: time I try to respond or I try to, you know,

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Speaker 3: reach out to her, I'm not getting anything back right

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Speaker 3: one hundred percent and ghosting. So I don't, you know,

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Speaker 3: was it something I did.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I'm really in the dark over here.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's always kind of a risk when you meet

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Speaker 2: someone on the apps that the chemistry and person will

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Speaker 2: be what you hope it is. But hey, you're looking

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Speaker 2: back on this date, you're thinking, Hey, I thought it

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Speaker 2: went really well. Conversation was good. I thought there was

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Speaker 2: attraction in chemistry and all that, except this woman is

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Speaker 2: not responding to you now for another date, and you

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Speaker 2: kind of want to know, Well, if I if I

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Speaker 2: thought everything went well, then what am I missing exactly?

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Speaker 2: All right, Well, Carl, let's play a song. Come back

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Speaker 2: in a couple of minutes. We'll call Mina, we'll ask

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Speaker 2: these questions. You'll be on the phone. You're welcome a

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Speaker 2: jump in at some point. And the hope is always

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Speaker 2: is that we can straighten all of this out and

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Speaker 2: set you guys up on another date that we pay for.

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Speaker 1: Sounds good, Yeah, yeah, yeah, that'd be great.

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Speaker 2: We're gonna find out what's going on towards you of

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Speaker 2: waiting meta phone right after its Bread of Carpenter Vackmes

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Speaker 2: two minute, it's The Fred's Show and we're commercial free there.

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Speaker 2: It is The Fred Show. Good Morning on the radio

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Speaker 2: live and anytime. Search for The Fred's Show on demand

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Speaker 2: the iHeart app and make us a pre set as well. Hey, Carl,

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Speaker 2: welcome back.

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Speaker 1: Man.

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Speaker 2: Let's call Mina. You met on one of the dating apps.

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Speaker 2: You went on a date, You went to a nice

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Speaker 2: spot that you picked out. You thought everything went really well.

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Speaker 2: You felt like the conversation was flowing and the chemistry

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Speaker 2: was good, and there was a connection. You walked away thinking, Hey,

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Speaker 2: I'm going to reach out to Mina. We're going to

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Speaker 2: go on another date. This is going someplace. Except you

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Speaker 2: did that, and she has not responded to you, and

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Speaker 2: you want to know why exactly exactly right? Yeah, all right,

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Speaker 2: let's call Mina now, good luck? Hi is this Mina? Hey, Mina,

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Speaker 2: good morning. My name is Fred. I'm calling for the

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Speaker 2: Friend's Show, the morning radio show. The whole crew is here.

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Speaker 2: I have to tell you that we are on the

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Speaker 2: radio right now. I would need your permission to continue

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Speaker 2: with the call. Can we ch have for just a

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Speaker 2: second on the air. You can hang up anytime, I guess. Okay,

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Speaker 2: I'll take that as a yes.

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Speaker 1: Thank you.

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Speaker 2: We're calling on behalf of a dude named Carl who

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Speaker 2: you met on a recently apparently and went on a

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Speaker 2: date with Italian restaurant.

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Speaker 1: Does it ring a bell?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Okay, So he called us and had nice things to

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Speaker 2: say about you. And that he was excited about you

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Speaker 2: and thought the date went well. He says he's reached

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Speaker 2: out since then for another date and you're not responding.

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Speaker 2: He feels like he's being ghosted. So what, you know,

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Speaker 2: what's kind of your side of the story. Is that true?

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Speaker 2: Are you avoiding him?

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Speaker 5: I mean, yeah, he seemed normal at first and he

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Speaker 5: I don't know, it was just a weird situation. Do

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Speaker 5: you want me to tell.

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Speaker 4: You what happened?

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Speaker 2: Absolutely? We all we would like you to tell us

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Speaker 2: what happened.

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Speaker 4: Okay, So yeah, he asked us, you can order for

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Speaker 4: the table, and you know, I thought that that made

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Speaker 4: sense because he took me to his favorite spot and

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Speaker 4: I'm not picky, and he ordered like a lot, like

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Speaker 4: got kind of weird from there. And then I realized

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Speaker 4: that he wasn't really eating much, but he just kept

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Speaker 4: you know, after some time, you know, we'd had some

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Speaker 4: wine and everything. I finally was just like, what is

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Speaker 5: And then he was like, I just want you to

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Speaker 5: eat so much that you feel sick.

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Speaker 1: And that was.

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Speaker 2: What the yeah?

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Speaker 1: And then he.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, he said that he like wanted to hook up,

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Speaker 5: but that I like, he's feeling sick.

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Speaker 4: I don't know.

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Speaker 5: I think it was some sort of kink of his,

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Speaker 5: Like it was very weird.

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Speaker 2: So he wanted you to like in gorge and eat

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Speaker 2: all the food, and then he wanted to go mess around.

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Speaker 2: Like isn't that the exact opposite of how you get

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Speaker 2: most able to hook up with you? Like I don't

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Speaker 2: normally think eat everything. Let's go to let's go to

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Speaker 2: the you know, Brazilian steakhouse and just all the meat

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Speaker 2: on the stick, and.

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Speaker 1: Then let's go home and get it on blue cheese crest.

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Speaker 1: Oh no, thank you, no, thank you, Ryan.

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Speaker 2: So you think he was in because he's watching you

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Speaker 2: eat and then he wants to go home and do

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Speaker 2: some stuff and he thinks that's like something he's into.

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Speaker 4: I think he used to do this so much that

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Speaker 4: I felt sick and then he wanted to hook up.

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Speaker 2: I've forgot to mentioned that Carl is here, the masochist. Carl,

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Speaker 2: what what?

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Speaker 3: Okay, Look it's it's not masochism, Okay, it's it's a

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Speaker 3: well known thing. It's called them, all right, and yeah,

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Speaker 3: and yeah I'm into it.

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Speaker 1: It's called I'm a feeder, all right.

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Speaker 3: I've seed my partners and they get, you know, till

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Speaker 3: they're full, and then we have an amazing sexual experience together.

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Speaker 6: And you know, you know, you guys, you guys are

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Speaker 6: knocking it.

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Speaker 1: Have you ever tried? You're all right? I mean on purpose?

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Speaker 1: Se yes, but not the first time.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I know it's usually like you know, the comfort

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Speaker 2: levels too high? Yes, yes, it's way too high at

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Speaker 2: that point. Yeah.

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Speaker 7: You know I'm getting I'm getting a lot of judgment

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Speaker 7: over here.

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Speaker 1: And and you know I don't. I don't.

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Speaker 6: I don't think I signed up for that when I

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Speaker 6: asked you guys.

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Speaker 1: No little help.

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, well let's relax for a second, Carl, And

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Speaker 2: no one's judging you. I think we're trying to figure

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Speaker 2: out okay, well me is I'm not judging you. I'm

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Speaker 2: trying to figure out, you know, where's the turn on?

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Speaker 1: Right?

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Speaker 2: But for him that's his thing, feederism. Did you make

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Speaker 2: that up? Or is that real?

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Speaker 1: No?

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Speaker 3: There is a small community of us. We are small

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Speaker 3: but vocal. You guys are laughing. I mean, I mean you.

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Speaker 2: Look it up.

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Speaker 1: I think we're not laughing.

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Speaker 7: Your passion is amazing. The sex, it's the best sex

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Speaker 7: I've ever had when I'm with a partner who is

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Speaker 7: you know, filled to the guilt.

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Speaker 1: Stopping.

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Speaker 7: If you, guys, if you got to come from your

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Speaker 7: ivory power and listen to me for a second, maybe

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Speaker 7: you know you could see things.

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Speaker 1: Every Why don't you have to eat? Though? I don't

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Speaker 1: get that. Yeah, wouldn't this be like both of you eat? No?

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Speaker 6: Are you going? Are you guys listening? I'm I'm the fever.

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Speaker 3: I wish I would say, okay, okay, I give my

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Speaker 3: partner the food I provide then and.

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Speaker 8: Then once there, you know, so you feed, you feed

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Speaker 8: her and then y'all go to bas and I'm like

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Speaker 8: garlic butter and get it popping. And that's it.

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Speaker 6: Well, and it's amazing, it's absolutely amazing me.

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Speaker 1: What did you want to say? Please?

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Speaker 2: I mean, Kiki's into this. I guess carling later, But uh,

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Speaker 2: what did you want to say? Mena?

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Speaker 1: Because you were trying to get in wea.

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Speaker 5: I just okay, here's the thing, that's what you're into. Whatever,

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Speaker 5: But you need to just schools that to somebody before

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Speaker 5: you asked him on a date and start making them

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Speaker 4: You should talk about the first.

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Speaker 1: You know, this is the thing. I'm married. I'm not

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Speaker 1: I need you to cal him down, sir. He's exactly

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Speaker 1: passionate about his craft. That's what I meant.

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Speaker 2: Angry he doesn't get Carl, I'm gonna let what what

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Speaker 2: did you get to say? Something else? What do you

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Speaker 3: You know, it's it's I thought I had made some

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Speaker 3: references to that in our chats, you know, and.

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Speaker 1: Day you know, I'm not a I'm not a mind reader,

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Speaker 1: all right.

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Speaker 7: I don't have a crystal ball over here, okay, but

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Speaker 7: I mean I think you know, from what from what

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Speaker 7: we talked about before I was I would hope that

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Speaker 7: you would be, uh, you know a little bit more

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Speaker 7: open minded about it, you know. And now here's the thing. Okay,

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Speaker 7: we're talking about it now. And that's that's step one too.

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Speaker 1: In the process on the radio, in the convergent process this. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you know.

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Speaker 4: You weren't upfront about it.

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Speaker 5: And here's the thing. There's the field app so you

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Speaker 5: can go on there and.

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, hey, everything that you're into and like we.

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Speaker 7: Talked about, you have you have no idea while he.

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Speaker 4: Is you but no you yeah, trick me and gross.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I'm with you the number one way to

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Speaker 2: get me to probably not hook up with you, Like

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Speaker 2: if you're on a day with me and you don't

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Speaker 2: want to mess around, like just stuff food in my face,

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Speaker 2: like you know, make me eat more, because then I

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Speaker 2: get home I feel disgusted.

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Speaker 1: Don't you feel tired too?

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Speaker 8: Like the first thing I want to do is get

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Speaker 8: it on, like I.

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Speaker 1: Just want to lay like a beach oil like vertically.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well, don't hey, be careful Carl's getting turned on.

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Speaker 2: Yeah all right, Look, I mean I'll ask the question.

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Speaker 2: I think I know the answer. But would you be

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Speaker 2: interested in going out with Carl again?

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Speaker 1: All right?

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Speaker 2: Not not interested? Hey, Carl, Look, no one's judging you,

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Speaker 2: no one's king shaming you do whatever you do. I

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Speaker 2: just you got to realize. I think it's not gonna

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Speaker 2: be for everybody.

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Speaker 7: You know, feeders are the most maligned thinks in this country.

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Speaker 7: And I think one day it's you know, one day

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Speaker 7: that the table is gonna you know, be on the

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Speaker 7: other foot and it's gonna turn.

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Speaker 1: On the other foot. Huh. And you know, you know

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Speaker 1: what you know what I'm saying. I'm sorry, I get

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Speaker 1: you know what I mean. It's just frustrating. I'm sorry

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Speaker 1: that you're frustrated.

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Speaker 2: Carl street Car Yeah okay, well, Calen's interested, excuse me,

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Speaker 2: Kiky's interested.

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Speaker 1: Paulina might be interested.

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Speaker 2: I'm not sure you'll have to hit them up separately,

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Speaker 2: but all right, guys, thank you for your time.

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Speaker 1: Best of luck to both of you. Yeah, thank you.

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