WEBVTT - Best Bits: Listener Q&A With Morgan and Amy 0:00:01.000 --> 0:00:03.640 The Best Bits of the week with Morgan. It's Listener 0:00:03.760 --> 0:00:04.640 Q and daytime. 0:00:04.920 --> 0:00:07.400 We're Morgan in a show member answer almost all your 0:00:07.480 --> 0:00:12.080 questions over here on the listener Q and A. Amy 0:00:12.280 --> 0:00:12.720 is with me. 0:00:12.840 --> 0:00:14.080 Hey, Amy, Hello, Hello. 0:00:14.320 --> 0:00:16.600 Not that we've moved, but we are now in part three, 0:00:16.960 --> 0:00:19.480 we start out with some shout outs. Just wanted to 0:00:19.520 --> 0:00:21.600 say I really enjoy the best Bits as much as 0:00:21.640 --> 0:00:23.959 I love the show. Kathy from Boston, thank you so 0:00:24.040 --> 0:00:27.080 much for listening. Kathy, That's awesome. I love the ladies 0:00:27.200 --> 0:00:28.040 of the BBS. 0:00:28.120 --> 0:00:30.520 That's from MLZ. We love you back. 0:00:31.200 --> 0:00:37.000 Two super kind and strong ladies. Sherry from Arkansas and Harks. 0:00:37.720 --> 0:00:40.560 He didn't give me his full thing, but his instagram 0:00:40.640 --> 0:00:43.240 is harks Rob comcast neet. 0:00:43.520 --> 0:00:45.000 He said, how are you both so beautiful? 0:00:45.120 --> 0:00:47.480 Oh? I don't, thanks Rob. 0:00:48.360 --> 0:00:50.040 So start out with some shout outs. It's way to 0:00:50.080 --> 0:00:50.760 make us feel good. 0:00:51.159 --> 0:00:54.240 How has the co parenting been going for you lately? 0:00:54.400 --> 0:00:56.640 Karen and Sierra both asked. 0:00:56.360 --> 0:00:57.400 About this good. 0:00:58.400 --> 0:01:02.360 I yeah, I think good. We've had a few new 0:01:02.800 --> 0:01:07.679 things to navigate now that Been is dating but or 0:01:07.720 --> 0:01:11.319 has not just dating. He has a girlfriend because he's 0:01:11.959 --> 0:01:18.520 been dating but having one specific long relationship, and so 0:01:18.560 --> 0:01:20.720 there's new things to navigate with that that I didn't 0:01:20.720 --> 0:01:23.440 really think about, and I think I've had to surrender 0:01:23.480 --> 0:01:29.160 some of my expectations, which has been hard, but also 0:01:29.880 --> 0:01:36.200 totally okay. I have more peace about it because that's there. 0:01:35.400 --> 0:01:38.920 He's creating a new life, and it's not that I'm like, oh, 0:01:39.680 --> 0:01:41.679 I need to be a part of your life. I 0:01:41.840 --> 0:01:45.160 just I don't know. We'll see how it all unfolds. 0:01:45.200 --> 0:01:48.720 I'm very happy for him, and he's just created new 0:01:48.720 --> 0:01:54.160 conversations and new scenarios and situations that we've never had 0:01:54.160 --> 0:01:56.919 to discuss before. And I'm not saying I've always handled 0:01:56.920 --> 0:02:00.920 it the best, just because i'm, you know, trying to 0:02:00.920 --> 0:02:03.720 figure out your kids are spending time with somebody new 0:02:04.480 --> 0:02:12.519 and trusting that the other person has, you know, made 0:02:12.520 --> 0:02:15.880 a good choice, and whoever the partner is. I'm speaking 0:02:15.960 --> 0:02:17.480 as a whole. I'm not even just talking about Ben. 0:02:17.520 --> 0:02:19.680 I'm talking about so many people that are going through 0:02:19.680 --> 0:02:22.040 this right now. And even as you, like, as I 0:02:22.080 --> 0:02:25.600 start to date, knowing that who I'm dating, if they're 0:02:25.639 --> 0:02:28.400 going to be around my kids, how are they showing 0:02:28.480 --> 0:02:31.880 up and do they care about them? 0:02:32.400 --> 0:02:33.480 Gosh, it's so tough. 0:02:33.520 --> 0:02:36.320 I don't know, like dating was so hard for me 0:02:36.360 --> 0:02:38.799 just as a single person, but I cannot imagine you're 0:02:38.800 --> 0:02:41.280 also considering your kids going through that whole process at 0:02:41.320 --> 0:02:41.880 the same time. 0:02:42.040 --> 0:02:46.160 Yeah, I've been so thankful that Ben in his relationship, 0:02:46.200 --> 0:02:48.639 has been very thoughtful of that with the kids, and 0:02:49.040 --> 0:02:52.200 he is with someone that is very thoughtful with the kids, 0:02:52.360 --> 0:02:55.919 and so in that I'm thankful. But when you when 0:02:55.919 --> 0:03:01.280 you don't know you're at the beginning, it's you're little like, okay, well, 0:03:02.320 --> 0:03:04.600 you know, and our kids being adopted and people in 0:03:04.680 --> 0:03:06.760 and out of their lives. You know, you just want 0:03:06.960 --> 0:03:07.799 to make sure. 0:03:08.000 --> 0:03:10.360 There's consistability as much as you can. 0:03:10.360 --> 0:03:11.680 Or like how close are we going to get with 0:03:11.680 --> 0:03:15.720 this person? And then how serious are things? But then 0:03:16.080 --> 0:03:18.480 that's a boundary for me to cross if I'm trying 0:03:18.520 --> 0:03:22.400 to understand how serious something is, and maybe not for everybody, 0:03:22.440 --> 0:03:26.200 but for Ben doesn't have to tell me that. So 0:03:26.240 --> 0:03:32.080 that's been interesting to navigate. I guess I've just yeah 0:03:32.200 --> 0:03:35.000 new things, and I know that he'll have new things 0:03:35.200 --> 0:03:37.960 when if I bring someone into the mix. But the 0:03:38.200 --> 0:03:42.040 cool part is somebody had to go first, and we've 0:03:42.080 --> 0:03:44.280 gone first with him, and I think we learned a lot, 0:03:44.600 --> 0:03:46.800 so hopefully we kind of know. 0:03:46.840 --> 0:03:48.280 How to navigate. 0:03:48.360 --> 0:03:52.320 Navigate you if a man is coming into the kid's life. 0:03:52.520 --> 0:03:54.720 Yeah, yeah, which you know what, I hope it does 0:03:54.840 --> 0:03:56.880 at some point when you're ready and when life happens, 0:03:57.000 --> 0:03:57.960 I hope it does for you. 0:03:58.280 --> 0:04:03.120 Yeah. So I'm thankful for been being in a good 0:04:03.200 --> 0:04:06.760 relationship with someone good and then you know TVD on Me. 0:04:07.680 --> 0:04:11.200 TVD Chrissy wants a Harry menopause. 0:04:11.280 --> 0:04:13.560 In testosterone Update, how are things? 0:04:13.880 --> 0:04:16.799 The testosterone has definitely helped the brain fog for sure. 0:04:17.920 --> 0:04:21.599 I put it on the back of my knee every day, 0:04:22.360 --> 0:04:26.599 two pumps, I do the cream. And the question I 0:04:26.600 --> 0:04:28.920 get the most when I have talked about it online 0:04:29.040 --> 0:04:30.640 is how do I get that? Do you have to 0:04:30.640 --> 0:04:33.640 get a prescription? Can I just go buy testosterone cream? 0:04:34.200 --> 0:04:37.120 And it's a prescription. So you also need to know 0:04:37.680 --> 0:04:39.760 what dose you need, like do you need one pump? 0:04:39.760 --> 0:04:41.360 Do you need two pumps? Do you need three? 0:04:41.480 --> 0:04:43.320 And how did you figure that out? Is just like 0:04:43.320 --> 0:04:44.200 through a obgy. 0:04:44.720 --> 0:04:47.239 I went and got blood work done at my doctor 0:04:47.600 --> 0:04:52.640 and realized I had wherever women are supposed to be 0:04:52.680 --> 0:04:56.560 with testosterone, even like the lowest part that's acceptable for 0:04:56.600 --> 0:05:00.400 women to have. I was below that, so I was like, oh, okay, well, 0:05:00.440 --> 0:05:04.160 I guess I need some. And at the time, it 0:05:04.200 --> 0:05:07.719 was really struggling with brain fog and just thought it 0:05:07.760 --> 0:05:11.240 was me or something going Obviously it was something going 0:05:11.240 --> 0:05:12.600 on with me, but you know, I would have never 0:05:12.720 --> 0:05:17.480 associated it with testosterone. I just thought it was something 0:05:17.520 --> 0:05:18.360 going on in my brain. 0:05:18.640 --> 0:05:19.680 It's wild how. 0:05:19.560 --> 0:05:22.679 Our body reacts to things happening going on and putting 0:05:22.680 --> 0:05:25.680 the pieces together. It's like our body's this giant puzzle 0:05:25.720 --> 0:05:27.520 that were constantly trying to navigate right. 0:05:27.640 --> 0:05:29.520 And I was just lacking in that hormone. And once 0:05:29.560 --> 0:05:34.120 I gave it that hormone, it started responding more appropriately. 0:05:34.600 --> 0:05:37.120 So the brain fog is better, so I recommend it. 0:05:37.160 --> 0:05:40.680 But some people love the pellets, some people love the cream. 0:05:41.040 --> 0:05:44.239 I know that there's this. I think there's another option. 0:05:44.279 --> 0:05:46.440 I've had people tell me about and I can't remember 0:05:46.640 --> 0:05:49.840 what the oh, something they were putting under their tongue 0:05:49.960 --> 0:05:52.880 and it was dissolving. My doctor never said that was 0:05:52.920 --> 0:05:54.599 an option. She only gave me the pellet and the 0:05:54.600 --> 0:05:59.679 cream option, and I opted for the cream, and I'm 0:05:59.800 --> 0:06:03.880 for me that's worked. But everybody's body is so different. 0:06:04.000 --> 0:06:05.920 So yeah, if you can get the blood work done 0:06:05.960 --> 0:06:08.960 and figure out what you need. And when you're in 0:06:09.000 --> 0:06:12.560 your forties, just so much changes. Lots of things change, 0:06:12.800 --> 0:06:15.040 and yeah, stuff with my cycle. I mean, this might 0:06:15.080 --> 0:06:17.360 be Tami, because who's the guy that give us the confliment? 0:06:17.400 --> 0:06:24.880 We have got some guys listening, but you're the my hmm, 0:06:26.120 --> 0:06:28.680 some hot flashes and my hormones, Like I feel like 0:06:28.720 --> 0:06:32.320 I have to check my for lack of a better word, 0:06:32.440 --> 0:06:36.800 rage more often, like I have to be in check 0:06:36.839 --> 0:06:39.640 with it. But I try to pay attention, and I 0:06:39.720 --> 0:06:42.719 try to be proactive and do things like to take 0:06:42.720 --> 0:06:45.600 care of myself so that it doesn't at least your 0:06:45.680 --> 0:06:48.560 right don't snap and scream or something. 0:06:48.800 --> 0:06:49.520 That's so hard. 0:06:49.760 --> 0:06:52.160 That's so hard to recognize that and stop that before 0:06:52.200 --> 0:06:52.719 it happened. 0:06:52.920 --> 0:06:54.560 And when you're in the comfort of your own home, 0:06:54.600 --> 0:06:56.200 it's like, well, I have to get out here, because 0:06:56.480 --> 0:06:59.760 clearly I can control it and behave at work or 0:06:59.760 --> 0:07:04.599 in public settings, but sometimes at home, like a it'll 0:07:04.600 --> 0:07:09.360 just come over me and I feel like a animal 0:07:09.600 --> 0:07:11.920 or something like I'm like, what is happening, which I 0:07:11.920 --> 0:07:12.960 mean happening. 0:07:13.000 --> 0:07:16.040 Like we see all those stories of people, especially like women, 0:07:16.080 --> 0:07:19.280 when they're having this huge moment and it's in public. 0:07:19.000 --> 0:07:21.800 You're like, what is going on? Maybe that's what's going on? 0:07:22.160 --> 0:07:25.600 Oh yeah, I have a lot of compassion for now women. 0:07:26.400 --> 0:07:30.440 It so perimenopause can often start anywhere from thirty five to. 0:07:32.240 --> 0:07:34.880 Oh yeah, I have five more years. Cool. Well it's 0:07:34.960 --> 0:07:37.480 different for everybody. That's that's the thing. But like if 0:07:37.480 --> 0:07:38.440 I'm you know, look at. 0:07:38.360 --> 0:07:40.560 It from an outside picture, like, cool, I got five 0:07:40.600 --> 0:07:40.920 more years. 0:07:41.000 --> 0:07:42.920 Yeah, and I have a period like all the time. 0:07:43.320 --> 0:07:45.320 Not all the time, but it feels like I'm just 0:07:45.360 --> 0:07:49.040 always it just comes and goes and then comes and 0:07:49.040 --> 0:07:50.200 I'm like, what is happening? 0:07:50.560 --> 0:07:51.840 You're like, this is not cool? 0:07:52.960 --> 0:07:55.760 Yeah, and my opgo is like, welcome to this is 0:07:55.840 --> 0:07:58.240 just how your body's responding. But she did give me 0:07:58.280 --> 0:08:02.520 comfort and that a lot of times people try to 0:08:02.560 --> 0:08:06.520 fix this. Obviously, you need to regulate hormones if you can, 0:08:06.760 --> 0:08:10.880 and take care of yourself and do things to serve 0:08:10.920 --> 0:08:14.120 yourself during this season. And I'm just at the beginning, 0:08:14.240 --> 0:08:16.960 so I've even gotten to feel like the really difficult part, 0:08:18.120 --> 0:08:22.360 but also have grace for yourself and no, nut, you're 0:08:22.400 --> 0:08:24.360 not broken. Nothing's wrong with you. This is quite literally 0:08:24.400 --> 0:08:27.120 what your body's supposed to be doing. It's doing what 0:08:27.200 --> 0:08:30.000 it's supposed to be doing. And then the testosterone has 0:08:30.000 --> 0:08:32.160 nothing to do with my perimenopause. 0:08:32.200 --> 0:08:34.920 They're separate, got it. 0:08:35.360 --> 0:08:41.319 So just offering that reminder of having grace for yourself 0:08:41.760 --> 0:08:45.920 and compassion because your body's doing what it's supposed to. 0:08:45.960 --> 0:08:47.680 Do, well, that's so wild. 0:08:47.800 --> 0:08:50.120 That's the next time you scream at your house, be like, 0:08:50.160 --> 0:08:52.520 it's cool, I have grace side compassion. 0:08:52.760 --> 0:08:54.760 You're like, it's okay, I can go through this. It's not. 0:08:54.840 --> 0:08:56.440 Yeah, just yeah, definitely make sure to do it at 0:08:56.480 --> 0:08:58.160 your house. Maybe not in public at other people. 0:08:58.320 --> 0:08:58.960 Yeah, you no can. 0:08:59.080 --> 0:09:00.559 I think I've talked about this with for like going 0:09:00.559 --> 0:09:03.199 outside and throwing ice cubes and on my back porch. 0:09:04.280 --> 0:09:07.920 I saw on TikTok this one girl goes into her 0:09:07.960 --> 0:09:10.560 bathroom and she has a bowl of ice and she 0:09:10.720 --> 0:09:12.599 just throws the ice into her bathtub. 0:09:13.160 --> 0:09:13.920 I would be scared. 0:09:13.960 --> 0:09:15.760 I mean, I know the bathtub's durable, but I would 0:09:15.840 --> 0:09:17.440 want to miss and like crack something. And I know 0:09:17.480 --> 0:09:18.720 that it's ice, but I mean I can throw it 0:09:18.720 --> 0:09:20.959 pretty hard. So that's why I felt safe doing it outside, 0:09:21.400 --> 0:09:23.400 but in case you have neighbors and you're not like 0:09:23.880 --> 0:09:27.720 able to do that. I did see the bathroom hack 0:09:27.880 --> 0:09:32.439 for getting out some you know, just feelings or whatever's 0:09:32.440 --> 0:09:33.320 happening to you. 0:09:33.840 --> 0:09:35.680 I like it. That's a good life hack. What'll be 0:09:35.679 --> 0:09:36.360 you right back? 0:09:39.280 --> 0:09:41.559 All right? This is from Kayla. How does your sister 0:09:41.760 --> 0:09:45.560 feel about you moving from the house she had just 0:09:45.720 --> 0:09:47.000 designed a room before. 0:09:47.480 --> 0:09:50.440 Yeah, she feels totally supportive and fine. She knows that 0:09:50.480 --> 0:09:55.920 that house holds a lot of heavy memories and I 0:09:55.960 --> 0:09:59.120 could have stayed in the home, and that's not one 0:09:59.160 --> 0:10:02.760 hundred percent why I'm moved at all. But and the 0:10:02.760 --> 0:10:04.600 reason why she came to decorate that room is because 0:10:04.600 --> 0:10:06.000 it was the room that my dad was in and 0:10:06.280 --> 0:10:08.840 she wanted to give it a new vibe because you know, 0:10:09.720 --> 0:10:12.600 that's where I last really like spoke to him before 0:10:12.600 --> 0:10:15.560 he passed away. And then there's other heaviness in that 0:10:15.640 --> 0:10:19.400 house too, from other things, and I just I feel 0:10:19.400 --> 0:10:22.800 okay releasing it. Of course we had the energy had 0:10:22.800 --> 0:10:26.040 flipped and it felt good. But it also feels really 0:10:26.080 --> 0:10:28.400 good to be moving. And so she's excited for me 0:10:28.520 --> 0:10:30.520 to have a new start and a fresh start and 0:10:30.559 --> 0:10:33.760 we're downsizing, and it's gonna be more quaint, which I've 0:10:33.800 --> 0:10:38.120 always liked, and closer proximity to my kids and now 0:10:38.120 --> 0:10:40.480 all these people I'm in teens I want to have 0:10:40.520 --> 0:10:44.120 over at my house all the time. So she's excited 0:10:44.200 --> 0:10:46.480 for that, and she's coming in town to help me 0:10:47.640 --> 0:10:51.160 put the house together. So we'll just transfer everything Justice 0:10:51.280 --> 0:10:54.840 pick it up the movers. Well, there's a little room 0:10:54.920 --> 0:10:58.199 that's very similar, and we're just gonna redo the whole thing. 0:10:58.240 --> 0:11:02.800 I mean it, not the Unfortunately, the walls probably won't happen. 0:11:02.840 --> 0:11:04.560 That was one of my favorite things that she did, 0:11:05.200 --> 0:11:07.199 her and her husband did at that house. I probably 0:11:07.200 --> 0:11:09.240 won't repeat that here. But we'll lay the rug down, 0:11:09.280 --> 0:11:12.000 put the chairs down, put the lamps up, that the 0:11:12.160 --> 0:11:14.200 ca Bueno sign up that she had made, and it'll 0:11:14.200 --> 0:11:15.080 feel like the same room. 0:11:16.040 --> 0:11:17.160 Yeah, so she's excited. 0:11:17.320 --> 0:11:19.360 She's literally coming to town the week that I moved 0:11:19.400 --> 0:11:19.840 to help me. 0:11:20.080 --> 0:11:21.680 Oh, I can't wait to see it all. It's going 0:11:21.760 --> 0:11:24.600 to come together. So well, okay, this is coming. And 0:11:24.640 --> 0:11:27.200 I didn't include her name just in case. My parents 0:11:27.240 --> 0:11:29.760 just told me they're getting a divorce. I'm a young adult. 0:11:29.880 --> 0:11:32.160 Any advice, I. 0:11:32.120 --> 0:11:40.000 Think that divorce really can impact adults. I experienced it 0:11:40.080 --> 0:11:42.080 as a child. I sort of feel like I experienced 0:11:42.080 --> 0:11:45.160 twice because my parents. My dad left when I was nine, 0:11:45.640 --> 0:11:49.040 and my parents were not together. My dad had another relationship. 0:11:49.080 --> 0:11:51.720 They lived together. It's basically they were husband and wife. 0:11:51.960 --> 0:11:56.240 But then at eighteen, my parents legally got divorced, and 0:11:56.240 --> 0:11:59.680 then my dad had a wedding and married his live 0:11:59.720 --> 0:12:04.000 in girlfriend. So my best friend from high school and 0:12:04.040 --> 0:12:07.040 I were talking about this when she was in town. 0:12:07.160 --> 0:12:09.199 She came to Nashville for my birthday in March, and 0:12:10.000 --> 0:12:12.000 she was like, remember your dad's wedding, Like, you did 0:12:12.000 --> 0:12:17.040 not handle that well. I had to leave early, and 0:12:17.120 --> 0:12:19.800 I think it's because I knew that my parents had 0:12:19.840 --> 0:12:22.000 just signed their divorce papers like the week before, and 0:12:22.000 --> 0:12:24.400 it's like they were waiting till I turned eighteen or something. 0:12:24.400 --> 0:12:26.640 I don't know it was. I don't know why they 0:12:26.640 --> 0:12:29.920 handled it the way that they did, but they chose to, 0:12:30.040 --> 0:12:31.719 and my mom sort of at that moment. I think 0:12:31.720 --> 0:12:33.400 if my dad would have said, Hay'm coming back, she 0:12:33.440 --> 0:12:36.040 would have taken him back. So she was sort of waiting, 0:12:36.120 --> 0:12:40.559 and I lived in this confusion, even though I'd go 0:12:40.600 --> 0:12:42.199 over to my dad's and be like, well, there's my 0:12:42.280 --> 0:12:44.360 dad in cricket, And then I'd be at my mom's 0:12:44.360 --> 0:12:46.840 and she's single and not dating because she'd take my 0:12:46.920 --> 0:12:50.000 dad back. And so for me, I experienced it at 0:12:50.080 --> 0:12:52.760 nine years old, and then I experienced it at eighteen. 0:12:53.440 --> 0:12:55.360 And I have other friends I know have experienced it 0:12:55.360 --> 0:12:58.720 in their twenties. And you would think, well, you had 0:12:58.760 --> 0:13:02.960 your parents together through your whole childhood and you know, 0:13:04.360 --> 0:13:07.280 high school, college, like, maybe it won't impact you as much, 0:13:07.320 --> 0:13:09.480 and it still really does. So I would say pay 0:13:09.480 --> 0:13:12.599 attention to that. Talk to somebody if you can, do 0:13:12.640 --> 0:13:15.680 you have friends you can talk to, Can you get 0:13:15.720 --> 0:13:18.280 into some therapy to get ahead of things. So I 0:13:18.360 --> 0:13:22.120 think there's just a lot of confusion that could come 0:13:22.200 --> 0:13:24.360 up because you've looked at your parents a certain way 0:13:24.400 --> 0:13:28.920 for twenty whatever years, and then now the whole dynamic 0:13:29.080 --> 0:13:33.319 is changing, and you're grieving maybe the future you thought 0:13:33.360 --> 0:13:36.840 you were going to have with your family, and just 0:13:36.920 --> 0:13:40.320 having compassion and grace for your parents, knowing they're doing 0:13:40.320 --> 0:13:42.440 the best that they can, at least, I would assume, 0:13:43.480 --> 0:13:46.000 and that they're not trying to hurt you. At least 0:13:46.000 --> 0:13:47.880 that's what I have to remind myself all the time 0:13:48.240 --> 0:13:51.840 with Sasha and Stevenson and Ben and I getting a 0:13:51.880 --> 0:13:55.680 divorce last year. But I'm definitely not a divorce expert. 0:13:56.160 --> 0:13:59.200 I can I don't know what my kids are really feeling. 0:13:59.200 --> 0:14:01.920 They seem to be a dusting well. But I did 0:14:01.960 --> 0:14:05.719 see Tim Fletcher, really, this is his name. He's a 0:14:06.960 --> 0:14:12.679 He's on Theovonne's podcast and he was talking about new research. 0:14:14.080 --> 0:14:17.280 I don't know how new, but the divorce is affecting 0:14:17.400 --> 0:14:20.600 children more than we have thought and more than we've 0:14:20.680 --> 0:14:23.480 let onto. So I think as the parents divorcing, we 0:14:23.600 --> 0:14:25.800 need to be more proactive and making sure that we 0:14:25.840 --> 0:14:28.080 have the tools and the resources to support our kids 0:14:28.080 --> 0:14:31.400 and ourselves during that time. And then as young adults, 0:14:31.400 --> 0:14:34.960 since you are able and you are grown, you know. 0:14:35.040 --> 0:14:36.400 In you're a kid, you don't know, you don't You 0:14:36.440 --> 0:14:38.400 only have access to what you have access to. But 0:14:38.480 --> 0:14:40.360 as a young adult, you're asking the right questions. You've 0:14:40.360 --> 0:14:43.640 sent us a question. I'm not an expert. I can 0:14:43.760 --> 0:14:47.680 just share with you that you have the ability to 0:14:47.760 --> 0:14:52.760 try to get in contact with help, and I say 0:14:52.840 --> 0:14:55.840 the to try, because I don't know everybody's financial situation. 0:14:56.280 --> 0:15:02.520 Therapy can be expensive but maybe looking at where you're 0:15:02.840 --> 0:15:05.520 investing other things, can you shift it around, because I 0:15:05.560 --> 0:15:07.680 think this is a critical moment for you to make 0:15:07.720 --> 0:15:10.560 sure that you handle it well and that will serve 0:15:10.640 --> 0:15:14.760 you down the line so that it doesn't explode on 0:15:14.800 --> 0:15:17.680 you when you're in your thirties and you're you. 0:15:17.640 --> 0:15:20.640 Know, yeah, you never probablyss your own relationships and stuff. 0:15:20.720 --> 0:15:23.760 Yeah, yeah, yeah, So I hope that helps. I'm really 0:15:23.840 --> 0:15:25.280 sorry to hear that about your parents. 0:15:25.680 --> 0:15:25.920 Yeah. 0:15:25.960 --> 0:15:28.440 I think that was really great advice. We're gonna go 0:15:28.520 --> 0:15:30.800 from that and take one more break. We'll be right back, 0:15:33.560 --> 0:15:36.440 all right, rapid fire. We're coming at you with four questions. 0:15:36.440 --> 0:15:37.280 You ready, ready? 0:15:37.680 --> 0:15:39.960 If you could have your own line of something, what 0:15:40.000 --> 0:15:40.680 would you choose? 0:15:42.280 --> 0:15:45.120 Cookies? Cookies? Yeah, I was gonna say food too. I 0:15:45.120 --> 0:15:46.320 don't really know what that food would be, but it 0:15:46.320 --> 0:15:47.160 would definitely be a food. 0:15:47.160 --> 0:15:48.800 If I want my own line of cookies, that's like 0:15:48.840 --> 0:15:50.520 everything in the kitchen sak, like the cookie that's like 0:15:50.560 --> 0:15:53.240 the salty sweet cookie with the chips and the yeah. Yeah, 0:15:53.280 --> 0:15:56.320 like everything in and everything except for no no raisins 0:15:56.720 --> 0:15:59.400 and no nuts. Come on, no no raisins, no nuts. 0:15:59.480 --> 0:16:01.840 Did by everything? I mean not that. 0:16:03.240 --> 0:16:05.040 Okay, I'm with you. I think I might be like 0:16:05.600 --> 0:16:07.800 a cheese. I love my own line of cheese because 0:16:07.840 --> 0:16:09.280 I really like me too. 0:16:10.120 --> 0:16:12.800 Well, it has been the best part about life recently. 0:16:12.960 --> 0:16:15.640 Kirsten from Canada, Well. 0:16:15.480 --> 0:16:17.160 And I saw the cardinal as much as the guys 0:16:17.200 --> 0:16:18.680 made fun of me. I saw a cardinal when I 0:16:18.720 --> 0:16:20.280 went to an open house and I wasn't planning on 0:16:20.320 --> 0:16:22.240 even selling my house. I just decided to randomly go 0:16:22.280 --> 0:16:23.760 one day and I saw a cardinal and it was 0:16:23.760 --> 0:16:26.920 my mom, and she gave me a message of peace, 0:16:27.000 --> 0:16:29.000 like I felt it in my body. A piece that 0:16:29.040 --> 0:16:31.040 came over me when I saw this cardinal and just 0:16:31.240 --> 0:16:36.400 an you know, a piece that was saying, sell your house. 0:16:36.400 --> 0:16:38.480 Everything's going to be fine. Sell your house, Everything's gonna 0:16:38.480 --> 0:16:40.520 be fine. And I didn't have that piece prior to 0:16:40.520 --> 0:16:42.360 seeing the bird. I wasn't even really for sure thinking 0:16:42.400 --> 0:16:44.640 about selling my house at all. I just saw the 0:16:44.680 --> 0:16:47.080 open house randomly and Caitlin and I decided to go. 0:16:47.680 --> 0:16:50.400 And so that is that's like pretty cool. 0:16:50.400 --> 0:16:51.320 And now you've sold your house. 0:16:52.880 --> 0:16:55.640 Yeah, I mean in the way it all happened, it's 0:16:55.920 --> 0:17:00.880 there's no way now. I totally believe that's cuckoo as 0:17:00.920 --> 0:17:02.880 it sounds, You're not. She gave me that piece in 0:17:02.880 --> 0:17:04.520 that moment, and I had to listen to it, and 0:17:04.560 --> 0:17:06.959 I had to act. And I listened and I acted 0:17:07.359 --> 0:17:11.240 and it boom boom boom, you know, And not to 0:17:11.240 --> 0:17:13.920 say that something like that is easy. And there's certainly 0:17:13.960 --> 0:17:17.560 been some hiccups. But even with the hiccups, I feel peace. 0:17:18.080 --> 0:17:20.480 Yes, and you're not cuckoo. Okay, I think it's great. 0:17:20.520 --> 0:17:21.280 It's a great sign. 0:17:22.119 --> 0:17:23.760 Mine would be. There's a lot of love in my 0:17:23.760 --> 0:17:25.959 life right now, lots of weddings, lots of things happening 0:17:26.080 --> 0:17:28.160 for all the people very close to me, and I'm 0:17:28.160 --> 0:17:29.200 just very excited for everybody. 0:17:29.240 --> 0:17:30.320 So a lot of love happening. 0:17:30.760 --> 0:17:33.600 What is your favorite colors from Heather, whose favorite color 0:17:33.640 --> 0:17:34.320 is seafood green? 0:17:35.359 --> 0:17:36.800 Whose favorite color is that? 0:17:36.920 --> 0:17:40.720 Heather the listener, Heather, Oh, her favorite color is see 0:17:41.119 --> 0:17:41.639 sea phone. 0:17:42.160 --> 0:17:43.200 Did I say seafood green? 0:17:43.880 --> 0:17:47.080 It recorrected, it corrected it on my screens seafood green, 0:17:47.240 --> 0:17:48.000 seafhone green. 0:17:48.520 --> 0:17:53.320 Well now it's navy and denam like a blue. Yeah, 0:17:53.560 --> 0:17:54.000 uh huh. 0:17:55.320 --> 0:17:56.840 I think mine is magenta. 0:17:57.280 --> 0:18:00.240 My still one is teal, but magenta has also come 0:18:00.280 --> 0:18:00.879 into play. 0:18:01.119 --> 0:18:04.120 I really love Magenta. It's all my nails right now. 0:18:04.280 --> 0:18:06.439 And any summer trips for either of you Alyssa and 0:18:06.480 --> 0:18:08.000 Illinois and Mazie from. 0:18:07.840 --> 0:18:10.560 Austin don't know yet because I'm moving and that's the priority. 0:18:11.160 --> 0:18:14.080 So I just like gotta get moved. 0:18:15.480 --> 0:18:19.560 Yeah, it's TVD on that, Okay, mine is no because 0:18:19.600 --> 0:18:22.080 I'm in a well. I have trips, but they're literally 0:18:22.080 --> 0:18:25.159 all weddings, bachelrette parties, everything. My whole vacation this year 0:18:25.160 --> 0:18:27.080 has been taken over by that. So I'm going to 0:18:27.119 --> 0:18:29.760 Michigan for the first time. That's for a bachelorette trip, 0:18:30.040 --> 0:18:32.080 and then I go to Kinsas City here for a 0:18:32.119 --> 0:18:33.000 wedding and back home. 0:18:33.119 --> 0:18:34.520 So yes, you have some travel. 0:18:34.520 --> 0:18:35.320 You're good travel. 0:18:35.359 --> 0:18:38.640 It's just not travel for me. It's travel for everything else. Yeah, 0:18:38.680 --> 0:18:39.000 all right. 0:18:39.160 --> 0:18:40.560 We tell people where they can find to hear you 0:18:40.560 --> 0:18:41.720 all that good stuff. 0:18:41.520 --> 0:18:45.840 At Radio Amy Uh and podcast is four Things with 0:18:45.880 --> 0:18:48.720 Amy Brown. So those are some easy ways. 0:18:48.680 --> 0:18:49.480 Yeah for sure. 0:18:49.520 --> 0:18:51.679 And you can follow me at web girld Morgan and 0:18:51.760 --> 0:18:53.800 please follow the show, check out some content at Bobby 0:18:53.800 --> 0:18:54.760 Bones dot com and. 0:18:54.800 --> 0:18:56.919 At Bobby Boone Show. We'll see y'all later. 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