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Speaker 1: All right, Steve, this is from Ali and Macon. Ali says,

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Speaker 1: my garden was doing great, but I noticed my tomatoes

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Speaker 1: were disappearing. I thought it may have been mice. My

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Speaker 1: husband said he thought that someone took them, so I turned.

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Speaker 1: It turned out that my neighbor snuck into our backyard

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Speaker 1: and stole them. We turned one of the patio cameras

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Speaker 1: toward the garden and we caught my neighbor on videos stealing.

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Speaker 1: She apologized and offered to pay for the tomatoes. My

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Speaker 1: husband is saying, I was too harsh because I do

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Speaker 1: not trust her now, and I told her to never

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Speaker 1: speak to me again. Am I wrong for how I

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Speaker 1: handle that thief?

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Speaker 2: You know, I can't tell a person how to be.

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Speaker 2: Oh you, I told her, I never speak to me again.

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Speaker 3: She came.

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Speaker 2: She stole, No, you're over there stealing tomatoes, and you

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Speaker 2: have some million nice tomatoes.

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Speaker 3: Could I have a couple of those that I'd really

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Speaker 3: like to taste of them?

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Speaker 2: Would have been the proper thing to do, and the

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Speaker 2: lady probably would have let her have a couple of Now,

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Speaker 2: people take pride in their guards, but you went over

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Speaker 2: there and he stole They busted you, You know, now,

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Speaker 2: your husband just trying to keep it mellow because y'all

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Speaker 2: gonna live there for a long time. He don't want

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Speaker 2: an enemy next door, but you don't care. So that's

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Speaker 2: how you handled it.

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Speaker 1: An enemy and a thief.

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Speaker 2: You know. You want to say it's just a tomato,

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Speaker 2: but you came in this lady's yard. You stole from.

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Speaker 3: Him, exactly.

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Speaker 2: She over there working, drawing her guard and taking pride

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Speaker 2: in it, and all of a sudden the tomatoes is missing.

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Speaker 2: And that's kind of trifling to go over there and

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Speaker 2: stealing people's tomatoes. So I understand you have an attitude

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Speaker 2: with I do understand, but also understand your husband just

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Speaker 2: want to keep the piece and saying he was a

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Speaker 2: little bit too harsh. Harsh would have been calling the police,

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Speaker 2: turning it into evidence and going to court.

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Speaker 3: That would have been harsh, cutting her out.

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Speaker 4: Tomato stealing, Yeah, yeah, but that's pretty trife, and no

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Speaker 4: looking across their fifth board the tomatoes looking good's properties.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, you and this woman's house and women

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Speaker 3: ain't gonna let that go. So, oh no, that's it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you're out at a party, Ain't that's the who

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Speaker 1: stole our tomatoes?

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Speaker 3: Baby?

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Speaker 1: Yeh yeah, all right, we have time for another one, Steve.

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Speaker 1: This one's from Silas in the Bay Area. Silas says,

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Speaker 1: I got married right out of high school and I'm

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Speaker 1: sixty two years old.

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Speaker 3: I haven't I knew that by your name, Silace child.

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Speaker 1: I got married right out of high school. I'm sixty

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Speaker 1: two years old, and I haven't cheated on my wife.

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Speaker 1: I love this line. I haven't cheated on my wife

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Speaker 1: in the past twenty years.

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Speaker 3: O boy, yeah, let's do it. Yeah that's good. He

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Speaker 3: do get a cookie for that?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, oh no, But but I'm but I'm getting the

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Speaker 1: itch for something new. My wife is my best friend,

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Speaker 1: and we tell each other everything. So I'm torn between

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Speaker 1: being honest and how I feel and just going for

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Speaker 1: it and then pray that she never finds out. I

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Speaker 1: know that I shouldn't tell her, But is there a

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Speaker 1: chance she might understand?

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Speaker 3: Oh? He never once said I know I shouldn't waitit,

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Speaker 3: Wait minute, wait? Did he says the chance she might

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Speaker 3: understand I understand about him cheating? Yeah? Yeah, well I

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Speaker 3: said it right now. You got old and stupid.

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Speaker 1: They've been together since high school, Steve, Come on, what

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Speaker 1: is she about to understand right, Okay, Now, let me

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Speaker 1: say this to you.

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Speaker 2: What is she gonna understand? And then br if she's

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Speaker 2: your best friend, do you want jeopardize that you starting

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Speaker 2: to get to itch?

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Speaker 1: You sixty Well, since high school they've been together.

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Speaker 2: He you know some you know that's why he cheated before.

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Speaker 2: He didn't give his life a chance, right, and you

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Speaker 2: know you go, you had that itch before and then

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Speaker 2: you got it together and you haven't cheated in twenty years.

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Speaker 2: So it's like you're like a recovering attic. Now, let

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Speaker 2: me explain something to you. If you go get a

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Speaker 2: little bit, you're gonna want a lie because you an addict.

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Speaker 2: Don't so, let me just tell you what you finn

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Speaker 2: to do. You finn to mess your life up and

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Speaker 2: you finna lose your best friend. Yes, go over there

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Speaker 2: and sit down somewhere. Dog scratch.

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Speaker 3: It's another way. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning

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