Speaker 1: I want to talk about yawking, and what that is
Speaker 1: is yell talking. So just because you're out in public
Speaker 1: doesn't mean you lose the awareness that there are people
Speaker 1: around you. So I go to the beach this weekend
Speaker 1: and I sit on my towel. Brinn's going with her
Speaker 1: friend for a walk, and we're sitting far from other people,
Speaker 1: not maya, we're on a beach, like, but we're definitely,
Speaker 1: you know, twenty feet fifteen feet away from other people,
Speaker 1: fifteen twenty feet like fat, we're not sitting next to them.
Speaker 1: And people want to use their outside voice in so
Speaker 1: many different areas, like with their dog, Oh, with their dog,
Speaker 1: like buster Buster, come here, Buster, Hey Buster, No, Buster Buster,
Speaker 1: h Buster, Let me get your toy, Buster, let me
Speaker 1: get your toy. I'm not parenting your dog, like I
Speaker 1: don't need to be part of your dog interaction, like
Speaker 1: with the toy, with the thing, with the sit with
Speaker 1: the whole. It's like people who are very vocal with
Speaker 1: their parenting with children. Yes, Joshua, do you like ice cream? Joshua?
Speaker 1: Do you want to get fried chicken? Joshua? Do you
Speaker 1: want chicken? Figures? Why do you want? Babe? But like Okay,
Speaker 1: it happens sometimes in elevators, closer spaces, like in like,
Speaker 1: we don't at the ball anywhere, Like we don't need
Speaker 1: to be part of your parenting of your dog or
Speaker 1: your child. Furthermore, I don't want to be in your
Speaker 1: group plans for your weekend on the beach when I'm
Speaker 1: sitting far away on my own towel. But if you
Speaker 1: don't talk in like a norm, like, it doesn't mean
Speaker 1: you're supposed to scream because you're on a beach. So
Speaker 1: these people are like screaming and talking about yellow jackets.
Speaker 1: I know their whole plan for the weekend. I know
Speaker 1: everything they feel about politics. Like I'm having my own
Speaker 1: experience on my own towel. I just like, is it fair? Like?
Speaker 1: But you can't sit and by the way, on a
Speaker 1: plane too, you can't say to somebody on a beach, hey,
Speaker 1: can you guys keep it down? It's a public place,
Speaker 1: like I'm not gonna be can you keep it down?
Speaker 1: That would be very Karen like. And but nevertheless, why
Speaker 1: am I in the middle of a conversation with five
Speaker 1: people on a beach that are being so loud? Like
Speaker 1: when I talk to Brinda, I'm like brand, what do
Speaker 1: you want to have? You wanna get? Like I'm just like, yeah, Brent,
Speaker 1: do you want to go for lunch? Do you want
Speaker 1: to get Italian ice? Is not like yeah, brand, I
Speaker 1: think we It's like screaming on the beach and they're yawking.
Speaker 1: It's under the guise of their talking, but they're talking
Speaker 1: so loud. They're like screaming everything they're doing. So now
Speaker 1: I'm in the middle and I could never take a
Speaker 1: nap on the beach or people walking onto the beach.
Speaker 1: They're walking onto the beach screaming from they're not to
Speaker 1: their towel yet, but they're yelling to their towel, to
Speaker 1: their dog, to their kid, to their people, and they
Speaker 1: woke me up on the beach. I feel like if
Speaker 1: someone is screaming and it woke me up from a
Speaker 1: nap on the beach, it feels like a violation. And
Speaker 1: it happens on planes too, Like a plane is public domain,
Speaker 1: but there's some decorum of not like using your outside voice,
Speaker 1: so everybody five rows around you can hear everything you're
Speaker 1: talking about, like I just and then you feel weird,
Speaker 1: like you want to tell a flight attendant you want
Speaker 1: to grown up. You want to call the principal to
Speaker 1: be like, can you tell these people to shut the
Speaker 1: fuck up because we're on a plane, but like you
Speaker 1: don't talk from dust till dawn. It happened with It
Speaker 1: happened with flight attendants on one flight, I didn't get
Speaker 1: one wink asleep because I happened to be in the
Speaker 1: bulkhead and they were behind that curtain which is not
Speaker 1: a brick wall, and all the flight attendants we're talking
Speaker 1: the entire way to France, and I felt like being like,
Speaker 1: don't we know that, like one of the goals for
Speaker 1: people on the plane is to maybe sleep. And I
Speaker 1: don't mean be quiet, I mean like, don't use your
Speaker 1: outside voice, your loud, loud outside voice, because somebody else
Speaker 1: might have other goals than you, which are not to
Speaker 1: like know where you think the best steak freed is
Speaker 1: in Paris, and what restaurants you're gonna go to, and
Speaker 1: you know how much money you make because I want
Speaker 1: her a flight attendant talking about the amount of money
Speaker 1: they make and it's a different than what other people
Speaker 1: make because they've been there long. Like I just I
Speaker 1: need there to be some like be aware of people
Speaker 1: around you. I just I like to be on the
Speaker 1: beach and not have to like huff and puff and
Speaker 1: pick up my towel and try to find a place
Speaker 1: far away from these people who don't shut the fuck up.
Speaker 1: There are many people who do shut the fuck up,
Speaker 1: who live a normal beach life, like talking, hanging. If
Speaker 1: kids are down by the water screaming, no problem, no problem.
Speaker 1: But if like my child was like throwing ice cream
Speaker 1: and having a food fight screaming by my towel, I
Speaker 1: would certainly say there are I would say, woul one
Speaker 1: hundred percent say brin, there are other people on this beach,
Speaker 1: Like you're not allowed to just like scream at the
Speaker 1: top of your lungs. Same thing with a public pool,
Speaker 1: same thing on the raft in the water. I like,
Speaker 1: if you don't own the private beach of miles and miles,
Speaker 1: and if you don't own the pool at your own house, like,
Speaker 1: let's not scream. Other people are enjoying their own version
Speaker 1: of a vacation by a pool, their own version of
Speaker 1: getting ice cream, their version of lunch. Like they may
Speaker 1: not want your entire family story to be encroaching upon
Speaker 1: their beach pool, restaurant life story. So yawking is something
Speaker 1: that I think people should be aware of. Let's talk
Speaker 1: about young girls on social media. I'm noticing that girls
Speaker 1: in their twenties are showing this rose all day lifestyle
Speaker 1: with their midge of showing. And I know I sound
Speaker 1: like a Karen, so bear with me, and like every
Speaker 1: young girl is just draped in chanel, has perfect makeup,
Speaker 1: is filtered within an inch of their life is snatched.
Speaker 1: It has disposable income, can travel everywhere, can be at Coachella,
Speaker 1: can be at Miami, can be at music Fest, and
Speaker 1: be all over you know, jet setting all over Europe.
Speaker 1: And that's what twenty year olds are doing. That's what
Speaker 1: my daughter should expect to be doing at twenty. She's
Speaker 1: not gonna have any responsibility. She doesn't have acne, she
Speaker 1: doesn't feel bloated, she doesn't feel depressed, she hasn't been
Speaker 1: broken up with, No one's broken her heart. Everything's perfect,
Speaker 1: she has no bills, She's never gonna have to worry
Speaker 1: her whole life. Because it's a rose all day lifestyle.
Speaker 1: Coming from a woman who's launching a rose called Forever Young, ironically,
Speaker 1: I just feel like when I was in my twenties,
Speaker 1: that is not the life that I was living in
Speaker 1: my twenties. I was crying, wondering what was going to
Speaker 1: happen to me, who was going to support me, how
Speaker 1: to pay my bills. I felt ugly, I felt disgusting,
Speaker 1: I felt highs and lows. I felt depressed, I felt
Speaker 1: probably broken up with. I felt like I needed to
Speaker 1: know everything that was going to happen in my life.
Speaker 1: And I just think that this is irresponsible because and
Speaker 1: I don't even know who it's irresponsible of. If young
Speaker 1: girls have disposable income, they're just flaunting that they're too
Speaker 1: young to know that they should be role models and
Speaker 1: that it matters. But someone needs to tell someone, or
Speaker 1: someone needs to tell our kids that that is not
Speaker 1: what real life is about. And it's again going back
Speaker 1: to the dangers of social media. It's just not real.
Speaker 1: It's not real. The filters aren't real, the lifestyle isn't real,
Speaker 1: the makeup isn't real, the disposable rich income isn't real.
Speaker 1: It's such a small percentage of population, and it's just
Speaker 1: not what young girls are experiencing. And if they watch that,
Speaker 1: they're going to think that if they're not living that life,
Speaker 1: they're going to be depressed. And it's no different than
Speaker 1: people thinking when they watch the Kardashians that that's real,
Speaker 1: that they're waistlines, that their hair, that their nails at
Speaker 1: their faces, that they're missing clavicles are real, and they're
Speaker 1: not real. So it's no different. Did he as suing Diagio.
Speaker 1: He has a tequila brand called Delion. He is claiming
Speaker 1: that they are not marketing it. It is a black
Speaker 1: owned brand. They are not spending money and marketing dollars
Speaker 1: to the same tune that they do with Randy Gerber
Speaker 1: and George Clooney's brand. Couple of things. Number one, there
Speaker 1: are contracts that say how much a brand will spend
Speaker 1: on marketing. With mine, it was I think eighteen percent
Speaker 1: of sales, and that was a lot of money because
Speaker 1: we were doing really close to a million cases. And
Speaker 1: that was Skinny Girl, which I sold to Beam. Beam
Speaker 1: bought my brand, and Beam bought Pinnacle Vodka because they
Speaker 1: wanted to gobble up brands, because they wanted to get
Speaker 1: themselves gobbled up by Century. None of this did I know.
Speaker 1: All I knew was I was a young girl with
Speaker 1: a young brand, and I negotiated a great deal. Would
Speaker 1: have been hundreds of thousands, I mean hundreds of millions
Speaker 1: of dollars more now because liquor exploded. But back then
Speaker 1: it was a great deal. It was a lot of money.
Speaker 1: And I was the inventor of the skinny Margarita. I
Speaker 1: had the fastest growing liquor brand in history, and I
Speaker 1: started off the celebrity craze of cocktails. Fact after me
Speaker 1: came Ryan Reynolds. After me came George Clooney and Randy Gerber.
Speaker 1: Diddy and I were groundbreakers. He has the same birthday
Speaker 1: as I do, by the way, but we were groundbreakers,
Speaker 1: and we were first into the cocktail space, the celebrity
Speaker 1: cocktail space, a land where people wouldn't hold drinks. They
Speaker 1: celebrities were advised not to hold drinks. So Diddy had
Speaker 1: a very different deal. He did not own the brand.
Speaker 1: He came into a tired brand and took a per
Speaker 1: case number, a per case amount, which made him a
Speaker 1: lot of money. He did very innovative and creative and
Speaker 1: really effective ads and puts a rock on the map,
Speaker 1: and it was amazing. After Skinny Girl tequila blew up,
Speaker 1: it became massive, not just like the brown tequila we
Speaker 1: drank in college, but the clear tequila patron men was drinking,
Speaker 1: so tequila brew blew up for women after the Skinny
Speaker 1: Girl deal, so women were drinking the tequila soda, making
Speaker 1: their own version of the Skinny Girl margarita, and tequila
Speaker 1: became something that women and more people were drinking. So
Speaker 1: now you have Mario Lopez, Eva Longoria, Mark Wahlberg, Didty,
Speaker 1: every Tom Dick and Harry, every housewife flew into alcohol,
Speaker 1: Cameron Diaz, every single person got into wine and got
Speaker 1: into tequila. And now Ditty's suing because his brand isn't
Speaker 1: being marketed as much as Randy Gerber and George Clooney's brand,
Speaker 1: which a couple of things. Number one, they jumped in
Speaker 1: after us and they blew it out. It was a lifestyle.
Speaker 1: You believed, just like Siroc. You believe that Randy Gerber
Speaker 1: and George Clooney are going to Mexico, They're on motorcycles
Speaker 1: or creating this lifestyle. You believe it. You're buying into it.
Speaker 1: We understand it. You believe Didty and Sirok. You believed
Speaker 1: me and all my girls and Skinny Girl because it's true,
Speaker 1: it was likely true for all of us. And also
Speaker 1: Diddy was doing something groundbreaking, it was cool. He wants
Speaker 1: the same attention and the same marketing as back then
Speaker 1: when the landscape is not the same as it was
Speaker 1: back then. Diagio has to protect the realm. They have Patron,
Speaker 1: which declined drastically, not unlike Absolute declining drastically years before.
Speaker 1: And I don't know that for a fact. I believe
Speaker 1: Patron has declined drastically because no one talks about it
Speaker 1: anymore the way they used to. So they had the
Speaker 1: hottest brand started by Jean Paul Joria, the owner of
Speaker 1: Paul Mitchell, and then you know, it was the hottest thing.
Speaker 1: It was the only tequila and men were drinking it
Speaker 1: out of the Patron bottle and some women were drinking it.
Speaker 1: That's when Patron became very cool. But then everybody else
Speaker 1: swooped in and people that you don't even think are
Speaker 1: really drinking the tequilo. So Diagio has to protect the realm.
Speaker 1: They have to protect their Patron business. They have to
Speaker 1: protect their cosamigo's business. Just like Beam where who bought
Speaker 1: Skinny Girl. They had to protect their gym, Beam whiskey business.
Speaker 1: That's the bread and butter, that's what keeps the lights on,
Speaker 1: not some cute Pinnacle vodka whipped cream flavored vodka appealing
Speaker 1: to women brand, not some cute little skinny girl low
Speaker 1: calorie margarita appealing to women brand. It's just not the
Speaker 1: bread and butter. So I just think that Diagio is
Speaker 1: protecting the realm. And they maybe took a flyer and
Speaker 1: thought du Leione was going to pop off, or they
Speaker 1: wanted to pump it and eventually dump it, or they
Speaker 1: wanted to get all the juice out of it that
Speaker 1: they could. But they're not building it because they've got
Speaker 1: a favorite child. No different than ConAgra doesn't promote my popcorn.
Speaker 1: ConAgra doesn't promote my popcorn at all, my microwave popcorn,
Speaker 1: because they're my partner, you know why, because they have
Speaker 1: Orville Reddenbacher. So they are protecting the realm. And yes,
Speaker 1: Skinny Girl is literally I think it's the number one
Speaker 1: or two low calorie popcorns on the market. And it's great,
Speaker 1: and it does well and it makes seals millions of
Speaker 1: dollars a year, but that is not Conagra's priority. Skinny
Speaker 1: Girl microwave popcorn is not Conagre's priority. Why because Orville
Speaker 1: Reddenbacher is Conagra's priority, but Diddy is not their priority.
Speaker 1: Neither is de Leon because they've got Patron and they've
Speaker 1: got casamigos that they have to pay attention to and
Speaker 1: that's what they're focusing on. So they have so many
Speaker 1: different brands, and Dillion is not their favorite child anymore
Speaker 1: then Mark Wahlberg is their favorite child. It's too crowded.
Speaker 1: It happened. It's like beauty and skincare. We did it,
Speaker 1: we like, we cried, freaking Kathy Wakuiel had a red
Speaker 1: velvet drink. Teresa had a failed fabulini. Luanne had an
Speaker 1: idea for a vodka. Nini wanted to do mescato. Heather
Speaker 1: Dubrow did a champagne. Lisa vander Pump did a rose.
Speaker 1: I mean, it goes on and on. That's just Housewives.
Speaker 1: It's done. We left, We cried. Celebrity owned liquor brands
Speaker 1: have peaked and will crash Cyanara and I don't even
Speaker 1: know how well eight when eight does. And so just
Speaker 1: because you're a celebrity doesn't mean you're gonna move a cocktail.
Speaker 1: It's just too much. I think did he's whining and
Speaker 1: he's crying over spilled tequila, and he shouldn't be because
Speaker 1: he got his hit. I had my hit too. I
Speaker 1: had my hit. I had my hit. I'm going back
Speaker 1: in with Forever Young Rose Wine. I think it will crush,
Speaker 1: but I'm certainly not going to go start crying. And
Speaker 1: I didn't get the attention that you know, Whispering Angel got.
Speaker 1: If I don't get it like I got to create
Speaker 1: it myself. So did he go fucking grind it? Buy
Speaker 1: it back from them, figure it out. I'll partner with you.