1 00:00:01,680 --> 00:00:03,200 Speaker 1: Some might argue that at times I can be the 2 00:00:03,240 --> 00:00:05,800 Speaker 1: no fun police, okay, and I don't. I don't feel 3 00:00:05,840 --> 00:00:07,600 Speaker 1: that I'm a no fund police. I just don't get 4 00:00:07,600 --> 00:00:09,959 Speaker 1: into like wacky shenanigans like believe it or not. I mean, 5 00:00:09,960 --> 00:00:11,719 Speaker 1: I realize what we do here is kind of like, 6 00:00:11,800 --> 00:00:15,840 Speaker 1: you know, it's a little bit goofy. 7 00:00:15,880 --> 00:00:17,400 Speaker 2: But I mean they we're not doing like. 8 00:00:19,079 --> 00:00:20,680 Speaker 1: You know, but I don't know, like I'm not I'm 9 00:00:20,720 --> 00:00:24,160 Speaker 1: not the guy who's like ready to play charades at 10 00:00:24,160 --> 00:00:26,279 Speaker 1: the party. You know, I'm not the first guy on 11 00:00:26,320 --> 00:00:28,639 Speaker 1: the dance floor at the wedding. I'm just I'm just 12 00:00:28,760 --> 00:00:30,400 Speaker 1: kind of chill. I'm just kind of laid back. 13 00:00:30,720 --> 00:00:31,480 Speaker 2: Believe it or not. 14 00:00:32,000 --> 00:00:34,000 Speaker 1: I don't like things that call a ton of attention 15 00:00:34,120 --> 00:00:36,360 Speaker 1: to any one particular person. I don't want to believe 16 00:00:36,360 --> 00:00:38,960 Speaker 1: it or not, Maybe you guys, I hopefully hopefully you 17 00:00:38,960 --> 00:00:41,760 Speaker 1: guys would agree. I actually do not like the attention 18 00:00:41,880 --> 00:00:44,960 Speaker 1: on me. True, that's true, like at all makes me 19 00:00:45,040 --> 00:00:48,400 Speaker 1: very uncomfortable. I realize what I lead the room here, 20 00:00:48,440 --> 00:00:50,640 Speaker 1: but like the attention can be on you guys is fine, 21 00:00:51,479 --> 00:00:54,720 Speaker 1: but when someone brings a lot of attention on themselves, 22 00:00:54,720 --> 00:00:57,680 Speaker 1: it also makes me uncomfortable. Yes, And so where this 23 00:00:57,760 --> 00:01:00,920 Speaker 1: is going is uh, I saw this one TikTok. A 24 00:01:01,000 --> 00:01:06,760 Speaker 1: father has gone viral for creating a song to another 25 00:01:06,880 --> 00:01:10,560 Speaker 1: song to sing at his son's wedding. So they're like 26 00:01:10,640 --> 00:01:13,240 Speaker 1: outside and it's like rolling hills and they're in their 27 00:01:13,280 --> 00:01:15,600 Speaker 1: tuxes and this looks like a very fancy wedding. And 28 00:01:15,640 --> 00:01:17,880 Speaker 1: I'm not sure if this was his speech, but it's 29 00:01:17,920 --> 00:01:21,080 Speaker 1: actually like a resounding positive review on the internet for 30 00:01:21,080 --> 00:01:23,039 Speaker 1: the most part. But this dude gets up there and 31 00:01:23,120 --> 00:01:26,119 Speaker 1: sings to Brandy that song by looking glass, you were a. 32 00:01:26,080 --> 00:01:27,880 Speaker 2: Fine girl, what a good why? 33 00:01:28,440 --> 00:01:31,400 Speaker 1: And sings about them And I guess he had like 34 00:01:31,440 --> 00:01:33,560 Speaker 1: a music producer help him with this and the whole thing. 35 00:01:34,040 --> 00:01:36,360 Speaker 1: And I haven't listened to it yet because I think 36 00:01:36,400 --> 00:01:38,560 Speaker 1: I know what it is and I'm going to annoy me. 37 00:01:39,040 --> 00:01:42,759 Speaker 1: But I mean, is is this My opinion is that 38 00:01:42,959 --> 00:01:45,360 Speaker 1: a wedding is not the time. And I realized he 39 00:01:45,440 --> 00:01:47,080 Speaker 1: probably I don't know if he paid for it or 40 00:01:47,080 --> 00:01:48,880 Speaker 1: paid for part of it, or I know that parents 41 00:01:48,920 --> 00:01:51,200 Speaker 1: give speeches, and I realize that, you know, maybe something 42 00:01:51,200 --> 00:01:53,720 Speaker 1: creative is better than just the generic, you know, lazy speech. 43 00:01:53,760 --> 00:01:56,000 Speaker 1: But at the same time, like, is this really the 44 00:01:56,080 --> 00:01:58,960 Speaker 1: time to make it about you as the father and 45 00:01:59,000 --> 00:02:01,080 Speaker 1: like do a little little it up or do you 46 00:02:01,160 --> 00:02:03,440 Speaker 1: just go up there and just say, hey, look, I'm 47 00:02:03,480 --> 00:02:05,520 Speaker 1: the dad and I'm super proud of these two and 48 00:02:05,560 --> 00:02:08,280 Speaker 1: like I'm really happy to be here and we're gonna 49 00:02:08,280 --> 00:02:10,239 Speaker 1: have a great time and sit you, sit your ass down. 50 00:02:11,280 --> 00:02:13,280 Speaker 2: My cousin would have been my cousin in law. 51 00:02:13,320 --> 00:02:15,919 Speaker 3: It's my cousin's husband's dad did this at their wedding 52 00:02:15,919 --> 00:02:16,560 Speaker 3: in New Orleans. 53 00:02:16,919 --> 00:02:20,200 Speaker 1: Propos cousin's husband's dad. Okay, And how did they go over? 54 00:02:20,560 --> 00:02:22,600 Speaker 3: It was like later in the night, so everyone was 55 00:02:22,639 --> 00:02:24,640 Speaker 3: a little lit, and it was funny that he I 56 00:02:24,680 --> 00:02:26,280 Speaker 3: don't know, I had just met him and I wasn't 57 00:02:26,320 --> 00:02:28,680 Speaker 3: expecting him to be so wild and wacky on stage, 58 00:02:28,720 --> 00:02:31,280 Speaker 3: so we liked it. I also think that my dad 59 00:02:31,360 --> 00:02:34,400 Speaker 3: saying to my mom at their wedding, But I don't know. 60 00:02:34,680 --> 00:02:35,840 Speaker 3: I mean, I think you got to do it when 61 00:02:35,840 --> 00:02:36,400 Speaker 3: everybody's lit. 62 00:02:36,480 --> 00:02:37,880 Speaker 2: Well, I think it's your wedding. You could do it 63 00:02:37,960 --> 00:02:40,360 Speaker 2: every year. Oh okay, you think maybe. But I also 64 00:02:40,720 --> 00:02:41,600 Speaker 2: I don't understand. 65 00:02:42,639 --> 00:02:44,560 Speaker 1: I've gone off on this before, Like when the when 66 00:02:44,560 --> 00:02:48,320 Speaker 1: the NFL cheerleader does like a cheerleading dance performance for 67 00:02:48,360 --> 00:02:49,680 Speaker 1: her husband at the wedding. 68 00:02:50,040 --> 00:02:51,000 Speaker 2: Jaylo did that too. 69 00:02:51,200 --> 00:02:53,480 Speaker 1: Ben he was, And I'm just kind of like, like 70 00:02:53,560 --> 00:02:56,000 Speaker 1: it's cute, I think when the guys do it, especially 71 00:02:56,000 --> 00:02:58,639 Speaker 1: if it's a guy that doesn't dance. Like I've seen 72 00:02:58,639 --> 00:03:01,800 Speaker 1: a couple where like he's surprised his wife with like 73 00:03:01,800 --> 00:03:04,320 Speaker 1: a little routine with his buddies that you would not 74 00:03:04,440 --> 00:03:07,520 Speaker 1: expect because the guy like that's not But like, if 75 00:03:07,520 --> 00:03:10,760 Speaker 1: you're already a professional dancer and you're doing a performance 76 00:03:10,800 --> 00:03:13,440 Speaker 1: at your wedding, you're doing a performance for your wedding guest. 77 00:03:13,560 --> 00:03:15,760 Speaker 1: You are, and it's nothing to do with whoever you're 78 00:03:15,760 --> 00:03:18,280 Speaker 1: supposedly doing it for. You're flexing the fact that you're 79 00:03:18,320 --> 00:03:21,800 Speaker 1: super talented because everybody there already knows that you're a 80 00:03:23,040 --> 00:03:25,280 Speaker 1: you know, Panthers cheerleader or whatever. 81 00:03:25,280 --> 00:03:26,359 Speaker 2: Everyone already knows that. 82 00:03:26,680 --> 00:03:28,800 Speaker 1: So like when you and five of the Panther cheerleaders 83 00:03:28,840 --> 00:03:30,840 Speaker 1: come out and do this whole like, you know, whatever 84 00:03:30,880 --> 00:03:34,360 Speaker 1: you're doing, everybody already knows that about you. You don't 85 00:03:34,400 --> 00:03:36,280 Speaker 1: like there's no flex here, Like we don't need to 86 00:03:36,320 --> 00:03:37,840 Speaker 1: see it, Like we'll just go to the game like 87 00:03:37,880 --> 00:03:39,920 Speaker 1: we go, we got it. You used to be a 88 00:03:40,000 --> 00:03:43,560 Speaker 1: bulls cheerleader, We got it, you know what I mean. 89 00:03:43,600 --> 00:03:45,240 Speaker 2: And the thing is, usually they're not even current. 90 00:03:45,360 --> 00:03:47,800 Speaker 1: It's like an opportunity for the you know, eight girls 91 00:03:47,800 --> 00:03:49,400 Speaker 1: that were on the two thousand and eight squad to 92 00:03:49,400 --> 00:03:51,320 Speaker 1: get together and like see another, you. 93 00:03:51,320 --> 00:03:51,800 Speaker 2: Know what I mean. 94 00:03:51,880 --> 00:03:52,320 Speaker 4: That's true. 95 00:03:52,640 --> 00:03:56,040 Speaker 2: I'm probably not a total hater, but I'm just like, yeah, 96 00:03:56,160 --> 00:03:57,120 Speaker 2: I mean they were current. 97 00:03:57,160 --> 00:03:58,640 Speaker 3: I mean, because we're not going to do a podcast 98 00:03:58,640 --> 00:03:59,880 Speaker 3: at our weddings, you know what I mean. 99 00:04:01,040 --> 00:04:05,000 Speaker 2: No, we don't get any ideas. Don't get any ideas anyway. Here, 100 00:04:05,120 --> 00:04:06,680 Speaker 2: this is, this is it. Let's listen to you a 101 00:04:06,680 --> 00:04:07,320 Speaker 2: little bit of this. 102 00:04:07,320 --> 00:04:10,080 Speaker 1: This is I think it's the father of the groom, 103 00:04:10,120 --> 00:04:14,040 Speaker 1: I believe singing a song at his son's wedding or 104 00:04:14,120 --> 00:04:17,720 Speaker 1: daughter's wedding that he that he came up with ahead 105 00:04:17,760 --> 00:04:20,160 Speaker 1: of time with a music producer that he performed at 106 00:04:20,200 --> 00:04:20,640 Speaker 1: the wedding. 107 00:04:20,880 --> 00:04:25,440 Speaker 2: He said, she said. 108 00:04:25,440 --> 00:04:31,839 Speaker 5: Never to love. So it's. 109 00:04:40,080 --> 00:04:54,320 Speaker 6: What I am for this. I am so for this. 110 00:04:56,240 --> 00:04:58,279 Speaker 6: I'm sorry. I think it's so cute. 111 00:04:59,040 --> 00:05:01,600 Speaker 5: I had my brother and Big ten performed at my 112 00:05:01,600 --> 00:05:04,480 Speaker 5: thirtieth birthday party. I just think it's the cutest. What 113 00:05:04,520 --> 00:05:07,600 Speaker 5: do they perform? H town knocking the boots? And then 114 00:05:07,640 --> 00:05:09,760 Speaker 5: they transitioned into a new addition. 115 00:05:09,600 --> 00:05:13,000 Speaker 2: Zize did you tell them to do this? 116 00:05:13,520 --> 00:05:16,080 Speaker 5: I kind of suggested it because I'm wanting to perform 117 00:05:16,120 --> 00:05:18,559 Speaker 5: at my birthday party. But I couldn't afford y'all rule yet, 118 00:05:18,920 --> 00:05:21,360 Speaker 5: so I was like, y'all need to put together performance, 119 00:05:21,400 --> 00:05:23,520 Speaker 5: and they actually did and it was it was the 120 00:05:23,600 --> 00:05:27,440 Speaker 5: cutest thing. So I'm against the whole bride's performing at 121 00:05:27,440 --> 00:05:28,720 Speaker 5: their Like it's your wedding. 122 00:05:28,920 --> 00:05:30,920 Speaker 6: Everything is already about you don't know, That's what I mean. 123 00:05:31,000 --> 00:05:32,040 Speaker 2: That's exactly what I mean. 124 00:05:32,080 --> 00:05:34,760 Speaker 5: But if your family member or dad or like this 125 00:05:34,800 --> 00:05:36,320 Speaker 5: is cute, I'm here for that. 126 00:05:36,440 --> 00:05:38,240 Speaker 2: Like I'm not going to land a plane at my wedding. 127 00:05:38,440 --> 00:05:40,200 Speaker 6: No, that'd be sick if you got out. 128 00:05:40,040 --> 00:05:40,520 Speaker 2: Of a plane. 129 00:05:40,520 --> 00:05:46,400 Speaker 5: Though, yeah, actually pose on a Runway's I suppose personalized 130 00:05:46,400 --> 00:05:47,680 Speaker 5: proposal is about the couple. 131 00:05:48,240 --> 00:05:50,839 Speaker 1: But when I'm going to a wedding, like I already know, 132 00:05:51,120 --> 00:05:53,479 Speaker 1: like in fact, the people there should know you better 133 00:05:53,480 --> 00:05:55,120 Speaker 1: than anyone on earth, so like we don't need to 134 00:05:55,160 --> 00:05:58,279 Speaker 1: be reminded of like your little hobbies because we already know. 135 00:05:58,600 --> 00:06:00,760 Speaker 2: I'm start, didn't butte you to my weather. Oh is 136 00:06:00,800 --> 00:06:02,720 Speaker 2: your dad going to sing to looking Glass? 137 00:06:03,040 --> 00:06:03,400 Speaker 4: Maybe? 138 00:06:03,680 --> 00:06:06,760 Speaker 2: I doubt it she has a good time. I doubt that. 139 00:06:06,680 --> 00:06:08,640 Speaker 1: You're gonna go for that. Someone said Fredz to hater 140 00:06:08,760 --> 00:06:12,200 Speaker 1: at his core and has to embrace it. No, I 141 00:06:12,240 --> 00:06:13,800 Speaker 1: already First of all, you don't get to diss wee 142 00:06:13,800 --> 00:06:15,440 Speaker 1: because I already said I'm the no fun police. 143 00:06:15,480 --> 00:06:17,240 Speaker 2: Stuff like this makes me uncomfortable. I don't know. 144 00:06:17,320 --> 00:06:20,680 Speaker 1: But but really though, but really, the real point here 145 00:06:20,839 --> 00:06:22,560 Speaker 1: is it has nothing to do with me as a guest. 146 00:06:22,600 --> 00:06:24,560 Speaker 1: It's I'm just attending. I'm just there. I'm drinking my 147 00:06:24,600 --> 00:06:27,440 Speaker 1: little baka soda. You know, I'm drinking my little wine whatever. 148 00:06:27,440 --> 00:06:30,360 Speaker 1: I don't know what's going on. But I mean, if 149 00:06:30,360 --> 00:06:34,520 Speaker 1: it's your wedding, do you really want other people being 150 00:06:34,560 --> 00:06:37,360 Speaker 1: cute at your wedd you do? 151 00:06:37,760 --> 00:06:41,120 Speaker 2: Yes' for you, but Pauline like Pauline's wedding. Nobody else 152 00:06:41,160 --> 00:06:43,000 Speaker 2: is cute but her. I thank you for that. 153 00:06:43,360 --> 00:06:45,520 Speaker 1: And your and your mom stood up and gave a 154 00:06:45,600 --> 00:06:48,400 Speaker 1: very brief message you were talking about his parents stood 155 00:06:48,440 --> 00:06:50,800 Speaker 1: up and gave a very brief message. Yes, it was, 156 00:06:50,920 --> 00:06:53,039 Speaker 1: you know, I mean it was somewhere between three and 157 00:06:53,120 --> 00:06:54,000 Speaker 1: five minutes. 158 00:06:54,200 --> 00:06:56,320 Speaker 2: Tops, which is acceptable, and. 159 00:06:56,240 --> 00:06:58,840 Speaker 1: Everybody was cool and like this is great, great that march. 160 00:06:58,920 --> 00:07:00,839 Speaker 1: It looks beautiful. I wanted to know the guy with 161 00:07:00,880 --> 00:07:03,360 Speaker 1: the fedora if she was doing him really, we really 162 00:07:03,400 --> 00:07:05,240 Speaker 1: wanted to know that. That was really what everybody wanted 163 00:07:05,279 --> 00:07:09,040 Speaker 1: to know the whole night. I know, so maybe they 164 00:07:09,040 --> 00:07:10,880 Speaker 1: were them. No, that's her Jonathan, so I. 165 00:07:10,840 --> 00:07:12,960 Speaker 2: Have my Jonathan was my best friend and my gaye. 166 00:07:12,880 --> 00:07:13,600 Speaker 6: Us that's hers. 167 00:07:13,680 --> 00:07:17,400 Speaker 5: Okay, But I would have loved if Hobby got up 168 00:07:17,440 --> 00:07:19,040 Speaker 5: and do the dance with his boys, only because he 169 00:07:19,040 --> 00:07:20,080 Speaker 5: doesn't because it doesn't do it. 170 00:07:20,040 --> 00:07:21,760 Speaker 2: It would have been so uncomfortable, and I would have 171 00:07:21,800 --> 00:07:22,360 Speaker 2: loved every. 172 00:07:22,160 --> 00:07:24,840 Speaker 6: Second of It's like, now I wish we did the dance. 173 00:07:24,960 --> 00:07:28,360 Speaker 1: I think when it's unexpected, maybe it's cute. But if 174 00:07:28,360 --> 00:07:30,560 Speaker 1: you're the groom, if it's your wedding. But like, like 175 00:07:30,600 --> 00:07:32,520 Speaker 1: if I did it, I think people would be shocked. 176 00:07:33,120 --> 00:07:35,080 Speaker 1: And I didn't tell anyone I was doing it correct, 177 00:07:35,080 --> 00:07:37,560 Speaker 1: Like that would be shocking. But if you're already, like 178 00:07:38,600 --> 00:07:40,920 Speaker 1: I feel like the people doing this are already the 179 00:07:40,960 --> 00:07:43,520 Speaker 1: people who would be the center of attention anyway, Like 180 00:07:43,600 --> 00:07:46,800 Speaker 1: something tells me this father would make no, there would 181 00:07:46,840 --> 00:07:49,000 Speaker 1: be no question that he was in attendance at this wedding. 182 00:07:49,040 --> 00:07:50,280 Speaker 2: Something tells me he's that guy. 183 00:07:50,760 --> 00:07:53,080 Speaker 1: He's that guy that like, oh, you know so and 184 00:07:53,080 --> 00:07:55,720 Speaker 1: So's dads here, like it's gonna be wild. And then 185 00:07:55,760 --> 00:07:57,960 Speaker 1: and then and then he goes and makes it about him, 186 00:07:58,360 --> 00:08:00,600 Speaker 1: because that's really what this is feel to me, like 187 00:08:00,600 --> 00:08:03,120 Speaker 1: people making it about themselves. That's what it feels like 188 00:08:03,160 --> 00:08:05,160 Speaker 1: to me, Like, let me have five minutes at this event. 189 00:08:05,320 --> 00:08:07,920 Speaker 1: That's not about me. That's what it feels like to me. 190 00:08:08,200 --> 00:08:10,640 Speaker 3: But he put in work and like the performance together 191 00:08:10,720 --> 00:08:13,320 Speaker 3: for them with them in mind, Like, isn't doesn't it 192 00:08:13,320 --> 00:08:15,920 Speaker 3: feel nice that somebody would, you know, organize a routine 193 00:08:16,000 --> 00:08:17,600 Speaker 3: or take the time out to practice. 194 00:08:17,800 --> 00:08:21,200 Speaker 1: I guess, I guess, I guess. 195 00:08:21,280 --> 00:08:21,640 Speaker 2: I guess. 196 00:08:21,720 --> 00:08:24,720 Speaker 6: Okay, cancel the performance for his birthday, right right right? 197 00:08:24,800 --> 00:08:27,640 Speaker 3: Oh, I got him drag queens before, I've done all 198 00:08:27,760 --> 00:08:29,120 Speaker 3: kinds of stuff that he doesn't. 199 00:08:28,800 --> 00:08:29,280 Speaker 2: I don't want. 200 00:08:29,600 --> 00:08:32,360 Speaker 1: It's like my sister many years ago gave the Mati 201 00:08:32,360 --> 00:08:36,760 Speaker 1: of Honor speech at her best friends in what was 202 00:08:36,800 --> 00:08:39,480 Speaker 1: it the rehearsal dinner night before the wedding, and she 203 00:08:39,760 --> 00:08:42,720 Speaker 1: was asking me, you know, for the reason she's asking me, like, like, 204 00:08:42,760 --> 00:08:45,640 Speaker 1: I'm the public speaker, you know how to go about it? Well, 205 00:08:45,679 --> 00:08:48,240 Speaker 1: I guess, but like that's different standing up in front 206 00:08:48,280 --> 00:08:51,080 Speaker 1: of ten people and giving a speech is different than this, 207 00:08:51,200 --> 00:08:54,080 Speaker 1: even not to mention one hundred and fifty two hundred whatever, 208 00:08:54,120 --> 00:08:56,360 Speaker 1: but but my point was she was like, you know, well, 209 00:08:56,400 --> 00:08:58,120 Speaker 1: you have any tips for me, And I'm like, do 210 00:08:58,200 --> 00:09:00,680 Speaker 1: not try do not try and be funny, Do not 211 00:09:00,840 --> 00:09:03,560 Speaker 1: try and do a skit, Do not try and do 212 00:09:03,600 --> 00:09:07,400 Speaker 1: anything that you intentionally mean to sound cute, because what's 213 00:09:07,400 --> 00:09:09,080 Speaker 1: gonna happen is if you go up there and you 214 00:09:09,160 --> 00:09:11,760 Speaker 1: do something that you're expecting a reaction from and you 215 00:09:11,800 --> 00:09:13,520 Speaker 1: don't get it, you're going to crater. 216 00:09:14,000 --> 00:09:15,480 Speaker 2: Like you Yeah, if you go. 217 00:09:15,520 --> 00:09:17,600 Speaker 1: Up there and in the first ten seconds twenty seconds 218 00:09:17,600 --> 00:09:20,640 Speaker 1: you deliver a line that you worked on, or you 219 00:09:20,679 --> 00:09:24,160 Speaker 1: do something you know, silly or whatever and no one laughs, 220 00:09:25,240 --> 00:09:28,240 Speaker 1: then then you've got another four pages of material that 221 00:09:28,280 --> 00:09:30,040 Speaker 1: you still have to deliver. And I think for the 222 00:09:30,080 --> 00:09:33,280 Speaker 1: average person and even me as a professional, that would 223 00:09:33,320 --> 00:09:35,560 Speaker 1: crush me on the inside. Yeah, Like if I went 224 00:09:35,640 --> 00:09:38,200 Speaker 1: up on stage it was like so excited or in 225 00:09:38,200 --> 00:09:40,400 Speaker 1: front of everyone to tell you something and then nobody 226 00:09:40,440 --> 00:09:42,840 Speaker 1: laughed at me. I would probably just rip up the 227 00:09:42,880 --> 00:09:44,880 Speaker 1: rest and go home, like I mean, so, you know what, 228 00:09:44,960 --> 00:09:48,720 Speaker 1: and people do it and it's like, yeah, you don't. 229 00:09:48,880 --> 00:09:50,640 Speaker 1: No one expects you to be a comedian. No one 230 00:09:50,640 --> 00:09:53,240 Speaker 1: expects you to do waka waka like. What they expect 231 00:09:53,320 --> 00:09:56,319 Speaker 1: you to do is share something sentimental and have some 232 00:09:56,360 --> 00:09:58,880 Speaker 1: sort of feeling your emotion, you know, and sort of 233 00:09:58,880 --> 00:10:01,720 Speaker 1: inject some happiness and you know what I mean into 234 00:10:01,920 --> 00:10:04,520 Speaker 1: That's the point is that no one there's few people 235 00:10:04,559 --> 00:10:06,600 Speaker 1: there that mean more and you mean more, and they 236 00:10:06,640 --> 00:10:08,400 Speaker 1: mean more to you than this person is standing there. 237 00:10:08,400 --> 00:10:11,400 Speaker 1: So just say that it's not a roast. It's not 238 00:10:11,480 --> 00:10:15,240 Speaker 1: a roast either. Okay, that's another mistake people make. I've 239 00:10:15,240 --> 00:10:18,960 Speaker 1: seen it happen so many times at rehearsal dinners where like, 240 00:10:19,200 --> 00:10:20,600 Speaker 1: and it's always the guy. 241 00:10:20,800 --> 00:10:22,360 Speaker 2: It's always on the guy's side. 242 00:10:23,200 --> 00:10:26,080 Speaker 1: But like I remember, I went to my buddy's wedding 243 00:10:26,440 --> 00:10:28,640 Speaker 1: and just out of college, and everybody went up and 244 00:10:28,640 --> 00:10:30,720 Speaker 1: gave him promptu speeches at the rehearsal dinner at this 245 00:10:30,920 --> 00:10:33,520 Speaker 1: very fancy country club. It was extremely bride had a 246 00:10:33,520 --> 00:10:36,520 Speaker 1: lot of money, very fancy, a lot of high flutin 247 00:10:36,559 --> 00:10:38,800 Speaker 1: people there, and one of the dudes goes up and 248 00:10:38,800 --> 00:10:40,560 Speaker 1: decide it's going to be the roast to my boy, 249 00:10:41,400 --> 00:10:44,319 Speaker 1: and it's telling stories from like the fraternity and I'm going, dude, no, 250 00:10:44,960 --> 00:10:47,480 Speaker 1: like this is like the night before the wedding is 251 00:10:47,520 --> 00:10:50,600 Speaker 1: not the time to hear about for the for the 252 00:10:50,640 --> 00:10:53,160 Speaker 1: father of the bride to hear about the kind of 253 00:10:53,200 --> 00:10:55,360 Speaker 1: shenanigans that is soon to be son in law was 254 00:10:55,400 --> 00:10:58,560 Speaker 1: into because there's nothing you can do about it now. 255 00:10:58,760 --> 00:11:03,320 Speaker 1: Yeah right, I mean, yeah, you disagree. Do you like 256 00:11:03,360 --> 00:11:04,120 Speaker 1: the shenanigans? 257 00:11:04,160 --> 00:11:04,360 Speaker 4: I do. 258 00:11:04,440 --> 00:11:07,600 Speaker 5: I love the shenanigans, and I love watching somebody crash 259 00:11:07,679 --> 00:11:10,040 Speaker 5: at a wedding, like like they're in the middle of 260 00:11:10,080 --> 00:11:11,559 Speaker 5: that speech and they're trying to be funny and it 261 00:11:11,640 --> 00:11:14,800 Speaker 5: is not working, and the bride is like me mugging them, 262 00:11:14,840 --> 00:11:16,800 Speaker 5: but they keep going because like, once you're up there, 263 00:11:16,840 --> 00:11:20,440 Speaker 5: you just gotta keep going. So I enjoy the shenanigans, 264 00:11:20,520 --> 00:11:22,520 Speaker 5: I really do. And I feel like as long as 265 00:11:22,520 --> 00:11:24,719 Speaker 5: it comes from a good place, it'll go. 266 00:11:24,720 --> 00:11:26,679 Speaker 2: Overwhelm Like if pulling him. 267 00:11:26,720 --> 00:11:29,240 Speaker 1: There was something talk about you having me officiate your 268 00:11:29,240 --> 00:11:29,960 Speaker 1: wedding at some point. 269 00:11:30,120 --> 00:11:31,960 Speaker 2: I mean that was real, But the Elvis Church, wouldn't 270 00:11:32,040 --> 00:11:33,880 Speaker 2: let what you do the Elvish Church that you are 271 00:11:33,920 --> 00:11:34,600 Speaker 2: not an employee. 272 00:11:34,640 --> 00:11:36,600 Speaker 1: I would have I would have surprised you by dressing 273 00:11:36,640 --> 00:11:38,720 Speaker 1: as Elvis and marrying you. That would have that would 274 00:11:38,720 --> 00:11:41,599 Speaker 1: have been funny. That would have been that would have 275 00:11:41,600 --> 00:11:44,360 Speaker 1: been funny and unexpected. But you could argue from the outside, 276 00:11:44,720 --> 00:11:47,319 Speaker 1: he's making it about him. You could argue that anything 277 00:11:47,400 --> 00:11:49,600 Speaker 1: I do to call attention to myself at your wedding 278 00:11:49,720 --> 00:11:51,400 Speaker 1: is now now not about you anymore. 279 00:11:51,960 --> 00:11:53,920 Speaker 2: My wedding was different. Though we're in Vegas at the 280 00:11:54,000 --> 00:11:56,439 Speaker 2: Lettle White Wedding Chapel. Anything goes there, I'll bets are off. 281 00:11:56,480 --> 00:11:58,200 Speaker 1: But imagine if I stood up there and before I 282 00:11:58,240 --> 00:12:00,120 Speaker 1: married you, guys, I did it waiting by the phone Skar. 283 00:12:00,440 --> 00:12:00,960 Speaker 2: You know what I mean. 284 00:12:01,840 --> 00:12:06,719 Speaker 5: It'd be like we're playing the throw down. 285 00:12:07,640 --> 00:12:10,840 Speaker 1: I mean, if you asked me to do that. But 286 00:12:10,960 --> 00:12:13,280 Speaker 1: like otherwise I don't, I don't know. Everyone's mad at 287 00:12:13,320 --> 00:12:15,240 Speaker 1: me on the text, like you're a hater. I'm not 288 00:12:15,280 --> 00:12:16,040 Speaker 1: trying to be a hater. 289 00:12:16,160 --> 00:12:19,320 Speaker 2: It's just like you don't like fine. I like I 290 00:12:19,640 --> 00:12:20,920 Speaker 2: like fun. I like fun. 291 00:12:21,080 --> 00:12:23,080 Speaker 1: I just I kind of wonder, like, what is this 292 00:12:23,160 --> 00:12:28,480 Speaker 1: guy don't make someone else's wedding about you. It should 293 00:12:28,520 --> 00:12:30,920 Speaker 1: be all. If there's one night that it can be 294 00:12:30,960 --> 00:12:35,560 Speaker 1: all about other people, it's that night. I feel like, Hey, Ryan, 295 00:12:35,679 --> 00:12:36,200 Speaker 1: how you doing? 296 00:12:36,280 --> 00:12:36,559 Speaker 2: Ryan? 297 00:12:37,920 --> 00:12:40,160 Speaker 4: Hey, I was just gonna stay Fred. If you ever 298 00:12:40,320 --> 00:12:42,880 Speaker 4: do get married, you have to land the plane, like 299 00:12:43,000 --> 00:12:45,800 Speaker 4: have the ready reception at the end of the runway, 300 00:12:46,040 --> 00:12:48,400 Speaker 4: and then you land the plane and that's how you 301 00:12:48,440 --> 00:12:51,920 Speaker 4: walk into the reception at the end of the runway 302 00:12:51,920 --> 00:12:54,480 Speaker 4: and then you just walk up to the altar like that. 303 00:12:54,720 --> 00:12:57,200 Speaker 1: But wouldn't everybody get there first? Of I love how 304 00:12:57,200 --> 00:12:59,640 Speaker 1: he's like, if you ever like because if you've been 305 00:12:59,679 --> 00:13:01,760 Speaker 1: listening for five minutes, you know there's a very small 306 00:13:01,800 --> 00:13:04,040 Speaker 1: likelihood of that. But everybody who's going to be at 307 00:13:04,040 --> 00:13:06,800 Speaker 1: this wedding realizes that I have a pilot's license, Like 308 00:13:06,840 --> 00:13:08,480 Speaker 1: they don't need to see it, Like you know what 309 00:13:08,520 --> 00:13:09,679 Speaker 1: I mean, Like I don't. I don't need to make 310 00:13:09,720 --> 00:13:12,280 Speaker 1: them all stand there and wait, I land a plane 311 00:13:12,280 --> 00:13:13,839 Speaker 1: and get out and like straighten myself. 312 00:13:13,840 --> 00:13:16,720 Speaker 2: Hey, come on, everybody knows that, Ryan. 313 00:13:16,800 --> 00:13:18,040 Speaker 4: No, it would definitely be cool. 314 00:13:18,120 --> 00:13:18,760 Speaker 2: It would be like. 315 00:13:18,640 --> 00:13:21,600 Speaker 4: When Jeff Prokes from Survivor on the finale, he would 316 00:13:21,760 --> 00:13:24,040 Speaker 4: to jump out of the plane and skydives and then 317 00:13:24,080 --> 00:13:27,480 Speaker 4: he'd walk into the stadium like that. It'd be like that. 318 00:13:27,760 --> 00:13:29,360 Speaker 1: I saw a guy do that once. Actually I did 319 00:13:29,440 --> 00:13:32,200 Speaker 1: see a guy come to his own wedding. He's a skydiver, 320 00:13:32,280 --> 00:13:34,400 Speaker 1: and he jumped out of the plane, landed at his 321 00:13:34,440 --> 00:13:37,280 Speaker 1: own wedding, and then like as he's like Bacon, never 322 00:13:37,280 --> 00:13:40,000 Speaker 1: stopped walking, like landed, stripped the gear off. He was 323 00:13:40,000 --> 00:13:41,679 Speaker 1: already in this tucks and just walked out. It was 324 00:13:41,760 --> 00:13:44,080 Speaker 1: that was cool. That was actually pretty cool. 325 00:13:44,120 --> 00:13:46,080 Speaker 2: But that's like, but that's how you walk out of 326 00:13:46,120 --> 00:13:48,240 Speaker 2: the plane. That's daredevil stuff like that. 327 00:13:48,320 --> 00:13:50,640 Speaker 3: You knew he was a skydiver already. 328 00:13:50,280 --> 00:13:51,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, but I didn't know he was going to do that. 329 00:13:51,520 --> 00:13:53,440 Speaker 1: Well at first I didn't know him. It was a video, 330 00:13:53,640 --> 00:13:55,080 Speaker 1: but I don't know. I don't know that anybody knew 331 00:13:55,120 --> 00:13:56,920 Speaker 1: he was going to do that. I think everybody was 332 00:13:57,000 --> 00:13:58,480 Speaker 1: kind of like where is he? You know, and then 333 00:13:58,559 --> 00:14:00,680 Speaker 1: he's like in the sky, like, I mean, well, come on, 334 00:14:00,760 --> 00:14:04,320 Speaker 1: that's an extreme example. But thank you, Ryan, I appreciate it. 335 00:14:04,040 --> 00:14:04,800 Speaker 6: So many rules. 336 00:14:04,960 --> 00:14:09,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, Fred, drop it. No, I'm not gonna drop it. 337 00:14:09,600 --> 00:14:11,800 Speaker 2: I'm gonna keep going. Thanks. We'll go on for twenty 338 00:14:11,840 --> 00:14:12,280 Speaker 2: more minutes. 339 00:14:12,320 --> 00:14:14,680 Speaker 1: Now, my husband and his mother, this is a text, 340 00:14:14,840 --> 00:14:16,880 Speaker 1: did a whole ten minute dance routine and it was 341 00:14:16,920 --> 00:14:19,360 Speaker 1: horrible and I interrupted it because I couldn't take it anymore. 342 00:14:20,600 --> 00:14:22,920 Speaker 2: I guess that's coming from the that's coming from the bride. 343 00:14:23,160 --> 00:14:24,760 Speaker 6: I mean, like, okay, this is a long time. 344 00:14:25,040 --> 00:14:26,560 Speaker 2: See, this is what I mean. Like, this is an 345 00:14:26,600 --> 00:14:29,520 Speaker 2: eight minute song. This man is singing, I'm with Fred. 346 00:14:29,640 --> 00:14:32,200 Speaker 1: It's about the couple Fred's upset about has something that 347 00:14:32,200 --> 00:14:33,120 Speaker 1: has nothing to do with him. 348 00:14:33,200 --> 00:14:34,280 Speaker 2: Yeah. No, that's my job. 349 00:14:35,120 --> 00:14:36,720 Speaker 1: That's exact as my job every day is to have 350 00:14:36,760 --> 00:14:38,320 Speaker 1: an opinion on things that do not matter. 351 00:14:39,280 --> 00:14:42,000 Speaker 2: And I've delivered. All right, fine, I'm done, I'm done. 352 00:14:42,160 --> 00:14:44,080 Speaker 6: Drop it. 353 00:14:44,120 --> 00:14:45,640 Speaker 2: Thank you, Kik. You don't have to text. You can 354 00:14:45,680 --> 00:14:47,040 Speaker 2: just talk that loud. The microphone is on.