1 00:00:02,120 --> 00:00:07,040 Speaker 1: All right, welcome back. This is a special Bachelor happy 2 00:00:07,080 --> 00:00:12,559 Speaker 1: Hour with the happy couples. You guys look so freaking cute. 3 00:00:12,640 --> 00:00:14,520 Speaker 1: I love you so much. I'm so happy that the 4 00:00:14,560 --> 00:00:20,040 Speaker 1: show ended the way it did. Spencer and Jess, congratulations, 5 00:00:20,640 --> 00:00:26,759 Speaker 1: Thank you, I mean, and also of course Andrew and Alex, congratulations. 6 00:00:28,040 --> 00:00:30,280 Speaker 1: I have to be honest, like, just on a personal note, 7 00:00:30,440 --> 00:00:33,880 Speaker 1: I always knew you guys were going to end up together, 8 00:00:34,120 --> 00:00:36,680 Speaker 1: Like I think I told you how halfway through the 9 00:00:36,680 --> 00:00:37,920 Speaker 1: show is like, by the way, you're not gonna be 10 00:00:37,960 --> 00:00:45,320 Speaker 1: on this show, by the way, But the couple that 11 00:00:46,040 --> 00:00:48,680 Speaker 1: you know really surprising me was you guys, and I 12 00:00:48,800 --> 00:00:54,120 Speaker 1: really loved watching your your kind of relationship grow. Did 13 00:00:54,200 --> 00:00:57,520 Speaker 1: you have any idea that you'd be sitting here now 14 00:00:57,720 --> 00:00:59,639 Speaker 1: going back to those early days of paradise. 15 00:01:00,520 --> 00:01:03,760 Speaker 2: I think we didn't think so far ahead, so it's 16 00:01:03,760 --> 00:01:06,000 Speaker 2: like hard to say, but like I knew that our 17 00:01:06,319 --> 00:01:09,080 Speaker 2: like we had something there. I tell her this whole time, 18 00:01:09,160 --> 00:01:11,240 Speaker 2: and she remembers the first thing I said. I was like, 19 00:01:11,280 --> 00:01:13,560 Speaker 2: I don't know what it is, but there's something between us. 20 00:01:13,959 --> 00:01:17,360 Speaker 2: So like before like choosing to go with Bailey or 21 00:01:17,400 --> 00:01:19,600 Speaker 2: Alex still on a date, like I just like I 22 00:01:19,640 --> 00:01:22,600 Speaker 2: didn't know what it was, but I was gravitating towards Alex. 23 00:01:23,160 --> 00:01:25,479 Speaker 2: But I kind of did that my first Paradise where 24 00:01:25,480 --> 00:01:26,760 Speaker 2: I went with the girl that I knew at So 25 00:01:26,800 --> 00:01:29,680 Speaker 2: I wanted to do Paradise differently, and I wanted to 26 00:01:29,680 --> 00:01:31,240 Speaker 2: put all my eggs one bats, but one egg there, 27 00:01:31,240 --> 00:01:32,480 Speaker 2: and I put all ninety nine in hers. 28 00:01:34,720 --> 00:01:37,280 Speaker 3: So like I was just like, I don't know, there's 29 00:01:37,360 --> 00:01:37,720 Speaker 3: just like. 30 00:01:37,640 --> 00:01:40,199 Speaker 2: This magnetic connection. And I know a lot of people 31 00:01:40,240 --> 00:01:42,360 Speaker 2: didn't get a chance to see that. That doesn't take 32 00:01:42,360 --> 00:01:44,800 Speaker 2: away from the fact that we were just like having 33 00:01:44,840 --> 00:01:45,360 Speaker 2: the time of. 34 00:01:45,280 --> 00:01:47,920 Speaker 3: Our lives, and I think that was important first. Yeah, 35 00:01:48,080 --> 00:01:50,080 Speaker 3: we just we just enjoyed being around each other. 36 00:01:50,120 --> 00:01:53,400 Speaker 2: I think her laugh is so infectious to the point 37 00:01:53,440 --> 00:01:55,160 Speaker 2: where like I'm like, all right, well. 38 00:01:55,080 --> 00:01:56,560 Speaker 3: No one else is here, because I'm just gonna keep 39 00:01:56,600 --> 00:01:57,760 Speaker 3: making her laugh like it. 40 00:02:00,760 --> 00:02:03,440 Speaker 4: I also wanted to go at it differently, where you know, 41 00:02:03,480 --> 00:02:05,040 Speaker 4: if you look at my journey at the beginning, I 42 00:02:05,080 --> 00:02:07,240 Speaker 4: was with one guy with Ricky, and we had a 43 00:02:07,240 --> 00:02:09,800 Speaker 4: lot of chemistry and we wanted to make out all 44 00:02:09,800 --> 00:02:14,480 Speaker 4: the time and sorry, but I wanted to really go 45 00:02:14,960 --> 00:02:17,720 Speaker 4: in it with the idea of like a long term relationship, 46 00:02:17,760 --> 00:02:20,200 Speaker 4: and I didn't want, you know, the the lust or 47 00:02:20,240 --> 00:02:24,680 Speaker 4: whatever it is to kind of blur my decision, if 48 00:02:24,680 --> 00:02:26,440 Speaker 4: that makes sense. And I feel like we had such 49 00:02:26,480 --> 00:02:29,200 Speaker 4: a good friendship foundation and I think that's so important 50 00:02:29,240 --> 00:02:32,640 Speaker 4: for like long term relationships. And we can't keep our 51 00:02:32,680 --> 00:02:34,400 Speaker 4: hands off each other anyway, so I think it. 52 00:02:34,680 --> 00:02:35,600 Speaker 5: Yeah, we have both. 53 00:02:36,400 --> 00:02:41,079 Speaker 1: Was there a moment during filming that you were like, oh, 54 00:02:41,120 --> 00:02:42,640 Speaker 1: this is something different. 55 00:02:44,639 --> 00:02:47,160 Speaker 3: I told you that the other night. Well, I think 56 00:02:47,480 --> 00:02:51,640 Speaker 3: one of the things was, I know mine. We were 57 00:02:51,800 --> 00:02:56,919 Speaker 3: laying in the day bed and day one two. Yeah, 58 00:02:56,919 --> 00:02:57,680 Speaker 3: it was literally. 59 00:02:57,480 --> 00:02:59,800 Speaker 2: Day one and she's like, all right, I'm gonna take 60 00:02:59,800 --> 00:03:03,600 Speaker 2: a name, turns over and I'm just like looking up again. 61 00:03:03,800 --> 00:03:06,400 Speaker 2: I can tell she's going to turn back around, like 62 00:03:06,600 --> 00:03:06,919 Speaker 2: so I. 63 00:03:06,919 --> 00:03:10,760 Speaker 3: Just want to know. I was just like I was like, oh, yeah, 64 00:03:10,800 --> 00:03:11,440 Speaker 3: this is perfect. 65 00:03:11,560 --> 00:03:14,520 Speaker 2: This is when I knew, like this is like, you know, 66 00:03:14,680 --> 00:03:16,800 Speaker 2: so this could definitely be my person because it just 67 00:03:16,880 --> 00:03:20,480 Speaker 2: felt so comfort, so much comfort, and it felt really natural, 68 00:03:20,520 --> 00:03:21,880 Speaker 2: like as if you weren't even on the show. 69 00:03:22,360 --> 00:03:24,600 Speaker 3: Like I just felt like we were just so geazed 70 00:03:24,639 --> 00:03:25,680 Speaker 3: and relaxed. 71 00:03:25,520 --> 00:03:27,760 Speaker 4: And you kind of gave us kind of not confirmation, 72 00:03:27,840 --> 00:03:29,520 Speaker 4: but sometimes you would say things and I was like, oh, 73 00:03:29,520 --> 00:03:32,320 Speaker 4: I feel like Well's approved, Like well Well's Well's approves. 74 00:03:32,560 --> 00:03:36,400 Speaker 4: That's a twister for me, and I know, just having 75 00:03:36,440 --> 00:03:38,960 Speaker 4: like an unbiased opinion. I feel like I was like, 76 00:03:39,000 --> 00:03:41,200 Speaker 4: I think we're we're pretty solid, like he sees what 77 00:03:41,280 --> 00:03:42,240 Speaker 4: we we feel. 78 00:03:44,040 --> 00:03:47,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, sitting there, Yeah you guys did. Yeah, sorry, that 79 00:03:47,600 --> 00:03:51,200 Speaker 1: was the incorrect answer, Alex. The moment that you knew 80 00:03:51,200 --> 00:03:53,280 Speaker 1: that he was the one was when he couldn't get 81 00:03:53,360 --> 00:03:54,680 Speaker 1: up because he had a giant phoner. 82 00:03:56,760 --> 00:04:00,160 Speaker 4: I can't believe my grandma saw that, but I thought, yeah, that. 83 00:04:00,240 --> 00:04:00,760 Speaker 5: See, that's. 84 00:04:03,680 --> 00:04:04,520 Speaker 1: What would that have done. 85 00:04:05,640 --> 00:04:06,840 Speaker 3: It was just like I was just like I was 86 00:04:06,880 --> 00:04:10,840 Speaker 3: just dying. I'm just I can't tonight. 87 00:04:11,080 --> 00:04:12,880 Speaker 4: But just the way you reacted to that, I think 88 00:04:12,880 --> 00:04:14,320 Speaker 4: a lot of people would be like, Okay, that's way 89 00:04:14,320 --> 00:04:16,800 Speaker 4: too much, and you just like jumped in on the joke. 90 00:04:17,279 --> 00:04:18,279 Speaker 4: I was like, that's my guy. 91 00:04:18,360 --> 00:04:19,000 Speaker 5: Like I feel like. 92 00:04:19,040 --> 00:04:21,600 Speaker 4: Not you're very like unfiltered. 93 00:04:21,440 --> 00:04:23,640 Speaker 2: Filter and I love that you're always your You're always 94 00:04:23,640 --> 00:04:25,640 Speaker 2: yourself and you know sometimes. 95 00:04:25,279 --> 00:04:27,520 Speaker 3: When you say words like that that makes me feel good. 96 00:04:27,920 --> 00:04:28,560 Speaker 3: I feel good. 97 00:04:28,640 --> 00:04:34,320 Speaker 1: So down in the Southern Hemisphere, you know. 98 00:04:34,360 --> 00:04:37,320 Speaker 2: Don't stop saying those things. 99 00:04:37,920 --> 00:04:40,360 Speaker 4: I would also say, you know what, I get the tingles. 100 00:04:40,640 --> 00:04:41,320 Speaker 5: That's the equivolent. 101 00:04:41,360 --> 00:04:42,800 Speaker 4: I would say to him all the time, I have 102 00:04:42,839 --> 00:04:47,760 Speaker 4: the tingles. Anyway, let's move on to the sweet wholesome 103 00:04:47,800 --> 00:04:48,320 Speaker 4: couple here. 104 00:04:51,000 --> 00:04:52,160 Speaker 5: He's not done with you too. 105 00:04:52,440 --> 00:04:58,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm gonna go back and Okay, you guys, what's 106 00:04:58,560 --> 00:05:00,960 Speaker 1: the funniest or most most ridicul this thing you've seen 107 00:05:01,200 --> 00:05:03,360 Speaker 1: written about your relationship online? 108 00:05:03,960 --> 00:05:05,279 Speaker 3: Oh? I can I take this? 109 00:05:05,360 --> 00:05:05,839 Speaker 5: Oh please? 110 00:05:07,000 --> 00:05:11,400 Speaker 2: Everyone's like saying that, Like I like, Alex only didn't 111 00:05:11,400 --> 00:05:15,040 Speaker 2: tell Jeremy because I wanted Bailey or she she wanted 112 00:05:15,080 --> 00:05:17,919 Speaker 2: herself for me. And I was like that was not 113 00:05:18,279 --> 00:05:21,400 Speaker 2: even the case, like whatsoever, because you can attest to this. 114 00:05:21,520 --> 00:05:22,120 Speaker 3: Like I came back. 115 00:05:22,160 --> 00:05:25,320 Speaker 2: I was just like, I really need to like see 116 00:05:25,520 --> 00:05:27,480 Speaker 2: like what Alex is thinking, like how she's gonna feel 117 00:05:27,480 --> 00:05:29,080 Speaker 2: about this in the morning, so I be lined tour 118 00:05:29,120 --> 00:05:32,200 Speaker 2: in the morning. First off, our conversation happened before their 119 00:05:32,279 --> 00:05:34,880 Speaker 2: conversation happened, and then the whole massage thing, like the 120 00:05:34,920 --> 00:05:36,839 Speaker 2: first thing in the morning. I went and talk to 121 00:05:36,880 --> 00:05:39,039 Speaker 2: Alex like that was like the first thing on my mind. 122 00:05:39,080 --> 00:05:41,240 Speaker 2: It wasn't like anything that was bad between Bailey and I, 123 00:05:41,320 --> 00:05:42,480 Speaker 2: Like it's just like. 124 00:05:42,400 --> 00:05:43,040 Speaker 3: We both knew. 125 00:05:43,720 --> 00:05:46,080 Speaker 2: We were just like, ah, all right, well we tried 126 00:05:46,920 --> 00:05:49,760 Speaker 2: were we explored it, and I just knew, like I 127 00:05:49,800 --> 00:05:51,880 Speaker 2: was just like okay, well I just had to just 128 00:05:52,520 --> 00:05:55,360 Speaker 2: for myself so I wouldn't be like oh later down 129 00:05:55,400 --> 00:05:58,840 Speaker 2: the line, like I didn't do everything I could at Paradise, 130 00:05:58,920 --> 00:06:00,000 Speaker 2: you know, I wouldn't have leave. 131 00:05:59,880 --> 00:06:02,159 Speaker 3: One a stone on the left on turn. So like 132 00:06:02,440 --> 00:06:03,960 Speaker 3: I knew it was gonna be Alex, I just had 133 00:06:03,960 --> 00:06:04,920 Speaker 3: to get back to. 134 00:06:04,880 --> 00:06:06,120 Speaker 5: It, and you have to talk me off the ledge. 135 00:06:06,120 --> 00:06:07,520 Speaker 4: I was gonna leave regardless. 136 00:06:08,640 --> 00:06:09,440 Speaker 3: She was ready to go. 137 00:06:09,640 --> 00:06:12,320 Speaker 2: I think we had and a lot of the reasons 138 00:06:12,320 --> 00:06:14,280 Speaker 2: why we I didn't take her on the day because 139 00:06:14,279 --> 00:06:16,200 Speaker 2: I wasn't one hundred percent sure that she was into me, 140 00:06:16,279 --> 00:06:18,280 Speaker 2: so I was a little nervous about like taking her 141 00:06:18,600 --> 00:06:21,120 Speaker 2: and then like me, you know, imploding and then like 142 00:06:21,600 --> 00:06:24,240 Speaker 2: I literally have nothing, you know, obviously, like the last 143 00:06:24,240 --> 00:06:26,240 Speaker 2: time I was in Paradise, I was literally trying to right. 144 00:06:26,200 --> 00:06:29,000 Speaker 3: My wrongs and I had to talk her off a ledge. 145 00:06:29,040 --> 00:06:31,320 Speaker 2: She was like I think I'm good, I'm done, and 146 00:06:31,400 --> 00:06:34,200 Speaker 2: I was like, wait, actually, like there's reasons why you 147 00:06:34,240 --> 00:06:35,000 Speaker 2: know I didn't. 148 00:06:34,720 --> 00:06:36,400 Speaker 3: Take you on the date is because I thought you 149 00:06:36,400 --> 00:06:37,080 Speaker 3: didn't like me. 150 00:06:37,240 --> 00:06:40,080 Speaker 2: I heard some or some other sourcing stuff I don't 151 00:06:40,080 --> 00:06:42,640 Speaker 2: want to get into. I knew also that like, you know, 152 00:06:43,160 --> 00:06:45,080 Speaker 2: she would like it if I went, like didn't choose her. 153 00:06:45,000 --> 00:06:46,120 Speaker 1: Right away, and I did. 154 00:06:46,200 --> 00:06:46,640 Speaker 5: I liked it. 155 00:06:46,680 --> 00:06:47,919 Speaker 3: I was like, you know me, you know. 156 00:06:47,880 --> 00:06:48,200 Speaker 5: What I mean. 157 00:06:48,720 --> 00:06:49,400 Speaker 1: I love it. 158 00:06:49,520 --> 00:06:50,680 Speaker 5: I love it. 159 00:06:50,760 --> 00:06:52,680 Speaker 3: I love it like that that also plays a part 160 00:06:52,720 --> 00:06:52,880 Speaker 3: in it. 161 00:06:52,920 --> 00:06:55,320 Speaker 2: And I was just like, okay, perfect, Well, now I 162 00:06:55,360 --> 00:06:57,719 Speaker 2: know I have your attention and I know that you're 163 00:06:57,720 --> 00:06:58,320 Speaker 2: interested in me. 164 00:06:58,520 --> 00:07:00,400 Speaker 3: I was like on full go, like this is exactly 165 00:07:00,400 --> 00:07:00,919 Speaker 3: what I wanted. 166 00:07:01,000 --> 00:07:04,160 Speaker 6: The conversations that we would have in our room where 167 00:07:04,160 --> 00:07:06,479 Speaker 6: we would literally sit there in bed and we talked 168 00:07:06,480 --> 00:07:08,479 Speaker 6: about something with like I'd say something I liked about 169 00:07:08,560 --> 00:07:12,360 Speaker 6: Jess and we go and like say something like that, 170 00:07:12,480 --> 00:07:17,000 Speaker 6: Alex like yeah, that sounds that's really good. 171 00:07:19,600 --> 00:07:24,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, you guys talked a lot about love levels. Yeah, 172 00:07:24,400 --> 00:07:28,880 Speaker 1: what level are you at? Now? Well, the caption says 173 00:07:28,880 --> 00:07:31,680 Speaker 1: that I'm in love with her for sure, Like so 174 00:07:31,720 --> 00:07:32,320 Speaker 1: does that level? 175 00:07:32,840 --> 00:07:33,600 Speaker 3: That's infinity? 176 00:07:33,680 --> 00:07:35,520 Speaker 2: So at that point, like it just keeps growing and 177 00:07:35,600 --> 00:07:38,440 Speaker 2: keeps going and let's just see how. 178 00:07:38,400 --> 00:07:40,800 Speaker 3: Like you know, goes in. 179 00:07:41,200 --> 00:07:43,880 Speaker 4: But we did have levels just to kind of give contexts, 180 00:07:44,200 --> 00:07:46,000 Speaker 4: you know. I I had this feeling that I was like, 181 00:07:46,040 --> 00:07:48,240 Speaker 4: I feel like it's love. I'm not sure if it is. 182 00:07:48,280 --> 00:07:49,800 Speaker 4: And you know, I did say I want to make 183 00:07:49,800 --> 00:07:51,800 Speaker 4: sure that I really truly mean it when I say 184 00:07:51,800 --> 00:07:54,120 Speaker 4: I love you, And I think there's levels. You can 185 00:07:54,200 --> 00:07:56,040 Speaker 4: you know, love somebody as a friend, you can love 186 00:07:56,080 --> 00:07:57,120 Speaker 4: somebody for you know. 187 00:07:57,640 --> 00:08:00,360 Speaker 2: My love was like I love this person, like I 188 00:08:00,440 --> 00:08:02,320 Speaker 2: fell in love with the person, and I was just like, 189 00:08:02,560 --> 00:08:05,280 Speaker 2: let's get to falling in love romantically as a partner. 190 00:08:05,640 --> 00:08:07,720 Speaker 3: And I think that was like the levels to that 191 00:08:07,760 --> 00:08:08,640 Speaker 3: part on. 192 00:08:08,680 --> 00:08:10,400 Speaker 4: A TV show. It can come off as like, oh. 193 00:08:10,280 --> 00:08:12,440 Speaker 3: Do you love her after a week? Really? Yeah, So 194 00:08:12,560 --> 00:08:13,600 Speaker 3: that's a level one. 195 00:08:13,640 --> 00:08:15,800 Speaker 4: Level two. I love you, I love being around you, 196 00:08:15,840 --> 00:08:17,120 Speaker 4: but it's not you know. 197 00:08:17,240 --> 00:08:19,280 Speaker 2: Like I care for everything that's going on in her life. 198 00:08:19,480 --> 00:08:21,120 Speaker 2: I know so many things about her that a lot 199 00:08:21,120 --> 00:08:24,320 Speaker 2: of people don't know. Like that's like, now you're embedding 200 00:08:24,360 --> 00:08:27,120 Speaker 2: yourself and investing yourself into this person's life. So I'm 201 00:08:27,160 --> 00:08:28,480 Speaker 2: just like, oh my god, I love this. 202 00:08:28,400 --> 00:08:30,200 Speaker 3: Person, you know what I mean. So it's like I 203 00:08:30,200 --> 00:08:31,800 Speaker 3: love you as a friend, as well, but thank you. 204 00:08:31,840 --> 00:08:35,360 Speaker 3: I mean, it's just not romantically he did. 205 00:08:38,440 --> 00:08:44,760 Speaker 1: It's fine, that's cool. Whatever. My favorite thing that happened 206 00:08:44,760 --> 00:08:49,120 Speaker 1: this season no offense guys, was you guys winning the 207 00:08:49,200 --> 00:08:50,600 Speaker 1: Last Relationship Challenge. 208 00:08:50,800 --> 00:08:54,880 Speaker 2: Yes, I have no idea because I suspected it. 209 00:08:55,160 --> 00:08:56,559 Speaker 1: No, I'm amazing it. 210 00:08:56,640 --> 00:08:58,959 Speaker 3: Hair she didn't suspect. 211 00:08:59,040 --> 00:08:59,200 Speaker 2: I know. 212 00:08:59,240 --> 00:08:59,520 Speaker 3: I love. 213 00:08:59,559 --> 00:09:02,160 Speaker 2: That was like the most bullshit I've ever Like, you 214 00:09:02,280 --> 00:09:04,800 Speaker 2: never you've never felt you were down, have your partner 215 00:09:04,920 --> 00:09:05,920 Speaker 2: tell you're not strong enough? 216 00:09:06,000 --> 00:09:07,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, because like physically, you know. 217 00:09:08,040 --> 00:09:09,600 Speaker 4: So I looked at Spencer and I said, good job, 218 00:09:09,640 --> 00:09:12,199 Speaker 4: like you're you're you're getting this one, and. 219 00:09:12,080 --> 00:09:13,760 Speaker 2: You did feel kind of and then you looked at 220 00:09:13,840 --> 00:09:16,160 Speaker 2: Dale and I was just like, okay, listen, I was 221 00:09:16,360 --> 00:09:18,600 Speaker 2: I was pro athlete at once too, Like don't don't 222 00:09:18,640 --> 00:09:21,199 Speaker 2: you don't, don't don't write me off Like I got 223 00:09:21,240 --> 00:09:23,120 Speaker 2: some tricks in my sleep. I can like hold out 224 00:09:23,160 --> 00:09:25,520 Speaker 2: for a long time. But I mean, like that's a 225 00:09:25,640 --> 00:09:28,720 Speaker 2: that's a tough challenge for everyone, for anyone to do. Obviously, 226 00:09:28,800 --> 00:09:30,880 Speaker 2: Dale had like a lingering injury that you had that. 227 00:09:30,960 --> 00:09:33,920 Speaker 3: Was kind of tough. And then just you're also doing 228 00:09:33,920 --> 00:09:34,600 Speaker 3: it by yourself. 229 00:09:34,800 --> 00:09:36,600 Speaker 4: We like communicated as much as you made fun of 230 00:09:36,640 --> 00:09:39,839 Speaker 4: me for like rolling my my my wrist, we would talk, 231 00:09:39,880 --> 00:09:40,679 Speaker 4: I'd be like every. 232 00:09:40,559 --> 00:09:43,840 Speaker 2: Ten seconds, and we're just we're like dumb competitive, Like 233 00:09:43,880 --> 00:09:45,640 Speaker 2: I found this out we played volleyball together. 234 00:09:46,080 --> 00:09:49,360 Speaker 3: I couldn't be under mediocre Iona. 235 00:09:50,320 --> 00:09:53,040 Speaker 4: But even if even if you saw me on my 236 00:09:53,120 --> 00:09:55,280 Speaker 4: last season, like the bull thing, like I was not 237 00:09:55,320 --> 00:09:56,679 Speaker 4: going to let go from that bull and not and 238 00:09:56,679 --> 00:09:57,440 Speaker 4: lose that challenge. 239 00:09:57,480 --> 00:10:00,640 Speaker 1: So yeah, can I give you guys some advice as 240 00:10:00,679 --> 00:10:03,240 Speaker 1: a married man, if this is how you guys are, 241 00:10:04,040 --> 00:10:11,920 Speaker 1: do not play monopoly because like that that continue. 242 00:10:12,440 --> 00:10:15,000 Speaker 3: Terror family, My god, not. 243 00:10:22,520 --> 00:10:26,920 Speaker 1: Speaking of monopoly and money. You know, it seemed like 244 00:10:27,120 --> 00:10:30,600 Speaker 1: you would have been totally fine with Alex taking the money, 245 00:10:31,040 --> 00:10:34,880 Speaker 1: which actually I think if I saw it on paper, 246 00:10:34,920 --> 00:10:36,480 Speaker 1: I'd be like that, I don't like that, But it 247 00:10:36,559 --> 00:10:39,360 Speaker 1: ended up looking like really cute. Are you sure that 248 00:10:39,360 --> 00:10:40,520 Speaker 1: that's how you really feel? 249 00:10:40,720 --> 00:10:43,360 Speaker 2: No, one thousand percent, Like I'm very comfortable right now 250 00:10:43,400 --> 00:10:46,080 Speaker 2: in life, And like I said, it's not even just 251 00:10:46,080 --> 00:10:46,840 Speaker 2: the student loans. 252 00:10:46,960 --> 00:10:48,599 Speaker 3: I think that's just kind of got overplayed. 253 00:10:48,920 --> 00:10:51,280 Speaker 2: It was her whole lifestyle, like how she grew up 254 00:10:51,679 --> 00:10:53,679 Speaker 2: and all the things that have happened in her life. 255 00:10:53,720 --> 00:10:55,800 Speaker 2: I was just like, you need this good thing in 256 00:10:55,840 --> 00:10:59,280 Speaker 2: your life right now, and like then you could figure 257 00:10:59,320 --> 00:11:02,000 Speaker 2: out if you want that in that space. 258 00:11:02,120 --> 00:11:03,520 Speaker 3: Yeah you know what I mean. So I'm just like, 259 00:11:03,800 --> 00:11:06,440 Speaker 3: figure your life out, get things going, get the ball rolling. 260 00:11:06,520 --> 00:11:09,600 Speaker 2: I was like, that'd be perfect. And then like I 261 00:11:09,640 --> 00:11:11,600 Speaker 2: think that when I'm sitting up there, I'm like, oh 262 00:11:11,600 --> 00:11:15,400 Speaker 2: my god, wait, hold on, do I want this? And 263 00:11:15,400 --> 00:11:17,440 Speaker 2: it and like the part was like I'm looking down 264 00:11:17,480 --> 00:11:20,679 Speaker 2: at the fucking money. I'm like, oh my god, I 265 00:11:20,720 --> 00:11:24,240 Speaker 2: have to watch her take the money or come up 266 00:11:24,240 --> 00:11:25,880 Speaker 2: here with me, and like I'd be okay, She's just like, 267 00:11:25,880 --> 00:11:26,880 Speaker 2: oh she took the money. 268 00:11:26,920 --> 00:11:28,280 Speaker 3: I was like, okay, thinks Jessie. 269 00:11:30,320 --> 00:11:32,360 Speaker 2: But it's like it's like I was like, oh no, 270 00:11:32,400 --> 00:11:35,080 Speaker 2: she's not strutting down the beach, but a big old bag. 271 00:11:36,360 --> 00:11:44,800 Speaker 3: Money falling out the money all those broke people around. 272 00:11:48,040 --> 00:11:48,400 Speaker 6: Alex. 273 00:11:48,440 --> 00:11:52,080 Speaker 1: What was the best part about choosing Andrew over the money? 274 00:11:55,520 --> 00:12:00,120 Speaker 4: How I really think about this. I think when I 275 00:12:00,120 --> 00:12:05,040 Speaker 4: saw your reaction, when I saw you tear up, because 276 00:12:05,040 --> 00:12:07,160 Speaker 4: I feel like you're such a big goofy guy and 277 00:12:07,200 --> 00:12:09,360 Speaker 4: we always like mask with humor, and then to see 278 00:12:09,360 --> 00:12:12,120 Speaker 4: you so vulnerable because you really wanted me to take 279 00:12:12,160 --> 00:12:19,120 Speaker 4: that money, and regardless, it just made that weird. But no, 280 00:12:19,320 --> 00:12:21,880 Speaker 4: I just seeing you, it just showed me how much 281 00:12:21,920 --> 00:12:24,240 Speaker 4: you cared for me and how much you loved me. 282 00:12:24,360 --> 00:12:28,000 Speaker 4: And I wouldn't have done it any other way. I 283 00:12:28,040 --> 00:12:30,839 Speaker 4: think it just showed me. You know, sometimes words or words, 284 00:12:30,840 --> 00:12:33,480 Speaker 4: but to see this vulnerable and I. 285 00:12:33,440 --> 00:12:36,360 Speaker 1: Know I made the right decision. Did you Guys in 286 00:12:36,360 --> 00:12:38,360 Speaker 1: the back of your minds think but maybe we'll still 287 00:12:38,360 --> 00:12:43,079 Speaker 1: get the money. So in my honest you know, I was. 288 00:12:43,040 --> 00:12:49,920 Speaker 4: Like, come on here, we're doing the right thing. Like no, 289 00:12:50,080 --> 00:12:52,160 Speaker 4: but I mean if money, you know, it would have different. 290 00:12:52,160 --> 00:12:53,760 Speaker 4: I think it would have been different. It was maybe 291 00:12:53,800 --> 00:12:55,559 Speaker 4: even half of that would have been dumb. I think 292 00:12:55,600 --> 00:12:57,920 Speaker 4: half a million dollars. 293 00:12:57,320 --> 00:13:00,640 Speaker 3: And we got lucky because we won the last challenges. 294 00:13:01,040 --> 00:13:03,160 Speaker 2: So like if we didn't win those challenges, I think 295 00:13:03,280 --> 00:13:05,520 Speaker 2: we were one thousand percent on the chopping block. 296 00:13:05,559 --> 00:13:06,720 Speaker 3: And we had that conversation on her. 297 00:13:06,760 --> 00:13:09,319 Speaker 2: We were like, dude, honestly, I'm super excited that I 298 00:13:09,440 --> 00:13:10,360 Speaker 2: just got to meet you here. 299 00:13:10,360 --> 00:13:12,040 Speaker 3: Like I've had bad paradise. 300 00:13:11,760 --> 00:13:13,679 Speaker 2: Every like my last paradise, Like it's just been a 301 00:13:13,720 --> 00:13:17,040 Speaker 2: bad experience, Like you have made this so such a 302 00:13:17,080 --> 00:13:19,640 Speaker 2: blessing for me, and like I won't I wouldn't trade 303 00:13:19,640 --> 00:13:21,920 Speaker 2: it for anything that an amount of money. Like I 304 00:13:22,000 --> 00:13:24,440 Speaker 2: was just so like I can't believe this happened to me. 305 00:13:24,440 --> 00:13:25,959 Speaker 2: And I was pissed about the money. So I was like, 306 00:13:26,000 --> 00:13:27,240 Speaker 2: oh my god, I'm gonna make it to the end, 307 00:13:27,559 --> 00:13:30,120 Speaker 2: like I've never like got to the end of like 308 00:13:30,760 --> 00:13:34,160 Speaker 2: the Bachelor whatever it's like my own Bachelorrette season or 309 00:13:34,600 --> 00:13:35,560 Speaker 2: or the Paradise. 310 00:13:35,600 --> 00:13:37,319 Speaker 3: I was like, I just need to make it to 311 00:13:37,360 --> 00:13:39,560 Speaker 3: the end, like that's all I care about. 312 00:13:39,600 --> 00:13:41,720 Speaker 2: And then like, yeah, they're voting people off there, They're 313 00:13:41,760 --> 00:13:44,360 Speaker 2: voting me off before I get to go, you know, 314 00:13:44,760 --> 00:13:46,400 Speaker 2: make it to the end. I was so pissed, and 315 00:13:46,400 --> 00:13:48,280 Speaker 2: you could see like the clips of us, Me and 316 00:13:48,320 --> 00:13:50,160 Speaker 2: Spencer yelling like what the hell is this? 317 00:13:50,480 --> 00:13:52,040 Speaker 3: We didn't want they were. 318 00:13:51,920 --> 00:13:55,160 Speaker 4: Mad, and I just want to say, like, I you 319 00:13:55,400 --> 00:13:57,160 Speaker 4: made me laugh so much, Andrew, And I know I'm 320 00:13:57,160 --> 00:13:59,360 Speaker 4: seeing online like she makes too many facial expression and 321 00:13:59,440 --> 00:14:01,840 Speaker 4: like you racket sorry that I'm happy and I'm having 322 00:14:01,880 --> 00:14:03,080 Speaker 4: the time in my life with my partner. 323 00:14:03,120 --> 00:14:04,839 Speaker 5: I rather that than be serious. 324 00:14:04,559 --> 00:14:09,120 Speaker 1: And I agree, all right, real quick, have you paid 325 00:14:09,120 --> 00:14:13,000 Speaker 1: off the loans, the student loans. 326 00:14:14,080 --> 00:14:16,600 Speaker 4: I will say, Alex was also very rich, responsible, and 327 00:14:16,640 --> 00:14:18,600 Speaker 4: she's traveled a lot with that. You know, so no, 328 00:14:18,640 --> 00:14:19,480 Speaker 4: not yet okay. 329 00:14:19,560 --> 00:14:22,680 Speaker 1: And then and lastly, what's next for you guys. 330 00:14:24,080 --> 00:14:27,760 Speaker 2: We're gonna try to make her get to Chicago in January. 331 00:14:28,160 --> 00:14:31,000 Speaker 2: She still works a really big real job. She's an 332 00:14:31,120 --> 00:14:39,240 Speaker 2: slp SO speech language pathologist, so she's continue doing that 333 00:14:39,360 --> 00:14:40,000 Speaker 2: helping out kids. 334 00:14:40,040 --> 00:14:41,520 Speaker 3: I've actually like sit in and watched. 335 00:14:41,280 --> 00:14:43,000 Speaker 2: The call, watched her like work, and it was like 336 00:14:43,160 --> 00:14:47,880 Speaker 2: I didn't it was it was just super like. It 337 00:14:47,920 --> 00:14:50,240 Speaker 2: was like it was like nurturing. It was like, damn, hey, 338 00:14:50,280 --> 00:14:51,600 Speaker 2: do you want to have a baby. I'm just kidding, 339 00:14:53,160 --> 00:14:56,800 Speaker 2: but yeah. I just I think like we're moving at 340 00:14:56,840 --> 00:14:58,200 Speaker 2: a really good place. And I tell her this all 341 00:14:58,200 --> 00:14:59,760 Speaker 2: the time and she like gets mad. 342 00:14:59,680 --> 00:15:01,000 Speaker 3: At Me's like why do you say it? Like that 343 00:15:01,120 --> 00:15:03,200 Speaker 3: was like, I just like our pace, Like I don't 344 00:15:03,240 --> 00:15:06,040 Speaker 3: want to want to rushing. I think that where we're at, 345 00:15:06,320 --> 00:15:09,560 Speaker 3: it's gradually getting better and better every single time. And 346 00:15:09,720 --> 00:15:10,840 Speaker 3: you know, I just think that. 347 00:15:12,880 --> 00:15:14,680 Speaker 2: I don't know, it's like a happy home, Like it's 348 00:15:14,720 --> 00:15:17,120 Speaker 2: like super nice, like having her at the house when 349 00:15:17,160 --> 00:15:18,800 Speaker 2: I come home or from like wherever we're. 350 00:15:18,680 --> 00:15:25,840 Speaker 1: Going and bed well, congratulations. I think I can speak 351 00:15:25,880 --> 00:15:28,040 Speaker 1: for vatterination when I say that, I think everyone's rooting 352 00:15:28,080 --> 00:15:29,000 Speaker 1: for you guys than you. 353 00:15:30,440 --> 00:15:32,120 Speaker 3: I do want to say one last thing. 354 00:15:32,200 --> 00:15:34,040 Speaker 2: I want to say something about my partner because I 355 00:15:34,040 --> 00:15:35,840 Speaker 2: know a lot of like things online has been getting 356 00:15:35,840 --> 00:15:38,920 Speaker 2: misconscrewed about, like who she is a person, and I 357 00:15:39,000 --> 00:15:41,960 Speaker 2: just want to say that she always went out of 358 00:15:41,960 --> 00:15:43,760 Speaker 2: her way to say hello to the production. She make 359 00:15:43,800 --> 00:15:46,400 Speaker 2: sure she went to go say hello to people, and 360 00:15:46,880 --> 00:15:50,080 Speaker 2: she always treated the cast with respect. Whoever calls her always, 361 00:15:50,360 --> 00:15:52,760 Speaker 2: you know, gets a warm heart from her, a warm greeting. 362 00:15:52,880 --> 00:15:54,960 Speaker 2: So I just want to make sure that everyone knows 363 00:15:55,000 --> 00:15:58,000 Speaker 2: about this woman and she's a very good person. 364 00:15:58,160 --> 00:16:00,960 Speaker 3: And I ain't gonna take no ship. 365 00:16:01,000 --> 00:16:05,560 Speaker 5: If you guys are talking about it, yes we do. 366 00:16:06,240 --> 00:16:11,560 Speaker 1: Speaking of Bachelor Nation rooting for a couple, We've got 367 00:16:11,560 --> 00:16:15,440 Speaker 1: to talk about justin Spencer. You know. 368 00:16:17,200 --> 00:16:17,680 Speaker 5: You mean. 369 00:16:19,080 --> 00:16:26,680 Speaker 1: That's what it is like, sounds like a pesticide. 370 00:16:26,200 --> 00:16:29,120 Speaker 6: Sounds like an STD but you know it's Maya and 371 00:16:29,120 --> 00:16:32,080 Speaker 6: I'm proud of it. 372 00:16:32,760 --> 00:16:34,080 Speaker 3: I will test this before the show. 373 00:16:34,800 --> 00:16:37,240 Speaker 1: I want to know what were you guys looking for 374 00:16:37,280 --> 00:16:38,440 Speaker 1: when you came into paradise. 375 00:16:39,320 --> 00:16:42,200 Speaker 3: Oh man, would you like to go first? 376 00:16:42,440 --> 00:16:47,720 Speaker 6: Okay, ideally I was looking for love, looking for my person. 377 00:16:48,560 --> 00:16:50,560 Speaker 6: Did I think there was a high likelihood of that 378 00:16:50,600 --> 00:16:53,880 Speaker 6: happening as far as an engagement, absolutely non. I talked 379 00:16:53,920 --> 00:16:56,240 Speaker 6: to all my friends and family. I was like, hopefully 380 00:16:56,240 --> 00:16:59,440 Speaker 6: I can meet someone that I get along well with 381 00:17:00,120 --> 00:17:02,320 Speaker 6: and we can date long distance after this, see if 382 00:17:02,360 --> 00:17:04,119 Speaker 6: it makes sense to be able to make our way 383 00:17:04,119 --> 00:17:07,120 Speaker 6: towards each other, and you know, hope for the best 384 00:17:07,119 --> 00:17:11,480 Speaker 6: from there. But as far as finding her, I did 385 00:17:11,520 --> 00:17:12,720 Speaker 6: not expect that at all. 386 00:17:13,400 --> 00:17:16,119 Speaker 1: Jes about you because you were looking for him. I 387 00:17:16,119 --> 00:17:19,320 Speaker 1: saw some of the pre interviews I was, I was Spencer. 388 00:17:21,160 --> 00:17:23,320 Speaker 5: So the thing is, I'll be so honest here. 389 00:17:23,359 --> 00:17:25,280 Speaker 7: I thought he was really cute, and I was really 390 00:17:25,320 --> 00:17:28,520 Speaker 7: hoping that his personality matched up because you didn't get 391 00:17:28,560 --> 00:17:29,240 Speaker 7: to see a lot of. 392 00:17:29,160 --> 00:17:30,119 Speaker 5: That on his season. 393 00:17:30,520 --> 00:17:32,280 Speaker 7: But I was not one to be able to make 394 00:17:32,280 --> 00:17:34,639 Speaker 7: any judgments because a lot of people judge me on 395 00:17:34,680 --> 00:17:37,080 Speaker 7: my season and it didn't really capture who I am 396 00:17:37,119 --> 00:17:38,080 Speaker 7: as a person. 397 00:17:38,240 --> 00:17:42,000 Speaker 5: So I was not gonna vice versa that. But this 398 00:17:42,119 --> 00:17:42,840 Speaker 5: is kind of funny. 399 00:17:42,880 --> 00:17:46,040 Speaker 7: I actually a I ran out of clothes because I 400 00:17:46,080 --> 00:17:48,159 Speaker 7: didn't think for a minute that I would be there 401 00:17:48,320 --> 00:17:52,000 Speaker 7: till the end, much less get engaged. I thought the same, 402 00:17:52,040 --> 00:17:53,960 Speaker 7: you know, there was a little bit of hope there, 403 00:17:54,359 --> 00:17:56,359 Speaker 7: but for the majority of it, I was like, you 404 00:17:56,400 --> 00:17:58,000 Speaker 7: know what, we'll give it another shot. 405 00:17:58,240 --> 00:18:01,440 Speaker 5: We'll see what happens. Know who knows. 406 00:18:02,160 --> 00:18:04,639 Speaker 7: I had a trip planned that I was supposed to 407 00:18:04,760 --> 00:18:09,040 Speaker 7: leave like halfway through Paradise, And so when I got 408 00:18:09,080 --> 00:18:11,240 Speaker 7: my phone back, my boss is like, what the hell 409 00:18:11,280 --> 00:18:15,120 Speaker 7: we've been on this trip about you? And I'm like, yeah, 410 00:18:15,160 --> 00:18:17,399 Speaker 7: so I'm back, and she's like, you were gone the 411 00:18:17,520 --> 00:18:21,840 Speaker 7: whole time still, and it's real. It's so funny though, 412 00:18:21,880 --> 00:18:26,000 Speaker 7: Like it's nothing like I could have ever dreamed of. 413 00:18:26,200 --> 00:18:30,960 Speaker 7: He is an incredible human and has just like I 414 00:18:31,000 --> 00:18:32,760 Speaker 7: can't even put it into words, like it's honestly hard 415 00:18:32,760 --> 00:18:35,320 Speaker 7: to put it into words, but he he I said before, 416 00:18:35,359 --> 00:18:35,880 Speaker 7: but he's. 417 00:18:35,720 --> 00:18:36,960 Speaker 5: Like literally changed my life. 418 00:18:37,800 --> 00:18:41,280 Speaker 1: Both of you guys had really cute like I'm falling 419 00:18:41,280 --> 00:18:42,679 Speaker 1: in love with you or I love you or I 420 00:18:42,680 --> 00:18:44,760 Speaker 1: want to say it first, like you both it was yeah, 421 00:18:45,000 --> 00:18:48,800 Speaker 1: kind of mirrored one another. But when did you guys, Like, 422 00:18:48,840 --> 00:18:50,560 Speaker 1: when did you know Spencer that you. 423 00:18:50,520 --> 00:18:51,359 Speaker 3: Were in love with her? 424 00:18:52,400 --> 00:18:56,800 Speaker 6: So I will say I don't know necessarily if I 425 00:18:56,840 --> 00:19:00,840 Speaker 6: completely subscribe to love it versaa. I think there's so 426 00:19:01,000 --> 00:19:05,560 Speaker 6: much that you know, goes into loving someone that love 427 00:19:05,600 --> 00:19:08,800 Speaker 6: at first sight is tough. What I do know is 428 00:19:09,160 --> 00:19:11,520 Speaker 6: from the moment I saw her, the first conversation we had, 429 00:19:11,960 --> 00:19:16,640 Speaker 6: and just how welcoming she is, she makes every room 430 00:19:17,200 --> 00:19:21,600 Speaker 6: she's ever in. Knowing her better now she will fight 431 00:19:21,720 --> 00:19:25,600 Speaker 6: to the death for us and me, and yeah, I 432 00:19:25,640 --> 00:19:29,720 Speaker 6: don't mess with her. And No, from that first conversation 433 00:19:29,760 --> 00:19:32,639 Speaker 6: we had, I knew then that I was either spending 434 00:19:32,640 --> 00:19:34,200 Speaker 6: the rest of my time there in Paradise with her 435 00:19:34,600 --> 00:19:36,359 Speaker 6: or I was going back to Dallas and it would 436 00:19:36,359 --> 00:19:40,240 Speaker 6: have been a cool trip. And you know, like, okay, whatever. 437 00:19:40,480 --> 00:19:43,480 Speaker 6: But if it wasn't her for me after that first conversation, 438 00:19:43,600 --> 00:19:46,879 Speaker 6: then it wasn't on that beach for me. I like, Look, 439 00:19:47,119 --> 00:19:53,480 Speaker 6: I think one thing that is a lot of guys, 440 00:19:53,560 --> 00:19:56,119 Speaker 6: especially go on the show and they think, oh, we're 441 00:19:56,119 --> 00:19:57,919 Speaker 6: supposed to stay aroun We're supposed kiss these people, We're 442 00:19:57,920 --> 00:20:01,320 Speaker 6: supposed to do all these things. Like we're not in 443 00:20:01,560 --> 00:20:04,720 Speaker 6: eighth grade. We've kissed people, we know what that's like. 444 00:20:05,040 --> 00:20:08,560 Speaker 6: We have hopefully dated people, we know what we're looking 445 00:20:08,560 --> 00:20:11,919 Speaker 6: for in a partner, And it didn't take long for 446 00:20:12,000 --> 00:20:14,840 Speaker 6: me to realize that what I had standing from me 447 00:20:15,000 --> 00:20:20,040 Speaker 6: was something that I had ever had before. 448 00:20:19,880 --> 00:20:20,080 Speaker 3: You know. 449 00:20:20,320 --> 00:20:23,960 Speaker 6: And we did talk for like literally three. 450 00:20:23,800 --> 00:20:26,600 Speaker 5: Hours the first day. Everyone was like. 451 00:20:27,119 --> 00:20:29,040 Speaker 1: What what are they? 452 00:20:29,119 --> 00:20:30,520 Speaker 5: They're still over there. 453 00:20:31,240 --> 00:20:37,040 Speaker 6: Yeah, so yeah, long winded answer, honey, did. 454 00:20:36,880 --> 00:20:38,120 Speaker 1: You know that you were in love with him? 455 00:20:39,720 --> 00:20:39,960 Speaker 5: Yeah? 456 00:20:40,080 --> 00:20:42,760 Speaker 7: Like Spitzer said, there wasn't like a particular moment where 457 00:20:42,800 --> 00:20:44,600 Speaker 7: I'm like, oh my god, I'm in love with him. 458 00:20:44,960 --> 00:20:47,000 Speaker 7: I think that there was different things that I like 459 00:20:47,119 --> 00:20:49,640 Speaker 7: knew that I loved about him, kind of like what 460 00:20:49,680 --> 00:20:51,399 Speaker 7: you guys were talking about. There was different things that 461 00:20:51,440 --> 00:20:55,720 Speaker 7: I knew that I really loved about him. But and 462 00:20:55,800 --> 00:20:58,120 Speaker 7: I was like, wow, this is like someone that makes 463 00:20:58,119 --> 00:21:01,800 Speaker 7: me feel so safe and like detected and just like 464 00:21:02,240 --> 00:21:04,200 Speaker 7: ride or die. 465 00:21:11,240 --> 00:21:15,480 Speaker 1: You know, you guys were plagued with the cutting out 466 00:21:15,600 --> 00:21:20,160 Speaker 1: of the show because you're actually in a healthy, loving, 467 00:21:20,480 --> 00:21:23,439 Speaker 1: sweet relationship. It happens every season, just just so you know, 468 00:21:23,480 --> 00:21:24,840 Speaker 1: And that's why I warned you. 469 00:21:24,880 --> 00:21:27,280 Speaker 5: I was so, you know, I don't go talk to 470 00:21:27,359 --> 00:21:28,400 Speaker 5: some people ship. 471 00:21:28,520 --> 00:21:31,439 Speaker 1: But there were so many really cute moments that like 472 00:21:31,720 --> 00:21:34,560 Speaker 1: are left on the cutting room floored. You have like 473 00:21:34,600 --> 00:21:36,960 Speaker 1: a moment that you wish had been on the show. 474 00:21:37,400 --> 00:21:37,880 Speaker 5: I have one. 475 00:21:38,000 --> 00:21:43,679 Speaker 7: Oh yeah, okay, So my number one was he actually 476 00:21:43,680 --> 00:21:47,120 Speaker 7: had a birthday on the show, and unfortunately his birthday 477 00:21:47,240 --> 00:21:48,720 Speaker 7: landed on a dark day. 478 00:21:48,920 --> 00:21:50,720 Speaker 5: And I was so mad because I'm like, I don't 479 00:21:50,760 --> 00:21:52,480 Speaker 5: even get to spend his birthday with him. 480 00:21:52,520 --> 00:21:54,760 Speaker 7: I'm like so upset. So I wanted to find a 481 00:21:54,760 --> 00:21:57,879 Speaker 7: way to hopefully make it special. And we got him 482 00:21:57,920 --> 00:22:00,359 Speaker 7: a cake, and I got one of the pretducer to 483 00:22:01,000 --> 00:22:03,280 Speaker 7: make a card for him, and she pulled up his 484 00:22:03,359 --> 00:22:07,040 Speaker 7: Instagram and pulled up a picture of his dog Rue, 485 00:22:07,440 --> 00:22:10,080 Speaker 7: and drew a picture of Rue on his card, and 486 00:22:10,080 --> 00:22:12,399 Speaker 7: then I wrote him this sweet card and just like, 487 00:22:12,440 --> 00:22:15,000 Speaker 7: even though it was like thirty minutes, we just like 488 00:22:15,119 --> 00:22:18,040 Speaker 7: got to spin with each other, eating cake and laughing 489 00:22:18,160 --> 00:22:20,679 Speaker 7: and like there was maybe one camera on us, and 490 00:22:20,720 --> 00:22:24,760 Speaker 7: it just felt so special and I just loved that, 491 00:22:24,800 --> 00:22:27,120 Speaker 7: and I wish that people would have seen that. 492 00:22:27,280 --> 00:22:28,960 Speaker 5: It was just really cute. 493 00:22:29,680 --> 00:22:33,719 Speaker 6: So there were so many moments that will forever just 494 00:22:33,760 --> 00:22:37,199 Speaker 6: be our moments that weren't aired. Some of them I 495 00:22:37,240 --> 00:22:41,199 Speaker 6: don't think were caught on camera. But every morning for 496 00:22:41,280 --> 00:22:44,800 Speaker 6: the first half of Paradise. I would go on my runs, 497 00:22:44,880 --> 00:22:47,800 Speaker 6: and day one we had talked about wanting to go 498 00:22:47,800 --> 00:22:48,600 Speaker 6: walk the beach. 499 00:22:48,400 --> 00:22:49,280 Speaker 5: And we got rained out. 500 00:22:49,520 --> 00:22:52,040 Speaker 6: We got rained out night one and then day two. 501 00:22:53,240 --> 00:22:54,879 Speaker 6: There were other things that took her away from me. 502 00:22:56,680 --> 00:22:59,359 Speaker 6: Talked about some of our favorite memories, like her naming 503 00:22:59,440 --> 00:23:01,920 Speaker 6: our loved child iguana with three legs day one. 504 00:23:02,040 --> 00:23:04,520 Speaker 7: On day one, like five minutes in our conversation, we 505 00:23:04,560 --> 00:23:07,440 Speaker 7: saw three legged iguana and named him Hughie, and I said, 506 00:23:07,680 --> 00:23:10,520 Speaker 7: it's our love child. And I was like, why the 507 00:23:10,720 --> 00:23:13,040 Speaker 7: actual hell did I just say that. 508 00:23:13,440 --> 00:23:15,199 Speaker 5: He's gonna think I'm insane. 509 00:23:15,960 --> 00:23:18,800 Speaker 1: You know, you guys were kind of vocal about not 510 00:23:18,960 --> 00:23:22,800 Speaker 1: liking the game show aspect of the show and money 511 00:23:22,840 --> 00:23:26,400 Speaker 1: being involved. Do you still feel that way? And how 512 00:23:26,440 --> 00:23:29,840 Speaker 1: do you feel now that you have won? 513 00:23:32,240 --> 00:23:33,000 Speaker 3: Do you want me to go? 514 00:23:34,560 --> 00:23:38,560 Speaker 6: I obviously sitting here hindsight twenty twenty. 515 00:23:38,440 --> 00:23:46,359 Speaker 5: And anyways, forget everything I said before. 516 00:23:46,600 --> 00:23:49,160 Speaker 6: Yeah, but if I'm being honest, so I'm a big 517 00:23:49,200 --> 00:23:53,560 Speaker 6: fan of shows like Survivor, Traders and shows like that. 518 00:23:54,000 --> 00:23:57,080 Speaker 6: And as soon as they announced that it was a 519 00:23:57,119 --> 00:24:00,520 Speaker 6: game show and there was money involved, instantly I'm there, 520 00:24:00,800 --> 00:24:03,880 Speaker 6: and I'm like, if everyone's treating this as a game show, 521 00:24:04,640 --> 00:24:08,440 Speaker 6: then we're so screwed, like we're going home so soon, 522 00:24:09,280 --> 00:24:14,720 Speaker 6: and so I just don't think that that format lends 523 00:24:14,720 --> 00:24:19,360 Speaker 6: itself well to meshing with a show where the end 524 00:24:19,359 --> 00:24:21,919 Speaker 6: goal is to find love and find your person. And 525 00:24:23,080 --> 00:24:26,200 Speaker 6: luckily for all of us here it worked out so well. 526 00:24:26,240 --> 00:24:29,640 Speaker 6: And I love the challenges. I think that was such 527 00:24:29,680 --> 00:24:33,000 Speaker 6: a huge pleas and seeing how we deal with adversity, 528 00:24:33,040 --> 00:24:38,119 Speaker 6: potential adversity, how we deal with disagreements, losing, communicating in 529 00:24:38,280 --> 00:24:43,680 Speaker 6: high stress environments, everything like that was so great. But yeah, 530 00:24:43,760 --> 00:24:46,560 Speaker 6: I think the money aspect, and on top of that. 531 00:24:46,640 --> 00:24:50,080 Speaker 1: He was pissed. He was pissed, I remember, and I 532 00:24:50,119 --> 00:24:51,200 Speaker 1: was like, what are you talking about? 533 00:24:51,280 --> 00:24:52,120 Speaker 3: I have a million dollars. 534 00:24:52,480 --> 00:24:53,159 Speaker 5: That's us that I go. 535 00:24:53,440 --> 00:24:55,959 Speaker 7: But I will say I didn't think of it as like, oh, 536 00:24:55,960 --> 00:24:58,040 Speaker 7: we're gonna have targets on our back, because we've been 537 00:24:58,040 --> 00:25:01,560 Speaker 7: together since day one, you know, the date I went 538 00:25:01,600 --> 00:25:06,280 Speaker 7: on we I just was like, I, why are you 539 00:25:06,400 --> 00:25:06,960 Speaker 7: upset about? 540 00:25:06,960 --> 00:25:08,800 Speaker 5: This is like a good thing, This is like a 541 00:25:08,880 --> 00:25:09,360 Speaker 5: cool thing. 542 00:25:09,960 --> 00:25:11,760 Speaker 1: One thing though that I was talking about this on 543 00:25:12,080 --> 00:25:14,320 Speaker 1: a different podcast and it's never really said in the show, 544 00:25:14,440 --> 00:25:18,040 Speaker 1: but you know, the final relationship test is the what 545 00:25:18,080 --> 00:25:19,320 Speaker 1: are you going to do about this money? 546 00:25:19,560 --> 00:25:19,760 Speaker 6: Right? 547 00:25:19,840 --> 00:25:21,960 Speaker 1: And so so you passed that test. 548 00:25:22,040 --> 00:25:25,439 Speaker 6: Yeah, I think it was also tough to to be 549 00:25:26,359 --> 00:25:29,400 Speaker 6: the judge and jury of your peers and their relationships. 550 00:25:29,680 --> 00:25:31,280 Speaker 3: That that really sucked. You know. 551 00:25:32,000 --> 00:25:35,199 Speaker 6: I think throwing that component in and piling money on 552 00:25:35,240 --> 00:25:37,919 Speaker 6: top of it was tough because who am I to 553 00:25:38,720 --> 00:25:42,400 Speaker 6: judge dictate anyone else's relationships when I only see five 554 00:25:42,400 --> 00:25:43,159 Speaker 6: percent of it? Right? 555 00:25:43,160 --> 00:25:43,320 Speaker 3: You know? 556 00:25:43,960 --> 00:25:46,320 Speaker 1: Well, I think you guys navigated your way through the 557 00:25:46,440 --> 00:25:50,520 Speaker 1: paradise really really well. You did, unfortunately end up winning 558 00:25:50,560 --> 00:25:55,879 Speaker 1: a lot of money. What what are you going to 559 00:25:55,960 --> 00:25:58,040 Speaker 1: do with the money? Is it going to a wedding? 560 00:25:58,080 --> 00:25:59,720 Speaker 1: Is it going to a house? Is it going to 561 00:25:59,800 --> 00:26:00,560 Speaker 1: a dog? 562 00:26:01,359 --> 00:26:05,120 Speaker 7: So I actually have student loans as well, not too 563 00:26:05,160 --> 00:26:07,800 Speaker 7: too many, but I do have a little bit of that, 564 00:26:08,000 --> 00:26:11,000 Speaker 7: So I definitely am gonna put a little bit towards that. 565 00:26:11,200 --> 00:26:14,320 Speaker 7: And then we obviously we want to take a trip. 566 00:26:14,440 --> 00:26:16,000 Speaker 7: I mean, we do want to go on a trip. 567 00:26:16,040 --> 00:26:18,080 Speaker 7: We got to treat ourselves. But the majority of it 568 00:26:18,119 --> 00:26:20,360 Speaker 7: is definitely going towards our future together. 569 00:26:21,640 --> 00:26:22,200 Speaker 1: A wedding. 570 00:26:23,359 --> 00:26:26,919 Speaker 7: What, yeah, investing and moving I'm literally moving to Dallas 571 00:26:26,920 --> 00:26:28,760 Speaker 7: at the beginning of the year, and you know, we're 572 00:26:28,800 --> 00:26:31,840 Speaker 7: gonna have our own place and pick out all the things, 573 00:26:32,080 --> 00:26:34,480 Speaker 7: and there's so much that the money. 574 00:26:34,240 --> 00:26:37,240 Speaker 5: Is going to go too. Honestly, we're really excited. 575 00:26:37,200 --> 00:26:40,080 Speaker 1: For future cast members. What's one piece of advice you'd 576 00:26:40,080 --> 00:26:41,840 Speaker 1: give them if they're thinking about coming on the beach 577 00:26:41,920 --> 00:26:44,520 Speaker 1: looking for what you guys found Clues? 578 00:26:46,200 --> 00:26:50,000 Speaker 5: No, no, you go ahead. 579 00:26:50,720 --> 00:26:53,520 Speaker 6: I would say this is a once in a lifetime experience. 580 00:26:53,720 --> 00:26:56,679 Speaker 6: And that's the mindset I went into it with. And 581 00:26:56,760 --> 00:27:00,439 Speaker 6: if you're able to be lucky enough for it to time up, 582 00:27:00,480 --> 00:27:02,840 Speaker 6: well for you find someone the same intent, someone looking 583 00:27:02,880 --> 00:27:05,199 Speaker 6: for the same thing that you mesh as well with 584 00:27:05,400 --> 00:27:09,879 Speaker 6: as we have here. It works and it's more than 585 00:27:09,960 --> 00:27:13,040 Speaker 6: worth any of the risk to my fellows out there. 586 00:27:13,240 --> 00:27:15,520 Speaker 6: You don't need to go make out with ever girl 587 00:27:15,560 --> 00:27:18,160 Speaker 6: on the beach just because you can. All right, boys, 588 00:27:18,680 --> 00:27:22,639 Speaker 6: let's be real real time. You know it kind of 589 00:27:22,640 --> 00:27:25,480 Speaker 6: been closing. I think that my favorite line of the 590 00:27:25,640 --> 00:27:28,639 Speaker 6: entire season came from your lips and you said, I 591 00:27:28,640 --> 00:27:31,359 Speaker 6: can make more money. I just can't make more Jessica 592 00:27:31,440 --> 00:27:36,080 Speaker 6: Taylor Edwards and I started crying a little bit. One 593 00:27:36,640 --> 00:27:37,879 Speaker 6: good fucking line. 594 00:27:38,920 --> 00:27:40,919 Speaker 3: That was a good one. 595 00:27:41,400 --> 00:27:43,040 Speaker 1: What did you think when you heard that? 596 00:27:43,200 --> 00:27:46,960 Speaker 7: Oh my god, honestly it made me tear up. I 597 00:27:47,000 --> 00:27:48,200 Speaker 7: was like, wow that. 598 00:27:48,400 --> 00:27:50,280 Speaker 5: I mean, obviously I already knew that I. 599 00:27:50,280 --> 00:27:52,760 Speaker 7: Made the right decision, but it just he shows me 600 00:27:52,800 --> 00:27:56,200 Speaker 7: every day he keeps proving my decision right. 601 00:27:58,400 --> 00:28:01,479 Speaker 1: You're good man. Thank you, guys, is both all of 602 00:28:01,480 --> 00:28:04,400 Speaker 1: you for hanging out with me Bachelor Happy Hour. I'm 603 00:28:04,440 --> 00:28:08,760 Speaker 1: so happy that you guys found your person in paradise. 604 00:28:09,000 --> 00:28:11,080 Speaker 1: I like to think that I was a little bit 605 00:28:11,119 --> 00:28:17,080 Speaker 1: a part of it, and you're way funnier than I expected. Yeah, 606 00:28:17,960 --> 00:28:21,480 Speaker 1: you've missed like his son would like, well story time. 607 00:28:22,000 --> 00:28:25,359 Speaker 3: Yeah you feel wrong, sailor. Yeah it was good. 608 00:28:25,720 --> 00:28:29,720 Speaker 1: Yeah you guys think you get cut out show anyways, 609 00:28:29,720 --> 00:28:32,480 Speaker 1: Thank you guys so much, and you know, obviously, best 610 00:28:32,480 --> 00:28:37,760 Speaker 1: of luck going forward. You are as lovely to me 611 00:28:38,040 --> 00:28:40,200 Speaker 1: as I think you appear on TV, and I hope 612 00:28:40,240 --> 00:28:42,720 Speaker 1: that the audience really sees how great a people you 613 00:28:42,720 --> 00:28:44,280 Speaker 1: guys are and you really found so much. 614 00:28:44,440 --> 00:28:45,720 Speaker 3: We love you. 615 00:28:44,880 --> 00:28:48,440 Speaker 1: We love you guys. All right, guys, that'll do it 616 00:28:48,440 --> 00:28:51,520 Speaker 1: for this episode, and thank you to our very happy couples. 617 00:28:51,760 --> 00:28:55,760 Speaker 1: Jess Spencer Alex and Andrew. We're so happy for you, guys. 618 00:28:55,800 --> 00:28:58,000 Speaker 1: You're the best, and thank you to all our listeners 619 00:28:58,080 --> 00:29:00,960 Speaker 1: out there. Make sure you subscribe to a Bachelor Happy 620 00:29:01,040 --> 00:29:04,280 Speaker 1: Hour and stay tuned as Joe and Serena jump into 621 00:29:04,280 --> 00:29:07,160 Speaker 1: the new season The Golden Bachelor. See you, guys,