1 00:00:02,279 --> 00:00:05,959 Speaker 1: Well it is one or two point seven kiss FM. 2 00:00:06,000 --> 00:00:08,920 Speaker 1: It is time for Ryan's roses. Dear Ryan and sissany 3 00:00:09,039 --> 00:00:11,440 Speaker 1: some random girl DM me on Facebook and said, Hi, 4 00:00:11,960 --> 00:00:15,320 Speaker 1: are you married to? And then a name and that 5 00:00:15,400 --> 00:00:18,440 Speaker 1: name is her husband. So this from Tessa and Colvina. Tessa, 6 00:00:18,480 --> 00:00:20,360 Speaker 1: I hope you're okay. To Tessa, thanks for coming on. 7 00:00:20,760 --> 00:00:27,440 Speaker 1: Sorry in the middle of I understand. So listen, Tessa, 8 00:00:27,520 --> 00:00:29,560 Speaker 1: I think I know where you're going with this. You 9 00:00:29,680 --> 00:00:31,840 Speaker 1: think that another woman might be seeing your husband and 10 00:00:31,880 --> 00:00:33,519 Speaker 1: is checking to see if he's single or not or 11 00:00:33,560 --> 00:00:36,720 Speaker 1: married to you, which is why you got a d M. Yes, exactly. 12 00:00:36,800 --> 00:00:42,400 Speaker 1: I can't get to this feeling. So, uh, she this woman, 13 00:00:42,440 --> 00:00:45,519 Speaker 1: you have her name, what's her name right? For her 14 00:00:45,600 --> 00:00:49,440 Speaker 1: names of that and she d up her Facebook and 15 00:00:50,040 --> 00:00:54,480 Speaker 1: basically she asked, Hi, are you married to? And I 16 00:00:54,520 --> 00:00:57,880 Speaker 1: said yeah, why and didn't respond. She just looked me 17 00:00:57,920 --> 00:01:00,800 Speaker 1: on red alright, so she was checking. She was doing 18 00:01:00,880 --> 00:01:04,400 Speaker 1: due diligence on your husband. Maybe your husband is seeing 19 00:01:04,400 --> 00:01:07,280 Speaker 1: her and telling her that he's of course single, not married, 20 00:01:07,280 --> 00:01:10,840 Speaker 1: and that's why she's checking, right right, that's my suspicion, 21 00:01:12,440 --> 00:01:14,760 Speaker 1: all right, and you address this with your husband and 22 00:01:14,760 --> 00:01:18,520 Speaker 1: what he's saying I did, and he swore up them down. 23 00:01:18,520 --> 00:01:21,240 Speaker 1: He's never cheated on me or as I know, but 24 00:01:21,319 --> 00:01:23,560 Speaker 1: you know, he's got a watering eye, like we've thought 25 00:01:23,600 --> 00:01:27,680 Speaker 1: about it before. She looks like what he tends to 26 00:01:27,720 --> 00:01:30,320 Speaker 1: be attracted to, you know, young and cute and this 27 00:01:30,440 --> 00:01:34,319 Speaker 1: type I guess it would say. And you know, really 28 00:01:34,680 --> 00:01:36,959 Speaker 1: his big thing was no, no, I don't know anyone 29 00:01:37,000 --> 00:01:38,479 Speaker 1: by that name. I don't know any of that can 30 00:01:38,520 --> 00:01:41,200 Speaker 1: it's your picture? And when I showed it that to him, 31 00:01:41,520 --> 00:01:43,800 Speaker 1: he was like, yeah, I have no idea. I just 32 00:01:44,280 --> 00:01:46,240 Speaker 1: I honestly can't chake it and I need to know 33 00:01:46,319 --> 00:01:49,160 Speaker 1: for sure. Okay, hang on one second, we are going 34 00:01:49,240 --> 00:01:58,360 Speaker 1: to there with Ryan Seacrest. All right, it's kiss It's Roses. 35 00:01:58,440 --> 00:02:02,480 Speaker 1: It's time now, Ryan Roses, we're making the call Tessa's husband. 36 00:02:02,680 --> 00:02:05,000 Speaker 1: Apparently he's seeing a woman naming of Vett. Because if 37 00:02:05,040 --> 00:02:09,760 Speaker 1: that d m Tessa saying, hey is his name and 38 00:02:09,880 --> 00:02:13,840 Speaker 1: used his name? Is he married? As if they're seeing 39 00:02:13,840 --> 00:02:17,160 Speaker 1: each other and he's telling the other woman he's not married. Tessa, 40 00:02:17,160 --> 00:02:18,760 Speaker 1: I need you to say, Bryan, you my permission to call, 41 00:02:18,800 --> 00:02:22,320 Speaker 1: and then your husband's name on Kiss FM. Go ahead, Bryan, 42 00:02:22,440 --> 00:02:26,960 Speaker 1: you have my permission to call. If Vett is her name, 43 00:02:26,960 --> 00:02:28,320 Speaker 1: all right, good luck. We're gonna see what we can 44 00:02:28,360 --> 00:02:44,480 Speaker 1: find out. We're calling him now. Thank you. Hello. Hi 45 00:02:44,600 --> 00:02:48,680 Speaker 1: is this Oscar? Hi? My name is Beverly. I'm calling 46 00:02:48,760 --> 00:02:53,919 Speaker 1: from Beebe's Blooms. How are you doing this morning? I'm fine? 47 00:02:54,360 --> 00:02:56,640 Speaker 1: That's great, Oscar. So the reason I'm calling is because 48 00:02:56,680 --> 00:02:59,320 Speaker 1: we serviced the Covina and surrounding l A area, and 49 00:02:59,320 --> 00:03:01,680 Speaker 1: today we're offer in local residents of promotion. It's a 50 00:03:01,720 --> 00:03:03,960 Speaker 1: free dozen red roses that you can send to anybody 51 00:03:03,960 --> 00:03:06,120 Speaker 1: that you'd like. They are free. I don't need cash, 52 00:03:06,160 --> 00:03:07,800 Speaker 1: I don't need your credit card, I don't need anything 53 00:03:07,840 --> 00:03:10,000 Speaker 1: like that. We're just hoping that you'd like our services 54 00:03:10,000 --> 00:03:12,120 Speaker 1: and then refer as to friends and family. Is that 55 00:03:12,200 --> 00:03:15,280 Speaker 1: something you'd be interested in? You may have purchased something 56 00:03:15,280 --> 00:03:17,800 Speaker 1: online in the last six to eighteen months and selected 57 00:03:17,800 --> 00:03:20,040 Speaker 1: to receive promotional offers from local vendors. That's how we 58 00:03:20,080 --> 00:03:23,360 Speaker 1: have our database. So you're saying I signed up for 59 00:03:23,400 --> 00:03:25,720 Speaker 1: something and included my name and cell phone number, because 60 00:03:26,000 --> 00:03:29,880 Speaker 1: that doesn't sound like something I do. I don't know 61 00:03:29,919 --> 00:03:31,640 Speaker 1: what to tell you we did. That's that's what we 62 00:03:31,680 --> 00:03:35,240 Speaker 1: have here, sir. Is this something you'd be interested in? 63 00:03:35,280 --> 00:03:37,200 Speaker 1: We just need the name in the and a note 64 00:03:37,360 --> 00:03:39,760 Speaker 1: of who you want to send it to to. Just 65 00:03:39,800 --> 00:03:49,480 Speaker 1: free flowers. They are free. Uh okay, yeah, okay, I 66 00:03:49,520 --> 00:03:51,520 Speaker 1: haven't got my wife flowers in a while. You can 67 00:03:51,560 --> 00:03:54,600 Speaker 1: send them to her and we'll see what happens. What's 68 00:03:54,600 --> 00:03:59,760 Speaker 1: her name, Tessa test A t E. S. S A. 69 00:04:00,000 --> 00:04:01,760 Speaker 1: And then we have a card. You can write something 70 00:04:01,760 --> 00:04:06,880 Speaker 1: on the note. What would you like to put? Let's say, um, 71 00:04:07,400 --> 00:04:12,560 Speaker 1: I love you, so if you're having a great day, Oscar, Oscar, 72 00:04:12,560 --> 00:04:14,280 Speaker 1: I'm gonna just jump in here your voice of being 73 00:04:14,280 --> 00:04:16,760 Speaker 1: broadcast on the radio. I need you to know that 74 00:04:17,640 --> 00:04:19,719 Speaker 1: my name is Ryan Seacrest. We have your wife Tessa 75 00:04:19,839 --> 00:04:26,480 Speaker 1: on the line, and we're here like Ryan Seacrest. Ryan Seacrest, Well, 76 00:04:26,480 --> 00:04:30,800 Speaker 1: I usually just say it once, but yes, so what's 77 00:04:30,839 --> 00:04:34,360 Speaker 1: going on? Not really, But the thing is that Tessa 78 00:04:34,440 --> 00:04:38,800 Speaker 1: reads out to us because she's concerned about, um, your relationship, 79 00:04:39,240 --> 00:04:42,440 Speaker 1: and a woman named Yvette contacted her asking if you 80 00:04:42,560 --> 00:04:45,760 Speaker 1: were married or not, which led your wife to believe 81 00:04:45,880 --> 00:04:52,160 Speaker 1: if you're seeing another woman named you Vette, can you clarify? Yeah, 82 00:04:52,560 --> 00:04:55,599 Speaker 1: I don't know, I don't know an Evett. So, but 83 00:04:55,640 --> 00:04:59,240 Speaker 1: why would this woman right directly to your wife asking 84 00:04:59,279 --> 00:05:03,720 Speaker 1: about your marriage? I don't know that, That's what I'm 85 00:05:03,720 --> 00:05:06,200 Speaker 1: telling I don't know. I didn't know what she asked 86 00:05:06,200 --> 00:05:08,719 Speaker 1: me earlier. I don't know now. I mean, I've I've 87 00:05:08,800 --> 00:05:10,440 Speaker 1: never heard of in a VT, I've never met an 88 00:05:10,440 --> 00:05:13,520 Speaker 1: a Vent. I don't know why she would message my wife. So, 89 00:05:13,560 --> 00:05:15,479 Speaker 1: I mean, that's that's all I can say about it. Man, 90 00:05:17,240 --> 00:05:21,559 Speaker 1: we tested? Do you want to chime in? I mean, babe, 91 00:05:21,560 --> 00:05:24,640 Speaker 1: I have no idea. I just I honestly, Like I 92 00:05:24,680 --> 00:05:27,560 Speaker 1: told you before, I didn't know who she was. She 93 00:05:27,680 --> 00:05:30,560 Speaker 1: sent me this message then never replied. I don't know 94 00:05:30,600 --> 00:05:40,320 Speaker 1: why she's saying that. So what was this awesome test? What? No, Babe, Look, 95 00:05:41,240 --> 00:05:43,760 Speaker 1: I don't know who event is. I was not aware 96 00:05:44,160 --> 00:05:45,960 Speaker 1: that she was writing you a message. I don't know 97 00:05:46,000 --> 00:05:51,760 Speaker 1: why some stranger would write you a message. Look, I 98 00:05:52,520 --> 00:05:55,960 Speaker 1: don't know how to make this better, okay, but I 99 00:05:56,120 --> 00:06:00,400 Speaker 1: promise you I don't know who that is, okay, and 100 00:06:00,520 --> 00:06:03,640 Speaker 1: whatever is going on, we can deal with it. So 101 00:06:03,720 --> 00:06:06,000 Speaker 1: why don't you guys track her down together and find 102 00:06:06,000 --> 00:06:08,680 Speaker 1: out why she's reaching out to you Tessa about Oscar 103 00:06:09,720 --> 00:06:13,200 Speaker 1: doesn't make any sense. I mean, I I wrote her 104 00:06:13,200 --> 00:06:16,000 Speaker 1: back like asking her, you know, like why would you 105 00:06:16,040 --> 00:06:19,680 Speaker 1: message me and then not reply? And she never got 106 00:06:19,680 --> 00:06:22,159 Speaker 1: back to that either. She left that too, so I 107 00:06:22,200 --> 00:06:25,200 Speaker 1: know she read that some spam butt who cares? Why? 108 00:06:25,200 --> 00:06:29,280 Speaker 1: Why waste our time dealing with I know, random stranger. 109 00:06:30,279 --> 00:06:32,480 Speaker 1: I know, I'm sorry. I just I couldn't stop thinking 110 00:06:32,480 --> 00:06:34,800 Speaker 1: about it, and I just, you know, with these flowers, 111 00:06:34,839 --> 00:06:36,880 Speaker 1: I just wanted to make sure that you would send 112 00:06:37,160 --> 00:06:43,400 Speaker 1: me and I want them to love you more. A girl, 113 00:06:43,520 --> 00:06:45,880 Speaker 1: Come on, it sounds like we need a little stronger 114 00:06:45,920 --> 00:06:52,120 Speaker 1: communication about feelings here in this relationship and to help 115 00:06:52,160 --> 00:06:55,000 Speaker 1: build a little security between you guys, Test and Oscar. 116 00:06:55,000 --> 00:06:57,120 Speaker 1: I'm gonna let you guys run. Thank you very much 117 00:06:57,120 --> 00:06:58,799 Speaker 1: for coming on and talking with us. Oscar and Tessa, 118 00:06:59,000 --> 00:07:05,080 Speaker 1: good luck, and thank you so much. Uh knee jerk 119 00:07:05,120 --> 00:07:07,279 Speaker 1: reaction to that. I think he's telling the truth. I 120 00:07:07,320 --> 00:07:10,720 Speaker 1: think so too. But also we could do a little 121 00:07:10,720 --> 00:07:12,240 Speaker 1: bit more of a deep dive with this girl. It 122 00:07:12,280 --> 00:07:17,000 Speaker 1: was a d M like, let's seems like they're not 123 00:07:17,040 --> 00:07:19,600 Speaker 1: communicating enough in their relationship. That's why there is question. 124 00:07:20,360 --> 00:07:24,600 Speaker 1: So we had a situation where Tessa, the wife of Oscar, 125 00:07:24,960 --> 00:07:27,600 Speaker 1: got d M by another woman named Yvette, asking if 126 00:07:27,600 --> 00:07:31,840 Speaker 1: he's married now. All signs would indicate that she's like 127 00:07:32,080 --> 00:07:35,040 Speaker 1: worried that the guy she's seeing, Oscar all of a 128 00:07:35,080 --> 00:07:37,640 Speaker 1: sudden might be married, but he's not telling her. We 129 00:07:37,760 --> 00:07:40,840 Speaker 1: got him on the line, he said he doesn't know 130 00:07:40,880 --> 00:07:45,280 Speaker 1: who that is. He actually called her a spambot, and 131 00:07:45,840 --> 00:07:49,800 Speaker 1: I believed him. I just believed him. I think that 132 00:07:49,840 --> 00:07:53,200 Speaker 1: they need to work on this strengthening of the communication 133 00:07:53,280 --> 00:07:59,920 Speaker 1: and their relationship, but I believed him. And when you 134 00:08:00,080 --> 00:08:03,840 Speaker 1: get to a place in your marriage where something like 135 00:08:03,920 --> 00:08:07,280 Speaker 1: that happens and you don't give your significant other the 136 00:08:07,320 --> 00:08:10,160 Speaker 1: benefit of the doubt or you don't believe them, then 137 00:08:10,160 --> 00:08:12,800 Speaker 1: you've got issues already. You've got trust issues and common issues. 138 00:08:13,880 --> 00:08:15,960 Speaker 1: Do we think that there's an issue with him? Kind 139 00:08:15,960 --> 00:08:19,160 Speaker 1: of like being defensive about the flowers in general? Like 140 00:08:19,200 --> 00:08:23,000 Speaker 1: how did you get my info? I don't know? IM? Yeah, 141 00:08:24,000 --> 00:08:27,800 Speaker 1: naturally doing that, I'd probably just hang up on you, 142 00:08:27,800 --> 00:08:31,400 Speaker 1: I mean for real, same No, I think when those 143 00:08:31,640 --> 00:08:34,480 Speaker 1: people call and the night and want to talk to you, 144 00:08:34,800 --> 00:08:37,120 Speaker 1: I just hang up. You know. I don't get many 145 00:08:37,280 --> 00:08:39,080 Speaker 1: like wrong numbers and I got a wrong number the 146 00:08:39,080 --> 00:08:40,640 Speaker 1: other day and I ended up like talking to the 147 00:08:40,679 --> 00:08:42,560 Speaker 1: girl for a while, and I felt really bad for 148 00:08:42,559 --> 00:08:45,280 Speaker 1: her because she was trying to wrong number or scam. No, 149 00:08:45,559 --> 00:08:48,040 Speaker 1: she was looking for like some she was looking for 150 00:08:48,080 --> 00:08:51,439 Speaker 1: like a Kathy, and she was calling from like a university, 151 00:08:51,559 --> 00:08:55,600 Speaker 1: and so she was conference she wasn't though, and she 152 00:08:55,720 --> 00:08:57,560 Speaker 1: was trying to look for her, and I was like, oh, no, 153 00:08:57,600 --> 00:08:59,240 Speaker 1: you have the wrong numbers. She was like, okay, But 154 00:08:59,280 --> 00:09:01,280 Speaker 1: I'm like, I hope you finder like by but that 155 00:09:01,360 --> 00:09:03,080 Speaker 1: was it. But I just actually felt bad for her. 156 00:09:03,400 --> 00:09:06,600 Speaker 1: I'm so cynical. I think that's a scamp. You're like, 157 00:09:06,640 --> 00:09:10,880 Speaker 1: who is Kathy? Really? Let me get Kat on the 158 00:09:10,880 --> 00:09:12,840 Speaker 1: line of full oft Kate, you heard the Ryan's roses? 159 00:09:12,880 --> 00:09:17,079 Speaker 1: What did you think? Uh? So, I have a lot 160 00:09:17,160 --> 00:09:21,720 Speaker 1: to say. This was way too familiar to me. Um, well, 161 00:09:21,800 --> 00:09:24,480 Speaker 1: I know she's really right now, but I do think 162 00:09:24,520 --> 00:09:28,480 Speaker 1: she needs to dig deeper because this thing happened to me. 163 00:09:28,520 --> 00:09:31,000 Speaker 1: This kind of thing happened to me. It was actually 164 00:09:31,000 --> 00:09:33,360 Speaker 1: from a text from a number I didn't know, but 165 00:09:33,720 --> 00:09:37,520 Speaker 1: this person seemed to know about me. So I did 166 00:09:37,520 --> 00:09:39,400 Speaker 1: a reverse search on that number and I got a 167 00:09:39,520 --> 00:09:42,960 Speaker 1: name and then I searched that name, and I know 168 00:09:43,080 --> 00:09:45,720 Speaker 1: I was digging, but I found out that she worked 169 00:09:45,720 --> 00:09:49,120 Speaker 1: for a consulting firm and it's not from where we live, 170 00:09:49,200 --> 00:09:51,800 Speaker 1: and it was I looked on their website and one 171 00:09:51,840 --> 00:09:55,440 Speaker 1: of their clients was the company that my husband was 172 00:09:55,480 --> 00:09:59,679 Speaker 1: working for. So finally, when I brought all that information 173 00:09:59,720 --> 00:10:05,520 Speaker 1: to him, finally he admitted everything. Okay, so you think 174 00:10:05,520 --> 00:10:07,200 Speaker 1: that Tessa needs to dig a little bit deeper and 175 00:10:07,240 --> 00:10:10,200 Speaker 1: not take him for what he's saying. No, I do. 176 00:10:10,280 --> 00:10:12,600 Speaker 1: I mean, I think I think she needs to dig 177 00:10:12,600 --> 00:10:15,840 Speaker 1: deeper because this was enough to cause, like we, a 178 00:10:15,840 --> 00:10:19,040 Speaker 1: separation in my marriage. I think she's going to dig 179 00:10:19,760 --> 00:10:23,079 Speaker 1: deeper and find more clues. I think he's cheating on her. 180 00:10:23,760 --> 00:10:27,960 Speaker 1: Interesting I didn't think so, Okate, I mean, thank you 181 00:10:28,000 --> 00:10:29,640 Speaker 1: for sharing your story and thank you for listening and 182 00:10:29,679 --> 00:10:33,880 Speaker 1: calling you take care. Thank you you too. He did 183 00:10:33,960 --> 00:10:38,160 Speaker 1: know who you were really quickly. Well yeah, it's Ryan's Seacrest. Yeah, 184 00:10:38,200 --> 00:10:39,839 Speaker 1: but like not everybody knows who he is that can 185 00:10:39,880 --> 00:10:40,439 Speaker 1: hear you