Speaker 1: Hay for Well, welcome back to bat for Happy Hour.
Speaker 2: I am Joe and I'm Serena and we are here
Speaker 2: with Charity and Dotty.
Speaker 1: Hi, guys, welcome hand it back, Welcome back to Happy Hour.
Speaker 3: That yeah, I know.
Speaker 4: Our engagement yeah yeah, last time we talked to you.
Speaker 4: Oh my god, it's almost been a year.
Speaker 5: Yeah, like eight months. No, no, no, yeah, but your
Speaker 5: university is like in three weeks yeah, filming yeah yeah, yeah.
Speaker 4: Right, so your one year engagement is coming up. But filming,
Speaker 4: I mean when we interviewed, it was December.
Speaker 2: So December, yeah, I remember. I remember at dinner, dot
Speaker 2: and you asked me what our favorite podcast was.
Speaker 6: Which is obvious. We haven't done one since we didn't wait.
Speaker 3: Sorry wait the timeline. Yeah, but we were out there
Speaker 3: for it? Was it all August?
Speaker 2: I mean, I don't know, guys, at this I don't
Speaker 2: think it matters. Guys.
Speaker 5: Maybe it was which McCall, it was it Gary's finale.
Speaker 1: I don't know, No, it was for it was for you.
Speaker 1: We were out there for your finale.
Speaker 3: Yes, it was August. It was August.
Speaker 4: No, no, sorry, it's just there's so many seasons of
Speaker 4: this show, it all blurs together.
Speaker 2: But we were out to dinner and asked me what
Speaker 2: our favorite podcast was, like who we interviewed? And I
Speaker 2: said you guys And he said you're lying and I said,
Speaker 2: maybe I am lying, but no, but that was a
Speaker 2: lot of fun because we did it in person. That
Speaker 2: was like one of our first few in person podcast.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it was a lot of fun. I like that
Speaker 3: as well.
Speaker 1: So what do you guys got for us?
Speaker 4: What's No, you're not in New York right now, even
Speaker 4: though you're living there. Where are you?
Speaker 5: We're in See, we're actually here for like I'm doing
Speaker 5: the Cherry Blossom Festival. Like I'm like their grand Marshal.
Speaker 5: So I was like, oh, this is fun and cute
Speaker 5: and yeah, just something random and exciting, I guess. And
Speaker 5: so it's weekend in DC and that's the while we're here.
Speaker 5: But I don't know what's new, what's new for us?
Speaker 5: And I don't know if.
Speaker 1: Random Blossom festival.
Speaker 5: It's like every year, like okay, so in DC, I
Speaker 5: don't know much. So like if you're from d C,
Speaker 5: then I'm sorry if I get any of this wrong.
Speaker 5: But they have like an annual celebration of when the
Speaker 5: like Chree.
Speaker 1: Blossoms blue, the cherry's bloom.
Speaker 5: It's like this whole like history thing, and it's like
Speaker 5: a big celebration. So I didn't know. It's like basically
Speaker 5: like for them, it's like they're Maycy's Thanksgiving preak.
Speaker 3: Okay, gotcha, Oh my gosh, for DC.
Speaker 1: That's actually that's actually I'm actually jealous. I wish I
Speaker 1: would be the one.
Speaker 3: That because I was coming for your job.
Speaker 1: Washington cherries are the best I used to sell them.
Speaker 4: No, Joe, no, no, it's not real cherries. It's cherry
Speaker 4: bloss the trees, not the produced.
Speaker 6: Whatever.
Speaker 7: I know.
Speaker 2: So I'm just want to let all our listeners know
Speaker 2: that this is my last podcast.
Speaker 5: It's ok.
Speaker 4: I can understand how you got confused, but yeah, for
Speaker 4: everyone that's in Washington for the Cherry Blossom Festival, know
Speaker 4: that they also have great cherries.
Speaker 1: I don't think I don't think it's I think it's
Speaker 1: Washington the state though.
Speaker 4: Oh so you I've tried to save you and there's
Speaker 4: nothing to do nothing, Okay, So what is your role
Speaker 4: in the Cherry Blossom Festival then?
Speaker 5: So basically it's kind of like I'm co hosting, but
Speaker 5: like I don't get that title, but I'll basically will
Speaker 5: be co hosting and then riding in the float and
Speaker 5: saying hello to everyone. That's not a good way saying
Speaker 5: hello to.
Speaker 3: Everyone, dott are you gonna ride on the float tail?
Speaker 6: I have no idea. You just dragged me here.
Speaker 5: No, that is not true. We're doing like a couple
Speaker 5: of interviews and then I think he rides in like
Speaker 5: a part of it, not the whole thing.
Speaker 3: Okay, gotcha?
Speaker 1: How's uh? How's how's work?
Speaker 6: It's tough.
Speaker 8: I'm working trying to get all this ship in there,
Speaker 8: so it's a grind. I'm exhausted after this interview, off
Speaker 8: to get back into it. But it's good staying afloat,
Speaker 8: you know, staying in touch with my people. So yeah,
Speaker 8: just trying to keep all the plates spending as much
Speaker 8: as false for.
Speaker 1: Real, are you guys gonna go out? And like, are
Speaker 1: you guys gonna go out tonight?
Speaker 6: No?
Speaker 5: Probably tomorrow. We just have like an early morning tomorrow
Speaker 5: and then we get done pretty early, so then yeah,
Speaker 5: Friday night would be it cool.
Speaker 1: It's really want to ask Charity what you were going
Speaker 1: to ask her?
Speaker 4: Oh, this is the worst segue you've ever set up
Speaker 4: in my life that there was no segue there literally
Speaker 4: all the things I thought we were going to go into, family, few, wedding, Nope, Joe.
Speaker 4: Joe has different plans for this podcast.
Speaker 5: Charity.
Speaker 4: You recently shared on social media that there's a little
Speaker 4: plastic surgery done for all the girlies that may have
Speaker 4: some questions.
Speaker 3: Can you talks about it?
Speaker 5: Yeah? Yeah, So there's a little bit of a buzz
Speaker 5: around that, which I kind of knew going into it,
Speaker 5: like sharing and openly talking about it. But obviously I
Speaker 5: never want like people to have to guess like anything
Speaker 5: about me, and so like being transparent about it, but
Speaker 5: also like I'm over like the whole like judgmental like
Speaker 5: zone that we have when it comes to like just
Speaker 5: anything plastic surgery, because I mean, I just don't know
Speaker 5: why people like care so hard about what other people
Speaker 5: decide to do for their lives. But anyway, that's besides
Speaker 5: the point. I decided to get this done because it
Speaker 5: was like really good timing in my life. I wanted this,
Speaker 5: I kid you, not for like probably like ten years obviously,
Speaker 5: Like when I first initially wanted it, it was like probably
Speaker 5: early like or late late high school, early college, and
Speaker 5: I was like, no, I'm too young, and like I
Speaker 5: tried to get myself like time to like figure out
Speaker 5: like obviously my body was still like changing and all
Speaker 5: of this and you know, just growing into it and
Speaker 5: like figuring out if this was still something that I wanted,
Speaker 5: and it kind of died down. But then obviously, like
Speaker 5: the opportunity came for me to like get it done
Speaker 5: this year, and I was like why not, Like this
Speaker 5: is perfect timing. I'm done with majority like the bulk
Speaker 5: of you know, traveling a lot and being busy, so
Speaker 5: I decided to get it done right in time for
Speaker 5: this summer. So but the procedure was great, and I honestly,
Speaker 5: like I know, there's so many like things around it,
Speaker 5: but for me, like the best decision that I've ever
Speaker 5: made for myself, and I don't regret it at all.
Speaker 5: So I'm recovering well and healing well, and yeah, it's
Speaker 5: just a great new Yeah that's amazing.
Speaker 3: I'm so happy for me.
Speaker 1: Perfect for the summer.
Speaker 8: It is.
Speaker 4: For people that are listening that don't know what procedure
Speaker 4: you got done?
Speaker 5: Sorry, yes I should have specified, but I had a
Speaker 5: breast augmentation, So yeah, got my babs done.
Speaker 4: How was it in terms of like like pre op
Speaker 4: postop recovery.
Speaker 5: Yeah, like pre I definitely like I had made the
Speaker 5: decision to get it done, and I was like, okay,
Speaker 5: I'm getting it done. But I don't think it really
Speaker 5: hit me until like the night before. And obviously we
Speaker 5: were already in LA because this was right after Joey's finale.
Speaker 5: So I got it done like two days after, and
Speaker 5: I was just sitting in the Airbnb and I kept
Speaker 5: like looking at Dawton, like talking to my parents. I
Speaker 5: was going back and forth. I was like, oh my god,
Speaker 5: it's too late for me to like change my mind now,
Speaker 5: Like the surgery is like literally tomorrow. But it was
Speaker 5: kind of like this thing of like it finally hitting
Speaker 5: me at that moment, and I was like, okay, like
Speaker 5: taking it in, like having these like it's like kind
Speaker 5: of emotional, like a little bit of like taking glass glances.
Speaker 5: I know this is kind of weird to say, but
Speaker 5: like at your body and like this is the last
Speaker 5: time you're gonna have like this like image of yourself
Speaker 5: before it like changes. But then I remember, like the
Speaker 5: surgery day went by so quick. It was like I
Speaker 5: was out there like in like forty five minutes.
Speaker 3: You were, Oh my gosh, that's great.
Speaker 5: Yeah, it was like a really quick surgery.
Speaker 3: Did they put you under for it? Like fully?
Speaker 5: Yeah, So I went under, thank god, because I would
Speaker 5: have not been able to windering me awake for that. No,
Speaker 5: but in and out, and I mean the recovery was
Speaker 5: like fairly easy. It was just like a weird feeling.
Speaker 5: If anyone has gotten this done, you'd probably know what
Speaker 5: this feeling is like. But it's like not pain, it's
Speaker 5: just more like uncomfortable and so like that was like
Speaker 5: kind of tricky to get used to. But Dalton was
Speaker 5: obviously by my side and helping me take care of myself,
Speaker 5: so really grateful for him. But yeah, I mean the
Speaker 5: whole thing was just a breeze and my doctor was amazing,
Speaker 5: like truly just a holistic approach, which I love and
Speaker 5: that's the main reason why I went to him. But
Speaker 5: then also just like the whole thing, like he just
Speaker 5: was like there every single stand which I know if
Speaker 5: people have not great experiences, so I'm grateful for mine.
Speaker 1: Amazing donks.
Speaker 4: I was gonna say it was charity like high as
Speaker 4: a kite. When she came out of the operation or.
Speaker 1: Were you high as a kite?
Speaker 3: Oh?
Speaker 8: No, it was Actually it's always funny, right, I assumed.
Speaker 8: I don't know if you guys are if you guys
Speaker 8: are very experienced, like a significant other someone coming out
Speaker 8: of UH.
Speaker 4: I was with my sister after her wisdom teeth, so
Speaker 4: I experienced her, and then I had knee surgery when
Speaker 4: I was in high school. So I also have heard
Speaker 4: stories of like coming out of the anthesia and all
Speaker 4: the crazy things that you say into No I.
Speaker 8: It was so funny. I mean obviously she was like
Speaker 8: she was like crying the whole time, but had nothing
Speaker 8: to do with pain.
Speaker 5: I'm really emotional. Every time I have like that, I
Speaker 5: get really emotional.
Speaker 6: Yeah, just like completely out of it.
Speaker 8: And then it was this repeat of like three questions
Speaker 8: she would ask. She was like, did did dog you
Speaker 8: see you? And it would cycle and in a minute
Speaker 8: would go by, and then she'd look at me and
Speaker 8: then she'd ask it again, like it was so funny.
Speaker 6: I forgot what was the one thing it was?
Speaker 5: You were like yeah, and you like then you made
Speaker 5: it to be funny. It was like he was like
Speaker 5: they also took something else else. I was like, of course,
Speaker 5: I don't know what's going on. So I was like,
Speaker 5: they took something else out and I was like, what
Speaker 5: are you talking about?
Speaker 6: I said, I was like, yeah, they took out your
Speaker 6: liver or something.
Speaker 9: And then she goes they did, and she goes to
Speaker 9: the black market.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I was convinced that I had like missing organs
Speaker 5: and they were on the black market.
Speaker 8: So she was just like crying the whole time, like
Speaker 8: like again, not for any paint or anything, but just
Speaker 8: like just make sure, super emotion.
Speaker 6: Yeah.
Speaker 2: And the and the fact that you told her that
Speaker 2: her liver got pa out too, I would cry.
Speaker 3: That's so funny.
Speaker 10: Oh my gosh, let's get into let's get in the
Speaker 10: family feud.
Speaker 1: We were like I can't have to do it a
Speaker 1: few years ago. So much fun.
Speaker 2: Like I'm a huge Steve Harvey fan, so like to
Speaker 2: see him in person. How is your guys experience, Well,
Speaker 2: like I guess, like, yeah, talk about what you can
Speaker 2: talk about because I know it hasn't come out yet.
Speaker 8: Yeah, Family Feud was a really cool time. I mean
Speaker 8: it was awesome. I mean like I still have my
Speaker 8: little name tag and I look at it and it
Speaker 8: feels surreal to have that because you just watched it
Speaker 8: on TV. So the experience itself was awesome, and then
Speaker 8: obviously it's just magnified by the people we were with, right,
Speaker 8: So like Joey.
Speaker 6: Kelsey, Katie and Zach.
Speaker 8: I mean those are my people, truly, So we just
Speaker 8: had a good time and were all my problems I
Speaker 8: forgot about during that weekend. Yeah, it was so much
Speaker 8: fun and so much such a cool experience, and we
Speaker 8: were all super nervous, but I think that makes it
Speaker 8: even more fun, right, especially when you conquered it. So truly,
Speaker 8: just so blessed. And Steve Harvey is such a funny guy,
Speaker 8: had a great time. Knows how to work a room.
Speaker 8: Man knows how to work a room. He like making jokes,
Speaker 8: doing bits, the crass, wearing like like it's so funny, which.
Speaker 5: Is what I was, like I was prepared for, But
Speaker 5: like I don't think I was like fully prepared for.
Speaker 5: They're like, yeah, seems like funny and that's why, Okay,
Speaker 5: like it's what we see on TV, but like literally,
Speaker 5: when the cameras aren't rolling, he's a different I'm like,
Speaker 5: oh my god.
Speaker 2: When we were there, he was doing he was talking
Speaker 2: to the audience, but he was doing like motivational speech.
Speaker 4: Well he did once he did like a motivational speech
Speaker 4: to the audience, just about like life, career, all of it.
Speaker 4: So we thought like what we had was the norm.
Speaker 4: So hearing that, he was going off with you guys, Yeah.
Speaker 8: And it's funny I had heard that, Like, obviously, I
Speaker 8: can't imagine what it's like to be doing that show,
Speaker 8: filming ten episodes per day, so like so I feel
Speaker 8: like if you got lucky.
Speaker 4: We did, I feel like it probably is just like
Speaker 4: whatever mood Steve's in that day because we were like
Speaker 4: the last.
Speaker 2: Well and it's also he does so many episodes, so
Speaker 2: it's probably like think about it, like if we shot
Speaker 2: like seven podcasts in a day, podcast number, the podcast
Speaker 2: number two, my podcast number five, my podcast number five,
Speaker 2: I would be like, you know, every time we got
Speaker 2: a break, I would be checked out.
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's very true. Who were you guys? Can you
Speaker 3: say who you were playing against?
Speaker 5: Yeah? I think we can.
Speaker 6: Yeah.
Speaker 5: Yeah, we played it against Gary and Teresa and then
Speaker 5: their kids.
Speaker 6: It's usually five, but they let us do so yeah.
Speaker 3: Okay, yeah I was I think we were five versus five.
Speaker 1: Yeah, something like that.
Speaker 3: Oh, you guys, are getting all the special treatment over
Speaker 3: I family.
Speaker 4: Yeah, it really looks like I said, so much fun.
Speaker 8: Like filming it is actually shorter than the show airing commercials.
Speaker 6: It's crazy.
Speaker 8: I feel like we filmed for thirty minutes, but then
Speaker 8: they're going to stretch it tw an hour somehow when
Speaker 8: they do it. So anyways, but there's just not a
Speaker 8: lot of opportunities. So I think I had maybe two
Speaker 8: opportunities to have some type of interaction. So I mean,
Speaker 8: I won't spoil, like you know how I did, but
Speaker 8: I'm also torn. It's like, I hope, but then I
Speaker 8: feel like I heard bad for Katie and Zacht. They
Speaker 8: were at the very end, so.
Speaker 11: The ends hard, like yeah, yeah, unless you like, you know,
Speaker 11: have like four rounds and know them, you know, then
Speaker 11: it's tough to get some words in and it's like
Speaker 11: you just flee there for a vacation.
Speaker 6: Essentially.
Speaker 2: I did a I did like it was the first
Speaker 2: time they ever did it. It was like a family feud.
Speaker 1: Tour and they asked me to be on it. They
Speaker 1: asked me to be Yeah, they asked me to be
Speaker 1: on it.
Speaker 3: So I didn't host it.
Speaker 1: I told people I hosted it, but I was not.
Speaker 1: I was not the host.
Speaker 9: Actually I'm here. I need the luck that you get around,
Speaker 9: not luck. I know it's not just luck. I work hard,
Speaker 9: but like the things that get drawn to you.
Speaker 12: I need that that existence.
Speaker 1: Yeah, no, it was. It was. It was the first
Speaker 1: thing you did. It was only two weeks.
Speaker 3: We've been the other three years, and you've always told
Speaker 3: me you hosted it. So what did you do? I
Speaker 3: let the truth come out.
Speaker 1: I never told you that I didn't really know.
Speaker 4: Kevin f the Office hosted two weeks The Family Feud.
Speaker 1: No I was. I was.
Speaker 2: I was the like the the team leader of one team.
Speaker 4: I heard your picture you with Steve Harvey on this
Speaker 4: faily Few Live tour.
Speaker 6: No, I'm not that.
Speaker 4: You finally got that off your but anyways, but anyway,
Speaker 4: I bring this up.
Speaker 2: I bring this up because I because of that, I
Speaker 2: had like practice of like playing actually playing Family Feud.
Speaker 2: But if I didn't, it went on the show. It's
Speaker 2: so easy to go on that show and freeze because
Speaker 2: you're like wait, You're like you're like your brain can't
Speaker 2: think of like the simplest answers because you're you're nervous.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 4: No, I was, like I remember being absolutely exhausted, starving
Speaker 4: and like panicking like I was. I ended up being
Speaker 4: way more nervous than I thought it was gonna be.
Speaker 4: I'm like, I can play this I place all the
Speaker 4: time from the couch. It's not the same.
Speaker 6: Yeah, they didn't have a craft for you guys.
Speaker 5: I don't think.
Speaker 1: I don't think that. Yeah, I don't think they. I
Speaker 1: think it was.
Speaker 2: I think we were still under like I think COVID
Speaker 2: was still lingering to where there were certain things like
Speaker 2: we couldn't go do and stuff.
Speaker 1: I think that's what was. I think that's what was happening.
Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure.
Speaker 5: Wow, way to rub it and take us down what
Speaker 5: Joe is saying, like it really is like I think
Speaker 5: that was. I don't again not giving anything away, but
Speaker 5: like the hardest thing for us was like trying to
Speaker 5: think of like simple answers. I think we like thought
Speaker 5: too hard about certain answers and that like you know,
Speaker 5: I didn't help us out better.
Speaker 6: Adrenaline is going everything that she normally just goes up there.
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, because the question like like what are things
Speaker 2: that are green?
Speaker 1: And you're like green, don't know, but crazy?
Speaker 4: It was a good yeah, kind how are Zach and
Speaker 4: Katie and Kelsey and Joey doing you guys looked like
Speaker 4: it had so much fun.
Speaker 3: I was following along on social media.
Speaker 5: It was again like one of the best beeguns we've
Speaker 5: had in a minute, just because we've been just ripping
Speaker 5: and running, but like to be like in the same
Speaker 5: space like with people or couples alike who has gone
Speaker 5: through Like obviously this experience was super special. And Katie
Speaker 5: and Zach are doing great working but like it was
Speaker 5: good seeing them and as always, obviously I'm like close
Speaker 5: to Katie too, so it's just really good to catch
Speaker 5: up and have time in person together. And then it
Speaker 5: was this was not my first time, second time being
Speaker 5: with Kelsey and she is who like I love her
Speaker 5: so much. She's so funny, like so funny, and obviously
Speaker 5: like them like Joey and and her together just they're
Speaker 5: both super happy and you could just like see the
Speaker 5: love and it's like, yes, it just takes us back.
Speaker 6: Yeah, very relatable.
Speaker 8: That's probably the most like really important environment I've been
Speaker 8: in in a while, because you see two other couples
Speaker 8: that have also literally.
Speaker 6: Gone through the same thing. You're in a similar boat.
Speaker 8: So and there's a nice little grading of like Katie,
Speaker 8: Zact and us and then you know, so you see
Speaker 8: the flow too, and you.
Speaker 4: Go, I remember, it's probably crazy for like Zach and
Speaker 4: Katie to like look and see like your guys stage
Speaker 4: and then Joey and Kelsey's and be like, oh, we
Speaker 4: were in both of those, and then on the flip
Speaker 4: Joey and Kelsey to be able to kind of look
Speaker 4: forward at what like like could be coming for them
Speaker 4: in their lives through like you guys, if that makes
Speaker 4: it exactly.
Speaker 5: Yeah, So it really is like someone like commentent this
Speaker 5: on one of our pictures or I don't know, but
Speaker 5: it's just like a really good like support system, like
Speaker 5: I feel like, and I never looked at it that way,
Speaker 5: not like you know, utilizing like this show. It's like, oh,
Speaker 5: like you know supports this and we're gonna stay together
Speaker 5: for that. But it's like it's just really it's also
Speaker 5: just helpful, like when we also are really good friends
Speaker 5: with him, but then also like again going through this
Speaker 5: experience and we all know like the ship that comes
Speaker 5: with just being in the public eye and managing this
Speaker 5: relationship and it's a lot, but like it's it's just great.
Speaker 8: Yeah, so Cherry Charity is the glue to that because
Speaker 8: she's the only one with connections to.
Speaker 5: Charity.
Speaker 3: Is that charity charity Joey. She's holding it together.
Speaker 2: But donton actually living with Joey and I know you're
Speaker 2: good friends with him.
Speaker 1: After finally meeting Kelsey, does it make sense?
Speaker 8: Yeah, no, definitely now I've told him, I mean, he
Speaker 8: be confiding each other a little bit early on, so
Speaker 8: I maybe I may have had a little bit of
Speaker 8: an insight into they have chose.
Speaker 6: But watching it back, it.
Speaker 8: Made perf sense, like that was the best person that
Speaker 8: he could have picked for himself.
Speaker 6: So I couldn't have been more proud of.
Speaker 8: Initially, I was like nervous, you know, you see some
Speaker 8: people get making oh Joey, Like, I don't know if
Speaker 8: that's that's the moove. But luckily as the process goes,
Speaker 8: you know, eventually you kind of you know, find your
Speaker 8: own and and see what you need to see. And yeah,
Speaker 8: he Kelsey is really just such a good person. Yeah,
Speaker 8: you know, and one of the best people in that cast.
Speaker 8: So I'm very proud of how you navigated And yeah,
Speaker 8: I see a long future for them.
Speaker 4: So yeah, yeah, we had them on the podcast and
Speaker 4: they seem so great. We haven't met either of them
Speaker 4: in person yet. Oh well, we met Joey person.
Speaker 3: That's not true. We've met Kelsey in person.
Speaker 4: But we hear that they're moving to New York, so
Speaker 4: hopefully we'll meet them.
Speaker 5: That Yes, are they are?
Speaker 1: They are? They are? They leaning towards Brooklyn by you
Speaker 1: guys are Manhattan?
Speaker 5: Funny enough because the last time Joey was in New York, like,
Speaker 5: we went out with him and that question came up.
Speaker 5: He's like, I don't know, like city or He's like,
Speaker 5: but I like Brooklyn. I think he like, in his heart,
Speaker 5: I would want to be in Brooklyn, But I don't know.
Speaker 5: I haven't talked to Kelsey about it. You probably know
Speaker 5: more about it than than me. But we were like Brooklyn,
Speaker 5: like you know, we go out here all the time,
Speaker 5: Like you're in Manhattan for like work, like come over here,
Speaker 5: and so.
Speaker 6: You left for them to come to Brooklyn.
Speaker 12: Yeah, but I feel like, yeah, they're probably and we
Speaker 12: might be in Manhattany by that time right next but
Speaker 12: I have a feeling that they will probably be in
Speaker 12: the in the Manhattan.
Speaker 3: So yeah, Kelsey is giving Manhattan. Yeah, City vibes.
Speaker 1: Just yeah really yeah, I don't carely get that from her.
Speaker 4: Really, I feel like she's like high energy, wants to
Speaker 4: be like where the pulse is.
Speaker 1: Yeah maybe maybe yeah, maybe a little high energy.
Speaker 3: Is there ever any awkwardness?
Speaker 4: Like do you ever feel any awkwardness in any of
Speaker 4: those situations? I figured no, but like got like I
Speaker 4: feel like people probably look at it and think like
Speaker 4: the weird accent.
Speaker 5: And I'm like, I don't even want to say I
Speaker 5: don't look at them that way, but like I think
Speaker 5: it's like if I was like single and like hanging
Speaker 5: out with him, yeah maybe, but like we're like all happy,
Speaker 5: and I would have to say, like out of everybody
Speaker 5: that's probably been a lead. But also on this show,
Speaker 5: I feel like me and Joey are both very mature
Speaker 5: and like have this level of emotional intelligence, like we
Speaker 5: just like can separate the two. So it's like it's
Speaker 5: not weird at all, And like I I think I
Speaker 5: have a little bit more like leverage or like will
Speaker 5: to like I guess invite that friendship because of how
Speaker 5: close Dotton and him are and same like even Dot
Speaker 5: and getting close with Zach that was not being a
Speaker 5: corn at but they're like and it's crazy. He really
Speaker 5: does love like Joey Inzach equally and it's like crazy.
Speaker 5: So no, yeah, I think we're all just like mature
Speaker 5: enough to just be like, you know what, it was
Speaker 5: experienced part of our journeys that led us to where
Speaker 5: we are now, and we're just all happy.
Speaker 2: So the truth is, it's like it's like not that deep,
Speaker 2: you know it really not wanting to.
Speaker 5: Say that without like it being like shady, but it's
Speaker 5: really not that deep. Like after months you have time
Speaker 5: to process and everything, and it's like, okay, whatever, move.
Speaker 4: Well, like you said, like it's not like you Joey
Speaker 4: and Zacher hang out just like three singles in the city,
Speaker 4: like you're all engaged in love, like it's in the.
Speaker 1: Past very much.
Speaker 2: Zach's Zach's like, Zach may be the nicest man in Bachelor,
Speaker 2: you know, he really is.
Speaker 5: And so many of them. I think Zach is one
Speaker 5: of the most misunderstood person And then.
Speaker 3: Yeah, he is really misunderstood. I will agree with that.
Speaker 4: I feel like people's perception of him is like not
Speaker 4: like nothing, We're not seeing the core of who he
Speaker 4: is exactly.
Speaker 8: He's I mean, I hear that he you know, based
Speaker 8: on filming, like was just like very like serious. He
Speaker 8: couldn't be further from the truth. He's very balanced in
Speaker 8: that way. One of the Ufius guys has such a
Speaker 8: big personality that you would never know unless you hung
Speaker 8: out with him personally, and so like been lucky enough
Speaker 8: to hang out with him and initially has like I
Speaker 8: don't know if I would connect with this guy, you know,
Speaker 8: like trying to find your place in this fatula world
Speaker 8: and there's so much you know, weirdness for three people,
Speaker 8: but Zach is genuinely someone I would be friends with
Speaker 8: a thousand percent outside if none of this ever happened.
Speaker 6: So yeah, such a such a good guy. So it
Speaker 6: was fun.
Speaker 1: Let's real quick.
Speaker 2: Let's touch on Jen because Charity you announced you announced
Speaker 2: her as bachelor atte right, Yeah.
Speaker 4: How did you feel like having that responsibility?
Speaker 5: It was Honestly, it was an honor, Like whoever it was.
Speaker 5: Obviously I knew who it was beforehand, but like they
Speaker 5: had told me that day, but I I was honored
Speaker 5: to pass past the torch. Jen is incredible watching her
Speaker 5: on Jovy season, like, she definitely I feel like this
Speaker 5: will test her any ways, so I'm curious to see
Speaker 5: how that's going to play out, because I always say,
Speaker 5: even like the most sound people coming on this show
Speaker 5: like Struggle, and I can tell, like I don't want
Speaker 5: to blame her age, but I can just see certain things.
Speaker 5: I'm like, oh, these were like qualities that I did,
Speaker 5: and like I was like, I've grown from that or
Speaker 5: I've learned from that. So it definitely will be interesting
Speaker 5: to like see it play out. But I really am
Speaker 5: excited for her. I know, like this is something like
Speaker 5: her like finding her person is something she really really want.
Speaker 5: So I hope she like obviously takes it serious. She's
Speaker 5: twenty five, Yeah, so.
Speaker 1: I thought she was twenty seven.
Speaker 3: Me too.
Speaker 4: No, I think that's just like we just assume it's
Speaker 4: like kind of the average.
Speaker 5: Yeah no, but yeah, No, I was really excited to
Speaker 5: do it, and it was it was fun. Definitely, like
Speaker 5: the reactions were mixed, but it's okay.
Speaker 3: How was the tone in the realm it was?
Speaker 5: I think initially everyone was like, you know, like just surprised, shocking. Oh,
Speaker 5: We're like, oh, it's going to be Maria, and so
Speaker 5: I think people were like waiting and then like it
Speaker 5: was kind of like I think everyone's brain was like,
Speaker 5: wait a second, Okay, that's not the name we just heard.
Speaker 5: It's Jin yeay, And so like the plaus kind of
Speaker 5: came a little bit after, but like after that, I
Speaker 5: mean it was just like, honestly, the whole night was
Speaker 5: a celebration and we were just all like super thrilled
Speaker 5: and supporting her and wishing her much success. But before
Speaker 5: she got snatched away.
Speaker 2: But yeah, dotten, if you could give the guys any advice,
Speaker 2: what would it be? And it can't be advice that
Speaker 2: you've given before.
Speaker 3: The guys that.
Speaker 1: The guys that are going on Gen season so on they're.
Speaker 3: Filming now, which just crazy.
Speaker 4: Also, if you gave it before, we won't know, So
Speaker 4: feel free to enough all that rule.
Speaker 5: What you say if you gave advice before?
Speaker 7: Oh yeah, yeah, a good question. What would I What
Speaker 7: advice would I give them to? I don't know, Like
Speaker 7: not to force the emotions, right, like I know everything
Speaker 7: is really you know, conduced into this real format for
Speaker 7: a few weeks, but not to force anything, like just
Speaker 7: take it serious, but don't force those feelings because like
Speaker 7: the last thing you want to do is like I
Speaker 7: think people understimate how tough it is to probably be
Speaker 7: make it to the end and get engaged, and to
Speaker 7: have that fallout like that, shit's I imagine it's terrifying
Speaker 7: and not fun.
Speaker 8: So just avoid that situation altogether. And yeah, I think that.
Speaker 8: I mean, other than that's like basic information. Yeah, come
Speaker 8: permental life. There's not really a specific approach, but you
Speaker 8: just have to understand what he is going on and
Speaker 8: don't force those feelings, you know, like let them happen.
Speaker 8: Really look for the person, look at who they are,
Speaker 8: use your dating history past to determine if that's somebody
Speaker 8: that you are compatible with. Yeah, and yeah, and be
Speaker 8: cool with all the guys too, like don't be starting
Speaker 8: to be don't be doing it like that never works out, well.
Speaker 1: Never works out.
Speaker 2: But we need at least we need at least one
Speaker 2: or two. We need at least we do we do,
Speaker 2: we do need them. So what So what is next
Speaker 2: for you guys? What else is going on? Anything you
Speaker 2: want to share?
Speaker 9: I mean.
Speaker 5: I feel like we're boring now.
Speaker 4: Sorry, Well you're in Brooklyn, Yeah, you think you might
Speaker 4: move to manhatt when's your Lisa up?
Speaker 5: It'll be up like end of November, so we have
Speaker 5: a while oh, you have time. Yeah, we definitely do
Speaker 5: have time. But yeah, I think it's like we're realizing
Speaker 5: kind of what we talked about. It's like, oh, we're
Speaker 5: like in Manhattan a lot for like work and events
Speaker 5: and doing stuff like that. So it is a lot
Speaker 5: of like commuting, but like we also go out like
Speaker 5: almost always in Brooklyn. So it's like one of those
Speaker 5: things where it's like kind of corn between the two.
Speaker 5: Maybe we'll meet somewhere in the middle. I don't know.
Speaker 4: Yeah, but if you live in Manhattan, you're not going
Speaker 4: to go to Brooklyn to go out.
Speaker 3: You'll go out in Manhattan.
Speaker 5: I know the thing. And I think we don't want
Speaker 5: to lose that, like, you know, like he definitely doesn't
Speaker 5: want to Like if he if I ever said we're
Speaker 5: never going out in brick and again, this man be done.
Speaker 5: Just like you know, like he loves Brooklyn so and
Speaker 5: I love it too. But I feel like I like,
Speaker 5: I definitely share it with him. I was like, I
Speaker 5: want to kind of like go somewhere like in the
Speaker 5: middle now. So that's probably like next on our list
Speaker 5: to figure out. But in the meantime, we have some
Speaker 5: vacations coming up because they are well needed. I know
Speaker 5: people are like still having vacation, No I have not,
Speaker 5: so yeah, we're.
Speaker 2: Well it is I will I will hop in here
Speaker 2: and say, like, especially when you know you were the
Speaker 2: lead and you guys are a successful couple, so you
Speaker 2: do you end up traveling so much? But most of
Speaker 2: the traveling, even though you know it looks great, but
Speaker 2: a lot of it is work.
Speaker 1: You're just like busy.
Speaker 2: So it's like you actually don't usually take a vacation.
Speaker 4: Right, We didn't take a vacation until like ten months
Speaker 4: after Paradise during WEEKIL in Paradise, because yeah, we were
Speaker 4: just like we were traveling, like we were in hiding
Speaker 4: like as you guys were, and then you're going to
Speaker 4: La for like all these different things and then all
Speaker 4: these work things, and it's like, yeah, it's it's like
Speaker 4: we were talking like there's difference between travel and vacation exactly.
Speaker 5: It's like we're traveling and we're in like different locations,
Speaker 5: but like, is it actual leisure time? Is it doing
Speaker 5: things that we like love or haven't done before? Not necessarily,
Speaker 5: So we're looking forward to the fee that we have
Speaker 5: coming up.
Speaker 1: Where are you going?
Speaker 5: Yeah, so Hawaii hopefully, fingers crossed.
Speaker 4: Oh are you gonna go with with Joey Kelsey and
Speaker 4: Zach and Katie? Yeah, but I was gonna ask that earlier,
Speaker 4: but then I was like, I don't know.
Speaker 5: So that's on the list. I think that one's like
Speaker 5: in the middle. We're doing like this shoot yeah for
Speaker 5: something and it's in granaud Is it Granada? Am I
Speaker 5: saying that right?
Speaker 6: No?
Speaker 5: It's like above Venezuela. Yeah, yeah, I literally never been there.
Speaker 2: Interesting, You're going to be vague and like I'm like, okay,
Speaker 2: now I need to know more about.
Speaker 3: So, yeah, he doesn't work for our universe.
Speaker 5: Really, it's like falling on the inner because we're originally
Speaker 5: supposed to get to Grease then, but we had to
Speaker 5: bump it back a few weeks. So then we're going
Speaker 5: to grease after.
Speaker 3: We Okay, I was waiting for the Grease trap.
Speaker 5: Yeah, so that one is it is locked in, but
Speaker 5: it's in a few weeks, so we're looking forward to that.
Speaker 4: That's so nice, And then yeah, very well deserved to
Speaker 4: end us off here wedding plans. We have to ask
Speaker 4: where are we at with wedding plans?
Speaker 5: Serena. I'm just kinda like you know, I'm coming over
Speaker 5: to talk to you about everything.
Speaker 3: Let's do it. We'll go for coffee.
Speaker 6: Ask me this.
Speaker 5: It's like, seriously still the same. I think the only
Speaker 5: progress I have made on is like a dress. I
Speaker 5: don't know what dress, but I have like near it
Speaker 5: down like the designers and how many dresses I'm doing.
Speaker 5: We've figured out locations now, but we just have to
Speaker 5: now go and scout them. So it's just, yeah, I
Speaker 5: don't know how y'all did this, but it shifts a lot.
Speaker 3: It's a lot, it really is. And you guys are
Speaker 3: doing should I say this you're doing too? Yeah? Yeah, okay, yeah,
Speaker 3: you're doing two weddings. So that's like that's even more
Speaker 3: than a lot.
Speaker 4: Yeah, but twenty twenty four, twenty twenty.
Speaker 5: Five five, nothing this year? Kanda?
Speaker 3: What all right?
Speaker 4: Before we let you go, we gotta play a quick
Speaker 4: game if you guys are good with that.
Speaker 3: Okay, So it's who's who?
Speaker 4: So we're gonna ask a question and then at the
Speaker 4: same time you'll either say Charity or doten depending on
Speaker 4: who fits. Okay, So who is the messy one daring Charity?
Speaker 4: Who is the bad hog? What the bad hog?
Speaker 6: Like?
Speaker 4: Who hogs the bad when you sleep me, Cheerity, You're
Speaker 4: so little?
Speaker 3: How does that happen?
Speaker 5: Spread out?
Speaker 3: Starfish has or? Who cooks the best?
Speaker 5: Uh yeah?
Speaker 3: Who has the best music taste?
Speaker 5: Okay?
Speaker 3: Who chooses the best restaurants?
Speaker 5: Charity?
Speaker 3: Who plans the trips and vacations?
Speaker 5: Charity?
Speaker 4: Who kills the bugs? Like, if there's a spider in
Speaker 4: your bathroom? Who's killing it?
Speaker 3: That's a boy job? Gets?
Speaker 4: Who gets tired first during the night Charity. Who's the
Speaker 4: best dancer?
Speaker 6: Charity?
Speaker 5: Don't.
Speaker 6: I would have, but she got it.
Speaker 3: She had a little help.
Speaker 6: Exactly.
Speaker 3: Who is the funniest.
Speaker 5: This is hard, Cheer.
Speaker 3: It's a tie. It's a tie.
Speaker 1: You're you're both funny in your own ways.
Speaker 5: Exactly, thank you.
Speaker 3: Who's most likely? Who's most likely to forget an anniversary?
Speaker 6: Oh?
Speaker 5: I feel like my memories, but like not an anniversary.
Speaker 5: Probably other things so neither but maybe me Charity? Charity.
Speaker 3: Who's the most extroverted?
Speaker 5: Uh really, Charity?
Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, yeah, that's not I agree with that.
Speaker 3: You're like highly extroverted.
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 4: Last one, who's the most stubborn one?
Speaker 2: All right, well, you guys, we really appreciate you taking
Speaker 2: the time and coming on Happy Hour. We love it
Speaker 2: and we love having you guys here, and we're really
Speaker 2: excited for all the things you're doing and I can't
Speaker 2: wait to see what you do in this strange land
Speaker 2: called Granada. And to our listeners, thank you guys so
Speaker 2: much for tuning in the better Happy Hour.
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Speaker 4: We have more exciting interviews coming your way, and don't
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Speaker 1: Bye bye,