1 00:00:02,240 --> 00:00:05,400 Speaker 1: I've always known that being a woman can be dangerous 2 00:00:05,400 --> 00:00:08,880 Speaker 1: in this world. I never knew how similar stories can. 3 00:00:08,760 --> 00:00:10,800 Speaker 2: Be, can be, can be, can be All. 4 00:00:13,680 --> 00:00:17,760 Speaker 3: Welcome to Pretty Private with ebinez the podcast where silence 5 00:00:17,880 --> 00:00:21,400 Speaker 3: is broken and stories are set free. I'm Ebiney, and 6 00:00:21,480 --> 00:00:25,200 Speaker 3: every Tuesday, starting July first, I'll be sharing all new 7 00:00:25,239 --> 00:00:28,760 Speaker 3: anonymous stories that would challenge your perceptions and give you 8 00:00:28,880 --> 00:00:32,600 Speaker 3: new insight on the people around you. On Pretty Private, 9 00:00:33,040 --> 00:00:36,720 Speaker 3: we'll explore the untold experiences of women of color who 10 00:00:36,800 --> 00:00:43,600 Speaker 3: faced it all childhood trauma, addiction, abuse, incarceration, grief, mental 11 00:00:43,640 --> 00:00:46,720 Speaker 3: health struggles and more and found the shrimp to make 12 00:00:46,760 --> 00:00:48,000 Speaker 3: it to the other side. 13 00:00:48,520 --> 00:00:51,040 Speaker 4: My dad was shot and killed in his house. Yes 14 00:00:51,080 --> 00:00:53,599 Speaker 4: he was a drug dealer, Yes he was a confidential informant, 15 00:00:53,840 --> 00:00:56,520 Speaker 4: but he wasn't shot on street corner. He wasn't shot 16 00:00:56,560 --> 00:00:58,440 Speaker 4: in the middle of a drug deal. He was shot 17 00:00:58,560 --> 00:00:58,920 Speaker 4: in his. 18 00:00:58,960 --> 00:01:02,480 Speaker 2: House on You know my mom, She always wanted her 19 00:01:02,520 --> 00:01:04,959 Speaker 2: mom to have, you know, that dignity and that pride, 20 00:01:04,959 --> 00:01:08,319 Speaker 2: and I completely understand that. Also sometimes have to take 21 00:01:08,360 --> 00:01:10,760 Speaker 2: off those fantasy glasses and put on what I like 22 00:01:10,800 --> 00:01:13,839 Speaker 2: to call your reality lenses. And it's like your mom 23 00:01:13,880 --> 00:01:17,280 Speaker 2: got from a drinking problem, and it's very, very unfortunate. 24 00:01:17,560 --> 00:01:21,199 Speaker 1: The relationship with my mother, the relationship with my siblings, 25 00:01:21,480 --> 00:01:25,080 Speaker 1: how your trauma affects those relationships. I think it's so 26 00:01:25,200 --> 00:01:29,160 Speaker 1: worldwide universal, knowing that being a woman in today's world 27 00:01:29,360 --> 00:01:29,960 Speaker 1: is a lot. 28 00:01:30,760 --> 00:01:34,720 Speaker 3: From survivors and sex workers to professionals and cultural change makers, 29 00:01:35,040 --> 00:01:38,640 Speaker 3: These powerful interviews will shift your perspective and speak to 30 00:01:38,720 --> 00:01:42,680 Speaker 3: your soul. Pretty Private isn't just a podcast, it's your 31 00:01:42,760 --> 00:01:47,560 Speaker 3: personal guide for turning storylines into lifelines. Listen to Pretty 32 00:01:47,560 --> 00:01:50,560 Speaker 3: Private with Eban A starting Tuesday, July first, on the 33 00:01:50,560 --> 00:01:54,720 Speaker 3: Buck Effect podcast Network, I Heart Radio, app, Apple Podcasts, 34 00:01:54,840 --> 00:01:56,520 Speaker 3: or wherever you get your podcasts.